THE LIBRARY OF THE UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA LOS ANGELES FREDERIC THOMAS BLANCHARD ENDOWMENT FUND t',/, wt >^-ri// /,K>,ame y is unlocked and let loofe by example. 24. Conceitednefs and ignorance are a moft unhappy compofition ; for none are fo invincible as the half-witted, who know juft enough to excite their pride, but not fo much as to cure their ignorance. 25. We fcarce find in any hiftory a Deferter of a truft or party he once adher'd to, to be long profperous, or in any eminent eftimation with thofe to whom he revolts, tho* in the change there may appear evident arguments of rea- fon and juftice ; neither has it been in the power or pre- rogative of any human authority, to preferve fuch men from ihe reproach, jealoufy and fcandal, that naturally attend on any defection. 26. Let no price or promifes bribe thee to take part with the enemies of thy Prince j whoever wins, thou art loft ^ if thy prince profper, thou art proclaim'd a rebel, and muft expect the confequence : If the enemy prevail, thou art reckon'd but a meritorious traytor : though he may like and love thy treafon, yet he will hate and defpife thee. 27. Demean thyfelf in the prefence of thy prince with reverence and chearfulnefs : let thy wifdom gain his o- pinion ; thy loyalty, his confidence ; be not falfe or un- juft in thy words or actions j unreafonable or carelefs in thy fuits or fervices j crofs not his paffion, queftion not his pleafure, prefs not into his fecrets, neither pry into his prerogative. 28. Upon the well being of the Prince depends the fafety of the People. A gracious Prince is fure of being the darling of his Subjects. 29. Where APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 7 29. Where punifhment is neceffary, let it be moderate.* 30. Cuftom is a great matter, either in good or ill. 3 1 . We mould check our paffions betimes^ as involuntary motions are invincible. 32. We are divided in ourielves, and confound good and evil. We are moved at the novelty of things, for want of understanding the reafon of them. 3 3 . Every man is the artificer of his own fortune. 34. Flattery is dangerous, though in fome cafes a man may be allowed to commend himfelf. 35. Hope and Fear are the bane of human life. 36. It is according to the true or falfe eilimate of things, that we are happy or miferable, 37. Temperance and moderation are great bleffings. 3 8 . Conftancy of mind gives a man reputation, and makes him happy in defpite of all misfortunes. 39. Our happinefs depends, in a great meafure, upon the choice of our. company. 40. He that would be happy, muft take an account of his time. 41. Happy is the man that may chufe his own bufinefs. 42. Anger is againft nature, and only to be found in men. 43. Anger is a Ihort madnefs, and a deformed vice, 2nd is neither warrantable nor ufeful. 44. Pardon all where there is either lign of repentance, or hopes of amendment. 45. The fame conceit makes us merry in private, and angry in publick. 46. Some jefts will never be forgiven. 47. Patience foftens wrath. 48. Thofe 8 A COLLECTION of 48. Thofe injuries go neareft us, that we neither de- ferved nor expelled. 49. Whoever does an injury is liable to fuller one. 50. Take nothing ill from another man, till you have made it your own cafe. 51. Some things cannot hurt us, and others will not. 52. He that threatens all, fears all. 53. A tyrannical government is a perpetual ftate of war. 54. Clemency is profitable for all ; does well in private perfons, but it is more beneficial in princes. 55. Mercy is the intereft both of prince and people, and gives pleafing reflections to a merciful prince. 56. Mifchiefs contemn'd lofe their force As the wind kindles a torch inftead of extinguishing it, fo falfe re- ports redouble the luftre of virtue. 57. Good intentions will never juftify evil actions ; nor will a good action ever juftify an ill intention j both muft be good, or neither will be acceptable. 58. Never fufTer your courage to exert itfelfin fierce- nefs, your refolution in obftinacy, your wifdom in cun- ning, nor your patience in fullennefs and defpair. 59. If you refolve to pleafe, never fpeak to gratify any particular vanity or paffion of your own, but always witn a defign cither to divert or inform the company : a man who only aims at one of thefe, is always eafy in his dif- courfe ; he is never out of humour at being interrupted, becaufe he confiders, that thofe who hear him, are the beft judges, whether what he was faying, could either di- vert or inform them. 60. It is an unpardonable incivility to interrupt a perfon that APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 9 that tells a ftory j it is much better to let him fail in fome circumftance of the hiftory, than to rectify him if he afks not our advice, or to fignify we know long before the news he would acquaint us with. To what purpofe is it to refufe a man the pleafure of believing he inform- ed us of fomething we were ignorant of before ? 61. Admiration is the moft pleafing paffion that can rife in the mind of man. 62. We may judge of men by their converfation to- wards God, but never by God's difpenfation towards them. 63. The law and gofpel, like bond and acquittance, both mention the debt, but to different purpofes ; the one to oblige payment, the other to free from it. 64. All that one can reafonably demand of fickle per- Ibns, is ingenuouily to acknowledge their levity, and not to add treachery to inconftancy. 65. Study is the moft folid nourilhment of the mind, and the fource of its moft noble acquifitions. Study in- creafes our natural talent, but it is converfation that fets it on work, and refines it. 66. If men could but know the happinefs of adhering to the true religion, the voluptuous might there feek and find everlafting pleafures, the covetous man durable and everlafting wealth, the ambitious man glory enough to entertain his large and moft extended defires. 67. Cloath yourfelf below your eftate, that you may thrive the better j your wife above it, that you may live peaceably ; and your children equal with it, that you may marry them the fooner. C '68. To io A COLLECTION of 68. To mifcarry in great and glorious attempts, is no reproach. 69. A noble Simplicity, when properly ufed, makes more impreffion than tropes and figures: a fierce and warlike eloquence fucceeds better with a violent and hafty man, than an eloquence full of infinuation, and wholly pathetick. 70. A man who always ads in the fe verity of wifdom y or haughtinefs of quality, feems to move in a perfonated part ; it looks too conftrained and theatrical, for a man to be always in the character which diftinguimes him from others : befides, the flacknefs and unbending the mind, on fome occafions, makes it exert itfelf with greater alacrity, when it returns to its proper and natural flate. 71. It is obferved, fometimes, that men upon the hour of their departure fpeak and reafon above themfelves ; for then the foul, beginning to be free from the ligaments of the body, begins to reafon like herfelf, and to dif- courfe in a ftrain above mortality j for fouls juft quitting life, doubtlefs, have a glimpfe of eternity. 72. It is a fign of a fublime genius, not to be over eager to difplay your wit, but to talk of trifles with mean people, and fo to propoi tion yourfelf to the humours and characters of thofe you converfe with, as to let them think themfelves upon a level with you j nothing can be more pleafing, they are charm'd with you, and them- felves, when they fee this equality, which infinitely gra- tifies their felf-love. It requires a great deal of fenfe to be able to make thefe condefcending felf-denials, and a ' vafl APHORISMS and MAXIMS. n vaft flock of modefty not to define to outfhine others when we can, and make a fhow of our beft talents. 73. No vaflalage fo ignoble, no fervitude fo miferable, as that of vice : mines and gallies, mills and dungeons, are words of eafe to the fervice of fin ; therefore the bringing finners to repentance, is fo noble, fo tempting a defign, that it drew even God himfelf from heaven to profecute it. 74. A comfortable old age is the reward of a well fpent youth j therefore, inftead of its introducing difmal and melancholy profpedts of decay, it mould give us hopes of an eternal youth, in a better world ; but to think of pleafing, when the feafon of agreeablenefs is pafl, is want of difcretion ; merit of pleafing belongs only to youth. Frequent difappointments of this kind mould direct a difcreet perfon to retire in time from the gaieties of life, it being as proper for fuch to do fo, as it is for the young, the brifk, the gay, to produce themfelves in the world ; men are to be pitied, who are fond of the world when it is weary of them. 75. In court we fee good will is fpoken with great warmth, ill will covered with great civility. Men are long in civilities to thofe they hate, and fhort in expref- fions of kindnefs to thofe they love. 76. Ignorance is the mother of error, and father of impudence. 77. He that will not hear the admonition of a friend, deferves to feel the correction of an enemy. 78. There is great difference betwixt a life of virtue, and .a life of pkafure. C 2 79. We 12 A COLLECTION of 79. We abufe God's bleffings, and turn them into miff chiefs. 80. Death is the fame thing, which way foever it comes, only we are more moved by accidents that we are not ufed to. 8 1 . A wife and good man is proof againft all accidents of fate. 82. A wife man {lands firm in all extremities, and bears the lot of his humanity with a divine temper. 83. He that pafles a fentence haftily, looks as if he did it willingly ; and then there is an injuftice in the excefs. 84. There can be no peace in human lire, without the contempt of all events. 85. A warm heart requires a cool head. Courage with- out conduct, is like fancy without judgment, all fail,, and no ballad. 86. A man of virtue is an honour to his country, a glory to humanity, a fatisfaction to himfelf, and a bene- fadtor to the whole world : he is rich without oppreffion or difhonefty, charitable without oftentation, courteous without deceit, and brave without vice. 87.. What madnefs is it for a man to ftarve himfelf to enrich his heir, and fo turn a friend into an enemy! for his joy at your death will be proportioned to what you leave him. 88. The contempt of death makes all the miferies of life eafy to us. 89. Poverty to a wife man is rather a bleffing than a misfortune. 90. It is St Augujlinfs obfervation of Seneca, that this illuf- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 13 illuftrious fenator worshipped what he reproved, acted what he difliked, and adored what he condemned. 91. Human happinefs is founded upon wifdom and virtue. 92. There can be no happinefs without virtue. 93. Philofophy is the guide of life. 94. No felicity like peace of confcience. 95. A good man can never be miferable, nor a wicked man happy. 96. The due contemplation of divine providence is the certain cure of all misfortunes. 97. He that fets up his reft upon contingencies, mall never be at quiet. 98. A fenfual life is a miserable life. 99. Avarice and ambition are infatiable and reftlefs. 100. The original of all men is the fame ; and virtue is the only nobility.. 10 1. The two bleffings of life are, a found body, and a quiet mind. 1 02. Man is compounded of foul &K& body, and has na- turally a civil war within himfelf. 103. As the vexations which men receive from their children haften the approach of age, and double the force of years j fo the comforts which they reap from them, are balm to all other ibrrows, and difappomt the injuries of time. Parents repeat their lives in their offspring, and their concern for them is fo near, that they feel all fuf- ferings, and tafte all enjoyments, as much as if they re- garded their own proper perfons. 104. Moil men are ambitious to ape, if not exceed, their 14 A COLLECTION of their fuperiors in wealth and vanity -, they can give them contentedly the preference in virtue, and let them prac- tife it without emulation. 105. Lord Chief Juftice Hale obferved that, according to his care in obferving the Lord's day, he commonly profpered in his undertakings the Week following. 1 06. There is no virtue, the honour whereof gets a man more envy, than that of juftice, becaufe it procures great authority among the common people ; they only revere the valiant, and admire the wife, while they truly love juft men 5 for in thefe have they intire truft and confi- dence, but of the former, they always fear one, and miftruft the other. They look on valour, as a certain na- tural ferment of the mind, and wifdom as the efFecl: of a fine conftitution ; but a man has it in his power to be juft, and that is the reafon it is fo difhonourable to be otherwife, as Waller handfomely exprefTes it thus : Of all the virtues Juftice is the beft, Valour without it is a common peft ; Pirates and thieves, too oft with courage graced, Shew us how ill that virtue may be placed -, 'Tis our complexion makes us chajle and brave y Juftice from reafon and from heav'n we have ; All other virtues dwell but in the blood, 'That in the foul, and gives the name of good. 107. It is not lefs cowardly to fpeak ill of the dead, than it would be to. kill an enemy incapable of making his own defence. j 08. Pro- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 15 1 08. Pronunciation is the life and foul of eloquence j and it is of fuch peculiar importance, that none can neg- led: it without abandoning its greateft ftrength and beauty, and that which contributes fo largely to its force, and compofes mod of the graces that belong to it. The art of Oratory is never fo great and potent by the things that are faid, as by the manner of faying of them ; its leading excellence coniifls in the delivery, and by this it maintains its empire over the hearts of men. 109. Nobility of foul, and greatnefs of under/landing, are not confin'd to any rank or quality. no. It is a kind of cowardice not to defend an opinion when we think it juft, but we mould modeftly propofe our reafons, that they who yield to us may do it undif- turbed. in. If you would be free from fin, fly temptation j he that does not endeavour to avoid the one, cannot expect pro- vidence to defend him from the other. If the firfl fparks of ill were quenched, there would be no flame 5 for how can he kill, who dares not be angry j or be an adulterer in act, that does not tranfgrefs in delire ? How can he be perjured, that fears an oath ; or he defraud, that does not allow himfelf to covet ? 112. True wit confifts in retrenching all ufelefs dif- courfe, and in faying a great deal in a few words. 113. Love labour 5 if you do not want it for food, you may for phyfick. 114. Inordinate love is the forerunner of exceffive forrow. 115. He who fpends moft of his time in vain fportn and 16 A COLLECTION of and recreations, is like him whofe garments are all made of fringes, and his diet nothing but fauce. 1 1 6. Vain wifhes ferve only to punim us by the in- quietudes they caufe in us ; it is actually to lead an un- quiet life, to be happy only in hopes. 117. The coming in of people fucceffi vely after divine fervice has begun, diftracts the minds both of the minifter and his audience ; it (hews negligence in thofe that do it, and gives offence to them that fee it. 1 1 8. A man cannot be agreeable, and good company, unlefs he be able to think nicely, and readily lay up all that is faid in converfation, which he can never do, un- lefs he has a good fund of wit, a faithful memory, and an imagination fuitable. It is requifite likewife to be a matter of one's own mother tongue, and know all the niceties, beauties, and delicacies of it ; without this, though our thoughts were the beft in the world, we can- not expect they fliould pleafe. 119. It is obfervable that daring and undertaking fel- lows have ever been the darlings of the populace, who are fo credulous as to take men's characters even from them- felves, and believe pretenders in every art to be really what they profefs : Bold ignorance pafTes upon the multitude for fenfe ; confident knaves live upon credulous fools. 1 20. Unlawful love being an unmannerly gueft, we (hould guard againft it, becaufe we know not how late in the evening of life it may intrude for lodging. 121. Tranquillity, unlefs we look for it in God, is not to be had ; it is he alone that can give it us ; as foon as you fix your eyes upon him, you will defpife every thing you APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 17 you have feen before ; from that very moment you begin to love him, you will forget everything you loved before; and at the fame time your defires are directed towards him, you will renounce all the pretenfions you ever had to any thing in this world. 122. Health more to be defired than life is a truth not contradicted by that maxim, 'The end is better than the means ; for I hold not health to be fubordinate to life, but life to health 5 being is the means, and well-being is the end. 123. Were men as jealous of God's honour, as they pre- tend to be of their own, they would foon fee the folly and madnefs of their wild perfuits of revenge, and learn to forgive as they expect to be forgiven. 1 24. He who has lived one day has lived a thoufand ; {till the fame fun, the fame earth, the fame world, the fame enjoyments ; nothing more like this day than to- morrow : death only would be new to us, which is but the exchange of this bodily ftate for one that is all fpiritual. But man, tho' fo greedy of novelties, has no curiofity for this ; tho' unfettled in his mind, and ftill growing weary of whatever he enjoys, yet never thinks his life too long, and would perhaps confent to live for ever : what he fees of death makes a deeper impreffion on his mind, than what he knows of it ; the fear of pain and iicknefs, the horror of the grave, makes him lofe the defire of know- ing another world; and the ftrongeft motives of religion can but jull bring him to receive his doom with fub- miffion. $25. Could men but make due reflections, that as their D wealth i8 A COLLECTION of wealth and riches may increafe every day, fo their fenfe* which enjoy them decreafe continually, the confideration would make them lefs covetous, and lefs ambitious. 126. Nothing is fo apt to harden people in their dif- orderly courfes, as to fee the fame praftifed in others j cer- tain actions, which appear abominable to us in our foli- tude, look with a quite different face when we fee them commonly done. 127. The knowledge of our being we have by intuition, the exiftence of a God, reafon clearly makes known to us. No exiftence of any thing, only of God, can cer- tainly be known, further than our fenfe informs us. 128. Liberty unfeafonably obtained is commonly intem- perately ufed 129. Induftrious wifdom often prevents what lazy folly thinks inevitable. Induftry argues an ingenuous, great y and generous difpofition of foul, by unweariedly perfuing things in the faireft light, and difdaining to enjoy the fruit of other men's labours wiahout deferving it. 130* Knowledge foftened with complacency, and a yielding fweetnefs of temper, make a man equally beloved and admired by all the world that knows him - y but join'd with a fevere, morofe, and affuming behaviour, make^ him not only fhunned, and feared, but mortally hated by every creature. 131. Emulation is a noble paffion - r it is cnterprizing, but yet juft > for it keeps a man within the terms of ho- nour, and makes his conquefts for glory both fair and ge- nerous i becaufe it ftrives to excel, only by raifmg itfelf, and not by deprefling another. 132. The APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 19 132. The refemblance of truth is the utmoft limit of poetick licence. Beyond the actual works of nature a poet may go, but not beyond the conceived poflibility of it. 133. There is not any benefit ever fo great or glo- rious in itfelf, but it may be exceedingly fweetned and improved by the manner of conferring it. 134. It is faid that when Ariftotle faw the books of Mofes, he commended them for fuch a majeftick ftile .as might well become a God ; but withal faid, that way of writing was not fit for a philofopher, becaufe there was nothing proved, but matters were delivered as if they would rather command than perfuade belief. 135. To pretend to have the world in contempt when we have none of it in pofleffion, and to talk fcornfully of it before we know what it is, proceeds rather from little breeding, and kfs manners, than true magnanimity and greatnefs of foul. 136. The precepts and admonitions of a very good man have in them a great power of perfuafion, and are apt to move ftrongly, and to inflame others to go and do 1 ike- wife : but the good inftrudions of a bad man are lan- guid and faint, and of very little force, becaufe they give no heart or encouragement to follow that counfel which they fee he that gives it, does not think fit to take himfelf. 137. Thofe women who, by reafon and virtue, have acquired a finnnefs and folidity of foul, are as fure re- pofitories of a fecret as the moft mafculine confident; fuch therefore fhould be cleared of the general accufa- tion, their example mews the reft that nature has put D 2 them 20 A COLLECTION of them under no fatal neceffity of being thus impotent.- A fecret is no fuch unruly thing, but it may be kept in 9 they may take the wife man's word for it : If thou haft heard a word let it die with thee, and be bold it will not burft thee. 138. I know no duty in religion more generally agreed on, nor more juftly required by God, than a perfect fub- miffion to his will in all things ; nor do I think any difpo- fition of mind can either pleafe him more, or become us better, than that of being fatisfied with all he gives, and content with all he takes away. None, I am fure, can be of more honour to God, nor of more eafe to our- felves ', for if we confider him as our maker, we dare not contend with him; if as our father, we ought not to mif- truft him j fo that we may be confident that whatever he does, is intended for our good, and whatever happens that we interpret otherwife, yet we can get nothing by repining, nor fave any thing by rciifting. 139. He who lies under the dominion of any one vice, muft expect the common effects of it. If lazy, to be poor j if intemperate, to be difeafed -, if luxurious, to die betimes. 140. If actions derive their guilt or piety from our in- tentions, then the meaneft foul may be a hero in religion : there can be no bounds fet to holy meanings ; my actions may be confined and fettered by impoflibilities, but my intentions are free as angels. After the refurrection, to all eternity, is time enough to reward pious actions j but therefore that, between death and judgment, the holy foul fliall be fully rewarded for all good intentions : as it did often APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 21 often do its part in piety without the body, fo it (hall re- ceive the glorious crown of righteoufnefs before it. 141. A Ikilful aftrologer, a flranger to Socrates, upon calculating his nativity, delineated him an ill-temper'd man, for which his ability was fufficiently queftioned -, but the good philofopher juftify'd the artift, faying * fuch ' as he defcribes me to be, I was born j but fince that time ' I have been born again, and my fecond nativity has c crofled my firft.' So Stilpo, a philofopher of Me gar a^ naturally given to wine and women, yet was never known debauched by either. 142. He that is in fuch a condition as places him above contempt, and below envy, cannot, by an enlargement of his fortune, be made really more rich, or more happy than he is. 143. I think it may not appear heterodox to fay, that as all men finned in Adam without their perfonal know- ledge or confent j fo fome may be faved in Chrift, with- out a particular or perfonal belief in him, of whom per- haps they never fo much as^ heard. 144. Pluralities and non-refidents were never heard of in the primitive ages, and it is a fhame there mould be fo many fat parfonages, and yet fo many lean parfons. It is the devil's market where church livings are bought and fold, and fuch fpiritual huckfters deferve to be whipt out of the temple. 145. Death never happens but once, yet we feel it e- very moment of our lives ; it is worfe to apprehend than to fuffer. Men mould confider, fince the end of life is inevitable, that all regrets for the lofs of it are in- figni- 22 A COLLECTION of lignifkant, and that the death which prevents dotage, comes more feafonably than that which ends it. 146. It is impofllble without being matter of a good addrefs to gain the publick efteem, and to make our ta- lents appear fo to advantage, that the world may never be difgufted or glutted with them. 147. The defire of glory the philofophers themfelves acknowledge to be the laft thing a wife man puts off; and if it is a bait which angels fwallowed, how hard muft it needs be for fouls ally'd to fenfe to refifl it ! 148. When people are injur'd, and know themfelves in- nocent, they are commonly negligent, believing that truth will bear out itfelf. 149. The true eftimation of living is not to be taken from age, but action ; a man may die old at forty, and a child at fourfcore. 150. A wife man will defire no more than what he may get juftly, ufe foberly, diftribute chearfully, and leave contentedly. 151. A wife man is provided for occurrences of any kind j the good he manages, the bad he vanquishes : in profperity be betrays no prefumption, in adveriity he feels no defpondency. 152. Critics are ufeful, that is moft certain, fo are ex- ecutioners and informers : but what man did ever envy the condition of Jack Ketch, or Jack P r. ' 1 SZ* Wits are generally the moft dangerous company a woman can keep, for their vanity makes them brag of more favours than they obtain. 154. A APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 23 A witty man is a good companion, but an ill con- fident. 155. It is prepofterous to pretend to reform the ftage before the nation, and particularly the town. The bufi- nefs of a dramatic poet is to copy nature, and reprefent things as they are. Let our peers give over whoring and drinking j the citizens cheating the clergy, their quarrels,, covetoufnefs and ambition ; the lawyers, their ambi-dex- trous dealings > and the women intriguing, and the ftage will reform of courfe. 