UC-NRLF $B 2fi4 T7S The National Social Science Series Edited by Frank L. McVey, Ph.D., LL.D., President of the University of North Dakota Now Ready MONEY. William A. Scott, Director of the Course in Commerce, and Professor of Political Economy, Uni- versity of Wisconsin TAXATION. C. B. Fillebrown, President Massachu- chusetts Single Tax League, Author oi A B C of Taxation THE FAMILY AND SOCIETY. John M. Gillette, Professor of Sociology, University of North Dakota To Be Issued in 1914 THE STATE AND GOVERNMENT. John S. Young THE CITY. Henry C Wright POLITICAL ECONOMY. Frank L. McVey BANKS AND BANKING. William A. Scott COMPETITION, FAIR AND UNFAIR. John Franklin Crowell Each Fifty Cents Net A. C. McCLURG & CO., PUBLISHERS, CHICAGO THE Family and Society BY John M. Gillette, Ph.D. Professor of Sociology in the University of North Dakota; Author of "Vocational Education" and "Constructive Rural Socioloey" CHICAGO A. C. McCLURG & CO. 1914 Cop5rright A. C. McClurg & Co. 1914 Published January, 1914 Copyrighted in Great Britain . F. HALL PRINTING COMPANY, CHICAGO EDITOR'S PREFACE , THE original arrangement of Dr. Gillette's book called for the placing of the third chapter as the first and then proceeding from the Biological Phases of Sex and Family to the Origin of Marriage, the Evolution of the Family, the Functions of the Family, and closing with Some Current Conditions Affecting the Family. The present arrangement of the table of con- tents brings first to the reader's attention the function which the family performs in a present day society, while the chapter on the Biological Phases of Sex and the Family is left for the last of the book. This chapter deals rather minutely with the origin of sex and its place in social relations; the justification for the appear- ance of the chapter in a book of this kind is to be found, if for no other reason, in the great interest in eugenics. Dr. Gillette has summa- rized in an interesting way the discussion on sex origin and in doing so has performed a service that will be appreciated by those follow- ing the trend of eugenic discussion. F. L. M. 281466 AUTHOR'S PREFACE THE large attention given the family in recent years has been deserved because of the antiquity of that institution, its comparatively original and self-sufficing character, and its abil- ity to mirror and prepare for the larger collective life. No doubt the large place the social sciences occupy in today's affairs, the ethnological and sociological treatments of marriage and the fam- ily, and the transformation which changing social conditions have made in this domestic institution largely account for the increased attention. The present book does not seek to be original in its treatment of the family. It does seek to be authoritative, in the sense that the author has consistently gone back to best authorities and original documents for his facts. The work, therefore, is not theoretical but factual. To the measure of the writer's ability, it represents a scientific interpretation of a large body of data. It IS hoped that such a compendium and inter- pretation may find a useful place in the lives of busy men and women, and even prove to be an intelligent guide to students of the family in a larger study. John M. Gillette. University of North Dakota, CONTENTS PAGE Chapter 1/ Functions of the Family .... i I. Physical Reproduction of Society ... 2 11. Sociological Reproduction 7 III. Relation of Family to Society . . . . 16 IV. The Family in Relation to Parents . . 25 V. Summary 29 Chapter II. Origin of Marriage 32 I. Marriage Among Animals 34 II. The Earliest Human Sex Relation . . 40 HI. The Belief in Promiscuity 51 Chapter III. The Evolution of the Family . . 54 I. Types of Families 55 II. Occurrence of the Forms of the Family . 56 III. Kinship Systems 62 IV. Reasons for Various Forms of the Family 66 V. Development of the Monogamous Family 78 Chapter IV. Current Conditions Affecting the Family 84 I. Conditions Affecting Marriage .... 85 Contents PAGE II. Conditions Affecting the Size of Families 89 III. Divorce 95 IV. The Social Evil 114 Chapter V. Biological Phases of Sex and the Family 122 I. The Appearance of Sex 124 11. The Function of Sex 132 III. Nature of Sex Differences 136 IV. Sex Determination 143 V. Summary 152 References 15% The Family and Society The Family and Society CHAPTER I Functions of the Family EVERY human institution, by reason of the fact that it is a social institution, must be held responsible for the exercise of certain socio- logical functions. It is often supposed that institutions exist for themselves. It is not rec- ognized that every such organization should be regarded as an agency through which men and society work to secure collective results, and that, therefore, its justification and test of efficiency reside in its community usefulness. In meas- uring the functions of the family it must submit to this test. It is consequently necessary to dis- cover the sociological functions of the family in order to estimate its utility and how far it is a necessary institution. What is the family's relation to the larger social world? What serv- ices does it perform for society that society imperatively needs ? "-~_ But while institutions exist for serving the larger community needs they also are the means 1 ', : : T.he: Fnmily and Society /of giving satisfaction to individuals considered as human beings. Human beings, just because they are human beings, have a right to manj satisfactions in hfe which conceivably do not immediately touch general social interests. In so far as those satisfactions do not interfere with a collective interests, their attainment is legitimate. It may be found possible to regard the family as an institution that realizes the maximum of personal satisfaction to its members, without at the same time injuring the interests of the larger \ community. Such a consideration should find \ a place in treating the functions of the family. 1. Physical Reproduction of Society The first general function of the family is the physical reproduction of society. First, in order that society should continue it is necessary that: its constituent members should be replaced as they are eliminated. While society is a psychical fact it is nevertheless constituted of the inter- relations of minds which are connected with — ^physical bodies. In a real sense it is true that society exists for the welfare of its constituent members. Viewed biologically the individual mind is a function of the body in the sense that it is an instrument for the better adjustment of the Functions of the Family organism to its more complex environment. Sim- ple organisms have little need of mind because the environment is immediate and simple. But "--^ with growing complexity of surrounding con-^ ditions there is a concomitant demand for an agent that can sense things remote in time and space. While this is not the whole function of mind it is a very necessary duty. In like manner society and the social mind may be viewed as the aecessary means by which the organisms of its constituent members are adjusted to a tremen- dously complicated situation. And while this does not tell the whole story of society it is an important item. In any event the bodies of ') human beings are essential to society, and it is L, necessary to replace them if society is to b^ perpetuated. A constant and effective agency is required to perform this imperative function. During the evolution of sentient beings a great many devices have been tried to secure this end ; repro- duction by segmentation, by budding, and other methods among lowest forms of life; promis- cuity among many animals ; and the family in its several forms among human beings. And as we are to see, the monogamic family appears to have been worked out as the most serviceable lethod to secure the various results which the The Family and Society family is required to bring about. Doubtless many individuals are produced by the method of promiscuity, but promiscuity must be viewed as an inadequate and irresponsible agency since it fails to create the type of men and women society demands. The parental factor and the home influences are essential elements even for 1^ the production of a physically valid stock. Even could society find a sufficient substitute for the home, promiscuity entails venereal diseases, close in-breeding, and other evils which produce a degenerate physical type of being. f Second, the family touches national life on ^' its physical side. For one thing, it serves as a means of holding people in permanent relations with the land. The settled character of life has • developed with the increment and definition of family functions. The adoption of a permanent \ mode of shelter and defense has tended to bind ' populations to a locality. The establishment of property as an institution and its perpetuation through the family have proved to be profound forces for securing the settlement and stability of aggregates of individuals. Were proof de- sired for this statement it would be sufficient to refer to the unsettled state of primitive peoples, and to the migrations of the barbarians of the \North which eventuated in the overrunning of Functions of the Family Rome. Since an essential idea in the constitution of the state is a settled people within a defined territory, and since the family is the most uni- versal and conspicuous method of holding a population to given areas and standards of liv- ing, the value of the latter in a national sense is evident. For another thing, the family insures, withX hardly any exception, a growing population. An N increasing population has always been regarded as a national asset. Whether this will always be true is rather immaterial, as also would be the abstract discussion over whether or not it should be so. Proceeding on the basis of facts, a large popuX lation is and has been a direct benefit to nations ^ possessing it. Under similar conditions the nation that possesses the largest population is the strongest in a physical contest. Although ^ there may be limits beyond which an ihcreased population would render no further advantage in that direction, a large population gives the basis for an extensive division of labor and spe- cialization and therefore makes possible a supe- rior internal organization. While it is probably unfortunate, yet it is an undoubted fact, that population and wealth are signs of national reputability in much the same way that worldly/ 6 The Family and Society possessions enhance the importance of the indi- vidual in the community. With a given standard the nation with the largest population is most weighty in international matters, and looking into the future, as the world regards things now, the nation's future is probably the most secure a hundred years hence which promises the most numerous citizenship. Since promiscuity under present conditions would entail a high death rate among children, and debilitate the stock, that form of reproduction would offer little security for a nation's future. And since the monogamic family makes every man and woman available for reproductive purposes, prevents close in- breeding, reduces venereal diseases, both of which latter evils impair the physical type, and is con- ducive to saving infant life, it would appear to be the best means of securing a growing popu- lation. Third, the family on its physical side has /eugenic implications. Because it is the medium of replacing decedent members of society it bears \ the responsibility of affecting the inherent physi- I cal character of the stock. Persons who marry, because of their selective power relative to mates, determine whether the race shall become physi- cally strong or weak. And since health and strength, that is, bodily validity, are the f ounda- Functions of the Family tion of individual and social mind, of social en- ergy, and of the general welfare, it is of para- mount importance that this function be well exer- cised. Society's interest in the matter is so fundamental that it should not do less than adopt all effective means for securing sound parents and preventing perilous marriages. 2, Sociological Reproduction There are good reasons to believe that origi- nally society was created by the family. Because the family was the first permanent social group and institution, and because of its reproductive functions, it not only preceded but produced other social institutions. At a later date, as in fact in every age, the form and quality of the family is a product of general conditions, but this does not invalidate the previous statement. \ / While society now creates the family, the latter yy \J was primarily the creator of society. That it / has always been capable of producing society will appear from the following considerations. In a real sense the domestic institution is the archetype of society at large. As Leibnitz be- held the reflection of the universe in each of his monads, so likewise the family group is the society microcosm. While it is true that the rela- 8 The Family and Society tions of members of this group to each other are pecuHar to this group only in that parenthood, childhood, fraternity, husband and wife bear their own special meanings, nevertheless the rudi- ments of the structures and functions of society at large are to be found in the family. It is not to be supposed that this is true just because the larger society expanded from the family, but rather because in the nature of things all social groups have to be founded on essentially the same principles. This is particularly true relative to division of labor between members. The princi- ple of the division of labor with its consequent interdependence of active members is identical in the family and in all other social institutions. Again, it is significant that all members of the family group issue into the social life at large, carrying with them the impress of the family; and that all persons who establish families come in from the larger world bringing the more generalized impress of society to bear on the developing of offspring. Thus there is a con- stant give and take, a passing back and forth between the general and special group. It is -^ obviously necessary that the groups should be similar, otherwise the inter-migration would prove disastrous. The parents bring in a larger culture from the world outside which the off- Functions of the Family spring imitate and assimilate. Sometimes excep- tionally talented parents create a culture higher than the general standard of the community, which the children of the particular home absorb. In either case children find in the home their initial equipment for contact with the world. Moreover, at all times there is a give and take between the family and the world. Consequently it is inevitable that each shall be influenced by the other and it likewise follows that the less shall be forced to make the larger response. That there may be no doubt that the family, is the incubator of social members, it is expe-\ dient to pass in review its early institutional features. First, it possesses a division of labor which is necessary to its existence and which trains the young for that of the larger commu- nity. Between man and wife this obtains prin- cipally. The husband is the bread winner, the wife the home maker. As the offspring develop, they are introduced to certain duties in the household economy. The boys build fires, get fuel, bring water, and care for many small mat- ters that the father formerly looked after. If the home is on the farm, various kinds of light work fall to the boy also. Caring for horses, cattle, hogs, and poultry are essential features. Unfortunately, in cities there is little