LIZABETH J- -7** ELIZABETH FRY: * LIFE AND LABORS OF THE EMINENT PHILANTHROPIST, PREACHER AND PRISON-REFORMER. COMPILED FROM HER JOURNAL AND OTHER SOURCES IB "Z" E 3D ~W .A. IR, 3D IS "2" ID 389 pages, 8vo., WITH FULL. LENGTH PORTRAIT. THIS work is designed to supply a deficiency in English and American Literature by presenting within moderate compass, a true Life, rather than a Sketch, of the great Quaker Philanthropist, whose name is one of the purest stars of English History, and whose tireless efforts to extend the mantle of Christian Charity until it should reach the feet of toiling, enslaved humanity, deserve the thanks of all who need mercy, and the admiration of those who do not. The aim has been to preserve what is of universal and permanent interest in her eventful life, at the same time avoiding such fullness of detail as would discourage general perusal. If the proper medium be secured, such a record cannot fail to be a living power for good and a pleasure to those who read. Any true life of Elizabeth Fry must be largely autobiographical. TESTIMONIALS From REV. W. S. CLAPP, Pastor of the Baptist Church, Carmel, N. Y. CARMEL, N. Y., July 24, 1883. FRIKND EDWARD RYDER, My Dear Brother : I sincerely thank you for sending me a copy of your book on the "Life and Labors of Elizabeth Fry." I have read it with the greatest interest. The philanthropy of her nature together with the almost angelic purity of her spiritual affections, her self-consecration to Prison and Hospital work, and the helping hand she held out with a wise discrimina- tion to every form and degree of human suffering she encountered, gave harmonious strength and effectiveness to her life and labors, and made a place for her in the front rank of the moral heroes of history. The charm of her character and the spirit of her work qualified her for exercising a great personal influence among all classes. I could wish that your book might be found in every Christian family. With much esteem, yours faithfully, W. S. CLAPP. From MR-. J. R Ni< imi.s. State Lecturer for Indiana W. C. T. U. IMHANAPOI is, INK, Oct. 18, 1883. I cannot tell you how pleased 1 am with the " Life of Elizabeth Fry." It seems to fill a long fell want in the way of practical help in our woman's work for woman. I \: have cleared away all the superfluous matter in the other lives, and given us the kernel of the whole thing in such a way that it will be of immense practical use. Then it is up with the advanced ideas ot t IK- IS at the present time, who are very liberal, especially here in the West. I took a copy on mv last trip, and as I met some Friends of standing, I showed it to them. They were eager to have a copy and declared that such a book ought to be introduced all over the West and would be exceedingly popular. . Jov 11 CI.AKK. Sec. American Home Missionary Society ^ NEW YORK, Nov. 22, r883. I have examined with great pleasure the "Life and Labors of Elizabeth ;.y Mr. Edward Ryder. The materials, drawn chiefly from her own Journal and Letters, have been arranged with more than usual literary skill. The labor was evidently one of love on the part of Mr. Ryder, and the result is a striking picture of a noble and useful life. Jos. II CLARK. From WM. M. 1 . R-i M>, Cor. Sec. of the N. Y. Prison Association. Dear Sir .-Whatever calls the attention of the public to the noble and self- sacrificing efforts of Elizabeth Fry will be likely to help the cause of Prison Reform. Your book is timely and seems to me to sum up with excellent judg- ment the strong points in Mrs. Fry's career. WM. M. F. ROIM>. " It is a grand book." Mrs. //. E. Brown, Editor Advocate and Guardian. "The book is of great interest and the style is admirable." Amendment Herald. " Th?rc is something in it to touch every case." Mrs. M. Thomas. "There is no woman in modern history, living or dead, 'that I admire so much." Miss Jennie Collins. We cordially recommend the " Life and Labors of Elizabeth Fry " as a biography of great interest and value. The brightness of her character and ind the remarkable success which attended her labors for human improve- ment, must ever make her story an inspiration to the lovers of Humanity. JOHN (i. WuiniKR. . I-.L.D. D.I) ' F)., President Rutgcr's Female College. O|I\-K Ill\ Dl A. C. AkV'iK New Ynrk Bible Society. TIL > I)., 15 West soih Street, New York D.D., 176 Oxford Street, Brooklyn. \ COLUNS, Honorary President N. Y. W. C. I' W Cow n. \\i--.i., Meekman HHl M. E. Church. : t;,ii,i, t,, ii,,!; HHKN E. BROWN, Editor .\, President National W. C. T.' ' ALKRKD H. I i.lcnt reversal Peace Union. FROM THE N. Y. IKDEPENLEKT, FIB. 14, 1884. The world needs no introduction to Elizabeth Fry. Hers in u name that is sure to live in the Christlike connection of charity witli criminals as He connected divine love with sinners. Our readers will l>e glad to learn that a new life has been published, under the titl* Elizabeth Fry: Lift, and J^Untrs of the. JJiuiiient Philanthropist, I* readier and Prison Jieformer, by Edward Ryder. This memoir in not an attempt to rewrite the life on the basis of new and original ntudies and researches, but to present a portrait of Mrs. Fry and :. representation of her career compiled from the accepted sources, but unembarrassed by the prolixities, the needless details, and now cold questions of the two full octavos published in 1847. Elizabeth Fry was endowed with all the resources and attractions of the fullest womanhood. She was the mother of eleven children, and at one time in her life saw around her twenty -five grandchildren. Her Quakerism, though genuine, was of that mild type in which Christian character shines at its brightest. It was not till 1817 that her work- in the Prison Reform was folly begun. The principles of that reform were essentially the separation of the sexes, the classification of crim- inals, the supervision of women by women, and the introduction of useful employment, an important feature of her work which the New York reformers at Albany, in their zeal to buy favor with criminal classes out of prison, are just now attempting to win a little cheap pop- ularity by suppressing. Mrs. Fry, as is well known, extended her labors through the continent of Europe, and next after Howard has written her name on the roll of honor in this reformation. In bio- graphic interest, and in fullness, weight and quality of life, she greatly surpassed Howard. As a biography, the Life gains by the condensa- tion applied to it by Mr. Ryder, whose brevity kindles in it a new inspi- ration, and gives more effect to the beauty of holiness and to the power t.f saintliness, and a new exhibition of the deep and strong sympathy which exists between the holiest and the purest natures and those low- est down in the degradation of sin. FROM THE N. Y. OBSERVER, FEB. 21, 1884. .... The portrait, adorning the volume just published, presents a combination of majesty and lovliness very rarely seen in the human form and face. And then the character and work revealed in her daily walk with God and man, preserves the same noble features, so that it in quite probable no woman of modern times has more completely exhibit- ed what a woman ought to be by what she was. Eulogies while she was living, were as many and frequent as they have been since her death, and her praise is still constant on the lips of those who have read of her virtues and her deeds. .... One of the most happy tributes was paid to her in the German Almanac for the beautiful and the good: "Though faithful to her duty as a wife and mother, into the night of the prison Elizabeth Fry brings the radiance of love, brings comfort to the sufferer, dries the tear of repentance, and causes a ray of hope to descend into the heart of the sinner. She teaches her that has strayed, again to find the path of vir tue, cornea as an angel of God into the abode of crime, and preserves for Jesus' kingdom that which appeared to be lost." FROM THE CHRISTIAX UNION, FEU. 21, 1884. '/ /-Vy: I. if- //// l.,,,: ,>fth, l-;,nin>n1 I' /,,/-. 'in,! /'//.*,./', Ii,fi,,-,,,,r. i> the title of a volume of nearly iar.i livd pajes. which has been carefully compiled from her jour- iiul published writings concerning her. by Kdward Hyder. of I'utimm County. X. Y. The tesign of the book is to put within the reach of all t ie ;t u-rs a knowledge of the saintly ::in an 1 her dee i>. for tin- U-nefit of the young esjxicially. No - more prominently in tlie annals of philanthropy, in the ministry, and as a mo lei in < .omestic life, than Elizabeth he 1 ' or ief rni"' ha^ ever won moiv l.\e and admiration tram the ^.>odof all Man thi-^n l)le and devout woman, who. for .\\.-rful preacher of ri^hteouMiess in words and example, not o:ily U-forr Some of the ; n,st enlightened and i-sons in Knurlan t and on the Continent, but the inmates of uses. She was a member of the Society of Friends, r life \\a^ a ; e- ix-tuai evangel- her ci' ed was the Gold- i'e. lier uttemnce was always a healing chri-iu. consecrated by '.cat Hi rh J> rie t; anil her commission bore the seal of the lovin^ . r of us all. In person. Ivi/ubeth Fry was one of the most beau t if ul women of her lim< s- sin \\as a'l and stately, fair in complexion, and her wh ! c imt<-nance lu-nmc'l with intelligence and love. She wa*< e\er ijii nly in ^i-ace and spirit Possessed of wealth, and social in her nature, -lie < nt'Ttnined many jn-oplc of all ranks in life with uniform dignity and simplicity. Her horn.- \\as her imperial kingdom, when-iii >h. rul.-d ri/ht royally In 1S-12, she entertained the King of PniSHia (brother of Emperor Wiffiain, of (Icrmany) at breakfast. Alter itin^ to him her ten children, with their husbands and wives, and her twenty five :rrandchildren. they partook of the repast, when she offered a most im; .essive prayer for him, his family, and his country. That princ" <>t cynics, John Randolph, who was in England in 1822, t > a friend: "Two dys ago I wav/ the greatest curiosity in Lon- don aye, and in Kngland. too. sir compared to which Westminster AbU-y, tl Soiueiset House, the British Museum, nay Par- liament itself. Hink into utter insignificance! I have seen, sir, Eliza- beth Fry in Newgate, an< I hav, witnessed there the miraculous effects ie Cliristi-mity upon the most depraved of human beings! And d outcasts have been tamed and subdued by the Chris loquence of Elizabeth Fry '. I have seen them weep repentant tears while she a^ld.e^, 1th. m : I have heard their groans of despair, Nothing but religion can effect this miracle; for what can be a greater miracle than the conversion of a degraded sinful woman taken the \ei\ dn-gs i if siK-iety?" An account of all the important the career of Eli/alwth Fry may be found in this volume, lucidly . xpressed. It is full of spiritual aliment ; and it is exceedingly attractive as a narrative of a grand life. /*!/ V.f. <. \ ) K (. fAA H H'P | ( r ELIZABETH FRY: LIFE AND LABORS OF THE EMINENT PHILANTROPIST, PREACHER, AND PRISON REFORMER. COMPILED FROM HER JOURNAL AND OTHER SOURCES. BY EDWARD RYDER. "Verily I say unto you, Wheresoever this Gospel shall be preached in the whole world, there shall also this which this woman hath done be told for a memorial of her." Matt. 26 : 13. THIRD EDITION. NEW YORK : PUBLISHED BY E. WALKER'S SON, 14 DEY ST., FOR THE AUTHOR. 18 84. "Mr. Harvey, two days ago I saw the greatest curiosity in London aye and in England too, sir, compared to which Westminster Abbey, the Tower, Somerset House, the British Museum, nay Parliament itself, sink into utter in- significance ! I have seen, sir, Elizabeth Fry in Newgate, and have witnessed miraculous effects of true Christianity upon the most depraved of human beings." John Randolph. " We shall not look upon her like again ! and must try to preserve the impression of her majesty of goodness which it is a great privilege to have beheld." Baroness Bunsen. " To see her was to love her ; to hear her was to feel as if a guardian angel had bid you follow that teaching which could alone subdue the temptations and evils of this life, and secure a redeemer's love in eternity." Captain K. JB. Martin. "May you continue, my dear madam, to be the honored instrument of great and rare benefits to almost the most pitiable of your fellow-creatures." William Wilberforce. " Of all my contemporaries none has exercised a like in- fluence on my heart and life." Thomas JTliedner. 2 ELIZABETH FEZ. "Though faithful to her duty as a wife and mother, Into the night of the prison Elizabeth Fry brings the radiance of love, brings comfort to the sufferer, dries the tear of re- pentance, and causes a ray of hope to descend into the heart of the sinner. She teaches her that has strayed again to find the path of virtue, comes as an angel of God into the abode of crime, and preserves for Jesus' kingdom that which appeared to be lost." German " Almanac Jor the Beauiiful *nd Good." 44 Your name has long been to us 'A Word of Beauty.' " German Pastor. "TO MKS. FRY. Presented by HANNAH MOBB As a token of veneration, Of her heroic zeal, Christian charity, And persevering kindness To the most forlorn Of human beings. They were naked and she Clothed them; In prison and she visited them ; Ignorant and she taught them, For His sake, In His name, and by His word Who went about doing good." //. More, in copy of "Practical Piety" PREFACE. My aim has been not to preserve everything she said and did, but to present a Life Portrait of Elizabeth Fry and her unique career. This can best be done by letting herself be the chief speaker, since she has spoken so admirably: next those who knew her well. Of the latter we have many wit- nesses, but the principal are her two daughters, Katherine Fry and Kachel E. Cresswell, both still living at this date, who in 1847, two years after her death, published a "Mem- oir of the Life of Elizabeth Fry," in two octavo volumes of 625 and 552 pages. This was extensively read at that tune, when the name of Elizabeth Fry was in all mouths; but it necessarily contained much of transitory interest to the rapidly changing world of men, who are too busy to dwell long on what does not closely concern them. The work was not reprinted and has long been Out of the market, and only to be found among those who purchased at the time of its publication. An abridgement of it was afterwards published, with some additional notes and recollections by Susanna Corder, a teacher of Friends' schools, who was well acquainted with Mrs. Fry, and a member of the same religious Society. 4 XLIZABETR FEY. This work of 667 pages is still to be obtained at Friends book stores, and seems to have been undertaken partly with a view to furnishing members of that Society with a "Life of Elizabeth Fry," relieved of both a portion of matter passing from public interest, and of the unquakerly style in which the original Memoir was written one of the daughters, Mrs. Cresswell, and apparently the larger writ- er, having become a member of the Episcopal church, and cot conforming to the peculiarities of her mother. Mrs. Fry, also left on record some observations looking toward greater liberty than her Society were then ready to adopt, though they are now approaching the standard to which her catholic spirit and wide experience at length brought her sympathetic mind. In reading first this Abridgement, obtained for a circa- lating library in a community partly made up of Friends, I was struck with the large number of highly interesting facts and incidents it contained, as well as with the delight- ful spirit which it exhibited a spirit which I felt ought to bring a contagion of heavenly-mindeduess into the soul of each reader and I found a regret arising that such choice seed of the Kingdom of Heaven was not scattered broad- cast through all lands. I therefore resolved, as I trust un- der the inspiration of Him whose eyes run to and fro in the earth, seeking where good may be accomplished and His children made happy, to undertake a further pruning of decaying branches from this noble olive tree, leaving only such as will bear fruit for all times and places, and then to essay its introduction not only into the parks of those who ore rich in knowledge and spiritual wisdom, but also in tha ELIZABETH FBY. little gardens of the poor where Elizabeth Fry was so fond of sowing seeds of kindness and love, hoping they might epring up unto everlasting life. The part I have had to perform is mainly that of an arti- san whose material is already furnished to his hand, requir- ing only careful selection and judicious arrangement to give effect to the simple beauty which the subject itself contains. I have ventured to add ,the connecting thread of a few ob- servations in passing, and occasional comments on portions which seemed to invite further illustration, or criticism. Pawling, Duchess County, N. Y. E. BTDEB. Feb. 1. 1883. CONTENTS. CHAPTER PAGE 1,-EARLY LIFE - -9 It-MARRIAGE AND THE MINISTKY - 68 HI MOTHER AND MINISTER ... 94 IV NEWGATE 120 V NEWGATE CONTINUED - - 145 VI EXCURSIONS IN GREAT BRITAIN - 164 VIk-PASSING THROUGH THE VALLEY - 201 TOE-RISING UP THE MOUNTAINS - -'224 AND SECOND VISITS TO THE CONTINENT 264 , FOURTH, FIFTH " " ** 297 THE PEARL GATE - 354 ELIZABETH FRY, CHAPTEK FIRST. EARLY LITE. ELIZABETH FRY was born in Norwich, England, on the 21st of May, 1780. She was the third daughter of John Gurney of Earlham, a liberal-spirited Quaker, "a man of ready talent, of bright discerning mind, singularly warm- hearted and affectionate, very benevolent, and in manners courteous and popular ;" and of Catherine Bell, daughter of Daniel Bell, a London Merchant, and great-grand-daughter of Kobert Barclay, the well-known and able expounder of Quakerism. From this excellent stock eleven children, seven daugh- ters and four sous, grew to maturity, and several of them became active and useful members of the Society of Friends, including Elizabeth Fry, Joseph John Gurney and Priscilla Gurney, whose memoirs have been given to the public. From the "Memoir of the Life of Elizabeth Fry," edit- ed by two of her daughters, the following extracts relat- ing to her early life are taken: "In the year 1786, Mr. and Mrs. Gurney removed to Earl- bam Hall, a seat of the Bacon family, about two miles from Norwich. Mr. Gurney subsequently purchased an adjoining property, thus adding to the range and variety afforded to 10 ELIZABETH FBI. his large young party, by that pleasant home. Earlham has peculiar charms from its diversified scenery. The house is large, old, and irregular ; placed in the centre of a well- wooded park. The River Wensum, a clear winding stream, flows by it. Its banks, overhung by an avenue of ancient timber trees, formed a favorite resort of the young people ; there, in the summer evenings, they would often meet to walk, read, or sketch. On the south front of the house ex- tends a noble lawn, flanked by groves of trees growing from a carpet of wild flowers, moss, and long grass Every nook, every green path at Earlham, tells a tale of the past and re- calls to those who remember the time when they were peo- pled by that joyous party, the many loved ones of the num ber, who, having shared with one another the pleasures of youth, the cares of maturer age, and above all, the hope of immortality, are now together at rest ! "Of the twelve children of Mr and Mrs. Gurney, nine were born before their removal to Earlham ; one of them died in infancy. The three youngest sens were born after their settlement there, "The mode of life at-JBramertoa was continued with little alteration at EaxTiranir'tiirNov. 1792, when it pleased God to remove from this large family, the kind mistress, the loving wife, the devoted mother. She died after an illness of three weeks, leaving eleven children, the eldest scarcely sev- enteen, the youngest not two years old. During a penod of comparative leisure, Elizabeth Fry occupied herself in perus- ing her early journals. She thought it well to destroy all that were written before the year 1797, ancj to substitute the following sketch of their contents, assisted by her own recol- lections. " 'Dagenfiam, Eighth Month, 23d, 1828. My earliest recol- lections are, I should think, soon after 1 was two years old ; my father at that time had two houses, one in Norwich, and one at Bramerton, a sweet country place, situated on a Common, EARIZ LITE. 11 near a pretty village ; h^re, I believe, many of my early tastes were formed, though we left it to reside at Earlham when I was about five years old. The impressions then re- ceived remain lively on my recollection ; the delight in the beauty a-nd wild scenery in parts of the Common, the trees, the flowers, and the little rills that abounded on it, the farm houses, the village school and the different poor people and their cottages; particularly a poor woman with one arm, whom we called one-armed Betty; another neighbor,. Green- grass, and her strawberry beds round a little pond; our gardener, who lived near a large piece of water, and used to bring fish from it ; here, I think, my great love for the country, the beauties of nature, and attention to the poor, began. My mother was most dear to me, and the walks she look with me hi the old-fashioned garden, are as fresh with me, as if only just passed; and her telling me about Adam and Eve being driven out of Paradise : I always considered it must be just like our garden at Bramerton. 1 remember that my spirits were not strong : that I frequently cried i? looked at, and used to say that my eyes were weak , but I remember much pleasure and little suffering or particular tendency to naughtiness, up to this period. Fear about this time began to show itself, of people and things : I remem- ber being so much afraid of a gun, that 1 gave up an expe- dition of pleasure with my father and mother because thera was a gun in the carriage. I was also exceedingly afraid of the dark, and suffered so acutely from being left alone with- out a light after I went to bed, that I believe my nervous system was injured in consequence of it; also, I had so great a dread of bathing, (to which I was obliged at times to sub- mit) that at the first sight of the sea, when we were as a family going to stay by it, it would make me cry ; indeed, fear was so strong a principle in my mind as greatly to mar the natural pleasure of childhood I am now of opinion, that it would have been much more subdued, and great suf- ering spared, by its having been still more yielded to ; by 12 ELIZABETH FRY. having a light left in my room; not being long left alone ; and never forced to bathe; for I do not at all dcubt that it partly arose from that nervous susceptible constitution, that has at times, throughout my life, caused me such real and deep suffering. I know not what would have been the con- sequence, had I had any other than a most careful and wise mother, and judicious nurses, or had I been alarmed, as too many children are, by false threats of what might happen. " *I had, as well as a fearful, rather a reserved mind, lor I never remember telling of my many painful fears, though 1 must often have shown them by weeping when left in the dark, and on other occasions .- this reserve made me little under- 8 'ood, and thought very little of, except by my mother and one .or two others. I was considered and called very stupid and obstinate. I certainly did not like learning, nor did 1, I.believe, attend to my lessons, partly from a delicate state of health, that produced languor of mind as well as body; but, I think, having the name of being stupid, really tended to make me so, and discouraged my efforts to learn. I re- member having a poor, not to say low, opinion of myself, and used to think I was so very inferior to my sisters, Cath- erine and Rachel. I believe I had not a name only for be- ing obstinate, for my nature then had a strong tendency that way; and I was disposed to a spirit of contradiction, always ready to see things a little differently from others, and not willing to yield my sentiments to theirs. "'My natural affections were very strong from my early childhood, at times almost overwhelmingly so s such was the love for my mother, that the thought that she might die and leave me used to make me weep after I went to bed, anc lor the rest of the family, notwithstanding my fearful na- ture, my childlike wish was, that two large walls might crush us all together, that we might die at once, and thus avoid the misery of each other's death. I seldom, if I could help it, left my mother's side ; I watched her when asleep in the day with exquisite anxiety, and used to go gently to her 1AELT UFB. 13 bedside to listen, from the awful fear that she did not breathe ; in short, I may truly say, it amounted to deep rev- erence that I felt for my father and mother. I never re- member, as a little child, but once being punished by my mother; and she then mistook tears of sorrow for tears of naughtiness, a thing that deeply impressed me, and 1 have never forgotten the pain it gave me. Although I do not im- ply that I had no faults, far from it, as some of the faults of my childhood are very lively in my recollection ; yet, from my extreme love and fear, many of these faults were known almost only to myself. My imagination was lively, and I once remember, and only once, telling a real untruth with one of my sisters and one of my brothers. We saw a bright light one morning, which we represented far above the real- ity, and upon the real thing being shown us that we had seen, we made it out not to be it. My remembrance is of the pleasure of my childhood being almost spoiled through fear, and my religious impressions, such as I had, were ac- companied by gloom; on this account I think the utmost care is needed in representing religious truth to chLuToU, that fearful views of it should be most carefully avoided, lest it shmild give a distaste for that which is most precious. First show them the love and mercy of God in Christ Jesus, and the sweetness and blessedness of His service ; and such things in Scripture, for instance, as Abraham's saciince, should be carefully explained to them. I think I suffered much in my youth from the most tender nervous system; I certainly felt symptoms of ill health before my mother died, that I thought of speaking to her about, but never did, partly because I did not know how to explain them ; but fchej ended afterwards in very severe attacks of illness. I have always thought being forced to bathe was one cause of this, and I mention it because I believe it a dangerous thing to do to children. "What care is needful not to force chi'.dren to learn too much, as it not only injures them, but gives a dis- taste to intellectual pursuits. Instruction should be aua^iy 14 ELIZABETH FBT. ed to their condition, and communicated in an easy and agreeable way. "How great is the importance of a wise mother, directing the tastes of her children in very early life, and judiciously influencing their affections. I remember with pleasure my mother's bed for wild flowers, which, with delight, I used, as a child to attend to with her ; it gave me such pleasure in observing their beauties and varieties ; that though I never have had time to become a botanist, few can imagine, in my weary journeys, how I have been pleased and refreshed, by observing and enjoying the wild flowers on my way. Again, she collected shells, and had a cabinet, and bought one for Rachel and myself, where we placed our curiosities ; and I may truly say, in the midst even of deep trouble, and often most weighty engagements of a religious and philanthropic nature, I have derived advantage, refreshment and pleasure, from my taste for these things, seeking collections of them, and various natural curiosities, although, as with the flowers, I have not studied them scientifically. "'My mother also encouraged my most close friendship with my sister Rachel, and we had our pretty light closet, our books, our pictures, our curiosities, our tea things, all to ourselves ; and as far as I can recollect, we unitedly partook of these pleasures without any of the little jealousies or the quarrels of childhood. "' My mother, as far as she knew, really trained us up in the fear and love of the Lord. My deep impression is, that she was a devoted follower of the Lord Jesus; but that her understanding was not fully enlightened as to the fu'ness of Gospel truths : she taught us as far as she knew, and I now remember the solemn religious feelings I had whilst sitting in silence with her, after reading the Scripture, and a Psalm before we went to bed. I have no doubt that her prayers were not in vain in the Lord. She died when I was twelve years old ; the remembrance of her illness and death is sad, even to the present clay. ' EAELY LIFE. 15 "Among the vast changes of the last century, there was no change greater than that which took place in the educa- tion of women. "Addison and his coadjutors were among the foremost to teach the women of modern England, that they possessed powers of mind and capabilities of usefulness. " Many, as they sipped their coffee with the Spectator of the morning in their hand, were awakened to the consciousness of a higher destiny for woman, than the labor of the tapestry frame, or pursuits of an entirely frivolous nature. A taste for reading became more or less general. The heavy wis- dom of Johnson, the lighter wit of Swift, the satire of Pope, the pathos of Gray, and the close painting of Goldsmith, found among women not only those who could enjoy, but who could appreciate their different excellencies. Mrs. Mon- tague, Mrs. Carter, Mrs. Chapone, with a group of gifted friends and associates, proved to the world the possibility of high literary attainments existing with every feminino grace and virtue. The stimulus was given, but like all oth- er changes in society, the opposite extreme was reached lo& fore the right and reasonable was discovered. Infidelity was making slow though sure advances upon the continent Rosseau and Voltaire were but types of the state of feeling and principles in France. The effects gradually extended to our own country, and England has to blush for the per- version of female tpk-Et, the evil influence of which was on- ly counteracted by its showing as a beacon light, to warn others from shipwreck. Science, and philosophy, so called, advanced and flourished, but by their side flourished the Upas tree of infidelity, poisoning with its noxious breath the flowers and the fruits otherwise so pleasant to the eye, and so good for the use of man. The writings of Hannah More were well calculated to enlighten and improve her sex; she spoke as woman can alone speak to women ; but she was then only rising into celebrity, and as an author was little known. 16 ELIZABETH FRY "Norwich had not escaped the general contagion. On the contrary, at the period of which we speak, it was noted for the charm, the talent, and the skepticism of the society of the town and neighborhood. The death of Mrs. Gurney had left her seven daughters unprotected by a mother's care to pursue the difficult path of early womanhood. " They appear to have been rich in attraction and talent, lively and original, possessing a peculiar freshness of char- acter, with singular purity of purpose and warmth of affec- tion. But their faith was obscure, and their principles nec- essarily unfixed and wavering. They appreciated the beau- ty and excellence of religion ; but it was more natural than revealed religion with they were acquainted. "There was something of mysticism amongst the Qua- kers of that day, and by no means the clear and general ac- knowledgment of the doctrine of the ' Trinity in UnityJ as revealed in the New Testament, which is now to be met with amongst the greater part of the Society of Friends. To the present time, that expression as designating the De- ity is not in use among them, from its not being found in the Bible. The family of Mr. Gurney, thus left to their own resources, unaccustomed to the study of the Scriptures, and with no other source of information from which to learn, for a time were permitted to * stumble upon the dark mountains seeking rest and finding none.' " These remarks apply especially to the three older daugh- ters, as they gradually advanced in life. The four younger ones, sheltered in the schoolroom, were comparatively spared the difficulties through which their sisters were pioneering the way. Mr. Gurney's occupations, both public and pri- vate, and his naturally trustful disposition, prevented his seeing all the dangers to which they were exposed. They formed many acquaintances, and some friendships, with per- sons greatly gifted by nature, but fearfully tainted with the prevailing errors of the day. Great pain and bitter disap- pointment resulted from these connexions ; but demanding EAEL7 LIFE 17 only an allusion here, as they indirectly affected Elizabeth through the suffering of others, and the experience gained to herself. "To the gayeties of the world, in the usual acceptation ol the term, they were but little exposed. Music and dancing are not allowed by Friends ; though a scruple as to the for- mer is by no means universal. Mr. Gurney had no objec- tion to music : they all had a taste for it, though almost un- cultivated ; some of them sang delightfully. The sweet and thrilling pathos of their native warblings is still remembered with pleasure by those who heard them, especially the duets of Eachel and Elizabeth. They danced occasionally in the large ante-room leading to the drawing-room, but with little of the spiiit of display so often manifested on these occa- sions. It was more an effusion of young joyous hearts, who thus sought and found an outlet for their mirth. When her health permitted it, no one of the party entered with more zest into these amusements than Elizabeth. Her figure tall, and at that time slight and graceful, was peculiarly fitted for dancing. She was also an excellent horse-woman, and rode fearlessly and well ; but she suffered much from deli- cacy of constitution, and was liable to severe nervous attacks which often impeded her joining her sisters in their differ- ent objects and pursuits. In countenance, she is described as having been as a young person very sweet and pleasing, with a profusion of soft flaxen hair, though perhaps not so glowing as some of her sisters. "She had much native grace, and to many people was very attractive. Elizabeth was not studious by nature, and was, as a child, though gentle and quiet in temper, selfwilled and determined. In a letter, written before she was three years old, her mother thus mentions her; 'My dove-like Betsey scarcely ever offends, and is, in every sense of the word, truly engaging.' Her dislike to learning proved a serious disadvantage to her after she lost her mother ; her education, consequently being defective and unfinished. In If? ELIZABETH FRY. natural talent, she was quick and penetrating, and had a depth of originality very uncommon. As she grew older, enterprise and benevolence were two prominent features in her character. In contemplating her peculiar gifts, it is Wonderful to observe the adaptation of her natural qualities tocher future career; and how, through the transforming power of divine grace, each one became subservient to the highest purposes. Her natural timidity changed to the op- posite virtue of courage, but with such holy moderation and nice discretion, as never failed to direct it aright. The touch of obstinacy she displayed as a child, became that finely tempered decision and firmness which enabled her to execute her projects for the good of her fellow creatures. That tehich in childhood was something not unlike cunning, ripen- ed into the most uncommon penetration, long-sightedness, end skill in influencing the minds of those around her. Her disinclination to the common methods of learning ap- peared to be connected with much original thought, and a tni^^ajpting on its own resources ; for she certainly alwaya possessed more genius, and ready, quick comprehension, (ban application or argument. "Such were the circumstances, and such the character of Elizabeth Gurney and her sisters, after the death of their mother : and years passed on, with few changes, but such as necessarily came with the lapse of time, and their advance In age. But He who had purposes of mercy towards them, In His own way, and in His own good time^ was preparing for them emancipation from their doubts, and^iigfyt for their darkness. Wonderful is it to mark how, by little, and little, through various instruments, through mental conflicts, through bitter experience, He gradually led them, each one, into the meridian light of day the glorious liberty of the children of God. "At a time when religion in a more gloomy form might not have gained a hearing, when the graver countenance of rebuke would probably have been unheeded, a gentleman EARLY LIFE. U became acquainted with the Earlham family, of high princi* pie and cultivated mind. With him the sisters formed A Strong and lasting friendship. He addressed himself to their understandings on the grand doctrines of Christianity; he referred them to the written word as the rule of lif e ; be Lent them, and read with them, books of a religious tenden/ cy. He treated religion, as such, with reverence; and al- though himself a Roman Catholic, he abstained from every controversial topic, nor ever used 'his influence, directly or indirectly, in favor of his own church. There was another individual who proved an important instrument in leading the sisters to sound views of religion, though, when first a> quainted with them, herself wandering in the wilderness of doubt, if not of error. This was Marianne Galton, afterward Mrs. Schimmel Penninck. Being a highly educated person, of great mental power, and accustomed to exercise her abit dies in the use of her reason and an honest search after truth, she acquired considerable influence over them. Aj the truth of revelation opened upon her own understanding and her heart became influenced by it, they