University of California. (ri>:'T f)y FORMATION CHRISTIAN CHARACTER Digitized by the Internet Archivt in 2007 with funding from IVIicrosoft Corporation http://www.archive.org/details/formationofchri600warer, FORMATION CHRISTIAN CHARACTER, ADDRESSED TO THOSE WHO ARE SEEKING TO LEAD A RELIGIOUS LIFE I PEOGEESS OF THE CHEISTIAN LIFE; A SEQUEL TO THE "FORMATION OP THE CHRISTIAN CHARACTER." By HENEY ware, Jr. newTedition. f BOSTON: AMERICAN UNITARIAN ASSOCIATION. 1867. Entered according to Act of Congress, m the year 1856, By James Munroe and Company, in the Clerk's Office of the liistrict Court of MassachusetU PREFACE. In presenting to the religious public this L Je book, the writer has only to say, that he undertook it because he thought that a work of this character was needed and would be welcome. During his active ministry, he had often felt the want of a book on personal re- ligion, different, in some respects, from any which had fallen in his way ; and when com- pelled by ill health to relinquish his pastoral caresj he attempted to beguile some of the languid hours of a weary convalescence by efforts at composing such an one. The re- sult has come very far short of the idea which he had formed in his mind. The book was written at distant and uncertain intervals, upon b VI PREFACE. journeys and in pubKc houses, and has been now revised for the press in the midst of other cares, which have allowed no time for giving it the completeness he desired. Yet, as it belongs to a class of writings of whose importance he has the highest sense, and the multiplication of which, as well as the in- crease of a taste for their perusal, he esteems in the highest measure desirable, — ^he ven- tures to hope that this slight effort will not be wholly lost ; and that it may at least do some- thing towards exciting others to a preparation of more efficient works, which shall nourish the spirit of devotion, and extend the power of practical faith. Cambridge, May 16. 1831. CONTENTS. IlfTRODUCTION^ 1 CHAPTER I. The JVature of Religion, and what we are to seek. — Religion described — exemplified in the character of Christ — an arduous attainment — caution against low views .... 6 CHAPTER II. Our Power to obtain that which we seek. — The capacity for religion in human nature — educa- tion — the natural and the spiritual life — man's ability to do the will of God — false humility — salvation by grace . . . . . IS CHAPTER III. The State of Mind in which the Inquirer should sustain himself. — Sense of unworthiness — anxi- ety of mind — rules to be observed respecting retirement, conversation, public meetings . 34 CHAPTER IV. The Means of Religious Improvement . . 47 I. Reading. — Duty of seeking religious knowl- ^ edge — its advantages — time to be given to it — the Bible — to be read for instruction in truth — for self- application — selection of other books . . . , . . .47 Vlll CONTENTS. II. Meditation. — Its object — habitual thoughtful ness — seasons of meditation — enjoyment to be expected in them — caution — three purposes to be answered 68 III. Prayer. — Its necessity and value — impor- tance of set times — method to be observed — subjects — posture — language — frequency and brevity— ejaculatory prayer — faith, fervor, per- severance—answers to prayer — topics — in the name of Christ — caution — spirit of devotion 82 IV. Preaching. — A divine institution — necessity of preparation for hearing — a critical disposition — reflection on what has been heard — on keep- ing a record of sermons — weakness of memory — a taste for preaching to be pt-eserved . . 119 V. The Lord's Supper, — Its object two-fold, pro- fession of faith, and means of improvement — who to partake, and when — an affecting and comprehensive rite — an opportunity for silent worship — conclusion . . . 136 CHAPTER V. The Religious Discipline of Life. — The means of religion not to be mistaken for the end — watchfulness, daily duties and trials — discipline of the thoughts, dispositions, passions, appetites — conversation — ordinary deportment — guard to be kept over the principles — and over the habits .149 FORMATION CHRISTIAN CHARACTER. INTRODUCTION. I AM anxious to bespeak the reader's right attention before he enters on the following pages. They have been written only for those who are sincerely desirous of knowing themselves, and are bent upon forming a re- igious character. They can be of little nterest or value to any other person, or if read with any other view than that of self- improvement. I venture therefore to entreat every one, into whose hands the book may fall, to peruse it, as it has been written, not for entertainment, but for moral edification ; to read it at those seasons when he is seri- ously disposed, and can reflect upon the 1 58 