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KWfHHE 1 D J ^ *EmTWtttSP m a^KEfCtl^i : ^if / (-. Increase of his Business. His Horse " Blackie." llules of the Workshop. Efforts to promote Temperance among his Men. In- terest in their Spiritual Welfare. Narrative of two Individuals. Description of his Business. Respect for his Calling. Reputation for Integrity. Self-restraint under Provocation. Skill in hia Work. 47 CHAPTER V. CONNECTION WITH THE SALEM CHURCH. Organization of the Church. Chosen Deacon. View of his official Duties. Love for his Brethren. Attachment to the Pastor, Rev. J. Kd wards. Kindness shown to his Family 5'J 1* (5) 6 CONTENTS. CHAPTER VI. DOMESTIC LIFE, CONTINUED. Marriage to Miss Abby Jane Bigelow. Visit to her Parents. Dom- inie. Mr. SafFord, "the Minister's Friend." Rev. Dr. Cornelius. Birth of a Son. Death of his Wife. Views of Mourning Apparel. Extracts from Correspondence 05 CHAPTER VII. CORRESPONDENCE. Marries Mrs. Mary S. Boardman. Her Death. Letter* to Mr. and Mrs. Gale. To Mr. and Mrs. Turner. Death of Mr. Turner. Letter to Mr. and Mrs. Gale. To his little Son. Encounter with a drunken Man. Religion in traveling. Letter to Mr. Asa JJigelow. Mr. Bigelow's Estimate of his Character. Winter Night Ride. His Bi- ble Class. Anxiety for the Conversion of his Family. Formation of a Legislative Temperance Society. State Fast. Purchase of a House. Marriage to Mrs. Turner , 78 CHAPTER VIII. DOMESTIC LIFE, CONTINUED. Reestablishmcnt of domestic Relations. Enjoyment in them. Hospi- tality. The German Woman. The outcast Child. The Irish Cath- olic Woman. The Feast for the Poor. Evening Parties for Church Members. Religious Worship on these Occasions. Arrangements to promote the Comfort of his Family. The Chaise. Family Wor- ship. Conversion of ail Irish Domestic 104 CHAPTER IX. DOMESTIC LIFE, CONTINUED. Letters to his Wife. Kicked by a Horse. Enjoyment of Solitude. Visits to his Partner, Mr. Low. Mutual Regard of the Partners. Mr. Low's Present of a Cane. Care for his Family. Removal to Beacon Street. Hospitalities. Mary Lyon. Dr. Edwards. Mis- sionaries. Letter of Dr. Anderson 117 CHAPTER X. REVIVAL LABORS. Removal to Park Street Church. Debt of Salem Church paid. Or- ganization of the "Central Church," and Rcmovnl thither. Return to Park Street Church. His Interest in Preaching. Remodeling of the House of Worship. Labors in the Sabbath School. Interest in the Young. Preparations for a Revival. Rev. E. N. Kirk invited to Boston. Manner of his Reception by the Pastors of the City. Special Meetings. Conversions. Letters to Mr. Kirk. Second Visit of Mr. Kirk to Boston. Organization of Mount Vernon Church. Rev. Mr. Aiken's Testimony to Mr. Saflbrd's Character and Useful- ness 129 CONTENTS. 7 CHAPTER XI. MOUNT VERNON CHURCH. Dependence upon God's Blessing 1 . Object sought in the Formation of the Church. Regard for the Poor. Readiness to yield to the Opin- ions of his Brethren. The Church Prayer Meetings. Cultivation of Benevolence. The Two Cent Subscription. Construction of the Church Edifice. Efforts to render it convenient and pleasant. Aversion to Display. Social Circles in the Church. Gathering in the Masses. Labors for the spiritual Growth of the Church. Rela- tions to his Pastor, as described in a Communication of Mr. Kirk. . 156 CHAPTER XII. VISIT TO EUROPE. Appointed Delegate to the World's Evangelical Convention in London. Accompanied by his Pastor. Sails from Boston. Incidents of the Voyage. Arrival at Londou. Meetings. Letter to Deacon Palmer. Journey to Scotland. Kdinburgh. Gl.-isgow. Manchester. Let- ters from Home. Departure from England. Brighton Paris. Fontmni-bleau. The River Seine. Brussels. Antwerp. Cologne. The Rhine and its Cities. M:innhcim. Strasburg. Basle. Lau- sanne. Geneva. Tour among the Alps. Ch.imouni. Mont Blanc. Martigny. Lake of Geneva. Journey to Paris. Sickness. Lon- don. The Evangelical Conference. Dublin. The Giant's Cause- way. Belfast. Liverpool. Embarkation for Home. Arrival.. . . 172 CHAPTER XIII. PERSONAL NARRATIVES OF CHARITABLE AID. Orphan Children. Little Jane. Delight in the Pleasures of Children. Little Mary. Counsel and Care for the Poor. Story of the West Indian Family. The Widow and her Boy Testimony of a Lady. . 218 CHAPTER XIV. FRIENDLY EFFORTS FOR YOUNG MEN. Interest for young Men. The Young Artist. The Bookseller. The Student. The Clerk. The Prodigal, his History and Death. Res- olutions recommended. Letters to his Sons. Conversion of his Son in College. Testimony of a young Man 239 CHAPTER XV. BUSINESS AND POLITICAL LIFE. Dissolution of Partnership. Proposal of new Connections. Accept- ance of them. Characteras a Merchant. Member of the Legislature of Massachusetts. Affability. Peacemaker 275 CHAPTER XVI. CONNECTION WITH BENEVOLENT SOCIETIES. Effort!) to gather the Poor into Places of Worship. Elected President of the City Missionary Society. Deacon Farns worth's Statement. 8 CONTENTS. How to preserve Health. Extracts from private Journal. "Deacon Safford's Party." Statement of Deacon Cashing. Member of the Prudential Committee of the A. B. C. F. M. Kev. Mr. Treat's State- ment. Director of the House of Industry. Old Ladies' Home, &c. 283 CHATTER XVII. TRAVELING FOR HEALTH. Impaired Health. Journey to the Western States. To Canada. With Mrs. Reid, to Rhode Island. Scsond Voyage to Europe. Liverpool. Chester. Dublin. Cork. Lakes of Killarney. Bel- fast. Glasgow. Edinburgh. The Highlands. London. Paris. Brussels. Aix. The Rhine. Fronkiort. The Salt Minos. Mu- nich. Through Switzerland to Italy. Milan. Verona. Venice. Florence. Leghorn. Rome. Naples. Marseilles. Homeward Voyage 297 CHAPTER XVIII. EFFORTS IN BEHALF OF MOUNT HOLYOKE FEMALE SEMINARY. Interest in the Cause of Education. Visit to Belchertown. Sugges- tion of a School for Young Ladies. Consultation with Dr. Edwards. Visit of Mary Lyon. Tier Plans. Subscribes Five Hundred Dol- lars in Aid of them. Subsequent Contributions and Efforts for the Seminary. Letter of one of the Teachers 323 CHAPTER XIX. SICKNESS AND DEATH. Chronic Disease of the Heart. Anticipations of Death. Cheerfulness under them. Sudden Attack of Illness. Purchase of a House. Repairs and Removal thither. Efforts and Prayers for a Revival. Second severe Attack. Spiritual Enjoyment. Home Occupations. Annual Meeting of A. B. C. F. M Marriage of his eldest Son. Last Visit to Mount Holyoke Seminary. Last Letter. Council of Physicians. Severe Suffering. Last Prayer Meeting with his Breth- ren, and Attendance on Public Worship. Conversation in Prospect of Death. Abounding Comforts. Peace. Directions about his Fu- neral. &c. Lying at Jesus' Feet. His Work done. Death. Fu- neral 334 APPENDIX, 373 MEMOIR. CHAPTER I. CHILDHOOD AND YOUTH. Birth. Parentage. The Homestead. Domestic Scenes. The Orchard. The Grandmother. School. Labors on the Farm. The Transgres- sion and Punishment. Mr. Safford's Brothers. DANIEL SAFFORD was born in Hamilton, Essex County, Massachusetts, October 30, 1792. He was the youngest of four sons of Samuel and Priscilla Saf- ford. During his childhood, the parents, an aged and very godly grandfather and grandmother, the four sons, and usually one domestic, constituted the family. Samuel Safford was a substantial farmer, a sensible and well informed man, whose daily life was strictly conformed to the principles of the Bible. He man- aged his worldly affairs with prudence and economy ; and the wants of his family being simple, they were enabled to live respectably on a moderate income. Mr. Safford cherished through life recollections of a peculiarly sunny childhood. Often would he recount its incidents, and live again amid its happy scenes. He could not remember that, as a child, he had been conscious of but one unsupplied want. He had no sister ; and when he saw other boys more favored in this respect, he often said within himself, " Oh, how I (9) 10 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. do wish I had a sister ! " To this ungratified desire he attributed in a measure, in later life, his peculiar affection for his sisters by marriage, whom he always adopted as his own. This want of his childhood was partially supplied by a large circle of cousins in the neighborhood, who were allowed frequently to meet at their respective homes, and in whose society and childish sports he was a very hearty and joyous par- ticipant. A ride of twenty-five miles in an easterly direction from Boston brings us to the quiet village of Hamilton. Passing about two miles beyond this, we turn from the road into a circuitous wagon track, and are in a few moments at the old homestead of the family. In this secluded spot, and this humble dwelling, were culti- vated those social affections and beautiful moral traits which distinguished Mr. Safford, and the foundation laid for his life of uncommon usefulness. The present occupant of the premises purchased them of the widowed mother, and lived there one year before she left them. He is an aged man, but retains a lively interest in the family history, and delights to show a visitor the localities of the place. Here he opens the sitting-room, where Daniel was cared for by one of the kindest of mothers ; with its old-fashioned cupboards, one for her best dishes, and the other for those in common use. In one corner stood the bed upon which his father died, and which during the sick- ness had been protected from the air by a bed-spread suspended before it from two forks fastened in the ceiling. Above is the chamber where the mother used every night to put her boys to bed, " tuck them up," and then return to busy herself with mending their CHILDHOOD AND YOUTH. 11 stockings, and other similar labors, homely yet needful, until a late hour at night, feeling that of all happy mothers, she was the happiest. The front door of the house opens upon an orchard of apple trees, in a remote corner of which is one that Daniel, when a boy, claimed as his own ; and its fruit has ever since borne the name of the " Safford apple." For this fruit he had a peculiar fondness, always considering it among the best treats he could offer to his guests; but never finding, as he often said, any " quite so nice as those which grew in my father's orchard." We can almost see him as described to us a happy, ruddy-faced boy, running about under those trees, or walking with his little hand clasped in his grandmother's, between whom and himself, although she was now very aged and infirm, there existed a remarkable friendship. She was ever associated with his earliest and most cherished recollections. He not only loved, but greatly venerated her. He was accus- tomed to pay great deference to her opinions. When the boys at school disputed any thing affirmed by him, he felt strong if he could reply, " My grandmother said so." Once a pert lad, in answer to this argument, exclaimed, " Well, what of that ? Who is your grand- mother ? " He replied, " My grandmother ! Why, she knows every thing; mother knows some things, and father knows more ; but grandmother knows all! " The respect for the aged, thus early rooted in his heart, he never lost. It was often exhibited by him in after life, especially while acting as a director of the Boston Home for Aged and Indigent Females. In his deep interest in that institution we recognize the ripened 12 MEMOIR OP DANIEL S AFFORD. fruit of this early attachment to his venerable grand- mother. But notwithstanding his strong affection and respect for her, he had the feeling that it did not belong to her to punish him for his faults, regarding her rather as a companion than a disciplinarian. "When about three years old, having done something which she thought merited a chastisement, and anticipating her intentions, he threw himself on his back upon the floor, and whirling round and round, and shaking his hands and feet, laughingly shouted, " Take care, grandma'am ! take care, grandma'am ! " until she concluded to give up the case. It was in a small school house, about a mile from his father's dwelling, that he received all his school ed- ucation. Until he was eight years old he attended there six weeks in the summer, and as many in the winter. But on arriving at that age, his services were required on the farm, and his school privileges were limited to the six weeks in winter. He was even then a thinker, rather than a student of books; and was especially interested in his arithmetical problems, which he often solved mentally when he first awoke in the morning, before rising, while other boys would be unable to accomplish this without slate and pencil. At eight years of age he commenced working stead- ily all day upon the farm. Though remarkably fond of play, he was always willing to work. The idea that he could be useful to his father gave him much pleasure, and it was never necessary to reprove him for tardiness, or for stopping to play in working hours. Before he was able to hoe as fast as the men, his father allowed him to skip every other hill in order to CHILDHOOD AND YOUTH. 13 keep up with them ; and he was much delighted when at length he found he could do this without skipping any. His ambition was quite satisfied when he one day overheard his father, in conversation with a neigh- bor, say of him, " I would as lief have my Daniel to hoe potatoes or corn as any man I can hire. He will do as much in a day, and do it as well." As a reward for his industry and faithfulness, his father one year gave him a small patch of ground to cultivate for himself. This he planted witli potatoes. The crop brought him fifty cents, cash the first money he ever possessed. Thus he learned the valuable lesson, to earn before spending. Being employed to carry milk to market during one season, in his boyhood, a customer once querulously said to him, as he was measuring her supply, " How much water do you think you have put in it ? " He made no reply, but never carried milk to her again. He could not deal with a person who entertained a question of his honesty. Mr. Safford's father was a man of cheerful disposi- tion and pleasant manners, a kind and obliging neigh- bor, and, while very affectionate to his children, not weakly indulgent. He ruled his own household well, believing, with Solomon, that " a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame, while the rod and reproof give wisdom." In the training of this son there was one instance, and but one, in which he thought it necessary literally to follow the inspired direction, " Withhold not correction from the child ; for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die." There had been what is called " a raising " in the 2 14 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. village, and, as usual, all the men and boys were assembled on the occasion. According to custom in those days, they were treated with ardent spirits. Daniel, who was then about fourteen years old, drank with the others, not to intoxication, but so as to be somewhat excited. At the close of the day, instead of returning home, he was induced, by several older than himself, to go into the bar room of a neighboring tavern. There they sat, chatting and amusing them- selves, until, to his astonishment, lie found that it was eleven o'clock. He had never before transgressed his father's commandment forbidding him. to be out late at night. The offense in this instance was aggravated by the character of the company and the place. He knew that his father would be much displeased. His only hope of escaping the punishment he deserved was, that, weary with the toils of the day, he might have retired early, and thus remained ignorant of the disobedient act. Encouraged bythis thought, he has- tened home, and opening as gently as possible the out- side door, into a small entry, in which was the stair- way leading to his chamber, he closed the door softly, crept up the stairs, walked on tiptoe to the bed, leaped in, and said to himself, " Now I am safe." But the father had not been unmindful of his son. He had been sitting by the kitchen fire, watching the clock, hour after hour, with growing anxiety. No sound, however slight, escaped his wakeful ear. He heard the stealthy entrance, itself a confession of guilt, and after a little consideration, followed the transgressor to his apartment, but gave no intimation of his approach, until the smart of the rod aroused the slumberer to a sense of his presence, and of the purport of his visit. CHILDHOOD AND YOUTH. 15 Although not a word of explanation was uttered, either before or after the infliction of the punishment, yet Daniel perfectly understood its meaning, and recognized its justice. In after life he often blessed God and his father for the timely correction, consid- ering it a great mercy that it was administered when he had taken but one step in the way of transgressors. No child ever more sincerely loved and respected a parent than Daniel did his father. A few weeks pre- vious to his last illness, speaking of him to his wife, he said, " Oh, I wish you had known my father ; you certainly would have loved him." His brothers, David, Samuel, and Ephraim, were all men of genial temperament and high moral principle. There were no wranglings or contentions between them in childhood ; and, as they advanced in years, nothing occurred to mar their mutual friendship. Daniel cherished their memories to the last, delighting to dwell on the interesting characteristics of each, and the great enjoyment he had had with them. In speaking of them, he once said, " I did love my broth- ers very much when we were children together quite as much as myself, if not more ; and after we became men, when Ephraim made a good voyage, or the others succeeded well in business, it made me quite as happy, and I am inclined to think even more so, than when I succeeded myself." Thus, in the language of a friend, " In this mral home, and amid these healthy influences, at an equal remove from poverty and from riches, supplied with food convenient for him, never so full as to deny the Lord, and never so hungry as to covet another's goods, Mr. SafFord, during, the first sixteen years of his life, 16 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. laid the foundation for that bodily vigor and impertur- bable good nature, for that filial reverence and quiet self-reliance, for that cheerful industry and universal contentment, that wise economy and modest useful- ness, which distinguished his manhood, and gave him eminence among the good." EARLY MANHOOD. 