S) Photo. Elliot & Fry ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER Aged Twenty-three, 1911. THE LIFE OF ROBERT PALMER 1888-1916 BY THE LADY LAURA RIDDING AUTHOR OF 'SOPHIA MATILDA PALMER, COMTESSE UE FRANQUEVILLE " ETC. HODDER AND STOUGHTON LIMITED LONDON "Ir is only when men are drawn out of self by love of those near and dear to them that their souls are turned to catch the finer appeal to a wider and more arduous self- sacrifice, and so become able to rise succes- sively by stepping-stones of their dead selves to higher things." R. S. A. PALMER. FOREWORD THIS record of a life full of promise of noble service to God and man has been written at the desire of the family and friends of Robert Palmer, my nephew. If it brings inspiration to a wider circle, those who love him will rejoice that his longing to help others continues to fructify although he is no longer with us. They and I join in grateful recognition of the assistance given to me by all whose reminiscences of him have added shape and distinctness to this slight sketch. LAURA ELIZABETH RIDDING. August 1921. CONTENTS CHAPTER I CHILDHOOD, 1888-1902 ..... 1 CHAPTER II WINCHESTER, 1902-1907 . . . . .14 CHAPTER III OXFORD, 1907-1909 . . . .39 CHAPTER IV OXFORD, 1909-191 1 ...... 56 CHAPTER V INDIA, 1911-1912 ...... 83 CHAPTER VI INTERIM, 1912-1914 . . . . . .94 CHAPTER VII INDIA, 1914-1915 . . . . . .118 CHAPTER VIII MESOPOTAMIA, 1915 . . . . . .149 CHAPTER IX THE END, 1916 . . . , . . .180 INDEX 202 ILLUSTRATIONS ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER . . . Frontispiece Aged twenty-three, 1911. FACING PAGE TOP (aged six and a half) AND BOBBY (aged five), 1893 . 8 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER . . ^. . 96 Aged twenty-five, 1913. CAPTAIN THE HON. R. S. A. PALMER . . .128 6th Battalion, the Hampshire Regiment (India). Aged twenty-seven, 1915. VJI CHAPTER I CHILDHOOD, 1888-1902 IN poignant contrast with its tragic end, the life of Robert Stafford Arthur Palmer began in a period of world- prevailing peace, when the echoes of the celebration of Queen Victoria's first Jubilee still reverberated through the British Empire and when that Empire lay steeped in the sunshine of peace, plenty, and prosperity. Bobby (to call him by the name by which he was always known to his family and friends), the third child of my brother and his wife, Lord and Lady Maud Wolmer, 1 was born at 20 Arlington Street, London (the house of his grandfather, Lord Salisbury), on 26th September 1888. His baptismal names, reminiscent of politicians, were given him as those of his maternal grandfather and of his godfathers, Mr. Arthur Balfour and Sir Henry Stafford Northcote. The years of Bobby's childhood coincided with those of the greatest period of Lord Salisbury's premiership ; a circumstance which, from the first, brought statecraft prominently before the mind of his little grandson. Bobby's earliest thoughts were mingled indistinctly with scraps of political, philosophical, and religious discussions 1 Their family consists of : 1. Mabel Laura Georgina, born 6th October 1884. Married The Viscount Howick, i6th June 1906. 2. Roundell Cecil, born isth April 1887. Married The Hon. Grace Ridley, gth June 1910. 3. Robert Stafford Arthur, born 26th September 1888. Killed in the battle of Umm-Al-Hannah, 2ist January 1916. 4. William Jocelyn Lewis, born isth September 1894. I 2 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER overheard in the conversations of his elders during meals and walks. This talk on matters concerning the Govern- ment of the Commonwealth fascinated him and his elder brother, and aroused their keen interest in our national leaders and the questions of the day, at an age when most children are unaware of the existence of either the men or the movements. In the early childhood of every life there are certain traits which indicate future marked characteristics of the personality. Two such I recollect of Bobby : one, as showing that tendency to morbid self-consciousness which appeared to some of us to be the only flaw in his singularly white character ; the other, as foreshadowing his dogged determination to fulfil his religious duty in the face of all obstacles. It was always a perilous adventure to take little Bobby out to luncheon. All enjoyment might be poisoned by potatoes. He could not endure being helped to them by anybody ; and, when they were handed to him, if he delayed to help himself, too often a friendly hostess or footman would unwittingly do the fatal act and place them on his plate. Tragic tears at once began to trickle down his cheeks, ending in a collapse of sobs. When Bobby was an Oxford scholar, at a time when he was staying with uncongenial companions, he wrote to his father : " You used to laugh at me for weeping when I was offered potatoes. I wept because the footman wouldn't understand, and it all felt so helpless and un- avoidable. And now I often have exactly the same feeling here. There are hundreds of thoughts and hopes in my heart. I ask for sympathy they don't understand, they offer me potatoes ! It is a feeling of hopeless impotence." Notwithstanding, he never allowed this sensation of hopeless impotence to paralyse his action when duty required service of him. Once when Bobby was six years old, he was sitting in a seat at the farther end of a ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 3 large London church. He was taken unawares by the alms-bag being handed to him, and it occupied some time for him to extract a penny from his purse ; meanwhile, the sidesman passed on and left him untithed. He quietly slipped out of the seat and marched up the length of the nave into the chancel at the moment when the alms were being delivered to the clergy. He tugged at the sidesman's coat-tails so vehemently that he turned ; Bobby then made the offering of his penny and solemnly marched back again in the face of the congregation. Few of his experiences and fewer of his thoughts at this period were unshared with his elder brother. He professed his belief in a plurality of devils by assuring us that, " I know there must be, because Top and I always think of things at exactly the same moment ! " The two little boys were devoted to each other and were in- separable companions in their alarums and excursions, whether in their London home at 49 Mount Street or on visits to their grandparents at Blackmoor or at Hatfield. Top (as Wolmer was nicknamed) was a year and a half older than Bobby, whom he strongly resembled in figure and colouring. They were both very fair-skinned, flaxen-haired, and vigorous in movement, though Top's eager, pugnacious expression contrasted sharply with Bobby's meditative, often intent, perplexed gaze. Their faces reflected the differences in their characters supple- mentary, not antagonistic, differences, which made each of them regard the other with understanding, toleration and admiration. While Top's nature was combative, ardent, imagina- tive, Bobby's was conciliatory, calm, judicial. While Top worked by starts and rushes, Bobby steadily ground away with an extraordinary power of concentration and method. While Top crashed through all obstacles that blocked his path, like an irresistible Tank, Bobby faced them with acute anxiety. "There is Bobby with 4 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER another of his insurmountable difficulties ! " was a frequent comment of Top's. It was not surprising that the latter's fearless optimism made him appear like a royal leader to the admiring eyes of a younger brother, not endowed with his gifts for organization or with his practical efficiency in solving unexpected problems. When the boys were seven and eight years old, their elder sister, aged ten, wrote an account of her brothers, which they fitly considered as more frank than flattering. After describing their faults in forcible language she explained that when they were out walking in Hyde Park, " I am quite ashamed of them and try to look as if I did not belong to them. Bobby sometimes behaves very nicely indeed, sometimes badly. Bobby will ask such a lot of questions, he quite aggravates me. Bobby is very silly sometimes and needs a lot of explanations to be told a thing, and he takes an interest in some of the things. He does what I tell him and runs messages for me. . . . They are both on the whole rather funny, though some- times vulgar. They both play with fire. At a first meeting, I think Top and Bobby would be very nice indeed for strangers, but though I love them very much I do not think any stranger would care to live with them." Mabel's complaint that Bobby " needed a lot of explanations " was an unconscious tribute to his engrained determination to master whatever subject was occupying his mind. When quite a little boy, his teachers were struck by his persistency in getting to the bottom of statements and by his power of close reasoning, which they considered to be very exceptional in one so young. He gripped the essential points in an argument in a mature way, and gave his opinion on them in a clear, solemn voice, in sentences enriched with very long words and delivered to the end, undeterred by laughter and interrup- tions. His grandmother, Lady Salisbury, always called him " Little Lord Selborne," because he had the Chan- ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 5 cellorian air when an infant. At six years old he an- nounced his choice of his future profession : " I will be a lawyer who shoots on Saturdays." He pondered early on the problems presented by experience as well as those presented by study. " Mamma," said he one day on returning home after his dancing lesson, " I cannot understand how it is that with a pretty dancing mistress one is never so tired ! " " It is always so," replied his oracle. For Bobby, his mother was always his oracle, guardian saint and wellhead of love, sympathy and wisdom Undoubtedly the perfect understanding which existed between them was a happy result of her educational system. In training her children to be useful Christian citizens, my sister-in-law was incessantly careful to avoid confusing their immature minds with false standards of morals and conduct. While abhorrent of selfishness, cruelty and hard judgments, she was placidly lenient to lapses of forgetfulness, unpunctuality and carelessness, and to the torn clothes, grime and untidiness which are the inevitable accompaniments of the frolics of adven- turous childhood. In consequence, while, for a short period of their lives, Top's and Bobby's faces and general appearance were probably more streaky and dirty than those of any other little boys in Hampshire, their minds were free from clouded calculations of the relative guilt of breaches of the moral law and those of use and custom, and their lives flourished in the sunshine of full trust and confidence in their parents. Another matter, on which their mother laid stress, was the development of her children's independence and capability. They were accordingly taught to dress themselves, light the fire, pack their luggage, travel alone, keep accounts of their expenditure and do sundry offices, at an age much earlier than that at which the 6 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER majority of their young friends learnt these arts. Un- doubtedly, they owed much of their healthy independence of judgment and action to these two special points of their upbringing. When Bobby was eight years old, he and Top were placed as day-scholars under Mr. Bewsher's care in St. Paul's preparatory school at Colet Court, Hammersmith. They went to and from school every day on the top of the Hammersmith omnibus. These journeys brought them many delightful experiences. They tried at first to beguile the tedium by pea-shooting at the outside passengers on other omnibuses, but their driver promptly stopped that pastime. Occasionally they " economized " by spending their fare-money on cocoanuts and walking home. One morning they fell into conversation with a fellow-passenger, a policeman. When they told him that they had just begun to go to school, he solemnly advised them " Whatever you do, mind you fight ! Whenever you get a chance, mind you fight ! " a recommendation which it was quite unnecessary to urge upon Top. Another day their mother, returning home from a walk, perceived two extremely grubby figures, adorned with book satchels, standing motionless on the pilasters on either side of the flight of doorsteps, with the steep area yawning below them. " We are statues ! " explained the breathing decorations. They had just been initiated into the glories of Greek art. Tea was always followed by preparation work for the morrow's class. Bobby, after devouring enormous teas, used to stand on his head in an arm-chair, with his feet resting on the top. " It clears my brain for prep ! " he declared. All his life he elaborated curious attitudes in which to perform his mental exercises. He adored his work as a lover adores his mistress, and he was miserable if some ailment kept him away from ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 7 school. Once in the holidays he informed his mother that, " I like being in the country very much, but I'm rather school-sick ! " He was already showing the scholar's delight in branches of learning that ordinary boys regard with dreary dislike. I recollect how an outburst of enthusiasm for grammar struck Archbishop Temple : " It's so interest- ing to see what slight changes make so many different meanings." At the end of the first year Bobby was already ahead of his brother. He was always top of his class and carried away piles of prize-books. His Headmaster considered him to be one of the ablest boys that he had ever had in the school. He credited him with great intellectual power and quickness in grasping new ideas and in retaining what he so readily acquired. He valued his accuracy and powers of memory as remarkable for his age. Happily for Bobby, his early thirst for knowledge was coupled with an equally keen thirst for fun, which saved him from any danger of becoming a prig. Nobody could feel apprehension on that score who had ever catered for his craving for jokes or who had enjoyed the delight of witnessing the sudden transformation of his intent expression into one of over-brimming gleaming laughter, when something mirthful or ridiculous tickled his fancy. This ready appreciation was very captivating. Once, when he was taken to see a play called A Little Ray of Sunshine, his seat was in the front row of the stalls, and his hilarious laughter delighted and amused the actors. They found themselves playing to the merry little boy and continually gave him their special glances and smiles. Bobby was a born naturalist and began early the collection of butterflies and birds' eggs to which he assiduously continued to add during the rest of his life. 8 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER His eyesight was splendid. I never met anyone who had his power of seeing moths' eyes shine with white light through the darkness or the tragic change to red " glow- ing like fire " which came upon them as death overtook them in the collecting-box. In 1899 Bobby spent part of his holidays at Lord Salisbury's villa at Beaulieu on the Riviera ; he went out daily in quest of a Camberwell Beauty, and every day his grandfather anxiously asked him " if he had yet met the lady ? " Eventually his per- severance was rewarded beyond his utmost dreams, and his father received an ecstatic letter from the collector. It began : " I am happy ! What do you think : I'VE GOT a SCARCE SWALLOWTAIL, only been caught twice in England. If I get a claret-coloured Swallowtail I shall have all the kinds of Swallowtails. The Common Brim- stone is so rare here that it is only seen once in five or six years, but nevertheless I've caught two." Bobby visited us in the Midlands during the summer, from whence he wrote the following letter to his mother : "THURGARTON PRIORY, SOUTHWELL, July 31, 1899. *' Tell Pa that I have only got one butterfly here, i.e. Whiteletter Hairstreak (a rare one), but I have got twenty- one moths through the process known as * sugaring,' which is to spread on trees a mixture made of equal quantities of dark treacle and coarse brown sugar and a small quantity of stale beer and three tablespoons of strongest rhum. As we had not got any in the house, I, Mr. Bax (Uncle George's l secretary), and Dommy 2 went to a ' pub ' in the village and got some ' for the Bishop.' " I have a vivid recollection of the concoction of that witches' brew and of the boy's insistence on the purchase 1 Dr. Ridding, Bishop of Southwell. - Our Aberdeen terrier. TOP (Aged Six-and-a-half) and BOBBY (Aged Five), 1893. ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 9 of nine pennyworth of rum at "the lowest public-house in the village, because the rum there will be the coarsest." I suggested that he should consider Mr. Bax's reputation, on which he at once replied : " We will preserve his character and ask for the rum for Uncle George ! " One Sunday we discovered him seated on the library floor, surrounded by volumes of the new Encyclopedia Britannica. " I can't find what I want ! " he complained. " I wish to understand why women wear hats in church, and I have looked under Hats, Church, Women, and cannot find the reason." We introduced him to Bingham's Antiquities, where his curiosity was satisfied, but without convincing him of the reasonableness of the rule. My brother's children were fond of playing at the game of Twenty Questions. One day, when it was Bobby's turn to discover the thing thought of, he gave a striking instance of his critical discernment in subjecting his uncle, Lord Hugh Cecil, to a cross-questioning con- ducted with such mastery of method that in four minutes he had turned him inside out, to the profound astonish- ment of the victim, whose eyebrows were seen to rise higher and higher under the process, like a thermometer mounting to fever height. Bobby was very methodical in his habits ; his powers of observation were always alert. It was about this time that, fired by the example of Sherlock Holmes, he began to make a practice of mentally noting everything, such as the number of steps in every flight of stairs which he ascended or descended. He could tell us the number of steps in every staircase in every house he had ever visited. When Lord Salisbury formed his last ministry in the November of 1900, my brother was transferred from his office of Under- Secretary for the Colonies to that of First Lord of the Admiralty. His children's satisfaction with their new home was enhanced by the building operations 2 io ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER and excavation of ancient foundations which were then being carried on at the Admiralty, and which caused ominous cracks to yawn across the whole length of the staircase walls. When the Venetian Campanile fell in 1902, Bobby reminded the household of the uncertainties of life by sticking across a gaping crack a piece of paper bearing the words : " Remember Venice ! " I have not spoken of Bobby's spiritual growth. I believe that the love of God was implanted in his heart from infancy, and that he took its existence as naturally and unconsciously as living and breathing. Unlike Wolmer, who, from the first, had always shown keen interest in theology, Bobby was not given to discussing religious subjects in boyish days. Once, as a little boy, he asked his mother during a Bible-lesson : " How do we know it's true ? " She gave him such answer as occurred to her at the moment. This he considered for some time, and then said : " Well, I believe it because you believe it ! " This appeared to satisfy him, and he asked no more. As he got older, he decided to stay for the sermons in church, " because he was often interested in them." In November 1901, Bobby was confirmed by the Bishop of Rochester. 1 He was deeply in earnest about his confirmation, and no candidate ever resolved more steadfastly to give himself wholly to the service of God than did Bobby on that day. Thenceforth, throughout his whole life, his faith in God was the lodestar which he unswervingly followed. His elder brother said of him : " Bobby was the goodest little boy I have ever known or heard of. He was always in intimate relation with God. He had no other thought than to do God's will. He never returned a cross answer, never teased, never quarrelled. I know, 1 Dr. Edward Talbot, afterwards Bishop of Southwark and subsequently of Winchester. ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER n because we were the closest companions, sharing the same room till I went to Winchester. You could not make him lose his temper except by unmitigated bullying; then he only dissolved into tears. The sin of others was a mystery and a grief to him. He put tremendous earnestness into his prayers, private and in church. This grew every year till he attained a great power of prayer. At Winchester he was never absent from the early Celebration in Chapel. All his life he was always as harmless as a dove and as wise as a serpent, innocent of the wickedness of the world, a laughing angel." In the May of 1902, Queen Alexandra selected Bobby and the Prince of Wales chose Top to be their respective pages at the coming Coronation. " I can't imagine why the Queen chose you, Bobby ! " remarked his mother. " We met five years ago," calmly explained the future page. The Duke of Norfolk, at the rehearsal of the ceremony, told Bobby that he was the only one of the pages who had replied to the invitation. On his sister's asking him how he had answered, he said : " I wrote : ' MY DEAR DUKE OF NORFOLK, It is needless for me to inform you that I shall be delighted to have the honour of obeying the Queen's command. Your obedient servant, ROBERT PALMER.' " The postponement of the Coronation on account of the King's sudden illness bereft the pages (as well as thousands of other holiday folk) of the much anticipated pageant. I remember that I helped to escort the children and their cousins to Earl's Court, where we spent several noisy, dusty hours, full of enjoyment for them, but of terrible anxiety for their elders. The waterchute especi- ally had overpowering attractions for Bobby, and he described its charms to his governess thus : " You feel as if you were launching into eternity and very pleasantly, too ! " 12 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER The manner in which the Queen's page acquitted himself of his duties when, at last, the Coronation took place on the 9th August, may be gathered from the following letter written soon after : " I went to four rehearsals before the postponement, and they were extremely comic and indescribably confusing. Of course, the first one was the worst. No one knew where anybody ought to be, and the poor dummy King (Lord Churchill) had a bad time of it, as everyone told him different and the Duke of Norfolk lost his temper. " The second and third were not so bad (though they were quite different from the first and from each other), the only thing odd being the substitutions for all the important persons and things. For instance : The KING was personated by Sir S. Ponsonby. The QUEEN , Lady Mary Howard. The ARCHBISHOP The CROWN The ROBES The SCEPTRE The IVORY ROD CORONETS The QUEEN'S TRAIN Canon Robertson. A coronet with most of the spikes off. A sheet and a lady's dressing-gown. , A poker. , A curtain rod. , Top hats. , Mourning cloth for the late Queen. After the postponement we had three more rehearsals, but I shirked one and only attended the first and third. At the third (dress), the Lord Chancellor x had to put on his coronet over his wig, so he looked exactly like the King in Alice in Wonderland. The coronet nearly slipped off several times. "The actual ceremony was very impressive, and the rows of peers and peeresses on either side, in their velvet robes and (later on) their coronets, presented a fine spectacle. The Bishops were even smarter as they were, nearly all, in copes of white and gold. The Archbishop 2 1 The Earl of Halsbury. * Archbishop Temple. ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 13 and Dean 1 came out of it with only one fall each, and even then they were prevented from tumbling right down, as on each occasion a couple of Bishops caught them. The choir, I thought, was very good indeed. 44 1 was to have been photographed on Monday, but the Queen sent for me to go to the Palace, where she was photographed in a group with all the pages. I then had lunch at the Palace and was sent back in a Royal carriage." Bobby returned home from his morning at Buckingham Palace, full of enjoyment of his experiences and of admir- ing devotion to the charming Queen whose train-bearer he had been. It was poignant to remember his happy chatter over that day's doings fourteen years later when, on hearing the news of his being among the " Missing " after the battle of Umm-Al -Hannah, Queen Alexandra sent a touching message of sympathy to his parents, in which she assured them that she " had always taken the greatest interest in her Coronation pages and that she liked their boy particularly." 1 Dean Bradley. CHAPTER H WINCHESTER, 1902-1907 BOBBY began his adventures as a public-school boy and a Wykehamist at the beginning of Short Hatt, 21th Septem- ber 1902, two days before he entered his fifteenth year. As late Head of the School at Colet Court, he naturally took a creditable place in Middle-Division at Winchester. His eider brother had already been there two years when Bobby became an inmate of his father's old house. Southgate Hill, under the house-mastership of Mr. A. K. Cook. His cousin, James Palmer, 1 said that his four and a half years at Winchester had developed in Bobby, "in full measure the most typical characteristics of the true Wykehamist, the spirit which finds artistic expression in William of Wykeham's buildings, the spirit of sobriety and modesty, ujpe* ayo* might almost be said to be the motto which their silent influence impresses on aD of us who can receive their influence.** Bobby's deep admiration for austere beauty was fired by the glories of the grey Cathedral and College and of the time-frosted city of antique gates. Castle, and streets, with her feet set on a base of ancient flower-dappled walls and waterways, and her head crowned with emerald downs; but she never captured his heart as she did that of another Wykehamist, the poet, Lionel Johnson, who professed homage to her as to the " Fairest, Noblest, Dearest Mother, more than Mother.* 9 > Sow Bishop of Bombay. ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 15 To his home-mother was Bobby's sole given, and no rival claims ever existed for him. As one of his friends observed in later years: "Most children give their hearts, but few give their minds to their own nearest and dearest, as Bobby did." This was true of him from his earnest schooldays. During his years at Winchester he poured out his heart to her in copious letters foil OK n?^ "wyyrpT- fmy %MPU ffcE i io .if^- oy cy?ti^?iiPfTiiP off books, politics, the public-school system and everybody connected therewith, and his innermost secret thoughts. As was inevitable for a boy of his character, who had gone straight to Winchester from a home in which his life had always been ideally happy, he suffered at first acutely from nostalgia. Happily the presence of his elder brother provided him, to a large degree, with support anH consolation in the unaccustomed loneliness of his new life. When Bobby had been a few weeks at Winchester he wrote home saying: "Papa is quite right. Top is quite as good as a second GnVnor to me here. I find that knowing a lot of the * notions ' is a huge advan- tage. I must be very tike Top, as a gentleman has stopped me in the street, and another said at once he thought I must be Lord Wolmer's brother! Besides this, men* are constantly saying that they 'know my face,* or that I am 'exactly like a man in Buckland's called Wolmer."* Top's fatherly care of his younger brother extended to every department of school life. He gave him sage advice on the desirability of in^Hi^ friends in his own house and of working for a remove. Bobby quickly shot ahead of Top, to the fetter's proud satisfaction. In 1905, when Bobby was made Senior Commoner Prefect, he said : "I should never have been where I am if it wasn't for Top. At the end of February 1903 I was 8th in a certain 16 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER division where only six removes were expected. I had almost decided not to try for a remove so as to be able to take it easy in the summer, but when I asked for Top's advice he said it was always worth while trying for a remove, so I did, and got it ! " Mr. Carter, his Division Don during his first year at Winchester, considered Bobby "to be one of the most brilliant boys he had ever had under him, and the most certain to make his mark in public life afterwards : his personality shone through everything he did." The following extracts from letters to his mother show the keenness with which this fourteen-year-old boy studied public questions and politics : " I never realized before what a lot of facts one gets from back numbers of Punch ; but this week's task was : ' Write out all you know about a number of people ' and among them were : Sir Robert Peel, Palmerston, Garibaldi, Disraeli and Cecil Rhodes, and practically all I know of these comes from back columns of Punch." "May 1, 1903. Write and tell me all about the Deceased Wife's Sister Bill." (Bobby was deeply inter- ested in this hardy annual. I recollect how in the previous year, in the midst of a game of lawn-tennis with the sons of Mrs. Arthur Lyttelton, he amused them greatly by apologizing for missing a stroke by explaining : " Excuse me ! I was thinking about the Deceased Wife's Sister.") " September 20, 1903. I was so abnormally busy yester- day with work, arranging my toys, 1 playing fives, and going to the school mission address, that I omitted to write to you to thank you for sending me Arthur Balfour's pam- phlet, which I have finished and passed on ; it is already engaged four deep. Some parts of it are rather hard to understand. Cook wants to talk the subject over with 1 Notion for Combination desk and bookcase. ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 17 me (not controversially), as he thinks he can explain some things I don't understand. Most of the House are Free Traders on the grounds (1) that Protection will raise the price of food ; (2) that we have done very well for fifty years on Free Trade. Pretty conclusive arguments ! ! But their idea of Protection is a mixed nightmare of Retaliation, Preferential Tariffs, Fiscal Systems, Zoll- vereinism, Corn Laws, etc., etc." " October 15, 1903. At present I have read Joe's, Arthur's, Asquith's, Austen's, and most of Rosebery's speeches, of which Joe the elder's and Asquith's are the best. I quite see that Retaliation will do more good than harm, but as to taxes, Joe seems to have hardly impressed the fact that all the revenue from these taxes will lessen other taxes in proportion. It is true he said that nothing can be wasted that goes into the Exchequer ; and again, that he will reduce the taxes on tea, sugar, etc., but he hasn't even mentioned the income-tax, which is, after all, the most unpopular, and is, at this moment, exorbitant for peaceful times." " December 15, 1903. I have read papa's speech ; I think he must have welshed some of it off one of my essays, since he says exactly what I want to say, exactly how I want to say it." " July 27, 1904. Going down the street to-day, I saw a hand-cart piled with empty packing-cases. The word Holland caught my eye, and I examined the cases to see where they came from. There were several from Den- mark, two from Holland, three or four from France, some from Chicago, one from New South Wales, and not A SINGLE ONE from England. Some of the cases were ear- marked as to contents, the others were labelled to contain widely different things ; none were earmarked as to their native land ! ! My only doubt about Joe's scheme is that, if England is really decadent (which I begin to fear), nothing can save her, though Protection may delay her 3 iS ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER fall ; for a decadent nation seems to lose spirit unaccount- ably, and, under precisely similar conditions as those which prevailed in former generations, fails to make that use of its opportunities as it would have done a hundred or two hundred years before. But decadence is slow, and I don't think we turned the corner as much as forty years ago, so we ought to hold our place for some time to come yet." Bobby made his maiden speech at the Debating Society on 23rd March 1904. Here is his account of the debate : " At the debate last night, Carter (the Colonial Don) made a speech against Chinese Labour, but entirely on the grounds that Chinamen were such awful pests in California 1 1 Young Cook proposed the motion, and, when I was speaking, he tried to squash me three times ; I scored off him twice. Had I gone through all the glaring contradictions of the proposer's and seconder's speeches, I should have spoken for nearly twenty minutes ; I spoke for about eight minutes. As I expected, the motion against Chinese Labour was carried 24 to 17. D went to the debate. Afterwards I asked him what was his opinion. He said that he was quite bewildered by the number of arguments on both sides, but with an impartial mind he could not help feeling that Chinamen were and must be villains. I expect this is just the view of the man in the street." Half a year later Bobby wrote to his father for " some tips," as he had rashly promised under pressure " to defend the Government against a motion of censure to be moved at the next meeting of the Debating Society. The chief points of attack will be l Licensing, Welsh Education, Army Reform, and Budget.' I know nothing about Welsh Education and very little about Army Reform." Eventually Bobby developed into one of the best speakers at the School Debating Society, contributing forcible, sincere speeches, shot with tinges of racy humour. ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 19 These extracts from letters written during his first years at Winchester mark the early stage of the develop- ment of Bobby's political ardour. Before he was twelve years old he had determined to be a " statesman as well as a lawyer," and, as his correspondence shows, he was already studying political problems not usually magnetic to Middle-Part schoolboys. He was a great reader, and much of his reading contributed to this end. To HIS FATHER "SOUTHGATE HlLL, July 17, 1904. " I should like you to explain to me how the Americans elect their President and their Parliament ; from remarks in the papers it appears to be different from any election I know. " I have read very little this Half, as is natural, but I have read two books which are well worth reading. One is Martin Chuzzlewit, which has given me a greater warning against selfishness than any book or sermon I have ever come across. I am afraid that I need it, too, very badly. The other book is a history of The Liberation of Italy, 1 the best- written and most interesting history from a woman's pen that I have ever read. Its four hundred pages are very well worth reading, not only for the thrilling history and unquenchable patriotism of Italy's struggle for freedom, but also for the lesson which it conveys of the value of unity, of how useless is mere disorganized devotion to a cause and how irresistible when united and orderly. The book is probably partial and perhaps overstates the grievances and understates the faults of the Italians ; but how much they must have suffered is proved by the fact that each rebellion was 1 The Liberation of Italy, by the Countess Evelyn Martinengo Cesaresco. 20 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER punished more severely than the last, and yet each rebellion was in no way deterred by the fate of its pre- decessors.'* To HIS MOTHER " October 6, 1904. " Gladstone's Life I call quite one of the most charming books I have ever read ; and, curiously enough, I have been specially struck this Half by the 1809 trio. In Memoriam is simply marvellous, chiefly because its diction is marvellously simple. Thirdly, Darwin is very fascinating ; and so, in one fortnight, I have quite separ- ately read and appreciated this trio : Darwin, Gladstone, and Tennyson, all born in 1809." To HIS MOTHER " SOUTHGATE HlLL, November 9, 1904. " You had quite an exciting adventure yesterday. Now you know the charms of launching a cruiser ! If you launched a battleship, you might have yet further plea- sure, waiting one and a half hours, and drenching a tee- total Archbishop in cherry-brandy ! As it is, I see no prospect of finishing my reading by the end of the Half ; and, unfortunately, it is always Gladstone who goes to the wall. My present books have amounted to : Gladstone . . . . \ Darwin . . . I Bills to t^ carried. Maine s Ancient Law . . Carlyle's History of Heroes . > ENGLISH -I Matthew Arnold's Essays. . \ Leslie Stephen's Half-Hours in I Bills probably to be a Library . . . j dropped. Morley's Rousseau ; . . J .Selections from Ruskin Bill carried. ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 21 (Rousseau's Contrat Sooiale . . \ L'Aiglon . . . I Bills to be passed. Lettres de mon Moulin . ; I Corneille's Le Cid . ' * . J " I've determined to do a lot of reading in the holidays when it is too dark or wet to go out even at the expense of Solo billiards plus Bridge ! " I have begun Rousseau, and he strikes me as being able to build up a very plausible argument by careful steps, but he always spoils it by suddenly drawing an absurd inference or ignoring an obvious and fatal objec- tion." The benefit of his literary studies carried on in school work and leisure hours showed itself in the lucid, effective style which gave character and charm to Bobby's later writings. They did not, however, monopolize all his attention as a schoolboy. Detective stories, thrillers, and comic verses met with full appreciation from him. He began to train his Pegasus for future flights by gentle ambles along the road to Limerick, whence he returned adorned with gaudy gems like the following : " There was an old man of this latitude, Who assumed a theatrical attitude. When they said : ' Make a speech I ' He gave biscuits to each, And on all he pronounced a beatitude." " A young person in Constantinople Said : ' I do hope that Leo the Pope 'ull Let me marry my niece, Who lives down in Greece, For I've bought her a ring with an opal I " Bobby's political and literary interests had a formid- able competitor for the possession of his spare hours in the " insatiable enthusiasm for birds " which had fired him from the days of his infancy. Inspired by the 22 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER examples of Gilbert White and of our cousin, Sir Edward Grey, 1 he kept a careful list of every bird which came within his lynx-eyed observation, and at one time took a yearly census of all the nests in Blackmoor garden. (One year he counted seventy different kinds.) He began a live collection of the ducks of the British Isles on the moat at Blackmoor. His large library of bird books was begun to be made when he was quite young. He observed a strict rule in his egg-collecting which he enforced on other youthful collectors whenever he got the chance. The rule permitted him to take one egg only from each nest, and required that the rest should be left undisturbed. He hated wanton destruction of life. One day, in his first year at Winchester, he was bicycling along a country road and accidentally dashed over two sparrows quarrelling on the ground, and killed them both. He burst into floods of tears at the catastrophe, and was miserable for days after. With a strange touch of inconsistency he loved shooting, like many other English naturalists ; and he enjoyed wild-game shooting because of the skill and adventure which it involved. He tried to preserve a code of honour in his shooting expeditions. " I always feel some compunction in killing a big animal. A small target at a hundred yards is much more satisfactory to hit than a large one at three hundred," he remarked once when describing a shooting expedition in South Africa. The following are some of Bobby's bird-letters from Winchester : To THE LADY LAURA RIDDING "SOUTHGATE HlLL, May 28, 1903. " To-day I found a butcher-bird's nest in a thorn tree with one egg in. I also saw the female butcher-bird very 1 Afterwards Viscount Grev of Failed en. ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 23 well. I did not take the egg, of course. I shall go back there in about three weeks when they are hatched, to see if I can see their larder round the nest. Quite close, I found a hedge-sparrow with three eggs and one cuckoo's egg (which I removed). I also found a white-throat's nest and a linnet's. Not bad for one piece of gorse about sixty yards by forty 1 There must have been lots of nests I didn't find; I am sure that there is a yellow- hammer's nest somewhere about, as I have seen the old birds twice, but I hadn't time to watch them. I wonder if yellow-hammers build in gorse (as they nearly always do) on account of their colour, which I noticed matched the gorse wonderfully well. I have persuaded all the egg-collecting grandchildren l to conform to rules about taking, which is a great blessing, as some of them used to be very unprincipled." To HIS FATHER " May 14, 1904 " When I was returning from bird-nesting yesterday, I was crossing a field when I heard a noise, and, looking up, saw a plover flying straight at me. When it was about ten yards from, and seven above, me, it ceased swooping and flew straight over me with a loud swishirig. It hovered about twenty yards away, but directly I moved on (still watching it) it again charged over me. I at once saw that there must be a nest quite close to me, but directly I looked down to search for it, the bird started shrieking and screaming so loud that I looked up; it stopped at once and tried to draw me off by flopping about. Whenever I looked down, it started screaming and dashing about, almost to the ground, then high into the air (like their ordinary wheeling more violently and oftener done), whenever I started walking. After a few repetitions of 1 Grandchildren of Lord Salisbury. 24 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER this performance, I refused to look up when she screamed ; and she then mounted high above me and called loudly, upon which her mate quickly joined her and they both wheeled round me peewitting and, at intervals, charging, though not quite so near as at first. I had not got much time, so I walked on. Both plovers at once got in front of me, leading me on by flops and cries. As we went farther, the plovers rose higher and cried less often and less anxiously. They escorted me to the edge of the field, where they suddenly left me and flew right away. I must have almost trodden on the nest, but I think they deserved that I should not find it." To HIS FATHER "May 22, 1904. " On Tuesday two nests which I was watching con- tained one egg each, so to-day I went up to look at them. On the way, I met two very small boys and entered into conversation with them, and the eldest (aged about seven) informed me that he had found a skylark's nest. I promptly asked him to show it to me, but on the way he so impressed upon me the wickedness of taking eggs that I had to abandon all idea of procuring one of them. I have never seen such a well and simply concealed nest. In a field of young corn I was led to a small plant, like a good-sized greyish dandelion, which looked as though it could not conceal a hairpin. Under the shade of this were three eggs in a nest of no more pretensions than a plover's. The old bird, by the way, flew up from about fifteen yards beyond, but almost in a line with the nest. Of the nests which I intended to visit, the most interesting had been robbed and the other proved to be a yellow- hammer. I had to hurry back as it was beginning to rain ; and, on my way, my eye was suddenly caught by a hole in the bank of the road. Putting my hand in, I ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 25 found six robins' eggs, one of which had such exceedingly curious markings that I kept it. In crossing the field I was mobbed by six or eight plovers. It started with one which rose high and quickly summoned a dozen more, and these continued to wheel round me noisily till I left the field ! " The year 1905 brought great sorrow to my brother's elder sons, inasmuch as his appointment to the High Commissionership of South Africa caused an inevitable separation between them and their parents, which lasted through all Wolmer's Oxford