INTRODUCTION. important topics presented to his view. I am solicitous to aid him in the formation of his Christian character, and about every other result I am indifferent. I would even presume, further, to warn one class of readers, and that not a small one, against a danger which lurks even in their established respect for religion. That general regard for it, which grows out of the circumstances of education and the habits of society, may be rr'staken for a religious state of mind ; yet it is perfectly consistent with religious indifference. A man may sincerely honor, advocate, and uphold the religion of Christ on account of its general influence, its beneficial public tendency, its humane and civilizing consequences, without at all subjecting his own temper and life to its laws, or being in any proper sense a sub- ject of the peculiar happiness it imparts. This is perhaps not an infrequent case. Men need to be made sensible that religion is a personal thing, a matter of personal application and experience. Unless it is so considered, it will scarcely be ai> object of earnest pursuit, or of fervent, hearty interest. INTRODUCTION. 3 nor can it exert its true and thorough in- fluence on the character. Indeed, its desi- rable influence upon the state of society can be gained only through this deep personal devotion to it of individuals; because none but this is genuine religion, and the genuine only can exhibit the genuine power. I know of nothing to be more earnestly desired, than that men should cease to look upon religion as designed for others, and should come to regard it as primarily affect- ing themselves; that they should first and most seriously study its relation to their own hearts, and be above all things anxious about their own characters. His is but a partial and unsatisfactory faith, which is concerned wholly with the state of society in general, and allows him to neglect the discipline of his own affections and the culture of his own spiritual nature. He is but poorly fitted to honor or promote the cause of Christ, who has not first subjected his own soul to his holy government. There are men enough, when Christianity is prevalent and honorable, to lend it their countenance and pay it external homage. We want more thorough, consistent 4 INTRODUCTION. exemplifications of its purity, benevolence, and spirituality. These can be found only in men, who love it for its own sake, and because it is * the wisdom of God and the power of God unto salvation,' and not simply because it is respectable in the eyes of the world, and favorable to the decency and order of the com- monwealth. It is for those who are seeking this end, and for such only, that I write. V'^^'.i CHAPTER 1. THE NATURE OF RELIGION, AND WHAT WE ARE TO SEEK. In order to the intelligent and successful pursuit of any object, it is necessary, first of all, to have a definite conception of what we desire to effect or obtain. This is especially important in the study of Religion, both because of the extent and variety of the sub- ject itself, and because of the very different apprehensions of men respecting it. Many are disheartened and fail, in consequence of setting out with wrong views and false ex- pectations. From which cause religion itself suffers ; being made answerable for failures, which are entirely owing to the unreasonable anticipations and ill-directed efforts of those who enlisted in her service, but did not per- severe in it. Let us begin, then, with considering what is the object at which we aim when we seek a religious character. 1* O THE NATURE OF RELIGION. Religion, in a general sense, is founded on man's relation and accountableness to his Maker : and it consists in cherishing the sentiments and performing the duties which thence result, and which belong to the other relations to other beings which God has ap- pointed him to sustain. Concerning these relations, sentiments, and duties, we are instructed in the Scriptures, especially in the New Testament. Religion, with us, is the Christian religion. It is found in the teachings and example of Jesus Christ It consists in the worship, the sentiments, and the character, which he enjoined, and which he illustrated m his own person. What you are to seek, therefore, is, under the guidance of Jesus Christ, to feel your relation to God, and to live under a sense of responsibility to him ; to cultivate assiduously those sentiments and affections which spring out of this responsible and filial relation, as well as those which arise out of your connex- ion with other men as his offspring; to per- form all the duties to Him and them, which appertain to this character and relation ; and to cherish that heavenward tendency of mind. THE NATURE OF RELIGION. 