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L A D Y *
RELIGION.
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Lady'
RELIGION.
I N T W O
LETTERS
To the Honourable
Lady HOWARD.
The THIRD EDITION,
By a Divine of the CHURCH of England.
To which ii added,
A Letter to a LADY on the DEATH
of her H u s B A N D,
By tfa Editor.
LONDON,
Printed for W. OWEN at Homer's Head
near Temple-Bar.
MDCCXLV1IL
THE
EDITOR
T O T H E
READER.
following excellent Treat iff
of Religion^ is become extremely
fcarce, and it is impoffible by any
Means to meet with any Number of
them j / thought it would be of Ad-
vantage therefore to Chriftianity, and
to the Publick, to caufe it to be re-
printed.
We are told^ in the Preface to the
loft Edition, that it is tranjlated into
Several modern Languages \ and that
the following particular critical Ob~
fer nation on it, annex' d to the French
^ranjlation^ was prefix' d to that E-
dition, in Hopes (to life the Publificr's
Expreffion) that the impartial Judg-
ment of fo able a Critick, may delight
a the
2007935
ii The PREFACE
the Reader and recommend the Book.
It is a Letter of Remarks, written,
as it is univerfally believ'd, by the
great Monf. Le Clerc, well known in
the learned World, for his extraordi-
nary Skill in Criticifm ; and if we ap-
ply what he fays of the Divines in
Holland, to the Divines and Writings
cf our own Time and Country, it will
make his Obfervations appear more
jufl and ufeful.
Indeed I believe and it-i* almoft
the only good 'Thing to be faid for the
prefent Times , that there is a great-
er Spirit of Moderation, and Chriflian
Charity in the World, than prevailed
in the Times when this Book was pub-
lift d. But we Jlill find a prodigious
Jncreafe of Treatifes, ElTays, Demon-
ftrations, Remarks, and Controver-
iies, in Religion, which Religion itfelf
has nothing at all to do with ; and
which tho* they may Jheiv the great
Reading, and Learning, yet fildom
Jhew
to the E D i T o R. iii
ffsew the Spirit of Chriftianity in the
Writers of them *.
When Ifrfl red the following
ters, is was at the Requefl of a Lady,
whom 1 knew indeed to have good
Senfe, and to be a Reader of Books,
without confining herfelfto Plays, and
Romances, on the one Hand, or Books
of Devotion and Serioufnefs on the
other ; the? in the Affair of Religion,
I apprehended that the Nelfon's, Wil-
Ibn's, Law's, and juch like, had been
moft her Tafle.
When I heard the Title of the Book,
A Lady's Religion, &c, I expected to
find in if, Formularies of Devotion,
Prayers for particular Days, Direc-
tions for Clofet Exercifes, Confeffions of
a Lift of Sins, and Receipts for Saint-
fttip, but to my great Difappointment,
I found, inftead of thefe t a moft
rational Trcafife j telling her Lady-
* See the Books of Mr. iy-~bn and his
Frie nd s
a 2 Jbip\
itr The PREFACE
hipt 'what in Religion was truly GooJ y
and what accidentally fo j 'what foe
cught not to be fatisffd without, and
what Jhe might innocently not concern
her je If with ; in a Word^ what would
carry her to Heaven Jafely, and what
anfioer'd no other Purpofe^ than either
to. furmjh Matter of Di/pute for
wrong-headed quarreljome Divines,
or to dijlinguijh Religious Seffv, or to
employ the idle Hours of Devotees.
Author's Notion of the Sacra-
ment, I found to be 'the fame t as in
a late famous 'Treatife of the Bifoop
cfW -- r's, and what he fays of
Preparation for it, almoft in the fame
I7ords* j and yet this Rook was origi-
nally publijh'd in the Tear 1697, as
well as a fccond 'Time in 1704. How
unjuft therefore was the Conjeture t
that this was an entire new Notion of
* A plain Account of the Nature and End
of the Sacrament of the Lord's Supper. 1735.
that
to the E D i T o R. v
that Prelates own, and 'which the
World was obliged for, only to his
Lordftip !
The great Demand which has been
made for the following Letters, will
juftify this Edition ; and the Obferva-
tions contained in the Preface of that
learned and judicious foreigner, will
make any other Reflexions upon the
Books unneceffary.
1 ivijh I could fay as much for the
Letter I have added \ as I can for the
other two, it was wrote feme Tears
ago, and fent privately to a Lady,
to whom I was a Stranger, but whofe
Grief on the Death of her Hufband,
was inconfolable to a Degree almofl
incredible j and it is now publijh'd
from the fame Motive, the Hopes of
being ufeful to others infuch Affliction,
F. W.
THE
i
THE
PREFACE
T O T H E
French Tranflation.
do not not know whe-
ther this fmall Trea-
tife, will meet in the World, with
more Criticks, or Admirers j but
whatfoever happens, as I have told
you already, fo I tell you again,
that in my Judgment it is an excel-
lent Book ; mould any one convince
me of the contrary, I fball readily
renounce the Opinion I have of it.
But as I am as yet perfwaded, that
this fmall Treatife contains nothing
but what is every Way conformable
to Reafon, and the Doctrine whicK
yefus Chrift came to preach upon
the Earth ; fo I am ready to declare
as much to any one who fhall afk
my Opinion herein. I am always
us'd
the FRENCH Trwijlation. vii
us'd to do fo in what relates to any
important Truth j being of Opinion,
that a Man cannot be filent on fuch '
an Occafion without betraying his
Confcience.
If I am not miftaken, the De-
lign of our Author was to make ap-
pear, that the Chriftian Religion
ought to be levell'd and accommoda-
ted to the Reach of the meaneft Ca-
pacity ; and that by Confequence it
ought not to be confounded with
thofe fubtle and abftrufe Queftions
with which Divines make fo great
a Noife, and upon which they have
wrangled for fo many Ages : This,
I fay, is the Defign which the Au-
thor of this Work propos'd to him-
felf ; and in which, it feems to me,
he has very happily fucceeded, in
giving us a true and faithful Defcrip-
tion of Religion, fuch as Jefus Chrtfl
taught Mankind ; full of Wifdom,
eafy to be explain'd, and every Way
adapted to the Capacity of the Illi-
terate
viii ttf P R E FACE to
terate, of Women, and of the mean-
eft Sort of People, that is to fay, of
the greateft Part of Mankind.
Suppofing then that Religion is
for the Ufe of the Vulgar and Un-
learned, which no one, I believe,
will be fo bold as to deny, I do not
fee what can reafonably be obje&ed
againft the Defign of our Author, or
his Manner of Performance ; the
Defcription he gives us of Religion
reprefents it to be of eafy Examina-
tion, and extremely clear and plain.
Now, is it not requifite that it fhould
have thefe Qualifications to be with-
in the Reach of the greatefl Part of
Men t who being neceflarily obliged,
as our Author obferves, to provide
for their own and the Neceffities of
their Families, and to perform the
common Duties of Life, cannot ap-
ply themfelves to the Examination
of a Religion, that mould be hard to
be underftood, or requiring a long
Examination.
Shall
the FRENCH Yranjlathn. ix
Shall we object, that our Author
has forgot feveral famous Controver-
fies in Divinity ? But if the Controver-
fies make any Part of Religion, we
mull then retradl what we but now
fuppofed, viz, that the Chr.ijllan Re-
ligion ought to be for the Ufe of
the Simple, and Illiterate, as well as
for the Learned. We muft then
fay, that Religion was given to Men
only to exercife their Wit, or to im-
prove their Talents in difputing with
one another ; whereas, if we may
believe St. Paul, God revealed it to
us to teach us to put away our evil
Habits, and to live foberly^ righteoujly,
find godly in tbisprefent World.
I fee plainly, that to judge of Reli-
gion by the Idea which the Apoftk
gives us thereof in that Place, it is
admirably calculated for the Ufe of
all thofe Perfons who are incapable of
a long Application of Mind, and who
have neither Penetration nor Leifure
enough to give up themfelves to the
Study
x We PREFACE to
Study of curious and fubtle Inquiries,
not eafily to be refolved.
But I cannot comprehend how the
fame Judgment can be made of the
Controveriies which have feign'd a-
mong Divines for fo long a Time ;
they are fo very abftrufe, that even
among thofe who make it their Stu-
dy to explain them to others, there
are but few who perfectly compre-
hend what they turn upon. Yet it
is not fufficient to know well the
knotty Part of the Queftion, unlefs
we can give the true Solution of it.
But cananyThing be more difficult,
than pofitively and abfolutely to de-
termine a Matter among fo great a
Number of different Opinions ? No
fooner hath a Divine pafs'd his Judg-
ment upon one of thefe Controver-
fies, but he is immediately oppos'd
by other Divines, who give quite an-
other Determination : Upon which
others arife, who make up a third
Party follow'd by a fourth, which
being
Tranflation. xi
being contrary to all three, is again
attack' d by frefh Combatants. Now
if Religion mould confift of fuch
Controverfies as thefe, what will be-
come of the poor illiterate Laity,
who are not able to underftand even
the very Words or Terms made
ufe of in thefe Difputes ? Muft poor
Country People adhere to their Cu-
rate's or Minifter's Determination
blindly, and without comprehending
it?
But fuppofmg that we could un-
derftand ou* Divines Determinations
(of which Expedience fhews us the
contrary) is That fufficient to give
us a Right to approve of them ? No
certainly ; for we muft alfo under-
ftand the Reafons of their Adverfa-
ries : And then having compared
the Strength of their Arguments
with that of our Divines, we are to
embrace and adhere only to that O-
pinion .which fhall appear moil a-
greeable to Reafon. People may
cavil
xii We PREFACE to
cavil as much as they pleafe, but
after all, this is a Matter, which, ac-
cording to the Law of Juftice and
Equity cannot be difpenc'd with.
You, and I, know very well fuch and
fuch a Minifter, who preaches every
Day againft certain Hereticks, hath
never feen fo much as the Covers
of their Books, nor knows their Ti-
tles; Pray tell me, how can we in
good Confcience determine ourfelves
upon what fuch Divines mall lay to
the Charge of their pretended Here-
ticks ? Should we approve of a Ma-
hometan who would believe all that
a Faquir^ who had never red the Gof-
pel, mould deliver in a Mofque againft
the Cbriftian Religion ? The Cafe is
exactly parallel.
You will, perhaps, reply, That a
Preacher of Controverfy doesnot only
eftablifh his own Opinion, but at the
fame Time he confutes that of his
Adverfaries ; and though he has not
red their Books, yet he has feen PaA
fages
the FRENCH Tranjlation. xiit'
jfages taken from them in the Books
of fome learned Profeflbr of his own
Party. But, Sir, who will afTure you,
that this Preacher or Profeflbr has
given a true and impartial Account
of the Opinions which they refute ?
