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Les diagrammes suivants illustrent la m6thode. rata o >elure. 3 32X 1 2 3 1 2 3 4 5 6 } «Mt 14 -2^ ^^^>^. y^ /^^=^i^T*>;i^«»'^*- C^^^rr^/ 6/JL « i 4»««; \' rh • .1 ri) P ' A'' # PHlLAI>F.MHi.A HENRY ALTl ^ftJ$ p re ^■"f..'^' \ >^4?'>^^':^i^>«- -^' / #;^ ->::; r-^jS^ff-sS-r^^-s ■' ^^^^-^^-P^^ 6yx Preparation for Motherhood HV ELISABETH R0I3L\S0X SCOVIL ite Superintendent of the Newport Hospita], and Associate Editor of the Ladies' Home Journal Author of " The Care of Children " # PHILADELPHIA HENRY ALTEMUS ( IN UNIFORM STYLE. By the same Author. THE CARE OF CHILDREN. NEW AND REVISED EDITION. IVith a practical and copious index. 360 pages. 12 mo. cloth. $1.00. HENRY ALTEMUS, PUBLISHER. PHILADELPHIA. Copyright, 1896, BY HONRY ALTEMUS. :>■ -i: I ! 1 i Henry Altemus, Manufacturer PHILADtLPHlA CONTENTS INTRODUCTION . 11 CEIAPTER I THE PELVIC ORGANS Iinprecios, the proper care of children, before and after birth, demand and should have at least as much at- tention as the study of foreign languages, or the higher mathematics. Motherhood is the natural lot, as well as tlie crowning glory of woman. Even if she did not at- (11) ,1 1 I! !i* ii' 12 INTRODUCTION tain it herself, it would do the individual woman no harm to be thoroughly furnished with the ihr- essary knowledge, and there are few who at som* time do not have to care for the children of others. There is nothing indelicate in the secrets of natur< We may look with pure and reverent eyes at h( processes, as far as she permits their mysterious work- ings to be seen, and find only cause for awe and ad- miration. Unseen but ev^r present is the Lord ano Giver of Life, in whom we live and move and hav' our being. If the sacredness of life, even in its earliest stages, were more deeply impressed upon the minds of some women, it might lessen the tragedies of ruined health and burdened conscience that overshadow to' manv homes. It is true that some women are laden with bur- dens beyond their strength to bear, and maternitv from its too frequent recurrence becomes an ojiprcs- sive weight, instead of the blessing it was intended t be. The remedy does not lie in the desperate woiuai: taking the law into her own hands and staining lui soul with crime by crushing the germ of the new life just begun. This is fraught with terrible con- sequences to body and soul alike. After the birtl. of the child, the best and wisest physician withii. fi^ts INTRODUCTION 13 lal woman ii the 11* »- 10 at soiiit of otheir s of natiiiv eyes at he; rious work- .we and ad- m Lord aim ^e and hav' rliest stap;p>, ( minds of es of ruiiuHi H'sbadow t()i with bur- materniiy |.s an oppn V intended I' (rate woiiuii; staining lu'i lof the HOW irrible eon- \.v the birtl iciaa withiii Wach should i)e consulted and his advice implicitly followed in the future. If mothers talked frankly yet modestly with their daiiiihters, first informino; themselves and then teachiufi: their children some of the great central focts of life, there would be less unhappiness, suffer- ing and ill health. The barrier between mother and dauu;hter, that prevents the frankness and con- fidence that ought to exist between them, is often raised in very early childhood. The little girl, as her curiosity awakens, comes to her mother with questions which .should be truth- folly answered, as far as it is possible to make the subject plain to her limited comprehension. In- stead of this she is put off with some well-worn fiction, which she soon discovers to be untrue. Her absolute trust in her mother is shaken, never to be wholly restored, and she seeks from others who have no right to give it the information she should have had from the one whose dutv it was to have ira- parted it. Why should the mother, of all others^ be the one to shrink from guarding the purity of her child's Blind? Innocence is not ignorance, but reverent knowledge. It is the atmosphere wliich surrounds ai object that gives it its coloring. The simple ^ts of physiology, properly taught, convey nq 14 irTRODUCTTON I !fi!! II I' I i ■ - J- ■*■ devo this I who this I for 11] Th a wor safety and St been j Wli hint of impropriety. Viewed through the mediun, of a vulgar secrecy, as something only to be spoken of with hated breath, they acquire a fictitious im- modesty which in no way belongs to them. Many wise mothers have recognized their obli>ra- tions to their children in this matter, but there ar many, many others, who have neglected them gafui,, There are many, too, who would be glad to fiilti tpQgV them if they knew the way. Make this a principle in the elementary teachiii'j never tell a child anything that is not absolute] true. Draw illustrations at first from plant and an imal life. Describe in simple language the wonder fj^mg ful structure of the pelvic organs. Tell how day In functic day the little fiame grows until the child is [)erfectci cleanli and the tiny, helpless being comes into the world t^ are all be loved and cherished. Further details can be kf; child Ik until the inquirer is older, but there need never 1> sible fi silly mystery in the beginning. doing A good ^ext book of physiology for mothers i fulness needed. Those in use in schools do not deal wit: gyer b the pelvis further than to say that it contains soni J^ .^ important organs, which is not sufficient informatidexplioit for women. The text books intended for studriii in gi^.)., of medicine are too technical fi)r the ordinary readcJater vo and presuppose a knowledge that she does not liavtbriefly 1 This being the case, it was thought that a cha[)t6i INTRODUCTION 15 devoted to this subject woiikl not be out of plaee in e medium ^j^jg ,„.,„ij.ii. Jt niay be of use and interest to those )e spoken ^^^ dv^'ive to know something of the anatomy of tlous im- ^jjjg region and yet have not time nor opportunity for more extenckid study. i'lv obliira- jjj^, „^,),.(3 vigorous, heaUhy and well-developed there ar ^^ woman is, the better elianee she has of coming :ed them gafely through the i)erils of child-bearing. It is 1 to fulh ^j.^Q tl,^^ delicate women do pass through them in safety, but their children are apt to have less vitality ,' teacliiH': and strenian tubes. These are to convey the little otrg from the place where it is formed into the uterus, They lie along the broad ligament, but one end i^ free and furnished with a delicate fringe. Below these tubes, also supported by the broad ligameiii, are two oval bodies called the ovaries. These con- tain the eggs which hold tiie germ of the future life. The eggs are so tiny that it would take one hundred and twenty-five of them to reach an inch. In front of the uterus lies the bladder, behind it the rectum, or lower part of the large intestine, ofuii called the back passage, and leading directly to it> mouth is the vagina, or front })assage, through which the child makes its entrance to the world. The uterus is something like a pear in shape, with the broad end turned uppermost. It has thick walls, but is a very small organ in the virgin state. Then it is only about three inches long and two w^ide at the broadest part, and w^eighs from an ounce to an ounce and a half. When it contains a child new material is added to it, and it increases greatly in size. After delivery it gradually shrinks, but never quite regains its former dimensions. If the newly-made mother stands and walks too soon, the weight of the uterus is apt to stretch the broad ligament, which, not being elastic like a piece of India rubber, remains in this state. The uterus, D I little e^rg he uterus, 3ne oiul is e. Beliw ligament, These con- future \\i\\ le hundred t r, behind it ^stine, often [•ectly to it- ough whieli shape, willi thick walls, ate. Then wo "vvide at unce to an child now greatly in , but never \\ walks too stretch the like a piece 'he uterus, CONCEPTION 19 Bot being properly held in place, descends too h)\v, and the patient snilers iron» wiiat is popularly known as falling of the womb. This is a very painful con- dition, giving rise to backache and many uncom- fortable nervous feelings. It is very im[)ortant that there should be rest in bed for nine, or ten, days, and great care should be exercised in walking, or stand- ing, for some time, as the uterus does not return to its usual size for about six weeks. The motion of going uj> and down stairs is particularly injurious, and should be avoided as long as possible. ■|| c()NCf:ptiox I At the time of menstruation an unusual supply blood is sent to the pelvic organs. An egg on the surface of the ovary l)ecomes ripe, bursts the shell, or envelope, that surrounds it, and falls into the free end of the Fallopian tube, the fringelike extremity of the tube resting belov/ and against the ovary. The tube is lined with a delicate membrane, lined with hairlike filaments which beckon the egg towards the uterus. If it is impregnated, it lodges in the cavity of the uterus and begins to grow there. If not impregnated, it ])asses through the uterus and is carried off throudi the vasrina. ; The semen, or seed of the male, entering the i|terus from the vagina, in which passage it is sup- 20 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD posed to remain for about twenty minutes, meets the egg, usually in the Fall()[>ian tube. The passage of the egg through the tube occupies, it is said, from ten to fourteen days. After it is cast out from the uterus nothing remains to be impregnated until the next menstruation shows that another egg has ripened. It is said that the semen retains its vitality for eight, or ten, days, so that if it finds its way into the uterus, or tubes, within that time before men- struation, it may lie there awaiting the coming e^^g and stimulate it into life. There is thus about one week in the month when it is probable conception will not take place. I .. PUNISHMENT FOR DESTRUCTION OF LIFE From the moment that the semen penetrates the egg and unites with it, life begins, and its destruc- tion is a crime that can only be called by one name — murder. In some States it is punishable by death if the mother herself is the guilty person. When the crime is committed by another the pen- alty is imprisonment for twenty years. GROWTH The impregnated egg leaves the Fallopian tube and attaches itself tQ th(? wall of the uterus, usually GROWTH 21 neets the issage of lid, from from the until the egg has s vitality way into ore mou- rning etig ibout one ;onception LIFE trates the s destruc- one name ath if the jr the pen- )pian tube 8, usually in the upper part, and its growth commences. It is loon surrounded l)y a covering of membrane, calh'd the amniotic sac, which alter a time is filled with a fluid in which the child floats. At the time of birth this amounts to about a quart. When the sac rup- tures to permit the escaj)e of the child, the liquid comes awav, and this is known as the breaking of the waters. The liquid protects the child from accidental injury from a sudden jolt, or jar, to the mother. It also defends the uterus from contact with the hard surface of the child. At the time of birth, when ^e mouth of the uterus begins to unclose, the bag of water slips into the aperture like a wedge and holds it open, preventing it from closing until it is fully ex[)anded to permit the outward passage of the ehild. During the time that it is within the uterus the infant receives air and nourishment through the umbilical cord, which is attached to its navel. This begins to grow at the end of the first month, and is about twenty inches long when finished. It contains two arteries and a vein, through which the child's blood is carried to the mother for purification and enrichment, and returned to build up the fast-grow- jpig frame. I At first the wall of the uterus, much :\ickened 22 PRKP A RATION FOR MOTHERHOOD till. ijM "li u ti and enlarged, contains sufficient blood vessels ti supply the demands of the new organism. After a tim(,' more is required, and during the third moiitl, the placenta is formed. This is a Hat, spongclik. mass, growing on the inner wall of the uterus, filKd with blood vessels through which the blood of tin mother freely circulates. One end of the undjilicii cord is attached to it, so that the blood of the cliil(i also flows into it. The two fluids never mini:l(. however, being separated by a thin membrane, tin walls of the blood vessels. Oxygen, the gas in the air which sustains life, and nourishment already prepared by the mother, pass through this thin dividing membrane, are al> sorbed by the blood of the child and carried back throu<]:h the umbilical cord. When the child has been expelled from the uterus, the placenta, having served its purpose, fol- lows. It is commonly called the after-birth. It i? about eight, or nine, inches long, six, or seven, wide, • and weighs about a pound and a quarter. The vagina, or front passage, through which tlit child enters the world, is a canal about five, or .iial size, or tiic ])arts are par- ticularlv unyieldinj;. The doctor in attendance often puts in a few stitches at the time to repair tho breach. If for any reason he thinks it best not to do so immediately, he will })robably take advantage of the earliest oiportnnity to perform the operation. It is a comparatively slight one, and if left nndone gives rise to unpleasant results. The j)erineum in women helps to supi)()rt the vagina, uterus and bladder. Its rupture permits their displacement and causes much discomfort — sometimes serious iu- flOnvenience and suffering. Close to the upper part of the opening of the vagina, outside, is a tiny orifice, the month of the urethra, or passage leading to the bladder. This canal is about an inch and a half long. After child- birth it is sometimes necessary to draw the water for a day or two, the mother having temporarily lost the power of passing it herself This is not a for- aoidable operation, and usually gives little, some- ^mes no, pain. A catheter, a flexible tube of rubber, or one of glass, made for the purpose, is gently in- jerted in the urethra and pushed on until it enters lie bladder, when the water flows out through it. 24 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD THE MAMMARY GLANDS Although not situated in the pelvis, there are two other organs that have an important function in the process of rej)roduction. These are the breasts, properly called the mammary glands. The word Mamma is derived from the same Latin word. Each breast is composed of fifteen or twenty lobes, in which the milk is secreted. Each lobe has a little duct which carries the milk to the nipple. The tiny openings can be seen on its surface when the milk i; squeezed from it. The darker skin around the nip- ple is called the areola. The breasts begin to enlarge early during preg- nancy, usually about the beginning of the second month, to fit them for their office of secreting nour- ishment for the baby after its birth. They become sensitive and a tingling sensation is felt in tluni. The veins show more prominently on the surflice, A little later the nipples become enlarged, darker and more sensitive. During the last three months a milky fluid can be pressed from them. The areola also swells and darkens. Nature provides in every \vay possible for the safety of mother and child. The pelvis is broader and the bones lighter in women than in men. It i? composed of several bones, and during pregnane} the connections between them become softened aiii .> », ^? ,■11 3D THE MAMMARY GLANDS 25 ere are t\v(j ;tion in the lie breasts, The word word. ,'enty lolx's, has a little The tiny the milk is Qcl the nip- the bones slightly separate, so as to yield more readily to pressure and give as much room as can be obtained. The soft parts also become more elastic and en- large. iring prog- the second 2ting noiir- ley become t in tlicni. he surface, ^ed, darker le months a The areola )le for the 1 is broader lien. It i? pregnancy )ftened ani MMMNIiUa J i CHAPTER II MENSTRUATION So a mei escap it fre but tl Th brighi lasts The increased supply of blood sent to the pd a half organs at the time of the ripening and dischaivi Wli an egg from tlie ovary causes tiny blood vosxl^ physic the lining of the uterus to rupture, and prodiid great, flow of blood known as the menses. The ten: the flo derived from a Latin word meaning month, and Som name is given because the discharge occurs al every every twenty-eight days. than o Others TIME OF APPEARANCE ^^^ , The time of its first appearance varies very ii; in different persons and under different conditi Girls who live in a cold climate and wiio arc ^tr ^n and hardy are not unwell as early as their iito be delicate sisters, or those whose home is in a ^v;backa( country. PJven in temperate latitudes the flow S' It is times begins at eleven years of age, and it niayful of come until fifteen. If it is delayed longer than them t a physician should be consulted. The ' (26) \\ Ml NECESSITY OF CARE 27 Sometimes the opening of the vagina is dosed by a membrane, called the hymen, whieh prevents the escape of the fluid, and it has to be removed to give it free passage. This is a very trifling operation, but the consequences of neglecting it are serious. The discharge is at first pale, then becomes a bright red, and towards the last paler again. It lasts from three to six days, and from a quarter to ; to the pel a half i)int is lost. i discharuv When a Iarg(»r quantity than this is discharged, a ood vosseh j)hy8ician should be consulted, as the drain is too [id produ(( great. Iron, or some other tonic, is needed to check Tiie ton: the flow. nonth, and Some women menstruate slightly more often than 3 occurs al every twenty-eight days. When it occurs oftener than once in three weeks, advice should be obtained. Others are only unwell once in two months and yet ^ seem to be in perfect health, ries very n; 1| cut COnditi m NECESSITY OF CARE who are ^u Any disturbance of the menstrual function is sure as their nto be attended with nervous synij)toins, headache, is in a w. backache, and sometimes pain in the abdomen. i the flows' It is worth while for mothers to be especiallv care- md it niayful of their daughters at this period, and to teach onger than them to take care of themselves. The details and meaning of the process should be 28 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD ( explained to a girl as she approaches the age at wii it may be expected to begin. It should be invt? with a certain dignity as the sign manual of h(r trance into the duties and privileges of womanln It is sometimes several months before the flov properly established, and during this time it may irregular; perhaps not taking place for two, or t three months, and then coming at too short intn-v No anxiety need be felt as to these irregulari: during the first year. If it persists after that, i; well to consult a good physician. DANGER OF COLD Cold is a danger especially to be avoided at t: time. Warm clothing should not be exchangdl light weight, even in hot weather. The cliai should be deferred until the flow has ceased, (i ting overheated and then sitting in a draught !« fruitful source of oold. The feet should be guarded with special care. a girl has the misfortune to get them wet, tl siiould be well rubbed with alcohol, spirits of ca phor, or some stimulating liniment. Sitting in v shoes and damp stockings at this time is suicidal. While a girl should not be unnecessarilv codil and made to think too much about herself, • should be carefully watched, and if there is a te dene shoii in be Ba fully taken habit I Th easily l)art ( dried, There every not d; are di time I As ness fc twille( hemni< they a thejr si four h( tOOD BATHING — NAPKINS 29 \ age at m li d be invo>; lal of Ixr womaiilii Te the 11 ov me it may ' two, or ev lort intri-v irregulaii: fter that, i; voided at t; xchanofcd The olui! ceased. (> draught i- cial care, m wet, tl )irits of ca 5itting ill V s suicidal, arilv C()(K1' herself, ^ ere is a te dency to backache, or pain low in the abdomen, she should lie down often during the first days, and stay in bed if there is much discomfort. BATHING Bathing during men.struaiion requires to be care- fully guarded. A plunge bath never .should be taken, nor a cold bath indulged in, even if its use is habitual at other times. There is need of excpiisite cleanliness, and this can easily be attained by a warm .sponge bath. Only a part of the body must be wet at once and rapidly dried, the feet being kept warm during the process. There should be local bathing with warm water every day. The feet should be wa.shed with a cloth, not dipped into water, and well rubbed when they are dried. Sea bathing must be prohibited for the time being. NAPKINS A stock of napkins should be provided in readi- ness for the time of need. The.se may be made of twilled cotton or Canton flannel, half a yard .square, hemmed on the edges, and folded into shape when they are put on. About a dozen are required, as they should be changed at least twice in the twenty- four hours. When washing is a consideration, pads can be uii i:i.t.iu,uu\~immmmiieamim 30 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD ; . 1 1 made of cheap absorbent cotton, or cotton wasit, , ^ covered with y;auze, or cheese cloth. They aw: ^ \ . stockii inches long by three wide, and nearly an incli t! . i , A strip of gauze at each end fastens them v p. . girdle. Thev can be purchased ready-made, , , \ 1 // 1 mi 1 , alcohol cost about live cents each, liiey are burndl; n .^ use. ''PI menstr The most comfortable girdle is made s<>i"*Uj,p „^ like the yoke of a skirt, pointed in front and 1,,^.^* _r narrow on the hips, and fastened on one sid( . . button and button hole. A double piece of t\\ cotton is cnt the desired shape and stitched ^^i v)rmpd the edge. Some persons prefer an elastic girdk,^^ others, a wide, soft ribbon. Whe A girl should be trained to take pride in IkIq ^^ all her personal belongings and the accessories i-^^j-j^^ ^ toilet as neat and dainty as possible. There j^jjg ^j subtle want of self-respect in neglecting those g q^^ f^ are seldom seen except by the wearer. REMEDIES Y' j^ If the flow does not begin when it is exptn hors and there are nncomfortable feelings, headadnd eve sensation of weight, or })aiu, in the abdomen, di' me. may take a hot sitz bath, that is, sit immersed t ettw, a hips in a tub of hot water, soak her feet in \'evelope >vater, and take a hot drink of ginger tea, or In If pos Klii HOOD EXERCISE 31 ton wastt, ^. [jefore roin^r to bed. Slir slioukl wear warmor iiiey ai'^ 'stockings than usual the next clay and not go out of ^"^ ^"^'^' ^' the house. s them t( j^ jg ^jj^^ praetlce in some families to administer idy-madt'. j^|^.q|jq| ;„ ^,)„i(. {[n-m, and even opium, for the relief e b"''^^< "^ of the excruciatiuo: pain that sometimes accom})anies menstruation. This never should be done without lade sonict |.jjg ^dviee of a ])hvsician. It does not strike at the 1,1] ^ * ^ ront and i^.^^^ ^^ ^1^^ p^.jj^ which might be reached l)y proper one siuf -reatment, but only gives temporary ease, and has to piece 01 t\\ -jg repeated each month. Habits may thus be stiteiied ill formed which cause lasting^ injury to mind and istic girou -j^y^ and may end in rendering life unendurable. When the pain is so severe that it will not yield H'lde m m'Q the simple domestic remedies of a hot drink and ecessorio^'yarm applications, as a hot water bag, hot fomenta- e. There jons, or a flaxseed poultice, to the abdomen, the case ting thui^e^ one for a physician's prescription. EXERCISE Violent exercise, as skating, playing tennis, riding it is exptn horseback, bicycle riding, dancing to excess, Ts, headadnd even long walks, should be interdicted at this (domen, tilt me. q^ij^, ^lore quiet a girl can be kept the iimerseil t etter, at least until she is old enough to be fully ; feet in veveloped. ' tea, or lei If possible, there should be no study In the even- 32 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD ■I :l I ijiill ing during the pi ess of menstruation. The 1 is taxed sufficiently already, and the mind sli not be permitted to make an extra demand upo This practice is a pernicious one at the best, should be discountenanced by parents when possible. School is the place to study lesson !> delay and they should be kept there. The hours at 1, are too precious and needed for too many other ; poses to be devoted to them. If to Ik come its pi shed Soi r^uh dischs as the INTERRUPTION If menstruation is suddenly checked after ii begun, the same measures may be used to encou: vicari< its return. If these are ineffectual, nothinjx r i^endei need be done until the next period, unless tin ^^nir very marked discomfort. There are several d *"© bl( and preparations which can be administered, Ixii *00w •* a doctor can decide when it is proper to j)rc them. A sudden fright, any excitement, or stroni; t tTsi tion, may produce the ilow unexpectedly, or cai "'^»' ^ to cease instantly. A chill from sitting in • ^^own clothing, or wetting tlie feet, will often prodiin W*<>*e latter result. The whole function seems to be * ■*• ^^ tiraatelv connected with the nervous system tlia ^®® mind has almost as much influence on it as pliv*^"""^'^ causes. ^^^ «^ 3 [OOD VICARIOUS MENSTRUATION — CESSATION 33 mind sli' Hand iipo: the best,: nts wlieii^ lesson bi lOurs at 1 iny other i ed after il d to encoii: nothinii r. unless till several (!