shared in her advance, and profited by her experience. There were other individuals with .whom they associated, whose influence was desirable, but less powerful, than that of either Miss Galtop -r Mr. Pitchf ordl "They appear also to have derived advantage, at timeSt from the religious visits of Friends to Earlham. The fami- ly of Mr. Gurney were in the habit of attending no place of worship but the Friends' meeting. The attendance of Elja- abeth was continually impeded by want of health, and it is difficult- to know when the habit of absenting herself might haMe'bjWoiwbroken through, but for her uncle, Joseph Gur- ney, who urged the dyty upon her and encouraged her to make the-attempt. He was a decided Friend, and had muofe influence with her, both then and during her subsequent lifa. Sha,w.s ready, ondeed to -essay anything that might tend to satisfy ha conscience, or meet the cravings ol her heart for 120 ELIZABETH FEY. a something which as yet she had not obtained. There il occasionally to be met with in the character of fallen man 8 longing after perfection after that which can alone satisfy the immortal spirit: this she experienced in no commop measure. Her journal is replete with desires after * virtue * and 'truth.' She seeks ana finds God in His works, but ae yet she had not found Him as He stands revealed in the pag. This morning I awoke not comfortable; the sub- ject of dancing came strongly before my mind. Totally de- clining it as a matter of pleasure I do not mind; only as I am situated with the others I find it difficult. The ques- tion is if these may not be scruples of my own forming that I may one day repent of. The bottom of my heart is in- clined to Quakerism, but I know what imagination can do. I believe the formation of my mind is such that it require? the bonds and ties of Quakerism to fit it for immortality. I feel it a very great blessing being so little in the company of superior fascinating Quakers, because it makes me act freely, and look to the only true Judge for what is right for me to do. The next question is, am I sufficiently clear that dancing is wrong to give it up ? because I know much pre- caution is necessary. I believe I may, if I like, make one more trial, and judge again how I feel ; but I must reflect upon it, determining to give it up if I think right. I wish to make it a subject of very serious reflection hoping as usual to do right. It will hurt them much I fear, but time I believe will take off that, if they see me happier and better for it. Let me redouble my kindness to them. Catherine ABLY LIFE. 48 eeems to -wish I would give up correspondence witn Anna Savery, which I think I may do. This day has been very comfortable in most respects, though I have not done much. I have finished my letter to dear cousin Priscilla, and that to Mrs. ; but I cannot feel quite easy to send it with- out first speaking to my father ; for I do believe it is my duty to make him my friend in all things ; though I think it probable he will discourage me in writing to my friend Srphy; yet never keep anything from him; but let me be an open, true, kind, and dutiful daughter to him whilst life is in my body. " 12JA. I Lave many great faults, but I have some dispo- sitions which I should be most thankful for. I believe I feel much for my fellow-creatures ; though I think I mostly see into the minds of those I associate with, and am apt to satirize their weakness ; yet I don't remember ever being any time with one who was not extremely disgusting but I felt a sort of love for them, and I do hope I would sacrifice my life for the good of mankind. My mind is too much like a looking-glass ; objects of all kinds are easily reflected in it, whilst present, but when they go their reflection is gon& also. I have a faint idea of many things, a strong idea of a few ; therefore my mind is cultivated badly. I have many straggling, but not many connected ideas. I have the mate- rials to form good in my mind, but I am not a sufficiently good artificer to unite them properly together, and make a good consistence ; for in some parts I am too hard, in otheis too soft. I hope and believe the Great Artificer is now at work ; that if I join my power to the only one able to con- duct me aright, I may one day be better than I am. "YIth. My journal has not gone on well of late; partly owing to my going out, and having people in the room, now there is a fire. I dislike going out ; what my mind wants is peace and quiet. The other night as I was alone in a car- riage, a fine starlight night, I thought, What is it I want? how I overflow with the blessings of this world ! I have 44 ELIZABETH FRY. trae friends as many as I wish for good health, a happj/ home, with all that riches can give, and yet all these are nothing without a satisfied conscience. At times I feel satisfied, but I have not reason to feel so often This afternoon I have much to correct, I feel proud, vain and disagreeable ; not touched with the sweet humility of Christianity ; nor is my heart enlightened by its happy doc- trines. I have two things heavily weighing on my mind- dancing and singing. So sweet and so pretty do they seem ; but as surely as I do either, so surely does a dark cloud come over my miiid. It is not only my giving up these things, but I am making others miserable, and laying a restraint upon their pleasures. In the next place am I sure I am going upon a good foundation ? If I am doing right God will protect me and them also. If I am doing wrong \vhat foundation. do I stand upon? None: then all to me is noth- ing. Let me try to take my thoughts from this world, and took to the onjy true Judge. I believe singing to be so fffll ural that I may try it a little longer : but I do think dancing may be given up. What particularly led me to this state was our having company, and I thought I must sing. I sang a little but did not stay with them during the play- ing. My mind continued in a state of agitation, and I did nof? sfe~6p until some time after I was in bed. " 19JA%-My mind feels more this morning, if anything than it did last night. Can such feelings be' my own putting onf They seem to affect my whole frame, mental and bodily. They cannot'J)e of myself, for if I were to give worlds I iiould notiemove faem. They truly make me shake. "When I loolc f orwarcfe I think I can see, if I have strength to do as they direct I shall be another person : sorrow I believe will be removed=*to be replaced by joy. Then let me now act I My best method of conduct will be to tell Rachel how I am situated in mind, and then ask her what she would advise : &nd be very kiud aucl tell her the true state of the case. la it worth while to continue in so small a pleasure for so much EAELT LIFK. 45 pain? The pleasure is nothing to me, but it is a grand step to take in life. I have been and spoken to Rachel, saying I think I must give up singing. It is astonishing the total change that has taken place. From misery I am now come to joy. I felt ill before ; I now feel well thankful should I be for being directed, and pray to keep up always to that direction. After having spoken to my darling Kachel, where I fear I said too much, I rode to Norwich after some poor people? I went to see many and added my mite to their comfort. Nothing, I think, could exceed the kindness of my dear Rachel. Though I have no one here to encourage me in Quakerism, I believe I must be one before I am content* " 1th. December. I have had a letter to say my dear friend William Savery is safely arrived in America. Kitty and I have been having a long talk together this evening upon sects ; we both seem to think them almost necessary.. It is long since I have what I may truly call written in my journal. Writing in my journal is to me expressing the feel- ings of my heart during the day. I have partly given it up, from the coldness of the weather and not having a snug fire to sit by. I wish now, as I have opportunity, to look a little into the present situation of my heart. That is the advant- age of writing a true journal it leads the mind to look in- ward. Of late I do not think I have been sufficiently active, but have rather given way to a dilatory spirit. I have been reading Watts' Logic: it tells me how ill-regulated my thoughts are they truly ramble! Regularity of thought and deed is what I much want ; I appear to myself to have almost a confusion of ideas, which leads to a confusion of actions. I want order. I believe it difficult to obtain, but yet with perseverance attainable. The first way to obtain it appears to me to try to prevent my thoughts from rambling, and to keep them as steadily as possible to the object in view. True religion is what I seldom feel, nor do I sufficiently try al'ter it, by really seeking devotion. I do not warmly seek it, I am sure, nor do I live in the fear of an All-wise Being 46 ELIZABETH FRY. who watched over us. I seldom look deep enough, but dwe'l too much on the surface of things aud let my ideas flout. Such is my state. I can't tell how I feel exactly: ab times ail seems to me mystery ; * When I look at the heavens, the work of Thy fingers, the moon and stars which Thou hast ordained, what is man that Thou ait mindful of him, or the son of man that Thou visitest him ?' Thou must exist, O God ! for the heavens declare Thy glory, and the firmament showeth Thy handiwork. "8th. Since dinner I have read much logic and enjoyed it ; it is interesting to me, and may, I think, with attention, do me good. Reading Watts impresses deeply on my mind how very careful I should be of judging; how much I should consider before I speak, or form an opinion; how careful I should be not to let my mind be tinged throughout with one reigning subject, to try not to associate ideas ; but judge of things according to the evidence they give to my minil of their own worth. My mind is like a pair of scales that are not inclined to balance equally ; at least when I begin to form a judgment, and try to hold the balance equally, as soon as I perceive that one scale is at ail heavier than the other, I am apt at once to let it fall on that side, forgetting what remains in the other scale, which, though lighter, should not be forgotten. For instance, I look at a character; at first I try to judge calmly and truly; but if I see more vir- tues than vices I am apt soon to like that character so much that 1 like its weaknesses also, and forget they are weakness- es. The same if evil may preponderate, I forget the virtues. "30J/4. I went to meeting in the morning and afternoon , both times rather dark ; but I have been a little permitted to see my own state, which is the greatest favor I can ask for at present ; to know what I should do and to be assisted in my duties : for it is hard, very hard to act right, at least I find It so. But there is the comfortable consideration that God 2s merciful and full of compassion ; He is tender over His jhildren. I had a satisfactory time with my girls and boys. EARLY LIFE. 47 * January 4$A, 1799. Most of this morning I spent in Norwich seeing after the poor ; I do little for them, and I do not like it should appear that I do much. I must be most guarded, and tell those who know I do charity that I ani only my father's agent. A plan, at least a duty that I have feit for some time, I will now mention. I have been trying to overcome fear. My method has been to stay in the dark, and at night go into those rooms not generally inhab- ited. There is a strange propensity in the human mind to fear in the dark ; there is a sort of dread of something su- pernatural. I tried to overcome that by considering that as far as I believe in q hosts, so far I must believe in a state af- ter death, and it must confirm my belief in the Spirit of God ; therefore if I try to act right I have no need to fear the directions of Infinite "Wisdom. I do not turn away such things as some do : I believe nothing impossible to God, and He may have used spirits as agents for purposes beyond our conceptions. I know they can only come when He pleases, therefore we need not fear them. But my most predominant fear is that of thieves, and I find that still more difficult to overcome ; but faith would cure that also, for God can equally protect us from man as from spirit. "8A, My father not appearing to like all my present doings, has been rather a cloud over my mind this day : there are few, if any, in the world I love so well ; I am not easy to do what he would not like, for I think I could sacrifice almost anything for him, I owe him so much. I love Viinr> so well. " I have been reading Watts on Judgment this after- noon ; it has led me into thought, and particularly upon the evidence I have to believe in religion. The first thing that strikes me is the perception we all have of being under a power superior to human. I seldom feel this so much as when unwell ; to see how pain can visit me and how it ia taken away. Work forever, we could not create life. There must be a cause to produce an effect. The next tiling- that 48 ELIZABETH FBY. strikes me is good and evil, virtue and vioe, happiness and unhappiness these are acknowledged to be linked together: virtue produces good, vice evil; of course the Power that allows this shows approbation of virtue. Thirdly, Christi- anity seems also to have its clear evidences, even to my human reason. My mind has not been convinced by books ; but what little faith I have has been confirmed by reading holy writers themselves. 'J 14ZA. I hope I have from experience gained a little. I am much of a Friend in my principles at this time, but do not outwardly appear much so ; I say ' thee ' to people, and do not dress very gay; but yet I say 'Mr,' and 'Mrs.,' wear a turban, &c., &c. I have one remark to make ; every step I have taken toward Quakerism has given me satisfaction. "18th. I feel I must not despair: I consider I first brought sceptical opinions upon myself, and it is only what is due to me that they should now hurt me. I hope I do not much murmur at the decrees of the Almighty: and can I expect who am so faulty, to be blessed with entire faith ? Let me once more try and pray, that the evil roots in my own mind may be eradicated. I had altogether, a pretty good day ; rather too much vanity at being mistress at home, and having to entertain many guests. " 24$A. What feeling so cheering to the human mind as religion ! what thankfulness should I feel to God ! I have great reason to believe Almighty God is directing my mind to the haven of peace ; at least I feel that I am guided by a Power not my own. How dark was my mind for some days ! How heavy ! I saw duties to be performed that even struck me as foolish. I took courage and tried to fol- low the directions of this voice. I felt enlightened, even happy. Again I erred, again I was in a cloud. I once more tried, and again I felt brightened. " 25 pupils, all of which she taught and governed with a tact pe coliar to:herself. She also visited the sick, reading and con tfer&nguWith them as opportunity offered. All this appears 16 have been done, less from sense of duty, than from the kindly impulses of her own heart. " At this time, Elizabeth Gurney wore the cap and close handkerchief of Friends, and with the dress had adopted their other peculiarities. This added to her comfort and spared her many difficulties. Of the truth of their princi- ples she had long been convinced, and had deliberately chos- en Quakerism as the future religious profession of her life. "Her mind, being thus established on matters of the first MARRIAGE AHD THE M1MSTBT 59 importance, was better prepared to entertain a subject which now claimed her consideration proposals of marriage from Mr. Joseph Fry, at that time engaged with his brother, Mr. William Fry, in extensive business in London. Her timid, sensitive nature shrank at first from so momentous a ques- tion, and for a time she seemed unable, or unwilling to en- counter the responsibility. Gradually, with individual pref- erence, her mind opened to the suitability of the connection. Her habits and education had rendered affluence almost es- sential to her comfort ; whilst entering Mr. Fry's family and the prospect of residing among Friends offered great and strong inducements to her feelings. Her anxious desire to be rightly guided in her decision is marked by the following letter to her cousin Joseph Gurney Bevan." (Memoir.) The following minute of self-examination is given before the letter referred to as it precedes it in date. Twelfth Month, 12th. (1799) I believe the true state of my mind is as follows. I have, almost ever since I have been a little under the influence of religion, thought marriage at this time was not a good thing for me ; as it might lead my interests and affections from that source in which they should be centered ; and also if I have any active duties to perform in the church, if I really follow, as far as I j^m able the voice of Truth in my heart, are they not rather incom- patible with the duties of a wife and mother ? And is it not safest to wait and see what is the probable course I shal] take in this life, before I enter into any engagement that af- fects my future career? So I think, and so I have thought But to look on the other side. If Truth appears to tell ma I may marry, I should leave the rest, and hope, whatsoever my duties are, I shall be able to perform them ; but it iff now, at this time the prayer of my heart that if I ever should 60 ELIZABETH FRY. be a mother I may rest with my children, and really find my duties lead me to them and my husband ; and if my duty ever leads me from my family, that it may be in single life. I must leave all to the wisdom of a superior Power, and, in humble confidence, pray for assistance, both now and for- evermore, in performing the Divine will." Clapham, Fourth Month, 1800. " My dearest Cousin : It is not pleasant to me having a subject that now is of no small importance to me unknown to thee, for I feel thee to tie, and love thee as my kind friend. Some time ago Joseph Fry, youngest son of William Stores Fry of London, paid us a visit at Earlham and made me an offer of marriage. Since our stay in the neighborhood he has renewed his ad- dresses. I have had many doubts, many risings and fall- ings about the affair. My most anxious wish is that I may not hinder my spiritual welfare, which I have so much feared as to make me often doubt if marriage were a desirable thing for me at this time, or even the thoughts of it. But as I wish (at |east I think I wish) in this as in other things to do the will of God, I hope I shall be shown the path right for me to walk in. I do not think I could have refused him, with a proper authority at this time. If I am to marry Before very long it overturns my theories, and may teach me that the ways of the Lord are unsearchable ; and that I am ftot to djraw out a path of right for myself ; but to look to the One wjiojpnly knows what is really good for me. But the idea ojf leaving my station at home is to me surprising, as I had not thought that would have been the case, and perhaps it may not now happen, but it does not seem im- probable. How anxiously do I desire I may, through all, strive after the knowledge of God, and one day, if it be right, obtain it. Excuse this hasty scrawl and believe my dear cousin, thy very affectionate E. GUBNEY." HAEBIAQE AND THE MI^ISTBY. 61 "Earlham, Fifth Month, 30/t. I have written lately many melancholy journals, and I seem rather inclined thia morning gratefully to mention the calm and sweet state 1 feel in. Even if the feelings be only for this time, it is 8 blessing to have them. My feeilogs towards Joseph are sc calm and pleasant, and I can look forward with so much cheerfulness to a connection with him, " Sixth Month, 6th. I felt rather nervous and weak thia morning. I wrote to Eliza Fry, and worked and talked I might talk too much. I received a letter I liked from Joseph, and answered it this afternoon. I felt unwilling to represent my own faults to him, although I told him how faulty I was ; yet it is much more unpleasant to acknowl ; edge any real fault, committed than the natural inclination to faults. " Eighth Month 13th. This morning the Fellows were here ; nothing particular happened until evening when all my poor children came. It was rather a melancholy tune to me. After having enjoyed themselves playing about I took them to the summer-house and bade them farewell ; there were about eighty-six of them ; many of them wept ; I felt rather coldly when with them, but when they went away I shed my tears also ; and then my desires took the turn of anxiously longing for the spiritual welfare of us all, as a family." I now quote at some length from the Memoir, chapter " The marriage of Joseph Fry and Elizabeth Gurney took place on the 19th of August, 1800, at the Friends' Meeting house in Norwich ; her own description of the day is : " * I awoke in a sort of terror at the prospect before me, but soon gained quietness and something of cheerfulness. After dressing we set off for Meeting ; I was altogether comfortable. The Meeting was crowded : I felt serious and looking in measure to the only sure place for support. It 654 ELIZABETH FRT. was to me a truly solemn time ; I felt every word; and not only felt but in my manner of speaking expressed how I felt ; Joseph also spoke well. Most solemn it truly was. After we sat silent some little time Sarah Chandler knelt down in prayer; my heart prayed with her. I believe words are inadequate to describe the feelings on such an occasion ; I wept good part of the time, and my beloved father seemed as much overcome as I was. The day passed off well, and I think I was very comfortably supported under it, although cold hands and a beating heart were often my lot.' " Leaving the home of her childhood was a great effort to her. Driving through Norwich for the last time as a resi- dence * the very stones of the street seemed dear ' to her. On the 31st of the same month she says : " ' We arrived at Plashet about three o'clock ; it was strange to me. I was much pleased with the place, and admired the kindness of its inhabitants.' " Her home, however, was for some years, to be in scenes far less congenial to her early habits than Plashet House, in Essex, then the residence of her husband's parents. It was a much more prevailing custom in that day than it is now, for the junior partner to reside in the house of business, in conformity with which Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Fry prepared to establish themselves in St. Mildred's Court, in the city of London. The house was large, airy, commodious, and what in the city is a still more rare advantage, quiet ; and con- tinued to be an occasional residence of different members of the family till it was gulled down in consequence of altera- tions hi London. . "Elizabeth Fry wa&BylEer marriage, brought into com- pletely new cifcumstanctf.';' fteY husband's family had been members of the S<32iey of "Friends since an early period after its foundation. In this it resembled her own; bijiL unlike ner own parent's, her father and mother-in-law were * plain and consistent Friends ; ' she was surrounded by a large circle of new connections and acquaintance who differed MABKIAGE AND THE MIMSTET. 63 from her own early associates, in being, almost exclusively, strict Friends. Thus she found herself the ' gay instead of the plain and scrupulous one of the family.' This for a time brought her into occasional difficulty and trial, from the incongruity of the parties assembled at her house, formed of her own family and nearest connections whom she so tenderly loved, and those with whom she was in strict religious communion, but whose habits and sentiments differed from theirs ; and she feared for herself, lest in the desire to please all she should in any degree swerve from the line of conduct which she believed right for herself - "George Dilwyn from Philadelphia, a Friend engaged in religious service in London, became their guest on the 7th of November, only a week after the young married pair had arrived at their home ; he remained with them upwards of a month, and his company appears to have been useful and agreeable to them, although his presence brought the bride into difficulty on a point which at the present time seems almost inconceivable that of reading the Holy Scriptures aloud after breakfast. Family devotion among all persua- sions was much less common at that period than it is now ; and the habit of assembling the household at a stated hour daily for domestic worship was almost unknown. Mr, and Mrs. Fry's servants were not partakers of this privilege, ex- cept on Sunday evenings, until some years after their mar* riage." " Eleventh Month, 1th. George Dilwyn came to-day; I feel almost overcome with my own weakness, when with such people. 'IliA. After breakfast I believed it better to propose reading the Bible, but I felt it, particularly as my brother William was here ; not liking the appearance o| young peo- ple like us, appearing to profess more than they who had lived here before us. However I put off, and put off, till both William and Joseph went down ; I then felt uneasy ELIZABETH FRY. under it, and when Joseph came back I told him, as I did before, what I wished. He, at last, sat down, having told George Dilwyn my desire. I began to read the 46th Psalm, but was so overcome that I could hardly read, and gave it to Joseph to finish. "12th. I rather felt this morning it would have been right for me to read the Bible again, and stop George Dil- wyn and Joseph reading something else. Now stopping G. D., was a difficult thing; for a person like me to remind him! however I did not fully do as I thought right, for I did not openly tell G. D., we were going to read, but spoke to my husband so as for him to hear ; then he read, I know- ing I had not done my best. " 14th. I again felt some difficulty at reading the Bible ; however I got through well. George Dilwyn encouraged me by saying he thought I portioned the reading well. After a little bustling we set off for Hampstead. I was there told by he thought my manners had too much of the courtier in them, which I knew to be the case, for my disposition leads me to hurt no one that I can avoid: and 1 do sometimes but just keep to truth with people from a natural yielding to them in such things as please them. I think doing so in moderation is pleasant and useful in society. It is amongst those things that produce the harmony of society for the truth must not be spoken out at all times, at least not the whole truth. I will give an instance of what I mean. Suppose any one was to show me the color of a room that I thought pretty, I should say so, although I thought others more so, and omit saying that. Perhaps I am wrong ; I do not know if I be not ; but it will not always do to tell our minds. This I have observed (and I am sorry for it) that I feel it hard, when duty dictates, to do what I think may hurt others. I believe this f eeling of mine originates in self-love, from the dislike of being myself the cause of pain and uneasiness." MARRIAGE AND THE 1ONISTBT. 65 The above is a fine illustration of character. Through her entire want of self-esteem she takes to herself discredit for that disposition which won her almost universal favor an enabled her to accomplish very difficult reforms without making an enemy a disposition wanting which many well- meaning, but not wholly well-feeling, people often do as much harm as good in trying to do what they conceive to be their duty. I said, without making an enemy. Perhaps she made one, and that through inattention, as she thought, to the principle above noted, not always to speak what is in our mind. In her humane zeal to save a poor -weak girl from the gallows for passing counterfeit money at the persuasion of her lover, she offended the Secretary of State, Lord Sid- mouth, by reflecting on the conduct of certain bank officers, concerned in the case, and the inhuman Judge let the un- happy girl die, and closed his ears thereafter to appeals from her intercessor. It may have been an indiscretion, though it seems born of the Spirit which cried "Woe unto you Scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites ! " and which brought the wrath of those murderers on the head of Him who could not brook wrongs to the poor. "Ibt/i. George Dilwyn said for our encouragement this morning, that he had seen, since he had been with us, the effi- cacy of reading in the Bible the first thing, he thought it a good beginning for the day." The next step, so delicately pointed to by the guiding Finger of Light in her mind, she found equally difficult to take, and did not take, until long afterwards, perhaps in con- sequence of her shrinking from the first gentle command. "9iA. (December") Anna Savery drank tea here; we had 66 ELIZABETH FBZ. not sat long after tea before we fell into silence. During the time 1 first felt a sort of anxiety for the welfare of us young travelers, and it came strongly across my mind openly to express it . This put me into an agitation not easily to be described; and I continued in this state, which was a truly painful one, nearly feeling it my duty to pray aloud for us ; oh how hard it did seem ! I tried to run from it, but I found the most safety in trying to wait upon God ; hoping if it were imagination, to overcome it ; if it were a duty that I might be obedient. Towards the latter end I felt more inclined towards obedience. But what an obstacle is my not holding my will in subservience to that of my Maker ; for perhaps, after all, it was only a trial of my obedience that would not have been called for, but to show me how far I was from a resigned state of heart. I felt oppressed the rest of the evening. " 10lh. I woke in a burdened state of mind ; I thought it better to relieve it to my dear husband and found comfort in doing so ; he warned me against imagination. I must try to trust in the Lord, and I hope to find safety. I felt quite in a state of agitation till we went to Meeting ; it made me feel almost ill in body, both last night and this morning. However my mind was sweetly calmed in Meeting, and I felt vastly relieved from my terrors, and a little love and trusting in the Heavenly Master. I was almost ready to do whatever might be right for me. Oh! may I give up to what is called for at my hand ; and may I not be deceived, but follow the true Shepherd, for my feet seem much in- inclined to wander ! " That fatal "almost!" How many have been wrecked upon it ! "Almost thou persuadest me to be a Christian.' 1 The Jews were almost ready to go into the Promised Land, but turned back, alarmed by their false spies. So it is with all of us. Even faithful Elizabeth Fry was no exception. KABBIAOK AKD THE MINISTBT. 7 Had she been able to yield to the simple impulses of hex heart when she felt longings for the welfare of herself and Anna Savery, and, asked God to bless and guide them, son she would have asked her earthly parent for aid had she needed it, her entrance upon the open work of the ministry would have been easy and natural. Battles she would have had still to fight, but victory would have been given to faith- ful obedience. She was, however, not ripe for it, as the event proved. She turned back because she was still in bonds, spiritually. She was trying to do God's work as a servant, rather than as a child under compulsion, instead of from love. She still needed the baptism of the Holy Ghost and of fire which would bring the Spirit of Christ into her very soul, before a true and efficacious gospel ministry could flow from it. After nine years of incessant and often bewildering struggle with life, in a crowded city home, and the birth of six children, and when her beloved father lay dead in the home of her childhood, having breathed out his soul, after a severe struggle with conscience, in a lively hope of Heav- en then, at last, the subdued flame of piety burst forth in prayer and thanksgiving in the sight of men. If we could only be faithful to the first, or even the second call, how much sorrow would be spared. But because w& are then only half converted, because we have Christ before our eyes, instead of in our hearts, because, though the spirit is willing the flesh is yet weak, we slumber while the crucial hour of fate is passing ; and after twice rousing us, and again silently looking upon our prostration, the Lord says to us, "Sleep on now and take your rest; he is at hand that doth betray me." The traitor is indeed at hand in all our hearts when either the fear of man or the love of gain 68 ELIZABETH FEY. effectually closes our eyes and ears to Christ's appeal. The minute in her Journal succeeding that last given shows that the Spirit was now to some extent withdrawn. . I attended both Meetings as usual, and as usual, came from them flat and discouraged. To attend our place of worship, and there spend almost all the time in worldly thoughts is I fear too great a mark of how my time is mostly spent ; indeed my life appeal's, at this time, to be spent to tittle more purpose than eating, drinking, sleeping and clothing myself. But if we analyze the employment of most, what do they more than, in some way attend to the bodily wants of themselves or others? What is our work, tha good we do for the poor, &c., &c., but for the body ? " Third Month, 15th. (1801). I felt really better this morning (alluding to a previous indisposition) and went to Meeting, but all my small efforts to quiet my thoughts were ineffectual ; the same in the afternoon ; it is very serious. Keally when I awake in the morning I feel a flatness ; when I find my great object of the day no longer appears to be even to wish to do the will of my Creator. But I am as one who has, in some measure, lost his pilot and is tossed ibout by the waves of the world. But I trust that there is yet a power that will prevent my drowning. I draw some consolation from my dreams of old, for how often \yas I near drowning, and yet at last saved. " 25th. I feel almost overcome with the multiplicity of visitings and goings out. " 15th. (June} If I can with truth acknowledge it to be my first wish to do my best, although I may not feel the sensible gratification of doing my duty, I may yet be really doing it. If I do all I can, I have no occasion to fear sooner or later meeting with my reward. I was rather disappointed ttt our having company : indeed we have now little time alone. It is quite a serious thing, our being so constantly liable to interruptions as we are. I do not think since we MARRIAGE AND THE MINISTRY. 69 married we have had one-fourth of our meals alone. I long for more retirement, but it appears out of our power to pro- cure it ; and therefore it is best to be as patient under inter- ruptions as we can, but I think it a serious disadvantage to young people setting out in life. " 15th. (August) I have had an interesting talk with my dear sister Rachel : She appears to me to have perceived that which will direct her steps. But how hard it is deeply, strictly, and for a long time together, to have our first ob- ject to serve our Creator for at first there is a natural glee, as for something new, and then we feel we have to pass through lukewarmness which is a dangerous state ; I believe one where many are lost. May I be carried through it ! Her maternal trials and pleasures, succeeded each other apace, adding what all mothers understand to the anxieties as well as charms of a busy life. " Tenth Month, 1st. My present feelings for the babe, are so acute as to render me at times unhappy from an over anxiety about her, such a one as I never felt before for any one. Now it appears to me this over anxiety arises from extreme love, weak spirits and state of health, and not being under the influence of principle that would lead me to over- come these natural feelings, as far as they tend to my misery. For if I were under the influence of principle, I might trust that my dear infant indeed was under the care and protection of an infinitely wise and just Providence that permits her little sufferings for some good end that I knew not of. How anxiously do I hope this poor dear baby may be held by me in resignation to the Divine will. Oh ! that I might feel dependence on that Almighty arm about her, and about other things. Beyond everything else I wish to do my duty, idle and relaxed as I am in performing it "Fourth Month, 19/i,(1802) Oh! may my obedience beep pace with my knowledge, at this time; my knowledge of good appears small ; my longings to be better are only 70 ELIZABETH FEY. known by a Superior Power, who I trust will, in time, have mercy on me. I have this day prayed that in this day of darkness I may not prove an obstruction in the way of others ; truly a South Land is my portion, I only long for the wells of living water." The birth of her second child is thus recorded: " Fourth Month, 12th. My heart abounded with joy and gratitude when my dear little girl was born, perfect and lovely. Words are not equal to express my feelings, for I was most mercifully dealt with, my soul was so quiet, and BO much supported. " flasket, Fifth Month, 21s. I have been long prevented from writing in my journal by a severe attack of indisposi- tion. It is difficult exactly to express what I have gone through, but it has been, now and then, a time of close trial ; my feelings being such, at times, as to bo doubtful whether life or death would be my portion. One night I was, I be- lieve, very seriously ill : I never remember feeling so forcibly how hard a trial it was in prospect, to part with life. Much as my mind, as well as body, was tried in this emergency, still I felt forcibly an inward support, and it reminded me of that text of Scripture, ' Can a woman forget her sucking child ? Yea, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee. 1 And then I toid those around me that I was so ill I could almost forget my child ; but that I felt the existence of a Power that could never forget. I have gone through much since, in various ways, from real bodily weakness, and also the trials of a nervous imagination. No one knows, but those who have felt them how hard those are to bear, for they lead the mind to look for trouble, and it requires much exertion not to be led away by them. Nothing I believe allays them so much as the quieting influence of religion, and that leads us to endeavor after quietness under them, not looking be- yond the present. But they are a regular bodily disorder MABEIAGE AND THE MTNISTB*. 