They Shall Know Themselves Into Oni The writer of this book has received many expressions of approval from men and women of all ages and occupations ; all sincere and helpful in sustaining her courage to continue the line of thought on and up. This she expects to do, strengthening both positive and negative positions, in an- other edition. [Excerpts from expressed approval.] "I congratulate you heartily on having something to say, and saying it well." "Perhaps some day we may be able to live on the heights in the spirit in which it is written." "Thank you for your remarkable little book. You have said many true things, and said them well." "My son thinks you have written a wonderful little book, and has taken it away with him." "I am glad you do not think all men are evil. I do feel that both men and women have much to learn and put in practice along the lines of pure living." "Things that do not affect me personally are apt to be too little thought of by me." "Persuading people to strive for such ideals is like setting their faces toward the rising sun." "Your style is vivid and compelling, and your argu- ments unanswerable; remarkably strong and brilliant." "I am convinced that the ballot is only the A. B. C. of the woman's movement." "We appreciate to some extent the great labor that has gone into the making of it." "In the course of time this book is going to be read more and more." "It held my attention from cover to cover." "A most instructive and beautiful lesson for all to fol- low. Thanking you again for the book." "I wish I could make many of your views-laws-that could not be broken." "I am glad you had the ability and courage, of which I realize it has taken much." "May you have strength to go on with the good work." "Many women and men will be glad to read this book." GIFT OF S. W. Kerns s TAKING "FORTH THE PRECIOUS FROM THE VILE"-Jer. XV, 19 INCLUDING They Shall Know Themselves Into One'/ Revised and Enlarged A Study in Higher Mental Hygiene, Correlating Biology, Science, Philosophy and Religion BY JESSIE THOMAS KNAPP i GEORGE BANTA PUBLISHING COMPANY MENASHA, WISCONSIN Copyright, 1914 Copyright, 1920 By Jessie Thomas Knapp * 60, 'They Shall Know Themselves Into One" The following is the result of twenty-five years' research work, study, travel, and observation in many lands. While radical it is constructive, not iconoclastic. In the latter direction we have had a flood not wholly bad, which it is difficult to, but imperative that we should, stem and control, and for which this book is an antidote. It is not an attack on personalities but on conditions. Atrocities being committed, notably in at least four countries now (1918), as well as in all countries all the time, point the moral, even though they do not adorn the tale. It was not written for pleasure or profit. Those who are happily situated owe something to those who are not. Therein lies the reason for this writ- ing. Whoever does not agree with positions taken must meet wiser minds than mine. It is not that the writer loves man the less but woman more. " 'I am half-sick of shadows/ said the Lady of Shalott." M114505 "THEY SHALL KNOW THEMSELVES INTO ONE" A study in higher mental hygiene. Correlating Biology, Science, Philosophy, and Religion "Sometime in the search for Ideals (in answer to the cry of women Why do we suffer so, why are we so sad?) a woman will reveal a new truth which will establish the whole relation of man and woman on a surer ground of mutual happiness." Hawthorne. "'Peace on earth, Good will' to Women and Children, as well as 'to Men'" vii DEDICATED TO the Archangel (by comparison) my especial tyrant, who with a practical good sense of justice and of real values; by ready assistance and sympathy and by removing all obstacles (when possible) has helped and left me free to be myself, to see from my "separate star" things as they really are, and to make my plea ; and to those friends who through earnest interest have helped to lighten the burden of misunderstand- ing ; which will sometime be understand- ing. THEREFORE THUS SAITH THE LORD, IF THOU TAKE FORTH THE PRECIOUS FROM THE VILE, THOU SHALT BE AS MY MOUTH." Jer. xv, 19 Ruskin says: "To see a thing and tell it in plain words is the greatest thing a soul can do." PREFACE LOOKING about on human conditions many are beginning to discern that something has gone very wrong, and to wonder what it is and why; and to ask how it can be righted; as we know it should and can be. Have we in America and England been posing as Angels and ministers of Freedom, Light, and Right- eousness, while allowing all sorts of corruption to run rampant in our midst, even as Nietzsche (and others) assert. May we justly be called hypocrites and whited sepulchres exponents of camouflage? Have we had our opportunity and been found wanting? What is com- ing to us in reprisal? The continental countries are perhaps not so blameworthy, as their opportunity and light were less than ours; they made no claim to be leaders in philanthropy. Abraham Flexner reports truly: "Europe has been a man's world managed by men, and largely for men, for cynical men at that men inured to the sight of human inequalities, callous to the value of lower class life, and distinctly lacking in respect for womanhood, especially that of the work- ing classes." See Appendix O for the Alpha and Omega. Are we all to be dominated by the brute, material Hun nature as we have allowed our helpless, physically weak and poor to be dominated and exploited by capital and vice ; by "malefactors of great wealth," and by politicians who are traitors ; as we have ; we know and acknowledge it. We have worshipped and are now worshipping what we call success, and it may be that we are to see what a sort of success, which is really failure, means; even Xlll Preface as we have been merciless and callous to the cry of misery and ignorance in our midst. Our Public Schools, which with universal training, should have been our bulwark, have been neglected. Many of the children are unprovided for, and many of those who are in school are underfed and so poorly nourished that they are not capable of learning; proper Bible teaching* and prayer is ignored in most instances. Their teachers, willing and devoted, are overworked, over- managed, and underpaid, while we as a nation were paying super-royal salaries to actresses and actors (most of whom do no more than to "amuse" the childish and unformed mind, at the same time perverting them dis- astrously) ;f acquiring large incomes (up to five millions or more) within sight and hearing of the greatest misery and want; Jbuilding $10,000,000 warships, which are now * A heritage to which children have a right and of which they should not be defrauded. The saying of the Lord's Prayer in unison, or even a few verses from one of the Psalms; on which all churches agree ; and which have been of so much help to past generations, could not possibly harm the children, but would give a high moral tone to their thoughts through the day and through their lives. A child whose spiritual nature is neglected starts with more of a handicap than one whose mental or physical nature is neglected. We have the three fold nature and it is no more reasonable to starve one of these than dither of the others. No one is prepared to read intelligently whose Bible education has been omitted. The mental discipline is fine, and beside nearly all "literature" is permeated with it through ref- erence and quotation. I believe the present sad situation with war, pestilence and famine stalking abroad in the world, is in a large measure due to our materialistic attitude toward that which has sustained the people in all Christian (and that includes all history making) nations of the past, remembering that the Christ (or Truth), from which the word Christian is derived, antedated Abraham. f The fine women whom we expect and trust to teach our chil- dren are paid on an average $10.00 per week in these times of high prices ; while actresses are credited with possessing 50 hats, So pairs of shoes (and other things in proportion) at one time. $ See Appendix K. xiv Preface practically useless ; using over three- fourths of our income for war purposes in time of peace. When war came upon us we were, naturally, utterly unprepared, and still we are holding back as many women as possible from help- ing to solve the problem, which now seems to have no immediate solution even though we may, with the Pan- gloss type of optimism still say, it will do us good or "cheer up, the worst is yet to come." Whatever ails us do you suppose ? Thomas Jefferson, who was the apostle of public .schools also, said over one hundred years ago that only through universal training for our young men could we be at all safe or in a position to dictate and enforce peace, and win respect. All this training we suppose to be favorable to growth in democratic ideals, and to be beneficial physically as well as morally and intellectually, if proper environment is secured, as it needed no prophet to tell us should be the case. Prophets we have had but evidently as nations, we have lacked vision ; we have been utterly material, and even though our materalism is of a higher type, that is not enough ; there is something beyond that, which is necessary. Instead of statesmen and patriots we have often allowed after-dinner orators, poli- ticians, and even traitors to dominate and lead us. Oh! fools and slow of heart, is there yet time to redeem our place? God grant there may be. Are we now a people who "will not listen to sound doctrine"? Do we say: "prophesy unto us pleasant things" otherwise we will not listen. Must it be said of us "Israel will not consider; my people will not consider," "Thou that stonest the prophets and killest them that are sent unto thee, how often would I have gathered you and you would not, and now your house is left unto you desolate." XV Preface These expressions may sound caustic because we are so accustomed to smooth phrases which do not especially arouse us. Listen to the words of St. Paul : "AWAKE thou that SLEEPEST," spoken so long ago and so little heeded yet. We are only just aroused and rubbing our eyes now. Let us this time not turn over and go to sleep again this means each one of us. We have been on the wrong track, or the world would not be in the condition we now see it. History tells us that this old world has rarely been at peace, only 221 years (the exact estimate given) has it been free from war somewhere;* notably the year of our Saviour's birth was a year of peace. It is to be hoped that this present lesson, which is the (un) natural and (un) necessary outcome of previous wrongs, will have the effect of giving men enough of war, and of jarring them out of their evident fondness for and interest in it. It is very expensive morally, financially, and humanly at best especially so to women and children who are helpless in its wake; and in all ways. But men seem to need an extreme lesson; may it waken them from their dream of material competition and show them practically that cooperation is the only way for progress. Small boys are taught to fight and applauded for doing so by men (and women under their influence) ; they are told to "fight with their fists and not with their mouths/' * And from this irrational and impossible premise, men can only draw the conclusion that war is the natural state of humanity. "Great nations are born in war and die in peace," and this is called reasoning think of it! If they are born in war (which they are not but in ideals) if they do die in peace, it is because of the "passions of men," as all know; and this idea has been well expressed by leaders of thought from the beginning of time ; but it is not quoted with approval by the, materially minded leaders of mortal man, even at this late day the pity of it. xvi Preface which sounds well, but is not really good sense, I confess I do not know what to make of it, but it must be wrong; all strife should be referred to the mental tribunal ; we should be "too proud to fight," and mind should be able to control the body. The command "Thou shalt not kill" is just as compelling as any of the others. Our foes appear to be of our own household. We can control the Boches, perhaps, more easily than our own actions. As if we were impervious even yet to warning peals which should waken the slumbering thought ; one is more than merely startled to be made aware that another and positively horrifying object lesson is being staged before us in Russia at the moment of writing in regard to the so- called "Nationalizing of the Women" of that unhappy country. (Not a new thing by any means, as a war mea- sure in Germany of the present and past.) A Y. M. C. A. worker who was in Petrograd for a time under the Bolshe- vik terror, wrote home that the women were so much su- perior to the men that he could see no reason why they should not vote, but that the reason why the men should vote was not so evident. Another has recently written from France : "The peasant women here are much more intelligent than their men." These statements will be found to bear investigation and to be borne out by facts ; and they make one speculate at least, why these women have been kept in such subjection, and feel that the cause of the present situation may easily be found in this very state of affairs. Think what the decree above spoken of means to those fine, intelligent Russian women; no redress of any kind is possible ; a woman who resists or a man trying to de- fend his family, is shot or imprisoned. Can we not see that an act which can be made to force or serve such a Preface fiendish purpose anywhere must be dealt with as a poison adder would be dealt with, and individual cases which to our shame be it said are numerous in our own country, should cease to be. Had we as a nation stood where we should, as an example of Tightness in this and other direc- tions, notably the proper control of capital, this whole sit- uation in Russia would never have come to pass. The Russian peasants are given a most unusual form of educa- tion. Advanced ideas are condensed by the Intelligentsia (or teaching class) and are given them orally by the small proportion who can read or write and so they get the highest ideals free from chaff, but without the so-called practical steps through which they are to be attained, which leaves them in a visionary state, up in the air as it were, and they are idealists pure and simple. They have wisely said that they would as soon be ruled by a Czar as by unregulated capital, by which they thought they found we were ruled. They looked to us for example and bitterly sad as it is to acknowledge it we have failed them in all directions though the want of proper guid- ance for ourselves ; which we have lacked in the last ten years. Let us wake up and change our methods or the outcome may be tragic beyond our wildest dreams. The question is not do we like to face this, but must we do so; is it true? Many people seem actually dazed in view of the situation, and to be incapable of action of any sort. We may yet have to "call on the rocks to fall on and cover us/' as have multitudes of poor creatures in the war devasted lands. The world seems full of people of the "Dr. Pangloss" type who consider it a virtue to "keep smiling" in the face of even the most terrific personal calamities. The keen mind of Voltaire saw and placed before us in his xviii Preface "Candida" all the horrors of war; and there are few people at this time who do not comprehend what that means. These atrocities are a part of war, and always have been. It is no worse now than it has been in the past, only it is more colossal and concentrated, and we have modern means of learning in regard to it. Yet, the majority of people still rise up and repeat parrot like with Voltaire's Dr. Pangloss : "This best of all pos- sible worlds"; in other words "it is a good thing for us"; "the world will be better for it," etc., etc. If such people lived in any of the war devastated districts they might not be able to find much comfort in such a Self-ish view. In one instance alone we were told that "The cries of the Italian women and children in the hands of the Huns could be heard across the Piave." One who has the hearing ear (of mind) could hear them right here; and morever they could hear such cries as the result of just such brutalities within a stone's throw from them in any of our great cities, in numbers, during the year. The war atrocities are only a colossal object lesson which is given us because we are still children in practical good, and in need of such lessons. The pity of it. We are "miserable sinners" indeed, that is, we are "miserably mistaken." Let us rectify our mistakes and no longer comfortably affirm them and be satisfied with that. Carlyle's illustration of the fifty young Frenchmen whose parents have, through sacrifice, raised them to hopeful young manhood, who are taken and trained and fed by their government; the same number of young Germans meet a like fate; they are then all taken o some other place and set to kill or maim each other, and ravish the people and lands about them places war Preface before us in all its grim reality and futility.* Time and again it has all been pointed out to us, and someone has been sinning against light or we would have known better long ago. Spiritual wickedness in "high places" most be at the bottom of it, and that condition is not past in our country right now. Let us face the fact, and not deceive ourselves longer in this vital matter. This is not "the best of all possible worlds," as it now stands. War is not the only method of settling national affairs. Justice in action and reaction is all that is needed ; when that is clearly seen, and fearlessly faced and stated, we will be in a position to improve conditions. Justice to women should come first and at once, and through that will come justice to children, and then to the world at large. It took the Civil War to open our colleges to women, and votes with half way justice to women have waited for the present situation ; why do we wait for such lessons ? "I tremble when I see what Civic Government has come to without the aid of woman." This statement was made by that highly spiritual man, Bishop Phillips Brooks, many years ago, to Alice Free- man Palmer and her husband, Professor Palmer of Harvard, all ardent suffragists of the most (according to the Antis) "stubborn" type. We can but wonder what he would say were he here now probably I told you so.f * See Appendix A, page 197. t It is now asked why did not the intellectuals warn us of what was coming. The quotation given will help to prove that they did foresee and forewarn, but the people would not listen. On the other hand a very noted English divine, in a recent sermon, calls this present war "God's Cup," and asks "Shall we xx Preface It is reasonable to suppose that had women been given any voice in affairs in England or on the continent in times past this war would never have occurred ; and the Phara- ohs who "would not let them go," would not be mourning ; not only for their first born, but for nearly all their sons, as they are now called on to do. It looks as if providence was taking a hand with mortal men, calling attention to their unfair and untr.ue estimate of woman ; by removing them out of the way as obstructions to progress in certain directions ; the time for patient waiting for them to turn themselves to the right attitude having been passed. His- tory proves to us that it has been a long and weary jour- ney with plenty of time given for understanding and repentance. The end of the era seems to have arrived, and those who are not ready for progress, as they should be by now, it may be must go under. Is the history of the Israelites to be repeated, and no men over 20, at the present time, be allowed to go into the "Promised Land," because they are so deeply imbued with the false, material, "Egyptian" thought. I am far from deprecating the wonderful mechanical work of man's hand and brain; I stand almost awe struck before it at times, but is it not true that much, perhaps all of it is in vain, a touch from so called nature, an earthquake, a cyclone, or one of these very inventions and in a moment these vast systems or beautiful things are in ruins, are useless or worse even including in their turn the loss of human life with attendant suffering, of which this war gives us a terrific and vivid object lesson. not drink it?" Why, it is not God's cup; but the CUD of our own willfulness. Why should we want, or dare to blame God for it and call our attitude Christlike? Preface Great nations are conceived and born in ideals, not in war. The Revolutionary War was caused by foreigners trying to dominate us (with the same motives and means, as far as possible) just as is the present war. We fought then for our ideals as well as for our lives, just as we are now doing. Our nation was already born and was in its infancy; as now it is in its childhood, apparently, and must be protected from the marauders from within and without now as then, that we may hopefully look forward to an improved adult condition in the future. The great problem which confronts this age is not a new one by any means; philosophers of all times have struggled with it. Perhaps we in this age and country are nearer the solution than we know ; I think we are ; as the correct ideal is certainly liberated, it only remains for us to see it generally accepted ; then our main struggle will be over and the millenium (which is already in sight for those who have followed the star) at hand. We find St. Augustine of old, wrestling valiantly but inconclusively with it; the problem of reconciling the idea of a good God who is all powerful and who is Love with manifestations of earthquake, war, pestilence, famine, arson, etc., with attendant suffering and loss in character to the partici- pants ; attempting the impossible. The illogical solutions fill whole libraries of books which are soon to become worthless. One way out of the difficulty is to say : Suffering softens and refines ! But does it by any means always ? Does it not oftener make people rebellious, fretful, and useless? We must know the truth of God's allness, and the conse- quent nothingness of evil (Good's opposite) we must know for an illusion which Jesus condemned unspar- xxn Preface ingly, saying: "Ye are of your father, the devil, he is a liar from the beginning, and the truth is not in it." At last analysis a lie is only an illusion. Evil is called "that old deceiver which deceiveth the whole world." "The deceiver of our brethren is cast down." In Revelation the serpent (presumably the one which entered Eden) is said later to have become a great red dragon swollen with wrath, against which the Angels warred; and his place was no more fdund in Heaven. The nature and fate of illusion is here indicated. We must know the truth in order to be free, as Jesus said. This war is not against persons but against spiritual wickedness in high places, and is mental ; a tidal wave in the constant human battle between good and evil. The enemies to be overcome and trampled under foot are in our own and in the con- sciousness of others. We must censor our thoughts, and if we hold the right line in thought, the line in France will hold, never fear. God is not in or connected with the whirlwind or tempest* or war. We need not, and should not look for him there, but in the still small voice of conscience. The Doxology says : "Praise God from whom all blessings flow." Verses I, 2, and 4 of 92nd Psalm, express our proper attitude : "It is a good thing to give thanks unto the Lord, to sing praises unto Thy name Oh, Thou most highest : to tell of thy loving kindness early in the morning and of thy truth in the night season. For thou Lord hast made me glad through thy works ; I will rejoice in giving praise for the operations of thy hands." (God is the only operator, and the operation is always successful.) We should not say that God gives us good part of the time, and the rest of the time sends us suffering and sadness, * i Kings XIX 10-12. xxiii Preface which is not good, is not of the nature of Good or God at all, and from which we rightly make every effort to escape. It is recorded that in all that Job suffered he "charged not God foolishly" ; he said all the time that it was unrea- sonable to suppose that God caused him to suffer, when he had always tried to do right. Job was trusting in his own righteousness ; he had to learn that "through grace are ye saved." He evidently learned and demonstrated one God, Good, and then all things were restored to him. Job seems to have been the only Old Testament character recorded as having attained this truth, which Jesus so clearly manifested later in time, and which is again being discerned at the present time. We must all learn to stop charging God foolishly, as we do when we call dis- aster and suffering "visitations of God," or "dispensations of providence" ; they are anything but that as all will ac- knowledge.