156. The great pleafure fome people take in criticifing upon the frnall faults of a book, fo vitiates their tafte, that it renders them unfit to be affected with its beauties, 1 57. Nothing furprizes me more, than to fee men laugh fo freely at a comedy, and yet account it a filly weaknefs to weep at a tragedy. For is it lefs natural for a man's heart to relent upon a fcene of pity, than to be tranfport- ed with joy upon one of mirth and humour ? Or is it only the alteration of the features of our faces, that makes us forbear crying ? But this alteration is undoubtedly as great in an immoderate laughter, as in a moft defperate grief j and good breeding teaches us to avoid the one as well as the other, before thofe for whom we have a re- fpect. Or is it painful to us to appear tender-hearted, and exprefs grief upon a fiction ? But, without quoting great wits, who account it an equal weaknefs, either to weep or laugh out of meafure, can we expect to be tickled by a tragical adventure ? And befides, is not truth as natu- rally reprefented in that, as in a comical one ? Therefore, as we do not think it ridiculous to fee a whole audience laugh 24 A COLLECTION of laugh at a merry jeft or humour a&ed to the life, but, on the contrary, we commend the {kill both of the poet and the ador ; fo the great violence we ufe upon ourfelves, to contain our tears, together with the forced fmiles, with which we ftrive to conceal our concern, do forcibly evince, that the natural effect of a good tragedy, is to make us all weep by confent, without any more ado than to pull out our handkerchiefs to wipe off our tears. And if it were once agreed amongft us, not to refill thofe tender impreflions of pity, I dare engage that we fhould foon be convinced, that by frequenting the playhoufe we run lefs danger of being put to the expence of tears, than of being almoft frozen to death by many a cold, dull, in- fipid jeft. 158. Prudence and experience are the gifts of age; it is no difhonour to youth to be without that which age a- lone can give. 1 59. That which is fplendor, fumptuoufnefs, and mag- nificence in people of quality, is in private men extrava- gance, folly and impertinence. 1 60. Had Sampfon's head contained the tythe of that ftrength, faid to have refided in his heajt, a miflrefs had never underftood where it lay. 161. The contentednefs which fome pretend to, if well examined, means fomething of (loth, as well as moderation. 162. No trees bear fruit in autumn, unlefs they blof- fom in the fpring. To the end that my age may be pro- fitable and laden with ripe fruit, I will endeavour that my youth may be fhidious, and flowered with the bloffoms of learning and obfervation. 163. Love APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 25 163. Love refines a man's behaviour, but makes a wo- man's ridiculous. 164. To bear with the imperfections of our neighbour, is one of the chief points of love we owe him. 165. Grief, like fire, the more it is covered, the more it rages. 1 66. A continual and moderate fobriety is much better than violent abstinences, made by fits, and mingled with many intermiffions. 167. A gr.eat enhancement of pleafure arifes from its being unexpected, and pain is doubled by being forefeen. . 1 68. He who has learning, and not difcretion to ufe it, has only the advantage of having more ways to expofe himfelf. 169. He that hazards his life upon an honourable fcore, deferves the fame reward as if he had loft it. 170. Happy is the man who can be acquitted by him- felf in private, by others in publick, and by God in bo.th. 171. The indifcretion of talking too freely of one an- other, is the fource of thofe fo many differences which embroil mankind. Such as, having heard difobliging dif- courfes, repeat them again to the perfon concerned, are much mifiaken if they think to oblige him by thofe in- difcreet confidences ; it grates us to the heart, to hear a man who is fo imprudent to tell us to our faces vexatious things, tho' he only repeat what others have faid of us. 172. Juftice is the virtue with which the vulgar are moft affected, becaufe of its continual and common ufe. The Grecians efteemed Juftice above any other virtue, there- fore the vulgar for thefe three reafons ftand affected to- E wards 26 A COLLECTION of wards the Deity ; they think him bleft and happy for his want of death and corruption, they fear and reverence him for his power and dominion, but above all they love and a- dore him for his Juftice. 173. Inference is looked on as the great acl: of the ra- tional faculty, and fo it is when rightly made ; but the mind, either defirous to enlarge its knowledge, or very apt to favour the fentiments it has once imbibed, is forward to draw Inference, and therefore often makes too much hafte, before it perceives the connection of the ideas that muft hold the extremes together. 174. Charity will prompt me to prefer a greater con- cern of my neighbour's before a flight one of my own, but in equal circumftances I am at liberty to be firft kind to myfelf; but if I will recede even from that, I may; it is then to be accounted among the heroick flights of cha- rity, not her binding and indifpenfabk laws. 175. True religion, in general, is the obligation of rea- fonable creatures to render fuch ads of worfhip to God, as are fuitable to the excellency of his nature, and. their dependence upon him. 176. No man has reafon to think himfelf rejected of God, either from eternity, or in time, that does not find the prefent marks of reprobation in his ill intentions and actions. 177. Love is the epitome of our whole duty; and all the fweetnefles and endearments of fociety that can be, fo long as they are lawful and honeft, are not only confiflent with it, but parts and expreffions of it. 178. There is a happy contagion in goodnefs; we may per- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 2 y perhaps be kindled like green wood by the neighbouring flame. The example of another's zeal may awaken mine ; thofe {howers of benediction which the prayers of good people bring down are fo plentiful, that fome drops at leaft may fcatter upon thofe about them. 179. Wifdom, valour, juftice, and learning, cannot keep a man in countenance, that is- pofferTed with thofe ex- cellences, if he wants that lefs art of life and behaviour called good breeding. A man endowed with great perfec- tions without this, is like one who has his pockets full of gold, but always wants change for ordinary occafions. 1 80. Thofe who perpetually praife themfelves, and blame others, look as if they meant to make their own figures appear brighter by thefe fhades, and to recom- mend their own conduct by cenfuring that of their neigh- bours. j 8 1 . We ought always to make choice of perfons of fuch worth and honour for our friends, that if they fhould ever ceafe to be fo, will not abufe our confidence, nor give us caufe to fear them if enemies. 182. However partial hiftory is in mentioning the ac- tions of great men, which will not allow them to parti- cipate with the vulgar in the weaknefles incident to human nature, yet every the greateft fpirit has its allay of imbe- cillity. The moft knowing fcholar has found a period beyond which his curious fearch could not move-; the wi- fe ft politician has difcerned when he erred, and blumed at the miftake j and the boldeft foldier, at fome time or o- ther, has found the coward trembling in him. We may 2 by 28 ^COLLECTION of by our endeavours raife nature above her frailty, but never triumph over her till death. 183. It is a remark of Antljlhenes y that if a man would lead a fecure and unblameable life, he fhould either have ingenuous and honeft friends, or very fharp and bitter ene- mies ; becaufe the firft, by their kind admonitions, would keep him from finning ; the latter, by evil words, and vehement invectives. An enemy fees and underflands more in matters relating to us than our friends do, becaufe in P/afo's opinion love is blind, efpecially in difcerning the thing beloved -, but fpite, malice, ill-will, wrath and contempt, are very inquifitive and quickfighted : friend- ihip is grown fpeechlefs, and has left off that freedom it did once ufe; therefore we mufl expect to hear truth only from the mouths of our enemies. 184. Forgiving enemies is only a private virtue, not the rule of publick government. 185. A vow is a kind of prifon, which reftrained na- ture has a mind to break, 1 86. There is no greater enemy to mankind than folly > that poor, bafe, low, fordid, flavifh condition, which ren- ders a man wearifome to himfelf, and contemptible to o~ thers, expofed to every one's deceit and craft, a flave to. his own paffions, and others flattery, a flock whereon to graft any vice, fhame, or mifery. 187. As thofe bodies are commonly themofl healthful that break out in their youth, fo many times the fouls of men prove the founder for having vented themfelves in their younger days : none are obferved to become greatey enemies of vice, than thofe that have been the flaves of APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 29 it, and are fo bleffed and happy as to have broke their chain. 1 88. Since human nature is moft delighted with thofe actions to which it is moft accuftomed, then how abfo- lutely neceflary is it for us to gain habits of virtue in this life, if we would enjoy the eternal pleafures of the next ! Heaven will not be capable of affecting thofe minds which are not qualified for it ; we muft in this world gain a re- lifh of truth and virtue, if we would be able to tafte that knowledge and perfection which are to make us happy in the next. The feeds of thofe fpiritual joys and raptures, which are to rife up and flourifli in the foul to all eter- nity, muft be planted in her during this her prefent ftate of probation : in fhort, heaven is not to be looked upon only as the reward, but as the natural effect of a religious life. On the other hand, thofe evil fpirits who by long cuftom have contracted in the body habits of fenfuality, malice, and revenge, and an averfion to every thing that is good, juft, and laudable, are naturally feafoned and prepared for pain and mifery > their torments have already taken root in them ; they cannot be happy when diveft- ed of the body, unlefs we may fuppofe that providence- will in a manner create them a- new, and work a miracle in the rectification of their faculties. They may indeed tafte a kind of malignant pleafure in thofe actions to which, they are accuftomed whilft in this life, but when they are removed from all thofe objects which are here apt to gratify them, they will naturally become their own tor- menters, and cherim in themfelves thofe painful habits: of mind, which are called, in fcripture phrafe, the worm which go A COLLECTION of which never dies. This notion of heaven and hell is fo very conformable to the light of nature, that it was dif- covered by feveral of the moft excellent heathens ; it has been finely improved by many eminent divines of the laft age, particularly "Tillotfon and Sherlock j but there is none who has raifed fuch noble fpeculations on it, as .Scoff, in his firft book of the Chriftian life, which is one of the fineft and moft rational fchemes of divinity that is written in our tongue, or any other. That excellent au- thor has mewn how every particular cuftom and habit of virtue will, in its own nature, produce the heaven, or a flate of happinefs in him who mall hereafter praclife it : as, on the contrary, how every cuftom and habit of vice will be the natural hell of him in whom it fublifts. 189. The foundation of a vigorous old age is a good conftitution of the body, and to keep good order and go- vern ourfelves by the rules of temperance in youth, the effects whereof are the beft provilion we can lay in for age ; for intemperance not only brings gray hairs, but green years, with forrow, to the grave. 190. An uncultivated mind, like unmanured ground, will foon be over-run with weeds. 191. All cannot be happy at once, becaufe the glory of one eftate depends upon the ruin of the other, where arriving at their meridian, they decline in obfcurity, and fail under the horizon again. 192. Self-denial is not only the greater foundation of all civil virtues, but our Saviour alfo made it his firft law and condition to all his difciples ; and there is none above the APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 31 the neceffities of life, but has frequent opportunities of exercifing this noble quality. 193. Poverty is then only matter of difgrace and re- proach, when it is attendant on iloth and idknefs, or wantonnefs and prodigality. 1 94. From knowing much proceeds the admirable va- riety and novelty of metaphors, fimilitudes, &c. which are not to be met with in the compafs of a narrow know- ledge. 195. Nopaffionfo ftrong in men, and fo univerfal in all ages and nations, as that of acquiring glory by publick fervices. Not only ftatues and triumphs, but even crowns of leaves, beftowed as a national acknowledgment of dif- tinguiming merit, have always been perfued with as much eagernefs and danger, as ever the reward of riches pof- fibly can. 196. The dotage afcribed to old age is, in fbme, not fo much the effect of time, or a returning to, as a con- tinued flay with childhood ; for they that want the curi- ofity of furniming their memories with the rarities of na- ture in their youth, and pafs their time only in making provi- fion for eafe, and fenfual delight, are children ftill at what years foever. Wifdom and virtue are the only preferva- tives. ,197. The flothful perfon, like an arrow from a feeble bow, falls fhort of what he aims at; therefore let fome good act or another, be flill as an anchor to the floating- mind. 198. Fortune may begin a man's greatnefs, but it is virtue that muft continue it* 199- ^ 32 A COLLECTION of 199. O temperance ! thou virtue without pride, and fortune without envy, that giveft indolence of body, and tranquillity of mind, the beft guardian of youth, and fup- port of old age, the precept of reafon as well as religion, and phyfician of the foul as well as of the body, the tu- telar goddefs of health, and univerfal medicine of life ! 200. It is not Cuftom (as Plutarch obferves) which makes even the beft life pleafant to thofe who choofe it, but it muft be Prudence in conjunction with it, which not only makes it the beft for its kind, but fweeteft for its enjoyment. 201. The lives of heroes have enriched hiftory, and hiftory in requital has embellimed and heightened the lives of heroes ; fo that it is no eafy matter to determine which of the two is more beholden to the other : either hifto- rians, to thofe who have furnifhed them with fo great and noble a matter to work upon j or thofe great men, to thofe writers that have convey'd their names and atchieve- ments down to the admiration of after- ages. 202. The name of the author ought to be the laft thing we enquire into, when we judge of the merit of an inge- nious competition ; but, contrary to this maxim, we ge~ nerally judge of the book by the author, inflead of judg-* ing of the author by the book. 203. If every one who hears or reads a good fentence or maxim, would immediately confider how it does any way touch his own private concern, he would foon find that it was not fo much a good faying, as a fevere lafli to the ordinary beftiality of his judgment ; but men re- ceive the precepts and admonitions of truth as generally direct- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 33 directed to the common fort, and never particularly to themfelves, and inftead of applying them to their own manners, do only very ignorantly and unprofitably commit them to memory, without fuffering themfelves to be at all intruded or converted by them. 204. There goes as much wifdom and ability in the im- proving of a friend's advice, as in the adviling and conduct- ing ourfelves. 205. Infult not mifery, neither deride infirmity, nor ridicule deformity; the firft mews inhumanity, the fecond folly, and the third pride. He that made him miferable, made thee happy to lament him : he that made him weak, made thee ftrong to fupport him : he that made him de- formed, if he has made thee otherwife, mew not thy in- gratitude to thy great creator, by defpifing any of his creatures. 206. The commonalty, by their quiet and profit, moft commonly meafure the virtue and piety of their princes. 207. Our buildings, like our children, are obnoxious to death, and time fcorns their folly, who place a perpetuity in either. 208. Nature inftru&s us to a fubordination $ and as in" our own, fo in a politick body, 'tis monftrous either to have no head, or to have more than one. 209. Diforder is a great enemy to mankind, and has defrayed more than age, the fword, or peftilence - y order is the true parent of profperous fuccefs. 210. It is dangerous to flep ailde out of the path of innocence and virtue, upon any prefumption to be able to get into it again. F 211. Virtue 34 ^ COLLECTION of 211. Virtue is an act of loving that which is moft love- ly, and that act is Prudence, from whence not to be mov- ed by conftraint, is Fortitude, not to be allured by en- ticements, is Temperance, nor diverted by pride is Juftice : the declining this act is Vice. 212. Be not punctual in taking place of any man. If he be thy fuperior, it is his due ; if thine inferior, it is his dimonour ; it is thou muft honour thy place, not thjr place thee. 213. Perception is the inlet of knowledge. All natu- ral philofophy, which is not built upon experiment, is but a meer conjectural amufement. 214. Ill fortune is not content with bringing us into ca- lamitous circumftances, but' me makes us more tender and fenfible of every thing that wounds us - y and nature, which ought to refift her, is in confederacy with her, and gives us a more exquiiite fenfe of our misfortunes. 215. Pomp and fplendor fatisfy not all thofe whom they furroundj the excefs of delight palls the appetite oftner than it pleafes it. 216. Since all the advantages of nature and fortune, joined, are not able to create an entire happinefs in this life, we fhould therefore fearch for it without difquiet, enjoy it without eagernefs y and lofe it without regret. 217. Happy is that mind which can entirely reii ft fome paffions, and only unbend itfelf to fome others. It would be then void of fear, fadnefs, hatred, or jealoufy ; it would defire without violence, hope without impatience, and enjoy without tranfport. 218. A man will never be either learned or agreeable, if APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 35 if he does not apply himfelf to reading ; without that, the beft natural parts are commonly dry and barren. 219. You are fo far from obliging a man by relating to him the ill things that have been faid of him, that you are quickly paid for your indifcretion, by becoming the firft object of his averlion and refentment. 220. With difcretion the vicious preferve their honour, and without it the virtuous lofe it. 221. Take heed how you difguife yourfelf, and copy o- thers. Stick to nature if you defire to pleafe, for whatever is fictitious and affected, is always infipid and diftafleful. 222. Benefits increafe or diminim friendfliip according to the different circumftances that accompany them. A man's blood rifes againft thofe that difcover their regret to do him a pleafure, there is as much art required in giving as refufing. A denial, qualify'd with fome foftnings, and a great demonflration of fincerity, does not offend rational perfons. 223. Sloth contracts a ftagnation of humours, numb- nefs of the joints, dulnefs of the brain : By it the fpirit is re- laxed, the underftanding unbent, and over-grown with Tuft and rubbifh, and the memory perifhed and con- founded. 224. If we did but reflect, it would be eafy to obferve that the too great defire of out-mining and dazzling o- thers, renders converfation difagreeable. We are willing at any rate to give a great idea of our merit ; this defire puts us upon a flow of talk, without giving others the lei- lire or opportunity to exert their finall talents, and fo they F 2 depart 36 A COLLECTION of depart four'd and provok'd againft thofe that have thus kept them in amufement. 225. Diicourfes of ourfelves and our own actions ought to be very feldom, and very well chofen, except it be. ta intimate friends. 226. Refervednefs is the fource, and flownefs of belief the finew, of prudence. It is wifdom fometimes to feem a fool, at leafl ignorant, by that means to lie out of the reach of obfervation and jealoufy. 227. Never aflent ineerly to pleafe, for that betrays a fervile mind ; nor contradict to vex, for that argues an ill temper and ill-breeding. 228. Old age is the haven of evils, therefore all things- haflen to it. 229. Arlftoth obferves that old men are more incredu- lous than others, becaufe the ufe and experience they have had of the uncertainty of things awakens their cir- cumfpection, and holds them upon their guard. 230. To retract, or mend a fault, at the admonition of a friend, hurts your credit or liberty no more, than if you had grown wifer upon your own thought. For it is flill your own judgment and temper, which, makes you fee your miftake, and willing to retrieve it. 231. Nothing in the world is fo unfmcere, as the afking and receiving of advice. He that afks it, feems to yield a refpectful deference to the opinion of his friend, and all the while only deiigns to have his own approved, and fhelter his own actions under the authority of another. On the other fide, he that gives it, returns, as one would think, the confidence of others with an ardent and im- partial APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 37 partial zeal, and yet has generally no other aim but his own honour or interefl. 232. Some people are not to be dealt withal, but by a train of myftery and circumlocution j a downright admo- nition looks more like the reproach of an enemy, than the advice of a friend >, or,, at befr, it is but the good of- fice of a man that has an ill opinion of us j and we do not naturally love to be told of our faults by the witneiles of our failings*. 2:3 3 . Young men that come firil upon the flage of the world, ought to be either very modefl, or very brifk ; for a fober, grave, and compofed temper, commonly turns to> impertinence. 234. Since our defires increafe with our riches, is not a man by fo much the more miferable, the more he pof- felTes ? 235. Reafon is the molt raifed faculty of human na- ture : No perfons better deferve the name of men, than; fuch who allow their reafon a full employment; no gufb fo exquiiite as that of the mind. They are little better than brutes, who can patiently fufFer the imprifonment of their intellects in a dungeon of ignorance. 236. Religion is the beft armour, but the worfr, cloak. 237. Wine is fuch an odd whetftone for wit, that if it: be often fet thereon, it will quickly grind all the fteel out, and fcarce leave a back where it found an edge. 238. Women will bring forrow, and your bottle mad- nefsj therefore go to neither. 239. Probably the reafon why many men, who are fuf- fkiently dull in other matters, yet can talk profanely, and: fpeak. 38 A COLLECTION of fpeak againft religion, with fome kind of fait and fmart- nefs, is, becaufe religion is the thing that frets them ; their confciences are galled by it, and that makes them winch and fling as if they had fome mettle in them. 240. It proceeds from a weak judgment, to credit all you hear, and imitate all you fee. 241. The fault which you fuffer in your friend, you fland guilty of yourfelf. 242. Large encomiums the fcripture has given to feve- ral learned men. Mofes was famous for being verfed in all the learning of the Egyptians : and Solomon for his ge- neral knowledge, particularly in plants, from the cedar to the hyflbp. Daniel was chief of the magicians ; Abra- ham was a great aftronomer ; David and Job were emi- nent phiiofophers, &c. Learning, if rightly apply'd, makes a young man thinking, attentive, and induftrious, confident and wary $ an old man chearful and refer ved. It is an ornament in profperity, a refuge in adverfity, an entertainment at all times, it chears in folitude, and mo- derates upon a throne. 243. Depravation of one fenfe, doubles the vigour of another. 244. None fo ftricl: exactors of modefty from others, as thofe who are moft prodigal of their own. 245. Power is weakened by the full ufe of it, but ex- tended by moderation. I choofe rather to win by kind- nefs into a voluntary compliance, than to awe by feverity into a forced fubjection. 246. If men could but reflect on and confider the great, the generous feeds planted in them, that might (if right- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 39 ly cultivated) ennoble their lives, and make their virtue ve- nerable to futurity, how could they, without pain, per- ceive the univerfal degeneracy from that publick fpirit, which ought to be the firft and principal motive of all their actions ? The Greeks and Romans were wife enough to keep up this great incentive ; with them 'twas impof- fible to be in the fafhion without being a patriot. All ga- lantry had its firft fource from hence ; and to want a warmth for the publick welfare was a defect fo fcandalous,. that he who was guilty of it, had no pretence to honour or manhood. When the univerfal bent of a people feems diverted from the fenfe of their common good and glo- ry, it looks like a fatality, and crifis of impending ruine. 247. It proceeds from the height of incivility, and a fordid education, to ridicule any one for their natural in- firmities or imperfections ; no reproaches vex people more : They who have the true tafte of converfation enjoy them- felves in a communion of each other's excellencies, and not in a triumph over their imperfections. There are fome tempers fo fweet and obliging, that they take pleafure in obferving the virtues and perfections of others ; fo that whatever faults they have of their own, are overlooked, concealed, or winked at, out of common gratitude, by all their acquaintance. 248. Prudence requires all wife men to weigh their ac- tions in the balance of reafon, and to judge whether there be any due proportion, between the hazard run, and the end propofcd. 249. There are but two means in the world of gaining by other men, that is, by being either agreeable or ufefuh 250. Storms 4O A COLLECTION of 250. Storms and tempefts give reputation to pilots. Our moderation .has much lefs to apprehend from the mi- feries of adverfity, than the fnares of plenty ; but then it is infinitely more glorious to furmount the former, than to efcape the latter. 251. If a merchant mifcarry, courtiers will fay of him, he is a pitiful cit, a fneaking trader, a coxcomb - } if he profper, they will court him for his daughter. 252. If fome of our fleeping anceftors mould come to life again, and fee their great names and titles, their fplen- did palaces, and vaft eftates, enjoyed by thofe whofe fa- thers, perhaps, were their farmers, I wonder what opi- nion they would have of the prefent age. 253. The duties of interment are juftly called the loft duties^ for beyond the funeral, all that is given to the dead is taken away from the living. Lamentations that are too long, not only prejudice nature, but fociety like- wife; they render us incapable of the duties of a civil life, and one may fay, that, out of complaifance to thofe friends we have loft, they make us wanting to thofe we flill enjoy. 