How will you know that they do
not difguife or fupprefs fome of the '
beft, and ftrongeft of their Adverfa-
ry's Arguments ? We fee daily, that
a Story, in which nobody has any
Intereft, is chang'd and falfify'd as
it paffes through different Mouths.
With how much greater Reafon
ought we to fear and fufpecl, that a
Man who undertakes to refute ano-
ther in the Prefence of a numerous
Affembly, will either willingly or
otherwife, weaken, as much as pof-
fible, his Adverfary's Reafons, the
more eafily to deftroy them, and
thereby to fecure to himfelf the Ho-
nour of a Triumph ? Therefore it
would be an A6t of great Temerity
to condemn thofe whom the Chiefs
b of
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xiv tte PREFACE to
of any Party are pleas'd to ftile He-
reticks y without reading them.
Betides, tho' our Divines and
Preachers mould have given us a
faithful Account of their Arguments,
we cannot condemn them upon fuch
a Report, without being guilty of
the greateft Partiality j for a Judge
that mould condemn a Man upon
the bare Report of his Adverfary y
without ever hearing what he could
fay in his own Defence, is an unjuft
Judge, tho' in reality his Sentence
be according to Juftice. An Heathen
Poet hath long fince told us that,
%ui Jlatult aliquid, parte inauditd
JEquum licet ftatuerit> baud aquus
fuerit*
If the Heathens have known, by
the fole Light of Nature, that no
body ought to be condemned, with-
out having been heard, how can we
difpenfe
the FRENCH Tr (inflation, xv
dii'penfe with ourfelves for not ob-
ferving that Rule, which Jefus Chrift
liimfdf hath taught us in thefe ex-
prefs Terms, Judge not that ye be not
judged ?
It may poffibly be reply'd by fome
good Perlbns, that Precautions arc
by no means fo necefTary in the
Church^ as in the Civil State, becaufe
Divines have fiich tender Confci-
ences, as not to difguife or weaken
the Strength and Senfe of their Ad-
verfary's Reafons. But, alas! they
know little of the World who talk
after this Manner. We need but
hear the Divines themfelves in order
to be convinc'd, that it is not fafe at
all to depend upon their Fidelity.
For without running back into
the Hiftory of the firft Ages, when
ths Bifhops, true Court- Weather-
Cocks, turn'd about with every lit-
tle Wind, to conform themfelves to
the Pleafure of the Prince; I fay,
b 2 with-
v xvi -Me PREFACE to
without running back fo far, do we
jnot every Day hear the Divines com-
plaining of their Adverfary's Unfaith-
ftilnefs, reproaching one another for
being made to fpeak againft the^
own Minds, for horrible Opinions,
for odious and deteftable Confequen-
ces imputed to them, fuch as they
never once dreamt of ? Nor are thefe
Reproaches to be found only among
Divines of different Communions - f
but even they of the fame Party,
whenever divided about the Expli-
cation of fome particular Text or
Doctrine, do the fame Thing. One
may fee them in fuch a Cafe, falling
upon one another with greater Rage
and Fury, than if they were writing
againft the profeffed Enemies of their
Society. We hear of nothing but
falfe Imputations, imperfect Quo-
tations, and malignant Reflections.
And if we believe the reciprocal
Complaints of each Party, we mall
find Reafon to conclude, that
One's
Tranjlation. xvii
One 's in the Right, and
T'other is not Wrong.
Furthermore, Divines who meet
together to examine thofe fcandalous
Quarrels of their Brethren, and put
an End to the Difpute by a defini-
tive Decree or Sentence ; Divines, I
fay, fo affembled, Wreft and Difguile
the Sentiments of one of the Parties,
and make them fpeak another Senfe
than what was really theirs. The
late Difference, between Monfieur
Saurin and Monfieur Jitrieu, will
here prefent itfelf to my Memory
whether I will or no. I leave it to
you to make the Application. One
needs only to read the Prefaces of
thefe two famous Antagonists, to be
fully convinc'd, that he would do
himfelf an Injury to place a blind and
implicit Dependance on the Truth
and Fidelity of Divines, whether
apart or in Convocation, and this ac-
cording to their own Confeffion.
The
*\viii' ?be PREFACE to
The Conclufion from what has
been faid, is- this, that Religion does
not confift in thofe fubtle and ab-
ftrufe Queftions, about which Di-
vines have been divided in their O-
pinions, for ib many Ages; fmcethe
Common People do not underftand
them, and are in an abfolute Incapa-
city ever to do fo; for does not
Jefus Cbrift exprefly jdeclare, that
he came to preach the Gofpel to the
Poor ? from whence it necerTarily
follows, that his Doctrine ought to
be proportionate to their Capacities :
And fuch it is in Effect, as any one
may fee plainly, by reading over the
Gofpel-, as the Author of this Book
hath in few Words clearly made
out.
We may conclude alfo from hence,
that we ought to take care, that we
make not ourfelves a Party with
Divines, by Jiding in their paffionate
Contejis, fince it is not in our Power
perfectly to know the Differences be-
tween
the FRENCH Tranjlation. xix
tween them: There being no Dan-
ger in a Man's forbearing to give his
Judgment upon thefe Matters, which
he does not underftand ; but we
cannot lawfully condemn both the
Opinions of a Man, and the Man
himfelf, (for in true Divinity thefe
two go all together) without juft and
cogent Reafons moving us fo to do.
This is vifibly expofing ourfelves to
the fame Punimments, which we
judge to be due to them whom we
condemn fo rafhly ; that is, if we
damn a Man for holding fuch or
fuch Opinion, which we ourfelves,
by our own Study and Diligence,
could not be throughly acquainted
with, have we not Reafon to fear
leaft we alfo mould incur the fame
Damnation, for paffing fo rafli and
hafty a Judgment ? The Declaration
which JESUS CHRIST hath made us
in this Cafe cannot be more exprefs
than it is j Judge, not, (faith that Di-
vine Preacher) that you be not judged,
for WITH WHAT Judgment
you
xx The PREFACE to
you Judge, you Jhall be judged. And
WITH WHAT: Meafure you
mete, it /hall be meted to you again.
Mat. vii. j, 2.
To be able to pronounce deci-
fively upon the Difputes of Divines,
one muft plunge himfelf over-head
in reading a great many large Vo-
lumes, full of barbarous and unintel-
ligible Terms, and alfo of intricate
and endlefs Queftions. But our Pro-
feffion does not allow us to play
away our Time : Let us not then
concern ourfelves in judging of fuch
Controverfies, but rather leave to the
Dwines, the forry Comfort of difpu-
ting eternally and bitterly againfl
thofe who contradict then*. I am
in doubt whether they will fave them-
felves by thofe Means j but this I am
fure of, that we mould run the Rifk
of loofing ourfelves, if we mould
fecond them in their paffionate Con-
tefts ; not knowing why, or for
what Caufe we do fo. It is fuffici-
ent
the FRENCH T^ranjlation. xxi
ent to fatisfy ourfelves with the
Knowledge of God's Will, as it is
clearly revealed to us in the Goipel.
Let us endeavour all we can to put
it in Pradice : Let us love one
another, and do unto others as we
would they mould do unto us : Let
us live without envying, being con-
tented with that State of Life which
God has been pleas'd to call us to ;
and let us labour in earnefl to correct
in ourfelves what we find amifs, and
to make continual Improvements in
Virtue ; and by this Means, when
this Life is ended, to fecure to our
felves the Poffeflion of an eternal
Happinefs. This is properly our
Bufmefs ; and it is no fmall Work
if we acquit our felves therein as we
ought to do.
Having thus freely given you my
Thoughts concerning Divines and
their Difputes, I perceive that I have
fpoken in too general a Manner*
We mufl give every one his Due.
xxii tte PREFACE to
It is not true that all Divines are e-
qually infatuated with Theological
Controverlies. There are fome who
fay with St. yames, that Pure Reli-
gion and undefiled before God, is to
^ifit the Father Icfs and the Widows,
and to keep himfelf unfpotted jrom the
World. Such is the Author of the
Lady's Religion ; for he is a Divine
of the Church of England: You
know it no otherwife than by the
Title, which often times is Deceit-
ful : But I was inform'd fo by a
learned Englijh Gentleman, who
writ to me from London ; and af-
fured me of it as of a known and
unqueftionable Truth.
Give me leave to add one Word
more upon the Occasion of writing
this Book. You muft know that
the Author being confulted by the
Lady Howard, upon the Manner of
preparing ones felf for the Holy Com-
munion, took Occafion from thence
to draw this excellent Portrai&ure
of
the FRENCH T^ranjlation. xxiii
of the Chriftian Religion, to the End
that he might mew, what are the
Duties which its Profeffion obliges
us to, at all Times j both before, at,
and after our preparing for that Ho-
ly Ceremony. Do you not admire
this Anfwer ? for my Part I am of
Opinion, that our Author could not
have given a more excellent Proof of
his folid Judgement, and the Know-
ledge he hath of the true Nature
and Genius of Religion. The moffc
Part of Men reduce Religion to
fome particular Acts of Devotion,
practis'd at certain fet Times ; but
they are grofly Miftaken : Religion
does not confift in certain Formali-
ties, depending on certain Times
and Places, but in a conftant Habit
of Watching over our Conduct, of
conquering our Paffions, and ftu-
dying incefTantly to grow more and
more Virtuous. This is what your
Author has happily made good, and
wherein he has given us fuch ex-
cellent Directions, which, if ferioufly
apply 'd
xxiv The PREFACED.
apply'd to and practis'd, will be of
great Ufe and Service in the Refor-
mation of Manners. This, in my
Judgement, is one of the beft Per-
formances in his Treatife
( I )
A
LAD Y's
RELIGION.
MADAM,
SINCE God has been pleas'd to
incline your Heart to an early
and ferious Enquiry after Religion,
fo that you are fincerely defirous to
know the Will of God, in order to
do it, I heartily wim you had laid
your Commands upon one more
able to afiift you than I am j who,
being bred up in an Age of Spe-
culation and Controverfy, have ad-
didled myfelf to the Study of Di-
vinity, more perhaps than to the
Practice of Religion ; and have
been (I pray God forgive me) more
defirous to furnim my Head with
Notions, than my Heart with good
A Inclinations.
2 A Lady s Religion.
Inclinations. I thought my felf, by
my ProfefTion, chiefly engag'd in
a Study, how to defend the Church,
by Law eftablifh'd, againft all Dif-
fenters, rather than to promote the
common Caufe of ferious Piety ; and
whilft by the ftrange unaccountable
Genius of this Age, I have been led
afideto mix the Study of Politics
with that of Religion, I have been
bufily affifting the Office of a Mi-
nifter of State, rather than doing the
good Work of a Minifter ofjefus
Now altho' it has pleas'd God to
make me in fome meafure fenfible
of thofe By-paths, in which I have
fometimes walk'd, to the hinderance
of that Duty unto which I ought
intirely to have devoted myfelf ; yet
I am apt to fear left thofe Prejudices
and undue Prepofleffions of Mind
may ftill remain within me, by
which I mail be prevented from giv-
ing your Lady fhip fuch an Idea of
Religion,
A Lady's Religion. 3
Religion, as is fhort, plain, and pure>
free from fuperftitious Appendages,
and feparate from every By-intereft.