• tered, hut er to i)resi )r strong » dly, or car itting in '^ m prod 110 3ms to he ^ system tlia: n it as pby If a woman has a special reason for wishing not to be unwell, it is ten chances to one that the unwel- come visitor makes its appearance on the very day its presence is least desired. If, on the other hand, she dreads that she may not become so, the very fear delays its arrival. VICARIOUS MENSTRUATION Sometimes delicate girls who do not menstruate regularly, or who have a very scant flow, have a discharge of blood from some other part of the body, as the nose, or mouth, at this time. Tliis is called vicarious menstruation. There is seldom enough to render it alarming, and constitutional treatment is required to build up and strengthen the body, enrich the blood and give tone to the system. Nourishing food is an important factor in the result. CESSATION Usually the cessation of the menses is one of the first symptoms of pregnancy. Cases have been known where it has occurred regularly during the whole period. It is normally absent in the nursing mother, yet some women menstruate even while nursing their childi-en. It is then generally thought best to wean the child. The milk often does not agree with it 3 34 l>llEPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD under those circumstances, and the double drain i? too great a tax on the strength of the mother. The nursing period is sometimes prolonged ^vitll the idea that, while the secretion of milk continues, there is less probability of conception taking j^lace. This is often a futile hope. No baby should be nursed after it is a year old. The mother's milk does not supply suitable or sufficient nourishment after the teeth begin to develop. This is nature's indication that more solid food is needed, and it should be given. THE MENOPAUSE There comes a time in a woman's life when men- struation finally ceases. This is the sign that her power of reproduction is over ; she can no longer hope again to become a mother. This period i- known as the menopause, or, more familiarly, as tlit change of life. The flow does not stop suddenly, but becomes ir- regular. There may be a great quantity dischargtii at once, almost amounting to flooding, and then nom ' for three or four months. Gradually it ceases alto- gether. This change is often accompanied by great dis- turbance of the system. The liver is out of order the circulation interfered with, and the head affected There are uncomfortable flashes of heat over tlif who] instil in pr grcesj tiikes An the (•( date c Wonici 80 unt not b( itoensti: :f A \\ tfiero n lid vice. lould ^i/ iients II 3, sc'urt' Lie of pa rganizai: lences tli. petty ^v ud the ci |cl, open I ;en seeiii g with 01 riiore iIk r to cIkt grestini: ^i and tti; 11 ban i sir a part of ^^ find out, possible, what is the matter, and remove it. Very often constipation is at tiie bv)tt()m of the mischief. Sometimes not enoiii,^h food is taken to supply the demands of tiie system, or it is not snlliciently nonr- ishinjr. In otiier cases too much is eaten, more than the digestive organs can deal with properly, or the body needs. It may be tliat the l)lood is impoverished ; there are not enough of the tiny red globules that carry the life-giving oxygen, and some form of iron is re- quired to increase them. Insullicient sU-ep is a frequent cause of nervous- DflBS. The mother sits up late and rises early; the hours between are not long enough to give the rest danand(>d by the weary frame and tired nerves. She gets up feeling languid and unrefreshed, and this inevitably makes her fretful and fault-finding, or, if she has self-control enough to prevent this, sad aind silent. Rest is essential to repair the fatigue of tte day. Many women are harder task-masters to them- sdkes than thev are to anv other member of their hoiiseholds. It is the self-indulgent who make de- mands upon others and coddle themselves. The self-sacrificing spend their strength too lavishly, and wHl not see that proper care of themselves and a due 38 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD husbanding of tiieir powers is a duty they onm- ; their families. An hour a day spent in rest and sleep by Wdnv who are not strong would contribute more to t comfort of the home than any other use they (oi: possibly make of the time. They would come i'w- and bright to the duties of the evening, instead being too weary and harassed to be cheerful col panions. If the mother is to make the home t: brightest spot on earth to husband and children, ^ must have a private store of sunshine to shed on She cannot generate this when body and brain a overtaxed with the strain of a long day of incessa: work and anxiety. i'ili!i!::i .ililiiv THE HOME MAKER The demands of modern life are very exactii It is often most difficult to adjust properly the C' flicting claiius of charitable enterprises, social dm and business engagements. I think we wmi should remember that we are first of all In: makers. None can take our place there. ) all of us have an opportunity to exercise > natural office, and then other duties assume a pa mount importance. In this case we must lili where we are led. When we are the chief fh' in a liome, our first duty is to it, and we Im D ey o\\ e : by wonif ore to !; they (oi; come iVt< insteiul eerful col e home t; hildren, ^ ) shed on 1 brain a of incessa: 'M- ry exactii rly the c social f INDICATIONS OF PREGNANCY There are a number of symptoms which takt together point ahiiost concUisively to the fact tb conception has occurred. Any one of tliem seps rately would not be positive evidence, because might be duo to other causes. CESSATION OF MENSES Usually the non-appearance of the menstrual fit is the first indication a woman has that she is ])iv. nant. The oversupply of blood is directed to^\•a^ the su[)port of the child, the pressure on the (ap; laries, or tiny blood vessels, in the uterus is lo.s>e!io they do not rupture and there is no discliarp Menstruation sometimes continues until the fifth. sixth, month and tlien ceases. As has been ti plained previously, its cessation may be due to cd excitement, or otlier mental disturbance. Thus appears that its presence, or absence, is not a posit; sign one way or the other. (40) Til Th t|H J ■ hich takt le fact tk them sepj because istrual fl' ^he is ])rt'; ted towiip 1 the raji; is lesseiH' ► dischar: the fifili. Ls been h due to co! e. Tlius ot a pushr MORNING SICKNESS — QUICKENING 41 MORNING SICKNESS Morning sickness is a feeling of nausea that oc- curs as soon as the head is raised from the pillow, and often at intervals during the day, particularly a^T eat i no. It usually disappears during the third month, but in some cases persists until the end. If it is so serious that a proper (juautity of fjod cannot be taken, or retained, the doctor should be consulted afVer domestic treatment has been tried in vain. ENLARGEMENT OF THE BREASTS The enlargement of the breasts, accompanied by tinghng sensations, is often noticed during the first month. This symptom, liowever, appears in some women at the time of menstruation, so it cannot be depended upon as an indication alone. ^B OTHER SYMPTOMS The nav«-l, or umbilicus as it is properly called, appears t ?jink in during the first two months. IlBter i n-M:, again, and in the ninth month often pt-otnuks, or p Hits, above the surface. During the tjirly peiiud the abdomen* seems to be slightly flat- I QUICKENING I This usufiliy takes place at four months and a liplf, ' half way between conception and delivery. Hhe u^ '• V5 rices out of the pelvis higlier into the 42 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD abdomen, and the mother first feels the moveniont; of the ehild. It is a popiihir snperstition that lii- is not present until these motions are perceptibk but it does exist from the moment that the eirgi transfixed by the spermatozoid, or active part, oi'tl. male seed. The sensation of quickening often causes a feolir, of faintnes?' If it is first felt in church, or a puli! place, it is c » !t to maintain the self-control. I: it is possible to ic down for a few minutes, the uii pleasant feelings gradually disappear for the time. The movements of the child occasion more or le«: discomfort from this time on. The mother may r^ member for her comfort that they cannot do ham The (3hild is firmly enclosed in the amniotic sac, siir rounded by fluid, and that in turn cannot csca)' from the uterus. Some women never feel any motion and yet bcs living children. Ill' I'. I FALSE INDICATIONS In some cases contractions of the muscles of tl abdomen, or the presence of wind, or gas, in the k testines, are mistaken for the movements of a cliil so that even these indications are not a certain ^i^ of pregnancy, as they may be counterfeited. A examination by a physician is the only means < pniit( D SPURIOUS PREGNANCY 43 loveniont- that li; erceptibk the egg i; ►art, of tl;: ;s a feelir,, )r a pull'. ntiol. 1: es, the nil- :he time. lore or le^ er may r: t do liani ,ic sae, siu not escaf d yet bi'2 soles of tl , in the it of a chili ertain ^ii: 'eited. A means < )sitively })r()vini; it. The enlargement of the ab- nu'ii, win'eh might be su])p()sed to be j)roof posi- e, may be due to otlior causes, as the growth of a nior. Wiien this is the case, the general health is ected more seriously than it usually is in an ordi- liary pregnancy. ':% AVhen the uterus contains a child, it enlarges at a jftrtain recognized rate, increasing regularly in size. If ith the growth of a tumor the distention does not j^oceed according to any known law. -a ! MEDICAL EXAMINATION I Tlie doctor can give a well-founded verdict only per he has made an examination by touch, either Iternal or external, sometimes both. As the child velo[)s, about the end of the fourth month, the |ating of the heart can be distinguished through wall of the abdomen if listened for with an in- i^ument to assist the hearing called a stethoscope. Bie i-a[)idity of the beat is said to be one of the signs 1^ which the sex may be surmised. If over 134 a mnute the child is probably a girl, under that num- ir a boy. The rate is from 120 to 160 beats a nute. At birth the pulse is about 120. In a lalthv adult it averao:es about 72. SPURIOUS PREGNANCY ^Kcj vous, hysterical women, those who very greatly 44 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD desire to have cliiklron, yet fear they will not, per haps on account of advanced age, and those who an equally afraid of becoming mothers, are sometiim^ the victims of a false, or spurious pregnancy, ^lair of the signs are i)resent, the enlargement of tli abdomen, the swelling of the breasts, which ni;r even secrete milk, and the cessation of menstruatiu!; Imaginary movements are felt, the stomach may 1- disturbed, and at the end of the supposed pcric labor pains are experienced — all with no nsui' This is, perhaps, the most striking instance in pli\>i ology, of tlie iuflaence of mind over matter. f IS M ' DURATION OF PREGNANCY It is difficult to calculate the exact day on wlikl the confinement may be expected to take place. I is usual to reckon 280 days, or nine months and on week, from the end of the last menstruation, aiii give that day as the date. For instance : if men struation ceased on the 26th of January, the confine mcnt may be looked for on the 2d of November It is said that the interval between conception an birth is 275 days. From this statement it might !► su])posed that the day of delivery could be acdi rately computed. That it is not so is due to the flit that it is uncertain how long a time elapses befor TWINS 45 not, per ; who an lOmetiniK y. ^lari: it of til. hic'li ni:v striKititi!: h may 1. ed peril' 10 r( >iii' ! in phy^i' jr. on whiii place. I IS and on ition, an if iiioi> le confine S^ovenil)e: ptioii an t miglit K be accii' to the Hi' Dses bffor semen unites with the egg. The interval is said to vary from a few hours to several days. Pregnancy may be prolonged very much beyond the u.-iial limit. In this country the law recognizes tglcixitimate children born after a possible pregnancy erf' .'UT days. On the otiier hand, it is possible for a baby to Hm', for d short time at least, very nuich earlier Uiai) is poi)nlarly supposed to be the case. At the ejid of the fourth month it may live for a few hours aaid the sex can be distinguished. A child born :lie sid(> I iniddli til ore 1- I be Imri ! \, can (li g, or Ud! is said that if it takes place early in this period, d)c child will probably be a girl, if later a boy. iioiher theory is, that if the father is physically u- stronger, more capable of impressing his person- itv, a daughter will be born ; otherwise, a son. It is also said, that if the mother at the time of ii(( 'ption is excited, interested and anxious to bear soil, she is likely to attain her desire. 'Jdic age of the parents is supposed to influence the suit. If the father is much older than the mother, is considenKl probable that daughters will pre- iniuate in the family. It was once thought that the eggs from one ovary odiiccd females, and those from the other, males. lice it has been proved that women from whom e ovary has been removed oy an operation, have erwards borne children of each sex, this idea has II abandoned. The whole subject is wrapped in mystery. It re- al ns for some earnest student of the future to peiie- ate the darkness and discover the truth. rp 1 is tilt thenicii- lis w<'('l\, atjsmsnnmgi 'illl 12 I !«i CHAPTER IV THE PROGRESS OF PREGNANCY Preparation. When a woman knows that shei to become a mother, she should prepare herself b every means in her power for her new duties an responsibilities. It is a time of waiting, not io I spent in despondency, nursing nervous fears, r making the most of bodily ailments, but in diliuci cultivation of mind and body. Both mother an; child will reap the benefit if an earnest effort is mad to maintain the health of both at its highest stan;o ^nt(»rti. ilic poll ifcncd w lake tlj Wher alrwu vital SI 1st a )rking Ity, the [ir the lOUIlt ( lanstic icn she 11(1. ^Tlie fir ip'<'ts as ^ 4 THE PROGRESS OF PREGNANCY 49 [n iiianv points, and if unfavorable symptoms arise, ^e will l)e able to counteract tliem, and probably to >liove the condition which causes them by treating in time. Child-l)caring is not a disease, but a natural irocoss. In a healthy woman it should give rise to |o (listuibance of the health and to very little dis- Hiifort. ^ledicine should not be needed, and be- )ii(l a stricter attention to the laws of nature, no (laii^o should be necessary in the manner of living. riit'ortuiiatcly, very few women approach at all near Ac point of perfection physically. They are bur- jiud with weaknesses, inherited or acquired, which [ake this period a time of trial to them. AVhen this added strain is brought to bear upon already overwrought nervous organization, when |e vital forces, that are scarcely equal to the task sustaining one person and keeping the system in wkini^ order, are suddenly called upon for double ity, they rebel, and their work is badly done. [If the mother with difficulty produces a sufficient loiint of blood for her own use, there is sure to be haustion, pallid cheeks and disturbed circulation Jen she is forced to supply also the demands of the 11(1. 'he first consideration then is to remedy existing ets as far as possible, to husband the resources 4 ^ 50 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD n r-i that arc available, and to increase tlieni by evirj means that can be used towards that end. It is for this |)ur})ose that most women need tin aid of a doctor. The function of a medical my ought to be not so nuich to cure his patients of di,. orders as to keep them in order. How to koj themselves in good health is a knowledge that to, many women do not })ossess. If this is importaii; under ordinary circumstances, it becomes doubly > when another being depends upon the mother to U nourished and perfected. She must then seek tli- information from some one who is competent to iiiv: it. As in many instances it is impossible i'nv i woman to consult a idivsician constantlv duriu": t' period, an effort has been made to embody in tiinj little book the advice that is usually given on jKjiii!-^ of hygiene, and to call attention to the symptom^ that demand immediate consultation with an ex]Xi rienced doctor. POINT TO BE NOTED While it is foolish to worry constantly over evenj unaccustomed feeling of discomfort, it is equally wise to neglect indications which point to serious mischief that may be remedied by prompt treatment A woman passes usually about three pints oi urine in the twenty-four hours. During this tii khe si latcri )fi; >1). twccn icfiiio lini a i The 'riK'cn strip I till rum [lit mo fettle ai rli it'll \i kI so icasurci l\v amo Ml'OUirli jould noimt. In on ^'ciity-fc iven hci )taincd loiikl >nrs lat( It alrea A POINT TO BE NOTED 51 ecd till' al iiiif of
  • s be- d if til ^he should iwvcn iiieai^, aiiu ii muio IS no nicrease lent ion tiie iaet to her medieal adviser, aud take liin a .specimen of it for examination. The measurinjTj ea!i he easily mana;:;ed in this wav. Vocure a large glass bottle, and paste on one side Htrip of eotton about an inch wide. Get a small [ill finuiel, such as are sold for five cents, and a half iiiit measure. Pour half a pint of water into the ^oitle and mark on the strip of cotton the uepth to rliieii it reaches, add another half pint and mark, [lul so on until three pints, or two quarts, have been icasurcd. The bottle is now prepared to record le amount of urine. This can be poured into it iroiigh tiie funnel after it is passed. The bottle loiild he tightly corked, washed and scalded every A daily memorandum should be kept of the nount. In order to ascertain the quantity secreted in vciity-four hours, the urine should be voided at a jiven hour, ray nine o'clock, and what is thus )taincd thrown away. The succeeding amounts lould he saved, -and at nine oV^lock, twenty-four )urs later, it should be pnSvSed again and added to lat already collected, t- mmmmmmmKBKmmmm 52 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD In preparing a specimen to be taken to the cli^ctoi a])oiit a quarter of a pint should be put into a boh previously well washed and scalded with Ijuili water. The cork, if not new, sliould be thuroiii{li; scrubbed to cleanse it from any j)article of foieii- matter. Care in this respect is very important,:; the doctor cannot be certain of the result of his oi ami nation unless the specimen is free from any ou: side impurities. The urine ought to be a pale yellow, and clta If it is ver}' dark in color, or there is a sediinc!: soon after it is passed, or it seems thick at the tini or a deposit appears after it has stood for sin hours, the pliysi(;ian should be informed. A d('])ar ure from the normal in this discharge may 1)( no importance, and it may be an indication thatn quires attention ; only the trained eye can decidt, f IMPORTANCE OF FJ.UID It is said that most persons habitually drink t httle water. It is important that plenty ol' fii: should be sup])lied to the system at this time, ami: effort should be made to take at least two (jua' during the day. This means only about eight gla- Water can be flavored with fruit syrup if it i^ '1 liked alone, and a part taken hot if ])referred. A: good riineral water can be used if desired, ;liO cloctoi to a 1)0^' itli i joili horouirlii of forciLr portant, ' of liis H n anv on and clis: a sedluiei: at the tin; d lur S'ii! A drpur^ may be ol on tbatKl decide. drink tK itv of fliK I me, amb two qua" ijrht ola- ifit i^'l rred. ^ d, TENSION OF SKIN — USE OF OIL TENSION OF SKIN 53 'ir> J As the abdomen enlarges and the skin stretches, JIk i'( is often an unconifortabh* feeling of tension, liich can be mnch relieved by anointing the surface |verv day after tie bath with sweet oil. Olive oil, \\ -alad oil, answers the })urpose admirably. This ^ot only gives relief at the time, but prepares the ^s.-iies to yield more easily when the child is born. USE OF OIL : AVlien the oil is used, its application should be tB^tciidt'd to the perineum and all the parts between dse thitrjis where most pressure is experienced, and (hich have to stretch during the passage of the child. lis softens the skin and underlying tissues, and ikcs them more pliable and less likely to give way KM) distended. Many expensive lotions are sold under high- mding names wdiich profess to render delivery jier, if not entirely painless. These dcicelve the (wary and enrich their makers, but none of them art which is little, if at all, inferior to that borne during chilil-hirth, because these have not been properly at- tended to. Neglect of them, either before or after ■i the chihl is born, is apt to be followed by intense sullciiii"', which judicious treatment would have en- I tiivlv prevented. ? As soon as the breasts begin to enlarge, they should ' he relieved from pressure. This is ensured by wear- liiii:: :i proper underwaist, with fidl, softly -gat he red Ipoekets in front large enough to receive the breasts |conifbrtal)ly. The dress must be widened across the Ifi-ont l)v the introduction of a full vest, so that there lis at no time the slightest sense of constriction. Kveiy day they should be especially bathed with juol water, gently rubbed to stimulate the circula- [tioii, and anointed wdth a little sweet oil. » THE NIPPLES The nipples also must receive particular attention. [Sometimes a small quantity of milky fluid oozes from them. If this is allowed to dry and retnain )ii the tender skin, disaster is sure to follow. They Ishould be bathed at the same time as the breasts, |and share in the inunction with oil. During the ?|la-t six weeks they should be bathed twice a day with il 'ohol containing a pinch of alum, li' the alcohol W^ i'ure, it should be diluted one-half with water. mim 56 PEEPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD Tliey should frequently be gently pressed and | rubbed between the fingers to toughen the skin and prepare it for the pressure of the baby's lips. In some women the nipple is contracted, or in. verted. Instead of standing out above the suiface of the breast, a well-defined point which a bab\ caD easily grasp, it is level with the surface and slip. backward into the soft tissue at every attem])t t^ hold it in a most exasperating manner. A self-respecting baby generally remonstrates at this state of affairs, and expresses his feelings in in-| dignant cries. He has a shrewd suspicion that hi; mother is responsible for the difficulties he experi- ences in obtaining his food, and he visits his di;l pleasure on every one within earshot. Nature is sometimes unkind and does not furiiisl| the mother with well-formed nipples. Very of\eii, J however, the defect is due to their develo])iiuiii| during girlhood and young womanhood, having becii| prevented by undue pressure from tight-fitting cdrl sets. Whatever the cause, the expectant mother sho'iki seek to remedy the want of prominence by draxt.ng out the nipple and trying to mould it into shape b)| frequent gentle manipulation with the fingers. Inj some cases this can be done with the hand alone, iii| others a special appliance is required. MOTION 57 lopiiuir illiX Ik'C! uio' ('(ir- liape h] ers. I' iloiie, ii A safe one that can be easily obtained is a pint bottle. Fill it with boiling water, empty this out quickly and apply its mouth tightly over the nip- j)le. As the air in the bottle cools it condenses and the nipple is drawn out, or, more properly, pushed out, into the vacant space. The process can be hastened by wrapping a cloth wrung out of cold water around the bottle while it is in place. After the bottle is removed the nipple should be lu'ld in the fingers and pressed into shape. This treatment should be begun early and persisted in until the nipple is a well-formed protuberance which can easily be taken into a child's mouth. During the fifth month, the areola, or pale brown skin surrounding the base of the nipple, which has already become much darker in color, is encircled by a second ring formed of small, mottled spots of a paler shade than the areola itself. This appearance is most marked in women of dark co nplexion. 1'lie width of the band varies in different persons. As it does not occur except in pregnancy, it is one of the confirmatory proofs of that condition. MOTION Quickening has already been referred to as one of J the symptoms establishing the fact that the uterus contains a living child. It may be felt at any time ■•!■« 58 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD after the third month, but usually is first expericiicd; at the end of four months and a half. The sene^atidh varies in intensity in different women. Sometimes ii is so slight as to be merely a fluttering, sometimes s,, j)ronoun('ed as to cause an hysterical attack. Thirty drops of aromatic spirits of ammoniii in water, repeated in a few minutes, relieves the laiiit- ncss that sometimes accompanies it. If the child's motions cause much disconifdii later on, a well-fitting bandage helps to render them, more bearable. Sometimes they are so slight tliov can only be felt by laying the hand on the abdonicn over the uterus. In other cases they are so violent as to be visible. INTERFERENCE WITH BREATHING As the uterus increases in size it causes preissiirc- on the diaphragm, or muscular partition separating! the abdomen from the chest. Tliis causes diffuultv^ in breathing, as there is not room for the lungs tO; expand properly. During the last two weeks the uterus sinks aeaiii- into the pelvis, the pressure lessens, and breathinjij becomes easier. MENSTRUAL PERIOD The child is apt to be born at what would have] been the tenth menstrual period counting from the ^illi ill EVACUATIONS — WALKING — PAIN 59 sconifiiii ier tliciii rht the) ibddtncr. ) violent prcssun partuiiij lifficuln lings ti vs a(:ai!i reathiiv: la Imu Toin 111'. last Olio before conception took place. There is al- wiivs more or less disturbance as this date conies round each month and the time should be carefully noted. When a woman has previously been regular, she [MOWS exaetlv when these davs will occur. If tlicre is anv probability of her forgetting them, she should nark them in her calendar, as it is very important that she should be especially careful at this time. EVACUATIONS The pressure of the uterus against the bladder uises a desire to pass water frequently. Sometimes ^hc elibrt is inefTec^tual. This need cause no alarm, the inclination is excited simply by the pressure. There is often difficulty in having a ])assage from the bowels for the same reason. An enema of warm (liter is better than a laxative to relieve them. WALKING Walking becomes more difficult and occasion- illy has to be relinquished at this stage, but It is best to continue the daily exercise as long as )()ssible. PAIN Pains are felt in the limbs, back and abdomen. Ik' latter may be quite severe, resembling colic, and ire sometimes mistaken for true labor pains. CO PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD THE NURSE The expectant mother should have all her prop- arations completed long before this time. It is vtrv unwise to leave them until near the last. She rnav be too unwell to be able to attend to them, or apn ni- ature birth may find her totally unprepared. The nurse should be engaged early. Compeuiit nurses usually have a long list of engagements aiul must be secured in time when their services are de- sired. SELECTION It is always well to consult the physician in charge before speaking to the nurse. He knows from experience who are trustworthy and who iire unreliable. The life of the patient often depends upon the trustworthiness of the nurse, so this is too important a matter to be left to chance. The doctor has means of knowing the capabilities of a nurse whom he has previously employed which no one else possesses. It is not always safe to rely upon the favorable report of a previous patient. If a nurse has con- spicuous faults, they will generally be mentioned, but from mistaken kindness they are sometimes concealed. i ENGAGEMENT — MEALS 61 ENGAGEMENT In niukiiig the engagement talk frankly with the jiiiir<(', that there may be no misunderstanding later. Have the price that is to be paid definitely stated and also the length of time during which her ser- [vices will be required. Some nurses are willing to hold themselves in Inatliness for a week or two before a certain date, [and tliey are usually paid half price for this waiting Itinie. Others will only promise to be ready on a [certain day, as they are engaged until then. In this [case it is well to know of some one else who can be Shad if an emergency arises. Tiie nurse should be asked if she can stay for flonger than a month if she should be needed. MEALS It is usual to have a nurse's meals sent upstairs, Mwheii they should be eaten outside of her patient'ts ^01 )m, or to have them prepared for her in the din- in^: room after the members of the family liave fin- i.