UC-NRLF Digitized by the Internet Archive in 2007 with funding from IVIicrosoft Corporation http://www.archive.org/details/annconnoverOOamerrich Mrs, Coanorer on her deatb-bed 9^" ANN CONNOVER. WRITTEN FOR THE AMERICAN SUNDAY-SCHOOL UNION, AND REVISED BY THE COMMITTEE OF PUBLICATION AMERICAN SUNDAY-SCHOOL UNIOX NO. 146 CHESTNUT STREET. Entered according to Act of Congress, in the year 1835, By Paul Beck, Jr., Treasurer, in trust for the American Sunday-school Union, in the Clerk's Office of the District Court of the Eastern District of Vema.jh vania. EDUCATION B&%^ PREFACE. Manx thousands of very respectable young persons in our country are found at service. They are often left alone in the world, and seek in vain for true friends or wise counsellors. When it is considered what a multitude of children are under their influence ; how intimate is their relation to the families in which they live, and how much good or evil they have it in their power to do, if they are so disposed ; it seems a matter of some consequence that they should rightly understand the duties of their station, and have all the help they can in discharging them. The design of this little volume is to furnish them with such help. It contains counsels and directions upon the most important subjects in which they are interested ; and the principal illustrations are from real life. If the suggestions made in these pages were gene- rally regarded by persons at service, as well as by their employers, a great deal of misery and guilt would be saved, and every class of society would feel the happy change. a2 5 54 I 200 CONTENTS CHAPTER I. The station — Going to service — Death of Arm'a mo ther — What is meant by one's station — Each station has its appropriate duties — Illustration — The pious nurse — Jane's estimate of a good employer — Who is the only perfect teacher and guide 9 CHAPTER II. Getting a place — What makes a place good or bad — Ann's first adventure — Mrs, Smith, and her views of religion — Ann's resolution — Sundry cautions in gettmg a place — Mrs. Denby's — Mr. Denby's views of religion — Impertinence, and its consequences— The boasting cook — Mistakes of servants in trying to get places 26 CHAPTER III. Mrs. Sinclair — Folly of listening to the tales of serv- ants about places they have left — Duties of em ployers — First interview with Bridget— Mistakes about the different kinds of service — Mrs. Marsden — Choice of places — Duties of a child's nurse — Rules about getting a place 47 CHAPTER IV. Directions to servants from one of the best of masters — Ann's account of Bridget, and Jane's instructions — Rules of Scripture on this subject explained, and illustrated by several anecdotes — Eye-service de- scribed — Causes of hard work — Good rules about service 6j 6 CONTENTS.. , 7 CHAPTER V: „' ' " .. -. - . - F>f,e Self-will and its conse(J4iences-.-IIovv-tp jJlea&p >:^ ^he', ; ,' manner of doing work — Imp6rtanc'e'cir' clean a^d' tidy habits — Quiet and good order — Little kind- nesses — Good rules on these subjects 71 CHAPTER VI. Obedience and respect due to employers — Scripture rules on this subject explained, and illustrated by several anecdotes — Sin and meanness of talking against, or ridiculing the families in which we live — Illustration — Useful rules of conduct on this sub- ject 81 CHAPTER Vir. Jane's account of her going to Mrs. Raymond's, ana how she was treated, &c. — The way to keep a good place — Character of a good mistress delineated — How employers may greatly benefit their servants. 93 CHAPTER VIII. The evils of changing places — Every place has its pe- culiar troubles — Advantages of keeping one place — Good advice on this subject 101 CHAPTER IX Conduct towards fellow-servants — Description of a.^ ill-natured servant — Rules of behaviour drawn from the Bible — Story of Alice— Peculiar duties of a Christian servant — Seven short and simple direc- tions for a professor of religion at service 107 CHAPTER X. Bridget's adventure in the evening — Proper and useful employments for leisure time — The sleigh-ride — Proper use of Sunday — The advantages of steadily attending at one place of worship — Deceit and its consequences, illustrated by several anecdotes — In- temperance, its consequences and remedy — The Temperance society — Those who drink to be avoid- ed, and why — Story of Amanda — The trembling madness described — H9^' drinidng unfits one for service ;. 