But, witheut doubt, fuch as this is
the true Spirit of the Chriftian Reli-
gion ; every Line whereof directly
tends to make us eafy within our
felves, kind and comfortable to one
another here, and happy with God
hereafter.
That our holy Religion is a wife
Inftitution, will be evident to any
one who confiders that God is its
Author, whofe Wifdom appears in
all his Works: Thus the Frame of
vifible Nature being agreeably fet to-
gether, and having each Part of it
fuited to ufeful and proper Ends,
demonftrates itfelf to be the Work
of Divine Wifdom : In like Manner
the whole Plan of pure Religion,
having alfo its Parts fuitable to each
other, and every one of them agree-
ably fet to the fame good and great
A 2 Deiign
4 A Ladfs Religion.
Defign of the Whole, does thereby
prove itfelf to be the Contrivance of
an All-wife God.
And hereby the Wifdom of the
Chriftian Religion will particularly
appear, becaufe every Part of it tends
to promote the univerfal Good of
Mankind j for which Reafon, the di-
vine Founder thereof was named
jfefas, that is, Saviour j becaufe his
only Defign was to fave us from the
prevailing Power of Sin, and from
thofe Miferies which That evil Pow-
er would involve us in.
Thus Temperance promotes our
Health ; Jujiice in our Dealings,
prevents us from fuftaining the Re-
venges of the injured, and gains us
Truft among Men, with all the Be-
nefits which arife from thence.
Charity, by promoting the common
Good of others, draws back
their Love and Affection to our
felves; while Patience preferves
Quiet
A Lady's Religion. 5
Quiet within our own Breafts, and
Self-denial, by retraining our extra-
vagant Appetites, eftablimes the juft
Power of Reafon over us, thereby
fitting us for all Conditions of Life :
And thus the Law of Chrift anfwers
to the Character of Wifdom, by its
Agreeablenefs to the bed Defign of
God in the chiefeft Good of Man ;
and upon this Account Solomon
charafter'd the Idea of Religion un-
der the Name of Wifdom.
Betides thefe moral Duties, there
are feveral Threats of God's Judg-
ments, and Promifes of his Favour
contain'd in Chrifts Inftitution ; the
former were wifely defign'd to re-
ftrain us from Immoralities, which
are our greateft Follies ; and the
latter to engage us in the Practice
of Virtue, which is our greateft Wif-
dom : The Threatnings prepare the
Way for the Promifes, and qualify
us to receive them ; inafmuch as they
make off our Affections from ill
A 3 Obje&
6 A Lady 'Religion.
Objects, in order for the Promifes
to fix them upon good ones. We
muft needs ceafe to do Evil, before
we can learn to do well.
Now altho' a due Confederation
of the Divine Nature, will carry us
on to the Belief of a future State, in
which he who is in Perfection the
beft of all Beings, will diftinguifh the
Good from the Bad by ample Re-
wards and juft Punifhments j yet be-
caufe every one's Capacity may not
be fufficient to make this wife Re-
flection, therefore Jefus Cbriji was
pleafed (as the Gofpel phrafes it) to
bring Lije and Immortality to light j
that is, to give the World full AiTu-
rance of a future State, in which the
juft God will diftinguifh Men here-
after, in fuch a Manner as they fhall
diftinguifh themfelves here - } and 'tis
the Wifdom of every one to
prefer ve this Belief in his Heart, and
bear it always about him, be-
it is the moft awful Monitor
againft
A Lady's Religion. 7
againft our committing Folly, and
yields the ftrongefl Encouragement
to Virtue.
From what has been faid, your
Ladymip fees firft, what is meant by
faving a Soul, viz. to deliver it from
vicious Habits and fearful Punim-
ments, the fatal Confequents of fuch
Habits ; and by eftabliming Virtue
therein, to recommend it to the Fa-
vour of God. And, fecondly, that
the Gofpel of Chrift was defigned
to this very End ; and its Tendency
hereunto is its Wifdom. And, third-
ly, from hence you alfo perceive, in
what Refpeft Faith in Jefus Chri/l,
is faid to fave us, viz. becaufe this
Faith is our receiving the Chriftian
Moral for the Rule of our Lives, and
the Threats and Promifes contained
in the Gofpel, for the outward Mo-
tives of our Practice according to
that Rule
And from thefe three Confidera-
tions
8 A Lady's Religion.
tions, fumm'd up together, you may
examine all the various Pretences
which differing Churches and Com-
munions make to the Purity of
Chriftian Faith, fo as to form a
right Judgment of them ; for That
Communion which manifefts itfelf
to have no other Defign, than to
affift its Members in faving their
Souls from the Power of Sin, by the
Moral and Motives aforemention'd,
is certainly the pureft Church j and
That Faith, which has no other
Tendency, is the pureft Faith. So
that if you form your felf upon this
Principle, you may pafs by all nice
Speculations, or profound Myfteries,
which have no direct Tendency to
improve your Morals, without any
Hazard of Salvation.
Secondly, As the Chriftian Inftitu-
tion is wifely practical, fo it is plain:
Or ia other Words, we may fay,
that as the Wifdom of the Chriftian
Religion appears firft by its being
practical
A Lady's Religion. 9
pratfical, fo it appears, fecondly, by
being plain. The obfcure Anfwers
which were given out from the old
Heathen Oracles, are now known to
have proceeded from the Indireft-
nefs of a defigning Priefthood : Who,
to maintain their Pretence of fore-
telling what mall come to pafs, fent
back all thofe who came to enquire
after future Events, with doubtful
and uncertain Anfwers. And it has
been the Obfervation of wife Men,
that when any one affects to be dark
and myfterious in his Converfation,
either he has fome indirect Deiiga
in fo doing, or elfe whilft he makes
an Oftentation of Wifdom, he does
in Reality but difcover his Folly.
Now the Wifdom of God cannot
be conceived to aim at any other De-
fign in communicating itfelf to us,
than the Information of our Minds
in the Nature of Good and Evil, and
this in order to direct our Choice ;
and all Inftmction muft of Necefiity
be
io A Ladys Religion.
be plain ; fince it is by Things eafy
and familiar, fuch as at firfl Sight we
may apprehend, whereby we can be
led on to the Knowledge of Matters
more remote and difficult : But ob-
fcure and unintelligible Doctrines,
can have no Effecl: upon us befide
unprofitable Amufement; and wbat-
foever is by the Wifdom of God laid
out of our Reach, can be no Part of
our Concern.
Farther, to what End did he give
us intellectual Faculties ? furely not
to amufe, but to improve us, by en-
abling us thorowly to underftand
each Part of our holy Religion, which
diredtly tends to that End, viz. our
moral Improvement ; as you will
foon perceive, if you reduce the
Chriftian Institution to its general
Heads, which are thefe.
Firft, A Narration of Matters of
Facl.
Secondly,
A Lady's Religion n
Secondly, A Declaration of Moral
Laws.
Thirdly ', a Revelation of fuch Mo-
tives which are proper to enforce
this Law upon our Minds. And,
Fourthly, Serious Exhortations to
refrem our Memories with our Du-
ty ; and earneftly to recommend it
to our Practice.
Fir ft, Your Ladyfhip fees, that
the Matters of Fact contain'd in the
Four Gofpels, and the Acts of the
Apoftles (viz. the Travels and Tranf-
actions of Chrift and his Difciples)
are fo plainly related, that you under-
ftand the Relation as eafily as you
read it. And, Secondly, All Laws
mufl be plain, becaufe they are Di-
rections. Now, obfcure Directions are
but Delufions j and Laws which are
dubious and difficult to be underftood,
are 'Traps and Snares. And, Thirdly,
it
12 A Lady 1 s Religion.
it is as neceffary that Motives hould be
very intelligible, becaufe their Defign
is to work ftrongly upon our Wills, by
convincing our Underftandings. Add
to this, Fourthly, That myftical and
unintelligible Exhortations, are ri-
diculous ; upon which Account, St.
Paul forbad religious Exercifes to be
perform' d in an unknown Tongue.
Now as the four Gofpels and
A&s of the Apoftles, contain Mat-
ters of Facls, Laws, and Motives ; fo
the Epiftles, contain Exhortations
to Serioufnefs and Piety, arifing from
the Laws, Facts, and Motives before-
mention'd : and I take thefe Books
to be fufficiently comprehenfive of
the Inftitutions and Ordinances of
Jefus Chrift : which ought indeed to
be eafily intelligible, becaufe they
concern the poor, weak, and un-
lettered People, as much as the
Learned.
Nor
A Lady's Religion. 13
Nor can I fee that the Doc-
trine of Chrift, was by Him, or his
.Apoflles, deliver 'd firfl of all into
the Hands of the Learned, to be by
them convey'd into the Minds of
the Ignorant; but, on the contrary
it is manifeft, that our Saviour di-
rected both his Difcourfes and
Adions, immediately to the common.
People, as well as to the Scribes ;
and, in like Manner, did his Dif-
ciples addrefs their Preachings and
Writings.
From all this Difcourfe, concern-
ing the Clearnefs of Chrift's Infti-
tution, you may learn, that you may
fpare yourfelf the needlels Trouble
of reading abflrufe and myflerious
Points of Divinity. Nor need you
fuffer your felf to be arriufed with the
pretended deep Speculations of pro-
found Men, when you have the
plain Directions of a wife and a good
God before you, in following whereof
you mall meet with great Reward.
B Thirdly,
14 -A Lady's Religion.
thirdly, the Chriftian Inftitution
is fhort. True and genuine Religion
has always been fumm'd up, and
gathered together into a narrow Com-
pafs, by thofe who beft underftood
it. Thus Micah (vi. 8.) fpeaking of
God, faith, He hath Jhewn thee, O
Man, 'what is good, and what doth the
Lord thy God require of thee ? but to
do yuftice, to love Mercy, and to
wdk humbly with thy God. And our
Saviour furns up the whole Law,
in our Love to God, and our Neigh-
bour : And in another Place, in-
cludes the whole Scope of the Law
and the Prophets, in this one Rule,
Whatfoever ye would that Men Jhould
do unto you, even fo do unto them - y
hereby directing us to make a right
Ufe of that Reafon, which God
eftablifh'd as his Oracle in our
Breaftsj to which we may at all
Times refort, and from whence
we may be refolved, in fuch Cafes
as concern our Duty to one an-
other.