254. The pleafure of fociety and converfation betwixt friends is entertained by a fimilitude of manners, and a little difference of opinions in the fciences. By this it is that a man either confirms and pleafes himfelf in his own fentiments, or exercifes and inftru&s himfelf by the dif- pute. 255. The wife man adapts himfelf to the feveral hu- inours and inclinations of thofe he converfes with. 256. The following confideration may abundantly ferve to APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 41 to teach us to pardon injuries. The committers of them muft be either chofen, or reprobate ; if the firft, how dare we to hate thofe, whom God mall eternally love ? And if the other, are not the flames which mall eternally devour them fufficient to quench our thirll of revenge ? -257. Paft enjoyments are anxious, paft fufFerings plea- fmg in the reflection. The memory of the one makes us underftand our ftrength, the other our weaknefs. 258. There are few men but what iland indebted to ad- verfity for tneir virtues. 259. Our pleafures would be infipid, if fome difap- pointment did not heighten their relim. 260. The continual fociety, of even the beft men, be- comes at length tirefome or infenfible, which makes thofe perfons that have a delicate apprehenfion of pleafure, vo- luntarily remove themfelves from one another, to avoid the difgitft that threatens them, and to have a better tafte of the charms of converfation, by a new vigour, which they beflow upon their thoughts. 261. Of all enemies, thofe of a cowardly temper are moft to be feared j for their want of courage makes them ufe private revenges and treacheries; when a va- liant man attacks you openly, and gives you warning, that you may ftand upon your guard. 262. Having put in the balance and weighed the Pro- teflant religion with all others that are extant, I now make that the object of my choice, which before was only the effect of prepoflemon j and as I was lifted a foldier of Chrift in my baptifm, fo now I declare myfelf a volun- teer in his fervice; what was then done without my G know- 42 1 A COLLECTION of knowledge, I now ratify by my free confent, and I re- folve not to change my banner as long as I live. 263. It is no folecifm in divinity, to fay, that the prince of peace is the lord of hofts. The church militant is his army, compos'd of many battalions, in different pofts,, and under various orders. So long as they all ferve the great captain of our falvation, and praclife well the difci- pline of their arms, I refufe not to give the word of peace to any, let him be of what company foever. 264. We mould diftinguim between the refolution of a hero, and the resignation of a chriftian ; and betwixt the motion of philofophy, and the impulfe of religion. I would not have my foul numbed with a floical infenfibi- lity, but calmed with a chriftian patience, the refult of moderation not floth. 265. The lefs the occafion of fin, the greater the na- ture of it. Sins, like fhadows, towards the evening of life grow great and monftrous ; and as wounds torment us moft towards night, fo do the wounds of confcience near the night of death. 266. I can pray kneeling, ftanding, or fitting, either at my bufinefs, or at my repaft, with or without words and ceremonies j and this 1 take to be the only method of com- plying with St Paul's counfel, when he bids us pray with- out ceo/ing. A fwift and pious ejaculation often does the office of a multitude of words (though the moft apt and elegant in human language) fince God underftands the dialed: of the heart, as well as that of the tongue, being the architect of both. In all this I aim at a devotion, that is mafculine and folid, difcreet and humble, fincere and modeft, APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 43 modeft, full of primitive reverence, and the fervour of the firfr, ages. 267. If I am not fo happy as I defire, it is well J am not fo miferable as I deferve : I have received much more good than I have ever done, and done more evil than I have ever fuffered. 268. He that conftantly makes head againft the affaults of Fortune, mail be fure at lafl to be victorious, and his ends. FORTUNE a goddefs is to fools alone ^ The wife are always mafters of their oit?n* 269. Though filence is not always the mark of a man, yet noife and impertinence certainly difcover die fool. 270. The fullen melancholy, the auftere, grave, and filent obferver are feldom beloved. 271. Punimment is as natural an effect pf fin, as fmok$ is of fire ; we muft put out the one, in order to prevent the other. 272. The fearcher of knowledge may be called induf* trious, the knower fkilful, the ufer prudent, the confirm- er expert, the abufer crafty, but the inventer is only witty $ invention being the moil painful action of the mind. 273. He that difcovers his fecret to another, fells him his liberty, and becomes his flave ; but if he reveal ir, the reproach is his, tho* the inconvenience be mine, nor would I exchange my damage for his difgrace. 274. Since God is pleafed to call the body the temple and refidence of his My fpirit, our affections {hould not turn it to a brothel-houfe, our pafiions to a bedlam, nor our exceifes to an hofpital. G 2 275. As 44 ^ COLLECTION of 275. As the fear of God is the beginning of mjdom\ fo the love of him is the end of the law. 276. Hiftory tells us of illuftrious debauchees, but there never was an illuftrious mifer in nature, grandeur of foul cannot confht with the fordid bafenefs of avarice : Betides, what can be more unjuft than to keep up that which is the foul of commerce, and affords us the conve- niences of life, to make no ufe at all of it ? It is to per- fevere in the crime, and to rob the publick, by a conti- nual theft, of what was once extorted from private per- fons. Thofe that take away with violence, in order to difperfe with profulion, are much more excufable. 277. Our all-knowing maker referves to himfelf the fole intelligence of his work, he animates the fprings of our foul, but he conceals from us- the admirable fecret that makes them move. 278. It is an error to condemn pleafures as pleafures, and not as they are unjufl and unlawful - } let them be ne- ver fo innocent, the excefs is criminal, not only brings dif- grace but diflatisfa&ion, and hurts the conftitution no lefs than the credit. 279. Pleafure has no influence on minds that are cor- rupted and fpoiled with all forts of debauchery and excefs, the irregularities of the body darken the light of the reaibn. 280. Where there is no capacity,, there perfuafion is. vain ; for wifdom cannot be profitable to a fool, nor wit to him that does not know how to ufe it. 281. Commerce with die world furnifhes us with plea- fure, while we are capable of r-eliming it, and it would be the APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 45 the higheft ingratitude to be a burthen to it, when we can give it nothing but difguft : I would rather live in a de- fart, than give my friends occafion to pity me, or to fur- uifli thofe that are not fo with a fubjed for their mali- cious mirth and raillery ; but the mifchief is, a man is not fenfible when he becomes weak and ridiculous. 282. Too auftere a philofophy makes few wife men > too rigorous a government, few good fubjeds ; too harm, a religion, few devout fouls ; I mean that will long con- tinue fo> for nothing is durable that is not fuitable to our nature. 283. There is a great deal of difference between wri- ting well, and talking well ; the ftile of an orator is of another nature, than that of a well-bred converfation j this muft be eafy in the delivery, proper in the phrafe,, but as mort as may be ; the other admits of more various decorations, a loftier phrafe, and a larger extent. 284. The world mall allow a man to be a wife man,' a. good naturalift, a good mathematician, politician or poet, but not a fcholar, or learned man, unlefs he be a philologer, and understands Greek and Latin. But, for my part, I take it, thefe Gentlemen have juft inverted the ufe of the term, and given that to the knowledge of Words, which belongs more properly to Things. I take nature to be the book of univerfal learning, which he that reads beft in all or any of its parts is the greateft fcholar, the moft learned man ; and it is as ridiculous for a man to count himfelf more learned than another, if he has no greater extent of knowledge of things, becaufe he is more verfed in languages^ as it would be for an old , ' fellow 46 A COLLECTION of fellow to tell a young one, his own eyes were better than the other's, becaufe he reads with fpectacles, the other without. 285. It is the part of a blockhead to be troublefome ; a man of wit and fenfe is fenfible whether his company is agreeable or not, and difappears a moment before the time when his vifit might be accounted tedious. 286. Marriage enlarges the fcene of our happinefs and miiery ; the marriage in love is pleafant, the marriage of intereft eafy, and a marriage where both meet, happy. An happy marriage has in it all the pleafures of friend- fhip, all the enjoyments of fenfe and reafon, and indeed all the fweets of life. Nothing is a greater mark of a de- generate and vicious age, than the common ridicule which paffes on this {rate of life. It is indeed only happy in thofe, who can look down with fcorn or neglect on the impieties of the times, and tread the paths of life toge- ther in a conftant, uniform courfe of virtue. 287. Chaftity muft needs be a divine quality, fince even the enemies of it efteem it, and that the moft debauched re- fpect them lefs that yield, than thofe that hold out. Re- fpect waits upon defire, and neglect follows pofieflion. 288. Truth and Juftice are the foundations of life; and, as Tu/fy obferves, without confidence in each other, as to fome kind of Juftice, the life even of robbers and pirates is incapable of being carried on. A juft diftribu- tion of prey is abfolutely neceffary among them 3 and thieves, who are enemies to Juftice, will follow no cap- tain whom they think without it. 289. Endeavour to be religious without fuperflition, juft with- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 47 without rigour, merciful without partiality, cautious with- out fear, valiant without rafhnefs, and great without pride* 290. The fpeaking well of all mankind is the word fort of detraction, for it takes away the reputation of the few good, by making them all alike. 291. A probable lye will fooner be believed than a pro- digious truth. 292. Moft men like people better with agreeable faults^ than ofFenfive virtues. 293. The fpring of life, is that critical inftant that muft either confirm, or blaft the hopes of all fucceeding feafons. The firft impreffions the world takes of us, fel- dom or never wear out. 294. Such as intend to infufe any goodnefs into the minds of youth, muft firft exclude their pride, and felf- conceit, as we fqueeze air out of a bladder j becaufe while they are puffed up with arrogance, there is no room to admit any thing ferious or folid. 295. Diftil religion into your child as foon as it can diftinguim founds. 296. As fome women lofe their reputation rather for want of difcretion, than for want of virtue, fo others pre- ferve theirs by their difcretion only. 297. Moft people mew in their affliffiom more ambi- tion than piety ; for when any body is within hearing, what groans and outcries do they make ! but when they are alone, and in private, all is hum and quiet : fo foon as any body comes in, they are at it again, but their forrow goes off with the company. 298. Ywng people change their tafte and inclinations by 48 A COLLECTION of "by the mettle and heat of blood ; and old ones keep theirs, by the fullennefs of habit and cuftom. 299. A woman is never indifferent as long as me com- plains of the falfhood of her lover ; for if me did not re- tain an affedtion for the vow -breaker, me would not be uneafy at his perfidioufnefs. 300. Women are generally cheated in their firft in- trigue, as men are commonly bubbled when they firfl en- ter upon play. 301. Moft women judge of the merit and per fond ac- compUJhments of men, by the impreffion they make upon them i and will fcarce allow any to that man, whom they can fee without concern. 302. It is eafy for a woman to fay what me does not feel, but it is yet more eafy for a man to fay what he does feel. 303. Againil the difeafes of the mind, fear and defire, let fortitude and temperance be your fhield and buckler ; for the one bears off the. injuries of fear, and the other fupports the mind from languifhing under defires not at- tainable. 304. The humours of youth and age differ fo widely, that there had need be a great deal of fkill to compofe the difcord into harmony. 305. Want of fuccefs in our actions is generally owing to want of judgment in what we ought to attempt, or a ruftick modefty which will not give us leave to undertake what we ought. But how unfortunate this different dif- fident temper is, to thofe who are poffefled with it, may beft APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 49 beft be feen in the fuccefs of fuch as are wholly unac- quainted with it. 306. A private education feems the moil natural for the forming a virtuous man. A publick fchool fits better in giving a manly afTurance, and an early knowledge in the ways of the world j belides, children, there, frequently contract fuch friendmips, as are of fervice to them, all the following parts of their lives. 307. It is obferved, that when men are conquered by reafon, who have little or none of their own to oppofe, they fly to violence, and with their fwords furioufly cut the knot, which they cannot untie ; there cannot be a greater evidence of brutifh minds, than a baffled caufe. 308. If we infer a neceflity of events, man's endeavours are vain. 309. If God has given you a comely body, praife him for it, and defire it may be neither an occafion of fin in yourfelf or others ; if not, be not peevim or repining, fubmit to this abafement, as the punimment of fin, which was the great deformity that introduced all others into the world : take care to fecure an happy refurrection ; then, all thefe deformities, the marks of fin, mall be done a- way, and the moft pure and perfect foul fhall have the mofl bright and purified body. 310. No power can exempt princes from the obligations to the eternal laws of God and nature. In all difputes between power and liberty, power muft always be proved, but liberty proves itfelf, the one being founded upon po- fitive laws, the other upon the laws of nature. 311. The favourite of the Prince might be the favou- H rite 50 A COLLECTION of rite of the People, if he could be as humble after advance- ment as 'he was before - y but height of profperity makes- moft men giddy, and their infolence generally tumbles them from that eminence to which a bafe fubmiflion raifed them. 312. Admiration is commonly the effect of a grofs ig- norance, great admirers are commonly great fools. You are allowed to fay that a thing pleafes you, or to fignify by fome fign that you are affected with what you fee or hear ; but intemperate outcries, and violent motions, that denote an extraordinary furprize, are commonly figns of impertinence,, and of a grovelling foul, foolifhly prodigal of its incenfe. 313. There is no fuch thing as principles in 'women* They conduct themfelves by the heart, and depend for their manners upon thofe they love. 314. Women go further in love than men, but men out- ftrip them in frwndjhip. 315. Caprice, in women, is generally an attendant of beauty, to be, as it were, its antidote againft the further mifchief it might do to the men. 316. There are few love-intrigues that are kept fecret; and a great many ladies are as well known by their gal- lants as by their hujbands. 317. Vanity, flame, and efpecially a fuitable conflitu- tion, are generally the caufes of the courage of men, and the 'virtue of women* 318. There is a vaft difference between die difgufts that an old engagement gives us, and the pleafant inquie- tudes of a growing paffion, Jn a new amour, we pafs every APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 51 every hour of the day with frefh fatisfadtion j it is an un- expreffible pleafure to find that our love grows upon us every minute ; but in a paffion of an old Handing, our time is fpent very uneafily, in ftill loving lefs, or not loving at all. 319. Bad wme, and ugly women, are better arguments foefo&riety and continence, than what all the volumes of morality can afford. 320. Inordinate felf-love is the ruine of fociety ; perfons of this character are as it were unhinged from the uni- verfe, and of no ufe in the world j they are crowded and wrapped up in themfelves, and never extend beyond their own circumference. 321. If in this life only we have hope, we fhould not only be of all men, but of all creatures, the mofl miferable. 322. No man can complain that his profeffion takes him off from religion ; his profeffion itfelf is God's fervice, and if it be moderately perfued, and according to the rules of chriftian prudence, it will leave void fpaces e- nough for publick and private devotions. 323. What have the greateft part of the comments and difputes upon the laws of god and man ferved for, but to make the meaning more doubtful, and perplex the fenfe? What have been the effects of thofe multiplied diftinclions, and acute niceties, but obfcurity and uncertainty, leaving the words more unintelligible, and the reader more at a lofs ? How elfe comes it to pafs, that princes fpeaking or writing to their fervants their ordinary commands, are ea- fily underftood ; fpeaking to the people in their laws are not fo ? And does it not often happen, that a man of or- H 2 dinary 52 A COLLECTION of dinary capacity very well underftands a text, till he con- fults an expolitor, who, by that time he has done explain- ing it, makes the words either fignify nothing at all, or what he pleafes ? 324. Right reafon discovers to us our duty, and the ob- ligation we lie under to perform it -, it either infpires us with courage, or ferves us inftead of it. 325. The fenfe of fancy is richer than that of creation. Gold mines no where fo glorioufly, as in the mifer's head > and Ambition makes a crown fparkle much more, than all the refulgent jewels that adorn it. 326. The fcandal raifed by ill men is like dirt thrown by children and fools at random, without provocation j it may daub filthily at firfl, but is eafily warned out. I value the malice of fuch men as little as their friendmip, the one being as fickle, as the other is falfe. 327. The well-bred man's doubtful way of fpeaking, does not proceed from uncertainty in his opinion, but good nature, and a refined education. 328. Tho' there is nothing more diftant than wit and folly, yet, like eaft and weft, they may meet in a point, and produce actions that are but a hair's breadth from each other. 329. God's knowledge is all fimple and uncompound- ed, without reafoning or inferring, premifing or conclu- ding j fo'r he has ever before him, in one fimple view, the whole field of truth, and with one fingle adt of in- tuition glances through the whole poffibility of being. 330. Nothing is a greater argument of a brave foul, and impregnable virtue, than for a man to be fo much mailer of APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 53 of himfelf, that he can either take or leave thofe conve- niences of life, with refpect to which mod people are ei- ther uneafy without them, or intemperate with them. This was part of Socrafes's character. 331. The mark of a man of probity lies in keeping reafon at the head of practice, and being eafy in his con- dition : To live in a crowd of objects, without fuffering either in his fenfe, his virtue, or his quiet : To have a good understanding at home, and to be governed by that divine principle within him : To be all truth in his word?, and juftice in his actions : And if the whole world mould difbelieve his integrity, difpute his character, and queftion his happinefs, he would neither take it ill in the leaft, nor alter his meafures, but perfue the end of living, with all the honefty, eafe and refignation imaginable. 332. When any body's behaviour difturbs you, difmifs the image of the injury, and bethink yourfelf whether you have not been guilty of the fame fault. Such a re- flection will quickly make you cool, and come to temper, efpecially if you confider the offender was not altogether his own man, but under the force of fome outward paf- fion or other j you would do well therefore, if you can, to Step in to the refcue, and free him from the caufe of his diforder. 333. There is fomething fublime and noble in true art, which none who have not fublknity of genius can touch or arrive at. Quaintnefs and neatnefs are what will af- fect vulgar eyes more than the truth of the workman- fhip ; but take thofe who understand nature, and thofe who act by her unprejudic'd impulfe without fkill, and both 4 -^ COLLECTION of both of thefe kind of people fhall join in approving the hand of a mafter. 334. Be not diverted or delighted with the folly of an ideor, the fancy of -a lunatick, or the frenzy of a drunk- ard : make fuch.the object of thy pity, not thy paftime. 335. Plato fays, that fathers, thofe living images of God, have a great deal of force and efficacy to bring down all forts of bleffings upon their children/ who render them the honour which is due, and to make the moft frightful curfes fall upon their heads, when they fail therein j for God hears the prayers which parents addrefs to him, ei- ther for or againft their children. 336. To bear ficknefs with patience is a noble inftance of fortitude and grandeur of mind ; he that charges an enemy does not mew himfelf more brave, than he that grapples handfomely with a difeafe. To do this without abject complaints, without rage and expoftulation, is a moft glorious combat ; to be thus proof againft pain, is the clearer!: mark of greatnefs. It fets a man above the dread of accidents, in a ftate of liberty and credit ; be- ing thus fenced, he need not fear nor flatter any thing. The more we fink into the infirmities of age, the nearer we are to immortal youth : all people are young in the other world ; that fure is an eternal fpring, ever frelh and flourifhing. To pafs from midnight into noon on 1 a fud- den, to be decrepit one minute, and all fpirit and activity the next, mufl be an entertaining change. Health after ficknefs, and wealth after poverty, give double pleafure. 337. As you never faw any one unhappy in the perfuit of APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 55 of virtue, fo you will fee none miferable under the con- duct of providence. 338. A wife man ought to live no more in hope than fear, nor put it in the power of fortune to take any thing from, or add any thing to his felicity. . 339. To fpend much without getting, to lay out .all without reckoning, and to give all without coniidering > are the chief effects of a prodigal mind. 340. A good caufe may fuffer much when it is plead- ed by an improper and exceptionable advocate-. How fulfome is it to hear a coward harangue on valour, a. mi- fer on contempt of the world, &c. This commending, thofe good qualities, he neither has the honefly nor cou- rage to be mafter of, is in effect only a fa-tire on himfelf, and ferves to make him more ridiculous. 341. Gracefulnefs is to the body, what good fenfe is to the mind. 342. It is a great happinefs to have virtuous parents, relations, tutors and domeflicks j for it is from them we take up our principles. We are born naked, both as to mind and body, and put on any habit indifferently which is iirft offered us. 343. A man may be happy in any ground, provided he have the wit to chufe IKLS. fortune. Now if his manners be good, his fortune can never be bad j for happinefs lies in all the functions of reafon, in warrantable defires, and regular practices. 344. We muft not expect PJafo's commonwealth - y for as the world goes, a moderate reformation is a great point. If we can but govern people's hands, we muft let 56 A COLLECTION of let their hearts and their heads go free. To cure them all of their folly and principles, is impracticable. 345. Too tender a fenfe of what other people fay /'// of us, does but entertain the malice of the world, which defires no more but that it may difturb us. 346. The abfolute want of fuch a fenfe, fo as to be moved at nothing they fay, is a contrary extreme, that produces the fame effect. This is fuch a fort of contempt, as the 'world is concerned to revenge itfelf upon. 347. There are fome whofe fpeeches are witty, but their courage weak j whofe deeds are incongruities, while their words are apophthegms j it is not worth the name of Wifdom, which can be heard only, and not feen. Good difcourfe is but the reflection or fhadow of wifdom, the pure and folid fubftance is good actions. 348. Secrefy and celerity are the two poles upon which all great actions move; and the nobleft defigns are like a mine, which having any vent, is wholly fruftrate, and of no effect. 349. Content will give a relifh to all my pleafure, and make me epicurize upon my little fortune, and enjoy to the full height all that I have 5 whilft Covetoufnefs would let me ftarve in the midft of plenty, and make a beggar of me, though I wallowed in gold. Temperance and fo- briety will give me life and health, a calm and free ex- ercife of my reafon ; whilft glutony and drunkennefs will enervate my body, and ftupify my foul, make me live like a beaft, and die like a fool. For pleafure has a be- witching faculty, the more we tafte it, the more we hanker after it ; and therefore the beft way to avoid being capti- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 57 captivated by that Syren, is to flop our ears to her charms; when we have often balked our appetites, by denying them what they crave, they will in a while grow fo quiet, that they will crave no more. 350. Dr South in an extafy cries ont, " Oh ! how vaft- ly difproportionate are the pleafures of the eating and the thinking man ! as different, lays he, as an Archimedes in. the ftudy of a problem, and the ftilnefs of a fow at her warn." The pleafure of fpeculation has fometimes been, fo great, fo intenfe, fo ingroffing of all the powers of the foul, there has been no room left for other pleafures. Con- templation feels no hunger, nor is fenfible of any thirft but that after knowledge. 351. Though Chrift blefTes the poor, and pronounces woes to the rich, as having received their confolation, yet Abraham, Ifaac ) Jacob, Job, David and Solomon were fo. Neither riches nor poverty blefs or curfe any man, and none that are poor are blefTed if they be proud and high-minded, nor any rich man curfed but he that places his portion and confolation in riches. 