6 5 5 5 3! OCSB tIBRARY ANECDOTES GIRLS. 1NTERTAINING NARRATIVES AND ANECDOT ILLUSTRATIVE OF PRINCIPLES AND CHARACTER. HARVEY NEWCOMB, AOTHOB OF "HOW TO BE A LABT," "HOW TO as A MAS," m. ELEVENTH THOUSAND. BOSTON: GOULD AND LINCOLN NEW YORK: SHELDON AND COMPANY. CINCINNATI : GEO. S. BLANCHARD. 1860. Kbtered according to Act of Congresi, In the yew 1MT, Br GOULD, KENDALL AXD LIXCOI.X, h the ClerVs Office of the District Court of the Distric PREFACE. Ir was my intention to illustrate the several topics noticed in my two last works for Boys and Girls, with entertaining and instructive anecdotes ; but I found the matter increasing on my hands so much, that I was obliged to abandon this purpose. Those works have met with so much favor, that I have been encouraged to carry out this design in separate volumes. In these works, I have had the same general object in view as in the former, namely, the early formation of character. But I have not confined myself to the same topics ; and the matter of these two books, unlike the former, is entirely different, no anecdote being introduced into one, which is contained in the other. This book is not a mere collection of stories, for the amusement of juvenile readers. Such, 6 PREFACE. and such only, have been selected as could be made to convey some useful instruction to the mind, or produce some good impression upon the heart. They have been collected from a great variety of sources, some new and some old ; but in nearly every case entirely re-written, and such reflections added as have seemed necessary, to impress upon the mind of the reader the lessons which they teach. It is probable that some of the anecdotes may be already familiar. If so, they are here presented in a new dress, and made to serve a new purpose ; so that they will bear another reading. It is believed, however, that most of them will be new to those into whose hands they may fall ; and the author hopes that they may prove both entertaining and useful to a Class of young people, whose happiness and future usefulness he sincerely desires to promote Grantville, Mass., Sept. 1847. CONTENTS. I. EARLY PIETY. Advantages of a little girl's experience, 9 IL FILIAL PIETT. The faithful daughter filial piety rewarded Lady Lucy's petition, 15 HL SISTBHLT AFFECTION. The Miss Singers a generous sister the praying sisters be kind to your sister love to brothers a loving sister, 28 IV. BENEVOLENCE. A bountiful return a lesson from the birds an angel of mercy, 45 V LEARNING TO WORK. New music making bread Mrs. Milne high notions, 51 VI. HABITS. Heedlessness be neat carelessness reading in the night drinking wine put- ting pins in the month dress, Dr. Johnson's opinion fondness for dress eyes and no eyes, 60 Vll GOVERNMENT OF THE TONGUE. The washer- woman Jenny Jenkins whisperers, 84 Vlll CONTENTS. VIII. FEMALE INFLUENCE. Swearing in Hebrew the sea captain doing good, 91 IX. NOVELS AND PLATS. Dr. Johnson's opinion of novels novels and plays folly of ro- mance, 98 X. DANCING. Examples of warning a contrast death in a ball-room, 102 XL MISCELLANEOUS SUBJECTS. Honesty reward ed temper and teazing advantages of committing to memory Scripture, Hymns. &c. 112 XIT. RELIGION. Doing good the swearer reproved the pearl of great price Lady Huntington and the gardener faith a little girl and her father a little girl's application of Scrip- ture cherish serious impressions danger of resisting the Holy Spirit the choice, a con- trast conscience prayer praying in secret pray without ceasing death-bed scenes the unprepared peace in death, 195 ANECDOTES FOR GIRLS. CHAPTER I. . EARLY PIETY. ET no light'-hearted girl throw down this book because it begins th a grave subject. There is 'nothing in it which interferes ^with any proper youthful enjoy- ment. I am sorry that any one should think religion tends to destroy the happiness of chil- dren and youth. This is not true. It does, indeed, forbid all sinful in- dulgence ; but at the same time it removes the desire for it ; and it in- troduces them to pleasures of a more exalted kind. Let no one say, " I will have my pleasure now, and attend to religion when I am a woman." Per- haps you will not live to be a woman. But, if you should, you want religion now, to lay the 10 FURtFY THE SPRING. foundation of a good character. When the prophet Elisha was living at Jericho, some of the people came to him, and told him that the water was very bad. Now, the city of Jericho was supplied with water from a spring, which was conducted to the city, I suppose, in an aqueduct of some kind. And what did the prophet do ? He did not go to the streams, which conveyed the water to different parts of the city, to see if he could purify them ; but he went and cast salt into the spring, and the water was made good. This is what you must do: cast salt into the spring, that the stream of life may run pure. You want your heart purified by the influence of true piety, in order that your character may be formed upon the true model. Neither let any one think, that there is greater difficulty in becoming a Christian in childhood, than there is at a later period of life. There is much less. If any one wanted a tree in front of his house, would he go and dig up and transplant a great tree, with a tall, heavy trunk, wide- spreading branches, and great roots running deep into the ground ? He might possibly do it ; but it would be a work of great difficulty, and the tree would not be very likely to live. He would rather choose a young tree, which would be easily and safely transplanted. In like manner, the AN OLD LADY'S OPINION. 11 difficulty of becoming religious increases as one grows older. A woman of ninety lay on her death-bed, who had been a disciple of Christ for half a century. Conversing with a friend, she said, " Tell all the children that an old woman, who is just on the borders of eternity, is very much grieved that she did not begin to love the Saviour when she was a child. Tell them youth is the tune to serve the Lord." Neither let any one get the impression, that all pious children die when they are young. Most of the children's memoirs that have been written are necessarily accounts of those who died young. But thousands of children have died whose me- moirs have not been written ; and a great many die without giving any evidence of piety, which is a much greater cause of alarm to you, than that some pious children die. But children are no more likely to die because they are pious. Many, who have become pious in childhood, have lived to a very great age. Phebe Bartlett, of whose early piety a most delightful account was given by President Edwards, lived to be seventy- four years of age. Indeed, the tendency of true piety is to promote health and long life. 12 REMEMBER THE TEXT. A Little Girl's Religious Experience. The following sweet and simple expression of early piety was presented to the church in Strat- ham, N. H. nearly forty years ago, by a little girl about eleven years of age, who lived many years to adorn the profession which she then made, by an exemplary piety and Christian con- versation. " My dear and honored parents had often told me, when I was preparing to go to meeting, that I ought to attend to the religious exercises, and at least to remember the text. On the Lord's day, last summer, as I was going to meet- ing, I recollected my mother's advice, and had a great desire, and some strong resolutions, to at- tend, and at least to carry the text home with me ; but I think I shall never forget it. These solemn words, " How shall we escape, if we neglect so great salvation ? " seem to be imprinted on my heart, and will not, I trust, be soon blotted out of my memory. I think I felt the truth of every word that was said in the sermon. I am sure I saw that the salvation of Jesus is a great salvation, and that it was very wicked to neglect it, and as dangerous as it was wicked. And I was very sensible, that, though I was a young sinner, I needed that great salvation, as really as CONVICTION. 13 the oldest sinner in the meeting-house. I was very sure I had wickedly neglected it. Return- ing home, I could not help thinking of the text and sermon. Nor could I help reproaching my- self for my wicked neglect of Jesus and his great salvation. " After this, I attended lectures whenever I could, and thought all the awful and solemn warnings of the word of God were directed to me, as really as if I had been named. I heard those alarming words, " Depart, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels." And this awful sentence I believed would be directed against all who lived in sin, and died destitute of love to God and the Lord Jesus Christ. I found I had no love to God, no love to Jesus ; and was certain, that if I lived and died so, God would say to me, " Depart." The thought distressed me. I could not bear to think of being banished from God. I wanted to know and love God. I asked for mercy. My heart, I saw, was wicked, and must be changed, or God could not love me. I found I could not change it myself, and I tried to pray that God would re- new my hard and sinful heart. I saw, too, that I could not merit his favor, that my prayers could not help me, nor oblige the Lord to save me. I found myself altogether helpless, and lying at the mercy of God. And, for ever blessed 2 14 CHEIST PRECIOUS. be his name, he led me to trust in his mercy, in the Lord Jesus Christ. I had, I think, some clear views of Jesus, as the Saviour, who alone can save a sinner so unworthy as I saw myself to be. I think I enjoy a measure of the peace and comfort which flow from a reliance on his glorious grace alone. And, though I have had many doubts and fears, I have also many sweet and refreshing seasons. " And now, Jesus Christ is so precious to my soul, his religion is so refreshing to my mind, and his ordinances are so lovely in my view, that I wish and long to enjoy access to them. I can- not but anxiously desire to give myself up to God, and to his church, in the bonds of his own everlasting covenant. And now, while I ask your charity, I also beg your prayers to God, that he would own me as a child of his, in that day when he will make up his jewels." You will perceive, from this narrative, that re- ligion is not gloomy and repulsive. It fits the mind for true enjoyment. It gives a person the only true ground of cheerfulness, which is, a mind at peace with God. When embraced in childhood, it lays the foundation of character upon a solid basis. It gives it stability, by fixing in the heart true principles of action, and giving a love for what is right, and a dislike for what is wrong. 