71 that I believe no mental exertion can cure or overcome ; but we must endeavor not to give way to them." From this time onward the light gradually grew brighter, and she again ,bec'ame engaged in various good works, as opportunity was afforded. She -was slowly coming back toward the Land of Promise, which to her was the active work of benevolence, and the Ministry of the Gospel as th highest part of that work. " Plashet, Second Month, 5th. (1805) Since I last wrote I have been much occupied with many things, rather more than usual about the poor. I have been desirous that at- tending to them as I do may not prove a snare to me : for I think acting charitably leads us often to receive more credit than we deserve, or at least to fancy so. It is one of those things that give my nature pleasure ; therefore I believe I am no further praiseworthy than that I give way to a natu- ral inclination. Attending the afflicted is one of those things that so remarkably bring their reward with them that we may rest in a sort of self-satisfaction which is dangerous ; but I often feel the blessing of being so situated as to be able to assist the afflicted, and sometimes a little to relieve their distresses. " 11th. We ought to make it an object in conversation and in conduct to endeavor to oblige those we are with, and rather to make the pleasure of others our object than our own. I am clear it is great virtue to be able constantly to yield in little things : it begets the same spirit in others and renders life happy. " Fifth "Month, 1th. Yesterday my sister Eliza Fry was here ; we were saying something about the children's dress ; and she remarked that for the sake of others, (she meant the fear of not setting a good example) she would not do so and so. I said it struck me that those who do their duty 72 ELIZABETH FRY. with integrity are serving others as weH as themselves, and do more real good to the cause of religion than in looking mv.ch outwardly either to what others do or think. I think that conscience will sometimes lead us to feel for others and not. act so as materially to hurt a weak brother ; but I be- lieve we should seldom find that we hurt those whose opin- ion would be worth caring for, if we kept close to the witness in our own hearts. If I were going to do a thing I should endeavor to find whether it appeared to me in any way wrong, and whether I should feel easy to do it, looking secretly for help where it is to be found, and there I believe I should leave it ; and if it led me to act rather differently Erom some I should probably be doing more good to society than in any conformity merely on account of others ; for if I should be preserved in the way of obedience in other things it would in time show from whence such actions spruug : and I think this very spirit of conforming in trifles to the opinion of others leads into forms that may one day prove a stumbling block to the progress of our Society ; whereas if we attend to the principle that brought us together it will lead us out of forms and not into them." The above observation has been abundantly verified not only in the Society of Friends but in all others. The true principle, as referred to, is that laid down by Christ when He said "The light of the body is the eye ; if therefore thine eye be single thy whole body shall be full of light." It was expressed by George Fox in words that became a kind of watch-word, " Mind the Light." Had these injunctions been generally heeded sectarianism would have been a thing un- known. " Seventh Month, 3rd. It appears to me that we who de- bire to be the servants of Christ must expect to do a part of our Master's work, which no doubt is to bear with the MAKRIAQE AND THE MUTCSTBY. 73 weaknesses and infirmities of human nature, and if -we be favored to feel them and not sink under them, we may be enabled in time to help others bear their burdens ; and it appears to me that all Christian travelers must expect to pass through, in their measure, the temptations and trials cheir Master did on earth. " Mildred's Court, 19th. Yesterday and the day before I have been driven from one thing u> another, and from one person to another, as is usual in this place. I have feared oiy attention being quite diverted from good. But I have also thought that doing our duty is most effectually serving the Lord. May I therefore endeavor to do mine and not be impatient at my numerous interruptions, but strive to center my mind in a humble desire to do the will of my Creator, which will, through all, create a degree of quiet- ness. "26A. I havs observed how much better things are done, and how much more satisfaction they produce, when done in that quiet, seeking state of mind. How greatly I desire that all I do may be done to the glory of God rather than to my own self-satisfaction." In the month of May 1808, for the first time since the decease of their mother, death entered the large and highly favored family of John Gurney and removed the wife of Elizabeth Fry's eldest brother John. This event became the occasion of some important changes. In his affliction he sought the advice of the Eev. Edward Edwards, whose, influence among the brothers and sisters, all of whom were awakened to the importance of a religious life, was such aa to lead several of them to a judgment favoring the Church of England. Others chose the hereditary faith of tha Friends, Elizabeth having been the first to assume a de- cided stand. They became nearly equally divided on theso 74 ELIZABETH FBY extreme right and left wings of Protestanism ; and yet they preserved a remarkable unity of spirit and purpose ; thus setting a most beautiful example of Christian charity. Two of the brothers, Samuel and Joseph John, and two of the sisters, Elizabeth and Priscilla, were Friends three of them being ministers. The brothers John and Daniel, with Catharine, the eldest of the family, who remained un- married, Louisa, who married Samuel Hoare, Esq., Rich- enda, wife of Rev. Francis Cunningham, and Hannah who became the wife of Sir T. Fowell Buxton, joined the Episcopal Church ; while Rachel the second sister also un- married, remained without decided preference. In referring to this divergence Mrs. Fry's daughters, who were similarly divided, the eldest, Katharine, remaining a Friend, and the second Rachel, who united with her in editing their mother's Memoir, becoming an Episcopalian remark : " It was not without pain that she who had so decidedly chosen the path of Friends, saw others so dear to her as decidedly choosing another way, and uniting themselves with the Church of England ; but as each one became established in his own course, some one way and some the other, a won- derful union and communion sprang up among them ; so that their bond in natural things was not stronger than that which united them as devoted worshipers of the same Lord." ".Eighth Month, 2Qth. (1808).! have been married eight years yesterday. Various trials of faith and patience have been permitted me; my course 'ias been very different to what I had exgeTSfeUJ and instead of being, as I had hoped, a useful instrument in the Church Militant, .here I am, a care-worn wife and mother, outwardly, nearly devotee! MABEIAGB AHD THE MINISTRY. 75 to the things of this life. Though at times this difference in my destication has been trying to me, yet I believe those trials (which have certainly been very pinching) that I have had to go through, have been very useful, and brought me to a feeling sense of what I am ; and at the same time have taught me where power is, and in what we are to glory ; not in ourselves, nor in anything we can be, or do, but we are alone to desire that He may be glorified, either through us, or others, in our being something, or nothing, as He may see best for us. I have seen, particularly in our spiritual allotments, that it is not in man that walketh to direct his steps. It is our place only to be as passive day in His holy hands, simply desiring tLat He would make us what He would have us to be. But the way in which this great work IB to be effected we must leave to Him who has been the Author and we may trust will be the Finisher of the work : and we must not be surprised to find it going on differently to what our frail hearts would desire. "I may also acknowledge that, through all my trials, there does appear to have been a particular blessing attending me, botli as to the fatness of the land and the dew of Heav- en ; for, though I have been at times deeply tried, inwardly and outwardly, yet I have always found the delivering Arm has been near at hand, and the trials have appeared blessed to me. The little efforts, or small acts of duty, I have ever performed have ofien seemed remarkably blessed to me ; and where others have been concerned, it has also, I think, been apparent to them that the effort on my part has been blessed to both parties. Also what shall I say when I look at my husband and my five lovely babes ? How have I been favored to recover from illness, and to get through them without material injury in any way. I also observe how any little care towards my servants appears to have been blessed, and what faithful and kind friends to me I have found them. Indeed I cannot enumerate my bless- ings ; but I may truly say, that of all the blessings I have 76 ELIZABETH FRY. received, and still receive, there is none to compare with be- lieving that I am not yet forsaken, but, notwithstanding all my deviations, in mercy cared for. And, if all the rest be taken from me, far above all I desire that, if I should be led through paths which I know not of, which may try my weak faith and nature, I may not lose faith in Thee ; but may in- increasingly love Thee, delight to follow after Thee, and be singly Thine, giving all things up to Thee who hast hither* to been my only merciful Protector and Preserver." The death of her father-in-law, soon after the date of the above extract, caused the removal of Joseph Fry's family from London to the country home at Plashet, in Essex, which for the next twenty years formed their principal dence ; a portion of the season being passed at Mildred's Court, London. About a year after their removal to Plashet, Elizabeth's father died ; and it was on this occasion that her spirit was so powerfully wrought upon that she gave brief expression to her feelings, in obedience to an impulse of the Spirit, which was regarded as an entrance upon the work oi the Ministry. This event is best described in her own words. " Earlham, ZQth. (1809) I hardly know how to express myself: I have indeed passed through wonders. On the 26th, as we were sitting quietly together, (after my dear sis- ter Eichenda had left us, and my soul had bowed on my be- loved father's account, of whom we had daily very poor re- ports,) an express arrived bringing Chenda back, saying out most dear father was so ill that they did not expect his life would be spared. Words fall short to describe what I felt> be was so tenderly near and dear to me. We soon believed it best to set off for this place, on some accounts undei great discouragement, principally from my own bodily MAKKiAQK AND THE MINISTB7. 77 ness, and also the fever in the house ; but it did not appear as if we could omit it, feeling as we did ; therefore, after a tender parting with my beloved flock, my dearest Joseph, Chenda and I with the baby set off. We arrived at Mil- dred's Court the first night, where our dear sister left us, in hopes of seeing our dear parent alive. In very great weak- ness I set off next morning, and had at times great discour- agements; but many hours were comforting and sweet. Hearing on the road, at different stages that my dearest father was living, we proceeded till we arrived at Earlham about twelve o'clock that night. We got out of the carriage and once more saw him who has been so inexpressibly dear to me through life, since I knew what love was ; he was asleep but death was strongly marked on his sweet and ta me beautiful face. Whilst in his room all was sweetness, nothing bitter, though how I feel his loss is hard to express: but indeed I have abundant cause to rejoice on his account; after very deep probation his mind was so strikingly visited and consoled at last in passing through the valley of the shadow of death. He frequently expressed that he feared no evil, but believed that through the mercy of God in Christ he should be received in glory. His deep humility, and the tender loving state he was in, were most valuable to those around him. He encouraged us, his children, to hold on our way ; and sweetly expressed his belief that our love of good (in the degree we had it) had been a stimulus and help to him. The next morning he died quite easily. I was not with him, but on entering the room, soon after it was over, my soul was bowed within me, in love, not only for the de- ceased, but also for the living, and in humble thankfulness; so that I could hardly help uttering (which I did) my thanksgiving and praise, and also what I felt for the living as well as the dead. I cannot understand it, but the puwor given was wonderful to myself and the cross none; my beart was so full that I could hardly hinder utterance. 78 ELIZABETH FBT. "Eleventh Month, 3rd. We attended our beloved father's funeral. Before I went I was so deeply -impressed at t'mes with love for all, and thanksgiving that I doubted whether it might not possibly be my place to express it tliere ; but I did, the evening before, humbly crave not to be permitted to do so unless rightly called to it. Fear of man appeared greatly taken away. I sat the meeting under a solemn quietness, though there was preaching that neither disturbed nor enlivened me much. The same words still powerfully impressed me that had done ever since I first entered the room where the corpse lay. Upon going to the grave this still continued. Under this solemn, quiet calm, the fear of man appeared so much removed that I believe my sole desire was that the will of God might be done in me. Though it was unpleasant to me what man might say, yet I most feared it was a tempta- tion, owing to my state of sorrow ; but that I fully believe was not the case, as something of the kind had been on iny mind so long ; but it had appeared more ripe the last few weeks, and even months ; I had so often had to * rejoice in the Lord, and glory in the God of my salvation,' that ifc had made me desire that others might partake, and know how good He had been to my soul, and be encouraged to walk in those paths which I had found to be paths of pleasantness and peace. However, after a solemn waiting, my dear uncle Joseph spoke, greatly to my encouragement and comforti and the removal of some of my fears. I re- mained till dearest John began to move to go away: when it appeared as if it could not be omitted, and I fell on my knees and began, not knowing how I should go on, with these words, 'Great and marvelous are Thy works, Lord God Almighty! just and true are Thy ways, Thou King of Saints ! Be pleased to receive our thanksgiving.' And there I seemed stopped, though I thought that I should have had to express that I gave thanks on my beloved father's account. But not feeling the power continue I MABBIAGE AND THE MINISTBY. 79 arose directly. A quiet, calm and invigorated state, mental and bodily, were my portion afterwards, and altogether a sweet day, but a very painful night, discouraged on every side I could believe bj him who tries to deceive. The dis- couragement appeared to arise principally from what others would think ; and nature flinched and sank ; but I was en- abled this morning to commit myself in prayer." It should perhaps here be mentioned that the Friends do not consider it unsuitable for even nearest relatives of the deceased to express their minds, under a proper impulse, at funerals. Rarely, perhaps, are ministers first called forth on such occasions ; and yet the deep and lively emotions might aid in weakening the bond of timidity by which nearly all are embarrassed on a first exposure. Probably few have a greater natural dread of such a trial than Elizabeth Fry who possessed a peculiarly sensitive organization ; and yet when the proper time came the promised grace was found suf- ficient for her. The river was parted and she went through on dry ground. "JPlashet, Eleventh Month, 16th. We arrived here on Third-day evening. Though plunged into feeling before I arrived, I felt flat on meeting my tenderly beloved little flock. I was enabled, coming along to crave help, in the first place to be made willing either to do, or to suffer what- ever was the Divine will concerning me. I also desired that I might not be so occupied with my present state of mind, as to its religious duties, as in any degree to omit close at- tention to all daily du^'es ruy beloved husband, children, servants, poor, &c. ; but if 1 should be permitted to enter the humiliating path that 'has appeared to be opening 1 before me, to look weJat home and not discredit the cause I desir* to advocate. Last First-do) morning I had a deeply trying 80 ELIZABETH FBI. Meeting, on account of the words, ' Be of good courage and He will strengthen your hearts, all ye that hope in the Lord,' which had impressed me toward Norwich Meeting before I went into it ; and after I had sat there a little time they came with double force, and continued resting on my mind, until my fright was extreme, and it appeared almost as if I must, if I did my duty, utter them. I hope I did not wholly revolt, but I did cry in my heart for that time to be excused, that like Samuel, I might apply to some Eli, to know what the voice was that I heard. My beloved Uncle Joseph I thought was the person. On this sort of excuse, or covenant, as I may call it, a calmness was granted the rest of the meeting ; but not the reward of peace. As soon as the Meeting was over I went to my dear Uncle and begged him to come to Earlham to see me. The conflict I had passed through was so great as to shake my body, as well as mind, and I had reason to fear and to believe I should have been happier and much more relieved in mind, if I had given up to this little service. I have felt since like one in debt to that Meeting. My dear Uncle came, and only con- firmed me, by his kind advice, to walk by faith, and not by sight. He strongly advised a simple following of what arose, and expressed his experience of the benefit of giving up to it, and the confusion of not doing so. How have 1 desired, since, not to stand in the fear of man ; but I believe it is the soul's enemy seeking whom he may devour ; for ter- rible as it was, as then presented to me and as it often had been before, yet when some ability was granted to get through, that same enemy would have had me glory on that account. May I not give way either to one feeling or the other, but strive to look to the preserving power of God. " Twelfth Month, kth. When I have given up, in the morning only to make an indifferent remark to the servants on our reading, sweet peace has been my portion : but when it has been presented to me and I have not followed, far dif- ferent has been the case. In Meeting it is such an awful MARRIAGE AOT) THE MINISTRY. 81 matter, for the sake of others as well as myself. If it B& Thy work in me, be pleased, O Lord, to grant faith and power sufficient for the needful time. I long to serve Thefl and to do Thy commandments, and I believe if 1 be faithful in the little Thou wilt be pleased to make me ruler over more, "9A. Soon after sitting down in Meeting on Fourth* day, (the Friends hold a meeting in the middle of the week) I was enabled to feel encouraged by these words, 'Though the enemy come in like a flood, the Spirit of the Lord witf lift up a standard against him.' This appeared my expfirir ence, for soon the storm was quieted and a degree even of ease was my portion. About eleven o'clock these same words that had done so in Norwich meeting came feelingly over me ' Be of good coui'age and I will strengthen youl hearts, all ye that hope in the Lord.' And that which had hitherto appeared impossible to human nature seemed no! only possible, but I believe I was willing simply desiring that in the new and awful undertaking I might not lose my faith and that the Divine will might be done in inc. Under tbia sense, and feeling as if I could nob omit, I uttered them. Though clearness still continued, nature, in a great measure, seemed to sink under the effort afterwards, and low feelings and imaginations to have much dominion, which, in mercy, were soon relieved, and 1 have gone on sweetly and easily since, even rejoicing. "22/ic?. Again, on Fourth-day, I have dared to open my mouth in public : I am ready to say What has come to meV even in supplication, that the work might be carried on in myself and others, and that we might be preserved from evil. My weight of deep feeling on the subject I believe exceeded any other time. I was, I may say, brought into a wrestling state, that the work of the ministry in me might, if right, be carried on, if not, stopped short. I feel, of my- self, no power for such a work ; I may say, wholly unable ; yet when the feeling and power continue, so that I dare not omit it, then what can I do? 62 ELIZABETH FRY. " 23rThe excellent clergyman of East Ham, Mr. Aulezark, with hTs lady united with her In the object. A school of about seventy girls was estab- lished, and although afterwards removed to a more central situation, continues to the present day. "The bodily wants of the/.popr, especially in cases of sick- ness or accident, claimed hes careful attention. There was a depot of calico and ilannels always ready, besides other MARRIAGE AND THE MINISTRY. 87 garments, and a roomy closet well supplied with drugs, tn very hard winters she had soup boiled in an out-house in euch quantities as to supply hundreds of poor people with a nourishing meal. Nor was her interest confined to the En- glish poor in East Ham. About half a mile from Plashet, on the high road between Stratford and Ilford, the passer- by will find two long rows of houses with one larger one in the center, if possible more dingy than the rest. At that time they were squalid and dirty ; the windows generally stuffed with old rags, or pasted over with brown paper, and the few remaining panes of glass refusing to perform their intended office, from the accumulated dust of years ; puddlea of thick black water before the doors ; children without shoes or stockings; mothers whose matted locks escaped from the remnants of caps which looked as though they never could have been white ; pigs on terms of evident fa- miliarity with the family; poultry sharing the children's potatoes all bespoke an Irish colony. " It was a pleasant thing to observe the influence obtained by Mrs. Fry over these wild but warin-hearted people. She had in her nature a touch of poetry, and a quick sense of the droll ; the Irish character f urnished matter for both. Their powers of deep love and bitter grief excited her sympathy ; almost agoinst her judgment she would grant the linen shirk and the boughs of evergreen to array the departed and or- nament tho bed of death. "One clear frosty morning Mrs. Fry called her elder chil- dren to accompany her on a visit to one of these cottages. A poor woman, the mother of a young family had died there ; she had been well conducted as a wife and mother, and had long shown a desire for religious instruction ; the priest, a kind-hearted, pains-taking man, liberal in his views and anxious for the good of his flock, thought well of the poor woman, had frequently visited her in her illness, and was in that as in many other cases, very grateful to Mrs. 83 ELIZABETH FBY. Pry for the relief and nourishment she had bestowed, which it was not in his power to give. " On the bed of death lay extended the young mother, hei features, which were almost beautiful, stiffened into the sem- blance of marble. Her little children were on the floor, hex husband in the corner leaning on a round table, with hia face buried in his hands. A paper cross lay on the breast of the corpse ; the sun shone into the room and mocked the dreary scene. The apartment was close from the fumes of tobacco and the many guests of the wake which had been held .during the night, contrasting strangely with the fresh air which blew in through the half-opened doorway. Mrs. Fry spoke soothingly to the husband; she reminded him of his wife's desires for his good and for that of his children ; she slightly alluded to theuselesmess of the cross as a sym- bol, but urged the attention of those present to the great doctrine of which it was intended to remind them. Again she offered solace to the mourner, promised assistance for his little cues, and left the room. "Some of the scenes in Irish Bow were very different, ' Madam Fry,' as she was called by them, being so popular as to cause some inconveniences and many absurdities. She enjoyed giving pleasure; it was an impulse as well as a duty with her to do good. Gathering her garments round her she would thread her way through children and pigs, up broken stair-cases and by narrow passages, to the apartments she sought; there she would listen to their tales of want or woe, or of their difficulties with their chil- dren, or of the evil conduct of their husbands. She per- suaded many of them to adopt more orderly habits, giving some presents of clothing as encouragement ; she induced some to send their children to school, and with the con- sent of the priest, circulated the Bible amongst them. On one occasion, when the weather was extremely cold and great distress prevailed, being at the time too delicate herself to walk, she went alone in the carriage literally MABBIAGE AND TEE MINISTRY. 89 piled with flannel petticoats for Irish How, the rest of the party walking to meet her, to assist in the delightful task of distribution. She made relieving the poor a pleasure to her children by the cheerful spirit in which she did it ; she employed them as almoners when very young, but ex- pected a minute account of their giving and their reasons for it. After the establishment of the Tract Society she always kept a large supply of such as she approved for dis- tribution. It was her desire never to relieve the bodily wants of any one without endeavoring in some way, more or less directly, to benefit their souls. She was a warm advocate for vaccination, and very successful in perform- ing the operation ; she had acquired this art from Dr. Wil Ian 5i one of its earliest advocates and most skilful practition- ers. At intervals she made a sort of investigation oi the state of the parish, with a view to vaccinating the children. The result was that small-pox was scarcely known in the villages over which her influence extended. " In a green lane near Plashet, it has been the annual custom of the gipsies to pitch their tents for a few days in their way to Fairlop fair. The sickness of a gipsy child inducing the mother to apply for relief, led Mrs. Fry to visit their camp; from that time, from year to year, she cared for them when they came into her neighborhood. Clothing for the children and a little medical advice she invariably bestowed ; but she did far more than that she sought to influence their minds aright ; she pleaded with them on the bitter fruits of sin, and furnished them with Bibles and books the most likely to arouse their attention. But though thus abounding in labors for the good of all around her, she was liable to deep inward discouragements, undoubtedly increased by her sensitive nature and delicate frame, but arising chiefly from her intense desire in nothing fco offend Him whom her soul loved, and whom she so en- tirely desired to serve. "In September, Mrs. Fry visited Earlham. On the 10th 90 ELIZABETH FRY. of that month, 1811, was held the first meeting of the Nor- wich Bible Society: it was very largely and generally at- tended. Mrs. Fry, who was warmly interested in the Bible society from its commencement to the close cf her life, was present, with her brother Joseph John Gurney, and other members of the family. Mr. Gurney, then in the prime of early manhood, on this occasion first took his stand hi pub- lic life as an advocate for the general circulation of that sacred volume which he had chosen as the guide of his youth and which has proved the stay of his advancing years." The following extracts from the Journal are beautifully illustrative : "JEarlham, Ninth Month, 10th. I think a more deeply exercised state which has at times bordered on distress of soul I hardly ever remember than I feel this morning on going to meeting ; in the first place with the Edwardses and my own family in their various states ; in the next place, my prospect of going into the men's Monthly Meet- ing ; and in the last, an idea having passed my muid r Whether I may not have, amongst their very large com- panies who are very likely to be here, consisting of many clergyman and others, to say something, either before meals, or at some other time. The words that (I believe) have arisen for my encouragement are these: 'The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want? Yes I will try not fear, for if God be with me who can be against met' ' " 12/i. What can I render for all His benefits? In the first place, I went to the Meeting for worship with the Ed- 'wardses : I had not long been there before I felt something of a power accompanying me, and words arose, but my ex- ercise of mind was so great that it seemed like being ' bap- MARRIAGE AND TEE MINISTRY. 91 tized foi % the dead ;' though not that I know of from any particular fear of man. I was helped (I believe I may say) as to power, tongue and utterance. That Meeting might be said to end well. " Yesterday was a day indeed ; one that may be called a mark of the times. We first attended a General Meeting of the Bible Society where it was sweet to observe so many of various sentiments all uniting in the one great object* from the good Bishop of Norwich (Bathurst), for so I be- lieve he may be called, to the dissenting minister and young Quaker (my brother Joseph). We afterwards, about thirty- four of us, dined here ; I think there were six clergyman of the Establishment, three dissenting ministers, and Kichard Philips, beside numbers of others. A very little before the cloth was removed such a power came over me of love, I believe I may say life, that I thought I must ask for silence after Edward Edwards had said grace, and then supplicate the Father of mercies for Eis blessing, both of the fatness- bf the earth and the dew of Heaven, upon those who thus desired to promote His cause by spreading the knowledge of the Holy Scriptures ; and that He would bless their en* deavors, that the knowledge of God and His glory mighfr cover the earth as the waters cover the sea ; and also for the preservation of all present, that through the assistance bf His grace we might so follow Him and our blessed Lord In time that we might eventually enter into a glorious eter- kiity where the wicked cease from troubling and the weary are at rest. The power and solemnity were very great. Eichard Philips asked for silence ; I soon knelt down : ifc was like having our High Priest amongst us. Independ* ently of this power His poor instruments are nothing ; and with His power how much is effected. I understood many were in tears ; I believe all were bowed down spiritually* Soon after I took my seat ; the Baptist minister said, 'This is an act of worship ; ' adding that it reminded him of thafe which the disciples said. ' Did not our heart burn within ,ua 92 ELIZABETH FRY. while He talked with us by the way?' A clergyman said, 'We want no wine for there is that amongst us which does instead.' A Lutheran minister remarked that although he .could not always understand the words, being a foreigner, he felt the spirit of prayer, and went on to enlarge in a striking manner. Another clergyman spoke to this effect : How the Almighty visited us, and neither sex nor anything else tood in the way of His grace. I do not exactly remember the words of any one, but it was a most striking circum- stance for so many, of such different opinions, thus all to be united in one spirit ; and for a poor woman to be made the means, amongst so many great, wise, and I believe good men, of showing forth the praise of the great ' I Am.' " One of the secretaries of the Bible Society, Mr. Joseph Hughes, thus describes this occasion : "On the Monday after my return, I proceeded with my .excellent colleagues for Norwich where a numerous and re- spectable meeting was held on Wednesday in a very spa- cious and commodious hall. The mayor presided; the Bishop spoke with great decision and equal liberality ; and the result of the whole was the establishment of the Nor- folk and Norwich Bible Society. About seven hundred pounds was subscribed, and one happy, amiable sentiment appeared to pervade the company. My colleagues and myself adjourned to Earlham, two miles from Norwich where we had passed the previous day, and where we wit- nessed emanations of piety, generosity and affection in a degree that does not often meet the eye of mortals. Our hosts and hostesses were the Gurneys, chiefly Quakers, who, together with their guests amounted to thirty- four. A clergyman, at the instance of one of the family, and I presume with the most cordial concurrence of the rest, read a portion of the Scriptures morning and evening, and twice we had prayers; I should have said thrice, for aftei MARRIAGE AND THE illXISTBY. 93' dinner, on the day of the meeting, the pause encouraged by the Society of Friends, was succeeded by a devout addresa to the Deity, by a female minister, Elizabeth Fry, whose manner was impressive, and whose words were so appro- priate that none present can ever forget the incident, of ever advert to it without emotions alike powerful and pleas- ing. The first emotion was surprise ; the second awe ; the third pious fervor. As soon as we were re-adjusted at the table, I thought it might be serviceable to offer a remark that proved the coincidence of my heart with the devotional exercise in which we had been engaged ; this had the de- Bired effect. Mr. Owen and others suggested accordant sentiments, and we seemed generally to feel like the disci- ples whose hearts burned within them as they walked to Emmaus." Elizabeth Fry's engagements in the Gospel ministry thu received the approbation, not only of her own Society, but also of ministers belonging to several other denominations, whose testimony is the more valuable because it was both cordial and spontaneous. CHAPTER THIRD. MOTHER AND MIKISTEB. Ministers in the Society of Friends, both men and women, are usually called to a very active life. In addition to their ordinary avocations, which they are expected to leave only when summoned temporarily to higher duties, and to the regular semi-weekly, monthly, quarterly, and yearly gather- ings; they frequently make excursions of various lengths to neighboring communities of their own, or other people, fol- lowing as nearly as they can the intimations of the good Shepherd, as to where His thirsty flocks most need atten- tion. Elizabeth Fry soon became engaged in this mission- ary labor, for which she was admirably adapted, as well as in services within and about her own home. A few of the most important of these earlier engagements will now be noticed. The first is dated February, 1812, about four and a half months after the events last related. Th prospect I have had for some months of go- Jng into Norfolk to attend the Monthly and Quarterly Meet- ings 13 nov? brought home to me, as 1 must apply to my next Monthly Meeting for permission. It is no doubt a sacrifice of natural feeling to leave the comforts of home and my beloved husband and children ; and to my weak, ner- "ous habits, the going about, and alone (for so I feel it in MOTHEB AND MINISTER. Q.j one sense, without my husband ) is, I have found from ex- perience, a trial greater than I imagined ; and my health suffers much I think, from my habits being necessarily so different. This consideration of its being a cross to my nature I desire not to weigh in the scale ; though no doubt, for the sake of others as well as myself, my health being so shaken is a serious thing. What I desire to consider most deeply is this : Have I authority for leaving my home and evident duties? "What leads me to believe I have? for I need not doubt that when away, and at tunes greatly tried, this query is likely to arise. The prospect has come in that quiet, yet I think powerful way, that I have never been able to believe I should get rid of it ; indeed hitherto I have hardly felt anything but a calm cheerfulness about it, and very little anxiety. It seems to me as if in this journey I must be stripped of outward dependences, and my watch- word appears to be, 'My soul, wait thou ONLY upon God; for my expectation is from Him.' " 2Qth. My sister, Elizabeth Fry, means to go with me into Norfolk: my Uncle Joseph is likely to go another way: it appears as if I could not mind much who is to go with me. But I feel disposed to a very single dependence, and if I be rightly put forth to this service, may He who puts me forth be with me ; if I have to minister food to others may it be that which is convenient for them, and which will tend to their lasting nourishment. I have often thought that in this little prospect I must go like David, when he went to slay the giant. I am ashamed of the comparison ; but I only mean it in this respect, I go not trusting in any power or strength of my own ; I feel I dare look to no helper outwardly. I feel young and a stripling, without armor, yet I trust the Lord will be with me, and make the sling and stone effectual, if He please to make use of TTiq poor child to slay the giant in any one. "JEarlham, Third Month, lth. Have I not renewed reason for faith, hope and confidence in the principle which 96 ELIZABETH FBY. I desire to follow ? In the night I had to acknowledge that the work must be Thine, O Lord ! and that it is to me won- derful. My fears and causes of discouragement were many, for some little time before I set off my own poor health, and my little ones ; then my lowness and stupidity. In the first place my health and the dear children's improved so much, and I inwardly so brightened, that I left home very comforta- bly. As I went on my way such abundant hope arose that light, rather than darkness appeared to surround me. I have now attended the Monthly Meetings and three other Meetings. I have also had frequent opportunities of a reli- gious nature in families ; the most remarkable were one in a clergyman's family, in supplication for him and his house, and another where he had to supplicate for my help. May I ever remember how utterly unfit I am in myself for all these works : unto me alone belongs abasedness. I can take- nothing to myself. As Thou hast seen meet, Lord ! Thou who art strength in weakness, thus to make use of Thy poor handmaid as an instrument in Thy service, be pleased to keep her from the evil, both in reality and appearance, that she may never, in any way, bring reproach upon Thy cause. '* After her return she thus balances the account : ** May I now be enabled to attend to my own vineyards,, and after having been made instrumental thus to warn and encourage others may I not become a cast away myself. I hardly understand what Friends mean by reward for such services, for I do not feel the work mine, and no reward is- due. As for reward, is.it not enough to feel a Power better than ourselves influencing and strengthening us to do the work that we humbly trust is His own ? for what honor, favor, or blessing so great as being engaged in the service of Him whom we love, in whatever way it may be, whether performing one duty or another, and having a little evidence granted us that we are doing His will, or endeavoring to da UOTHEK AKD MINISTEB. 