352. Dull defpair is the foul's lethargy; roufe to the combat, and thou art fure to conquer. 353. They muft be mighty evils, that can vanquim a Spartan courage, or a Chriftian faith. 354. There is no forcing nature againft her biafs, or inverting the methods of providence. Irregular defires, and unreafonable undertakings, muft expect to meet with difappointments : There is a proper time for all things, and nothing fucceeds well but what is done in feafon. 355. All the extravagances of the lewdefl life, are no- I thing 58 A COLLECTION of thing elfe but the more confummated follies and diforders of either a mif- taught or a negledted youth 3 nay, all the publick outrages of a deftroying tyranny and oppreffion are but childifli appetites, let alone till they are ungovern- able. Wherefore children mould be moulded while their tempers are yet pliant and du or in their times. 3 57. The wife and active conquer difficulties by daring to attempt them 3 floth and folly fhiver and fink at the toil and hazard, and make the impoffibility they fear. 358. It is obferved that the moft delicate and volup- tuous princes have ever been the heaviefh oppreflbrs of the people 3 riot being a far more lavifli fpender of the com- mon treafure, than war or magnificence. 359. To fuperiors give refpect, deference, and fubmif- fion; to equals, affection and confidence; to every body, fincerity, and all the fervice in our power. 360. I would be civil to all, ferviceable to many, fa- miliar with few, a friend to one, and an enemy to none. 361. Let not thy table exceed the fourth part of thy in- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 59 income ; fee thy provifion be folid, and not far fetch'd, fuller of fubflance than art j be wifely frugal in thy pre- paration, and freely chearful in thy entertainments. 362. Let not the croaking of a raven, the crying of a cricket, or the croffing of a hare, trouble thy repofe j he is ill acquainted with himfelf, who does not know his fortune better than thofc creatures. If evil follows, it is the ptinifhment of thy fuperftition, not the fulfilling of their portent. 363. A man muft make but very few reflections upon life, if he defires to pals it happily : It is but a lafting fucceffion of expectations and difappointments. 364. It is flupidity to fet up our reft in a life that may terminate every moment ; meer curiofity will make us in- quifitive to know what mall become of us hereafter. 365. Great and fudden pafTions have caufed flrange extalies, and death itfelf fometirnes j the fpirits in grief flowing too fan: to the heart to fortify it, and in joy lea- ving the heart as fait to meet the object that caufes it. 366. Convey thy benefit to a friend, as an arrow to the mark, to (lick there ; not as a ball to rebound back to thee -, that friendship will not continue to the end, that is begun for interest. 367. Praife has always fomething grofs in it, if it lie too open, and go on in a direct line. Voiture^ one of the moft delicate wits of the age, fcarce ever commended any body but in drollery ; and of a long time none has done it with more fuccefs. The ftandards for praife are Homer and Virgil : Homer praifes not Achilles, but by a fimple and bare relation of his actions 3 and never was any 1 2 man 60 A COLLECTION of man praifed fo delicately as Auguftus by Virgil -, by covert paths he conducts him to glory. Certainly never man knew better the art of praifmg, for hefavesall the modefty of the perfon he praifes, even while he overwhelms him with it. The true art of praife is to fay laudable things limply, but delicately ; for praife is not to be endured unlefs fine, and hidden ; it is fo very hard a thing to praife as one ought,, that it is a rock which they that are wife will fhun. 368. Great men hide themfelves from publick view, like beafts of prey ; yet are fometimes worried by a pack of political hounds, called a parliament. 369. He will be much out in his account, who num- bers his friends by the vilits that are made him, and con- founds the decencies of ceremony and commerce with the offices of united affetfions. 370. There is no living in this world without an ex- change of civil offices, and the need we have one of an- other goes a great way towards the making us love one another : Now this amity and communication is to be en- tertained by the commerce of giving and receiving ; and without good nature and gratitude, men had as well live in a wildernefs, as in a civil fociety. 371. Women are pleafed with courtmip, and the moft difdainful" cannot but be complaifant to thofe that tell them they are handfome. 372. Several expreffions of the clergy in their prayers before fermon give offence, particularly the titles and epi- thets to great men j which are indeed due to them in their feveral ranks and ftations, but not properly ufed in our prayers. It is a contradiftion to fay illuftrious, right reve- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 61 reverend, and right honourable poor finners : thefe diftinc- tions are fuited only to our ftate here, and have no place in heaven : we fee they are omitted in the liturgy, and fure the clergy fhould take that for their pattern in their own forms of .devotion. 373. The minority of kings is the mifery of king- doms, being commonly attended with emulations and factions of great men. 374. Aim at purity of language, fublimity of ftile, propriety of phrafe, neatnefs of fimile, exadtnefs of ar- gument, choice of words, jufhiefs of examples, and e- very thing that conftitutes the beauty and harmony of a piece. 375. Sir Richard Steele bids us ufe a mathematical iieve, to fift impertinences and fuperfluities out of our difcourfe and writing, and to avoid excrefcences. 376. Love and ambition are commonly the raging fe- vers of great minds. 377. Reading too many books does rather burden the memory, than improve the understanding. 378. Unity is the life of chriftianity, becaufe it keeps up that love which is the fulfilling of the law. 379. It is uncivil and unfit fora man to oblige another to keep a promife difadvantageous to him, or one made in mirth, paffion, hafte, unadvifedly, incivility, &c. asalfonot to admit of a reafonable excufe in cafe of failure. 380. He that doubts not, knows either all things or no- thing ; and he that imagines never to commit an error, his next pretence may be to divinity j for perfection is not the attribute of a man* 3 82. Vic- 62 A COLLECTION of 381. Vi&ory does more often fall by the error of the vanquifhed, than by the valour of the victorious. 382. A low condition expofes the wifeft men to con- tempt : while we can keep our poverty a fecret, we can never feel the weight of it j there is nothing in a mean eftate ib intolerable, as the ridiculoufnefs of it ; for pa- tience is not fo much wounded by pain and lofs, as by derifion and contumely. 383. Nothing maintains itfelf fo long as a moderate for- tune, and nothing fo foon dwindles away as a great one. 384. There are two forts of avarice, a true, and a baftard : true covetoufnefs is a reftlefs and infatiable defire of riches, not for any further end or ufe, but only to hoard and preferve, 'and perpetually increafe them. This is the greateft evidence of a bafe, ungenerous mind, and, at the fame time, the higheft injuftice in the world. For what can be more unreafonable, than for a man to ingrofs to himfelf all that which is the common fupport and con- veniency of mankind, and to propagate his crime, by locking up his beloved treafures, and thereby robbing con- tinually the publick of what he has once gotten ? 385. There is one kind of affliction which never leaves us, I mean that which proceeds from the lofs of our for- tunes. Time, which foftens and allays all other griefs, does but exafperate and increafe this j for the fenfe of it renews, even as often as we feel the pinch of preffing ne- ceflities. 386. A dying man will give anything to fave his life, a living man as much to fave his money : A man mall readily proffer his fword, but hefitates if you would borrow fifty APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 63 fifty pounds 5 fo much ealier it is to be brave than kind. 387. A meer courtier, a meer foldier, a meer fcholar, a meer any thing, is equally ridiculous. 388. Few of Adam's children are fo happy as not to be born without fome biafs in their natural temper, which it is the bufmefs of education, either to take off, or coun- terbalance. 389. All our other paffions are to fome end ; love, to enjoy ; anger, to revenge ; fear, to avoid, and the like : But the paflion of grief ferves to no end or purpofe ini the world ; it cannot be its own end, becaufe it is in no 1 refpec~l good ; it is therefore utterly abfurd and unrea- fonable. 390. Ambition is a weed (if it may properly be called fo) that is apt to grow in the beft foils. 391. All popular difcontents have fomething of the na- ture of torrents 3 give them a little room to run, and they quickly draw off themfelves but if you offer pre- fently to obftruct their courfe, they fwell and fpread the more. 392. Never let the irregularities of your own life be the fubjecT: of your difcourfe, for men deteft in others thofe vices which they cherifh in themfelves. 393. Plots, when difcovered, ftrengthen the govern- ment they were defigned to mine. 394. Political jealoulies, like the conjugal, when once raifed, are hard to be fuppreiled. 395. All trufl is dangerous that is not entire ; it is beft to fpeak all, or conceal all. 396. The 64 -^ COLLECTION of 396. The fcriptures, no doubt, were indited by the holy ghofc ; for good men would not impofe fuch things on the world, and there is too much againft the bad, to believe them to be the authors of it. 397. Our troubles of mind muft either proceed from the fpirit of God, or the fuggeftions of the devil : if from God, it is an argument of fonmip and adoption ; if from the devil, it is an argument your cafe is yet the better; for he difturbs none that he is fure of, but is always rnofl bufy with thofe he is in greateft danger of lofing. 398. A man remarkably obliging is almoft proof againfl the moft malicious detractors, they will be afraid of one fo fortified in publick efteem ; the charms of kindnefs and affability are irrefiftible ; they conquer, captivate, and return in triumph over the affections of all men. 399. There are thofe that perform all the arts of life and good breeding with fo much eafe, that the virtue of their conduct looks more like inftinct than choice. 400. It is more glorious to overcome my paflions than my enemies : for if they are bad, I would not be friends to them j and if they are good, they will not long be e- nemies to me. 401. It is with our lives as with our eftates, a good hufband makes a little go a great way : Whereas let the revenue of a prince fall into the hands of a prodigal, it is vanifhed in a moment. So that the time allotted us, if it were well employed, were abundantly enough to an- fwer all the ends and purpofes of mankind. 402. The generality of mankind fink in virtue as they rife in fortune : how many hopeful young men, by the fud- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 65 fudden-acceffion of a good eftate, have deviated into de- bauchery, nay, turned abfolute rakes ! 403. It is hard to determine which is more troublefome to undergo to a man of fenfe, either the extreme refer ve and mynefs of fome women before they yield, or their fondnefs after they have yielded. 404. What women call inconflancy in us, is not an ar- gument of levity 9 but of their infufficiency to pleafe. 405. Nothing is fo unaccountable as the caprices of wo-. men : For it frequently happens, that the firft applications of a new face gain more upon them, than the long fer- vices of a conftant old one. , i 406. He that marries for riches, is agreeably difappoint- ed, if he meets with a good wife -, but that unexpected happinefs is feldom his lot. 407. A man breaks out into a paflion againft an un- faithful mijlrefs, and then forgets her ; a woman^ on the -contrary, makes but little noife at the infidelity of her lover, but keeps a long while her refentment. 408. Whifpering in company has ever been looked on as an excefs of ill manners ; for we have naturally a cu- riofity to divine what others fay, and feel a fecret indig- nation to be fhut out of the intelligence. 409. He muft be a very wife man that knows the true bounds and meafures of fooling, with refpect to time, place, matters, perfons, &c. But religion, bufinefs, and cafes of confequence muft be excepted out of that fort of liberty. 410. The ftronger the oppolition, the more noble the combat. Where there is no combat, there is no victory. K How 66 A COLLECTION of How can we exercife the grace of contentment, if all things fucceed well ; or that of forgivenefs, if we have no enemies ? If men could not be angry, they could not be meek ; and if they had no inclination to vice, they could not be virtuous, fince virtue is no more than the fubduing our vicious inclinations, 411. God's glory and our happinefs are fo infeparably conjoined, that we cannot aim right at either but we muil hit both j for God has not, throughout all his creation, an enfign of honour fo truly worthy of him, as that of a divine and pious foul, that reflects his image, and fhines back his own glories upon him. 412. One very great caufe why men that have often thought to reform their lives, and refolve againfl their e- vil courfes, yet repent of their repentance, their refolu- tion becoming frail and fruitlefs, is, becaufe they do not ufe mortification, to work their averfion high and ftrong againfl the fin, and fix their refolution. The univerfal fenfe of the Primitive Church confirms me in this con- clufion (fays Dr Allejlree)^ who for that reafon, in their penitential excommunications, did inflict fuch feverities as it is almoft incredible that Chriftians fhould fubmit to, yet they begged to be cenfured into them ; and thofe had St Paid for their precedent. But now our repentance is but fome tranfient diflike of our fin, fome faint and fruitlefs wifhes to do better. When we are under the apprehen- fion of God's wrath and punifhment, we make vows a- gainft our vices j but when that fit is over, and we by indulgence anew prepared for temptation, we fall again, and APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 67 and then perhaps we relent again, curfe the fin, and all the caufes of it, and call ourfelves unhappy that are fub- ject to fuch violent infirmities ; but ftill go on the devil's round, like men inchanted in a circle of finning and re- penting; and this is like to be our ftate till we in good earneft fet about the great work of mortification. It is true, what Clemens of Alexandria fays, this common prac- tice of finning and fuperficial repenting, as if we would give God and the devil their turns, is an argument of an impenitent and unbelieving temper. It is no faint refift- ance will make the temptations of the devil, the world, and the flefh give way ; we muft offer a refolute violence to all our earthly appetites, if we mean nobly to force our way through thefe almoft inevitable dangers. It is not for nothing that the fcripture bids us ftrive and fight, and wreftle and run, labour and watch, faft and pray, and work out our falvation with fear and trembling. There is nothing but auflerities will mortify the inclina- tions that ftir againft the fpirit ; by denying fruition to our appetites, we mail be able to calm and moderate our affections to every thing below, and then temptations will have neither aid nor avenue. 413. It is a hard tafk to fpeak of perfons nearly related to us, it being difficult either to commend or condemn them with decency. 414. Poor mortals are prefTed with cares for what is prefent, with forrows for what is pafl, and fears for what is to come. 415. There is a certain zeal, that operates with equal K 2 vio- 68 A COLLECTION of violence in all religions ; which, if well examined, is ei- ther pride, intereft, or ill nature. 416. Affliction and phyiick both imply a difeafe, and both are applied for cure. 4 j 7. Mufick is not more agreeable to a mufical ear, than flattery to vain-glorious people ; it is a charm that pleafingly bewitches them, and the wifeft of men give way to be tamed and foothed by this enchantment. We ought no more to receive the praifes we do not deferve, than the money that is not due to us. 418. Nothing contributes more to the happinefs of life than friendfhip ; but if the underftanding does not di- rect the heart, friends are more proper to difturb than pleafe us, and more capable of hurting than ferving us. Nothing difturbs our repofe fo much as friends, if we have not judgment enough to chufe them well. Impor- tunate friends make us wim they were indifferent ; the morofe give us more uneafinefs by their humour, than they do us good by their fervices; and the imperious ty- rannife over us. 419. A true chriftian knows how to make advantage of every thing ; the evils which he fuffers are the good things which God fends him ; the good things he wants, are the evils from which providence has fecured him ; e- very thing is a benefit to him, every thing in this world is a mercy ; and when, by the neceflity of his mortal con- dition, he muft die, he looks upon the end of his life as a paflage to one more happy, which is never to conclude. Such is the felicity of a true chriftian, whilft uncertainty and trouble make the condition of all others unhappy. 420. There APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 69 420. There is no court, but where women have credit and intereft 5 no jlate intrigues, but they have a hand in them. 421. That man fets too high a rate upon his favours, who expeds cringes and intreaties for them. 422. When a benefit is honourable to him that receives it, we ought to accompany it with all the pomp that can contribute to make it publick ; for, by that means, we multiply the obligation. But when the ufefulnefs of a good office is attended with fome difgrace, as when we relieve an indigent perfon, we ought, by our fecrecy, ta fpare him the confufion of having his wa-nts proclaimed j for the leaft grain of fhame overpays the moft bountiful relief. 423. Men glory in raifing great and magnificent flruc- tures, and find a fecret pleafure to fee fets of their own planting to grow up and flourim. But furely it would be a greater and more glorious work to build up a man, to fee a youth of our own planting; from the fmall be- ginnings and advantages we have given him, to grow up into a confiderable fortune. 424. Ingratitude perverts all the meafures of religion and fociety, by making it dangerous to be charitable and good-natur'd. 425. The contemplation of the divine being, and the cxercife of virtue, are in their own nature fo far from ex- cluding all gladnefs of heart, (as fome falfly imagine) that they are the perpetual fources of it. The true fpirit of religion chears as well as compofes the foul j it banifhes indeed all levity of behaviour, all vicious and difTolutc mirth. yo A COLLECTION of mirth, but in exchange fills the mind with a perpetual ferenity, uninterrupted chearfulnefs, and an habitual in- clination to pleafe others, as well as be pleafed in itfelf. 426. The mind being eternal, no temporal .thing can be a fit object for it, no more than founds can be proper objects for the eye, or fights for the palate. 427. Malice is the ordinary vice of thofe who live in the mode of religion, without the fpirit of it. 428. As ravenous birds are the quickeft- lighted, fo the worft men are the greateft fault-finders. 429. Plato fays, that great minds are apt to produce great virtues, and no lefs vices. 430. It is for young men to gather knowledge, and old men to ufe it. 431. He may juftly be called covetous, who balks any part of his duty for fear of leffening his fortune ; who chufes rather to feve his wealth than his confcience ; that denies himfelf the conveniences of life, and fets his inte- reft above his honour. 432. Praife favours of flattery, and cenfure of malice, be they never fo juft. The beft way to advance another's virtue, is to follow it j and the true means to cry down another's vice, is to decline it. 433. It is an ordinary failing in moft men, never to be contented with their fortune, or difiatisfied with their wit. 434. Few men fear to be defpifed, except thofe who really deferve to be fo. 435. He that fets up his reft upon contingencies, mall never be happy nor quiet. 436. Jealoufy is like a polifh'd glafs, held to the lips, when APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 71 when life is in doubt ; if there be the leaft breath, it will catch the damp, and fhew it. 437. Penitent finners are under no condemnation ; the law cannot condemn them, becaufe they have appealed ; nor the gofpel, becaufe they have believed. 438. We muft not fuffer ourfelves to be obliged by all manner of perfons, for that would be to become a com- mon (lave. Some are born to be more happy than others ; the firft for doing good, and the other for receiving it. Liberty is more precious than all gifts, and to receive is to lofe it. 439. It is hard to find one that a man of fpirit would be obliged to ; for generally men are as fordid in their favours, as in their interefts, and remember the obliga- tion they have beftow'd, when they forget the return they have received. 440. It is no fmall wonder to fee how 'women that are fo mightily fond of their beauty^ can ufe fo much art to anticipate its ruine. 441. A man had rather meet with thofe who depend upon him, that that are thankful to him. To keep peo- ple in hopes, is prudence; to truft to their gratitude, fimplicity. For it is as common for gratitude to be for- getful, as for hopes to be mindful : you get always more by this, than by the other. So foon as the orange is fqueezed, it is thrown upon the ground; and likewife when dependence ceafes, there is an end of correfpondence and efleem alfo. 442. Take care you never difpute againft your judg- ment to mew your wit, left you become indifferent to what 7 2 A COLLECTION of what is right ; never difpute againft a man meerly to vex him, or for tryal of fkill, fince to inform, or be inform- ed, is the end of all conferences. Poverty of imagina- tion makes men run into the fault of giving contradictions ; they want in their minds entertainment for themfelves and company, and therefore build all they fpeak upon what is ftarted by others ; and fince they cannot improve that foundation, endeavour to deftroy it. 443. We fhould take all the care imaginable how we create enemies, it being one of the hardeft things in the chriflian religion to behave ourfelves as we ought to do towards them. 444. It is not our intereft to be always over vigorous in the demanding of our rights, nothing looks better than for a man fometimes to drop his preteniions. 445. No one is obliged to think beyond his capacity j and we never tranfgrefs the bounds of good fenfe, but when we aim to go beyond it. 446. The only ftudy in the courts of princes is how to pleafe, becaufe a man makes his fortune there by being a- greeable ; this is the reafon why courtiers are fo polite. On the contrary, in towns and republicks, where men are forced to take pains to get their living, the laft of their cares is to pleafe, and it is that makes them fo clownim. 447. Thofe that wifh for what they have not, forfeit the enjoyment of what they have. Set a juft term to your wimes, and when you have touched it, make a ftand ; happinefs only begins when wimes end, and he that hankers after more, enjoys nothing. 448. There is nothing more dangerous in a ftate, than when APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 73 when the king and people are trying the utmofl extent of the prerogative of the one, and the liberty of the other, tho' the bounds of either were never yet found out ; for it is an undeniable maxim, that they who will always do as much as they may, will fometimes do more than they ought. 449. Set bounds to your zeal, by difcretion ; to error, by truth ; to paffion, by reafon j and to divhlon, by cha- rity. 450. Doubt is the worft torment of the mind -, and fo great is the pain, that we defire to lofe it, though in ex- change of a certainty, that muft afflict us more. 451. Too many laws are a fnare, too few a weaknefs in government, too gentle are never obeyed, and too ftricT: and fevere are feldom executed. 452. Women are feldom cheated, but they are accef- fary to it ; for did they not flatter themfelves, men could not fo eafily impofe upon them. 453. "A woman is oftener unhappy in the perfon me cbufes, than in the favour me grants. 454. The unequal difpenfation of rewards and punijk- menfSj will foon or late prove fatal to a prince. 455. The fureft way of governing, both in a private family and a kingdom, is for a bujband and a prince fometimes to yield fomething of their prerogative. 456. There is no fubject fo inconfiderable, but his prince, at one time or other, may have occafion for him j and it holds through the whole fcale of the creation, that the great and the little have need of one another. 457. A courtier never defires to retire till he is al- L mofr 74 A COLLECTION of mod fure of being fent home, if not further out of the way. 458. Valour was affigned to men, and cbqftity to wo- men, as their principal virtues, becaufe they are the hard- ' eft to pradife. When thefe virtues are not fuftained and kept up, either by constitution or divine grace, they foon grow faint, and fall prefently a facrifice to the love of life and pleafure. 459* Women are neither thofe angels, nor thofe devils, we make them j for, bating propagation, they differ but little from men in any thing. 460. We mould never difpute on things that God has not been pleafed to fubmit to our reafon. If a man's un- derflanding could comprehend all the counfels of God, it muft- of neceffity be equal to it. 461. As reconciling enemies is the work of God, fo feparating friends is the bufmefs of the devil. 462. Friendmip fupplies the place of every thing, to thofe who know how to make a right ufe of it j it makes your profperity more happy, and your adverfity more eafy. 463. To endeavour not to pleafe, is ill nature ; altoge- ther to neglect it, folly j and to overftrain for it, vanity and defign. 464. A facetious fool may have entertaining follies to divert you for a time, but nothing fo troublefome as a fe- rious one. 465. He that is moderate in his wiflies from reafon and choice, and not refigned from fournefs, diftafte and difappointment, doubles all the pleafures of his life. 466. Religion and policy, as they do very well toge- ther, APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 75 ther, fo they do but ill afunder ; the one is too cunning to be good, the other too fimple to be fafe. A little of the wifdom of the ferpent, mixt with the innocency of the dove, will be a. good ingredient in all your actions. 