for the boy 10 The Family and Society to do at home and he consequently misses an essential part of his training and development. But in many occupations, the boys gravitate into the occupation of the father and begin to work with him early in life. The girls likewise assist the mother in her household duties as they get old enough, and the technique of housekeeping and care of children is thus obtained by them. /Not only do the children obtain an idea of division of labor in the home but learn to co- operate, to bear and share responsibility; and what is of great importance, they get a discipline, a habit of industry which is necessary for productive citizenship. / Second, family life epitomises the great eco- 'iiomic activities of society in that it involves 1 ■ production, distribution, and consumption of wealth. That it consumes wealth in the articles and foods it uses is obvious. Its productive activity may consist of the produce raised on the farm, the foods and clothes worked up into consumptive form in the home itself, or be rep- resented by the income gained from the occupa- tions of members of the family. The income may be shared on a fair and open basis or very unequally, as in society generally. Unfair fam- ily distribution may be accepted passively or resented and so become a cause of family dis- Functions of the Family 11 memberment. Fortunate are the children and wise the parents of the family in which justice and equity in sharing the income obtains. Fur- ther, a large item in preparing children for life is their training in using and caring for some share of the income, though it may be small. Third, the governmental institutions of society have their prototype in the family. _/The familyX has its head and executive in father or mother, \ its laws which are laid down by the parents in rules of action, its common law in the family customs and common consent, its court of justice as infractions of law and custom are judged, its penal and reformatory phases in the treatment accorded offenders, its public opinion which affects its legislative, administrative, and judicial activities. Further, it may make budgets so as to keep within its income and have a sinking fund for emergencies. Thus the children in the home are made acquainted with the essentials of gov- ernmental functions and are able to appreciate the simpler aspects of the state when they meet it as citizens. One of the conspicuous truths arising from the study of criminals is that ruth- less, loose, and unfair family governments have far reaching effects towards making anti-social^ individuals. The converse is also true, namely, that a well governed and conducted family pro- 12 The Family and Society \ motes the socialization of the offspring in a most ' effective manner. ^ Fourth, education is begun in the family. In- \ deed, the most important educative period takes place in the home. The perceptive period of childhood covers the first few years of life. In those years the normal child is hungry to know objects and their qualities and the larger part of this kind of knowledge of the world is obtained then. The intelligent parent is of utmost assist- ance to the child in this and in all learning directions. The child's first information comes from its parents and it is dependent on them for years as its chief authoritative informants. Since wide and exact information plays so large a part in the modem world, it is essential that this acquisitive period should be stimulated and devel- oped in every good way. " Dull pupils " are quite largely the product of dull homes. The home that is backward in conversation, books and papers, story telling, and efforts to open up the child's imagination can not give the stimulus that the development of intelligence requires. Where the parents pay no attention to books and papers and carry on no discussions, it is rare that the children establish a reading habit. Large items in the education of individuals are those of sanitation, health, and sex hygiene. The Functions of the Family 13 home that carefully attends to these matters exercises a beneficent influence on the future career of its children, and a profound effect on the world. Much of the deficit in the health and strength of mature men and women is due to the neglect of childhood. The parents who maintain healthful conditions in the home and teach the young by example and rational training to care for themselves properly, are indeed social benefactors. As in other matters a good habit established early is better than much teaching and lecturing later. Especially in sex matters the home is the most suitable educator. Intelli- gent and sympathetic parents are better able to explain the mysteries, functions, and responsi- bilities of reproduction to their offspring than any outside parties. Much of the vice of the times is traceable to ignorance, false modesty, and neglect on the part of fathers and mothers. In too many cases the influence and example of the parents is not only negative but conduces to creating vicious careers. I Moral training is an essential factor in educa- tion and is a vital affair of the family. Genuine ethical training is best given in the home. Language, mathematics, sciences of all kinds may be taught more efficiently by institutions of learn- ing. But society trains but rudely in morals. It 14 The Family and Society recognizes only the gross and outward sins; it punishes harshly and unsympathetically. " The fundamental conception of a true self-assertion and a genuine self-sacrifice" are learned only in the family. In it "the strong learn to respect the weaker, the weak are encouraged to develop their strength by using it, under the influence of family love. The absoluteness of duty, and the true excellence of virtue, can be learned only in the family. Only a parent can say ' thou shalt ;' and compel hearty obedience by the power of an overmastering love." It is a most difficult task to inculcate duty and disciplined obedience in adults who have never learned them in the T" home. Loyal citizens of the state areytnade by sympathetic yet firm parental control. yThe home is the best generator of civic sentiments and virtues. ) It promotes the development of loyalty and patriotism since^the fatherland is the exten- sion of the home, i The self-sacrifice and devo- tion that are dematided in the larger community life are bom and nourished in the family. The qualities of personality which society so highly appreciates, those delicate excellencies of honor, tact, and sympathy, are learned outside the home only by the rarest experience, but seldom at all. The life of the family is highly conducive to the development of the moral life of the parent. Functions of the Family 15 The establishment of a home and family creates a new sense of responsibility and develops powers hitherto rudimentary. It brings into play the moral power of self-sacrifice, of living and striv- ing for the group, so little developed in single persons. It enhances and promotes the ideal in life and puts a premium on self -subordination and discipline to realize that ideal. Fifth, in matters of religion, the life of the family plays an essential role in one way or an- other. Religion is less an affair of birth than of cultivation. While the child that does not secure its religious ideas in the home may later become religious, its religion is likely to be less deep and more artificial than in the case of the child who develops in the midst of a religious atmosphere. Until civilized times the family was closely bound up with worship, and if the larger society was religious it was because the home life was intensely such. Modem religion has become less superstitious and more ethical. Sci- ence and the sceptical attitude f^more general. The church is generally divorced from the state. While society now is not religious in form it possesses a religious structure, the church, which fosters religion in the home and serves as the religious nexus between the home and society at large. No doubt a truly ethical religious atmos- 16 The Family and Society "Sphere in the average home would be influential in making better citizens. Sixth, the home touches the larger world by its attitude relative to recreation and beauty. Whether the tastes of the young shall be devel- oped or undeveloped, high or low, depends more on what the home presents and encourages than on any other factor. Cleanliness, order, taste in arrangement, comeliness or"Tiouse and grounds, are conditions that mould the soul of the child in its daily reactions and development. In like manner the attitude and tastes of the parents relative to what sports and forms of recreation are suitable give a direction to the lives of the children. Since games, sports, and recreation constitute such a vital part in the life of the world, are agencies which befoul or purify it, it follows that fathers and mothers have a very large responsibility in moulding the appetites and directing the recreational activities of their offspring. 3. Relation of Family to Society We have seen how profoundly the family con- tributes to the larger social life in exercising its function of socializing the young individuals. What is to be discussed here might have been developed there, since what is to be said still Functions of the Family 17 \ concerns the development of the offspring. How\ ever, the point of emphasis in discussing sociolog- ical reproduction was the function of the family in preparing its offspring to lead a social life, in socializing, humanizing, personalizing them. The emphasis now is to be on society itself rather than on the offspring. In what fundamental ways is society affected by the life and work of the domestic institution.'* First, how far is the family an independent social group, and in what sense, if at all, is it the social unit.f* In discussions of the family it is frequently asserted that that group is self- sufficing and that it is the only group that is. This was true of the family in patriarchal times because at that time it was society. A family group was a society, and although many such groups may have sustained loose relations to a larger governmental order, the essential functions and activities of a society were carried on in the patriarchal institution. In almost an exclusive sense it was self-sufficing. Had there been no other groups, no larger governmental organiza- tion, which often was the case, it could reproduce its members and prosecute the sustaining and reg- ulating activities necessary to group existence. Even in later times, as seen in the case ofy frontier life in America before the industrial erju y 18 The Family and Society / the family was self-sustaining, and in connection with other families, self -protecting. However, conditions have changed. Under a highly indus- trialized, specialized, interdependently function- ing complex of social structures, the family is quite dependent on the larger community for its life and prosperity. This is obviously true in urban communities. But it is almost as true for rural regions. In relatively few cases could the farm family support itself apart from society at large. The produce of the farm is not raised for home consumption, but is disposed of in distant markets. The grain must be sent away to be ground into flour and meal so that bread may be made. The clothes, groceries, implements are manufactured in factories and sold to farmers. Education is a community affair. The govern- ment builds roads, bridges, school-houses, and performs other useful and necessary services. Were the farm family reduced to a self-sufficing basis, civilization would move backward a cen- tury and the nation would suffer a large depop- ulation. The urban family is directly and im- mediately dependent on society at large for its sustenance, education, conveniences, and protec- \tion in many ways. We must conclude that the family is not a self-sufficing, independent institution but that it Functions of the Family 19 is grounded on the existence and welfare of the larger social order. The uncritical statement is often made that the family is the social unit. Since there are many kinds of social units the family can not be the social unit. The United States census gives statistics of the population of the nation by families, to be sure. But it also does the same by individuals, by races, by nationalities, by sex, age, and so on. For most statistical purposes the individual is the unit of society. The same is true for most economic and sociological con- siderations. The point is made that since society may be resolved into families which alone of the many social factors are capable of self-repro- duction it alone is the true unit. Were society eliminated by a great catastrophe, most of the population destroyed, the ideas of achieve- ment lost so that the race had to begin afresh, the family would doubtless be the starting place in the process of reconstruction. Individuals would not be self -reproducing. But such a sit- uation is unthinkable. As we have seen, taking society as it is today, the family is not self- sufficing and independent, and consequently pos- sesses practically no .claim to being the exclusive social unit. Second, the family institution is a part of the 20 The Family and Society mechanism of society by which the social order is perpetuated. It is said that the universe is orderly because its various systems of suns, plan- ets, and nebulae preserve relatively the same rela- tions to each other in their movements and rota- tions. Were our solar system to vary incalculably or were a nebula to tear across the universe in an irresponsible manner, were things to act* chaotically and without regular relations to each other, there would be no universe, no order. In like manner there is said to be a social order because the various organizations, institutions, customs, ideas, which constitute society remain comparatively fixed and orderly relative to each other. A relatively stable and fixed social order is not only a great convenience but a prime necessity for purposes of conducting the affairs of life. If we are to carry any plan or pursuit to a successful end it is requisite that the future conditions involved in the enterprise shall be known. That means that they shall be fixed and orderly so that they may be understood. While society does undergo transformations from time to time, while evolution and progress are de- sirable, nevertheless pursuits and happiness in life demand a large amount of social stability. Sociologists have worked out a doctrine of the social order and of progress. Progress comes Functions of the Family 21 by reason of gradual changes introduced into society which are chiefly caused by the inventions and achievements, the new ideas, which are con- tributed by men and women of talent ; providing always that these changes advance the common welfare. On the other hand, the social order is maintained by reason of a kind of social inertia. The mass of men are imitative, not creative. New ideas do not reach them in child- hood when the mass of ideas are established. The ideas that have been handed down from time immemorial through successive generations con- stitute the common stock of mental pabulum. Tradition acts as a long leading string that binds the present to the past. Custom constitutes a great mould which, like the basket used by the Chinook Indians to deform the heads of their infants, presses upon the mind of every child. Conventionality weaves its web about the minds of the new generation. Imitation plaj^s like a shuttle through them all. Hence the generation growing up becomes like that which surrounds it. The old order changes slowly, if it changes