For
A Lady's Religion. 1 5
For as by confulting your own
Reafon, you know wherein you arc
juftly dealt with, and wherein you
receive Wrong -, when you are kindly
ufed, and when otherwife ; fo from
the fame Principle of Reafon, you
cannot but know, when you deal
juftly or wrongfully, and when you
do kind or ill Offices to another :
This one fhort comprehenfive Rule,
taking for its Foundation the Equa-
lity of Mankind, in reipecl: of their
common Nature, renders Religion
itfelf a Matter fenjtik unto us.
For I can feel the Wound of a
marp flanderous Tongue, as ienubly
as that of a Sword ; I can feel the
Wrongs done to my felf .and Family ;
and am as much fenfible of the Be-
nefits I enjoy, from the juft and kind
Dealings of thofe with whom I am
concerned j and hereby, I am in the
fhorteft and plaineft Way, admo-
nim'd of my Behaviour to others:
And if this one mort Rule were re-
duc'd to Practice, the State of Pa-
B 2 radife
16 A Lady' 3 Religion.
radife would be reftored, and we
ihould enjoy a Heaven upon Earth.
For hereby, Firft, all Perfections
for Conference fake, which have oc-
cafion'd fuch violent Diforders, and
vaft Effufion of Blood, would be at
*m End ; becaufe every one who has
any Confcience, would moft willing-
ly preferve it free from the Impofi-
tions of Men in the Wormip of
God. To compel Men by Fire and
Faggot, to partake even of a deli-
cious Entertainment, is a favage Sort
of Hofpitality.
Secondly, All Factions in any State
would be at an End, if every Mem-
ber thereof were contented, that e-
very one of his Fellow-Members,
who was not an Enemy to the Go-
vernment, might, having equal Pre-
tence of Merit, enjoy equal Privi-
leges with himfelf.
Thirdly ', The Occafions of War,
and
A Lady's Religion] 17
and Law-Suits, would be taken away;
iince nothing but manifeft Wrong,
can be the juft Caufe of either.
And. Fourthly, There would be
no private Quarrels, and Uneafinefs
among Neighbours; lince by this
Rule of doing as we would be done
unto, all ram Cenfures, fharp Re-
fleftions, and ungrounded Sufpici-
ons and Jealoufies, which are the
Seeds of private Animofi ties, are ta-
ken away. And hereby we may
expeft a plentiful Store of God's
Blemngs among us, who will mea-
fure out his Kindnefs to Us, in the
fame Manner as we meagre out ours
to One another.
The Reafon why Religion mould
be both a Short and Plain Inftitu-
tion, will appear if you confider the
common Circumftances and Con-
ditions of Men in this World. For
though your Ladymip and many
more, have Leifure enough to read
and
1 8 A Ladfs Religion.
and digeft whole Volumes of ufeful
Knowledge (if there be any fuch) yet
the greateft part of Mankind, being
neceflarily employ'd in making dai-
ly Provifions for themfelves and Fa-
rnalies, and difcharging the com-
mon Offices of Life, cannot attend
to any religious Inftitution, which is
either difficult or tedious.
It is certain, that the whole Life
of Man, is not fufficient for him to
read all the Controverfies which
have been written, upon Pretence of
Religion j but it is ascertain, That
God never lays on us a greater Tafk,
than what he affords us both Abilities
and Opportunities to perform ;
wherefore we may conclude, that
itnce the Duties of Religion are laid
in common upon all, the poor Day-
Labourer muft have Ability and
Opportunity, fufficient to inftrudl
himfelf therein, without hindering
the conftant Work of his Calling.
And in all this the Wifdom and
Goodnefs of God are made known
by
A Lady's Religion. 19
by adapting our Duties to our Cir-
cumftances of Life.
From hence you may fee that you
may fave yourfelf the Trouble of
reading the long and tedious Dif-
putes, which, with fuch intempe-
rate Zeal, are always in Agitation
among the feveral Parties of Chrifti-
ans. Indeed the true Chriftian
Inftitution being mort, it cannot
admit of being fpun out into long
Controverfies : And though I have
read many Books of Controverfial
Divinity, I do not remember, that
I have met with any one Coatrover-
fy, about the matter of mere Reli-
gion ; as whether I mould maintain
in my Heart, a high Reverence and
Veneration for Almighty God ; Whe-
ther I ought to walk before him in
Sincerity and Uprightnefs ; Whe-
ther or no I mould be thankful to
him, for all the Benefits which I
have received from him j Whether
I fhall fubmit to his Will with Pa-
tience, and endeavour to govern my
Paffions-
2O A Ladfs Religion.
Paflions i to bring them to a due Mo-
deration and Temper, by making
them fubjedt to the Law of Reafon ;
Whether I mould be true to my
Promife, juft in my Dealings, cha-
ritable to the Poor, and fincere in
my Devotions ; Whether I fhould
be temperate and fober, modeft and
chafte, and demean myfe f in an
humble, civil, and agreeable Manner
towards thofe with whom I con-
verfe ; Whether I fhould be heartily
forry when I come fhort of my Du-
ty, and mould be watchful in the
Denial of my irregular Appetites,
Paflions, and evil Inclinations for the
future;. In fhort, it has not (that I
know of) been difputed, whether
Juftice, Benignity, Meeknefs Cha-
rity, Moderation, Patience, and So-
briety, fhould be received into our
Affedtions; Or whether we fhould
love God, and our Neighbour j Ortho-
doxy of Faith is made the Pretence of
Controverfy, but the One Thing ne-
cefTary, is Orthodoxy of Pratfice.
A Lady's- Religion. 21
I know your Ladyfhip will not
be pleas' d with a Difcourfe upon the
Subject of Religion, unlefs Devotion
have its due Place in it ; nor ought
it indeed to be left out; becaufe
Thankfulnefs is a neceffary Part of
Religion, and Prayer is the Prefer-
native of the Whole. A frequent
Repetition of our Thanks for all the
Benefits we enjoy, prefer ves in our
Minds the Confideration of God, as
the Greateftand Beftof Beings; and
thereby nourishes Veneration and
Gratitude. In like Manner Prayer
for Pardon of Sin, and for Prefer va-
tion of our Perfons, is a con-
ftant Recognition of the Mercy
and Bounty of God. But Prayer
againfl the Power of Sin, is the ac-
tual withdrawing of our Inclinations
from Evil ; and Prayer for any Grace,
is an actual Application of our Minds,
to attain the particular Virtue for
which we pray.
Now although I would not ad-
rife
22 A Lady's Religion.
vife you againft fet Hours and Forms
of Devotion, either private or public j
yet I would rather recomend, a fort
cf habitual and occafional Devotion,
as very proper to preferve the
flrongeft Impreffions of Religion up-
on your Mind.
It may be obferv'd, that many
who are very punctual in keeping
to their exaft Times and Forms of
Devotion, have fallen fhort of any
vifible Improvement in Virtue. The
fame Pride, Frowardnefs, Falmood,
Covetoufnefs, and Bitternefs of Spi-
rit, have appeared in many who have
been conftant Frequenters of the
Public, as well as Clofet Forms of
Prayer ; a s if God had not been in all
their Thoughts ; the Reafon whereof
feems to be, becaufe their formal Pe-
titions fupercede their habitual En-
deavours. Men are apt to think,
that fince they fpend in every Day,
fuch a Portion of Time in Prayer,
they have done all their Part ; and
fo they leave God-Almighty to take
care
A Lady's Religion. 23
Care of the Event. And this is in-
deed all we can do, when we make
our Petitions to our Benefactors up-
on Earth, viz offer up our Requefts
to them, either by Word or Writ-
ing, and then only expedt their
Anfwer,
But 'tis otherwife with Relation to
God. Our Petitions to Him, mud
not take off from our conftant En-
deavours to perform that Work, for
which we pray his Enablemenf.
And this oceafional Devotion, which
1 would recommend, is in its
own Nature a conftant Endeavour
after Virtue, as well as a fcrious Pe-
tition for it. For it arifeth from a
frequent Obfervation of our felves,
in our particular occurring Circum-
ftances ; from which Obfervation
fuitable Deiires will almoft necefTa-
r'ily flow. As if at any Time I rind
that I have done an ill Thing, im-
mediately upon the Difcovery, I beg
Gcd's Pardon, and refolve to make
recompence
24 '-A Lady's Religion.
recom pence for the 111 I have done :
Or, if I have defigned any Evil in
my Heart, and prefently beg Pardon
of him who knoweth the Secrets
thereof j in fo doing I have given
Check to its Progrefs. In like Man-
ner, if I have fpoken flanderoufly,
rafhly, or injurioufly concerning any
ona, and upon Recollection thereof,
I afk Forgivenefs of God, and deiire
that I may not do the like for the
future, but on the contrary, that I
may govern my Tongue better ; in
all this, I am labouring to withdraw
my Soul from Evil, and to form my-
felf upon a Principle of Virtue.
Every Night, and Morning, are
proper Times of Leifure, to call to
Mind the Prefer vation, Support, and
Advantages, we have receiv'd the
Day, or Night, preceding. And
this Recollection being accompanied
with Thankfulnefs to our great Pre-
ferver, is the actual Continuance and
carrying on of our Gratitude to God.
A Lady's Religion. 25
If I perceive Pride, or Paflion, to a-
rife in my Heart, fo that I am apt to
put a great Value upon every Thing
I do, and defpife others; Or if I
find myfelf eagerly concerned for
any little worldly Advantage, or any
fmall Punctilio of Honour; and-
hereupon I beg of God for an hum-
ble Spirit, and a heavenly Mind ; I
am herein endeavouring to expel
the Poifon of Sin, by its proper
Antidote.
We cannot but feel the Diforder
of our Minds, as much as the Difea-
fes of our Bodies. And the Caufes
of a diforder'd Mind, are much
more eafily difcerned, than the Cau-
fes of a bodily Diftemper. For ei-
ther my Mind is troubled for Want,
or Lofles, or it may be for the Prof*
verity of others, or want of a Re-
venge, or becaufe I cannot have my
Will in what I defigned. Upon
thefe, or fuch HkeOccafions, the pro-
per Cure is Devotional, in begging
C God's
26 A Lady s Religion.
God's Pardon for my Difcontent;
and being defirous that my Will
fhould be fubmitted to his, who has
taught me that I mould not return
Evil for Evil, but that I fhould love
my Neighbour as my felf. This
fort of Soliloquy, and occafional
mental Addrefs to God, is a fure
Way to compofe the Diforders of
our Thoughts. For the growing
Power of any Sin, is moft certainly
fupprefs'd, by introducing the oppo-
fite Virtue into our Defires.
The fame Method may be ufed,
as to Sins of Omiffion. A ferious
Perfon will obferve Neglects of com-
mon Duties, which refpeft either
God, or Man. He cannot but take
Notice, how much he has neglefted
his Bulinefs, or his Health; how
little he has confidered God as his
Owner, Governor, and Benefador;
and how fmall a Portion of what
God has blefs'd him with, he has
laid out upon the Good of his Fel-
low-
A Lady's Religion. .27
low-Creatures. And if hereupon, a
Man is ferioufly defirous to become
more dutiful to God, more ufeful to
himfelf, and beneficial to others, he
is therein actually bending his Mind
to fupply his former Omiffions.