467. The goodnefs and mercy of God towards perfons not capable of becoming good, is a goodnefs that does not agree with the infinite purity and holinefs of God. It is fuch a goodnefs, that, if it were propofed to the world, it would encourage men to live in fin, and to think that a few acts of homage, offered to God in our lafl extremi- ties, could fo far pleafe him, as to bribe and corrupt him. The forming a falfe notion of the goodnefs of God, as of a tendernefs that is to be overcome with importunities, bowlings, and other fubmiiiions, and not to be gained only by becoming like him, is a capital and fundamental error in religion. 468. Though you may be never fo clear in your judg- ment, yet it mews a yielding fweetnefs of temper, and a moft agreeable condefcenfion, to fpeak with doubt, but never to mew confidence in arguing, unlefs to fupport the fenfe of another. Sometimes, in converfation, you may chufe to be lefs knowing, to be more obliging, and to be on a level with others, rather than opprefs them with a Cuperiority of genius. 469. It is a hard matter to prevail with a woman to own me loves you ; but when me has once done it, me has no further fecret to keep from you. 470. Women generally take greater care of their reputa- tion, than men of theirs. Why then do we account them the weaker fex ? L 2 471. Wo- 76 A COLLECTION of 471. Women cannot endure a jealous hujband, yet are well enough pleafed with a jealous lover. 472. A covetous man lays up for old age, when young; and for death, when old. A prodigal heir makes him a fine funeral \ and devours the reft of his wealth. 473. It is faid of a virtuous and wife man, that having nothing, he has all ; when a mifer having all things, yet has nothing. 474. We mould not meafure men by Sundays, without regarding what they do all the week after $ for devotion does not neceffarily make men good,- though the want of it may endanger their principles. 475. He will find himfelf in a great miflake, that either feeks for a friend in a court, or tries him at a feaft. 476. A falfe friend is like the fhadow on a dial ; it ap- pears in clear weather, but vanimes as foon as that is cloudy. 477. All objeffs have different faces, and the mind, which is in continual motion, looks upon them as it turns j infomuch that we have nothing, if I may fo fpeak, but new afpeffs y thinking to enjoy new difcoveries. . 478. The wit of converfation confifls more in finding it in others, than mewing a great deal yourfelf. He who goes out of your company pleafed with his own facetiouf- nefs and ingenuity, will the fooner come into it again. Mod men had rather pleafe than admire you, and feek lefs to be inftructeJ and diverted, than approved and ap- plauded j and it is certainly the moft delicate fort of plea- fure to pleafe another* 479. A pleafant man is rarely to be met with, "and a perfon, APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 77 perfon, though he was born fo, muft have a great deal of delicacy to maintain the character a long time j but com- monly he that makes one laugh, is notfuretobeefteemed. 480. The heart has no avenue fo open, as that of flat- tery, which, like fome enchantment, lays all its guards afleep. 481. Where there is no remedy but patience, cuftoin makes it eafy, and neceffity gives no courage. 482. Reciprocal love is juftice; conflant love, forti- tude ; fecret love, prudence. It is the hardeft thing in love to feign it where it is not, or hide it where it is j but it is much eafier counterfeited than concealed. 483. The pleafure of fubduing an inordinate defire, of denying an impetuous appetite, is not only nobler, but greater by far, than any that is to be had in the moil tranfporting moments of their gratification. 484. No man lives long enough to profit himfelf by his faults i he is committing them during the whole courfe of his life, and as much as he can do at laft, is to die corrected. 485. In things necefTary, go along with the ancient church ; in things indifferent, with the prefent. Though you have opinions and notions of your own, yet yield, as the orbs do, for the order of the univerfe, to the great wheel of the church : if fome points in fcripture are lefs clear and pofitive, it is, that chriftians may exercife hu- mility in themfelves, and charity to others. 486. Cuftom and experience are more ufeful in making one's fortune, than wit) we think of it too late, and when at laft we refolve on it, we begin by thofe faults which 7 8 A COLLECTION of which we have not always time to repair ; whence per- haps It proceeds that fortunes are fo rarely acquired. 487. He who folicits for another, has the confidence cf one who demands juftice ; he who fpeaks for himfelf, the confufion of him who implores mercy. 488. None but little fouls are difturbed at having their ignorance reproved ; and the reafon is, that being gene- rally very blind and fooHfo, they never trouble themfelves with doubts, and are fully fatisfied they fee thofe things clearly, which they faw only through the thick mift of a clouded underftandiflff. O 489. The common fubjects of a kingdom are not fo apt to trouble themfelves about the rights and polTeffions of a crown, as about their own j and feldom engage in the quarrels of the firft, but upon fome general and ftrong apprehenfion that the lafl are in danger. 490. Princes may be faid, in fome fenfe, to com- mand every thing that they do, and to forbid every thing that they do not j their example has an at- tradtive power to draw others after them : both their vir- tues and their vices fpread themfelves over all their domi- nions, and are, in fome meafure, eternized by imitation. The leaft crime that they commit, renders them guilty of a thoufand others j and all the virtues with which they are adorned, are incelfantly reproduced in the hearts of an infinite number of perfons, that are ambitious of re- fembling them. 491. There is not any thing more dangerous for a prince, than to confult only with perfons that he thinks are of his own mind, or will be fo when they know it ; nor APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 79 nor more pernicious in a counfellor, than to give only fuch advices as he thinks moil agreeable ta him that afks or re- ceives them. 492. A good countenance is a fllent commendation, and is generally, though not always, the index .of the mind ; for the rays of the foul paffing through it diicover what degree of brightnefs is within, fo that the afpect feems de- ligned not only for ornament, but information. For what can be more fignificant than the fudden fluihing and con- fufion of a blufh, than the fparklings of rage, or the lightnings of a fmile, which may be reckoned the fun- mine of the mind, that breaks out with the brighteft dif- tinction j it plays with a furprizing agreeablenefs in the eye, fits like a glory upon the countenance, and feems to make the very foul vifible. 493. Affectation in gefhire, fpeech, or manners, is frequently the confequence of idlenefs or indifference j much bufinefs, and an application .to ferious affairs, oblige a man to keep to nature. 494. No man ever was a lofer by good works; for though he be not prefently rewarded, yet, in tract of time, fome happy emergency or other arifes to convince him that virtuous men are the darlings of providence. 495. It is difficult for a man to have fenfe, and be a knave. A true and fharp genius conducts to order, truth, and virtue ; it is want of fenfe and penetration, which makes a man obftinate in evil as in error. We ftrive in vain to correct a blockhead by fatire, which defcribes him to others, while he himfelf will not know his own pic- ture 5 it is like railing to a deaf man. 496. The 80 A COLLECTION of 496. The fame vices which are deformed and infup- portable in others, we do not fee in ourfelves ; they are not burthenfome to us, but feem to reft without weight as in their proper centers. Such a one, fpeaking of an- other, draws a difmal picture, not in the leaft imagining that at the fame time he is painting himfelf. 497. Generally the mirth of a debauch, as it is drain- ed and artificial, fo it cannot lafl long ; it is at belt but like the effects of a ftrong cordial, which may ferve to rally the fpirits from feme encounter ; but then they are fpent in the conflict, and fall and flag again quickly. Whenever the fpirits are extraordinarily exhilarated and di- lated, they thereby become fo thin and volatile, that they eafily exhale and vanifh, and fo a man becomes far more melancholy and lumpifh than before.^ 498. To fuffer the people to ftupify thcmfelves with pleafures and feafts, with mows and luxury, with vanity and delicacy j to difpqjfefs them of all things folid and va- luable, and leave them fond of ridiculous trifles, is to make the greateft advances to a defpotick power. 499. It is great wifdom in a prince to underftand the critical feafons and circumftances for rigour or remiflhefs ; when it if, proper to take up, and when to flacken the reins of government. 500. It is the higheft pitch of greatnefs in a prince, to know how to fupport his authority without the cere- mony of guards j to flirink himfelf almoft into the figure or it private gentleman, and yet act neverthelefs with all the force and majefty of his character, when the govern- ment requires it. How creditable is it to the fex we ac- count APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 8j count the weaker, that this was never done in England, but by queen Elizabeth. 501. The authority which princes communicate to their fubjects, is chiefly in refpect of wifdom or valour -, yet it generally happens, that they account them the wifeft and braveft men, that can befl accommodate themfelves to their humour. 502. The wounding of a friend for the fake of a jeft, is an intemperance and immorality not to be endured. 503. To give the women their due, few of them are falfe till their hufbands provoke them to it. 504. The pleafure of fociety among friends is cultivated by a likenefs of imagination as to manners, and a dif- ference in opinion as to fciences ; the one confirms and humours us in our fentiments, the other exercifes and in- flructs us by difputation. 505. It is fo common for men not to be happy, and fo eflential to all good to be accfuired by trouble, that what is come at eafily, is fufpected. 506. A great merit, joined to a great modefty, may be a long time before it is difcovered. 507. The moft barbarous nations have ftill paid a fort of divinity to the dead, death being always looked upon as a full difcharge from all the errors of life. 508. There is in the beft counfel fomething that dif- pleafes ; it is not our own thoughts, and therefore pre- fumption and caprice furnifh pretences enough to reject it at firft fight, and reflection only forces its reception. 509. Wife conduct turns upon two centers, the pafl and the future -, he that has- a faithful memory, and a vaft M fore- 82 A COLLECTION of forefight, is our of danger of cenfuring in others thofe faults he may have been guilty of himfelf, or condem- ning an action which, in a parallel cafe, and in like cir- cumftances, it will be impoffible for him to avoid. 510. There is a thing in the world, if it is poffible, incomprehenfible : A perfon that appears dull, fottifli, and ftupid, knows neither how to fpeak, nor relate what he has feen, but if he fets to write, no man does it bet- ter j he makes animals, trees, and ftones, talk, and his works are full of elegance, natural fenfe, and delicacy. 511. Avoid obfcene ambiguities, be they never fo care- fully wrapped up ; they have always a bad effect in the mind of the hearer, and denote the corrupt moral of the fpeaker. 5 1 2. Every outward beauty proceeds from an inward order and harmony, and both the inward and outward beauties are advanced by a proper method. 513. Hefiod being afk'd when he was lending money, why all thefe niceties and forms of law among intimate friends? He anfvver'd, By all means, that we may be fure to continue fo. 514. I am tired with whatfoever I have yet enjoyed in this world, and I expect no greater fatfsfaction mould I live a thoufand years ; every pleafure appears but the fame in different forms, and they all agree in- leaving us afflicted in the fame, or greater, pains, than they found us. It is beft therefore to lay afide all fruitlefs care and fadnefs, and be as merry as will confift with the wifdom of a man. 515. There are few women that would not rather choofe APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 83 choofe to be divorced from their hufbands, than to lofe their gallants. 516. If divorce was to be come by without the trouble of fuing for an aft of parliament, it would raife the plea- fures of a married life, and fink the delights of intriguing. 517. A woman's chaftity is not to be endured, where me expects an uncontrollable authority for it. 518. Nothing better mews what little value God fets upon riches, preferments, and other worldly advantages, than his indifferent difpenfation of them, and the unwor- thinefs of thofe who generally poflefs them. 519. From the features of a man's face we may draw fome probable conjectures of his temper and inclinations ; but his looks and countenance plainly difplay the advan- tage of fortune, and we may read in them, in fair cha- racters, how many thoufands a man is worth a year. 520. There is not a greater argument of a narrow, wretched foul, than to doat .upon 'money ; nothing more reafonable than to defpife it, when we have it not, and nothing more honourable than to employ it generoufly, and do good with it, when we have it. 521. To be proud of knowledge, is to be blind with light ; to be proud of virtue, is to poifon yourfelf with the antidote. 522. Nothing is fo glorious in the eyes of mankind, and ornamental to human nature (fetting afide the infi- nite advantages that arife from it) as a flrong, fleady, and mafculine piety. But enthufiafm and fuperftition are the weaknefles of human reafon, that expofe us to the fcorn M 2 and 84 A COLLECTION of and derifion of infidels, and fink us even beneath the beafts that perifh. 523. To-morrow is ftill the fatal time when all is to be rectified; to-morrow comes, it goes, and fUll I pleafe niyfelf with the fhadow, whilft I lofe the reality, un- mindful that the prefent time alone is ours, the future is yet unborn, and the paft is dead, and can only live (as parents in their children) in the actions it has produced. 524. Bold refolution is the favourite of fortune : Ne- ceffity deadens the apprehenfion of danger. A good caufe makes a flout heart, and a ftrong arm. 525. He that is fo foolifhly modeft as to be afliamed to own his defects of knowledge, fliall in time be fo ful- fomely impudent as to juflify his ignorance, which is the greateft of all infirmities, and, when juflified, the chiefeft of follies* 526. Idlenefs is certainly the caufe, and bufinefs the never -failing cure of melancholy. 527. Artificial modefty difparages a woman's real vir- tue, as much as the ufe of paint does the natural com- plexion* 528. A fally of paffion or extravagance is frequently forgiven, but raillery in cool blood, which is a fign of difefteem, is never pardoned. 529. Men ought to employ the firfl years of life to become fo qualified, that the commonwealth rr&y have occafion for their knowledge or induflry ; they ought to refemble thofe materials in a building, which are of abfo^ lute neceffity, and being fet there to advantage, give a grace to the whole fabrick, 53. if APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 85 530. If any one ought to have been exempt from error, doubt and inconftancy, it was Solomon. Notwith- ftanding we fee in the inequality of his conduct, that he was weary of his wifdom, that he was weary of his folly ; and his virtues and vices, by turns, gave him new difgufts. Sometimes he enjoys his life, as if chance governed all : fometimes he afcribes all to providence, and never deli- vers his thoughts with a pofitive air, but when eternal wifdom makes him fpeak. 53 1. A nice obfervation of rules is a confinement which a great genius cannot bear, it naturally covets liberty. 532. The art of managing humors, and of gaining our ends upon men, is to find out their weak fide. There is no man that has not his predominant paffions, and thefe paffions are different, according to the diverfity of tempers. All men are idolaters, fome of honour, others of intereft, and moft of their pleafures. The fkill is firfi to know the character of the perfon, next to feel his pulfe, and then to attack him by. his ftrongeft pafTion, which is his weaker fide. 533. Great fouls are not diftinguiflied by having lefs faffion, and more virtue, but by having nobler and great- er defigns than the vulgar. 534. All paffions and refentmcnts of the foul have their tone of voice, their geftures of the My, and their forms and air peculiar to them ; and the mutual relation of them, either good or bad, makes accordingly perfons either plea- fant or u.npleafant. 535. Every wife prince ought to govern his fubjefls fervants, in fuch manner, that by his affability and virtue, 86 A COLLECTION of virtue, they may be endeared to his fervice, rather volun- tarily, than for pay or hope of preferment : For other- wife, whenever the prince mail want means to reward, the fubjects likevvife will fail in their good will to ferve ; but he that faithfully loves, does neither become arrogant in projperify, nor withdraw in adverfe fortune. 536. The foul is capable of greater joys in the imagina- tion, than any which nature has provided for it in the body. 537- Women as often difcover where they love, by their railing, as men when they lye, by their fwearing. 538. It is barbarous to infult over an unavoidable infir- mity, and trample on the venerable ruins of human na- ture. That age has a peculiar right to regard, is paft difputej nature teaches it, religion enjoins it, and cuftom has con- firmed it. 539. Certainly, nothing but nature can qualify a man for learning. Socrates fays, it is impoffible to raife learn- ing out of a mind, where nature has not planted it. 540. The productions of a great genius, with many lapfes and inadvertencies, are infinitely preferable to the works of an inferior kind of author, which are fcrupu- loufly exact, and conformable to the rules of correct writing. 541. It is certain that goodnefs cannot be a perfection which exceeds the meafures of wifdom, nor that mercy neither, which tranfgrelTes the bounds of juftice. To be wife beyond what is good, is craft ; to be good beyond what is wife, is dotage j to be juft beyond what is mer- ciful, is rigour ; to be merciful beyond what is juft, is ea- finefs. 542. The inconftant multitude always judge of things accord- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 87 according to the fuccefs j when that fails, they immedi- ately fly at the government. 543. Such conceffions as are extorted by neceffity, are always unfincere, and never lafling. 544. If a great wit has not a little wifdom join- ed with it, to direct where, when, and how to apply it, it is like wild-fire that flies at rovers, runs hiffing a- bout, and blows up every thing that comes in its way, without any refpect or difcrimination. 545. Take no advantage of the ignorance, neceffity, or prodigality of any man, for that gain can never be bleft. 546. Of all friendfhip, that is the pleafanteft that is contracted by a fimilitude of manners. 547. Thofe that contribute none of their ftudy, labour, or fortune to the publick, may be faid to defert the com- munity. 548. Thofe promifes are not to be kept that a man makes when he is either compelled by fear, or deceived by fraud : In all promifes, the intention is to be conlider- ed, not the letter, none binding but what are juft. 549. Though there is a great deal due to character, yet there is much more owing to truth, which mould never be concealed for the advantage of any character. 550. Wherever life is, it will operate j and therefore, if God, who is all life and activity, is every where, he mud operate every where ; and if he operates every where, that operation is an univerfal providence. 551. As the practice of all piety and virtue is agreeable to our reafon, fo it is likewife for the intcreft of mankind, both of private perfons and publick focieties. Some vir- tues 88 A COLLECTION of tues plainly tend to the prefervation of our health, others to the fecurity and improvement of our eftates, all to the peace and quiet of our minds, and, which is fomewhat more ftrange, to the advancement of our efteem and re- putation. For though the world be generally bad, and men are apt to approve nothing fo much as what they do themfelves, yet I know not how it comes to pafs, men are commonly fo juft to virtue and goodnefs, as to praile it in others, even when they do not practife it themfelves. 552. All parties blame perfecution when they feel the fmart of it, and all praclife it when they have the rod in their hands. The church of England was no lefs fevere upon the DilTenters in K. Charles the fecond's time, than the Prejbyteriam had been on the church of England un- der the Ufurper. 553. A divine ought to calculate his fermon, as an a- ftrologer does his almanack, to the meridian of the place and people where he lives. What fluff is it to preach a- gainft ufury at Whitehall, and fornication mLombard-ftreet ! No, invert the tables, and the application will be pat. 554. Every vice and folly has a train of fecret and ne- ceflary punifhments linked to it. 555. Every man has his genial vices, his conflitutional errors, and though he may appear a faint in all things elfe, yet in thefe it is to be feared he will be found a finner. 556. It is more excellent for a prince to have a provi- dent eye to prevent future, than a potent arm to fupprefs prefent evils. 557. There is nothing fo impertinent and intolerable, as a fool that takes upon him. A man puffed up with the opinion APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 89 opinion of his own merit, is never put out of counte- nance, he talks loud in all companies, he has an aflurance in his face, which mows how well fatisfied he is with himfelf, the leaft trifles that he fpeaks he utters with an air of confidence, being convinced that he is heard with pleafure ; thefe bold appearances impofe upon the incon- iiderate, and carry away the fuffrages of fools, who know not what true merit is, and fo take up with a glimmering refemblance. 558. All great expreflions, without great thoughts to fuftain them, may be refembled to fhips that ride with- out lading j they float upon the furface, and cannot poife themfelves to a fteady courfe. 559. Though beauty and merit are things real, and in- dependent on tafle and opinion, yet agreeablenefs is ar- bitrary. 560. An inviolable fidelity, good humour, and com- placency of temper, out-live all charms of a fine face, and make the decays of it invifible. 561. Mvz and aftiom are like objects of fight, and have alfo their points of perfpeffive ; fome muft be feen at a diftance, and others at clofe view, to be exactly judged of. 562. Thofe that make ill judgments of us, without be- ing acquainted with us, do not wrong us in the leaft ; it it not us they condemn, but only an imaginary chimera of their own making. 563. It is the lot of mankind to be happy and mifer- able by turns ; the wifdom of nature will have it fo, and it is exceedingly for our advantage that it fhould be fo ; by the mediation of this mixture we have the comfort of N hope go A COLLECTION of hope to fupport us in our diftreffes, and the apprehenfions of a change, to keep a check upon us in the very huff of our greatnefs and glory ; fo that by this viciflitude of good and evil, we are kept fteady in our philofophy, and in our religion ; the one minds us of God's omnipotence and juftice, the other of his goodnefs and mercy ; the one tells us, that there is no trufting to our own ftrength, the other preaches faith and refignation in the profpect of an over-ruling providence that takes care of us. 564. Nothing goes nearer a man in his misfortunes, than to find himfelf undone by his own folly, or but any way accefTary to his own mine. 565. We may be referved, without fournefs j grave, without formality ; courageous, without ramnefs ; hum- ble, without fervility j patient, without being infenfible ; conftant, without obftinacy 5 chearful, without lightnefs ; courteous . and fweet, without too much familiarity. 566. An affectation of wit where it is not, ferves only to render folly more ridiculous j it makes both men and women forward in fpeaking ; they fancy they mew their wit, when they {hew their ignorance, and expofe them- felves to be the jeft of the company, when they endea- voured to be the admiration. 567. Notwithftanding man's effential perfection is very little, his comparative may be conliderable $ if he looks upon himfelf in an abftracted light, he has not much to boaft of. This gives a different turn to the reflections of the wife man and of the fool, the firft endeavours to fhine in himfelf, and the laft to outmine others ; the firft is humbled by the fenfe of his own infirmities, the laft is lifted APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 91 lifted up by the difcovery he makes of thofe which he obferves in other men ; the wife man coniiders what he wants, and the fool what he abounds in ; the wife man is happy when he gains his own approbation, and the fool when he recommends hirnfelf to the applaufe of thofe about him. 568. It is an eafy matter to impofe, where there is a previous propenfion to be deceived. 569. Doubtlefs there are degrees of glory in heaven, as of piety upon earth. 570. Much drink invigorates the fancy, but weakens the underftanding. 571. Upon Pompey's hearing that Lucullus had given o- ver meddling with publick affairs, and retired to enjoy his plentiful eftate, he faid, That the fatigues of luxury were much more unfeafonable for an old man, than thofe of government. 572. If we cannot relieve the poor by contribution, yet we may by confolation and intercefiion, by prayers and companion, by pity and fympathy. 573. Opennefs has the mifchief, though not the malice of treachery. 574. You mould be equally cautious of approving or commending what deferves neither praife nor approbation, that being commonly a fign of want of tafte, or an ill judgment. 575* Wh is fufficient for thefe things ? 