17 CHAPTER II. EARLY MANHOOD. Apprenticeship. Fidelity therein. Religious Experience. Profession of Religion. Goes to Boston. Enters into Business in the City. Habits of Industry and Economy. Sketch of his Early History, written by Himself. IN the fall of 1808, Daniel left the paternal roof, at the age of sixteen years, to become an apprentice to his brother David, who was established in Salem as a blacksmith. He at once manifested superior mechan- ical skill, as well as great muscular energy. Although never much devoted to books, he was very fond of mathematics, natural philosophy, and astronomy, and acquired a good practical knowledge of them. While an apprentice he took pleasure in promoting his employer's interests as faithfully as if they had been his own. In after life he but described his own earlier history, when he said to apprentices, to clerks, and to his own son, " Make your employer's interests your own. Aim to be so useful to him that he can not do without you." So thoroughly did he carry out this unselfish fidelity, that he not only gave his time and strength, but exerted his inventive genius also, to promote the interests of his employer. As an instance, he succeeded in exactly imitating a screw nut used in the construction of chaises, which, until that time, had been imported at a high price. This, and other 2* 18 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAPFORD. v imitations and inventions of his, sensibly increased the profits of the business. The working hours of the day being thus faithfully employed for his brother, he availed himself of the privilege afforded him of using the shop and tools, in his leisure hours, for his own benefit. At the close of his apprenticeship, the proceeds of this extra labor amounted to sixty dollars, which constituted his only capital for commencing business in Boston. It was in his eighteenth year that Mr. Safford was first effectually awakened to a concern for his eternal interests. One night, at a late hour, after having been in the company of some irreligious young men, the conviction came home to his reason and conscience, that he must immediately separate from them, or be ruined. Their scorn and ridicule were anticipated, and the question of bearing these, or the wrath of God, well weighed. Before he went to sleep the mo- mentous choice was made. Not more decided was Bunyan's pilgrim, when, with his fingers in his ears, he fled from the City of Destruction, crying, " Life, life ! eternal life ! " To that decisive hour he always looked back with the most solemn interest, regarding it as the moment of his existence when his destiny was happily settled for this world and the next. Two years later he united with the Tabernacle Church in Salem, under the pastoral care of the Rev. Dr. Samuel Worcester. Near the close of the year 1812 Mr. Safford ended his apprenticeship, and went to Boston. As he could not afford to ride thither in the stage coach, he deter- mined to walk. The day for starting came, and with it a severe December snow storm. Time was too EARLY MANHOOD. 19 precious to admit of waiting for fair weather. With that adherence to his purposes which ever marked his course, he set forth on foot. When well on the way, he was hailed by a man in a sleigh, who invited him to ride. Recognizing the voice of an acquaintance, and thinking a ride would be more comfortable than his cheerless walk, he accepted the invitation, but soon found that he was expected to pay dearly for the favor. His driver, besides proving a very uncongenial companion, not only called at all the taverns on the road, but turned out of his way to find others, ex- pecting at each one to be treated with a dram. Al- though Mr. Safford drank no spirits himself, he thought it would be dishonorable to refuse this courtesy to the man who was giving him the ride. Thus the whole day was consumed, and as much money as would hare paid for a seat in the public conveyance. The sun was just setting as they drove into Boston. Mr. Safford hastened to leave his com- panion, and determined, more strongly than ever, to avoid thereafter the society of all drinking persons. The lesson of that day he never forgot. It was a stormy Saturday night when he arrived, a stranger in the city. At early dawn the next morning he left the hotel to find the only person in the city whom he knew. This was Mr. William Adams, who had formerly been a neighbor of the Saffords, and a playmate of Daniel in their childhood. Just as Mr. Adams was crossing Washington Street, with a pan of coals for kindling his fire, which he had procured at the " Lamb Tavern," he looked up the street, and saw a robust young man advancing toward him with quick and vigorous step. The short gray overcoat and large 20 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. yellow buckskin gloves marked him as a country lad. Mr. Adams soon recognized him, and their greetings were very cordial. Daniel took a seat in Park Street Church with his friend that day ; and this became his regular place of worship. On Monday morning a copartnership was formed between Mr. Adams and his young friend. The " taking account of stock " was easily accomplished. It was found that the older partner possessed, in iron and tools, two hundred and forty dollars. The younger put into the firm twenty dollars in cash, and gave his note for two hundred and twenty more. He then took off his coat, and went to work. The copartnership, thus commenced, continued about seven years. Their workshop was in the yard of the " White Horse Tavern," which, with the " Lamb Tav- ern," the older inhabitants of Boston will remember as standing in Newbury, now Washington Street, near the present Hayward Place. During the first few years of Mr. Safford's life in Boston his circle of acquaintance was very limited. He was industrious and economical, spending money for nothing which he could do without. As he never desired forbidden indulgences, the temptations of a city had little power to attract him. He never entered a theater nor a dancing hall ; never visited a billiard room, a drinking shop, nor even a refreshment saloon. His healthful appetite was satisfied with three plain meals a day at a low-priced boarding house ; and his nights were spent in refreshing sleep. At this period he^ might frequently have been seen, at twilight, with a merry countenance and elastic step, crossing the Com- mon arm in arm witli his partner, or playing and leaping EARLY MANHOOD. 21 with him, more like a boy let loose from school, than a man who had been all day at the anvil. Never a thought that his was a hard lot, never a feeling of jealousy toward those who seemed to be more highly favored than himself, gained entrance to his heart. His contented mind was a " continual feast." In after life, when enjoying the abundance God had given him, he frequently remarked that he had never been happier than at this period, when he was thus most industriously employed every hour of the six working days of the week, and in the evening adjusting his accounts, or administering to the wants of some person poorer than himself. For his charities commenced with his earnings, and J^ept pace with them through his life. At this period Mr. Safford bought his iron one bar at a time, and carried it to his shop quite a distance on his shoulders. As this consumed time and strength, he ventured one day to ask the iron mer- chant to sell him on credit as much as he could work up in a month, that it might be carted to the shop. The man hesitated a little, but at length replied, " I think I would rather keep my iron." In later life Mr. Safford often referred to this circumstance in 'a manner which showed that he was not ashamed of his small beginnings, and with something of the gratitude of David, when he exclaimed, " Lord, by thy favor thou hast made my mountain to stand strong." His friends, to whom he used to tell the story, could hardly believe that there had ever been a time when Daniel Safford could not be trusted in Boston for .a load of iron ; but he could never forget it. He strictly observed the Sabbath, continuing to 22 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. attend regularly the Park Street Church. Curiosity never led him to stroll about on the Lord's day, to see other churches, or hear a variety of preachers. Not seeking to be known, nor expecting any attention to be paid him, it was with much surprise that, on lifting his eyes from his work one day, covered as he was with dust, he saw the majestic figure of the Rev. Dr. Griffin stoop to enter his shop, and heard him say, as he advanced, " I have come to seek you out, having noticed your constant attendance upon my preaching." The sermons of this faithful and eloquent man, to which he was indeed an interested listener, impressed his mind deeply. The seed thus sown fell into good ground, and brought forth fruit after the sower had gone to his reward. Notwithstanding it may involve some repetition, we will close this chapter with Mr. Safford's own history of his early life, as we find it in a letter, written to his eldest son on his becoming of age. It is dated April 1, 1851. " MY DEAR SON : You are now twenty-one years old a * free man.' I have no longer a legal right to dictate to you, or to control you, and you have no longer a legal claim on me for pecuniary aid or sup- port. By this I do not intend to intimate that you will have less regard for my opinions and wishes, or that I shall feel less solicitude for your temporal and spiritual welfare. You have now launched your little skiff upon the broad sea of life, with nothing to de- pend upon but your paddle and the favoring breezes of heaven. " By this I am reminded of my own past history ; EARLY MANHOOD. 23 and, as I do not recollect having told you much about it, I will now give you a very brief account of my earlier life, which may be of some use to you while I live; at least a gratification to you when I am gone. [After stating the particulars of his parentage and boyhood, as already recounted, Mr. Safford pro- ceeds : ] "At the age of sixteen I went to Salem as an apprentice to my brother David, at the blacksmith's business. Soon after this I became acquainted with three other mechanics' apprentices, older than myself, who worked near me. They invited me to go out with them in the evening, and I did so several times. I soon found that they were profane, intemperate, and licentious. On one occasion, when I came home, I found the door locked ; it was nearly eleven o'clock. I succeeded in entering the house by way of the cellar door, and thus found my way to my bed without dis- turbing the family. I went to bed, but not to sleep ; for although I had not fallen into any immoral prac- tices, I saw that if I continued in such company, my reputation would suffer, and there was danger that my character would soon become like theirs. I deter- mined at once to break off all intimacy with them, and to avoid their society altogether, which I did from that night. About that time my attention was called to the subject of my own salvation. I then spent my evenings in reading the Bible and other good books, and attending religious meetings. After this, my old associates asked me a few times to go with them to their haunts of sin, and, when I declined, they said, t Oh, you have become very pious ! ' I replied that I 24 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. wished it were true. When they found they could neither coax nor laugh me out of it, they left me to myself. " My interest in religion gradually increased. I became more and more convinced of my lost condition as a sinner against God, and my need of such a Sa- viour as the gospel provides. Although the struggle was great, and my progress slow, I trust I was ulti- mately led by the Spirit of God, whose aid I daily implored, to commit my soul unreservedly to him. I now found new associates a few young men, with whom I met weekly for prayer and religious conversa- tion, became my most intimate and faithful friends. In their society I was far more happy than I had ever been in that of my former associates friends I can not call them. In the one case the interviews afforded a pleasant and profitable topic of thought and con- versation ; in the other nothing but remorse and shame. " Of these last friends, the one with whom I was most intimate died in the triumphs of faith, while pre- paring for the ministry. Another became a wealthy merchant, and, after a life of usefulness, died about a year ago, leaving a large amount of property to dif- ferent benevolent institutions. Two others have been faithful and successful ministers of the gospel, and are still living and laboring in the vineyard of their Lord and Master. Very different is the history of my three earlier associates. Not long after I left them, one of the number pilfered from his master, ran away, and, so far as I know, has not been heard from since. The other two sank lower and lower in vice and dissi- pation, until they lost their employment and friends, EARLY MANHOOD. 25 and became poor and shabby in their appearance. I have met them when they would look down or another way, so as not to see me when I passed them. I think they both died from the effects of their dissipation be- fore they arrived at the age of thirty-five years. How true that ' the way of transgressors is hard,' and that ' the path of the just, like the shining light, shineth more and more unto the perfect day ' ! " For a long time my hope that I was a Christian was feeble and vacillating, so that I did not offer my- self to the church until I was about nineteen years old. I was then received into the Tabernacle Church in Salem, of which the Rev. Dr. Worcester, who was subsequently the first secretary of the American Board of Missions, was at that time the pastor. " Near the close of the year 1812, when I was a little more than twenty years old, my brother, who had another apprentice, and very little business, told me he would give me the remainder of my time, if I would release him from his obligation to give me, as was then the custom, a ' freedom suit ' of clothes. I accepted this proposition, and on the last Saturday of December came to Boston, having in hand about twenty dollars, with forty more due me, which I could not then collect. This money I had earned during my apprenticeship, by working at unseason- able hours. " I was very poorly clad, had but these twenty dol- lars, and knew the face of but one man in Boston. Business of every kind was extremely dull, in conse- quence of the existing war with England. I thought if I could earn a living the first year, I should do well, and be satisfied, though the prospect even for this 3 26 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFOBD. looked doubtful ; but I set my face to seek the Lord, and my hands to work ; and at the close of the year I found, to my surprise, that I had gained three hundred dollars. This I have ever considered, in. view of all the circumstances, the most successful year of my life. " About this time I was informed that a very poor, pious old widow lived in a little attic room near my shop. I went to see her, and found her almost with- out fuel, and her room cold. I got a small load of wood for her, and hired a man to saw it, and after I had done work I went and carried it up a narrow, winding stairway, and piled it up snugly in her cham- ber. The relief which this little act afforded her, and the gratitude which she expressed, gave me more pleasure than any like sum which I ever spent for my- self. As my acquaintances were then few, I used fre- quently to visit her, and assist her from time to time, as she needed ; but I was abundantly repaid by her pioiis and instructive conversation, and I doubt not that I was blessed in answer to her fervent prayers. From that time to this I have been in the habit of contributing for the relief of the poor, and for various benevolent purposes, as opportunity has offered, and as the Lord has prospered me ; and in my own case I have experienced the fulfillment of the declarations, * He that hath pity on the poor lendeth to the Lord, and that which he hath given will he pay him again,' and ' There is that scattereth and yet increaseth.' " If it had been told me, when I commenced busi- ness in Boston, that I should one day be worth ten thousand dollars, I should have been greatly surprised, and perfectly satisfied. That was a larger amount EARLY MANHOOD. 27 than I ever expected to acquire. When about to take any important step in my worldly affairs, I have been in the habit of asking for the guidance of God as sin- cerely as in spiritual matters ; and, although I do not expect an answer in an audible voice, I do expect him so to influence my mind as to lead me to decide in the way which he sees, on the whole, to be best. "What a privilege, when in doubt as to what course to pursue, to be permitted and invited to ask wisdom of One who knows all things, the future as well as the present and past! " When I reflect upon my success in business, and upon my social and religious standing, I love to attrib- ute them to the blessing of God upon my exertions. We must not look for his blessing without our exer- tions, but upon our exertions. " Perhaps you are ready to say, ' / do not take any pleasure in reading the Bible, in thinking about God, in praying to him, or in the society of those who talk about God, and heaven, and eternal things.' Is it so ? Then you or God must change, or you can never be happy with him and holy beings. And now, my dear sou, let me entreat you to set your face, your heart, your whole soul, to seek the Lord in earnest. Will you do it ? Will you resolve never to do it ? No, I am sure you will not. Will you resolve to do it at some future time ? That time may never come ; and if it does, it may, and probably will, find you less inclined than now. Christ says, * Seek first the king- dom of God and his righteousness, and all these [necessary] things shall be added to you. " Give yourself unreservedly to God, and he will give himself to you. God will be your portion, heaven 28 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. will be your home, and there will be laid up for you an exceeding and eternal weight of glory. Only think ! exceeding all worldly glory a thousand times, and that for ever. " That this may be your lot, let it be your daily prayer, as it is the prayer of your ever affectionate father, DANIEL SAFFORD." DOMESTIC LIFE AND BEREAVEMENTS. 