UC-NRLF NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER THE LIBRARY OF THE UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA PRESENTED BY PROF. CHARLES A. KOFOID AND MRS. PRUDENCE W. KOFOID AGNES NININGER KEMP A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER BY NELLIE BLESSING[EYSTER AUTHOR OF A CHINESE QUAKER ETC. PAUL ELDER AND COMPANY PUBLISHERS -SAN FRANCISCO A * NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER TO HAVE known the father of Agnes Nininger was to know that the daughter who so much resembled him, would, through the unerring laws of heredity, make and fill a place during the progress of the nineteenth century peculiarly her own. Anthony Nininger was a native of Alsatia, France. He emigrated to America early in 1816 and marrying Miss Catherine May, settled in Harrisburg, Dauphin County, Pennsylvania, where, after a long, useful and singularly prosperous life he died in 1866. He was the father of nine children, all of whom died in early childhood except John, who became brother-in-law of Alexander Ramsey, Governor of Minnesota, and afterward Secretary of the United States War Department and Agnes, "the apple of her father's eye." The gentle mother dying when Agnes was yet an infant, the tie between her father and herself became intensified. Possessing much of his genial, sunny nature, vivid imagi- nation and strength of will, whether at home or at his place of business, the presence of the blue-eyed, rosy-cheeked girl prattler seemed indispensable to the father's success and happiness. Thus, the peculiar business qualifications, executive ability and genius for orderliness and organization which have been such prominent factors in the life-work of his accomplished daughter, were being developed, unknown to herself, at an age when most girls are in the nursery playing with dolls. She was born a linguist, the French and German tongues seeming as native to her as her own, and there are those in Harrisburg today, who, while speaking of their distinguished A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER townswoman with pardonable pride, will also record with tender satisfaction her unusual and bold traits of benevolence, inde- pendence of thought, energy and the courage of her conviction which characterized her and were evinced at such an early age. Born November 4, 1823, while but a mere girl in years she became the beloved wife of her fellow townsman, Colonel William Saunders, and a few years after, thanks to a fortuitous seeming failure in health, was ordered by her physician to a celebrated water-cure sanitarium in New York. It was during this first flight from the home nest, while yet ignorant of her own powers, that her ardent, aspiring soul was brought into intimate associ- ation with that matchless galaxy of "immortals," the grand men and women whose lives have been sublime, viz. : Lucretia Mott, William Lloyd Garrison, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Abbey Kelly Foster, Miss Elizabeth Peabody, Wendell Phillips and others of like spirit and undying fame. Their recognition of the inherent possibilities for great good in this "child of nature" was almost immediate and its result creditable in the highest degree to their spiritual insight. At a time, in the middle of the last century, when to be recognized as an anti-slavery man or woman was to subject one's self to persecution and often to physical danger, and when to declare one's self in sympathy with equal civic and political rights for women was to become socially ostracized, it required no small amount of moral bravery in the young matron, upon her return home, to prove her "faith by her works." But she was equal to the demand of the hour. Firing a few souls with her own lofty zeal and laughing at all obstacles, she brought successively to Harrisburg such sturdy pioneers of our latter- day glory as Julia Ward Howe, Lucy Stone Blackwell, the saintly Lucretia Mott, Edward Everett and men and women of their ilk, and with her pen, purse and push helped them to sow the seed of a higher patriotism and more liberal and lofty thought in the then conservative capital of great Pennsyl- vania. The first to accept her invitation was Lucy Stone. Doubts of the propriety of Mrs. Saunders thrusting such an obnoxious 2 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER personage before the vision of the good people of Harrisburg were freely expressed. A woman to lecture ! What an unheard of innovation! Not a few expressed their opinion that the wife of Colonel Saunders had gone "clear daft" since her return from Boston. He should restrain her wild freaks. When the actual announcement of the date and place of the lecture was made it produced as much of a furore in some social and political circles as would, today, an invasion by the Japanese or a visit from the Empress of China and her court. The lecturer was the champion of that dreadful infringement upon the sanctity of the home and the morality of society expressed in the term "Women's Rights." Her expectant hostess was importuned to know the truth of various statements concerning her, one being that she was six feet tall in her stocking feet, wore high- topped boots and rode upon the platform of the cars all the way from Massachusetts the better to see and to be seen to all of which Mrs. Saunders would imperturbably reply with a charming smile, "Wait and see." Lucy Stone came quietly and unobserved, appearing upon the platform at the appointed hour, modestly attired in a dress of plain black silk with a tiny lace ruffle around her white throat and her shapely head sur- mounted by a coronal of her own abundant, soft and sunny brown hair. Her arms were encased in the flowing sleeves of that period, lined with white silk, and her small feet wore the daintiest of slippers. The house was crowded, and she stood (having been intro- duced by Mrs. Saunders) the cynosure of all eyes. A lovelier picture of artless, earnest, simple womanliness could not have been imagined. Her plea was for a larger opportunity for women to share in the work of the world without being con- sidered as having unsexed themselves or in any degree lost their femininity. Her arguments in its favor were so unex- pectedly womanly and tender that her audience sat spellbound. Suddenly an egg was hurled at her through an open window in the rear of the hall and broke upon her shoulder. Calmly wiping off the offensive matter with her handkerchief, she observed, "If I could as easily erase from the memory of the one 3 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER who has tried to insult me the folly of his act I would be glad of the opportunity." At the close of the meeting crowds stepped forward to clasp her hand and congratulate Mrs. Saunders upon the success of her scheme. She was entirely vindicated. In appearance at the time, Mrs. Saunders was a perfect Hebe. Her health having been entirely restored and her buoy- ancy of temperament always at a high altitude, she was literally "the observed of observers" whenever she appeared in public, and "the bright particular star" in her home and social circle. The poetry of her nature was exhibited in the extreme beauty and daintiness of her apparel, and her love of order evinced the harmony of her thought. She had not an idle minute. Self- culture became with her a passion. Hours of each day were faithfully employed in the cultivation of music, for which, like that of learning foreign languages, she had great aptitude, and during the intervals studying works on mental and moral philosophy. She was considered, by far, the most advanced woman of her time in her native city, and while an object of envy by a few outside her own peculiar circle, none could restrain their admiration for the boundlessness of her desire to do good and to be beloved by all. After a few years of happy married life her husband fell a victim to tuberculosis and passed into the great unknown. This was her first heart-breaking sorrow. When she emerged from it, a widow, and with abundant means at her disposal, the question soon occurred to her, "How can I the best benefit my own sex?" Exceedingly simple in her tastes and living close to Nature in her habits of life she realized that ignorance of the laws of hygiene lay at the root of most of the diseases peculiar to women. She would be their teacher and deliverer. Full of enthusiasm she soon put her determination into practice by going to Philadelphia and entering the Women's Medical College. She graduated in 1879, being the first woman in Dauphin County, Pennsylvania, to be received into its medical society. She thus blazed a pathway for the many who have succeeded her. Letters of congratulation poured upon her, A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER of which one is quoted as being characteristic. The writer was a distinguished woman professor in Philadelphia, Pa. 1400 N. TWENTY-THIRD STREET. June 7, 1880. MY DEAR FRIEND: I was rejoiced to read in the Public Ledger of last Saturday morning (June 5th) an extract from the Harrisburg Patriot stating that at the last regular meeting of the Dauphin County Medical Society you were admitted a member of its body. I hasten to offer my congratulations on this auspicious event and to express the hope that you will prove a valuable member. Your cheery and friendly letter of November 24th has afforded me much pleasure and should have been answered earlier but for many burdening cares. I am glad you are in Harrisburg and trust you may long be spared to do a good work there. Let me hear of your successes from time to tune and come to see us when you can. You are one in whose career we are greatly interested. Believe me, your sincere friend, L. BODLEY. A characteristic incident demonstrating her democratic principles and love of truth and simplicity is told of her as having occurred in the cars while en route for her home the day succeeding her graduation. The car was chiefly occupied by men, but two aristocratic and elegantly attired ladies were sitting directly behind her while she was absorbed in a book which she was reading. All being quiet the conversation between the two ladies was overheard easily. They were boasting of their foreign lineage and the signs of ancient heraldry, as proofs of it, to which each was entitled. "I carry my grandfather's coat-of-arms stamped upon my handkerchiefs," said one. "And I have mine engraved upon my pocket book," responded the other. Then, in a rather loud roice she said, "Doctor! Excuse the interruption, but where do you place your coat-of-arms ?" Thus publicly appealed to, the newly made doctor calmly arose, and lifting the lid of her modest lunch-basket beside her, took from it a small link of Bologna sausage, which holding aloft, she said, "I carry it with me when traveling; my father A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER dealt in cattle." The car was in a roar of laughter, the men loudly applauding her. Her second marriage, to Joseph Kemp, Esq., of Hollidays- burg, Pa., a man of unusual breadth of intellect and ripe culture and a lawyer by profession, took place in 1857, and the birth of three children, two of whom were girls and one a boy, seemed to ripen into quick maturity a degree of religious fervor and high order of philanthropy which to those phlegmatic souls who could not comprehend Agnes Nininger-Kemp's burning enthusi- asm to lift her fellows into the higher understanding of God's plans for His children, seemed fanaticism. Questions which a third of a century ago were rarely dis- cussed in polite society, nor indeed scarcely thought of by the masses, such as the formation of Magdalene Asylums; crusades against intemperance and the social evils; the divine rights of childhood; the kindergarten system of education and the need of social purity for higher development of the race were, with Mrs. Kemp, the theme of almost constant conversation. Wher- ever she abode she became an agitator and an educator of public sentiment in the right direction, and when the Woman's Christian Temperance Association became a National organization she was the first to establish a local union in Harrisburg as well as at Hollidaysburg, Pa. None but the pioneers in this noble and now exalted cause can understand the conflict between the liquor power and its opponents, the curse of the open saloon and the invasion of the purity and privacy of the home which it heralded. Often and often were Mrs. Kemp's motives impugned and misunderstood, but she valiantly forged ahead in arousing the women in the cause from which they were the greatest suffer- ers until a large number of the wisest and best flocked to the standard which she so valiantly upheld and enrolled them- selves as fellow workers. The death, while yet in infancy, of her two younger children and, some years later, of her husband left her with the eldest daughter, Marie Antoinette, upon whom to concentrate her wealth of motherly love and consecrated ambition. Lovely Marie ! Even when a child she attracted the attention A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER of all with whom she came in contact. Unlike her mother in appearance, she was a brunette with great, dark, brilliant and soulful eyes and a wealth of chestnut-brown hair. Like her father, mentally she was a human interrogation-point craving to know "Why" and "Wherefore" of all with which she came in contact. With a maturity far beyond her years she distanced in grasp of thought the children of her acquaintance and became her mother's dearest and closest companion. The youthful "Tottie," as she was then familiarly called, became an uncon- scious leader among the children of her set who, upon all occa- sions, deferred to her opinion. But she assumed no proprietary rights, content to champion her adherents and to give to her opponents when she had any a wide berth. When ready to enter college her mother chose that of Swarthmore, Pennsyl- vania, for her alma mater, and at the close of her four years* course she was the valedictorian of her class consisting of eight young gentlemen and five young ladies. The following unso- licited testimonials were given by Marie L. Sanford of the college and Dr. E. H. Magill, its president: Said the former: "Of all the graduates who have gone out of Swarthmore College during the nine years that I have been connected with it, there has not been one of finer promise than Marie