97 it ? I peculiarly feel, in ministerial duties, that I have no part, because the whole appears a gift, the willing heart, the. jpawer, and everything attending it; the poor creature bad only to remain as passive as possible, willing to be op- erated upon. "JPlashet, Third Month, 28th. I will first mention how it was with me in the Norwich Quarterly Meeting. I went, looking to Him who has hitherto helped me ; my beloved uncle Joseph said a few words, as a seal to what I had ex- pressed, and it was, I believe, a peculiarly solemn and favored time : much blessed in a few words of supplication at the Grove before dinner. In the adjourned meeting I felt it safest to go to the Men's Meeting,* where I had to bid them farewell in the Lord, after I had been helped with a few words of tender love and encouragement. Sarah Bo\vley said a little, and then my dear sister Elizabeth Fry arose and said, * She hoped what had passed that day would not be attended to as a tale that was told, but as everlasting truths ;* which appeared to bring great solemnity and sweet- ness with it. In the Women's meeting we also had a very solemn time at parting, in which I bade them farewell, de- siring that we might all ascend, step by step, that ladder which reaches from earth to heaven. Before we set off I had, after reading, in heart-felt and heart-tendering suppli- cation, to pray for the preservation of the family, and our support in the day of trial, and amidst all the various turn- ings and overturnings of the Holy Han'l upon us. Here I once more am, surrounded by outward blessings, and well In, health ; yet I hardly know how to return thanks, or to rejoice in Him who has helped me; being poor, low, stripped, the tears come into my eyes. Though cast down I love the^Lord above alj, and desire, through the saving, xede'eming power of Him who came to save that which was lost, and has, I believe proved a Saviour to me, in part, that Men and women hold their meetings for discipline separately 98 ELIZABETH FRY. I may draw nearer and nearer to the most high God, and become in all things more completely His." " Six Month, \Qth. It now appears too late to give much account of the Yearly Meeting. The prospect of going into the Men's meeting, naturally was so awful, nay, almost dreadful, that as I sat at breakfast, fears arose lest my un- derstanding should fail. However, though in great meas- ure taken from me on first sitting down in meeting, yet after a time the concern arose with tranquillity, and with a powerful, though small voice at least with power sufficient to enable me to cast my burden upon the meeting. This brought, I thought, great solemnity ; I appeared to have the full unity of Friends : dear Rebecca Bevan went with me. I felt myself much helped when there : matter, tongue and utterance were all given, in testimony and supplication. I think the calm frame I enjoyed upon returning to the Women's Meeting must almost be a foretaste of that rest which the soul pants after. " Sixth Month. My press of engagements has been very great. ... I think my temper requires great watchful- ness ; for the exercises of my mind, my very numerous in- terests, and the irritability excited by my bodily infirmities, cause me to be in so tender and touchy a state that the * grass- hopper becomes a burden.' In this as in all my infirmities, I have but one hope ; it is in the power of Him who has in mercy answered my prayers, and helped me in many of my difficulties, and I humbly trust yet will arise for my deliv- erance. As to the ministry, I have been raised up and at times cast down, but my heart and attention have been mostly turned to rigidly performing my practical duties in life, which is my object by night and by day. I have felfc as if I could rest in nothing short of serving Him whom my soul loves ; but I desire to watch, and am fully aware that with regard to myself I have nothing to trust to but mercy; but, leaving myself, I long, whilst permitted to remain in mortality, not to be a drone, but to do everything MOTHER AND MINISTER. 99 to the glory of God. I think I desire to do all things wel) more for the cause's sake, than for the sake of my own soul ; as my conviction of the mercy and loving kindness o| Him who loveth us and who is touched with a feeling ol our infirmities, is so great that whilst my heart is seeking to serve Him, (full as I am of defects), I am ready to trust that that mercy which has hitherto compassed me about will be with me to the end of time, and continue with ma through eternity. The fear of punishment hardly ever arises, or has arisen in my mind ; it is more the certain knowledge that I have of the blessedness of serving our Master, and the very strong excitement of love and graft tude, and desire for the promotion of the blessed causa upon earth. Through all my tried states I have one un- speakable blessing to acknowledge, and that is an increase of faith." Elizabeth Fry was peculiarity fitted to minister at the bedi of sickness, and where sickness had done its Avork, and the hearts of bereaved friends needed the voice of sympathy and Avise counsel. She was often engaged in this most eacred service, frequently among her own very large circle of friends and relatives, and also among the poor. The fol- lowing extracts, part taken from the Journal, and part from the biographical notes, illustrate this portion of her work, and show how careful she was to do nothing ceremoniously, or when it was uncalled for by her inward Guide. "Ninth Month, 2nd. This moining OUT poor servant who has for some Aveeks kept his bed very seriously ill, died. t feel that I have cause for humble gratitude in having been at the awful time strengthened by faith, and I believe I may say, having experienced the Divine presence near. I hav often sat and watched by his bed-side, desiring to know 100 ELIZABETH FET. whether I had anything to do, or say, as to his soul's welfare. I found neither feeling, faith nor ability to say or do much more than endeavor to turn his mind to his Maker; but I think never more than once, in anything of the anointing power. Yesterday I found him much worse, a struggle upon bitn that appeared breaking the thread of life, and his suf- ferings great, mentally and bodily. The first thing I found in myself was that a willing mind was granted me, and in sit- ting by him the power and spirit of supplication and interces- sion for him arose, to which I gave way. It immediately appeared to bring a solemn tranquillity ; his pains and rest- lessness were quieted; his understanding I believe was quite clear : he thanked me and said, * God bless you ma'am,' as if he felt much comfort in what had passed. Faith, love, and calmness were the covering of my mind. He had I be- lieve only one or two more slight struggles after I left him. After that I was sent for and found that the conflict ap- peared over, and he breathed his last in about a quarter of an hour. There was peculiar sweetness, and great silence and solemnity in the room. I had to acknowledge that I believed the mercy of our Heavenly Father was then ex- tended towards him, and to express a desire that it might, in the same awful moment, be extended toward us, feeling how greatly we stood in need of mercy. The rest of the day passed off as well as I could expect. I feared lest the ser- vants and others should attribute that praise to me with which I had nothing to do, for I could not have prayed or found an answer to prayer without an anointing from the Most High. It led me to feel it a blessing to be entrusted with this sacred and precious gift; for though ministers may have much to pass through and many crosses to take up for their own good and that of others, yet it is a marvel- ous gift when the pure life stirs, operates and brings down strongholds. My nerves were rather shaken, so as to make me naturally fearful at times the rest of the day. I have a great desire that this event maybe blessed to the household, MOTHER AND MINISTER. 101 more particularly the servants, that it may humble and bo\ their spirits ; that they may live more in love, and grow in the knowledge of God and of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ." "The funeral of the servant was fixed for the following Sunday ; as the time approached Mrs. Fry felt an earnest desire arise in her heart that the occasion might be one oi benefit to others, as several of his friends were to be pres- ent; some from the immediate neighborhood. She pro- posed that in the evening all the assembled guests should be invited to attend the family reading, with her own house- hold ; but before the hour arrived for the performance of a duty which was to her exceedingly weighty she was sum- moned to visit Eliza, the newly married wife of her cousin, James Sheppard, who was rapidly sinking into the grave. The afflicted husband and sister were deeply needing the skillful tenderness with which she could meet such exigen- cies. At Meeting in the morning her heart had been strengthened and apparently prepared for the duties of the day. By the bed of languishing we find her waiting for that unction without which she was sensible that her services could avail nothing ; and on the same evening, in her own dwelling, when surrounded by about forty, besides her own children, she speaks in exhortation and prayer. Her ad- dress was closely suited to the state of some persons pres- ent, and unflinchingly did she impress upon them that ' the way of the transgressor is hard.' The occasion was long re- membered by individuals who were there, and who attribu- ted their permanent improvement to the solemn truths they then heard, and for the first time effectively received into their hearts. Her own Journal of the day, written the fol- lowing morning, portrays the' workings of her own mind." "flasket, Ninth Month, Second-day. Yesterday waa rather a remarkable day. I rose very low and fearful : my spirit appeared overwhelmed within me, partly I think from some serious outward matters, but principally from such an 102 ELIZABETH FRY. extreme fear of my approaching confinement, feeling noth- ing in myself to meet it, and knowing that it must come unless death prevent. I went to Meeting, but was almost too low to know whether I should go or not ; however being helped in testimony to show the blessedness of those who hope in the Lord and not in themselves appeared to do me good, as if I had to minister to myself as well as others. I had a trust that my help was in the Lord, and that there- fore I should experience my heart to be strengthened. A message came requesting my immediate attendance on poor dear Eliza Sheppard, who appeared near her end. Of course 1 went. These visits are very awful ; to sit by that which we believe to be a death-bed ; to be looked to by the afflicted and others, as a minister from whom something is expected, and the fear, at such a time of the activity of the creature arising and doing that which it has no business to do. After sitting sometime quiet, part of which she ap- peared to sleep, and part to be awake, a solemn silence cov- ered us ; the words of supplication arose in due time, when I believed her to be engaged in the same manner by putting; her hands together ; I knelt down and felt greatly helped, but had not so much to pray for her alone as for all of us there present with her. I had a few words also to say in tak- ing leave. The visit appeared sweet to her by her smiles, and her whispering to her sister expressing this. ... I think I found myself strengthened rather than weakened by the day's work, mentally and bodily, though my own great weakness soon returned upon me, and it appeared striking that such an one should have been so engaged ; but painful as these f eelings of depression are to bear, I know * it is well,' as it keeps me humble ; at least I hope so, lowly and abased. Oh, saith my soul, after thus ministering to others, may I not become a cast-away myself, and neither in trou- ble nor rejoicing bring discredit on the cause that I love, or on His name whom I desire to serve." MOTHER AND MINISTER. 103 In 1814, she made a short visit to her native county, which is thus described : i* Eleventh Month, 12th. I am likely to set off early to- morrow without my husband to go into Norfolk. Tins prospect I feel pleasant and painful ; pleasant, the idea of being at Earlham ; painful, leaving home and more particu- larly my husband. May 1 be enabled there faithfully to do my duty, in whatever way I may be led, in meeting or out of meeting; may the time spent there be to our mutual comfort and edification, and may those left be cared for and preserved, soul and body, by Him who careth for us j this I humbly trust will be the case. Amen. " flashet, 25th. I returned safely home to my beloved family on Second-day evening, the 22nd, I trust I may say in thankfulness of heart, finding all well, and going on alto- gether very comfortably. I returned by Ipswich accom- panied by my sister Priscilla and my brother Joseph, and spent all First-day there ; but I was unusually low, almost distressed, on account of little Betsey, as I heard she was unwell, and knew not the extent of it ; so that my natural impatience to get home was great ; but I felt kept there, and as if I could not go away ; and thus deeply tried in myself was greatly helped from one service to another, dur- ing the day, being variously and often engaged. It was a day of natural tribulations, as far as fears went ; and may I not say almost of spiritual abounding? So it is I and so I often have found it, that I have to be brought to the dust of the earth before I am greatly helped. Out of the depths we are raised to the heights." The death of her brother John Gurney, which occurred in 1814, and which first broke the circle of eleven affection- ate brothers and sisters, proved a very tender occasion. Arriving just before his death, she was warmly greeted 104 ELIZABETH FRY. with the words "My dear sister come and kiss me." As the seven sisters all stood round his bed, he expressed great satisfaction, saying, it was delightful, how they loved one another. Elizabeth then knelt and offered thanks for such "unspeakable blessings." He then said "What a sweet prayer!" and afterwards, "I never passed so happy a morn- ing ; how delightful being together and loving one anothei as we do ! " One of the sisters sang hymns which he en- joyed, and as the day advanced he remarked, "What a beautiful day this has beent" On the day of the funeral Elizabeth writes : " My heart feels very full ; my body I believe has trem- bled ever since I rose, to meet the party now assembled end likely to assemble here. My own corrupt dispositions. I found showed themselves yesterday, which I believe tended to lay me very low ; may I not say the feeling of my heart ia that I am lying prostrate in the dust ? I have been greatly tendered in spirit with love to those here whom I believe to love theiorc?/ united to them in a manner inexpressible, in my inmost heart all barriers being broken down. Yet I feel it needful to be very watchful, very careful ; to be faithful to the testimony that I apprehend myself called upon to bear, not only for my own sake, but also for the sake of the younger ones about me. Lord be pleased to help me, to guide me, to counsel me, that from my own will and preju- dice I wound not a beloved brother or sister in Christ; but BO keep me in Thy fear, in Thy love, and under a sense ol Thy presence, that I may act in these most awful and im- portant duties according to Thy most holy and blessed will. . . . . Let Thy good presence be with us that the fee- ble be strengthened, the discouraged animated by hope, the lukewarm stimulated, and the backslider turned Irom the MOTJHKK A.TTD MTOTBTJIK. 103 eif or of his ways, even so if consistent with Thy holy will If Thou seest meet to make use of Thy unworthy children to speak in Thy name, be unto them tongue and utterance, wisdom and power, that through Thy grace, and the help of Thy Spirit sinners may be converted unto Thee. Amen, Amen." "flasket, %2nd. My beloved brother's funeral was a very solemn and humbling day to me. Whilst we sat at Earl- ham, round the body, my uncle Joseph, my sisters Cath- erine, Rachel, Priscilla, and I each had something to say ; also Edward Edwards. I had to finish the sitting with these words ' There are different gifts but the same Spirit. And there are differences of administration, but the same Lord. And there are diversities of operations, but it is the same God which worketh all in all. But let us earnestly covet the best gifts.' It certainly was a striking occasion. Were we not all in a measure leavened into one spirit ? It was a very golemn time at the ground, and I trust an instructive one, very affecting to our natural feelings thus to leave the body of one so tenderly beloved to moulder with the dust. Upon my return I heard of the sudden death of my long-loved cousin, Joseph Gurney Bevan. My spirit was much over- whelmed within me, but there was a stay underneath; blessed be the name of the Lord ! I bade them all fare- well at Earlham in near unity. Oh may my children love as we love this has been the prayer of my heart ! " But with all her gifts, her motherly kindess, her humility, her adroitness in dealing with different characters, Eliza- beth Fry found it nowhere so difficult to act in the capacity of a minister with success, as in her own immediate family. This was due to various causes. Perhaps in the first place it was altogether natural, from the necessary familiarity on the one hand, and the necessity of enforcing authority on 106 ELIZABETH FEY. the other. The profound law which secures diversity in unity is also apt to make some children branch off from the parent stock in spiritual as well as natural likings. In ad^ dition to these things considerable variety of opinion exist. ing in the large family of uncles and aunts, several of whom belonged to the Church of England and were persons of es- timable character, had its effect on the young minds. StilJ again, it appeai-s from various passages both in the Journal and the later editor's notes that Elizabeth Fry's husband did not wholly sympathize with her at all times in her reli- gious zeal although a member of the same society. We are even led to suspect, from the care taken to avoid explicit statements, and the profound grief of the devoted wife and mother, that there was a more serious want than the lack of denominational zeal. Something of this gathering cloud which oveshadowed many of the later years of her life, may be seen in the following extracts, one from the Journal, and one from the abridged Life of Elizabeth Fry, edited by Su- sanna Corder. " flasket, Eleventh Month, 2nd, (1814). My beloved husband and girls returned from France on Second-day; my heart was rather overwhelmed in receiving them again. I also had to feel the spirit in which some persons took my having allowed them to go, making what appeared to be ijmkind remarks. Oh how I do see rocks on every hand ! thus almost all persons who appear to pride themselves upon their consistency are apt to judge others; whilst some who no doubt yield to temptations greatly suffer and weaken themselves by it. How weak, how frail are we on every hand! My heart was much overwhelmed seeing the infirmities of others and feeling my own ; I sat and wept in MOTHER AND MINISTER. 107 meeting yesterday. I long, for myself, to have a mor$ prompt obedience to the manifestation of light in my soul^ When I have time to pro and con the matter, to try the; fleece wet and dry, I do pretty well, seldom for instance; leaving a Meeting condemned for disobedience so much a? for want of maintaining a faithful exercise. But at home, where things quickly arise in my mind, before meals, or in our pause after reading, it appears as if I could not give up to them without trying the thing again and again. I ques- tion whether I should not do better if I more simply, in, these things, walked by faith whether I should not pros* per better, or make more progress Zionward ; but to go to the root of the matter, may my will become more subjected to the Divine will. How do I long for the tune when I may know the Almighty to be my all in all, my Lord and my God, that He may be continually served by me, both day and night, in small things and in great." Remarks of Mrs. Corder, on the above. " Elizabeth Fry exercised a watchful care, never, unless duty required it, to oppose the wishes of her husband ; and it could not reasonably be expected that she would prevent bis taking his two elder girls on this excursion. But her solicitude on account of her family became increasingly great. She found as her children advanced in age, and the corrupt propensities of the natural mind developed them* selves, that she often failed in her attempts to control the unyielding will and to subdue the vain inclination and from external circumstances she did not receive the co- operation requisite rightly to govern their volatile tempera* ment : but earnest were her efforts to guide them into the way of peace, and fervent her prayers that they might fed gathered to the fold of the good Shepherd." It is proper here to add some editorial remarks of hag daughters made in this connection. 108 ELIZABETH FRY. "Mrs. Fry was always very jealous over herself, lest her avocations as the head of the family should be neglected from her time and attention being so greatly occupied by those duties which she believed herself called to perform in the church ; but she was even more alive to the danger of Carrying on the business of life in dependence upon her own strength." " It would not be true to say that Mrs. Fry naturally cared much for outward appearance, or that she took pleas- ure in domestic concern. She loved a simple liberality and unostentatious comfort. Her element was hospitality, and, whilst Christian moderation was observed, her taste was gratified by an open, generous mode of living; but she would not have chosen for her own pleasure the oversight of either house or table ; and when in later life circumstan- ces rendered care and economy a duty, it was a great relief to her to be able to depute the charge of household affairs to one of her daughters. She was always moist correct in account-keeping ; the distinct heads of house, garden, farm, charity, with many others, marked the painstaking care with which she performed her self-imposed task. "As mistress of a family, if she erred it was upon the Bide of indulgence; scarcely liking to exert that power over the wills and feelings of others which is so conducive to their good, and so infinitely in favor of those governed, as well as those in the more arduous position of governing others ; but she was aware of this herself, and a * firm hand with a household,' was among the maxims sfce impressed upon her daughters as they advanced in life. "During the infancy of her children she was singularly devoted to them by night as well as day. She attended to their minutest ailments, and was distressed by their suffer- ings ; in health and happiness they refreshed her by their smiles. She had the gentlest touch with little children, literally and figuratively. She would win their hearts if they had never seen her before, almost at the first glance, and by the first sound of her musical voice. As her chil- dren grew older her love was undiminished, but her facility was less than before the sinfulness of the human heart had developed itself in positive evil ; this especially applies to the elder ones. She had not a talent for education if that word be used for imparting knowledge ; probably be- cause her own had been interrupted and unfinished ; nor did she appreciate, till the experience of ]ife taught her, the necessity of exerting minute, continued and personal influ- ence over the minds of children. She had to learn that if the golden harvest of success is to be reaped, the husband- man must exert both industry and skill. The genial sun to ripen, and the refreshing shower to moisten the ground, are indeed needful ; but the soil must have been turned up, and the seed sown by the labor of man.'* Pretty good results, however, seem to have been finally ob- tained ; and it must always remain a question for individual judgment how much of the work belongs to man, and how much must be left to nature and grace. "Mildred's Court, First Month, 16th, 1815. We came here for a little change of air on account of our poor babe, who has been and continues seriously ill. Instead of her sweet smile her countenance mostly marks distress; the cause appears greatly hidden ; my mind and heart are op- pressed and my body fatigued, partly from losing so much sleep. I have felt my infirmity during this affliction, and also having betrayed it to others, which I have, I appre- hended, to judge by my touchy feelings ; but I trust I re- pent. Oh what am I? very poor, very unworthy, very weak ; but through all I trust that the Lord will be my stay ; and even when brought thus low I have known a little of being at seasons clothed with that righteousness which cometh from God. I found it was well so feelingly to have 110 ELIZABETH FXT been brought to a knowledge of what I am in myself, as I could more fully testify from whence the good comes, when brought in measure under its calming, enlivening, and lov- ing influence. Preserve me, O Lord, from hurting the little ones, more particularly those before whom I have to walk ; and permit me yet to encourage their progress Zionward. 25 can alone give the increase. Many of the women wept bitterly ; all seemed touched. When she left the ship they followed her with their eyes and their blessings, until, her boat having passed within another tier of vessels, they could see her no more." The following entry in July of this year shows that all was not sunshine, even when conscience approved and the world applauded. " Plashet, Seventh Month, 1st. Since I last wrote much has happened to me ; some things have occurred of an im- portant nature. My prison engagements have gone on well, and many have flocked after me, may I not say of almost all descriptions, from the greatest to the least; and we have bad some remarkably favored times together in tUe prison. The Yearly Meeting was a very interesting one to me, and also encouraging. I felt the unity of Friends a comfort and support. I had to go into the Men's Meeting, which was a deep trial of faith ; but it appeared called for at my hand, and peace attended giving up to it. The unity which the women expressed at my going, and the good reception 1 found amongst the men, were comforting to me ; but it waa a close, very close, exercise. Although I have had much sup* port from many of aiy fellow mortals, and so much unity 148 ELIZABETH FET. expressed with me, both in and out of our Society, yet I believe many Friends have great fears for me and mine; and some not Friends do not scruple to spread evil re- ports, as if vanity, or political motives, led me to neglect a large family. I desire patiently to bear it all, but the very critical view that is taken of my beloved children grieves me much." " 8th. My heart is too full to express much ; yesterday I had a very interesting day at Newgate with the Chancellor of the Exchequer, and many other persons of consequence : Much in the cross to myself I had to express a few words in supplication before them ; but the effect was solemn and satisfactory. After this I felt peaceful and comforted. Sometimes I think, after such times, I am disposed to feel as if that day's work was done, and give way to cheerful conversation, without sufficiently waiting for the fresh mani- festations of the Spirit, and abiding under the humiliations of the Cross." The impression made upon the witnesses on some of these occasions is shown by an extract from a letter of Sir. Jamea Mackintosh, then a member of Parliament, to his wife. He says "I dined on Saturday, June 3d, at Devonshire House. The company consisted of the Duke of Norfolk, Lords Lans- down, Lauderdale, Albemarle, Cowper, Hardwicke, Car- narvon, Sefton, Ossulston, Milton, Duncannon, &c. The subject was Mrs. Fry's exhortation to forty-five female con- victs, at which Lord had been present on Friday. He could hardly refrain from tears in speaking of it. He called it the deepest tragedy he had ever witnessed. What she read aud expounded to the convicts, with almost mir- aculous effect was the fourth chapter to the Ephesians. Coke (of Norfolk) begged m to go with him next Friday. NEWGATE CONTINUED. 149 I doubt whether, as that is the day of my motion, (For the revision of the Penal Laws,) I shall be able to go, and whether it be prudent to expose myself to the danger of being too much warmed by the scene, just before a speech in which I shall need all my discretion." The year when this letter was written is not given, but a comparison of the month and day, June 3, when the cir- cumstance was related, with that of an account written by the Hon. Mrs. Waldegrave for her mother, June 2nd, 1820, together with the identity of the subject 4th Ephesians and the fact that Lord Albemarle is named in both in- Btances makes it probable that we have a pretty full report of this remarkable meeting in the account which is here subjoined. It was sent the compiler of the " Life of Eliza- beth Fry," with the accompanying note. If not the same event the coincidence is remarkable. "Account of a visit to Newgate, June 2nd, 1820, written by the late Hon. Mrs. Waldegrave, for her mother, lady Elizabeth Whitbread, on whose death in 1846, it was sent to me. "Elizabeth Waldegrave, Jun. "4 Harley Street, London, March 2nd, 1852." "June, 2nd, 1820. We reached Newgate at half -past ten, and waited with the rest of the company in a small room up Btairs ; in the way to it we passed through several wards in which the most perfect stillness prevailed ; these were the former scenes of all the riot and confusion of which we had heard so much. "After waiting a short time Mrs. Fry entered, saluting everybody in the most dignified manner. The female con- victs, forty in number, came in upon a bell being rung, and 13U ELIZABETH FBY. took their seats at one end of the room with perfect order the monitors sitting on the first bench and the others in classes behind ; each had her work, at which she employed, herself till Mrs. Fry began reading. They had ivory tickets round their necks with numbers on them. " Mrs. Fry arranged a large old Bible on her desk and sat down her voice was so gentle that we wondered wa could hear what she said, but remarkably mild and sweet. She began by requesting their attention. ' I am desirous that your attention should be, as much as possible, undi- vided notwithstanding our being subject to-day to the in- terruptions of company, it is equally important that your attention should be fixed on what I say praying that the Holy Spirit may enlighten your understanding. I am going to read the 4th chapter of Paul's Epistle to the Ephesians.' They all laid aside their work, most of them fixing their eyes on the ground, and we could not observe that more than two or three looked about afterwards till she had dona reading. She read the chapter slowly and impressively the 6th, 28th and 32nd verses appeared to affect them deeply every word that she uttered seemed to be writter in her own heart. She then turned to the book of Psalms. After a moment's pause she turned back to the chapter she had been reading, and said, ' I was going to read a Psalm, but I thought I should be best satisfied to say a word on the chapter I have been reading. The greater part of it ia so simple and clear that a very little endeavor on your part will enable you to understand it; but there is one expres- sion which perhaps may be obscure. * One Lord, one Faithv one Baptism.' If you look only at the external you might say, so many different opinions prevail, people are so divided as to what they think ought to be believed, how can they be said to have one faith? I have always viewed it very differently; 'One Lord,' yea, and have not all Christians the same Lord, which is Christ? and while we acknowledge Him our Master, look to Him for our justifi- NEWGATE CONTINUED* 151 cation, follow his precepts, obey his commandments, lova him, serve him, he is our Lord, he is the ' one Lord ' of all who thus acknowledge him their Head. Again, *one Faith* there is a diversity of opinions, but only one true and sav- ing Faith, the Faith which lives in the heart, and becomes evident by its fruits; which lays hold of the promises; which actuates to all godliness, and produces the blessed effects of a holy lif e. This one true, saving faith is common to all Christians, how exceedingly soever they may seem to differ. So also * one Baptism : ' Christians may differ as to the manner of administering the Baptism of water ; nay though some even dispense with that altogether, yet there is one spiritual baptism of the heart, the Spirit of God sanctifying and renewing the heart, and creating it after God in righteousness and true holiness. In this manner we have all * one Lord, one Faith, one Baptism ; one God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in you all. What a sweet bond of unity is this, where we are not only brethren in this world, but may hope to meet in Heaven, there to give glory to Him with one accord for ever and for evermore.' "Mrs. Fry then read the 86th Psalm, at the end of which a brother Quaker said a few words of exhortation to all present to join in prayer on behalf of the poor sufferers contained in these walls, and not to be unmindful that all were sinners, all under one condemnation. " She then knelt down and prayed so beautiful a prayer, with such fervency, so rich a flow of ideas, such perfect command of Scripture language to clothe them in, that it is impossible to convey an idea of its beauty. The chaunt, in which the Quakers recite their prayers, gave it a very sin- gular, but very impressive effect ; for her voice is good, and when exerted, very strong and clear. This, after a few words from one of the company, concluded the service the women retired in perfect order, each class separately, with! its monitor from the front row; all making courtesies as ELIZABETH FRY. they left tlie room. Mrs. Fry, in the course of some con- versation -with Lord Albemarle, said that she believed the coolness she had experienced from Lord Sidmouth, to have originated in too anxious a desire on her part to save the life of a condemned woman ; which had induced her to speak to the Duke of Gloucester on the subject after Lord Sid- mcuth had refused to interfere ; by which she believed she had given offence ; that she thought they had been wrong and urged too far ; that at first they had free communica- tion with the Secretary of State's office, but that it had fceen closed for some time. " She said that her success had surprised herself as much fas it did others That a very remarkable Providence had attended all her efforts she had never seen the Bible re- ceived as it had been there. 'Ten years ago,' she said, * when it occurred to me to make trial, I went with a young Friend into one of the wards in which the greatest riot and confusion prevailed. I went in with my Bible in my hand, and told them I was come to read the Scriptures. They all flocked round me, and I am convinced many had never heard them before. It seemed to be glad tidings to them. All were attentive. I had been warned to take off such things as could possibly be stolen but no attempt of the kind was made. If I dropped anything it was picked up and brought to me. I felt rather alarmed at first at the idea of being shut up with these poor creatures, but I was p reserved through it. "She said that some remarkable things had happened for her encouragement: one which occurred lately she related. 