29 CHAPTER III. DOMESTIC LIFE AND BEREAVEMENTS. Death of his elder Brother and Father. Marriage. Housekeeping. Ap- prentices. Correspondence with his Brother Ephr aim. Death of his Brother David. Receives his Children into his own Family. Little Susan. Her sudden Death. Letters. Views of Dress. Death of his Brother Ephraim. Sickness and Death of Mrs. Safford. Impaired Health. Two years of Mr. Safford's business life had glided pleasantly away, and his prospects were still brighten- ing, when a series of bereavements commenced, which constitute a remarkable feature in his history. Mr. Safford's love for his brothers, their early prom- ise and high moral character, have already been men- tioned. This fourfold cord was now to be sundered. Samuel, the eldest of the band, who had been the leader of the brothers and cousins in their childish sports, whose playful humor and musical voice ren- dered him very attractive in more mature years, was first called away. He was at this time thirty years old, a husband and a father. Life seemed opening upon him with increasing charms. But consumption laid upon him its blighting hand, and after oscillating for months between hope and fear; his friends wero forced to the painful conclusion -that he must die, and sent for Daniel to come and pass the few remaining days with him. It was the first death which Mr. Safford had ever witnessed, and it was witli the most 3* 30 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. intense interest that he watched the process of that great change in one so dear to him. " Daniel," said the expiring brother, " I have seen others die, and thought it a very solemn scene ; but it is quite a dif- ferent thing to die myself.'- Mr. Safford felt as never before the inestimable value of that hope in Christ which proves an anchor to the soul in such an hour. Samuel had for two years indulged this hope ; and he now, without fear, saw death approaching. Perceiving that the friends around his bed were waiting to catch the last token of recognition, he said, " I am not going now ; my time has not come yet." A few hours later he looked upon them with a smile, and said, " I am going now," and ceased breathing. Mr. Safford re- tained with great vividness, through his entire life, the impression of this death. The calmness with which this beloved brother, trusting in the Lord Jesus, faced the king of terrors, assured him of the possibility of triumphing over death, and increased his confidence in the foundation on which he had based his own hopes for eternity the atonement of Christ. But he was led to inquire whether he was bringing forth those fruits of the Spirit which are the only proof of a gen- uine trust in Christ, and to seek with greater earnest- ness to make his salvation sure. The next year, 1816, Mr. Safford was called to part with his father. An incident connected with his death is related with tender interest by a maternal aunt of Daniel, who survived him, and was able, though at the great age of ninety-eight, to recall much of the history of her nephew. Early piety was not so frequent then as now. Mr. Safford, this aunt tells us, was called home to see his father, who lay on his dying bed. DOMESTIC LIFE AND BEREAVEMENTS. 31 He had made his visit ; and, as he was about to take leave, his father said, " Daniel, can not you pray with us before you go ? " " He was but a youngster, then," said she, " and there was David, with his girl, and Ephraim, with his girl, and all the rest of the family ; but he knelt and prayed, without a moment's hesita- tion, and we never, any of us, doubted, after that, that Daniel was a man of prayer." This was the first time his relatives had heard his voice in prayer, and this was the last interview on earth between the son and father. The latter fell asleep soon after, at the age of sixty years. His body rests in the village churchyard at Hamilton. On his tombstone are inscribed the words, " Mark the perfect man, and behold the upright, for the end of that man is peace." In 1817, Mr. Safford was married to Miss Sarah Ashton, of Boston. He was then twenty-four years of age, and had been four years in business. He hired part of a house, adjoining his shop, in Devonshire Street. This he fitted up with second-hand furniture, every article of which he paid for, and conveyed home after the work of the day in the same manner he had formerly carried his iron to the workshop. When all was completed, and lie saw every thing neatly and pleasantly arranged under the guiding hand of his skillful housewife, and all paid for by the blessing of God upon his own labor, his heart was filled with delight and gratitude. He erected a family altar as soon as he had a fam- ily, and every member of his household was expected to be present at the devotions. He never thought of excusing himself from this, or any other duty, on the plea that he was not gifted, or had not been educated. 32 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAPPORD. Using the gifts he had, his one talent became five, as all will testify who have united in his prayers in the fam- ily, in the conference room, the dying chamber, or the house of mourning. To him the promise was richly verified, " Whosoever hath, to him shall be given, and he shall l\ave more abundance." Mr. Safford, at the time of his marriage, was con- nected with a circle of young men, who met weekly at each other's homes for prayer and religious conversa- tion ; and now it gave him great pleasure to be able, in his turn, to accommodate them at his own house. Thus early did he commence making his dwelling a sanctuary of prayer and praise. As his business increased, he began to take ap- prentices, and received them all into his own famil}*-, until the number amounted to ten. These he not only boarded and lodged, but supplied them also with clothes, all of which were made and mended in his house, under the personal care of his wife. For these young men Mr. Safford felt the solicitude of a truly Christian master. He required them all to be pres- ent at the family devotions, and to go regularly to some place of worship on the Sabbath. Other whole- some regulations were enforced ; one of which was, that they should always be at home for the night as early as ten o'clock. Nor was this care diminished after he ceased to board his apprentices himself. Though no longer under his own roof, they still received his parental oversight. The fruits of this solicitude in their behalf were apparent. Five of them were admitted successively as partners with him in business, all of whom became hopefully Christian men. Two preceded Mr. Safford to their home above, DOMESTIC LIFE AND BEREAVEMENTS. 33 and three yet live to testify to his faithfulness, and cherish his example and counsels as a sacred boon from Heaven. The earliest correspondence of Mr. Safford which is left us was held with his brother Ephraim. This brother was one for whom he ever cherished great respect and affection. He possessed a well-balanced and cultivated mind ; being unusually fond of read- ing, even from his childhood. He had desired to go to college, but his father's limited income forbade this ; and, as his constitution was naturally delicate, it was judged best to send him to sea, in the hope that a few voyages might strengthen it. He became a sailor, and soon a commander of a ship. Mr. Safford's first letter to him is dated December 5, 1819. It is directed, " Capt. Ephraim Safford. To be left at the Sun Tavern, Salem, Mass." We give it entire. " DEAR BROTHER : Since I left you I have thought much of the importance of your situation, and of the difficulties attending it. If any thing I could do or say would lessen these difficulties, or afford you any assistance, I would spare no pains to do it. But when I consider my inability to say any thing that will be instructive to you, it is with much diffidence that I make the attempt. " I will, first, briefly give you my idea of the best mode of government, and leave you to judge how far it may answer for you. " The best mode of commanding, I think, is to say, * Do this,' or ' Do that,' in a pleasant, but firm manner. I know that sea captains have said that it is necessary to swear at men, in order to be obeyed quickly. This 34 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAPPORD. may be true when a man has always been in the ha,bit of accompanying every command with an oath ; but when the reverse has been the practice, I am confident the simple command will be obeyed with more pleasure by the men, and with much more credit to the com- mander. I do not say this to you because I have ever heard that you were in the least addicted to the very ungentlemanly as well as unchristian habit of swearing. " As to that part of government which comes under the name of correction, I think it is much more diffi- cult to administer it wisely. It is all-important that the offender, whether the correction be in word or deed, -should, if possible, be made sensible that he is not punished with a malicious and revengeful spirit, but from the impulse of sober reason and a sense of duty ; for although our passions are as necessary as our reason, they should no more be exercised without reason, than the sails of a ship should be hoisted to the wind when she has no rudder. " I think that the Sabbath should be more regarded than it usually is at sea. ' Remember the Sabbath day to keep it holy,' is one of the ten commandments, against the profanation of which much is said in the Bible. For that sin the nation of Israel was threat- ened with destruction ; and we have no right to expect prosperity, either as a nation or as individuals, if we disregard this command. When the weather is such as to render it practicable, if the officers of vessels would read a sermon and prayers with the crew, and keep up the form of worship, I think they would find it to promote peace and good order, though no other good effect were realized. I send you a parcel of DOMESTIC LIFE AND BEREAVEMENTS. 35 tracts, that you may occasionally drop some of them where the sailors will get them, or give them directly, as you may think best. As there is something novel in them, your men may be induced to read them, when they would not read the Bible ; and if it has no other effect, it may employ them when they would otherwise be studying mischief. " I hope you will be careful to use means for the restoration of your health, and look to God for his blessing upon them. I commend you to God, whose favor is life. That He who corninandeth the winds and waves, and they obey, may bear you prosperously to all your destined ports, and in good time return you in health and safety to your country and friends, is the earnest pra) er of your anxious brother." In 1822 Mr. Safford was called to Salem to witness the death of his brother David, with whom he had served his apprenticeship, and* who, like Samuel, was fast sinking under a consumption. His wife had al- ready fallen by the same disease. When dying, he committed to Daniel his four children, David, Ephraim, Ruth, and Susan. He received them into his own family, and acted towards them the part of an affec- tionate father. All except the youngest grew up to mature years under his fostering care. The following letter, addressed to his brother Ephraim, is directed, " Ship Minerva, Charleston, South Carolina." ' May 6, 1823. " DEAR BROTHER : As I have no news to communi- cate, it may not be unprofitable to spend a thought on the present life as connected with the future. It is 36 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. compared to a journey, a voyage, a race, and a war- fare, each of which supposes something ahead as the great object. If we reflect on the sicknesses and pains, the losses, disappointments, and troubles, of every kind, to which mankind are constantly exposed in this life, we cannot suppose that a Being of infinite goodness and wisdom would have created man and placed him here, unless there were some important work for him to do. From the Bible we learn that this important work is to prepare for another, a never- ending state of existence. We also learn that this ex- istence is to be happy or miserable, beyond our present conception, according to the deeds done in the body. Now, if, by any thing we can do, this happiness may be secured and this misery avoided, surely this life, though short, is of infinite importance. In the gospel we are assured that whosoever will may come and drink of the water of life freely. Now, dear brother, as you value your soul, be entreated, by one to whom your happiness is dear, to make a serious business of religion, and that without delay ; for life is short, and death is certain and near. I know you are deprived of many privileges with which I am favored ; but you have the Bible, which is the best guide, and the pres- ence of its divine Author, who is the God of the seas as well as of the dry land. I wish, if you have time, you would write me something of your religious views and feelings, and particularly of your health. I feel anxious for your welfare in port and your safety at sea, but rejoice to leave you in the hands of Him who can calm the raging elements with a word. I a*m very busy, but shall endeavor to write you again before you sail from Charleston. Please write DOMESTIC LIFE AND BEBEAVEMENTS. 37 me how you like your ship, officers, men, and your cook. " Your sincere friend and affectionate brother, " DANIEL." In a letter to Captain Ephraim Safford, dated May 1, 1824, he says, " I have just bought a house, for which I paid fifty- five hundred dollars, and I used your money to make out the amount ; but I shall hold myself ready to meet any demand you may make on me. When you return we shall probably be living in Sullivan Court, directly opposite father Ashton's houses, in Federal Street. "I have lost five hundred dollars this year by a failure, but my business is very good. I sincerely regret, brother, your present adverse fortune, but I hope the result will not be so bad as you fear. At any rate, may it lead you and me to take the advice of the poet, Lean not on earth ; 'twill pierce thee to the heart; A broken reed at best, but oft a spear, On whose sharp point peace bleeds, and hope expires.' " It lias been mentioned that, on the death of his brother David, Mr. Safford received the four orphan children to his own hoiise, Susan, the youngest, being then three years old. Having no children of his own, he became very much attached to this little one. It was his first experience of loving and .being loved by a little child. It was her sweet voice and kiss which usually first greeted him on his return 4 38 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. home ; and in her prattle, as she sat upon his knee, at the close of the day, he learned to forget all his toils and cares. For three years she was permitted, as a sunbeam, thus to enliven the home of her adoption, to receive and reciprocate the affection of her uncle. In the spring of 1825, on the day of General Lafayette's arrival in Boston, she stood at the window in the morning, watching for her uncle ; and when he en- tered the house, she jumped into his arms, full of life and animation, saying, " Now, uncle, I want some money to buy me a blue ribbon. I am going to have some visitors, and we must all be dressed in white, with a Lafayette ribbon." The purchase was made. Susan was dressed, and her little friends came. They were full of glee, the house resounding with their merry voices, as they played " bo-peep " in the yard. Running into the shed, she leaped up to catch a glimpse of them through the window. Missing her hold, she fell into a vault, and was suffocated before assistance could be procured. Her uncle was absent at the time, engaged, with others, in escorting our country's benefactor into the city. On his return no pattering feet ran to welcome him. The dear child whom he had clasped in his arms a few hours before, in perfect health, lay still in death. He at once recog- nized the hand of his Father, and heard him saying, " Be still, and know that I am God." But a friend who accompanied him home, and witnessed the scene that ensued, describes it as one of the most affecting he ever witnessed ; and Mr. Safford could never speak of it in after life without manifesting much feeling. Mrs. Safford never recovered from the shock. Captain Ephraim Safford was at this time with a DOMESTIC LIFE AND BEREAVEMENTS. 