This cafual Devotion, arifing from
the Obfervation of ourfelves, undep
the common Circumftances of Life,
(although it can have no fet Times
and Forms prefcrib'd to it) will be
very effectual to produce, preferve,
and increafe, a true Senfe of Reli-
gion within us. And if you are
pleafed to apply your Thoughts here-
unto, as Occaiion fhall direct you,
this Devotion will foon become ha-
bitual, cuftomary and eafy. And its
Returns, which will be frequent and
fhort, will be a continual Reftraint
from Evil-doing, and an actual Exer-
cife of Virtue.
This Exercife which I have been
prefcribing, is commonly referved to
C 2 be
28 A Lady's Religion.
be performed all at once, in an ac-
tual Preparation before receiving the
Sacrament of the Lord's Supper ;
which is ufually performed, by help
of an artificial Catalogue of Sins,
methodically collected out of the
Ten Commandments , according to
which Catalogue, fet Forms of Con-
feffions are drawn up, which the
Preparant is to take upon Content,
and without any fort of Judgment,
or Difcretion of his own, he con-
fefles himfelf guilty of all the Sins
therein mentioned together, with all
their Aggravations,, tho' it may be,
many of them were of fuch a heinous
.Nature, as never enter'd into his
Heart to commit. And if thefe Ca-
talogues, and confeftional Forms, are
red over once a Quarter of a Year,
or, it may be, once a Month, againft
the ufual Sacrament-Day, the Work
of Preparation is thought to be well
palTed over.
Yet I cannot but think it better ,
to
A Lady's Religion. 29
to keep a constant cuftomary Watch
over ourfelves, and upon the firft
Difcovery of any evil Delign or Ac-
tion, immediately to retra
by fuch a prophane and unworthy
Communicating, they call down
God's judgments upon themfelves ;
for fo the Word Damnation ought
to be underftood, becaufe it refers
to the Judgments fpecified in the
following Verfe, where it is faid,
that, For this Cauje (viz. of drunken
Communicating) many are iveak
andfakly among you, and many Jleep,
that is, die, v. 30. Now to avoid
thefe Judgments, he exhorts them
to examine themfehes, that is, to con-
fider with themfelves, what was the
Meaning of that Duty which they
were to perform at the Lord's Table j
which Duty was this, viz. to call to
Mind the Death of Jefus Chrift.
And this Commemoration, is by St.
Paul ftiFd, Difcerning the Lord's
Body.
The vifible Signs of our Saviour's
Death, which we difcern on the
Lord's Table, do prepare our Minds
to
A Lady's Religion. 33
to contemplate a divine Perfon, who
for his great Charity to the ftupid
World, fuffer'd the higheft Injuftice,
with fuch an invincible Patience,
and Heroic Fortitude, as was fupe-
rior to the fharpeft Malice of his
Enemies j thereby fetting before us
the brighteft Example, of an unfha-
ken Refolution to do Good, in fpite
of all Difcouragements.
You will perceive, Madam, by
this Difcourfe, that the Chriftian Re-
ligion, is a wife, a plain, and a fhort
Inflitution -, the Belief whereof was
defign'd to fave our Souls from the
Power and Danger of Sin, by ingraft-
ing virtuous Habits in our Minds.
You will likewife perceive, that I
hold it necefTary to keep a conftant
Watch over ourfelves, to repent as
often as we perceive ourfelves to
tranfgrefs, and by occafional mental
Devotion, incline our Hearts to ob-
ferve the Law of Chrifl j and all
this in order to build up a Habit of
Virtue
34 or any ancient
Inhabitants of the World, might
appoint fome certain Day to join
their Stores together, to the Intent
that they aud their Families, might
eat and drink to the Glory of God ; as
St. Paid fpeaks. i. Cor.x. 31. that
is, whilft they were Partakers at a
plentiful Table, they might exprefs
their Thanks to God who furnimed
it cut for them. It is poffible alfo,
that the original Defign of this
c Thankfgi i ving-Fefti e ual t might in af-
ter Times be forgotten by Pofterity,
who might yet retain the Cuftom
of Sacrificing, upon a miftaken Sup-
pofal, that the folemn Slaughter of
their Cattle was a Thing well-pleafing
to God ; becaufe it was, as to them it
feern'd a Religious Obfervation of
their Fore-Fathers. And from hence
it might come, that Sacrifices and
Offerings were once the Catholick
Religion of the World. But for an
unprejudic'd Perfon to conceive, that
the
54 -A Lady Religion.
the Deity mould be pleas'd with the
Slaughter of Hecatombs, is a Suppo-
fltion of a ftrange Nature. And
whence could it arife, but from the
mifleading of Fear, which induc'd
weak Men to believe, that God be-
ing angry with them for their Sins,
mufl have his Anger appeas'd by the
Slaughter of Beafts, that he may be
prevail'd upon to fpare the Lives
of Men?
Now to give your Ladyfhip a
general Account, how this Matter
flood of old, as far as I can reach
into Antiquity ; it appears that Fear
gave to Mankind, one Moiety of
their Notion of God. For it was
-generally believed of old, that Deify
was made up oftivo co-ordinate Pow-
ers j the one for Good, the other for
EviL And it is a long Time paft,
iince Men's Fancies found out
Names for the chymerical Objedts
of their Fears. So of old, the Hf-
bre&s call'd thefe two co-ordi-
nate
A Ladfs Religion. 55
natc Principles, by the Names of
Gad, and Mem. The Egyptians
call'd them OJyris, and Typhon. In
the Greek Infcriptions upon Funeral
Urns, are frequently met the Letters
e: K: the initial Letters of 0Ir K ttX o7r
the unlucky Gods. The Romans
exprefled the fame Thing, by Joves
and Vajvues-y hard Names, which I
am forc'd to trouble your Ladymip
with. And the Aftrologers carry
on the fame Notion to this Day,
under the Style of favourable and
malignant Afpecls. I cannot tell
how long it is, fince the Pvrfians
received this Opinion, under the
Names of Oromafdes y and Arima-
nius ; but it may be computed how
long it is fince Manes Manicktem, a
Perfian by Birth, and a Cbriftian by
Profeffion, revived that an tient Opi-
nion of the Perfians, which by the
Chriftians of that Age, was called
the Manicbcean Herefy, and was a
Belief of two co-ordinate fupreme
Powers, th one Good, the other
Evil.
56 A Lady y s Religion.
Evil. This Herefy was firft broach-
ed in the Reign of Aurelian the
Emperor 5 and in the Year of our
Lord 273.
Doubtlefs, it was the prevailing
Power of Fear, which armed Ju-
piter with his Thunderbolt, Mars
with his Spears, and Apol'o with his
Bow. And what can your Lady-
fhip think of thofe Parents, who
forc'd their Children to pafs through
the Fire to Molech, though it were
only to fcorch their Skins? which is
the mildeft Interpretation of thofe
Words of Mofes y whereby that fort
of Cruelty was forbidden, ZmV.xviii.
21. What can your Lady/hip think
of thofe Parents, but that they were
feared out of their Wits? And what
Opinion can you conceive of thofe
Parents, who burnt their Children
to Adramekch y and Anamelech> the
Gods of Sepherhaim, z Kings xvii.
3 1 . But that they were frightned out
of all Senfe of Humanity. For,
what
A Lady's Religion. 57
what can be difcover'd in the Phi-
lofophic Notion of Deify, which
may give Countenance to fuch enor-
mous fuperftitious Fears? But on
the other Hand, might not Pytha-
goras well be fly led a divine Philo-
fopher, who came into Italy, in the
Reign of Tarquinius Superbus, as
CicerQ informs us to give the then
barbarous People, fuch a true No-
tion of Deity, as might diffipate all
fuperftitious Fears, and afford a folid
Comfort ? For if Deity be no other
than the vital Spirit of the Univerfe,
and common Parent of Mankind;
Reverence, Love, and Gratitude, be-
come due from Man to God: And
Pythagoras might well afk the Quef-
tion, why Men invented SpeStres to
frighten themfelves withal. As
Ovid reprefents him fpeaking :
Quid Styga, quidTenebras, Gf Nomina
vana timetis ?
And for the fame Reafon was it,
Madam*
58 A Lady 3 Religion.
Madam, that Mofes commanded the
Jews, to bring their Sacrifices to the
Door of the Tabernacle, viz. that
they might not be offer 'd to fearful
Objeds, which the Scripture calls
Devils. They ft:all no more offer
their Sacrifice to Devils, Lev. xvii.
7. Upon which Text it may be
obferv'd, that the original Word,
which in our Tranflation is render 'd
Devils^ is by Latin Interpreters, fet
forth by moft odious, frightful, and
horrid Ideas. Such as pilofi, villofi,
hirfuti, bird, Satyri, horridi, horri-
fai. And particularly Bochart, in
his Treatife upon the Animals men-
tion 'd in the Old Teftament, com-
menting upon this Text of Mofes %
fays, That this Word 'which we
tranflate Devils, was given as a
Name to the Idols of Canaan, quod
horripilationem Us incutiunt quibus
apparent ; that is, becaufe their Fi-
gures were fo terrible, that a Man's
Hair would Hand an end, at their
Appearance. And whoever will
read
A Lady's Religion 59
read the Chapter laft cited, will find
Mofes anticipating Pythagoras, in his
Defign of difTwading Men from en-
tertaining a frightful Idea of Deity,
and commanding, that lince Sacri-
fices were the Worfhip then in Ufe,
his Countrymen mould thereby pay
their Homage to that God, whofe
Character was Gracious and Merci-
ful-, the great Deliverer of that
particular People, and one who ftill
referved a particular Kindnefs for
them. This Character, is in its Na-
ture fitted to raife Veneration,
Love, and Hope ; but Fear is an un-
becoming Treatment of fuch a
Deity.
And yet behold, Madam, a great-
er than Pythagoras is here. I mean
St. John ; who in his Epiftle which
I at firft cited, fets forth the Charac-
ter of God, by the Ideas of Light
and Love, i Job. i. 5. God is light,
and in Him is no Darknejs at all.
And in another Place he gives the
moft
60 A Lady's Religion.
mofl amiable Character of Deity, fay-
ing, that God is Love, i Job. iv. 8.
As to the firft of thefe two Cha-
ra&ers of God, that illuftrious one
of Light ; you cannot fuppofe it to
be an Object of Fear, but rather of
Comfort and Joy j forafmuch as
the Morning Light has been always
obferved, to difpel thofe Fears which
have been occafion'd by the fose-
going Darknefs ; it is this daily flow-
ing Tide of Brightnefs, which tinc-
tures the Earth with its Glory, ren-
dering it thereby, both ufeful and
delightful to Mankind. On the
contrary, how dreadful was it once
for the Egyptian^ to fit under that
thick Mift of palpable Darknefs,
which blotted out three whole Days?