2 Cor. ii. -16, If St Paul thought fit to put this queftion, who had a ful- nefs of the fpirit, and the fiilnefs of learning, Brought up in the fchools, taught by the doftors, and by the N 2 mouth 92 A COLLECTION of mouth of God himfelf, fnatched from the feet of Gama- liel to the third heaven, to have a beatific vifion of the gofpel; if after all this he cried out, 'who is fujficient for tbefe things ? fure they cannot be fuppofed to be fo, who, in thefe little intervals which their trade and neceffities af- ford them, fall into fits and frenzies of religion, have a fharp paroxyfm of irregular and convulfed divinity, as if they were poffefTed, till their wearinefs, and not know- ing what to fay, do exorcife them. 576. How hard is it for a man who has no body to in- troduce him, and cry him up in the world j who is no member of any club or fociety, but ftands fingle, with- out any thing to recommend him, but great parts and true merit ; how hard is it, I fay, for fuch a man to break through the obfcurity he finds himfelf in, and come upon the fame level with many an empty fop in vogue and fafhion ! 577. A good man finds the reward of his application to his duty, in the testimony of his own confcience -, and the fecret pleafure he feels in difcharging it, makes him amends for the efteem, acknowledgments, or praifes, which he feldom meets with in the world. 578. Nothing goes fo far in the happinefs of our lives, as to know things as really they are j and this knowledge is to be acquired by frequent reflections upon men, and the feveral affairs of the world, rather than by the peru- fal of books. 579. It is as hard to be a good friend, and a lover of women, as it is to be a good friend, and a lover of money. 580. Religion is univerfally rather inherited than taught ; the generality of men embrace it as a part of their fate, the APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 93 the temper of their clime, or the entail of their anceftors > the reafon why they are chriftians, is becaufe chriftianity had the luck to befpeak them firft j had Mahomet plied them as early, they had had as much faith for the Al- coran as the Bible. 581. Certainly chriftianity mufl be the true religion, or all religions in the world are but a fable. 582. Men feldom commit one fin to pleafe, but they commit another to defend themfelves. 583. The refufing or accepting praife rationally, grace- fully, and difcreetly, is as great a trial of a wife man, as the cupel is of filver. 584. Many laws are a fign of a lick commonwealth, as many plaifters are of a difeafed body. 585. Of all poverty, that of the mind is mofr. deplo- rable ; and of all prodigality, that of time is the worft. 586. Sloth is an argument of a degenerate and mean mind, which is content to grovel in a defpicable ftate, and aims at nothing that is great ; it difpofes a man to live precarioufly and ungratefully on the publick flock, as a burden to the earth, and an infignificant cypher among men. 587. When a man looks back upon his day or week fpent, and finds his bufinefs has been worthy of him, it exhilarates and revives him, enables him to pafs his own approbation on himfelf, and, as it were,, to anticipate the Euge he fhall one day receive from his great matter. But he that gives himfelf only the idle divertifements of a child, cannot reflect without con- fufion ; which is fo well underftood by fuch perfons, that they are forced to take fancluary in a total inconfideration, never 94 -^ COLLECTION of never daring to afk themfelves, -zflto have I done? which bears full teftimony to the excellency and felicity of inge- nuous employments, fince they that decline thofe, are forced to decline themfelves, and grow out of their own acquaintance and knowledge. 588. It is a ftrange defire to feek power, and to lofe li- berty j or to feek power over others, and to lofe power over a man's own f elf. 589. It often comes to pafs, that when we think we do a man a good office, we incur his indignation. The wife Palemon had the misfortune to fall in difgrace with his protector Daphnis, by endeavouring to cure him of the paffion he had for Julia , who both jilts and ruins him j for having mewn him invincible proofs of her infidelity, the infatuated Daphnis, inftead of thanking Palemon., gave credit to Julia's pretended juftification, and facrific'd his friend to her refentment. 590. Many men have good fentiments in the moment you oblige them -, but the conftitution of their nature fways them foon after, and they eafily forget what they owe others, becaufe they only love themfelves. And as fire converts all things into its own fubftance, they only confider publick interefts to convert them to their own advantage, and equally defpife thofe who do them good, and the ftate in which they receive it. 591. Operation is the right proof of nature : Trees are diftinguilhed by their fruit, and dogs by the quali- ties proper to their kind ; and, thus it holds with men too, who ought to quit that name, unlefs they can anfwer the idea, and make out their claim by their actions. 592. St APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 95 592. St Jerom wittily reproves the Gentile fuperflition, who pictured the virgin deities with a fhield and lance, as if chaftity could not be defended without war. No : this enemy is to be treated with after another manner ; if you hear it fpeak, though but to difpute, it ruins you, and the very arguments you go about to anfwer, leave a relim on the tongue j fo that it is not an enemy to be con- tended with, but avoided. 593. The moft ready thing in the world is denial ; we never grant but with reflection. 594. If any deceit be allowable, it is on fuch an oc- cafion, as would make fincerity a piece of cruelty. 595. In the reputation of a wife man, his oeconomy is one of the mofl diftinguifhing parts of his prudence. 596. Contentment makes us more happy in defiring nothing, than the greateft monarchs upon earth in pofTef- fmg all : It is the true philofopher's ftone, that turns all it touches into gold; the poor are rich with, and the rich poor without it $ in it we have all the treafure that the world contains. 597. When our eftate in this world is perplexed and uncertain, we mould be more than ordinary concern'd to make fure of fomething, that we may not be miferable in both worlds. 598. Whatever the church's fate be, I am chain'd to it, both by my reafon and conference, and chufe rather to- be crufhed by her fall, than to flourim on her ruins. 599. An ugly pei ion in fine trappings and accoutre- ments is doubly fo ; when the deformity is by itfelf, it is lefs, but being fet off with gaudy drapery, and rich gar- niture, g6 A COLLECTION of niture, it receives an additional difagreeablenefs from the luftre of the bright equipage. The fire and brilliant of a diamond makes the black hue of the complexion more confpicuous, which was, as it were, hid; and benighted in its own darknefs. 600. Fortitude without wifdom is ramnefs ; wifdom without juftice, craft j juflice without temperance, cruelty. 60 1. Every inordinate luft and paflion is a falfe by- afs upon men's underftanding, which naturally draws to- wards atheifm. 602. Skilful mafters ought to have a care not to let their works be feen in embryo, for all beginnings are defective, and the imagination always prejudiced ; the re- membering to have feen a thing imperfect, takes from one the liberty of thinking it pretty when finished. 603. To fleep in health, and wake in plenty, to live in the efteem and affection of every body ; what is want- ing to make fuch a man happy ? Why, a great deal : No wonder then fo many are miferable. 604. The vigour and jollity we enjoy, make the con- trary eftate appear in fo great a difproportion to our pre- fent condition, that by imagination we magnify and make thofe inconveniencies ten times greater than they are, and apprehend them to be much more troublefome, than we find them really to be, when they lie the moft heavy upon us. 605. It is undoubtedly true, that fcarce any man's mind is fo capable of thinking ftrongly, in the prefence of one whom he fears and reverences, as he is when that re- ftraint is taken off. And this is not only to be found in weighty APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 97 weighty matters, but alfo in the arts of difcourfe and raillery themfelves : For we have often feen men of bold tempers, that have overawed and governed the wit of moft companies, to have been difturbed and dumb, and bafhful as children, when fome other man has been near, who us'd to out-talk them. Such a kind of na- tural fovereignty there is in fome mens minds over others, which mufl needs be much greater, when it is advanced by long ufe, and the venerable name of a mafter. 606. Nothing is fo much for a prince's credit, as the modefty of his favourites. 607. It is with Fortune as with other fantaftical mif- trefTes, me makes fport with thofe that are ready to die for her, and throws herfelf at the feet of thofe that de- fpife her. 608. The knowledge of courtefy and good breeding is a very necefTary ftudy ; but yet we mufl flill take care not to be too troublefome or rude, by being over civil. 609. No . man can be truly good and fweet-natur'd without conftancy and refolution : They that feem to be fo, have commonly an eafinefs, that quickly turns pee- vifh and four. 6 10. We eafily forget our faults, when no body takes notice of them. 6 1 1- Courtiers cannot be too cautious, it being difficult to rife, flippery to ftand, but deadly to fall. 612. In all controverfies between parents and their children, I am naturally prejudiced in favour of the former j the obligation on that fide can never be acquit- ted j and, I think, it is one of the greateft reflections up- O on 98 A COLLECTION of on human nature, that paternal inftindt mould be a Wronger motive to love, than filial gratitude ; that the re- ceiving of favours mould be a lefs inducement to good will, tendernefs and commiferation, than the conferring of them j and that the taking care of any perfon mould en- dear the child, or dependant, more to the parent, or be- nefactor, than the parent, or benefactor, to the child, or dependant ; that fo it happens, that for one cruel pa- rent, we meet with a thoufand undutiful children. This is, indeed, wonderfully contrived for the fupport of eve- ry living fpecies, but at the fame time that it mews the wifdom of the creator, it difcovers the imperfection and degeneracy of the creatures. 613. Religion in a maghtrate ftrengthens his authori- ty, becaufe it procures veneration, and gains a repute to it : and in all the affairs of this world, fo much reputa- tion is, indeed, fo much power. 614. We often forgive thofe that have injured us, but we can never pardon thofe we have injured. 615. Cunning is neither a very good, nor a very bad quality ; it floats betwixt virtue and vice, and upon all occafions it may, nay, perhaps, it ought to be, improved by prudence. 6 1 6. There is not a greater pefl in human fociety, than a perverfe craft under the mafk of fimplicity. 617. He that countenances, encourages, or abets mif- chief, does it. 6 1 8. When the humours of the people are flirr'd by difcontents, it is policy in a prince to give them mode- rate liberty to vent their fpleen. He that turns the hu- mour APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 99 rnour back, makes the wound bleed inwardly, and fills the body with malignity. 619. There wants nothing more to make a prince compleatly happy, than the fweetnefs of a private life. If any thing can make him amends for fo great a lofs, it muft be the charms of friendfhip^ and fidelity of true friends. 620. There appear now in the world fome worthy and excellent men, whofe rare virtues, and eminent qua- lities, caft an incomparable brightnefs : They have nei- ther anceftors nor defcendants, but make up themfelves all their own pedigree, like thofe extraordinary apparhi- ons in the heavens, which we know not how they rife, or how they come to difappear. 621. A dogmatical tone is generally the effect of great ignorance ; he that knows nothing, thinks he teaches o- thers what he has learnt himfelf a moment before. On the contrary, he that knows much, does hardly think that what he fays can be unknown to other people, and fo he fpeaks with a kind of indifference. 622. Men of greateft depth and wifdom have no infal- lible fecurity againft making falfe fteps j but when the misfortune happens, you are not obftinately to maintain an abfurd choice, by a miftaken bravery, or the afperity of refentments that plunge you in frefh precipices. Try to recover from error, there being commonly more merit in a dextrous difengagement from a labyrinth, than in the firft avoidance of a fault. We pity a man, whom the wretchednefs of his affairs, or unhappy circumftances have difconcerted -, but we do not pity thofe that, by an unfea- O 2 fonable ioo A COLLECTION of fonable obftinacy, give the nnifhing ftroke to their own ruin, when they might eafily reftore their matters by fol- lowing another conduct. 623. Good fuccefs is often owing to want of judgment 5 for a nice difcretion keeps a man from venturing upon fe- veral attempts, which meer want of confideration makes frequently turn to good account. 624. Whofoever fpeaks againft religion, deferves to be torn in pieces by the mob, whom he endeavours to un- chain. 625. Time lengthens friendship, and weakens love. 626. If a man had arguments fufficient to perfuade him there is no God, as he has infinite to the contrary, yet the belief of fo bieft, fo kind, fo indulgent a being, is fo very neceflary to the quiet, comfort and fatisfaclion of our lives, that a wife man would be tormented and grieved to quit fo pleafing an error. 627. The church of England generally preaches alca- lis, the Prerbyterians acids : both may do well, according to the different conftitutions they meet - 3 but the former feem to operate beft with men of fenfe, and the latter with the mob. 628. A man that enters the world, muft be induftri- ous, but not affected in diiclofing his abilities ; the beft way is to obferve a gradation, for the floweft fteps to greatnefs are the moft fecure, but fwift rifes are often at- tended with precipitate falls, and what is fooneft got is generally fhorteft in the pofTeiTion. 629. Flattery will never be out of date, fo long as there are knaves to give it, and fools to take it. 630. Satire APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 101 630. Satire and invectives are the eafieft kinds of wit, almoft any degree of it will ferve to abufe or find fault j for wit is a keen inftrument, and every one can cut and gam with it ; but to carve a beautiful image, and to po- lih it, requires great art and dexterity ; a little wit, and a great deal of ill nature, will furnifh a man with fatire, but the greateft inftance of wit is to commend well. 631. To boaft of virtue, is a moft ridiculous way of difappointing the merit of it, but not by much fo pitiful and mean, as that of being amam'd of it. 632. Nothing elder than God, greater than fpace, quicker than fpirit, frronger than neceffity, or wifer than time, which makes all men fo that obferve it. 633. The Jludkm men, while they continue heaping up in their memories the cuftoms of pail ages, fall infen- libly to imitate them, without any manner of care how fuitable they are to time and things. In the ancient au- thors^ which they turn over, they find defcriptions of virtues more perfect than indeed they were : The go- vernments are reprefented better, and the ways of life pleafanter than they deferved. Upon this, thefe bsokifo wifemen ftrait compare what they read with what they fee ; and here beholding nothing fo heroically tranfcen- dant, becaufe they are able to mark all the fpots> as well as beauties of every thing that is fo clofe to their fight, they prefently begin to defpife their own times, to exalt the paft, to contemn the virtues, and ag- gravate the vices of their country ; not endeavouring to amend them, but by fuch examples as are now unpra&i- cab:e ; by reafon of the alteration of men and manners. 634.. A 102 A COLLECTION of 634. A peace cannot be lading, except the conditions of it be reafonable and honourable to both parties 5 for no people can live contented under fuch a law, as forces them to loath the ftate wherein they are. 635. A king, who never gave his fubjects a caufe of diflatisfadion, can never trufl them too far ; whereas a -prince who has once rendered himfelf fufpefted, will do well not to trufl them at all : Queen Elizabeth juflifies the firfl ; and King Charles the Ifl, and James the lid, the latter. 636. A principal fruit of friendmip, is the eafe and difcharge of the fulnefs and fwellings of the heart, which are caus'd by paffions of all kinds. We know difeafes of floppings and fufTocations are the mofl dan- gerous in the body, and it is not much otherwife in the mind. 637. With three forts of people it is not prudence to contract friendmip, viz. the ungrateful man, the blab, and the coward ; the firfl cannot fet a true value on our favours, the fecond cannot keep our fecrets, and the third dares not vindicate our honour. 638. Hatreds are generally fo obftinate and fullen, that the greatefl fign of death in a fick body, is his defire of being reconciled to his enemies. 639. Luxury and delicacy of manners in a flate are infallible fymptoms of its declenfion ; for when men are fo over curious and nice in their own concerns and in- ierefl, the good of the publick is generally neglected. 640. Princes and their miniflers have their natures fome- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 103 fomething like the -celeftial bodies, they have much fplen- dor, but no reft. 64 1 . To fight with cuftom is folly ; Pindar fays, cuftom is king of all men, it bearing univerfal fway, and is of that infinuating nature, that it converts into a beautiful ihape, apparel, diet, geftures, opinions, and even fins, that to a ftranger feem deformed and ugly. 642. Let thofe that abound in the conveniences of life, give a new guft to their happinefs, by comparing it with the ftate of the neceflitous j and let the thoughts of others misfortunes, make them more delicioufly enjoy the feli- city they poffefs. 643. He is truly miferable who difquiets himfelf with the profpect of future evils. It is an abyfs fo profound,, that it is enough to make one giddy to look down the pre- cipice. To make ufe of the prefent good, is an excellent fecret ; not but that a man ought to be prepared againfl all the different accidents of life, for this may in fome meafure protect him from the infults of fortune ; no ca- lamity can happen to us, when once we have a fufficient fund of patience and reafon to overcome it. 644. In the morning I love to converfe with the dead r at noon with the living, and at night with myfelf. 645. Have a care of making any man your friend twice, except the rupture was by your own miftake. 646. Friendfhip improves happinefs, and abates mife- ry, by doubling our joys, and dividing our grief. 647. "Truth is only agreeable to the virtuous, and it is no fmall reflection on princes and great men, that few of them can bear to hear it. 648. The IO4 this falfe modefty is little lefs difguftful than a foolifh vanity. It requires great art and delicacy to feafon praifes well, but there is alfo a way of receiving them, when they are juft, that does not offend modefty. Praife is a fort of tribute paid to real worth, and it is neither affectedly to be rejected, nor too eagerly courted, if we would not be the property of thofe that give it, who prepare their way, by this allurement, to obtain whatever they defire, when once you are intoxicated with their incenfe. 658. God feldom fends a grievance without a remedy, or at leaft fuch a mitigation as takes away a great part of the fting and fmart of it. 659. As every fin is a degree of danger, fo every well em- ployed opportunity is a degree of return to hope and pardon. 660. The conqueft of paffion gives ten times more hap- pinefs than we reap from the gratification of it ; for curb- ing our defires is the greateft glory we can arrive at in this world, and will be moft rewarded in the next. 66 1 . Familiarity in inferiors, is faucinefs -, in fuperiors, condefcenfion. P 662. Si- io6 A COLLECTION of 662. Silence in company, if not dulnefs, or modefty, is obfervation, or difcretion. 663. We muft not have an inlipid complaifance for all that others fay, and fulfomely applaud without diftinclion > diverfity of opinion is fometimes necefTary to quicken converfation. 664. Though an action appear never fo bright and glo- rious in itfelf, it is not to be accounted great, if it be not the effect of ivifdom and defign. 665. One reafon why we find fo very few men of fenfe, and agreeable converfation, is, that almoft every body's mind is more intent upon what he himfelf has a mind to fay, than upon making pertinent replies to what the reft of the company fay to him. The more ingenious and complaijant fort go no farther than pretending to hearken attentively, when, at the fame time, a man may plainly fee that both their eyes, and their mind, are ro- ving from what is faid to them, and porting back again to what they long to be at themfelves ; not confidering, that to feek one's own pleafure fo very paffionately, can never be the way either to pleafe, or perfuade others ; and that diligent attention, and proper repartees, are the two per- feftions that accomplifh a man for company. 666. When ill men take up a fit of kindnefs all of a fudden, and appear to be better natured than ufual, it is good difcretion to fufpect fraud, and to lay their words, and their practices, together j for there are no fnares fo dangerous, as thofe that are laid for us under the name of good offices. 667. Moft fops think they are courted and followed for APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 107 for their good company, when, in reality, it is only for the fake of ridiculing their defects, which they themfelves do not perceive, and others do. 668. If I commend one that all the world knows does not deferve it, I mutt either pafs for a fool or a hypocrite. 669. Long life is a great bleffing, in that it gives time leave to vent and boil away the difquietudes and turbu- lences that follow our paffions, and to wean ourfelves gently from carnal affections, and then at lafl to drop with eafe and willingnefs, like ripe fruit from a tree. 670. A man fhould fludy the tafte of others, to be able to infinuate himfelf into them, that the advice he gives may have its effect, without difgufting. 671. Honour is a divine reward appointed for virtue, which men of vicious minds cannot enjoy ; though they may have a vain name for a time, yet it mall end in ignominy. 672. To divide glory from virtue, is to deprive the fun of its light. 673. Meer bamfulnefs, without merit, is aukard; me- rifc, without modefty, infolent ; modeft merit has a double claim to acceptance, and generally meets with as many patrons as beholders. 674. When Pericles the Athenian had in a publick fpeech directed himfelf to the feveral ranks and orders of his countrymen, he then addreffed himfelf to his female audience thus : " I mall advife you in a few words ; afpire only to thofe virtues that are peculiar to your fex, follow your natural modefty, and think it your greateft commen- dation not to be talked of one way or another.'* 675. Plato y when he faw one over indulgent to him- P 2 felf io8 A COLLECTION of felf by too much delicacy and nicenefs, afked him, what he meant by making his prifon fo ftrong, by thus victual- ' ing and encouraging his mortal enemy ? 676. In all actions, aim at excellence; that man will fail at laft, that allows himfelf one finful thought ; he that dares to be wicked for his advantage, will be always fo, if his intereft requires it. 677. Get wifdom, get understanding, and practife vir- tue ; for if you are fo bleft to have thefe for your portion, it is not furer that there is a God, than it is, that by him all necefTary truths mail be revealed to you. 678. Can the imagination of a man form a flronger i- mage of a life or action, than by comparing it to a race ? and how can he hope to finifh his courfe with glory, that lags, and prefles not forward to obtain the prize ? There is not one chriftian virtue to which the vice of idlenefs is not entirely contrary. Faith, hope, charity, vigilance, and mortification, are inconfiftent with it, and the confe- quence is, that it muft be a damning fin. All thofe vir- tues animate and invigorate the mind, whereas idlenefs en- feebles and fetters it; thofe principles are pure, ftricr, and fevere ; idlenefs is foft and indulgent ; the one raifes and exalts the foul, the other debafes and depreffes it j and though it has great pretences to innocence and merit, its beginning is in fin, and its end in infamy and perditidfi : flupidity, ignorance, levity, and fenfuality, are its com- panions 3 and as harmlefs and fimple as it appears, it is, of all vices, the moft pernicious and dangerous. 679. Being abfent from what we love, is a good, in comparison of living with what we bate. 680. No APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 109 680. No man is apt to envy the merit of another, that has any of his own to truft to. 6 8 1. A heroe, according to the notion I have of him, is fit for nothing but war j whereas, a great man is fit for any thing indifferently, whether it be the gown, the fword, the clofet, or the court ; yet, both thefe, together, are not worth a good man. 682. It is the faying of a great man, " That if we could trace our defcents, we mould find all flaves to come from princes, and all princes from flaves :" but for tune has turn- ed all things topfy-turvy, in a long feries of revolutions. But it matters not whence we come, but what we are ; nor is the glory of our predecefTors any more to our ho- nour, than the wickednefs of their pofterity is to their mame. 683. The prefs is dangerous in adefpotic government; but in a free country may be very ufeful, as long as it is under no correction j for it is of great confequence, that the people mould be informed of every thing that con- cerns them j and without printing, fuch knowledge could not circulate either fo eafily or fo faft j and to argue a- gainft any branch of liberty from the ill ufe that may be made of it, is to argue againfl liberty itfelf^ fince all is capable of being abufed. Nor can any part of freedom be more important, or better worth contending for, than thlt by which the fpirit of it is preferved, fupported, and diffufed. By this appeal to the judgment of the people, we lay fome reftraint upon thofe minifters, who may have found means to fecure themfelves from any other lefs in- corruptible tribunal : and fure they have no reafon to com- plain, if the publick exercifes a right which cannot be denied, no A COLLECTION of -denied, without avowing, that their conduct will not bear enquiry j for though the beft adminiftration may be attack- ed by calumny, I can hardly believe it would be hurt by it. 684. Some women care not what becomes of their ho- nour, fo they may fecure the reputation of their wit. 685. The character of a player was infamous amongft the Romans, but with the Greeks honourable. What is our opinion ? We think of them like the Romans^ and live with them like the Greeks. 