at all. Those that desire a new order are able to reach the mass of citizens but slightly. Hence progress is not catastrophic. This brief exposition enables us to see how the family enters into the situation. It takes The Family and Society ^e young in the great imitative period of life ]fi^hen they are most plastic and impresses upon them the stock of ideas which the parents re- ceived from their parents in turn and which have been but little modified by their larger contact and experience with the world. For the mass of people life consists more of habitual movements organized into activities than it does of ideas. Modes of doing things : keeping house, sweeping, dusting, bread-making, preserving fruits, caring for children, going to church, disposal of leisure time, home manners, attitude towards wife and children, outlook on life and the world, and mul- titudes of other activities and attitudes constitute the larger side of life of the masses. These are learned and perpetuated by home influences. In modem times the press, theater, education, and other agencies have entered into the situation to ^^^,_counteract the conservative influence of the home. Before their time society moved forward but little because of the dominating influence of the two great conservative agencies, the family and the church. In religion, sociability forms, and in the transfer of property in the line of descent, the family is a conspicuous example of con- servation, sometimes of reaction. It is likewise a conservative medium for the transmission of ethical doctrines and of sentiments. Functions of the Family Third, the family as family appears to touch the matter of social progress but little, save on the assimilative side. Yet there are certain aspects of progress in which the domestic institu- tion may have a part. As in biological matters variation is the basis of evolution, new kinds of plants and animals which are better adapted to live being initiators of new varieties or at least making advances in the stock of forms; so in society beneficial changes are instigated by indi- vidual and societal variations. A better physical stock of men is conducive to the improvement of society and serves as the basis of creating a higher order of intellectual activity. Since genius is so closely bound up with body and brain we must expect an improved stock of people to give rise to a larger share of potential talent. It is the business of society to see that this born genius becomes matured and fruitful. But the family by careful selection in mating may act as a promoter of progress relative to securing a better physical stock. We have seen that progress is secured by the \ changes which ensue by the adoption on the part of society of the contributions of its men of talent and genius. These inventions are not f>nly material, as the locomotive, harvester, tele- gu^aph, printing press;, but take the form of y \ 24 The Family and Society books, scientific discoveries, legislation, literature, art, plans, and organization for social ameliora tion. Doubtless many men of real genius lit undiscovered in backward communities and dull homes. 'Had the same individuals been bom and reared in the enlightened and stimulating atmos- phere of cultured homes they would have had the opportunities of becoming productive. It is here that the home has a chance to make its con- tribution to social progress by placing intel- lectual opportunities before the child or placing the child in contact with the opportunities of intellectual quickening. It may be in nature study, in mechanics, invention, literature, music ; but the opportunity to self -discovery is what is needed. The development of a public school sys- tem has taken a part of the responsibility off the family. (But alert, resourceful, devoted parents will always have an exceptional work to do in stimulating and awakening the minds of the children in their earlier years. 1 But since progress is niore-^than mere social change, since it is essentially those changes which advance the welfare of the masses of citizens, the ethical sentiments are involved in it. Society often flounders through a period of profound changes by reason of the introduction of new f ac- tprs when it cannot be said that it is making Functions of the Family 25 progress because the fruits of the new creations are being appropriated by a few shrewd and selfish individuals. Moreover, a nation may send out its armies in a ruthless war because of false sentiments. Could the social outlook be given, could individuals be ethically socialized, the pro- moters of great undertakings would share their benefits with the mass of men who contribute to their success and the citizenship of a nation would insist on international justice, rather than on revenge and exploitation. The foundations of the ethics of life are laid in the life of the family. Selfish and militant parents impose their views on the growing children who carry the view into practice. Conversely, altruistic and societary minded parents fortunately have the power of giving a regard for the rights of fellow beings, an interest in social evolution and the future of mankind, a love of justice in its larger sense, that will truly contribute to building a better world. 4. The Family in Relation to Parents So far the family has been viewed as an insti- tution existing for the physical and social repro- duction of human beings, with some attention having been paid to its relation to the larger societary world. When considered relative to the 26 The Family and Society working of the larger economy of the biological and sociological fields, the family institution un- doubtedly bears the aspect of being chiefly a reproductive agency. But when the subjective rather than the functional aspect is attended to other factors come to light. For mating and ..■marriage never would have taken place among ^ higher forms of life had not the sex instinct resided in the pairing organisms. The instinct to mate carries with it the pain and pleasure inherent to the most intense form of desire within the bounds of knowledge. The satisfaction of that desire must be regarded as the strongest and most influential of all the social forces. It has produced not only great individual eff^orts but has spurred into the fight masses of men who otherwise would have remained inert. Again, there is some justification for saying that the parents have certain rights in the family. Fortunately, among civilized men the time is past when the doctrine that the end of mankind is to multiply and replenish the earth, that child bear- ing is the sole object of woman's existence, is regarded as sacred. When that teaching pre- vailed the wife had little respite during the reproductive period and she was aged and worn out by the time its end was reached. While many parents need to be taught their larger I Functions of the Fmmly 27 responsibilities for their children the average parent does not desire to shirk the parental duties and most parents wear themselves out by the use of wrong and backward methods of training and discipline. . The adoption of en- lightened methods wQuld reduce the arduousness of rearing a family. ) The right of parents to some leisure and to some relief from the inces- sant care of children needs to accompany the insistence on the performance of their full re- sponsibilities. Perhaps this right will not be re- alized until the community makes child life safe by means of play associations so that children may be permitted to leave the confines of the home at times. Spencer makes the profound gen- eralization that " in proportion as organisms be- come higher they are individually less sacrificed to the maintenance of the species ; and the impli- cation is that in the highest type of man this sacrifice falls to the minimum." He further points out how this decreasing subordination of parents to the species is brought about. " First, by the elongation of that period which precedes reproduction; second, by decrease in the num- ber of offspring borne, as well as by increase of the pleasures taken in the care of them; and third, by lengthening of the life which follows cessation of reproduction." This has been the The Family and Society tendency during the whole course of animal and human evolution. Doubtless something remains to be accomplished toward increasing the pleas- ures of parents in child rearing. The right to be taken care of when they are aged and worn is a right of parents. Society has moved forward tremendously in this since savage times. Old men and women then were cast aside by neglect, or because sustenance was difficult to secure the policy was forced on primi- tive groups of abandoning or putting to death old people. Among certain African people the father would ask the favorite son to end his days, since the miseries incident to old age were too great to bear. That there is need for en- forcing on the minds of the young their duties toward making the last days of their parents comfortable and of administering cheer to them then is observed from the fact that many parents are allowed to become paupers whose children are well able to support them. It is noticed that there is a great difference among immigrant na- tionalities in the United States in this respect, certain nationalities showing little affection for their old people and being quite willing that the state should assume their support. By means of old age pensions the state now promises to Functions cf the Family 29 ameliorate the conditions under which the de- clining days of its old workers are spent. 5. Summary Summarizing this chapter we are enabled to recall the following ideas. Since the family is a social institution it should produce those re- sults for which its peculiar nature calls. It is found by experience that the monogamic family is the best agency to renew society by the con- stant creation of new physical members. It con- serves childhood, averts close inbreeding, avoids venereal diseases which promiscuity brings, and thus begets a good physical stock. The family promotes national life by securing a settled life and by yielding a growing population. In addition to reproducing society physically, the family reproduces society spiritually by so- cializing the young. Social beings are not bom, they are developed. The old philosophical puz- zle, Why are men's minds alike.'* receives its answer in the simple teaching that from ini- tial society parents have absorbed the ideas of society at large, have conveyed them to the minds, and impressed them on the children. Since the principles at the basis of the family and of society generally are much the same, training in the home lays the foundation for 30 The Family and Society participating in and understanding the larger world. Thus, where the family is not abnormal or backward, we find in the home a division of labor, the various economic activities, the begin- nings and rudiments of government, of educa- tion, and the inculcation of morals, and love of order and beauty. If the family prepares for society generally, it might be supposed that it profoundly affects society. It does this in making good or bad citizens. In another way it affects social prog- ress, in so far as it produces men and women of achievement. But for the most part the family, like the church, is a conserving, rather than a dynamic, institution. It is a mistake to suppose that the family is an independent, self-sufficing institution, because it is related to society in general in so many obvious ways, and because the progress of a hundred years would be destroyed did one re- vert to the condition of independent families. Neither is the family the social unit in any ex- clusive sense. It is one among a number of social units. For most scientific purposes the individual serves as the social unit. The family is an asylum for the man and woman who have married where a division of labor between them obtains, and where ministra- Functions of the Family 31 tions of affection and companionship occur. While they, as parents, have a large measure of responsibility and duties relative to their off- spring, they also have rights as parents and as human beings. They are morally bound to suc- cor and train their children. On the other hand, the offspring are morally bound to succor and care for the parents in their years of decline. QA^p jj^ CHAPTER II Origin of Marriage MARRIAGE is commonly regarded as the form or convention by which a man and woman are made husband and wife. Because, however, this ceremony, or some such more or less formal act, initiates a relationship between the two parties which continues for a longer or shorter time, and that most often brings to the pair dependent offspring, the term marriage is frequently used to cover the matrimonial insti- tution. But since the pairing of male and fe- male for purposes of reproduction might not result in what we today think of as the family, and wliich, nevertheless, actually leads up to or initiates the family, it is proper to avoid the use of the latter term and employ that of marriage in discussing the origin of the marital institu- tion. It will doubtless prove useful to give the term marriage a somewhat concise meaning, otherwise the impossibility of definitely locating the origin of the institution is obvious. It immediately be- comes evident that we cannot transfer our mod- em meaning back to primitive times. Should 32 Origin of Marriage wf: do so we would be embarrassed by the dis- covery of many marital forms which could not be embraced in, or would be incongruous with, our conception. Our conception would be too rich and manifold in its elements to fit the nar- row situation. This is generally true in the hunt for origins. In treating the evolution of re- ligion it has been found necessary to define re- ligion in the simplest terms, to strip off the rich efflorescence of later times, so that the definition may serve to describe and designate the highest, most developed form of religion, as well as the lowest and poorest. In that case and in the pres- ent one it is necessary to find the irreducible minimum, to reduce our conception to its lowest terms. Westermarck says that most of the definitions which are given of marriage are of a juridical or ethical nature, '^ comprehending either what is required to make the union legal, or what, in the eye of an idealist, the union ought to be." Evidently such definitions are unfit for our pres- ent purpose. The writer mentioned has given what is perhaps the simplest definition, one on which it would be difficult to improve. He says : "From a scientific point of view, I think there but one definition which may claim to be gen- rally admitted, that, namely, according to which The Family and Society marriage is nothing else than a more or less dur- able connection between male and female, last- ing beyond the mere act of propagation till after the birth of the offspring." This is wide enough to include all sex relations which may be called marriage, and narrow enough to exclude merely promiscuous relations. Because of its adequacy this meaning will be emploj^ed. 1. Marriage Among Animals The problem of the origin of marriage con- cerns itself not alone with the history of matri- monial institutions among men. At least the treatment accorded it by numerous writers would indicate this. Herbert Spencer, Letoumeau, Westermarck, Howard, and others begin their studies of marriage by a survey of sex relations in the animal series below man. It is conceived that the biological conditions out of which human institutions arose are rooted in the evolving ani- mal world. Further, it is thought that the be- ginnings of the human institution of