* We cannot really thank anyone for making us suffer. Thoreau rightly calls such seeming resignation "despera- tion." Surely God does not want us to be hypocrites. We do not praise God for His benefit, but to formulate our understanding of goodness. We do not pray to change God's plans, but in order that we may consider seriously, and know definitely what we really want; formulate the idea and earnestly work with God's help toward its consummation. "More things are wrought by prayer than this world dreams of." * Lewes records that at the time of the Lisbon earthquake, Goethe, who was then six years old, heard it discussed on all sides. On coming home from church one day he said to his father : "Why, it may be a much simpler matter than the clergy- man thinks ; God knows very well that an immortal soul can re- ceive no injury from a mortal accident." "Out of the mouth of babes hast thou perfected strength." xxiv Preface A small friend of the writer after being taught in a Sunday School some of the things hard to be understood, said judicially: "Well, if God wants us good why don't he make us good?" Children are apt to be logical until their ideas are perverted by grown people who have been stuffed with the illogical, and have never been required or allowed, to think for themselves. Is not the whole universe seen to be God's body ? As you will only good, to your body, to every part equally, so God wills good to his body, to every part equally (your body included) ; and as God is all powerful, what He wills to do, he does. We must connect ourselves with God, the central energy and light, (of understanding, mentally through "know- ing the Truth") in order to manifest it; even as the electric bulb can only manifest its light by being con- nected with the central energy, through its wire. Keen French writers observe that we "are a religious people," because they say "you cannot find Americans who will ridicule the Bible or Religion." If we can only hold to that position and to our natural, high, moral "Puritan" ideas, which foreigners are attempting to per- vert,, we can save the day for all humanity. I make this statement without fear of successful contradiction. The Jews claim to be "The chosen people." Roman Catholics, who branched out from them, claim to be "The Church." Episcopalians, who branched from the Roman Catholics, claim to be "The Church." Later sects branched off in the line of progress, and are a trifle more liberal; one of their leaders said "God has more light to break out from His Church." Now all these denomina- tions are being drawn toward unity, or scientific Christi- anity. Each step forward bringing increased spirituality ; and getting nearer to the practical realization of the XXV Preface Christ (or Truth), and that means they are getting nearer the Truth, which Jesus lived and taught. A "League of Nations" or "Peace Treaty," which nowhere verbally recognizes God nor woman, is not likely to get very far toward righting wrong conditions and is not wholly an Anglo-saxon instrument, surely; but shows clearly, pagan influence, if not domination. The Shantung clause alone proves it to be unGodly. Probably that is the reason its ratification is being so otherwise unaccountably, delayed. The higher sentiment in America is being used through Divine guidance as a deterrent. "Whatever is is right" is a scientific statement of a fact of first magnitude, though at present it is being questioned by some, even as truth. Evil is not a reality (it has no source, how can it be real) it is an illusion. Whatever appears as evil is not real, God (good) never made it, it does not exist. Whatever is must be real, and it must be right. Said a friend to me one day : It must be interesting to believe a thing so entirely. I said: I do not think the word "believe" applies ; humanly speaking, I have proved it,, therefore I know, and it is a scientific fact not a belief. You might believe two plus two equals five, but you could not know it, because you could not prove it; you know that two plus two equals four because it can be proven; and because it can be proven it is a scientific fact. XXVI INTRODUCTORY CHAPTER TO SECOND EDITION OF "THEY SHALL KNOW THEMSELVES INTO ONE" THE first edition of this book was intended and published for private distribution. I have only aimed to get it to thinkers, knowing that through them the idea will sift down to those who really need it. Having attempted to correlate some of the "garnered wisdom of the ages" and make it practical, I wished to establish thought centers through which a way may be prepared to bring an enlarged edition to the attention of the general reading public. Each position could be easily strengthened, but that would be only to multiply words. An unfair and untrained mind would not allow itself to be convinced against its will anyway. Ay, there's the rub, against its will ; and women are by no means the only ones who thus offend either, though the old adage infers that they are. We must cease to work with and consider effects as primary, and the cause secondary. It is plainly to be seen that there is no other right process. Unless the wrong cause is removed we may go on for a time but the result (effect) is bound to be disastrous, and I think there is no more time to lose as apparently disaster looms not far ahead of us now, in the old way. .Introductory v '! ; this 'connection we should consider the following facts : A noted expert in certain lines is publicly and with- out contradiction quoted as saying: "Love is the assas- sin of American youth" ; he evidently meant lust. Fifty per cent of our High School boys are said to be affected. If true this is a very serious matter. Any interested observer must have looked forward to Judge Ben Lindsey's article (which appeared in a noted daily paper) on the troubles of the many high school girls of all classes who came to him for help in their time of distress ; with hope of some helpful solution. He speaks from personal knowledge of "the custom" among school girls and boys as being an every day affair, and says the country needs not only to be improved and helped but it needs to be saved. His only solution seems to be the soulless, mechanical, unmoral one of the Huns, to whom he says we must look for guidance on this very important subject! Surely these unmarried mothers, and their children must be cared for tenderly; but does he or anyone think that the future which depends on illegiti- mate and homeless children looks very hopeful? Does any one think those young women, even though mothers, are ever going to be very helpful towards bettering condi- tions when we have taken away barrier after barrier from before their fortress of safety (leaving the men in the case to go free as they do). Can they then be depended on, generally, to improve the country and save it? Surely not. And America, thus becoming voluptuary, must it not meet the fate of Babylon and other cities of antiquity and modern times ? Introductory Why not teach self-control in the right way before it is everlastingly too late. Judge Lindsey and many others apparently think and advocate that the way to "save" the country is to allow the women the same measure of license as the men now have, and thus remove the "double standard" which they hold responsible for the present deplorable situation an astounding conclusion the practical application of which will produce only con- fusion worse confounded. The way to accomplish desired results will not be this plan but the reverse not to allow women more license, but to bring the men to their standard and thus do away with the destructive "double standard." Is not prevention better than cure? Is it not better to build fences at the top of the cliff rather than hospitals at the base? Better to keep humanity from falling than to try to build up the deceased and mangled bodies later? Yes, you say, of course, of course, and then leave the matter right where it is ; satisfied with having acknowl- edged the fact we go on as usual. And our splendid Red Cross, Y's and Salvation Army people, are forced to do work which is as terrible in reality as it should be un- necessary ; aside from the fact that their work is needed in many local directions. All our institutions built up for benefit and comfort seem to be crumbling, our land marks to be swept away. Perhaps we may through this begin to realize that "The earth and the fullness thereof" does not belong to any one nation or person, but to the Lord; and through reflection (in his, man's, character) of good and immortality it belongs to "man in God's image and likeness" (not sinning, dying [or mortal] man) ; and with no reason or chance for contention or dispute. Introductory It is a hopeful indication that the situation is far enough uncovered so that we do see it, to some extent ; still, it is also observed by leaders in other countries, and we are accepted by them at our own valuation ; I think there is no doubt that our present situation is due to that fact. The Huns especially were astute enough to observe in it a weakness in important matters, and so were encouraged and led to think that they were ap- pointed to correct our acknowledged shortcomings, as well as those of the rest of the world ; not realizing that their own mistakes were of a more deadly order than those of the rest of the world. They had been so sedulously overpraised by people who are in the lime- light in all countries, that it is not surprising that they had come to believe themselves a race of super men. It is time we looked this situation in the face and set about to correct it, unfess we wish the Huns to prove their material contentions true. Only as we can practically prove to them that we the Allies are of a higher order, that we really have high ideals and are ready to stand by them by practicing them instead of by mere preaching, can we win the victory. The time spoken of in the Bible has evidently come when "There is nothing hidden that shall not be revealed, or covered that shall not be known." The subject of a proper birth control has rightly come up for judgment and insistently demands consideration. The only safe, reasonable, moral, and practical method for national growth is through self-control, not through mechanical, criminal, and dangerous devices, such as are sometimes advocated even by well meaning people who wish to help the submerged, and who see no other way. The serpent Introductory of lust is at the bottom of it, and the phrase "cut it out" reaches its climax of use or expression right here. Is it not the "mark of the beast" I ask you. Anthony Corn- stock, of sainted memory, said truly, when facing this problem, "Why men and women are not brutes." This book is far from being an attack on personalities, but on conditions. It refers not to individuals but to principles. If this c'an be kept in mind it will be enlighten- ing (remembering that humanity's chief stumbling block is in allowing personality to obscure truth or principle). It certainly forms one and a very important part, of the Red Cross and "Y" work, both for boys and girls, men and women ; it is f oundational for all. One often feels as if struggling to walk up stream against a breast high, heavy, and sluggish current thank- ful to be able to hold one's own and occasionally to take a step in the desired direction. From certain expressions in regard to my statements I gather that some readers profess to think that I "Do not believe in the family" and that I think that mortal children can be produced by some transcendent method which is not physical. I say no such thing, and only a most superficial and false mind would find that in the book. What I say is this, that the exercise of the so- called sex function is not necessary to vitality, and its indulgence except when Children are expected and desired, is harmful, sinful, and improper. The best authorities agree that these organs do not atrophy when unused and the best physicians say that a man past forty should guard it as his life; it should be conserved as mental creative power, not wasted in ways harmful to both mind and body ; and what I say is true, it cannot be Introductory controverted. The ultimate, which is slightly touched upon, is in another class. I do not believe that people can read this book carefully and not feel more respect for themselves and others and life generally. It comes like a breath of fresh air to those who have been gasping for it. One thankfully feels as if in a new and finer atmosphere. It takes a strong nature to rise above injustice, but if the nature is strong enough it is a blessing in disguise, as worldly popularity often causes its votaries to become victims of dreamy self-satisfaction and through dissipa- tion of time, energy, and means, they accomplish little of lasting value. In Revelation the same Angel which brings the vials of wrath points also the way to Heaven. Whistler is quoted as saying: "The only insult the public has not offered me is popularity." As Goethe is said by George Lewes, to have done, so I have "observed things from the heights and descended to the valleys to verify them, afterward returning to the heights" where I abide serenely. Readers are asked to consider the text, not the personality or ideas of the writer. If humanity had ever learned to do that thing we would be much farther along on the upward path than we now are. Those who think they do not agree with the positions taken in this book must meet more noted minds than the writer's, and should look to their logic sharply. I begin to realize in a properly chastened frame of mind, that it is a serious thing to write a book ; and humanly speaking I feel about as comfortable as one does who is taking the traditional bull by the horns. I have had to screw my courage and patience to the sticking point many times I can assure you in taking this excursion Introductory out into uncharted seas and I ask your close sympathy and cooperation in locating our exact position and future direction. It must be evident that no person would take pleasure in bringing out such serious mistakes as seem to be un- covered in this book. Such a stupid mistake it seems doesn't it? The writer of this is human like the rest, and is as sorry and mortified that such mistakes have occurred as anyone can be. No one takes up such a line for pleasure or material profit ; it is a hateful, thankless, and ungracious task, but as the wounded soldier said to his nurse : "Somebody has got to do it, Sister, and I must get back to the firing line as quickly as possible." If I kept still it seems that "the very stones would cry out." The war in Europe is only a symbol of the mental war- fare which is now in progress. This thing, which is a human problem, not a sex question, must be settled and the sooner it is done the better for all. Somebody has got to do it Sister and Brother, even though the firing line may not be such a very comfortable place. Also we must be about the Father's and Mother's business. It is one clear call for us to go up higher. I feel that I have been on the firing line for, lo these many years, and in publishing this book in 1914, I went "over the top" into "No Man's Land." However, my position is being well supported at the present time. Secretary of the Navy Daniels, at a meeting of medical men in Chicago, a bishop of the M. E. Church, just home from France, and many others, assert plainly that the only safety for our soldiers is in "absolute continence." Dr. Kellogg, of the Battle Creek Sanitorium, well known as a man of wide experience, said long ago: "A pure Introductory moral life, even to absolute continence, is necessary to health." Will you tell me how they are to make this teaching effective, after the harm has already been done to their thoughts. These efforts seem almost like covering up the well after the harm is done. Certainly an ap- palling situation confronts us. How long would we have allowed these things to continue, except for the fact that we now "need" the soldiers and feel that we must pro- tect them. Do we realize at last what a terrible serpent we have been nourishing, and must we not right about face in the matter? Are not civilians, men, women, and children, as well worth "protecting" as soldiers? How are these terrible battalions of sinners (mistaken ones) recruited? With boys and girls taken while almost, or quite, children by men old enough to be their fathers, and to know better, and exploited for money? These fiends (aided often it is true by their own victims who are helpless in their grasp) are allowed license and protection in their orgies of crime, by politicians, as is well known. Were Sodom and Gomorrah of old any worse? Shall we wonder that destruction has come to many already? Are we going to see the end of all flesh, as the Bible says we should, except for the elect's sake (whoever they may be). Some of our statesmen grandiloquently say we must make every place on the globe as safe for an American as his own country. Think of it; are they not aware that no man, woman, or child is safe for a moment. We ask them "Art thou a Master in Israel and knowest not these things?" Is property generally at all protected from thieves and arson? Are not our people being murdered at our doors daily in increasing numbers (7,700 8 Introductory to 11,000 is estimated as the yearly toll) ? Are they not starving, freezing, and being abused right about us, in the midst of our prosperity? One cannot read the daily papers and not know that all of these statements are true; one would judge an American, except in war time perhaps, to be safer anywhere else than in his own country. Our theories may be right but what about our practice, which is what counts. How about conditions the last five years in Mexico, right at our doors. Reports even, censored so that we may not know.* Where is our boasted liberty? Does it mean anything that from 25 to 50 million people, soldiers and civilians, men, women, and children, have been killed or hopelessly crippled for life in the past four years, by war alone, while in the U. S. one person is maimed or killed by avoidable accidents, each minute; that people are being murdered and out- raged at our doors in unbelievable numbers ; that 10% of children born die before they are one year old, one-third become later hopelessly abnormal, only one-third being normal; all over the world suffering is rampant and death is very busy. Now what I say is this: That it would be much better to conserve already existing human life than to reproduce it at such a cost of suffering, and that self-control is the only safe birth control. Certainly all will acknowledge that the point is well taken. Miss Julia Lathrop of the Children's Bureau says : "That from 225 to 250 in every thousand of the children, who need- lessly die, can be saved. The army which lost by death one-third of its members would arouse the world to the magnitude of its sacrifice, yet nearly one in three of the infants of working mothers can be killed slowly and we never turn a hair." Just consider what the mothering alone means. * See Appendix O, page 215. 9 Introductory In China the female children are killed off purposely and regardlessly ; an effective measure toward keeping down the population ; a man's form of race suicide. The reasonable idea would be to have fewer children, and preserve them; then lust, which is never reasonable, would be obliged to retire to its proper obscurity. In Holland where material birth control even, is taught in clinics, the increase in population is greater than in other countries, because the death rate is lower. Put two and two together and draw your own conclusions. Many seem only to sense the danger in certain wrong conditions when those conditions incapacitate our men from fighting to protect our lives (a cowardly position to take). Coming into the war at so late a day we should not claim to be in it for our ideals alone ; let us face the truth in this matter, even at this late day. Such a terrific way to learn an obvious fact, that the efficiency of the race should be conserved in peace and for peaceful avoca- tions. This should not have waited on force. The serpent has been uncovered through various investi- gations, but no one has heretofore publicly given a practi- cal remedy or solution for the problem, except as set forth in this book ; which is, of course, based on practical and applied Christianity. Cheapening nostrums (which is advocated and applied) to remedy disgraceful condi- tions is not a solution but a step toward unknown depths in the matter. Open polygamy as a remedy for "the polygamous nature of the male" is shamelessly avowed and advocated, and our younger people who have as yet little philosophy, are helpless in the hands of these teachers (?) (all under masculine domination) who ought to know better and to be ashamed of themselves, whereas 10 Introductory they apparently glory in what should be their shame. I do not for a moment doubt; in fact, I know, that the better class of men are as shocked and disgusted by such vagaries as anyone could well be. But "if my enemy know me and I know him not I am defeated before I go into the battle." We must band together and make our protests vigorous and effective. Dean Sumner agrees with the Pope and many other noted men and women that the immodest and indecent dress of a certain class of women (many of them other- wise respectable) is at the bottom of much of the immor- ality among men. It is clear to the careful thinker that men have given women only one avenue to power, and that there is an unseen but powerful force behind this seeming condition. Let us place the responsibility where it belongs. Of late some medical men come out and say plainly that it should be encouraged as it is a lure (women please take this notice of this) to men, and so helps to re- populate the earth, which is always, and especially now, being drained by war, pestilence and famine. That this view causes morality to retire out of sight is not con- sidered important by this class of men. The physical only is important, and the women are only a means to an end so no account is made of the tragedy which their lives thus become. High heeled shoes, ultra transparent waists and hose are unhealthful, immoral and displeasing, and appeal only to the lower natures of both sexes. Our "best women," the world's reformers, do not wear them. It may be set down as an axiom to be regarded that no woman who under- stands her own interests wishes to attract man through sensual means, through his lower nature. She is in a ii Introductory measure safe herself in public, for the men thus appealed to may not so much as lay a finger on her in society, but they are often moved to make themselves, and someone else, suffer the consequences, while the real wrong doer is the only one to go physically unscathed, unless she catches cold. To go among them is to be reminded of Harems, or worse. Vulgar things admit of no defense And "want of decency is want of sense." In a general way women are said to lose health and attractive appearance earlier than men; may it not well be because they are and have been so unsuitably clad, to say the least, from childhood. This phase should appeal to all classes of women, even to those who close their eyes to the moral danger, which is really the greater evil of the two.