A. Kemp. As a student in the classroom, as a practical teacher and in the social circle she everywhere takes the palm. Gentle and modest in her manners, thorough and clean in her scholarship, calm and firm in positions of responsibility, she cannot fail to achieve unusual success as a teacher and to give tone and charm to the social life in which she moves." Said the latter when asked his opinion of Marie A. Kemp's qualifications as a graduate: "Marie A. Kemp has now almost completed a regular course of study in this college and will be graduated with the degree of A. B. at our coming commence- ment. There seems to be no doubt that she will be the vale- dictorian of her class. During the ten years of the existence of this college she has shown herself a young woman of unusual ability in imparting knowledge and of unquestionable power of control. I should most unqualifiedly commend her for A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER any position which she would consider herself competent to fill." In June, 1887, Dr. Kemp and her daughter sailed for Europe. The mental condition of the former was most happy, as a brief quotation from the first pages of her diary proves: "A more propitious day never smiled on woman than the one in which I left my native city for the foreign shores. It was all the physical and spiritual nature could desire. Friends everywhere wished us bon voyage. The last morning was spent in listening to the eight girl graduates of Miss Woodward's Seminary upon such topics as many would have been led to believe could only be discussed by those having age and experience. The way in which these various themes were handled proves that time, thought, talent and ability were not lacking in the education of these girls. Ah, the joy our children bring when time and priv- ilege are given to develop their heavenly gift ! "At 3:30 the cars separated us from the loving group that had assembled to take a last adieu. The picture is still mirrored on my brain. My heart-strings have not ceased to vibrate at the sight of that beautiful occasion. Love is the divine element, and its impress the most enduring. How I wish I could have had the living reality photographed to carry with me! "As we were borne rapidly along, Middletown and Lancaster were soon lost to sight. The luxuriant vegetation of June rendered hill and dale a lovely picture. All seemed a forerunner of peace and plenty, a harbinger of joy. At the Philadelphia depot another group of friends awaited our arrival. Daughter and I were separated for the night, I being taken to the home of Miss Thompson, sister of Edgar Thompson, who desired me to spend my last night in Pennsylvania under her hospitable roof. Our acquaintance has been of short duration and is bound by the ties of Woman's Suffrage needs, both of us having been born into the kingdom of the much-needed truth. The presence of Miss Matilda Hindman, a devoted leader of this new gospel, completed our trio. The next morning we had the pleas- ure of meeting Miss Charlotte Grey of Antwerp, European organizer of the International W. C. T. IL, who gave us letters 8 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER to Miss F. Koolmanne, secretary of the World's Temperance Conference. Thus, how beautifully the way was being opened to meet kindred spirits in the Old World ! At New York another group was in waiting near the Waesland steamer of the Red Star line, who presented us with flowers and a beautiful silk flag with which to wave our last adieus as we were being borne away upon the bosom of the mighty deep." Arriving in Europe the mother and daughter entered upon an entirely new life. Facilities for meeting with the most intelligent people in the highest social rank came to them so easily and unsought for, it was impossible not to believe that a special Providence had a hand in thus shaping their course. Marie entered the University of Zurich, Switzerland, for a special course of study which would enable her to perfect herself in the German language and its literature, while Dr. Kemp engaged in a certain branch of scientific research. A year later a portion of the following letter from the latter to a friend in America revealed her sentiments in reference to the Eternal City: ROME, ITALY, 5-2-88. DEAR ONE: We are at last in Old Rome, traveling over those seven hills. We have been wandering for a week. We have beheld the Coli- seum, the ruins, within whose walls thirty thousand people could be seated. We have seen the ruins of the old Forum, and the spot where Brutus killed Caesar. We have been to the Vatican and to St. Peter's. The last church we visited was St. John Lateran. I was obliged to go out twice during the morning service to get warm in the sunshine. The houses and churches being built of marble or stone are always cool and often cold. Every day we meet people from America, many groups that we have met before. How we cling together! There is so much wreck and ruin all around and in the city. We were in the catacombs of a small church last evening whose walls were lined with human bones and the ceilings with skulls. Groups of monks are to be seen in all parts of the city: the Franciscans dressed in brown serge gowns with no stockings and their feet thrust in wooden slippers. Nevertheless, they look sleek and well fed. These, with the many soldiers and tourists, are in great contrast with the working people. I was taught that the Italians were lazy. On the contrary, I found 9 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER everybody at work. The builders, the masons, the carriers, the drivers, the mechanics, all seemed working very hard. Many live upon the streets but all are occupied. Donkeys are quite numerous. These, with dogs, horses and human beings, all in a medley, crowd the streets which have no pavements or sidewalks and often are so narrow as scarce to permit a cart to pass. We attended Rev. Nevin's church yesterday, also the St. John Lateran. In the evening we joined Rev. Yering's Bible Class which has disbanded for the season. We have seen many groups of pilgrims going to St. Peter's to attend the special service held for them but all was said in the Latin language. Oh, how my heart ached for these people! We are taught the letter killeth. It is the spirit which maketh alive. The magnificent paraphernalia of the priests and their attend- ants clad in lace, girdles and golden ornaments made them look resplend- ent. All of them had seats save five or six, while the audience stood upon cold, marble floors. Many wealthy ladies had blanket scarfs carried by their attendants. The peasantry have their own peculiar styles. Their ornaments are very picturesque but burdensome; they consisted of weighty earrings, massive chains and gilded crosses. What is most to be regretted is then- lamentable ignorance. Medals, statues, statuettes and paintings of the Pope are thickly strewn throughout the city. The beautiful simplicity of childlike worship as enjoyed in our W. C. T. U. meetings, without the loud ringing of bells, burning of incense or peals from the organ, is a contrast, the truth of which I pray may be realized by all those who sincerely desire an entrance into the Heavenly Kingdom. I often ask myself, What is it ye went out to see ? The foreign climes ? The people of many nations ? All are here in this cosmopolitan city. For some my heart aches; for others I rejoice when I see the light of truth and intelligence depicted upon their faces. These are mostly students to whom the truth has been revealed. We have made many charming acquaintances, two of whom are Mr. and Mrs. Carpenter of Boston who have been studying Grecian life in Greece. Their conversation is illuminating. I regret to say that I left Paris before a W. C. T. U. was formed, but I believe the day is not far distant when the Parisian women will join hands with the World's W. C. T. U. Lord and Lady Mount Temple made arrangements to have me present the subject at an afternoon parlor meeting over which the former presided. They were on their way from Nice to London, stopping for a few days with the Hon. Mrs. Spencer Cooper. I wish you could have heard their praises of the Union Signal, which they read in Nice when 10 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER stopping with Countess of Caithness, Duchesse de Pomar. This lady is a member of our World's W. C. T. U. who sent me from Nice a letter of introduction to the Hon. Mrs. Spencer Cooper, whom I found to be a most charming conversationalist; she has consented to read whatever I may send her on the subject of temperance. I have since breakfasted and lunched with her several times when all our conversation was upon the reforms of the day. Although not a total abstainer, she is sincere, and her conviction is but a matter of time and education on the subject. When total abstinence is presented in its true scientific and religious light, when the truth becomes perfectly clear to her mind, she will not hesitate to accept it. Mrs. Cooper would make a splendid officer. Being a lady of leisure, culture, education and high social position, the cause might grow with her support. Lady Caithness wrote me she would give garden parties after her return to Paris, where the subject of temperance could be discussed, but our arrangements took us away from Paris a few days after her return. We saw each other last at the reception of Madame Bogelot, who represented France at the International Council of Women held in Washington, D. C., March 25, 1888. A reception was given by Madame de Morsier, one of the Parisian philanthropists, to Madame Bogelot. An Italian sculptress made a bust of her, and a wreath of laurel with many flowers was presented as tokens of admiration and respect. She received all smilingly and then told of all that she had seen and heard during her first visit to America. How her heart was touched by the delicate attentions every- where shown her of her visit to the White House, where she met two of her own countrywomen in this new country! It melted their hearts as they joined hands tears of love and gratitude flowed, which they soon drove away, lest the great President might see them and ascribe it to another source other than their love of their own country and of each other. I utterly fail to tell you of the pleasure I had that afternoon with those truly refined and excellent women nor how we are enjoying every hour of our stay here. Affectionately yours, AGNES KEMP. During these four years abroad the mother and daughter enjoyed rare facilities for impressing themselves upon people in their own sphere of mental and moral activities. In 1 899 Dr. Kemp delivered her oft-quoted address upon "Health and Physical Culture" before the Institute Polyglot in Paris. 11 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER In the same month from a copy of Le Figaro containing an account of a meeting of women of various nationalities, for the amelioration, moralization and regeneration of man, the editor thus wrote: "Miss Kemp, une jeune Americaine a expose, avec un charmant accent et une grande amiabilite le grand mouvement des femmes de VAmerique du Nord" She also read a paper on the 23d of January, in Paris, before the conference of the Insti- tute of Languages which won for her high approval. Her theme was "The Poems and Influence of James Russell Lowell.'* Her peculiar fascination was particularly felt by Mrs. Thomasson, the niece of John Bright, who invited her to accompany her family in a tour through the Mediterranean, stopping at Gibral- tar, Algiers and other ports. The descriptive letters furnished to the American press by Marie during this trip are of a high order and replete with interest. Meanwhile invitations to lecture before various associations were flowing in upon Dr. Kemp. One from "Pembridge Place, London," is a specimen. It read as follows: DEAR MADAME: As I am just going abroad I am precluded from meeting you at Mrs. Ingram Walker's on the 8th inst. I am to ask if it would be possible for you to grant us the great favor of addressing our North Kensington Woman's Liberal Association on the first Thursday in November or December, or even February, 1891. We have a young but very earnest association, and if you could see your way to give us your interesting lecture upon the American Crusade of 1873 and 1874 on either of the Thursdays which I have mentioned you would confer a great favor upon Yours faithfully, T. L. MALLET. The source of her popularity and the style of her addresses can best be gleaned from an editorial which appeared in the New York Tribune: "Mrs. Agnes Kemp, a Harrisburg woman, electrifies a Parisian audience by her eloquence." "The regular Paris correspondent of the New York Tribune, in describing a recent meeting for Woman's Work held in the French metropolis, pays the following tribute to one of Harris- 12 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER burg's well-known citizens. Mrs. Kemp and her daughter were at this meeting and both spoke, the daughter in French and the mother in English. Each in her way was a success. "The mother has a fine face, nobly outlined, sweet of ex- pression and crowned with soft, gray hair. There was decision and firmness as well as kindliness in her face. The figure of a charming model and erect, went well with the head. She was tastefully and becomingly draped in a robe of coarse black stuff. "This lady, speaking out of a wide experience and deep conviction, was eloquent and became more and more so as she went on. Her eloquence reminded me of the effect produced by the cutting of the wire which holds down the cork of a cham- pagne bottle. The cork first moves a little and then more and more until, at last, it bursts out and the foaming nectar bubbles over. "Mrs. Kemp, being a strict temperance woman, would not perhaps relish this simile. Her wish for equal rights in this country springs from a desire to put down the dark demon to which phylloxera has given a fine field by destroying the vine and affording an opportunity to distillers of bad alcohol, of which they are availing themselves. "Mrs. Kemp gave the meeting an account of the leading part American women are taking in the temperance movement and of the good work done by Miss Willard who presides over a society which numbers more than five hundred thousand working in thirty-eight departments of work. "Mrs. Kemp invited the women of Paris to