15 CHAPTER IL FILIAL PIETY. Y readers will perceive why I have chosen this for my next subject ; because piety towards parents is the next thing to piety towards God. Indeed, it is one of its first fruits. And I 9 can hardly think it possible that a child can be pious towards God, and irreverent and disobedient towards her parents ; for parents stand, in an important sense, to chil- dren, in the place of God. He has committed you to their care, to bring - up for him. The following examples furnish some forcible illustrations of the subject of filial piety. The Faithful Daughter. During the French Revolution, M. Delleglaie, who had been confined in prison at Lyons, was 16 DUTIFUL DAUGHTERS. ordered to Paris. His daughter begged to be allowed to ride with him, but was refused. Though of very delicate health, she followed him on foot, a distance of more than three hundred miles, preparing him food, and providing cover- ing for him, in the dungeons where he was con- fined at night. At Paris, for three months, she presented herself before the authorities, in his behalf, till, at length, she prevailed, and procured his release. She conducted him back to Lyons. But the effort was too much for her ; and having gained her object, and saved the life of her father, she lost her own. Filial Piety Rewarded. A female servant in London, in her early life, spent all her wages hi the support of her aged and distressed parents. She was afterwards taken ill ; and the Rev. Thomas Scott, tp whose congregation she belonged, with the aid of kind friends, supported her for many years, by which she was saved from going to the workhouse. Thus was she rewarded for her dutiful conduct towards her parents. LADY LUCY'S PETITION. 17 Lady Lucy's Petition. The following touching narrative of a histori- cal fact contains such a beautiful illustration of filial piety as to need no comment. When I commenced this book, one of my children, on learning my intention, inquired, " Father, are you going to make comments on your anecdotes, or have them to tell their own story ?" In regard to this one, I shall leave it to tell its own story. James II., King of England, was a great tyrant. He disregarded the constitution and laws of "England, and undertook to exercise ar- bitrary and absolute power. Among other ty- rannical and oppressive measures, he undertook to restore Popery, as the established religion. The people of England could not bear these things ; and they entered into a negotiation with William, Prince of Orange, who had married the king's daughter Mary, to come over from Holland with an army, when they all joined him, and King James was obliged to leave the coun- try ; after which, the Parliament raised William and Mary to the throne. James and his friends made several ineffectual attempts to recover his crown. In one of these attempts, Lord Preston was engaged ; and, being taken, was condemned 2* 18 LADY LUCY'S PETITION. to die. His little daughter, Lucy, was taken by her nurse, Amy Gradwell, to visit her father, in the Tower, before his execution. As the coach drove up before the prison, Lady Lucy raised her eyes fearfully to the Tower, and exclaimed, " And is my dear papa shut up in this dismal place, to which you are taking me, nurse?" When they alighted, and she saw the soldiers on guard, and the sentinels before the prison, she trembled and hid her face in Amy's cloak. " Yes, my dear child," replied her nurse, "my lord, your father, is indeed within these sad walls. You are now going to visit him. Are you afraid to enter this place, my dear ? " " No," replied Lady Lucy, resolutely, " I am not afraid of going to any place where my dear papa is." Yet she clung closer to the arm of her attendant, as she entered the gloomy precincts of the building, and her little heart fluttered fearfully, as she glanced around her; and she whispered to her nurse, " Was it not here that the two young princes, Edward V., and his brother Richard, Duke of York, were murdered by their cruel uncle, Richard, Duke of Gloucester?" " Yes, my love, it was ; but do not be alarmed on that account, for no one will harm you," said An- y, in an encouraging tone. " And wa-3 not good Henry VI. murdered, also, by the same LADT LUCY'S PETITION. 19 wicked Richard ? " continued the little girl, whose imagination had heen filled with the deeds of blood that had been perpetrated in this fatally celebrated place ; many of which had been re- lated to her by Bridget, the housekeeper, since her father had been imprisoned in the Tower on the charge of high treason. " But do you think they will murder papa, nurse ? " " Hush ! hush ! dear child, you must not talk these things here," said Amy, " or they will shut us both up in a room with bolts and bars, instead of admitting us to see my lord, your father." Lady Lucy pressed closer to her nurse's side, and was silent, till they were ushered into the room where her father was confined ; when, for- getting every thing else in the joy of seeing him again, she sprang into his arms, and almost stifled him with her kisses. Lord Preston was greatly affected at the sight of his little daughter ; and, overcome by her passionate expressions of fondness ; his own anguish at the thought of being separated from her by death ; and the idea of leaving her an orphan at the tender age of nine years ; he clasped her to his bosom, and be- dewed her face with his tears. " Why do you cry, dear papa ? " asked Lucy, who was herself weeping at the sight of his distress. " And why 20 LADY LUCY'S PETITION. do you not leave this gloomy place, and come home to your own hall again ? " " Attend to me, Lucy," said her father, " and I will tell you the cause of my grief: I shall never come home again, for I have been con- demned to die for high treason ; and I shall not leave this place, till they bring me forth to Tower Hill, -where they will cut off my head with a sharp axe, and set it up afterwards over Temple Bar or London Bridge." At this terrible intelligence, Lucy screamed aloud, and hid her face in her father's bosom, which she wet with her tears. " Be composed, my dear child," said her father, " for I have much to say to you ; and we may never meet again in this world." " No, no, dear papa ! they shall not kill you ; for I will cling so fast about your neck, that they cannot cut your head off; and I will tell them all how good and kind you are ; and then they will not want to kill you." " My dear- est love, all this would be of no use," said her father. " I have offended against the law, by trying to have my old master, King James, restored to the throne. Lucy, do you not re- member that I once took you to Whitehall, to see King James, and how kindly he spoke to you ? " 0, yes, papa ! and I recollect he Iai4 his hand LUCY AND HER FATHER. 21 on my head, and said I was like what his daughter, the Princess of Orange, was at my age ; " replied Lucy, with great animation. " Well, my child, very soon after you saw King James at Whitehall, the Prince of Orange, who had married his daughter, came over to England, and drove King James out of his palace and kingdom ; and the people made him and the Princess of Orange king and queen in his stead." " But was it not very wicked of the Princess to take her father's kingdom away from him ? J am very sorry King James thought me like her," said Lucy earnestly. " Hush, hush, my love ! You must not speak so of the Queen. Perhaps she thought she was doing right to deprive her father of his kingdom, because he had embraced the Catholic religion ; and it is against the law for a king of England to be a Catholic. Yet, I confess, I did not think she would consent to sign the death-warrant of so many of her father's old servants, only on ac- count of their faithful attachment to him," said he, with a sigh. " I have heard that the Princess of Orange is of a merciful disposition," said old Amy Grad- well, " and perhaps she might be induced to spare your life, my lord, if your pardon were 22 LUCY'S COURAGE. very earnestly entreated of her, by some of your friends." " Alas ! my good Amy, no one will undertake the perilous office of pleading for a traitor, lest hb should be suspected of favoring King James." " Dear papa, let me go to the Queen, and beg your pardon," cried Lucy, with a crimsoned cheek and sparkling eye. " I will so beg and pray her to spare your life, dear father, that she will not have the heart to deny me." " Dear simple child ! What could you say to the Queen that would be of any avail ? " " God would teach me what to say," replied Lucy. Her father clasped her to his bosom. " But," said he, " thou wouldst be afraid of speaking to the Queen, even should you be ad- mitted to her presence, my child." " Why should I be afraid of speaking to her, papa? Should she be angry with me, and answer me harshly, I shall be thinking too much of you to care about it ; and if she should send me to the Tower, and cut off my head, God will take care of my immortal soul." " You are right, my child, to fear God, and have no other fear. He, perhaps, has put it into thy little heart to plead for thy father's life; which if it be his pleasure to grant, I shall in- deed feel it a happiness, that my child should be LUCY'S RESOLUTION. 23 the instrument of my deliverance. If it should be otherwise, God's will be done. He will not forsake my good and dutiful little one, when I am laid low in the dust." " But how will my lady Lucy gain admittance to the Queen's presence ? " asked old Amy, who had been a weeping spectator of this interesting scene. " I will write a letter to my friend, the Lady Clarendon, requesting her to accomplish the matter," said Lord Preston. He then wrote a few hasty lines, which he gave to his daughter, telling her that she was to go to the palace, the next day, properly attended, and give the letter to Lady Clarendon, who was there waiting upon the Queen. He then kissed his child tenderly, and bade her farewell. Though Lucy wept as she parted from her father, yet she left the Tower with a far more quiet mind than she had entered it; for she had formed her resolution, and her young heart was full of hope. The next morn- ing, the little Lady Lucy was up before the lark, dressed in a suit of deep mourning ; and as she passed through the hall, leaning on her nurse's arm, and attended by her father's confidential secretary and the old butler, all the servants shed tears, and prayed that God would bless and prosper her. Lady Lucy was introduced to 24 LUCY AND THE COUNTESS. Lady Clarendon's apartments before she had left her bed ; and having told her artless story with great earnestness, presented her father's letter. Lady Clarendon was very kind to little Lucy, but told her plainly that she did not dare to ask her father's life, because her husband was already suspected of holding secret correspondence with his brother-in-law, King James. " 0," said Lucy, " if I could only see the Queen myself, I would not wish any one to speak for me. I would plead so earnestly, that she could not refuse me, I am sure." " Poor child ! What could you say to the Queen?" " God will direct me what to say," replied Lucy. " Well, my love, you shall have the opportu- nity ; but much I fear your little heart will fail, when you see the Queen face to face." ^ ?; The Countess hastened to rise and dress, and then conducted Lucy into the palace gallery, where the Queen usually passed an hour in walk- ing, early in the morning. While they were waiting for the Queen, Lady Clarendon tried to amuse little Lucy, by showing her the pictures which hung on the wall. " I know that gentle- man well," said Lucy, pointing to a fulWength portrait of James II. " That is a portrait of LUCY AND THE QUEEN. 