118 8 , .CONTENTS. . V : :• : •. Chapter xi. •jSte?liJ\gT^Slory 'oi; Lucy and the^^gg- woman — ^Tni© ; ,•* Iprinciplesio^Jibii'dfeiy^W fidelity stated — Purloining defined and explained — What became of Lucv — Different ways of defrauding employers — Bridget instructed aiid converted 134 CHAPTER XII. oily of fine dress — Proper use of wages, illustrated by several anecdotes — How much good can be done with a little money — Account of various benevolent institutions, and their objects — To whom our wages really belong 143 CHAPTER XIII. Ann in danger of being destroyed — Her aunt's faith- fulness to her — Ann's folly — Good rules about form- ing acquaintances with men 158 CHAPTER XIV. Unhappy marriages, and the cause of them — Histories of several young women, to i. lustraie this — Com- mon mistakes on this subject, and good rules for avoiding them — Conclusion— J* s^'s happy death — Ann takes her place 166 ANN CDNNOTER CHAPTER I. The Station — Going to Service. " Dear sister," said Jane Dugaii, *' you lold me you felt ready to die ; you trusted that God had forgiven your sins for Christ's sake, and that you would be glad to leave all your pains and go to him. Why then do the tears come in your eyes all the time ? What trou- bles you ?" The sick woman lay on a low, straw bed, in the corner of a small, but comfortable room. Her eldest daughter, about sixteen years old, was kneeling beside her. Jane Dugan was leaning over her with the tender- ness of a fond sister. (See frontispiece.) Her question, however, seemed to add to the sorrow of the sufferer ; for she began to cry as if her heart would break. r '' Oh ! my children, my poor dear chil- dren ; what will become of them when I am gone ?" Jane looked over to the other side of the room, where two little ones were playing merrily together, notj^lfflfliking that they were soon to lose their mother. 9 . . 10 ' . . •/ : ." ^A'sflpiher's anxiety— Wrong views. ; '/'Jp^d '-ypti. sueak kg the minister about *' Oh, yes ! and he said he would have the^ small ones pufin the Orphan Asylum." ^ " But will they be well treated there ?" 1 '' To be sure," answered Jane ; *' if the clergyman will get them into the Orphan Asylum, you may be quite easy about them-; and, 2l° ^or James here, a smart, healthy boy of ^fteen can always get a living in this coun- try, as long as he is honest, sober, and indus- trious. I will speak about him to Mr. Ray- mond, the gentleman I live with ; and I am sure he will get a place on some farm, or in some shop, for him." • ^ '' Well," interrupted the sick woman, " God be thanked ! — But Ann," she added, passing her feeble arm round the neck of her daughter, and drawing her head close down to the pillow, *' my poor, dear girl ; what is she to do ?" She looked in her face a while, with the earnest fondness of a dying mother ; then bursting into tears again, '* Ann will have to go out to service." ^M ** Well !" said Jane, *' and have not I been out to service ever since 1 was twelve years old ; and I am sure I have done very well, and been very happy." *' Ah !" replied ^iflyster, " you have been more lucky than o^^fceople. You are the 11 —Mother's death. only one I ever heard of that was put first into a religious family ; and you never left ^ your place. Ann is such a young thing, too ; and it is very hard to have to slave for other people ; and she will be in so much danger and temptation to do wrong. I do not know what will become of her." With this she sobbed more violently than ever, and poor Ann mingled her tears with her mother's. Jane saw it was of no use to reason with them then ; she only said, " Sister, you must not cry so, you will hurt yourself, Yo" know \^ have some good reason to hope that Ann is a child of God. Surely, if she is, He will take care of her. Can you not trust her in His hands?" ** I do !" said the dying woman, looking up and smiling through her tears ; '' but" — The rest could not be heard : her voice sank into a whisper. Jane put her ear close to her lips, and caught these words — '* Sis- ter, do watch over Ann — do." They were the last she ever spoke. Her distress and crying had wearied her so much f that she fell into a deep sleep; and it wa^^* some time before the sister and daughter susht pected that it was the sleep of death. Y When Ann could no longer doubt it, she was ' so overcome with grief, that she had no heart to do any thing. Jane, h .1 14 DAY USE RETURN TO DESK FROM WfflCH BORROWEE This book is due on the last date stamped below, or on the date to which renewed. Renewed books are subject to immediate recall. INTERLIBRARY LOAN AUG 1 1 m^ UNIV. OF 3CT 3 REC'D n AM ^ (—: -Z O ro -ry- -f-^ INTERLIBRARY LOAN It) NOV 4 19 83 t 1 ^^ r ;o ■UNIV. OF CAUF., B EHK eceived in !nterJihr?>Tv _, : ' ■ — ^ — jnnssr -oan YA 04457 541200 UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA LIBRARY '-,^i|^'> u. m^ *!^ ■•*, ^j"^