39 physician in New Hampshire, in the hope of improv- ing his health. His brother wrote to him thus : " In consequence of Lafayette's visit, our city and house have been crowded with company. The Me- chanics' Association, of which I am a member, gave him a dinner. The occasion was one of great interest. The governor, lieutenant governor, Hon. Daniel Web- ster, and the mayor, with the son and suite of the general, were present." The matter of dress is not wholly without signifi- cance. It may therefore be remarked in passing, that at the dinner referred to in the above extract, Mr. Safford was introduced to Lafayette as the leading blacksmith of the city. The marquis, eying him from head to foot, said, with some surprise, " Why, I should sooner have taken him for the leading tailor" The incident shows the care which Mr. Safford had of his personal appearance. His piety did not lift him above, nor his occupation sink him below, proper attention to his dress. He was equally removed from every thing finical and slovenly. His aspect and attire were in keeping with his character and habits ; so that stran- gers often asked, " Is that gentleman a clergyman ? " This may seem unworthy of record ; yet an experienced and observing merchant remarks, that he has rarely seen the lad or the young man, who was indifferent to his appearance, and slovenly in his dress, succeed in business. The next letter is to his brother Ephraiin. " August 21, 1825. " VERY DEAR BROTHER : Reflecting this evening on your situation, I have thought that if any remedy 40 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. could be found for your disease, I would spare neither money, time, nor exertion to procure it. At the same time, I have been still more strongly impressed with the importance of doing something that, with the blessing of God, may procure for you that which is of infinitely greater moment ; I mean an interest in the atonement of Christ. For what is time compared with eternity ? To assist my laboring mind to some faint idea of eternity, I have supposed one particle of dust to drop from this earth in a million of years, and so onward ; the period would at length arrive when the last atom would drop. At that distant time, should it be asked how much of duration remains, the answer would be, Eternity. Now, dear brother, if your eter- nity should be a happy one, and happy beyond your powers of conception, what a blessing that you were born ! if otherwise, what ! This is your state of probation. Now there is hope. If delays in other cases are dangerous, they must be dreadfully so in this. Go, I entreat you, to God ; confess your sins, and if you do not feel yourself to be a great sinner, ask him to disclose to you your true character. " Perhaps you recollect some time when you have been sick or in great danger ; when you have promised that if your life were spared, you would seek and serve the Lord. If so, confess the sin of failing to perform vows made under such solemn circumstances. Pre- tend not to any merit of your own as a reason why you should obtain mercy and forgiveness, but plead the merits of Him who died to save sinners, and who is ready to save, even at the eleventh hour, all who truly repent and believe. Let the Bible be your guide ; the reading of that, with prayer, your employ- DOMESTIC LIFE AND BEREAVEMENTS. 41 ment. 'He that never prayed can never conceive, and he that has ever prayed as he ought can never forget, how much is to be gained by prayer.' All I have said to you, my brother, I hope I have said to myself; it is needful." Ephraim came to Mr. Safford's house soon after the date of this letter, and remained until his death, which occurred in the following month. Mr. Safford thus enjoyed the privilege, during the last days of his brother, of performing for him those kind offices which are so grateful to an invalid of delicate sensi- bilities, when they are known to be the expression of sincere affection and devoted attachment. Ephraim left his property in the care of his brother, requesting that their mother, while she lived, might be supported from the income a request which Mr. Safford al- lowed to be fulfilled partially, and for a time only, as he claimed to share with him the privilege of support- ing her. Within a few hours of his death, Ephraim said to his wife, " Daniel does not need my money. There is noth- ing I can do to show my gratitude and love for him ; but if our child should be a son, will you name him Daniel, as a token of my respect and affection for him ? " In accordance with this request, the child was called Daniel Ephraim. The widow soon followed her husband to the grave, and left this child to the care of his uncle. Although his early training devolved chiefly on his maternal grandmother, yet Mr. Safford ever regarded him more as a son than a nephew, and felt the most tender interest both for his temporal and spiritual welfare ; managing the property so prudently that it nearly doubled while in his hands. 4* 42 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. Captain Ephraim Safford was the last of his three brothers. As already mentioned, they all died of con- sumption, between the ages of thirty and thirty- six years. It was hard for Mr. Safford to see brothers of so much promise die so soon. But this was God's method of teaching an enterprising young man the uncertainty of life, and the importance of seeking first the kingdom of God and his righteousness. That les- son, indeed, had been taught him from his childhood, by a heart affection, from which he often suffered. When running, or engaged in any of the athletic sports of youth, he was frequently compelled to stop instantly, and remain quiet until the palpitation sub- sided. In after life these attacks became of a more serious character. He was sometimes seized witli them while conversing quietly with a friend. He ceased talking. His countenance assumed a thought- ful expression, and if asked what was the matter, he replied, " Do not speak to me." Sometimes he would remain sitting ; at other times throw himself upon a sofa. On placing an ear to his chest, the heart would seem to be entirely still. A fluttering motion succeed- ed, followed by a violent beating. These paroxysms occupied from five minutes to half an hour. When relief came, it was as sudden as the attack. He some- times bounded to the floor with joy. When asked to describe his sensations, his reply was, " I can give no account of them. I do not yet know what dying is, but I have the impression that this suffering is as near the sensation of dying as any thing can be." It was this heart disease which led him habitually to expect that he should die suddenly. He was thus from his youth under sentence of death, and of^^ reminded that it might come at any hour. DOMESTIC LIFE AND BEREAVEMENTS. 43 We now see Mr. Safford residing in Sullivan Place ; the family consisting of his invalid wife, his widowed mother, who had conie to take up her permanent abode with him, and the three orphan children of his brother David. His extensive business, the declining health of his wife, and his care for these children, press heavily upon him, but with great cheerfulness and fidelity he discharges every duty. Yet he is but little known beyond the circle of his business. There are men, however, in the church, wise and observing, who have marked his course, silent and unobtrusive, al- ready saying one to another, " There is a great deal in that man. He is yet to become an ornament in the church, and a blessing to the world." Mrs. Safford lingered in consumption for two years. It was during her protracted illness that he learned those lessons of patient watching with the sick, and acquired that skill in the treatment of them, which rendered him so well adapted ever after to the cham- ber of sickness. We could mention numerous in- stances in which he was enabled thus to comfort the suffering by giving himself to minister to them. A gentleman living at a distance from the city, who had been long ill and was now confined to his bed, was visited by Mr. Safford just before his death, and his offer to sit with him through the night was accepted. The wife of the invalid says, " I shall never forget the expression of pleasure and gratitude with which my husband said to me, as I approached his bed in the morning, ' I have had a good night. What a wonder- ful man Mr. Safford is ! He knows exactly how to treat a sick person. Never has any one turned me in bed with such ease, always placing the pillows in the 44 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. way to render my position the most comfortable.'" He conferred and received an unusual amount of pleasure in thus personally waiting upon the sick, in imitation of his divine Master, who " came not to be ministered unto, but to minister." The first time the writer ever heard Mr Safford's name mentioned, was more than thirty years ago, when he was described to her as " the good Deacon Safford, whose wife had been ill so long, and who had been so patient and kind in the care of her, and whom every body loved." The summer previous to Mrs. Safford's death, she was removed to Randolph for the benefit of the coun- try air. All the sleep he had during that season was obtained while riding to and from that place, a dis- tance of fourteen miles. He was obliged to remain at his business until the latest moment ; then he would get into his chaise, place the reins on a hook, fold his arms, and sleep until the horse stopped at the door of the house, spend the night in watching with her, and just at daybreak seat himself again in his chaise, sleep- ing on his return in the same way; his trusty horse " Blackie " conducting him just as safely as by the most careful driving. Mrs. Safford died in November, 1827, leaving pleas- ing evidence to her bereaved husband that she had departed to be with Christ. She had been educated a Unitarian, her parents and most of her relations having been of that faith ; but she had experienced a change of views, and united with the Park Street Church be- fore her marriage. The fact that Mr. Safford pro- fessed a different faith did not obstruct the most free and affectionate intercourse with her friends. He was never accused of bigotry by them, although he did not DOMESTIC LIFE AND BEREAVEMENTS. 45 'compromise or conceal his sentiments, but endeavored to be the same in all places and circumstances. Her mother, who survived his wife, made him her adviser in all her secular affairs, and the executor of her will. Her brothers also placed unlimited confidence in him. One of them, having taken up his residence in Europe, left a large amount of property in his hands, requiring no security, and giving no directions about it, except to say, " Use your own judgment and discretion." They trusted him because they saw that he constantly endeavored to do unto others whatsoever he would that others should do unto him. He continued to visit, his mother-in-law, and kindly to attend to all her requests during the many years she remained a widow and an invalid, even after he had formed many new relationships by his subsequent marriages. During Mrs. Safford's long confinement, she had come to feel the loneliness of their residence in Sulli- van Court ; in consequence of which Mr. Safford sold the house and removed to rooms on the corner of Avon Place and Washington Street, where she died. After her death, he sent the children under his care to school in the country, and he with his mother became boarders. His own health was now seriously impaired. Apprehensions were awakened that he, too, might fall a victim to the same disease which had carried to the grave all his brothers, two of their wives, and his own. His physician having advised immediate relaxation from business, he engaged passage for himself and faithful " 1'lackie " on board a vessel bound for the coast of Maine, where he spent several weeks travers- 46 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. ing those vast primitive forests on horseback, eschew- ing all medicine, and breathing God's pure air. The unfavorable symptoms disappeared, and he returned to the city greatly invigorated. This seems to have been a crisis in his physical condition, no indications of pul- monary disease ever recurring afterward. BUSINESS OPERATIONS AND PRINCIPLES. 47 CHAPTER IV. BUSINESS OPERATIONS AND PRINCIPLES. First large charitable Donation. Amount of his Property in 1826. Increase of his HusiiK'ss. His Horse " Blackie." Rules of the Workshop. Efforts to promote Temperance among his Men. Interest in their Spir- itual Welfare. Narrative of two Individuals. Description of his Busi- ness. Respect for his Calling. Reputation for Integrity. Self-re- straint under Provocation. Skill in his Work. " How long," the writer asked of a distinguished clergyman of this city, " had you been acquainted with Mr. Saffbrd ? " " Ever since," he replied, " that subscription of one thousand dollars which he made to the funds of the American Education Society." The event thus referred to occurred in the year 1826. At that time donations to charitable objects of such an amount were rare, and the fact of this being offered by Mr. Safiford could not fail to bring him into notice in the religious community. While listening to a sermon by the Rev. Dr. Cor- nelius on the importance of educating pious young men for the ministry, in which it was proposed that some one should give a thousand dollars to found a scholarship, the interest of which should be perma- nently devoted to aid one beneficiary, the question arose in his mind, " Can not /do it ? " His heart responded, " I can." And he did it. At that time Mr. Safibrd was worth twenty-five thousand dollars. 48 MEMOIR OF DANIEL S AFFORD. This had not been gained by the rise of stocks, nor by speculations of any sort, but was wholly the product of industry and untiring application to his business, through the blessing of God, which, he says, " from the beginning I sought upon my labors." The preceding year had been one of unusual prosperity; and he now came with his thank offering, in accordance with the principle, upon which he acted through life, of giving as the Lord had prospered him. " But this subscription," he said to a friend years afterward, " cost me a great deal of pain. I saw in my heart risings of self-complacency, which were very odious, and led me to fear that God would not accept the offering." Until about this time Mr. SafFord had been accus- tomed to labor with his men in the shop. He now took into partnership Mr. Isaiah Low, one of his early apprentices, a man of sterling worth and more than ordinary mental -culture. His views of the principles and mode of conducting business harmonized entirely with Mr. Safford's ; and he proved himself so compe- tent in every respect, that the shop and the mechanical part of the business were at length left mostly in his hands. Mr. Low took the house adjoining their place of business, and received the apprentices into his family. Although by this arrangement Mr. Safford was relieved from the immediate care of the shop, still the rapid extension of his business required his whole attention abroad. His work was called for in remote parts of the city and suburbs. It was in the prosecu- tion of these labors that he purchased for a saddle horse the favorite " Blackie," already spoken of an BUSINESS OPERATIONS AND PRINCIPLES. 49 animal which from his own qualities, and his celebrity, deserves more thaii a passing mention. This horse was brought for sale from the country, because unmanageable by his owner. His appearance was quite striking, being above the medium size, finely proportioned, of a jet black color, and his countenance remarkably intelligent. Having some confidence in his own horsemanship, Mr. Safford said he would try him. To his surprise, the horse behaved extremely well. Perceiving no fault in him, he concluded that the owner must have been very timid, and have yielded the mastery to the animal, who discovered this, and used the liberty given him. He purchased the horse ; but the very first time he mounted him afterward, he made known his intention not to be controlled. His first effort was to throw his rider an art in which he was manifestly well practiced. He reared, he kicked, he plunged, dashing and foaming in his rage. The battle was fought in a lumber yard, where boards and much timber were lying loosely about. Mr. Safford *oon found that the contest was to be a severe one, and of very doubtful issue. The horse had always before gained the victory, and seemed quite confident he should now. Many persons were attracted to the spot to witness the scene. His friends begged him to dis- mount, saying that he would certainly be killed. But lie was not accustomed to yield to difficulties in any work he had undertaken. He held the reins firmly, and with perfect calmness and great adroitness retained his scat, confident that he must conquer now or never, yet doubting whether the horse would yield until death. A large raw-hide whip was completely used up ; the blood was flowing copiously down his legs ; 5 50 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAPFOBD. when suddenly the horse surrendered. Standing en- tirely still, with the exception of an involuntary and universal trembling, he seemed to say, " I submit ; I wait your bidding as my master." From this moment there was always the best understanding between the horse and his owner. For the succeeding twelve years they were associated with each other in the minds of many in this community. Mr. Safford was often des- ignated by those who did not know his name as " the man who owns the black horse." All the boys in the city knew Blackie. He would follow his master whenever permitted, run to him when called, if within sound of his voice, and perform many pranks which were to them a great amusement. His master frequently left him at the door of an establishment, with the reins over the saddle, and however long the time he was occupied, Blackie would be found on his return patiently waiting for him. At one place the boys, for several successive days, had been teasing him. At length, after he had borne the annoyance until his patience was exhausted, he sud- denly reared, as if intending to spring upon them. The boys were frightened, and ran behind the building. After remaining there a little time, they crept timidly out, when the horse again sprang toward them, and drove them back. After this was repeated several times, Blackie concluded that he would hide, too. He went around the other side of the building, and remained until the boys appeared. "While they were looking about, wondering if he were gone, he suddenly leaped at them from his hiding place. This play of hide and go seek by Blackie and the boys was repeated on sev- eral occasions, and it was so amusing that many were attracted to witness it. BUSINESS OPERATIONS AND PRINCIPLES. 