25 Queen Mary's father," said the Countess. " But hark ! here comes the Queen with her ladies. Now, Lucy, is the time. I will step into the recess, yonder; but you must remain alone, standing where you are. When the Queen ap- proaches, kneel and present your father's petition. She who walks before the other ladies is the Queen. Be of good courage." Lady Clarendon then made a hasty retreat. Lucy's heart beat violently, when she found her- self alone ; but her resolution did not fail her. She stood with folded hands, pale but composed, and motionless as a statue, awaiting the Queen's approach ; and when the Queen came near, she advanced a step forward, dropped on her knees, and presented the petition. The extreme beauty of the child, her deep mourning, the touching sadness of her look and manner, and, above all, the streaming tears that bedewed her cheek, excited the Queen's atten- tion and interest. She paused, spoke kindly to her, and took the offered paper ; but when she saw the name of Lord Preston, her color rose, she frowned, cast the petition frum her, and would have passed on; but Lucy, who had watched her countenance with an anxiety which almost amounted to agony, losing all awe for royalty in her fears for her father, put forth her 3 26 LUCY AND THE QUEEN. hand, and, grasping the Queen's robe, cried in an imploring tone, " Spare my father ! my dear, dear father, royal lady ! " Lucy had meant to say many persuasive things ; but, in her sore distress, she forgot them all, and could only repeat, " Save my father, gracious Queen!" till her feelings choked her voice, and throwing her arms round the Queen's knees, she leaned her head against her person, and sobbed aloud. Queen Mary pitied the dis- tress of her young petitioner ; but she considered the death of Lord Preston a measure of political necessity, because he was a ringleader in a con- spiracy to overturn the government, and bring back King James, her father, to the throne. She therefore told Lucy mildly, but firmly, that she could not grant her request. " But he is good and kind to every one," said Lucy, raising her blue eyes, which were swiro- ing in tears, to the face of the Queen. " He may be so to you, child," returned the Queen; " but he has broken the laws of his country, and therefore he must die." " But you can pardon him," replied Lucy, and I have learned that God has said, ' Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy.' " " It does not become a little child like you to attempt to instruct me," replied the Queen LUCY PREVAILS. 27 gravely ; " I am acquainted with my duty. It is my place to administer justice impartially ; axd. it is not possible for me to pardon your father, however painful it may be to deny so dutiful a child." Lucy did not reply ; she only raised her eyes with an appealing look to the Queen, and then turned them expressively on the portrait of King James. This excited the Queen's curiosity, and she inquired of Lucy why she gazed so intently upon that picture. " I was thinking, " replied Lucy, " how very strange, it is, that you should wish to kill my father, only because he loved yours so faithfully." This wise and artless reproof from so young a child went to the very heart of the Queen. She raised her eyes to that once dear and honored parent who had ever been a tender father to her ; and when she thought of him as an exile in a foreign land, relying upon the bounty of strangers for his daily bread, while she was invested with the royalty of which he had been deprived, the contrast between herself and the pious and du- tiful child before her affected her heart, and she burst into tears. " Rise, dear child," said she, " I cannot make thee an orphan. Thou hast prevailed. Thy father shall not die. Thy filial love has saved him ! " 28 CHAPTER HI. SISTERLY AFFECTION. EXT to the duty of children to their parents is their duty to their brothers and sisters, of the same family. Affection lies at the foundation of the social relations, and mutual love is the reigning spirit in every well-regulated family. But love may exist, and yet some- times give way to a naughty tem- per, the evils of which cannot, for long time, be remedied. And, if you would cherish love, you must not do violence to it, by the indulgence of con- trary feelings and dispositions. Love is a tender plant, which will not bear the east wind. The following anecdotes illustrate both sides of this subject. The Miss Singers. The following account was given by Miss THE MISS SINGERS. 29 Philomela Singer (afterwards Mrs. Howe) to Rev. Dr. Colman, when he was in England : " My sister was a year or two younger than I ; and her affection, as well as wit, was quicker. I seemed, however, myself to think more thor- oughly. She desired ever to be with me, and I wanted to be more by myself. We often retired, by consent, each to her chamber, to compose, and then meet to compare what we had written. She always exceeded me in the number of lines ; but mine, I think, were more correct. She exceeded me much in the fondness of love, but never in the truth and strength of it. She was jealous of me, that my love was not equal to hers, and invented a hundred ways to try me ; many of which I thought childish and weak, and therefore sometimes rather reproved than complied with them. This gave her grief, and I found her in tears, which I could not put a stop to, but by the tenderest words and embraces. " We lived years together, as happy as children could be in each other. We lived religiously together. We took care of one another's souls, and had our constant hours of retirement and devotion. We were daily speaking to each other of God ; his being, perfections, and work ; the wonders of creation and providence, the myste- ries of redemption and grace. My father, in his 3* 30 A TOUCHING SCENE. widowhood, took great delight in us, and cherish- ed our love to God and one another ; but, like good Jacob, was fondest of the youngest, admiring all she said and did ; and in her death he was to be tried. But it was / that was taken sick, to a very dangerous degree. When my physicians were giving me over, my sister came to me, drowned in tears, and, earnestly kissing me, be- sought me to tell her whether I was, through grace, prepared to die ; whether my interest in Christ and title to heaven were comfortable and clear to me. For she was afraid I should die, and she could not part with me, only to go to Christ, which was far better. I earnestly looked upon her, and said, ' Why ! sister, do you think me dangerous ? I must confess to you, my dis- tress would be great, if I thought my dying hour were now coming on ; for I have not that full as- surance of my interest in Christ, which I have always begged of God I might have, before he should call me hence.' " No sooner had she heard me say this, than she fell, as in agony, on her knees, by my bed, and in a manner inexpressible for fervor and hu- mility, she begged of God, that, if her father must have the grief of burying one of his children, it might be herself; for through his free grace, and to the glory of it, she could humbly profess before A STRANGE EVENT. 31 him, her assured hope of her interest in his ever- lasting mercy, through Jesus Christ : wherefore she"' could gladly and joyfully surrender herself to die, if it might please God to grant her sister further space wherein to make her calling and election sure. Having prayed thus, in a trans- port which was surprising and astonishing to me, she kissed me, and left the room, without giving me time or power to answer a word. And, what is almost incredible to relate, from that moment I grew better, and recovered ; but she took to her bed, and died within a few days. Conceive, if you can, how I was astonished by this event of Providence, and overwhelmed with sorrow ; and my father with me. The load of grief upon me confined me to my chamber for more than six weeks. My chief work was to consider the mind of God, in this his mercy to me ; that I might make it evident to myself, that, indeed, in love to my soul, he had delivered me from the pit of de- struction. We durst not be inconsolable, under a bereavement so circumstanced ; yet my mourning is always returning, with the remembrance of a love stronger than death, and bright like that of the seraphim, those flames of love and devotion." The death of the younger sister might, per- haps, be accounted for on natural principles, by the influence of a strong belief that her prayer 32 DISINTERESTED AFFECTION. would be answered, upon a lively imagination, and a nervous temperament. But the recovery of the other could hardly be so accounted for. * It is the more reasonable to regard it as a direct answer to prayer ; which is agreeable to Scrip- ture, for the feelings which the younger sister manifested were such as God approves. It was Christ-like. " Hereby perceive we the love of God, because he laid down his life for us ; and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren" It was disinterested love ; and who can help ad- miring its strength and ardor ? This example of sisterly affection is worthy of being followed ; all except the jealousy manifested by the younger sister, lest the elder's love should not equal her own. Their example in helping each other on their way to heaven, and in con- versing on heavenly tilings, is worthy the imita- tion of all good sisters. A Generous Sister. 