* In conspicuous advertisement pictures of the change from automobiles to the opera, theater or ball, men are shown as having on overcoats and hats completely and * Close observation will show that through wrong views and practice, love is killed and life spoiled. We will do well to look to this, before we blame corsets and wrong customs in dress and life, for the ills to which human flesh is thought to be heir. I believe all will be found to have its root in immorality. We are not normal and never can be while life and health are wasted. The corset and its accessories, wrong dressing and living, are a secondary sex manifestation; they are abnormal and necessarily so, if they are to appeal to and attract abnormal persons. Once we get into normal relations, these evils will all disappear before the light of truth, and we will have the natural body artistically arrayed. As long as women are suppressed and have only one avenue open to power, they may be likely to use it and bring every aid to strengthen it. Women are not responsible for this state of affairs. 12 Introductory warmly clothed in uni-form, while the women are vari- ously and gorgeously arrayed with their persons exposed to the elements. Can the men be more modest or is it that they know that women are not attracted but are shocked at masculine nudity ; or are they afraid of results, or more careful of health, or is it because as men they are more independent? Perhaps something of each or all. One writer says : "I don't know any more than you do, why men dress this way,' unless of course it's to protect the morals of women ; isn't it possible that men, like Mrs. , believe the sight of human flesh is necessarily depraving, and so they dress to reduce our temptations to a mini- mum." I believe the latter inference to be correct. Men often unconsciously know from personal experience what is the result of such exposure, and that it often exacts serious penalties, and women generally speaking do not realize it to any extent. The old serpent is attempting to start up in many places now, knowing that his time is short. In none is he more barefaced than in the advocacy of polygamy to meet the masculine shortage in existing human conditions. On the Continent its expediency is not questioned, and in En- gland many noted people are advocating it without con- sidering its practical application, I must think. G. B. Shaw is quoted in our Literary Digest as saying that there is no doubt that the soldiers at the front are fighting to preserve "the child bearing woman" : that if 90% of the men were killed the race could still continue ; but if 90% of the women were killed the end would be near. The statement bears only one interpretation, with the Huns as its prophet and exponent it would seem at 13 Introductory the present time as if we could scarcely do better than to reverse their ideas and practice. Openly without rebuke in accessible literature of a certain accepted stamp,* we read "it seems probable to me that virginity and chastity of women will come in time to be less and less appreciated or desired. In this particular as in many others, the French appear to be leading civilization. The Anglo-Saxons will, of course, demand definite instructions and for them the solution has already been indicated/' To what does the writer refer? He sneers at Puritan ideas of decency, which is Americanism, and is the ideal to which we should cling (along with our Constitution) and which we should give out to a suffering world waiting and longing for it. Neither the French nor the Huns are the people to whom we should look for our ideals of mortality. (Study the expressed sentiments of Thomas Jefferson on this sub- ject.) To a modern writer who feels with discouragement the almost hopelessness of the situation, the scripture text "They have Abraham and the Prophets, let them hear them" often recurs; and the words from Jer. 19 "There- fore thus saith the Lord, if thou take forth the precious from the vile, thou shalt be as my mouth" are needed to strengthen the purpose to continue. There is so much that is "precious" in connection with this subject, that it would be a disastrous pity to have it lost in the vile ; and so we must try to rescue the "precious" as soon as possible lest it should soon be "too late," and our loss irreparable. Let me assure you this is a very serious matter, and should be attended to ; even though you individually may *Of foreign origin. 14 Introductory not as yet see distinctly the rocks toward which we are drifting, and which are very close at the present time. All these conditions are encouraging and emboldening the Mormons, whose articles and advertisements are ac- cepted by many noted publications, thus in effect counte- nancing their teachings. To such straits has the human mind been carried in its effort to "multiply and replenish the earth," with merely human, physical, and dying beings. It is the same old serpent as in Eden of old, multiplied beyond conception, and will bring something worse than mere physical death (its logical outcome) in its train, if not met with truth, and so with death to itself (falsity). It is a boa constrictor in size compared with the serpent alluded to. It is rearing its head in frightful manner and hissing its lies hoping that this time humanity may not escape at all. A noted Utah official says that "the Mor- mons, encouraged by present day conditions, are working more insidiously than ever," and close observers know this to be true. The idea is certainly being considered and advocated in this country, by shallow surface thinkers who trim their sails to every breeze of notoriety. It may be safely asserted that it will never go into effect in this country; and why because the women are partially enfranchised, with the result that a certain class of men have long unconsciously feared and fought against, the women are no longer unmoral sex slaves. We read from the pen of a would-be wit an (im)practical summing up of the Mormon doctrine, which is absolute masculine selfishness without so much as an attempt at an excuse or the consciousness of the need of one. We read that "A Poet needs several wives, one to do the cooking, one to do the washing, another to help IS Introductory round otherwise, one to earn the family living." Children do not enter into this man's scheme at all, it seems ; they would annoy him. He might have one extra wife whose province it was to "bear and rear plenty of healthy chil- dren/' or the others might make out to bear them, and they could then be reared by the government; and he and they would have fulfilled their duty. What sort of a poet such a person would make does not enter into the ques- tion, or how he would have liked to be brought up in a community himself, with his individuality crushed or un- developed. No, he thinks of nothing but Himself and F-m-a-t-is s in j, as the funny colyums have it. How about the woman who might want one husband to earn money, and one to take her about, etc. Oh, She would be a shamelessly selfish wretch ; but with the man it is entirely different. The home is said to be the safeguard of civilization. What becomes of the home and of moral teaching if poly- gamy is practiced ? What would be the character of the children of such union? All experience and science prove the outcome to be evil. In a modern case (of really international fame) a fifteen year old Spanish dancer married a super wealthy, many wived, middle aged East Indian Maharajah. A few years later in answer to a noted English woman's coarse statement as to the practical benefits of polygamy at the present stage of world events, and as to what modern woman can beneficially learn from the harem; the Maharanee writes : "It is not true what this woman says : the harem does not give up its dark secrets to the prying western stranger." She also says that "in India the harem as an institution is dying out ; dying the death, 16 Introductory Many are well aware, and are working to the end that the rate of infant mortality and avoidable accidents be appreciably lowered. The way is already marked out ; let us continue to walk in it to success. Certainly the Mother help is needed in this crisis, in ballot and council. It has been too long ignored. Let the silly Antis be awakened forcibly. Too often men speak of "manhood rights," in some special direction, seemingly ignoring the fact that women also have rights. Of late, too, other men have called attention to the fact that the "exploitation of women and children all over the world, formed one of the saddest and most shameful pages of history."* Our National stand on the liquor question is one evi- dence of proper progress, for which we are thankful. It is to be expected that a "sober" man will be better able to keep his wits, and to do good work than a "drinking man." So we as a sober nation will be better able to keep our wits than nations addicted to liquor, Statesmen in all countries observe this, and will endeavor to follow suit; so our example can be trusted to have a widespread result. The coming contest will be first of all a battle of wits, and we will need every advantage to enable us to keep our place among the natural leaders of nations. * NOTE. When reading the fearful recital of childhood suffering in these last years, it would seem as if anyone with common sense must acknowledge "they had better never been born." A Viennese man is quoted as saying in his misery : "Thank God my wife is dead and I have no children." The women and children certainly are the greatest sufferers; it makes one heartsick that women should be asked or forced to bear children under such circumstances, as they are! and why? Self control seems to be called for, and should be the rule; then these most excruciating things would not occur. Prohibition of liquor should help to make life better worth living for a large class of women and children. When children are acquitted by a 19 Introductory jury for shooting their own father who is abusing their mother and the family generally, we know something is very wrong. These drunkards should at least take someone of their own size and character. That which makes brutal cowards and bullies out of otherwise peaceful and harmless citizens, should be "tabu" to everyone. INTRODUCTION TO FIRST EDITION OF 'THEY SHALL KNOW THEMSELVES INTO ONE" REVISED AND ENLARGED FEELING as I do, that these are valuable truths; wishing to discuss them with friends, but being of necessity limited to fragmentary discussion on paper (and otherwise) ; having no peace of mind until they were written out in more or less consecutive order, I have taken my own wherever found, and omitted no ray of light which can be brought to bear. I may appear to desire to elevate woman at the expense of man and make her out a superior being. Such has not been my thought far from it ; an impartial reading will prove this to be true. In the light of the past and by contrast, the pendulum may appear to swing a little too far, but I do not think it really does. I have never seen that man needed defense, except, perhaps, against himself. My sympathy is always with the one who is at a disadvantage. Is not woman under present conditions naturally that, and is not this a reason why she should be at least justly dealt with? Nor has her condition been ameliorated by the attitude of man toward her. His blindness is probably the measure of his wrongdoing. He needs only to see, in order that he may right himself. Not that man, individually, is deliberately and purposely unkind to and thoughtless of woman; but is not his attitude (for which we are now paying) almost 21 Introductory always of a patronizing, superior, "Love is of man's life a thing apart, 'tis woman's whole existence," sort? We are all familiar with these lines, so often quoted as showing the pathos and limitation of woman's life; but let us look at it: the reasoning seems faulty. As love is the highest and best of which we know, the state of mind we are striving to attain and to which we must attain ere conditions be perfect, it is probably a correct statement, and decidedly creditable to woman; anything but pathetic, a limitation. The so-called life of which love is "a thing apart" is incomplete ; it must be in time the "whole existence" of every human being. God is Love. According to the poet, woman has already attained. If the time ever comes when man needs defense, he will surely get it. It is difficult to say these things and at the same time avoid an appearance of pertness ; which is far from my intention. I have looked at it, not from a woman's or man's standpoint, but fairly, from the stand- point of a human being. No one thinks of using electricity or steam without first learning the laws by which they are governed, other- wise the result would prove disastrous. "Thought" and "life" are more potent and powerful forces than either of these; then, as we must use both, are we not wisest when we try to learn the laws governing them ? To use them without is to invite worse disaster than in the case of steam or electricity. Certain laws were brought into use in the construction of huts for our primitive ancestors ; a better knowledge of the same laws would build a Con- gressional Library, or a Parthenon. The idea is perfect, and, in its manifestation, is to be perfected. To that end is our effort toward a better understanding of the law. 22 Introductory We do not know as yet what even a perfect earthly house is, nor a perfect home, father, mother, or child. We work toward a knowledge and a manifestation of them, as of all things. At best, our idea is finite what if we attempt to carry it to infinity ! Unconsciously, the reasoning has been from cause to effect, which is unusual, though the only satisfactory and right method. While the subjects may seem far apart, close thinking will show the connection between them, '"the increasing purpose" which it is important to keep in mind. The whole has resolved itself into a plea for the recognition of the real meaning and value of Mother- hood. Fatherhood, Brotherhood, we seem to understand from the prominence given them in the Bible and in the past. May we not now be arriving at the new gospel of Motherhood, which Jesus made prominent (and Sister- hood) ? This is all intended more to bring about discussion and further light than as a finished statement; though often that form has been used for the sake of brevity and con- ciseness, where except for that necessity the question form would have suited the purpose better. While it is written in no uncertain spirit; rather one of deep con- viction, yet it may be read to advantage as if an immense question mark preceded it. It refers mainly to the material view of life (things as they appear to be), an account of which we find in the second chapter of Genesis ; and is not to be considered from a personal standpoint, or as referring to individuals, but in a broad, general way, as affecting classes and peoples nations masses ! This may be difficult, but I trust it is not impossible. 23 Introductory Those who have material riches and moderate health are apt to care little for anything else; but I think any may feel repaid for reading the following with patience, reserving judgment until all is read. You will observe that, to a certain extent, I sacrifice grace and construction to brevity and earnestness, and in so doing have, of necessity, broken away from "set and prescribed form." As the following is the result of an earnest desire to find if that can be done with safety and to advantage, this fact may assist in arriving at a con- clusion. Does it strengthen or weaken the force of ex- pression must it be set down to profit or loss? You will also see that I have accepted the conclusions of scientists ; padded and strengthened them by analogy ; have related the isolated facts, and drawn conclusions, many of which, as far as I know, are original (as the word is used). Please give these words their full value. Perfect form is not claimed, nor originality, except in arrangement and in conclusions drawn much that is familiar will be found, but with a new light. Of course, we none of us originate facts and they re- main ; though we do not accept them until we develop eyes to see. After reaching conclusions, I have found them summed up clearly by some one or more of the great ones of earth, and have thus quoted freely to give authority which my own unsupported words could not carry. (It is said, "to quote effectively is equal to originating the passage quoted.") No writer is expected to find both words and complete understanding. Many there are who cannot read a page of Browning, Emerson, Carlyle, or the Bible understand- ingly, but the fault is not entirely with the writers, as 24 Introductory all know. We must recognize the imperfection of human expression and language and do our best to reach a common ground of understanding. Anyway, this is what I want to say, and the following is the way in which I have to say it. When the cult of Nietzsche* is said to be superseding the philosophy of Hegel in modern thought, a statement which can scarcely be credited after considering the influence of Adam Smith, J. A. Symonds, Mrs. Brown- ing, George Eliot, Keats, Stevenson, with hosts of others of delicate physique, and contrasting them with Corbett, Sullivan, and others of their class, whose perfect physical development is evident and is their only strength, the theory that the physically strongest are the fittest seems to be in no need of refutation. When we see sin, sick- ness, and suffering increasing, no apology is needed by those who are of the Christian thought, if they register a protest and try to stem the current. I do not intend to make positive statements, no matter how firm may be convictions. I appreciate Lowell's remarks in the beginning of "Democracy" to the full : when one has been on the heights with Jesus, Plato, Aristotle, Goethe, indeed he walks humbly. In that spirit then I ask: Is not this reasonable? Is there anything here which "insults the soul"? And are there not (lightly and imperfectly sketched) foundations here on which vast structures may be safely raised? I have followed certain accepted facts to what appear to be their logical conclusions, often surprising myself. While in the line of my own intuition and convictions, I do not think them colored thereby. * See chapter on Nietzsche. 25 Introductory If every reader expects to grasp the entire definite underlying thought at one perusal, more will be demanded than can be attained in any other book worth reading; and nothing would be gained, as it would all have been understood before. Is it not often the result from read- ing a book that we unconsciously (almost vaguely) get the ideas and later they are assimilated and become more definite and practical in our minds ? though we may not, at the later time, be sure where we have received them. I see, in this, one way for the average thought to advance. I especially ask the reader to notice what I say, not what he or she thinks I say. No one knows better than the writer that much more material might be brought to bear, but as I am anxious to make one point clear I have endeavored to be as wise in what is left unsaid as in what is said. One class of modern readers think any Foreword or Preface of more than doubtful value; but many, more thoughtful, readers always read these pages with greatest interest before reading the main part of a book, and again afterward. The writer knows no better way of answering questions likely to come to the mind of the reader, or forestalling criticism which is apt to be hastily pronounced, on some one part instead of on the whole. PREFACE THE following statements are often received with nervous laughter, as if they were funny and dis- missed without the serious consideration which is their due as Tragedies. In Persia and many -other countries the men are taught by their religion never to listen to anything a woman says, but to do exactly the opposite from anything she may suggest; that a woman has no soul; she is not to be allowed to read the Koran (their bible) or to make a prayer. In Russia a man is not only allowed to knock his wife down, but is taught at marriage by his "religion" that he must do so once a week and that time may come before or a few hours after, the wife has become a mother; when she is about getting meals or at work in the field. In Algeria conditions in regard to women are un- speakable; also in China and Japan. In all Oriental countries a man may divorce his wife without further ceremony if she talks too much to suit him, or his relatives. That contemptible thing, the ducking stool (the weapon of men of power) must have been, in its time, an effective silencer; also so-called witchcraft persecutions and the word "obey,"* the relic of "rule and morals a la Turk" *That one adult human being should be obliged, or allowed, to swear at the altar to obey another is an unthinkable ab- surdity, and must end in wrong conditions. ''Who best can suffer, best can do; Best reign, who first hath well obeyed." Both should be obedient to God ; Christ, Truth, the head of the house and there an end. Who giveth this woman (chattel, etc.), indeed! 27 Preface in the marriage service. In many countries, even now, women have no rights man is bound to respect. We can easily see why it might be more than possible that woman, or the feminine principle, is not now expressed in any country. It is beginning to be realized forcibly that con- ditions in all countries are far from ideal. We must also acknowledge that the direct influence of woman (to whom has been given the only immaculate conception of character ever vouchsafed to humanity) has been in- consistently left out in council and achievement. Incon- ceivable blindness as this is seen to be, it is none the less as true as it is disastrous. That even advanced women as a class (with one excep- tion) now only express the opinion of men is true, but not creditable to men, or right or helpful. The following is an effort to show what woman really stands for and what she should be allowed to express for the good of the race. That she stands for peace and purity no one who thinks will doubt. That she is not allowed freedom to express peace and purity I am trying to make as clear to others as it is to me. Many a woman will understand the thought ex- pressed in the story of "Chitra," taken from East India books of looo B. C. "The Princess Chitra's grandsire had been promised by his gods an unbroken line of male descent, but it was broken in Chitra, so she was brought up as a son one day clad as a youth she meets Arjuna, the hero of the Kuru clan and the idol of her dreams. The following day she, though unattractively plain, dresses richly in woman's attire and seeks him. He is very short with her and tells her he is vowed to twelve years' celibacy. She then asks the gods to grant her superb 28 Preface beauty for one day; it is granted her for a year; then she meets Arjuna again; he forgets his vow and kneels at her feet ; she reminds him of his vow and says : "It is not I ; go, my hero, go ; woo not falsehood, offer not your heart to an illusion." But she finally answers his call and accepts him as her husband ; and then she says : "I woke to find that my body had become my own rival; it is my hateful task to deck her every day, to send her to my beloved and see her caressed by him. O God ! take back thy boon. . . . It is the labor of a life- time to make one's true self known and honored; had I but needed time I could win his heart by slow degrees and ask no help of the god."