years and the latter half of Bobby's School and the earlier half of his University career. A very strong family affection bound them all closely together, deepened by their common religious belief and exhilarated by a happy fellowship of interests, tastes, fun, and general youthfulness, very delightful to witness. A lively recollection of the last days before my brother's departure flashes around a wrestling match between him and his three sons in the central hall at Blackmoor. Their contortions were those of a happy Laocoon group. Four blonde heads, four writhing bodies, eight grey trousers shooting out in all directions. " It comes cheaper to buy it in the piece 1 " observed Maud placidly, as we watched the struggling legs. Occasional glimpses of their parents somewhat re- lieved Top's and Bobby's home-sickness. Bobby's first vision of South Africa was in the winter of 1905 to 1906, when he spent some months there. During his absence from Winchester he kept up a correspondence with his House-master on questions of House-government and other School matters, gilded with graphic descriptions of his treks, adventures and enjoyment of the glorious country. From one of these letters describing the wonder of the Victoria Falls I quote the final words, as they 26 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER show Bobby's careful observation of the constituents of beauty : " It is chiefly the tropical colouring which makes the whole scene so indescribably beautiful. The water, deep yellow at the edge of the Fall, brilliant creamy white when falling, the wet black rocks, the bright green of the profuse vegetation around, the dark green of the distant unending forest dimly seen through the all-pervading mist of spray, the troubled brown waters in the gorge below, the red rocks farther down the river, the huge cloud of white spray, and, above all, the brilliant rainbow always to be seen there all combine to form a picture which could never be painted, but which, once seen, could never be forgotten. Really, I feel that if I stayed here long enough I should turn into a poet or something dreadful." This appreciation of the brilliancy of colour was characteristic of Bobby. He delighted in the hues of gems, beautiful textures, and, above all, in the rich glories of the paintings of the Old Masters. He described the influence which Art had over him thus : " The effect of a first-class picture is not so strong at the moment as that of music, but with me lasts much longer and becomes a part of me. The process is very queer and subtle, and I can't explain it." His mother has a vivid recollection of a Spanish tour in 1902, on which he accompanied her, when his enormous appetite for breakfast was only rivalled by his insatiable enjoyment of the cathedrals and picture galleries. Bobby returned to England from South Africa with his sister and her fiance, Lord Howick, in the spring of 1906, to take up the responsibilities of Senior Commoner Prefect and Head of his House at Winchester, with which he had been entrusted before his visit to South Africa. (He had been made House Prefect eighteen months before.) ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 27 " Bobby grows more old-gentlemanly every day. He can't read without his head being supported and his book at the right angle, etc., etc.," wrote Mabel on board ship. Whether this satirical description were true or not, there was no doubt that South Africa saw his transition from the schoolboy phase into one of older development. That Dr. Burge, 1 his Headmaster, fully recognized this change, is shown in his character-sketch of my nephew. " On the surface and a good way down," he says, " Bobby was a serious, industrious boy, rather critical and distinctly intellectual, sensitive to what seemed childish, and, like all sensitive natures, apt to get things and people on his nerves. He had an extremely alert and receptive mind ; his heart was full of loyalty and the desire to play his part in the common life ; he was of a nature that won real attachment and affection. The truth is that Bobby's boyhood was very brief. His mind began to mature very rapidly and his intellectual powers kept pace, so he became unusually well balanced. He never passed through the stage which is common to young boys of expanding intellectual powers, of letting himself go, of ' slinging ink,' of being superbly emphatic ; a natural thoughtfulness and reserve helped to restrain him. " He was hesitating and rather nervous ' up to Books,' 2 but a most delightful boy to teach, very re- ceptive, very sure of his grasp, and full of appreciation of the right things. An interesting sign of this was the remarkable way in which he developed the taste and abilities of a good classical scholar. His Greek Prose task, which won the Warden and Fellow's Prize, was the first on a list of formidable competitors. " As his intellectual powers matured, so too his out- look ; and at a comparatively early age he was ready for 1 Afterwards Bishop of Sonthwark, now of Oxford. * Notion for In Class. 28 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER the University ; this meant that he had outgrown School life and ways. I think the close quarters and confined competition chafed him ; the uncongenial in surroundings and persons struck him forcibly, and it was always an effort to subordinate the uncongenial to something good and attractive which is generally to be found beneath or with it ; he made the effort, though, loyally enough, and later at the University, with more elbow-room, he seemed to overcome the difficulty with more success. At the same time, it would be a mistake to suppose that he held aloof from his contemporaries at School or ' was out of it ' far from it. He was always included in the reckoning and just as ready himself to take his share in all activities and responsibilities. There was something very lovable about him ; one can't describe it. I always felt that with the sudden spring to manhood he still kept the heart of a child. I think it was because home and home-ties meant ever so much more to him than anything else." As was natural in a boy of Bobby's earnestness of mind, he accepted very seriously the responsibilities of leadership. " I know I can only fulfil them by God's grace," he said, " but I am sanguine of success. In my last year, when I shall have had experience, I should like to try the thankless role of reformer and make myself thoroughly unpopular in the process ! " He took un- flagging trouble over all the duties, small and great, attached to his office ; he faced unpleasant situations with quiet courage ; and in his personal relations with difficult rowdy boys he always tried to bear in mind their peculiar code of honour and to deal justly with them. Whatever few affinities existed between him and some of his companions, he made valiant efforts to understand their points of view, as was shown in the cases of boys with no religious beliefs or with immoral tendencies. In speaking of one of the former, he said : " I am awfully sorry for him. It is this gap in a man's character that ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 29 makes him so difficult to deal with. One can't use arguments which would and must appeal to any Christian. I feel how awful beyond thought his position is, with every opportunity to enjoy life, but that side of life just a blank. It makes me shudder to think of it. ' What profits it a man if he gain the whole world and lose his own soul ? ' " Of the latter he wrote to his father : "If you want anyone to keep straight at a public school you must interest him either in his work or his play. Boredom is responsible for half the mischief of every description at a public school. There are only three ways of relieving it, besides games : the first is mere noise, which is the least harmful, but also the least diverting and the most easily interfered with by a quiet-loving master ; the second is to be quarrelsome if a prefect, tyrannical, if an inferior, insubordinate but it is a gloomy form of excite- ment ; and so, the third, self-indulgence, is the favourite. It takes the forms of gluttony and immorality, of which the latter is at once the cheapest and the most reputable. In the boy-mind, defiance compels admiration ; and it is a secondary consideration (such minds are incapable of holding more than one consideration at a time) whether the principle defied was formulated in Heaven or in Dons' Common-Room. The two places are often confused, though no Don would like to be told so." His efforts at patient self-control were impervious to all provocations save those of offenders who menaced younger boys with contamination. Then they were swept aside by the stream of his wrath. " I can recall," said his House-master, Mr. Cook, " the very look of his face when- ever any moral questions were discussed between us. In his work as a prefect this love of duty was made effective, not by compromise between right and wrong, but by a most sympathetic understanding of other people's natures. Lacking, as he did, some of the advantages 30 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER which make for influence and popularity among young people, he won the universal respect of the boys in his House, often their gratitude and affection, by unobstrusive real service." There is no doubt that Bobby's " atmosphere of earnestness " impressed other boys, and convinced many of them that he was a man who demanded realities of them and who never minded what they believed, so long as they really believed it. But, along with this im- pression, he gave to some of the boys a feeling of aloof- ness as if he was unable sufficiently to sympathize with the point of view of an average person ; and this con- ception certainly detracted from his ascendancy. Mr. A. P. Herbert, who was a junior in the same House, recognized this aloofness, but acknowledges that, " In spite of the gap, I know that, with my contemporaries, I thought of Bobby Palmer as a singularly upright and incorruptible person, genuinely respected prefect, and a fine Head of the House. He played his games with the same energy which he put into everything he did foot- ball, I remember especially, with a keen and effective vigour." Major Drage, his contemporary, writes to me : " All I can do is to tell you of the qualities in Bobby which struck me most at the time and which have remained in my mind most characteristic of him. " (a) Religious devotion. One of the first things I remember about him was his habit, when quite a small boy, of reading the Bible every night in bed after lights were out. His method of doing this was to put the bedclothes over his head and use an electric torch under- neath them. It must have required some considerable nerve to start doing this. You know how potently the forces of School are apt to be mobilized against anything unusual. No Covenanter was more rigid in religious observance than Bobby ; and this, coupled with the next ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 31 characteristic, was, I think, one indication of the strength of his character. This was (b) love of personal comfort. He had quite a mania for surrounding himself with masses of sofa cushions, as many and as soft as possible. It sounds a trivial thing now, but it sticks in my mind connected with (a), which completely overruled it when necessary. " (c) I remember his showing a pretty strong sense of righteous indignation on various occasions ; the one which I remember curiously clearly, being a petty act of selfishness on my part, for which he dealt me a remarkably rapid and shrewd blow in a whirlwind of indignation which surprised me considerably ! " (d) He had a remarkable breadth of view and very liberal ideas. I remember disagreeing with him strongly, though amiably, on the question of corporal punishment. He was dead against it and, if my memory serves me correctly, scarcely ever allowed anyone to be ' cut into ' whilst he was Senior Prefect of C House. The fact that he was able to do without corporal punishment showed the strength of his convictions. " (e) The quality which I like to think of most was a curious child-likeness, if such a word exists. He could always get anything he liked out of me and, I expect, out of everyone, by adopting a child-like persuasiveness which was most attractive and quite irresistible. I remember watching him do exactly the same thing at Blackmoor, so I expect you know just what I mean better than I can express it. " It is out of place for me to tell you what he was to me personally, but I cannot finish this meagre sidelight without saying, quite simply, that the news of his death was a staggering blow to me, in spite of the fact that I can hardly have seen him since he left Winchester in 1907. It at once defined a feeling that I had had for years that one day he would be a great leader in England and that, 32 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER in any case and whatever his call, I would follow him blindly with supreme confidence. . . . He was not to me what I should have called a leader of men. I have known great soldiers who were more magnetic and whose claims on one's allegiance were more insistent without bringing one's reason into play. With Bobby I simply felt that he trusted and believed in God, that God had given him both inspiration and a wonderfully cool and capacious brain, and that he would be a beacon light to many struggling dimly in this difficult and perplexing modern state of ours. I honestly believe that England has sustained in him a loss which only a very few can in any way estimate." As Senior Commoner Prefect every moment of Bobby's time, not devoted to work for his Oxford Scholarship and Medal tasks, was occupied by various duties connected with his office : school- work, football, golf, rackets, various committees, fives-court management, the Debating Society, Shakespeare Society all these he enumerates in a letter to his mother in the autumn of 1906, adding : "I have promised to read a paper for XIII. Club on South Africa. 1 Next term I shall have to manage steeple- chase and fives competitions, which will be a dreadful nuisance." Bobby's convictions with regard to football were frankly heretical : " I have been playing football hard this week. I am coming to the conclusion that I actively dislike football, especially our game. Roughness is like anchovy sauce : when once introduced, it pervades the whole of a game and spoils it completely to my taste, but some people like the added zest. No one can play our game well, 1 The National Review of July 1906 contained an eight-page article entitled " The Labour Problem in South Africa," which was Bobby's maiden publication. ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 33 unless they can command a loss of temper at a moment's notice and then keep in a state of maniacal fury for an hour. I find it difficult to do this over Clemenceau, but quite impossible over football. Why public opinion has care- fully selected two of the least attractive outdoor games that I know, and has labelled them outdoor occupations for winter and summer respectively, and then has pro- ceeded to enforce all mankind (or boykind) to accept and worship these ready-made images is more than I can guess." Bobby's independence of thought made him always contemptuous of popular idols. It also led him to the conclusion that his " tastes were certainly very different from those of most boys." In this he was undoubtedly right, for he belonged to that small minority in every school, the goodly company of intellectual boys. He rose rapidly from division to division and passed early into Sixth Book, the highest division. He brought home books * and reports monotonously excellent. The testimony of his masters bore witness to the brilliance and steadiness of his gifts : the sharp, keen mind of fine literary quality and large intellectual sympathies, scrupu- lously honest in its independence of thought, yet entirely untainted by intellectual pride and cynicism ; the ex- ceptional power of hard work, unusually thorough ; and the wise humility, simplicity, and sincerity of his white character and high purpose which together made Bobby one of the most attractive and ablest of their pupils. It was under these masters and during his time at Winchester that Bobby gained that love for the Classics which grew into a passion at Oxford. No description of Bobby in his latter School and early Oxford days would be complete which did not include the recollections of the brother who watched his 1 Notion for School-prizes. 34 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER career throughout his life with intimate love and under- standing. Wolmer says : " He had an innate love of good and hatred of evil. At school his small circle of friends was always the boys of really high character, and to outsiders he might have appeared exclusive. But there was nothing of pride about him. His modesty was, in fact, an obsession. Sensitive, yet reserved as to his feelings, he could not believe his friends cared for him as much as they did. If it had not been for this perfectly natural humility, combined with his never-failing sense of humour and delight in the ridiculous, he would have been a prig. He had not the gift of tact and would frequently blurt out inconvenient truths. He could never dissemble his opinion, and if he held his tongue, his thoughts were transparent in his face. " School -work came easy to him. Though not quick, he had a penetrating mind and learning was no difficulty. His strongest intellectual characteristics were his great mental grasp and deliberate methods. He never let anything go. From boyhood, he had a remarkable power of concentration ; he could turn from one thing to another instantly : three hours' work without a pause, then at once twenty minutes (by the clock) of patience or billiards by himself (right hand against left), then work again, and so on. This showed his mental and nervous strength ; he did not tire easily. These powers enabled him to get twice as much into a day as could most other people. In examinations, in debates at Winchester and at Oxford, he outdistanced other people because he had covered all the ground first. His conscientiousness pre- vented his ever doing things by halves. For these reasons, had he lived, he would have been Lord Chancellor or Archbishop of Canterbury and a very good one too, as excellent judgment was part of his gifts. " He loved most games and brought to them all the ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 35 assiduity that he brought to everything. He never gave the impression of playing a game as a relaxation, but just as if it was a pleasant piece of work on hand. He was a wide reader of every kind of literature : novels, poetry, history, classics. One can generally learn some- thing of a man's nature by glancing at his books. Bobby would emerge from such a test as a man of wide sympathies and very varied interests. His literary horizon extended from Homer to Punch, from Dante to Darwin, from Piers the Plowman to Rupert Brooke, from Genesis to Founda- tions, 1 from Locke to Jerome K. Jerome, from Jane Austen to Conan Doyle. " He had a carefully-mapped-out reading programme for every day ; and after he had read the thirty or forty allotted pages of one book, would at once turn to the next. " Bobby was intensely human in his love for nature and for his fellow-creatures. He was a zealous bird- lover, as all his friends know. His love for Hampshire, for the beautiful old villages, for Blackmoor, and, above all, for the woods is pathetically recorded in the un- finished novel which he began to write away from home while stationed in India in 1915. It gives a glimpse of the home-hunger from which he suffered. Here is the passage : " ' To return from the far flat countries of other continents and find the gorse in bloom on the heathy hills of Hampshire was in itself a draught of pure delight. Every fold of the familiar landscape came forward like a welcoming friend ; every tint of the forest (and where in the world are such delightful harmonies of colour as in the woods of South England in spring ?) was a voice as of music. The birds on domestic cares intent, the ridiculous rabbits that scuttled perfunctorily from the leisurely cross-country train's approach, and the unpre- 1 Foundations. By seven Oxford men. 36 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER tentious homely butterflies that fluttered past, all touched the thousand chords of childish reminiscences and affec- tion which make this glorious and motherly south country an inexpressibly sweet symphony to those who have dwelt therein.' l " But Bobby was no recluse. He loved human society. His social side did not develop much till he was about fifteen, but it became very pronounced as he grew to manhood. He said he was never bored by anyone provided they said what they thought. ' That is the sine qua non of conversation,' he once remarked. He had great conversational gifts, a great power of sympathy in entering into the mind of the person with whom he was talking, and an unlimited capacity for being interested in everything except what was not good, wholesome or clean. His conversation throughout was illumined by flashes of humour, wit, epigram. He always saw the comic side of everything, and his sense of the ridiculous bubbled through all his talk and writings. He had a genius for letter-writing. Word-pictures flowed from his pen as tints from an artist's brush. Yet, with all his social gifts, he could always retire at the exact moment he had planned out to do work or play a game or go to bed, which he always did at a quarter paststen, except on very rare occasions." Bobby left Winchester with a sheaf of laurels in his hands : the Duncan Prize for an essay on the Reform Bill, the Greek Prose Prize for a translation of one of W. S. Lander's Dialogues, and the English Verse Prize for a poem on " Letizia Mother of Napoleon." In January 1907 he won a University College Scholar- ship at Oxford, heading the list as Senior Scholar out of one hundred and fifty-seven candidates. In the intervals of Latin Unseen he composed the 1 From Wentworth's Reform. ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 37 following masterpiece on the death of the Shah, the notice of which was in that day's (10th January) papers : " Said the Czar : ' I wish I were the Shah ! ' Said his Ma : ' Why not stay as you are ? ' The Czar said : ' But he's dead In his bed, not by lead. How I envy the Shah ! ' said the Czar." With Oxford beckoning to him, Bobby became ardently desirous to leave Winchester. Quite mistakenly, he imagined that he had proved a failure as the Head of his House, because the reforms which he had tried to carry out had fallen short of his aims. He could not fail to see that the whole tone of the House was raised and purified, but its defects and shortcomings irritated him to an inordinate degree, while its atmosphere op- pressed him as that of " an overgrown nursery, popu- lated by a barbarously infantile company." The truth was that his home-sickness, sense of isolation, and restraint were merely symptoms of his having outgrown the routine and limitations of school life symptoms clearly visible to his masters. Dr. Burge advised him to leave at the end of Common Time. 1 " It is no good trying to keep a watch going when the spring has been taken out," he told him ; " staying on will not only do you no good, but your morbid disposition might infect others." At the same time Dr. Burge wrote to my brother to say that " Bobby had served his generation at Winchester right well, and that he had the reward of feeling that he had done his best for the place which had done for him what no other place could do." Bobby's last letter from Winchester showed that he had begun to realize the truth of the last words. 1 Notion for January-to-Easler Term. 38 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER To ms FATHER "SOUTHGATE HlLL, WINCHESTER, April 5, 1907. " This is the last letter I shall write you from this address ; and in spite of our present incompatibility of temperament, I feel that I owe a great deal to Winchester, to its blemishes as well as to its excellencies. It is rather a gruff introduction to the world and its ways, but I think it is more instructive to see everything in its crude and naked barbarism. It makes it much easier to tell good and evil apart when one meets them later dressed up. But the process is not pleasant. . . . " Self -consciousness I feel to be my curse and my danger. It leads me, especially among unsensitive people (who make no allowances, such as boys), to self- absorption, which is a dangerous form of selfishness, since it comes in a hypocritical cloak of priggishness and is altogether very bad for me. I am very glad to be able to think I am leaving a House so much better than the one I came to five years ago." Bobby left Winchester on 5th April 1907, and shortly afterwards he started on his second visit to South Africa. CHAPTER III OXFORD, 1907-1909 AFTER a delightful holiday in South Africa, Bobby re- turned to England in the autumn of 1907. At the be- ginning of the Michaelmas Term he went into residence at Oxford as a Scholar of University College, and took possession of his " watch-tower," as his friends called his housetop rooms, the attractive, austere simplicity of which was characteristic of their occupant. The aspect of the keeper of the watch-tower beamed with peace and goodwill. I think what most struck observers was the pure serenity of his face. His complexion was pale and clear ; he had light hair, a broad forehead, straight marked eyebrows, from beneath which deep-set grey eyes, with a delicately curved outward droop of the eyelids, looked forth on the world with calm discerning friendliness. His nose was straight and his mouth smiled in beautiful curves above a firm, rounded chin. His head was well set upon his broad shoulders and his body finely formed ; he was always carelessly clothed, generally in rather untidy loose grey tweeds. Such was Bobby's appearance when he was first introduced to the ardent company of Wolmer's Oxford political friends. They had been warned of his approach- ing advent by his elder brother in the cryptic announce- ment : " He is a great person, is Bobby ! " The studious Bobby was somewhat alarmed by his first impressions of Oxford. " There is no doubt," he wrote, " that Oxford is a 40 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER most attractive place, but it is also extremely distracting, and, for a fresher especially, it is very difficult to work here. It is not politics that takes the time. They only employ two evenings a week, but it is the amount of society one sees. But one must suffer it to be so, as the object of Oxford is almost as much to get to know people as it is to do some work." Wolmer reported in October to South Africa that : " Bobby has made maiden speeches at both the Canning and the Union. They were both very good. I am glad to say he likes the Canning, but he is very unsociable in other matters I find that conversation does not interest him at all." Possibly, because of incompatibility of hours. Wolmer could only discuss after ten at night, Bobby, only before ten in the morning ! So they both affirmed at that time. In the beginning of November, Lady Salisbury and her young daughters, with Lord Hugh and Lady Gwen- dolen Cecil, descended on the boys at Oxford and under- went a strenuous lionizing of its Colleges. Lady Gwen- dolen wrote to Maud, saying : *' I need hardly tell you that Bobby, though he has only been three weeks at Oxford, has already settled down to a methodical scheme of work, never misses a lecture, and has his eyes firmly fixed upon his c Honours Mods ' a year and a half hence. He was very serene and, I think, very happy. Rather quieter than when I saw him at Winchester, more observant, fitting himself, I think, to the stupendous change of position between a Senior Prefect's and a Freshman's." At the Oxford Canning Club, at the Union, and in his own College, Bobby made friends who quickly learnt to love and appreciate him. One of them, the Rev. E. Priestley Swain, described how " Bobby at once found his place at Oxford. His success was intimate and personal. ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 41 Words cannot describe his charm, and very few could resist it. He was always happier in smaller gatherings than in big ones, and I fancy that usually he preferred to be with one friend than with more than one. His thought- fulness and deep seriousness, combined with his natural- ness and sense of humour, made him a companion of rare distinction." 1 One of Bobby's most intimate College friends, the Rev. N. Micklem, 2 has sent me a character-sketch of him, which may fitly find its place here : " Bobby Palmer and I were very much together in Oxford, and I think we must have discussed most subjects in heaven and earth ; he was almost always saying the most delicious things about persons and problems. I remember the quizzical way in which he would say them, and then how he would laugh ; but his epigrams and sayings were part of our daily bread, and I wish I had treasured them up in my memory. " We went on a reading party to a farm near Prince- town on Dartmoor ; it was Easter and very cold, and we enjoyed our peat fires and cream. He and I, at least, had gone with the intention of reading for Greats, but the reading-party tended to develop into a ' theological scrap,' for we were of all denominations and heresies. Bobby was the most silent of the party in these exciting discussions ; he would make pleasant sallies against every position more readily than he would reveal his own. But he did not leave us in much doubt where he stood. I think it is true to say that in technical theology Bobby had no great interest ; again, he was not in any narrow sense an ' ecclesiastically minded layman ' ; you could not label him high or low or broad ; but the whole bent of his mind and temper was Christian, and 1 From article on " Robert Stafford Arthur Palmer" in The Common- wealth, May 1916. * Now Chaplain and Tutor of Mansfield College. 