9 When Rev. Mr. Knibb, the missionary, was teaching a school in Jamaica, a little boy had been guilty of profaneness ; and Mr. Knibb was going to shut him up for some hours alone, after school. But the little boy's sister came to him, PRAYING SISTERS 33 and begged to be shut up instead of her brother. To try her affection, he consented ; and she cheer fully took the boy's place, while he was dismissed. But the teacher, having satisfied himself of her sincerity, dismissed her ; when she said, " School- massa, me know it bad for curse ; and if my broder eber do it 'gin, me bring him you for punish." On their way home, the little boy swore again ; and she immediately brought him back to be shut up. The Praying Sisters. Two brothers left their mother and sisters, and went to a distant state. There they embraced some fatal religious errors, which were like to prove their ruin. They had two pious sisters, who no sooner heard of it, than they agreed with each other to spend half an hour every Saturday evening at sunset, separately, in prayer for their brothers. The two brothers were awakened, and hopefully converted to God. While this incident furnishes a beautiful example of sisterly affection, it likewise affords encouragement to pray for our friends, in the most desperate cir- cumstances. God is a hearer of prayer. 34 UNKINDNESS. EFFECTS OF UNKINDNESS. The following story is taken from the " Re- ligious Magazine," a work which was several years ago published in the city of Boston. It is well told, and true to the life ; so that, contrary to my usual practice, I have inserted it entire, with- out writing it over. Do any of my gentle readers ever get into such an angry, cross, unkind mood as that exhibited by Clara ? If so, I think they cannot read this affecting story, without resolving never again to indulge such a temper. Be Kind to your Sister. One morning, there was a little girl sitting on the door-steps of a pleasant cottage near the Common. She was thin and pale. Her head was resting upon her slender hand. There was a touching sadness in her sweet face, which the dull, heavy expression about her jet-black eyes did not destroy. Her name was Helen. For several weeks she *had seemed to be drooping, without any particular disease, inconstant in her attendance at school, and losing gradually her interest in all her former employments. Helen had one sister, Clara, a little older than herself, and several brothers. UNKINDNESS. 85 While she was most indisposed, they had express- ed a great deal of sympathy, and tried to amuse her, and had willingly given up their own enjoy- ments to promote hers. But children will too often be selfish ; and when Helen, for some days, appeared better, and was able to run about and amuse herself, they would forget how peculiarly sensitive she had become ; and the cross words which they occasionally spoke, and the neglect with which they sometimes treated her, wounded her feelings, and caused her to shed many bitter tears as she lay awake on her little cot at night. This day she seemed better ; and it was some- thing her sister had said to her just before, which gave that expression of sadness to her face, as she sat at the door of the cottage. Clara soon came to her again. " Helen, mother says you must go to school to- day ; so get up, come along and get ready, and not be moping there any longer." " Did ma say so ? " said Helen. " Yes, she did," replied Clara. " You are well enough, I know, for you always say you are sick at school-time. Get your bonnet, for I shan't wait." Helen got up slowly, and, wiping with her apron the tear which had started in her eye, made preparations to obey her mother's command. 36 SELFISHNESS. Now Clara had a very irritable disposition. She could not bear to have Helen receive any more attention or sympathy than herself; and unless she were really so sick as to excite her fears, she never would allow her to be sick at all. She was determined not to go to school alone this morning, and had persuaded her mother to make her sister go with her. In a few moments they were both ready ; but now a difficulty presented itself. The distance to school was so great that they seldom returned atf noon. Their dinner had been packed for them in a large basket, Which stood in the entry. Upon whom, now, should the task of carrying this devolve ? " Helen," said Clara, " I 've carried the basket every day for a week ; it is your turn now." " But it is twice as heavy now," said Helen. I can but just lift it." " Well, I don't care," replied Clara. "I have got my geography and atlas to carry ; so take it up, and come along, Miss Fudge. / shan't touch it." Helen took up the basket, without saying another word, though it required all her little strength, and walked slowly behind her sister. She tried hard to keep from crying ; but the tears would come as fast as she wiped them off. They ILL-HUilOK. 37 walked on thus in silence for about a quarter of an hour. Clara felt too much ill humor to take the least notice of her sister. She knew she had done wrong, and felt uneasy, but was yet too proud to give up, and was determined to " hold out ;" excusing herself by thinking, " Well, Helen is always saying she is sick, and making a greal fuss. It is just good enough for her." When she had reached the half-way stone, she had half a mind not to let her rest there, as usual ; but the habit was too strong to be easily broken, and she sat down sullenly to wait for Helen to come up. This was a spot which few could have passed unnoticed. The broad, flat stone was shaded by a beautiful weeping-willow, whose branches hung so low, that even little Maria could reach them by standing on tiptoe ; and around the trunk of this tree ran a little brook, which came up just to this rustic seat, and then turned off into the next meadow. It would seem as if the beauty of this place must have charmed away the evil spirit which was raging in Clara's breast ; but no ! The cool shade brought no refreshment to those evil passions, and the little ripples which sparkled in the sunbeam did not, for one moment, divert her attention from her own cross feelings. As I said before, she sat sullenly, till Helen came up, and then began to scold her for being so slow. 4 38 ANGER. "Why don't you come along faster, Helen? You will be late to school, and I don't care if you are : you deserve a good scolding, for acting so." " Why, Clara, I am very tired, my head does ache, and this basket is very heavy. I do think you ought to carry it the rest of the way." *' Do give it to me, then," said Clara ; and snatched it from her with such violence, that the cover came off. The apples rolled out and fell into the water, the gingerbread followed, and the pie rolled into the dirt. It has been truly said, " Anger is a short madness ;" for how little reason have those who indulge in it ! Helen was not to blame for the accident, but Clara did not stop to think of this. Vexed at having thus lost her dinner, she turned and gave her little sister a push, and then walked on as rapidly as possible. Oh ! could she have foreseen the consequences of this rash act, could she have known the bitter anguish which it would afterwards cause her, worlds would not have tempted her to do it ; but Clara was angry. Helen was seated just on the edge of the stone, and she fell into the water. It was not deep. She had waded there many a day with her shoes and stockings off, and she easily got out again ; but it frightened her very much, and took away all her strength. She could not even call to her sister, or cry. A strange BITTER REGRET. 39 feeling came over her, such as slie had never had before. She laid her head on the stone, closed her eyes, and thought she was going to die ; and she wished her mother was there. Then she seemed to sleep for a few moments; but by and bye she felt better, and getting up she took her empty basket, and walked on as fas't as as she was able towards school. It was nearly half done when she arrived there and, as she entered the room, all noticed her pale face and wet dress. She took her seat, and, placing her book before her, leaned her aching head upon her hand, and attempted to study, but in vain. She could not fix her attention at all. The strange feeling began to come over her once more ; the letters all mingled together ; the room grew dark ; the shrill voice of the little child screaming its A B C in front of her desk, grew fainter and fainter; her head sunk upon her book, and she fell to the floor. Fainting was so unusual in this school, that all was instantly confusion, and it was some minutes before the teacher could restore order. Helen was brought to the air; two of her companions were despatched for water ; and none were allowed to remain near excepting Clara, who stood by, trembling from head to foot, and almost as white as the insensible object before her. Oh ! what a 40 RESOLUTIONS. moment of anguish was this, deep, bitter an- guish ! Her anger melted away at once, and she would almost have sacrificed her own life to have recalled the events of the morning. That was impossible. The future, however, was still before her ; and she determined never again to indulge her temper, or be unkind to any one. If Helen only recovered, the future would be spent in atoning for her past unkindness. It seemed, for a short time, indeed, as if she would be called upon to fulfil these promises. Helen gradually grew better, and in about an hour was apparently as well as usual. It was judged best, however, for her to return home ; and a farmer, who hap- pened to pass in a new gig, very kindly offered to take her. Clara could not play with the girls as usual, she could not study. Her heart was full, and she was very impatient to be once more by her sister's side. O how eagerly she watched the sun in his slow progress round the school-house ! and when at last he threw his slanting beams through the west window, she was the first to obey the joyful sig- nal ; and books, papers, pen and ink, instantly disappeared from her desk. Clara did not linger on her way home. She even passed the half-way stone with no other CLARA'S PUNISHMENT. 