7 which should spring from a consciousness of possessing an immortal nature. He who does all this is a religious man, or, in oth<^.* words, a Christian. You desire to be a Christian. To this are requisite three things : belief in the truths which the gospel reveals; possession of the state of mind which it enjoins ; and perform- ance of the duties which it requires: or, I may ^ay, the subjection of the mind by faith, the subjection of the heart by love, the sub- jection of the will by obedience. This uni- versal submission of yourself to God is what you are to aim at. This is Religion. Observe how extensive a thing it is. It is a principle of the mind ; founded upon thought, reflection, inquiry, argument ; and leading to devotion and duty as most reasonable and suitable for intelligent beings. It is a sentiment or affection of the heart ; not the cold judgment of the intellect alone, in favor of what is right; but a warm, glowing feeling of preference and desire ; a feeling, which attaches itself in love to the Father of all and to all good beings ; which turns duty into inclination, and pursues virtue from im- 8 THE NATURE OF RELIGION. pulse; which prefers and delights in that which is well pleasing to God, and takes an afFectio:_ate interest in the things to which the Saviour devoted himself. It is a rule of life ; it is the law of God ; causing the external conduct to correspond to the principle which is established, and the sentiment which breathes, within ; bringing every action into a conformity with the divine will, and making universal holiness the stan- dard of the character. The Scriptures represent religion under each of these different views. As a principle^ it is called Faith ; and in this view is Faith extolled as the essential thing for life and sakation. We are to ' walk by faith.' We are ' saved by faith.' — As a sentiment, it is styled Love. Love to God and man is de- clared by the Saviour to be the substance of religion ; and the Apostles, especially John and Paul, every where represent this universal affection as the essence and the beauty of the Christian character. No one can read their language, and compare with it the life of Christ, without perceiving how essentially true reliojion is a sentiment of the heart. — As a THE NATURE OF RELIGION. l» law or rule, it is spoken of throughout the Scriptures. It is a commandment of God, requiring obedience. We are Uo do his will.' Christ is the ' author of salvation to those that obey him.' * If thou wilt enter into life, keep the commandments.' * He who keepeth my commandments, he it is that loveth me.' In the general complexion of Scripture, and in many particular passages, these several views are united : thus we are told, that ' the fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suf- fering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance ;' that the blessing of God belongs to the humble, penitent, meek, pure in heart, merciful, and peaceful ; that the Christian character consists in * whatsoever is true, honest, just, pure, lovely, and of good report :' in adding to ' faith, virtue, knowledge, tem- perance, patience, godliness, brotherly kind- ness, and charity ;' and * in denying ungodli- ness and wordly lusts, and living soberly, righteously, and godly.'* Yoii see, then, what is the character of the * Gal. v. 22, 23.— Matthew, v. 3-9.— Philip, iv. 8. -2 Peter, i. 6, 7 —Titus, ii. 12. 10 THE NATURE OF RELIGION. religion which you are seeking. You per- ceive that it implies the absolute supremacy of the soul and its interests over all the ob- jects and interests of the present state ; and that its primary characteristic is a certain state of mind and affections. It is not the external conduct, not the observance of the moral law alone, which constitutes a religious man ; but the principles from which he acts, the motives by which he is governed, the state of his heart. A principle of spiritual life per- vades his intellectual nature, gives a complexion to his whole temper, and is the spring of that moral worth, which is in other men the result of education, circumstances, or interest. He is actuated by a prevailing sense of God, and the desire of a growing resemblance to his moral image. He is possessed with the perpetual consciousness of his immortality ; and is not ashamed to deny himself any of the gratifications of the present hour, when there- by he may keep his mind more disengaged for the study of truth and the contemplation t)f his highest good. Living thus with his chief sources of happiness within hnn, he bears with equanimity the changes and trials of earth, THE NATURE OF RELIGION. 