In how melancholly a Manner did
they pafs away their Time, when
theyfaw not one another ', neither arofe
any one from hh Place ^ Exod. x. 23.
But how joyful an Hour was that,
wherein the Sun arofe to difpel the
Horror
A Ladfs Religion* 61
Horror they had fo long laid under,
and look ! what Light is to the Eye,
that fame Thing is Knowledge to
the Mind. The Inftruftion of God,
is as delightful and refrefhing to the
Soul, as the rifingSun to a Traveller,
who has been beating out his Way
all Night. By divine Inftru&ion a
Man finds a plain Way through the
World, notwithflanding all the By-
Paths of Fancy and Perfwafion ;
hereby he fums up the whole of
religious Duty, in Reverence for
God, Care over ourfelves, and Kind-
nefs to our Fellow-Creatures : Each
Part whereof is delightful and re-
creative to the Spirit of Man, Re-
verence for the Deity, is the Pri-
viledge of Man above the Beaft,
which knows not that he is in the
Care and Keeping of God. But it is
the Glory of Man, to know and ac-
knowledge his gracious Owner, Go-
vernor, and Benefactor.
As to the other two fummary
F Partj
62 A Lady's Religion.
Parts of Divine Inftruftion, Care
over our felves, and Kindnefs to our
Fellow-Creatures, the Performance
of thofe Duties, carries nothing in it
of Fear, or Torment, but is pleafant
as Light to the Eye, and Marrow to
the Bones. The firft of thefe two
Duties is prefervative of Soul and Bo-
dy, the difmal Effects which unruly
Paffion, and ungovern'd Appetite
too frequently produce. And as it
is a horrid Spectacle to behold a
Man out of the Ufe of himfelf; as
to have feen Saul breathing out
'Threatnings, and Slaughter againft the
Difciples of the Lord^ making Ha-
voc k of the Church^ entering into e<-
very Houfe, balling Men and Women,
and committing them to Prifon; Atfs.
viii. 8. So on the contrary, how
pleafing muft it have been, to have
feen his Labours of Love ? to have
been a Witnefs of his Wearinefs and
Painfulnefs, his often thatchings, hi*
Hunger and Thirft^ his Cold and Na-
kednefs, by Reafon of his great Care
tf
A Lady's Religion. 63
of all the Churches, 'which came upon
him daily ^ i Cor. xi.
Befides, let any one but confult
his own Experience, and fee if there
be any Thing frightful, or torment-
ing, in being confcious of his own
Good Will and AhVtion to Man-
kind -, or in being confcious of
the merited Love and Efteem which
he has gain'd from others thereby.
And let a Man examine himfelf, Hf
there be any Pleafure which the
World affords, equal to the Satisfac-
tion he receives from relieving the
Neceflities of his Fellow-Creatures,
according to the Inftruction of God.
But on the other hand, where
unwarranted Traditions, and vain
Imaginations of Men, prevail over
the Light of God, the Minds of
Men will be perplex'd with dark
Sufpicions, and tormenting Fears.
Fa As
64 A Lady's Religion.
As for Inftance ; if it be not certain
that St. Peter was at Rome, all the
Pretences which uphold the Roman
Cat bolt ck Communion fall to the
Ground : Then there is no Succef-
for in Power with the Keys of Hea-
ven, nor any infallible Apoftolical
Commiffioner to guide the Flock
of Ghrift. And that St. Peter ever
was at Rome, is no part of divine In-
flruction. Now fmce this great, and
as they pretend, univerfal Flock of
Chrift are uncertain of their Guide,
how muft their Doubts and Fears
multiply upon them, in Relation to
the Way they ought to take ? What
Security can they have, that the
Pardons and Indulgcncies grant-
ed by the Holy Fathers, are ratify 'd
in Heaven ? What Security that
their Pilgrimages, Penances, Mafles,
with their Adoration of a God bak'd
in an Oven, and fuch like Inven-
tions of their High Prieji, fhall be
accepted by the greateft and beft of
Beings? How fhall they be fure
that
A Lady's Religion, 65
that they walk not in the Paths of
Darknefs, but that they are the
Children of Light, drawing to-
wards the Inheritance of the Saints
in Glory ? But when a Man
hath a iincere Refpeft to the
Light and Inftru<5tion of God, he
will thereby be made free from all
thofe Uncertainties, Jealoufies, and
Fears, which torment the Minds of
the Superfluous.
.Now Madam, if hereupon you
mould afk, how you (hall know,
that the Books of Script ure contain 'd
in the Old and New Teftament, are
the real true Light and Inftruflion of
God; I think you may eafily fatisfy
yourfelf as to that Matter. For tho*
many particular Texts therein con-
tained, cannot be nicely underftood
without fome Knowledge of ancient
Cuftoms, to which the Exprerljons
allude } yet without any ancient or
modern Learning, let any one take a
F 3 View
66 A Lady's Religion.
View of the whole Analogy ', and
fuitable Agreement of the Dodrines
contain'd in both Teftaments, and
he will find that the Defign of all
thofe Writers was to fet forth fuch
an admirable Rule of Life, as was
fit for God to give, and for Man to
receive. And if you will compare
this moral Inftruction, with the Su-
perftitions of Heathens, or Papifts,
your Eye cannot difcern the Diffe-
rence, between the Light of Sun, and
Moon, more clearly, than your
Mind will diftinguim, between Re-
ligion, and Superftition.
Thofe Holy Books contain no-
thing of Popery or Priejlcraft^ or
of any other Defign, but only to di-
rect us to fwch Ways and Means, as
are bed fitted to work up human
Nature, to the higheft Degree of
Virtue it is capable of in this Life.
And therefore, whofoever mail en-
deavour to aflert any low, felf-de-
figning Opinion from Holy Writ,
is
ALadfs Religion. 67
is the greateft Enemy thereunto.
Forafmuch as every mean, bafe, felf-
iih Opinion, or any fuch Dodtrine,
which is contrary to the common
Rights, Liberties, or Advantages of
Mankind, being afTerted from thence,
is a Mill-ftone hung upon the Book
of God, directly tending to fink its
Authority, and render it fufpe&ed
in the World. Upon this Foot St.
Paul referred himfelf to the Judg-
ment of the Corinthians, faying : I
fpeak unto wife men, judge ye what 1
(ay. i Cor. x. 15. Anfwerable
whereunto I refer it to the Judg-
ment of your Ladyfhip, whether a
fmcere Love of the Light and In-
ftruclion of God, will not difpel thofe
dark Fears, which fuperftitious Fan-
cies are apt to create.
But St. John faith, that God is
Love, i John iv. 8. and therefore
whatibever proceeds from him, muft
not be frightful, but lovely. Thus
Solomon fpeaking of Religion, under
the
68 A Lady's Religion.
the Character of Wifdom, faith, Her
Ways are Ways of Pleafantnefs, and
all her Paths are Peace. Prov.iii.if.
And St. Paul exhorting the Phi-
lippians to virtuous Pract : ce, faith,
Whatfoever Thing* are lovely, think
on thofe 'Things. Phil. iv. 8. Nor was
the Gentile a Stranger, to this Doc-
trine, "oli KAM'V VKV s'H that is, That
which is good is lovely, was the
Saying of an old Greek Poet, 'Theog.
How lovely is it to behold the Cre-
ation of God, wherein all Things
that fall under our Cognizance, dif-
cover a wife Defign, by which every
Event tends to ths Intereft of the
Univerfe ! And the Character by
which Mankind doth moft refemble
Deity, is in the higheft Degree love-
ly; I mean, a virtuous Motion of
Mind, towards the Good of our
Fellow -Creatures. For by how
much the Affections of a Man are
fixed upon public Benefit, by how
much the more any one endeavours
to 'oblige Mankind by fo much are
his
A Ladfs Religion. 69
his Action s rendered lovely ; efpe-
cially when this Dilpofition of Mind
is carried on without the ProfpecT: of
Retaliation. For this is the Dif-
poiition of God towards Man, as
David faith. Like as a Father pi-
tieth bis Children, fo the Lord pi-
tieth thofe that Jear him. Pfal. ciii.
13. The natural Affection of the
Father, is fully anfwer'd by the Be-
nefit which the Child receives, with-
out aiming at any other Advantage.
And in this Refpect the Benevo-
lence of noble Founders, and public
Benefa&ors, as likewife the Bounty
of great Princes, fuch whofe high
Stations fet them above Self-Intereft,
do render their Actions mojl lovely ;
becaufe they are incapable of any
.Return, betides that Joy which na-
turally flows from the Advantages
others receive by their Means.
Add to this, Madam, that a fin-
cere Love of Virtue, excludes all ft rong
Self-interefted Hopes, as well as
dilmal
70 A Lady's Religion.
difmal Fears. And thus Mofesivhen
he 'was come to Tears, refused to be
call'd the Son of Pbaro's Daughter,
choofng rather to faffer Affliftion
with the People of God, than to enjoy
the Pleasures of Sin for a Seafon.
Heb. xi. 24. Jofephus relates that
Matter thus j Thermntis, the Daugh-
ter of Pharaoh, who had preferved
the Life of Mofes when very young,
prefented him to her Father when
grown up, deliring that he might be
appointed to fucceed in the Govern-
ment, me having adopted him for
her Son. How lovely was it in
Mofes generoufly to refufe thefe Court-
Offers of Greatnefs, in order to at-
tempt the Deliverance of his Bre-
thren ! It was not then underftood,
that an eager Purfuit after Court
Preferments, was the Mark of a true
Patriot ; but the heroic and lovely
Difpofition of Mofes, which St.
Paul fets forth, was a generous Com-
panion to his Countrymen, whom
he was willing to refcue from Sla-
very
A Lady's Religion. 71
very, with the Hazard of his Life ;
as appear'd by his vigorous oppo-
fing the Egyptian, whom he found
fmiting an Hebrew \ Exod. ii. 12.
And like wife by perfecting their
Deliverance after he had conduced
them into Canaan. For fuppofing
the good MofeSy inftead of following
the Advice of Jetbro, and fetting up
the Judgment Seats of Ifr ael, mould
have been prevail'd upon , to have
eftablifh'd an Egyptian Miniftry in
Canaan^ he would thereby have tar-
nifh'd that lovely Character of a De-
liverer of his Country, and Lover of
his Brethren ; which laft Character
is according to St. Jobn^ihe Character
by which one may know, if he be
pafs'd from Death to Life. We
know that we have pajjed from "Death
to Life> becaufe we love the Bre-
thren 3 he that loveth not his Brother
abideth in Death, j Job. iii. 14.
that is, in the State and under the
Sentence of Death, as our Commen-
tators explain it. Whereas, be that
72 A Lady 1 3 Religion.
Jovetb bis Brother abideth in the
Light) i yob. ii. 10. Such a one re-
fembles God, who is the Father cf
Lights, yam. i, 17.