686. The branding of one truth, imports more difre- pute, than the broaching ten errors; thefe being only lapfes in the fearch of new reafon, without which there can be no addition to knowledge; that, murdering of it. 687. In thy apparel avoid Angularity, foppery, and pro- fufenefs. Can any thing expofe a man more to contempt, than to appear in fuperfluities when he wants neceffaries ? Be not too early or precifely in the famion, nor too long out of it ; when cuftom has civilized it, it becomes de- cent, till then, ridiculous ; decency is the midway betwixt affectation and negligence : avoid morofenefs and punctuali- ty, as the two poles of pride. 688. As thofe are the beft hives of bees that are moft unquiet, fo are thofe confciences the beft, that are fo ten- der, as to be uneafy and unquiet at the firft apprehenfion or approach of evil. Doubts and fears, like thirties, are bad in themfelves, but figns of good ground. He whofe faith had never any doubt, has reafon to doubt whether ever he had any faith : faith, without repentance, is pre- fumption ; repentance, without faith, defpair. 689. Whofoever takes from his neighbour his good name, APHORISMS and MAXIMS, in name, befides the fin he commits, is bound to make re- paration, though different, according to the diverlity of the (landers ; for no man can enter into heaven with other mens goods, and amongft all exterior goods, that of a good name is moft precious. 690. It is a fad thing when men have neither wit e- nough to fpeak well, nor fenfe enough to hold their tongue j this is the foundation of all impertinence. 691. Wife men are the better and politer for travelling, but fools the worfe. 692. It is very hard to hit a certain temper and medi- ocrity of freedom with perfons above us, fo to be eafy and plain with them, as to become an inftrument of their diverlion and entertainment, without being any way of- fenlive, or breaking in upon the honour and refpecl: due to their quality. 693. Agreeablenefs is arbitrary, but beauty is fomething more real, and independent upon the palate and opinion. 694. The difference between an amorous lady, and a coquet., is, that the firil is for being loved, and the other only for paffing for handfome and lovely : The one de- figns to engage us, and the other only to pleafe us : the intriguing woman paffes from one amour to another fuc- ceffively, the coquet has feveral amufements at once : paf- fion and pleafure are predominant in the firfr, and vanity and levity in the other. Gallantry is a weaknefs of the heart, or, perhaps, a defect of conftitution ; but a coquetifo humour is an irregularity, or debauchery of the mind. To conclude, an amorous 'woman makes herfelf to be fear- ed, and a coquet to be hated, 695. It ii2 A COLLECTION of 695. It is ftrange to find in fome womens hearts fome- tliing more quick and ftrong than the love of men j I mean ambition^ and the paffion of gaming: Such wo- men make men chafte ; they have nothing of their fex but the petticoat. 696. He is much more to be valued that has got an e- ftate by his induflry, than he that has loft it by his neg- ligence. 697. If at any time you are prefled to do a thing haf- tily, be careful j fraud and deceit are always in hafte, diffidence is the right eye of prudence. 698. A man in publick affairs is like one at fea, never in his own difpofal, but in that of winds and tides. 699. Becaufe you find a thing very difficult, do not prefently conclude that no man can mafter it - y but what- ever you obferve proper and practicable by another, be- lieve likewife within your power. 700. As love of reputation is a darling paflion of great men, fo the defence of it, in this particular, is the bufinefs of every man of honour and honefty ; we mould run on fuch an occafion, as if a publick building was on fire, to the relief of it ; and all who fpread or publifh any fuch deteftable pieces as traduce its merit, mould be ufed like incendiaries. It is the common caufe of our country to fupport the reputation of thofe who preferve it againft invaders, and every man is attacked in the perfon of that neighbour who deferves well of him. 701. Ladies, fome of them of the firft quality, here- tofore, have been fo far from thinking it any abafement, to charge themfelves with the inftru&ion of their own chil- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 113 children, that, to their immortal honour, they have made it part of their bufinefs to affift in that of other people's, particularly thofe who were likely to be of confequence to the commonwealth. I inftance only in the famous Cor- nelia, the mother of the Gracchi, and Aurelia, the mo- ther of Augujlus, who did this for the noblemen of Rome, to whom they had no relation, but that of their common country. Thefe high examples mould prevail with the ladies of our age (who call themfelves chriftians) to em- ploy fome of their vacant hours, and pains, if not on o- thers, at leaft on their own offspring. 702. There is no work defpicable, becaufe it is mean ; if it be honeft and neceflary, it is honourable ; I am ren- dered important to the creation by ferving its neceffities. It has been mentioned, in old time, that princefles did not difdain the diftafT and needle. The golden age is painted as a paftoral one, when the kings of the earth tilled the ground, and the princes kept fheep. 703. They that are fo ridiculous as to value themfelves meerly upon their quality, do, in a manner, flight that very thing that gave them their quality, fince it is only the virtue of their anceftors that firft ennobled their blood. 704. In the bufinefs of war, it is a nice diftindtion, that which is betwixt a heroe and a great man, fince all military virtues do equally contribute to the making of both. Neverthelefs k may be faid, that it is the character of the firft, to be young, bold, daring, refolute, and fear- lefs, amidft the greateft dangers j and that the other's chief qualifications are, a great judgment, a fagacious forecaft, a vail ability, and a confummate experience. ii4 d. COLLECTION of Alexander was perhaps but a heroe, but Ccefar was a great man. 705. Philofophy eafily conquers and triumphs over pajl and future evils-, but the prefent ones triumph over phi- lofophy. 706. The Philofophers, and Seneca among the reft, did not remove men's faults by their precepts, but only im- proved them by the fetting up oi pride j fo that their vir- tues (as a father of the church has it) were but glittering vices. 707. Natural things never fatiate : who was ever weary of looking on fields, rivers, flowers, heavens, &c? B ut artificial things, as pictures, gardens, houfes, and the like, glut with two or three times looking on them. 708. Strong defires are commonly attended with fears proportionable. Let a man defire wifdom, and if he once get that wifh, it is likely he may never be troubled with another. 709. Plato hearing it was afTerted by fome perfons, that he was a very bad man ; "I mall take care, faid he to live fo, that no body mail believe them." 710. Nothing beftows fo much beauty on a woman, as modefty j even Fenus herfelf pleafes moft, when me ap- pears in a figure withdrawing herfelf from the eyes of the beholders, in a my, retiring pofture. 711. Life is other wife in God, than in the creatures; in him originally, in them derivatively ; our life is in him, but his is in himfelf. 712. Anger is one of the pafllons which is occafioned by furprize ;. for a man is not angry at a common thing, and APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 115 and to which he is accuftomed j for this reafon, the dearer thofe are to us, that put us in a paffion, the more violent it is. 713. It difgufts much to talk low in converfation ; fuch as are excluded thefe myfteries, have reafon to think you talk of them, or elfe defpife them. 7 1 4. Solomon always ufed the word fool as a term of the fame fignification with unjuft^ and makes all deviation from goodnefs, and virtue, to come under the notion of folly. 715. Thofe who are apt to blafon others faults, fjiew they have either little confidered their own, or elfe find them fo great, that they are forced to the art of reverfion, and feek in the infamy of others, to drown their own. 716. A decent action in preaching is very commend- able ; it being certain that the lifelefs, motionlefs gefture of the generality of preachers, is the occafion that many of their fermons mifs of their intended effect. 717. Every author almoft has fome beauty or blemifli remarkable in his flile ; and every reader a peculiar tafte of books, as well as meats: fome affect a grave, fome a florid flile ; fome eafinefs and plainnefs, others flrength and politenefs ; but the fecret of writing, is the mixing all thefe in fo juft a proportion, that every one may tafle what he likes, without being difgufted at its contrary. 718. Volatilenefs of thought is very pernicious to true fcience ; it is a fault which people of warm imaginations, and active fpirits are apt to fall into ; fuch a temper is rea- dily difpofed to receive errors, and well qualified to pro- pagate them, efpecially if volubility of fpeech be joined to it. 719. The great miflake of fome noblemen^ is, that they look upon their nobility as a character given them by nature. 720. There 1 1 6 A COLLECTION of 720. There is no condition that does not fit well upon a wife man ; for this reafon, I fhall never quarrel with a philofopher for living in a palace, but fhall, at the fame time, not excufe him, if he cannot content himfelf with a cottage. I fhall not be fcandalifed to behold him in the apparel of kings, provided he has not their ambition. 721. By looking back into hiftory, and confidering the fate and revolutions of government, you will be able to draw a guefs, and almoft prophefy upon the future ; for, things paft, prefent, and to come, are ftrangely uniform, and of a colour, and are commonly caft in the fame mould -, fo that, upon the matter, forty years of human life may ferve for a fample of ten thoufand. 722. To be afraid of death, is to be long a dying. 723. The difficulty is not fo great, to die for a friend, as to find a friend 'worth dying for. 724. It is a dangerous thing in all commonwealths, by continual punimments, to hold the minds of fubjeds in fufpicion ; for men ever fearing their ruin, will, like thofe in defpair, refolve to fave themfelves any way, and fo attempt innovations. All capital executions ought therefore to be done fuddenly, fo to fecure the minds of men from further cruelties. 725. It is ill logick to argue from particulars to gene- rals ; and where the premifes are fingular, to conclude u- niverfally. 726. Privileges founded upon private laws, only, are neither to be pleaded nor granted in bar to the publick fafety, which is the fupreme law. 727. Nothing fo wins upon the obftinate, and melts the moft APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 117 mofl obdurate minds, like mild and gentle ufage -, even filence, when it mews fubmiflion and not fullennefs, is more apt to perfuade, than angry arguments ufed in op- pofition. There is an unaccountable force in meeknefs, patience, and forbearance ; they excite a fenfe of fhame, gratitude, and honour. 728. The very beft way to make your children love and refpedt you when you are old, is to teach them abfo- lute obedience when they are young, that being the firft virtue a child is capable of. Certainly nothing finks deeper, or takes fatter root in the mind of a man, than thofe rules and precepts learned when a child. Solon made a law, that thofe parents mould neither be relieved nor regarded in their old age by their children, who took no care, by a good and virtuous education in their youth, to inftruct them in all the principles of their duty. Socrates fays, he that makes his fon worthy of efteem, by giving him a liberal education, has a far better title to his obedience and duty, than he that gives him a large eftate without it. 729. Revealing fecrets is, by Sir Richard Steele, called a diabetic paffion, a kind of incontinence of the mind, that retains nothing ; perpetually, and almofl infenfibly r evacuating all. 730. If, by concealing one man's fault, I be injurious to another, I affume the guilt I conceal ; and by the laws, both of God and man, am judged an acceflary. 73 i . Men of great and elevated fpirits have fufferings and enjoyments peculiar to themfelves. 732. All men are naturally good, when no refpect of profit or pleafure draws them to become evil; but the corrup- n8 A COLLECTION of' corruption of this world, and our frailty is fuch, as eafily, and often for our particular intereft, we incline to the worft 5 which was the cauic that wife lawgivers found out rewards and punifoments, the one to invite men to be good, the other to deliver them from being evil. 733. In a ftate divided by feels and parties, the leader of any fide is able to kindle civil war, yet he is unable to moderate the victory : for to ftir up feditions and troubles, the worft man commonly bears the ftroke j but peace and quietnefs are only fettled by men of rare gifts, and excellent virtue. 734. Marriage, that fhould be a fountain of all bleiTings and enjoyments, proves often, by the difpofition of a man's fortune, a heavy burden that crufhes him down : It is then that a wife and children are a ftrong temptation to deceit and unaccountable gains ; and that a man finds him- felf betwixt two very extremes, knavery and indigence. 735. The reafon why women have a greater (hare in Jlate intrigues in France, than they generally have in Eng- land > is, becaufe France is governed by men, and England by /aws ; the former they know how to manage, the lat- ter they are not bred to underftand. 736. A man that has no good quality but courage, is in a very ill way towards making an agreeable figure in the world, becaufe that which he has fuperior to other people, cannot be exerted, without raifing himfelf ene- mies; (the fatirift is in the fame condition). To know bare- ly how to (laughter men, to be better fkilled than others in rooting out fociety, and deftroying nature, is to excel in a very fatal fcience. 737- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 119 737. Children that are not fenfible of mame, are for the moft part perverfe, ill-natur'd, and indocible j on the contrary, bafhful children are moft commonly obfer- ved to be very towardly and difciplinable ; apt to learn, and eafily taught. 738. Covetoufnefs is either an unlawful defire of what is none of our own, or a too greedy delight in what is fo. 739. What fignifies praife to them that are above it? Truth itfelf, in a dedication, is like an honeft man in a difguife, or vifor mafque, and will appear a cheat by be- ing drefTed fo like one. A man is no more in reafon ob- liged for his picture in a dedication, than to thank a painter for that on a fign-poft ; except it be a lefs injury to touch the moft facred part of him in his character, than to make free with the countenance only. 740. Things read lofe ten thoufand beauties which they have when fpoken j they have not that fpirit and life, but look ftiff, and dead j are not fo free and natural, nor appear with that fort of grace, fpirit and affection, that things which are fpoken do. 741. Women engage themfelves to the men by the fa- vours they grant them - y men, on the contrary, difengage themfelves from the women by the favours they receive. 742. A 'woman that has but one gallant, thinks herfelf to be no coquet; me that has feveral, concludes herfelf no more than a coquet. 743. Women complain of their lovers inconstancy without reafon. Their humours, their faces, their charms, daily change : Why mould men be debarred the fame ptivilege ? 744. Love I2O A COLLECTION of 744. Love is the moft unaccountable of all pafiions, for it is never fo violent, but one unexpected action may turn it to hatred. 745. It is the part of a prudent man to be moderate in good fortune. A brave retreat is as great as a brave enterprize. When a man has acted great exploits, he ought to fecure the glory of them, by drawing off in time. The more profperities croud one upon another, the more flippery they are, and fubject to a reverie. Fortune is weary to carry one and the^ fame man always upon her fhoujders. 746. The women would fain lay the faults of their conduct at the men's doors : They tell us, they would not fin> if we did not tempt them : We anfwer, we mould not tempt them, if they did not invite us. 747. What contributes to make the ipring time of our life uncapable of the advantages of a true and folid friendship, is, that young men, generally fpeaking, hate even the very idea of virtue ; that name gives them as much horror as its contrary pleafes them ; and as they look upon its rewards to be only in reverfion, they con- clude that it is time ill fpent to fet up for wifdom, and to confult reafon, when they fhould indulge their fenfes. 748. The belief of a God is the beft foundation of all pleafures, and an intire dependence on him never fuf- fers a man to be without fatisfaction in profperity, nor comfort in adverfity. A well regulated mind does not only tafle delights in the enjoyment of any good it re- ceives, but it alfo difcovers dainties in it, to thank its bene- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 121 benefacftor for , and every reflection it makes upon them affords new matter for fatisfadtion. 749. Examine, as long as you pleafe, the goods of the world, and you will always find them much more defirablc than really they are, till you have enjoyed them. Examine likewife all the evils, and you will flill find them to be feared, beyond what they ought to be, till you have made the experiment. 750. No man is obliged to think beyond his capacity, and we never tranfgrefs the bounds of good fenfe, but when we aim to go beyond it. 751. No man defpifes honour, but he that defpairs of it. 752. They that will obferve nothing in a wife man, but his overfights and follies ; nothing in a good man, but his failings and infirmities, may make a mift to render a very wife and good man very defpicable. If one mould heap together all the pafllonate fpeeches, all the froward and imprudent adions of the befl man, all that he had faid or done amifs in his whole life, and prefent it all at one view, concealing his wifdom and virtues, the man in this difguife would look like a madman or fury j and yet if his life were fairly reprefented, and juft in the fame manner it was led, and his many and great virtues fet overagainft his infirmities and failings, he would appear, to all the world, an admirable and excellent perfon : but how many and great foever a man's ill qualities are, it is but juft that, with all this heavy load of faults, he mould have his due praife of the few and real virtues that are in him. 753. Wifdom requires three things; knowledge to R dif- 130 A COLLECTION of difcern, judgment to weigh, and refolution to deter- mine. 754. A paffionate expreffion is often forgiven, but rail- lery in cool blood never, it being a fure fign of want of efteem. 755. The wit of man does more naturally vent itfelf in fatire and cenfure, than in praife and panegyric. 756. Grant a courtefy, if you intend it at all, willing- ly, and fpeedily, for that doubles it ; to keep long in fufpence, is churlim; for, by long expectation, the paflion to the favour dies. 757. As it is moft pleafant to the eye to have an cnd- lefs profpect, fo it is an inconceivable pleafure to a finite underftanding, to view unlimited excellencies, which have neither mores nor bounds : though it cannot poffibly com- prehend them, yet there is an ineffable pleafure in admi- ration. 758. The majefty of princes is cenfured as pride; their facility, bafenefs ; if grave, the people love them not j if familiar, they fcorn them ; if melancholy, nothing will oblige them ; if prudent, fubtle and crafty -, if free and ingenuous, improvident : all their words and actions receive an ill interpretation ; if conquerors, they are ambitious ; if peaceable, cowards ; if liberal, prodigal j if provident, covetous ; if valiant, rah, &c. 759. Great and ingenuous fpirits are much fooner brought to repentance by a fenfe of mercy, than of terror; for terror begets a ftupifying fear, which dams and jftops up all the pafTages to and from the foul, and made the wretch APHORISMS and MAXIMS, 131 wretch in the gofpel ftand fpeechlefs and amazed at Chrift's demand, whereas mercy opens the heart, and melts it. 760. He that credits an ill report, is almofl as crimi- nal as the firft inventor of it. 761. They who ofteneft meet with infamous deaths, are thofe who foolifhly fquander away their eflate, and as fhamefully repair them. 762. Humour, temper, education, and a thoufand o- ther circumftances, create fo great a difference betwixt the feveral palates of men, and their judgments upon inge- nious compofures, that nothing can be more chimerical and foolifh in an author, than the ambition of a general reputation. 763. If men of quality were as able to judge as they are to reward, it would be an advantage to their purfes, as well as their reputations. 764. A fine face is the fineft of fights ; and the voice of her one loves, the fweeteft harmony in the world. 765. A woman will think herfelf flighted if me is not courted, yet pretends to know herfelf too well to believe your flattery. 766. There is a time when maids, even thofe that have the moft confiderable fortunes, ought ferioufly to think of beflowing themfelves, left their refufal of the firft of- fers be attended with a long and bitter repentance. The reputation of their riches does generally decreafe with that of their beauty j but, on the contrary, every thing is fa- vourable to a young lady, and men are content to heighten all the advantages that can moft flir up their paffion, and make her worthy of their applications and defires. R 2 767. Love, 124 ^ COLLECTION of 767. Love, in its infancy, leflens every fault ; in its de- clenfion, it not only aggravates them, but multiplies them. 768. There is fomething which can never be learned, but in the company of the polite : the virtues of men are catching, as well as their vices ; and your own obferva- tions, added to thefe, will foon difcover what it is that commands attention in one man, and makes you tired and difpleafed with the difcourfe of another. 769. Some of the fathers fay, that St Thomas's infi- delity has done the church more fervice than the faith of all the other apoflles, it being an inconteftable proof of the refurrection. 770. Mercy, in particulars, is fometimes cruelty in the general. 771. Th,e likelieft way to thrive is method in bulinefs, and never to do that by another that you can convenient- ly do yourfelf, and to defer not till to-morrow, what ought to be done to-day, and defpife not fmall things. 772. Had I been a heathen, I believe I mould have fa- crificed to no other God or Goddefs but truth and friend- ihip 5 thofe would have been to me the king and queen of heaven. 773. Every one makes Fortune his friend or foe, according to his good or bad conduct. 774. As reconciling enemies is the work of God, fo fe- parating friends is the work of the devil. 775. A prudent man will avoid talking much of any particular fcience for which he is remarkably famous j be- fides the decency of the rule, it is certainly founded on good policy. A man who talks of any thing he is already famous APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 125 for, has little to get, but a great deal to lofe j he who is fometimes lilent on a fubjeft where every one is fatisfied he could fpeak well, will often be thought no lefs know- ing in other matters, where perhaps he is wholly ignorant. 776. Let all young people forbear the ufe of much wines and ilrong drinks, as well as fpiced and hot meats ; for they introduce a preternatural heat into the body, and at laft hinder and obftruft, if not at length extinguish the natural. 777. Nothing is more filly than the pleafure fome peo- ple take, in what they call fpeaking their minds. A man of this make will fay a rude thing for the meer pleafure of faying it, when an oppofite behaviour, full as innocent, might have preferved his friend, or made his fortune. 778. It is virtue that makes the mind invincible, and places us out of the reach of fortune, though not out of the malice of it. When Zeno was told that all his goods were drowned, Why then, faid he, Fortune has a mind to make me a philofopher j nothing can be above him. that is above fortune ; no infelicity can make a wife man quit his ground. 779. Cuftom, without reafon, is no better than antient error. 780. Railleries are not good, unlefs they be lively and full of fait ; the length enervates and fpoils them. 781. We may truly fay of happinefs; philofophers feek. it, divines find it, but the religious, only, enjoy it* 782. He cannot rightly judge of pleafure, that never tailed pain. 783. He !34 A COLLECTION of 783. He that is in an error cannot rightly juflify him- felf, but by immediately for faking it ; that yielding is glo- rious, and to be overcome by truth, honourable. 784. Fly the company of thofe who are given to detrac- tion ; to hear them patiently, is criminal, and to fhew the leaft countenance of encouragement, is to partake of their guilt, and to promote them to a continuance of it. 785. Fortune commonly ma-kes hafte in the profperity or adverfity of princes. 786. Wit is only to be valued as it is applied, and is very pernicious when accompanied with vice. 787. The modes and cuftoms of this world are fo en- gaging, and bewitching, that they are the firft that fools learn, and the laft that wife men forfake. 788. It is the bufinefs of a true critic to difcover beau- ties as well as blemimes, and, by a due ballancing of both, to pafs a found judgment on the whole. 789. People that have a great deal of wit themfelves, are apt to over-rate the leaft appearance of it in others ; and thofe that have noble fouls of their own, commonly form their ideas of others accordingly. 790. We ought to fear no other misfortunes but thofe that are infeparable from our fins 5 it is impoffible to be unhappy and innocent. A peaceable confcience fills the foul with tranquillity. 79 1 . Hope is the miferable man's God, the vital heat of the mind, an active and vigorous principle, furnimed with light and heat, to advife and execute ; it fets the head and heart at work, and animates a man to do his utmoft -, it is fometimes fo fprightly and rewarding a qua- lity, APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 135 lity, that the pleafure of expectation exceeds that of frui- tion j it refines upon the rules of nature, and paints be- yond the life ; and when reality is thus outfhine'd by the imagination, fuccefs is a kind of difappointment, and to hope is better than to have. 792. Pleafures, preceded by the greateft difficulties, are the molt fenfible. 