^hcd theirs. Some one must stay with the invalid wliile tlio family is at meals, and this person natur- ally is the nurse. Much depends upon the customs pn valent in the locality in tliese matters. .uujiia 62 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD DUTIES The nurse should take the entire charge of tlit sick room, sweeping and dusting it. It is uimsiia now for her to do any part of the baby's wa-liiiii; She should not be burdened with duties that r('(|iiir- Iier to be long absent from her charge. If the ((h, is incompetent, she ought to be able to cook her ji- tient's food, as so much depends upon her hdii; properly nourished. Serving it is a part of Lc duty. A good trained nurse well repays the extra « penditure necessary to obtain her. She is fainil'a with the best methods of managing mother and cliil Should an emergency arise, she is ready to meet ; She will keep the mother in the best condition t' speedy recovery and will not teach the baby 1 : habits. When it is impossible to procure one, the iicr ,1 best that can be found must be selected. Absoliiif cleanliness and a willingness to obey the doetorj orders implicitly and unquestioningly are the twj cardinal virtues most imperatively necessary, ^hw minor faults may be pardoned, or overlooked, i:j these can be secured. No previous experience compensate for their lack. If the expectant mother is young, she must notlJ overawed by elderly ignorance. She is the enj )loyei icnts :^viii i; lot'tor illv ail it IS It l:^ U ia< hoc |l)i(' pe (•Is;'\ [nee. ' fery clc Misfant |ro(lii(>e i DUTIES G3 ! of tllf' t ro(iiiiK| the cuii! ler l)C'iii|j t of lie' extra eil i fai nil's and c'hik I meet i: ition f' 3abv 1' 3lover and has a rlglit to demand tliat her require- lents shall bo complied with. It is here that she rill feel the advantage of having consnlted the ioi'tor on the snbject. She will have him as an tllv and ho will fight her battles if it is necessary. It is to be hoped that this necessity will not arise ; It is unlikely to do so if the selection of the nurse las hocn a judicious one and the mother is a reason- Ibh' person. Harmony in the convalescent's room, elsewhere, is best promoted by mutual forbear- [nce. The relation between nurse and patient is a ferv close one. Dependence on the one side and the |on-tant ministrations necessary on the other often Iroiliice a bond of gratitude and tenderness that trcngthens into a lifelong regard. the iKi Absitlli; 3 doctor ; the t'\ iy. yy ook('i !i with salt and pepper and it is done. Any avoring desired may be added, as lemon juice, all- ice, curry j)owder, etc. 5 ee PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD ST. Patrick's pie Mince the remains of cold beef or mutton vm fine. Place it in a bakinj^ dish, filHiig it about tlinf- quarters full. iMoistcn thorou<^hly with gravv ami till the dish with a thick layer oi' mashed potatu. Dot the top with small bits of butter and bake in a hot oven from a half to three-quarters of an huiir, according to the i-ize of the dish. Fi riicai with cililat Ji'Mir. and Si (•Vd toast cut into quarter slices. Cut the iiiiai into small thick squares, like dice. If it is tavA cover it with boiling water and let it steam for aii hour and a half, not permitting it to boil, but only sinuuer most gently. This will make it tendd, while hard boiling would toughen it. ^I'lie wab; can be us(h1 for the gravy, or saved for soup. 1 already tender, heat the gravy and put the meat in, letting it remain for ten minutes, but being careliii not to boil it. Then pour it over the toast. Slices of tender roast or boiled meat can be hcatcl in the gravy, which is then poured round them cn the dish, garnished if desired with sprigs of paisKy. Remember that boiling cooked meat toughens it, a thing especially to be avoided. COOKING STEAK AND CHOI'S 67 li nicely he iTicai 3 toiiirli. 11 for ail ut only t(Ml(l(T, WAh' ). 1; ical ill. CiUX't'lll T TOMATO MINCE Fill a l)aking dish with alternate layers of minced niciil and canned, or stewed tomato. Cover tlie top with bread emnnbs and a few [)ieees of butter to ia- cilitatc the browning and bake three-qnarters of an h.iiir. The tomato should be seasoned with pepper and salt, and, if liked, a little nutmeg may be grate;ivinores and kccpii; the juice. Turn it (piickly from, side to side thai • may not burn, draw back the pan a little and a^-Nni as tlie meat is done remove it from the pan, imt al lowiuiT it to cook until it is drv and hai'd. All meat except pork and veal should be cateo rare, the flesh looking a little rtd. If this i.- not liked, at least do not cook it uiitil every partich^if juice is evaporated and nothing but tasteless muscle left. FISH This is an excellent substitute for meat at bioak- fast. When it can be obtained fresh it cnii '" eook(>d in any of the usual ways. Those who havf not tried it have no idea how much better slicrs oi fresh I)()ih"iii like .i \hv s'l taste u of th.' The i\ uater ; (A.(l (i rated |gesti!)h hciiior t; thi'ee oi I The\' I with mi ,Th(' Ia>i |iiaiiiiier |be hl'oii; )ver th( h'lwn ill • li'sii'al contains (n the sv The 11 EGGS 69 frcsli lisli are rolled in Indian meal dropped into boilin;^: tat deep enough to eover them and boiled like (louo'linuts. (.V)d fish balls ean be eooked in tli(> -ame way. The flavor is far sn[)erior to the taste when fried in a shallow pan. The fieree heat of tilt' l)f)iling fat cooks tliem in about two minutes. The fat can be strained, clarified by boiling with MMtcr n.id used again. Coil fisli can be shredded and creamed like cliioken. Grated nil! meg improves it. Oysters are very di- g('sti!)lc and may be creamed in the same way, care boiuir taken to leave them in the boilino; sauce onlv [three or four minutes until the edges curl. They can be scalloped with bread crumbs, stewed with milk, heated in their own liquor, or eaten raw. JTlio hi>t being to many })ersons the most delicious |D'.;uincr of serving them. Sections of lemon should [be brought to the table with them, the juice squeezed )vcr them being an indis[)ensable accompaniment piirii they are taken raw. EGGS Kiigs do not agree with some persons. They ai'c dcsii'able food because practically all the material )iitaiiicd in them is digested and turned to account fii the system. The usual method of boilluir them toujihens the rBmmmmmnms mmmmmm m 70 PliEPA RATION FOR MOTHERHOOD white, or albiiniinuiis ])()rli()ii, rendering itlikeleailKi Ji' an egii; is put into l)oiling water, which is tlii', \N ithdrawn to the back of the stove, where it will kn , hot but not boil, and left for ten minutes, the wliii- will be soft and iellv-llke. Those who do not care for tlieni in this state liiiij better have them seraiubled with a little milk, mad into an omelette, or dropped into water without t'n^ shell and served on toast. Fried eggs must l)e|)rii- hibited. EGG LEMONADE Egg lemonade is palatable to many. Theeirgi? lightly beaten, the lemonade made separately and poured upon it. EGG BROTH Egg broth is made in the same way, substitutiiij boiling waler for the lemonade; sugar or salt ni. l)e added as preferred. The ejxff must be ear* I'lilh stirred during the j)roeess, or it will curdle. Tiii^^ can sometimes be retained when there is nausea or when solid food would be rejected. In this ease it should be taken very hot and without sugar. r with li im».-t j w ith SI ciistai'i tains it neat ill the (if l)()ili llles. . Bui I ; Ino^ reiK Cold \v;i from tui and stir ually t\v whites ( [squeezer klico of t ALBUMEN The white of the egg may be shaken in a self- sealing jar with a glass of cold water and flavurttli dieii (h'« BAKED EGGS — DROPPED EGGS OX RICE 71 with lemon juice, or seasoned witli salt. Iking al- most pure iilbiinien, it is very nourisliiiig. l>eat(>n \vitli siiuar it can bo spread over puddinLi:^, baked I'li-taiil, <'tc., and browned in the oven ; it still re- tains its valuable [)roperties. HAKED EGGS ]]('[[{ tlie white of the egg to a stiff froth, put it in the dish in which it is to be served. Drop the vdlk lii;htlv in the centre. Place the dish in a i)an ol" hoiliuji; water, cover and let it stand for two min- iiics. A shaHow cnp answers the purpose very well. it i tut 1112 1 kit niav larctiillv . Thi«| usoa or I case it PAR>[EvSAN EGGS Boil two eggs for twenty niinntes; the long cook- ino; renders them more digestible. Drop them in [cold water for a few niinntes to prevent the y(dks Ifroiu turning dark. Melt one teaspoonfnl oi' butter land stir into it one teaspoonfnl of flour, add grad- (uallv two ii'ills of milk. AVhen it thickens add the pliites of the eggs pressed through a ))otat() quoezcr or chopped fine. Pour the mixture over a Islico of toast and o^rate the volks of the eiro^s over it. a self- la voroii I DROPPED EGGS ON RICE Ego> less than two days old do not set readily dion dropped into boiling water, bnt few of us are Tl rilEPAIlATlON FOR MOTHERHOOD » i;. lucky enough to be able to get tliem as fr('^ll a- this. A teaspoonful of vinegar in tlie water Ik l[i> to preserve the sliape. Have the water boilinu witi, a little salt in it, break tlie Qg^^ earefully in a saucii and slip it gently into the water. Let it eook nltdii: two minutes and lift it out witli a ])erf()rated latlii. Have ready a flat dish spread witli a thick lay( r nt boik'd rice and lav the e(X<>;s neatlv on it. Ivi< c V especially suitable to be eaten with eggs, as it sup- plies the starch in which the egg is deficient. RICE Rice is often disliked because it is impropcih prepared. A wet, sticky, tasteless mass is not appe- tizing. AVhen the rice is smoking hot, every uMiiin distinct and the flavor intact, it assumes a diilrrciit aspect. The ex{)ectant mother should try to learn to like it, if she has a prejudice against it, as it is a bland food very suitable for her. Dr. Pavy, an an- thoritv on food and dietetics, savs that starcliv matters, in addition to playing a part in fat forma- tion, contribute to the manufacture in the body of the highest form of matter we know — that is, protiiJ material. Rice contains a very large pro])orti(ui of starch. Tapioca and sago may be included in tlie same category. To boil rice put half a cup in one quart of l)oil- t)(r UlCE 73 ^?^h as i' with ladle, ycr (if vi teiuler while the water is still clear. Drain and set the sauce pan on the top of the stove uncov- creil, stirring the rice occasionally with a fork as it (IricH. It is much improved by using- milk, chicken, 1)(( r or mutton broth instead of water, or serving a good gravy with it to pour over it. Rice can be baked in milk, allowing half a cup to each (jiiart of milk. It is cooked for two or three hours, beinjr stirred occasionally and milk added as it boils away until the whole is a creamy mass. Siislily wrung out of boiling water and dredged with flour CH E ES E — ('II I<: ES E C 1 1 USTS 76 P1iiiil;(; in boiliiij*' water and (.'ouk tliree-qiiarters of ail liniir. Do not tie the \)i\^^ too tinhtly" but allow rouiii tor the riee to swell. See that the water does not stop boiling. Siioar may be added to the [)nd- diiit'' it' desired, or a sweet sauce served with it. CHEESE It is said that the lono- cookino; of cheese converts it from an indii^-estible substance into a verv nutri- tious one It airi'oes with nianv P^ rsons even with out bcinu: cooked. If this is the case with the ex- pcctaut mother, she need not omit it from her diet list, as it is a savorv addition to luanv dishes and can )ni('tiines take the place of the meat which is not so S( o'( »( t( 1 for 1 ler CHEESE SCALLOP 111 Moisten two cups of bread crumbs with as much ilk as they will absorb. IMace a layer of these ami a layer of grated cheese alternately in a baking pan; when full, cover the last layer of (cheese with (U-v (Tum bs, dot with tinv bits of l)utter and naue in a slow oven one iioui h It is an uuprove- nio nt to add a sprinkle of salt and a few grains of hakino- soda to the milk. CHEi:SE CRUSTS Cut slices of brown, or oatmeal, bread in four iiK'li s{juares, butter them slightly, spread them with 7G PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD grated cheese, heaping it higli in the middle, ;iiu] brown in a quick oven about fifteen minutes. Servo hot. CHEESE TOAST Make milk toast in the usual wav, but before pouring the (;reani over the toast spread each slice with grated cheese. CHEESE PUFF Take half a teacupful of bread crumbs, half atca- cuj>ful of grated cheese, a dessertspoonful of butter and one cup of milk. IVIix these together and add two eggs, the yolks and whites beaten separately. Beat all together briskly, ]>our into a baking pan and cook in a quick oven about twenty minutes. Salt and pepper may be used at discretion. i . CEREALS Hominy, farina, cracked wheat, farinose oatmeal, etc., may be eaten. It is important to remember that the latter requires long slow cooking, six or elulit hours being none too much. It can be prepared the afternoon previously and re-heated for breakfast. A double boiler is the most convenient vessel to u(l add enough to make the mixture stiff enongh to roll (till like rather thin biscuit. Cut in shapes and l>ake in a moderate oven. OATMEAL TEA CAKE Mix together two cups of oatmeal, one cu{> of flour, a tablespoonful of butter, one teaspoonful of 78 rilEPA RATION FOR MOTHERHOOD soda, two of cream of tui'tjir iiiid two ciip^ of milk IJiike twenty minutes mid hicak in scjuare.s wlmi ( hot. (HOICK OF FOOD Women who are aeeiistonKHl to snhsist eliictiv nj)()n meat will fnid it diflieult to ehanj^e their ac- customed diet and learn to suj)j>ly its place with li»> stinnilatiuL^ food. The ellort should be made liir the sake of both mother and (;hild ; each \\ ill lie greatly benefited. Diiferent metliods of codkin: vegetables should be tried, and wlienever pos-ihli vegetable soups should be substituted for those iiiadc of meat. I'OTATO SOUP Boil ten good-sized potatoes. When done, - I'x' potat( tile top \\i fweiify mi iprovciui lit' \- an.' d(>ne, the inside is allowed to cook thoroughly m itli- :M. *t'.^-.. HIIUSSKLS POTATOES — PANNED POTATOES 81 ,,iit the outside beino; boiled to pieces. They should be taken up the inoiiient they are tender and drained iiistantiv ; standing in the watei* ruins them. Well cooked potatoes can always be done over acccpiahlv and there is no vegetable that ean be gtnatcd in as nuiny different ways. Scalloped, civaincd, pressed into a dish, brushed viih milk and i brow tied in the oven, made into crocpiettes, stuffed, 'cut in tlii!i slices and dropped into boiling lard as Saratoga chips, all are good. BRUSSELS POTATOES Cut one quart of boiled potatoes into dice. Melt two tab'.espoonfuls of butter, ))oil in it two table- spiionf'uls of flour, add gradually one pint of milk and a little salt. Beat three eggs very light, pour a little of the hot sauce on them at a time, heating ing, until all is added. Return it to md let it boil one minute. Fill a th alt h Qvniiii) lavers o )f tl le sau(;e anc I sprii)''l( 1 with salt and pep})er, cover ad crumbs, dot with butter and bake A little nutmeg is considered an those who like it. PANNED POTATOES potato into thin slices, put them in a till it with milk, each layer having 82 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD been sprinkled with salt. Put tlie dish in the ovei; and bake for two hours. If the milk boils awav vory much add a littl(3 more, as there sIkmiM U, plenty of moisture when the process is liiiislnd This is an excellent way to dis})osc»of small, or in- \ ferior, potatoes, particularly in the spring when tlm j begin to grow soft. They should then be soukwlio cold water before slicing. POTATO PUFF Take two cups of mashed potato, beat it sinootli with three tablespoon fuls of cream, or two of mill; and one of melted butter, season with ])epp( i- aiiJ salt. Stir in the well beaten volks of two em. Whisk the whites very light and beat them li^litlv into the mixture. Put them in a well buttcml baking dish and brown in a quick oven ; serve ii' soon as the disii is withdrawn from it, as the piiti falls if kept waiting. GREEN VEGETAliEES In summer tlunv is a wide choice in green vesie- tables which in winter are not available. At tha! season, especially in the country, the range of sclw- tion is extremely limited ; so the most must be uiaJt of the resources at command. j ^ Cabl) tai)I(', a liHowcr. ;, tri'S, ill ; ii!L!:, >al( sunc till s the hvdt Trv the invc it t( it into a '■ -^ wit [iwLilS) to sauce or j L(tti^ smclliiio-. be cut In ( ari'ot- i<'iv;ilii s;ii tliickciied two of hii desired. To carl ind stand CABBAGE — CANNED CORN 83 ;i\v;iv M I. or iii- u they lu'd io ^inootli li' milk icr and liditlv uttmtil rvo lb lie jnitl'l A tii:.; f -citr- ic UKulc I '- CABBAGE Cabbagio, not usually considered a delicate vege- table, ran be so cooked as to be almost equal to cau- li (lower. It' the head is a large one, cut it in quar- tri's, ill anv case in two. Have ready a pot of boil- iii.j;, salted water. Plunge in the cabbage, at the vaiiic tiiiu' adding a little boiling water to keep up (lie heat. ]>oil one hour, leaving the pot uncovered. Trv the cabbage with a fork ; if not perfectly tender irivc it ten or fifteen minutes' longer cooking. Turn it into a vegetable dish and cut it througli several '■ ^ with a sharp knife, that there may be no large puiia to embarrass the helping. 6erve with a cream saiK'c or accompanied bv butter and vineiicar. Long boiling makes cabl)age dark and strong sinelliiig. The same is true of turnips, which should hv cut in thin slices to facilitate the process. Carrots can be cut in small pieces and served with iVYvam sauce. This only means a pint of milk, thickened with two tablespoon fuls of flour and one or two of butter according to the amount of richness desired. It is very good with the butter omitted. CANNED CORN To (>ach can of corn allow one pint of milk and two eutrs ; season with salt. Put in a baking dish and stand this in a pan of hot water. Bake until it il„ii^ ^ssBomsammmmmmmm 84 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD sets like thin custard. It usually takes about t>vf'ntv minutes or half an hour, but much depends on tlio lieat of the oven. Green corn grated from the col) can be used in the same way. FRUIT The expectant mother should abjure pastry, rid boiled puddings and anything that she finds ovd- taxes her digestive powers. I^ight puddings, cus- tard, blanc mange, etc., may be eaten with impniiin and fruit is essential. Orani»;es and lemons can usually be procured, even in winter, and these are especially beneficial. In summer there is little diffi culty in keeping up the supply. When fresh fruit cannot be obtained, ])niiii' evaporated a]>ples and peaches, i)runelles, a sniai j dried })lum, and canned peaches should take it- place. No meal should be considered cornpltit without fruit. L^Miion juice squeezed on sugar may be used \\\m\ nothing else can l)e procured and may also suppli ment other fruit. A si I) # preparec, missed I witl](jra\ i^istcd up ;ts is alas it eiihaix Wci'o slo' live [)v t till' S(()[)l; liu'iii inc Tea UK I ^vater luu •"^'.^ is coi RAKED RAN ANAS Bananas are thought to be more digestible win: cooked than raw and can be prepared in the follt)\»| ing manner: Remove the narrowest strip of skin i All v: xc BP:VERAGES — TEA — COFFEE 85 sma.. 1 rarefullv loosen the flesh of the bananas at the sides from the skin, withont breaking the ends. Fill the ppaco with sugar, moistened with lemon juice if pre- ferred. I)ake twenty minutes, serve in the skin which will be filled with jelly if it has not tipped over while baking. BEVERAGES — TEA A single cup of tea or coffee each day properly propared does no harm. The stinmlation is much iiii-'^scd by those accustomed to it if it is suddenly withdrawn. The proper preparation must be in- sisted upon. Tea steeped in a tin tea pot, or boiled, ;h is alas sometimes done under the impression that it eiihan(^es the strength, should be avoided as i(' it were slow poison, as indeed it is. The taimiu set i'viv hy the process acts injuriously on the coats of till' stomach, tanning them as it were and rendering iIkiii inca[)able of their proper work of digestion. Tea made in an earthen tea })ot with freshly boihnl water and drank when it has stood only a few min- utes is comparatively harndess. COFFEE wln'l ^^" excellent way to make coftee is to mix it with ollow f '"> ^'^g, or a little cold water and a j>iece of cod Hsh f skii '''^'"' Fill the cotfee pot with the requisite amount of ; 8G PRKPA RATION FOR MOTHERHOOD cold water and remove it from the fire as soon as it boils. COCOA Cocoa made with half milk and half water i« really preferable to either tea or coffee from an li\- gienic point of view, but so few persons find it an adequate substitute that it is difficult to use it ex- clusively. OTHER bp:verages Plain hot water is acceptable to a few and the taste for it can be cultivated. Lemonade is valuable and can be drunk either hot or cold. The white of an egg can be shaken ^vitll each glass. Orangeade made from the juice of an orange witli the yolk of an egg beaten light and added tu it i> preferred by some persons ; a dash of lemon juin improves it. Any tart preserve, as cranberry, gooseberry,, or the small sweet- water plum can be used as a flavitriiig. It is best to pour hot water on them and let it stand until cool if desired. ♦ FOOD IN NAUSEA When there is much nausea it is often impossible to retain solid food and then licpiid must be given iu MILK — PEPTONIZrro MILK 87 small quantities. A teaspoonfnl taken aiul retained does more good than a teaeupfnl wliicli goes down onlv ti> be instantly rejected. Sometimes the stom- ach can bo coaxed into good behavior by repeatedly administering a very little fluid at intervals of half an hour. It learns toleration and will soon bear nun'c. MILK Milk ean seldom be borne alone and should never 1)0 ^ivcn if it is disliked, or there is any difficulty in its diuostion when the person is well. When it is given it should be diluted one-third with liniewater or one-half with viehy or any eifer- vcsciiig mineral water, prepared with diluted hy- drochloric acid, or peptonized. If hot milk is liked it may be taken with advantage, but not more than one i>;lass a day unless diluted with water. PEPTONIZED MILK Got from the druggist a few powders each con- . taininir five grains of extract of pancreas and fifteen grains of bi-carbonate of soda. Add one to a pint i)f milk and place the vessel containing it in water of 11")'^ Fahrenheit, or so hot the hand can be held in it only for a moment. Let tiie milk stay there 1^ {(ir twenty minutes, then place it on ice, cr pour it p into a clean sauce pan and let it come to the boil to 88 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD check the digestive process begun in it. If this is carried too far a bitter taste is (leveh)ped. f DIGESTIBLE MILK Warm one pint of milk very sh'ghtly, drop into it thirty drops of dihite hydrochh)ric acid, stir it constantly until it cools. This takes off tho fiat taste of the milk and also renders it more digestible. RENNET CURD Sometimes this is retained when milk itself is re- jected. To one pint of very slightly warmed milk add one dessertspoonful of liquid rennet and set it aside to cool. If it is desired to give the whey alone. break the curd after it forms and strain off the whev. Milk diluted one-half with boilino; water mav he acceptable. BEEF TEA Although the nutritive value of beef tea, meat juice and animal broth is not as great as milk, it can sometimes be retained when the latter caiinut, aiid we are obliged to depend upon them for a time. Beef tea should not be boiled, as that ]n'oce« coagulates the albumen contained in the meat just as heat does the white of an q^i^. Chop one pound of juicy beef from the top ofilit? 1 1 If$li hei:f juice — chicken iujoth 80 rKiiiid very fine, or niiiiee it in a meat eliopper. Cover it with one pint of cold water and l(»t it stand i'or two hours, stirrin*^ it frequently. Put this over the lii-e and let it remain until it steams, hut do not let it hoil. After straininii: it ean he seasoned with a little salt, or celery salt if hked. BEEF JUICE Have a pound of heef from the top of the round cut ahout an inch thick. Divide this in strips and hold them for a moment on a i>jridiron over a slow fire to draw the ^ aice to the surface. Stiueeze the strips in a lemon squeezer, or vegetahle press. Small meat presses, costing about two dollars and a half, are sold for the purpose and they greatly facilitate the operation. A little salt may be added. If dis- liked raw, the beef juice niay be heated by standing the cup containing the portion to be taken in boiling water. CHICKEN BROTH Some persons can take this who dislike the taste of heef tea. Cut a fowl into neat pieces. Have the hones broken and cover the whoh' with cold water. Boil slowly for three hours, strain, add a little salt, and when cold skim if nccessarv. A me- (liuni-sized fowl should make about a pint and a half of broth. The meat is verv irood creamed. 90 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD OATMEAL GRUEL Gruel made with water and given hot is sonic- times relislied when milk cannot be borne. Allow one tablespoon fill of oatmeal to a pint of cold water and boil for one hour. Season with salt. If it proves too tiiick it can be reduced to the desired con- sistency with boiling water. OYSTER BROTH Cut a teacupful of oysters into small pieces, cover them with cold water and let them simmer gentlv for ten minutes. Add a little salt, strain them and skim if necessary. GUM ARABIC WATER This is very bland and soothing and a spoonful at a time may be retained after prolonged naus( a. Dissolve half an ounce of gum arabic in half a pint of boiling water; it has to stand for a little while. Flavor with lemon juice and a very little sugar, if this is asked for. Give ice cold. ALBUMINIZED WATER This must be the chief reliance in extreme nausea when the stomacsh persistently rejects food. Put the white of an egg in a self-sealing glass jar with halt' a pint of very cold water. Shake until they arc KOUMISS 91 a. 'a tlioroutjjlily ama];htlv, tie down the corks with string, unless the bottles have patent fastenings, and lay them on the side in ice, or in a cool place, to stop the fermentation. Uncork very carefully as it is apt to fly. # A^ ^'^ ""'^^■ .O^ '^^^ ^ ^ IMAGE EVALUATION TEST TARGET (MT-3) / O 1.0 I.I m 1^ n; HUM m m M Z2 1.8 1.25 1.4 1.6 M 6" — ► Photographic Sciences Corporation \ « on unfamiliar with cold sponge baths and wishing to try them can come to them by degrees by ■?5" 98 PRKPAHATION FOR MOTIIKUIIOOD bcj^inning with tepid water and using it a little colder each dav. It is well to stand in a small tub with the feet covered with warm water at first. If tiie haih and rubbing are not ibllowed by swift react ion, a glow and feeling of warmth, the use of the coKl water should be discontinued. A handful of coarse salt may be added to tlic water, as this has a stimulating effect on the skin and so is said to be strengthening. This should be tri( d when baths seem to disagree with the bather instead of benefiting her, before discontinuing them alto- gether. A cold bath should never be taken when one is heated, or very tired. For the latter reason the morning is a better time for it than the evening. WARM BATH The surface of the skin is covered by the termina- tions of innumerable nerves. It is impossible in stick the point of a pin where a tingle of pain will not reveal the i)resence of a nerve. AA'hen tired and overstrung at night a warm bath will sometimes relax the skin and bring a sense of soothing calm that may induce sleep. From the fact that they are relaxing, warm baths should be used with caution. The tepid sponge bath is the safest for constant use. SITZ BATH 99 SITZ B.VTII Many physicians consider this form of batli of es- pecial vahie to tlie expectant mother. The abdomen and adjacent parts are principally jdlected by it and tlioiiirht to be particularly benelited. The water .