marriage might be discovered there. The first supposition is doubtless well founded. Man has so many ap- petites, instincts, mental traits, and bodily struc- tures that are also common to animals, and which are explicable only by supposing that the former grew out of the latter, that we should expect ^ Origin of Marriage 36 to find the biological conditions which regulate sex matters coming down to us from the past. The latter supposition does not rest on the same necessity. For marriage is much more likely to be a social arrangement, an affair into which the element of rational agreement enters to a considerable extent. Consequently, there is far less probability that it occurs among animals than that the biological conditions regulating sex matters among men arose there and have con- tinued to operate with something of their for- mer force. Westermarck has amply proved that pairing of a somewhat permanent nature frequently oc- curs among birds and beasts. Among birds especially, the bond between male and female dur- ing the "mating season'* is so strong and un- disturbed by infidelity that a certain writer re- marks that the only genuine marriage is found among them. In the lowest form of life par- entage is unknown, sex not having appeared. When it does arise the early parents are not con- cerned with the offspring. Eventually, however, the mother develops solicitude for the young, and with the extension of the span of life and also of infancy of the young, this maternal at- tention increases. Occasionally the male parent of a species exhibits some consideration for the 36 The Family and Society offspring by participating in feeding and caring for it. More frequently the mother fights the family battle alone. Did it suffice to consider that one parent in charge of the offspring constituted the family, there could be no question but that that insti- tution begins among animals. But the continu- ance of the male with the female until after the young are bom, except among birds, is rather exceptional. It is notorious that among our domestic animals the mother alone cares for the offspring. The function of the male is com- pleted in the process of fertilization. As we defined marriage, that institution exists only in exceptional cases among animals exclusive of the anthropoidea and birds. Relative to birds, while it must be said that they show an almost universal seasonal pairing, a fidelity lasting from nesting, or nest-building, to the flying of the fledglings, the fact is rather inconsequential for the question of human mar- riage. Men did not descend from birds. Conse- quently anything birds practiced could have had but very slight influence on human action. Men may have imitated birds in certain particulars, as ethnology shows, but those imitations ex- hausted themselves on matters of decoration and armor. The matrimonial institution is too fun- Origin of Marriage 37 damental a social affair to be much subject to imitation of bird practice. In default of a bio- logical and a sociological continuity between men and birds it is obvious that the pairing of birds is irrelevant to the question of human mar- riage. The question of the life and practices of the apes is far more important. Man is not a direct descendant of the apes but rather from a stock of animals which sprung from a stem common to human beings and the apes. The practices of this ancestral stock were doubtless closely akin to those of the apes. Consequently the life of apes reflects that of man's pre-human ancestors. Darwin believed that apes led a social life. Bed- dard states that baboons "live in herds," and recent African hunters describe the human-like antics and collective actions of these creatures. Beddard says of the gorilla that it " goes about in families, with but one adult male, who later has to dispute his position as leader of the band with another male, whom he kills or drives away, or by whom he is killed or driven away. The animal is said to make a nest in a tree like the orang, but this statement has been questioned." (Mammalia, pp. 566 and 576.) Flower and Lydekker also affirm that the gorilla "lives in family parties." It is far more f rugivorous than 88 The Family and Society the orang, which shows a strong hking for ani- mal food. It is evident that the gibbon lives in packs, from the fact that in making its double, human-like call, which is one of the most common forest sounds, "several join in the cry, like hounds giving the tongue." This animal is largely vegetarian, though it is fond of spiders, insects, bird's eggs, and even birds themselves. As to the chimpanzees, they " are essentially forest dwellers, and are more arboreal in their habits than the gorilla. They live either in families, or in small parties of several families. Frequently, at least, they construct a kind of nest in the trees as a sleeping place; the male being said to sleep on a forked branch below the level of this nest." (Flower and Lydekker, Mammals, Living and Extinct, pp. 730-736.) Westermarck reviews evidence gleaned from the works of several observers relative to the gorilla, orang-outang, and chimpanzee, and con- cludes that for most part they lead a solitary life, existing in small groups with a male at the head, in pairs, or sometimes wandering alone. He further finds that they have a rutting, or pairing, season, at which time the males battle with each other for supremacy. He holds the belief, too confidently I think, in view of the Origin of Marriage 39 slender evidence, that simple pairing, or monog- amy, obtains among them. Letourneau, on the other hand, thinks that apes are often gregari- ous and sometimes monogamous, sometimes po- ly gynous,* more often the latter. The logic of the whole situation recommends his position as the correct one. Among the lower forms of life there is one interesting fact for a sociological study of the family. While the family instinct is widespread among animals, among ants, bees, and termites i it has apparently been distributed over the whole I group. There is no family among those groups. The queen is fertilized by one or more of the drones, who then die or are dispatched. The queen is a mere egg producer. The mothering of the young is performed by the workers, who are neither fathers nor mothers, but who yet possess a nursing instinct and a group altruism which are effective. In these cases a complicated social organism exists without a family institu- tion. Hence, here at least, the family is not the social unit. *In this volume polygyny and polygynous are used instead of the popular terms polygamy and polygamous. According to the meaning of the original roots from which the words are derived, gama means marriage while gynos means woman. Hence polygamy denotes pluralistic marriage while polygyny signifies plural wives. — Editoe. 40 The Family and Society 2, The Earliest Human Sex Relation When we ascend to the human stage of evolu- tion a most compHcated situation exists relative to marriage. First, it is difficult to ascertain the exact family conditions of primitive men who now exist or have recently existed. Sec- ond, how much force toward settling the ques- tion of earliest human marriage shall be ac- corded to the scant beginnings of marriage among man's animal ancestors .^^ This second question is complicated by the fact that a great gulf exists between present primitive man and the highest existing animal species. Prehistoric man, man from his origin up to the stage of cul- ture represented by present primitive man, fills, by a rough estimate, a period of time amounting to 450,000 years. Beyond the first prehistoric man extends another extensive period until man's animal ancestors, the cousins of the anthropoid apes, are reached. Many theories have been developed as to the relation of the sexes among primitive men. First, the theory of promiscuity, the belief that males and females paired temporarily and without re- gard to relations of kinship. Second, the patri- archal theory, the doctrine which holds that the primordial group consisted of the eldest valid male parent, all agnatic descendants and adopted Origin of Marriage 41 persons, together with slaves, dients, and other dependents, organized under the despotic au- thority of the eldest male, the patriarch. Third, the theory of original monogamy. Fourth, the theory that various forms of marriage existed from the first, with monogamy the predomina nt form. Fifth, the theory that the various kinds of marriage groups — polyandric, polygynic, and monogamic — appeared from the beginning, according to circumstances, but that monogamy was rather the exception. Bachofen, Morgan, liubbock, Engles, and others have defended the first theory; Maine and his school, the second; probably the majority of civilized people have held the third; Letoumeau, Westermarck, and others, the fourth; Herbert Spencer holds the fifth for present primitive men, with suggestions of prior promiscuity. Our concern just now is as to whether any form of marriage existed at first, or whether the condition of sexual promiscuity prevailed among primitive men. In the nature of the case only the larger aspects of the problem can be con- sidered in this small volume. To settle the question it has been necessary to compile the facts from the works of first hand ob- servers of practically all existing primitive peo- ples. This has been done by Spencer, Letour- 42 The Family and Society neau, and later by Westermarck. Competent stu- dents of the subject generally concede that these and other authorities have demonstrated that there is no such thing as a general stage of pro- miscuity among the primitive groups visited and studied by civilized man. Herbert Spencer, how- ever, intimates that the loose and easy marital and sex relations among those groups indicate a prior stage of promiscuity. In this latter opinion the American Morgan coincides, but for a different reason. Letoumeau, at times, shows symptoms of believing in primordial promis- cuity. The situation as far back in social evolution as we have actual evidence concerning sex re- lations appears to be this : Primitive society, as we know it, is characterized by a pluralistic form of marriage, polyandric in some cases, poly- gynic in others, sometimes both polyandric and polygynic, with the frequent occurrence of monogamy. What shall be said of the long interim of probably hundreds of thousands of years which stretch beyond our primitive man to the original human beings .^^ Archeology has demonstrated that there were still lower culture stages than that possessed by present primitive men, and it has discovered two or more lower levels of men Origin of Marriage in physical type. It is apparent that Wester- marck's evidence does not touch this period, save in so far as his generaHzations from animal life may obtain. But as we saw, the evidence as to what actually the sex relations among apes are IS too meager to establish anything to a cer- tainty. Further, we cannot know what effect developing reason and the entrance of other factors would have on marital relations in the subsequent beings. Let us consider the various possibilities and factors in the situation. First, the bearing of the idea of continuity. We might expect an evo- lution toward some kind of marriage, should we follow the analogy of the development of other social institutions and of mental and bodily structures. We find animal bodily structures far more similar than dis-similar to those of man. Although but few of the "missing links" have been discovered, we hold to continuity of physi- cal forms. Similarly animals possess most of man's instincts, the special sensory apparatus, sensations, perceptions, and a degree of general- izing and reasoning power. We believe in a mental continuity. Animals have a language of signs and sounds. Primitive man possesses these in a higher degree of development. Linguistic continuity is most probable. If we find some 44 The Family and Society beginnings of marriage among the animals which most approximate man it would be natural to suppose that further evolution has occurred dur- ing the development of the series. Great marital development during that interim should not be expected, however, because the changes, at that stage of evolution, in relations between individ- uals was necessarily slow, as we know from a study of social phenomena among both animals and men. In fact it is conceivable that condi- tions arose which blocked actual progress and even compelled regression. For example, the rational factor grew stronger. What would be its effect on a marriage that was based on in- stinct exclusively? Would it increase the male's tendency toward maintaining a marital horde.? Or would it lead the male in the direction of a solitary life in which he could exercise his cun- ning and strength in hunting and fighting.'^ Second, the question as to whether apes were solitary or gregarious and its bearing on the nature of the sex relations. Our previous treat- ment of this established a strong probability of dominant gregariousness and of polygynous grouping. Third, infancy is prolonged among the an- thropoids and doubtless still more prolonged among the first men. This prolongation of in- Origin of Marriage 45 fancy imposes a prolongation of parental care. In itself, however, it does not pronounce that this increased attention is paternal in part. Other considerations are required to decide that. A smaller number of offspring and an increase of their dependence accompanies the prolonga- tion of infancy, making it probable that the mother would at times be the center of a group of growing children. The force of this con- dition is in the direction of a family, or horde, life. Fourth, evolution from the animal to the hu- man stage brings not only the erect attitude of body but its more important accompaniment, a heightened and enlarged psychical life. It is impossible to say what the exact effects of this enlarged psychical life would be on sex relations, but certain results are probable. The growth of rational power made early man superior to the animals. He could operate against them, lay snares and traps for them, use weapons to overcome them. This undoubtedly had much to do with changing early man or his near ancestors from a frugivorous to a carnivorous diet. In this connection woman would be rendered more dependent. So long as she could forage for food she could support herself and her depend- ent offspring. But where the inhabitants of a 46 The Family and Society region became numerous and the larger part of the food had to be obtained by the chase, she was incapacitated for this during the period of rearing and nursing the child. Had not males become capable of developing a somewhat perma- nent attachment for the female and offspring she and her children in many cases would perish. The only alternative to this would be the ex- istence of a relatively large communal group of which the mother constituted a member and re- ceived her support at critical times. But this also supposes a group attachment on the part of the males, an outcome in turn of the larger psychical nature. A strengthening of the psychical attribute of jealousy in the males might be conceived to take place with evolution. Since the time of Darwin the " law of battle " has been recognized as obtaining among the males of the more highly developed animals. Fighting for females at pairing time quite generally obtains. The man- like apes enter into conflict for the mastery of females. Psychologically it is true that dur- ing the process of marital evolution the emo- tional life has been broadened and deepened. Civilized man not only experiences more emo- tions but is able to respond to