793. As the fweeteft rofe grows upon the fharpeft prickle, fo the hard eft labours bring forth the fweeteft profit j no pleafure is denied to the painful perfon, by ufe and labour a man may be brought to a new nature. 794. There feldom lodges other than a mean and fee- ble mind in an effeminate and tender body, labour co- agulates and ftrengthens the mind, while lazinefs loofens and effeminates it. 795. Since our perfons are not of our own forming, and that it is God that made us, and not we ourfelves j when they appear defective, it is a laudable fortitude, neither to be uneafy nor abamed with the confcioufnefs of imperfections, which we cannot help, and in which there is no guilt, and, consequently, no fhame. Though in the old tefta- ment exprefs notice be taken of the beauty of feveral per- fons, yet, in the new, no mention is made of orie ; not that they wanted outward accomplimments, but the in- ward is what the gofpel has chiefly recommended* So- crates advifes youth to contemplate themfelves in a glafs^ that, if handfome, they may do nothing unworthy of their glorious form ; and if otherwife, they may mend them- felves with virtue and wifdom, the true ornaments of the foul, 128 A COLLECTION of foul, without which the.J>righteft body is not to be e- fteemed as fuch. 796. The beft way of reprehending thofe that commit miftakes, is to do it in general, without any direct ad- drefTes to the perfon that has forgot himfelf, to fpare him the confufion ; this indirect way more effectually gains its point, becaufe it reproves without the fharpnefs of a re- primand. If the fault be of no confequence, it is better to feem ignorant of it than to cenfure it j but if it be of that nature, that we are obliged in duty, decency, and friendfhip, to admonifh him that is guilty of it, it ought to be done with all the foftnefs and precaution poffible. 797. He who reprehends others, ought to be of an un- blameable converfation himfelf. 798. The greateft love, and the greateft hatred, are caufed by religion ; nothing is more to be admired, and nothing more to be lamented, than the private contentions, the paflionate quarrels, the perfonal hatred, and the perpetual wars, maflacres, and murders, forreligion, among chriflians. 799. Why mould I have fuch an averfion to men on account of their religion ? We cannot be fure not to be deceived ; the obfcurity of fome queftions, the vanity of human underftanding, the engagement of education, per- fonal authorities, the feveral degrees of poffibility, the in- validity of tradition, the oppofition of all exterior argu- ments to each other, the publick violence done to authors and records, the private art of abuling men's underftand- ing, and all perfuafions into their opinions, and ten thou- fand more, even all the difficulties of things, all the weakneffes of man, and all the arts of the devil, make it im- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 129 impoffible for any man, in fo great variety of matter, not to be deceived. Why mould I then, if the perfons be chriftians in their profeffions and lives, hate fuch as, per- haps, God loves, and who love God, becaufe their un- der {landings are not bred like mine ? 800. Adapt yourfelf to the company you are in, be grave with the aged, gay with the young, fupple to the great, affable to all, refpectful to every woman you con- verfe with, but, efpecially, be at the devotion of the young, and the fair. There is no man fenfible how difficult it is to have this complaifance, but thofe that know how neceflary it is to fupport the character of a well-bred man. 80 1. Being fome time afunder, heightens converfation ; moft meats require fauce, but all an appetite. The fre- quent quarrels between relations, is their being fo much together. 802. Some men adapt themfelves to all forts of cha- racters, with fo dexterous a compliance, that one would fwear their humours were that of all others j they appear generous with men of honour, fubtle with intriguing per- fons, without parts to the ftupid, and commit voluntary fopperies, to agree with real fops. 803. When we fay of a man who is hafty, paffionate, inconftant, quarrelfome, morofe, exceptious, whimfical, &c. that is bis humour^ we do not fo much excufe him, as confefs unawares, that his faults are fo great that they are part mending. 804. The good or ill of men's lives comes more from "their humours, than their fortunes. S 805. Per- 130 A COLLECTION of 805. Perfons and humours may be difguifed, but na- ture is like quickfilver, that will never be killed. 806. A chriftian that is wife, ought fo well to employ every moment of his life, as not to dread his end ; for if he treads the path of uprightnefs under the conduit of providence, it is indifferent to him at what time or age he finimes his courfe. The only way to live, is not to fear death, and it is this fear alone that difturbs the repofe of a voluptuous life. 807. The pleafure which a man of honour takes in be- ing confcious to himfelf of having performed his duty, is a reward which he pays himfelf for all his pains, and makes him the lefs to regret the applaufe, efteem, and acknowledgments, which he is fometimes deprived of. 808. As the fpleen has great inconveniences, fo the pretence of it is a handfome cover for many imperfec- tions j it oftentimes makes ill nature pafs for ill health, dulnefs for gravity, and ignorance for refervednefs. 809. A regular well-governed affection does not fcorch, but, like the lamp of life, warms the breaft with a gentle and refrefhing heat. 8 10. As he that can revenge an injury, and will not, difcovers a great and magnanimous foul j fo he that can re- turn a kindneis, and dares not, mews a mean and con- temptible fpirit. 8 1 1 . Virtue ftrengthens in adverfity, moderates in pro- fperity, guides in fociety, entertains in folitude, advifes in doubts, fupports in weaknefs j it is of all acquifitions the moft precious, without it the goods of fortune become evils, ferving only to make us guilty and miferable -, for it APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 131 it gives glory to God, utility to the publick, tranquillity and joy to the confcience, relief to fome, counfel to o- thers, and example to all. 812. Let prophane minds laugh at it as much as they will, there is a fecret commerce between God and the fouls of good men j they feel the influence of heaven, and become both wifer and better for it. Their thoughts are nobler as well as freer j thofe that truly fear God have a fecret guidance from a higher wifdom than what is bare- ly human, namely, the fpirit of truth, which does really, though privately, prevent and direct them that fear, de- pend and call upon God for his guidance and direction. Though the divine affiftance is principally feen in matters relating to the foul, yet it is very often found in the con- cerns which a good man, that fears God, and begs his help, fhall very often, if not at all times find. Sir Matthew Hale called his own experience to witnefs, that in the ex- ternal actions of his whole life, he never was difappointed in the beft guidance and affiftance, when he had, in hu- mility and fmcerity, implored the divine aid and benedic- tion. There are peculiar happy flights, and bright minutes, which open to men great landfcapes, and give them a full and moft beautiful profpect of things, which do not al- ways arife out of a previous meditation, or chain of thought, but are flafhes of light from the eternal fource, which of- ten break in upon the peaceful, pure, and pious mind. 813. The mind of man is not only an image of God's fpirituality, but his infinity ; it is a fubftance of a bound- lets comprehenfion j nothing does more difcover the foul's infinity, than thought. 82 814. The 132 A COLLECTION of 8 1 4. The extremes either of youth or age, make a man's judgment often fail him > for if he thinks too little on things, he over-looks truth, and if too long, he is too much dozed to perceive it. Juft as in the petitions of a picture, there is but one point moft proper to mew it in, the other may mifreprefent by too great diftance, or nearnefs, by being too high, or too low. 815. Confidence, which ought to make the tyes of friend- fhip flronger, does generally produce a contrary effect $ fo that it is a wife man's part to be as referved in this particular, as is confiftent with the laws of decency, and united affections ; but, above all, let us have a care not to difclofe our hearts to thofe who mut up theirs from us. 8 1 6. Good breeding is learnt from the converfation of ladies, and good humour from men ; the one teaches us gallantry, the other wifdom. 8 j 7. To difcern true merit, and reward it when a man has found it out, are two great fteps to make at once, and fuch as few of the great ones are capable of. 8 1 8. Did men but take as much care to mend, as they do to conceal their failings, they would both fpare them- felves that trouble which diffimulation puts them to, and gain betides the commendations they afpire to, by their feeming virtues. 8 1 9. A man is more referved and fecret in his friend's concern, than his own ; a woman, on the contrary, keeps her own fecret better than another's. 820. There is never fo ftrong a love in a young ladfs breaft, but what may receive fome addition, either from ambition or intereft. 821. A jea- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 133 821. A jealous hufband, who finds out his wife, gets this by the bargain, that it cures him of his jealoufy, which is one of the worft torments a man can have j and who would not bear with a faucy companion, to get rid of the devil ? 822. It is commonly imagined, that a great memory feldom accompanies a great wit, or a good judgment, and that thofe three are incompatible, that they have di- vers habitations in, and a diverfe temperature of the brain. I think the contrary is generally, but not always true ; doubtlefs they are managed by one great agent in the foul, which is above temperature, place and matter. 823. An entire inactivity of body and mind is fo far from giving us tranquillity, that it only brings upon us an uneafy fatiety and difrelim of all things about us. 824. What is loft by the firft Adam, we have recover- ed by the fecond j fo we fuffer no more by an imputed fin, than we may enjoy by an imputed righteoufnefs. 825. Thofe that reveal a fecret, do an injury to whom they reveal it ; for it is natural not only to hate thofe who tell, but them alfo that hear what we would not have difclofed. 826. The foundation of a good government over a man's felf, is to be laid in the command of the paffions ; a good life is aptly compared to mufick, for they who make virtue the fcope of their actions, proceed in har- mony and order. 827. The greateft pleafure of life, is love ; the greateft treafure, contentment ; the greatefl poffeffion, health ; the 134 d- COLLECTION of the greateft eafe, is deep j and the greateft medicine, a true friend. 828. Of all the affe&ions that attend human life, the love of glory is the moft ardent ; called by fome, a raging fit of virtue in the foul. Honour's a fpark of the celejliql fire, That above nature makes mankind afyire. 829. I look upon arrears for paft benefits, as the moft facred of all debts, and think no excefs fo commendable, as an excefs of gratitude. 830. He that thinks to expiate a fin by going bare- foot, does the penance of a goofe, and only makes one folly the atonement for another. In the church of Rome, a man cannot be a penitent, unlefs a vagabond, by pilgri- maging about the world ; that which was Cain's curfe, is become their religion. 831. We read that St Paul was beaten by the Jews, but never that he beat himfelf j if the Papifts think his keeping under the body imports fo much, they muft firft prove the body cannot be kept under by a virtuous mind, and that the mind cannot be made virtuous without a fcourge. The truth is, if men's religion be no deeper than the fkin, it is pofiible they may fcourge themfelves into great improvements; but let them lafli on never fo faft, they may as well expect to bring a cart, as a foul to heaven, by thefe means. 832. The regular courfe, and ftanding order of nature is a much .more glorious evidence of divine wifdom, power and providence, than the mod miraculous inter- ruptions, and diforders of it, 833. The APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 135 833. The vifible marks of extraordinary wifdom and power appear fo plainly in all the works of the creation, that a rational creature, who will but ferioufly reflect, can- not mifs the difcovery of the deity. 834. It is obfervable, that, through all fucceffions of men, there never was any fociety, any collective body of atheifts ; a fingle one might here and there perhaps be found, as we fometimes fee monfters, and mimapen births; but, for the generality, they had always fuch inftincts of a deity, that they never thought they ran far enough from, atheifm, but rather chofe to multiply their Gods, to have too many, than none at all ; they were even apt to defcend to the adoration of things below themfelves, rather than, renounce the power above them ; by which we may fee the notion of a God is the moft indelible character of natural reafon, and therefore, whatever pretence our a- theifts make to ratiocination, and deep difcourfe, it is none of the primitive fundamental reafon, coetaneous with our humanity, but is, indeed, a reafon fit only for thofe who own themfelves like the beafts that perifli. 835. If the world had no beginning, how is it that the Greeks (the moft antient writers) mention nothing higher than the wars of 'Thebes and Trey ? Were there, from eter- nity, no memorable actions till that time ? or had men no means to record or propagate the memory of them to pofterity ? If men were from eternity, it is flrange they mould not find out the way of writing in that long duration. But it may be faid, thofe records and memorials perimed in univerfal deluges, which is the atheift's plea. But thefe Inundations muft be either natural or fupernatural - 3 if the lat- ter, 136 A COLLECTION of ter, then indeed it is eafy to conceive how a few of mankind, and no more fliould efcape, which evidently proves a God ; but if they be natural, as the atheifts muft fay, then there is nothing to reftrain them from a total deftruction. 836. Money has itsufe, it is true ; but, generally fpeak- ing, the benefit does not countervail the care that goes a- long with it, and the hazards, and the temptations to a- bufe it. It is the patron, and the price of all wickednefs -, it blinds all eyes, and flops all ears, from the prince, to the very beggar ; it corrupts faith and juftice ; and, in one word, it is the very pick-lock that opens the way in- to all cabinets and councils : it debauches children againft their parents ; it makes fubjeds rebel againft their gover- nors, it turns lawyers and divines into advocates for fa- crilege and fedition, and it tranfports the very profeflbrs of the gofpel, into a fpirit of contradiction, and defiance of the practices and precepts of our lord and mafter. 837. Want of care will always create want of money, fo that, whether a man be a beggar, becaufe he never had any money, or becaufe he could never keep any, is all one to them that are to truft him. 838. The moft general and immediate caufe of the ruin of families, in all the different degrees of condition, is, that people generally fquarc their ftate and expence by their title, and not by their revenue. 839. Jeahitfy, in a hufband, generally ripens into cue- koldom. 840. There is nothing can render the thoughts of this odd life tolerable, but the expectation of another; and wife men have faid, that they would not live a moment, if APHORISMS and MAXIMS. i 37 if they thought they were not to live again, as it would be a mifery to live, if we were to live for nothing elfe. 841. Thofe whom crofs accidents of fortune have un- done, are pitied by all the world, becaufe it is a misfor- tune the conditions of humanity fubmit us toj but thofe that are reduced to mifery by vain profufion, raife more contempt than commiferation, becaufe it is the ifTue of a peculiar folly, from which every man has the good con- ceit to think himfelf exempt. 842. A weak judgment, fome vanity, and much pride, will hurry a man into as unwarrantable and violent at- tempts, as the greateft, moft unlimited, and unfatiable ambition. 843. As there are none but clean beafts that chew the cud, fo none but clean and virtuous men can reflect with pleafure upon their paft life. 844. To dcfire wealth for its own fake, is mean, for- did, low, and proper only for thofe who make obtaining it the end of our profeflion j but to delire it moderately, in order to do more good is unblamable ; even reputation itfelf is delired and fuftained by difcreetly keeping and fpending, fo it is in a manner alfo fubfervient to wealth. 845. A wife man is a great monarch, he has an em- pire within himfelf j reafon commands in chief, and pof- fefTes the throne and fcepter } all his paffions, like obe- dient fubje&s, do obey : though the territories feem but fmall and narrow, yet the command is great, and reaches farther than he that wears the moon for his creft, or the other that has the fun for his helmet, T 846. It 138 A COLLECTION of 846. It is in life as in wine, he that has it good muft not draw it to the laft dreg. 847. All the duties in the chriflian religion, that refpect God, are no other but what natural light prompts men to, except the facrament, and the praying to God in the name and mediation of (Thrift. 848. Contrariety of opinions is that which gives life and fpirit to converfation j if we were all of one mind, we mould in a fhort time have little or nothing to difcourfe of. 849. Some men, by every mufcle in their face, difcover their thoughts to be fixed upon the confideration what fi- gure they are to make, and will often fall into a mufing pofture to attract obfervation, and are then obtruding them- felves upon the company, when they pretend to be with- drawn from it j fuch little arts are the certain and infal- lible tokens of fuperficial minds, as the avoiding obferva- tion is the fign of great and fublime ones. 850. Nature provided for the hart, one of the mofl ti- morous of creatures, fuch large and branching horns, to teach us that ftrength and weapons cannot avail, . where conduct and courage are wanting. 851. We ought not to difcover the imperfections of a husband before his wife, of a father before his children, of a lover in company with his miftrefs, nor of maflers in prefence of their fcholars -, for it touches a man to the quick, to be rebuked before thofe whom he defires mould think honourably of him. 852. It is a degree of folly to delight to fee it in others, and the greatefl infolence imaginable . to rejoice at the difgrace of human nature. 853. Duty APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 139 853. Duty belongs to us, events only to God, who will certainly reward the labourer, let what will be his fuccefs. 854. A found mind in a found body, is a fhort, but full defcription of a happy ftate in this world : he that has thefe two, has little more to wifh for ; and he that wants either of them, will be but little the better for any thing elfe. 855. A gentle and prudent reply to indecent and fcurri- lous language, is the moft fevere, though innocent revenge. 856. Excellent fpeculations put but dead colours upon virtue, he that would draw it to the life muft imprint it on his practice. 857. Women will chufe to intrigue with a man that wants fenfe, rather than with one that wants manners and difcretion. 858. An amour, without any difturbance, is too like marriage : there muft be quarrels, to make way for the pleafure of reconcilements ; there muft be difficulties, for the tranfport of overcoming them ; there muft be myfte- ry, not to divide with any the fweetnefs of a tender com- merce. 859. Hope, though never fo uncertain and deceitful, ftill is of this good ufe to us, that it conduces us to our journey's end an eafier and more pleafdntVay. 860. In a miferable condition, where all things are de- fpaired of, a man is eafily perfuaded rather to confide in another, than in himfelf. 86 1. He that would be fure to have his bufinefs well done, muft either do it himfelf, or fee the doing of it j be fides that, many a good fervant is fpoiled by a darelefs T 2 mafter ; 140 A COLLECTION of matter. The morality of this caution is as good a lefTon to governments, as to private families ; for a prince's lea- ving his bufmefs wholly to his minifters, without a ftrict eye over them, is as dangerous an error in politicks^ as a matter's committing all to his fervants, is in oeconomicks. 862. Good offices depend much upon conftruction ; fome take themfelves to be obliged when they are not, others will not believe it when they are, and fome again take obligations and injuries the one for the other, 863. Every man is attacked in the reproaching of him that has bravely ferved his country, and he fcarce deferves the name of a man that can filently bear it. 864. Ingratitude makes men rebels againft the princi- ples of nature, who ought to be munned as an infectious air, fmce there is no human law to punifh them. 865. Nothing is more abfurd than to hope for a hea- ven of refined and fpiritual happinefs, and at the fame time to^lead a fenfual life, as an introduction to it. 866. None generally find more difTatisfaction in earthly things, than thofe who mofl indulge themfelves in the enjoyment of them ; thofe who are moft in love with the world, are frequently moft jilted by it. 867. Defpair makes a defpicable figure, and defcends from a mean original j it is the offspring of fear, of la- zinefs and impatience, and argues a defect of fpirit and refolution. 868. An unlocked for good is a virgin happinefs, but thofe who gain what they have long gazed on in expecta- tion, only marry what they themfelves have defloured before. 899. As APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 141 869. As a prevention of anger banifti all tale-bearers and flanderers from your converfation, for it is thefe that blow the devil's bellows, to rouze up the flames of rage and fury, by firfl abufing your ears, and then your credu- lity, and after that fleal away your patience, and all this perhaps for a lye. To prevent anger, be not too inquifi- tive into the affairs of others, or what people fay of your- felf, or into the miflakes of your friends, for this is go- ing out to gather flicks, to kindle a fire to burn your own houfe. 870. Urbanity and civility are a debt you owe man- kind j civil language, and good behaviour will be like'per- petual letters commendatory to you ; other virtues have need of fomewhat to maintain them, juflice mufl have power, liberality, wealth, &c. but this fets up with no other flock than a few pleafant looks, good words, and no evil actions. It is an eafy purchafe, when friends are gained by kindnefs and affability. 871. I cannot divine what pleafure fome people take in conflantly complaining j doubtlefs they have fome fecret pride in it, to let us know that their merit is ill ufed, or ill rewarded -, their perpetual lamentations are very tedious and grating, even to thofe they expect pity from. For pity only on fre/h objeffs Jtays> But with the tedious Jight of woes decays. 872. Be careful not to exafperate any feet of religion ; rigour feldom makes ill chriflians better, but many times it makes them referved hypocrites. 873. The common miftake in the computations of men, when they expect returns of favours, proceeds from 14.2 A COLLECTION of from the pride both of the giver and receiver, who can- not agree upon the eftimate of the benefit. 874. There is a fort of free and generous gratitude, whereby a man not only acquits a paft obligation, but lays a new one upon his benefactor. 875. All tray tors are mercenaries ; and whoever be- trays one matter for advantage, will betray another for a better price. 876. It is a part of prudence, not to fink under the impreflion of an ill report, provided there be integrity and innocence to fupport that firmnefs of mind. A wife man will not make his life precarious, he ftands or falls to his own confcience, and leaves the world to take its courfe. 877. A man feldom mifcarries by being ignorant of a- nother's thoughts j but he that does not attend to his own, will certainly be difappointed. 878. It was wifely faid of the Emperor Marcus Anto- ninus, that no man could do him a real injury, becaufe no man could force him to mijbehave himfelf. 879. Keeping is the greateft folecifm a man of plea- fure can commit. If the fpark is true to his miftrefs, it has all the phlegm ; and if he is fond of her, all the expence of matrimony. 880. A man may eafily impofe upon a woman, by a pretended paffion, provided he have no real one for ano- ther. 88 1. We fhouldbe careful never to relate improbabili- ties, though we have authority for them. Vaffb fays, that other vices are like dipt or light money, but lying, coun- APHORISMS and MAXIMS. 143 counterfeit or falfe coin, which an honefl man ought not to pay, though he himfelf received it. 882. Prudence is a chriftian as well as a moral virtue 5 without it, devotion degenerates into fuperftition, libera- lity into profufenefs, and zeal into a pious frenzy. 883. Patient enduring a neceflary evil, is next to a voluntary martyrdom; for adverfity overcome is the high- eft glory, and willingly undergone is the greateft virtue. 884. Senfe of mame is a ftrong reftraint to keep men from fin j he who, by a vicious courfe of life, has worn out that fenfe, has nothing left, but fear, to deter him from the moft barbarous afts of villainy. 885. A man of wit, who is born proud, lofes nothing of his pride, or ftiffnefs, for being poor j on the con- trary, if any thing will foften and render him more fweet and fociable, it is a little profperity. 886. Men are generally more capable of great endea- vours to obtain their ends, than of a long perfeverance ; their lazinefs and inconftancy rob them of the fruits of tjie beft beginnings. ' They are overtaken by fuch as they left behind them, fuch as marched, perhaps, flowly, but with a conftant refolution. 887. A man that has much merit and ingenuity, and is known to have it, is not ugly with the mofl defor- med features, or if there is a deformity, it makes no im- preffion. 888. Mocking is of all injuries the leaft pardonable. It is the language of contempt, and the bed way by which it makes itfelf underftood ; it attacks a man in his innermoil intrenchment, in the good opinion he has of him- 144