41 notice than a deep sigh. She hurried to her sister's bed-side, impatient to show her the cu- riosities she had collected, and to make up, by every little attention, for her unkindness. Helen was asleep. Her face was no longer pale, but flushed with a burning fever. Her little hands were hot ; and, as she tossed restlessly about on her pillow, she would mutter to herself, sometimes calling on her sister, to "stop, stop," and then again begging her not to throw her to the fishes. Clara watched long in agony, for her to awake. This she did at last ; but it brought no relief tc the distressed sister and friends. She did not know them, and continued to talk incoherently about the events of the morning. It was too much for Clara to bear. She retired to her own little room and lonely bed, and wept till she could weep no more. By the first dawn of light she was at her sis- ter's bedside ; but there was no alteration. For three days Helen continued in this state. I would not, if I could, describe the agony of Clara a= she heard herself thus called upon and deserv- edly reproached by the dear sufferer. Her pun- ishment was, indeed, greater than she could bear. At the close of the third day, Helen gave signs of returning consciousness, inquired if the cold water which she drank would injure her, 4* * 42 HELEN'S. DEATH. recognized her mother, and anxiously called for Clara. She had just stepped out, but was im- mediately told of this. Oh ! how joyful was the summons ! She hastened to her sister, who, as she approached, looked up and smiled. The feverish flush from her cheek was gone, she was almost deadly pale. By her own request, her head had been raised upon two or three pil- lows, and her little emaciated hands were folded over the white coverlid. Clara was entirely over- come, she could only weep ; and as she stooped to kiss her sister's white lips, the child threw her arms around her neck, and drew her still nearer. It was a long embrace ; then her arms moved convulsively, and fell motionless by her side ; there were a few struggles, she gasped once or twice, and little Helen never breathed again. Days, and weeks, and months, rolled on. Time had somewhat healed the wound which grief for the loss of an only sister had made ; but it had not power to remove from Clara's heart the remem- brance of her former unkindness which poisoned many an hour. She never took her little basket of dinner, now so light, or in her solitary walk *.o school passed the half-way stone, without a deep sigh, and often a tear of bitter regret. Children who are what Clara was, go now and be what Clara ?', mild, amiable, obliging and pleasant to alL A NICE LITTLE GIRL. 43 Love to Brothers. A gentleman, walking on the Battery in the city of New York, as he passed a little girl, who was blithely rolling her hoop, said, " You are a nice little girl ; " to which she replied, patting her little brother on the head, " And he is a nice little boy, too." Here was delicate, disinterest- ed feeling. This amiable little girl could not bear even to hear herself praised, while her little brother was overlooked. A Loving Sister. Sophia had one sister, older than herself, whom she most tenderly loved. If she had any nice things, such as the first ripe strawberry or peach or plum, or any thing that her sister relished, she would save it and share it with her, because she delighted so much in seeing her pleased. It seemed to give her more satisfaction to please her sister than to enjoy any pleasure herself. Such was her disinterested affection, that her teacher, on one occasion, in order to reward her, put down her sister's name among a select few who were to go with her to a concert. 44 A GENEROUS SISTER. Another time, the girls in the boarding school, which they attended, were directed to have a piece of sewing done the next morning ; and, as Sophia's sister was sometimes negligent of her task, she was threatened with punishment if she failed. This she dreaded very much ; but her dilatory habits prevailed ; and when Sophia had finished hers, her sister had not begun. It was now evening, and she had abandoned the task in despair, thinking it too late to have it finished. The girls were all playing in the garden, in great glee, when it was suddenly discovered that Sophia was not among them. This occasioned great ex- citement among the group ; for she was a general favorite, as every one will be who acts from the same disinterested feeling. After searching the house over, she was at last discovered in an old out-house, with th door fastened, busily at work on her sister's task, that she might save her the dreaded punishment. She was a happy creature. No doubt, she had much more enjoy- ment in making others happy, than she could have had, if it had been her great aim to please herself. Truly, as our Saviour says, " It is more blessed to give than to receive." If you seek to please others, you will be sure to please yourself; for you cannot fail to enjoy the happiness which you impart to others. CHAPTER IV. BENEVOLENCE. N her death-bed, a pious widow in England called her daughter, and said to her, I " Here are twenty pounds : I wish you, after my death, to give this money to the mission- ary cause ; and, depend upon it, you will never have any reason to be sorry for having given Jt." This was when the missionary cause first began to attract attention in England, and when many people ridiculed it. But the daughter cheer- fully obeyed the dying command of her mother, though little expecting ever in any way to meet a return. But she had a son, who became exceedingly profligate, and brought heart-rending trouble upon his mother. He became utterly unmanageable, either by tenderness or authority, and at length forsook his friends, entered the army, and vanished 46 A BOUNTIFUL EETUBN. from their knowledge. The Providence of Gofl led him to India. There he fell in company with a Christian missionary, who dealt faithfully with him, and wae the means of his conversion to God. After a while, the young man himself became a missionary, and wrote to his mother, imploring her forgiveness, and informing her of the alteration that had taken place in him and in his employment. Here was her mother's gift returned into her bosom a hundred-fold. But the Lord repays bountifully those who lend to him. This woman had a second son, who was likewise a profligate, and had entered the army before this news reached her. He also was led to India. There he was taken sick ; and, being affectionately attended by the missionaries, he also was brought to repentance. His eldest brother, who was several hundred miles distant, and who did not know that he was in India, was providentially led to visit the station at this time. On hearing from the missionaries the interesting facts in the case, he visited the young man, and, to his great surprise and joy, discovered in the sick youth his own brother ! He remained with him till his death, which was peaceful and happy. This narrative shows that it is profitable to give to the Lord, and illustrates the proverb, " Cast thy bread upon the waters, and thou shalt find it after many days." THE BIRD IN TROUBLE. 47 A Lesson from the Birds. A gentleman observed, in a thicket of bushea near his dwelling, a collection of brown thrushes, who, for several days, attracted his attention by their loud cries and strange movements. At length, his curiosity was so much excited, that he determined to see if he could ascertain the cause of the excitement among them. On examining the bushes, he found a female thrush, whose wing was caught in a limb in such a way, that she could not escape. Near by was her nest, containing several half-grown birds. On retiring a little distance, a company of thrushes appeared, with worms and other insects in their mouths, which they gave first to the mother, and then to her young; she, the meanwhile, cheering them, on in their labor of love, with a song of grati- tude. After watching the interesting scene till his curiosity was satisfied, the gentleman released the poor bird, when she flew to her nest with a grateful song to her deliverer ; and her charitable neighbors dispersed to their several abodes, sing- ing, as they went, a song of joy. " Isn't that beautiful ? " exclaims a sweet little girl, whose happy face and joyous song, and golden ringlets waving in the air, remind one of 48 HOW TO BE LOVED. the merry songsters of the grove. Beautiful Indeed, it is. But I can tell you what is more beautiful still. It is that little girl who drops sweet words, kind remarks, and pleasant smiles, as she passes along who has a kind word of sympathy for every girl or boy she meets in trouble, and a kind hand to help her companions out of difficulty who never scowls, never con- tends, never teazes her mates, nor seeks in any other way to diminish, but always to increase, their happiness. Would it not please you to pick up a string of pearls, drops of gold, dia- monds, and precious stones, as you pass along the streets ? But these are the true pearls and precious stones, which can never be lost. Take the hand of the friendless. Smile on the sad and dejected. Sympathize with those in trouble. Strive everywhere to diffuse around you sunshine and joy. If you do this, you will be sure to be loved. Dr. Doddridge one day asked his little girl why it was that everybody loved her. " I know not," she replied, " unless it be that I love everybody." This is the true secret of being beloved. " He that hath friends," says Solomon, "must show himself friendly." Love begets love. If you love others, they cannot help loving you. So, then, do not put on a scowl, and fretfully com- , \ A KIND-HEARTED GIRL. 49 plain that nobody loves you, or that such or such a one does not like you. If nobody loves you, it is your own fault. Either you do not make yourself lovely by a sweet tamper arid kind, winning ways, or you do not love those of whom you complain. An Angel of Mercy. Mr. F. Grummet, an English gentleman, was passing, as a prisoner, through a small village near Rochfort, attended by a band of soldiers. His feet were much blistered, and extremely sore. He had covered them with fresh canvass ; but it was soon worn out, and he suffered dread- fully. About noon, they halted at the village to rest and refresh. He took his seat on an old tea chest, standing in front of a little shop, and re- moved his tattered moccasins. While he was doing this, an elderly lady came out of the shop, accompanied by a young girl, prettily dressed. When they saw him, they both exclaimed, " Poor prisoner!" The girl, with tears in her eyes, looked at his lacerated feet, and then, without saying a word, returned to the house. In a few minutes she re-appeared, with her finery taken off, and a large bowl of warm water in her hands. 5 50 A RARE PLEASURE. In a moment, the bowl was placed before him, and she motioned to him to put in his feet, which he did ; and then down she went on her knees, and washed them in the most tender manner. The mother brought him food ; while the daughter, having finished her task, wrapped up his feet in soft linen, and then fitted on a pair of her moth- er's shoes. While this was going on, a number of persons had collected round, and stood, silently witnessing this angelic act of charity. " Elalie" (for that was the girl's name) "heeded them not ; but, when her task was finished, a sweet emile of gratified pleasure beamed on her face." Surely, hers was a rare pleasure. There is no enjoyment greater than that which is experienced in relieving the distresses or administering to tbe enjoyment of others. 