■.jionid be about 90 deo;rees Fahrenlieit. A tin tub (»f a peculiar shape, hi<^h behind and sloping low in i'n)nt, is the most convenient thing to take it in ; it comes for the purpose and is called a ^itz bath. If this cannot be had, any tub large enough to sit in can he made to answer the purpose. The best time to take the bath is before going to bed, when it need not interfere with the morning sjionge bath. lv(^move the clothing and fasten a blanket round the shoulders so that it will fall over the tub when the person is seated in it. Have as much water in the tub as it will hold without overflowin"- when the bather sits down in it. The bath should last about fifteen minutes and a little hot water be added if it grows uncomfortably cold. Do not be deterred by the trouble from taking it, l)ou:in its use earlvand continue itthrouirh the whole ])ori()d. It is said to assist in relieving nausea and lonstipation. When several means are tried for the same end it is always difficult to apportion the credit 100 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD justly and to say cxa(;tly which has liad the largest share in l)rinN FOU MOTllEHllOOD I room, more important tluiii any one other siiiixlc tliinu::, Imtliiiiuj must not bo oveidone. Should it l)e t'ouiul, us is unfortunately sometimes the ciim', that the pei'son has been neglected, the soil must lir removed, as dirt is a distinct st)uree of daniri r. This can bt; done by bathing a part of the body at one time and continuing the process at intervals until the whole is done. Usually the fourth day is soon enough for the first full bath. A tablespounful of alcohol in the water is desirable. Have ready water, towels, wash cloth, soap and clean, warmed clothing by the bedside. Two extra blankets are needed. The room should be warm, the thermometer not lower than 72° Fahrenheit. Double one blanket and spread it on one side of the bed over the under sheet. Under shelter of the bed clothes di*aw the patient on it, not permitting her to sit up. Double the other ' hiuket and lay it over her, outside the uj)per bed clothes. Draw thc-e awav from underneath it, leavino; her covered witli it alone. If this seems too little add a down com- forter, or a thick shawl, or woolen lap rug. Remove her night dress, being very careful not to uncover her while doing it. Uufasten and take off the binder. Holding the wash cloth, moist but not dripping, in one hand, pass it under the blanket and .1 1 THK liABY S FIRST HATH 10; J liatlic tli(( upper half of tlio body. Dry with a \v;iiiiu' no danger of dropping it. Finish the bath as quiekly as possible. Have the sleeves of the little shirt and slips fitted lotrether so that they will go on as one garment, and after adjusting the band tliey can be drawn over the feet first and the arms put in without difficulty. W rap the baby warmly and lay it down to sleep. LOCAL BATHS The slightest disagreeable odor about mother or rliild .siiows that there is a lack of cleanliness which t)iii;ht to be immediately remedied, or the most dis- astrous consequences may follow. As has already been said, there is no difiiculty in keeping the mother clean nor need a quantity of water be used to do so. A few gentle strokes with a soft cloth w/ung out of warm water will remove every trace of soil each time the napkin is changed. If stitches have been taken with wire, a sponge is ■5SP lOG TJiEPAUATION FOR MOTHERHOOD less likely than a cloth to catch in them. Tho greatest care must be taken of sponge and cloth, or they will become sonrccs of infection. They must be thoroughly washed after each time of using, hunu: outside the window in the open air and boiled oinv a day. A pinch of washing soda in the boiliiii:; water will prevent the sponge from becoming slim v. This seems a small matter, but neglect may im- peril, if not destroy life. The nipples should be bathed with tepid water, in which a pinch of borax has been dissolved, each time the baby finishes nursing. They should he gently drawn out with the fingers that the water may penetrate every crevice. If any application is used it must be washed off before the babv nurses and re-applied after the final washing. This is one of the surest means of preventing sore nipples. EYE BATHS The first attention to be paid the new-born infant is to wipe its eyes with a soft piece of handkerchief. If this is neglected, a speck of mucus lodging on the delicate lining membrane of the lids might cause serious harm. The eyes should be carefully watched, and if there is the slightest trace of discharge on eyelids, or lashes, they should be washed several times a day EYE BATHS 107 with tepid boiled water until tlie doctor can be con- sulted. Unless the secretion is frequcMitly removed by l);itliin<^ the lids the child's sight nuiy be injured, or l(.st. Tlie cloth used in the process should be burned and only small ])ieces of old cloth employed, as a liny particle of the discharge might infect the eyes I »f' mother or nurse. When tlie doctor orders cold applications little serfectly loose and easv, with no constraining bands^ or pressure anywluir. particularly about the waist. The })rogress shouKl not be too ra])id, nor the journey repeated too ofleii at first. ., BREATHINCJ 111 Tliis exercise also benefits the muscles of the ah- (Imnen, which it is desirable to have in good condi- tion. ])lakie, in his adiniral)le little book ''How to (ict Strong," says, " P^very stej) forward moves ili( 111. and the higher and more energetic the step the iimrc they have to do." " The strong, high step tilts the body slightly back and gives these muscles so niiK'h to do that they soon grow good at it and shapely and powerful accordingly." In going up and down stairs we have "the strong, high step" in perfection. A healthy man never com|>lains of any inconven- ience in climbing stairs; in tact he more often than not, runs up two steps at a time. While men are sti'uno;er than we are, there is no reason whv a woman who is properly dressed should not l)e able to mount stairs with as much ease as he can. I can tl'^tity from personal experience that the absence of corsets and correct habits of breathing deprive the ascent of all its terrors. In going up and down stairs keep the mouth closed to ensure breathing through the nose, hold the shoulders back to expand the chest and do not carry a heavy weight in the hands. BREATHING It is strange that when the whole ha man race has 112 TRRPARATIOX FOR MOTHERHOOD to brcallio to livo, and that every member oi" It hrcatiics at least sixteen times in a miiuite iVom the moment of birth to that of death, any one should have to be tanght how to perform this neees-aiv })roeess properly. Nature intends that the abdominal muscles shall take part in the aet of respiration. This is im|)(i->i- ble when the waist is held firmlv in the unvieldiiiir grasp of a corset. Even when it is not worn too tiulit — and who ever admitted that hers was — proper ex- pansion of the ribs is prevented and the breath must come from the upper ])art of the chest. Watch the breathing of a woman who w(ars unduly tight clothing, whether she is encased in a corset, or not. The bosom rises and falls with each breath ; the muscles below the waist line do not move, they cannot. The lower part of the lungs is never properly filled, nor emptied. The expectant mother does not breathe for herself alone. She has to inhale a sufficient amount of oxyg(»n to purify the blood of her child as well as her own, and she needs every inch of lung surface at her conunand to make adequate provision for both. If she does not alreadv do so it is her dutv to learn how to use her lungs in the most effective manner. It is difficult to overcome bad habits. Even mm BREATH I NO 113 laving aside corsets and doing away with tight bands about the waist will not iminodiatolv revohitionizc the faulty method of years. Tiie muscles are weak from inaction. The kings must be trained to do their duty. Sitting in an easy position in a comfortable chair, with the head supported, draw a long breath and hold it until the expiration becomes a necessity. Exhale slowly and repeat the process seven or eight times. Close the month and inhale through the nose, ex- {K'lling the air by the same channel. This can be (lone alternately as rapidly and as slowly as possible. Repeat it in different positions, reclining in the chair, sitting erect with the arms folded behind the back, standing with the arms extended to their full length and the hands clasped behind. Sitting upright, hold the arms parallel with the shoulders, bend them at the elbows and tap quickly every |)art of the chest that can be reached with the tin ire rs. When walking or standing, practice taking deep iiilialations and holding the breath as long as possi- hle. This is an excellent method of warming oneself when chilly. A few deep breaths drawing in an extra amount of oxygen sets the blood dancing, 8 114 PllEl'A RATION FOR MOTHERHOOD and with the improved circulation there is an immediate sensation of warmth. If one has habitually breathed through the month there is a feeling of suffocation when the attempt is made to close it and use the nasal passages lor the admission of air. Unless there is some obstruc- tion of the nose this feeling is soon overcome. Nature intends that the air sliall be warnicil by j)assing through this circuitous route before it reaches the delicate tissues of the linigs, Breiitliing through the mouth permits a rush of cold air where she never meant it to come. Ihe habit of brcathiiiL:; through the nose can be acquired with compara- tively little trouble, if the passages are unobstructed, and it is very important to the health of the luiios. Violent exercise like riding on horseback, playiiii,^ tennis, dancing, bicycle riding, etc., had better l)e discontinued at this time. DRIVING Driving in a carriage can scarcely be classed as exercise, and yet when a woman is unable to walk she can in this way obtain fresh air and chaiii>o of scene without much fatigue, and the result is beneficial. SITTING Nothing is more injurious than long sitting in STANDING — PHYSIC A I. lOXEKClSE 115 one position bonding over a writing table or a sewing machine. The use of a niaehino witli a foot-treadle should be interdicted. In some eases, by removing the l>and, the maeiiine can be turned by liaiul, thus uuikiiig sewing upon it possible without injury to the worker. STANDING Prolonged standing is also injurious. Women who have to do their own ironing will find great re- lief in using a high chair and sitting while they are thus occupied. The feet must be comfortably sup- ported on a foot stool. l)y iiaving a chair of the proper height dishes can l)c washed, bread kneaded and manv other domestic operations conducted while sitting which are usually done in a standing position. By the exercise of a little ingemiity much unnecessary weariness can be avoided. PHYSICAL EXERCISE A celebrated physician has said, '^One might hesitate to prescribe gymnasium exercise for the pregnant ; yet I recall one patient habituated from carlv childhood to t^vmnastic exercise, who continued licr training during nearly the whol^ of her ges- tation, omitting only the heavier work, and she had IIG PREI'AUATION FOR MOTIIEIIIIOOD a most rapid and easy labor and an unoventful cou- valosonee." Those whoaroaconstojni'd to reirnlar physical exrr- ciso may continno it, those who are nnaceiistomcd to it shonld eommenee it, ehoosing snitahle exercises that stren^tJKMi withont strainini^ the muscles. A few simple ones for improving the capacity of the lungs have been mentioned. These shonld In- assiduously practiced, for the power of taking and holding a long, deep breath is of 'immense ad- vantage during the last stage of labor. To develop the muscdes at the sides of the waist, besides the exercise obtained from the high steps in going up stairs, try the following simple one. Stand erect with limbs together, head held well up, el tin. drawn in a little and shoulders thrown back. liaise the left arm as far as possible above the head, bend- ing the body sideways in the opposite direclioii as far as can be done without lifting the Irft foot from the floor. Repeat with the right arm and continue usiuff each arm .alternately, for two or three minutes. Stand as straight as possible and bend the body backward and forward as far as can be done with- out raising the feet from the ground. Kneeling on the floor with the knees apart and gently swaying the body in different directions? GARDENING — PRECAUTIONS — MASSAGE 117 hackwurd, forward, and sideways helps to stroiigtlien the uuisc'los of the perineum. Thv- best time for these exercises is just before tlic iiiIiMay rest, or at night before going to bed. The (h'css should be removed and the underclothing l)e sulliciently loose to offer no restraint. GAKDENINO (lurdenin^ is a delightful occupation for those will) are fond of it when it is possible. Bending over as in weeding strengthens the muscles of the small of the back, and being in the open air is always beneficial. PRECAUTIONS There is one precaution that must not be neglected. No violent exercise, nor indeed bodily exercise of any kind, should be taken at the time that v/ould have been the menstrual })eriods under ordinary conditions. This rule must be implicitly observed. Its neglect may cause the loss of the child's life and serious iniurv to the mother. With this exception regular gentle exercise during j)rot^nancy is one of the most certain means of ensur- iiisi; good health to both mother and child. MASSAGE When active exercise has to be omitted, a course of 118 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD massage treatment is advisable, that the museles may be kept in good eondition. This consists of rubbing, kneading, rolling, press- ing and nKiiiipulating each muscle separately, it must be done l)y a j)rof'essronal masseuse and niidcr the direction of a physician. When the expectant mother is obliged to remain in bed from some physical disability for months at a time, as is sometimes the case, this means of kccj)- ing up her vigor should not be neglected. It is very agreeable to most persons, and those who have once undergone the treatment are usually anxious to repeat the experience. When the services of a masseuse cannot be had the want may be in a measure supplied by amateur rubbing and, if tiie doctor permits them, a regular course of exercise in bed. EXERCISE IN BED Lying on the back and alternately bending the knees and extending the legs is a good exercise. The knees may be bent and the legs moved fnun sio yielded to, not fought against, and be met with ad- ditional rest. A hearing-down sensation, or pain, even if it is not acute, should be the signal for stay- ing in bed two or three days. It is misplaced forti- tude to keep on the feet and try to do the daily work under these circumstances. A woman should remember that she is entitled to care and cherishing during these mouths of waiting. (120) REST DURING THP: DAY 121 I le time lias ul- en reit- pectant leii the list l)e might )iil(l ho ith aa- )r pain, or stay- (1 f'ortl- Usually those about her are very ready to give it ; if uiiiuij)[)ily this is not so, she must redouble her care of luTseir. She has to think not only of herself but of her child. REST DURING THE DAY 'Mduy women believe it is a positive waste (»f tmie to lie down during the day. As has already JH'cM ^aid this is a fallacy. The gain to brain and lu rves more than compensates for the loss sustained hv spending one of the working hours in sleep. The expectant mother should make a point of taking off her dress, putting on a loose jacket and King on her bed, or a couch, for an hour in the middle of the day before or preferably after dinner or lunch. She should lie still with eyes closed even if she does not sleep. At first it will require an effort. The impulse is to read, or to occupy oneself in some way, if only in counting the patterns of the wall paper. We are ci'catures of habit, and after a few days this desire, if not yielded to, lessens and one is content to lie still. It is important to have the room darkened, as the al)scnce of light in itself rests the weary brain and renders sleep more probable. This is best effected bv means of dark linen blinds, which can be rolled up out of sight when not in use. If plenty of exercise is taken there is no fear of ■SP" 122 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD the noonday nap interfering with the night's rest. Indeed it is more likely to promote it, as over fatigue is one of the causes of sleeplessness and this is pre- vented by the timely rest. RELAXATION There is an art in resting which is only beginning to be understood. Perfect relaxation is in itself rest. Swaying back and forth in a rocking cha-r with nuiscles tense and nerves on edge is not resting. Throwing oneself back in a comfortable easy chair with every part as limp as possible, feet resting easily on the ground, arms lying loosely in the lap, fingers unclasped, and head supported, comes nearer the ideal position. If several times in a busy morning five minutes is taken for absolute rest with eyes shut, and ears as far as j)ossible closed to outside sounds, the good effect will be perceptible in the freshness with which one will return to the tasks that were beginning to seem a burden. WASTE OF POWER We are all apt to put too much energy into our every day work, using a steam hammer to crack a nut. The expectant mother camiot do this with im- punity ; she must husband her resources, she has tu live for two. OUT DOOR REST p^., ■-•|>riso!l to find l; r '".^.^--f'...! it,vi]| be J'li.vsieal self control is almost n, • ""•"tal, and boti, can bp o , . ""l""-ta"t as OUT DOOR REST "" a ""'ck ni.r „„,,„,' , T^'"' '«^**''^'«- Lying '■"^'■'<- -■" a '^.ri'o,:: 7: •:;■•-' t -^^"^^"^"^ - '■"i f-'-ns of rec-eatior ta t I " T "''"»^'"- '"■'■'■^sible to everyone '">«^>-f'"ateIy are not :.-™'ttrr''r:rnr^''''- •l'--, may be made restf, " 'J"^'^^"-- '<> tUe '"""■"" is yielded to .„; l , "''"''''■ ^^ "'<" "■I'on the whole frll i « 7 , " ''"''' ««'-"o"- ^''•"'"'•«t jolt, tl e Wd ''.'■'"'>'."»-«^«' to resist the J ,tl>eJaad earned stiffly and the mind 124 PREPA RATION FOR MOTHERHOOD koj)t on the alert to see that the tension of the h(j(lv is nut relaxed, there is little rest to be obtained I'ruiii it. CHANGE OF OCCUPATION Change of oceu])ation is a certain kind of rest, eallinji; into action a different set of faculties and muscles. This, however, is not enough for the ex- pectant mother, nor should she be satisfied with less than an hour a day and several shorter intervals of absolute rest to recruit and refresh her. SLEEP Quiet, profound sleej) is very necessary for the health of body and mind at this time as well as at every other. It is not always to be had for the asking, and sometimes the very effort to compose oneself seems only to drive it further awav. The doctor can ])rescribe medicine which will soothe the excited nerves and induce sleep, but it is not well to depend upon these, and all the domestic soporifics should be exhausted before he is a])peal((l to. MEANS OF INDUCING SLEEP A warm bath just before going to bed is with some persons an effectual means of bringing sleep. Brisk rubbing of the feet, either dry or with cold water, stimulates the extremities and equalizes the MEANS OF INDUCING .SLEEP 125 clrt'ulution, thus relieving the pressure of blood in tlic brain which renders sleep difficult, or impossible. in natural sleep the heart beats more slowly than when one is awake, consequently the blood circulates less rapidly, there is less })ressure on tlu; nerve cen- tres and the machine runs at the lowest rate of sjx'cd, giving all the parts time to rest. J 11 using means to promote sleep every effort should be made to attract the blood to other parts of the body that the brain may be as little stimu- lated as possible. Sometimes a rubber hot water bag at the feet and an ice bag at tlie back of tlie neck will have the de- sired effect. If a rubber ice bag cannot be had a towel wrung out of ice water tightly folded and cov- ered with a ])iece of India rubber cloth, or rolled in table oil cloth, may be used as a substitute. A light supper just before going to bed is advisa- lile. The digestive organs are set in motion and a eertain amount of blood diverted to them in the process of digestion. A glass of hot milk is highly recommended, and with some persons is an unfailing antidote to sleep- l(Hsness. It should be taken as hot as it can be sij)ped. A third lime water may be added to it if it cannot be borne alone. Kxercise in the open air promotes sleep and a 126 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD healthy fatigue almost ensures its coming. Over fatigue may drive '^ away and any excitement, anx- iety, or distress of mind is sure to do so. There are a few mental exercises that may l)e tried beside the time honored one of counting sheep leaping over a hedge, or running through a gap. One of these is counting steadily, always beginning; with one, or rather returning to it as one, two ; one, two, three ; one, two, three, four ; etc. It is very monotonous and one does sometimes drop asleep under its influence. POSITION It may be that the expectant motlier cannot find a position in which she can rest comfortably. Ly- ing sideways witli a j)illow pUiced under the abdo- men to support the weight, relieves the pressure and gives ease. In special cases a bandage may have to be worn at night as well as during the day. BED COVERING The bed covering should be light. A weight of bed clothes is oppressive and tiring even if it is not felt as a burden at the time. A down comforter is almost indispensable in winter. If it is not to 1)P had large newspapers spread between the blankets MOIiNlNd SLFKF' — NrfJIlT I-KHITS 12: (»(»iiil)ino warmth uiu! lijriitnoss. The pajuT is al- most impervious to air and as it is })reveiiting the es- cape of the heat 8 PltKPAIlATION Foil MOTIIKIMIOOT) niioht lijive seoii and prevented liad tliere been lioht to liave revealed it. Patent night lights, little wicks floating in oil, and other devices, can he obtained. I'hey have the advantage of consuming very little oxygen. \\ li< n it is ne(;essary to use kerosene a small lamp of the kind known as a Tom Thumb lamp should be pio- eured. It uses very little oil and need not beturind down. A large lamp uidess the wiek is kept at llic full height almost invariably smells unpleasantly. It is dangerous to lower gas beyond a certain point as a temporary cessation of the supply puts out the light and when the flow of gas is resumed it pours unchecked into the room, sometimes with fiUal results. The sleepers may be suffocated before any- one is roused to a sense of the danger. A bain 's life might easily be sacrificed in this way. RED TIME The hour of going to bed nnist be regulated to a great extent by the usual custom in this respect. It is an old saying that one hour of sleep before mid- night is worth two after. I^ike the old proverbs, which are the " wisdom of many and the wit of one," this probably has a substratum of truth that has been proved by the experience of ages. The earlier the time of retiring to rest the less tired one VENTILATION 120 is likely to be, and sleep taken when the body is not over fatigued is more refreshing than when it over- j)()\vers one exhausted and wearied by the strain of lonir continued wakefulness. We are such creatures of habit that the verv fact of undressing and lying down predisposes us to sluiiiber if we usually fall asleep as soon as we are in bed. Even when the eyes will not close at once there is relief in the chaufje of attitude and in the freedom from the thraldom of clothes, however easy and well-fitting, that is in itself restful. When possi- ble, early hours are a distinct advantage to the ex- {)ectant mother. VENTILATION It is not of much use to acquire, or possess, cor- rect habits of breathing unless there is an ample sii|)ply of pure air to be inhaled. Life cannot be sustained without a certain amount ol' oxygen, and the expectant mother has to take in not only enough for herself but for her child. The oxygen is abstracted from the air and used ill the body, carbonic acid gas being thrown off from the lungs. This renders the air unfit to be breathed again. Nor is this the only element that poisons the air. 9 130 PREPARATION FOR MOTIIERHOOl) I! A watery vapor, carrying with it iinpuritiLS from the body, animal matter which has already servi d its purpose, is also exhaled from the lungs. A cer- tain amount of waste escapes through the pores of the skin so that, even if there is no other source of contamination, the presence of a person in a clostd room s[)eedily renders the air in it unfit for use. The oxygon lias to be diminished to a very small amount, about one-third of that present in pure aii', before a difli(!ulty in breathing is experienced. No Avarning is given in this way that not enough is being received to meet the demands of the system. The air breathed, particularly at night, may contain an entirely inadequate quantity without the con- sumer being so unpleasantly conscious of it as to make an effort to obtain a proper supply. The excess of carbonic acid gas is more easily recognized. It is this that gives a close smell to the air in a room that has been occupied by one or more persons and not properly ventilated. A good test is to cltne the door of the bed room on leaving it in the morning, stand by an open Avindow for a few moments and then return to the room. If fresh air has not been admitted during the night one is instantly struck by the dis- agreeable odor and there is a .sense of oppression as one tries to inhale the polluted atmosphere. HEAT 131 Tho absence of an abundant supi)ly of oxyj^en, the pi'cscnco of an overplus of carbonic acid ^as and of j)()isonous exhalations from the body in the air that has to bo breathed and rebreathed by iiiit'ortunate human beings is necessarily injurious to hcahh. I fit is not as immediately fatal asairdefded with ilhiiniiiating gas, or the choke damp that lingers in (li-iised wells, it undermines the powers of the body hy slow degrees. It renders it less able; to repel disease and ready to fall a victim to what it would easily have resistet their daughters were not through their own folly rendered less capal)le than nature made them of becoming mothers with safety to themselves and their children ? SHOES The expectant mother should begin at the founda- tion and wear comfortable shoes broad enough to allow the foot, and especially the toes, free ])lay. It is difficult to "'alk properly when the foot is cramped. Weight is thrown where it does not belong, the muscles are imperfectly exercised and the whole body suffers. Do we not often hear women sav, "I would walk more if my feet did not hurt me so much." " I suffer so from corns I dread to put my feet to the ground." STOCKINGS — STOCKING SUPPORTERS 141 STOCKINGS The stockings should l)e warm in winter, well tittiiig, and always long enougli to cover the knees. They must be kept up by straps at the sides. STOCKING SUPPORTERS Tlie best stocking supporters are strips of wide elastic with a buttonhole in each end, like those used for children. These can be fastened at one end to a button sown on the outside of the stocking and at tlie other to a button on the waist. Thev do not tear ft' holes in the stockings as the metal-tipped supporters are apt to do. The button holes and the buttons on the stockings should be stayed with pieces of cotton to prevent their pulling out. Garters worn around the leg must be drawn close to keep the stockings in place. They thus become tiuht ligatures, interfering with the circulation and [preventing the free return of the blood through the veins from the feet and legs. The pressure on the trunks of the great blood vessels in the abdomen by the expansion of the uterus renders this a difficult matter under any cir- cumstances. If it is not effectually accomplished varicose, or enlarged veins, are the result, and these are dangerous from their liability to rupture. 