join them, to combine to work in the same direction, and that they would cause the children in the schools to be taught how intoxicating drinks acted upon the different organs and functions of the body." A portion of this address was, fortunately, preserved and afterward repeated at home. She said: "There is an army abroad that is not in the service of the Divine Master, whose members stalk about the country so defaced that the divine impress is lost. There are they who have woe, and sorrow, and contentions, and babbling, and 13 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER wounds without cause. They have redness of eyes, blotched faces, foul mouths and slackness of gait, for alcohol takes away the glow of health from the cheek, the luster from the eye and the beauty and comeliness from the face, leaving it ill-shaped and bloated. "Alcohol has such power we liken it unto the King of Destruc- tion, or Satan in solution, photographing himself upon the Divine image. Alcoholic beverages take strength from the limbs and firmness from the steps, making them faltering and treacherous. It takes vitality from the blood and fills it with poison and the seeds of disease and death. It takes the impress of manhood from the face and leaves upon it the marks of sensu- ality and brutishness. It bribes to madness and cursing. It turns the hands from deeds of usefulness to instruments of brutality and murder. It has made a kind and indulgent father a brute and a tyrant, and transformed a loving mother into a very fiend. It has taken luxuries from the rich man's table and compelled them to cry out because of famine and to beg for bread. It has stripped backs of broadcloths and silk and clothed them with rags. It has taken away acres and denied even a decent burial in death. We all know how it feeds almshouses and compels us to keep an army of policemen to tramp up and down the land by day and night. It brings hunger and cold and nakedness into thousands of families. It is the Great Dragon ravaging the land and doing it, Great God, by per- mission of the people. "It is against this unrighteous, this unholy traffic we women are waging a war. We are recruiting for an army of women. It is woman's work to assist in ridding the land of this destructive element, this invisible spirit of wine which Shakespeare says, 'We call thee Devil !' "A law suit has been set up in the Supreme Court of Public Opinion, viz. : the women of the nation versus the liquor traffic, and before this question can be settled there is much work to be done intelligently and scientifically for science is but the unfolding of God's laws. It must be done religiously. We must have hearts filled with love for humanity. God is love, 14 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER and love is the fulfilment of the law. We must learn more of His law that we may have more of His love. Love makes the heart light and the work easy. It quickens our footsteps to do errands of mercy; not alone to feed the hungry and clothe the naked but to enlighten the ignorant. Ignorance being the mother of sin is personified in the devil who is the father of lies, while God who is the fountain of all knowledge is personified in Christ who is 'the light of the world.* Ruskin says: 'Men often think to bring about great results by violent and unprepared effort, but it is only in fair and forecast order, as the earth bringeth forth her seed, that righteousness and praise may spring forth before the nations.' "The W. C. T. U. believes that the educational method is one of the surest and shortest ways of reaching the desired end. We believe the people are intemperate from ignorance rather than from choice, and that if the facts relating to the evil effect of alcohol were fully known, the common sense of the community would introduce a reform upon such a sure foundation as would lead to the most important, and lasting benefits to the nation. 'My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge,' saith the Lord. "We have not studied the truths which science has given us in the nature of alcohol and its effects upon the human system. Science has proven alcohol to be a poison. We need to convince the masses that in the use of alcoholic beverages lies the abuse to the user. The light of reason must be fed by the oil of knowl- edge of the dangers lying along the ambushed streets of a land filled with saloons. "This knowledge must be imparted to men, women and children, particularly to the latter. Save our boys and girls now, if it is in any degree possible. Arm the children in their school days against that one great evil which will surely assail each of them, and at the same time give them scientific instruction in so logical and pleasant a form that the acquirement of it will be excellent mental discipline." Thus she plead abroad and at home with all the earnestness of her positive nature and won the plaudits of the multitudes 15 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER who listened with profoundest interest to every word which fell from her lips. Her influence upon the temperance sentiment of Europe, then being agitated by its most enlightened and aggressive women under the united banners of Frances E. Willard and Lady Henry Somerset, was deeply felt and warmly recognized. Most flattering comments upon her addresses on "Social Purity," "Health and Physical Culture," "Temperance" in its various phases and other reforms which lay close to her heart, came from the European to the American press, assuring her many friends that her splendid courage and noble zeal had not weak- ened in the conservative atmosphere which pervaded the Old World. Marie always shared in her gifted mother's social triumphs when not traveling with noted friends over the Continent. Living with a German family of distinction she was laying the broad foundation for a knowledge of Germany's best literature and its language and preparing herself for the distinguished and responsible position she was destined, afterward, to fill. Having the entree into the most exclusive and refined circles in Germany, England and France, the two insensibly acquired a degree of culture which only those so fortunately situated can attain. After an absence of four years abroad they returned to their "native heath" wholly equipped for the duties which awaited them Marie to become professor of German at Swarthmore College, and her mother to fulfil the law of her being, viz.: "to do whatsoever her hand found to do with all her might." The range of the "whatevers" covered a wide field, including temperance, peace and arbitration, woman's suffrage and everything necessary to one's spiritual and physical uplift. Mrs. Kemp's adherence to her simple religious faith has ever been one of her strongest points. This fact is revealed in a letter written to and published in a prominent Harrisburg paper, The Patriot, during the progress of a religious controversy. She said: "DEAR Patriot: Our city has been stirred up considerably 16 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER within the last few weeks on account of differences of religious views between sects. I regret the spirit manifested. "If light and life are not set forth in our arguments, how can we be benefited by statements which we have not the power to prove ? I am not a Roman Catholic, but I believe that those Christians who differ from this branch of the Christian Church will never be benefited from the arguments and statements given in the Daily Patriot, as written within their recent issues. "The religion of Jesus, the Christ, is plain and beautifully simple we are commanded to love one another. Do we do it ? Also to love our neighbors as ourselves, which you know we do not. To bless them that curse you. Our blessed Lord said when on the Cross, 'Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do/ "Remember the letter killeth; it is the spirit that giveth life. No one has ever seen God. All that we have that is written has come through mankind as they were moved by the Holy Spirit. I believe there are many errors among the sects, but they will not always remain so extreme, for light is dawning so rapidly upon us that the old things are passing away and soon all things will become new. The present environment will not much longer permit mental imprisonment. Newness of life must not be fettered by narrowness of view. "Many of our people are suffering from mental contraction, some are fossilized, while others are enshrouded in a myriad of non-essentials and thus imprisoned. Now, a most beautiful feature, a hopeful promise comes with the eye of faith, awakened by a growth into a knowledge of truth, that glorious truth which frees us from error, that knowledge which removes ignorance. "The command is, 'Search the Scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life; and they are they which testify of me.' This does not mean the Bible alone, but nature, art, science, literature and religion. I believe the innumerable sects are so bound by customs, creeds and isms that the beautiful simplic- ity of Christ's teachings are almost lost sight of by many. This is owing to the influences of one's environment all through the journey of life. 17 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER "We know the laws of the universe are God's laws. They existed before we had a Christ or a Bible. His laws are the same yesterday, today and forever. To me, it is my religious duty to learn all that is needed of his laws that will assist me in fulfilling the commands of Holy Writ, which have proved them- selves such by experience. 'Tis our duty to aim after perfection. Let us not let our angry passions arise and say that which stirs up angry feelings. " AGNES KEMP." Second only to her enthusiastic devotion to the cause of temperance in its various ramifications was her adherence to the principles which advocated the political enfranchisement of women. She was among the pioneers of that great and much- needed reform, having given to it most freely of her time, her influence and her money. A characteristic letter from that great apostle of the move- ment, Susan B. Anthony, is sacredly preserved among her archives. It reads thus: ROCHESTEB, NEW YORK, March 15, 1900. MRS. AGNES KEMP, Swarthmore, Pa. MY DEAR FRIEND: Enclosed is the certificate of your membership for the fifty-dollar check which you mailed on the 6th inst. It has been impossible for me to get about filling the certificates until now. It is just one week ago tonight since I returned home and I have been mighty busy every minute of the daylight in that time. It is splendid of you to make yourself a lif e member. I can remember how earnest you were away back in the sixties and how I met you once with Mrs. Helen Philleo Jenkins at Madame Demorest's place. It was at the time of the Susan King tea experiment. I have ever since counted you among our faithful members. I am very sorry the convention work was too much for your physical strength. It was a very severe strain upon me, not only during the ten days of the convention and celebration, but the ten days before and after them. The whole month was one continued meeting and talking with friends, but I went through it pretty well; then spent a week with our dear friend Mrs. Bartol in Philadelphia, visiting other friends day by day, and then a second week in New York City. There I stayed 18 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER with my cousin, Mrs. Lapham, and spent a day with Mrs. Stanton another with Dr. Jacobi, and yet another at our new headquarters, 2008 American Tract Building, wherein they seemed to be getting along into good running order. Our new president will, I am sure, prove to be just the right woman to be entrusted with the herculean work which awaits our association, so I hope the friends in all the States will rally around her, and in thought, word and deed sustain her right royally and loyally. That is a beautiful letter which you enclose from Elizabeth M. Garrett. I should like to have been present when you gave your report on all you saw and heard in Washington. It was too bad you had to leave on the 14th of February so could not tell all that happened on the 15th in the Lafayette Opera House and the Corcoran Art Gallery. As you say, these conventions are schools in which the Antis would do well to be present. I wonder if you were present at either of the hearings on the morning of the 13th. The poor Antis surely were to be pitied, for their very weak exhibition of themselves and their "lost" cause. Very affectionately yours, SUSAN B. ANTHONY. Accompanying this was an excellent photograph of the donor bearing the legend: Political equality of rights for women, civil and political, is today and has been for the past half-century the one demand of Yours sincerely, SUSAN B. ANTHONY. This sentiment was faithfully echoed by Mrs. Kemp during the "half -century" of Miss Anthony's activities, and many of the women's educational and industrial triumphs of today owe their existence and success to her indefatigable efforts and rigid adherence to principle in this direction. In this special line of reform she was supplemented by her highly gifted and accomplished daughter Marie, who, upon her return from Europe, had accepted the position of professor of German at Swarthmore College and began a career short but brilliant to a remarkable degree. It has been said of this beautiful woman that not the least 19 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER of her gifts was her wonderful eloquence which she was ever ready to use both in the service of the college and wherever the opportunity for saying the word in season occurred. She never refused the request when any public occasion demanded a speech, and everyone who knew Swarthmore in those days remembers with delight the charm and grace with which she was always sure to meet the occasion. Her power to lift and move men never failed her, and her perfectly chosen words were always laden with thought. Everyone came away from hearing her with spirits quickened. For this eloquence was the true ex- pression of a lovely Christian character, a nature instinct with tact, delicacy and refinement, whose gentle courtesy and unfailing charity won all who knew her. In this connection the report of an able address which she delivered before an annual convention of Equal Suffragists held in Kennett Square, Pa., attests her sympathy with her mother in this notable movement. The speakers for the occasion were Professor Marie Kemp and Judge W. W. Ashman of Philadelphia. Said the intelligent reporter: "Professor Marie Kemp is an attractive woman. She has grace and tact, a sweet, persuasive voice, an extraordinary gift of language and a logical, well-ordered mind. She charms and never repels. Her influence upon her audience on Saturday was magnetic. She referred to the movement as having been heretofore known as the 'women's rights' movement. 