'A woman who was one of the lowest of ,the low a thief, a drunkard, and in every way as bad as possible, was com- mitted to Newgate. On the first day that she attended (the reading) I happened to read the parable of the prodi- gal son. She was much affected by it, and the next day I received a letter, in which she expressed her thankfulness to God that, through our instrumentality, a new way had KFWQATB CONTINUED. 153 been opened before her that she was like the prodigal eon, and it seemed as if God had seen her afar off that she prayed to be enabled to hold fast the hope she felt all in this strain. We made her our school mistress, and during the whole term of her imprisonment I never knew her- to break one rule, or be guilty of the smallest impropriety of speech or behavior. When they quit Newgate we support them from our fund till they are otherwise provided for. In consequence of illness she remained for some time de- pendent on us. We received a message from her, request- ing that we would if possible, obtain her admittance into some workhouse where, if we could furnish her with a little tea and sugar, she should be much happier than now, for she was miserable at the idea of diminishing that fund which might be the means of rescuing other poor creatures from the state she had herself been in. We got her into a workhouse where she lately died, one of the most peaceful, happy deaths ; the only pain she experienced was from none of us being present that she might have expressed to us her gratitude for the benefit she had derived through our means* Another young woman too, of the same character, is lately dead ; she lived well, and died wel*. "We went afterwards through part of the prison, but in & very unsatisfactory manner, owing to the number of per- sons present She baid that one proof of essential good being done was that, whereas the returns used to be 30 per cent., they are now less than 4." On June 3rd, 1818, the Marquis of Lansdowne moved an address to the Prince Eegont on the state of the prisons of the United Kingdom. In his speech he made this observa- tion in reference to Newgate. "It was impossible, from the manner in which it waft constantly crowded, to apply any general system of regula* tions. There it was necessary to place several felons in tiiQ 154 ELIZABETH FRY. same cell, and persons guilty of very different descriptions of offences were mixed together. The consequences were such as might be expected, notwithstanding all the efforts of that very meritorious individual (Mrs. Fry), who had come like a genius of good into this scene of misery and vice, and had, by her wonderful influence and exertions, produced in a short time a most extraordinary reform among the most abandoned class of prisoners. After this great example of humanity and benevoleace, he would leave it to their lordships how much good persons similarly disposed, might effect in other prisons, were the mechanism, if he might use the expression, of these places of confinement better adapted to the purposes of reformation. The insti- tution of the great Penitentiary-house was likely to be Attended with great advantages, though he did not approve of all the regulations. That establishment was a great step taken in the important work of reformation. He was aware there were persons who considered all expense of this kind as useless ; who thought that all that could be done was to provide for the safe custody of prisoners, and that attempts to reform them were hopeless. ~# Let those * * who entertain this notion go and see what had been effected by Mrs. Fry and other benevolent persons in Newgate. The scenes which passed there would induce them to alter their opinion. There were moments when the hardest hearts could be softened and disposed to reform. 1 ' After such an expression made in 'thV House of Lords and published in the journals of the day, it is not surpris- ing that Newgate became an.object of interest to people of all classes. In addition to English visitors 'of all ranks, numerous foreigners were attracted to Newgate ; among others John Randolph, at that time American Envoy to Great Britain, Kb. wGATE COKTIH UED. 155 who gave a characteristic description of the scene to a friend who thus relates the particulars : " Suddenly Randolph rose from his chair and in his most imposing manner thus addressed me: 'Mr. Harvey, two days ago I saw the greatest curiosity in London aye, and in England too, sir compared to which Westminster Abbey, the Tower, Somerset House, the British Museum, nay Parliament itself, sink into utter insignificance ! I have seen, sir, Elizabeth Fry in Newgate, and have witnessed there miraculous effects of true Christianity upon the mosfc depraved of human beings ! And yet the wretched outcasts have been tamed and subclued by the Christian eloquence of Mrs. Fry ! I have seen them weep repentant tears while she addressed them. I have heard their groans of despair, fiir ! Nothing but religion can effect this miracle ; for what can be a greater miracle than the conversion of a degraded, Sinful woman taken from the very dregs of society ? Oh, sir, it was a sight worthy the attention of angels! You must also see this wonder.' " Persons of distinction from the Continent were introduced to Newgate and its noted reformer, and carried back reporte to their different countries which were like seeds of a new interest in humanity. Some of the first fruits were seen in Russia, where the Princess Sophia Mestchersky and other ladies formed themselves into an association, with highly satisfactory results, to visit the women confined in the five) prisons of the capital. A gentleman named Walter Ven- ding also devoted himself to visiting the prisoners there. Hearing of this Mrs. Fry opened a correspondence on the subject to encourage the good work. In a letter, writt by the Russian Princess to Mr. Yenning, on the second of August, 1820J is the following passage: 156 ELIZABETH FBT. "Though I acknowledge myself completely unable to write in English, as you wish me to do, for to show your friends in England the state of our prisons, such as the Ladies Committee found it to be, and such as it is now, eight months after the establishment of the society; yet when you told me it would prove a token of our regard and high esteem for Mrs. Fry and her fellow laborers, I readily comply with your request, and shall try to overcome all the difficulties which ignorance of your language and the nov- elty of the subject present to me. Not I alone, sir, but al] the ladies of our committee expressed a hearty wish that something of our public exertions, and of our efforts to fol- low the example which that lady gives us, might be com- municated to her, as a proof that her labors are blessed from above, and that a spark of that love which animates her generous heart has also reached our distant country, and influenced many hearts with the same Christian feeling for suffering humanity. May this prove a comfort to her eoul, and a new encouragement for her to continue her labors in that large and important field of usefulness ir, which she is called to serve our Lord. We will all en- deavor to follow her according to the strength and abilities granted us, looking for help and hoping for success to and from Him from whom we receive every blessing, and whose strength is made perfect in weakness.'" Extract of a letter from Elizabeth Fry to Walter Venning. "RESPECTED FBIEND: Though personally unknown to thee I am confident) from the interest we both feel in one cause, thou wilt ex. cuse the liberty I take in writing to thee to express my heart-felt satisfaction at the interesting and important ac- counts thou hast given my brother Hoare of the proceed* ings of the Gentlemen and Ladies' Prison Associations of Petersburg. Most warmly do I desire their encouragement 5EWQATE CONTINUED. 15T fn this work of charity and utility ; for the more 1 am ac- quainted with the subject, and the more extensive my ob- servation of the effects of prison discipline is, the more con- fident I feel of its importance ; and that, although the work will be gradual, yet through the Divine blessing its resulta will be sure. Not only that many will be stopped in their career of vice, but some truly turned from their evil ways, and the security and comfort of the community at large in: increased by our prisons which have been too generally the nurseries of vice, and scenes of idleness, filth and debauch- ery, being so arranged and attended to that they may be- come schools where the most reprobate may be instructed in their duty towards their Creator and their fellow mortals) and where the very habits of their lives may be changed. " It will be found in this, as in every other good work, that some trials and discouragements will attend it ; but the great end in view must induce those engaged in it t0 persevere and use increased diligence to overcome them, doing what we do to the Lord and not unto man, and theq we shall do it well. "We continue to have much satisfaction with the results! of our efforts in Newgate good order appears increasingly established, there is much cleanliness amongst our poor women, and some very encouraging proofs of reformation in habit, and what is much more, in heart. This, in a prison BO ill-arranged, with no classification, except tried from un- tried, no good inspection and many other great disa:lvan lages, is more than the most zealous advocates of prison discipline could look for. " I lately had the pleasure of seeing the Duchess of G!ou cester, who is our Patroness; she desired me to exp.'ass how much gratified she was with thy account of wha- yoq are doing in Petersburg, and her wish that the ladies juaj be encouraged in their good work. " How delightful it is to hear of the interest that the Em- peror Alexander, Prince Galitzin, and ladies of high rank 158 ELIZABETH FBY. take in the cause of the poor prisoners. May the "best o blessings rest upon them for thus manifesting their care] over the destitute of the earth. " We also feel gratefully sensible of the kindness to our? friends William Allen and Stephen Grellet. I hope thou wilt let us know before long how you go on. I am much obliged for the book thou kindly sent me ; and believe me, with much regard and esteem, Thy friend " ELIZABETH FaY. n ~ After the death of Walter Yenning the correspondence And the work in Russia were continued by his brother John Yenning, who states that the letters which he received from Elizabeth Fry were "invaluable, as regarded the treatment and management of both prisoners and insane persons. It was the fruit of her own rich practical experience, communi- cated with touching simplicity, and it produced lasting benefit to those* institutions in Russia." "After he had presented to the Emperor Nicholas a state- ment of the defects of the Government lunatic asylum, the Dowager Empress and her son visited the asylum together, and, being convinced of the necessity of a complete reform in tha management of the insane, the Emperor requested his mother to take it under her own care and to appoint Tohn Yenning the governor of it. An order was soon given to purchase, of one of the princes, a palace-like house, having above two miles of garden, and a fine stream of water running through the grounds. A plan of this great building was sent to Elizabeth Fry for her inspection and bints for improvements. Two extensive wings were recom- mended for dormitories. ' The wings cost 15,000 pounds. In addition to this sum from the Government, the Emperor gave 3000 pounds for cast-iron window frames recommended by Elizabeth Fry; as the clumsy iron ba.sinthe old instxtu- * WOATE C NTTNUEB. 1 59 tion had drawn from many a poor inmate a sign, with 'Sir, prison ! prison ! ' " Elizabeth Fry recommended that all, except the violent fanatics, should dine together at a table covered with a cloth and furnished with plates and spoons. The Empress was delighted with this plan, and when the arrangements were completed requested John Yenning to invite them to dinner. Sixteen came and took their seats. The Empress approached the table, ordering one of the upper servants to sit at the head of it and ask a blessing. When he arose to do this they all stood up. The soup, with small pieces of meat was then served, and as soon as they had dined they all rose up spontaneously, and thanked her for her motherly kindness. She was deeply moved, and turning to John Venning, said, 'My friend this is one of the happiest days of my life.' The next day the number at table was increased, and the day following was still greater. "A letter from Elizabeth Fry on 'the great importance of supplying the lunatics with the Scriptures,' which John Venning said 'deserved to be written in letters of gold,* and which he sent to the imperial family, was received with marked approbation. The court-physician, Dr. Kichl, a de- voted philanthropist requested a copy of it. This lettei removed all difficulties on the subject and John Yenning was requested to furnish them in their various languages. Ct was considered by some * a wild and dangerous proceed- ing;' but he soon found them collected in groups and quietly listening, while one of their number was reading the New Testament ; and instead of disturbing their minds it produced a soothing influence. A Russian priest, a luna- tic, collected a number together and read to them. And John Venning found a poor Frenchman in his bed-room, during a lucid interval reading the New Testament, with tears rolling down his cheeks. "Whenever John Venning received a letter from Eliza- beth Fry he would write it out in French for the Empress, ICO ELIZABETH FEY. and was pleased to see/ as soou as she had read it, with what alacrity she ordered one of her secretaries to translate it into Russian, to be entered into the journal of the asylum for immediate adoption. One contained a list of fourteen rules which' were all confirmed by the Empress the same day. And they introduced very important arrangements, viz. : * treating the inmates, as far as possible, as the sane persons, both in conversation and manners towards them ; to allow them as much liberty as possible; to engage them- daily" to take exercise in the open air ; to allow them to wear their own clothes, and no uniform prison dress ; mosi strictly to fulfil whatever was promised them ; to exercise patience*, gentleness, kindness, and love towards them; and tD"Ee"ex"ceedingly careful as to the characters of the keepers appoiHtecf to watch over them. " Petersburg was not the only continental city with which communication on the subject of ladies visiting prisoners had now been opened. " At Turin, La Marquise de Barol nee Colbert was assidu- OTisly occupied in this important work. This lady was a Eoman Catholic and had entered upon it from a sense of dtity. Francis Cunningham, when traveling through that place had obtained permission to see the prison, had there become acquainted with her, and opened a correspondence for her with bis sister-in-law, Elizabeth Fry, which was maintained for many years. Letters were also received from Amsterdam, where those interested in the cause were en- deavoring to form a Prison Discipline Society and Commit- t|e to gjsit tfce prisoners."* -Jtf ' * "i tfl 1822 tHe Prince and Princess Royal of Denmark vis- ftd England," on which occasion the Princess called and took Breakfast with Mrs. Fry. This was the commence- ment of a life-long association and friendship between thes? Life by 8. Oorder. NEWGATE CONTINUED. 161 excellent ladies. In November of this year, the following letter was addressed to the Princess. AND EESPECTED FRIEND, Allow me to call thee so, for such I feel thee, as thou art truly both loved and respected by me. According to thy kind and condescending wish, expressed when here, I take up my pen to inform thee that upon the first of this month through the tender mercy of my God, I was safely delivered of a sweet boy, and to add to our cause of joy and thanks- giving, my dear daughter had also one born on the samo day, so that twenty-four hours added a son and a grandson to our already numerous family. (This was her eleventh and last child.) "We have both of us with our infants been going on well, and with the exception of some illness that I passed through in the early part of my confinement, and my habitual delicacy at such times, I am as well now as J can expect to be. "I have often thought of thy kind visit with deep inter- est, and strong desires are raised in my heart for thy wel- fare and preservation every way, that the God of Peace may be with thee continually, guiding thee by His counsel, help- ing thee by His Spirit, comforting thee by Hi a love, during thy continuance here; and afterwards, when He may be pleased to take thee hence, to be seen of men no more, through His mercy in Christ Jesus, receiving thee into glory. I also feel real interest and best desires for the Prince Royal, may you both be encouraged in every good Vrord and work. I remember the words of Paul in the 15th chapter of the 1st of Corinthians, 58th verse: 'Be ye stead- fast, unmovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, for as -much as ye know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.". " It would give me great pleasure and satisfaction to heal from thee, or if that be asking too much, perhaps the lady whom we had the pleasure of seeing here, will let us know 162 ELIZABETH FRY, many particulars respecting your welfare; and h6w you go on in Denmark, as it respects the prisons, schools, and other works of charity and love. I should also be pleased to know whether the books and the other things which we sent to Count Moltke, and also some of the work of the prisoners, ever came safely to thy hand, as we were preven- ted sending them quite so soon as we hoped to have done. I should be glad to be very respectfully and affectionately remembered to the Queen, and also to the Prince Royal, thy Consort : and believe me, with much respect and regard "Thy attached and obliged friend, "ELIZABETH FEY." The nobility of her nature, so thoroughly redeemed and irradiated by heavenly grace, brought Mrs. Fry naturally into association with the finest spirits of the age in which she lived. She was acquainted with Dr. Chalmers, and to some extent a co-laborer with him ; but no particulars are recorded. "They mutually helped each other in their plans of benevolence." "When in Bristol attending religious meetings and visit- ing the prisons, she called on Hannah More, from whom she had previously received a copy, of her "Practical JPiety" containing this. inscription : TO MRS. FRY. Presented by Hannah More As a token of veneration. Of her heroic zeal, Christian charity, And persevering kindness* To the most forlorn Of human beings. They were naked and she H JCWGATB CONTLN UU. 163 Clothed them ; tn prison and she visited them ; Ignorant and she taught them, For His sake, In His name, and by His word, "Who went about doing good. Barley Wood, June 17th, 1818. It will be seen by the date that this beautiful tribute was given soon after the commencement of the Newgate reform. In 1825 in reply to a slight request from Elizabeth Fry t Hannah More wrote her the following letter. "Mr DEAB FBIEND, Any request of yours, if within my very limited power, cannot fail to be immediately complied with. In your kind note I wish you had mentioned something of^your own health, and that of your family. " I look back with no small pleasure to the too short visit with which you once indulged me ; a repetition of it would be no little gratification to me. "Whether Divine Providence may grant it or not, I trust, through Him who taved us and gave Himself for us, that we may hereafter meet in that blessed country where there is neither sin, son row, nor separation. " Believe me, my dear friend, with true esteem and wana affection to remain yours, Sincerely,, "H.MOBB.. "Barley Wood, 15th, April. The affection and esteem expressed with such Christian grace was fully reciprocated by Mrs. Fry who " entertained a high appreciation of the character of Hannah More and oi the benefits which she had conferred upon her contempora* ries, especially upon her country-women. She always re- 164 ELIZABETH FEY. ferred with great pleasure to her visit to Barley Wood, and the impression made upon her by the mingled sweetness and dignity of Hannah More's countenance and manner." Could anything be more charming than the meeting of two such women, and the sisterly love and admiration they felt for each other. Only the great can fully appreciate the greatness of others, and none can be truly great who are not truly good. With Wilberforce Mrs. Fry was not unfrequently associa- ted in benevolent labors. One of these occasions is thus described : "The return of the season had brought with it the inter- est of the annual transportation of convicts. During this year, five ships had been employed for that purpose. A young lady the daughter of an Admiral has often re- curred to a farewell visit to a convict-ship, on the point of sailing, in which she accompanied Elizabeth Fry. In allu- sion to this visit she says : "I could scarcely look upon her as any other than an angel of mercy, calmly passing from oue to another of the poor wretched beings around her with the word of counsel, comfort, or reproof that seemed suited to each individual case, as it presented itself to her notice. With several kind Assistants she was arranging work for them during the voy- age ; ii> itf)Jfno trifling matter. But many a point of deep- est interest" atd anxiety brought to her ready ear, met with euch respofise as could only be looked for from a devoted follower of Him who went about doing good.'* 4 On the mind of this' young person the circumstance was strongly impressed of accompanying her father, on an- other occasion, to the female convict-ships lying off Wool- wich, to meet William Wilberforce andElizabeth Fry. " On board oue of them between two and three hundred NEWGATE CONTnnJED. 165 women were assembled in order to listen to the exhortation and prayers of perhaps the two brightest personifications of Christian philanthropy that the age could boast. Scarcely could two voices, so distinguished for beauty and power, be imagined united in a more touching engagement as ii$ deed was testified by the breathless attention, the tears, ahcj the suppressed sobs, of the gathered listeners. All of man's word, however, there heard, heart-stirring as it was at that time, has faded from memory ; but no lapse of time can ever efface the impression of the 107th Psalm, as read by Mrs. Fry, with such extraordinary emphasis and intona- tion that it seemed to make the simple reading a commen- tary; and, as she passed on from passage to passage, it struck my youthful mind as if the whole series of allusions might have been written by the pen of inspiration, in view ol such a scene as was then before us. At an interval of twenty years it is recalled to me as often as that Psalm is brought to my notice. Never in this world can it be known to how many hearts its solemn appeals were that day carried home by that potent voice.' " An interesting incident, in connection with these visits to the convict ships, is related by a boat-captain, afterwards Harbor Master at Bamsgate. "It was on a fine sultry day in the summer of 1821 that I was racing up the Thames, in command of the Ramsgatd Steam Packet, Eagle, hoping to overtake our Margate com* petitors, the Victory and Favorite steamers, and britfg them nearer to view as we rounded the points of the Reach of thq river. It was in the midst of this excitement that we en countered one of those sudden thunder squalls so common jn this ctountry, and which, passing off with heavy raiity leave behind them a strong and increasing northerly gale. t was looking out ahead, pleasing myself with the reflection that we were the fastest vessel against a head wind, and 166 ELIZABETH FRY. Bhould certainly overtake our Margate friends ; when upon entering Long Reach about two miles below Purfleet, I saw a boat laboring with very little effect against the gale, and with a whole ebb tide just making, to add to their difficul- ties. In this boat were two ladies in the close habit of the Society of Friends, evidently drenched with the heavy shower that had overtaken them. I was then a dashing, high-spirited sailor ; but I had always a secret admiration of the quiet demeanor of that Society, and occasionally had some of them passengers with me, always intelligent and inquiring, and always pleased with any information a sailor could extend to them. Well, here was a dilemma! To stop would spoil my chase, in which most of my passengers jwere as eager as myself; but to go on and pass two ladies in such a situation ! I passed the word softly to the engi- neer, desired the mate to sheer alongside the boat care- fully, threw the delighted rowers a rope, and, before the passengers were fully aware that we had stopped the en- gines, the ladies were on board, the boat made fast astern, and the Eagle again flying up the Thames. I have those two persons strongly, nay, indelibly, stamped upon my mind's eye. The one I had last assisted on board still held my hand as she thanked me, with dignified, but beautiful expression: 'It is kind of thee captain, and we thank thee. We made no sign to thee ; having held up our handker- chiefs to the other packets, we did not think we should suc- ceed with thee.' I assured them that I could not have passed them under such circumstances, and called the stew- ardess to take them below into the ladies' cabin and see to then* comfort. They had been well cloaked, and had not suffered so much as I had anticipated. " The gale had cleared away the rain, and in a very short time they came upon deck again. One of them was Mrs. Fry, and she never lost an opportunity of doing good. 1J saw her speaking to some of my crew, who were looking very serious as she offered them tracts, and some of them NEWGATE CONTTNUEn. 167 st a side glance at me, for my approval or otherwise. I had some little dislike to sects then, -which I thank God left me in riper years, but who could resist this beautiful, persuasive, and heavenly-minded woman ? To see her was to love her ; to hear her was to feel as if a guardian angel had bid you follow that teaching which could alone subdue the temptations . and evils of this life, and secure a "Re- deemer's love in eternity. In her you saw all that was attractive in woman lit up by the bright ^eams of philan- thropy, devoting the prime of life and health and personal grace to her Divine Master's service; and I feel assured that much of the success which attended her missions of mercy, was based upon that awe which such a presence in- spired. It was something to possess a countenance which portrayed in every look the overflowing of such a heart j and thus, as a humble instrument in the hands of Divine Providence, she was indeed highly favored among women. " She told me that her companion, Mrs. Prior, and herself had been down to Gravesend to take leave of the unfortu- nate women (convicts) on board a ship bound to the settle- ments, and gave me so touching a description of their be- haviour, that I volunteered to take charge of anything for her at any time, or render her any service in my power, in my voyages. When about to land her anxiety to make some pecuniary recompense was very great, but I woulc not allow her to do so. Mrs. Fry never forgot me when she came near our locality. I saw her from time to time, the earthly tabernacle failing, but the same spirit lighting up with animation her untiring energies. It was an honor tc know her in this world ; may we follow her to the society of the accepted and blessed in that which is to come. K. B. MABTIN." "Ramsgate, February, 1847." CHAPTER SIXTH. EXCUESIONS IN OBEAT BRITAIN. Elizabeth Fry's first considerable journey was made in the autumn of 1818, shortly after the commencement of her prison-reform labors. It was directed to the northern part of England and to Scotland, with a view both to religious visits among the Friends, and to an examination of the prisons in those parts of the Kingdom. She was accom- panied by her brother John Joseph Gurney, his wife, and one of her own daughters. The commencement of the trip is thus described in her Journal. "Bed ford, Northumberland, Eighth Month, 25' h. For some months I have looked to attending the General Meet- ing in Scotland, but it appeared almost impossible, my home claims being so very strong. Indeed the Monthly Meeting before the last it came with great weight, so as to frighten me ; but I neither saw outward way for it, nor did I feel the heart made willing ; but as I have so often found when there is a real * putting forth,' way is made within and without ; eo it has been now, all my sweet flock are, I trust, carefully provided for ; not only outward way has been made, but the willing heart also granted, and I had remarkably sweet peace and relief in being willing to give up to it ; such an evidence that I think it remains undoubted in my mind. Friends appeared to feel much unity with me which was a EXCURSIONS IN GREAT BRITAIN. 169 help. My beloved brother Joseph, and sister Jane joining me has been much cause for humble thankfulness ; it has made what would have been very hard to flesh and blood comparatively sweet and easy; we are a united band in spirit and in nature ; Joseph a very great help in the min- istry. I think he is, and will yet be more abundantly, an instrument of honor in his Master's hand. "We have sat four Meetings, visited several families of Friends, and in- spected many prisons, which is one of our objects. In our religious services our gracious Helper has appeared verjf near ; we have gone on in them With much nearness and unity; we know the blessed truth that, as we abide ia Christ, we are one in Him. I have felt at seasons as leav- ing all for my Master's sake, and setting out without much 01 purse or scrip ; but how bountifully I am provided for, both internally and externally. The great Shepherd of the Blie>v) has been ncnr to me in spirit, as strength in my weak* ness, riches in my poverty and a present helper in the needful time. I may say, 'Are these Thy favors day by day, To me above the rest ? Then let me love Thee more than they, And try to serve Thee best' Conflicts have attended, and no doubt will attend me ; but I look upon it as an honor, a favor and a blessing, even to Buffer in the Lamb's army, if we may but be of the number of the soldiers who fight the good fight of faith, and are in any degree permitted to promote the cause of truth and righteousness upon earth. "Aberdeen, 29iA. I have felt low upon arriving here, five hundred miles from my beloved husband and children; but a good account of them is cause for thankfulness : still it is a deeply weighty thing, and I have to try my ground again and again. In almost every new place the language of my spiiit is, Why am I here ? At this place we find sev- 170 ELIZABETH FRY. eral other Friends also traveling in the ministry, which makes me feel it the more ; but as my coming is not of my own choice, or my own ordering, I desire to leave it, and to commit myself, my spirit and body, and all that is dear to me, absent and present, to Christ my Redeemer. We visited the old Barclay seat at Ury -where our mother's forefathers once lived. How great the change from what it once was! " Stonehaven, Ninth, Month, 2nd. We left Aberdeen this afternoon, having finished our services there, and at Kinmuck where several Friends reside. Other Friends be- sides ourselves being at Aberdeen certainly tended to in- crease my exercise, for fear of the ministry not going on well, or by not keeping in our ranks ; but I think we were enabled to do so, and although much passed yet we had cause for thankfulness, inasmuch as there appeared to br harmonious labor for the advancement of truth and the spreading thereof. Our General Meeting at Aberdeen was ended under a feeling of quiet peace ; but fears crept in for myself that I had fallen away a little as to life in the truth, and power in the ministry, for I did not experience that overflowing power which I have sometimes done at such seasons. Still gracious help was granted me from season to season. The day after the General Meeting we went tc Kinmuck, about fifteen miles north of Aberdeen. A short time after our arrival there, before I went to meeting, such a feeling of suffering came over me as I can hardly express. It appeared only nervous, as I was so well in body that I could not attribute it to that. It continued exceedingly upon sitting down in Meeting, and led me into deep strong supplication that t.h nemy might by no moans deceive us, or cause our ministry to be affected by anything but tho holy anointing. I feared, if this awful state had to do with those present, that I should have something very close to express ; if only with myself I considered that it might be a refining trial. However Joseph knelt down in the begin- ing of the meeting, as well as myself, and afterwards he EXCURSIONS IN ttKJSAT BRITAIN. 171 epoke as if he felt it necessary to warn some to flee from the,ir evil ways and from the bondage of Satan. This tended to my relief; but it appeared as if I must follow him and tise with these words, 'The sorrows of death compassed me about, the pains of hell gat hold upon me ; ' then enlarging upon the feeling I had of the power of the enemy, and the absolute need there is to watch, to pray, and to flee unto Christ as our only sure refuge and deliverer. I had to show that we might be tried and buffeted by Satan as a further trial of faith and of patience, but that if we did not yield to him, it would only tend to refinement. After a time I felt greatly relieved, but what seeme d re- markable was that neither Joseph nor I dared to leave the Meeting without once more bowing the knee for these dear Friends*. . But after all this very deep and remarkable exer- cise a solemn silence prevailed, really as if truth had risen nto dominion ; and after my making some such acknowledg- ment in testimony, that our low estate had been regarded, that our souls could then magnify the Lord, and our spirits rejoice in God our Saviour, that light had risen in obscurityj and darkness had, in measure, become as the noon-day, and the encouragement it was for us to run with patience thej race that was set before us, &c., the Meeting concluded, and I think upon shaking hands with the Friends there hardly appeared an eye that had not been weeping, amongst those that were grown up. This whole exercise was very remarkable in a nice little country meeting, and the external BO fair ; but afterwards we heard of one or two, painful things, one in particular. We visited nearly all the families, were pleased with some of them : their mode of living truly tumble like our cottagers. The next day we had a Meeting frith a few Friends at Aberdeen where the exercise was not very great and the flow in the ministry sweet, and I trust powerful. We parted from our beloved friends, John and Elizabeth Wigham, their children, and children's children^ and are now oc our way to Edinburgh. 172 ELIZABETH FRY. "Havolck, 13th. I may thankfully acknowledge being so far on our way, but our journey through life is a little like a common journey ; we may, after a day's traveling, lie down and rest, but we have on the morrow to set off again upon our travels: so I find my journey in life. I am not unfre- quently permitted to come for a short time to a sweet, quiet resting-place ; but I find that I soon have to set forth again. J was glad and relieved in leaving Aberdeen, and then a fresh work began in Edinburgh. . On Seventh day we visited the prisons, accompanied by some gentlemen, the Lord Provost and others. Here we were much interested. On First-day we went in the* morning to Meeting, and were favored to do well ; many were not Friends ; and what were Days feelings in the evening to and a considerable number of people, q'ijite a Public Meeting. It gave me a great deal of alarm, but we had a good Meeting and I trust the cause was exalted. 7 -. The morning before we came away about eighteeri gentlemefT arid ladies came to breakfast with us, amongst them Sir George and Lady Grey, good people whom I have long wished to know,: we had, after breakfast, a solemn timer/- Alexander Cruickshank read, and afterwards I knelt down, and I think we were drawn together in love and unity of spirit. We arrived at Glasgow that evening and the next day visited the prisons, and formed a Ladies Committee. We visited some families the next day, and, accompanied bjf several gentlemen, magistrates and others, we again went to the Bridewell and Prison, where I had to start the Com- mittee in their proceedings ; it was awful to me, having to bow the knee for a blessing, before so many who were ^trangers to our ways, but blessed be the Lord, the power of truth appeared to be over all, so that I remembered these words, 'Ptejoice not that the spirits are made subject unto you, but rather rejoice that your names are written in Heaven.' We had two meetings, one in the morning for Friends, but many others came, and one to my deep humili- ation in the evening for the public. Awful work it was : we EXCURSIONS IW GREAT BRITAIN. 