And mould we confider God,
with St. yames> as a common Fa-
ther of Comforts, who maintains the
Order of the Univerfe, providing
fuitable Maintenance for all living
Creatures, Who maketb his Sun to
Jhine on the Evil and on the Good,
and fendeth Rain on the yttft> and on
the IJnjuft j Mat. v. 25. as our Sa-
viour faith ; can we fuppofe fuch a
Fatherly Difpofition as this is, does
any Way tend to ftrike Terror into
our Hearts; and to lay it there as
the Foundation of all our Duties ?
Surely nothing but the willing Af-
fedion of a dutiful Son, can be a
fuitable Return for the conftant Love
of an indulgent Father. To con-
clude this Argument, I think I may
fay, Madam, that although Fear may
prevail upon fomc ill Men to abftain
from
A Ladys Religion. 73
from Evil, yet it is only the Love
of Virtue, which fixes our Inclina-
tions upon good Things. And I
hope I may alfo add, that as a good
Man has no need of Fear, to affifl
him in his purfuit after Virtue; fo
is it likewife evident, both from na-
tural and revealed Religion, that
fuch a one can have no Caufe to be
afraid of God.
II. As to the Fear of Men, which
was the fecond Thing I was to con-
iider, it is plain, Madam, That if
your Ladymip mail obferve Men
to act in Subordination to God, by
how much the Love of God prevails
over you, fo much the more fearful
you will be of giving them Offence.
Our Parents, under God, are our im-
mediate Owners, Governors and Be-
nefadiors. And the Honour which
hereupon is due to them, includes an
awful Refpett towards them; and if
the Magistrate be indeed the Mi-
nifter of Ged to us for Good (as St.
G Paul
74 -d Lady's Religion.
Paul fpeaks) every Man will be cau-
tious of giving him Offence. In
fuch a Cafe, Tribute is to be given
to whom Tribute is due, Fear to whom
Fear, and Honour to whom Honour.
i Cor. xiii. but fince good Magi-
ftrates are a Terrortonly to evil Doers,
a fincere Lover of Virtue, is far
from Fear on that Account.
But if your Ladyfhip mall con-
fider Men, as adting in Oppofition to
God, you may be allowed to ufc
all necefiary Precautions, to preferve
yourfelf from their Tyranny. Nor
is there any Thing cowardly, mean,
or depreffive of your Spirit, in this
fort of Fear. Beware of Men (faith
our Saviour to his Difciples) for they
will deliver you up to the Councils, and
fcourge you in their Synagogues, but
if they perfecute you in one City fly in-
to another. Mat. x. 17. 23. Nor Jhall
he be afraid of evil Tidings ivhofe
Heart is jixed upon God; faith holy
David t Pfal, cxii. 7.
But
A Ladfs Religion. 75
But then will a Man find himfelf
{unrounded with tormenting Fears,i
and dreadful Sufpicions ; when thro*
Want of a lincere Love to his great
Owner, Governor, and Benefactor,
he hath caft off ajl fincere and up-
right walking, as in the Prefence of
the Invifible All-feeing God ; when
he hath caft off that Righteoufnefs,
Juftice, Honefty, and Faithfulnefs,
as would not fail to engage Mankind
in his Support, and alfo to yield
fuch a Peace of Confcience, as will
not fuffer him to be difturbed, tho'
the Earth mould /hake, and the
Heavens be diffolved. And thea
may a Nation be afraid of Evil Ti-
dings, when the Love of God, (which
is chiefly made manifeil by Love to
our Brethren) ivaxetb cold ; when a
feaverifh Heat of Diffenfion, arifing
from a wretched bafe Self-Intereft,
carts them into Parties, when pub-
lic Weal is regarded only, as it ferv^s
private Ends j as the loud Accla-
mation, Great is Diana of the E-
G 2
j6 A Lady's Relig ion.
phejians, was encouraged by the Gain,
which the Silver-fmiths made by
the Temple of that Goddefs. When
public Trufts (hall be coveted by fome,
to pleafe their Vanity and Senfuality;
by others, to gratify their fordid
Love of Money, and by mofl to en-
ftave their Brethren ; what Wonder,
if -upon any extraordinary Event,
Men's Hearts fiall Jail them for Fear,
and for looking after thofe Things
which are ccrriiug upon the Earth ?
Luk.xxi. 26. As our Saviour fore-
told, concerning the Deftruclion of
f j^rufdktn t which was brought to
|uis by their fatal Divifions. How
dreadful were the Tydings of IJraeFs
Captivity, which were brought to
them by the Prophet Jeremiah, and
were grounded on their Want of
Love to their Brethren, whom for
private Intereft they enflaved, when,
according to the Law or the Sab-
bittical Year, and the Law of the
jtfi$ they ought to .have made
free
A Lady's Religion. 77
free? The Words of Jeremiah upon
this Occafion are thefe; Thus faith
the Lord, ye have not hearken* d unto
me in proclaiming Liberty every one
to his Brother, and every Man to his
Neighbour. Behold ! I proclaim a
Liberty to you, faith the Lord, to the
Sword to the Peflilence, and to the
Famine. And I will make you to be
removed to all the Kingdoms of the
Earth. Jer. xxxvii. 17. The Ef-
fect of this Prophecy is vifible at
this Day, though the firft fulfilling of
it was by the Arms of a Babylomfo
Tyrant, who was in that Day the
great Patron of Idolatry and Tyran-
ny j himfelf being no more than a
King of Slaves.
But yet Madam, a true Ifraelite in
whom was no Guile; who loved
the Lord, with all his Heart, and his
Neighbour as himfelf, who was
neither ambitious, nor covetous, nor
over-follicitous concerning the Ho-
G 3 nours
78 A Lady "Religion.
nours, Riches, or Pleafures,, which
the World affords ; who walked
watchfully in the Denial of himfelf,
fo far as to hold no Confederacy
with any known Sin; who, when he
has fallen from his Duty, has reco-
yer'd himfelf by true Repentance j
who has been true to his Promife,
juft in his Actions, charitable to the
Poor, and well inclin'd to all Men ;
who could forgive Injuries, laying
afide all Thoughts of Revenge ; who
could be meek, calm, and gentle,
when in the Hands of furious and
violent Spirits ; who was of a ten-
der Difpofition, being as ready to
prevent Men from falling into Im-
moralities and Dangers, as he was to
compaffionate them in Adverfity;
fuch a one as could be moderate in
Power, and humble in Profperity ;
. . whofe Actions difcoyer a Love to
^ his Country, free from the Bias of
private Jntereft, and whofe hearty
Inclinations were towards the Good
of
A 'Lady's Religion. 79
of Mankind V fuch a Man as this,
was privileg'd from the Fear of evil
Tidings, and was commiffioned to
hope, that Through the Voice of the
Lordy the Ajjyrian Jhall be beaten
downy who fmote with a Rod. Jffa.
xxx. 31.
Nay, Madam, it was to chear up
the Heart of fuch an Ifraelite as
this, that the Prophet Ifaiah foretold
the Downfall of the Babylonifo
Grand Monarch ; whofe Slaves ufu-
ally ftiled him the King, as if there
were no other King befides him :
Saying, T'ophet is ordain d of old, yea
for the King // is prepared, he hath
made it deep and large: The Pile
thereof is Fire and much Wood \ and
the Breath of the Lord like a Stream
of Brim/lone, doth kindle it.
III. As to the Fear of Hell, Ma-
dam, I have very little to fay j for
if your Ladyfhip confiders Hell as a
con-
So A Lady's Religion.
confummate State of Wickednefs,
doubtlefs a virtuous Perfon is at the
greateft Diftance from thence. He
who, out of a fincere Love to God,
is careful to know, and confcientious
to do his Will, fubmitting not only
his Words and Adlions, but the ve-
ry Purpofes of his Heart thereunto ;
he, in whom the Love of God hath
caft down all Pride, and Haughtinefs,
both of Heart and Carnage, having
reduced his Paflions to a due Mode-
ration, and Temper j who, through
his Love to God, efteems the
World no more than it deferves, and
makes ufe of it only to gratify a gene-
nerous Difpofition of Mind, ready
to compaflionate and help in Adver-
iity ; This Man, is fo far from any
Fear of Hell, that he hr.s in fome
Degree, the a&ual Pofleflion of Hea-
ven upon Earth : And by being
confcious of fuch his Love to God,
he is actually Partaker of thofe Di-
vine Joys, which alone we can fup-
pofe
A Lady's Religion. 8 1
pofe to affect the Saints in Glory :
That is fuch a Delight, as never for-
feits nor cloys, though never fo fre-
quently renew'd, or ever fo long con-
tinued, and fuch as leaves no ill Re-
lifh behind it.
But on the other Hand, if a Man
bears no true Love to the Great and
Good GOD, but dares commit Sin
with Prefumption } if he be govern'd
by unruly PafTions, infatiable . De-
fires, or by an ambitious, covetous,
or malicious Temper ; if he be
moved by Envy, at the Profperity of
fome, or by Revenge for fmall Of-
fences taken at others ; this Man is
already fenfible of Hell upon Earth.
And though a thoufand Inventions
may be found out to quiet the evil
Spirit, which arifes from the Sctf-
confcioufnefs of his own wicked Heart,
yet nothing can alleviate his Tcr-
ment y becaufe nothing can feparate
Confcience from the Soul of
Man.
"Tit
82 A Lady 5 Religion.
'Tis true, Madam, thai fometimes
the Inftrumental Parts of Religion
are called in aid, to allay the Terrors
of a Hell within ; and thefe devo-
tional Performances joined with a
flrong Fancy, may for a Time have
fome Effect upon an Enthtifiaftick
Temper ; as David' s Harp had up-
on Saul's Melancholly, fo long as the
Mufick lafted. But yet the dreadful
Apprehenfions of Guilt will not to- j
tally be extinguish |d, till our earneft /
Endeavours have recovered iis to a
fincere Love of God.
Having thus endeavoured to mew,
what Fear of God, of Man, and of
Hell, is confident with the Love of
God ; I hope it will appear that I do
no 111, when I offered to (hew your
Lady (hip yet a more excellent Way^
That of Chanty , or Love ; and ad-
vifed you in fome Meafure, to foften
the Power of Fear, in your Religi-
ous Practices, and Devotional Per-
formances.
A Lady's Religion 83
formances. I beg your Ladyfliip's
favourable Con ft ruction of what I
have written in this Letter, meaning
thereby to teftify the Refpeft w
is due to you, from
Tour Ladyjhip*
Moft obliged and
Moft bumble Servant.
A
LETTER to a LADY
ON T HE
Death of her HUSBAND.