* (Page 57.) Arjuna is puzzled. "I never seem to know you right," he says. "I grope for that ultimate you, that bare sim- plicity of truth." The next day he finds it : "The gift I proudly bring you is the heart of a woman." Then Arjuna says : "Beloved, my heart is full." "First must woman see this truly truly know herself the place she should fill, then she can reveal it to the man." This, woman is now learning and teaching to man, and this is the woman's movement, slow of growth but now culminating, thank God. It all condenses itself in the sentence : "They shall know themselves into one" (taken from Browning's "Ring and the Book"), then shall we see unity of purpose and harmonious living, instead of its opposite, at present made evident in the number of divorces and separations, wherein men and women appear to be and probably are at cross purposes. They are of "minds many" when they * We find the same thought expressed B. C 600 in a poem by Sappho, whose brilliant writings were nearly all destroyed, and her character attacked and blackened because she was an intelli- gent woman. 29 Preface should be of "one mind," or in accord. We are all of "one mind" in regard to the fact that twice two equals four; it is always the same, in Egypt, Japan, or in the United States; everyone can use it, it is inexhaustible. That is the nature of Truth. Now, suppose that some thought, twice two equals five, some that it equalled three and one-half, and so on; "minds many" on the subject would soon bring chaos and dire confusion. All being of one mind will bring unity, not uniformity, as each may apply the Truth to his or her own need, in an individual way. We have an appalling number of national and state laws; all are evaded and amended; we need only one law, the law of Love, as all will admit. It is "laws many" and minds many which gives trouble ; result- ing naturally in the most disastrous war known to history. FOREWORD WE must begin with "the nature of formalities," the right understanding of which is a key un- locking much. It is certain that "every material law, or embodiment of an idea, is but the symbol of its mental or spiritual prototype which bodies forth an idea conceived in the mental and again in the spiritual realm" (a symbol of a symbol). In order to build, for instance, a chair, one must first have a knowledge of certain laws of mechanics, then get the idea and build the chair. Knowledge is the first requisite. It presupposes discipline, sacrifice (through which comes mastery), and constitutes the only freedom. The better knowledge of the law one has, the better chair can be built. Then all the chairs in the world may be destroyed, and we can still make more, because we have the idea. The idea is mental, inde- structible, real, while the chair (its material embodiment) is destructible as a chair. In other and more perfect words, "The things which are seen are temporal and the things which are not seen are eternal." We would say that the chair was real and the idea visionary. We must reverse the testimony of our senses in this case, as in many others. Only that which is indestructible is real. The chair is but the symbol of the idea, though it appears otherwise. All that exists is the manifestation of mind first get the idea and then manifest it. So the painter embodies his highest idea or concep- tion in a beautiful picture; the poet, his highest idea or conception in a beautiful poem ; and the musician his in a beautiful composition. Milton, perhaps, embodied his highest conception in "Paradise Lost/' This was the child of his brain. It was not apparently a matter of Foreword cooperation (still less was it so in the Appassionata or the Sistine Madonna), though we are told that it takes two, or more, to generate thought. The character con- ceptions of Shakespeare are mentally embodied, and are humanly immortal. Mary embodied her highest concep- tion in the flesh, that being perhaps the only way it could be brought to the material comprehension of man at that time ; and any idea or conception of the Christ* charac- ter, no matter whose it may be, must be an immaculate conception, and need not (apparently) be a matter of cooperation.f We must see that it symbolizes the conception of the Christ character, which will come to every soul; and must of its nature, be an immaculate conception to be embodied in our lives. And so the immaculate concep- tion, taken up into mind where it belongs, is a fact in nature. No person should sneer at it, and say we are "expected to believe that Jesus had only one parent," because that is a gross way of looking at this spiritual truth, and is harmful. That form of expression is vital and necessary, as we will find when we fully understand. Till then, let us stand breathless before the mystery; be thankful that Jesus Christ was born (made manifest) in Bethlehem, as becomes us; and that there has been an immaculate conception. It would seem that those who handle these subjects carelessly are like children playing with dynamite, endangering themselves and others. Mary changed the human law and its method of generating, proving God to be the Father of man, as Jesus put to silence material law when he walked on the water, turned the water into wine; and performed his other miracles (wonders), in fulfillment of Spiritual (the only real) law. *The Christ is the Truth which Jesus lived, and Truth is immaculate always. t See Appendix B, page 198. 32 "Is it nothing to you, Oh ye that pass byf" CHAPTER I IF we can give woman (as a type not as we see her manifested) her proper place in the scheme of life manifestation, we can more intelligently work and think toward true progress and helpfulness. Until this is done, I believe there can be little real progress. It is a basic problem, and must be solved, else we are working at a disadvantage quite too great to be overcome. I think we may all agree on this statement of the vexed question. It is not what woman wants, but what ought she to have for the good of the race? Not man's rights nor woman's rights, but the rights of children, the rights of humanity. The right of every soul to its full possibility of development. The ballot is merely the A. B. C. of the movement. It is not possible for one- half the people to be mistakenly treated and the whole not suffer. Who is willing to take the responsibility of doing this ? It will be well for us if we can set this right, not letting mere opinion or prejudice stand in the way. In the evolution of cell life, we are told when the simple cell evolved into the semi-sexual cell, death came. According to material science the cell is the microcosm of which the human body is the macrocosm. As in the microcosm, so in the macrocosm. When the simple human organism (Adam) evolved into the semi-sexual, Adam and Eve, death came as a result. Thus we see that the Bible account of the so-called material creation is scientifically correct, according to noted so-called material scientists; we will again, for purposes of illustration, at least, use the Bible account here, as it is the only thing Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" of the kind to which we have access.* Then it appears, as evolution declares, that life manifestation (creation) was in the ascending scale ; woman as last, would be highest ; or to use a better expression, more spiritual. This we have stated to us over and over again in every conceivable form of language, though from the existing state of affairs, which is in some respects deplorable, we can scarcely realize or acknowledge its truth. But the fact remains, those taking an adverse view are simply not inspired. Again taking the second Bible account, Adam, man, was formed of the dust of the ground, woman of once refined (?) clay. An extension, another side of character, was given; the receptive condition (that which makes us receptive to higher things) was symbolized more perfectly than before. The appeal of the serpent was to the woman. To her he gave three reasons; to the man she gave no reason. We know the result, the so-called fall. Then it was said to the woman, as the result of this, not as a command, nor that it was right, but as a result of the "fall"; "Thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee." The lower nature ruling the higher constitutes a fall, but does not make it right. (Through this fall Adam and Eve [mankind] lost their paradise, thrust themselves out of Eden.) If we are to be personal, as we usually are; in Gen. 1-24, we read that God "drove out the man" ; nothing is said regarding the woman in this connection. We say men have more animal spirits than women. They hunt, go to war, etc., while to women, ideally typi- cally speaking, is given the care of children (souls). *A striking fact. 34 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One 1 ' Compare the army of young women who (though ham- pered by machine made routine) are teaching in our schools, elevating themselves and humanity through the children under their influence, trying to conserve life, with the corresponding class of young men engaged in war or preparation for it, destroying life ; and a wide difference in results must be. apprehended. The sights, sounds, and practices of war are (in a general way) not up- lifting. As is well known all "civilized" countries were using three-fourths of their incomes to pay for "watch dogs," thus leaving one- fourth to feed, clothe, house, educate, and provide for the future of the family (first deducting a large sum which goes for compulsory medical examina- tion). Just now (1914-1918) we have a good object lesson on war, with a prospect (in common with other nations) of national bankruptcy and becoming "beggars before barracks" in view. The proportion of women in penitentiaries is very small, two women to about one hundred men; showing that men have more animal passion than women. The assertion of a number of men of this class that they were brought to this state through the fault of wife (or some other woman) is to be expected; the Adam spirit is strong, but the Adam story is fast losing force and dignity. "In the first verse of the first chaptef of the first book of Egotism, it is written." True, handsome young women often escape conviction at the hands of men juries: a fellow feeling sometimes makes us wondrous kind ; but for one woman who thus escapes, 35 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" many men criminals are never even brought to trial, as is well known.* On the other hand, and by way of contrast, we are accustomed to see an average of about six women to one man in our (Protestant) churches; and say that women are more easily affected by religious ideas, etc. Then this is not a weakness, as some have imagined, but an evidence of right understanding. It is true that they have not often in the past been among the great religious leaders; but what wonder, with the words of St. Paul (the circumstances regarding which are not generally understood) ringing in their ears, and the fact that a husband was justified in getting a divorce or knocking the wife down if she talked too much to suit him. She has never been allowed to speak, has not even been encouraged to think, in fact; has been discouraged and wet blanketed by the jealous and small minded of both sexes ; but now that she has worked her way out in a small degree, she is showing what she can do toward leading in higher ethics even against the tyranny of custom and public opinion. Very few of us realize, as we speak those words, their frightful paralyzing import. The car of Juggernaut is a trifling thing in comparison. f *One man of experience who is a truth seeker, calls attention to a number of women murderers who have been acquitted; without discerning that their acquittal was due to the, fact that the men jurors considered them justified by the brutal acts of the man killed. And if attention is to be called to this condition it should be noted that only one out of 75 murderers receives the death penalty; and of those 75 the records show not more than one would be a woman. It is encouraging to note that men are beginning to consider the side of the woman in the case, as never before. fMany otherwise really fine women who have, and always have had, a certain amount of independence (which comes of 36 "They Shall Know Themselves Into One" This has not been a country of free speech for woman. She has always been afraid of offending some man on whom she was dependent (?) and, without realizing it, has repressed her real sentiments. It was a stern neces- sity, and she felt it so. Man is not to blame: he simply did not "know." She was helpless and hopeless. She had only one chance of expression, and that purely physical. Is that sufficient? True it is that the average man also thinks as custom (man) decrees, while woman, too, must think as man decrees. Is not the feminine, the woman thought, left out in this plan? Can we think to advantage except as we complete the thought in word and action ? Life is expression, and when we understand that woman's knowledge is not the same as man's, but is just as much needed for the development of humanity as his; that while repressing her we are injuring the race, and justifying ourselves for it with utterly selfish sophis- tries, we will have taken a long step upward. George Eliot says, "That which is peculiar to woman's mental modification will be found to be a necessary complement to the truth and beauty of life." Almost any woman will admit, if she takes thought, that in a general way she does not express herself, but temporizes and agrees as far as possible with every one, for the sake of semi peace and popularity in the family, neighborhood, and town. This is considered commend- able. She does not allow herself to think, except along having private means) seem to be positively callous through lack of sympathy or understanding of those who have not even that type of independence; these women, and the men of their class, are of the very highest type of Adam-material "man"; there is apt to be little of real, or spiritual "charity" in them; they swim with the tide of merely human affairs; they are very popular, and receive much applause. 37 Taking "Forth the Precious From the File" lines and ways set and prescribed for her by those in authority; she is even led to think and to say that she likes to do this, also for the sake of semi peace, and because it is easier. Now, she is told she may think along the lines of eugenics, as far as certain noted people have led the way, and in the way these may prescribe. Ten years ago these things were entirely taboo. Really, she is only just getting out where, in some countries, she dares to say "her soul is her own," and to stand for it. Men are also bound by limitations but not so hope- lessly as is woman. A woman who does see clearly and has courage to express her thought must expect to be met by the Philistine thought with scorn and partial ostracism, which is often an advantage in many ways, giving her more time to live her own life; but her smile is apt to be somewhat rueful as she endures "the spurns which patient merit often takes." We should realize how fallible and unworthy are mortal snap judgments and inferences, with their often inhuman consequences. Woman is, and has been in the past, so handicapped, so at a disadvantage, one cannot but be glad to see her getting on a somewhat more equal footing, even though it be to deplore at the same time (however mistakenly) the shattered ideals of the past and the unrest that is bound to come in the transition stage of any great move- ment. It only proves that this movement, which is sure, if slow, is in the direction of progress ; that at last the higher nature in mankind will find itself, know its value, and gently lead humanity to better things, to something real. We have here in all this, Goethe's philosophy con- densed as in a nutshell, in the closing lines of the Helena, written after a long life of extraordinarily varied ex- perience : 38 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" "All of mere transient date, as symbol showeth. Here the inadequate to fullness groweth. Here the ineffable wrought is in love. The ever womanly draws us above." Dr. Gunsaulus presents this view in his "Man of Galilee." He calls attention to the fact that women were first to recognize and accept the Truth (the risen Christ). The men doubted what was told them. He says the mis- sion of woman to humanity was foreshadowed in this, and quotes, "The ever womanly draws us above." To Mary, the woman, was given the only immaculate (pure) conception of character ever given to humanity. Any idea or conception of the Christ character must, of its nature, be immaculate. We all feel this to be true, but have not seen how to reconcile faith and reason with appearances (for which men are largely, if not wholly, responsible). The fact that woman has suf- fered most only bears out the analogy. This is what would naturally happen. The higher the nature, the greater the consequent suffering from the fall. All through this we find a chance to reverse the testi- mony of our senses, which, it is proved and acknowledged, cannot be relied upon to give us exact or truthful im- pressions. Plato says : "We are misled by the senses when we seek knowledge through them. They are the source of all our sinning. We should die to them, and, by contemplation of and obedience to the ideal being, we shall become more and more beautiful in this life; and after, we shall enter the ideal world where we shall be with perfect souls." Does not Christianity also teach this, and more? 39 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" Before going further, a digression may well be made for the sake of a certain order of minds. And so, my dear friend, you say you have plenty of means, a good husband, and all the rights you want; and for that very reason are you not responsible to those who have not, and who are not good husbands? They are a legion, when including the world, our universe, as we must; they are all, the millions of little brown brothers and sisters, our brothers and sisters, and we all suffer or gain together. Advantages and privileges bring responsibilities always. Unless we respond, our advantages are worse than useless : we would be better without them. To whom much is given, of him much should be required. We are our sister's as well as our brother's keepers, even though Cain-like we try to evade the responsibility. Says the Chicago Vice Commission: "The time has passed when the social evil, or any other great evil, that affects society, must be spoken of with bated breath. Adequate information must precede annihilation, which is the ultimate of Christian intelligence." Pioneer work is ever fraught with hardship (in an earthly sense). It is never smooth or easy, either in new country, fields, or in new fields of thought. It is work that must be done by some, that life be easier, happier, and safer for those who come after. It has all the characteristics of a cross but to "quaff the cup" one "must not shrink." Material results are not evident, as in most work ; one must be content to be called a failure (but in what glorious company!) by those who like every one to go about the Father's business in their way. Those who cannot, or think they do not want to com- prehend, have been, are now, in the majority. 40 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" To discuss impersonal principle of any sort is never indelicate. Indelicacy is only evident when personal ap- plication is resorted to. Principles can never be personal as each personal experience is a variant, while principle is fixed. If there is a cess-pool in your vicinity which is breed- ing disease, you do not say, "Let it alone ; it is too filthy to touch." Quite the contrary. If the thing itself is pure, thought about it will not make it impure. If you consider thought of how to right an evil filthy, what must the thing itself be? Let us remove the cess-pool if possible. The young (and some who are older) are apt to scorn this thought. In all likelihood they will see it in a different light when they are more mature in years and thought, so let them not be too confident. A modern writer, whose sayings are sometimes wise and many times otherwise, has said, "We are mired in the superstition that sex is unclean." His strong statement is undoubtedly partially true; but why is it true and is it merely a superstition? It is for woman to insist that this subject be ventilated until we find out why. A reliable daily paper makes this statement: "Oriental population so reeks with immorality that more than fifty per cent of the people are diseased. This applies not only to adults of both sexes, but to mere children as well." As is well known, latest estimates are said to show that seventy-five per cent or more of our men belong to this appalling and astonishing condition, with effects still wider spread among innocent and suffering women and children. General Gorgas says that more men were taken from active service in the eight months before May, 1918, from 41 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" this cause than from injuries. This is just one of many statements of this kind which are being authorita- tively made with insistent constancy that is ominous. Zones have been established and segregated districts, when they were near the camp, wiped out. The soldier is punished if he refuses treatment, not for contracting the disease be it observed with interest and all must be examined for this horrible thing every two weeks. Think what that means to clean-minded men. The suggestion is bad and one would fear that they must lose self-respect, if nothing worse. *Teach them all that self-control is the mark of a real man. To take these splendid fellows and teach them the stuff that is taught them about this thing and about women, is shameful; it is nauseating. Can it be right to take our strongest men into such environment; inoculate them again and again with poison virus, both materially and mentally? Many of them resent it all, but some seem to be satisfied. What is to be the effect on their char- acter? We are all familiar with above statements and others like them. Two leading physicians have recently an *One would think that Doctors themselves would recoil from such morbid indecency, especially when the women co-respon- dents are included, as they generally are, when they, and not the men, are called "bad." The vice regulations, by which all cases of this disease are supposed to be reported, are not complied with, and of the poor female creatures who are supposed to report for examination at frequent stated times, only a small proportion comply; in Paris only about five percent. So this abomination does not even serve any purpose. The most horrible part of it is that often innocent, decent women and girls are arrested and sub- jected to these examinations, and other brutal treatment, never recovering from the shock, which often ends in self sought death for the victim. Have we no pity that we give such power to these irresponsible men, who are themselves victims of a faulty environment? 