'mm 142 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD Freedom from restraint is important everywhere. Even in a point a.s far distant from tiie pelvis as the knee it cannot be neglected with impunity. Attliis time *'if one member suffers all the members suifer with it '^ is especially true. BED SOCKS If the feet are cold at night a pair of loosely knitted, or crocheted, bed socks will be found a great comfort. UNDERWEAR The underwear should be as light as possible. In winter a Jersey union suit, combining shirt and drawers in one, can be worn. They are warm and not bulky. If the shirt is worn alone it is sometimes found convenient to o[)en it down the front, face each side and add buttons and button holes. This does away with the difficulty of putting it on ahd taking it otf, which is sometimes very trying. Worry should be spared in every way possible, and it is by attention to little things that recur con- stantly that this can most easily be effected. If preferred the drawers can be obtained separ- ately and buttoned on the waist. Do not fasten any of the underclothing by bands around the waist. WAISTS 1.43 Some women like a cliemise over the shirt, and there is no objection to this garment. WAISTS The hest waist is the equipoise. It gives ample room for tiie breasts and lurnisiies some support for tlicm. There is no steel in front and the lacing at the back makes it possible to adjust it to the figure as it enlarges. The price is about two dollars and a half, making it more expensive than the ordinary corset. If a cheaper waist is desired it is best to make one. I do not know of a perfect pattern, but a ^ood waist can be made by modifying an ordinary ])attorn published by any firm that deals in paper patterns. Instead of closing the upper part of the front seams over the breasts, work evelet holes on each side and lace them across. The lacings can be regu- lated to give support while avoiding pressure. Two waists should be provided, so that they can be frequently w^ashed. They are made of dr' l-ag or any other thick material that is liked. A corset cover is not needed and it is better to dispense with one, as unless made with lacings it is sure to be too tight at some time. 144 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD SKIRTS Two light skirts are all that arc necessary and these can have hntton holes in the bands and be fastened to the bnttons on the waist. MATERNITY DRESSES The ontside dress is the most important part of the costnme as far as ai)pearances go, and ind* cd in other respects as well. li' this is drawn tightly about the form, all that is gained by having loose undendothing is lost. Pressure, wherever app]i((l, is to be scrupulously avoided. It is impossil)le under the circumstances to |^ ^- serve the graceful lines of the figure. Anyatt( to do so is labor thrown away. Tight fitting garments only bring into prominence what it is de- sired to hide. Loose, softly flowing draperies are much more effectual in concealing the form. Tliese give an impression of ease and fitness, which is far more pleasing to the eye than tlie display of outlines which in the nature of the case cannot be beautiful. A maternity dress should be made with long jacket fronts and a full vest falling well below the waist line. This vest can fasten down the middle, the joining being concealed by the fulness. MATKIiXITV DliESSES. 145 There should not be a tii^ht fittiii;^ lining l>e- iK'Uth it. At the under arm seauis, where it joins ih< linini^ of the dress, broad pieees of elastic about six inches long should be inserted. These are hidden by the jacket fronts and yet give the necessary elasticity at the waist. The soft, full vest gives .sufficient room for the breasts, care being taken to make it full enough to do so in the first instance. If it is desired the linini»: can extend under the vest and be laced up the front instead of fastened with hooks and eyes. This permits of its being en- lai'Lied as required. A blazer with a full vest makes a good waist for a maternity dress. The vest and collar are in one, separate from the blazer. The vest is held in place around the waist by a band of elastic. The long skirt of the blazer is particularly be- coming. A shirt waist, made with a softly gathered {'nil front, may be worn instead of a vest if it is liked better. The dress can be cut in princess fashion at the haek, waist and skirt in one. In front provision must be made for the lengthening that is necessary as time goes on, or else the skirt will be lifted from the floor at the bottom and poke out awkwardly at the foot. 10 146 rUEPAIlATlON FOR MOTHERHOOD This can be accomplished by having the front breadths gathered on an elastic band attached to the sides of the waist at the bottom of the nnder arm seams. About four inches of the material should be turned down when the dress is made and the skirt fastened to the band as in an ordinary dress. The extra material can be let down as needed. The bottom of the vest falling over this part of the skirt conceals the marks of the stitches if there is a trace of them. The skirt can be made separate from the waist. In this case a piece of elastic must be inserted aemss the front of the waist band, which must be amply large. Shoulder straps must be fastened to the baiul. The easiest way to adjust these is to sew them on the band at the back, bring them over the shoulders and fasten them to the band in front v/ith safety pins. They should be about two inches broad. It is important to have the skirt of light material and without lining, as weight is especially to be avoided. There is no difficulty in doing this in summer, and even in winter the choice of light woolens renders it an easy matter to find a suitable fabric. An extra petticoat can be buttoned on the under waist if desired. Two soft light skirts are much WRAPPERS — OUT DOOR GARMENTS 147 warmer than one heavy one. Air is a non-conductor and that entangled between them serves to keep in the warmtii. WRAPPERS A Mother Hubbard wrapper with a lorg full skirt falling from a yoke is the most effectual disguise, 1)11^ this is not suitable to wear outside the bedroom, except in the morning. A loose wrapper is an indispensable adjunct to the toilet. Cotton ones make cool morning dresses in summer. The back can be confined by two straps coming from the side seams and crossing behind, oi he jj^athered into a band, but tlie fronts should be al- lowed to hang straia;ht and loose without a belt. OUT DOOR GARMENTS As exercise in the open air is so important to the expectant mother, the out door garments require con- sideration. The maturity dross that has been described is nuide a w^alking length and looks very well in the street. The shape of the outside wrap must be governeil to some extent by the prevailing fashion. Anything deviating very widely from it would only call at- tention to the wearer by making her conspicuous and attract the notice she wishes to avoid. 148 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD I) "■ A hag full cloak, gathered into a yoke, with slits to put the arms through, well at the side to allow- plenty of fulness in front, is the most elfectii.'il shield when it can he worn. A tight fitting jacket is inadmissible. A variety of the dolman wrap, with full frontsand the peculiar half sleeve that gives this fo.-.i its name, is very suitable. Wraps should always be long, reai'hing to the knees, and fasten down the front. An ulster with loose fronts answers the purpose, but cannot be worn on all occasions. In choosing an out door garment the restriction as to bands about the waist must be observed. In a half fitting garment the tight back is often held in place by a waist strap, and such must be rejected. Cloaks reaching belon' the knees impede free motion to a certain extent and render walking more tiring. A muffin winter is a useful auxiliarv. Theoiilv objection to it is that its use re(piires the hands to be carried stifHy in front and the arms bent. Tlie best position for them in walking is hanging easily at the side, free to swav a little with the movements of the body. Fur is always becominir, when it can be worn, as aw soft, flufly nuislins and hice in summer. Anythinir tliat breaks the severity of outline is advantageoi's COLOR — NIGHT DRESS 149 COLOR It should be remembered tliat black, or dark col- ored, iiuiterials decrease the apparent size, while white, bright tints and striking shades in a dress have the opposite effect. The expectant mother is proud of the distinction that is coming to her, and of the great gift in store for her. She should not be foolishly sensitive as to the temporary alteration in her appearance, yet she does not wish to emphasize it needlessly. Tliis she can avoid by a little attention to the details of her attire. NIGHT DRES3 As more than one-third of our time is spent in bed the night dress demands a little attention. In winter one of Shaker or outing flannel will be found a great comfort. The com[)arative warmth of the material prevents the slightest chill from the cold sheets on getting into bed. It also affords pro- tection for the moment before the dressing gown is slij)ped on, if the wearer has to get up at night. It is also a saving in laundry work, as the soft fabric is easily washed and requires no starching. Should these not be worn, it is well to have a bed jacket of the same material, or of flannel to wear over the night dress. 150 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD Delicate persons of a nervous temperament should husband the lieat of tlie body, preventing its escape by sufficient clothing. Its produ(;tion is a tax on the nervous energy which should be made as light as possible. These extra jackets are advisable even in summer, except in intensely hot weather. CHAPTER X THE BABY^S WARDROBE To the young mother the wardrobe that is to be pr('j)ared for the new comer is a matter of much more serious consideration than her own. Those who are about to become mothers not for the first time usually have a certain number of baby clothes laid by, if not a complete outfit. At least they have some experience and a good idea of what will be required. They have, too, an oj)portunity to remedy mis- takes in the past and can supplemerit thedeficMcncies tlioy painfully remember in their earlier prepara- tions. The young expectant mother has no such resources. Very often she has the vaguest possible idea of what will be needed, is far from her mother or an ex- perienced friend, and does not like to make her w^ants known, nor to ask for the advice she requires. She may take comfort in the knowledge that ama- teur advice on this point is often misleading. By (loi) 152 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD using her own common sense and modifying the di- rections given here according to her circumstances and requirements, she will have a more satisfactory supply of useful apparel for her baby than if she had tried to harmonize the conflicting usages of different advisers. Fashion has made many changes in the garb of the modern baby and for once her dictates are (u the side of health and comfort. Warmth ami freedom are the two essentials in latter dav bal)v clothes, and the young mother loses nothing but gains much by not following older customs. The chilly linen shirt, trimmed with thread lace, but with no protection for neck and arms, has been superseded by the high-necked long-sleeved Jersey, elastic yet close fitting. The tight bands are gone. The long skills, encumbering the tiny atom of humanity with tli( ir weight and stiffness, have followed them and luxuri- ous ease is the result. Baby things must be made with extreme neatness or they do not look well. If the mother can fashion the dainty little garments herself and knows how to purchase the materials judiciously, it is cheaper to make than to buy them. When a seamstress has to be employed the ready- made clothing is the less expensive. PATTERNS — S A MPLES 153 PATTERNS The accurate paper patterns that can be obtained make the task a comparatively easy one even for the novice, provided she can sew neatly either by hand or on the sewing machine. Tlie exact qnantity of material required is stated ami also the amount of embroiderv, or whatever triinniing is used. These patterns have, as a rule, one fault, the skirts are too long. Thirty inches from neck to h(Mn is an ample length for slips and dresses, under- skirts being two inches shorter. In cutting out skirts a fold should be taken in the middle of the length of the pattern, shortening tlicui as much as is necessary. Tliis avoids making them too narrow around the bottom, as would be the case were it simply cut off. The sides of the pattern can be folded under to the proper slope. The label on the pattern states the kind of material that is suitable for the garment to be made by it, so that even the inexperienced cannot go far astray in her choice. The Gertrude patterns, and other good ones, can be obtained from the Butterick Publishing Company, in New York City. SAMPLES A written request to any large dry goods firm 154 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD will bring a selection of samples in as many dif- ferent materials as is desired, and from these it is easy to make a selection. Parcels under four pounds in weight can be son! by mail, so that distance from the groat shopping centres, or inaccessibility to express companies is no longer a serious drawback to procuring as good an outfit as can be obtained in a large city. READY MADE CLOTHING When it is desired to purchase the clothing ready made it is best to send for a catalogue to a large firm that deals in baby clothes. There is a great variety of style and price and from this garments can be chosen of any degree of luxuriousness. The simpler ones are often more dainty than the elaborate ones. Simplicity is (s- specially to be sought in the baby's belongings. The absence of ornament is compensated for by the fineness of the material and the neatness of the work. It is best to select separately the things that are needed. Many articles not really required arc included in the layette furnished at the shops, while there is a paucity of some of the more necessary ones. It is sometimes possible to make the undercloth- NUxMBEK OF GARMENTS 155 inir, or some of the pluiiicr garments, at liome, even when the dresses have to be [)urehas('(l. Yokes and sleeves ean be bought ready made and it is not a (hffieult matter to add the skirt to eomplete the dress. It is well to begin work on the outfit in good time. The later months may bring a disinelination or inability to work. Aceident sometimes hastens the birth, then it is a great satisfaction to know that everything is ready and all the preparations completed. Working on the sewing machine is not a very beneficial form of exercise for the expectant mother and as little of it as possible should be done with a treadle ma(;hine. Hand work is infinitely prefer- able, if it is neatly sewed. It always commands an extra price in ready made garments. NUMBER OF GARMENTS The facilities for having washing and ironing done when it is desired make some difference in the amount of clothing it is necessary to provide. Those who have this labor performed at home and are sure of being able to obtain clean garments whenever they are required do not need as large a stock as those who must depend upon a distant laundress. To be stinted in baby clothes means that it is 156 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD almost i 111 possible to koop the baby fresli and swoot. Kvervtliiiii!; .should be sacrificed to this. Wlicn the means are small the saviiiiir should be e[F(!cted in the quality of the material or in the absence of trimminn;;, not in the number of pirments ])rovid(d. The following list is based upon the suppositi(»n that the clothes can be returned from the laiuidiv punctually once a week. It ma\ be added to at will, but should not be much curtailed, unless the facilities for washing and iron- ing are exceptionally good, or the need of economy is very urgent. CLOTHING 3 bands 4 shirts 6 petticoats 48 napkir^ 6 night slips 8 dresses 2 wrappers 12 pair socks 3 blankets 2 cloaks 2 hoods 18 bibs ! i Bands. When linen shirts were worn, bands were an important part of the wardrobe, afford! nir warmth and protection to tlu^ abdomen. They were usually pinned too tight and did harm in that way. It is no more necessary to bandage a young baby than a young colt. It is true there are weak points in the abdominal CLOTHING 157 walls, but tlie unyielding bandage, as it is usually applied, forces the intestines down against these when the child cries and actually increases the dan- ger of rupture, which it was meant to guard against. Now that the use of the soft, warm Jersey shirt is almost univer.-al, the band is only required for a few days to keep the dressing in place and care should be taken not to put it on too tightly. Three strips of soft flannel about live inches wide, by twenty-four long, torn off and not finished in any way are all that is needed. They can be sewed on if desired, but small safety pins answer very well practically to fasten them and are much less trouble. They should be put in at the side so the baby will not be compelled to lie on them. In leaving off the bands a strip should be torn off every day, not to make the change too sudden. r^}\\\'U. As a shirt has to be worn at night as well as durin<>: the dav, four will be found none too many. The ribbed cashmere, Saxony or Jersey, liiii'h necked, long sleeved and opening down the front are the best. They cost from forty-five to seventy-five cents each. As the first small ones are soon outgrown the less expensive quality answers very well. If it is desired to make them, the Butterick shirt 158 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD pattern No. 7004 is a very good one. Cotton and wool, or silk and wool flannel, slionld be nscd. as it shrinks mncli less in wasliing than the all wool material. The seams should be laid flat and the edges eatstitehed. If* desired, the neek, sleeves and bottom of the shirt can be bound with flaunt 1 binding, which washes better than ribbon. A skilful knitter can knit little shirts that arc very prrit^ and dainty and answer the purpose admirably. A baby ribbon of pink or blue should be run in at the neck and wrists. After putting on the shirt it should be fastened with a safety pin to the napkin in front to prevent its riding up. Some mothers prefer a flannel slip instead of a shirt. This can be made by the night slip i)attern, cutting it a little narrower and lower in the neck. The disadvantage of this garment is that if it accidently gets wet the baby nuist be undress((l to remove it. This accident is not likely to luij)- pen with a short shirt. It does not cling as closely and hence is not as warm as a cashmere shirt. In dressing the baby it is convenient to 'it tli sleeves of the different garments in one .icrand so put them on as one article. In i case the shirt may be fastened behind. The bal)y s idom objects to lying face downwards while its clothes are SSj * CLOTHING 159 luMUii^tiecl and it saves niiich truuble to get them all oil with one motion. A baby dislikes, anil very reasonably, beinj^ turned and twisted abont while it is being dressed uiul often gets cross and cries before the operation is completed. Pcfdcoats. A sleeveless flannel slip is preferable to :i petticoat nntil the baby is three or four months old. It gives more freedom to the body than a regular petticoat, as it is impossible to draw it tight around the waist. As it takes the place of the old-fashioned pinning i)lanket, or harrow coat, it is well to have the l)ottom turned up and loosely buttoned for added warmth to the little feet. Care should be taken not to have it too tight to impede their motion. It should be thirty-three inches long from neck to liem. This allows four inches to turn up. This is the length when finished and does not in(dude the hem before it is turned, which must be allowed for. It can be made from the night slip pattern, omit- ting the sleeves and cutting it lower in the neck. The arm holes and neck can be bound with flannel binding and the seams laid flat and catstitched. Ridges at the seams should be avoided in a baby's Cloti .Qg. U]0 PREPAKATION FOR MOTHERHOOD If a regular petticoat is preferred, the Butterick pattern 7801 is a good one to use. It lias a slit on one side of tlie waist through which one end ot' the waistl)and sh'ps, permitting it to be drawn around and tied in front. Pins vshould not he put in a baby's clotliing when it can be avoid* d. There are straps over the siioulders, though this i.s not of so much importance in the skirts of a tiny babv who spends most of its time lying down. If it is desired to use pinning blankets for the first two months they can be made by pattern number 7801, which has a waist with slit in the side and shoulder straps. The petticoats should be made of flannel if an- other slip is not worn. The "waist should be of tlio same material, or of outing flannel, for the winter l)abv. In summer Lonsdale muslin mav be used {or this purpose. Silk and wool flannel costs from sixty-five cents to a dollar a yard. The more expensive quality is beautifully fine and can be used for a cloak, or wrapper. The cotton and wool flannel can \)v ))urchased for about thirty-five cents a yard, and is equally serviceable for underclothes. The only advantage of the former is its added daintiness. If it is desired to have the petticoats especially ornamental, flannel can be purchased by the yard CLOTHING 161 with a broad hem on one side surmounted by a row of hemstitching, or a delicate vine of leaves and flowers, or shamrocks, or polha dots, done in silk, forming a pretty border. The length of the gar- ment is cut from the width of the material. They are very pretty at first, but lose their fresh- ness after repeated washing. There is an art in washing the bal)y's flannel be- lonu'inii^s which it is well for the voung mother to know if she has to do it herself, or direct the work, and wishes them to keep their beauty. Dissolve a few shavings of Ivory soap in warm water, not too hot, wash the articles in this, pressing and rubbing them gently, but not wringing them to pull them out of shape. Rinse them in water of the same temperature, neither hotter nor colder. Shake them until par- tially dry and complete the process by hanging them in the sun, or near the fire, that it may be a rapid un(>. Iron them imniediately. Using water of the same temperature and dry- inpers are useful to slip on in early niorniiiu' when the night slip is removed, or to put over it in cool weather. Babies are so susceptible to cold th;it they have to be guarded against it, not by kcepiiii: them shut up in hot rooms, but by clothing ti.eiii properly and letting them have })lenty of fresh air. SOCKS These are a disputed good for little babies. They keep the feet warm, whicli is an important gain, l)iil they are apt to get wet and have to be tied raiht r closely to prevent them from being kicked oil'. Tlie} have to be worn as soon as the flainiel slip is no longer kept closed at the bottom, so it is as W( 11 to begin vvith them. They can be knitted or crocheted of white zephyi\ til BT.AXKF.TS 175 and j^touter ones of Gerinantowii wool. TIic little shoe ]>art of the foot may he of pink, hlue, pale vellow, or crimson. Purple is the color of irrjef, al- though it is also the royal shach^, and is not a[)pro- priate for a baby's belongings. '1 inv shoes to be used iiistoad of socks, mav li {•isMonecl of stockinet — the b(\st part of ohl, fine uiulerwear answers very well for the ])urpose — tlaniiel, jersey flannel, or eiderdown tlannel. They or feather stitched, in ith an he daintilv embroidered, tl le same, or a contrastniii" coh>r, with washuiir si The JMitterick jiattern number 4257 shows how to cut tliem in two wavs. At least a dozen pairs of socks are neeossary, as they soil quickly and wear out with marvellous rap- i(hty under the ceaseless movemcMits of the litth^ feet. Crocheted or knitted socks can be })urchascd for twcntv-fiv c'tus a j)an but cost nuu •h 1 ess wnen th(y are mn<.^3 at home. Very elaborate ones are sold fl)r I..25. BLANKETS These are neeessarv to wrai) around the babv while it is little. At least some protection of the kind is required. S>ft white knitted shawls mav be used, but thev are more clumsy and not as easib washed. I once 176 PUKPAllATION FOK MOTHERHOOD saw some very soft fine white Shetland shawls, with a thread of silk woven with the wool, whi( h were exaetly the thint^ for a baby, but they are dilli- onlt to proeure. Very fine embroidered blankets of cream flanii. 1, worked with s})rays of flower's and leaves in satin stitch, can be had at the establishments where bahv clothes are sold. They cost from §2.50 to §6.