'To claim our rights,' said she, 'is just and right, but service is so much nobler. The first women who undertook this work were called monkeys because they tried to ape men. They were bitterly persecuted, socially ostracized and looked upon with contempt. We look back upon their efforts, their fortitude and their courage, and are deeply grateful as we realize how easy for us today is the work which they began. Then, in demanding their rights, women first began teaching, in very humble posi- tions. They stepped from higher to higher planes, proving themselves well qualified for their work, and from their excellent service have won the entrance to universities. I, myself, am not so anxious that women shall vote as that they shall wish to vote. 20 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER I do not think that women are fit to vote. They are no more fit than are the majority of the men. The fact that these men have just elected Matthew S. Quay to the chairmanship of the State Committee illustrates their unfitness. What I want is that women shall want to vote. Greece, in the days of her greatness, was ruled by a chosen few. Rome, in the zenith of her power, was governed by a small number of patricians. In this country the people rule, yet not more than thirteen million votes are ever cast when twenty millions of persons are entitled to vote. The fact that so large a class is indifferent is astonishing. The women who are esteemed and regarded and wield so much influence in society are not allowed to vote. I think that the reason that American women are not voting and interesting themselves as English women do is a lack of patriotism. " 'Our whole people need to cultivate a deeper patriotism and love of country, a desire to minister to her needs and render her willing service. The reason we do not vote is because we do not want to vote. It is a question of interest. Women should be the best patriots because of their motherhood. The motto today is, "We learn by doing," therefore I want to see women vote in order that they may learn to vote.' "At this point in her address the speaker very ingeniously introduced an illustration of the experiments of a certain eminent scientist who recently took a number of shepherd puppies and put them through a course for the world's enlightenment. He divided the animals into three sets. One set he kept in a dark place where they lived without exercise; another set he put at liberty; the third he allowed to roam about, but taught them carefully to distinguish objects by sight. He placed a number of different colored plates upon the ground and put their food always under a certain colored dish. In a very short time the dogs would go only for the plates of the right color no matter where they were placed. The scientist used several methods in thus instructing the dogs, and finally killed the whole number. The first set, confined in the dark, were found in examination of their brains to have no gray matter; in the brains of the second lot was found a small proportion of gray matter, and in those of 21 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER the trained dogs was found twenty-five times as much gray matter as in those that ran at large. She continued : " Tdeas of education and woman's duties hare broadened. I read, however, the protests against women assuming the added responsibility and increased duties of enfranchisement because they truly fear women are taking on too many burdens. I am convinced, too, that the carrying on of a double profession is a mistake, although I have never known an instance where the woman physician and wife, or the literary woman and wife, have neglected either avocation. But I think the tax is a heavy one. I believe, however, that the citizenship of women will strengthen and elevate marriage. When father and mother and children all interest themselves in moral and civil problems the bonds of the house will broaden and strengthen. Political electioneering has aroused a revulsion among many good people, and the suggestion that women empowered with the ballot would enter into such activities has been urged as an argument against the political equality of women. " 'The dames of the English Primrose League have been noted especially for their success at electioneering, and in viewing the matter from a point of service the problem takes on quite a different aspect. Love is the greatest thing in the world, and when one considers that many of the illiterate, ignorant class often give their votes to those who have befriended them, even the work of the ward politician does not seem so bad. " * Goethe, in the second part of Faust, gives his opinion of the problem of life. This great work illustrates the tragedy of progress. We are in danger of becoming the victims of progress. We refuse to give up our old theories and the world moves on and we are the victims. There is a larger sphere for women which the times are preparing for us. Women should pre- eminently be the home-makers. The beautiful sentiment from Faust, "The woman soul leads us upward and onward," is the key to much. We all know women who make life, even with men far from lovely, a blessed and glorified service. The bound- aries of the home extend into the State and Nation, and where woman takes her proper place she will carry with her woman- 22 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER hood, and if we can bring such power as this to bear upon national affairs then have we won great service.* "The subject, the speaker claimed, was many-sided. En- vironment and one's own point of view govern opinions, and as people have prejudice and principle tangled up she begged for an honest hearing. A conviction is not gained easily, and if it comes too easily one may beware of it. Often the less ground we have for absolute theory the more we differ. Opposition to the higher education of women was most violent because most prejudiced. "Is democracy a failure ? is a problem. The one man power in the great Commonwealth of Pennsylvania fairly staggers one's faith in a democratic form of government. One point, however, holds my faith. In many points many of the governments of Europe surpass our own, but democracy tends to build character, and no price is too high to pay for a principle like that. It gives to us the larger opportunity for the development of men. Citizenship imposes a heavier burden in America than in any other land, and the whole trend of civilization is toward universal suffrage. Will democracy stand the strain of a mighty class of unprepared and untried voteis? The greatest good will never come by the immediate enfranchisement of this class, but edu- cational suffrage or qualification of the better element, the educated class would certainly infuse a wholesome element into the body politic to strengthen the better characteristics of our Government. There are grave dangers in the future for us, therefore a limited suffrage seems better with universal suffrage ultimately. Home-making is woman's first calling. No word is so strong as the word home. We need the home- makers in government, then we will certainly have 'home pro- tection.' A new word marks a new epoch. There is a new one uppermost at this time. It is Solidarity, and introduced into political science means the interests of one are the interests of all. It is the new phase of thought at the close of this century one of the brightest thoughts of the times. Society is an organism. Every individual has a right to lend to the body politic the special individuality which belongs to him, and as woman differs 23 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER from man, her influence is needed and must eventually come.'* Enthusiastic applause followed this able and excellent address. Judge Ashman in succeeding her said: "I cannot make a speech to prove that two and two make four. It is like trying to prove a proposition that is already proven to attempt to answer the question that is before us. Now, Miss Kemp has done this and beautified it. She has proven that the woman's brain can be increased in size and weight, and this puts the scientist's investigation all to naught. You all remember the German fellow who proved that a woman's brain was so many drachms too light in weight to exercise the franchise, and then died. His brother professors weighed his own and found it lighter than that of the average woman." If the weight of the brain and its texture is any proof of intellectual ability, that of Marie Kemp must have been far above the average. Her power of description was marvelous and her incisiveness of conception and utterance markedly strong. Historic allusions illuminated every subject upon which she was called to speak, and her epigrammatic sentences were couched in language of classical purity. The Entertainment Committee of the New Century Club of Wilmington, Delaware, announced for the club year of 1894-95 among other celebrities, a positive engagement of Miss Marie Antoinette Kemp to deliver four lectures on the "Philosophy of Faust." They comprised: "Faust, the Poem;" "Faust, the Man;" "The Redemption;" "Faust, a Reflection of Goethe's Spiritual Nature." During these lectures, which extended from October 17th to November 7th, the Library Hall was crowded with eager, intelligent women who came from Media, West Chester and other points to hear them from one who was considered an authority upon the German language and the products of its authors. Tributes of admiration flowed in from many responsive souls, two of which are selected and given by way of illustra- tion. 24 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER A TRIBUTE. As felt the poet, Keats, when first he looked Into the living pages of a book And there beheld the Master's thoughts of old Given new life by one of later time, And as he sang the praise of Chapman's Homer So, also, I would sing the praise of her Who has for me made Goethe's Faust reality. I saw the poet in his noblest mood; The man in the blest light of charity, The woman's touch has made him more divine; Her thought hath added luster to his own. O happy poet, to have found in her So kind and gentle an interpreter! Erst had I worshipped had I only found The shrine that since had been revealed to me. MAZIE P. DERICKSON. Wilmington, Del. DEAR PROP. KEMP: Pardon my addressing you, but I do feel that I ought to thank you personally for the exquisite pleasure which you gave me in your lectures upon Faust. I am so sorry that you had to condense the last one. What little knowledge I had of the poet has been enriched by you, as I had always looked upon him as a man of very little principle. How fortunate pupils are in having such a teacher. Your sincere admirer, MARY A. CROSS. In 1895 Professor Kemp became the beloved wife of George A. Hoadley, Professor of Physics at Swarthmore College. It was an event which elicited the interest and congratulations of the entire college town, so admirably were the two adapted to each other. Her marriage, however, did not interfere with her literary work, for the following year, 1896-97, the Entertainment Com- mittee of the New Century Club of Wilmington, Delaware, announced as an important feature of its program for the year a series of lectures on Wednesday afternoons at 3 p. M., by Prof. Marie Kemp-Hoadley of Swarthmore College. 25 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER Subject, "The Character Growth of the Germans as Reflected in Their Literature." The course consisted of three divisions, viz.: "Childhood, From the First Invasions to the Suabin Emperors;" "Youth, From the Suabin Emperors to Luther;" "Manhood, From Luther to the Present Time." As her auditors were also students she recommended for their preparatory reading: "Scherer's History of German Liter- ature," "Taylor's Studies of German Literature," "Luther's Life of Himself" (translated by Hazlitt), "Schiller's Wallen- stein," "Carlyle's Essays, Vol. III." This series only the more firmly established her reputation for thoroughness in her chosen profession, while it stimulated to research and close investigation all who sat beneath the sound of her rich, musical voice. Even without that personal magnet- ism which gives control to so many orators and which she pos- sessed in an unusual degree she would have won her way by her clear-cut, terse, incisive process of spoken thought. At the annual Commencement of the twenty-fifth anniversary of Swarthmore she was selected to deliver an address upon the "Moral and Spiritual Influence of College Life." The occasion was one of the most important of her young life. It had drawn together a large gathering of the Alumni and friends of the Quaker College. Seated upon the stage in the hall of the second floor of the main building were members of the Board of Managers and Faculty and the graduating class. The opening address was made by Joseph Wharton, President of the Board of Managers, who, after reverting to the strictly college course, viz.: the scientific and engineering departments, the astronomical observatory, the gymnasium and the other additions to its efficiency which were maintained, said, in closing : "It is well that a people should continue to show to the world that piety and rectitude and spiritual growth can exist without priests or creeds; that luxurious living is not necessary to happi- ness, nor guile to reasonable prosperity in business; that high intelligence is compatible with simplicity and inexpensiveness 26 MOTHER AND DAUGHTER A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER and that love and unity are practicable amid the clash and con- tention of modern life.'