11 and tastes something of the peculiar felicity of heaven, which is * righteousness, and peace, and joy in a holy spirit ;' and, like his master, who sojourned below, but whose affections were above, he does his Father's will as he passes through the world, but has treasured up his supreme good in his Father's future presence. But if you would discern the full excellence and loveliness of the religious life, do not rest satisfied with studying the law, or musing over the descriptions of it. Go to the perfect pattern, which has been set before the be- liever for his guidance and encouragement. Look unto Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith. In him are exhibited all the vir- tues which you are to practise, all the affec- tions and graces which you are to cultivate. In him is that rich assemblage of beautiful and attractive excellences, which has been the admiration of all reflecting men, the astonishment and eulogy of eloquent unbe- .^evers, and the guide, consolation, and trust, of faithful disciples. In the dignity and sweetness which characterize him, how strongly do we feel that there is much more 12 THE NATURE OF RELIGION. than a display of external qualities, conform- ity to a prescribed rule, and graceful propriety of outward demeanor. Nothing is more striking than the evident connexion of every thing which he said and did with something internal. The sentiment and disposition which reign within, are constantly visible through his exterior deportment; and we re- gard his words and his deeds less as distinct outward things, than as expressions or repre- sentations of character. As, in looking on certain countenances, we have no thought of color, feature, or form, but simply of the moral or intellectual qualities which they suggest ; so, in contemplating the life of Jesus, we find ourselves perpetually looking beyond his mere actions, and fixing our thoughts on the qualities which they indicate. His life is but the expressive countenance of his soul. We feel, that, though in the midst of present things, he is led by principles, wrapt in thoughts, pervaded by sentiments, which are above earth, unearthly; that he is walking in communion with another sphere ; ffiid that the objects around him are matters of interest to him, no further than as the) THE NATURE OF RELIGION. 13 afford materials for the exercise of his benevo- lence, and opportunities for doing his Fa ther's will. This_js_Jhe personification of religion. This is the model which you are to imitate. And it is when you shall be imbued with this spirit, when you shall be filled with this sentiment, when your words, actions, and life, shall be only the spontaneous ex- pression of this state of mind, — it is then that you will have attained the religious character, and become spiritually the child of God. You will have built up the king- dom of God within you ; its purity, its de- votion, and its peace, will be shed abroad in your heart, and thence will display them- selves in the manners and conduct of your life. To attain and perfect this character is to be the object of your desire, and the busi- ness of your life. You must never lose sight of it. In all that you learn, think, feel, and do, you are to have reference to this end. Whatever tends to promote this, you are to cherish and favor. Whatever hinders this, or in any degree operates injuriously upon it, you are to discountenance and shun. All 2 14 THE NATURE OF REIJGTON. that gives bias to your passions and appe- tites, to your inclinations and thoughts, to your opinion of yourself, to your conduct toward others, your private or public employ- ment of your time, your business and gains, your recreation and pleasures, is to be judged of by this standard, and condemned or ap- proved accordingly. You are to feel that nothing is of such consequence to you as the Christian character ; that to form this is the very work for which you were sent into the world ; that if this be not done, you do noth- ing, — you had better never have been born ; for your life is wasted without effecting its object, and your soul enters eternity without having secured its salvation. The provisions of God's mercy are slighted, and, for you, the Saviour has lived and died in vain. It is plain, then, that the work to which you address yourself is arduous as well as delight- ful. It is not to be done in a short time, nor by a few indolent or violent efforts ; not by an exercise of speculative reason, nor by an ex- citement of feeling, nor by assent to profes- sions, forms, and rites ; not by a love of hear- ing the word preached, nor by attention THE NATURE OF RELIGION. 