51 CHAPTER V. LEARNING TO WORK. OOR and helpless will that woman be, who does not learn, when a girl, to employ her hands in useful labor. She may have enough, but she will not know how to use it for the comfort of her family. She may be well educated, and able to converse interesting- ly. She may play well on the piano. And all this is well. But, if she does not understand work, her common, every-day duties cannot be well done ; and these are what, in all circumstances, contribute most to the comfort of every-day life. 1 New Music. An accomplished young lady stepped to the door, on the ringing of the bell, and was greeted by a young gentleman who had called to see her. 52 NEW MUSIC. On entering the parlor, he glanced at the harp and piano, and said, " I thought I heard music : on which instrument were you performing?" " On the gridiron" she replied, " with the ac- companiment of the frying-pan. My mother is without help, and she says that I must learn to finger these instruments sooner or later." Another young lady, the daughter of a New- England clergyman, was visiting a rich uncle, in a great city in a neighboring State ; and, being asked what instrument she played upon, replied, "When I am at home, I play on the cooking stove" These young ladies had the good sense not to be ashamed of useful labor. It is a fine thing to know how to finger the piano, and play on the harp ; but these accomplishments are a poor substitute for the ability to play on the cooking stove. Making Bread. Good bread is one of the necessaries of life. With it, one can make a meal, though every thing else on the table be inferior. Without it, no one can make a comfortable meal. But lo make good bread is a very great art, and one that every girl ought to learn in her mother's house. MAKING BREAD. 53 There was a young lady, who had been brought up in fashionable style, and was really quite ac- complished ; but, her parents being wealthy, she was under no necessity of laboring, and she was educated without any practical knowledge of household affairs. She was married ; and for some time things went on very well, for she hap- pened to have an excellent cook. But, after a while, her cook left her ; and, as good help was scarce, she took such a girl as she could get. The first thing Nancy was required to do was to make some bread. But she said she never had done such work before ; but, if Mrs. would tell her how, she could soon learn. And now the lady's eyes were open, the first time, to her mistake. She did not know how herself, and how could she teach Nancy ? After considering a moment, she replied, " Upon the whole, as there is so much more that is important to be done, we will put this matter off, and try baker's bread." After some days, as they were sitting at the table, the husband inquired, " Cannot Nancy make bread ? I am getting quite tired of baker's bread." " She shall make some," replied the wife ; " but this is nice baker's bread I don't know but it is better than any home-made bread I ever ate." "There is nothing," rejoined he, 5* 54 THE FIRST LOAF. " like good home-made bread, such as my mothet used to make." Nothing could be more mortifying to a young wife, than to find herself in such a situation. She was quite at a loss what to do. At first, she thought of confessing her ignorance ; but, as they had now been married some time, she thought it would not do. The bread must be made ; but how f that was the question. She concluded to begin with pearlash bread, because she thought it would be more easily managed than yeast; but she knew nothing about it, except that it must be made of flour, milk, salt, and pearlash. She concluded she would put in pearlash enough, so as to be sure and have it light. The prepara- tion was made, and it was put in the oven. Mrs. sat beside the stove, anxiously awaits ing its progress, to see it rise. It grew beauti- fully brown ; but, instead of rising up round and plump, it remained flat, flat, flat / Dinner came. Mr. walked in, with a friend or two to dine. They sat down to the table. The mackerel was well broiled ; the potatoes were well done ; every thing was well, but the bread the article that her husband consilered most important he took a slice ; it did not look like bread, it was thickly studded with little brown spots of undis- solved pearlash ; and then, how it tasted ! A SAD DILEMMA. 55 a strange mixture of salt and bitter. He looked surprised and mortified. As soon as they were alone, he said, " Had you not better attend to the bread-making yourself, and not leave that most important part of cooking to such miserable, inexperienced hands?" She went away and wept, with this pitiful lamentation, " What shall I do ? " There stood the piano ; and there was the handsome worsted work, over which she had spent so many days in her father's house. But of what use were all these fine things without bread ? She had just discovered that she could not be a good wife, and make her husband and family happy, without knowing how to make bread ; and this most important branch of educa- tion had been entirely neglected. She was in- deed in a dilemma. She, however, had good sense and resolution enough to surmount the difficulty. She resolved, from that moment, to study her domestic duties, and to know how to become a skilful, economical, thrifty housekeeper. But she had a long and wearisome trial, before she was able to set before her husband her sweet, light, and wholesome loaves. When she found herself in the sad dilemma that has been des- cribed, she would have given all her knowledge of music and embroidery to know how to make good bread. Yet do not understand me as 56. MISS COWIE. speaking lightly of those accomplishments. They are good in their place, and a great addition to a young lady's education ; but they cannot make up for the want of a knowledge of household affairs. And, if my gentle readers will Ksten to me, I would have them know that there is nothing to be done in managing the house I it what they ought to understand how to do, by having done it themselves, and done it repeat- edly, till they can do it well. In no other way will they be able to avoid such a disagreeable dilemma as that in which this lady found herself. Miss Rachel Cowie ; afterwards wife of Rev. Dr. Milne, missionary to China. The following brief memoir shows the impor- tance of a knowledge of some useful employ- ment, even to females in high life. It likewise exhibits a beautiful picture of filial piety, dili- gence, and prudence. Miss Cowie's father was a wealthy man, en- gaged in extensive business. He lived in Aber- deen, Scotland. But, in that country, the females of many families in the higher ranks of society, as well as those in middling circumstances, are instructed in some branch of business suited to MISS COWIE. 57 their strength. This is an excellent custom ; for, whatever may be our circumstances to-day, we know not what they will be to-morrow. Riches are no sure dependence, for they often " take to themselves wings." This is especially the case in this country, where reverses are so common. That your father is rich to-day is no evidence that he will be a few years hence. It is therefore necessary that you should be pre- pared to provide for yourself; and, to be so, you must not despise any employment that is useful and suitable for your sex. Rachel Cowie was early put to learn a branch of the millinery business ; which she industriously acquired, though she knew not that she should ever need it. But, after a while, her father's business began to decline, and at length he failed. He gave up to his creditors every thing but their wearing apparel and a few books. Both her parents were infirm, with no means of support in their old age. There was no one but herself on whom they could depend. When Rachel saw the decline of her father's business, she obtained his consent to set up her own. She had a small sum of money, and she borrowed a little more of a friend, to begin with. She began her busi- ness, praying that God would prosper it, and keep her from the new temptations to which shs 58 HIGH NOTIONS. should be exposed. She was successful. In a few months, she was able to pay what she had borrowed, and to furnish a house for herself. When her father's business completely failed, and her parents were thrown upon the world, destitute of the means of support, she was pre- pared to receive them into her own house. She supported them by her labors ; nursed them with the utmost tenderness in their illness ; attended them in their last sickness, and saw them die in the hope of glory. While they lived, she would listen to no proposals of marriage ; but after their death, she became the wife of Rev. Dr. Milne, and accompanied him on his mission to China, where she was a great solace and comfort to him, and a helper to him in his labors. Learn not to despise any useful employment ; but deem it honorable to be able to provide for yourself, and to help others. High Notions. A young gentleman became very much inte- rested in the daughter of a wealthy farmer, and thought of marrying her ; but, after a while, he discovered that she was wholly ignorant of do- mestic afiairs. He therefore sought an opportu- HIGH NOTIONS. 59 nity to introduce the subject of domestic econo- my, when she declared her opinion that it was grossly indelicate for a lady of fashionable edu- cation to be engaged in domestic concerns. Just then, her mother came in, with her arms full of wood for the fire. Her reflections just before, taken with this fact, would seem to imply that she regarded her mother as a vulgar sort of a woman. At any rate, it showed that she was unfeeling enough to set up for a fine lady, and let her mother do the drudgery of the house. The young man was so disgusted that he never visited her again. Some time afterwards she married a young merchant, who was doing a fair business, and carried her high notions into full operation. With extravagant furniture, nu- merous servants, and attendant expenses, her husband's affairs became embarrassed, and every thing was seized by his creditors. Poor Zelia had the mortification to return to her father's house, a victim to her conceits a useless and unhappv creature. 