* He was succeeded by Frank Blair, the present State Super- intendent of Public Instruction of Illinois, who represented the graduating class and whose subject was, "The Unity of Truth." "The Early Days" was the theme of John D. Hicks, representing the first Board of Managers, and Dr. Edward H. Magill, Ex- President of the College. After John Russell Hayes had recited an ode entitled, "Swarthmore," Marie A. Kemp-Hoadley spoke as the representative of the Alumnae of the College. She referred briefly to the character of the Alumnae and their love for their Alma Mater. Seventy-nine per cent of Swarth- more's women graduates, she said, were teachers or mothers, and they were almost all looking forward to entrusting their children to the same foster-mother who had guarded their own youth. In the eyes of the Alumnae, of greater importance than scholarship and physical development was right moral and spiritual influence. Mentioning several features of college life that were well calculated to develop the moral strength of the student, she emphasized, particularly, the fact that by living in common with many of his fellows a life of happy industry and democratic equality, the student discovered for himself, by actual experiment, the supreme value of social solidarity. "The college," she said, "does not give lectures on faith, hope and charity, but the small college, like Swarthmore, for instance, arranges a life based on faith that what is sown in righteousness is reaped in joy; based on hope of the gradual unfolding of the life of the spirit that shall bring to pass the ultimate putting away of childishness; based on love of whatso- ever things are lovely, pure, and of good report, and then she invites the student to live this life, to taste and see, to ascertain for himself the exact worth of four years of regular industry, aided by instruction imposed for the welfare of the whole as for the individual; four years of immediate reward for honest work, of inevitable condemnation of idleness; four years of true dem- ocracy, in which each is a component part of a great whole and attains enviable distinction in the social organism, in so far as he 27 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER serves the general good. And the student does, by actual experiment if he enters at all into the true spirit of the collegiate body ascertain whether a life organized in accordance with the principles of faith, hope and charity, be a good thing or not. And to my mind the college teaches no greater lesson." The impression of this talk upon the student body was one neTer to be forgotten. In a letter from Professor Birdsall to a friend, he said: "I had the extreme pleasure of a brief talk with Mrs. Hoadley, whose effort in simplicity and eloquent expression I thought worthy of any college or university commencement anywhere in the land." To Mrs. Hoadley herself he wrote: I was compelled to leave Swarthmore immediately at the close of the exercises of the day, and was not able to make verbal expression of the sense of personal obligation which I felt for thy nobly adequate presentation of what is to me the element of greatest transcendental value in college life. I think no one could have heard thee without speaking, at least, some measure of thy feeling, while the whole pro- gramme was of such a high order that it needed no criticism. Thy address made the occasion one of which it was good indeed to take part. Sincerely thy friend, WM. W. BIRDSALL. The interest in and admiration for Mrs. Hoadley by the New Century Club of West Chester never seemed to wane; accord- ingly, by their earnest request, she delighted them with an address upon "Foreign and American Home-Making" as de- duced entirely from her own observations and impressions during her four years' residence abroad. Notwithstanding a heavy snowstorm was in progress, at the appointed time every chair in Library Hall was filled. Mrs. Hoadley said she felt that the longer one lives in Europe the more difficult it is to generalize in regard to the home life of Germany, France, Italy or England. For several months she had been a member of a German pastor's family near the borders of the North Sea. She had gone to this village that she might be where 28 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER she would not hear one word of English spoken and would be compelled to hear and speak only German. In her desire in this respect she was not disappointed and was much amused by overhearing some one say, "How foreign she looks." People, she found, came to church from miles distant to see her, and frequently the congregation would not disperse until she left. The home life in this German village family was such as we would consider almost poverty-stricken. The main room of the house opened directly into the cow stable for the purpose of saving heat. At first this surprised her, but she soon found that the heat from the cow's body was precious, even with the odors that accompanied it. The house was heated by means of porce- lain stoves in which a few peats were burned. If the stove felt warm to the touch the fire was considered satisfactory and the house comfortably heated. She, however, found some diffi- culty in existing during the months of March and April. In the morning she would don a fur-lined ulster, a woolen hood, felt shoes and mittens, and in this costume she was barely able to spend the day without really suffering. The fare was also very different from that of America. Once a week roast beef was served, and twice a week delicious shrimps formed the basis of the meal. On other days the remnants of these were used in various ways. Potatoes were served cold with the butter heated and served on a hot plate. Buttermilk, black bread, raw fish and plenty of beer and wine were the other staples of diet, while dried string-beans were another viand which was considered a great delicacy. Ten dollars a month was the allowance for housekeeping purposes. With all this poverty of what we would consider the necessities, this family was one of culture and refinement. The house-mother was an authoress of the old school. She wrote thrilling romances which she sold for much-needed cash. Her hair was tousled, her fingers ink-stained and her cooking what her husband called "inspirational." This pastor's wife, however, was an exception, as most German women are housekeepers and nothing else, yet as some 29 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER one says, "A woman who is nothing but a housekeeper is a poor housekeeper." Americans are criticized by Europeans as being too full of too many things, yet, while this may be true, some of them, who are most fully occupied by many outside interests, are the best housekeepers as well. On the contrary, German women think of almost nothing but their sweeping, scrubbing and cooking, and become wedded to laborious methods and narrow ideas. If the fate of German housewives is narrow and laborious, far more monotonous is that of the woman who does not marry. While single she has almost no liberty, and her whole thought centers on preparing her trousseau, which often embraces sets of dozens of each garment. In the rearing of children, also, the Europeans follow far different lines from those adopted in America. Our cousins across the ocean think that American children are most ill- mannered and undisciplined. They judge, chiefly, from children whom they meet traveling abroad, and who are, of course, under disadvantageous circumstances. European children are not considered the center of the family, and are kept much more in the background than are those of America. This results in the young men and girls being much more retiring in their manners. At the same time the young men are far less self-reliant, and will seldom attempt anything to which they have not been trained. As illustrating this fact Mrs. Hoadley said that the German pastor and his family were, on one occasion, about to start to a nearby forest on an excursion when it was found that the driver had been tippling and was in no condition to drive. Father, mother, daughter and grown-up son stood about gazing helplessly at the lamblike horse to the silent amusement of the American girl. "I will drive you," she said, but this was not to be for a moment thought of. The family would have trusted her, for they felt that an American girl could do anything, but public opinion would never have countenanced anything so strong-minded. They patiently waited, therefore, until the effects of their chari- oteer's potations had worn off and then proceeded on their 30 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER pleasure trip. But while much of the freedom and careless happiness of childhood is lost to the little ones in European families, Mrs. Hoadley felt that there are some points in which American families might well pattern after them. Within the past few years we have quite generally adopted the custom of chaperoning young girls, but in France and Germany the boys are chaperoned quite as closely as are any of our young girls. In Paris it is an unheard of occurrence for a boy of good social standing to go to an entertainment unattended. He is accompanied to and from school by an older person and even in recreation hours a party of boys have always with them one or more tutors. As a result these youths have most polished man- ners and their conversation is very free from slang. On the other hand, the first taste of liberty is apt to intoxicate them, and they rush into excesses because their early training has not developed strength of character or moral stamina. Still, the speaker felt that Americans leave their boys too much to their own devices, and thought that if parents would make friends and companions of their children there would be far less of regret in their later life. Taking up the second part of her subject Mrs. Hoadley emphasized the thought that woman's mission in this world is emphatically that of home-making. A preacher whom she had recently heard dwelt upon the fact that it is a necessity of our natures that we become more and more like our ideal, and she urged upon her hearers that the more nearly the life of the wife and mother comes, in self-forgetfulness and devotion to duty, to that of Christ, the Divine Model of Humanity, the more truly will she become a home-maker. It is not house or family that makes a home, but the love and mutual care of the members for each other. There were several things that Mrs. Hoadley feared for the women of the twentieth century. In the first place, she was afraid that they would attempt too much. "Woman's life is already very full," she said, "and every year seems to broaden her possible sphere of action. The danger is that in accepting the many calls which society, philanthropy and the advancement of her sex are making 31 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER upon her, she will be tempted to forget that greatest, holiest duty, home-making. While there are women physicians, lawyers, editors and merchants who are also exemplary wives and mothers, if the coming woman attempts too much the next generation will suffer. "Another tendency of the time is for women to feel that they must get all their self-development and self-improvement from books and lectures. These, of course, are important and necessary, but many a valuable lesson can be learned from the most trivial drudgery of dish-washing and dusting. "A French reformer has written at length upon the theory that the national educational system should be based not upon mathematics and philosophy but upon the science of happiness. Children should be taught first and last that virtue brings happiness and that vice destroys it. While the speaker does not feel prepared to express an opinion in regard to this theory, yet she felt that even a little child may be helped to find that the kingdom of heaven is within him, and by finding that naughti- ness brings unhappiness may be helped to reach the idea that it is better to be good. "In regard to the enfranchisement of women the lady felt that a restricted ballot in which the votes of intelligent women could be cast with those of good men would benefit the country in the greatest measure, yet she felt much sympathy with those who timidly shrink from assuming any more responsibility than they now have. That this participation in public affairs, how- ever, would directly act as an aid in woman's ability as a home- maker, she felt certain, and was sure that were the political franchise granted to women they would be found equal to the task.'* In accordance with her oft-expressed theory of what consti- tuted woman's highest sphere, Mrs. Hoadley's home life became a splendid exemplification. In it neatness, order, elegance, simplicity and hospitality became prominent factors in making it an ideal one. In 1900 Mrs. Kemp removed to it from Harrisburg, Pa., and her identification with the social life of Swarthmore gave to its popularity an added charm. 