42 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" nounced that ninety per cent of the people are tubercular ; seventy-five per cent of the children are said to be defec- tive; insanity is said to be increasing. In one city alone fifty- four thousand degenerates are said (with authority) to be walking the streets, who have committed the most atrocious crimes against little, innocent, helpless girls. It almost makes one tremble to see any man touch or look at a little girl or young -lady carelessly, even his own child. The effect on the child should be considered, which it is not at the present time. See Rousseau (Confessions). This evil is the more insidious because it is often un- recognized by those involved. We speak of preventive medicine, of stamping out epidemics ; yet it is undoubtedly true that we have more and worse permanent epidemics than ever before. And Adam is still naming material disease creations which were not known in former years. The epidemic of opera- tions alone, with accompanying suffering and expense, is appalling. Now, to take what will seem to be a different line, but which leads to the same gate: "To adulterate" is to vitiate at the primal source. If we take the commonly accepted meaning of the word, one can readily see what it is to vitiate the primal source of being or life. This is indeed a crime. We have not words to express its enormity. What is adultery ? Jesus, who never married, but was a Universal Brother, expresses Himself plainly, showing what can be proved true, that it is of thought as well as deed. "Whoso looketh on a woman to lust after her hath already committed adultery with her in his heart." He does not say a woman who is not his wife, but any woman. 43 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" Where shall we place this saying? We can get His meaning from an illustration. Looking over the past (and oriental countries at the present time), we see woman kept out of sight of man, or, if allowed to go abroad, so disguised that no bit of physical form could be seen. Why was this, except that man could not look on woman without harmful thought? It was in the often unconscious, but none the less dangerous, thought of the man. Except for that, it would not have affected him, and is the result of dwelling on the physical ex- clusively. In an article in a well known magazine, one man sees that "women are walking over red hot plow shares, and not always unscathed." Also that "the male Turk says : It is for her own sake woman is confined to the Harem and made to veil her face whenever she walks abroad. He knows the effect of her appearance upon men's minds, and he wishes to shield her from unlawful thoughts of men." Why not suggest that the men improve their thought methods and thus free the women. A woman writer for a noted magazine says : "Men had to be cured of the habitual impression natural to self centered con- sciousness that women are always thinking about men and were aware of the effect on men of their every little action." In the time of Jesus (for this very reason) it was considered a disgrace for a man to talk to a woman. Someway, it was not safe; and the reason not being apprehended, generally speaking, the woman (usually innocent) was considered bad, was blamed, while the "thought" of man was the offender the old story. Jesus talked with woman. He was pure enough to do so in " They Shall Know Themselves Into One y the right way (as many men are now), and that was one of the things He answered for with His life. Public opinion, an unsafe guide, was against it. The temptation of St. Anthony means just that. There was no real woman; the trouble was in his thought. There lay his field of battle. In reality it is all in the thought. The act is sensual, evanescent, and, in result, worse than any other' sensual habit (like drinking, opium eating, etc.) because through it life is lost. Through it comes death, just as surely as it was said in the Bible and scientific accounts to come. That which is wasted is ten times richer than the blood. It is life. If life is lost, it can readily be seen that death is the result. With death belong sickness and pain; while we have one we have the other. Please note St. Paul's position in this, expressed in the last of the VI and VII chapters of 1st Corinthians. Here he also speaks of conditions which might make a difference; but what are those conditions, right or wrong? It is not for us to condemn; but to recognize and right the conditions, if wrong. We are told that after entering a house of ill fame the women recruits (white slaves) live only from three to ten years and die in the most awful agony known to surgery! Sixty thousand every year in our country alone, "ruined/' as far as we know, body and soul ! The mental and spiritual shock to woman is greater than the physical. Of course, late hours and drink bear their part. There is nothing else that so quickly and thoroughly degrades the beautiful temple of the soul and its occupant. Can there be a sadder sight? What a price is here paid by these sufferers, ostensibly to protect other women, but really that men may be indulged to their evil limit, to 45 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" self injury as well ! And the sentimental statement that women are the ones who need to be and are protected by men is exploded. It is only certain women who are protected, and they are protected from men. The men who frequent these places are sadly injured, though they are physically stronger, and are not so constantly in contact with it, and the effect is not so apparent as in the women. Is not the trail of the serpent over it all? It were more merciful to cast them into the fiery arms of Moloch, as did parents in olden times a thought which makes us shudder; but that was quickly over and destroyed only the body. "That which is esteemed among men is an abomination unto the Lord," surely applies here. War is a benevolent and attractive method of destruc- tion beside this. Yet some try to justify ( !) the Social Evil, which is the sin against motherhood, and probably the sin against the Holy Ghost, the receptive spirit; of which woman, motherhood, is the symbol. A thing which in its results is as disastrous as this cannot be justified. It is "unpardonable" (not necessarily unfor- givable). Men pay money, and women who need, want, and can get it no other way think they can thereby gain money, attention, power even love the poor things hope for through it. Tolstoi sees and expresses this. He says these un- fortunate women (and others also) think this all, or what men want of women, and justify themselves as valuable members of society. What wonder, when the attitude of man is considered! o ls it right that women should be forced into such positions, or called upon to bring chil- dren into the world through suffering, for such an end? 46 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" Should the creative act ever be made use of except for creative purposes? When used otherwise, is it not dangerous? "Sensuality palsies the right hand and causes the left to let go its grasp on the divine." Mrs. Eddy. The Christ character shows us the result and points to the knowledge that "pregnancy (at least) should have the sanctity of virginity." Ibid. This is beginning to be more generally understood and observed. Guatama Buddha (a remarkable man for his time, about 600 B. C, who was also said to be of this immaculate or pure con- ception), after reaching the age of responsibility, went away, leaving a wife of unusual beauty and character, and his only child. Bjornson discerns this truth partially : "Sigurd Slembe" leaves the beloved of his heart, going to a war of conscience. But has he thus attained any- thing more than a pure monasticism ? What will be the latter days of either? Surely there is no profit in them. The wife in Bjornson's story acquiesced, but the impres- sion left was that of a wasted life, nothing ideal attained in either case. Self control for men is the only solution, and that with no accompanying sense of martyrdom. Some persons are quick to apply the hypnotic and arbi- trary statement that for a man and woman to live to- gether without having children is immoral ; which it might be to those making the statement who are judging others by themselves ; but why should it be why is it not possi- ble to live a pure life under any circumstances it is ; and it is done, with good and justifiable reasons, and often with ideal results in important directions. "Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled." I suppose there are those who cannot understand that situation, but that does not prove it wrong or impossible by any means. 47 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile' "Judge not that ye be not judged." Just the fact of hav- ing had one or more children does assume so called im- moral acts in the majority of cases, as all know. One gentle and sensitive woman soul said in the writer's hear- ing with a shudder of horror, " After a child is born then everybody knows what has happened." Tolstoi records that late on his sister's wedding night (which was spent in the paternal home) she came flying down the stairs from the nuptial chamber in terror, and "Not for worlds would she tell what he wanted of her." One noted man wastes sympathy on people who have not suffered in this war; they should have children to send out to be killed or maimed, or they are unworthy of consideration. He was recently waked up, evidently, to the danger of generalization, and begins to hedge his posi- tion by saying 'If God had not sent them any or only one' then he 'exonerates them in their sad estate.' But why God should refuse to send them to parents who desire them and who would take good care of and bring them up well; and send them to the parents of those poor abused children in the power of the "huns" of all nations, married or unmarried, he does not explain, and of course there is no reasonable explanation to be found. For such a false premise and process there is no solution. And why should anyone have only one, or few, and what becomes of the individualities of the potential un- born children ? At the rate of one thousand a day Euro- pean cradles are said to have been robbed during the war (and after for many years) as an effect of deaths, wounds and hardships wrought to both potential fathers and mothers. It does not seem possible that immortal souls can wait on chance, caprice or lust for manifestation or 48 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" existence. It is not a dignified or reasonable supposition that they should; and if human manifestation is so neces- sary and valuable what becomes of these potential individualities who are not humanly conceived and brought forth; or who are untimely cut off by war, accident or disease. This (or any) war both fills the graves and robs the cradles, as do many other accepted institutions. This view calls for consideration at least, we cannot very well ignore it. Thomas Jefferson and John Adams in their corre- spondence quote with approval the "Principles of the Pythagoreans concerning the laws of interprocreation of men." "It shall be according to the laws of modesty and sanctity. We do not commix for the sake of pleasure, but for the procreation of children." Women (and men) through the suffering in childbirth, which is becoming too great to be borne, inflicted by any other plan ; if they do not by the effect on the off- spring, of inherited lust and disastrous secret vice, must learn to control circumstances. Then might mother- hood be considered a privilege, which it can scarcely be while it is, in most cases, "an enforced burden." Then we may look forward, as did Jewish parents of old, to the Saviour who may be born to us. I have no doubt there have been such (and now are being born) who are to be allowed to help save and uplift the race in kind if not in degree. Whatever there is of saving grace in anything, makes it a savior. Is it not reasonable that motherhood is symbolic of the Holy Ghost (or Spirit) ? This may sound startling, until we are accustomed to the idea and look it squarely in the face. They are alike, in that both are considered 49 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" and acknowledged the highest, though about us we may see motherhood so dragged in the lowest that we scarcely recognize in it anything of its true nature. Goethe speaks of "Die Mutter, the creative and generative forces of earth." "As in everything which receives new life on earth, the female principle is most in evidence; the august title of 'The Mothers' may be rightly given them." Science teaches that the female principle was first, and is more highly organized. Was it not this sin against motherhood of which our first parents were guilty? The definition of "sin" is "to miss the mark" (i. e., to make a mistake). After they had eaten of the fruit of the "Tree of Knowledge" which was in the midst of the garden, they were ashamed and made themselves aprons of leaves, thus perhaps indicat- ing the nature and wrong character of the sin (mistake) committed. Why were they ashamed if what they did was right; and if it is not right, if it is a mistake, why continue it? Milton, in a finite way, summed up Eve's reasoning : "So to add what wants In female sex, the more to draw his love And render me more equal, and, perhaps, a Thing not undesirable, sometime Superior; for inferior who is free," It is, I think, the reasoning of the mortal (or man's) woman. The premises are surely wrong, and drawn from them the conclusions are incorrect. Man sees it, but can- not reconcile appearances, nor explain, nor believe; and thus blindly men and women are at cross purposes, instead of pulling together. 50 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" A doctor, in advising young wives, tells them not to be "disturbed if, after this, their husbands turn from them in depression and coldness ; it is quite natural," etc. But does it not indicate something? Consumption, scrofula, and kindred ills are known to be its followers. Must there not be something intrinsically wrong when such an effect is produced. Tolstoi and Milton both give clear instances of it, plainly told. After this the Adam and Eve of Milton (as also in the case of Paola and Francesca, who were all justified by love if any are ever justified, being made for each other) are despondent and quarrel- some. Gone is the glory of love and the delight which was theirs before the fall (love was killed, slain). Even we speak of "fall-ing" in love. Physicians also teach that men past forty-five should guard it as their life. "If this power which is dissipated be retained, attrac- tion is doubled." Why, if the so-called natural (material) conception is right, should another kind be necessary to an immaculate conception (of character) as if distinc- tively. The ideal is so precious, and it is so marred by present practice. St. Paul says : "Flee youthful lusts," and again, "Flee fornication, all other sins which a man commits are out- side himself," and not so corroding. St. Augustine of Hippo, who before his Saintship learned certain hard lessons in the school of experience, carries the idea that fornication was the original sin. Nietzsche acknowledges that the material creative gratifi- cation interferes with man's higher or mental creative work, and again blames woman, seeing her as a temptation to man ; an utterly one-sided and unjust conclusion. Also the Bible tells us that Jesus knew men ; he needed not Si Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" that any should tell him what men are." "The heart is deceitful and desperately wicked." These are all familiar statements and should be seriously considered. A wicked and adulterous generation is spoken of in the Bible. Jesus said, "This generation" as He evidently did not mean the generation then living, what could He have meant but this kind of generation? "shall not pass away until all be fulfilled." Did not the vital necessity for it pass when the Christ was embodied? But it will continue till all be fufilled, and that will be perhaps ages from now. Then will be the at-one-ment with the Father, when all is Spirit. We shall then, and only then, be the pure in heart, who are at one with, or see, God. "Which were born, not of blood, not of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God." "Made not after the power of carnal commandment, but after the power of an endless life." The poets* have given us Arthur, Parsifal, Galahad, "whose strength was as the strength of ten." Why? Because his heart was pure. "My good blade carves the casques of men, My tough lance thrusteth sure, My strength is as the strength of ten, Because my heart is pure. How sweet are looks that ladies bend On whom their favors fall! * The meaning of the word poet is found to be maker, creator; and a poem is something finished, harmony. Shelly's definition, "All who display higher imagination, the higher creative sense, as distinguished from the (material so called) logical reason, are poets," is generally accepted. 52 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One For them I battle to the end, To save from shame and thrall: But all my heart is drawn above, My knees are bow'd in crypt and shrine; I never felt the kiss of love, Nor maiden's hand in mine. More bounteous aspects on me beam, Me mightier transports move and thrill; So keep I fair thro' faith and prayer A virgin's heart in work and will. A maiden knight to me is given Such hope, I know not fear; So pass I hostel, hall and grange; By bridge and ford, by park and All-arm' d I ride, what'er betide, Until I find the holy Grail" (Or until I find the Truth.) Percivale's sister "Who gave herself to prayer and praise" taught Galahad "First to see this holy thing" (the Truth or Grail). 53 CHAPTER II THROUGH legend, elementary truth is said to be handed down to us. In Abbey's famous frieze in the Boston Library, Galahad is portrayed as having been under the care of nuns till about his thirteenth year, when he is handed over to Guernamez for instruction in worldly knowledge ; after which he starts on a quest for the Holy Grail, the blood (or life) of Jesus (the Christ or Truth) which can only be found and held by one who is pure. The Grail (Truth) when found (or known) would do away with sickness and sorrow.* It has been in the hands of Amfortas, but was lost, through his wrong defense of an immoral woman, and he was left with a wound which could not be healed until the Grail was restored. Galahad watches his armor all night at the altar, in prayer, as was the custom of those starting on a quest (keeping the thought pure all night). Sir Percival and Sir Bors may fasten on his spurs, but as they have each "sinned" once, they may not find the Grail. Galahad next finds himself at Arthur's court, and safely occupies the chair in which to be seated is death to one who is impure. Next, followed by Arthur's knights, he journeys to the castle of Amfortas, where he finds the people of this court sunken in a deep sleep of the senses, so that, while the Truth (Grail) passes through their midst at intervals, in procession, they cannot see it. *Did not Jesus say: "Ye shall know (or find) the Truth and the Truth shall make you free." A matter of knowing mental entirely. St. Paul says : "Prove all things, hold fast to that which is good." 54 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" Galahad sees it. but trusting to his worldly wisdom to give him its meaning, he does not ask questions as he should, and so loses his chance for the Grail, for this time. (A warning is here to be found.)* He then rides on and encounters the three loathly damsels, who are doomed to entice and slay men, until the pure man comes, who alone can rescue them. The inference being that when man is pure the world will be redeemed. Until then, woman is condemned against her will to accede to man's evil desires. But Galahad has, for the time, lost his chance to free them, and they part from him in sorrow. Next he encounters the seven deadly sins, symbolized by fierce men in armor, who are guarding the imprisoned virtues, typified by lovely, gentle, modest women. Galahad conquers them and so liberates the virtues. Then he goes on and meets Blanche Fleur (white flower), a lovely representation, pure, ascetic. Her he marries, but de- parts immediately on the quest ; thus, by absolute chastity, he proves his right to the Grail, which he receives, heals Amfortas, and is carried in a boat by angels to Shiras. Here he is seen, a throng of angels in the background, and at last his earthly robes of materiality are to fall away. Wagner personifies woman in "Kundry," who is half the time doomed to tempt and drag man down, but spends the other half of her time in good, uplifting work. She, like the loathly damsels and the Virtues in Abbey's con- ception of the quest, can only be freed by an absolutely chaste knight. Klingsor (typical mortal man) calls *Moses when he saw the burning bush turned aside to question, instead of antagonizing, an unusual thought or ap- pearance. Abraham entertained Angels (unusual ideas) un- awares, and received a blessing. Darwin's attitude toward so-called impossibilities is well known. 55 Taking ''Forth the Precious From the Vile" Kundry, the woman of his (man's) desire, the woman of his creation, his slave, up from the depths. She comes in sackcloth, bowed and weeping. Klingsor jeers at her and commands her to do his bidding: to lure men to their destruction by sensuous and sensual means. This he forces her to do (witness its extreme in white slavery) ; but Parsifal, higher type of man, is strong enough to resist; to free himself and her also from her enforced task. Then all she asks or ever has asked is "Service." Thus the "eternal womanly," which the average mortal man has never once seen, is brought to light. Wagner builded better than he knew. Wagner sees that Tannhauser is never free from the Venus or sensual lure, while Elizabeth lives; though neither he nor she is conscious that she is at all connected with it. Many advanced writers have had that concep- tion ; they could not connect any such idea with a refined or ideal woman. They felt the desecration of it; without seeing the solution pure and ideal manhood, as a mate and companion for the ideal woman with whom only could they be happy. Goethe's experiences were likely of this order. He was probably a pure spirit, though after years of material life he was persuaded that he was someway mistaken and he married an uneducated woman with whom he had had relations, and of whom he spoke as "a convenient loaf of Brown Bread." Goethe, who sums up all womanly charm and beauty in Helena, puts these words in her mouth when asked to name the penalty to be imposed on a man beneath her in station, who had addressed words of love to her : 56 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" "The evil to chastise myself have caused Were most unmeet. Woe's to me, what ruthless fate Pursues me, that where'er I go I thus Befool men's senses, so they not respect Themselves, nor aught that's worthy! Now by force, Now by seducive arts, by warfare now, Now dragging me about from land to land, Gods, heroes, demigods, yea demons too, Have made my life one wild and errant maze. I sowed confusion o'er the world; it grew, And now it spreads, confounded worse and worse. Remove this worthy man and set him free; Light never harm on him the gods have crazed."* We are beginning to realize that the gods have nothing to do with it. Man's self-indulgent weakness is the cause. Let us face the truth and not forever falsely blame God and the woman. By extending the vision we see that when man's desires are eliminated, woman will be free to be herself all the time, and no longer a sensual slave, which is abhorrent to her nature, but has been forced upon her through the desires of man enforced (custom and education being factors) ; thus we may "escape the corruption which (the Bible says) is in the world through lust." Ibsen's "Peer Gynt" is saved by his virtuous wife and mother (who hold the real man in their hearts), though he deserts, neglects, and makes them suffer while he is off following his will, which would have lost him his soul except for their devotion. There are those who affect to see right * See page 29. 