(l(). It may be desirable to have one to be worn witli the state dress, but simpler ones are more comfortable and sensible for everyday wear. A square of silk and wool flannel, with the ed. scalloped and worked with washing silk, and jx r- haps a dot in the centre of each scallop, mako a dainty blanket sufficiently nice for best. Cream, pink, or blue, eiderdown flannel witli a two inch hem stitched in silk is useful and easily washed. A square of cotton and wool flannel with a Ikih of the same deptli hemmed by hand, and having two, or three, rows of chain stitch in silk to conceal the hemming, answers v^ery well. Flannel blankets, whether simj^le or elaborate in their decorations, must yield the palm for comfort to those knitted from (Tcrmantown wool. Cream washes the best, but any color preferred may be used. JACKETS 177 ■^ive skoins o f tl ie siiiiik' wool IS rcnuiro C(l[l 1 aiKl ii })iiir of rubber, or bone, needles a quarter of an ineli ill diameter. Set U]) 128 stitehes, knit three stitelies plain and tliive ribbed, or purled, across the lii'st needle; turn the work and beginning with three plain stitches re- peat as in the first row. Always begin the row witli three plai a stitcl les. Tl us gives a pretty crinkled effect, but any pattern or fancy stitch pre- ferred mav be used, or crochet substituted if knit- ting is disliked. The blanket should be a yard long and three- quarters of a yard wide. Two are needed. A pietty blanket with one end shirred into a hood can Ix' tnade of any of the thinner materials mentioned. It can be cut by the Butterick pattern nun)ber 8239. It is ornamented w'ith a }x)W on top and at the back of the liood, and is useful to i)ut on if the baby has to l)e taken through long passages, or when it is curried outside the door in summer. JACKETS Little worsted and flannel jackets, which used tu he considered indispensable, have rather gone out of fashion for babies. They are difficult to j)ut oil, soil very quickly and their beauty is soon spoiled by washing. 12 178 prp:pauation for mothekhood Tliey are still sold as a part of a babv's layette. Flannel and cashniere ones cost from Sl.oO to $9.50, the latter being very elaborately embroidered. If it is desired to make two, or three, the Biit- terick pattern number o974 ean be used to cut them by; they are mueh less ex[)ensive when made at home. Worsted jackets, which cost from $1.15 to $1.1)0 when purchased ready made, are knitted or eroch{'t( »1 in shell stitch, or star stitch, from zephyr wool. This may be white or any color preferred. Cream witli a colored border looks well. With rows of baby ribbon run above the border, or a single row of wider ribbon, their daintiness is indisputa))le. Their utility is questionable for the reasons given. I* I CLOAKS The age at which a baby must first be tak,>] weather it may be of cashmere, to match the chtak and edged with a border of white fur, or swans- down. In summer, silk, crepe de chine, i)lain faille Fraii- (;ais or embroidered China silk, lace, nuislin and silk nudl are used. The silk caps are trimmed with full rosettes of Valenciennes lace on top. The crepe de chine may be embroidered in polka dots or trefoils, and ornamented with rosettes of fine net, interminuhd with narrow cream -colored baby ribbon. The lace and muslin ones should have a linini, BIBS 181 V)v the k • T le OWS ly, on net IS In (• It ) he ('!< <'M • swans- W Fr aii- -lin UK rose Uv- Ic c line ;)ils, and Imin j]i{\ la lining of thin silk. Very pretty ones are made of rows of \'ak^nciennes insertion, hiid over a silk fonndation of the proper shape. Those of silk mnll can be feather stitched and have bands of drawn work down the sides and across the gathered crown, with a pompon of the nil ai id lace on top. Caps of Swiss muslin can have clusters of hair hilt' tucks and feather stitchino; if desired, the la-e border being a plaiting of the muslin edged ,vith Valenciennes. All the other cai)s have full niches of lace around the face and all are tied with ri!)l)on under the chin. Tiie little hoods are difficult for an inexperienced workwoman to make neatly. They cost from ninety-five cents for a })kiin one of corded Swiss innshn, with a border of the muslin edged with imitation Valenciennes lace, to twelve doHars for a real lace one. A daintv eml)roidered Cliina silk one can be had for two dollars. This has a rosette of fine net and bal)y ribbon, with loops of wider ribbon and a narrow ruche all around it. BIBS Bibs are not recpiired until the child begins to teethe, uidess, unfortunately, it throws up its food. It is well to have them readv beforehand and 182 PIUOPARATION Foil MOTIIEIUIOOD soinetlmes it is convenient to liave one to J3ut on to protect the cloak or the hest dress. Thev are made of lawn or fine Lonsdale cambric, with a thin laver of cotton hattino- between the outside and the lining and quilted by hand, or on the sewing machine, in diamonds, or any pattern desired. They can be trimmed with narrow Hamburg or lace, or embroidered if it is wished. Sometimes when they arc (piilted a sj)ace is left in the middle or at the lower part and a simple design worked in it, or the baby's initial or monov are easily washed. Dainty bibs for out door wear can be made bv cut- BIB PINS 183 i\\][!; hemstitched handkcrehiofs in two diasconally, workinii; the cut edge in button-hole stitch and (Miil)i'()i(lerino: one point with forget-me-nots, daisies, or tiny [)ink [lowers. BIB PINS They give a good excuse to display the bib pin with its setting of pearl or tiircpioise to match the studs. It may have the word " J^aby '^ on it in m!-''<('tS )on ti('( oil the handles and where tlie legs of the stand cross one another. F/irge wicker hampers with a tray, trimmed with (lotted Swiss muslin, cost fifteen dollars, and more ('lal)oratelv decorated with lace and ribbon, twcntv- five dollars. The hampers untrimmed can be ob- tained for five dollars and a half. Hampers made of palm leaf cost eight dollars. The trimmed baskets are very pretty and dainty looking, but the freshness of the muslin and lace is >oon impaired by constant use, and they have to be renewed at a time when the voun^ mother's attention is sufficiently occupied already with the iK'cessary care of her baby. Ribbon is the most sensible ornament, as it can be replaced with very little trouble, and looks well for a long time. Choose a width to correspond with the openings in the sides of the basket and weave the ribbon in and out, adding a bow here and there to conceal the joining and break the monotony of the outline. Hampers can have a broad ribbon crossing the cover diagonally, with a bow at each end and the same on the front. The cover inside may be crossed from side to side by a zigzag of ribbon, tacked at the points. To line the tray make a plaiting a little wider IMAGE EVALUATION TEST TARGET (MT-3) ^ 1.0 I.I *i^ lllllM IIIIIH lilllM |||||22 m 1 2.0 mil 1.8 1.25 1.4 1.6 ^ 6" — ► % 23 WEST MAIN STREET WEBSTER, NY. M580 (716) 872-4503 i/i 186 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD i than the depth of the tray. Tack this with a needk' and thread around the edge, holding it above the edge, wrong side out. Turn it down and tack it on tiie bottom of the tray. Cut a piece of stiff card- board the exact size of the bottom, cover it with a layer of cotton batting split and thickly sprinkled with violet, or other sachet powder. Press this in place. Sew on the sides of the tray two pin cushions, one round and one long, and two little bags. A flat basket may be lined in the same way, and if desired a deep frill added outside with a full ruche of the same around the top. A handle cross- ing the top of the basket to lift it by is useful. It can be tied with ribbon. Besides Swiss muslin and lace, art muslin, silko- lene, chintz, China and India silk can be used ior lining and covering the baskets. It is well to make a cover of the material to throw over the open basket to keep out the dust. If it is decided not to cover the basket with a perishable material it can be gilded or painted white and varnished, or red with lines of gold. This is a good device to freshen a wicker basket that has seen service before. The pockets and cushions may be made of delicate China silk or any material that is liked. CARRYING BASKET 187 Ril)bons are fastened to them, drawn through the nieslies of the side of the basket and tied in bows on the outside. CONTENTS The basket shoukl hold a little porcelain box of pure vaseline, a powder box and puff, with pow- dered French chalk scented with violet, or any good powder, a half cake of ivory soap in a cellu- loid or silver soap box, a soft baby brush, two little wash cloths made of an old dinner napkin, which are far more satisfactory than a sponge, and two larger towels of the same kind of old linen. A little powdered borax and a wide-mouthed bottle of fuller's earth should be at hand, not necessarily in the basket. In one pocket should be a bunch of absorbent cotton, in the other the middle of an old handkor- ehief. One cushion is for large, the other for small safety pins; common pins should not be put in a baby's clothes. The clothes that will be recpiired i'or the first dressing must be laid in it — a bjuul, a shirt, a flannel, a plain night slip, a napkin, a pair of socks and one of the Germantown blankets. CARRYING BASKET Sometimes a basket is provided to carry the baby from room to room. This is about two feet and 188 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD a lialf long, with handles. One can be purchase] for $2.75 and ornamented to correspond with the toilet basket. A down pillow is used as a bed. Some one color should be chosen for the baby's belongings and used wherever color is permissible. Pink for a girl and blue for a boy is the establislud usage. Pale green, yellow and crimson are all pretty. THE baby's clothes PRESS A modern high bureau, or chiffonier, in dark or light wood, with many shallow drawers, is the must convenient receptacle for the baby^s wardroho. There is usually a little closet at one side that holds the bonnet without crushing. A box or trunk with the sides concealed by a deep frill of chintz, tlie top stuffed and covered with tiie same, is a good place to keep the napkins. SACHETS Wherever the clothing is kept a number of sweetly scented sachets should be provided to scatt< r amongst it. One should be kept with the bibs and a few tucked in the waists of the dresses. Sachet powder can be bought by the ounce and little bans are easily made. The j)owder is sprinkled on a pieec of split cotton batting before being put in the bag. L., THE baby's bed — BASSINETTES 189 :h the I. baby's ssibl\ jlislud ire all lark or iie most irdrubc. it holds ll)er of A delicate aroma of violet, or heliotrope, enhances the sweetness even of a sweet baby. Liquid per- fumes are too decided in their odor to be uscvd about a baby. Something more delicate and etheriai is re- quired. THE baby's BED — BASSINETTP:S Wicker bassinettes, which are often chosen for the baby's first bed, are very pretty and dainty looking. They cost untrimraed from $6.75 to S!M)0 and have a hood, or canopy, to protect the h( ad. They can be lined with glazed muslin, or silesia, of whatever color is chosen for the baby's belongings, and covered with plain or dotted muslin, laid smoothly over the lining or frilled on. Art muslin, silkolene, China or any kind of fancy silk can be used if preferred. A full ruche is ])ut around the top to conceal the joining of the outside flounce and the lining. The curtains are looped hai'k with bands uf the material used or with ribbon. Sometimes the canopy is omitted. A large oval clothes basket makes a good sub- stitute for a bassinette. It can be trimmed in a similar manner and is less expensive. A stand draped with the same mateiial can be provided to hold the bassinette, or it can stand on two chairs. It can be easily carried from room to room, which sometimes is a couveuieuce, 190 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD THE BED A large pillow forms the bed. Over this is spread a square of rubber cloth and then the sheet, or a folded crib blanket. Another blanket and a pretty light coverlet is all the covering needed. PILLOWS The pillow should be a small square one with a dainty (^ovor. Two large hemstitched handkerchic fs make a pretty one. Down is objectionable as makiiiir the head too hot, unless the pillow is a very tiiiu one. A soft hair one answers the purpose very well in sum- mer. Feathers are not objectionable unless too soft. CRIBS Pretty as the bassinettes are their decorations soo.i lose their freshness and a crib is a more sensible piu- chase. The white iron ones with embellishments of brass are to be preferred, although there are many fasci- nating styles in wood. They can be had with a curv(' iiul air slioiiKl 11 water, ^asanily iket, or cknes^-cs otton, or re easily trap and h nial< COVERLIDS An upper sheet is not needed, the blanket and a light white quilt, or silk coverlet, or in winter a dow n comforter, being all that is necessary. Cotton batting covered with pink, blue, or cream clu't'se cloth and caught here and there to secure it, iiiakes a light and pretty comforter. PILLOW CASES The pillow should be a thin feather, or soil hair, one, to avoid overheating the little head. If the case is embroidered, the initials, or monogram, or whatever the design may be, should be at one end and not where the tender cheek rests. A cluster of narrow tucks above a broad hem, hemstitched, or not, is a pretty finish. HAMMOCKS "When space is a consideration, as it is to the dwellers in flats, a hammock makes a convenient bed for the baby. A small one occupies little space when slung on two stout hooks and is easily put out of the way when it is not occupied. A long pillow and blanket is all the bedding required. If there is a fear that the baby will fall out, it can be fastened in with two broad bands tied around the hummock. 13 iniifii'i 194 PREPARATION FOR MOTIIERH(X)D FOLDING BATH — TOILET APPARATUS A folding bath tub can be procured, made ol' rubber clotli stretched on a frame that can be foKKd and put aside when not iu use. There is a iiaid rubber faucet at the bottom to let off the water. At one end are pockets of rubber cloth to hold the wash cloth, soap, etc., and at the other a towel rack. It costs $8.75 untrimmed, and $12.00 with pockits and towel rack. With care one will last a long time, but the slightest crack in the rubber coating renders it useless as a bath tub, though it may still serve the secondary purpose of a bassinette for the baby. TIN TUB An oval tin tub is the most durable bath tub. It should be carefully dried after it is emptied. Wlitii in course of time it leaks, a soldering iron will repair the damage and give it a new lease of life. TOILET SETS Pretty decorated china toilet sets are sold for the baby's use. They consist of a basin, either a plain round one, or with a division in the middle. In the latter one side is for hot, the other for cooler water, or one side for scented water to finish the bath. Be- side the basin there is a powder box and soap dish to match it, and a pitcher. The set costs $3.75. PI WASH STANDS — POWDEU ItOXES, ETC. 195 Sometimes the basin is set in a wicker stand with a shelf below fur soap dish and powder box. This costs $7.50 ; the stand alone, fonr dollars. WASH STANDS A more dnrablc receptacle is a little wash stand of iron enamelled in white. This costs $1.75 ; with i)asin, two pitchers, soap and powder boxes, ^i()nal cleaner. The cost is about one dollar a pair for the process and they look almost like new when well done. A light white spread, not a heavy Marseilles quilt, 202 PRLPA RATION FOR MOTHERHOOD is the hest outer covering. When this cannot he procured, a clean, white sheet is a good substitute. If it is desired to use a down comforter in winter, it sliould be hung in the sun and thoroughly aired for several davs before beino; taken into use. Tiie pillows should be treated in the same wav and made over if the ticks are soiled, or thev have been used for a long time without having been reno- vated. A good supply of pillow cases is required. Noth- ing gives a more dainty look to a bed than fresh, uncreased pillow cases and the coolness is always welcome to the invalid. THE COUCH A comfortable couch, or low bed, should be pro- vided for the nurse. If baby and mother do well she will have many nights of almost undisturbed rc- [)ose, and she will be better rested for the next day's labors if this is taken on nn easy bed. TABLES There should be a small bedside table to hold various little necessaries. No food should be per- mitted to stand there for more than the moment that it requires to arrange the bed table, or the time oc- cupied by the convalescent in eating her meal. t' WM ■W'^WWWW CHAIRS — SCREEN — ORNAMENTS 203 inot be itute. winter, ly aired I me N\:iy icy have leu rciui- , Ts (.th- in fresli, s always Food, unless it is being eaten, is out of place in the sick room. If a gloss of water stands there for a short time it should be covered. CHAIRS A larger table is desirable, a comfortable easy chair for the nurse to hold the baby in and one or two others. Oue of these should be a firm chair, not a rocking chair, for the doctor. When he comes this should be placed at the right side of the bed and so that he can sit facing his pa- tient. SCREEN A screen is a very necessary addition to the fur- nit mo of the room. It serves many purposes ; to piotect mother, or baby, from light or draughts, to stand before the door when it is wished to keep it open for a short time, to screen the baby when it is being dressed or put to sleep, or to shut off a corner tVotn an unexpected visitor. The furniture in the room should be wiped every 'lay \vith a damp cloth to remove the dust ; so it is well not to have too much, that the nurse be not over- taxed. ORNAMENTS While a few ornaments may be left to beautify the apartment, it is best to put away the superabun- •TSfH BpnnHH 204 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD (laiice of bric-a-brac which adorns, or eneiini- b(M's, most bedrooms, nowadays. It is difficult to keep it as free from dust as it should be kept, and when it is crowded it is apt to meet wit!) accidents which are distressing to the invalid and erabarassing to the nurse. Pictures are never in the way. PLANTS One or two growing plants in pots are preferable to cut flowers. If the latter are admitted a little salt should be added to the water, that being chaiiixed every day. They should always be removed from the room at night. ill SUBSTITUTE FOR COMMODE A commode should be rigidly excluded from tlie room. It is almost impossible to keep one suHi- ciently clean to meet the exacting requirements of the lying-in room. Even if the vessel is emptied as soon as used the woodwork and surrounding parts cannot but become impregnated with unseen parti- cles which should find no lodtjment in this abode of cleanliness. ' One is unnecessary while the patient is confined to bed. AVhen she can sit up, if she requires one, an ordinary earthenware slop jar makes a good substi- '""■■'■'""■"■" -^ THE baby's room — BED PADS. 205 tute. It can be covered, quickly removed and tlionjuglily cleansed. No waste of any kind should be permitted to re- main in the room for longer than it takes to remove it. Empty vessels and chamber conveniences should bo scalded, dried and kept in the bath room. THE baby's room If possible the baby's belongings should have a place in an adjoining apartment where it can be washed and dressed out of the immediate ken of its mother. It saves much friction if the baby happens to be a fretful one and in any case is im- portant during the first few days, when quiet is essential. THE mother's comfort The young expectant mother is often as much puzzled to know what preparations are requisite for her own comfort as she is to know what her baby will require for its needs. BED PADS These entirely prevent the bed from being soiled and save much disagreeable washing as they can be rolled up and burned. Two large ones are needed and it is well to provide half a dozen smaller ones for subse- quent use, as they materially reduce the laundry bill. The foundation is 9, square yard of India rubber i^iinpii^ 206 pri<:paration for motherhood cloth, or white table oil cloth. On this is placed about a dozen tliicknesses of newspaper, over this a thick layer of absorbent cotton and the whole covered with cheese cloth tacked in place around the cdps. After using, these stitches are cut, the foundaiKni taken off and the pad burned. The rubber cloth, or oil cloth, can be sponired witii a clotli wrung out of carbolic acid and water, 1-60, and used again. After the confinement the soiled pad is takiii away by the nurse and the fresh one put in place without disturbing the under sheet. Absorbent cotton purchased from the druggist is expensive, costing about seventy-five cents a pound, The Absorbent Cotton Works at Walthara, jNIass., furnish a cheaper quality, suitable for pads, at altoiit thirty cents a pound and will send it by mail. Twu pounds are sufficient for a pad. It is well to place a sheet folded once across the bed under the pad and extending from it to the loot of the mattress. It should be firmly tucked under at the sides and can be removed with the pad. It prevents the accidental soiling of the under sheet from a drop of blood or a finger mark. PADS Small pads for use instead of napkins should be BINDERS 207 is placed ;er this a le covered he cdircs. jundarum I spo lilted md water, . is taken b in place provided. They can be burned and lessen one of the irreat risks of infection. Six dozen are needed. They can be purchased ready made and cost about sixty cent^j a dozen, but can be much more ciieaply prepared at home of ab- sorbent cotton covered with cheese cloth. Cut a ])iece of cheese cloth eight inches long by two wide ; lay on this a thick ])ad of the cotton seven inches long by nearly five inches wide. Double the cheese cloth on this and baste the edges together. Sew a strip of cheese cloth to each end of the napkin to fasten it to the girdle, or binder. Three pounds will make sixty good-sized pads. After childbirth there is a bright red discharge which lasts for three or four davs and amounts al- together to two or three pints. This continues for about two weeks, rapidly becoming paler, and after that time gradually disappears. BINDERS It is best to provide five binders, as they some- times get soiled and have to be frequently changed. They are not necessary, some physicians discarding them altogether, but they certainly add to the com- fort of the mother, giving a sensation of support, which is grateful to the relaxed abdominal walls, not yet recovered from their overdistension. 208 PREPARATION FOR MOTIIKRIIOOD Make thorn of soft unbleached cotton whicli Ims been waslied. They are out a yard and a (jnai t( i- long by thirty inches wide, doubled so that tin v will be fifteen inches wide when done and the educes stitched or overhanded together. It is well to have a couple of yards of the same cott-tn at hand for breast bandages in case they are required. NIGHT DRESSES A short night dress, a pair of open drawers, with- out starched frills, and a pa^r of white, or cream, stockings should be provided to wear during tlic actual confinement. The night gown can be niade from an old one by cutting off the lower part jn-t below the waist line. Unless short night dresses are especially disliked they will be found a great convenience durino; the first few davs, while the dis- charge is profuse and the napkins have to be iVc- quentlv chancred. After that the ordinarv dr(>ss can be resumed. UNDER SHIRTS If under shirts are worn they should be open down the front, faced and furnished with buttons and button holes. It is difficult to change a tight undershirt otherwise, and disturbs the invalid unnecessarily. BED JACKETS Pretty jackets of opera, Scotch, or Shaker flannel WKaPPEUS — SMIM'ERS 209 are preferable to luuler shirts. The back should be cut twice as wide as usual iKtwcon the siioulders jiud tiie extra fulness shirred in at the neck. This extra width makes them easy to put on and take oil'. One should be worn during the labor. A small shawl, or blanket should be provided to lay over the chest, when the bed clothes are turned back. WRAPPERS At least one pretty wrapper to be worn during convalescence should be provided. It can be called a tea gown if preferred, as that seems to do away with the flavor of invalidism which always clings to the bed room wrapper. It can be made of surah, China or Japanese silk, crepon, cashmere, or fancy flannel, and be as i)lain, or as elaborate, as taste and means will permit. Only one thing is imperative, it should be fresh and dainty looking, as befits the importance of the oc- casion. The train should be short, as the weight of a long one is tiring to the weak back. It should open easily in front to permit of the baby being nursed com- ibrtably, if the mother is so happy as to be able to perform this duty. SLIPPEF*^ Pretty slippers should be chosen to wear with it, 14 210 PUHPAUATION Foil MOTHERHOOD either matching it in color, or having some special ornamentation. Old ones can be covered with vel- vet by skilful fingers and decorated with rosettes, or a twist of ribbon, or both, as desired. NECESSARIES Two or three extra clean sheets should be in the room and a good supply of clean towels, at least a dozen. A small blanket, shawl, or large flannel petticoat should be provided to wrap the baby in. A nest should be made in an easy chair, with a pillow and a blanket to receive it until it can be washed. A pair of blunt scissors and a ball of soft white wicking should be at hand to cut and tie the cord. Some doctors prefer narrow tape. Two dozen medium-sized safety pins should lie be- side these to pin the binder. Gores are taken in aiul pinned in place after it is on, to make it fit snugly. A granite ware or wood pulp basin makes a good receptacle for the placenta, which is cut in pieces by the nurse and burned, or buried, after the doctor has inspected it. The baby is sometimes di[)ped into hot water im- mediately after its arrival and it is w^ell to have a tin foot tub, or pail, large enough to hold it in case the physician wishes to do this. SYRINGES— HOT WATER HAG 211 Ice shoiikl always be on hand and a good supply i)( hot water at the time of delivery. SYRINGES A fountain syrlno^o is indispensable. The Tyrian, whieh can be converted into a hot water bai^ at will, is a good kind to purchase. Many physicians o'ler a douche to be given daily while the discharge continues, and this cannot be done without a fountain syringe. A granite ware douche pan is a great convenience, being much lighter than an earthen ware one and not liable to be broken. A good bulb syringe is needed if there is a ten- dency to constipation. HOT WATER BAG The Tyrian fountain syringe can be used as a hot water bag. Should another kind be chosen, a sepa- rate hot water bag should be provided, if there is not one already amongst the houseliold requisites. A pint hot water bag for the baby is a great comfort. A fit of colic can sometimes be prevented, or cut short, by rolling baby and warm bag together in a blanket. Warmth is especially necessary to the littk creature, ^^^sisisn 212 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD BED PAN A bed pan is also indispensable as for several days the mother should not sit up in bed on any pretext whatever. The most convenient kind is the Eureka, a small earthen one. It can be much more conveniently slipped in i)lace and removed than the large, old-fashioned French one. The nurse should warm it by filling it with hot water and drying it before it is brought to the bod- side. A flannel cover, something like a bag, may be made to fit over it and makes it more comfortable to use. A small square of rubber cloth should be pro- vided to cover it when it is taken away and this should be kept clean by frequent sponging with car- bolic acid and water, 1-60. BED TABLE A bed table adds to the comfort of the convales- cent when she can sit up in bed to take her meals. The simplest form is a board about twenty-six inches long, by fourteen wide, standing on four short legs, about four inches long. A plain, homemade one answers every purpose, although bed tables can be bou2:ht nicelv finished and varnished. When one is not to be had, a large pillow with a tow^l spread over it makes a tolerable substitute. Tables to stand at the side of the bed caa be WASn CLOTHES 213 vcral I any is tlio more m the th hot } bod- lUiv hv ible to )e ])!'