32 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER Among her main "enthusiasms" was the Universal Peace Union of which she was one of the vice-presidents and from which she was appointed as a delegate to the International Peace Convention in Belgium. By special invitation of the W. C. T. U. of Swarthmore the following address, fully embody- ing her sentiments, was delivered before that body: "The theme of my address is 'Peace by Arbitration,' a subject to be deeply, earnestly and intelligently considered and one too long unheeded by the majority. Yet we are not without hope, for it seems as though there has come a general awakening throughout the world as to the evils and brutalities of war, which is in direct opposition to the divine command, 'Thou shalt not kill.' We are greatly cheered by the signs of the times, and from many sources, particularly from our President Roose- velt. "He thinks the time has come when differences between nations, as between individuals, should no longer be settled by the strong, physical arm, or by sword or cannon, but by the power of righteousness and the courts of justice. "It is but a few months since our President began the work of mediation between the warring nations of Japan and Russia, and disregarding all diplomatic precedents, he persisted in his efforts until the nations agreed to bring the slaughter of men to an end. This is the crowning triumph of the presidential career and the greatest achievement of the United States in international affairs. "When these words, 'It is Peace,' were flashed around the world, all civilization rejoiced at the magnanimity of Japan in conceding to Russia her just claims and the reimbursement of her war expenses, and one-half of the island of Saghalien already in her possession. This act completes a record of wisdom, courage and common sense rarely ever before equaled in the annals of history. It is said that 'he that ruleth himself is greater than he that taketh a city' then Japan has surpassed her achievements on land and sea by her act of far-sighted states- manship and recognition of future international interests. Let us hope that this splendid example of national virtues may put 33 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER an end to the era of piracy and shedding of blood. All honor to Roosevelt and 'blessed are the peacemakers.' "And now there seems to be a depth of spirituality in our midst which brings us in touch with those of like feeling. So let us be in earnest. "Oh, that we may have an intellectual and spiritual discern- ment of the divine methods of the true and higher life! This would be, in some degree, the measure of our progress and happiness. So let us not be content with our present condition. Contentment means inaction. All great achievements spring from life's unrest, so let us prize our present privileges and work for the uplifting of humanity and the doing away with barbarous practices. Do we perceive the immeasurable superiority of arbitration to all other methods of settling disputes ? "Think of the good work done at The Hague where they have erected a standard ! They have shown a righteous way if we but sustain them. "This will be our deliverance from the murderous war spirit. Great men are they who see that spiritual power is stronger than material force. This is an age when intellect should take the place of the sword. The thinker, not the fighter, should be the hero of the day. We now call men great who arbitrate and keep war's hounds at bay. So let us all work and pray that all inter- national differences may be determined by the scales of justice, and not by the heaviest battalions. "Remember, too, that territorial expansion by force of arms is contrary to the principles of righteous government, so let us encourage the world's court of arbitration and join hands with those who are awakened to the higher methods. "The vast body of the world's people are just awakening to their possibilities and their duties. We do not want that wars shall continue and armaments increase, nor the wealth of nations used for the destruction of humanity, so let us keep our atmos- phere magnetic with love and faith, for this is the only atmosphere into which spiritual force can enter and assert its power. "War is an evil to the whole human race. It checks culture, morality, economy and growth in the divine life. Nearly every 34 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER nation has its standing army and spends its millions in shot and shell, and military implements, blighting homes, saddening hearts and murdering human beings. But, friends, we have reason to rejoice that there are other armies in the field one of women who number over half a million, who discard all these murderous methods and material. "They have added to their thirty odd departments of work that of Peace by Arbitration. Their rallying ground is around a throne of grace, their armor is the sword of the spirit, a divine enthusiasm. Their aim is not to destroy life but to save it. They need no shot nor shell, no sword nor cannon. No, no, my friends, the elements they use are of greater power. The difference between spirit and matter is beyond what words can express, as love is greater than hate. "From love comes life, from hate comes death. Love is the redeeming element, the divine element which we seek to manifest toward those who have wandered far from the tender shepherd's care or never knew how sweet it is to be with God. To bring these into the fold of righteousness, justice, mercy and love, to have them born of the true, godly spirit is our desire. Men boast of their victories, and the number of fathers, husbands, brothers and sons they have mowed down. The W. C. T. U. rejoice over the wrecks they can recover, reform and restore to their manhood. We would not rob the world of God's crea- tion. "We have been shown by those who have been divinely inspired how that peace may be obtained which passeth understanding, then let us not be satisfied with our present wars. "We rejoice over the inspiration that came to the Emperor Nicholas as well as to that of the Baroness Von Suttner, whose remarkable book, 'Lay Down Your Arms,' has had such a wonderful mission. It has awakened, aroused and enthused earnest souls who have been longing for a way of deliverance from the curse of war. "Highly gifted and conscientious, with talent, culture and means, combined with a strong will and much energy, the author's heart-rending experiences, as recorded in that much- 35 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER read book, assisted in bringing forth the Peace Conference at The Hague, one of the greatest historic assemblages in the world. "In the language of Ex-President Andrew D. White of Cornell University, who was our Ambassador to Germany, our Minister to St. Petersburg, also President of our American Delegation at The Hague, 'Remember what one woman did in leading up to this event in the history of the Nation.' It is pleasant to note that it was a person debarred by her sex from the privilege of sitting in councils of war or peace Baroness Von Suttner, who so tenderly and ingenuously gleaned from the theme of peace, who so strongly and beautifully wove the truth of her heart's yearning into expression, so as to appeal to all the nobler instincts of humanity. The song of her inspiration was heard by the Czar; his heart was touched, resulting in the meeting at The Hague. Another gem was added to the crown of this hopeful event Wilhelmina, Queen of Holland, offered one of her palaces for their meeting, and in every way manifested the greatest and deepest interest in its proceedings. This was the first council that ever came together for the purpose of accom- plishing the destruction of the curse of war, and it has created a permanent tribunal of arbitration under the auspices of many powers. "All through the journey of life women have come forth as they became awakened to the needs of the hour, and the cry, 'Lord, what wouldst thou have me to do to aid in delivering humanity from the ills which beset it ?' is heard. We must feel for each other's woes; each other's burdens bear. The words of Holy Writ are, 'Thou shalt not kill.' 'Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.' 'They that use the sword shall perish by the sword,' and yet we expend more for destructive purposes than for all else. War, alcoholic drinks and tobacco are our worst enemies. "What are we, as women, doing to stay these tides of misery ? It has been suggested that as women mould temperament from the dawn of childhood life, they, more than all others, determine the proclivities of boyhood, and that women must organize for peace ere the nations will learn to war no more; also, that war 36 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER will be put away in exact mathematical proportion to the degree of influence that women attain in government. War is placing force against reason. Soldiers consume the substance of the people, and what do they return ? If the millions, yes, the bil- lions, were used in redeeming influences, what might we not hope for ? We know that it is the fulfilling of God's laws that brings peace. And what is peace? It is to conquer love of self and lust of life; to tear deep-rooted passion from the breast; to still the inward strife which comes from mutual misun- derstanding and prejudice, as unity results from a discovery of basic truth. When we settle differences by arbitration, nations will not have to spend their millions in erecting forts, building battleships, maintaining standing armies, conducting wars and other institutions of a military character. "Ere this can be accomplished mothers must cease purchas- ing military toys, such as guns, swords and toy cannons, for their children, which by their use incite in them the military spirit. They must be lifted out of the combative spirit and taught to rise above the lower animal nature. "Yet, friends, beyond all the miseries of war we have much to rejoice over. God is still speaking to the present generation as He did to the Huldahs, the Miriams, the Deborahs and to Mary; just as He has been doing to the Frances Willards, the Lady Somersets, the Clara Bartons and other good women who have progressed in the divine life. Their spiritual supremacy was obtained through their personal virtues. This growth is accessible to all who will search for the requisite knowledge. These women have been listening. Then aspiration fitted them for inspirations. Some one has said, 'The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world,' and an ancient Roman warrior bestowed a flattering compliment upon the homes of Roman mothers when he said, 'The empire is at the fireside.' "Now this, the twentieth century, is radiant with the spirit of the time; with achievement for the happiness and well being of the race. What may we not hope for ? Progression, when in harmony with science, can no longer be repressed. "Our beloved leader, Frances Willard, was not an advocate 37 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER of shot and shell nor the cutting of throats and blowing out of brains in order to settle difficulties between nations. She accepted the words of Holy Writ, 'Thou shalt not kill/ 'Love your enemies.' She said, Tut your wealth in your arteries, store it away in your brain cells and in the heart fibers of your children.' She looked beyond the present. She listened to and heard the voice within. God spoke to her as He did to Moses, by the inner voice. Stately were the steps of her ascent, and as her spirit took its flight, she said, 'How sweet it is to be with God.' Miss Willard constantly and unceasingly held herself in receptivity of relation to the spiritual world. She was in touch and in constant communion with it. Greater power to aid and guide than the Holy Spirit there is none. O friends ! When shall we get more deeply in earnest to provoke each other in the spirit of Christian love; to make some sacrifices ? Let us do away with non-essentials and commence ascending in the scale of being by close living, deep thinking and praying without ceasing. "The spontaneous, united effort of waging war against the drink traffic with purely spiritual weapons was known as the woman's crusade. How comforting it is to remember that spiritual supremacy is obtained through our personal virtues. We not only need to discharge our duty to the extent of our abilities, but we should ever seek the presence of the Holy Spirit. We all need to be spiritually unfolded, to have the divine up- lifting and sustaining power. When shall we take pleasure in working for the realization of the ideal in humanity and the doing away with wars ?" This address, given as reported, closed with a peroration which held the hearers spellbound and was immediately asked for publication. When on the platform Mrs. Kemp made no attempt at oratory. Her thoughts flowed so rapidly that, at times, her sentences became involved, but her simplicity of manner added to her undoubted sincerity of earnestness never failed to deeply impress her auditors and to render her much in demand at conventions and other public meetings. 38 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER November 4, 1903, was her eightieth birthday, and it found her so young in spirit as well as in appearance that it was a subject of universal comment among her many friends. No girl of eighteen was more blest with the rushing tide of joyousness than this woman of eighty. To an intimate friend she wrote: "I feel as though I had just begun to live. Life is so beautiful and my Heavenly Father is so good to me and seems so near. Heaven and earth interpenetrate and enfold each other, and my body is simply the sheath for my exultant, happy spirit." A frequent contributor to the columns of the Harrisburg, Pa., Patriot, a letter sent her at this time, published in it, bears quoting : SWAHTHMORE, PA., 12:11:03. To THE HON. B. F. MEYERS: I have received over forty letters of congratulation upon arriving at my 80th birthday one of which I have given to the public and now a second comes from one whom I have never seen, but the perusal of which I think will advance our suffrage interests. It reads thus: BRISTOL, PA. "Mr DEAR MRS. KEMP: When I saw your name fa last week's issue of the Woman's Journal and read your pleasant letter as well as Mrs. Eyster's beautiful and deserved tribute to your work and well doing, ruminating upon the pleasant fact that you have happily and serenely clambered up the hill of life to the eightieth milestone, I was led to indulge in a session of sweet, silent thought and to recall old times when you so worthily did your part in the initial days of the Pennsylvania Woman's Suffrage Association. "I was further led to rummage among the mass of old letters that I received while Chairman of its Executive Committee, with the view of finding the first letter received from you. It now lies before me, and I have just read it with deep interest and cheerful recollections. I well remember always thinking that you were very generous, willingly aiding with open hand our early efforts, and at a time when the movement for woman suffrage was more hampered than now by the hostile frowns of an unfriendly world. "That first letter, similar in spirit, in sympathy and in earnestness with those which followed, is dated January 17, 1870, less than a month after the birth of the association. "It was in answer to one from me, written four days earlier. After 39 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER telling what you had done in York County, near your own home, to create an interest in woman suffrage and help promote the object of the new association, you modestly said, 'I enclose you a check for ten dollars, my contribution to the cause.' Such a sum at such a time for such a purpose seemed to be, as it was, an evidence of rare generosity, for money came grudgingly and seldom with alacrity. "Our funds were often painfully low and frequently vexed with a touch of famine, so that a donation of