20 Mrs. C
MADAM,
YOU will naturally be much
furpris'd, at the firft Sight of
3, Letter, in a ftrange Hand, without
a Name ; and perhaps ftill more as
you read it. But tho' I have not
the Honour to be acquainted with
you, any otherwife than by Report,
yet I know your Lofs, and have
heard of your Affliction j heard
lately what aftonifhes and really
hurts me.
This being the Cafe, Madam, and
H as
86 A Letter to a LADY on
as it is the great Pleafure of my Life
to give Help to the Diftrefled, to
the befl of my Abilities, fo I could
not hear of a Lady, plung'd by Pro-
vidence, or, rather, by her own un-
happy Temper and Difpofition, in
a Depth of Mifery, which, I am
fure, Human Nature is hardly equal
to, without extending my Hand
if it be poffible, to lead her out of
it. Such, and fuch only, Madam,
is the Intention of this Letter ; and I
hope it will lofe none of its Weight,
in coming without a Name, and
from one who has declared, that he
is no otherwife your Friend, than as
a Lover of the Human Kind.
Read it therefore with Attention,
Madam, and read it without Preju-
dice: Don't give it the reproach-
ful Character of Impertinent and af-
fuming, but look upon it as in
Truth
the Death of her Hufland. 87
Truth it is a ferious, fincere, and
benevolent Attempt, to make a ve-
ry valuable Life alas ! at prefent,
a very heavy Burden comfortable
to yourfelf, and agreeable as it has
been always to your Friends.
Your Friends I believe, Madam ',
have not exerted themfelves on this
Occaflon, in a Manner I could wifh,
out of an ill judg'd Tendernefs and
Affe&ion. Indeed it is knpoffible^
but that your own good Senfe and
Piety, muft have fuggefled many
Reflections of great Ufe in< your pre-
fent Gircumftances ; but they may
not have fuggefted All-. We know
that Paffion very often takes away
the right Ufe of Reafon, and either
inverts the Objects it looks at, or
gives them a Colour which is not
their own. And tho' there are many
Confolations in Books of Philofophy,
and Devotion, which you muft }
of
88 A Letter to a LADV on
of Courfe, have met with, andwhich
I have not the Vanity to emulate,
yet one Perfon fometimes produces
Arguments on a Subject, which are
not thought of by another; and every
one is not alike affedled with the
fame Way of Reafonipg.
This encourages me to believe,
Madam y that I may perhaps drop
fome Hints, which you have not
yet attended to ; and I am willing to
flatter myfelf for your Sake, that,
when you have weigh'd them dif-
paffionately if you can bringfbur
felf to do it they may help to re-
ilore you (to fay nothing of your
Duty) to Yourfelf, your Friend, and
the World. I know it is a mighty
eafy Thing, and not an uncommon
one, to fay Be chearful and content-
ed ; tho' it is in other Words, Be
happy. But the Difficulty is to ihew
the
the Death of her Hii/band, 89
the Means, and to put it within our
Powerj this I am now attempting, and
this I conjure you to recoiled: yourfelf
to attend, with Coolnefs and Com-
mand.
I have never heard you mention'd,
Madam, under any other Character
than that of a prodigious good Wo-
man j and I dare fay you juftly de-
ferve it. But when you lay before
you the Whole of Things, the Wif-
dom of your Maker, and the Relation
you ftand in to him, the hidden
Ways and Goodnefs of his Provi-
dence, and the Right which he has
to impofe a Difcipline upon us, in
the Way of Probation for a Scene
of Things to come, you will find
that an Immoderate Difcontent, let
the Lofs and the Difappointment
be what it will how much lefs
then when it is only the common
Fate
9 A Letter to a LADY on
Fate of Man ! is in no Sort con-
fiflent with a real Senfe of Goodnefs.
The World has been ftrangely
miftaken about Piety j a Belief of
God's Exiftence, and a conftant Se-
ries of Devotion, in his public and
private Worfhip, tho* fo often de-
clar'd in Scripture to have no other
Efficacy with Regard to Us, than as
Means to aflift us in our Duty, yet
by a ftrange Sort of Delufion,
have pafs'd upon the World for the
Fruits of Holinefs and Virtue. Men
have fo long made Ufe of thefe Ex-
ternals in Religion, not under the
proper Notion of their being Means,
but as the End Iff elf of Piety, that
we often fee Inftances, of thofe who
are very deficient, in that abfolute Re-
fignation, that entire Truft and Con-
fidence, which they ought to have
in a Being of fuch confummate
Power
the Death ofherHujband. gi
Power and Goodnefs, who would
on no Account omit the Marks of
Outward Holinefs.
But, Madam, I make no Scruple
to declare, that Piety, or our Duty
to God call it which you pleafe
confided d particularly as Jucb, is
to caft ourfelves upon him without
any Murmuring or Difeontentj to
fubmit to him as the wifeft and beft
of Beings ; aad abfolutely to depend
upon his Care and Providence, as
the Governor of the World. This
is That Temper of Mind which is
moft particularly fuitable to the State
we are paffing thro', and there can
be no Love of fuch a Being, as God
is, without it. We know that we
derive every thing which we enjoy
in this Life from his eflential Good-
nefs $ we know that he has a Pow-
er to do what he pleafes ; but we
likewife
92 A Letter to a LADY on
likewife know that he is a Being of
the moft abfolute Benevolence, who
delights in doing Good to all his
Creatures, without Exception ; tho'
as he has further Things in View
than what appear to Us, his Ap-
pointments, on many Occafions,
feem unaccountable and fevere.
And what, Madam, is the Con-
clufion that is to be drawn from
hence, but that we mould refer our-
felves entirely and implicitly to Him,
and place all our Truft and Confi-
dence in his Goodnefs ? Vain then
is all the Pomp of Worfhip, and the
Solemnity of Devotion, unlefs this
is the habitual Frame and Difpofi-
tion of our Minds, towards the great
Eternal Mover.
But to prefs this Truth in all its
Force upon you, Madam, addrefs
your
the Death of her Hujband. 93
your defponding Heart, under the
Weight of your prefent Sorrows,
with fuch Reflexion as thefe : I
find, by my Experience, that I came
into this World without any Defign
of my own, and under the Direction
of a Wife, a Good, and Powerful
Being ; his Providence has all a-
long continually fupported me j
to his Favour I owe every thing
which I ever had, and the Scrip-
tures have afTur'd me, that a Hair
does not fall from my Head,
without him. But at the fame
Time I am his Creature, who can
claim nothing from him, and my
very Being is an Act of his Free Will
and Mercy. Shall I complain then
of the Condition or Allotment which
he has order'd, and find Fault with
his Adminift ration? No. This is
an Excefs of Pride and Folly, which
my
94 -^ Letter to a Lady on
my Heart can ne'er comply with ;
and what am I, to expeft that He
who ruleth over all the Kingdoms of
the Earth, mould interrupt the gene-
ral Laws, by which the World is
govern'd, for my Sake ? I fee many
of my own Species, many of my
own Sex, every Day involv'd in the
fame Calamities which I now be-
moan, and attended, alas! with Cir-
cumftances of far more exquifite Dif-
trefs. I find it is the common Fate
of Mortals 5 and why then fhould I
expedl to be diftinguim'd? It is
certain that I was not brought i nto
this World, on purpofe to lead a Life
exempt from Pain and Sorrow j it is
not the Lot of Man j there was
another End, 'tis likely, which
the great Difpofer of Events intend-
ed j He alone fent me forth to inha-
bit that Part of Earth I tread on, and
He
the Death of her Hujband. 95
He alone knows how long, and un-
der what peculiar Circumftance, I
mould inhabit it. Shall I not
therefore bear the Part which is al-
lotted me, with Contentment and
Tranquility, rather than difpleafe s
by another Conduft, the Author of
my Exiftence ? Shall I not fubmit
to the worft Condition of Morta-
lity, with Refignation and a quiet
Mind, rather than hazard an Offence
to Him, on whom my Happinefs
muft depend for ever ? Thefe are
Queftions, Madam, which, in my O-
pinion, will have fome Influence on
a Mind difpos'd to Serioufnefs and
Piety ; and having been fo full upon
this Point, which concerns your
Duty towards your Maker, I mail be
ftiorter in what follows : It is doubt-
lefs of lefs Importance, but yet it is
proper to be mention' d by me upon
this
96 A Letter to a Lady on
this Occafion, and that you fhould
calmly attend to it
If it has pleas' d the Almighty Ruler,
toputtheHappinefsof our Nature in a
great Meafure within our Power and
that, let People think as they will, he
plainly has done, then we muft im-
pute the greateft Part of our Miferies,
if we are miferable, to Ourfelves; to our
reflingin External Obje&s as our Hap-
pinefs, inftead of ufing the Mind to
Self-Enjoyment. This, Madam,
tho' a real Leffon of Philofophy, yet
I perfuade myfelf is not fo abftra&ed
and philofophical, but that you will
eafily comprehend it. Such as it
js, I leave it with you, and pafs on
to obferve, that there is fomething
due to Friendfhip j fome Regard to
Thofe, who love you too tenderly, to
fee you over- whelm' d as you are
with
the Death of her Hujband. 97
Sorrows without being themfelves
greatly affected. And this is a
Confideration, which I think mould
work much upon the Difpofition of
a Lady, fo humane and good-natur'd,
as you are always faid to be. For
if your prefent State of Mind, has
had fuch an Effect upon a mere
Stranger as to produce this Letter,
and the Commiferation exprefled in
it, how do you think it muft hurt
thofe, who, from an intimate Ac-
quaintance with your many amiable
Qualities, have learnt to take a Part
in every Thing which You feel.
Let me befeech you, therefore,
Madam, not to give yourfelf up to
fuch an Extravagance of Affliction,
as muft not only make you wretched
whilft you live, but muft alfo mort-
en a Life, that is extremely valu'd
I by
9 A Letter to a Lady on
by your Friends, and which may be
ufeful to thofe about you. The
World about you, your Relations,
your Acquaintance, may have many
Demands for the Services which
you are able to do them. Reaf-
fume, then, your wonted Greatnefs
of Mind ; true Piety as I have
already told you confifts in fub-
mitting to, and not contending a-
gainfty the Will of Heaven j It will
be your prefent Peace, and your
future Glory.
With thefe Sentiments, Madam.,
I mall take my Leave ; you will do
me the Juftice to believe, I hope,
that I have meant nothing through
the Whole, but your Felicity ; and
to know who has purfu'd fuch an
uncommon Way to ferve you, as it
cannot give any Thing that .has been
faid
the Death of her Hull and. 99
faid a greater Weight, fo it cannot
be of any Moment. It is One who
defires to do Good, tho' he has but
few Abilities, and who with the ut-
moft Sincerity, prays this Attempt
may fucceed. It is fubmitted to
God, and your own Heart, and lam,
MA DAM,
Tour Moft Obedient
Humble Servant,
Aog.1744- F. W.
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