any one of them more profoundly than undeveloped men. The Origin of Marriage 47 emotional reaction we call jealousy comes under this general rule. Jealousy developed among animals with the evolution of higher forms, and it likely grew apace during the ascent from apes to man. Had early men an annual pairing sea- son, as Westermarck believes, this jealousy would operate only on those occasions, as in the case of animals. Did men then live in isolation, males and females would separate immediately after pairing, for the interim between seasons would be too long for sex jealousy to span. Only the disappearance of the pairing season, the es- tablishment of ties between the male and off- spring, or the discovery of cooperative advan- tages of group life could obviate the tendency to fall apart. Separation of sexes would spell promiscuity. Segregation would mean some kind of marriage. Fifth, Westermarck supposes that close in- breeding and the "horror of incest" which arose consequent to it in primitive times were prohib- itive of promiscuity. He offers a wide array of evidence to show that primitive people generally have a horror of incest. There are exceptions, and some of his evidence is contradicted by com- petent observers. The sexual saturnalias that primitive men periodically indulged in without respect to kinship ties creates a presumption as 48 The Family and Society to its weakness. That it is an instinct which became established early in the history of man by natural selection, as he maintains, does not appear to be true. It would not be necessary, save on the narrow pairing basis on which he in- sists and the existence of which is questionable. Moreover, it does not appear to be an instinct, as many modern experiences show. Not only have near relatives often married consciously, but at times unconsciously of the nearness of kinship ties. Incest is of frequent occurrence. The Chicago Vice Commission report gives start- ^ ling facts of its frequency in producing vice. These things could not occur were there a pro- hibitive instinct. Like many other ideas, even the idea of deity, incest is an idea that is im- bedded in the family stock of ideas and impressed on the minds of the young by the parental gen- eration. Originally it may have grown out of religious tabus, reinforced by the fact that fa- miliar sexual associates possess a minimum of sex attraction. Whatever the exact nature of the origin of the inhibitory idea against incest this statement of Letoumeau's appears to represent the truth: "It is quite certain . . . that during the first ages of the evolution of societies the ties of kin- ship, even those we are accustomed to regard as Origin of Marriage 49 sacred and respect for which seem to be incarnate in us, have not been any impediment to sexual unions. Like the sentiment of modesty, the horror of incest has only been engraved on the human conscience with great difficulty and by long culture. Samples of this kind are un- known to the animals, and before they could arise in the human brain it was first necessary that the family should be constituted, and then that from some motive or other the custom of exogamous marriage should be adopted." The statement that the effects of close in- breeding would have a prohibitive force on pro- miscuity deserves more consideration than we can give. A review of the evidences as to the exact effects of breeding in and in would require many pages. Westermarck's extensive consid- eration of the facts gleaned from many inves- tigators serves to show that the poorer strength and fertility of the offspring of closely related pairs are likely to show deterioration, though the effects are not uniform. Consequently, in the development of mankind, natural selection oper- ated toward eliminating those groups of men who in-breed and the selecting of those which practiced exogamy, with the result that even- tually a " powerful instinct " or aversion to mar- riage with relatives was established. 50 The Family and Society J. Arthur Thomson, in his Heredity, throws some doubt on such a hard and fast conclusion. He quotes G. H. Darwin as saying: "Biolog- ically it seems certain that close interbreeding can go far without affecting physique, and that it is useful in fixing character." Thomson says : "The idea that there can be any objection to the marriage of two healthy cousins who happen to fall in love is preposterous." He gives in- stances of frequent inbreeding in the production of superior stocks of cattle. However, it must not be supposed that Thomson is an advocate of close inbreeding. Moreover, some of the his- torical examples of human inbreeding without serious results which he cites had previously been fairly disposed of by Westermarck. We may fairly conclude, I think, that continuous promis- cuity practiced within a small group of primi- tive men would have caused deterioration of the stock, which in contact with the cross-breeding stocks, would ultimately disappear.* Sixth, the principle of parallelism may have some application to the original human sex- *0n Mendelian principles the reason why outbreeding is better than inbreeding is that it scatters and hence covers defects instead of combining and heightening them as is done in inbreeding (see Walter, Genetics, pp. 242-3). Origin of Marriage 51 relation. As obtaining in other primitive mat- ters it means that because of men's unitary origin they possess similar physical and mental characteristics. Consequently, when migrations had taken place and race stocks had been estab- lished in widely separated regions, similar ar- tifacts and institutions appeared. The stone implements of Europe and America resemble each other in form, though there are differences of detail. Magic and tabus have occurred every- where, though the particulars of their practice varied from place to place. Therefore we might expect that the similar sex instinct would work' out some form of marriage, but that the institu- tion would exhibit itself differently in various regions. While promiscuity may have occurred in places, the conflict of group with group, and the battles of males for leadership in groups of females, as well as the premium which natural selection placed on out-breeding stocks, militated against the establishment of a universal stage of sexual promiscuity. 3, The Belief in Promiscuity How, then, did the belief in promiscuity as an original factor in the history of the family arise if it has never been general? Several dif- ferent theories have been invented to substantiate 52 The Family and Society promiscuity, but the practices of present primi- tive men have chiefly given rise to the belief. Temporary unions, marriages for a term, partial marriages which are pecuniary transactions and good for only certain days of the week, corro- borees and sexual saturnalia in which restraints are abandoned and free license prevails, wife lending so widely practiced, the result of viewing the female as property of the male, and group marriages, are some of the facts which have impressed travelers and led them to conclude that such peoples are without marital institu- tions. The group marriage which obtains among certain tribes of Australia, in which a man has a first wife and other secondary wives, and the wife has a chief husband and several potential husbands, all of which is regulated by tribal custom, until understood, presented the appear- ance of promiscuity. But carefully conducted investigations among primitive peoples have uniformly shown that some form of marital reg- ulation obtains, although considerable license may exist. Westermarck is convinced, however, that a lack of chastity and the practice of license did not obtain original^, but has been introduced by the presence and contact of civilized men. Marriage, like other institutions in the be- ginning, was stumbled into by primitive men. ^B Origin of Marriage 53 As Letourneau safely says : " Every possible experiment, compatible with the duration of sav- age or barbarous societies, has been tried, or is still practiced, amongst various races." Society conducted an experiment as to how to Incubate new social members successfully. The ancient animal method would not suffice for the more complicated life. The lengthened infancy and dependence of the young constituted nature's suggestion that a parental laboratory was re- quired. The new economic requirements in rela- tion to a changed food supply demanded a de- pendence of women at critical times, and division of labor between males and females in group matters. A heightening psychical ability en- larged the social capacity of the male and made him more available for family purposes. The operation of natural selection in weeding out the groups which practiced close inbreeding still further militated against promiscuity and ad- vanced the chances of the family. All of these factors organized about that of sexual instinct, so far as we are able to approximate, account for the origin of human marriage. CHAPTER III The Evolution of the Family UPON an evolutionary basis it is quite natural to suppose that the family grew out of a primal stage of promiscuity, and that it ascended through successive stages of polygyny, poly- andry, and monogamy to its present status. Theoretically this would constitute a perfect and logical scheme. Unfortunately for the theory the facts bearing on the development of the do- mestic institutions do not permit us to follow any such easy path. The course of the family has been tortuous, and the form which it has taken at any given time and place has evidently been determined by a great many circumstances. The family, like ( ther institutions, has had to ad- just itself to varied conditions, and what it is at any point of time has been determined by the forces and conditions at work in the society of the period. It is an institution which has been subj ected to the vicissitudes of ignorance, war, economic changes, religious and political ideas and factors, and the passions and ideals of hu- man beings. It has always been a product of 54 Evolution of the Family 55 the factors of its age. Being a man-made or a society-made affair, it is subject to improvement and is an object with which the best intelligence and idealism of the age may well busy them- selves. 1. Types of Families The following forms of marriage have been developed in the course of human history: Monogamy, or the pairing of one man with one woman for more than a temporary lapse of time. Polygyny, the state of marriage in which one man possesses two or more wives or concu- bines. Polyandry, the form of marriage in which one woman is held as common wife by two or more men. Group marriage, two or more forms of which exist, one in which several brothers are married to several sisters, all the brothers being the husbands of all the sisters, and all the sisters wives of all the brothers; the other in which either all the husbands may be brothers, or all the wives may be sisters. Besides the above kinds of marriage, there are time and trial mar- riages. These are not exclusive of the forms monogamy, polygyny, and polyandry, but may occur with either form. Thus, it may be a custom among a primitive people that a man and woman shall live together as man and wife for 56 The Family an4 Society a fixed time, then separate; or that they may be husband or wife only on certain days of the week, sustaining to others those relationships on the other days. This is time or term mar- riage, and may take place under a monogamous or polygynous system. Or it may be the cus- tom that fertility is regarded as the test of a valid marriage. In this case the pair separate as man and wife in case children do not result at the end of a year or a few years. This form may also operate in the case of either polygyny or monogamy; possibly also in that of poly- andry. Time and trial marriages are what have been termed lax or brittle monogamy. That is, they are more likely to be the accompaniment of monogamy and enable it to pass as an easy or bearable substitute for polygyny. 2, Occurrence of the Forms of the Family The prevalence of the forms of the family may be considered relative to time, or the vari- ous stages of social evolution, and at any given time, especially the present. The present dis- tribution will receive treatment first. One form of group marriage, 'punaluan, for- merly existed in the Hawaiian Islands, and is found among the Todas of India today. This Evolution of the Family 57 IS the marriage of a group of brothers to a group of sisters, each sister being the wife of all the brothers, and each brother the husband of all the sisters. The larger form of group marriage is to be found among the aborigines of Australia. In some of the tribes, men from certain groups of kinsmen may marry only with women from certain other kinship groups. The- oretically, each man is the husband of all the women and each woman the wife of all the men of the marriageable groups. In reality, each man has what may be called a first or real wife with whom he permanently abides. The other women are potential wives with whom he may cohabit under certain circumstances. The same situation is true for the women. Polygyny has been and is a widespread form of marriage. It flourishes over large portions of native Africa, was practiced by many of the native tribes of America, obtains generally among all Mohammedan peoples, among Jews of Mohammedan countries, exists in various islands of Oceania, and is widespread among many peoples of Asia. It is impossible to state what portion of the human race practices polygyny, both because accurate statistics of populations of all its votaries does not exist, and because even where it is sanctioned by a 58 The Family and Society people it is in most cases impossible that more than a small part of the male population is able to support more than one wife. It is general among certain West African negro tribes, peo- ples living in what Dowd calls the banana zone. Women are more numerous than men and little capital is required to undertake the initial ex- penses of housekeeping. The women perform the labor, hence they are self-supporting. Scarcity of women and the expense attached to maintaining a number of wives militate against the universality of the institution even where it is sanctioned by custom. In India 95 per cent of the Mohammedan population are monogamous by necessity or conviction, while in Persia but S per cent practice polygyny. In Africa, in ascending through the successively higher economic zones, polygyny decreases by reason of the greater equality between the num- bers of the sexes, the growing cost of domestic establishments, the increasing independence of women, and the heightened ideals of life. Polyandry is relatively rare. It is confined to a few tribes and peoples of North America, a smaller number in South Africa, certain islands and peoples of Oceania, a few peoples of Africa and Madagascar, and quite a large number of peoples of Eastern and South Eastern Asia. Evolution of the Family 59 Tibet IS the great home of polyandry. In most cases of polyandry the husbands are brothers. It is a universal practice among but a few peo- ples. It commonly occurs along with other forms of marriage and may be practiced by all classes of persons. Among'^the Khasias of Asia it prevails among the poor and is said to be used to facilitate divorce. In other places it is prac- ticed by the wealthy. It is evident from what has been said that at the present time monogamy constitutes the domi- nant form of marriage, at least conventionally. It is even possible that it is rarer than it was in earlier days of mankind, and high authorities contend that immorality and sex-irregularity are more widespread among mankind now than ever before. As in various other matters relative to marriage the scientific position is to refrain from dogmatism. When we seek to establish the occurrence of the various forms of marriage along with definite stages in social evolution the task is found to be fairly difficult. Spencer gave his attentive genius to the question. To his first question: "Do societies of different degrees of composi- tion habitually present different forms of domes- tic arrangement?" he replied that no definite relationship could be traced because monogamy, 60 The Family and Society polygyny, and polyandry occur in practically every stage of social composition from the low- est to the highest. Hov/ever, in this connection one form of relation may be alleged. " Forma- tion of compound groups, implying greater co- ordination and the strengthening of restraints, implies more settled arrangements, public and private. Grov/th of custom into law, which goes along with an extending governmental or- ganization holding larger masses together, af- fects the domestic relations along with the polit- ical relations; and thus renders the family ar- rangements, be they polyandric, polygynic, or monogamic, more definite." To his other question: "Are different forms of domestic arrangement associated with the mili- tant system of organization and the industrial system of organization .