57 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" conditions in this state of affairs. Why? Because it is common, not reasonable; reason on this subject is out of place ; man decides. Spenser's Britomarte (the Maiden Knight, Chastity) could pass through fire unharmed; an indication. This I think is also Tolstoi's final ; and his " 'Tis only when man learns to look on woman as a sister woman, even as he looks on man as a brother man, can he see aright," means, I take it, just that, and sums up his gospel. Did not the Magdalene of the Scriptures turn to the chaste and pure Christ Jesus for salvation (escape from bond- age) ? Doubtless he saw in her not a willing sinner but an unfortunate; and was she not the first to see, in his compassion and purity, the risen Saviour? The Japanese see and express this in the names given their so-called fallen women: "Soiled Dove," "Lotus in the Mud" ; showing that they understand the awful cir- cumstances of a pure being forced into such an abhorred state, and kept in constant contact with it until freed by death. English and American soldiers who are sup- posed to guard and protect visit these torture chambers and have no mercy. Men can scarcely conceive how horrible this is, as can a woman ; but they should under- stand and stop it, as they alone can at the present time. They are responsible as a class. Reliable commissions report that all of the "bad" women in certain large cities (and probably in all) "are driven to that life through wrong conditions, of which they are the victims ; and are supporting a child or children whose father has deserted ; but while all these things are contributing causes man is chiefly responsible for their fall." Think of this being 58 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" callously called "the oldest profession in the world" ; and of the misery and wrong ensuing, with woman helpless and in subjection all the time. Even now she is working (at a disadvantage) to change these conditions. Good men and women are helping her and they acknowledge that the women lead in this fundamental work. Judge Gemill of Chicago is quoted as saying, from observation in domestic courts : "For the most part it seems to me it is just pure cussedness on the part of the men." The Adam spirit would, as of old, wrongly place the blame on the helpless woman ; we even hear of "defence- less Adams" who are overcome by girls who are mere children, and they are given maudlin sympathy where they should be made to see themselves for what they are worse than cads. This point must be insisted on as only when men recognize it as truth will conditions be corrected, as they should be for the good of all. In the morality play, Everywoman, the author (a man) thinks he sees that every woman sooner or later is deserted by Modesty (which he personifies, as he does the other qualities of womaniety). He does also see that Modesty always returns in time. What he does not see is that woman only loses modesty in appearance and on account of life conditions, and not in reality only another presentation of this same truth. Rousseau sees that Madame W. was simply unmoral, not immoral, as she only conformed to custom and not through desire. He said he had observed it in cats and dogs, but saw nothing attractive in it; and he said he thought two people must know each other very well to 59 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" be willing to sleep together. He admits that he shrank from it, and I think it will ke found that all normal young people, boys or girls, do so shrink, and are only led on by an immoral force which supposes such things to be right and normal ; and through the dread of being thought abnormal, unnatural, or ridiculous, as is often the case in commencing to steal or smoke. Later the habit becomes confirmed, often uncontrollable, and lives are injured or absolutely wrecked through it. "Happy season of virtuous youth/' writes Carlyle, "when shame is still an impassable celestial barrier !" The following quotation from Ibsen may not be out of place. He says : "For I believe this : a woman is the mightiest power in the world and in her hand it lies to guide a man whither God Almighty would have him go." Dante was led in his ascent to Paradise by the light on the face of Beatrice. The word Elohim (feminine root masculine plural) in first chapter Genesis, is now translated Father-Mother or Mother-Father, indicating the tender love and care of that relation. In this first and true account, Elohim (the word is used only in the plural) is said to have created male and female (generic man) in his image and likeness. Then Elohim must be Father-Mother. Know- ing that the mother principle is so much in evidence in physical birth, one wonders that his mistake has remained so long uncorrected. Others of like nature are being discovered. The text that has heretofore been rendered : "The Lord giveth the word; great was the company of them that published it," is plainly seen to be: "The Lord giveth the word; the women that published the 60 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" tidings are a great host" also much more true to the real state of affairs. In corrected translations of the Bible account of crea- tion it is seen that Eve was "thoroughly deceived, caught in a snare." She saw her mistake and acknowledged it; Adam did not, and Eve then turned away from God to follow her husband, and became subject unto him. Had she turned to God as her intuition would have led her to do, he (man) would have come to her on a higher plane. He will yet do so and all will be well. All the time, as we know, she has turned to God, as far as pos- sible, and not let go of man entirely witness the Pro- testant churches; of them it is well said that, but for the women cobwebs would grow over their doors. Men give to the churches generally at the instance of their wives ; but men must be in complete authority, for if they are not, they will not have anything to do with it. As in many other directions, the result is not wholly satisfactory; but woman has yielded, as man would not play at all if she did not. When we understand that there is no sex in mind, we will see that sex is but an artificial distinction.* *The French language has no neuter gender, while the German has a decided scattering of them; a turnip is she, a young lady is it, a tree is male, its buds female, and its leaves neuter ; horses are neuter, all dogs male, and all cats and mice female; woman is female, but wife is not. Our use of gender is somewhat arbi- trary, we call he moon and a ship she, the sun he, and a Zeppelin it. We speak of mother ships and tanks, and of fathering an idea, and so on. A close observer notes that while male animal pro- genitors are never (one might say) referred to as "father," female animals are called "mother." This may seem to be a small matter, but it is not. If the word father is sacred to humanity, the word mother should certainly be so. Neither should the words denot- 61 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" Gender is masculine and feminine, and refers to qualities. There is also a neuter gender in which there is evidently no sex, only another quality. When this is understood by our savants, who know all things, then the wise discussion as to the relative value of brain in man and woman will cease, and a saving in time be accomplished. God is good and there is no sex in good, nor do men have a monopoly of good. God is Love, and Love is thought to be feminine; but really there is no sex either in love or good, only principle. Good is good wherever found. Sex belongs with the Adam, dying, physical, mortal, un- natural; not with the Christ, Truth, spiritual, natural. One of the reasons for man's fancied superiority is, I suppose, that he has been said to be made in God's image and likeness, and God is always spoken of as Father. Also see page 6p. That this is a man's view is evident ; let us look into it, in the light of higher criticism. God is good, and good is both male and female. It is not wholly confined to the male sex : it is generally supposed that there are a few good women. And if, as stated earlier, we have any doubt we have only to step into a church where God (good) is supposed to be especially worshiped and emulated, and we see a great majority of women. In case we are not yet convinced we may go to a penitentiary and find there among the criminals only about two per cent of women. To the mind incapable of forming correct conclusions this carries no convic- ing the offspring be used interchangeably. Women have not so close affinity for animals as have men, but man "Adam" has the naming or calling of mortal creations ; and he does not always consider the other or feminine part of creation as he should. A protest must be registered before it can become effec- tive. 62 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" tion, because we have always been told that woman was inferior. Why trouble about anything further? Mere statement is quite sufficient in any case where woman is concerned. Again we refer to the popular statement, "Love is of man's life a thing apart, 'tis woman's whole existence" ; does this prove that woman is limited and inferior? We have had a good illustration of this kind of reasoning in the attitude of the Filipino soldiers, for instance, toward our forbearance and kindly feeling; because they could not appreciate it they at once regarded it as weak- ness and cowardice. Surely it is the feminine attitude, but is it weakness or cowardice ? Is it not rather evidence of strength and courage (reversal of sense testimony again) ? Did we think so in the case spoken of, and was it not somewhat trying to the patience of our soldiers to be so judged? That fact that such a spirit is in our men to be manifested in mercy and reason is it not because in our country the feminine thought (which is often expressed through masculine form and vice versa, thus approaching the ideal) is partially emancipated and is having its effect? This comes partly, through the teach- ing in our schools, of women, which is so deplored by our dense German friends and others. Galahad, as will be remembered, was in the care of Nuns (good, modestly dressed women) until his four- teenth year; his life later, in the world, did not undo their work, it only delayed the climax. The influence of the first seven years of human life is said to be the most lasting and that is usually passed under woman's care a good foundation for ultimate spiritual progress. 63 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile' Mothers teach their children morality in the home world ; and when these children get out into the world of 'men, or man's world, they find their mothers dis- franchised and discredited, and much of their work is in vain. Does not the unregenerate man need an object lesson on the dignity of womanhood, at present, which the ballot would give, and which would break the mes- meric spell under which all too many people, both men and women, have fallen as to woman's place, its extent and manifestation. Many will remember that the "Moseley Commission" which was sent over here for purposes of investigation, a few years ago, gravely announced as one of its findings, that our young men were lacking in virility and had be- come effeminate through the influence and teaching of women* in our schools, and otherwise; (a truly Hun- nish conclusion). And now when our boys are proving these findings of the Moseley Commission to be crimi- nally false, no inference is publicly drawn as to the op- posite good effect, which is surely evident enough. It is so fatally easy to make profound deductions from false premises (when no proof is demanded) to get credit and applause for them ; and later when they are proven untrue it is so very convenient to forget them. Really it is pitiful. It looks as if the children from now on would be left more to the care of women ; the men are being taken out of the way by forces now beyond their control, but which * All intelligent persons will agree that the "Dotheboys methods" used in schools for boys in the past, when women had no influence at all, were simply fiendish; could not have been worse, and were greatly in need of improvement. 64 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" they have set in motion through their injustice to and domination of women. Through the resultant change I think the future looks more hopeful. We certainly need a ray of light now and then to temper the gloom of present day conditions, when there seems to be little consistency of thought even among so called leaders. And now to return to our first proposition God is good and God is Love impersonal. It is the personal idea that has been our stumbling block; we must get away from it to the impersonal savior the Truth if we would be freed, saved from error. Instead of a manlike God, let us find the Godlike man and woman. Our awakened thought in regard to the vexed question which presents itself under the name of Woman's Rights, we can well understand as not being entirely a question of rights but of expediency; a war measure in our battle against universal slavery to the senses. Let all Israel of the Spirit come up out of worse than Egyptian bondage. Certain "philosophers" teach that the true marriage is based on sex; when sex is merely an incident, as any thoughtful person will admit. The attempt to base it otherwise would make it depend on and end at the death of the body, and is responsible for the present divorce situation, with all its evil consequences. It is expressed in Douglas Jerrold's epigram, "A man who has a wife at forty wishes he could change her for two twenties" presumably a man at sixty or at eighty draw your own parallel. From certain appearances one might think that it is not far from the hypnotic state indicated.* In this line the sisters are fighting a losing battle, even if car- ried on indefinitely. Scripture says there is no marry- ing in Heaven, and it does not specialize as to cere- * Appendix J. 65 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" monial, simply uses the word marriage. Read the whole statement given. Matthew XXII, 30 and Luke XX, 34-36. As our ideas seem to be colored largely, if uncon- sciously, by Scripture teaching, let us see if we can find out what it really does teach. Why may we not be con- tent with the account given in the first chapter of Genesis, which leaves things in very satisfactory shape ? Male and female created He them and told them to have dominion. According to this account God Spirit created everything; called it good (spiritual) and finished. That which is created by Spirit is spiritual ; and here we have a good, satisfactory starting point from the highest; why not rest content? All is fin- ished ; no evil has appeared, nothing to be forbidden. The next and contradictory account (second chapter) is unreasonable enough surely: man is "formed" from the dust of the ground, the lowest, most material; then a mist went up, etc. A deep sleep fell on Adam and he dreamed a dream a man's dream from which he has never awakened; the poets all tell us this. Words- worth's "Immortality" begins : "This life is but a sleep and a forgetting" ; one could quote indefinitely. In this sleep the "Lord" God is said to have formed from Adam a helpmeet for him ; but a helpmeet is one who helps, not one who hinders. Did God make a mistake, or is it possible that man did? Into this dream, evil enters and tempts these dust- formed creatures ; then Eve formed from Adam is said to be worse than Adam formed from dust. Is her origin more impure than his? Really, I suppose Eve told the truth when she said that impersonal evil (d'evil) was the tempter; it was, but Adam wanted 66 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" something more tangible to blame ; so to make his action appear more excusable, he said : "The woman whom Thou gavest me" (both God and the woman to blame) ; and so it has gone on, man blaming, woman forced meekly to accept, trying to help work out salvation for both, under severe handicap. Jesus referring to the Devil says : "When he speaketh a lie he speaketh of his own, for he is a liar and the father of it." (Also see page 64.) We might from this judge the devil to be masculine, and the lie neutral or impersonal. Then it follows that the tempter was the masculine quality and the successful result reacted on man in the human misconception of the divine ideal. Knowing that he has done wrong, and of course influenced and biased by that fact, did he add one wrong to another by evading the blame in attempting to right himself with God; a measure often resorted to. That two wrongs never make a right is the lesson which mankind must learn ; as it is true. If Adam was created first he was not brought forth from a human, material egg. Eve was taken from Adam's side, not from an ovum. Whatever idea may be put forth in a general way in regard to the origin of human beings will become a fact to mortals. Able naturalists say: "We have no right to assume that individuals have grown or been formed under circumstances which made material conditions essential to their maintenance and reproduc- tion, or important to their origin and first introduction." "It is very possible that many general statements now current, about birth and generation, will be changed with the progress of information." "Certain animals, beside 67 Taking ''Forth the Precious From the Vile' the ordinary process of generation, also increase their numbers naturally and constantly by self-division." The consensus of learned opinion now is that life begins in the egg. But the old question of what produced the egg will still present itself in the mind of the intelli- gent being. So-called mortal life must begin as it ends, in nothingness dust to dust. How can there be mortal (or dying) life; how can life die? It takes much credulity to believe that all the characteristics of man can be found in the simple elements forming an egg. We should consider these things. Sleep has dreams and illusions and Adam's sleep is like that of others. Study Genesis I if you wish to get a satisfactory starting point ; everything good, no evil at all, and consider that the second chapter is manifestly a contradiction of the first. It is an account of a mortal dream which has the ap- pearance of reality ; it is not good but is the contradiction of good. Hegel and other noted philosophers have long ago taken a logical stand that there must be and is ulti- mate good which knows no evil, or it would not be good ; how could it be? Use your logic. We can easily see that good only is creative and perpetuates itself evil destroys itself. A strange thought that the only thoroughly well known part of the Bible is this whole Adam story, temptation and fall. Eve formed from Adam's rib, and so, inferior. Thy desire shall be, and he shall rule. Increase and multiply (said to be the only command man has kept). Every one old enough to think seems some way able to grasp and believe this to the exclusion, often, of all the rest of the Bible. You will not find many men who do not know somewhat the story of Solomon's 600 female 68 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" slaves; of David's fall; of Lot; of Joseph; and of Pharaoh's daughter; many putting on them the lowest construction, learning nothing good. Even the Queen of Sheba could not escape these insinuations.* Why should this phase appeal to mortal man more than all the lovely ethical truths in the Bible? The Hebrew scripture contains such a marvelous ex- position of life. Its types, symbols, and experiences are so human ; part given for precept and part for warning. It almost makes one impatient to hear those who do not know attempt to belittle it. The facts which we have found hard to reconcile with reason are tremendous verities ; we may as well accept them as such, for they remain; it is for us to adjust our- selves to them or be the losers. They would not have been so persistently handed down to us for nothing. I am sure we are all glad to feel that we need not to discard the faith of our fathers; but may safely build on the foundations which they have laid. What I have said in regard to all this, I believe, strikes a responsive chord in every womanly heart. Only those who are still in fear, and feel that they must flatter and please men, or, from force of habit, say otherwise. If woman stops to reflect she will acknowledge that this is true, to her own surprise perhaps, so little has she been accustomed to think in this direction; for the sake of semi-peace, she has accepted what has been forced *Do you know why St. Simon Stylites remained on the pillar top (a few feet square) in the market place of Palermo? It was to prove to all that he was chaste. But even though he stayed there night and day for many years, drawing his food up in a basket, he still could not escape malicious insinuations, which are so trying to a pure-minded person. Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile' upon her by others, as her own thought. All doubt of this would be removed could she be brought to see that, through her enforced sacrifice, men themselves, and so the race, are being injured instead of benefited; as she had so vainly imagined, and accepted in the spirit of duty, necessity, and sacrifice. When will we cease to depend on the evidence of the senses? Suffering seems necessary to bring us to think of spiritual things. If we are passably well, the body and material things seem sufficient; we are satisfied. Tis only when suffering comes that we look for spiritual (the only) comfort. When we understand that the harmoni- ous, spiritual, immortal, undying, is the real and natural, and not the animal, suffering, inharmonious, mortal, dying physical which is unnatural and material the need for suffering may have passed and it will be no more. This understanding does not, for some reason, come without effort; we must struggle until certain principles are learned, after which as in the other lessons of life everything comes easily. As mortals "we fall to rise, are baffled to fight better." It is said that when one begins to realize the unreality of material things, and their lack of power to satisfy, then only do they begin to live. The road for a little way is apt to be dangerous, but if they are in the right path, they soon come out on solid ground and in a new country. El D'Orado. Often some noted person is quoted as saying with finality: "Life is only a preparation for death/' or "Death is as natural and inevitable as birth"; and this is applauded as wise wisdom. Now, we all ought to, and do know that death at least is unnatural ; and we try to evade it as long as possible by every means in our power. 