51 It was with deep sorrow that Mr. Saflbrd felt obliged to part with so faithful a servant, when he became old and blind. Twenty years afterward he said, " I have sometimes regretted that I had not paid his board and kept him in my possession, although perfectly useless to me, until his death." About this time Mr. Safford took a long lease of the property on the corner of Devonshire Street and Spring Lane, then his place of business. The ques- tion whether he should lease or purchase it had been for some time under consideration. There was a strong probability that the value of this property would greatly increase ; but his aversion to being in debt prevailed. It was with him an established rule never to contract a debt which he might not be able to pay. The number of men in his employment varied from twenty to fifty. In his intercourse with them lie was kind, but firm. Tho order and discipline of the shop during working hours were strict. No profane or improper language was allowed. Long before the temperance movement was commenced, Mr. Safford, as has been already seen, had practically adopted its principles. He saw and felt that the habit of drinking ardent spirits was a great evil. But how to meet it in the case of his workmen, for whom he was especially responsible, was a difficult question. They considered themselves as much entitled to their " grog " as to their wages. He first proposed to substitute beer, and placed in the cellar a barrel of it, to which they all had access. He next persuaded them to exchange the beer for milk. At last he adopted the plan of paying each man an equivalent in money for the liquor, when 52 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAPFORD. he settled with him at the close of the week. This measure proved more satisfactory than either of the others. A few years later, when the evils of intem- perance began to be publicly discussed, and total ab- stinence societies to be formed, he invited all his work- men to meet in his own house, and listen to an address from Rev. Dr. Edwards, then a distinguished advo- cate of this cause. He set before them the dangers of the temperate drinker in his usual plain and earnest manner ; after which the men formed themselves into a temperance society, every one of them signing the pledge. Mr. Safford made himself acquainted with the habits of his workmen, both in and out of the shop. If he learned that one was guilty of immoral practices, he embraced the earliest opportunity for a private inter- view, and kindly but faithfully urged an immediate reformation. If this did not follow, the man, however valuable his services were to him, was dismissed. Nor did he rest content with this. Pie sought even more earnestly their spiritual welfare, and did not cease to pray and labor for their salvation. One who in early life was apprenticed to him, and subsequently became a partner in the business, says, " I can never express what I owe to Mr. Safford's example, and to his efforts for my welfare. It was a conversation which he had with me by the door of the shop, after the business of the day was closed, and the other workmen had re- tired, together with his prayers for me, which availed to bring me to Christ." This man is now a respected officer of a church in the suburbs of the city. Another says, " I never hear the name of this good man mentioned but it stirs up within me the most BUSINESS OPERATIONS AND PRINCIPLES. 53 pleasant emotions. When I first came to Boston, I applied for work to Deacon Saffbrd, and was successful. He was employing at that time more than fifty work- men. Soon afterward, I joined a company of young men who spent their evenings in dissipation. One Saturday evening, as the men came forward to receive their pay, Mr. Safford asked me to stand aside and wait a moment. After all the cithers had gone away, he turned to me, and in one of the most faithful and earnest exhortations I ever heard, urged me to aban- don my course of life at once, as my only hope of suc- cess in this world, or of salvation in that which is to come. During his remarks he recounted the history of many individuals, whom he had seen commence life in Boston with much promise, but who, following the same course I was then pursuing, had brought ruin upon themselves, and disgrace upon their friends. The conversation ended with a solomn prayer. It was the turning point in my life. I at once abandoned my evil associates, and avoided the theater ; and from that hour my prospects brightened. This is not all. When thrown into the company of irreligious men, that con- versation and its infinite worth to me have many times occurred to my mind, and led me to try to imitate it." As has been already intimated, his business was not that of the ordinary blacksmith. There were parts of it which required much skill and taste, such as the constructing of doors, locks, and safes, for banks. Many of the ornamental iron fences, balconies, and verandas first constructed in Boston, were not only of his workmanship, but the patterns were of his device. His work was sent to different parts of this and other countries. He introduced hot-air iron fur- 54 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. naces for warming dwelling houses and large build- ings, of which the first used iii the Capitol at Wash- ington was one. He invented some articles, and im- proved others, which came into extensive use. He was sometimes urged to take out patents on these ; but he always said, " No ; I choose that all shall be at lib- erty to use my inventions. If the public are ben- efited, I am satisfied." He entered into many large contracts with the city, and with other corporations ; among them one for the iron work in Quincy Market, and another for that in the House of Industry. His last large engagement with the city was for the build- ing of the iron fence around the Common. This he executed in connection with his former partner, Mr. Adams, more than fifteen years after the dissolution of their copartnership. Mr. Adams had continued in a prosperous business of the same kind, and Mr. Safford was ever scrupulously careful to avoid competition with him. Indeed, he always avoided every thing like competition with his fellow-mechanics. When pro- posals were solicited for these and similar large con- tracts, he would not underbid others, nor descend to any unfair means to procure the work. In making an estimate, he carefully acquainted himself with the cost of proper materials, and of the requisite labor, and then added what he regarded as a fair profit. Nor did he desire any engagements which were only to be had upon less honorable terms. Mr. Safford never allowed himself to be insulted. A builder in the city, who had acquired eminence and influence, and whose favor was much sought by me- chanics, on account of the business it was in his power to furnish, in fulfilling large contracts found it for BUSINESS OPERATIONS AND PRINCIPLES. 55 his interest to employ Mr. Safford. The man was haughty, overbearing, often passionate, and withal very profane ; but these peculiarities were borne with by many who wished to obtain his work. One day his large figure was seen in the door of Mr. Safford's shop. In a loud voice, and with an oath, he called out, " You son of a Vulcan, why is not the work done on those buildings?" The shop was large, and Mr. Safford was in a remote part of it. All the men paused in their work, and fixed their eyes on him. They had never seen him lose his temper ; but this was a severe test, and the interest was intense to see how he would bear it. He remained silent for a moment. The man spoke again at the top of his voice, repeating the same words. Mr. Safford turned and walked toward him, and with calm dignity replied, " Mr. , such lan- guage as that can not be allowed in my shop. I have always treated you as a gentleman, and I expect the same treatment from you in return. The work is in progress, and will be completed at the time agreed upon ; but if we must receive such language from you, I prefer that in future you should get your work done at another place." The workmen did not fail to notice the very deferential manner in which this per- son ever after addressed Mr. Safford, and were pleased to see that they received from him more orders for work than before. The only respect which Mr. Safford valued was that inspired by true worth of character. This he aimed to attain in his calling, choosing to be known, at home and abroad, as a blacksmith. On one occasion, after he had retired from business, he said, " I was never at any time of iny life ashamed of my trade, nor to be 56 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. seen working at it. I have always regarded any hon- est employment, by which a person may earn a living, as respectable, and I can see nothing in it degrading to any man. I can not say that I have not aimed to be at the head of -my profession, but have never enter- tained for a moment the wish to change my business, as I have sometimes been advised to do by friends, for one which in the eyes of many might be more respec- table ; choosing to be, as the proverb is, ' a king among beggars rather than a beggar among kings.' Of late years, since I have retired from business, it has sometimes happened that a lawyer, in drawing up legal instruments, has proposed to write ' Daniel Safford, gentleman,' as is common in such cases, and has sometimes done so ; but I always disliked it, preferring to be designated by my former calling." After it was almost forgotten that he ever labored with his own hands, he received, at different times, proposals from mercantile gentlemen to invest capital with them in business. Reflecting upon the risk which this would involve, he one day remarked to Mrs. Saf- ford, " Should I lose all, and it should be necessary, I could return to the anvil, wife, and just as cheerfully as ever earn our bread in that way. It might be a little severe at first, but this arm has not lost its power, and, I think, not its skill." This had been proved not long before. When the Lowell Railroad was in process of construction, it became necessary, not imfrequently, to weld together two of the iron rails. Inquiry was made of Mr. Safford if this could be done. He said it could, and directed some of his most experienced men to undertake it. The foreman in the forging department pronounced the thing impossible. He BUSINESS OPERATIONS AND PRINCIPLES. 57 said they could not get up a welding heat in that shop sufficient to do it, and that it would be foolish to attempt it. Mr. Safford, still insisting that it could be done, at length said, " You do not intend to compel me to take hold myself do you ? " "I should like to see you try it," replied the foreman, in a somewhat defiant tone. Mr. Safford knew that there was an Englishman in the shop who could do it, but he was not willing to have his foreman beaten by him. He ordered a man to the bellows, laid aside his coat, called for a leather apron, and took his stand at the anvil. Four men on each side of him supported the rails. The men had never before seen him in this position, and stood by, laughing among themselves, and expecting to witness his failure. He quietly worked on, until, to the astonishment of all, and the extreme mortification of the foreman, the work was successfully completed. Contented with the wise allotments of Providence, Mr. Safford knew not the feelings of jealousy, which many in the working classes entertain respecting those who occupy a position in society higher than them- selves. He cherished a noble magnanimity toward men in every station; and gladly gave honor to whom honor was due. He respected man, of whatever color or nation, as a brother, even though clothed in rags. His kindness to all classes was proverbial. He pos- sessed that good sense, and had acquired those habits of close observation, which enabled him to judge cor- rectly of character. If he met with persons who, on account of their wealth, arrogantly claimed undue deference, he pitied them. He never courted the favor of those who were elevated by office or wealth, or sought to gain consideration by any connection with 58 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. them. It was not thus he aimed to rise in the world. But when, from time to time, he found himself unex- pectedly occupying positions which were new to him, whatever they might be, he always seemed to be en- tirely at home in them. He knew just where he stood, and that it was on a solid foundation. Con- scious that his aim was not to establish a reputation among men, but to be good and to do good, he was very little affected by what others thought or said of his course. CONNECTION WITH THE SALEM CHURCH. 59 CHAPTER V. CONNECTION WITH THE SALEM CHURCH. Organization of the Church. Chosen Deacon. View of his official Duties. Love for his Brethren. Attachment to the Pastor, Rev. J. Edwards. Kindness shown to his Family. A GROWING interest in evangelical religion led to the belief that a new Congregational church should be organized in the northern part of the city. To com- mence this enterprise a number of persons were desig- nated by the other churches, among whom was Mr. Safford. At the first meeting of the new church he was elected deacon, and appointed one of the com- mittee for calling a pastor. He was inducted into office, with two associates, on the second Sabbath in January, 1828 the Sabbath following the installation of the pastor. Mr. Safford's estimate of himself was such that he would never have sought this office. Many years later, after he had served in a similar capacity in three other churches, he one evening remarked, on returning home from a meeting for prayer and conference, over which he had presided, " I ought not to be in this place. There are men in the church Mr. and others more competent to edify people than I am." Deeming it, however, a call of God, he did not refuse to obey it, and enter at once, with his customary 60 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. fidelity, upon its duties. Visiting " the widow and fatherless in their affliction," and ministering to those who needed sympathy and relief, were no new em- ployments to him ; but he now adopted them as part of his daily routine of duty. One who was subse- quently associated with him in this office writes, " Deacon Safford cherished a profound sense of the dignity and responsibilities of the office, and discharged its duties with unsparing zeal and devote dness, al- though diffident and distrustful of himself. Like the seven who were appointed to attend to such business as encumbered the apostles, that they might give themselves continually to prayer and to the ministry of the word, he made it his first duty to perform any service that would relieve or assist his pastor. His watehfulness for opportunities to cU} this was so con- stant, and his perception and judgment so accurate, that a thing was often done by him before it would occur to another that any thing needed to be done. "It often devolved upon him in person to solicit contributions for charitable objects ; and this he did in such a pleasant way that all were glad to see him coming, even when they knew it was to ask for money which they could, perhaps, ill afford to give. " His visits to the sick and the afflicted were marked by gentleness and sympathy. He possessed great skill in gaining their confidence, and knew better than most men how to afford relief." One of the objects which Mr. Safford strove to accomplish was to induce people to attend upon the services of the sanctuary. "Never shall I forget," remarked another, " after having mentioned one day to Mr. Safford the name of a family in the neighbor- CONNECTION WITH THE SALEM CHURCH. 61 hood of Salem Church, who I thought might be drawn to the house of God if efforts were made to that effect, the promptness and zeal with which he attended to the case, looking them up himself, and persevering in his exertions until they were all established as constant attendants on divine worship." On one occasion, when a series of meetings was about to be held, he looked around to see whom he could induce to attend them. Among others, he in- vited a widow lady, with three young daughters, who were dependent in part on their needle for support. The mother reasonably objected that they could not afford to give their time to meetings during the week. He asked her how much they could earn in the given time. She told him, and he said, " Let your daughters come to these meetings, and I will see that you do not lose by it." They went, and were converted, and sub- sequently filled important positions both in social life and in the church. He regarded the family of Christ as his own family. It was his custom to keep a list of the members of the church, and to cultivate a personal acquaintance with each ; loving those united with him in these sacred bonds " with a pure heart fervently." He supplied the immediate necessities of the poor from his own purse, and with this never failed to point them to the full fountain of Christ's love, from which he himself drank so deeply. The pastor who had been called to the charge of this infant church was the Rev. Justin Edwards, of Andover. At this time his health was found to have been so much impaired by his former labors, that it was deemed inexpedient for his family to remove 6 62 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. immediately to Boston. They were accordingly placed for the time in Dorchester, and he himself allowed to pass the summer at Saratoga Springs. In these cir- cumstances, Mr. Safford assumed the care of the fam- ily ; or, as Mrs. Edwards said, " He adopted us. He was present at the house in Dorchester to receive our goods, and did not leave us until they were all ar- ranged, aiding himself in the work through the entire day." It is with much gratitude that Mrs. Edwards remembers his kind attentions during this season of" trial, while among strangers, in delicate health, with the sole care of her young children, and burdened with anxiety for her husband. The approach of Blackie and his master always sent a thrill of joy through the house the little boys vied with each other in their efforts to get first to the gate and open it ; and were often permitted to perfom the no less agreeable service of relieving the chaise of its contents, consisting of nice fruits of the season, and other " good things." One instance of Mr. Saf- ford's kindness made an abiding impression on the minds of these boys. He took them in his carriage into the city, and purchased for each a new pair of boots the first they had ever possessed. He could never forget their manifestations of delight as they passed through the street leaping by his side, and filling his heart with a joy equal to their own. " On the removal of the family to the city, in the autumn," Mrs. Edwards writes, " he was at the house in Sheafe Street, to receive us again, and to render the needed assistance. After the furniture was ar- ranged, he perceived that some additional articles were wanting to render the parlors comfortable and attrac- CONNECTION WITH THE SALEM CHURCH. 