173 were favored to get through well, and to leave Glasgow with clear minds. We have since traveled through great part of Cumberland, attended many meetings there, very important ones, and some highly favored by the ence and Power of the Most High ; thence to KendaL ' " At Liverpool was the next meeting we attended ; it was a large public one, and so it has been in many places. I deeply felt it, I hardly dared to raise my eyes because of the feathers and ribbons before me. However best help was afforded, to my very great relief and consolation ; truth ap- peared to be in great dominion. After a sweet uniting time with the Benson family, we left Liverpool for Khowsley, the seat of the Earl of Derby, as we had a pressing invitar lion from Lady Derby. We were received with the utmost kindness and openness by all this very large household. A palace was now our allotment ; a cottage has been so during our journey. My internal feeling was humiliation and self' abasement: ' Knowsley, 24:th. Here we are, all the family about to be collected for a religious opportunity. Lord, be pleased to be with us, to own us by Thy life-giving presence, and help us by Thy Spirit, for ifc is a very awful time. Make as, Thy unworthy children, fit for Thy service, and touch our lips as with a live coal from Thy altar, for we are un- worthy to take Thy great and ever-excellent name into our mouths. Thou, Lord, only knowest the state of Thy un* worthy servant ; help her infirmities, blot out her transgres- sions, and enable her to show forth Thy praise, if consistent with Thy holy will, that all may be more abundantly con- verted unto Thee, and brought into the knowledge of Thjr beloved Son, Christ Jesus our Lord. "Sheffield, 26th. After writing the above I was sum- fhoned into the dining-room, where the family were assem- bled I should think in all nearly a hundred. My beloved brother read the third chapter of John ; there was then a solemn pause, and I found it my place to kneel down, pray* 174 ELIZABETH FBT. ing for a blessing upon the house and family, and giving thanks for the mercies bestowed upon them; particularly In the time of their affliction, in having been supported by the everlasting Arm ; and prayer arose for its being sancti- fied unto them. The large party appeared humbled and tendered. Then dearest Joseph arose and was greatly helped by the power of the Spirit. I followed him with a few words. Many of the party were in tears ; some exceed- ingly affected. Joseph then knelt down, greatly helped ; the service principally fell upon him. After he rose I re- oainded them of the words of our blessed Redeemer, that 'whosoever giveth a disciple a cup of cold water in the name of a disciple, shall receive a disciple's reward.' This, I said, [ humbly trusted would be their case. I also alluded to their servant's kindness in the same way. Thus ended this aaemorable occasion. It was like what we read of in Friends' journals formerly, when the power appeared to be over all in a very extraordinary manner. I remember in John Richardson's journal some such account. So it is, and this is not, and cannot be, our own work ; surely it is the Lord's doing, and marvelous in our eyes. " Earlham, Tenth Month, 6th. Once more arrived at this interesting place that has so long been a home to me. I will go back to where I left off. Our visit to Sheffield was an important one ; I had so deeply to feel for a beloved Friend who has long been a mother in Israel, under heavy family affliction! - Oh! what I felt for her in meeting and Dut of meeting I cannot describe ; my spirit was in strong intercession for her preservation and support under these deep tribulations. --We had a favored meeting in the morn- ing, though I had indeed to go through the depths before I ascended the heights. By the desire of my dear brother we had a Public Meeting in the evening, which was well got through, but not without suffering. We then proceeded to York; lean hardly express how deeply I felt entering that Quarterly Meeting ; ' fears got hold upon me ; ' still EXCUBSIONS IS GREAT BRITAIN. 17" hope arose underneath that this one of our services, as to our northern journey, would crown all, and so I think it proved. Not only, from service to service, and from meet- ing to meeting, did the holy, blessed, anointing Power ap pear to be abundantly poured forth upon the speakers, but upon the hearers also. Where I feared most, I found least to fear ; such unity of spirit, such a flow of love and life, aa quite refreshed, encouraged and comforted my soul. I was much rejoiced to find so many fathers and mothers amongst, them. ' Bless the Lord, my soul ! and all that is within me bless His holy name ! Praise and exalt Him above all forever!' might then have been the language of my soul. "We traveled on to Lynn, and there my brother with his dear Jane left me. At the meetings there I felt as if I had to minister almost without the power, and yet that I must yield to the service ; but I was so fearful and weak at both meetings that truth did not appear in dominion. Perhaps I found the change after York, and missed my dear brother Joseph. I often minister as if in bonds ; this is very hum- bling so many fears, so many doubts arising; this was the case in nearly all my services during the day." " In the course of this northern journey, J. J. Gurney and his sister had visited the prisons of the several towns through which they passed. They found them to be gener- ally in a condition of the most disgraceful neglect and tho hardships, and even cruelty endured by the inmates were harrowing in the extreme to the tender nature of Elizabeth '"But the cases of the poor lunatics confined in some of those abodes of misery, made, above all, a most powerful impression on her heart, and induced a sympathy with such as were afflicted with this heaviest of physical maladies, that continued deeply to influence her feelings through life. " The results of their observations were published in a pamphlet ' Notes on a Visit to Prisons, &c., by J. J. Gur- ney and Elizabeth Fry.' ITC ELIZABETH FEY. "To such persons as were interested in Prison Reform, this book afforded much matter for reflection. Whilst they deplored the evils described, they rejoiced that they should be brought to Jight^as the first step towards their being remedied. "The voice of Elizabeth Fry was heard and her appeals #ere promptly responded to. Her brother, in writing of this northern journey says: 'she exhibited a perfect tact and propriety in her transactions, and well knew, when in pursuit of such objects how to soothe all asperities, influ- ence all parties, and overcome the greatest difficulties.' In confirmation of which some passages may be quoted from a letter written by a Scotch lady who accompanied her when she visited the prisons at Glasgow. " * She found our prisons very badly managed,' &c., and f has left a letter for the magistrates.' She had an interview with theni, and this evening a number of ladies met at the Bridewell. '; She told them with much simplicity what had been done at Newgate. She entered into pleasant conver- kation with every one and all were delighted when she offered to speak a little to the poor women. But the keeper of the Bridewell said he feared it was a dangerous experi- ment ; that they never, but by compulsion listened to read- Ing, and were generally disposed to turn anything of the kind into ridicule. She said that she was not without fears of this happening, but she thought it right to attempt it. The women, about a hundred, were then assembled in a large room| and we went in, misdoubting and anxious. She took off her bonnet and sat down on a low seat, fronting the women ; then looking at them with a kind, conciliating eye, yet an eye ..that met every eye there, she said, ' I had betjjer just tell you what we are come about.' She told them she had to deal with a great number of poor women, sadly wicked, and in what manner they were recovered from evil. Sej language was scriptural, always referring to our Saviour's promises, and cheering with holy hop : these dis- EXCUKSIONS IN GBEAT BETTAnt 177 Bolute beings. * Would not you like to turn from that which is wrong? Would not you like for ladies to visit you, and speak comfort to you, and help you to become better? Surely you would tell them your griefs ; .they who have done evil have many sorrows.' As she read to them the ' Rules] asking them, if approved to hold up their hands, all hands were upraised, and as soon as she spoke tears began to flow. One very beautiful girl near me had her eyes swimming with tears, and her lips moved as if fol- lowing Mrs. Fry. One old woman who held her Bible we saw clasping it with emotion as she became more and more impressed. The hands were ready to rise at every pause, and these callous and obdurate offenders were with one consent bowed before her. Then she took the Bible and read the parables of the lost sheep, the piece of silver, and ihe prodigal son. 'It is impossible for me to express to you the effect ol her saintly voice, while speaking such blessed words. She often paused and looked at the poor women with a sweet- aess that won their confidence, applying, with beauty and taste all the parts of the story to them, and in a manner I never before heard, and particularly the words, * HJB father saw him when he was yet afar off.' A solemn paute suc- ceeded the reading. Then resting the large Bible on the ground we saw her on her knees before them. Her prayer was devout and soothing, and her musical voice, in the pecu- liar, sweet tones of the Quakers, seemed like the voice of a mother to her suffering child. 'In the prison of Glasgow, the emotions were much tnore varied than at Bridewell astonishing repugnance, and in some instances obstinate resistance to listen; in others anxious desire to accept her aid. She read and con* versed with them, and the proposal of work was in genera^ greedily received. How different were the impressions iij the various figures before her ! One old woman, with the appearance of a menial servant, and hardened features, said 178 ELIZABETH FBI; 'No! no use work!' But these rugged lines were at length relaxed, and I saw a tear fall over the brown visage. But it was not the prisoners alone; for there was not a man in the room unmoved.' ". Many letters were received after the publication of tha "Notes;" among them the following from the Countess Earcourt. " MY DEAR AND MOST RESPECTED FBIEXD ; ^ It is impossible to have read the excellent publication giving an account of your tour with Mr. Gurney, without being most anxious to express the satisfaction Lord Har- court and I received from the work. He read it to me, and there was scarcely a page at which we did not stop to ex- claim our admiration of the justness of the remarks, and our earnest wishes that they might prove the means oi ameliorating the system of our prisons. We felt that each word gave conviction to our minds, and the beauty oi the style certainly added to the gratification of reading it. Oh ! my good friend, what a blessed tour you have made, and may Heaven reward your wonderful exertions, by making them effectual to the purpose intended. "I ought not to use the word envy, but I cannot help feeling the great difference between the manner in whicb your life is spent and my own. You ought indeed to be thankful that it has pleased God 'to put into your mind good desires,' and to have given you health to go through euch arduous undertakings." Early in the following year, however, the reaction came from her " great and varied exertions," and she was obliged to spend several weeks in recruiting her health at Brighton. Also the secret troubles of her heart were becoming en- larged from the growing cloud of differences in her home, EXCURSIONS IK GREAT BBlTAHL 179 of which she is compelled very rarely to speak in her Jour- nal. After visiting her sister Priscilla in a dangerous ill- ness, she writes : " Since I have left her sick room sorrow and deep dis- couragement have been my portion from the extreme diffi- culty of doing right toward those most near ; it does ap- pear at times impossible for me, but most likely this arises frcm want of more watchfulness, and more close abiding in the Light and Life of our Lord. "When I exercise a watch- ful care from seeing the dangers that attend some, it seems to give the greatest pain, and so causes me the deepest dis- couragement. Still, yesterday, in the great and bitter sor- row of my heart, I found in a remarkable manner the power of my Redeemer near, even helping by His own good Spirit and presence. When I felt almost ready to sink, and my footsteps indeed ready to slip then the Lord held me up In the first place, after a very little while from having beer deeply wounded, my heart overflowed with love and for- giveness towards the one who had pained me, and I felt, what would I not do for the individual? and a most anxious desire if I had missed it to make it up by every means in my power. Thus when I had feared discouragements would have almost overwhelmed my spirit, there was such a calm- ing, blessed and cheering influence came over my heart that it was like the sick coming to the Saviour formerly, and being immediately healed ; so that I was not even able to mourn over my calamity. It appeared as if ' the Holy One who inhabiteth Eternity,' would not give me over to the will of my enemies." We are nowhere informed as to the particular nature of this skeleton in the house of Elizabeth Fry. It is but just, however, that we should know that her path was not all sun- shine, that she often earned a heavy heart on missions of love to the sorrowing, and that in ministering consolation to 180 ELIZABETH FRY. others she referred them to a Fountain of which she was in the habit of herself drinking largely. Perhaps something of this kind was needful to her, like the thorn in the flesh which kepV Paul weighted down for his work. After the passage jjiven above, Mrs. Corder remarks .' few will read the preceding extract without perceiving something of the deep and hidden sorrow which often weighed down the spirit, and preyed also on the bodily frame of this precious follower of the Lamb. It is not needful to attempt to penetrate the veil that conceals from the eye of the stranger the circumstances that rendered her path of life a tribulated one : it is enough to know that her perplexities and distresses were endured with meek submis- sion, and a degree of forbearance that could only be the effect of that state of watching unto prayer with all perse- verance in which she was so remarkably preserved ; and by which she was kept, through all her mental vicissitudes a? in a region of Igve.". In deference to this judgment we may well repress our curiosity while giving increased love and admiration to one who could thus, out of her own heart's experience, comfort the poor and the afflicted. I again quote from Mrs. Corder's notes, which sometimes supplement the information contained in the original memoir. "ifhe weight^ responsibilities of Newgate did not pre- clude other objects of public interest, to some of which Elizabeth Fry devoted much attention. Among these was H 'nightly shelter for the houseless.' During the rigorous Winter of 1819-20, the sufferings of houseless wanderers called for prompt relief. The heart of this Christian phil- XXOUESION3 IN QBEAT BBITA1N. l8i anthropist was deeply touched by some affecting cases. la one instance a little boy who had in vain begged at many houses for the few half-pence required to procure admit* tance to some passage or cellar, was found frozen to death on the step of a door ! An asylum was immediately pro- vided. It was well warmed, nutritious soup was prepared night and morning, with a ration of bread for each of the Inmates, who were also furnished with beds. Employment In various ways was procured; and the bounty of the pub- lic flowed in to encourage the hearts and strengthen the efforts of the benevolent persons who united in labeling for the management and success of the establishment. Many hundreds were, night after night, admitted great numbers who could not be accommodated at the ' Shelter,' were sup- plied with food, clothing and the means of procuring lodg* ings elsewhere. The females were placed under the care of a 'Ladies' Committee,' with Elizabeth Fry at their head." The following brief review, bears date August 1820. . I have this day been married twenty years; my heart feels much overwhelmed at the remembrance of it it has been an eventful time. I trust that I have not gone really backwards spiritually, as I think I have, in mercy, certainly increased in the knowledge of God and Christ Jesus our Lord ; but this has been through much suffering. I doubt my being in so lively a state as ten years ago, when first coming forth in the ministry ; but I believe I may say that I love my Lord above all as far as I know far above every natural tie; although in His infinite wisdom and mercy He has been pleased, at times, to look upon me with a frowning Providence. If I have lately grown at all, it has been in the root, not in the branch, as there is but little appearance of good, or fruit, as far as I can see. In the course of these twenty years my abode has often been in the valley of deep humiliation ; still the Lord has beer, mv 182 ELIZABETH FBT. stay, and I may say through all has dealt bountifully witll me. Assuredly He has raised me up from season to season, enabled me to speak well of His name and led me to plead the cause of the poor and those that are in bonds, naturally and spiritually." After a visit to the Monthly Meeting of Essex in the fall of 1820, she writes: " th. I returned yesterday from finishing visiting the Monthly and Quarterly Meetings in Essex. I was carried through the service to my own surprise ; I felt so remarkably low, so unworthy, so unfit, and as if I had little or nothing to communicate to them ; but I was marvelously helped from meeting to meeting ; strength so arose with the occa- sion that the fear of man was taken from me, and I was en- abled to declare gospel truths boldly. This is to me won- derful ; and unbelievers may say what they will, it must be the Lord's doing, and it is marvelous in our eyes how He etrengtheneth them that have no might, and helpeth them that have no power. The peace I felt after these services seemed to flow like a river, for a time covering all my cares and sorrows, so that I might truly say, ' There is even here a rest for the people of God.' I am sure, from my own ex- perience, there is nothing brings the same satisfying, heart- consoling feeling. i It is to me a powerful internal evidence of the truth of revealed religion, that it is indeed a substan- tial truth, not a cunningly devised fable. My skeptical doubting mind has been convinced of the truth of religion, not by the hearing of the ear, but by what I have actually handled and tasted and known for myself, of the word of life, may I not say of the power of God unto salvation." Another milestone on. .this eventful journey reads as fol- lows: EXCURSIONS IN GREAT BRITAIN. 183 "Eighth Month, 20th, 1822. Yesterday was our wed- ding-day ; we have been married twenty-two years. How many dispensations have I passed through since that time ! how have I been raised up and cast down! How has a way been made in the depths and a path in the mighty waters ! I have known much of good health and real sickness ; great bodily suffering, and deep depression of spirits. " I have known the ease of abundance of riches and the sorrow and perplexity of comparative deprivation. I have known to the full I think the enjoyment of domestic life even what might be called the f ullness of blessing, and also Borne of its most sorrowful and most painful reverses. I have known the abounding [of the unspeakable and soul* satisfying joy of the Lord ; and I have been brought into states when the depths had well-nigh swallowed me up. I have known great exaltation amongst my fellow mortals, and also deep humiliation. I have known the sorrow of some most tenderly beloved being taken from me by death, and "others given me hitherto more given than taken. ""What is the result of all this experience ? It is even that the Lord is gracious and very merciful ; that His com- passions fail not, but are renewed every morning. And may I not say that His goodness and mercy have followed me all the days of my life ? Though He has at times per- mitted me, amidst many unspeakable blessings, to pass through unutterable sorrows, known only to the full extant by Him and my own soul, yet hath He been an all-sufficient Helpei*. His right hand hath sustained me and held me up, blessed be His name forever. He hath never forgotten to be gracious, nor hath He shut up His tender mercies from me. May I not indeed raise up my Ebenezer and acknowl- edge that there is 'no God like our God,' and that it is a most blessed thing to serve Him, even if it be by way of the cross ; for He is indeed worthy to be served, worshipped and obeyed now aud forever. Above all I pray for myself; that whatever dispensations I may yet pass nothing may* 184 ELIZABETH FRY. separate me from His love or hinder me from His service; but that I may be increasingly and entirely devoted to TTitn in heart, mind and spirit, through the help of my rnosi dear acid blessed Redeemer. " Twelfth Mor$h, 2nd (1822). Yesterday, at Meeting, the truth rose inta much "dominion, blessed be the name ofj TT* / I the Lord. I was enabled to supplicate and minister, to my own relief, and I trust to the refreshment of others ; also my dearegt brother Joseph, Eebecca Christy, and my sister, Elizabeth Fry, in prayer. It appeared a solemn time ; the day, generally speaking, a favored one ; but in the night I was deeply brought to a sense of my own weakness. If the beautiful garments spiritually were put on in the morn- ing, surely they were taken off at night. What are we, but instruments, however, for a season decorated with the Lord's ornaments? Self cannot boast when left to our- selves, and our ornaments taken off. How wonderful is the work of the Spirit ! how it heals and raises up body and soul when they are brought into service ! None can tell, but those who have experienced something of it, how the anointing is poured forth from on high. It is an honor I am unworthy of, to be thus helped spiritually, particularly in the ministry. But how deeply doth my spirit crave that I may also be aided in all the practical duties of life." During this period Elizabeth Fry was earnestly engaged with her Newgate readings, and it is remarkable how rap- idly her intellectual powers developed under the influence of this powerful stimulus. She was about thirty-seven years of age when this work began which brought her at once into a notoriety that placed an immense strain on her whole being. Had she not been well endowed with natural force of mind she would soon have shrunk, with her acci- dental fame, into retirement. And, beyond this, had she not had strong religious faith, which brought her inward EXCURSIONS IK GREAT BRITAIN. 185 support, and a stimulus equally powerful, the same result must have followed. But between the inward and the out- ward fires her mental and moral being blossomed out with a tropical luxuriance most admirable to witness, and worthy of the reverent applause so freely bestowed upon it. So '.far from exciting vanity, this only increased her modesty *land her humble dependence on what she well knew to be the real Source of her strength. There was not the slight- est cant in her humility or her ascriptions of praise. God was known in her heart for a refuge and a very present help ; and pure love and gratitude, no less than her sense of justice, made it the crown of her joy to glorify her Lord for the grace and wisdom so evidently bestowed. She says: u In nothing has the work of grace been so marvelous to me as in the ministry. It surely is not my work ; I know enough of myself to believe it to be quite impossible. Oh, what an unction I now and then feel! It is as much to be felt strengthening the soul, as the body is felt to be re- freshed after wholesome good food. The work of the Spirit is a wonderful work; and to my naturally doubting and skeptical mind astonishing." "Plashet, /Second Month, 13th. I attended Tottenham Meeting on the 2nd. I went low, and under deep exercise of mind ; I returned in measure relieved, though naturally upset with many fears. I hardly ever remember being en- gaged in a service where doubts and fears beset me to an equal extent. On First-day, the 9th, we were at Devonshire House ; it was an extraordinary meeting. I desire in more simplicity of faith to attend the other meetings. I think I have been too anxious, too fearful. If the work be not ours why worry and perplex myself about it ? . Since writing the above T attended the Peel 186 ELIZABETH FRY. Meeting on First-day, which wa<* to the great relief of my inind. Since that time my bonds have appeared won- derfully broken, my spirit has had to rejoice and be glad, and my fears have been removed, so that I can indeed say, how marvelous is the work of the Spirit ! "On Second-day I dined at the Mansion House, with my husband; a change of atmosphere, spiritually, but if we are enabled to abide in Christ, and stand our ground, we may, by our lives and conversation, glorify God, even at a dinner visit, as well as in more important callings. Generally speaking, I believe it best to avoid such occasions, for they take up time and are apt to dissipate the mind ; although it may occasionally be the right and proper calling for Chris- tians thus to enter life ; but they must then keep the eye very single to Him who, having placed them in the world can alone keep them from the evil. " Third Month, 5th. I have lately been remarkably full of occupations, and yet they have appeared right and almost unavoidable. On First-day I attended Southwark Meet- ing ; mercy and peace eventually accompanied it. On Fifth- day I went to town to meet the Secretary of State, (Sir Rob- ert Peel,) and the Speaker of the House of Commons, at Newgate, with my brother, Fowell Buxton, and my hus- band; I trust the time was blessed to the good of the cause. " Sixth-day in town again to Newgate ; one of the bish- ops, and many others there. It was a solemn time a power better than ourselves seemed remarkably over us. I visited another prison and then returned home. Besides these out of door objects I am much engaged in nursing my babe which is a sweet employment but takes time; the rest of the childern, are comfortably settled in with clear Mary Ann Davis who is now once more with us. Upon Bitting down to write, and locking round me, surrounded as I am with my family, supplied with so many temporal comforts, spiritual blessings uot withheld for I trust there EXCURSIONS IN GREAT BRITAIN. 187 is rather an increase than decrease of the best things amongst us I thought, as the query arose in my heart, 'Lackest thou anything?' I might indeed say, 'Nothing, Lord,' except a further establishment for us all in the ever blessed truth as it is in Jesus : What can I render to Thee for all Thy benefits ? Grant, dearest Lord ! in Thy child and servant, a heart fully and entirely devoted unto Thee and Thy service. Amen. " 29oA. Since I last wrote I have attended Winchmore Hill Meeting to satisfaction, together with my dear sister Elizabeth, William Allen, and my brother Samuel, whose company I enjoyed. My husband has engaged Leslie, the painter to come and take likenesses of him and me, to which, from peculiar circumstances, I have appeared obliged to yield ; but the thing and its effect on my mind are unsatis- factory to me ; it is not altogether what I like, or approve j it is making too much of this poor tabernacle, and rather ex- alting that part in us which should be laid low and kept low. I believe I could not have yielded the point had not so many likenesses of me already appeared, and it would be a trial to my family only to have these disagreeable ones to remain. However, from one cause or another, this has not been a satisfactory week too much in the earth and the things of it, too little in the spirit; though not without seeking to take up my cross, deny myself, and follow my Lord and Master. I feel particularly unfit and unworthy to enter again upon my religious engagement : we propose going to Uxbridge this evening. My only hope is in Him who can alone cleanse, fit, strengthen and prepare for His own work. Under a deep feeling of my short-comings may I not say, dearest Lord, undertake for me. "Fourth Month 1th. We went to Uxbridge, though naturally rather a low time, yet it ended to my real comfort. The Morning Meeting was a very solemn one, a deep feeP ing of good, and the anointing of the Spirit appeared freely poured forth. The Evening Meeting was satisfactory; and 188 ELIZABETH FRY in several religious opportunities in the families my heart was enlarged in much love to the dear Friends there, whom, I thinjtl may say, I love in the Lord." Her~neftf religious visit is thus briefly recorded. It was in the autumn of 1823. " Earlham, Tenth Month, 1st. My beloved husband left me this morning for London, and I am here, with nine children and my little grandson. Since I last wrote the face of things has brightened. I went to Bristol to attend the Quarterly Meeting there, accompanied by my brother Joseph John Gurney, and my sister E. F. ; we left home on Birth-day, the llth of last month, and returned on Fifth- flay, the 17th. In this short time we traveled about 280 osfles, visited the meeting at Bath and the Bristol Quarterly Meeting, held two Public Meetings, visited the prison, at- tended to the magistrates and the committee ; visited Han- nah More, my cousin Priscilla H. Gurney, and several others. The last few days my husband and I have been at Cromer and paid an interesting visit to my much loved brothers and sisters there. I was at different times engaged reli- giously amongst them, and help was granted me in these services. I feel unworthy and unfit, and find that there is need of close, cleansing baptisms of the Spirit to make me in any degree ready thus to espouse the best of causes. 1 am much struck in having all my children but one now here, several of them grown up. What marvelous changes have I witnessed since I first knew this place! Wondera indeed have been done for me, spiritually and naturally.. How have I been raised up as out of the dust ! I am sur- counded by a numerous fine and healthy offspring; one only taken from ine, and that one with a peculiar evidence of going to an everlasting and blessed inheritance. Spirit?. ually also how has mercy been shown me ! Has not tha Celoved of my soul said 'live? ' and how has He been with EXOUBSIONS IN GREAT BBITAIN. 189' me in many tribulations and sanctified many blessings. Indeed I have found that my Lord is a wonder- v, orking God, and has manifested Himself to be to my soul ' "Won- derful, Counsellor, the Mighty God, the Everlasting Father and the Prince of Peace.' What can I render for His un- speakable benefits ? " Early in 1824, she visited the Midland Counties accom- panied by her brother Samuel Gurney; but returned in feeble health. "flasket, Third Month, 29th. "We reached home last Fifth-day, having accomplished the duty we had in prospect to our own peace, and I trust to the edification of those amongst whom our lot has been cast. I continued very un- well during the whole journey, and what with exercise of mind, and real illness of body I think I have seldom known such a time; nor do I ever remember being so helped through the different services that I was brought into, Visiting gaols, attending two Quarterly Meetings and many not Friends there '; ones in Worcester gaol, one large Public Meeting, the first I ever appointed of that descrip- tion ; and many other meetings. But the way I was raised up, as from the dust, was wonderful to myself ; enabled to speak with power ; and in the Quarterly Meetings to go from service to service. It was indeed a remarkable evidence that there is in man something beyond the natural part which, when that is in its lowest, weakest state, helps and strengthens. None can tell what its power is but those who submit to it. I now feel fully called to rest. I grate, fully remember the abundant kindness shown me upon mj journey. Greater enlargement of my heart in love do 1 never remember, or to have met more from others. I have been permitted to feel, throughout this illness, at times, very sweet consolation, a state of rest as if the sense of pain and sorrow was taken away from body and mind, and 190 ELIZABETH FBI. now and then almost like a peep into the joys of the Kingdom." During this period in addition to her labors at Newgate the need of asylums for the reception of discharged female prisoners claimed the attention of Elizabeth Fry and her fellow-laborers. "In 1822 a small house for receiving some of the most hopeful of the discharged prisoners was opened at West- minster under the name of Tothill Fields Asylum. It owed its existence to the Christian benevolence of one lady Miss Neave. She has consecrated her time and purse to this important object which was first suggested to her mind during a drive with Mrs. Fry, thus related by herself: * A morning's expedition with dear Mrs. Fry made me at once resolve to add my help, if ever so f sebly to the good cause. I distinctly remember the one observation mads. I can call to mind at this moment the look and tone, so peculiar, so exclusively her's who spoke 'Often have I known the career of a promising young woman, charged with the first offence, to end in a condemned cell! Was there but a Refuge for the young offender my work would be less painful.' That one day's conversation upon these subjects, and in this stiain laid the loundation of our pris- oners' home.' "The inmates at first were only four in number; in 1824 they had increased to nine; after a few years under the name of tlio ' The Royal Manor Kail Asylum,' it contained fifty young women. Sinco its first establishment 667 have been received within its walls.* "There was another class of persons who claimed the altentiou of the ladiea of the British Society at this meeting the vicious and neglected little girls, so numerous in *"lu addition to this excellent Institution which continues very EXCUBSIONS IN GBEAT BRITAIN. 191 London, early hardened in crime, -who, whether they had, or had not been imprisoned had no chance of reformation at home ; yet were too young to be placed with advantage in any existing asylum. Before the next anniversary * School of Discipline for the reception of such children was opened at Chelsea, where, withdrawn from their former associates, they might be trained to orderly and virtuous habits. The idea first occurred to Mrs. Fry when convers- ing, in the yard at Newgate, with her Mend, Mrs. Benja- min Shaw, on the extreme difficulty of disposing of sornt* very juvenile prisoners about to be discharged. She then begged Mrs. Shaw to consider the subject and draw up some plan for the purpose. This lady immediately applied herself to the important work ; nor did she relax her exer- tions until she had seen the school of discipline firmly es- tablished, and its value tested by the experience of years. "Mrs. Fry was anxious that the Government should adopt this Institution for receiving abandoned female children, and addressed Sir Kobert Peel, then Secretary of State, on the subject. He warmly encouraged the design as ono 'capable of effecting much good.' He recommended itt being supported by the subscriptions of individuals, uncon- nected with public establishments, and enclosed a liberal donation from himself. " Both these Institutions continue to be very important auxiliaries of the British Ladies Society, receiving consider^ able pecuniary assistance from its funds, in consideration oJ the many individuals placed in them, by its sub-committee, for the Patronage of Discharged Female Prisoners. . prosperous, a similar one tor the reception of discharged female pris- oners who appear likely to prove themselves to be reformed cnarac ttrs i-i now established at Hackney, and, under the designation of the 'ELIZABETH Fr.Y REFUOK.' is ejecting much good. Both these Asy- lums are liberally patronized by our beloved Queen, and tbey have a vciy strong claim en the benevolence of the public. S. COSUEK." 192 ELIZABETH FRY "But neither these nor any existing establishments adequately meet the needs of many applicants discharged from the London prisons ; and until some further refuge for such is established the labor bestowed upon them dur- ing imprisonment must remain, in too many instances, an incomplete work; whether begun by the chaplain, the officers of the gaol, or the ladies of the Visiting Association. Ear- nestly and unflinchingly did Mrs. Fry urge this topic. She grieved to know that persons not utterly hardened, not wholly given over to depravity, who desired to retrace the downward road along which they had travelled, continually found themselves without resource, without encouragement, exposed to the condemnation of the world, or renewed temptations to vice. She felt that until every unhappy fal- len one, without exception had the opportunity afforded her of repentance and amendment of life, England as a Chris- tian country had not fulfilled the injunction of our blessed Lord '-4s I have loved you that ye also love one an- other.'"