6 42 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER religion was in all his actions and is manifest in his photographs. " He was very sympathetic towards c Nonconformity,' but the Church of England met his needs and claimed his entire devotion. I was with him once at the Summer Conference of the Students' Christian Union ; I think he felt at home there, but his religion was of a very intimate and personal kind, and he did not speak of it easily even to his friends. " I think that the Confessional stood in his eyes as the symbol of that complete surrender which Christianity requires ; I know it had a great appeal for him along that line, though I do not know what was his own practice in regard to it. I remember but once hearing him give a religious address, but I remember it as profoundly religious and delightfully free from the religious jargon familiar on such occasions. " Everybody liked him ; but he was shy and reserved, and I think he had not many undergraduate friends. But I think that the few men who did know him loved and honoured him as few are loved and honoured ; he was so simple and unassuming and absolutely without affectation. I think he really kept the heart of a little child ; he was always laughing ; it seems so characteristic of him that I can hear his laugh when I think of him. He was one of the most lovable of men." No words could be more emphatic than these ; yet Bobby, obsessed by his sensitiveness, remained sceptical of the possibility of his ever winning the affection of his friends. He wrote to his mother in his first term at Oxford : " I know I am blessed or afflicted (and I suppose some other people are, too) with an almost ridiculously sensitive set of feelings, and so, when someone without imagina- tion comes stamping round on them, it hurts too much ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 43 to allow me really to like them ever. I often resolve not to stand such nonsense and argue with myself that if I could only get over this prejudice I should find So-and-so very nice. But, next time I meet him, down comes the hobnailed boot and I retreat into myself as instinctively as a snail when you pinch it. It may, perhaps, prevent one making what would otherwise be pleasant friendships ; but if there are, as there must be, other people of the same sort, it is only by knowing how easily my own sensitiveness is wounded that I can avoid wounding theirs ; and when I do meet exactly the right friend, our power of friendship and sympathy will be twice as great through our being so tender over-tender if you like. I have not found this friend yet, but I hope to do so here. I should have been a far better prefect at Winchester if I could have been in close sympathy and touch with all the men. I was often tempted to envy them for the easiness with which they were contented in their friendships and their horny souls on which no corns grew, so that they kicked each other all day without feeling it. But I comfort myself with the reflection that, when I am satisfied, it will be something really worth having. I only hope I shan't have to go on 4 yearning for the unattainable ' like the man in Patience. . . . The greatest penalty in being like a sea-anemone is the amount of energy I have to expend in screwing up my courage to meet a possible (often wholly imaginary) rebuff. I am more afraid of meeting with a rebuff from a friend (and I suppose I want to regard too many people as friends) than I should be of fighting in a battle (and I'm sure that would frighten me more than I cared). I tell you all this because it relieves me and because I know that, however silly you think me, you will never laugh at me. But I am so much happier here, I feel as if I should find my friend here and then I ask nothing more." 44 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER Two and a half years passed and Bobby was still on the search. " I find it impossible to see enough of my friends to make them real friends. Consequently I pick up a great many acquaintances, but there is nobody that 1 know will be glad to see me at any time. This is, no doubt, mostly my fault, because I can't get on quickly with people I care about." The boon of a perfect friendship for which Bobby craved so ardently all his life was, strangely enough, withheld from him until a year before his death. It was the sole trophy won by him on the field of war. Bobby's first Oxford vacation was spent at Hatfield One of the Christmas frolics there was a fancy-dress evening, at which Wolmer and Bobby appeared as copies of TenniePs drawing of Tweedledum and Tweedledee in Through the Looking Glass. Their sister acted as dresser ; and with white calico trousers, pillow stuffing, paper collars, cricketing caps, and a very slight making up of their faces, she turned them out exactly alike. The mystification was complete. " How papa would have enjoyed it ! " sighed the triumphant artist towards the antipodes. Other festivities, in the shape of balls, Bobby shirked, because he said that the late hours interfered with his work. When someone asked Wolmer why Bobby was working so hard with no examination in immediate prospect, Wolmer replied with immense scorn : ** For the love of it ! the mere love of it ! " It is possible that work was not the sole cause of Bobby's abstinence from dances. At that period of his life he suffered intense depression from the platitudes of ballroom conversations, and complained that : " Those of ordinary partners are degradingly futile, while the brighter people make their conversation a stream of bites at the back of the ninth commandment." This may, however, be an unfair inference on my part, for he was ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 45 beginning to work for his Moderations Examination, the Hertford Scholarship and the Newdigate, and had therefore sufficient reason for wise husbandry of his time. The sole diversions he allowed himself were his evenings at the Canning l and the Union. His deep interest in politics increased with years. ** He was at once singularly mature and perfectly fresh in his outlook on political questions," was Mr. J. A. R. Marriott's judgment concerning his papers and speeches at the Canning. His friends defined his attitude as that of an advanced Social reformer who remained a Con- servative from the conviction that legislation should follow, not precede, public opinion ; and this view agrees with his own vindication of the position of the Tory party. " The Tory party stands for common sense, as opposed to fads ; that is to say, it keeps its ideals in perspective and prefers to compromise on the maximum of the attainable good under present conditions, as opposed to the doctrinaires who will sacrifice possible good to the impossible better." 2 Bobby spoke frequently at the meetings of the Canning Club. Its older members, who had watched many genera- tions of the most brilliant young men, Conservatives by profession, pass through Oxford, were greatly impressed by his exceptional seriousness of purpose, his strong, well- defined views and the charming modesty with which he expressed them in admirable speeches delivered without any attempt at ornament or rhetoric. Mr. A. P. Herbert admired the way in which he always seemed to be " trying to tear out the heart of the future, really getting to the bottom of things. Of all the clever and able men," he said, " who used to speak in the 1 The Oxford Canning Club was a Conservative Club for the guardian- ship and preservation of the British Constitution as established in Church and State. * From his unfinished novel, Wentworth's Reform. 46 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER Canning, two men, Bobby Palmer and Gilbert Talbot, impressed me by the statesmanlike quality of their utterances. Bobby was a man of far greater intellectual attainments than Gilbert, but, politically, those two stood almost alone. Bobby had foresight, imagination, con- structiveness. He was also admirably lucid, and the rare flashes of humour rarer than Gilbert's were always a delight. Further he had an abundant forbearance for the more inarticulate and foolish among us, and dealt with our blurted observations with a grave courtesy which they did not always deserve." Bobby used to like to deliver his speeches from the rostrum of the hearthrug, generally speaking towards the end of a debate. Churchwarden pipes and mulled claret were part of the prescribed rites, but Bobby was almost the only member who appreciated the first of these dainties. He would puff at his pipe between his sentences, and obviously drew inspiration from it. He used to speak with his eyes fixed on the opposite wall looming dimly through the haze of the tobacco smoke. Now and then he would pause with a slight hesitation in the choice of a word, but with no uncertainty as to the substance of his remarks. Most of the debates in which he took part were concerned with the Home policy of the Government and the political position of the moment. Bobby's intense desire that " the maximum of attain- able good " should be acquired by all citizens of the Empire led him to study the different methods, advocated by Tory Democrats and Socialists, for reaching that end. To ms FATHER " OXFORD, January 23, 1908. " I thoroughly agree with what you say about the true function of the Tory party, but I don't think the ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 47 Young England section go quite as far in a Radical direction as you seem to think. I have never heard any of them propose to interfere with the rights of property in the sphere of practical politics. Many of them are taken with the ideal of Socialism in which nobody should own anything ; but the Radical preliminary of taking away what the rich have doesn't find favour. Really, I don't think that I disagree with them. Socialism is the highest ideal ; but, because I am perfectly certain it could not be realized and that the attempt to realize it would be disastrous, I don't go about saying what a magnificent ideal it is, as they do, because it seems to me (a) a waste of time and (b) an expression of opinion that is liable to be misinterpreted in a dangerous way. I don't think it quite fair to say that this new- born zeal for social reform is a hypocritical attempt to outbid the Radicals. No Unionist principle is sacrificed, and they are really anxious to make life easier for the working classes. I think they sometimes adopt a more pro-Socialist tone than their real opinions represent, out of antagonism to the absolute dogma of Individualism which flourished in the fifties and still survives in Harold Cox. A great many of the Oxford Tories can't keep in mind the difference between Trade Unionism and Socialism. They either condemn Socialism in theory because of Keir-Hardie, or urge alliance with the Labour party because of their theoretical approval of the ideal of Socialism. They all impress me as knowing singularly little about it all, though I can't judge, being as ignorant as anyone myself." The Oxford University Settlement in East London provided Bobby with a valuable school for the study of Labour problems. He eagerly enrolled himself as one of its disciples, and spent many days there in the Lent of 1908, being instructed in its work and methods. 48 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER Eventually he became one of its most useful members, and rendered valuable service as Poor Man's Lawyer. East London was not alone in receiving help from my nephew. In the autumn of 1908 he, with forty-four other undergraduates and five graduates (under the leadership of the Bishop of Bombay), 1 joined in an organized missionary campaign in the environs of South London. Greenwich, Deptford, Woolwich, and Lewisham were the field of action. For ten days the fifty pleaded the cause of Foreign Missions in churches, Sunday schools, mothers' meetings, clubs, bible classes, and anywhere where anyone would give them a hearing. " Some of us spoke very well. Others couldn't speak at all ! " Bobby told us afterwards, but he added : 44 1 think we stirred up a lot of real interest, which will lead, I trust, to a certain amount of definite action. I think the fact that the forty-five could be collected at all was a tribute to the great powers of prayer." He sent his father a detailed account of his personal share in the venture. "BLACKHEATH, S.E., October 1, 1908. " I got here on Saturday evening for the campaign. I am quartered with Foss Prior of University on a church- warden of St. Alphege, the big Greenwich church, a very nice man with a very nice wife. The campaign began that evening with an intercession service at St. Alphege, with an address from Jimmy Bombay, followed by a huge ' business meeting ' at which we were all given marching orders for Sunday. My first job was to address a men's Bible class in St. James Church, Hatcham, a fine large church holding twelve hundred; it had just been painted inside under the vicar's personal superintendence. He had removed the frontal cloth of 1 His cousin, the Right Rev. Dr. E. J. Palmer. ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 49 the communion table, as he expressed it, because he didn't want his church to look ' like an overdressed female.' I felt tempted to remark that under-dressed females who showed their legs were almost as improper, but happily refrained. In the church were fifteen men, one in each pew for fifteen rows. The church appeared to be about the size of Winchester Cathedral. After two hymns (Moody and Sankey) and some extempore prayers by the churchwarden, I talked to the fifteen men. I'm afraid I wasn't inspiring, but the circumstances weren't. After speaking, I had to offer up extemporary prayers and the class dispersed at 4.15. I was to give an address after Evensong at Forest Hill. I reached the station at 5.40 or so, feeling depressed and alarmed. I walked about a bit, trying to frame a speech, and then set out to find the vicarage. The door was open ; tobacco emanated from a study door and a cheery voice called out : ' Is that you. Palmer ? Come in ; that's capital. Sit down. Have a cigarette,' and I knew I had struck high ground again. What a relief ! A jolly-faced, athletic, middle-aged man smoking, in a cassock (which I hailed as a sign of grace), with another campaigner in an arm-chair, was the comforting sight that met my eyes. The Rev. C. W. Bailey was distinctly ' high,' an Oxford man, and great fun to talk to. His church was big, holding a thousand, and was very full. After a full service, the choir processed out, and those who wished to, left. When we returned I found that fully five hundred had stayed to hear me. I felt queer, but excited rather than nervous. After one hymn I went to the chancel steps and spoke from there. Once started, I found it infinitely easier to speak to five hundred than to fifteen. The effect of the five hundred was to give me an intense, electrical concentration. I had not thought out my speech thoroughly, but every argument I wanted presented itself at the right moment, and the 7 5 o ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER power to select it and express it as forcibly as I could. How much was the effect of the audience and how much the result of my own and other people's prayers I don't know, but I do think I came through that address far better than I ever should have thought possible. ** Since Sunday I have only had evening meetings. On Monday I went to St. Lawrence, Catford, dined with a * moderate high ' parson, and spoke to a missionary meeting, i.e. forty old ladies and half a dozen men in a parish room. Sunday night seems to have cured me of nervousness. I have not felt a trace since ; though I must admit I have tackled nothing very alarming. I got on quite well at Catford, and the vicar started an organization on the spot and induced people to take boxes, etc. At this meeting another campaigner spoke too. On Tuesday I addressed a temperance meeting in the parish of St. Peter's, Greenwich, the incumbent of which was a dear little old man, the kindest, gentlest, most saintly, and charitable person imaginable. He told me he had been there thirty-eight years. His parish is twenty-two acres in extent, and comprises five thousand inhabitants, not one of whom keeps a domestic servant a very poor district, the only part I have yet seen here that at all resembles Bethnal Green. I spoke to some thirty women and children, with a few men. I didn't speak well, but I wasn't hopelessly bad. " Last night Prior and I went to St. Hilda's, Crofton Park and spoke to a missionary meeting of forty to fifty in a little room. We both spoke quite to our satisfaction, and the people seemed interested. " If my campaigning does nothing else, it will certainly improve my speaking, I think. But I feel it is doing a good deal more than that." Bobby was one of the six undergraduates selected as speakers at the final meeting, which he described as ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 51 "packed. It was in the Blackheath Concert Hall. A thousand people present and some of the speeches astonishingly impressive. Jem's was as perfect as any- thing human could be, and the Bishop of Southwark l was Al, but three of the campaigners were, in a way, more wonderful still." In the autumn of 1908 Bobby's mother spent three months in England, to the delight of all her family. She stayed long enough to see the beginning of her youngest son's public-school life at Winchester. After her de- parture, Bobby constituted himself her deputy, and was never too busy to allow of his paying constant visits to Winchester during the inevitably difficult first months of initiation. He seemed to us to combine the understand- ing of a sympathetic woman with the wise counsel of a middle-aged man in his watchful care over Luly, whose deep admiration and love he won unreservedly. His unselfish efforts brought Bobby an unexpected reward. Up to this time he had shrunk from visiting Winchester, which appeared to him to be haunted by the shades of his failures. He was convinced that, though as Senior Prefect he had had " an intense desire to do good to his House before he left," he had only achieved disas- trous blunders ; that, " instead of his millennium " he had strengthened the forces of evil and had earned a vehement unpopularity by his mismanaged attempts to reform. All his recollections were poisoned by this miserable belief ; and it was only on the occasion of one of his fatherly visits to Luly that he nerved himself to visit Southgate Hill once more. He had forgotten the difference which two years makes in the personality of a school. To his intense surprise, when he entered the prefects' library he was greeted with enthusiasm. The reigning prefects of that 1 Dr. E. Talbot, afterwards Bishop of Winchester. 52 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER day had been the juniors whose battles he had fought two years before ; they poured out their appreciation of his championship, of his valiant crusade against tyrannies and abuses ; they told him of the change that his efforts had wrought ; and they declared that his period of office had become a great tradition, with him as its hero. He returned from his visit with a face glowing with happiness. A few questions made him relate his experience, with the comment : " And all this time I have been think- ing that what I did was an entire failure perhaps a mistake ! " Bobby's saying that " Hills look steep in the distance " described truly the piles of work which he had to surmount in 1909. Nevertheless, he succeeded in reaching the peak, and was placed third in order of merit for his Newdigate poem on " Michael Angelo," sixth in the competition for the Hertford Scholarship, and was Honourably Men- tioned in that for the Ireland. He was among the five University College men who won " Firsts " in the Moderations Examination that year, his work in the Examination having won for him the rare number of twelve alphas out of a possible fourteen. This success justified the quaintly methodical system by which he " divided the term into weeks and the needful work into corresponding blocks, with no theatres or dinners and refusal of all speechifying outside the Union and Canning, and of all meetings except those of the Oxford House." The vacations were also utilized for study. He arrived at Falloden (lent to the Howicks by Sir Edward Grey), according to his sister's description, " with packing-cases of books and reams of foolscap, and he has entrenched himself in the library behind piles of books. I trust," she added, " that the results will one day show them- selves to an astonished world I " While Bobby was there, the only outside inhabitants allowed to intrude upon him ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 53 were Sir Edward's tame squirrels, who flippantly climbed in and out of the windows. Just before his Moderations Examination Bobby made the welcome discovery that " the quicker he worked, the better he did it, which was odd, but which showed that with him it was all a question of concentration." His triumph was followed immediately by the Easter Vacation, a welcome interlude of " unalloyed joy " spent by Bobby in Paris and Rome as the guest of his uncle and aunt, the Comte and Comtesse de Franqueville, the latter of whom lionized him to his heart's content. Among other sights described by him in a letter to Wolmer, he mentioned a visit to the Chambre des D&puUs. " The rules of procedure in debate are odd : Number 1 seems to be that any deputy shall talk incessantly at the top of his voice throughout the sitting, excepting only the President, who (like the Speaker) does not speak, but is provided with a bell, by the continual ringing of which he may prevent himself from feeling out of it. It is, on the whole, less effective than the Opera, though the volume of sound compares not unfavourably." The special object for which the De Franquevilles, with multitudes of other devout French pilgrims, visited Rome that Easter was to attend the Services for the Beatification of Jeanne d'Arc. No traveller appreciated more keenly than Bobby the peculiar privileges open to him as a companion of a camtrier of the Pope and of the crowd of pilgrims. No neophyte was more perfectly prepared for initiation into the mysteries of that treasure- house of the world than Bobby, fresh from his tilt with his examiners, still clad in the panoply of classic learning. His enthusiastic delight in the sights of Rome filled many pages of his South African letters. They describe his rapture at the " entrancing " Vatican pictures ; his falling in love with the newly discovered statue of Niobe, 54 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER the Psyche of Naples and the Melian Aphrodite ; the long hours spent in the Forum under the splendid guidance of a fellow Wykehamist, Dr. Thomas Ashby, Director of the British Archaeological School in Rome; his inspiring visits to churches, services, ruins, catacombs, gardens ; his impression of an audience with Pope Pius x. on Easter Eve ; and the Service in St. Peter's for the Beatification of Jeanne d'Arc. On Maunday Thursday he was taken to the Trappist monastery of Tre Fontane, the site of St. Paul's martyr- dom, where " His head was cut off, and, bounding three times, caused three fountains to spring up. This is an unconvincing miracle and not very useful ; the site shows St. Paul must have been of an elastic build," remarked Bobby. He was impressed by the differing qualities of apprecia- tion shown by French and British lionizers. " Sight-seeing, with the French," he wrote, " is interest- ing. Their artistic appreciation is so quick and acute ; but they have a superficiality of interest very different from the English and German. They despise catalogues. They admire a statue, but are not in the least curious as to its subject, author or date. They have no desire to know whether it is by Canova or Polycleitus. They admire it and look at it solely for its beauty as one might admire a pebble on the beach. The Briton almost always adds to his admiration (when genuine) a curiosity scientific or historical. This, I say patriotically, is the broader and more truly artistic view, because it regards each work of art as a part of the whole of its art-system, having its place and characteristics in that relation : so regarded, the individual works can be more fully under- stood and interpreted. Thus a more complete apprecia- tion is possible. In practice, I admit, the interest of classification, with English people, is apt to absorb the attention, at the expense of aesthetic responsiveness, ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 55 which is less instinctive in us than in the French. But a light touch does not often go very deep. "In another respect the French are more matter-of- fact than we. Mystery has not the slightest attraction for them. They stop the pursuit of a thing directly they see they can't catch it. Thus they may save time, but they miss a lot of pleasure. Moreover, the occupation often leads to achievements otherwise impossible. It was the favourite employment of the Greeks and, for me, one of their chief charms. All this d propos the famous Cippus, i.e. archaic pillar, discovered in the Forum of the sixth or eighth century B.C., with an inscription on all four sides written in strange semi-Greek, containing strange primitive words and forms which can only be recognized here and there. The main part is undecipher- able, and for that reason the most thrilling of all the inscriptions in Rome to me : even Fia professes enthu- siasm, but to my uncle it is sheer waste of time to look at a thing you can't read." The culminating effect on Bobby's mind of the Beatifi- cation Services in St. Peter's was produced by the wonderful and theatrical illuminations, the superb music, and the vast crowd of French pilgrims, whose hymn, " Sauve, sauve la France, Ne 1'abandonne pas ! " set a thrill of sympathy vibrating in his heart. CHAPTER IV OXFORD, 1909-1911 ON his return to Oxford, Bobby immediately began to work for his Greats examination. He wrote to his mother : " I have finally decided to take Greats after carefully considering the arguments against it. In the first place, I am satisfied that, as schools are arranged here, Greats is the best education ; that is to say, it does more to teach you to think independently. The main disad- vantage seems to be that Greats accentuate the Jubal, at the expense of the Tubal, Cain in one. That is the utilitarian point of view and there is a lot to be said for it, though I shall never be much of a utilitarian. I feel sure Greats reading will be more congenial than history. What weighs most of all with me is the classical side. I am, as you know, just now fast caught in the spell of their fascination ; they are my greatest interest just now; and if I had history, I should have to drop them right in the middle of the fever. No doubt it is a pity that my family are so unclassical and so un-Greatslike ; but you've nobly come to the rescue, and as long as I may let off a little steam occasionally I am happy." Bobby attached enormous value to the intellectual sympathy afforded to him by his mother, and appreciated deeply the efforts she made to follow his reading for the Greats school and also her unconventional criticisms on the various systems of philosophy which he was studying. He found her comments " most illuminating, by flashes." ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 57 Certainly Bobby's letters to his mother written at this time kept her informed of many details of his work and of his views on the Greek drama, the world-debt to Plato, philosophy, metaphysics and kindred subjects. On the value of the existing system of the study of the classics, he wrote : " It teaches one accuracy of thought. You are taught to read every book as though it were a proof-sheet, and though this makes reading slow, it certainly makes one remember what is in the book ; and not only in books. I find myself dropping into the same frame of mind while listening to a speech or sermon, and instinctively light on the weak and strong points ; this is very useful in debate. Most valuable of all, perhaps, for everyday purposes is its use in teaching one to write English. One can only write good English by thinking pedantic English as one writes." Bobby was somewhat perplexed by his mother's lack of appreciation of Plato's political theories. To a fanciful comparison suggested by her between General Botha, as type of the practical unphilosophical statesman, and Plato, as type of the " thinker on a throne," Bobby replied with the following comments : " As for Plato and Botha as rulers, Plato would fail because he would be too far in advance of the common man. The political leader must be only just in advance of the ideas of the mass of his countrymen ; he must be near enough to have links by which he can attach them to himself. One might almost say that a teacher is only enabled to lead by his own shortcomings or back- ward parts. Plato was so far ahead of 400 B.C. (and possibly of A.D. 1900) that he would have been far above out of their sight and they would have declined to follow him. It is not want of knowledge of men which would have prevented Plato from descending to the standard of others and governing accordingly, but the almost 8 58 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER physical impossibility, for a man who sees the truth, of letting it go, abandoning what he sees to be right, and submitting to the ignorance and prejudices of his mental inferiors. If Plato had been offered a throne, he ought to have refused it, and I think he would. Yet, of course, the world owes far more to Plato than it ever will to Botha. A man like Plato is too far away from his own time to fit into it ; but he made bridges for the next and succeeding generations. He could appeal to thinkers, and in a few generations his disciples mastered his thoughts and so diffused them. If I had to sum up Plato's service to the world in a sentence, I should say he had saved it five hundred years. You say that Plato would have been driven out within ten years : this is the greatest tribute you could pay to his greatness. Our Lord was killed after three years. I don't think the comparison is irrelevant. How many hundred years farther back should we be if it had not been for Christianity ? " And : " A pleasant surprise is Aristotle : he has none of Plato's charm, I grant you ; but from an inquirer's point of view is more helpful and he is much more inter- esting than I had expected. Plato so often outlines theories and leaves you to answer the objections : a stimulating education for the leisured and ingenious. Aristotle is honest and meets his own objections briefly. We are reading the Ethics, and, so far, I agree with almost all his analysis, especially his definition of happi- ness as ' a soul-activity on lines of excellence ' (which sounds so odd in English). We can't realize at all ex- actly how much we owe to Plato and Aristotle, but, as far as we can judge, each broke absolutely new ground in his line, and saved the human race centuries of thought." On the royal trio of Greek tragedians : " -ffischylus is undoubtedly far the greatest poet, Sophocles is the most perfect artist, and Euripides is the ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 59 deepest thinker. He is too prone to philosophical digressions to be a first-class poet or dramatist when judged by whole works. But incidental passages show he was a wonderful poet, but had not great facility of expression. He stands to ^Eschylus as Browning to Shakespeare, yet Euripides is a much greater thinker than Browning ; and ^Eschylus' mind was far more like Milton's, though he can only be compared to Shake- speare for his terrific power over language. Sophocles is the Tennyson of Greek i.e. first for sheer beauty and grace (that is how Tennyson appeals to me), but hardly sublime." Of the great English writers whose names are graven beside those of the ancient world on the walls of Apollo's temple, Shakespeare, Wordsworth, and Tennyson were most venerated by Bobby, while he delighted in the music of Keats, Shelley, and Swinburne. His apprecia- tion of Tennyson, though written later, may fitly be given here. He said : " His mind, to my thinking, was profound but not of very wide range, and strangely abstract. His only pressing intellectual problems are those of immortality and evil, and he reached his point of view on those before he was forty. He never advances or recedes from the position summarized in the preface to In Memoriam, d. 1849. The result is that his later work lacks the inspiration of restlessness and discovery, and he tends to put more and more of his genius into the technique of his verse and less into the meaning. " Tennyson saw and stated the whole rebels' position. In Memoriam is largely a debate between the Shelley- Swinburne point of view and the Christian. Only he states it so abstractedly that, to people familiar with Browning's concrete and humanized dialectic, it seems cold and artificial. But it's really his sincerest and deepest thought, and he deliberately rejects the rebel 60 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER position as intellectually and morally untenable, and adopts a position of acquiescent agnosticism on the problem of evil, subject to an unshakable faith in immor- tality and the love of God. This is a red rag to your Swinburnes. I want to get to the bottom of his position. Shelley's I know, and it is, in my opinion, a much more obvious, easier and more superficial one than Tennyson's, besides being based on a distorted view of Christianity. Shelley, in fact, wanted to abolish Christianity as the first step towards teaching men to be Christian." And of Swinburne : " Swinburne disappoints me as a mind perverse, fantastic, and involved. Obscure when he means something, he is worse when he means nothing. As an imagination he is wonderful. His poetry is really a series of vivid and crowding pictures only held together by a few general and loose, though big, ideas." The two years of strenuous qualification for the Honours School of Litterae Humaniores were regarded by Bobby as spent in laying the foundation of his life's work. " If one is not fitted to influence people socially, as seems to be my case," he explained, " one must try intellectually, that is to say, by politics or literature. The classics are a fine literary training, so time spent on them is not wasted." His College tutors still retain vivid recollections of his work and personality. Mr. G. H. Stevenson says : " I had a great liking and admiration for Bobby Palmer. He was probably the ablest man whom I have been called upon to instruct, and he possessed a maturity of judgment which one very rarely finds in people of his age. Though he was always willing to argue and question a statement, one always felt that he was really trying to get at the truth of the matter and was mostly applying a well-balanced intellect to the question in hand." ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 61 Mr. E. F. Carritt also considered Bobby to be among the best pupils in philosophy that he had had in twenty years. " I don't know," he says, " that I ever had a pupil who so strongly gave me the impression that you could trust him to deal in a thoroughly competent and scholarly way with anything that was put before him. It was the general solidity and balance of his mind and his deter- mination to grasp a subject thoroughly that struck me. " I always remember one remark of his. We were discussing an essay of his on some point of moral philo- sophy, and I suggested that a man might do certain things under compulsion or fear of death. He said, 4 Oh ! I never feel I should be at all afraid of dying.' The natural- ness and spontaneity with which it came out were very striking in a boy of that age. ... I always liked and admired him so much." Bobby became the pupil of Mr. A. B. Poynton in 1907. He says of him : " I saw a good deal of Bobby's work and found him a delightful pupil. He helped me by his shrewd and sensible questions, and almost always contributed something worthy of consideration. He argued, but without captiousness and perverse ingenuity. He wanted to get everything clear to his mind and exact ; if I did not convince him, he would take up my clues and go back to the evidence. He never shirked a diffi- culty. He had a practice, irritating to some examiners and opposed to Oxford conventions, of appending notes to his translations. So unwilling was he to produce a false impression that I have known him reveal doubt about a rendering which was absolutely right and, in any case, tenable. My objection to this proceeding was disarmed by the obvious sincerity of his mind. He was, perhaps, not quite so quick-sighted as some of his con- temporaries, and he did not trust his instinct sufficiently ; but I always felt that had his lot been to pursue the study 62 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER of the Greek and Latin classics, he would have gone very far in the scholarship perhaps as an interpreter of philosophical texts. "His skill in composing Greek and Latin verse was not specially remarkable, but he wrote very good prose. He was most careful to represent the English exactly. " Bobby was very highly esteemed in college, and his influence with his fellow-scholars was great. He fully sustained his record [of success in Moderations] both in Greats and in the examination for the Ireland and Craven Scholarships, when he was distinguished by the examiners. Our men were proud of him, and all his teachers felt that he was * golden,' good, wise, learned, and loyal. " But his great honour was won in a wider field, as an officer and president of the Union. A man who fills that position must take a prominent place in the Univer- sity and one or more of its political clubs. " What would Bobby do in the world ? How often I discussed this with those who knew him ! It seemed to me that he would make a name at the Bar and then, in some time of emergency, civil discord, or labour trouble, he might spring up suddenly as a real force in English life, like others of his kindred." In June 1909, Bobby was invited, by the suffrages of his friends, to occupy the presidential chair of the Oxford University Church Union. He filled it with eminent success. During his term of office he compiled a new service-book (with the aid of his uncle, Lord Hugh Cecil) for the weekly intercessions; and by his leadership he helped to raise the life of the whole body to a higher level. Most of its members were undergraduates ; and it needed, as such Church societies often do need, a softening, sweetenizing, humanizing influence. This was Bobby's contribution. This enabled him, with the help of his friend Mr. Micklem (a Congregationalist and President of ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 63 the Christian Union), to succeed in converting the two Unions into colleagues instead of rivals. The chairman of the Church Union (the Rev. C. Whittuck, vicar of St. Mary's, Oxford) was greatly impressed by Bobby's wisdom as shown in his suggestions for the selection of preachers of the Special Sermons to undergraduates. Bobby never allowed his strong Churchmanship to favour the appointment of preachers on account of their dis- tinctive views, but rather on account of their experience of young men and of their most vital needs. His keen fellow-feeling, his conviction of every man's hourly need of God's upholding guidance, with his acute consciousness of the necessity of linking church-life to the common life of mankind all this spiritual apprehension armed him with powerful insight and influence for his presidential work for the Oxford University Church Union. The crowning political glory of attainment to the Presidentship of the Oxford Union gave Bobby deep satisfaction. Mention has already been made of his suc- cesses at the Canning. These he did not recognize as of much value. " I am unable to speak decently in the Canning," he declared, " but I persevere as I think it is useful. At the Union I am all right if there are people there ; it is a matter of concentration." (The Canning inability was apparently caused by sleepiness, which invariably overwhelmed him at ten p.m.) The account of Bobby's connection with the Union may fitly here find its place. His success there was assured from the beginning. In the first week of his residence at Oxford he made a maiden speech against the policy of the Government in regard to the House of Lords. Those who heard that speech asserted that his manner and matter " made it clear that a future president was speaking." In November 1908 he was appointed Secretary of the Union, on which occasion his surprise at his popularity vented itself in a characteristic letter to South Africa : 64 ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER " I was elected Secretary of the Union by a much larger majority than I had expected, getting 226 votes, while the other candidates got 77, 73, and 66 respectively. This is, I am told, a record for poll and for majority. This satisfactory result is largely due, of course, to Top's reputation and influence, partly to the weakness of the other candidates, and partly to my South African speech, which went down very well. It is extremely gratifying to think that there are over two hundred men in the 'Varsity who cared to vote for me. From the egotistical point of view the most agreeable feature of Oxford is that there are people here who like me, as delightful an ex- perience as it is rare." In March 1909 he was elected Junior Librarian, and in November of the same year President, by 278 votes, giving him a majority of 89 above the next candidate, the largest majority that had been secured in three years. University dons, who detested the petty intrigues and log-rolling which too often tarnished Union elections, rejoiced in the knowledge that Bobby had passed through the ordeals quite untainted by such sordid transactions. His personality had carried him victoriously into power and popularity. It must certainly have been difficult to withstand the attraction of his obvious sincerity, freedom from prejudice and charm of manner. His mannerisms of delivery resembled those of his brother, although the tones of his voice were much deeper. His presidential bearing was winning in dignity, simplicity and humour. He stood the fire of questions on private business triumphantly, and sent a wave of smiles rippling over the whole assembly as he rose to answer one after the other with an enchanting blend of amusement, good humour, courtesy and serious- ness beaming from his face. As an orator, he was respected as one who never tried to make a mere debating point, as one who refused to be ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER 65 drawn into side issues from the broad survey of the matter under discussion, as one whose sole object was to state what in his judgment was the right view of the matter. Bobby's last speech at the Union was delivered on 26th November 1910, an impressive speech which was enthusiastically applauded from all quarters of the House, pleading for the rejection of the Parliament Bill and for the substitution of a " Settlement on the basis of Consent." On taking office, each President of the Union suffers the fate of seeing himself immortalized in an article in The Isis. Here is my nephew's portrait as presented in its pages : "ISIS IDOLS. No. CCCCI. (JANUARY 22, 1910.) THE HON. ROBERT STAFFORD ARTHUR PALMER. PRESIDENT UNION SOCIETY, PRESIDENT OXFORD UNIVERSITY CHURCHMAN'S UNION. The firmness of Burleigh dictating apologies, Virtue of Selborne, renowned for hymnologies, Salisbury's diplomacy, needless to say : Genius of B If r, with no amphibologies, Staunchness of H gh, whom our own Hertford Coll. lodges, Practical wisdom of J mm B mb y : Take of these elements all that is fusible, Mix them all up in a pipkin or crucible, Set them to simmer and take off the scum, And R. S. A. P. is the residuum. '* Mr. Palmer was born at the fascinating age of four. Of his childhood (if we may be pardoned the expression) and of his boyhood nothing further can be told, nor indeed is known. He passed through Winchester with a ' soft abstracted air,' and was content to meditate in quietness his muse. When he arrived in Oxford he continued to pick up quickly (for a Wykehamist) a serviceable know- ledge of the English tongue. During his first year, however, he was enabled \ct6tiv |3/