()- id this ith car- h vales- meals, inches 't legs, le one 3an be taincd, that are made to serve as bed tables. In these the point of support for the top is plaeed at one end. A screw permits it to be raised and lowered as desired. The top can be swung into place in front of the invalid and turned back when not in use. WASH CLOTHS Several wash cloths of soft Turkish towelling siiould be provided, a bunch of absorbent cotton, a roll of old cotton, or linen, as napkins, or parts of a tablecloth, and ajar of vaseline separate from that to be used for the baby. If the nurse arrives in time she should be shown wliere the different articles are kept. They should I'C collected and arranged some time before there is a probability of their being needed. There is alwavs a possibility of their being required prematurely and if tiiis should be the case their absence may occasion serious hiconvenieuce. [with a lute. Ibe rcssBaraai CHAPTER XIII THE IDEAL THE MENTAL STATE 0' I The expectant mother who earnestly desires the best good of her chikl, has other duties to perform beside providing for its physical comfort and safety. Its whole life will be biassed by the influences which surround it during this formative period. Temper and disposition are being fashioned as surely as feet and hands, face and fingers. While we cannot understand the mysteries of he- redity, nor the part which even remote ancestors have in the formation of that complex whole, the new-borii cliikl, we do know that the mental state of the mother has much to do with the temperament of her oflspring. A nervous, excitable woman, who refuses to at- tempt to exercise self-control during this time, will find her baby irritable and easily startled, if not crut^s and peevish. (214) PHYSICAL IMPRESSIONS 215 Calmness of mind, a refusal to be (Usturbed by trifles, will bring its reward in a placid, good-tem- pered baby. From the first the mind should be filled as far as possible with pleasant images. Interesting books should be read, beautiful pictures, or natural scenery, dwelt upon and everything that excites disagreeable emotions put as far away as possible. Many an expectant mother would refrain from an outburst of temper, an angry retort, or a fit of sulks, if she gave herself time to think, "This may injure my baby.'* The ideal should be kept constantly before the iinao:ination. It is more easv to do so with the first child, when love and tenderness surround the young wile and she has few serious cares to disturb her. By the time that the fourth, or fifth, comes, and the other little children are constantlv domandinti; atten- tion and wearying the overtaxed mother, she finds the task a difficult one indeed. Yet justice to the latest comer requires that it shall be at least at- tempted. PHYSICAL IMPRESSIONS Physical impressions may be made u])on the child at a very early period of its existence. I^ is said that the deformities of cleft ])alate and hare lip are impossible after the second month. ^Bsam maaai liiiiiiiiiiniiiiisi 216 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD FEARS Many mothers suffer mueh from the fear tliat their children niav be defornud, or marked in sonic way. It is never well to dwell upon these thinjxs. AVhen they press for recognition, they should he resolutely put away for pleasanter reflections. It is a great comfort to know that though these accidents do happen, they are comparatively lare aid that most of them can be remedied, if treated h\ a skilful surgeon early in the child's life. No time should be lost in getting the best advice that can be procured, if it should be needed. Many children have unimportant marks in ]>laces where they are of no consequence, as they are seldom seen. Another fear that haunts the large majority of expectant mothers is, that they may not survive tli(> ordeal through which they must pass. This canudt be summarily dismissed, but in far the greater num- ber of cases it is unfounded. Childbirth is a natural process, not a disease, and the proportion of safe deliveries is very large. Since the introduction of antiseptics and the deli- cate cleanliness which they have brought in their train, the chance of unfavorable after complications is materially diminished. Better nursing has helped to swell the list of recoveries. SELF DENIAL 217 There is danger in every step of our daily life. We cannot enter a carriage, nor take the shortest journey by land, or sea, that we do not imperil our lives. They are in the hand of a wise and loving Fatlicr, who in His own good time will call, us homo. That moment cannot be delaved, or has- leued, by anything that we can do. If we are in the path of duty we may safely leave the result to Him. The young expectant mother should close her ears to- the stories that some of her acquaintances will only be too ready to tell her. Difficult confinements do occasionally occur ; they are not likely to take place with those who have lived in accordance with the laws of nature and come to the trial well prepared physically. Since the introduction of anesthetics there is no need to drcad excessive pain. The physician always carries ether, or chloroform, and will use it if the noeessity arises. To dwell on accidents which in all probability will never happen, is as foolish as it would be to sjHjil the pleasure of a voyage by the constant dread of shipwreck. SELF DENIAL Dr. Charles M. Green, in an address read before the Boston Society for Medical Improvement, em- 218 PRP:PA RATION FOR MOTHERHOOD phasizes a point that is often overlooked for the preservation of mental tranquillity. Dr. Green is an obstetric physician in large practice. He savs in substance : ^' To many women I believe coitus during prctr- nancy is distasteful, to many even obnoxious, to al), in my opinion, it is more or less injurious. Aside from the mechanical disturbance of the uterus, the pelvic vessels are injuriously congested, the nervous system first excited then depressed and it is often a cause of miscarriage, especially at a menstrual epoch. So far as my knowledge of the animal crea- tion goes, the pregnant female will fight if necessary to protect herself. Certainly among enlightened human beings, men who have at heart tlu^ welfare of wife and children should be willing to forego this indulgence during the time when the wife needs all her vital powers for her own well-being, and thai of her expected offspring. Many men and women err through ignorance, and are grateful for advice on this subject.'^ With delicate women it is said to be a common cause of miscarriage. HEREDITARY DISEASE When there is an hereditary disease latent in the family on either side, the expectant mother may very properly give her attention to the best means of IIEllEDITAIiY DISEASE 219 counteracting it, and arresting its development in her child. Tiie modern tboory is that children in this case are born with a predisposition towards the disease in question. They a-e moresnsceptible to its influence than others. If ::hey become inoculated with the ircrni it falls on soil favorable to its growth, and they are more likely to fall victims to it than they other- wise would have been. This weak point should be guarded and strength- ened by every means in the mother's power. From kilnhood, the child should be surrounded with all the helps that mother-love can devise, and mother- wisdom execute. Pure air, proper })hysical exercise, suitable food will upbuild weak lungs and enable them to resist tlic inroads of the dread germ of tuberculosis. So through the list of hereditary diseases. Competent advice should be sought from the earliest years, and the directions i2:iven be falthfullv followed. ^Fany mothers have sad reason to dread that th^ir children will bo born with an inherited taste for alcohol and a tendency to indulge in it to excess. It is a rcid danger when the father is a victim to this habit. Yet d^snger does not always mean disaster, and in no case does the old proverb, ^' forewarned is forearmed," apply with stronger force than in this. Tsmm e^ 220 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD l! I After prolonged alcoholic excesses the tissues become diseased and demand the stimulant to wliich they liave become accustomed. Men in this con- dition cannot transmit healthy tissue to their otl- spring; they have not got it to give. What \vn- at first a sin of the will, becomes a transgression ot the bodv. It is the mother's part to counteract this baleful lieritage. By means of proper food, as her child grows older, little meat, no condiments except salt, plenty of fruit, vegetables, and the cereals, she may hope to build up healthy tissue, which will have iiu abnormal craving for stimulants. Above all she must never permit alcohol to \w tasted. When the child is of an age to be cajKt])l(' of understanding it she should explain to him tin reason for the prohibition in his case. He shduld know that for him it is a subtle poison, as deadly, if not as sudden in its effect, as strychnia, or arsenic. If his will can be enlisted on the side of self-coii- quest the battle is more than half won. Mothers who have this dread enemy to fiirlit should read Helen Campbell's little book, " Some Passages in the Practice of Dr. Martha Scarbor- ough. " It is published by Roberts Brothers, Boston, and is full of comfort, encouragement, and wise practical suggestions. OCCUPATION 221 tissues wliicli his cnll- hcir iitV- it wti- at jn of I he s baleful ler cliil^l cept suit, she may 1 have no ^lol to he eajwhle him till' e sliouM Us deadly. r arsenic. self-coii- to fiudit '' Some Scarhor- •others, lent, and God helps those who help themselves. If the mother, through ignorance, or wilfulness, has given to her children a father who may bequeath to them this deadly inheritance, it is her duty to help them to overcome it, and not to sit by with folded hands and see them ruin themselves without making one aile(iuate effort to save them. They are few defects, physical or mental to which the human race is subject that cannot be benefited hy wise treatment, begun early and carried out with unremitting perseverance. OCCUPATION There is nothing like constant occupation to keep the mind tranquil and composed. A succession of ahsorbing interests will do more to promote cheer- fulness than anv other means that can be devised. A woman is wrong to shut herself up from out- side pleasures at this time. If she is properly dressed there is no reason why for many months she should not go to concerts, the theatre, or other public places wiiere she finds agreeable diversion. If she is obliged to stay within doors she should occupy her leisure moments with light literature, music, attending to house plants, if her fancy lies in that direction, or whatever pleasant employment she best likes. 222 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD The crown of womanhood is coming to lier. She should meet it with anticipations of the happiness that will be hers when she enters into full possession of her kingdom, not with forebodings which turn her joy into sadness. INFLUENCE ON SEX The desire of the mother appears to have little in- fluence upon the sex of the child. As has been al- ready said this seems to depend upon some mysterious law whose workings have not yet been discovered and to be determined very early in its existence. In a premature birth the sex can be distinguitain.ing of a sufficient amount of food. It is all important that the expectant mother should be able to take enough nouri 'unent to supjdy the double demand upon her. She iiust be in good condition for the effort that awaits her. The nausea is often caused by the inability o. the system to respond immediately to the fresh call upon its resources. The mother cannot })roduce at once enough blood for her own pt»^s and those of the child. Her nerve C-iit^n-s ire starved and the stomach, being a sensitive organ, rebels. She must 228 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD try to coax it into submission and in time the body will adjust itself to the new conditions. It is best to cat a liglit supper before going to bod as tlie long fast of the night is injurious. In tht morning, before sitting up in bed, a warm drink should be taken. A glass of hot milk with one- quarter lime water, or instead of the latter, apolli- iiaris, or vichy, is excellent. A cup of tei. wills a soda biscuit, or a cup of cocoa, made with half luilk and half water, is more acceptable to some persons. There should be no haste in getting up, rise slowly and dress leisurely. An effervescing water, as soda water withont syrup, will sometimes give relief. Soda mint tablets taken when the nausea is first felt are effectual in some cases. A mustard paste over the stomach, left on until the skin reddens, but not long enough to blister, may assist in giving relief. Sometimes a day or two spent in bed, lying quietly on the back, improves the condition. An ice bag applied to the back of the neck, ex- tending as high as possible, and bits of ice allowed to dissolve slowlv iu the moutii, mav control vomit - may iuoint, that the bandage may not slip down and leave it unprotected. However high it may be carried, the handage must begin at the toes to equalize the pressure below the enlarged vein. The heel need not be covered ; after leaving the foot a turn of the bandage is carried over the ankle, thence round the leg and so upward. In applying the bandage it must not l)e drawn too tightly, particularly about the foot and ankle, as this would interfere with the circulation and make the return of the blood through the veins still more mm 240 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD (iiHicult. li' subsequent swelling of the leg makes It uneonifortabk- it must be loosened. Jt can !)e ro- moved at night if desired, though it may be left in place if the support is needed. It ^lust be put on afresh before getting up in the morning. An elastic stocking may be used instead. This is made of stout elastic rubber and can be ordeicd through a druggist, who will take the measures, or give directions for self-measurement. This is im- portant, as the stocking is of no use unless it fits snugly. It should not be worn at night. The constant stretching injures the rubber aiul soon destroys its elasticity. If it is not safe for the leg to be without some support a flannel bandage can be substituted. The stocking should be replaced before putting the foot to the ground in the morning. Should one be required after confinement, a smaller one will probabl} have to be procured, as the leg lessens in size aftei' the pressure is removed. The close support of a stocking, or bandage, ren- ders the liability of a vein rupturing very mueh less. One or the other should always be worn as soon as the prominence of the veins is noticed. It is a very simple precaution, easily taken, and nnich trouble may be avoided by attending to it in time. KUPTUKE OF A VEIN — SALIVATION 241 RUPTURE OF A VEIN Should this accident occur, a piece of cotton folded several times, until it is about three inches square, aid, if possible, dij)ped into extract of ^vitch hazel, should be tii^htly bound over the bleedin<^ point, th(^ leg laid flat, not elevated, and the doctor sent for. Spirits of turpentine may be used instead of witch hazel, but firm pressure is more important than either. A piece of ice pressed over the bandage helps to check the bleeding. Sometimes a vein ruptures under the skin and the escaped blood forms a dark spot on the leg. Cloths wrung out of ice water, witch hazel and water, or alcohol and water, should be applied without pres- sure and the leg kept at rcoC until the discoloration has disappeared. (Constipation is one of the causes of varicose veins, the accumulated mass within the intestine causing iiiiclue pressure. A dessertspoonful of Rochelle salts should be taken as often as is necessary to re- lieve it. SALIVATION There is sometimes an undue secretion of saliva in the mouth which causes much inconvenience, as it lias to be frequently gotten rid of. It is said that a piece of dry, bitter orange peel kept in the mouth 16 242 PREPARATIOX FOR MOTHERHOOD helps to check it. A teaspoonful of spirits of tur- pentine put in a pitcher of boiling water and the steam inhaled is also recommended. The mouth may be washed with a little tannic acid, or chlorate of potash, dissolved in wo'^r, bnt this shonld l)o sparingly used. Rorhelle salts is ^he best laxative to use should one be required. FAITsTNESS A feeling of dizziness and faintness is common during the earlier part of pregnancy and is often marked at the time of quickening, or when the mo- tion of the child is first felt. It is best relieved by lying down with the head low, without a pillow, admitting a current of fresh air and if it continiics takiniij slowlv a \Narm drink. Stimulant should not be resorted to, plain hot water, hot weak tea, or coflee, hot lemonade, or clear soup, bouillon being better and leaving no ill effect as stimulant is apt to do. Lying down as soon as the first sensation of diz- ziness is felt will often prevent it from passing into faintness. DISCOLORATION OF THE SKIN The stretching of the skin of the abdomen ind breasts, particularly of the former, causes glisteninii; white Hues to appear upon it. Sometimes they are LEUCORRHCEA 243 red or blue in color, turning white after confincniont, when thev look like scars. Thev are of no special importance and do not require treatment except as they show that the skin is imder great tension and s!u)u]d be lubricated by daily rubbing with oil. The alnloiuinal bandage gives support and lessens the discomfort. ' Brown or yellow patches sometimes appear upon the face and breasts. These remain until after the confinement and then gradually fade away. LEUrORRH(EA There may be a discliarge from the vagina of a thin watery liquid or of a thicker one, white or vellow in color. This niav irritate the surroundin^: parts and cause unpleasant itching. A douche should be taken every morning of oiic hca{)ing tcaspoonful of common salt in one pint of warm, not hot, water. The fountain syringe should be used and the bag hung only just high enough to j>ermit the water to flow in the gentlest manner, force must be carefully avoided. When the irritation is very great, carbolized vase- line may be applied to the external ])arts, or they may be bathed in a solution of one teaspoonful of ha king soda to half a pint of warm water. If relief dops jiQt follow^ the doctor should be ap- I1 'I 244 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD plied to for advice, as the persistant irritation shows that more radical treatment is necessary. SLEEPLESSNESS This has already been mentioned, but it may bo as well to recapitulate here the simple measures which may l)e tried for its relief. A Wii^ht supper before i2;oino; to bed. This sets the dild water f(jllowed by rapid friction just before getting into bed. Taking a warm bath, or soaking the feet in hot water to which mustard has been added. Drinking a glass of hot milk after going to bed. Lying in a comfortable position with the abdomen supported on a pillow. Taking daily exercise in the open air. Having the bedroom well ventilated. Drinking no tea nor coffee in the evening. As far as possible banishing unpleasant subjects of thought and fixing the mind on some monotonous form of motion. It is suicidal to take drugs to induce sleep unless CONSULTING A PHYSICIAN 245 there is absolute necessity. The habit of depending upon them is easily formed and most difficult to shake off. They never should be ventured on without com- petent medical advice, nor tried until everything else has failed. Sometimes, when the night's rest is broken, suffi- cient sleep can be obtained during the day to com- pensate for the loss. CONSULTING A PHYSICIAN Although it is foolish to seek a physician for re- lief from every slight ailment, the youn^ expectant mother should remember that it is unwise to let one persist for any length of time unrelieved. It is a waste of the strength she is bound to husband for the time of need. Ailments that seem slight to her may indicate a necessity for speedy treutment to the experienced eye of her doctor. No harm is done by consulting him and often much good. Above all she should not })ermit herself to brood over something which may be of no conseijueuce ^vllatever. A few cheery words from the doctor may dispel a phantom which has haunted her for weeks, to the great detriment of nerves and spirits, and which might as well have been laid earlier. , .1 J mmmmrmmm^^m 2I<) PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD If there is a real evil to be faced, the sooner it Is met and dealt with the better. If it is only an im- aginary evil that is troubling her peace, it cannot l.c too speedily j)iit to flight. Health and comfort an- too precious to be risked and ease of mind should be as jealously guarded as strength of body. i CHAPTER XV MISCARRIAGE If a child is born before it is possible for it to live outside the uterus tlie accident is call'-d a mis- carriage, or an abortion. If it takes place after the sixth or seventh month, bnt before the full term has elapsed, it is said to be a premature confinement. It has been mentioned before, but it cannot be too often reiterated if it makes the expectant mother more careful, that a miscarriage is peculiarly likely to happen at the time when the menstrual period is due. If the slightest pain, or inconvenience, is felt then, it is wisest to go to bed and lie on the back as much as is possible for foui* days at least. It is said to be most common during the first three months of pregnancy, the danger lessening after the fourth. A miscarriage is looked upon by many women as a very trifling matter, and sometimes, it is to be feared, is even rejoiced over. (247) f ' ■ 248 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD It always involves danger and may be more seri- ous in its resnlts than a confinement. It is not a natural process, as an ordinary labor is, and causes more or less shock to the system. ^lany uterine diseases are the result of neglected miscar- riage and the patient needs special care after one lias taken place to avert disagreeable consequences. . f CAUSES There are various causes which contribute to a miscarriage. It is not to be overlooked that discaj^e in the father, or other circumstances connected with him, may affect it. Alcoholism, exhausting chronic disease, lead poisoning, working in sulphur and ex- treme old age, or youth, are some of these. If the mother takes too violent exercise, or very hot baths, wears tight corsets, has a fall, or a severe blow on the abdomen, suffers from an infections disease, as scarlet fever, or some forms of chronic disease, is sul»jected to extreme mental emotion, or any prolonged strain, it is very apt to bring it on. Women who work in tobacco are said to be pe- culiarly liable to miscarry and excessive indulgence in it by the father may have the same effect. In some women it recurs regularly at about the same time in each pregnancy. The predisposing cause, whatever it may be, still exists, and if it can SYMPTOMS— TREATMENT 249 ho discovered may be removed. Sometimes com- plete rest in bed for several months is prescribed, in tiie hope of saving the child. SYMPTOMS The symptoms are a sense of weight in the abdo- men, pain in the back, sensations of chilliness fol- lowed by flashes of heat, the discharge from the vagina increases and there is a feeling of languor and general malaise. During the first two months a miscarriage might easily be mistaken for excessive menstrual flow. If tlie period is delayed for two or three weeks and then comes on as a slight hemorrhage it is probable one has taken place. The embryo is so tiny it might easily escape notice, unless a close watch was kept for it. There are usually cU)ts of blood, any one of which might conceal it. A discharge of blood from the vagina, particularly when it is accompanied with pain in the lower part of the abdomen, is always suspicious. The pain is due to the contraction of the uterus. It is of a griping character and comes in paroxysms, ceasing entirely and then returning at regular intervals. TREATMENT Eest in bed on the back is the first measure. The 250 PIIEPAIIATION F'Oll MOTHERHOOD patient slioukl remain tliere for a week after the syni|)t()nis liav^e disaj)[)eare(l. Hot drinks should not be ^iven and tlie eovciinc- shoukl he light. If neeessary the eatlicter can lie used and tlie bowels nuist be reo. It grows slowly and is often l)ackward in walkini;- and talking. If there is any predisposition to heredi- (254) SYMPTOMS — TREATMENT 255 tary disease it is apt to develop in tlie delicate fVa?ne. The mother often cannot nnrse it hecanse her milk doos not come, and this is an additional drawback iiiul lessens the chance of existence for the poor little thing. This being so, everything that is possible should bo done to prevent the confinement from taking place prematurely. The expectant mother should be on the watch for the symptoms, recognize thera wlien they appear and do her best to combat them. SYMPTOMS There is sometimes a slight flow of blood from the vaiiina as in an earlier miscarriac^e. Verv often this is absent and the first indication of danger is pain in the abdomen. Unless the attention has been called to the possibility of its having a special sig- nitit-ance, this may easily be attributed to colic. The pain of colic is felt in different parts of the abdomen, moving from one place to another with each paroxysm. The other pain returns in one place, and if the hands are laid over the spot the uterus may be felt to harden as it contracts. Icome th(>i'. TREATMENT The patient should go to hod immediately and keep perfectly quiet, as in endeavoring to avert a 256 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD threatened miscarriage. The doctor should be sent for, as there are medicines he can use which niav prevent the catastrophe, if it is not too late. Should til is be impossible, the labor proceeds as if at full term. It is wise to make preparations for this and to have everything in the room that may be needed. The bed should be prote^jted and properly inade, and all the details attended to if there is time to do so. The nurse often cannot