63 tive, and saying nothing to any one, he went and ordered them, paying the bill himself. Thus, with his kindness ever wakeful and active, he provided for our good, during our residence in Boston, many comforts, which are still gratefully remembered. When the ill health of my husband rendered it necessary for him to resign his charge and return to Andover, our dwell- ing here was, at his expense, handsomely painted, and furnished with window blinds. These and many other acts seemed to be done by him with the same interest with which he would have done them for his own family, expecting and wishing for nothing in return. During the absence of my husband most of the time for seven years, our dwelling was often cheered by his presence ; and whenever we entered his own, we were sure to be met with a smile which gave full proof that his heart meant what his lips uttered ' I am glad to see you.' To be ever greeted with kind looks and other expres- sions of a sincere and sympathizing heart, in this cold, selfish world, we have felt to be no small favor from the Lord. " Throughout his life my children received from him numerous acts of kindness. For many months, while attending school in the city they had a home in his house. At the time when my husband was appointed President of the Theological Seminary at Andover, he made important repairs upon the house we were to occupy, and procured the additional furniture requisite." In completing her narrative of the kindness received from him by her husband and family through his life, Mrs. Edwards adds, " In 1855, he, with my sons, selected a monument for my husband, the expense 64 MEMOIR OP DANIEL 8AFFORD. of which was mostly defrayed by contributions from his acquaintances and friends. His usual good taste and judgment were manifest in this. Though now in declining health, the care of its transportation and erection was, at his own request, left to him. He not only superintended the labor, but wrought with his own hands day after day, until the work was com- pleted. . . . " It was affecting to witness how constantly he em- ployed himself for the good of others, even in illness and weakness. During the last summer of his life, he gathered in his daily rides materials for a rustic gate for our garden hedge. This he constructed himself, in his own house in Boston, spending several days in the work. We received it by express, with the hinges upon it, ready to be put in its place. There it still remains more than six years afterward opposite our windows, reminding us daily that we once had such a friend and brother. "From many rooms in our dwelling his fervent prayers have ascended to the Giver of all good for his blessing to rest upon us ; and oh, how many, many dwellings have shared in the same sincere and heart- felt supplications ! " May his mantle, with the blessing of Heaven, rest upon his family and posterity to the latest generation." DOMESTIC LIFE, CONTINUED. 65 * CHAPTER VI. DOMESTIC LIFE, CONTINUED. Marriage to Miss Abby Jane Bigelow. Visit to her Parents. Dominie. Mr. Safford, " the Minister's Friend." Rev. Dr. Cornelius. Birth of a Son. Death of his Wife. Views of Mourning Apparel. Extracts from Correspondence. WE have related the circumstances in which Mr. Safford's acquaintance with Rev. Mr. Edwards's family commenced. The kindness so gratefully acknowledged by Mrs. Edwards was at first prompted solely by his regard for his pastor, and the cause for which he was laboring. That attachment was now to be strength- ened by the formation of a tenderer tie. On the 25th of December, 1828, he was married to Miss Abby Jane Bigelow, of Colchester, Connecticut, sister of Mrs. Edwards. Miss Bigelow had professed religion six years before, at the age of twenty. Her temperament was placid, and her tastes were simple. Being little disposed to enter into fashionable life, it was her delight now to be introduced by her husband to those members of the church who could be comforted or aided by her, and share with him the pleasure of doing good. The wedding had taken place in Boston, at the resi- dence of Mr. Edwards, where Miss Bigelow was on a visit to her sister. Though the approbation of her 6 66 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. aged parents had been sought and bestowed, yet four months of her married life passed ere they had an opportunity of seeing him who almost seemed to have taken their daughter by stealth, she having left them apparently only for a few weeks, and often having said, " I shall be the one, of all the six, to stay at home and take care of you." But now, on a loveljj spring morn- ing, Blackie was seen wending his way through their quiet village. He first stopped at the house of her sister, Mrs. T. ; who, with her husband, accompanied them to the old mansion, feeling no small interest in witnessing the first greeting between the parents and the son. A visit of a few days fully satisfied them respecting their daughter's choice ; and their esteem for him increased ever afterward while they lived. During this first visit to Colchester, he made an- other acquaintance, which, as illustrative of his character, deserves to be mentioned. It was with " Dominie," an old negro who lived alone in a little hut on the edge of a wood, some distance from the village. Many yet living remember him as spinning worsted in their fathers' families, when they were chil- dren, and singing as he spun, " Oh, when shall I see Jesus, And reign with him above, And from this flowing fountain Drink everlasting love ? When shall I be delivered From this vain world of sin, And, with my blessed Jesus, Drink endless pleasures in ? " But now, too old to spin, he spent his time, when able, in going about to stimulate Christians to a higher DOMESTIC LIFE, CONTINUED. 67 piety, and to warn the impenitent of their danger. When too feeble for this, he, alone in his hut, occupied himself with his Bible, and in prayer and praise. Mr. Safford made him a visit, and enjoyed an hour of de- lightful Christian communion with him. His furni- ture consisted of a bed, a chair, a table, and his spin- ning wheel, which now bore as strong marks of age as himself. And often he knew not whence his next meal was to come, except that Elijah's God would provide it. But he sung with as much heart as ever, - " I need not go abroad for joy, Who have a feast at home ; My sighs are turned into songs The Comforter is come." And Mr. Safford felt that, if he had the wealth of a world at his command, he would not venture essentially to change Dominie's situation. He gave him a small sum to furnish present necessaries, and left an order at a store for his annual supplies a deed which the Master doubtless accepted as done to himself. It was not long, however, that Dominie needed this aid. Inquiring after him on a subsequent visit, he learned that a neighbor had one day called at Dominie's hut, and finding him very sick, had removed him to his own house, where ho was tenderly nursed and cared ibr until his death. The poor spinner, of a despised race on earth, had gone to be a prince in the kingdom of glory. Mr. Safford now began to be commonly known as the minister's friend, and a helper in every good cause. Three sisters of his wife had married clergymen : the llcv. J. Edwards, his own pastor, Rev. J. Reid, of 68 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. Reading, and Rev. W. Gale, then of Eastport, Maine, whom he seemed to receive in place of the three brothers he had lost. In a letter addressed to Mrs. Edwards, Dec. 16, 1832, he writes thus : " I have often considered the transaction which took place in your house in Sheafe Street, four years ago, as the most important event in my history. It con- nected me with a family circle whose example and precepts have been a great benefit to me, and would have been much greater were I not so slow to learn. I love to follow the chain of providences connected with it down to the present time. If, during the absence of your husband, whom I love and respect more than any man now living, I can serve you in any way, I hope you will use all the freedom you would with an own brother." As his acquaintance with the religious world ex- tended, he began to take larger and more compre- hensive views of the work which Christ has com- mitted to his people. He felt more deeply his re- sponsibility as a steward, soon to be called to account for his use of the talents intrusted to him, and com- menced keeping an exact account of his family and charitable expenses. Letters written by Mrs. Safford at this period, descriptive of their housekeeping, show that much economy was used in providing for their table, as well as in furnishing the house, in order that they might have more to give to the cause of be- nevolence. " Dr. Cornelius," she writes, " preached economy to us while here, and we have been considering whether it would not be right for us, as Christians, to dispense with many of the luxuries of the table in which we DOMESTIC LIFE, CONTINUED. 69 have been accustomed to indulge, and devote the money to charitable objects. All that we have belongs to the Lord ; and should we not learn to eat to live, and not live to eat ? We think so, and are trying the experiment of living very simply." Dr. Cornelius was, during the first winter after Mr. Safford's marriage, a frequent and welcome guest at his table. A strong and mutual attachment was formed between them, and after his death the inter- course and instructive conversation of this eminent man were remembered in the family with much delight. On the 1st of April, 1830, he first experienced the joy of embracing a son of his own. This seemed to complete his domestic bliss. But alas! six weeks only had passed in the mutual enjoyment of this new gift, when God revealed to them his will that the mother must die. Who can tell how crushing was the burden thus laid upon his servant ? Only seventeen months had she been his, and daily had their union seemed blessed anew by Heaven. He sought for a place to weep, and poured out his soul before the Lord. With strong crying and many tears he prayed for her life, for his sake and for that of the helpless infant. At length his bleeding heart submitted ; iior did he leave the place until he could say, in humble imitation of the Sufferer in Gethsemane, " Not my will, but thine, be done." The summons did not find Airs. Safford unprepared to meet it. Her first anxiety, as was natural, was for her babe ; and when her sister, Mrs. T., promised to receive and educate him as her own, her mind was at rest, and she bowed meekly to the appointment 70 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD, of her Father. She did not, however, for a time, enjoy as she desired the consciousness of her Saviour's presence and love. Her life "was reviewed with severe scrutiny, and compared with the purity of heaven. " How can I," she exclaimed, " who have so little sought the glory of God, hope to enter that holy world ! " She could not see, as others did, that this very jealousy of herself was an evidence of true piety ; nor did she remember that salvation is a boon not to be merited by works, but received with humble faith as the gift of God to sinners. When the last struggle came, after she had left many touching messages for her friends, her hus- band asked her, " Can you commit your soul to God ? " She answered quickly, and with emphasis, " Oh, yes ; and you and the babe too." Then summoning her little strength, she said, " Christ is my Friend." And again, with emphasis, " Oh, how good Christ is ! " This was what her husband had prayed for. The Saviour was with her in this trying moment, and the chamber of death, illumined by his presence, became as the gate of heaven. The friends who surrounded her exclaimed, almost involuntarily, " death, where is thy sting ? " A few moments more, and the sufferer was at rest for ever. At the funeral, Mr. Safford stood at the head of her coffin, and with an unfaltering voice united with the friends in singing the hymn, " Unveil thy bosom, faithful tomb ; Take this new treasure to thy trust, And give these sacred relics room To slumber in the silent dust. DOMESTIC LIFE, CONTINUED. 71 " Nor pain, nor grief, nor anxious fear Invade thy bounds ; no mortal woes Can reach the peaceful sleeper here, While angels watch the soft repose. " So Jesus slept; God's dying Son Passed through the grave, and blessed the bed. Rest here, blest saint, till from his throne The morning break, and pierce the shade. " Break from his throne, illustrious morn ! Attend, O earth, his sovereign word ! Restore thy trust a glorious form Called to ascend and meet the Lord." The views of Mr. Safford under this severe stroke * may best be ascertained from his correspondence with his friends ; some extracts from which are subjoined. " You ask me to write and tell you about myself, and more of our dear Jane. About myself I can not tell you so that you can fully understand me. If you should be called to part with your dear husband, you would better know my feelings than by any description of them. I feel as though a large part of myself were gone, a strong cord which bound me to earth broken, and another motive held up before me, to give all dili- gence to make my calling and election sure. If I should suffer myself to sit down and dwell upon those * The custom of wearing mourning apparel at the death of friends had been often considered by Mr. Safford. Having himself been repeatedly visited by bereavement, he had had ample opportunity to observe the effects of this custom ; and while desirous, so far as was proper, to conform to the usages of society, he saw, as he thought, important reasons why Christians should make no change in their apparel on such occasions. His wife had concurred in his views, and requested that they might be observed at this time ; which was done. 72 MEMOIK OF DANIEL SAFPORD. nameless little kind words and looks which were so interesting to me, and which I can hear and see no more for ever, I should be quite overwhelmed. But there are views to be taken of her life, sickness, and death, which are calculated to stimulate me to greater activity. In health she was punctual and constant in the performance of duty, making religion the object to which all others must yield. In sickness, she was patient and submissive ; in death, peaceful and happy. Oh, my sister, how ought we to love and adore that Saviour who manifested himself so sweetly to our dear friend, at the trying hour when all other helpers failed, when her physician stood by without offering any assistance, and when friends gazed in silence, waiting for her happy spirit to take its upward flight ! I love to linger on the scene ; to remember how calmly she committed her babe and her husband to God; how sweetly she spoke of the love of Christ, while I waited with my ear upon her heart to hear its last beating, even after the pulse ceased. Angels, I thought, were waiting to bear her soul with rapid flight to Abraham's bosom. It was a solemn and delightful hour. Heaven seemed almost within reach. " A favorite text of hers was, ' Looking to Jesus.' Often, as I went to her bedside in her sickness, she said, ' You must keep looking to Jesus.' Yes, my dear sister, let us continue looking to Jesus, through his word and his providence, until we be changed into his image." " My loss is in part made up by the kind interest which her friends take in my welfare and happiness, 73 favoring me so frequently with letters, and giving me so much evidence that I am remembered by them in their prayers. I sometimes think my loss is even more than made up to me by the views which God, in his infinite mercy and kindness, is pleased to grant me of his glorious character and government. When I con- template the great God, seated upon the throne of the universe, governing suns and systems, the numberless worlds that he has made, and then think of the in- terest he takes in the inhabitants of this planet, this little speck in the universe, manifested so wonderfully in sending his dear Son to die for those who have rebelled against him ; and think of the care he takes of every inhabitant of this world, especially of his own dear children, watching over them by day and by night, and seeing that nothing docs them any harm, but that all things work together for their good ; when 1 take this view of God, I feel that he is all, and I am nothing ; that it becomes me not only to acquiesce, but to rejoice in all he does, and inquire only, ' Lord, what wilt thou have me to do ? ' What a glorious hope the gospel presents the hope of being with and like Christ ; of being entirely delivered from sin, and every temptation to sin ; the hope of meeting Abra- ham, Isaac, and Jacob, the prophets, apostles, and martyrs, our dear Jane, and all who ever have died, or ever will die, in the Lord, and joining them in an ever- lasting song of praise to God and the Lamb ! 41 ' Oli, glorious hour ! Oh, blest abode ! I .shall bo near and like my God, And flesh and sin no more control The sacred pleasures of my soul.' 7 74 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFPORD. " Seeing we hope for such things, dear brother and sister, what manner of persons ought we to be in all holy conversation and godliness ! " " Since I wrote you last, another year has closed an eventful one to us both, but especially to me. The last day of the year was observed by our church as a day of humiliation and prayer. The last of the pre- ceding year was observed in the same way, and a very solemn and interesting day it was. We considered it the commencement of the revival. At our last meet- ing, one of the brethren remarked, that since we met a year ago, three of our number had, he trusted, gone to heaven, one of whom then occupied one of these seats, and united her prayers and praises with us. I was so much affected by the thought that I should see her face no more on earth, that in attempting to speak I found it difficult to control my feelings. My mind soon became composed and comforted by reflecting that she was now in the presence of that dear Friend who manifested himself so sweetly in the dying hour; and that she was in far holier and happier society than Salem Church, her capacities enlarged, and her voice joining with the redeemed in heaven in praising him who loved her, and washed her garments white in his precious blood. ' f I suppose you wish to hear something about little D. B. Safford, and I want as much to tell you about Mm. If I had the power of description which some of his aunts have, I would place him before you, running about, with his little hands up and his mouth wide open, laughing with all his might, and showing his white teeth, of which he has four ; getting hold of a DOMESTIC LIFE, CONTINUED. 