60 CHAPTER VI. HABITS. Heedlessness. [OSALINDA was pretty, gen- tle, and amiable. But she had one very bad habit. She was so heedless that she scarcely thought what she said or did. As her father and mother were going out to spend the evening, they charged the children to be good, to amuse themselves, but not to be rude or careless, so as to do any mischief. The children minded what they said. They stud- ied their lessons, made no noise, and did not quarrel. Every thing was in order, and they would have passed the evening very happily, but for Rosalinda's heed- lessness. She wanted something that was in the closet in her father's library, and she took a candle to find it. Here she committed two faults. She ought not to have gone to her father's library A FIRE. 61 in his absence. But, if she went, she should not have taken a light to a closet, or among her father's papers. But this was not her only fault. After she had got what she wanted, she heedless* ly left the candle burning on her father's itble, where there was a large heap of papers. In about a quarter of an hour, Rosalinda smelt something burning, and, recollecting that she had left a light burning in the study, immediately ran to get it. She had carelessly set the candle on a bundle of papers. It had fallen over, and set the papers on fire ; and, as she opened the door, she found herself completely enveloped in smoke. She was affrighted, and cried out aloud. Her brothers and sisters and the servant ran to the spot ; but none of them had the presence of mind to pour some water on the fire, which they might easily have done, and put it out, if they had shut the door, so as not to give it air, till they had brought the water ; for as yet there was nothing on fire but the papers and the table. But they were so frightened that they could do nothing but cry out, " The house is on fire ! dear ! O dear ! What shall we do ! What shall we do ! " While they were thus lamenting, the fire, having burst into a flame on the opening of the door, had spread to the curtains and the drawers, and soon the whole room was on fire. The neighbors saw 6 62 THREE GOOD RULES. it, and ran crying " Fire ! " and ringing the bells. The tumult was now dreadful. On all sides, people were crying out, " Fire ! fire ! water ! water ! " " Here is the fire," said the neighbors : " we must knock at this house." So they broke open the windows, and began to play the engines upon the fire. After two hours, it was put out ; but there remained nothing of the house or its contents but a heap of ruins. The children were all saved ; but Rosalinda, in the confusion, was severely hurt. The father and mother now ar- rived ; but what was their consternation to find their house reduced to ashes, and themselves to poverty ! However, they were thankful that their children were all alive. All this came, in the first place, by Rosalinda's heedless habits. But, after the fire was discovered, the house might have been saved by a little thought. Learn from this story, 1. To avoid heedless, careless habits. 2. Never carry a light about the house. It is dangerous for children to carry a light, especially among papers or clothing. 3. If you open the door of a room, and find that a fire has caught, shut the door instantly, and run for some water. Fire cannot spread rapidly without air ; and by shutting the door, you may keep it in check, till it can be put out. A large NEATNESS. 63 family were once thrown into consternation, on opening the door of a room where there was a fire, and the flames bursting out. The men were so frightened that they could do nothing. But two of the daughters shut the door, and seizing each a pail, ran for water, and dashing it into the room, shut the door again and ran for more, till in a few minutes they put the fire out, and saved the house. Be Neat. Neatness must be cultivated in early life. It is hard to overcome any disorderly or dirty habit, whfch has become confirmed in childhood and youth. But, if such habits are indulged at this period of life, they will afterwards occasion severe mortification. Fanny Freeman, for some years, dressed in black ; and she fell into the dirty habit of wiping the point of her pen on her black dress. This habit became so confirmed that she did not mind when she did it. One afternoon, she dress- ed herself in white, to go some distance on a visit ; but, having first to write a letter, she carelessly wiped her pen as usual on her dress. When the carriage drove to the door, and she was about to set her foot on the step, her attention was called to her dress ; and, on looking down, she saw long 64 A CARELESS GIRL. blots of ink crossing each other in all directions a perfect fright. She blushed to the very ears for shame and mortification, and was obliged to go back to her room, and put, on a black dress. Carelessness. "Oh, dear!" said Jane, as she came home from Sabbath School, '"I cannot please my teacher at all. I learn my lessons well, but she is never pleased with me." Jane thought the fields looked so pleasant, she would go across them to school, and enjoy the walk among grass and the flowers ; but, in doing so, she tore her tippet, bent her bonnet, slit her frock, and stained the bottom all round with the wet grass and dirt. When she came in, her" teacher exclaimed, " O Jane ! how untidy you come to school ! I am quite ashamed of you." When she took her ctlechism, it was all ove? finger prints and grease-spots ; for she had used it after breakfast, without washing her hands. " Oh ! what a careless girl ! " said her teacher. " What a dirty book ! You have had it but a fortnight, and it is not fit to touch." Then, when she came to recite her hymns, the book was handed to her A CARELESS GIRL. 65 teacher all over dirt. She had dropped it in the rad, and another girl had stepped on it. " How did this happen ? " inquired her teacher. " An- other dirty trick, I fear." Another book was torn, one leaf quite out, and another pinned in, wrong end upwards. When her teacher saw this, she told her she was one of the most care- less girls she ever saw. And, when she came to give little books to her scholars, she told Jane it was no use to give one to her ; for she was so careless, it would soon be lost or torn to pieces. No wonder her teacher could not be pleased with her. No other good traits will make up for this bad habit. A careless girl will try the patience of her father and mother and teacher, and every one else that she has any thing to do with, and her own too. And it is a habit for which there is no excuse. It is easier to be tidy than care- less. " But how is that ? " you say. " I find it very difficult to be tidy; and mother chides me every day for my carelessness." Ijnean, it is easier, all things considered ; or^^khey say, " in the long run" You make y^BPn a great deal of unnecessary work by your careless habits. I dare say, if you are a careless girl, fourteen years old, you have spent more than a month hunting for your scissors. If you doutt this, use a little arithmetic, and see if I am not right. <** 66 AN TJNTIDT GIRL. Do you not spend, on an average, a quarter of an hour every day, hunting for your scissors ? In six years, that would be twenty-four days. And, suppose you have done the same with respect to three other articles, you have lost an hour a day, just in hunting for your things ; and this, in six years, would be four months. All this time might be saved, if you would be care- ful, when you use any thing, to put it in its place again. But this is not all that is lost by care- lessness. Yoa destroy your books, tear your clothes, injure furniture, lose your own patience, and your mother's approbation. When you take all these things into consideration, I think you will agree with me, that it is cheaper and easier to be tidy and careful, than it is to be careless and untidy. Another Example. One fin^^pring morning, Laura Selby told her moth^HKt she had mastered her music lesson, anc^pP nothing to do just then ; " and now," said she, " pray, be so kind as to lay aside your work, and walk with me." Just then, their attention was attracted by the sound of the piano. " Whal is that sound I hear, my love ? " AN UNTIDY GIRL. 67 *' I dare say it is little George, amusing him- self with my piano. I forgot to shut it, when I had finished my lesson." " I am sorry for that, my daughter, especially as you have so frequently been told to take care of your music. Go, without delay, and close it." Laura, quite ashamed at her carelessness, as ter piano had just been put in tune, ran to obey her mother, and returned, renewing her request for a walk. Her mother told her that she wa>s going out, and would take her with her, if she could make herself ready without delay. Laura was de- lighted, and ran quickly to tie on her bonnet and s"hawl. She was gone longer than seemed neces- sary. Her mother was obliged to call twice, before she made her appearance, and was about proceeding without her, when she ran hastily through the hall. " My love," said Mrs. Selby, " this is not doing as you ought." " Mother," said Laura, blushing, " I could not find my shawl for a good while ; and then I hunted some time for my pin." " But where did you put your shawl, that it could not be. found?," " I left it on a chair in the hall, where I sat down a moment, when I came in yesterday^ anEETINGS were held by a pastor in different parts of his parish, at which he was in the habit of speaking directly to every one who attended, about ' their souls' concerns. At one of these meetings, several young ladies, in order to avoid being conversed with, rose and left the house. After that, there were eight revivals in the place, some of them very extensive and powerful; but these young women passed through them unaffected. And they all died as they lived, unawakened and careless. A young lady had been for some time serious, and seemed to be " not far from the king- dom of heaven." At this time, some of her gay companions called on her to accompany them to a ball. At first she refused to go. Every thing in the house of mirth was contrary to her present feelings. But they urged her, ridiculed her u Methodism," railed at ministers and Christians, and so wrought upon her, that she exclaimed, " Wett, I wiU go, if lam damned for it" 12 134 STIFLING SERIOUSNESS. She went ; but the blessed Spirit immediately withdrew his influences. She seemed to be sen- sible of it ; for she no longer felt sorrow for sin, "but a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation." She fell into the horrors of despair, and pined away and died. The min- ister was sent for, but she would not consent that he should pray with her. He tried to direct her to the blood of Christ, but no ray of comfort entered her mind, and she went out of the world with despair depicted in her ghastly countenance. This comes from stifling serious impressions. The Choice A Contrast. On a pleasant evening, two young ladies were walking together, in a certain town in New-Eng- land. One said to the other, " I understand there is some prospect of a Revival of Religion in this town ; and if there is, I hope I shall be a subject of it." The other replied, "Well, I hope I shall not, for I have not enjoyed enough of the world to attend to religion yet." This discovered their different states of mind. The first one showed a sense of her need, and a willingness to give up all for Christ ; but she was wrong in supposing that she must wait for a Revival before she could be converted to God ; for Christ is ever ready to A CONTRAST. 