70 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" Why death is the "wages of sin" (i. e., the result of mistakes). We put criminals to death as the extreme punishment. We should all be beyond applauding such unnatural and untrue statements. We become enthusiastic over the old and exploded idea that we must provide healthy bodies before we can have healthy minds, putting the cart before the horse; so it works poorly. or not at all. The human body is found to be eighty-five per cent water and fifteen per cent organic salts; the foods which sustain it, and all material things, are of the same elements in slightly differing proportions. What is there to be healthy, un- healthy, or indigestible? We all know, if we stop to think, that mind is the law giver; and if it is healthy it manifests in a healthy body, as everything is a manifesta- tion of mind. Also we know that when our earth was considered the center of the universe, there were many discrepancies which had to be overlooked or accounted for in some way ; but when the sun was reckoned as the center, all was seen to be harmonious, as it had been all the time; our mistaken belief did not in any way affect the reality, the Truth, in one case more than the other. As a drop of water is one with the ocean, having all the qualities of the ocean, and no other qualities ; as the ray of light is one with and has all the qualities of the sun ; as tones are one with music, having the same qualities ; as numbers are one with the principle of mathematics, useless each without the other, coming into existence at the same time, always individual but varied; so man is one with Good (God), Mind, Life, Truth, Love, having all the qualities of Good, of Mind, of Life, of Truth, of Love, and no other qualities. We have written figures, 7i Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile' numbers, and principle of mathematics, sound or tones, music, and its principle; body ego, and principle, God (good). Now erase the figures, silence the tones, return the body to dust, yet music, numbers, ego, still survive, each in constant relation to its principle. The ego is like the tone or number, perfect nothing can be added to it and nothing taken away without losing its relation to the principle, and then what is it but a mistake, a dis- cord? Nothing. You did not originate health, strength, or wealth, nor did I; we cannot therefore lose health, strength, or wealth, or any good thing (a calamity it would be if we could) ; they are not ours to lose any more than the fact that twice two equals four, is our personal property; we can use them all and all are inexhaustible because all are mental and not material. The stirring words : "Your Flag and my Flag" refer to the one Flag, the Flag of Our Country ; and moreover that Flag stands for an ideal of liberty and protection for each one of us ; not for a lot of little flags for individuals, which would be helpless alone ; yet each one has its meaning and value to each individual as a part of, or one with, the Union. Life is not an eating or a breathing process : life is a knowing process. CHAPTER III "So dear to heav'n is saintly chastity That when a soul is found sincerely so A thousand livened angels lackey her." TOLSTOI says, "All any pure young girl wants is children," and many, many women say in their hearts (though they hardly dare to think it, so long and patiently have they borne the yoke, either from the thought of stern duty or from force of example and seeming necessity), "Life would be a paradise were this left out, except where children are really desired." And so it would be. There is so much that is delightful in the relations of man and woman which is ruined by this thing. The pity of it ! We must see that it is not necessary now, when so many ways of thwarting nature are devised and used. The result is being practically done away with, and only the dissipation part is left. To read the advertise- ments promising relief ( !) from "consequences" in the personal columns of some papers, must open the eyes of thoughtful persons to what is going on. There is no permanent relief. The woman always suffers, desperately and frightfully, sooner or later ; and through her humanity suffers beyond computation, if mechanical means are used. Is it not time for us to open our eyes and ears to the truth, and act on our knowledge as to what is right for humanity? We must be content to "let the dead past bury its dead," without hard feeling. But, in the present time, can we see no other way, but that woman must be tortured, for she is that, with fear and dread alone even at the possibility, though she tries to throw it off? 73 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" A strange thing to read, in a story written by a noted author, with* all men characters. They are discussing characteristics, especially the fear of death, which in the case in point is spoken of as being from prenatal influence. One man is moved to remark: "Jove, I don't see how women stand it! To look forward nearly a whole year to death as the possible end of all they're hoping for or suffering for. I wonder we are not all marked." The American man is certainly getting a new viewpoint. Not only a year, but the better part of a woman's life is spent thus aside from the ordinary fear of death, which we all subconsciously must have, being apparently doomed to death as soon as we are born. Let us look at this squarely for once. What must be the natural result ? After the fall Adam's first statement is found to be, "I was afraid" ; but we know that "Perfect love casteth out fear." Lust and fear are companions; they must and will go out together before we can know perfect love, and the confidence which is its companion. Jesus said: Unless ye are converted and become as a little child ye cannot enter the kingdom of Heaven ; we know he could not have referred to little physical child bodies, also he said : "Suffer little children to come unto me, for of such is the kingdom of Heaven." What are these characteris- tics, then, which it is so important to possess? Not alone trust, faith, but scientific innocence which knows no wrong; purity without taint. Children know no sex; one little fellow, on being told that he had a sister, said, "Can't we put pants on it and have it for a boy ?" Another said hopefully of a little brother, "They think it is a boy now, but its hair has commenced to grow and I think it will turn out to be a girl." Children neither marry nor 74 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" (in Christian countries) are they given in marriage. In mother love, acknowledged to be the highest and purest love, there is never a question of sex; neither is there in sister love ; too often is it recorded of human father and brother love. We learn with horror why the lovely Beatrice Cenci is called the "fair parricide"; she was not the only victim of her kind, as even today's papers bear witness. Thirty per cent of assault cases in England are of this class. (That the laws of England exploiting women and children are so vicious and ill enforced is the sufficient reason for militancy in that country.) The English government has had to make a law in India for the Hindoos, that no man over forty may marry a child under eight. This means that men under forty can and do marry children under eight. They are brought to the missionary hospitals physical wrecks at two years of age isn't it ghastly and worse than beastly ? They marry children under twelve because "they cannot conceive" ; see Missionary Text Book for Class Study. A man of any age or condition, leprous or maimed, may marry any poor child, especially a little widow, if he has money. One is ashamed to narrate this, but it must be uncovered and stopped. It is terrible to face these facts ; then what must it mean to those who endure and indulge in the con- ditions something should be done about it. We know that the first thing to do is to uncover and bring it out from hiding and skulking, and then we have a better opportunity to scotch the snake. A physician of much experience reluctantly but freely acknowledges that nine-tenths or more of the children born are accidents, and not welcome at the time; and accounts for it in these words: "Women have been so 75 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile' imposed on in the past that they have grown to hate and despise the whole thing, and their daughters inherit from them." Statements like this and others heard from divorce courts, hospital patients, and matrons go to prove that all is not what it seems or as it should be. This is known to be true why try to deceive ourselves? Only by reasoning together frankly and facing truth squarely can we arrive at a correct solution. Can we see no way to ease "the burden which no one should ever have been asked to bear" and which is becoming too heavy to be endured ? Can they not ask for a little or much self control on the part of men, after all that has passed, without being thought unnatural, or to be shirking duty? One must rise to righteous indignation that it is necessary to ask the question to beg for mercy, as it were, at the hands of those sworn to love and protect. Save us from the love which manifests itself in torturing and injuring both parties. "A beast that wants discourse of reason" does better. "The pain and peril of childbirth" is not of modern origin by any means, but has been for all time, since the memory of man runneth not to the con- trary; there are records to prove this if any one doubts. Doubtless it will be hard, but may not man need to learn the meaning of the word sacrifice, as well as woman ? The attitude of the average man in this case appears much like A. Ward's willingness to "sacrifice his wife's rela- tions." It is so easy to sacrifice some one else. Some one has wrongly said: "This woman's flesh demands its natural pains." Be sure this is a man's idea. Woman's flesh does not demand anything of the kind more than man's. She gets her so-called natural pains (so, alas, does man), and it is not necessary for her happiness or " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" well being to add unnatural pains, as is done by the present method. An unusually sensible and lovely mother seemed to think the problem well solved when her son told her he was making every effort to keep from this until he was married. There was no thought of exhaustion for both, or what the wife might then undergo ; that part is taken for granted but is it right or fair why not teach that absolute self control is the highest state? [Read understandingly Tolstoi's "Kreutzer Sonata."] It has been said : "the caresses so dear to the heart of a woman have only one ending in the thought of man, and that apt to be disastrous." We so often hear it said in a slurring way that woman has no sense of humor, as if it were a lack, and her fault. What wonder, if it is purely masculine humor, and when she has imposed upon her, over and above the ills to which all flesh is heir, an added burden which in itself is enough too much for human nature to endure ! The responsibility is laid on her shoulders, to do or not to do. Either way, she has been blamed, and her conscience, if she has one, is on the rack most of the time. The nervous and mental strain is intense. This is hardly understood. The responsibility should be lifted from her shoulders and placed where it belongs. Of course, this involves a conscientious desire to do what is right on the part of both, and a willingness to make any reasonable sacrifice for the good of the world, and the benefit and delight which comes with health and healthy children. The immediate sacrifice is not one at all. A much higher pleasure will come in its place; only give it a chance. 77 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" I have in mind a case where the husband and wife were told that an addition to their family of children would mean certain blindness and probable death to the wife and mother (one of the salt of the earth). Though the husband was a minister, well along in years, the con- dition referred to came about, with result as predicted. Soon after, this old man, who was a college president as well, married one of the students ; another family, and a wife with nervous prostration was the outcome. Such a thing looks very much like brutality and murder of the most unnatural kind, with results as desired. So, some men kill the thing they are said to love. No wonder a noted writer calls marriage "legalized assault."* If a man, in rage or passion, or to get rid of someone, killed another human being, he would be imprisoned at least. A woman has no way of killing her husband which would be sanctioned by law; nor does she wish one. What can we say in favor of this passion, which is utterly regardless of consequences, so it may be gratified (not satisfied) to its own loss? What miserable, terrible selfishness is here] Can any good come from a thing so degrading? Can a thing so abhorrent in one phase be good in another? (We can any of us recall many cases similar to the one above cited, though with varying results.) The Equitable Life Assurance Company tells us that eighteen per cent more married women than single ones die between the ages of 20 and 29, while fifty- seven per cent more single men die between these ages than married men. Draw your own conclusions. The question is asked, "Is marriage a test of courage?" If it is, women have to show more courage than men when they marry. Is that one reason they have been kept in * See Appendix M, page 213. 78 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" ignorance? Records of the past would show a much greater proportion in favor of men. Not so long ago it was not uncommon for a man to have had and lost five or six wives. The man was not to blame, when celebrating his golden wedding with his fourth wife; oh no, the Lord afflicted him; so goes a story as told jocosely by a minister in my hearing; consecutive polyga- my, a la divorce,' seems more humane and advanced, doesn't it? A fountain sends not forth sweet waters and bitter. Why should anything which has good in it be so per- sistently and entirely hidden? The normal average person may see nature function in any other way than that; but that never. In the so-called brute creation the female fights, and can protect herself against anything which is not expected to be followed by results. 'Tis only the sensitive human being who is expected and trained to accept at all times and seasons, when results are not desired, on pain of being thought unnatural (a powerful lever a blow from the fist is not the only knockdown argument). True, there are among brutes those who are apparently content to wallow. I sometimes wonder if I am missing a point here; and then comes the vision of Phillips Brooks, of Plato, of St. Paul, Jesus, and others a long line of good men and women and I am content. Platonic love, St. Paul's position "Whoso looketh" are they not different ex- pressions of the same thought? Than these no other lives have been so instrumental for good. They embodied no ideas physically. I would not be understood to be- little this function. So far from it, that it seems to me necessary for the present. Had these great ones not 79 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile' been embodied, what must have been the result, as we see it ? All honor to the mothers who made them mani- fest, though we agree that mother and fatherhood is not wholly physical. Otherwise who would help to better conditions for the submerged children of misery? These children arise and call the name Addams, Young, Lathrop, Montessori, Willard, Washington, Plato, St. Paul, Jesus, and many others, blessed. The following quotations are pertinent: "The ideal woman is without desire." Milton, Tolstoi, and others (honest physicians) tell plainly of the immediate result: depression and disgust. Their statements are known to be correct, if thought is taken. Milton makes the angel say, in response to Adam's questioning : "... think the same Vouchsafed to cattle and each beast; which would not be To them made common and divulge if ought Therein enjoyed were worthy to subdue The soul of man, or passion in him move. What higher in her society thou find'st Attractive, human, rational, love still; In loving thou dost well, in passion not, Wherein true love consists not: Love refines The thought and heart enlarges; hath his seat In reason, and is judicious; is the scale by which To heavenly love thou mayst ascend, Not sunk in carnal pleasure; for which cause Among the beasts no mate for thee was found!' Attention is called to a series of books under the caption of "Life's Problems," "Sex Hygiene pamphlets issued by the Council on Health and Public Instruction of the American Medical Association." The thoughtful reader 80 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" finds that throughout these pages neither morality, char- acter, mentality nor spirituality are so much as mentioned. In reality we may suppose that sex has nothing to do with these higher and most important attributes. It is purely physical and animal and is so dealt with in these booklets, in an idealistic way, which is far from the practical norm at this time. As their price is low, one foresees their wide perusal and influence. Now the question is do we want our children and young people to be taught to look on this problem from a wholly material and animal standpoint. In the domesticated animal creation this impulse is con- trolled by their instincts and by their individual oivners. Humanity has no such safeguards against over indul- gence, and has proven so very untrustworthy in the past that higher laws must be invoked, not ignored; if we are ever to attain the right attitude toward future im- provement. In justice to the typical American husband, it must be said he begins to see this, to appreciate and to act. He is very nearly an archangel by comparison, but he hardly knows what to make of his own state of mind. He does not see yet that his will power was given him for the purpose of self control. You will notice how instinctively men bare the head in the presence of women. Tis out of respect for woman- hood, motherhood not for the individual. Contrast it with the scorn and hatred shown (by men even more than women) for the same womanhood "fallen and aban- doned." Is it just that we name and recognize it, but do nothing to change? Among thoughtful people it is conceded that few women go astray except as victims of misplaced confidence; and often in men old enough to 81 Taking '''Forth the Precious From the Vile" be their fathers, by whom their minds are perverted. These women are hated and persecuted, hunted by men, one might say, and are forever debarred the society of the so-called respectable. They do not dare to so much as lift their eyes to, nor do they expect to be recognized on the street by, the very men who have ruined them and are their equals and companions. Give the word ruin its true value, and we see at once what has happened : A woman, God's last, best gift to (hu) man (ity), is said to be "ruined." Can we by any sophistry justify ( !) such a catastrophe? Instinctly we feel what a desperate sin (mistake) they are committing, and the feeling mani- fests itself unconsciously. A well-known modern writer speaks of "the only sin a woman can commit." Mesphisto's sneering, cold-blooded reply (to the words of Faust, wrung from him as a groan when contemplat- ing Marguerite's situation), "She is not the first," reflects the careless attitude of the average mind in such a case. Faust's rejoiner, "Not the first! Woe! Woe! By no human soul is it conceivable that more than one human creature has sunk into a depth of wretchedness like this, or that the first in her writhing death agony should not have atoned in the sight of all-pardoning Heaven for the guilt of all the rest. The misery of this one pierces me to the very marrow and harrows up my soul; thou art grinning calmly over the doom of thousands !" por- trays the reality. "Art thou the man?" And should not the often unconscious or embarrassed grinning be changed to intense indignation? We say we are not right to feel and do as we do, but we continue so to do and feel. And their mistake is a fearful one and so it probably must be made prominent. But the man, physically at advantage 82 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" and protected by man-made conditions, should not be allowed to go scotfree as he generally does, and then it would not be such a joke to him. Some one has said : "For the man a moment of so-called pleasure, for the woman perhaps a lifetime of misery/' Woman is not forever going to be made a scapegoat. We do not realize that the same sin is being carried on all about us, supposed to sanctioned by law through a few words, and thus is thought to be made respectable, but in reality it is just as much of a sin as the other. When we realize this, we will feel as strongly against the one as the other, and our smug complacency will vanish. "Marriage is honorable in all and the bed unde- filed." This has been and is being realized by many as an ideal state, and it is not a condition to be sneered at, but to be respected as well, and more, than is absolute temper- ance in other ways, as an evidence of self control. The summary and awful punishment meted out to negro criminal assaulters (men) does it not show that we recognize this sin against motherhood as the crime against humanity? As long as the crime continues, the result probably will and should be what it is. Is not what has been called the "white man's sin" largely responsible ? The negro men, who rarely dare to lift their eyes to a white woman, are only retaliating in kind, though at a disadvantage. The shame of it all ! The logical conclusion would seem to be that it is through the violation of the receptive principle (woman- hood, motherhood, Holy Spirit), present or inherited, that we suffer physically, mentally, and spiritually as we do. Any violation of this kind must be disastrous. We know it is so physically and mentally, and we have the 83 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" Scripture statement that the sin against the Holy Ghost (the receptive principle) is unpardonable. The Holy Spirit has always been regarded in sacred teachings as that which makes us receptive to higher things, one definition of the trinity being: "Father" (God, the Giver), "Son" (Christ, the Gift), and "Holy Spirit" (the pure Receiver, or that which makes us pure enough to receive the gift). "A virgin" (an unmarried woman) is distinctively called pure. A pure virgin. What then is it that makes a change in this person at marriage is it association with man? Are his thoughts usually unnaturally and artificially trained to be impure, and does he insist upon certain "rights" until the woman is also perverted, as she does many times become to a certain extent? I ask for information not for controversy. We recognize that a virgin, young woman, seems attractive to the average man. Now, why should he wish to make her unvirgin? "So each man kills the thing he loves." We often hear it said, and know it to be true, that there are women who are very impure ; but I believe that were we to look into the history of each case we would find that her ruin had been accomplished at a very early age by a man much older than she, and then her thought dwelt upon it till it became perverted. She could never be the same again. She bears the marks on her person, even possibly in her circumstances as a mother. Mayor Gaynor said: "Wo- men are the victims of men; this will continue until the passions of men have been softened and lessened. These unfortunate women are what men have made them. Very few of them entered into such a life as a matter of choice. So long as the passions of men are so strong will women 84 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" be the victims of men." Reports from the Chicago Court of Domestic Relations and the Rockefeller inves- tigations agree with above. W. L. George and others please take notice. These returns cannot be evaded. We read in our papers almost daily, "Girl Missing," who might be your child or mine; think of the outcome; 68,000 is the record for A. D. 1919. To call an act which is subject to the fiendish abuse of which we have recently had object lessons of stupendous and super shocking import, to call such an act an expres- sion of romantic love (as is often done in stories) is a perversion of sense. It is an expression of lust and should be considered as such. Read Kauffman stories "Why the girl goes wrong/' Kauffman has studied this question at first hand and speaks with authority. The amazing fact is brought out that an "artist" (musician, painter or otherwise) is encouraged to believe that he can only do his best work after experiencing physical "passion." (illicit usually). The extreme opposite is the truth, as any thinking person must admit. If under such conditions they do express anything fine it must be in spite of, instead of because of, such experi- ence. Only a pure mind free from physical passion can rise to the highest expression of art ; the best authorities agree