15 to the morals of ordinary life, nor by stead- fastness in the virtues which are easy and pleasant ; — but only by a surrender of the whole man and the entire life to the will of God, in faith, affection, and action ; by a thorough imitation of Jesus in the devout and humble temper of his mind, in the spiritu- ality of his affections, and in the purity and loveliness of his conduct. Any thing less than this, any partial, external, superficial con- formity to a rule of decent living or ritual observance, must be wholly insufficient. For it cannot mould and rule the character, can- not answer the claims of the Creator upon his creatures, cannot prepare for the happi ness which Jesus has revealed ; a happiness so described, and so constituted, that none can be fitted for it, or be capable of enjoying it, but those who are earnestly and entirely conformed to the divine will. Who can relish the spirit- ual pleasures of eternity, that has not become spiritually minded ? Who could enjoy admis- sion to the society of Jesus and the spirits of the just made perfect, that is not like them ** Why should one hope for heaven, and how expect to be happy there, if he have not 16 THE NATURE OF RELIGION. formed a taste for its habits of purity, worship, and love? Be on your guard, therefore, from the first, against setting your mark too low. Do not allow yourself to be persuaded that any thing less is Religion, or will answer for you, than its complete and highest measure. Re- member that these things must be * in you and abound.' The higher you aim, the higher you will reach; but if content with a low aim, you will forever fall short. The scriptural word is Perfection, Strive after that. Never be satisfied while short of it, and then you will be always improving. But if you set yourself some definite measure of goodness, if you prescribe to yourself some limit in devotion and love, you will by and by fancy you have reached it, and thus will remain stationary in a condition far below what you might have attained. Remember always, that you are capable of being more devout, more charitable, more humble, more devoted and earnest in doing good, better acquainted with religious truth ; and that, as it is impos- sible there should be any period to the prog- ress of the human soul, so it is impossible THE NATURE OF RELIGION. 17 that the endeavor of the soul should be too exalted. It is because men do not think of this, or do not practically apply it, that so many, even of those vi^ho intend to govern themselves by religious motives, remain so lamentably deficient in excellence. They adopt a low or a partial standard, and strive after it sluggishly, and thus come to a perioa in religion before they arrive at the close of life. Happy they who are so filled with long- ings after spiritual good, that they go on im- proving to the end of their days. 18 OUR POWER TO OBTAIN CHAPTER II. OUR POWER TO OBTAIN THAT WHICH WE SEEK. The account which has been given of reli- gion in the preceding chapter, shows it to be consonant to man's nature, and suited to the faculties with which God has endowed him. His soul is formed for religion, and the gospel has been adapted to the constitution of his soul. His understanding takes cognizance of its truths, his conscience applies them, his affections are capable of becoming interested in them, and his. will of being subject to them. There can be no moment of existence, after he has come to the exercise of his rational faculties, at which this is not the case. As soon as he can love and obey his parents, he can love and obey God ; and this is religion. The capacity of doing the one is the capacity of doing the other. It is true, the latter is not so universally done as the former ; but the cause is not, that THAT WHICH WE SEEK. 19 religion is unsuited to the young, but that their attention is engrossed by visible objects and present pleasures. Occupied with these, it requires effort and pains-taking to direct the mind to invisible things ; to turn the attention from the objects which press them on every side, to the abstract, spiritual objects of faith. Hence it is easy to see, that the want of early religion is owing, primarily, to the circumstances in which childhood is placed, and, next, to remissness in education Worldly things are before the child's eye^ and minister to its gratification every hour and every minute ; biit religious things are presented to it only in a formal and dry way once a week. The things of the world are made to constitute its pleasures, those of religion are made its tasks. It is made to feel its dependence on a parent's love every hour ; but is seldom reminded of its depend- ence on God, and then perhaps only in some stated lesson, which it learns by compulsion, and not m the midst of the actual engage- ments and pleasures of its little life. It partakes of the caresses of its human parents, and cannot remember the time when it 20 OUR POWER TO OBTAIM was not an object of tlieir tenderness ; so that their image is interwoven wi