135 receive all who come to him. But the other showed that she preferred the pleasures of this world, to the favor and service of God. In her heart she said unto God, " Depart from me, for I desire not the knowledge of thy ways." The one first mentioned attended the prayer- meetings, became deeply concerned for her soul, and after two or three weeks, she found peace in believing in Jesus. About the same time, the other young lady awoke in the night and called her mother, saying she was very unwell. Her brother ran across the street for a physician ; but when he came she was a corpse ! This shows the folly and the danger of putting off attention to religion, and preferring present pleasure to everlasting bliss. 136 SECTION IV. CONSCIENCE. ONSCIENCE is the faculty which distinguishes between right and wrong, and approves or condemns us, according as we do one or the other. It is a generous friend, but a terri- ble enemy ; and, if we would keep its friendship, we must be careful to do nothing to offend it. The following story not only illustrates the power of conscience to accuse and condemn, but like- wise shows the importance of being strictly honest in little things. Girls, who rob their mothers' closets of cakes and sweetmeats, and boarding-school misses, who peculate upon the larder or the baker's basket, may see to what they are expos- ing themselves. These are dangerous practices. When habitually indulged, they blunt the con- science in regard to the rights of others, and sometimes produce the confirmed habit of thiev- ing. This woman suffered more than tongue can CONSCIENCE. 137 tell, from having indulged this thievish habit at boarding school. In the year 1835, a lady about thirty-eight years of age, elegantly dressed, entered the shop of a pastry-cook in the neighborhood of London, in great mental excitement, and inquired if Mr. was still alive, as she wished to see him. The man was engaged, and sent his daughter, to whom she stated, that more than twenty years before, she was at a boarding school, which Mr. supplied with pastry ; and that while there, she was in the habit of taking little articles from his tray, unknown to the person who brought it. She had now been married some years, and was the mother of six children, having every" comfort which this world could afford ; but the remem- brance of these petty thefts so haunted her conscience that she was never happy. Her hus- band, perceiving that she was unhappy, inquired the cause ; and finding it continued to prey upon her spirits, he advised her to see if the pastry cook was alive, and to make him or his family a recompense ; and as she was about to leave Lon- don that day, she had come for that purpose. After begging his forgiveness, she insisted on his accepting a sum of money, which she believed to be about the value of the articles stolen. 12* 138 SECTION V. PRATER. PRAYING IN SECRET. ITTLE Mary W. was asked, "Which do you love best, to pray in the family or in se- cret ? " Her reply was, " I love to pray with others ; but I can say to God when I am alone, what I cannot say when I am with others." A little girl in the country was frequently sent to a spring, some distance from the house, for water. Her father noticed that she some- times stayed longer than was necessary, and one day followed her without being noticed. "When she got to the spring, she set down her pitcher and kneeled down to pray. When she arose, he came forward and said, " Well, my dear, was the water sweet ? " . " Yes, father," she replied, " and if you were but to taste cne drop of the water I have been tast- ing, you would never drink the water of this world any more." PRAYER. 139 Pray without ceasing. At a ministers' meeting, the question was pro- posed, " How can the command ' pray without ceasing ' be complied with ?" After some discus- sion, one was appointed, to write upon it for the next monthly meeting. A female servant, over- hearing the conversation,, exclaimed, " What ! a whole month wanted to explain the meaning of that text ! It is one of the easiest and best texts in the Bible." " Well, well," said an aged min- ister, " Mary, what can you say about it ? Let us know how you understand it. Can you pray all the time ? " " O yes, sir," she answered. " What, when you have so many things to do?" " Why, sir, the more I have to do, the more I can pray." "Indeed; well, Mary, do let us know hrw it is; for most people think otherwise." ' Well, sir," said the girl, " When I first open my iyes in the morning, I pray, ' Lord, open the eyes of my understanding ; ' and while I am dressing, I pray that I may be clothed with the robe of righteousness ; and when I have washed myself, I ask for the washing of regeneration ; and as I begin to work, I pray that I may have strength equal to my day. When I begin to kindle the 6re, I pray that God's work may revive in my 140 PRAY WITHOUT CEASING. soul ; and as I sweep the house, I pray tLat my heart may be cleansed from all its impurities. "While preparing and partaking of breakfast, I desire to be fed with the hidden manna, and the sincere milk of the word ; and as I am busy with the little children, I look up to God as my Father, and pray for the Spirit of adoption, that I may be his child. And so on, all day, every thing I do furnishes me with a thought for prayer." " Enough, enough," cried the aged minister ; " these things are revealed to babes, though often hid from the wise and prudent. Go on Mary, pray without ceasing ; and as for us my' brethren, let us thank God for this exposition, and remem- ber that He has said, ' The meek will he guide in judgment.' " It is not to be supposed that these ministers were ignorant of the meaning of this text ; but it must have been gratifying to them to see how Christian experience will exemplify it, so as to render any explanation unnecessary If our readers will follow the example of this servant-girl, they will learn how to "be in the fear of God all the day long." 141 SECTION VI. DEATH-BED SCENES. THE UNPREPARED. (ARIA was an amiable youth, in blooming health. She at- tended to the concerns of this life, was modest and gentle, and correct in her outward de- portment. She attended pub- lic worship regularly, and list- ened attentively to"the word God; but she put off attending the things which she heard, think- ing, because she was young, and in vigorous health, there was time enough yet. She forgot that God claims the heart in life, and not merely in death. One evening, she was cheer- ful and happy as usual, promising her- aelf months and years of worldly enjoyment. But in an hour she was taken to her bed, from which she was carried to the grave. Disease had taken hold of her vigorous frame with relentless grasp. The physician was called, and all the tender offices of anxious friends were afforded. 142 THE UNPREPARED. One fainting fit followed another, in rapid succes- sion ; daring the intervals of which, she would exclaim, " for life! for life! life! life! for a little life to prepare to die ! " In this situation, she lingered a few days, and died. Reader, while you have life, devote it to God, and then you will want no time to prepare to die. Peace in Death. Ruth Maria Robbins died in Quincy, Illinois, Aug. 22, 1830, aged ten years. Her mother was a pious woman, who trained up her children in the " nurture and admonition of the Lord." Maria was the subject of many prayers, and received much good instruction when she was very young. At the age of three years she was sent to the Sabbath School. She very soon became much attached to the teachers, was punctual at school, and never failed to have her lesson well learned. About a year before she died, her parents remov- ed to Quincy. At that time, there was no Church and no Sabbath School in Quincy, for it was a new place. Maria felt these privations and often spoke with regret of the change in her situation. Maria's last sickness was very distressing, but she bore it with much patience and resignation ; for, while in health, she had put her trust in PEACE IN DEATH. 143 Christ, and was prepared to endure whatever her heavenly Father saw fit to send upon her. Her physician said he had never before seen so much fortitude and patience in one so young. When asked if she did not wish to recover, she replied, " If I should, I must die some time. I trust I am now prepared to go. Then why should I wish to live any longer ? I desire to go to God, in whose presence there is fulness of joy, and at whose right hand there are pleasures forever - more. There I shall be free from sin and pah,, and dwell for ever with my Saviour." She thei said to her mother and little sisters, " I have pm my whole trust in Christ, and now he supports me. You must all do likewise, and in the trying hour, he will also be your supporter." A few days before her death, she was told that a Church was about to be formed in Quincy. She said, " I should be happy to join it," and then inquired, " Are there not some in all the Churches who are hypocrites." Her mother replied, " No, in the Church of the first-born, the society of heaven, they are all holy, harmless, undefiled." " True," said she, " and I shall soon be a member of that society." Then with rapture she exclaimed, " Farewell, world, I am going home." In this frame of mind, she " fell asleep." This little girl did not begin to be religious 144 CONCLUSION. after she was taken sick ; but in her health, she put her trust in the*Saviour, and took the Lord for her portion ; and the Lord fulfilled toward her these precious promises of his holy word : " Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee." " When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee ; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee." It is my desire, in taking leave of my readers, that they also may put their trust in the blessed Saviour, and thus be prepared, like Maria, to meet trials with patience and resignation, and to face death with calmness and composure, in pros- pect of a glorious immortality. I desire, also, to meet them in that blest abode ; and then it will increase my joy to know that my book has been a benefit to their souls. Sweet peace smile on thee, gentle reader; faith point thee to that world of light ; bright hope cheer thee on thy way ; and the glorious " Ark of Safety " bear thee over the " deep waters," to the haven of eternal rest. Adieu ! END. OCSB LIBRARY