^^ " he affirmed that a general connection could be made out. But we must bear in mind that predominant militancy "is not so much shown by armies and the con- quests they achieve, as by the constancy of their predatory activities. The contrast between mili- tant and industrial, is properly between a state in which life is occupied in conflict with other beings, brute and human, and a state in which life is occupied in peaceful labor — energies spent in destruction instead of energies spent in produc- Evolution of the Family 61 tion. So conceiving militancy, we find polyg- yny to be its habitual accompaniment." Several lines of evidence of this exist. First, the co- existence of industrial development and monog- amy among certain peoples, such as the natives of Port Dory, New Guinea, the Land Dyaks, certain hill tribes of India, the Lepachs, and the Iroquois and Pueblos of North America. Second, among primitive settled tribes, as in the case of those just mentioned, the development of chief and chiefly power is small, and the mili- tancy is not great. Third, " the polygyny which prevails in simply predatory tribes, persists in aggregates of them welded together by war into small nations under established rulers; and in these frequently acquires large extensions." Thus, polygyny was marked among the militant ruling classes of the Fijians, of the peoples living in Ashanti and Dahomey in Africa, the ancient Peruvians, Mexicans, Chibchas, and Nicaraguans of America, and the old despotisms of the East. Fourth, " allied with this evidence is the evidence that in a simple tribe all the men of which are warriors, polygyny is generally diff*used; but in a society compounded of such tribes, polyg- yny continues to characterize the militant part, while monogamy begins to characterize the in- dustrial part." Fifth, a direct connection 62 The Family and Society between militancy and polygyny is seen in the practice of capturing women as trophies of war by warriors and making them additional wives and concubines. Further, incessant war leaves a surplus of women because the men fall in battle. Polygynous peoples have the advantage in such warfare of being able more rapidly to reproduce warriors. On the other hand, the decrease of war and increase of industry equal- ize the numbers of the sexes and because every man demands a wife, operate against polygyny. Sixth, because polygyny means domestic despot- ism and monogamy increases voluntary coopera- tion in the family, the former is congruous with a militant social system while the latter naturally harmonizes with the industrial form of society. (Herbert Spencer, Principles of Sociology, Part III, Chapter 9.) 3. Kinship Systems Closely connected with marriage has gone the method of tracing descent. L. H. Morgan, the American ethnologist, traced several systems of kinship. But for our purposes two gen- eral systems may be spoken of — the metro- nymic or maternal system, and the patronymic or paternal system. The metronymic system pre- vailed earliest in human society, and seems to have Evolution of the Family 63 been quite or almost a general stage through which humanity passed. In this system the chil- dren belong to the clan of the mother, are fos- tered and cared for by it, and bear the name of the maternal group. The father dwells with the maternal group but his name is not taken by the child. Further, the mother's kinsmen appear to exercise the greater authority over the children. Some investigators have believed that this sys- tem arose during a system of promiscuity, since under such a regime it would be impossible to identify the father of a child, whereas the iden- tity of the mother is always apparent. But as we have seen, promiscuity likely has never been general and it is necessary to explain the origin of the kinship method otherwise. It is obvious that animals know nothing of the paternal rela- tionship. It is most probable that the earliest men know nothing of it. In fact, a recent inves- tigator asserts that among certain primitive peo- ples of the present time the part the father plays in fertilization is not known. The appearance of the child is regarded as a matter of magic or religion. Under such conditions the father could lay no claim to a child and it would follow that it would bear the mother's name. Moreover, since the woman, because of her child bearing func- 64 The Family and Society tion, is more sedentary, more a fixture in camp and locality than man, the offspring in primitive times lived with the mother and the community life formed about her. It is natural and logical that the method of tracing lineage should center in her. It has been claimed that the existence of the maternal system carries with it the idea of the supremacy of woman in the social group. Westermarck has compiled data to show that among primitive peoples living now, the paternal system is quite or even more general than the maternal. Even if this does not prove that the maternal system was never general, which he thinks it does prove, it involves much evidence that matriarchy — that is government and au- thority by women — was never universal. It is theoretically easy to assume that since the earli- est groups probably formed about woman, she therefore exercised control of group matters. But it is pointed out that even where the ma- ternal system prevails she does not generally exercise any great authority. The cases of large control by women as among the Iroquois, Zuni Indians, etc., are rather exceptional. The paternal system is so called because of the method of naming children after the father and of tracing descent through the main line. It Evolution of the Family 65 is the universal usage among civilized peoples and, as has been said, obtains among the larger number of present primitive men. It not only involves the transfer of names through the male line but also that of property. Moreover, it in- volves the dominance of man over the wives and children, and this sometimes in an exceedingly harsh manner and to a very extreme degree. The patriarchy was the culmination of it in its exaggerated form. This is well pictured in the Old Testament accounts of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, and Sir Henry Maine wrongly believed it was the original form of human marriage. The causes which operated to bring about the revolutionary transformation from the ma- ternal order to the paternal, wherever the change has taken place, are numerous. Wife capture, which tore the woman away from her kindred group and made her a dependent in the group of the man, had a decisive effect in that direction. War, which by means of military organization magnified the power of the male and also brought him many human chattels in the shape of women, would but build up a system of male inheritance. Religion contributed its part by elevating the male line through its development of ancestor worship, women being too little heroic and spec- tacular to serve as deities. Also great would be 66 The Family and Society the influence of the necessity imposed on the family group of participating in distant hunt- ing expeditions, of going far from home for water for the herds, and most of all of passing from the hunting to the pastoral stage of life. The latter in particular imposed a permanent separation of women from their blood group and weakened their power. ^. Reasons for Various Forms of the Family To illustrate the force which social conditions exercise on domestic institutions it may be well to mention the causes which operated to produce the chief forms of the family. And in this undertaking only the larger causal conditions can be noticed. Relative to the least important of the three great forms of marriage, polyandry, many dif- ferent causes have been assigned. No special kind of geographical environment can account for it, since it obtains under most diverse cir- cumstances. Economic conditions may be con- tributive in that the cost of securing and keeping a wife in naturally poor countries may be bur- densome. But these are likely to operate only after the custom is once established. Moreover, it is practiced by the wealthy in some places. Excess in the number of males because of female Evolution of the Family 6T infanticide, or excess of male births, may play a minor part, though, as Spencer remarks, it is practiced in Tahiti, where the sexes are probably equal. In Kunwar it is said to be assigned to the desire to keep the patrimony from being distributed among a number of brothers. To guard the woman against danger and difficulty during the absence of her husband, is an assigned cause of minor value. The Shinalese ascribe it to the desire to protect the rice fields during forced attendance of the people on the king. Fraternal affection on the part of the elder brother operating to give the younger brothers the privilege of a wife has received mention. Spencer rejects scarcity of women and poverty as sufficient causes and regards polyandry "as one of the kinds of marital relations emerging from the primitive unregulated state; and one which has survived when competing kinds, not favored by the conditions, have failed to extinguish it." While its causes may remain in doubt, polyan- dry is a passing system. An advance in indus- trial life appears to militate against it. In its stronghold, Tibet, the introduction of commerce with the consequent accumulation of wealth leads to separate establishments on the part of the several members of the household. Further it # 68 The Family and Society tends to be modified in the direction of monogamy, since in the case of brother hus- bands the elder brother is the chief or real husband, the younger brothers being regarded as secondary husbands and are frequently the servants of the elder brother. In other cases one husband is accounted the real and the others are secondary husbands, even servants. It is but a step from this conception to a system in which there is but a single husband. This principle is essentially as that which operates to under- mine polygyny. The reasons assigned for the occurrence of polygyny are more definite. First, polygyny is frequently connected with wife capture. In Africa many negro tribes make forays on neigh- boring peoples to secure women. These become concubines or slaves of the men. The reasons for this may be numerous. The economic value of women as labor units is very large in certain regions, especially in west central Africa and on the western coast. Also the ability to capture women bestows a distinction on the most suc- cessful warrior. The marked man is the one who has captured or stolen a large number of women. Hence numerous women become the insignia of rank and honor. The desire for novelty together with brutal lust operate Evolution of the Family 69 strongly in the primitive stage to promote capture. ^ Second, as has been remarked, the economic importance of women in primitive society is great. Women are easily subordinated in slavery, or in a concubinage akin to it where these secondary wives perform the bulk of the labor. Their defenselessness and their tractable nature make them easy prey. Not only is woman captured and enslaved but she is purchased out- right for that end, either by money or com- modities, or by rendering service for a term of years, as did Jacob. In New Caledonia chiefs have from 5 to 30 wives and their wealth and authority varies with this ownership. An East- ern Central African finds no difficulty in sup- porting hundreds of wives, since the more he has the richer he is. An American Indian could be absolved from the arduousness of hunting to support his family whenever he could secure as many as five wives. Third, at a certain stage of social evolution a man's rank and authority is dependent on the size of his family. Not only is he rated by the number of his wives but by that of his children. More- over, his only friends are those of his family, and his safety and fighting power are determined by the size of his family group. Further, the / 70 The Family and Society early marriage and hard labor of the women impose small number of births per woman. The mortality of children also reduces their number. Hence the desire for many children tends to promote polygyny. Fourth, monogamy imposes continence on a man during certain periods of time, namely, dur- ing each month, and the period of pregnancy. During the latter period it is especially enforced among many primitive folk. Continence may be compulsory also even until the weaning of the child, which takes place late in the child's life where people live on rough foods. The grounds for these prohibitions may be either hygienic, or religious, in the latter case disease being ascribed to evil spirits. Escape from the state of continence is secured by the multiplication of wives. Fifth, one of the chief causes of polygyny exists in the attractive power of youth and beauty upon men. Women age much younger than men, especially in primitive conditions when they marry and become mothers as early as twelve or fourteen, perform the hardest of labor, and where suckling the child extends over long periods. Early intercourse with the other sex is assigned as an additional cause of premature aging. Evolution of the Family 71 Sixth, when once the custom of polygyny is established and the rich and powerful practice it religion throws about it its powerful sanction. Indeed a developed religion may specifically pro- mote it as in the cases of Mohammedanism and Mormonism. Usually, however, religion sanc- tions and promotes what has come to be estab- lished. The Hebrew religion not only did not prohibit polygyny but looked with special favor on influential men who practiced it. Seventh, the inequality of the sexes may pro- mote polygyny. In some cases the women are said to outnumber the men several fold. Among tertain African peoples women are five times more numerous than the men, and nearly the same divergence occurs elsewhere. However, these are exceptional cases. Among some peoples this disproportion occurs at the time of birth, the females largely exceeding the males in num- ber. These also are special cases. Perhaps in- cessant war which decimates the males is the largest single factor in producing the inequality. Certain comparative effects ensue from the system of polygyny. First, on family matters ; under polygyny, compared with polyandry and other lower forms of marriage, the kinship rela- tions are rendered more definite, since both the father and mother of the off^spring are known. 