ten dollars was like a 'Triton among the minnows.' In that letter you farther said, 'It shall be my pleasure to aid you, as I work from a sense of duty. Trusting all your labors in the cause of justice may be compensated with success, I remain yours in the service of humanity.' "Good and noble words! What wonderful changes have taken place in the path of progress since that letter was written. Their record would fill volumes. The movement for impartial suffrage does not halt. It goes steadily onward, carried forward by women with brave hearts, willing hands, cultured brains and wise discrimination, and onward it will continue to go, victory following victory, till the day of final triumph. "Accept my good-will and best wishes for your health and happiness. "Sincerely yours, "I. K. WILDMAN." A year later the following tribute in verse came from a friend : Dear Mrs. Kemp, when you look back On all the fleeting years That stretch behind with share of hopes, And joys, and griefs, and tears, You will agree when all is done You happiest are at eighty-one. And oh! dear friend, whose busy life Has been filled through and through With changeful care and earnest work For those less blest than you, Oh! tell what charm it is you've won, To be so young at eighty-one. JANE CAMPBELL. The secret of her elasticity of temperament she revealed in the following address called by her "Elixir Vitae," which was 40 MARIE ANTOINETTE HOADLEY AND SON ANTHONY A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER delivered about this period to a large audience of devoted friends and admirers: "FRIENDS: My present discourse is the result of contem- plation, of thought that greatest of gifts of travel, of study, including work during four-score years of my life journey. Each year has been growing brighter in proportion to the amount of truth gained relative to living a true, physical, moral, intel- lectual and spiritual life, and practically praying to attain that state which will enable us to live in harmony with the divine command, 'Be ye perfect.' "In order to attain that perfection it is essential that we search the Scriptures, for in them we find the truths pertaining to eternal life. This study includes that of nature, science, literature and religion, bringing into exercise all our God-given faculties, thus enabling us to realize the truth of the poetic expressions, "Age is only youth full blown A ripened, more transcendent youth. " 'Tis the sunset of life gives us mystical lore As coming events cast their shadows before. "The laws of the universe are unchangeable, the same yes- terday, today, and forever. They existed before we had a Christ or Bible. It is our duty to learn concerning these laws, all relating to the perfection of our being, and this is the theme of my discourse. "I ask the question, What is life ? And who can solve the problem ? We have learned that for every manifestation of life something must die. Every breath we draw kills thirty millions of blood cells. We live by the death of atoms, the projecting of a plan; the birth of a thought; the committal of a deed: each involves the death of something. We are constantly throwing off and taking on. When this reciprocity ceases we shuffle off the mortal coil. "If we would ascend in the scale of being we must live in harmony with divine law; we must partake of the Elixir Vitce 41 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER and drink that we may live forever. We must become acquainted with the requisite elements that develop our individuality; we must become integral and not fractional; the tendency to individuality is to vigor, therefore, to duration of life. Person- ality is power. Behind every great success is an individual who is an integer. The majority of us are yet fractional, too ready to run with the crowd, and now, in order to discern clearly, a knowledge of the laws of our being are requisite. "The most important part of life is to know how to live: to nourish mind, soul, and body, for we must remember that lack of knowledge lies at the root of physical, intellectual and spiritual degeneracy. "Knowledge is the fulcrum, intelligence the lever, and courage the power that moves the world. The highest service which can be rendered to any person or class is emancipation from ignorance and from unfavorable conditions. We are all playing our parts in the great drama of life and every step taken should be in accordance with divine law. When our thoughts soar heavenward every step of truth is uplifting. Each truth gained and made our own, practically, is a jewel to be treasured, is a step gained heavenward. "In this evolutionary period, which is so grandly uplifting humanity to higher levels and giving us a wider range of vision, what have we not to hope for ? Our powers being improvable, our capacities being expansive, let us become individualized, not influenced by the crowd, but strive to develop all our God-given faculties, to unfold from within and thus perceive the way of righteousness, justice, mercy and love. "Study, art, science, literature, nature and religion: these are the heavenly highways that lead to holiness. "We build the steps by which we rise From the lowly earth to the vaulted skies. "Each ascent gives us a wider range, a loftier view, a higher outlook, and enables us to preserve the happy, joyous love of life which is one of the elements of life. It is life, one of the proximate principles of our existence. 42 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER "How eagerly the fountain of youth has been sought for by philosophers and astrologists, they little dreaming it was close at hand and yet seen only by the few who worked with every faculty of mind, body and soul. "This activity must be guarded intelligently in accordance with the divine plan, comprehending fully that inactivity is death. Our Father worketh hitherto and we must work. The subtle forces in nature can accomplish more in minutes than their equivalent in months and years. Judgment, discretion and wisdom must be constantly on the qui vive, remembering that overwork dwarfs both body and soul, but cultivated, habitual activity carries within itself perennial satisfaction and the assured renewal of every power brought into exercise. "And now, dear friends, I come to you in the eighty-fourth year of my youth, full of hope. Winter may be on my head but eternal youth and its spring is in my heart. You have read of the fountain of perpetual youth. Have you found it ? You have heard of the streams of living waters. Have you tasted thereof ? This fountain and these streams are forever flowing and have been since the creation and ever will be so far as we know. Many are spiritually, physically and intellectually blind; they cannot 'interpret atmospheres or be in holy vision tranced;' cannot hear the melodies which are ever attuned to the listening ear. To enjoy these privileges we must ever be alive to their existence, 'flying swifter as we near the sun,' 'keeping our locks wet with morning dew and freely let our graces grow.' " For life, well spent, is ever new, And years, anointed, younger grow. "The elixir of life is the concentration of the will exercised in an almost superhuman degree. Life is matter in motion, and when wisdom is sought, and knowledge is gained, and God's laws are obeyed and we aspire to the highest life attain- able, our aspirations lead to inspiration. From this three-fold conjunction we preserve our youthful feelings, not lessening the number of our years for this we cannot do but by exer- cising all our God-given faculties and dropping all non-essen- 43 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER tials. We do not become exhausted but strengthened by the requisite activity; we increase our ability to ascend in the scale of being remembering that truth leads to duty. Let us keep our bodies young in expression. It is better to be seventy years young than thirty years old. "The phrase, 'You are just too old,' means that you are not teachable, not receptive. Many people believe they are too old to learn anything. These must be awakened to perceive that if they ask they shall receive, and this is work to do to awaken others to come up higher, to be delivered from their vain delusions. We are not too old to put the mind in tune or neglect it and the imagination. Lofty imaginations receive wings which carry us upward. The truths of art, science and religion are the wings upon which we soar out of ignorance into knowledge, out of darkness into light, out of slavery into freedom, out of conservatism into progression. "How shall we preserve youth ? By living perfect lives which keep us from feeling old and worn out. The impress of our feelings and principles is seen upon our faces and figures. We paint our own pictures, and as we journey through life they are on exhibition, read by those we meet according to their attainments. "Those who give a lifetime to study, to know what is needed to fulfil the laws regulating our being and what are the non- essentials to be discarded never feel old. They daily rejuvenate and feast upon the truths which elevate, refine and enlighten. They are jealous of admitting aught of a pessimistic nature. "Charles Kingsley says, 'We become like God when we become of use.' Every glimpse of Heaven's life is one of help- fulness and usefulness. To feel young we must continually feed upon new thought. The body needs constant supplies of fresh air and nutriment; the mind, also, has its needs. It is no less exacting. A change of activities, scenes and location is one of the elect ways of prolonging life. Age is a matter of feeling, not of years. Mr. W. G. Lewis of Philadelphia says, 'The dura- tion of human life depends neither on climate, nor food, nor race, nor any external condition, but has relation simply to the 44 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER natural constitution and intrinsic vigor of our organs.' He says one hundred years is the natural life of man. This is far short of the age of Methuselah. This curtailment below the normal term is the result of those errors and excesses in the manner of living which impairs the organs and produces premature decay. He holds up Thomas Parr as living a true physical life, being one hundred and fifty-two years of age. "The words of Holy Writ are, 'My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. Because thou hast rejected knowledge I will also reject thee.' Ignorance is the chief cause of the brevity of life. We mean that pernicious ignorance which knows in a gen- eral way without acting upon the knowledge in a particular sense. "Dr. Henry D. Bellows says, 'This is the doctrine of Chris- tianity, that man has in him a secret, sure and direct access to God's spirit.' This is what Jesus knew to be in man, and in having this he knew man to be capable of building up the king- dom of righteousness in himself, in his race, and in the civili- zation of the future. This is what alone makes faith, hope and charity possible. Who has found out the limits of humanity ? What experience, what study of past history exhausts its possi- bilities ? Were Homer, Plato, Phidias, Dante, Newton and Shakespeare looked for or reckoned possible until they came ? "The Elixir Vitse! Where does it dwell ? is the study of the hour. It has been the theme throughout the ages to know where the Divine dwells, in whom is the fountain of perpetual youth, that inexhaustible spring of newness, beauty and worth. It is the Spirit of God incarnating itself in human nature and character, forbidding us to doubt that anything we hope or long for is impossible of attainment. "My friends, the command of Holy Writ is, 'Be ye perfect.' Now, in order to attain unto perfection we must search for the essential requisites which are based upon physical, moral, intel- lectual and spiritual laws. "This is the work of life, and we must become intelligent as to divine law and live in harmony with it, for mind accumulates power by its own activity, and learns to know that a perception of the inexhaustible is an immortal youth. 45 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER "What have we not to hope for from the rapid progress of the age? All the departments pertaining to a perfect life are being made plain if we but seek to know the laws which control our being. Science is being revealed as though by magic. Its truths are the unfolding of divine law, a revelation of God's methods. Through it we have bridged the ocean with ships and made lightning to run our errands. We have the practical knowledge of how to utilize steam, electricity and the laws of vibration as well as the Roentgen rays through which we can ascertain the condition of the interior of our bodies. We have learned how to reduce the air we breathe to a liquid and to a degree of coldness not computable. And, now, what have we not reason to hope for ? As a result of this greater knowledge we have gained a clearer insight into natural law, have broader views of religion and are loosening the shackles of our religious creeds which forbade freedom of thought. We no longer think of ourselves as 'worms of the dust/ for we know that we have arisen to higher levels. "Imagination, that grand faculty by which the mind con- ceives, goes in advance of efforts and points the way. "Mental science is the science of mind unfoldment. Imagi- nation, hope and expectation are mental conditions controlled by spirit power. They even shape the body, bone, nerves and muscles. Any momentary exultation is only an invoice of the soul's progress. Destructiveness can easily be replaced by con- structiveness. To constantly grow wiser, better and become more enlightened we must be full of high ideals; must absolutely abide in the Holy Place. Unless discerned by the Spirit we are lost in a labyrinth of materialism. "Fear, grief, sin, anxiety, pessimism, all that train pull down bodily tissue, their positives build up. Harmony, joy, optimism, idealism, love and courage invigorate in like degree. The creative power in thought is man's and woman's divine instrument, and the knowing of the inexhaustible in nature is an immortal youth. "To grow in Christliness, a knowledge of the true life, the higher life, is requisite. We should embrace all opportunities 46 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER to grow wiser, better and more intelligent by constantly adding to our