* The British Ladies' Society Meeting referred to above is thus spoken of in the Journal : "First-day, 15th. Yesterday, after a very weak and Faint morning, I attended our 'Ladies' British Society' Meeting. It was surprising, even to myself to find what had been accomplished. How many prisons are now visited by ladies, and how much is done for the inhabitants of the prison-house, and what a way is made for their return from eviL It is marvelous in my eyes that a poor instrument should have been the apparent cause of settling forward such a work." Mrs. Fry's health continuing delicate she was induced to Memoir Vul I, p. 494. EXCUBSIONS IN GBKAT BBITA1M. 193 visit Brighton, in May, 1824, where she remained a little over two months. While here, being much distressed by the multitude of applicants for relief, and the impossibility of determining who among them were deserving, she orga- nized, after much labor and discouragement, a District Vis- iting Society, composed of persons belonging to different religious denominations, with the Earl of Chichester as its President. Its objects were, " the encouragement of indus- try and frugality among the poor, by visits at their own habitations ; the relief of real distress whether arising from sickness or other causes; and the prevention of mendicity and imposture, together with a system of small deposits, upon the plan of a Savings' Bank." This proved a very useful institution. Being subject during her illness to attacks of faintness which required her often to be taken to an open window looking toward the sea ; her eyes invariably rested, in the grey dawn, or through the gathering storm, on the one liv- ing object, "the solitary Blockade-man, pacing the shingly beach." Her sympathy was soon excited by bis desolate condition, and she applied to the Bible Society for a grant of Bibles to distribute among this ill-provided class of men. Fifty Bibles, and twenty-five New Testaments were imme- diately placed at her disposal. She thus reviews this period of recreation at Brighton : " Dagenham, Seventh Month, 30A. We left Brighton last Sixth-day, the 23rd, and after what I passed through in suffering, and afterwards in doing, in various ways, I may acknowledge that I have no adequate expression to convey the gratitude due to my merciful and gracious Lord. I left it after a stay of nearly ten weeks, with a comparative!}' 194 ELIZABETH FBY. healthy body, and above all a remarkably clear and easy mind : with a portion of that overflowing peace that made all things, natural arid spiritual appear sweet, and in near love and unity, not only with Friends there, but many, many others, r- 1 felt as if, although an unworthy instru- ment, my labors there had not been in vain in the Lord, whether in suffering or doing. ' It has not been without a good deal of anxiety, fatigue and discouragement that this state of sweet peace has been obtained, as I aw apt to suffer so much from many fears and doubts, particularly when in q,. weak state of health. ' The District Society in which I was interested, I left, I trust, in a way for establish- ment, and likely to be very useful to the poor and to the rich; Also an arrangement to supply the Blockade-men on the coast (afterwards called Coast Guard) with Bibles and other books: and I hope they will be put in the way of reading them instead of losing their time. Some of the Blockade-men seemed much affected by the attention paid them, as also did their officers ; and I am ready to hope that a little seed is scattered there. In Meetings I passed through much, at times going when I feared I should faint from weakness; but I found that help was laid on One who is Mighty, and I may indeed say, in my ministerial services, that out of weakness I was made strong. The Meetings were generally largely attended by those not Friends, of course without invitation, but I trust that they were good ones, and that we were edified together. This was through deep humiliation and many, many fears. It certainly calls for great care and watchfulness in all things that we enter, to find that they be not of ourselves, but of our Master whose servants we are ; for He alone should point out the work. The end, in an uncommon manner, appeared to crown all. " 26th. I returned from a short expedition to Brighton fast evening a very interesting and I trust, not unimpor- tant one. My object was the District Society that I was BtOUKSIONS IN QBEAT BBITAIM. J95 enabled to form there, when I was so ill, or recovering from that state. Much good appears done, much more likely to be done ; a fine arrangement made if it be but followed up ; and I humbly trust that a blessing will attend the work, and has already attended it. I feel that I have not time to re- late our interesting history; but I should say that the short time we spent there was a mark of the features of. the pres- ent day. A poor unworthy woman, nothing extraordinary in point of power, simply seeking to follow a crucified Lord, and to co-operate with His grace in the heart, yet followed after by almost every rank in society, with the greatest openness for any communications of a religious nature; numbers at Meeting of different denominations, also at our own house noblemen, ladies in numbers, clergy, dissenters, and Friends. We had most satisfactory religious opportunities together, where the power of an endless life appeared to be in great dominion our dear Lord and Mas- ter Himself appearing remarkably to own us together. "Plashet, Fourth Month, 21st. My occupations are are just now multitudinous. The British Society and all that is attached to it; Newgate as usuaL Forming with much fear and some misgivings, a Servants' Society, yet with a hope, and something of a trust, that it will be for the good of this class of persons for generations to come. I have felt so much for such, for so many years, that I am willing to sacrifice some time and strength for their sakes. It is, however, with real fear that I do it, because I am sen- sible of being, at times, pressed beyond my strength of body and mind. But the day is short, and I know not how to reject the work that comes to hand to do. u flashet, 25th. I have had some true encouragement in my objects since I last wrote. The British Society Meeting was got through to much satisfaction. To myself (the poor humble instrument among women in this country) it\is really wonderful what has has been accomplished in the prisons during the last few years. How the cause has ELIZABETH FRY spread, and what good has been done, how much evil pre- vented, how much sorrow alleviated, how many plucked like brands from the burning 1 "VHiat a cause for deep thanks- giving, and still deeper humiliation to have been, in any de- gree, one of the instruments made use of to bring about these results. I have also received a delightful account of the effects of my labors for the poor at Brighton ; it appears that the arrangements made have greatly prospered amongst both rich and poor ; also for the Blockade-men on the coast. This is cause for fresh thankfulness of heart. I may say that I there sowed in tears, and I now reap in joy. " The Servants' Society appears gradually opening, as if it would be established according to my desires. No one knows what I go through in forming these Institutions, it is always in fear. "Fifth Month, 23rd. I think that I am under the deep- est exercise of mind that I ever experienced, in the prospect of a meeting to be held this evening for all the young peo- ple assembled at the Yearly Meeting. It is held at my request, my brother Joseph uniting in it. In a remarkable degree it has plunged me into the depths, into real dis- tress ; I feel so unfit, so unworthy, so perplexed, so fearful, even so sorrowful, so tempted to mistrustful thoughts, ready to say, 'Can such an one be called to such a service?" I do believe that ' this is my infirmity ; ' and I have a hum- ble hope and confidence that out of this great weakness I shall be made strong. As far as I know, it has been in simple obedience to manifested duty, that I gave up to this service and went through the ordeal of the Yearly Meeting. If I know my own deceitful heart it has been done in love to my Master and to His cause. Lord, preserve me through this depth; through this stripping season! If it should please Thee to grant me the garments of Thy salvation, and the help of Thy Spirit, further enable me wholly to give unto Thee the glory which is due unto Thy name. If Thou makest use of Thy handmaid to speak in Thy name, ba EXCURSION'S 15 GEEAT BEITAIS. 197 Thou Thyself her help and her strength, her glory and the Kfter up of her head. Enable her to rely on Thee, on Thy might and Thy mercy; to commit her whole case unto Thee, and keep in the remembrance of Thy handmaid that the blessed cause of truth and righteousness is not hers but Thine. u flasket, Sixth Month, 2nd. The awful and buffeted state of my mind was, in degree, calmed as the day ad- vanced. I went to town with my beloved brother Joseph, who appeared to have been in something of a similar depth of unusual suffering. We went into the meeting together. The large Meeting-house was soon so crowded that no more could get in ; I suppose from eighteen hundred to two thou- sand persons, principally youth. All my children were there except little Harry. I heard hundreds went away who could not get in. After going in and taking my seat my mind was soon calmed, and the fear of man greatly, if not quite, taken away. My beloved brother Joseph bowed the knee and poured forth prayer for us. I soon after rose and expressed what was on my mind towards the assembly : First, that all were acceptable who worked righteousness and served the Lord. Secondly, that the mercies of our God should induce this service as a debt due to Hinjt Thirdly, that it must be done by following a crucified Lord and faithfully taking up the cross. Fourthly, how impor- tant therefore to the church generally, and to our religious society, for us so to do, individually and collectively; so that it' this were done there would be, from amongst that company, those who would be as lights in the world, or as a city set on a hill that cannot be hid. I had to conclude with a desire that au entrance might be abundantly ministered unto them into the everlasting kingdom of our Lord and Sa- viour Jesus Christ. I then sat down but did not feel to have fully relieved my mind. Joseph rose and stood more than an hour. He preached a very instructive and striking sermon on faith aud doctrine. Then my dear sister Elizabeth Fry, 198 ELIZABETH FRY. and my tmcle Joseph said something. Afterwards I knelt down in prayer and thought I found no common access tc the Fountain of all our sure mercies. I was enabled to cast mv burden for the youth and my own beloved offspring with the rest, upon Him who is mighty to save and to de- Ever. I had to ask for a blessing upon our labors of lovo towards them, and that our deficiencies might be made up : that the blessing of the Most High might rest on them, from generation to generation, and that cross-bearers and itandai d-bearers might not be wanting from amongst them I felt helped in every way ; the very spirit and power ap- peared near, and when I rose from my knees I could J n faith leave it all to Him who can alone prosper His own work. A few hints that impressed me, I afterwards ex- pressed, which were to encourage the youth in the good works of the present day ; but to entreat them when en- gaged in them, to maintain the watch, lest they should build up with one hand and pull down with the other. Secondly, that it was never too soon to begin to serve the Lord, and that there was nothing too small to please Him) in. Then, commending them to His grace and bidding them farewell, the Meeting concluded in a very solemn. manner. It lasted about two hours and a half, and general satisfaction appears to have been felt. When it was over, I may say we rejoiced together, I hope, in the Lord ; so that my soul did magnify the Lord, and my spirit rejoiced in God my Saviour." In 1827 she visited Ireland, accompanied by her brothei Joseph John Gurney and her sister-in-law Elizabeth Fry Arrived at Dublin "a great variety of weighty engage- ments occupied them closely. They inspected several asy* lums, four jails, the Bridewell, House of Industry ; also a Nunnery ; formed Prison Committees, had important inter- views with persons in authority, visited many members of EXCURSIONS IN (3REAT BRITAIN. 199 their own religious Society, and attended several large meetings for worship, some of them peculiarly favored ones." They then pursued their journey from place to place visiting all the principal towns in the island and numerous smaller ones, went to see the Giant's Causeway, calling at a Moravian settlement on the route, and ended with the Yearly Meeting at Dublin. They were detained a week at Waterford, by the serious illness of Mrs. Fry. The sick- ness was caused by exhaustion and malaria. After arriving home she wrote : " The great numbers that followed us, almost everywhere we went, was one of those things I believe was too ranch for me. No one can tell, but those who have been brought into similiar circumstances, what it is to feel as I did at such times ; often weak and fagged in body, exhausted in mind, having things of importance to direct my attention to, and not less than a multitude around me, each expecting a word> or some mark of attention. For instance, or one occasion a General on one side, a Bishop on the other, and perhaps sixty other persons all expecting something from me. Visit- ing Prisons, Lunatic Asylums, and Infirmaries ; eaeh insti- tution exciting feeling and requiring judgment. I en- deavored to seek for help from above, and for a quiet mind, and my desire was that such times should not be lost upon those persons. They ended frequently in religious oppor- tunities, and many came in consequence to our Public Meetings. However these things proved too much for me, and tired me more than any part of our service. "There were some I believe who feared my exaltation, and if they judged from outward appearance I do not won- der at it ; but a deep conviction of my unwortbinoes and infirmity was so living with me that these things appeared ELIZABETH FBY. more likely to cast me into the dust than to raise me up on high. We went on thus, from place to place, until we reached Waterford. "We had visited Limerick, Cork and other places. I felt completely sinking hardly able to hold up my head, and by degrees became seriously ilL Fever came on and ran very high, and I found myself in one of my distressing faint states ; indeed a few hours were most conflicting. I never remember to have known a more pain- ful time ; tried without, distressed within, feeling such fears lest my being thus stopped by illness should try the faith of others and lest my own faith should fail. My pain too, in being from home was great. We were obliged to stop all the Meetings, that we had appointed for days to come. However, much as I suffered for a short time, I had most sweet peace afterwards. My blessed Saviour arose with 'healing in His wings,' delivered me from my fears, poured balm into my wounds, and granted me such a sense of having obtained full reconciliation with my God as I can hardly de- scribe. All was peace. I no longer hankered after home, but was able to commit myself, and those nearest, to this unslumbering, all-merciful, and all-powerful Shepherd. By degrees I was sufficiently raised up to attend Meetings, visit some prisons, and see many persons ; and we concluded our general visit to Ireland to my relief, peace and satisfaction. The Yearly Meeting crowned all, as to our ministerial ser- vices in our own Society. We left Waterford on the llth of Fifth Month, after visiting Wicklow and Wexford, at that time remaining in Waterford a few hours only. We entered the steam-packet, slept on board, and left the harbor about three o'clock in the morning. 1 ' CHAPTER SEVENTH. PASSING THROUGH THE VALLEY. It has already appeared that the home life of Elizabeth Fry, though favored with perhaps its full share of blessings, was not without its peculiar and deep trials. Without striv- ing to unveil the source of the secret sorrow which caused the severest pain, and which apparently lay between herself and her husband, there is no occasion to conceal the fact that as their children grew up they generally inclined away from the peculiar views and customs of the religious Society to which they belonged by right of birth, and to which their mother was devotedly attached from sincere convic- tion of its worth. It is easy to see what ever .recurring pain this fact must have caused, in the maternal heart, as well as constant practical difficulties in the nousehold. Every deviation, every inclination toward the customs of the world, and even toward those of other good people seemed a turning away from herself, and alsD from Hirq who had called her into a path of self-denial, and so signally blessed her faithfulness in bearing her allotted cross. How could she believe that the same cross was not equally adapted to her dear offspring, or that in declining it they were not giving evidence of an unconcerted state, However correct or erroneous her judginenc may have 202 ELIZABETH FEY. been, the motherly solicitude she felt was most touching and commendable. Her position was indeed a most trying one. "22nrf (August 1827). It is hard, very hard, a most diffi- cult matter, to help those whose welfare and salvation are past expression near to us. We can only go to Him who is willing and able, not only to hear our prayers on our own account, but on account of those most tenderly beloved, and who does, in His tender mercy, so bear our griefs and carry our sorrows that our souls can rest on Him. Oh! may I ever have the encouragement of seeing those nearest to me walking closely with God ; not doing their own pleas- ure, nor walking in their own ways, but doing His pleasure, and walking in His ways. I believe it would bring unspeak- able joy, refreshment and consolation to my soul ; and may I never cease to commend them to Him who can work with or without human instrumentality." The discretion and care which she exercised to avoid un- pleasant differences, and to show forth moderation, in the midst of difficulties, are finely illustrated in the following note and comment a Third Month, 3rrf, 1825. I hope I am thankful for being really better though delicate in health. I wish I did not dread illness so much ; it is a real infirmity in me ; may grace be granted to overcome it. I think, strange to say, I felt, and I fear appeared to those about me, to be irritable. Certainly I had some cause to be so ; but after what I have known of the power that is able indeed to help us, I never ought to give way to anything of the kind ; all should be meekness, gentleness and love. Perhaps I said too much about some pictures and various ornaments that have been brought from France for us. Much as I love PASSING THROUGH THE VALLEY. 203 true Christian simplicity, yet if I show a wrong spirit in my desire to maintain it in our house and furniture, I do wrong and harm the best of causes. I far prefer moderation, both from principle and taste, although my experience in life proves two things : first, that it is greatly for the good of the community to live according to the situation in which we have been placed by a kind Providence if it be done unto the Lord, and therefore done properly ; then I believe that by so doing we should help others and not injure our- selves. Second, I have so much seen the extreme impor- tance of occupation to the well-being of mankind, as to be convinced that many works of art which tend to our accom- modation, and even the gratification of our taste, may be innocently partaken of, may be used and not abused, and kept in their proper places ; as by so doing we encourage that sort of employment which prevents the active powers Of man from being spent in things that are evil. 1 ' In reference to the above, and other occasional confer eions of irritability by Mrs. Fry, her daughters bear the fol- lowing testimony: " The contrition so frequently expressed in the course of Mrs. Fry's journal for irritability of temper is calculated to mislead a stranger who would naturally suppose that it must occasionally have betrayed itself in conduct. To those who intimately knew the never-failing gentleness, for- bearance and Christian meekness of her deportment, that such feelings ever ruffled her mind is almost inexplicable. Those most closely connected with her, in the nearest and most familiar relations of life, can unhesitatingly beat their testimony to the fact that they never saw her in what is called a pet, or heard an angry, or passionate expression of displeasure pass from her lips. Her tender conscience, and fear of offence towards God and man can alone account 204 ELIZABETH FBY. for these outpourings of the hidden evils of her heart" Even this last clause, is considered by her friend and biographer, Mrs. Corder, as too great an admission. "Surely," she says, "they can scarcely be termed eviis. Sin does not consist in being tempted. The Apostle says, 'Blessed is the man who endureth temptation, for when he is tried he shall receive a crown of life.' There is abundant evidence that if a temptation to any feeling of irritability of temper ever presented itself to the mind of this meek ser- vant of Christ, it was resisted and overcome through His grace. Her husband has recently given the Compiler a full assurance of this in the following words : ' I never knew her do an act, and never heard her utter a word that, in her most solemn moments, she could have wished to recall.' " I am not sure that Mrs. Fry can be so fully vindicated on another point ; unless it be lawful to throw the responsibil- ity for our conduct upon those who have made us rules and exacted obedience by penalties too hard to be borne. That point is where she declined, in obedience to the rules of her religious Society, to witness the marriage of such of her children as cbose companions of another persuasion, and ac- cepted the aid of a " hireling priest " at the marriage cere- mony. If these children manifested no irritability on these occasions, or afterwards, I think it is proof that they in- herited some of their mother's virtue. There is no evidence that she dissented from the narrow role of her over-scrupulous sect in this matter, and she must therefore bear the reproach of what looks very much like bigotry in her thus sitting apart in sackcloth and ashes while her children were joining hands for life with partners of their own choice and in the manner that best pleased PASSING THROUGH THE VALLEY. 205 their companions or themselves. Still we shall find our- selves unable to judge her severely when we read her care- ful records of these sore trials. "flasket, Eighth Month, 29th. My beloved daughter Kachel was married last Fifth-day, the 23rd, at Euncton, by my brother-in-law Francis Cunningham. "Plashet, Ninth Month, 3rd. I doubt not but that my late tendency to depression of spirits is caused not only by the sorrow which I certainly feel, and great disappointment from a child not keeping to principles that I have brought her up in, and also from the deep sense I have of their in- trinsic value ; but, moreover, that I have to bear my con- duct in the affair being misconstrued by others. Yet I have certainly met with much kindness, great love and sym- pathy, and from quarters where I should least have expected it, also particularly from the friends of my own Monthly Meeting. "I am very much absorbed at home where many things deeply occupy my heart and head. To do right in my many relative duties is very difficult. How deeply I feel my shortcomings in them ! and yet I fervently desire to do my best." " Dagenham, Tenth Month, 3rd, 1833. Here I am, sit- ting in solitude, keeping silence before the Lord; on the wedding-day of my beloved son William. As I could not conscientiously attend the marriage I believe it right to withdraw for the day. Words appear very inadequate to express the earnestness, the depth of my supplication for him and his that the blessing of the Most High may rest upon them. As for myself, I sit solitary, in many things, but I thought to day (from this wedding bringing these things home to me). Have I not my Lord as my friend and my comforter? and is He not a husband to all the members of His church * and am I not often satisfied and refreshed by His love ? " 206 ELIZABETH FBT. How different is the picture, and certainly a very pleas- ing one, when her daughter Richenda, like a good girl, mar- ries in the Society and agreeably to its truly beautiful order. " 21st, (May, 1828). The day before yesterday the wed- ding was accomplished. The Meeting was solemn and sat- isfactory. Our bride and bridegroom spoke well and with feeling.* My dearest brother Joseph prayed for them, and ministered to them; as did others. I prayed at the close of the Meeting most earnestly for them, for the other young people, and ourselves further advanced in life. After a short, solemn silence the certificate was read and signed. In the morning we had a satisfactory reading with our children. " Thanks be to our Heavenly Father there was, I think, throughout the day, a great mixture of real solemnity with true cheerfulness. It was certainly no common day. Through everything, order, quietness, and cheerfulness were remarkably maintained. After dinner I returned thanks for our many blessings, and could, with a few pres- ent, feel how many outward deliverances we had experi- enced ; that we had had our heads kept above the waters, spiritually and temporally, and were able to have such a day of rejoicing. Our dear bride and bridegoom left us in the afternoon. The evening was fine and our lawn looked really beautiful, covered with the large and interesting party. In the evening we assembled together and had a solemn religious time, giving, I trust, the praise that was due alone to Him from whom all good and blessings flow." The closing scene above referred to is thus described in QuaVcn marry without Hie aid of n minister, mutually taking each otLiT as wife and husband, nnd pledging love and fidelity until deadh. A ceilificata u ihcu signed bj tho parties, and others present. PASSING THROUGH THE VALLEY. 207 the Memoir perhaps by the hand of the daughter whose marriage had caused a very different feeling: " This marriage \vas hailed by Elizabeth Fry with sincere pleasure: not only was the connexion highly acceptable to her, and one that she believed likely to promote the happi- ness of her child, but it also possessed what was, in her estimation, the peculiar advantage of being with a member of the Society of Friends. Whilst her hospitable and affec- tionate nature was gratified with the prospect of receiving the bridal party at Plashet, she craved spiritual blessings for the two most interested, and that the occasion, like the marriage at Cana in Gallilee, might be owned by the pres- ence of the Lord. It was a beautiful summer day ; the sun shone brilliantly; Plashet was arrayed in all its verdure, gay with bright flowers, and sprinkled with groups of happy young people. After the bride was gone, one of the sisters crossed the lawn to speak to her mother. She said some- thing of the scene before them and the outward prosperity which seemed to surround that beloved parent. The reply was remarkable; for after expressing a strong feeling of gratification and enjoyment she added in words which have riveted themselves on the memory of her to whom they were addressed 'But I have remarked that when great outward prosperity is granted, it is often permitted to pre- cede great trials.' There is an an old rhyme which says, ' When joy seemeth highest Then sorrow is nighest ! ' Surely this was verified in the contrast between that day and the events which so shortly followed." "Plashet, Eleventh Month, 4th, 1828. I have been favored to partake of very sweet feelings of peace and re- freshment of soul that which I am ready to believe, in the most unmerited mercy, is something of the ' Well of water ELIZABETH FRY. springing up unto eternal life.' But I find outwardly, and about me there are storms ; not, at present, so much in my very own borders as close to them. "15th. The storm has now entered my own borders once more we are brought into perplexity and trial but I have this consolation, 'He will regard the prayer of the destitute, and not despise their prayer.' To whom can I go in this time of emergency but to Him who hitherto has helped me, and provided for me and mine in a marvelous manner made darkness light before me, and crooked things straight? Lord! Thou who remainest to be the God of my life, above all things in this, our sorrow and perplexity, cast us not out of Thy presence, and take not Thy Holy Spirit from us ; keep us from evil and from the appearance of it, that through the help of Thy spirit our conduct may be kept upright, circumspect, and clean in Thy sight, and amongst men! that in all things, at all times, and under all circumstances, we may show forth Thy praise. Keep us in love and unity with those with whom we have to act even if they do contrary to our wishes and judgment. But oh, dearest Lord, if it be Thy holy will, make a way of escape for us from the calamity we so much dread, and continue, in Thy unmerited mercy, to provide for Thy unworthy servant, her family, and all concerned in this trial, that we may not want what is good and need- ful for us, and that others may be kept from suffering through us. If it be possible remove this bitter cup from us ; yet if it be Thy will that we drink it, enable us through the grace and spirit of Him who suffered for us to drink it without repining, yet trusting in Thy love, Thy mercy, and Thy judgment" This time the cup was not removed, though the prayer was granted. During a severe financial crisis which occurred at this time, 1828, in England, one of the business houses in which Joseph Fry was a partner, though not that which PASSISa THBOUOH THE VALLE7. 209 be personally conducted, failed in a manner that "involved Elizabeth Fry and her family in a train of sorrows and per- plexities which tinged the remaining years of her life. Nature staggered beneath the blow but the staff on which she leaned could not fail her and she fell not." " Eleventh Month, %5th. I have been brought at times into little less than anguish of spirit; not I think so much for what we must suffer ourselves, as for what others may suffer. The whole thing appears fraught with distress. When I look at this mysterious dispensation, permitted by Almighty "Wisdom, I am ready to say, How is it Lord, Thou dealest thus with Thy servant who loves Thee, trusts Thee, and fears Thy name? and then I say, this is my infirmity thus to query. Need I not chastisement? Do I not de- serve it ? May it not be a mysterious dispensation of deep and sore affliction laid not only upon us, but upon others, to draw us all more from the things of time, and to set us more on the enduring riches of Eternity? I cannot reason upon it ; I must bow, and only bow, and say in my heart, which I believe I do, 'Xot as I will, but as Thou wilt.* Well, if it be of the Lord, let Him do as seemeth Him good. Lord, let Thy grace be found sufficient for us in this most awful time; and grant that we faint not when Thou rebukest us." The circumstances which caused this misfortune to be so peculiarly distressing are not stated. We are left to con- jecture the meaning of that "if it be of the Lord," and why, " on the following Sunday the question was much do- bated as to whether she, and her family generally, should attend their meeting for worship, or not." But "she felt it right to go, and of course she was accompanied by her hus- band and children. She took her usual seat, bowed down and overwhelmed, with the bitter tears rolling down her 210 ELIZABETH FRY. cheeks no common thing with her. After a very solemn pause, she rose with these words, her voice trembling with emotion ; * Though He slay me yet will I trust in Him ; ' and testified, in a short and beautiful discourse, that her faith and love were as strong in the hour of adversity as they had been in the time of prosperity. Her friends were deeply affected, marking by their manner, their sympathy and love." To her only absent child she wrote : "flasket, Meventh Month, 27th. 1828. *Mi DEABEST JR. : I have at last taken up my pen to write to thee; but to one so near, and so much cue with myself, it is difficult. I do not like to pour out my sorrows too heavily upon thee, nor do I like to keep thee in the dark as to our real state. This is, I consider, one of the deepest trials to which we are liable ; its perplexities are so great and numerous, its mor- tifications and humiliation so abounding, and its sorrows so deep. None can tell, but those who have passed through it, the anguish of heart at times felt ; but thanks be to uur God this extreme state of distress has not been very fre- quent, nor its continuance very long. I frequently find my mind, in degree, sheathed to the deep sorrows, and am en- abled not to look so much at them but there are also times when secondary things arise parting with servants, the poor around us, schools, and our dear Place. These things overwhelm me ; indeed I think naturally I have a very acute sense of sorrow. Then the bright side of the picture rises. I have found such help and strength in prayer to God ; and, highly mysterious as, in some points of view, this dispensa- tion may be, yet I think I have frequently, if not generally, come to be able to say, ' Not as I will, but as Thou wilt,' and to bow under it All our children, and children-in-law, my brothers and sisters, our many Mends and servants, PASSING THBOT7GH THE VALLEY. 211 have been a strong consolation to me ; and above all a little refreshment to my tribulated spirit has been granted me at times from what I trust are the -well-springs from on High." " The tide of sympathy flowed marvelously in from all quarters. The mass of letters that exist attest by how many, and how well she was loved, how highly she was valued, and upon how many hearts she and her sorrows were borne." FEOM WILLIAM WILBEBFOBCE. u Famham Castle* 29*A. Nov. 1828. MY DEAB FBIEKD : Though my eyes are just now weaker than usual, I most claim a short exercise of their powers for the purpose of ex- pressing to you the warm sympathy which Mrs. Wilber- force, and indeed all of my family that have the pleasure of knowing you, as well as myself, are feeling on your account. Yet you, I doubt not will be enabled to feel as well as to know, that even this event will be one of those which in your instance are working for good. You have been en- abled to exhibit a bright specimen of Christian excellence in doing the will of God, and I doubt not you will manifest a similar specimen in the harder and more difficult exercise of suffering it. I have often thought that we are some- times apt to forget that key for unlocking what we deem a very mysterious dispensation of Providence, in the misfor- tunes and afflictions of eminent servants of God that is af- forded by a passage in St. Paul's Epistle to his beloved Philippians. ' Unto you it is given not only to believe on Him, but also to suffer for His sake.' It is the strong only that will be selected for exhibiting those graces which re- quire peculiar strength. May you, my dear friend (indeed I doubt not you will) be enabled to bear the whole will of God, with cheerful confidence in His unerring wisdom and unfailing goodness. May every loss of this world's wealth ELIZABETH FRY. be more than compensated by a larger measure of the un- searchable riches of Christ. You will not forget that the time is short ; but there will be no end to that eternity of happiness and glory which I doubt not will in your instance follow it. Meanwhile you are richly provided with relatives and friends whom you love so well as to relish receiving kindnesses from them, as well as the far easier office of doing them. That you may be blessed with a long continuance of usefulness and comfort in this world, to be followed by a still better portion in a better, is the cordial wish and shall Jie the prayer also of (begging from you a frequent per- formance of the last named office of friendship for myself and mine), My dear Mrs. Fry, Your sincere and affectionate Friend, W. WlLBEBFORCE." FBOM THE REV. JOHN W. CUNNINGHAM. " Harrow, November, 2Gt7i, 1828. "Ml VERY DEAR FRIEND : I need not tell you with what sorrow I have received the most unexpected intelligence which reached me yester- day. It is but a short time since I was called to sympa- thize with a near relative in similar circumstances, and now ' again I am called to mourn as for a brother and a friend. My experience in the former case has enabled me to take a more hopeful and cheerful view of your heavy trial. Per- haps; dear friend, this event may be made a blessing to every member .of your family ; and we must not complain of a little rough handling when the jewels are to be polished for the treasury of God. All that drives us home to Hiux and to tile power of His Spirit for grace and strength and joy ifl beyond all rmce to me soul. Is it not a comfort to you, dear friend at this moment, that you nave spent so much of your time and property for God and His creatures ? t ASSINO THBOUQH THE VALLEY. 