75 chair, shaking it, and jumping until he gets tired, or sitting on the floor with his playthings ; then creeping to a chair or sofa, and raising himself up without help, an exploit of which he is quite proud. I often wish his aunts E. and M. could see him performing his little feats, of which he has some new one every day ; and think, too, with tearful eyes, how pleased his mother would have been, if her life had been spared, to see his little nameless, engaging looks and actions, and to witness his father's delight in him. But then I chide myself, and remember how much more she is pleased now." Not only did he thus speak of his own sorrows, and the consolations afforded him under them, but lie took care to improve this afflictive event in addressing solemn admonitions to relatives who made no profes- sions of personal religion. One of these addresses to a brother of his wife was as follows : "February 17, 1831. " MY DEAR BROTHER : I thank you for your two letters which I recently received, especially for the one giving an account of the revival in your city. I hope, my dear friend, and almost believe, that ere this you are rejoicing in the love of Christ, and prepared to tell me in your next what God has done for your soul. But if not, let me entreat you as for your life, your eternal life, to go to Christ without delay, with all your sins, remembering that ' he came not to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance.' If you wait to make your- self better before you go, you will be like the woman in the gospel who spent all she had upon physicians, 76 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. and was nothing bettered, but rather grew worse. Like her you must, if you are ever saved, cast your- self at the feet of Jesus. " You say you are determined to attend all the meet- ings you can. This is right, and I am rejoiced to learn that you are so determined ; but this is not all. You must take time for reading the Bible, for serious med- itation upon the holy character of God ; upon the love which Christ manifested in leaving the throne of glory and coming to this sinful world, to suffer and die for his enemies ; upon the kind invitations of the gospel ; upon the glories of heaven and the woes of hell ; upon the incalculable value of your soul, which is to exist, either in a state of unceasing suffering or of happiness, for ever and ever. All these motives, and many more, are presented in the Bible, to induce men to forsake sin and turn to God. You should also take time for frequent seasons of secret prayer, especially to pray that the Holy Spirit may be sent to convince you of your sins, and guide you to Christ, ' the Lamb of God, who taketh away the sins of the world.' " There is another difficulty, growing out of your extensive connection with fashionable and polite so- ciety, to which, I apprehend, you are peculiarly ex- posed. There may be society into which it would be safe and proper for a Christian to go, that would be dangerous and improper for one who is seeking the salvation of his soul. Whatever tends to divert the attention from religion, and dissipate serious thought, should be carefully avoided at such a time as this. " I have feared, my dear brother, that you wish to hold the world fast in one hand, and get religion (if you can) with the other ; but remember, you can not DOMESTIC LIFE, CONTINUED. 77 serve God and Mammon. Therefore l choose ye this day whom ye will serve." I think that this is a very critical period with you one which will probably determine your eternal destiny. " I have addressed you in a very plain and unre- served manner, as I should not dare to address any but a friend who would appreciate my motive. If it requires any apology, it may be found in the deep solicitude I feel in your eternal welfare. " That you may find that joy and peace in believing which the world can not give nor take away, is the earnest desire and prayer of Yours affectionately, DANIEL SAFFOBD." 7* 78 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAPFORD. CHAPTER VII. CORRESPONDENCE. Marries Mrs. Mary S. Boardman. Her Death. Letter to Mr. and Mrs. Gale. To Mr. and Mrs. Turner. Deatli of Mr. Turner. Letter to Mr. and Mrs. Gale. To his little Son. Encounter with a drunken Man. Religion in traveling-. Letter to a Brother in Law. The latter's Estimate of his Character. Winter Night Hide. His Bible Class. Anxiety for the Conversion of his Family. Formation of a Legislative Temperance Society. State Fast. Purchase of a House. Marriage to Mrs. Turner. AFTER the death of his wife, Mr. Safford placed two of the orphan children whom he had adopted in boarding schools, and one in a store in the city, while lie himself continued with his aged mother and infant son at housekeeping. On the 27th of April, 1831, he married Mrs. Mary S. Boardman, formerly Miss Smith, of Reading. She had been a school associate, and subsequently a correspondent, of his late wife. His friends were happy in seeing him united again to one so well qualified to be both a companion to himself and a mother to his child. She entered cheerfully on the duties of the latter relation ; and, so far as her del- icate health would permit, continued most conscien- tiously to discharge them as long as she lived. In one year and three months after their marriage, she too was taken from his side, leaving an infant son, who was called George Blagden, for their pastor. The father, in a letter written soon after her death, says, CORRESPONDENCE. 79 " She expressed a strong presentiment that our con- nection would not long continue. I think the subject of death was very familiar to her before our marriage, and I know it has been since. During my acquaint- ance with her, she exhibited a truly Christian char- acter, a consistent deportment, and a sweet submission, to the will of God in all circumstances." To his sister-in-law, Mrs. Turner, he writes also, " Little did I think, when parting with you last, that I should so soon have this painful intelligence to communicate, although even then I had my fears. My dear Mary died about half past ten, on the 31st of July, in the full possession of her reason, and in the exercise of that faith which enabled her to triumph over death and the grave. I could not at any time discover in her the least degree of agitation or alarm, although she was perfectly sensible of her situation. With entire composure she exhorted David to prepare for death, wot more than one minute before she breathed her last. " Her departure was so sudden that I found myself quite unprepared for it. It was a distressing hour to me. I had not till then considered her case to be critical. When she was gone, I immediately went to my chamber, where I had a severe struggle with feel- ings which my pen can not describe, and which you can not fully conceive without experiencing the same. But I do hope that there my hard heart broke down under the chastening rod, and that, by divine assist- ance, I was enabled to commit my Mary, myself, and my all to Him who never corrects his children will- ingly, but always for their good. Now, while my heart bleeds at every pore, and while I feel alone in 80 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. the world, in a sense which none fully realize who have not lost a bosom friend, I am constrained to call on my soul, and all that is within me, to praise the Lord for his great goodness in giving me wives whom I could love, whose society was so pleasant to me ; and especially in removing from them in the last hour the sting of death, and permitting me to indulge the cheering hope that they are beholding the face of their blessed Saviour without a vail. .When I think of heaven, I involuntarily adopt the language There my best friends, my kindred, dwell, There God, my Saviour, reigns.' " I earnestly desire your prayers, and those of your husband, that these repeated afflictions may lead and keep me near to God. In less than four years and seven months, I have followed three dearly beloved wives to the mansions of the dead. There their earthly remains will rest until the morning of the res- urrection ; when, I doubt not, that which was sown a natural body will be raised a spiritual and glorified body, in the likeness of our divine Saviour." Mr. Safford kept no diary, or other record of his religious experience, but its place is in a measure sup- plied by his very abundant and intimate correspond- ence with his friends. In this, particiilarly in his letters to Mrs. Turner, whose husband was now in declining health, we discern the feelings and experi- ences of a servant of God, deeply afflicted, yet clinging ever to the consolations of the gospel, and growing more and more in the graces of humility and submis- sion to the divine will. CORRESPONDENCE. 81 To MR. and MRS. GALE. " I have received your very kind letters of con- dolence, and read them with much pleasure. It affects me to tears, and, I hope, excites feelings of gratitude to God, to receive such expressions of deep sympathy from the friends of my dear Jane. How good God has been, after taking away all my own brothers, to give me brothers and sisters who can so kindly enter into my feelings, and to whom I can unbosom myself with the utmost freedom ! You are very kind to offer to take Daniel ; but I find my attach- ment to him is increasing daily, and can not at present think of placing him so far from me. He is now, with my mother and his nurse, at Mr. Reid's, in Reading. I am alone, and take my meals at a hotel. I ought not to ask for the time which you might employ in doing more good, but I hope you will not neglect to write to your lonely and afflicted, yet comforted brother. I felt, for a few days after my wife's death, a great reluctance to giving my mind at all to business ; and was more inclined to shut myself up alone, and reflect upon the dealings of God with me, or to visit such friends as could sympathize with and aid me, under my heavy affliction, in looking to the only source of consolation. I remembered, however, that our dear brother Edwards said to me, after Jane died, ' It is not best to sit down and brood over our sorrows and work up our feelings by thinking of our departed friends; but rather inquire what the Lord will have us do, as we are now situated, and when the path of duty is made known, go steadily forward.' "When I considered that I had eighteen or twenty men employed, and none of them at all acquainted with taking the charge of 82 MEMOIR OF DANIEL S AFFORD. business ; that we were under contract for a large amount of work ; that my partner was sick in the country ; and that my own health was unusually good, it appeared plainly my duty to stay at home and attend* to business. And without doubt I have found more religious enjoyment than would have attended any other course, with the conviction that I was run- ning away from duty. Let me close by requesting an interest in your prayers." To MR. and MRS. TURNER. " August 27, 1832. " I think much of you, my dear brother and sister, daily, knowing by experience what it is to watch the progress of disease upon beloved friends, and a little, though but a little, what it is to be very sick myself. If I could say or do any thing that would in the least benefit my dear brother's health, I would most gladly do it. Still more would I desire to say something to enable him to bear his trials with that Christian pa- tience and sweet submission to the will of his heavenly Father, of which he has already a large share ; but to this also I feel incompetent. I will, however, relate a little incident, which, by the blessing of God, may prove of use to you both. " Before Mary left Reading, I used to visit her gen- erally twice a week. At one time when I was there, two or three weeks before she came home, she was very anxious to return with me ; so much so, I thought, as to manifest a little want of submission. As her physician and friends thought it advisable for her to remain there rather than remove to this noisy place, at this season of the year, I told her she CORRESPONDENCE. 83 had better make up her mind just to float upon the tide of Providence, wherever it carried her. She said no more about it then. The next time I saw her, I asked her if she wanted to go home with me then. She replied, ' Not unless you think it best. I have made up my mind to " float upon the tide of Prov- idence," and have no will of my own.' From that time she appeared indeed to glide down to the grave upon that stream without occasioning the least ripple upon its smooth surface ; and now, I think, she is sail- ing in the open sea of God's eternal love, basking in the meridian splendor of the glorious Sun of right- eousness." " Wednesday Eve. Here I am in solitude, with the whole house to myself ; and I assure you it is very pleasant. I have been out to visit brother R. this evening. He has had a lame knee ever since last winter. He has since spent much money upon physi- cians, been confined to the house, and a large part of the time to his bed. His limb is perished and cold, and his general health is so much impaired that it is doubtful whether he will live long. We have had a very pleasant interview. After much conversation upon the manner in which we ought to feel and act under various afflictions, we came to the conclusion that, if we felt just right, we should be careful for nothing, but in every thing, by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let our requests be made known unto God. In other words, we should be diligent in the use of those means which may be adapted to remove the sufferings we endure, with prayer for the blessing of God upon these means, and then leave the 84 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. whole so entirely with him as not to feel anxious or distressed about the result. If we can exercise this entire submission to God, and confidence in him when we are sick, we shall be more likely, I think, to get well, than if we are low-spirited and anxious about ourselves. " I have of late been occupied in looking at the attributes of God, and have found it profitable. By the help of a reference Bible I have examined some of the passages upon each attribute. Last evening I was led to consider his omniscience and omnipresence. If we say he sees and knows every thing, and that he is every where present, we say in general all that these attributes imply. But to be profitably aifected by them ourselves, it appears to me necessary to descend to particulars, such as these : He sees me when I rise in the morning, when I walk in the street, and when I engage in business ; he knows every dishonest thought, every unlawful desire of gain, every secret desire for sinful gratification. Who can follow out such a train of thought without feeling his need of being washed all over in that fountain which alone can cleanse from sin and pollution! David, in Ps. cxxxix., dwells on particulars in the contemplation of this subject: be- ginning with the formation of his body, the fearful and wonderful manner in which it was made, in all its del- icate parts, and going on to the thoughts and acts of life, the impossibility of fleeing from God's presence, or of finding any place where he might hide himself, he might well exclaim, ' Such knowledge is too won- derful for me ! ' Oh, how this sinks and humbles the creature, and exalts the Creator ! " My partner, Mr. Low, has returned from his jour- CORRESPONDENCE. 85 ney, but has given up the idea of recovery. How many friendly warnings gather around, to remind me of my own dissolution ! It seems as if my earthly ties and connections were only formed to be broken. May the condemnation of him who, being often reproved, hardeneth his neck, not fall on me." To MRS. TURNER. "Bosxox, October 1, 1832. " MY DEAR SISTER : I found in the post office to- day yours of Saturday last, containing the painful intelligence of the mental and bodily sufferings of your dear husband ; and have endeavored, in compliance with your request, as I have walked the streets, or been engaged in business, but especially when bowing the knee in this my place of retirement, to send up my earnest cries to God, that he would graciously appear for both of you in this your extremity. " As I opened my desk just now, I saw, in your own hand, the following lines, dated Monday morning, June 14, 1830 : - Still lift to God the supplicating voice, And leave to him the measure and the choice.' " The circumstances in which this was written you will doubtless recollect. I well remember that, for days, if not weeks, after you repeated them to me, they were scarcely out of my mind. " Although it appears to us very desirable, that those whom we love should, on the bed of death, find the Saviour near and precious, and bo able cheerfully to commit their own souls, their friends, and all their interests to him, yet I do not think that this is the place to look for the most satisfactory evidence of their 8 86 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. Christian character. Little dependence can be placed upon the exercises of the mind, when the poor body is racked with pain, or reduced to great weakness. Hence we sometimes see those who had before fur- nished no evidence of piety, expressing a willingness, and even a desire, to die, that they may be delivered from their sufferings. On the other hand, some who have for years maintained a consistent Christian char- acter, in the near approach of death are found groping in darkness, with only now and then a ray of light, complaining of their ' wicked, very wicked hearts,' and ready, as they cross Jordan, to sink beneath its billows. How will such liberated spirits make heaven ring with the high praises of God and the Lamb, when they find themselves safely landed on the shores of Canaan ! " I know not, my dear sister, whether I am writing to one who is watching with anxious solicitude beside the bed of a suffering, dying husband, or to one who is sitting in passive silence, experiencing that strange loneliness which can not be fully understood but by those whose strongest earthly ties have been sundered ; but in either case, the source of comfort and support is the same. The Lord reigns, and does all things well. I will only add the words which dear Jane often repeated to us ' Keep looking to Jesus.' That you and your dear husband may be prepared for all that God, in his infinite wisdom and goodness, has prepared for you, is the daily prayer of your affec- tionate brother." Mr. Turner lived but a few days after the preceding letter was written. In that interval Mr. Safford visited CORRESPONDENCE. 