faith, virtue, knowledge, temperance, brotherly kindness, godliness and charity for if all these abound in you they make that you shall neither be barren nor unfruitful in acquiring the requisite knowledge to attain perfection. "They that lack these things are blind and cannot see afar, so let us feel it to be our duty to remind each other of the Heaven- born gifts accessible to all who will seek for them. Holy joy will drive out every fear, and the more we learn to live in the serene air of delightful studies the longer do we retain the fresh- ness and charm of youth, the more adaptable do we become, the more capable of high and holy companionship. "It has been said that dying a natural death is one of the lost arts; that we deny ourselves the requisite amount of the life-giving principle, oxygen. The art of ventilation is so imperfectly understood that four-fifths of humanity shorten their lives because of their ignorance of its nature, and the quantity of oxygen needed to preserve perfect health. They know not that life well spent, intellectually and spiritually, is ever new, and 'years anointed younger grow.' "A right purpose is curative and preservative. The only life worth living is that of infinite aspiration. Holy joy drives out every disease and it is the elixir of life. It is the divinity in men and women which gravitates upward, and one owns all that one can appropriate. The broader the education the nobler the aspirations. Our powers are improvable, our capacities are expansive. When all are developed harmoniously Heaven comes down our souls to greet. In brief, " The tissue of the life to be We weave with colors all our own. In the field of destiny We reap as we have sown." . Among the public offices performed by Mrs. Marie Hoadley was the presiding at the organization of "The Woman's Club of Swarthmore," held at the Borough building. An informal notice had been circulated inviting all mothers 47 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER and home-makers interested in the matter to be present, and about forty or more responded. Mrs. Hoadley explained that the object of this club was the furtherance of the interests of home life and of the community at large in whatever way woman affects it. The home-makers of all kinds were expected to confer as to methods and experiences in improving the atmosphere of the home. The woman of social or intellectual gifts; the woman of scientific tastes; the woman who read, discriminatingly, the literature of the day; the woman who was abreast with the current of passing events; the musician; the woman who wielded a graceful pen or who could appreciatively interpret what others had written; the quiet home body who was winning the battle of life with patience and common sense all were expected to give as they had received, to the mutual benefit of all. In brief, the intention as outlined by the gifted speaker was to quicken the best culture of Swarthmore through that sure medium, its women. Alas! The club was destined soon to lose its inspirer and guide. Marie A. Hoadley died on February 16, 1907, leaving a little son, Anthony de Hothlegh, only six years old, to the loving care of his devoted father and grandmother, Mrs. Kemp. Some years before there had come upon her an incurable illness (paralysis agitans), which laid a burden upon her almost too heavy to bear, and yet which she met with heroic endurance and unfailing cheerfulness. Her loss to the community in the prime of her life and rare efficiency was generally acknowledged to be one of the greatest. Said Dr. Isabella Bronk of Swarthmore College in an address to the students: "I cannot stand here before you this morning without some allusion to the beautiful life which has gone out in our midst. I say, in our midst, for although Mrs. Hoadley had been during some time cut off by physical weakness from participation in the intellectual work and pleasures of the college, she was often, very often, with us in mind, and always in spirit. "She belongs peculiarly and wholly to Swarthmore College, 48 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER having graduated with one of its earlier classes. She was an alumna who, because of her intellectual brilliancy, would have been claimed with pride by any college or university in the country. She later called upon her Alma Mater to grant her a second degree, and she was also, for several years, professor of German, leaving the impression of her high scholarship, fine character and delightful personality upon hundreds of former students of the college. With Schiller, she found her greatest pleasure in constant activity, and like Lessing, no occupation to her was so important as that of searching for the truth, but she had sat with Goethe and the Greek philosophers upon the heights and had attained to spiritual serenity. "No one could be long in her presence without feeling her mental superiority and moral elevation, and this rich equipment of mind and heart found full expression in her life.'* Marie Hoadley truly did noble things, not dreamed them all day long, "And so made life, death and that vast forever One grand, sweet song." The death of her daughter weighed heavily upon the heart of the devoted mother, checking her exuberance and loosening the ties which bound her to earthly things. Yet her interest in the suffrage cause, the temperance movement and all the phases of "new thought," particularly those which related to spiritual uplifting which rippled the current of social life, had not abated. The society and care of her little grandson gave her the keenest delight, and the genial companionship and watchful consideration of her son-in-law, with whom she lived to use her own language "crowned each day with blessings." Yet the desire to join her daughter seemed ever uppermost. Early in March, 1908, she wrote to an intimate friend: "I read without glasses, have a moderate appetite, sleep pretty well, but believe it will be better for me in the next sphere. I am not afraid of death and long to be more spiritual. All I have seen teaches me to trust the Creator for all I have not seen. There is so much of mystery in life, so much that seems unat- 49 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER tainable. My greatest consolation is from the blessed Bible which I study continuously and which reveals more and more to me of precious truth. Its invitation, 'Come unto me all ye that labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest,' seems to me very direct and I long to go to Him. In a purer atmosphere than that of earth, among exalted spirits who belong to the redeemed, in the society of the many beloved ones who have passed on before, I shall find, I humbly hope, the rest and happiness promised to those who love the Lord." The summons came on the afternoon of May 20, 1908, after she had been confined to her bed only about a week. Up to that time she seemed in her usual health except that she tired easily in exerting herself, finding it increasingly difficult to walk without becoming wearied. The funeral services at the house, 518 Walnut Lane, Swarth- more, were of the Friends order, as Mrs. Kemp had united with that body. They were impressive in the highest degree. Said Anna Travilla Speakman, a near neighbor: "Such occasions as these usually mean great sorrow, but seated here this morning under the beautiful silence that has settled over us, there is a very precious feeling, one of thanksgiving for the life that was and the life that is. "When we first heard that the dear friend and neighbor had been called to her eternal home, there arose in our breasts such a feeling of thankfulness that this frail body could no longer hold her great, strong spirit, so young, so enthusiastic, and always in- terested in the best things of life. We rejoiced that it was free, unfettered to enjoy the different mansions of our Father's home. "With this feeling of thankfulness came a still deeper one, the thought of her joy and happiness upon meeting the dear daughter with whose life here hers was so closely interwoven. Our faith is very sure that love and life go on deepening and growing in that larger life, and as such it is beautiful to think of the dear friend free to develop, and reunited with her dear ones, for she had filled her life of usefulness here, and with a child-like faith was ready when the summons came. Many are the lessons we can learn from her life." 50 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER Mrs. S. M. Gaskill also said: " 'Blessed are the dead which die in the Lord; yea, saith the Spirit, they rest from their labors and their works do follow them.' The kingdom of Heaven has been likened to a grain of mustard seed, and to the little leaven which leaveneth the whole lump, but the symbol which Jesus more often employed and which I think He most preferred was that of the little child. This spirit of the little child our friend had attained to in a remarkable degree, ever willing to learn, helpful and gentle in these later years as we have known her. "Whatever the life struggles of her earlier years may have been we do not know, but we do know that she stood for the equality of woman with man and for her higher education. "She was brave and true to her convictions and quick to respond to every appeal, and illustrated in a beautiful manner that saying that has almost become an axiom, 'There's nothing so kingly as kindness, and nothing so royal as truth.' " The Woman Suffrage League of Swarthmore adopted the following memorial: In the decease of Dr. Agnes Kemp, which occurred May 20, 1908, our Suffrage League has lost a member who was faithful in her attendance, ever zealous for our cause, and a life-long living example of what a woman may do for the elevation of her sex and the good of humanity. She studied medicine after she was fifty years of age, graduating when she was fifty-six years old, thereby manifesting her great inde- pendence of character and perseverance. Her zeal for knowledge and light continued to govern her activities up to and beyond her eightieth year. She was untiring in her advocacy of Peace and Temperance, and hygienic and abstemious living. She was generous in her response to every appeal. She bore her great affliction, the loss of her only daughter, with serenity and resignation and looked forward with an unusual degree of interest and hopefulness "to the life to come," believing in a renewal of spirit and a reunion with the beloved who had gone before. Her sweet, childlike spirit, her perseverance and hopefulness are a valued legacy to those who knew her best. Signed: ELIZABETH N. GARBETT, JESSIE L.HOOPES, President; Secretary. 51 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER Among the numerous testimonials of appreciation and affection which came to Professor Hoadley were the two follow- ing, from Alfred H. Love, Philadelphia, president of the Univer- sal Peace Union, and Arabella Carter, business manager of the same society. Wrote the former: ESTEEMED FRIEND: I was not aware of the death of thy mother- in-law, our dear vice-president of the Universal Peace Union, until too late to be with you on the 22d inst. Some of our members were present. I want to testify to my admiration of her work and her influence. She was one of the most fearless women I have ever known when it came to the upholding a great truth and when advocating that which would uplift humanity and broaden the pathway of reformation. Her positive and conscientious convictions were in the advance of the age, "with the authority of faith be thou removed she to the mountains sayeth." She was always young, even in the face of growing years. My last helping hand was at Mystic, Connecticut, when I put her in the cars for home. I felt then it would be her last visit here. She was, however, so confident that I remember I let her go alone and I was rejoiced to find she reached home safely. You all have a rich legacy in her wonderful life and I will ask the favor of some of you to give us a sketch of her life for the Peacemaker, and if you have the cut as prepared of her some years ago, say about 1899, we would like to have it, except you may have a later one that we can place in the next issue. Let me express my sincere sympathy with you all. Dr. Kemp was always a generous contributor to our pages, and to our treasury, and promised more. We shall deeply miss her at our meet- ings. She was generally there with such friends as David Ferris, Dr. Magill, Lydia H. Price, Lydia H. Hall and others who have passed on at about her age and all sincerely beloved. With assured regards. Thus wrote Arabella Carter: ESTEEMED FRIEND: Trusting it may not seem an intrusion I want just to say to thee how very glad I was of thy loving tribute to Dr. Kemp this morning. I came so late I did not know who may have spoken or what had been said, yet longed that some such tribute should be paid to her life as an inspiration, and was almost at the point of thinking I must 52 A NOTED MOTHER AND DAUGHTER when thee arose and spoke as I so desired, and coming from thee was so much higher tribute than from any of us. Her life was a lesson ! Her intensity, her care to have the vital things of life really count, much as she enjoyed the little amenities of life, as well her perpetual youthfulness which was a never-ceasing marvel to some of us who perhaps are far older in a way at one-third her age than she was at eighty-five. Her joyousness in life and its experiences is something which, as others said, is given to but few. How I recall her at Mystic, Connecticut: her great interest, not only in the proceedings of the convention, but in everything else as well. Hers was no one-sided nature. The funeral was so beautiful. Light and air were not excluded. It seemed to me as though her friends were gathered there socially and she was in their midst. Nothing of funeral heaviness was there, but all just as it should be the last time here an earnest of the time over yonder when we shall gather face to face. Even though a stranger thee will not be averse to my expression of admiration for one who was much to thee. By Agnes Kemp's desire, her body was cremated, and her ashes repose in the Cemetery at Harrisburg, Pa., beside those of her first husband, Col. William Saunders. "Death is delightful. Death is dawn. The waking from a weary night Of fevers into truth and light." 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