72 The Family and Society Defining the relations undoubtedly strengthens the parental, especially the paternal feeling. This traceable male descent serves also to give more cohesion to the group. On the other hand, it is likely that the fraternal feelings are weak- ened as compared with polyandry. Polygyny commonly engenders intense jealousy among the wives of a family, and this in turn is commu- nicated to the offspring of each wife. Thus the attachment among the half brothers and half sisters can but be less than that of full brothers and, sisters. Second, polygyny has certain other effects. One is connected with the self-preservation of society. If by reason of war and other causes females outnumber the males the population is enabled to be duly increased by rendering all the women of the group fecund by giving each a husband. Again if in a militant state the prowess of the men determines who shall have wives and bear offspring, the stock of the group is improved by the reproduction of the superior stock. The political stability of a backward social group is doubtless enhanced by bestowing upon the males the power in society. Religion in the form of ancestor worship, along with its sanctions, is built up by the establishment of descent through the male line. Polygyny has ^Evolution of the Family 73 a bearing on the offspring that is superior to other lower forms of marriage. Where the region is fertile the protection afforded by a father is doubtless conducive to their welfare. Where the Levirate obtains, the brother of the man upon his death adopts his wife and family, thus affording protection and preventing child mortality. Polygyny may also promote the welfare of the adults as compared with lower forms of marriage. By attaching all the females of the group to a male it guarantees them food and protection which otherwise in a primitive state they would not have. But unless separated in independent houses the state of the wives is commonly miserable. Jealousy and strife is in- cessant. Because of this the Hebrew term for wife is tzarot, which means troubles, adversaries, rivals. Higher sex sentiment is strangled by viewing wives as chattels and through the very numerousness of wives. It is common that among savage polygynous peoples there is no manifesta- tion of affection between the sexes. Negroes have no term for love. Old age, moreover, brings its own special penalties under polygyny. There is a decided abridgement of life after the reproductive period is past. Further, for men all through life there is a lack of the comforts of domestic affection. 74 The Family and Society The reasons for the establishment and con- tinuance of monogamy are almost identical with those for the elimination of polygyny. Hence a consideration of the former will largely reveal the latter. First, the sexes are and always have been relatively equal in number. As we have seen, in a few exceptional cases the women are numerically superior. Generally then injus- tice is done a large number of men where polygyny prevails and monogamy is the natural remedy for that injustice. Whenever enlighten- ment develops and democracy takes root, and especially wherever the freedom, equality, and mutuality of an industrial society displaces the arbitrary, despotic, and predatory character of a militant one, the institution of marriage re- sponds and conventional polygyny goes into dis- repute. Because monogamy makes use of the equality in the number of the sexes, it is the method by which the largest number of family groups for the training and rearing of children is possible. In so far as the child is the justifi- cation of the family this commends monogamy as the highest form of marriage. Second, the rise of the idea of property in woman may have an influence towards monogamy. When women have to be purchased rather ^than captured, whether by money or service, they are Evolution of the Family 76 rendered more inaccessible to the average man and hence come to have a higher value. Men will resent encroachment or invasion of this prop- erty right and be less likely to part with a wife by an easy divorce method. Third, as in polyandry, the preference by custom or choice by the wife of one of the husbands as the real husband tends to develop monogamy, so in polygyny the elevation of one wife, either because she is the first or because of her beauty, operates in the same direction. While under the sway of custom and religious sanction, women living under polygyny may and do support it, there are overwhelming indica- tions that the system runs counter to their jealous nature and that it degrades their best sex sentiments. Polygyny finds its approval by women where they carry all the burdens of out- side and inside labor. Under such cases an additional wife lessens the work of earlier ones, and they may even importune that more wives be procured. Yet wide evidence testifies to the intense jealousy, rivalry, enmity, and oftentimes bickering and fighting that exists among polyg- ynous wives. Monogamy relieves the situation and satisfies the desire of the wife to be regarded as the sole object of marital affection. Says Westermarck: "Where w^omen have succeeded 76 The Family and Society in obtaining some power over their husbands, y or where the altruistic feehngs of men have be- y^/ come refined enough to lead them to respect the feelings of those weaker than themselves, mo- nogamy is generally considered the only proper form of marriage. Among monogamous savage or barbarous races the position of woman is comparatively good; and the one phenomenon must be regarded as partly the cause, partly the effect, of the other.'' Fourth, polygyny will be abandoned and monogamy advanced in so far as war declines and economic conditions generally improve. The decline of the first removes a great agency for the exploitation of women through capture and enslavement. Rising economic conditions tend to eliminate women from the external field of labor by making it imperative that man shall do the work and carry the responsibility. This in turn operates among the mass of men to make women more independent and less inclined to bear the burdens and disadvantages of polygyny. Thus, as we ascend through the successive zones of Africa — the banana, millet, cattle, and camel — we discover an evolution towards monogamy. In the first women are cheap and polygyny is gen- eral; in the second women are scarcer and dearer, men do part of the work, and polygyny Evolution of the Family 77 has decreased; in the third women are much scarcer and dearer, men perform most of the work, and monogamy obtains for much of the population; in the fourth, women are inde- pendent and will not put up with polygyny. Fifth, many causes bound up with advancing civilization, promote the extension of monogamy. The development of the mental and moral quali- ties refines the passions which unite the sexes, makes love less dependent on mere external quali- ties, and extends the sympathy between husband and wife beyond the decline of youth and beauty. The rise of romantic love is relatively a recent occurrence. By this the affections are placed on but one of the opposite sex, that one is clothed with raiments of perfection, and chiv- alric loyalty becomes the ideal of married life. Though this halo of glory may fade away dur- ing married life, it serves as a preparatory period in which the substantial and permanent characteristics may be discovered, and promotes monogamy. Likewise the development of an understanding of the conditions of life, of en- lightenment and idealism, of a love and loyalty for the good of mankind, of an appreciation of childhood, and the importance of well trained and rightly conditioned offspring for the promo- tion of progress serve to create the highest type 78 The Family and Society of family. With the development of the monoga- mous family kinship ties are made more definite, fraternal affection enhanced, love for parents and for offspring intensified and refined, child- hood and youth rendered richer and more secure, the contents of family life enlarged and deep- ened, and the declining and oftentimes dependent years of the parents given a security and sweet- ness not to be found under other forms. 5. Development of the Monogamous Family While there has been an evolution of mar- riage through the various forms, as has been seen, within monogamy itself there has been a marked change. There is a vast distinction between the monogamic family which exists in America and that which obtained in early Rome, or even in earlier Christendom. The transforma- tions that have occurred have to do with woman's position in the home, her relation to her husband and children in matters of powers and duties, her legal rights in property and marital matters, and her social outlook and opportunities. Rome, which is probably typical of Aryan peoples, shows a distinct transformation of the family. In its earlier period the extreme patri- archal type of family flourished. Ancestor wor- ship was the basis of this. The eldest male of Evolution of the Family 79 a large kinship group was the despotic ruler. Because he represented the deified ancestors his power was only limited by custom and religious scruples. Property descended in the male line. ^ The patriarch was the priest of the family. He might divorce a sterile wife, accept or reject the child at birth, choose the husband for his daughter, disinherit his son, and put to death the wife for adultery. He administered the judicial power of the household. The Aryan laws of Manu said: "Woman during her in- fancy depends upon her father; during her youth upon her husband; when her husband is dead, upon her sons; if she has no son, on the .y nearest relative of her husband, for a woman y^ ought never to govern herself according to her own will." This strict patriarchal system held sway during, the first fiYe or six centuries of Roman history. But the growth of population, and the devel- opment of agriculture, industry, and commerce, undermined the primitive patriarchal groups, and called for the exercise of powers over social matters by a central legislative and adminis- trative organization. The council and senate assumed many of the powers and duties which had been exercised by the patriarch. Ancestor worship was undermined by the introduction of 80 The Family and Society nature worship and the appearance of philoso- phy. The rights of children were equalized by giving the father power to make a will which might include all the children, females as well as males. Marriage became a private contract and the right of divorce extended to women. Patriarchal kinship lines were broken by the incorporation of inhabitants into cities, and families were organized on the non-patriarchal basis. Under the Roman Empire social conditions were corrupt. Family life had waned. Vice was rampant, divorce frequent, and the family of integrity and purity, at least in the city of Rome, was infrequent. Juvenal cites the case of a woman who married eight husbands in five years. Yet there must have been many who stood for the old standards, for Lecky writes: "There can be no question that the moral tone of the (female) sex was extremely low — lower, probably, than in France under the Regency, or in England under the Restoration — and it is also certain that frightful excesses of unnatural passion, of which the most corrupt of modem courts present no parallel, were perpetrated with but little concealment on the Palatine. Yet there is probably no period in which examples of conjugal heroism and fidelity appear more Evolution of the Family 81 frequent than in this very age, in which marriage was most free, and in which corruption was so general." It was in this period that Christianity arose with its high conception of marriage and its restricted sanction of divorce. The efforts of early Christians were undoubtedly directed towards the purification of the family, elimina- tion of divorce and vice, and the improvement of the lives of children. Early church writers attacked sex immorality and licentiousness, and praised chastity and celibacy. The family life of the early Christians was undoubtedly superior to that of the pagan world generally. In a later period, with the church strongly established and with weak political states, the family came under the regulation of the former. Marriage was made a sacrament of the church, divorce was prohibited. Marriage was brought under the entire control of the church. But bad influences entered along with the good. lITie patriarchal type of family was promoted, woman being viewed as inferior to man and confined to domestic duties exclusively. Further, the eleva- tion of the doctrine of celibacy debased the mar- ried state. Only the highest spiritual power could be attained through abstaining from mar- riage. Hence the latter involved spiritual pollu- tion. Moreover, celibacy could not be kept 82 The Family and Society chaste. Family life was invaded and polluted from the direction of a theoretically superior spirituality. Moreover, the administration of the canonical laws relative to prohibited degrees and annulment of marriage was distorted to meet the demands of influential persons. It is questionable if a thousand years after Christ marriage was improved as compared to its con- dition in Rome in the first century. The Reformation attacked the abuses of the system of controlling marriage. Marriage ceased to be viewed as a sacrament, it was widely held to be a civil contract, notably by the Puritans, and the grounds for divorce were broadened. Since then the tendency has grown to look on marriage in that way and to place it under the entire control of the state. In recent times the patriarchal family regime is being loosened. Education has raised the intelligence of women, vocations have been opened to them so that marriage is not immediately imperative, political and civil rights have been extended. Woman has come to be regarded more as a human being, possessed of much the same capacity as man. As a consequence, her participation in matters outside the home has enlarged with a consequent improvement in the internal home relationships. With the improvement of the Evolution of the Family status of woman relative to the family and the home that of children has grown apace. Their rights and privileges in matters of play, enjoy- ment, education, and to a just consideration on the part of fathers as well as mothers are gen- erally conceded, and mark one of the greatest advances in family life. CHAPTER IV Current Conditions Affecting the Family FOR the purposes of this chapter it is assumed that it has been amply established that the modern family is marked by higher ethical char- acteristics than that of previous times, and that the welfare of society demands a further evolu- tion in that direction. Further, that the mon- ogamic form of marriage is the form of family which best subserves the interests of the off- spring, parents, and the community at large. The conclusion is apparent that whatever threatens the existence of the family, lowers its tone, or affects its efficiency must be viewed as inimical to society generally. The further in- ference follows, that wisdom dictates that a serious study of conditions affecting family life should be made in order that their nature may be understood and that evil consequences may be averted. In the present chapter attention will be paid only to the more pressing and menacing of current conditions. To give a treatment of all those that press on the family is obviously impossible in a single chapter of a small volume. However, it is worth while to 84 Conditions Affecting the Family 85 consider the more fundamental ones, and, where possible, to point out remedies. It may be superfluous to state that no single condition con- sidered here stands apart by itself. In the nature of the case by the very fact that they are social, all conditions are more or less interdependent. Consequently, like the directorates of the great financial and industrial institutions of the time, the conditions which affect the family are interlocking. 