87 him, watched with him one night, and by conversation and prayer comforted him, and strengthened his cour- age and trust in God. His faith finally triumphed over all fear ; and, while dying, he requested the friends who were around his bed to sing the hymn which closes with the verse, " There shall I bathe my weary soul In seas of heavenly rest, And not a wave of trouble roll Across my peaceful breast." The last line had scarcely died upon the ear, before his ransomed soul was greeted, as we trust, with the song of the angels, amid the high praises of heaven. To MR. and MBS. GALE. " October 30, 1832. " DEAR BROTHER AND SISTER : You have doubtless heard before this that our dear brother Turner is no longer an inhabitant of earth. I was not pres- ent when he died, having gone to New York ; but I returned to Colchester the day after, and was at the funeral. I will not attempt to give you the partic- ulars of his last sickness and death, as you will doubt- less have them more minutely from one who was with him through the whole. Our dear sister is written a widow. She feels deeply afflicted. It was to me a great privilege to mingle my tears and prayers with hers, on that trying occasion ; but how miserable are all earthly comforters, without the divine Comforter ! She enjoyed, I believe, the presence of this blessed, heavenly Friend in an uncommon degree. Brother Asa says that nothing ever impressed his mind so 88 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. deeply with the value of religion, as seeing her, and hearing her converse on that occasion. He said that he was determined at any rate to know more of the Bible. How important to have a well-grounded hope in Christ ! When afflictions come which sink the worldly mind in despondency and gloom, they only serve to draw the true Christian nearer to his heavenly Father, and thus increase his real happiness." The following is the first letter written by Mr. Safford to his little son Daniel, who was at the time two and a half years old. It has been mentioned that his mother, on her dying bed, had requested Mrs. Turner to take the responsibility of his training. In accordance with this request, his father, after the death of Mr. Turner, placed the little boy under his aunt's care. " How do you do, my dear little son ? Do you love your aunt, and your grandmother Bigelow, and do every thing they request you, so that they can love you, and tell father, when they see him, that you have been the very best boy they ever saw ? Father hopes you will ; and then how much he will love his little son ! Oh, how he will hug and kiss him ! And father wants him to think of the dear Saviour, who took little children in his arms and blessed them, and said, ' Of such is the kingdom of heaven.' He hopes Daniel prays to this Saviour to help him be a good boy, so that when he dies he can go to heaven, and be with his dear mother and all good people, and with the dear- Saviour, too. Will you ask your aunt to write me a little letter for you ? Your very affectionate father." CORRESPONDENCE. 89 The following extracts are chiefly from letters ad- dressed to Mrs. Turner, and will serve to continue the narrative of his life and progress in Christian expe- rience, as delineated for the most part by himself: " BOSTON, October 26, 1832. " MY DEAR SISTER : On my journey home, I took tea at Milford, thirty miles from Boston, with a com- pany of intelligent and apparently respectable gon tie- men, who had been overturned in the coach, and were all more or less injured. After tea, we had a little conversation upon the circumstances of their disaster, and various other subjects. When this slackened, I took out my pocket Testament, and commenced read- ing silently. Soon after, a drunken man bolted into the room, and, after muttering over something which I could not understand, said, ' I believe I have made a mistake ; this ain't the bar room,' and attempted to go out, but was so much intoxicated that he could not open the door. I said to him, ' You made a greater mistake before you came in/ and then opened the door, and let him out. " This circumstance presented a favorable oppor- tunity for some remarks upon the evils of intem- perance and its kindred vices, and to recommend the Bible as the safest guide for a man through life. To this several of the company responded, admitting that the subject of religion was a suitable one for strangers to converse upon, as all mankind are equally inter- ested in it. Then I corameijced reading again in my Testament. One of the company, who proved to be a theological student, said, ' Is that a Testament you are reading in ? ' When 1 told him it was, he said, ' If the 8* 90 MEMOIR OP DANIEL SAFFORD. company have no objection, I should like to have some devotional exercises.' No one objecting, we read a chapter, and united with the gentleman who made the suggestion in a very interesting prayer. The company, being bruised and lame, retired early, except the stu- dent, with whom I had a very precious season. He was a Baptist, and, as I judge, a spiritual, devoted Christian." It had been Mr. Safford's custom for many years to carry a Bible with him in traveling, and to spend his time, when not otherwise engaged, in reading it. Long before this, he had made a short sea voyage with one of his brothers, whose life, it was hoped, would thus be prolonged. They went in a packet, with a number of passengers, and were all thrown together in the common cabin. While the others were playing games, or beguiling the time in amusements, he drew his Bible from his pocket, and read it with evident pleasure and satisfaction. We find a description of this voyage in one of the papers of the day. The writer says, " It was plain, from his whole aspect, that he was reading it because he enjoyed it, and not for the sake of setting a good example. But the sight of this young man, absorbed in perusing God's word, impressed more than one of that gay company with the conviction that religion was a grave reality, and that peace with God was worth more than treasures of fine gold." " November 19. My partner, Mr. Low, appears more unwell, and keeps house to-day. What the Lord intends to do with him is unknown to me ; but I am CORRESPONDENCE. 91 sure he will do just right. If he should die, the loss to me would be great ; but I doubt not it would be his gain. We are in a dying world. Let us live to die, that we may die to live a better life with our dear friends and all who sleep in Jesus. " To niy surprise, on my return I found a notice from the city clerk, informing me that, during my absence, I had been elected a representative to the General Court. " I think I desire and pray more than ever I have done before that the Lord will direct me in all things ; that he would guide me in little things. We need assistance in every step we take, and we should esteem it a great privilege that we may in all our ways ac- knowledge him, with the blessed assurance that he will direct our paths. " Evening. ' Bless the Lord, my soul, and all that is within me bless his holy name ; bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits ; who forgiv- eth all thine iniquities, who healeth all thy diseases. He hath not dealt with us after our sins, nor rewarded us according to our iniquities.' Do read the one hundred and third Psalm, and let us praise the Lord together. " I had retired last night with a headache, and had just fallen asleep, when the watchmen waked me by a loud knock on the door of my house. He informed me that my shop was on fire. Hastening to the place, I found that some of the neighbors had extinguished the fire before it had done much damage. Being con- fined to my room the next day, I tried to spend as 92 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFOKD. much of the time as possible in self-examination and prayer. But I found myself unable to get any realiz- ing sense of God, or of the preciousness of Christ. All seemed dark and dull. At the close of the day, I went down to attend family prayers. While Ruth * was reading a chapter full of precious promises, my soul seemed to be liberated. I could not but interrupt her repeatedly, to speak of the preciousness of those prom- ises, and the faithfulness of God in performing them all, in their full extent ; and when we bowed at the family altar, I could not pray ; I had nothing to ask God for, but every thing to thank him for. It did appear to me then, and does now, that if he will only give me himself, he may take away my friends, prop- erty, health, and any thing he pleases. I can rejoice with joy unspeakable. Oh, how inconceivable his love and goodness to sinners, if they will repent and trust their souls and all their interests in the hands of the blessed Jesus! What is a creature's love compared with that of the adorable God ! Well may angels and glorified spirits dwell upon it unceasingly, and tune their harps to sweetest notes of praise." To his Brother in Law in New York. " November 23, 1832. " I hope, my dear brother, you will not be so anx- ious to accumulate property as to overlook or neglect the pearl of great price. By this I would not have you understand me as objecting to any of your busi- ness enterprises, for it is a twofold command, ' Not * His niece, the surviving daughter of his brother David, who continued in his family until her marriage in 1836. CORRESPONDENCE. 93 slothful in business, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord.' But remember, dear brother, "that diligence in business alone will not save the soul. I take the liberty to speak freely to you, because- 1 love you, and know that you will receive it kindly. " But think not that the importunity of your friends with you or for you can be a substitute for your own importunity at the throne of grace. The wise virgins, whose lamps were well supplied with oil, had none to spare for their destitute neighbors. Oh, be persuaded to go now and buy for yourself, that you may be pre- pared to enter in with the bridegroom ; for remember, when the foolish virgins applied for admission, the door was shut. Please write me, and if there is any way in which I can serve you, you know I shall do it with heartfelt satisfaction." In connection with this last letter to this friend, it is appropriate to introduce the following reply of this Brother to a request that he would record his estimate of Mr. Safford's character. " MY DEAR SISTER : I feel it impossible, as you re- quest, to write of that dear good man as I knew him, or describe his character and image as they are en- graven on my heart. My first acquaintance with him, I think, was in 1828, riding from Boston to Dorchester with him in his own chaise, and after that beautiful black horse of his. I remember him as he then appeared, and from his conversation at that time received a most favorable impression of him as a gentleman and a Christian. My recollections of him whether as a traveler with me in steamboats, sleeping in the 94 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. same stateroom, in visiting him at his own house, or receiving him at mine, on week days or Sabbaths, in church or elsewhere, since that first acquaintance, until his departure for his final, blessed rest, have left upon my mind the impression that he was, all in all, the most perfect man I ever knew." To MRS. JUSTIN EDWARDS. " MY VERY DEAR SISTER : I have just been reading again your last three letters, for each of which you have my hearty thanks. I am deeply affected by the expres- sions of kindness which are so often received from the friends, and especially from the sisters, of my dear, departed Jane. Her memory is none the less dear to me on account of the years which have elapsed since she left me for a better Friend, and my dwelling for a far happier abode. I love often to think of her as she is now, in the presence of her dear Lord and Saviour, who manifested himself so very precious to her in the hour of death. I love to imagine what rapid strides she has made in the knowledge of God, and of the glorious plan of redemption, amid those bright scenes where glorified spirits dwell, and which even the eye of faith, in this life, sees but very imperfectly. While here she thought but little of the customs and fashions of this world, which soon pass away; but oh, how trifling they must appear to her now ! " I hope that thoughts like these sometimes have a sanctifying effect upon me, begetting in me stronger desires to follow her so far as she followed Christ, And yet I follow Christ afar off, if at all, and am some- times astonished, and almost overwhelmed, at his long- suffering patience with me. It does seem as if he had CORRESPONDENCE. 95 done all that, as a moral Governor, he could do, to bring and keep ine near to him. " I thank him for inclining you, my dear sister, to offer those prayers for your unworthy brother. I think much of you, your dear husband and children, and remember you all in my prayers, especially that your children may be early partakers of the renewing grace of God ; that instead of the father may be the sons, to preach the gospel of Christ, and to plead the cause of temperance and religion in this dying world. At half past nine o'clock every evening you may think of me as thus employed a season which I have set apart particularly to pray for absent friends." To MRS. TURNER. " January 20, 1833. " In order to reach home before the Sabbath, I en- gaged Mr. C , who keeps the City Hotel, in Nor- wich, to take me thirty miles, to meet the Hartford stage at Ashford, at two o'clock in the morning. I had a more pleasant journey than could have been expected in such a cold, dark night. I found Mr. C to be a professor of religion, and apparently an active Christian, and, as he said, a friend to - temper- ance, a secretary of a temperance society, and one who had delivered addresses on the subject. I reminded him of his great inconsistency in having his bar room furnished with decanters of brandy, and set out with nice oranges and apples, to attract attention, and entice all who entered to drink of his liquid poison. He acknowledged his inconsistency, said he had no excuse to offer, and promised me he would put it out of sight, and, as soon as he could, dispense with it 96 MEMOIR OF DANIEL SAFFORD. altogether. I shall send him some extracts of the Fifth Eeport of the American Temperance Union, and some copies entire, which he has promised to read and circulate." February 7, 1833. " The subject of our church meeting this evening was ' growth in grace.' The Scripture read was in Matt. ch. 5, a part of the best sermon ever preached in our world. What abundant cause we have to praise the Lord that this large and edifying discourse of our blessed Redeemer was recorded for our use ! Surely never man spake as our dear Saviour has here spoken. Oh that our souls may be fixed in a humble, attentive posture, to receive the law from his lips ! How well calculated was this, his first public sermon, to correct the false notions and humble the pride of those who were expecting in the Messiah a temporal prince, to subdue their enemies and establish an earthly kingdom, and thus gratify their pride and ambition ! " Let us stir up our souls to cultivate those amiable and delightful graces which are here recommended in so interesting a manner to our pursuit, and accompa- nied wifli such rich promises ; this humility and meek- ness, this penitent sense of sin, this ardent desire after righteousness v this purity of heart, this peaceful dispo- sition, and this fortitude, or confidence, rather, in God, which will support the mind through evil as well as through good report. Then we may rejoice and be exceeding glad in the blessed assurance that our reward is great in heaven." " Sabbath Eve. There has been a prayer meeting this evening. The twenty-fifth chapter of Matthew CORRESPONDENCE. 97 was read, which led vis to think and remark upon that solemn and eventful day when all nations shall be assembled before the Judge ; when the grand and last separation shall take place between the righteous and the wicked ; when ' these shall go away into everlasting punishment, and the righteous into life eternal.' Not one of the human race will then be missing, nor will there be one idle spectator there. All will be deeply and personally interested in the momentous events of that day. As the punishment of the wicked is de- clared to be everlasting, all hope of restoration, or even of annihilation, will then be cut off. Do we be- lieve this? And are we surrounded by impenitent friends and neighbors ? How strange that we feel no more, pray no more, labor no more for their conver- sion ! Do we believe this, and are we doubtful whether we are Christians or not ? How strange that we can rest, till we make our calling and election sure ! Oh, what a blessed, joyful, triumphant day to the righteous ! all doubt forever removed, all sin, all temptation to sin at an end. What music to their ears to hear the Judge say, ' Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.' ' To MRS. TURNER. " February 12, 1833. " As you have received Fisk's Bible Class Book, I will tell you that our next lesson is on the twenty-first page 'the moral condition and character of man- kind.' I am in the habit, after seeking the guidance and teaching of the Holy Spirit, of consulting com- mentaries, Scott, Doddridgo,