as to this. It is a shock to a person of normal mind to be made aware that the prehistoric "Cave Man" and his female (whatever they may have been) are often in modern parlance (novels, plays and movies) used as fitting ex- amples for action at this day. If such tactics seem effec- tive up to a certain point, with weak-minded people, the 85 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile' semi-final even, can only be disastrous, as is proven in real life. The average mind is nearly dazed before these revela- tions, and it seems almost as if they should not even be mentioned in decent society but they are set before us in daily papers and publications, and when we find that they are vitiating the very fabric of that society, and that the devil is only hoping that they will be ignored until he can anihilate existing society, we are convinced that it should be uncovered and destroyed with other anarchistic vipers and serpents ere it be everlastingly too late, and the history of Sodom be repeated in a world-wide situation which seems to be facing us unless met with drastic remedies. Few thinking people can escape this conclu- sion. CHAPTER IV MOST of the feeling evinced by women for men, either older or younger than themselves is it not really the natural, perfectly pure, filial or sister love, though it often receives a different name and is not considered' creditable? Often it is what George Eliot calls "the longing for living fellowship with the like-minded, which is so stimulating to the intellectual life." Women suffer from this more than men, she says, being more circumscribed in their opportunities. She wrote of a time that is fast passing away. Through wrong education and false standards, the attitude of the average man (and woman) in such cases must be ac- knowledged as of a different character ; and at the present stage of development it does not seem safe, but is like playing with fire: some one is very sure to be burned. Many women flatter or beguile men through affectation of ability and desire to fulfill certain conditions when they know, and men should know, that they can not and will not "deliver the goods." It must be said that men are easy victims of their own desires, not of the woman. The spectacle of a young woman being punished by a community of people for leading astray a number of married men, each old enough to be her father, is a case in point, which has been known to occur, and which should need no comment for fair-minded people. The men could not be reached, so the woman was made a scapegoat for their silly iniquity. To quote from Maeterlinck. "For my part, said a sage to me one day, I have never come across a woman who 87 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" did not bring me something great." He was great him- self first of all. (He had seeing eyes.) He then goes on: "For most men the soul must be banished from life, and every impulse that is too deep must be brushed aside ; and therefore it is that woman, who is so much nearer the truth, can scarcely ever live a moment with them." He might have added, except as she effaces herself for the sake of seeming peace (where there is no peace) . Oh, the awful double waste of precious force! This con- stant warfare in thought is manifested in present disturbed world conditions. Peace, of course, as is everything, is a manifestation of mind. Masonry, with its spiritual, symbolic teaching, was only for men. They needed it ; woman perhaps did not. The executive mind attends to these things, and the construc- tion we put on the reason for any process must be well, amusing to the infinite mind, if one can use such a word in this connection, and I see no reason for not doing so. Ask Leonardo why his "Mona Lisa"* smiles. " Plato calls the "Soul" and "Philosophy" "She," making them feminine attributes. His "Wise Woman" in the Symposium says, "Love is essentially love of birth and beauty." Some, she says, beget earthly children, but others are more creative in their souls. "He who in his youth has the seeds of temperance and justice implanted in him desires to implant them in others. Above all, when he finds a fair and noble and well nourished soul, he is full of speech about virtue and the nature and pursuits of a good man, and he tries to educate him, and they are married by a far closer tie and have closer friendship than those who beget mortal children, for the *Probably the world's greatest picture. 88 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" children who are their offspring are fairer and more im- mortal. ... In such deep fashion would Plato, the pagan (?) realize the maxim, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself." It is in the family that each has an opportunity to learn of the fatherhood and motherhood of God. While there are those who never had husband, wife, or child, all have fathers and mothers. None of us are left without a chance at knowledge of that most important relation- ship of all. God is Father-Mother, principle or divine wisdom guiding us. In Jeremiah 33 :i6, we read : "In those days shall Judah be saved, and Jerusalem shall dwell safely: and this is the name wherewith she shall be called, the Lord our right- eousness." "Wisdom is justified of her children." It is interesting to know that cells increase until the body is twenty-five years old, hold their own for a number of years, then grow senile and die, seemingly. But science tells us that they are superior cells and do not really die the life is still there. (See page 35, third paragraph.) Among the cells which make up our bodies we find some, as the brain cells, cease to propagate early in prenatal life, and only improve in quality thereafter. Some cells do not propagate at all, but their part is to help others. To preserve already existing life may be better than to reproduce it. "It would be prettier and more convenient to pick children from the trees," as Goethe expresses it. We find one of Goethe's characters saying : "Nay Heaven for fend, That ancient method begetting Is now from its high honor thrust. If brutes this way still sate their lust, 89 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" Man with his mighty gifts henceforth I wis, Must have a source more pure than this" This idea is vaguely foreshadowed in Euphorion, the offspring of Helena and Faust's mental communion in a garden. A query here and there in a daily paper shows that some have at least begun to wonder, why? Why not improvements in methods which are so in need of im- provement; as follows: "The household can make its own ice. Soon it can buy a little machine that will turn out butter from chemicals. Why cannot science give us satisfactory men and women without the trouble of growing them." We never say we produce life it is already existent and never dies that of course follows. "A preternaturally reanimated body would be a wonder- ful thing in the economy of nature." Many are encouraged in the attractive thought and they desire to see, in human children, the gift of God. The following illustrations may make a phase of the apparent situation clear : A man in search of a child to adopt went to a home finder's institution ; there he was closely ques- tioned as to his habits of life; when it was found that he occasionally drank whiskey, went to Sunday horse races, etc., he was not allowed to take the child because he was not considered fit to have charge of one. "H'mm !" he said, "you are more particular than the Almighty." If God sends any human child then he sends all ; and do we think God would send helpless children into places where they can have no chance for a good life ; when we would condemn ourselves and others, and be condemned for doing such a thing? Well, then, are God's ways worse 90 " They Shall Know Themselves Info One" than ours? No, God's ways are higher and better than our ways, not worse and lower. Do we apologize for Him. What would be thought of a person who would drown a little child; yet we give God credit for doing just that, when we call such a catastrophe a "dispensation of providence," and say "God's will be done," in regard to it. God's will is not done, and that is the cause of the disaster. And we who theoretically are supposed to have only one God, are crying "Good God, Good Devil!" In practice acknowledging two gods or powers, good and evil, proving ourselves true children of Adam and Eve, who in Paradise listened to the thought that there was a power apart from God, when God is one is Good is all. If mortal children are the gift of God how is it that they are killed off like flies in war, pestilence, earthquake, famine, avoidable accidents, murder, etc. Do we thus give them back to God or does He thus take them? Can anyone offer a reasonable explanation? "I know the thoughts which I think toward you saith the Lord, thoughts of good and not of evil, to give you an expected (a reasonable) end." A noted semi-religious writer takes space in his own well-known magazine to say: "God gives us children to finish for Him." One wonders then what God was think- ing of, and what He thinks of the result of "His" plan ; apparently He will have to try again, if this writer's idea is true. Fancy omnipotent God taking such devious, un- certain, and futile courses if you can; I cannot. I must say it sometimes seems as if men (and some women) wanted children as they want others things; because other people have them for entertainment and show ; to play providence to, and because of a vague hope of some 91 Taking "Forth the Precious From the File" way gaining "immortality" through them. They do not know how, nor do they ask what becomes of this sort of immortality when the children die, and have no issue, or the succeeding generations die out as they often do. If mothers have "plenty of healthy children" then fathers will be super-immortal. Is that the idea? The mothers do not usually figure in these calculations, I observe, except as mediums. This is reasoning on a very weak and low plane. It gives us no reason for the hope of im- mortality. Read Matthew XIX, 12. Isaiah LVI, 3-5 reads: "Neither let the eunuch say, Behold, I am a dry tree. For thus saith the Lord unto the eunuchs that keep my sabbaths, and choose the things that please me, and take hold of my covenant ; even unto them will I give in mine house and within my walls a place and name better than of sons and daughters : I will give them an everlasting name, that shall not be cut off." But the inspired o-ne has little claim on our attention when some of the wise men of the present day are speak- ing. Also we know that "There is a resemblance between the birth of a real book and the birth of a child. The book, like the child, has its inception, incubation, birth. The book is the "offspring of the intellect, vitalized by genius." "Mental children grow as physical children do and are named that they may be individualized." As to the pompous question asked in the movie film all over the world in big letters, "WHERE ARE MY CHIL- DREN," it might be pertinent to put into the mouths of tens of thousands of children, "Where are our fathers?" The answer would be in many cases, they have died or have deserted us and left us to starve, for all they or the 92 " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" man controlled municipality care. Race suicide indeed.* The movement to "give a husband to every mother and a name to her child" may have only the effect of loosing the bonds of morality, as can easily be seen. Who is to hold the man to his responsibility ? Jane Addams says: "At the present moment women in Europe are being told : "Bring children into the world for the benefit of the nation: for the strenthening of future battle lines; forget everything that you have been taught to hold dear; forget your long struggle to establish the responsibility of fatherhood.'' "All such consequences of war mitigate against the age long efforts of women to establish paternity of her child and the father's responsibility for it." The one thing on which we may base our hope for per- manence as a nation, is the great fact that our government does not stand for oppression or immorality in private or public life. The private life of all our Presidents, with a * Quite recently a young woman in one of our large cities whose husband had been taken in death, killed herself and her seven boy children rather than face the future in this civilized country; and no thoughtful person can blame her; she had been taught that she should have children, and love them, which she did, better than her own life, which doubtless held little beside her husband and these children for her. Then comes the climax; they are to be taken from her and scattered about as if she and they were animals or slaves; and she left to face the world alone with probably no training for anything but an existence of poorly paid drudgery. Let those whose daughters escape such a fate withhold their judgment. A partial remedy for this terrible situation is being applied in some states and cities at this late day, through the efforts of women, who are hampered by the lack of direct influence through the ballot, which they should have had long ago. 93 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile' few exceptions, has been above excuse for reproach ; and public opinion in this country is loudly expressed for de- cency and justice. This means much as a necessary ex- ample and object lesson for the children; and to our people generally.* * See Appendix C, page 201. CHAPTER V THE late Professor Fiske capped Mr. Darwin's climax by claiming to state, with authority and originality, that the evolution of the animal body was complete in the human body as we see it now. Its manifestation, alas ! seems lacking, and the wail from a modern writer that the hands of the Potter are not steady, that in the moulding of human forms the thought seems to be "not how good, but how many," seems justi- fiable. But here, again, may we not be shifting the blame from ourselves (the old story, the Adam within), when it really belongs to us? We may be jarring the hands of the Potter. If we are tending toward unity one-ness and are to be at all logical, should not our motto really be, "Not how many, but how good?" We know it to be best in the end, in material things, and "as above, so below." Our interest in the education of the masses is great and we are sure it is the thing needed; then if educa- tion educates why do we not accept its conclusions ex- pressed in action, in one direction as well as in another. I think it is perfectly fair to say that those most highly educated are the ones who yield to this least and who have the fewest children (are said to scarcely reproduce themselves). Are they incompetent to judge for them- selves? Such a position is surely far from logical. Ideas in regard to the size of families are changing (and probably rightly so) ; to quote from a modern writer: "Two or three children are a necessary part of every good woman's education"; when not so long ago 95 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" a dozen or more were not considered too many. The world moves. We are apt to think, with Matthew Arnold's British Philistine, "That it is only necessary to present ourselves before the Great White Throne with our twelve children, our big family (anything big is so impressive), to be received among the sheep as a matter of right." Where have we gotten this idea? From the Jews, I suspect, who wished large families, because among their children might be the expected Messiah. But if we read their history we find that it was the child of promise long deferred, often the only offspring, who was most useful. Isaac, in whose seed all the nations were to be blessed, was an only child, born after long years of preparation. Sarah, his mother, a beautiful talented woman whose council was highly valued. Isaac's only children were twins Jacob (the father of all Israel) and Esau and Isaac's wife, Rebecca, was of a lovely character. Joseph, the child of Rachel ("whom Jacob loved"), was born late in her life, and she had but one other child. Jacob's affection for Joseph was the cause of jealousy among his brothers; and we know from his Egyptian experiences what a remarkable person he was. Sampson, also was a child of promise. Samuel, who judged Israel forty years, and of whom the people pro- claimed that he had never wronged any one, was an only child, born after years of prayer and supplication on the part of Hannah, his mother, who was herself a remarkable woman, and whose husband appreciated and loved her greatly, asking her, "Am I not more to thee than ten sons?" The child of the Shunamite woman (than whom no stronger character is portrayed in the " They Shall Know Themselves Into One" Bible) was the only one and long delayed. What strength and decision was hers, and with what spiritual insight she recognized the Prophet in Elisha, and ministered to him with all faith, receiving help from him in return. John the Baptist, a child of promise, was an only child, and his parents were well along in years when he was born. By the Roman Catholics, Jesus himself is said to be Mary's only chi.ld; though I suppose, really, no one knows. Some one is said to have replied to Tolstoi's final: "If your idea was carried out, there would be no children/' He answered, "Well, what of that ?" Jesus had no family and he said, "Call no man your father on earth." This is worthy of consideration at least. As physical children (results), "multiplying sorrow and conception," pronounced as a curse (not a blessing if we are to regard Bible teaching) are not spoken of until after the fall, must we not infer that the so-called creative act did not occur before, when man (generic) was pure and happy? There were then no children (undeveloped ideas) in Paradise. "When lust has con- ceived it bringeth forth sin, and sin when it is finished bringeth forth death." Surely it appears that every physi- cal child born must die ; doomed to a more or less lingering death from (because of) physical birth. Its first result (the child Cain) developed into a fratricide, a murderer. What can be plainer than that he was a child of lust, and lust must be eradicated, so that there is no chance for a child to be born of it? Because the child of lust is sin (a mistake) and bringeth forth death. Some such thing must be what David meant when he said "conceived in sin and born in iniquity." 97 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" Jesus' expression, "Generation of vipers," conveyed a powerful rebuke. It is well known that the human embryo first appears as a serpent, later taking the form and characteristic features of fish, bird, and beast in suc- cession and shedding a coat of coarse hair ere reaching the stage of human, before birth. (See encyclopedia). In most oriental countries the bearing of children is in- consistently considered a disgrace and is to be avoided if possible. In the Jewish and Roman Catholic churches women are required to be purified after childbirth ; it was even required of the mother of Jesus. There is a special service in the Episcopal Church for such purpose. We know that in many countries children, especially girls, are killed off regardlessly and death is honorably courted under certain circumstances, in many cases by suicide. At the present the number of suicides is appalling and we seem dulled to it. Job was said to be justified when he cursed the day of his (mortal) birth. Many are likely to agree, in the statement often made, that man is a creator, but let us look at it more closely: if man creates man, then does it not follow that dog creates dog, and bug creates bug, and so on; and does not that give us many creators, when the Bible says we have only one. And if we judge by distinctive appear- ances must we not say man is a miscreator? "Man that is born of a woman is of few days and full of trouble." In the Bible we are told that "whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin for his seed remaineth in him : and he cannot sin, because he is born of God." His seed remaineth in him to regenerate himself. Whose seed remaineth in him surely does not mean that the seed goes 98 "They Shall Know Themselves Into One 1 ' outside and creates independently, but that it remaineth and regenerates himself. Truly when we have reached a position where we say that disease germs and microbes are causative, are causing this or that incurable condition, we give them a power greater than we give to God, the one Creator; and we have probably reached the limit in bowing before false gods (or idols) in having "gods many," creators many. It is certainly time for a right about face. Why may we not be satisfied with the idea of "God's family"? All sorts of trouble come from that little word My. "My hand and the strength of my arm have gotten me these things/' Where in the life of Jesus, which we profess to follow, do we get a model for a human family? He had no human father, and He said, "Call no man your father on earth, for one is your father in Heaven." Though a middle aged man, in His country, He never took upon Himself the responsibility of a family; He never to our knowledge, called Mary mother. When told : "Your mother and brethren are without," He said : "Who are my mother and brethren, even those who do the will of my Father." St. John said, "God is able of these stones to raise up children unto Abraham." And again Jesus said: "They who are counted worthy to attain (the resurrection) neither marry nor are given in marriage but are as the angels." Each one must draw his own conclusions. We are none of us responsible for these facts, but are we not responsible if we say we are fol- lowers of Jesus, and then do not at all as he did ? It is surely known ere this that I do not write of that which is merely pleasant and probable, and apparently desirable, but of abstract right and wrong. I can scarcely 99 Taking "Forth the Precious From the Vile" credit my own conclusions. If the premises that "analogy is the key to all the the secrets of nature and the sole reason for being of all manifestation," taught by the Masons for thousands of years, are not accepted, it only proves people, whether right or wrong, not to be on the same plane of thought; and some may have to wait for another time. I am struck with the fact that the "secrets" of Masonry, as of nature and life, though they were proclaimed from the house-tops, would still be "secrets" except to the mentally initiated. A strange provision, but we must suppose a wise one, that strong meat be not given to babes. I have not given this thought : it has been forced upon me by the observation of ordinary, everyday conditions. It should be understood that I appreciate man, but I also appreciate woman, and wish to see her do her best for the race, not to be forever thwarted. This attitude takes no little courage, for one may expect through it to be misunderstood by most, and that is no pleasant or easy state. I have endeavored to eliminate "Thou" and "I," man woman, thy experience, my experience (Per- sonality), and get down to humanity. I consider it sheer sophistry (which is apt to be indulged in) to say a thing may be right for one and not for another, because the senses say so. There must be a standard, a mathematical foundation, a truth. Do not the senses deceive? Try to solve a mathematical problem with them and see where they lead you. The senses perceive a statement that twice two equals five : how quickly the mind corrects such an impression ! And we see that to get the right thought is of the greatest value. 100 "They Shall Know Themsehes'JntaVM'-: |\j There is no doubt that the proper position in regard to procreation (if the proper position is what we are really after and not a position that will not interfere with the fancied privilege and pleasure o'65-12M LD 21A-60m-3,'65 (F2336slO)476B General Library University of California Berkeley