1. Conditions Affecting Marriage There are a number of conditions which affect the entrance into matrimonial life. It is fre- quently asserted that marriage is decreasing in the United States. This opinion is based on the fact that there is a large number of single women and men, particularly the latter, in this country. Thus in 1910, there were 12,550,129 males 15 years of age and over, or 38.7 per cent of males of that age, and 8,933,170 females belonging to the same age group, or 29.7 per cent of females of that age, who were single. But these facts are misleading and the opinion cited is undoubtedly questionable, although no absolutely decisive data covering a large lapse of time are obtainable. However, there are two 5ets of facts which are suggestive. One consists 86 The Family and Society of statistics of single men and women 65 years of age and over and who presumably will never marry. In 1890, 5.6 per cent of each of males and females belonging to this age group were unmarried. Twenty years later, 6.2 per cent of all males of this age group and 6.3 per cent of females were reported single. This would indicate a very insignificant increase in the num- ber of single persons, since there are relatively few persons 65 years of age and over. The other set of facts comprises statistics of marriage from 1887 to 1906. An increase in the marriage rate is found for the United States as a whole, and for each of the several geo- graphic divisions. The number of marriages per 10,000 of population for the nation rose from about 87.5 in 1887 to 105 in 1906. In the western division, it rose from about 71 to about 127, this being the greatest gain. The North Central Division showed the least ascent, rising from about 91 to about 97.5. These facts seemingly indicate that the unmarried element of the population is being absorbed. But there are two factors which evidently qualify this interpretation. First, there is a growth in the proportion of marriages reported during the period involved. Second, there has been a growth of divorce and remarriage during that time. Conditions Affecting the Family 8T However, a comparison of the percentages of single persons 15 years of age and over re- ported by the censuses of 1890, 1900 and 1910 respectively were: males, 41.7, 40.^, and 38.7; females, 81.8, 61.2, and 29.7, indicating a de- crease of unmarried persons in each case. Fur- ther, in the South Atlantic states, where the divorce rate is lowest, the rate of increase of marriage far exceeded that of divorce, indicating a large net increase of the former. The infer- ence must be, consequently, that there is a prob- able decrease in the number of unmarried persons in the United States. A supposedly considerable factor affecting marriage is that of its asserted postponement. Some careful writers assign postponement of marriage as a fruitful source of increased divorce. But a study of the statistics of married and unmarried persons in the United States during the last two decades reveals the fact that more marriages of persons from 15 to 34 years of age occurred in the decade ending 1910 than in the one ending in 1890. The percentages of decrease of single persons in the various age groups, 15-19, 20-24, 25-34, were in the same order, as follows: males, 1.1, 5.8, 1.8; females, 2.4, 3.5, 1.7. On the other hand, there was an in- crease of single persons in the succeeding age 88 The Family and Society groups, 35-44, 45-64, and 65 and over, as fol- lows: males, 1.4, 1.9, 0.6; females, 1.5, 1.4, and 0.7. This would indicate that an increasing number of persons are marrying early in life rather than the reverse. The statistics of mar- riage, though of less value because of the inclu- sion of remarriage of widowed and divorced, prove the same thing. No doubt in certain callings there may be a postponement of mar- riage, but they constitute a minimum of the national population. But their conspicuousness has given rise to the assumption of a general postponement of marriage. The reasons given for the supposed abandon- ment and postponement of marriage are the opening up of new occupations to women, their . growing independence, the " woman movement," heightening education, the increased cost of liv- ing and relatively shortened incomes, and the self -centered career of young men in cities. No doubt these assigned reasons touch the case of the groups in which there is an actual abandon- ment and postponement of marriage. Severe economic conditions demonstrably postpone mar- riage temporarily. Thus following the panics of 1893 and of 1903 the otherwise occurring annual increase of marriages was reversed and became a decrease. The decrease varied with the Conditions Affecting the Family 89 severity of the panic and with the region. But a growing increase in the number of marriages took place during one of the two succeeding years. A better regulation of the industry and finance of the nation will obviate even this tem- porary postponement. Most of the other causes are inherent in an evolving progressive society and are likely to remain. ^. Conditions Affecting the Size of Families The importance of the size of families has been partly discussed in the chapter on the func- tions of the family. There it was indicated that the continuance of a stock or nation is dependent on the general fecundity of the married persons living in the given group. To keep up a stock of people, it is necessary that there should be as many as three offspring per pair. It is very desirable that talented families should be per- petuated, but in order that tfeey shall not be eliminated the above rate of reproduction must be maintained. A highly civilized nation should not only perpetuate itself but at the same time maintain a relatively .higL^te of fecundity in order that it shall not sink int» such an incon- spicuous place that its influence upon the world at large is lost. But even a small nation may be influential. That of Switzerland, for exam- 90 The Family and Society pie, on the world at large has been out of keeping with its numerical importance. Perhaps if militarism could be abolished, nations generally could afford to pay less attention to the matter of increase of population and devote their efforts to developing the arts of peace and civilization. However, there seems to be a connection between fecundity and the production of a vigorous civ- ilization. Large families and large nations ap- pear to be productive of individuals of large vitality. I know of no statistics on this par- ticular point, but observation would seem to substantiate it. It is claimed Karl Pearson has demonstrated statistically that immunity from tuberculosis increases with the second, and espe- cially the third, child of the family. It is sup- posed that this immunity may extend to other diseases. But the claim requires further proof. The size of families has steadily declined in J the United States since the first census was taken I in 1790. The percentages of natural increase of ^ population for the successive decades ending in 1800, 1810, 1820, 1830, and 1840 were respect- ively 83.9, 33.5, 32.1, 30.9, and 29.6; showing an average decennial decline of 0.86 per cent. This was previous to the heavy immigration which set in about 1840. Between 1850 and 1900 Conditions Affecting the Family 91 the number of persons in a family in the United States was reduced from 5.6 to 4.7, a decrease of 16.1 per cent. This would give 3.6 children per family in 1850, and but S.7 in 1900. A decline in the birth rate and reduction in the size of families is a world phenomenon, one common to civilized nations, Germany alone ex- cepted, and is seen in the city populations of all countries. The postponement of marriage doubtless operates to decrease the size of families, in so far as it obtains. It is amply established that the first few years of sexual maturity represent the period of greatest fecundity. If marriage is delayed until this period is past, a smaller family is generally inevitable. In New South Wales it is estimated that where the average number of children is 3.6 per family, a woman of 20 may expect 5 children, one of 28, 3, one of 32, 2, and one of 37, 1. In Scotland the period of greatest fecundity of women is between the ages of 15 and 24. Coughlan believes that one-sixth of the decline of birth rate of New South Wales is due to late marriage and Heron calculates it accounts for 50 per cent of the decline in London. As we have seen, marriage in the United States during the two decades ending with 1910 has occurred earlier for the 92 The Family and Society nation as a whole. The small groups of people who probably marry late, doubtless reduce their fecundity by that event, whether or not they actually reduce the size of their families. The exercise of prudence or voluntary control of reproduction is unquestionably the largest factor in the reduction of the size of families. Sidney Webb's investigation in England among the middle-class people shows that out of 316 marriages, 242 practiced limitation of offspring, while for the ten years, 1890-1899, out of 120 marriages, 107 were limited, and five of the remainder were childless. His study of benefits on child-birth in the Heart of Oaks Friendly Society indicates that in 1880, 2,472 per 10,000 members received such benefits, whereas in 1904, only 1,165 for the same number of members drew on that fund. This is a higher decrease of children than is noted for England at large. No such inquiries have been made in the United States, but it is likely that about the same forces are at work here as in England, although it is evident that the limitation of families is not as widespread here as there. The motives for the exercise of prudence doubtless are numerous. Those who replied to Webb's questions relative to reasons for limiting reproduction, in the group of cases first cited Conditions Affecting the Family 93 above, numbered 128. Of these, 73 alleged pov- erty of the parents in relation to the standards of comfort; 24 assigned sexual ill health; 38, other ill health in parents; 24, disinclination of wife; 8, termination of marriage by the death of a parent. Since these were middle-class peo- ple, it is not unlikely that their motives are fairly representative for inhabitants of America. Doubtless the rising standard of living, the exhaustion of free public land, the growth of luxury on the part of some, the higher education of both men and women, the growing selfishness in certain sections of the population, and the abandonment of the belief in the binding force of the Old Testament injunction on the Hebrews to be fruitful and multiply are factors account- ing for the increased exercise of prudence. Immigration is assigned as a cause of the ^ falling birth-rate in America. One of its effects is taken to be the retardation of increase of the native stock of America. While of some moment, this factor has been overrated. The decline in the birth-rate in the United States was quite as marked previous to the advent of large scale immigration as subsequent to it. Where workers immediately compete with cheap foreign labor, this influence would be most marked, but it has little effect on the nation at large, which has been 94 The Family and Society predominantly agricultural during our history. Goldenweiser, of the United States Census Bu- reau, fairly demonstrates that the claim that our national population would have been larger now than it is if immigration had not taken place has little to rest on; and connects the decrease in number of the native stock with urbanization and industrialization. The spread of venereal diseases is a large fac- tor in decreasing the size of families. There are no governmental statistics bearing on this sub- ject and data relative to these diseases will appear in a later portion of this chapter. It will be sufficient in the present place to call attention to the fact that much sterility of infected women, a large number of abortions and expulsions of children dead before birth, and an overwhelming decedence of children born of infected parents result from the "Black Plague." Nor must we fail to mention the effect that developing civilization exercises in this direction. In the evolution of the forms of life the rate of reproduction has fallen off with the growth of brain and intelligence. Increasing rationality and psychical development generally has created parenthood and childhood and guaranteed life against premature death. The supply of living Conditions Affecting the Family 9S forms could be secured advantageously by saving individuals already born from ruthless extermina- tion. Hence, in the higher forms of life, birth- rates are lowered because deaths are postponed. During the course of human evolution the same tendency is noticeable. Nature seeks to strike a balance. In nations having a heavy death-rate, a high birth-rate is made imperative if the nation is to live and grow. But where life is made secure, where infant mortality is reduced to the minimum and much attention given to sanitation and education, national and racial per- petuity are secured without a multiplicity of births per family. 3. Divorce Probably no condition that touches the family has been discussed longer and at present attracts more attention than that of divorce. Its rapid growth in the United States especially, and its increase in other nations renders it conspicuous and causes many to seriously question whether or not the principle of monogamy is not being threatened. Some of the larger aspects of divorce will be treated. It is unfortunate that statistics are not available for correlating divorce with other social phenomena in order that the real causes of divorce might be discovered. Until 96 The Family and Society such a correlation is made the actual conditions producing it can only be approximated. Much care is needful in using statistics of divorce because the case is likely to be exag- gerated, and it is bad enough when truthfully represented. The statement is ordinarily made that there is about one divorce for every thirteen marriages in the United States. But two correc- tions must be made relative to this statement. First, it pertains to native marriages only, that is, marriages of native-bom persons. Second, the comparison relates only to marriages which have been terminated either by death or divorce. Existing marriages do not enter into the ratio. With these qualifications in view, Pictogram I depicts the growth of divorce in the United States from 1867 to 1906. In 1867 there were less than 10,000 divorces granted; in 1906, there were about 7^,000. The diagonal line indicates the number there would have been in the latter year had the rate of 1867 relative to the popu- lation been maintained; that is, about 28,000. In other words, the ratio of divorce to popula- tion in 1906 was 3.13 times what it was in 1867. A more significant measure of the frequency of divorce is to denote its ratio to the number of marriages. Viewed in this way, in 1870 there were 81 divorces granted for each 100,000 of PICTOGRAM I ■'■■ .„.^.....—..i\l 1¥^i^ ?^,Ag