213 is not money given to thejpoor lent to the Lord, and to be re- urned again, in some form or other ' with usury ? ' I beg my very kind remembrances to Mr. Fry and your dear chil- dren. I have already been led to pray for them more than once that this affliction may be sanctified to them, and that they may more and more seek the durable riches of the kingdom of Christ. " My wife unites with me ia very kind regards, and I am very affectionately yours. J. W. CUNNINGHAM." FBOM T. FOWELL BUXTOS. " Northrepps, December, 1st, 1828. " MY DEABEST SlSTEB : I have hitherto, I confess, shrunk from writing to you. Not surely, however, from any want of feeling for you, and with you; but from so deep a sense of your calamity as to make all attemps at comfort appear almost idle. A very quiet day yesterday, and a long t'me spent over the 69th Psalm from the 13th to the 17th verse, with peculiar ref- erence to you, have given me more encouragement. I am more able to feel that we may confidently commit you and yours to that most merciful Lord from whom the dispen- sation has come ; and I have been comforted by the reflec- tion, strange comfort as it may seem, that you and all oi us have not long to live; that in truth it signifies little how we fare here for a few years, provided we are safe in that long and endless journey upon which we shall soon enter. I think, however, I have in some degree followed you in the little mortifications, as well as the great ones, of this trial. I am not sure that the great and lasting disas.: ter is so galling to my mind at the moment, as some of the little provoking and humbling attendauts on it. But since the time I spent in heart with you yesterday I havo been able in some measure to get rid of these intruders, an J to took upon you under the aspect of one beloved of Go J, 214 ELIZABETH FRY. honored of men, and more than ever loved, cherished and delighted in by a large brotherhood. I never felt so keenly as now the privilege of belonging to you, or so conscious of the honor and benefit of such a sister ; and I feel no dis- trust about your future lot. I cannot doubt that years of contentment and happiness await you. I expect that your light will shine forth more brightly than ever. You have ever been a teacher to the whole family, and now I am confidently persuaded you will instruct us with what humili- ty, with what submission, and with what faith,*we ought to bear our deepest trials. What comes from above cannot be bad for us ; and under the sense of this I adopt David's words, * Why art thou cast down, oh my soul I and why art thou disquieted within me ? Hope thou in God, for I shall yet praise Him.' Ever, my dearest Betsey, Your most affectionate brother T. F. BUTTON." FROM MRS. OPIE. "Twelfth Month, 17th. (First-day Morning) 1828. " Though I have not hitherto felt free in mind to write to thee, my very dear friend, under thy present most severe trial, thou hast been continually, I may say, in my thoughts, brought feelingly and solemnly before me, both day and night. But I am now desired by thy sister Catherine to tell thee that she wil 1 . be with thee to-morrow evening. I must also tell thee, to please myself, that two nights a^o I had a pleasing, cheering dream of thee ! "I saw thee looking thy best, drest with peculiar care and neatness, and smiling so brightly that I could not help Btroking thy cheek and saying, ' Dear friend ! it is quite de- lightful to me to see thee looking thus again, so like tha Betsey Fry of former days ; ' and then I awoke. But this sweet image of thee lives with me still, and I trust that when this dark cloud has passed away from you (as it has PASSING THBOUQH THE VALLEY. 215 passed away from so many, many others) I shall not only see thee in a dream, but in reality, as those who love thee desire to see thee always. " Since your trials were known I have rarely, if ever, opened a page of Scripture without finding some promise applicable to thee and thine. I do not believe that I was looking for them, but they presented themselves unsought, and gave me comfort and confidence. Do not suppose, dear friend, that I am not fully aware of the peculiar bitter- ness and suffering which attends this trial, in tLy situation, to thy own individual feelings ; but then, how precious and how cheering to thee must be the evidence it has called forth of the love and respect of those who are near and dear to thee, and of the public at large ! Adversity is indeed the time to try the hearts of our friends, and it must bo now, or will be in future, a cordial to thee to remember that thou hast proved how truly and generally thou art be- loved and reverenced." We may add the testimony of Mrs. Corder to the spirit manifested by Elizabeth Fry during this period. " Whilst this precious servant of God was thus passing through the furnace of adversity, the Compiler of this vol- ume was privileged to belong to the meeting (that of Grace- church-street) which, when her state of health permitted, Elizabeth Fry constantly attended. The opportunities of public worship, as well as many of a more private character, at which this afflicted handmaid of tb Lord was united in worship with her endeared friends, were often favored with a solemnity of which perhaps no adequate idea could be conveyed in words ; and the offerings of prayer as well as, at seasons, of devout thanksgiving which she was enabled to dedicate to her Almighty Sustainer, were accompanied by a heavenly power and unction that cannot even now be remembered without a reverent and affecting sense of that 216 ELIZABETH FBT. mercy and Fathe-ly loving-kindness which thus strength- ened her to glorify God in this furnace of affliction. The sweetness of her disposition and the remarkable wisdom with which she was endowed shone, in this time of trial, with increased brightness." Her daughters observe : " She had a quality difficult to describe, but marked to those who knew her well, the power of rapidly, and by a process of thought which she could herself hardly have ex- plained, arriving at the truth, striking the balance, and find- ing the just weight of a question ; no natural gift could be of more value under such circumstances. "Mr. and Mrs. Fry resolved upon at once leaving Plashet and seeking a temporary home in Mildred's Court, then the residence of their eldest son. One great mitigation at- tended this calamity, that the mercantile business, formerly their grandfather's, and conducted by their father, remained to the young men of the family who were thus enabled with the important assistance of their mother's brothers, to re- establish their parents in comfort. With leaving Plashet came much that was sad uprooting habits, long-formed tastes and local associations, parting with servants, and leaving many old pensioners and dependents. " Mrs. Fry had, for many years, displayed singular wis- dom and economy in her household arrangements, as well as in her charities and benevolent objects, varying according to the circumstances in wuioh she had been placed. To 'be just before generous,' was a maxim often expressed to those around her. On this occasion these powers were called into full action. ** Ai winter advanced her health greatly failed. Circum- ptances occurred to weaken her husband's and children's attachment to the Society of Friends. Truly the sorrows PASSING THROUGH THE VALLEY. 217 of her heart were enlarged. She exclaims in her journal, (which was very irregularly kept) that her ' soul was bowed down within her, and her eyes were red with weeping.' Yet she was enabled to adopt the language 'I will hops continually and yet praise Thee more and more ; ' and a.so to acknowledge that she was much sustained inwardly, and that at times her heart was kept in almost perfect peace. In addition to domestic trials, her tender feelings were at times grievously and unnecessarily wounded ; from without, there was much of bitterness infused into her daily cup, which can only be appreciated by those who have had to bear the brunt of a similar calamity." * " flasket, Twelfth Month, 16th. I have had some quiet, peaceful hours, but I continue in the low valley, and natu- rally feel too much leaving this sweet home, but not bsing well makes my spirits more weak than usual. I desire not only to be resigned, but cheerfully, willing to give up what- ever is required of me, and in all things patiently to sabmit to the will of God, and to estimate my many remaining blessings. I am sorry to find how mach I cleave to some earthly things health, ease, places, possessions. LorJ, Thou alone canst enable me to estimate them justly, and to keep them in their right places. In Thine own way, dear- est Lord, accomplish Thine own work in me, to Thine own praise! grant that out of weakness I may yet be made strong, and through Thy power wax valiant in fight, and may yet, if consistent with Thy holy will, see of the travail of my soul and be satisfied, as it respects myself and my most tenderly beloved family. Amen ! "Mildred's Court, First Month, 19*/t, 1829. My first journal in this year! What an eventful one was the last! prosperity and adversity were peculiarly our portion. It has been in no common degree a picture of life comprised in a small compass. However, through all, in prosperity * Memoir Vol, 2. page 95. 218 ELIZABETH IfUt. and in adversity, however bright, or cloudy my present position or prospects may be, my desire for myself and aU whom I love is this, so strongly expressed by the Psalmist, 'I will hope continually and will yet praise Thee more and more ! ' So be it, saith my soul, and if it be the Lord's will, may light rise in our present obscurity, and our dark- ness become as the noonday, both as to temporal and spir- itual prospects ! " That she suffered an undue sense of humiliation, from the failure of her husband and the mortifying incidents at* tending it, of the nature of which we are not informed, i^ shown by a letter from her faithful friend and co-laborer Mr. Wilberforce, dated one day after the above entry. " Highwood Hill, Middlesex, 30tk January, 1829. Mv. DEAR FBIEJJD: Though my eyes are just now so indifferent that I must be extremely sparing in the use of my pen, yet I cannot for- bear or delay assuring you, that I do not see how it is pos* Bible for any reasonable being to doubt the propriety, (tha^ is a very inadequate way of speaking let me rather say absolute duty,) of your renewing your prison visitations. A gracious Providence has blessed you with success in youi endeavors to impress a set of miserables whose character and circumstances might almost have extinguished hope; and you will return to them, if with diminished pecuniary powers, yet we may trust, through the mercy and goodness of our Heavenly Father, with powers of a far higher order unimpaired, and with the augmented respect and regard of every sound judgment, not merely of every Christian mind, for having borne, with becoming dispositions, a far harder trial, (for such it is,) certainly than any stroke which pro- ceeds immediately from the hand of God. May you con- tinue, my dear madam, to be the honored instrument of great and rare benefits to almost the most pitiable of your fellow-creatures. PASSING THROUGH THE VALLEY. 219 "Mrs. Wilberforce desires to join with me in saying that we hope we shall again have the pleasure of seeing you, by and by, at this place. Meanwhile, with every kind regard, and friendly remembrances to Mr. Fry, and your family circle, I remain, with cordial esteem and regard, My dear friend, very sincerely yours, "W. WlLBERFORCE." For our instruction it is well to note that the dark shadow of misfortune was not suddenly or miraculously, lifted from the heart and home of this devoted Christian. When relief came, it came, as we should say naturally that is by God's regular appointment through her again entering, after months of painful waiting, upon the active duties of her various callings. "During that mournful winter in London," write her daughters, "there were periods of peculiar suffering and anxiety. Mrs. Fry's own health being so shaken by her severe mental distresses, as nearly to confine her to her room, with a bad cough. Her beloved son William was on the bed of sickness from oppression of the brain, the result of an overstrained and exhausted mind. Shortly afterwards her daughter-in-law was, in the same house, in an alarming state of illness, and a friend who came to assist in nursing, was taken ill with the measles. The measles in a grown up family becomes a serious disease. They were driven from London in consequence, though too late to escape infec- tion, and took shelter in the vacant house at Plashet, which for many weeks became a scene of anxious nursing. Thence they removed, early in June, to a small but commo dious dwelling in Upton Lane, immediately adjoining the 220 ELIZABETH FBY. Ham House grounds, the residence of her beloved brother Samuel Gurney, Esq. " "Mildred's Court, Third Month. It appears late to be- gin the journal of a year ; but the constant press of engage- ments to which I am liable in this place prevent my having time for much writing. We are remaining here with our eon and daughter and their children uutil there is some opening for having a settled home. However my desire is that we may in faith and humility entirely bow. I have of late not visited the prisons and been much occupied at home ; but I trust that I may be permitted to enter this interesting work again, clothed as with fresh armor, both to defend me and qualify me for fresh service; that my bands may be taught to war, and my fingers to fight ; and that, if consistent with the will of my God, I may, through the help of the Captain of my salvation, yet do valiantly. " Upton, IQth. We are now nearly settled in this our aew abode ; and I may say, although the house and garden are small, it is pleasant and convenient, and I am fully sat- isfied, and I am thankful for such a home. I have at times been favored to feel great peace, and I may say joy, in the Lord a sort of seal to the important step taken ; though at others the extreme disorder into which things have been brought by all these changes, and the difficulty of making new arrangements has harassed and tried me. But I trust it will please a kind Providence to bless my endeavor to have and keep my house in order. Place is a matter of email importance if that peace winch the world cannot give be our portion even at times as a brook by the way to the refreshment of our weary and heavy laden souls. Al- though a large garden is not now my allotment, I feel pleasure in having even a small one, and my acute relisb for the beautiful in nature and art is, on a clear day, almost constantly gratified by a delightful view of Greenwich Hos- pital and Park, and other parts of Kent, the shipping on the river as well as the cattle in the meadows. So that ic PASSING THROUGH THE VALLEY. 221 mall things and great, spiritual and temporal, I have yel reason to raise up my Ebenezer, and praise, bless and mag* nify the name of my Lord. "Sixth Month, 23rd. I little expected to attend the Yearly Meeting, having of late appeared to be c " much taken out of such things and such services ; but, contrary to my expectation, way opened for me to attend every sit- ting, and to take rather an active part in it, to my real con- solation, refreshment and help. The unity of Friends was remarkable. I certainly felt very low at the commencement. After having, for so many years, received dear friends at my house, and that with heartfelt pleasure, it tried not to say puzzled me, why such a change was permitted me. But I rest in the weighty import of the words, * That which I do thou knowest not now, but thou shalt know here- after."' Can anything exceed the admirable temper and disposi- tion thus exhibited during a great trial. Mitigated indeed the trial was, in many respects by the ability and generosity of her friends ; and a beautiful picture the whole presents of a Christian family and society closing round the falling member, with quick and tender care, and not only breaking the fall as much as love could do it, but as soon as might be, again establishing the broken home in peace and com- fort, and continuing such aid so long as necessary. The graceful manner in which this was done may be seen from the following extracts of letters to Elizabeth Fry from her brother Joseph John Gurney, both before and after these events, during which all needful aid was given by her brothers and some other friends in the most delicate and liearty manner. " Earlham, First Month, 1WA, 1819. * 4 AIy DEABEST BETSEY: lie that ftiveth let him do it with simplicity.' In tha 222 ELIZABETH FRY. desire to fulfil this precept, I may state that I have on the settlement of my accounts, five hundred pounds to spare; and after some consideration, believe it my duty to apply it to the oiling of thy wheels. I therefore put it into Sam- uel's hands to whom thou mayst apply for the money, as wanted. My intention is that it should be a little stock in hand, to meet thy private and personal exigencies. My condition is that thou wilt not say a word about it to any one. Of course I take DO refusal and can admit but very little gratitude," Norwich, First Month, 19iA, 1836. " I have a surplus fund which I think I ought to dispose of at the winding up of the year 1S35, and I had been thinking of sending tbee a portion of it, to which thou art perfectly welcome. I order Barc'.ey and Co., to pay the draft for the amount Pray do not allow thyself any com- punction or hesitation on this point. I shall always de- pend on thy being perfectly free in mentioning thy nesds to me. In fact it is a kindness, as I do not consider that my circumstances justify much, if any, accumulation. " In haste thy very affectionate brother J. J. GUSSET.** "P. S. I shall consider myself very ill-used if thou art ever detected in walking when it is better for thy health thoushouldst ride, or if thou art ever denying thyself any of the comforts of life which are needful for thec." It is pleasant to add a tribute from this excellent and ac- complished man, to his sister's worth, and her rare parsona! qua ities, found in his journal, bearing date about the time we have now reached in her history. "Kinth Month, llth. (1S2S). Tho time which has passed since I last wrote has been fraught with lively in- terests. My dear sister 1'ry's satisfactory and comforting PASSING THROUGH THE TALLE7. 223 visit, from fourth to seventh day last, was perhaps the prin- cipal. I never saw her, that I remember, in a more favored condition, and she was the means of raising me considerably in the scale of spiritual feeling, wherein I am so very apt to find a low place. Greatly gifted she assuredly is, both by nature and grace, and is enabled to exercise a gentle and un- seen, yet powerful influence over all about her. She waa present at our large and highly favored Monthly Meeting, last fifth-day, and was memorably engaged amongst us as a daughter of consolation." CHAPTER EIGHTH. RISING UP THE MOUNTAIN'S. " Eighth Month, 29JA, 1829. Our wedding-day ! twenty- nine years since we were married ! My texts for the morn- ing are applicable : ' Our light affliction, which is but for a moment worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory.' ' We walk by faith, not by sight.' As fai as we can judge from external appearances, mine has not been a common life. He who seeth in secret only knows the unutterable depths and sorrows I have had to pass through, as well as, at other times, I may almost say, joys * inexpressible and full of glory.' I have now had so many disappointments in life that my hopes, which have so long lived strong that I should see much brighter days in it, be- gin a little to subside, and my desire is more entirely to look beyond the world for that which can alone satisfy me ; and not to have my heart so much set upon the things of this life ; or even on those persons nearest me ; but more set upon the life to come, and upon Him who is faithful and will be all in all to His dependent ones. At the same time I desire faithfully to perform all my relative duties ; and may my heart be kept in tender love to all near me. " Upton, Tenth Month, 21st. Something has occurred which has brought me into conflict of mind; how far to restrain young pei-sous in their pleasures, and how far to leave them at libcily. The longer I live the more difficult io I see education to be; more particularly as it respects RISING UP THE MOUNTAIN'S. 225 the religious restraints that we put upon our children. To do enough and not too much is a most delicate and impor- tant point. I begin seriously to doubt whether as it re- spects the peculiar scruples of Friends, it is not better quite to leave sober-minded young persons to judge for them- selves. Then the question arises, When does this age arrive ? I have such a fear that in so much mixing religion with those things which are not delectable we may turn them from the thing itself. I see, feel, and know that where these scruples are adopted from principle they bring a blessing with them ; but where they are only adopted out of conformity to the views of others I have very serious- doubts whether they are not a stumbling-block. "On First-day we were rather suddenly summoned to Plashet House to attend Anna Golder (aunt to my faithful Chiissy) who had charge of the house. She was one of the lowly, retired, humble walkers before the Lord; she was suddenly taken very ill, and died in half an hour after her niece got there. It was apparently a departure without sting to mind or body ; as far, therefore, as it respected her, a'.l was peace. But to myself it was different I ai-rived there after dark, drove once more to the dear old place, no one to meet me but the poor man who lived in the house, no dog to bark, nor any life, nor sound, as used to be. Death seemed over the place, such was the silence until I found myself upstairs in the large and once cheerful and full house. "When I entered the bed-room there lay the corpse. Circumstances combined to touch some very ten- der feelings, and the inclination of my heart was to bow down upon my knees before the Lord, thankful, surely, for the release of the valued departed but deeply and affect- iugly impressed with such a change! that once lively, cheerful home left desolate the abode of death and two or three watchers. It brought, as my visits to Plashet often have done, the hymn to my mind, ' Lord, why it this ? I trembling cried 1 ' 226 ELIZABETH PRY Then again I find I can do nothing but bow, trust, and de- pend upon that Power that has, I believe, thus seen meet to visit us in judgment, as well as in mercy. '31f. Since I last wrote I have been called to another death-bed scene; our old and valued Eoman Catholic friends, the Pitchfords, have lost their eldest son, a sweet, good boy. I felt drawn in love, I trust I may say Christian love, to be much with them during their trial; I felt it right to leave my family and spend First-day evening with them, when all hope of the child's life was given up. I had not only to sympathize with them in their deep sorrow, but to pour forth my prayer in their behalf. The next day I was with the poor child when he died, and was nearly the whole day devoted to them. We had a deeply interesting time after his death my dear friends themselves, all their children, their mother, sister and old nurse. My mouth was remarkably opened in prayer and praises, indeed all day at their house something of a holy influence appeared to be over us : a fresh, living proof that what Gou has cleansed we are not to call or feel common or unclean. It surely matters not by what name we call ourselves, or what outward means we may think right to use, if our hearts are but influenced by the love of Christ, and cleansed by His baptism, and strengthened by His spirit to prove our faith by love and good works. "With ceremonies, or without ceremonies, if there be but an establishment upon the Rock of Ages, all will be welL Although I am of opinion the more our religion is pure, simple, and devoid of these out- ward forms, the better and safer for us, at the same time I do earnestly desire a more full union amongst all Chris- tians, less judging one another, and a general acknowledge- ment in heart, judgment, and word of the universality of the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord." M Ajnidst Elizabeth Fry's numerous avocations, she found time to select a passage of Scripture for every day in the year. She endeavored to combine in it that which is 'prout- BI8INO UP THE MOUNTAINS. 227 able for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness ; ' and in a little preface she urged the im- portance of so seeking to appropriate the truths contained in it, with a heart uplifted, that the blessed Spirit might ap- ply the word ; and concludes, ' The rapid and ceaseless pass- ing away of the days and weeks, as well as the months of the year, as numbered at the head of each day's text, it is hoped may prove a memento of the speed with which time is hastening on, and remind the reader of the importance of passing it as a preparation for eternity, in the service of God and for the benefit of mankind.' As soon as her little work was finished and printed she began its distribution ; many thousands of copies did she give away, being amply supplied from the stores of affluence, with the right means of dispersing them. Great numbers were otherwise circu- lated. "Where have not these little Text-books penetrated, from the monarch's gilded hall to the felon's dungeon t" Among the numerous instances of their usefulness which came to light the following is related. "Two or three years after their publication a text-book bound in red leather, which she had given tea little grand- son, fell out of his pocket at the Lynn Mart, where he had gone to visit the lions. He was a very little boy, and much disconcerted at the loss of his book for his name was in it, and it was ' the gift of his grandmother ' written by herself. The transaction was almost forgotten, when, nearly a year afterwards, Richard Coxe, the clergyman of "Watiington, a paiish about eight miles from Lynii, gave the following his- tory of the lost book. He had been sent for to the wii'e of a man living on a wild common, on the outskirts of his parish, a notorious character, between poacher and rat-catcher. The message was brought to the clergyman by the medical man who attended her, and who, after describing her as being most strangely altered, added 'you will find the lion become 228 ELIZABETH FRY. ft lamb,' a n 'l 80 it proved. She who had been wild and rough, whose language had been violent and her conduct untamed, lay on a bed of exceeding suffering, humble, pa- tient, and resigned.. " Her child had picked up the text-book and carried it home as lawful spoil. Curiosity, or some feeling put into her heart by Him without whom a sparrow falleth not to the ground, had induced her to read it ; the word had been blessed to her and her understanding opened to receive the gospel of truth. She could not describe the process, but the results were there. Sin had in her sight become hate- ful; blasphemy was no longer heard from her lips. She drew from under her pillow her * precious book,' her * dear little book,' which had been the means of leading her soul to Him who ' taketh away sin. ' She soon afterwards died in peace and joyful hope." In 1830 Mrs. Fry paid a religious visit to parts of Suffolk and Norfolk and attended the Quarterly Meeting at Ipswich. In- the fall of the same year she went to Sussex to attend the Quarterly Meeting there, and some of its particular Meetings. The Yearly Meeting is thus described : "Sixth Month, 7th. I had a difficult path to tread during the Yearly Meeting. I did not of course receive Friends, but went, as I was kindly asked to various houses. I could not but at times naturally feel it, after having for so many years, delighted to entertain my friends and those whom I believe to be disciples of Christ ; and now, in con- riderable degree, to be deprived of it. But after relating my sorrows I must say that through the tender mercy of my God I have many blessings, and what is more, at times such a sweet feeling of peace that I am enabled to hope and trust that through the unbounded and unmerited mercy of God in Christ Jesus, my husband, my children, and myself BISINO UP THE MOUNTAINS. ^ 229 will eventually be made partakers of that salvation which comes by Christ. The state of our Society as it appeared in the Yearly Meeting, was satisfactory, and really very com- forting to me ; so much less stress laid upon little tilings, more upon matters of great importance ; so much unity, good-will, and what I felt, Christian liberty amongst us love appeared truly to abound, to my real refreshment. I am certainly a thorough Friend, and have inexpressible unity with the prin- ciple, but I also see room for real improvement amongst us ; may it take place ; I want to see less love of money, less judging others, less tattling, less dependence upon external appearance. I want to see more fruit of the Spirit in all things, more devotion of heart, more spirit of prayer, more real cultivation of mind, more enlargement of heart towards all; more tenderness towards delinquents, and above all, more of the rest, peace and liberty of the children of God 1 Among the frequent testimonials received during this period was a letter accompanied by an elaborately embroid- ered counterpane. "Liverpool, Sixth Month, 23rd, 1830. "The Ladies Committee who visit the House of Correc- tion at Yorkdale, near Liverpool.beg Elizabeth Fry's accep- tance of a counterpane worked by the female prisoners, and trimmed with a fringe of their own making. This memorial of a class of her unhappy fellow-creatures so eminently benefited and tenderly felt for by Elizabeth Fry, will, the Committee believe, be peculiarly grateful to her, as well aa being a proof of their own affectionate regard. "Signed on behalf of the Committee by REBECCA CHABLEY. Secretary,'* From Hamburg she received an application that a copy of her likeness might be engraved for an Almanac published by Beyerink, entitled, "For that which is Beautiful and 230 ELIZABETH FRY. Good." The Almanac, when published contained this pas- sage: "1830. Though faithful to her duty as a wife and mother, into the night of the prison Elizabeth Fry brings the radiance of love brings comfort to the sufferers, dries the tear of repentance, and causes a ray of hope to descend into the heart of the sinner. She teaches her that has strayed again to find the path of virtue, comes as an angel of God unto the abode of crime, and preserves for Jesus' kingdom that which appeared to be lost. Is not this in- deed what may be called loving our neighbor more than one's self?" In September of this year she made a briei religious visit in Sussex county. From Brighton she addressed a letter to Queen Adelaide expressing her " desire that, for the good of the coinmunity she might promote the education of the poor, the general distribution of the Scriptures, and the keeping of the Sab- bath seriously, by discouraging parties &c., &c., on that day amongst the higher ranks, as the tendency of them was very injurious to the lower classes, and to the community at large." At this fashionable resort several of the higher classes were invited to attend the mid-week meeting, which is thus. described: " To my own feelings, a remarkable tune we surely had. It appeared as if we were overshadowed by the love and mercy of God our Saviour. The ministry flowed in beauti- ful harmony. I deeply felt the want of vocal prayer being offered, but I did not see it my place upon our Meeting as- sembling together, when, to my inexpressible relief, a friend BISIMJ UP TEE MOUNTAINS. 231 powerfully and beautifully offered up thanksgiving and prayer, which appeared to rise as incense and as an accepta- ble sacrifice. After a time of silence I rose with this text : * There are diversities of gifts, but the same spirit ; differ- ences of administration, but the same Lord; diversities ol operations, but it is the same God who worketh all in all.' In a way that it never did before the subject opened to my view whilst speaking. How did I see and endeavor to ex- press the lively bond of union existing in the Christian church, and that the humbling, tendering influence of the love and power of Christ must lead us not to condemn our neighbors but to love all. I had to end the Meeting by praying for the King, Queen and all their subjects every- where ; for the advancement of that day when the knowl- edge of God and His glory would cover the earth, as the waters cover the sea ; for those count lies in Europe that are in a disturbed state, and that these shakings might event- ually be for good. After a most solemn feeling of union the Meeting broke up." In the spring of 1831 this most industrious and faithful messenger of love made a visit to the Quarterly Meeting of Kent. She writes "I was much engaged, from Meeting to Meeting; labored to encourage the low, the poor and the sorrowful , to lead to practical religion, and to shake from all outward depend- encies, and to show that our principles and testimonies of a peculiar nature should not be maintained simply as a regulation amongst us, but unto the Lord, and in deep humility, in the true Christian spirit; particularly as to tithes, war, &c. I felt much peace afterwards, and in going from house to house, breaking, I trust, a little bread, spiritually, and giving thanks. It appeared very seasona- ble, though long delayed, as I have had it on my mind many months, but hitherto have been prevented by various 232 ELIZABETH FB7. things ; yet this appeared to be the right time ; and I take the lesson home, quietly to wait for the openings of Provi- dence, particularly in all religious services, and not to at tempt to plan them too much myself. "The kindress of Friends was great, and I received much real encouragement from them; some from the humble ones that did my heart good. Indeed I cannot but acknowl- edge, in humiliation of spirit, however any may reason on these things, and however strange that women should be sent out to preach the gospel, yet I have, in these services, partaken of joy aud peace that I think I never felt, in the came degree, in any other." "Fifth Month, 14/A, (1831). About three weeks ago I paid a very satisfactory visit to the Duchess of Kent and her very pleasing daughter, the Princess Victoria. William Allen went with me. We took some books on the subject of slavery, with the hope of influencing the young Princess in that important cause. We were received with much kindness and cordiality, and I felt my way open to express not only my desire that the best blessing might rest upon them, but that the young Princess might follow the exam- ple of our blessed Lord, that as she 'grew in stature she might grow in favor with God and man.' I also ventured to remind her of King Josiah who began to reign at eight years old, and did that which was right in the sight of the Lord, turning neither to the right hand nor to the left which seemed to be well received. Since that I thought it right to send the Duke of Gloucester my brother Joseph's work on the Sabbath, and a rather serious letter, and had a very valuable answer from him, full of feeling. I have an invitation to visit the Duchess of Gloucester next Fourth- day ; may good result to them, and no harm to myself ; but I feel these openings rather a weighty responsibility, and desire to be faithful, not forward. I had long felt an incli- nation to see the young Princess and to endeavor to throw a little weight in the right scale, seeing the very important RISING UP THE MOUNTAINS. 233 place that she is likely to fill. I was much pleased with her, and think her a sweet, lovely and hrpeful child," (then 12 years of age.) " Sixth Month, 3rd. The Yearly Meeting has concluded this week. I was highly comforted by the good spirit mani- fested in it by numbers. I think I never was so much satis- fied with the ground taken by Friends, leading us to main- tain what we consider our testimonies upon a Scriptural and Christian ground, rather than because our forefathers maintained them. My opinion is that nothing is so likely to cause our Society to remain a living and spiritual body as its being willing to stand open to improvement; because it is to be supposed that as the Church generally emerges out of the dark state it was brought into, its light will shine brighter and brighter, and we, as a part of it, shall partake of this dispensation. My belief is that neither individuals, nor collective bodies should stand still in grace, but their light should shine brighter unto perfect day." During this season she held some meetings among the lower classes around Barking and Dagenham, some ten miles east of London where she spent the summer. "Eighth Month, 1st. Last evening we finished our Public Meetings La barns. I passed a humbling night. Even in our acts of obedience and devotion how evident is the mixture of infirmity, (at least so it appears to me,) and we need to look to the great offering for sin and iniquity to bear even these transactions for us. I apprehend that all would not understand me, but many who are much engaged in what we call works of righteousness will understand the reason that in the Jewish dispensation there was an offering made * for the iniquity of their holy things.' Humiliation is my portion, though I may also say peace, in thus having given up to a service much against my inclination ; and I hope thankfulness for the measure of power at times grantoJ in them. 234 ELIZABETH FBI. "Dagenham, Eighth Month, 24*A. Upon my return home to Dagenham this day week, in the pony chair, with little Edmund Gurney, there was a severe thunder-storm the greater part of the way, but I felt quite easy to perse- vere through it But when I arrived at the Chequers Inn I thought another storm was coming and went in. We had been there but a few minutes when we saw a bright flash of lightning, followed instantaneously by a tremendous clap of thunder. Upon being asked if I was alarmed I said that I certainly was, and did not doubt that an accident had happened near to us. My dear husband who was out in the tempest arrived safely, but in a few minutes a young man was carried in dead, struck by the lightning in a field close at hand. I felt our escape yet still more the awful situation of the young man, who was a sad charac- ter ; he had been at our meeting at Ueacontree Heath, This awful event produced a very serious effect in the neighborhood ; so much so that we believed it right to in- vite all the relations of the young man, (a bad set,) and the other young men of the neighborhood to meet us in the lit- tle Methodist Meeting House which ended in one more rather large Public Meeting. The event and circumstances altogether made it very solemn : it appeared to set a seal to what had passed before, in our other meetings. My belief is they have had a stirring effect in this neighborhood, but they have been very humbling to me ; the whole event of this young man's awful death has much confirmed me in the belief that our concern was a right one, and tended to prepare the minds of the people to profit by such a lesson. My dear brother and sister Buxton and their Prjcilla were with us at many of our Meetings. "27