come at an unex- pected summons and arrangements should be made with some friend to take her place if necessary. CARE OF THE BABY This is a very much more difficult matter than if the child had been ushered into the world at the proper time. Elaborate arrangements are required to keep it alive, its feebleness rendering the task a very diffi- cult one. Warmth and proper food are the two essentials. If these can be provided, the problem is well nigh solved 3 if not, the flickering flame will die out. CLOTHING It is almost impossible and would be very unwise, to attempt to dress such a frail little being as the WASHING — INCUBATORS 257 premature baby. Lamb's wool, which comes in rolls like cotton batting, is the best material to wrap it in. It should be so arranged that a thick pad placed under the buttocks can be removed without (li-turbing the wrap[)ings. If this material cannot be had, cotton wool must be used with several layers of flannel over it. WASHING No effort should be made to wash the child. It should be rubbed with warm oil and this process re- peated every day, only a part of the wool being re- moved at one timo to permit the part covered to be (lone. INCUBATORS In some large cities incubators can be obtained in which the child is kept until it is .strong enough to support existence without an extra supply of heat. One cannot always be protiured when it is needed. An incubator for chickens might be modified so that it could be used, if one were to be had. Dr. Worcester, in his book on maternity nursing, describes an impromptu hot cradle which could easily he arranged. Two tin foot tubs are provided, one so much smaller than t le other that only the handles rest on the rim of the larger tub. The inner one is weighted 17 ^ 258 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD with bricks so it will not float when water is poured in the outer one. This is filled nearly to the brim witii hot water and a lamp placed under the bottom to maintain the temperature at 100° Fahrenheit. The inner tub is lined with cotton wool, or thick folds of flannel, and the baby, well wrapped and covered, placed in it. It Ghoidd only be removed from this nest when absolutely necessary and disturbed as little as possi- ble. When no other way of keeping it warm is to be had it must be surrounded by hot water bags, re- plenished regularly every hour. Thi^ care must be maintained until after the time at which it would have been born had the full term been completed. FOOD If the mother has milk it may be drawn from the breast with a breast pump, warmed a very little and given to the baby with a teaspoon, or a medicine dropper, when it cannot draw it itself. Should there be no milk, it is best to peptonize cream food and try that. The lime water may be omitted as the soda used in peptonizing renders the milk sufficiently alkaline. The digestive organs being not fully developed, peptonizing is especially GAVAGE 259 is poured the brim le bottom ihrenhcit. or thick pped and test when J as possi- i is to be bags, re- r the time full term from the little and medicine peptonize may be ders the organs Bspecially necessary, as in this process the milk is partially predigested. The child is often too feeble to suck and so can- not obtain milk from the mother itself or use a nursing bottle. GAVAGE The doctor sometimes tries forced feeding, or gavage, and this method is said to have saved many lives. The food goes directly into the stomacih and any quantity that is prescribed can be easily admin- istered. The method is thus described in the " Care of Children,'^ as it is used in feeding a sick child who re- sists taking food : " The apparatus is a soft rubber catheter with a double eye, a short glass tube to connect the catheter with eighteen inches of rubber tubing, and a small funnel. " The child is laid on the back, the tongue held down with a finger and the point of the catheter passed down the throat keeping it well to the back of the mouth." Three or four inches would be far enough for so young a baby. " The funnel is held high up to allow gas to es- cape from the stomach and then the food })oared in." For a premature baby, not more than a table- spoonful should be given at once. If the mouth is held open for a few ruuutes after fit! 260 PllEPA RATION FOR MOTHERHOOD the catheter is withdrawn tlie child is less likely to vomit. The stomach is washed out with plain boiled water once a day. After nsing, the tube must be thoroughly waslird with a solution of baking soda in water, it being poured through them again and again, and well rinsed in clear warm wajer. About once in three days the apparatus must be boiled. ^' A glass fun- nel is tlie best to use, although a tin or hard rul)l)er one will answer the purjwse if it is kept exquisitely clean. Unless ])roperly attended to, the tubes be- come a distinct source of danger." The child should be fed every two hours and after the first week the quantity of food is increased gradually. EXCESSIVE CARE Many children born prematurely have been saved by the care and devotion of their nurses. It is an anxious task to watch over one and requires almost the whole time and attention if it is to be accom- plished successfully. Such a child needs excessive care by night as well as by day. The temperature must be kept up, as cold is wi'U-nigh fatal, and food must be given at intervals of about two hours, 'ill! EXCESSIVE CARE 261 The doctor may order a little stimulant, as a few drops of wine and water, at regular intervals. The head should be protected hv a light covering of flannel and the hands kept under the coverlet as much as possible. The bed should be a soft feather pillow with a very small square of rubber cloth laid under the ljij)S. The best outer covering is a small down com- forter. If the pillow is of down, care should be taken that the babv's nose and mouth are not buried in it by any involuntary movement. A case is on record in which a stron^^, healthv babv, three months old, was smothered in this wav. Everv precaution 111 list be taken with a tinv, delicate child whose hold on life is so precarious at the best. It ought to be kept in one large, well ventilated rijom for several months and not exposed to the danger of a change of temperature, which is always a serious menace to such a frail being. CHAPTER XVII LABOR BEGINNING As the end of the pregnancy approaches the abdo- men decreases a little in size. This is caused partly by the uterus beginning to contract to expel its con- tents and partly by its sinking lower in the pelvis. The breathing is less interfered with, but walking is more difficult. Tiie discharge from the vagina increases and wiien it is tinged with blood the confinement is near. It will probably take place at what would have been the tenth menstrual period had there been no pregnancy. Women who were habitually unwell two, or three, days before the expiration of the usual four weeks would probably be confined sooner than those who were in the habit of waiting the full time. There are often slight attacks of pain which are thought to mean no more than ordinary colic. (202) STAGES 263 The labor usually lasts longer with a first child than with the subsequent ones. The parts are more unyielding, never having been stretched before, and it takes longer to dilate them. This may comfort the young expectant mother who fears that skilled assistance may be slow in ar- riving. The doctor almost always comes in time. Should he not do so, the nurse, or anyone who lias taken pains to inform herself what ought to be done, can do all that is necessary until he comes. A perfectly natural birth takes place without out- side interference. Should there be any difficulty, the process is very slow and there is plenty of time to wait for the doctor. Only he can do what is then needed. It is said that labor usually commences between nine and twelve o'clock at night and the birth takes place between nine the next evening and the same hour the following morning. STAGES Labor is divided into three stages : the opening of the uterus, to permit its contents to pass out, the pas- sage of the child and the expulsion of the after birth. The young mother must not fancy that she is to suifer severe pain all this time. The pains during the first stage are something 264 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD like colic, sharp while tiiov last, but only continuing for a few mimitos, and witli long intervals of easo between them. It sometimes occupies twelve hour-. Durin*^ this time the patient may be j)artia!lv dressed and move about her room if she wishes to do so. Slie should have light food, hot milk, cocoa, soup, toast, bread or farinaceous food, but no meat. She will have a desire to pass water and to have a movement, but as this is occasioned by the pres- sure of the child's head against the bladder and rectum, yielding to it does not bring relief. An enema of warm water ought to beadministen d to empty the lower bowel. If she has not been able to pass water for some time, the doctor should be informed when he comes that such is the case. She should not be ])ermitted to go to a water closet, nor to strain in any way. As in soni':; cases this stage is short in duration, the bed should be made, the necessary articles brought into the room and all the preparations com- pleted. The hair should be parted in the middle at the back, firmly braided in two tails and tied so it will not come unloosed. It is then no great matter ii' it cannot be brushed or combed for several days. STAGES 2G5 It will be found smooth and untangled when it is iiiij)laited. The pains may be distinguished from those arising from other causes, as irritation of the intestine, eolie, or indiiiestion, bv their beo-inning in the back nnd extending round to the abdomen, coming at rcoular intervals and increasinii' in intensity. By laying the hands on the abdomen as the pa- tient lies on her back the uterus will be felt to harden as it contracts during a pain, the hardness disappear- ing as the pain passes off. This is a certain sign that the pains are not false. They also recur about the same place in the abdomen, while in colic the pain shifts from jwint to point. With a first child there are often false alarms, but when the pains begin to come regularly and in- crease in severity it is time to send ibr the doctor. Kven then there is no great haste, as it will probably be some time before his servic(\s are actually needed. Still he ought to know that the labor has begun, as he may have reasons for wishing to be on hand early in the proceeding. If the pains are very severe, as is sometimes the case with a first child, owing to the mouth of the uterus being tense and difficult to relax, the doctor should be told of it, as he can prescribe something that will give relief. 266 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD The end of this part of the labor is usually marked by the breaking of the anniiotie sae, or bag of waters, in which the cliild has floated up to this time. This brings a rush of fluid for whieh the ])atieiit should be j)repared by having on a couple of large napkins and a folded sheet under her, if she is sitting, or lying down. It is not at all alarming. Tiio child has simply torn the thin membrane surround- ing it that it may pass into the world. When this does not occur naturally the doctor ruptures the bag with his finger nail. It may burst while the mother is still apparently quite well and be the first indication that labor has really begun. It is well to be prepared, towards the end of the pregnancy, for this accident happening. It would be very embarrassing if it took place out- side the privacy of the bedroom and no pre])aration had been made for even partially absorbing the fluid. After this has taken place the expectant mother should no longer walk about, if the doctor is not there, but go at once to bed. The birth does not always follow rapidly, but it often does so and if she is alone bed is the safest place. The mouth of the uterus is usually expanded by this time; the child might descend suddenly and li, i'-'i STAGES 267 meet with some accident if* tlio mother were on lier feet. When the second stai!;e boo;ins the pains come imu'li more fre(pientiy. Instead of being sharp and cutting, like those of tlie first stage, there is a strong inclination to bear down, and a desire to brace the Icet and grasp something firmly with the hands to assist in the etlbrt. A sheet tied to the foot of the bed is a good thing to pull on. Sometimes the nnrse's hands are held, hut she mav have other things to attend to and can- not always be near when she is wanted. Some persons find a small well-stufTcd pillow to place nnder the back a great comfort. There is always pain in the back and firm snpport gives a sensation of relief. If the nnrse can be spared, she may press against tiie back at the weak i)oint with her hands. When this pressure is made early in the labor it should be well down, at the lowest part of the back ; later it should be higher, on a line with the top of the hip bones. The lower joints of the spine are movable and yield a little to make as much room as possible for the passage of the child. Intelligent pressure helps this movement in a slight degree. The patient often sleeps for a few minutes between 2G8 PREPAIIATIOX FOIt ^lOTIIERIIOOD. the pains. Slio should yield to these feelings of drowziness; it is one of nature's devices to hnsbaiKi her strength and give lier a little r.eodcd rest. She should not liave stimulant without ti^edoetoiV orders, but may have a cup of tea, coffee, or soup. not too hot, if she fancies it. The pains now come every two or three minul* - and the birth is not far off. If the doctor has n(»! arrived there is still no cause for anxiety. It everything is proceeding naturally the baby will nc born without his assistance ; if it is not and there i^ a hindrance, he will come before it arrives. Any friend can do what is necessary in case tin labor is rapid and the baby a})pears unexpectedly. It is not even indispensable that the cord should be cut and tied immediatelv. The babv mav b. wrapped in flannel, a folded sheet tucked under the mother to ])lace it on, and both covered until the doctor reaches the scene of actiorj. THE CORD It is better to have the cord cut, so that the baby can l»e rolled in a blaid^et and laid in tlu^ nest j)re- pared for it. To do this the })iecc of soft string that has been provided is tied firndy around the cord about two inches from the child's bodv, and attain about two inches farther along, nearer the mother. THE AFTER BIRTH 269 ?se ft'C'liugs of tlirec minutes, doctor has ii(»t r anxiety. It' l)al)y will ix' lot and there is 'I'i ves. irv in ease the tliat the baby the nest ])re- soft string tliat )nnd the eord dv, and airiiin T the mother. AVith the blunt scissors the cord is then severed be- tween the ligatures. It should not be cut until the child has cried lustily and until the pulsation in it has ceased. If held between finger and thumb for a' moment this throbbing can be dishnctly felt. It shows that the blood is still passing Ij-etween the child and the i)la- centa. After a few minutes this ceases and then the curd may safelv Ixj divided. When the doctor is j)resent, he usually does this himself and then hands the child (o the nurse to be -^ared for, while he attends to the mother. Jf an inexperienced person is alone with the mother, as soon as the head is born she should see that the cord is not twisted around the child's neck, if it is, it nuist be loosened and slipped over the liead. This can be done by pulling down a loop of it. If it is not done the child may be strangled, as the tignt ligature [)revents its breathing. In a despe- r; le case the cord can be tied in two places and cut )etween the m. THE AFTER BIRTH Should the doctor be absent, the after birth may Ik; left until it comes away of itself. This it often does in al)out twenty minutes, thouirh the time mav he mu<'h longer. The mother should be wjirmly 270 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD covered and may have a warm drink, but not a hot one, for fear of promoting profuse bleeding. Should the after birtii be expelled it must be put in the vessel prepared for it and kept for the doctor to see. He always wishes to inspect it that he may know whether all lias come awav or not. This is important, as when a part is retained it may cause mischief if it is not removed. This ends the third stage and nothing now re- mains but to make the mother comfortable and leave her to rest and sleep. THK MOTHERS NEEDS A clean corner of the pad, or a folded sheet, is laid under the mother, she is bathed with warm water that has been boiled, the binder adjusted and the napkin put on. If necessary, the night dress is changed and then the pad, carefully rolled up, is drawn out, the fresh one put in place, the coverings arranged and the room darkened. The mother sometimes has a feeling of chilliness, or even a slight chill soon after the baby is born. She complains of cold, shivers and her teeth may chatter for a few moments. This is not alarming as it is caused partially by nervousness and also by the removal of the large warm body that has for so AFTER PAINS 271 long occiipi(!cl the uterus. A warm drink may be given, extra covering put over her, the feet wrapped in flannel and if necessary a hot bag laid near them. After all that the newly made mother has under- l^one, she needs perfect quiet for several hours before she is permitted to see anyone. A five minutes interview with her husband is all that should be granted. Howewer well she feels, quiet should be in- sisted upon. All congratulations must be deferred until she has had rest and sleep. Excitement is dangerous and no visitors must be permitted to enter the room, nor should conversation be allowed, even if she wishes to talk. Neglect of this precau- tion may cause serious disaster, even when all seems to be going on well. AFTER PAINS The young mother is not likely to be troubled with after pains after the birth of her first child, tliough she is liable to them in subsequent confine- ments. They are caused by contractions of the uterus, as it subsides to rest, like the swell of the w'aves after a storm. After a first birth the walls of the uterus, being firm, contract once for all and remain quiescent, causing no more pain. When they have been ex- 272 PI{p]PARATIOX FOR MOTHFRHOOD paiuU'cl several times, the walls lose tli(>ir eoutraetile ])(>\v(M' to a (leu:ree and eaniiot el()S(^ so firmly, con- tracting and relaxing several times hd'ore they finally settle into cjniet. These pains often oeeur at night and may last for two or three days after the birth. A folded flannel warmed and laid o.ver the abdo- men may give relief, or a hot water bag aj)plied to the part. If they are so severe as to interfere with sleep the doetor will give an anodyne to qniet them. Thev are sometimes exeited bv ])nttin!j: the babv to the breast to luirse, so intimate is the connection between the breasts and the uterus. EMERGENCY It may happen in a rapid labor that the mother is entirelv alone at the time of the babv's bii'th. In this ease she need only see that the child lies so its breathing is not interfered with, its head raised to be out of the way of the discharges, and that it i,^ w^arndy covered. No harm will come to it until help arrives. Having satisfied herself of this, the mother must lie perfectly still. Standing, walking, or even sitting up in bed, are fraught with danger. She may not be injured by moving, but there is a probability that it will do mischief and it is better to run no risk. UEMOVING STAINS 273 In case of emergency, thick pads of newspaper can be placed under the mother. It is a very etficient protector when it is used in sullicient quantity. If the birth should take place elsewliere than in the room {)repared for it, the mother should be rolled on a blanket which can be lifted by the corners, at head and foot, by two men. 8he can thus be car- ried to her own bed and laid upon it without dis- turbing her very much. The blanket is easily slipped from beneath her. REMOVING STAINS It may be well to mention that in removing stains of blood from linen, or cotton, it should be soaked in cold water for some hours before it is washed. If boiling water is poured on the fresh stains they turn dark and canrK)t be removed with- out a great deal of labor if at all. Blood can be removtxl from rubber sheetini; with a wet cloth, if done at once. When it has been al- lowed to remain, it must be washed with chh«rinated soda which can be obtained from the druggist. A paste of starch, or flour, mixed with vo\d water may be spread over stains on blankets, mn dresses, or pillows, and brushed otf when it Is dry. If traces are still left, a second application will prol)a- bly remove them. 13 274 PREPARATION FOR MOTIIERHOOD THE doctor's COMFORT There is one point that is sometimes forgotten in preparing for the labor and that is the comfort ol the doctor. The \yise housewife will make provi- sion for this beforehand, and charge some member of the household with the duty of seeing her instruc- tions carried out. The loss of a night's rest, which is so unusual to ordinary people, is a common occurrence with him and he remembers gratefully those who mitigate his dis- comfort as much as possible. If it can be done a place should be arranged in an adjoining room where he cai. lie down. There are often long intervals of waiting when he can do nothing to assist, while if he is close at hand the nurse can call him the moment he seems to be re- quired. Some light refreshment should be brought to him, not merely oifered ; his tastes can easily be ascer- tained by a few judicious questions. His life is a very self-sacrificing one and his patients who bene- fit by it should try to return his care for them by consideration for him. Money can not compensate the priceless devotion and self-forgetfulness of a good physician. No one can feel this more fully than the expectant mother, who has conferred with her family physi- REMOVING STAINS 275 cian frequently during the period of her })regnancy and has been helped, advised and consoled by him. She can now show her gratitude in a substantial manner, sure that it will be recognized and appreci- ated by the object of it, even if he does not put it ill to words. There is no one who brings more comfort into the lying-in room than the doctor does. His moral support, as he cheers, encourages and reassures, is as valuable as his physical assistance. If his patient has made a friend of him during the preceding months, she reaps the benefit of it now in her time of need, knowing that she can entirely trust him with herself and her child. ill i ! CHAPTER XVIII AFTER CARE OF THE MOTHER REST The newly-niade motlior must sleep as much a- p()ssil)le duriug the first twenty-four hours nfur labor is ended. She could not have a better begin • ning to her convalescence than a long period of pro- found repose. Her mind is at rest, all the cares and anxieties of the past months are forgotten, she is happy in t\\v possession of her baby and has nothing to look for- ward to but getting well as speedily as she can. She should not be disturbed except to give her nourishment and to change the napkin, even then she must not be roused more than is absolutely necessary. If she is awake and wishes it. the baby may be ])n{ to the breast at the end of the first six, or eiglit, hours. It is thought that the aetiop of nursing helps (276) FOOD — THE SUPPLY OF iMILK 277 to contract the uterus more tirmlv, and therefore it is an advantage to the mother. FOOD The food must be regulated to a certain extent by the appetite. For the first twenty-four hours li(piids, milk toast, or some farinaceous preparation is all that is needed ; then egg on toast, bread and butter, etc., may be added and after the third day, if there is no rise in teniperc-ture, there may be a return to tl ^ usual diet. THE SUPPLY OF MILK The nursing mother must drink abundantly of liquid food to ensure a good supi)ly of milk. For this purpose nothing is better than milk itself It can be prepared as she has been accustomed to take it during her pregnancy. What the children call ice cream milk may make a pleasing variety. The milk is sweetened and flavored with vanilla, essence of lemon, or bitter almond, or rose water. If a lightly beaten egg is added, it becomes " cold custard." Cocoa, gruels made with milk, hot milk flavored with tea, or coffee, good broth, and clear soup are all beneficial. A bowl of liquid should be taken immediately on 278 PliEPA RATION FOR MOTHERHOOD waking in the morning, anotlior between breakfast and hnieh, or dinner, a third between dinner and tea, a fourth before going to slee[), and if there is wakefuhiess a fifth during the nigiit. Should there be too great a flow of milk the supply of fluid nnist be limited. No mother ciui nourish her ehild properly unless she is well Hd herself. It is said that the leaves of the eastor oil plant, if made iiito a poultiee and applied to the breasts, stimulate the secretion of milk when it is deficient. Good milk, unlike that of the cow, looks thin and watery and has a bluish tinge. CARE OF THE BREASTS This is one of the most important of the duties of the nurse. If she does not know just what ought to be done the mother must be able to direct her. The penalty of neglect may be intense suffering, an abscess, or what used to be called '' broken breasts," and the necessity of weaning the child. For the first two davs the breasts secrete onlv what is known as colostrum. This is a fluid with laxative properties, intended to act upon the baby's bowels and remove the dark, tarry substance with which they are filled. The third day this begins to give place to milk, CARE OF THH HUEASTH 279 :iii(l with the coming of tlio milk the hn^astsare coii- gosted with an oversnp})!)' of blood and the temper- ature is apt to rise a little. Duriii*:^ this day the baby, if possible, should not nurse mon; than once in three hours. The breastvS may be hard and not improbably a little hot to the touch. To promote the circulation and relieve the tense- ness the nurse should rub the breasts in the most f2;entle manner, usino; a little warm olive oil, or cam- phorated oil, to lubricate them. The rubbin(»; should l)e done in the gentlest manner, the hands scarcely touching the skin, beginning at the base and strok- ing upwards towards the nipple. It may be some time before the good effect is perceived, but after an hour's faithful work the whole surface will be found soft and the milk will flow easily when the baby's li})S are applied to the nipple. The breasts are formed of pear-shaped glands, growing smaller as they approach the nipples, where the points converge. If the milk accumulates, or cakes, at the base of one of these glands a hard lump is felt which must be dispersed, or mischief will en- sue. Gentle persistent rubbing with oil will usually have the desired effect. If it persists the doctor should be informed at once. I^umps near the nipple are of little consequence, particularly if IMAGE EVALUATION TEST TARGET (MT-S) A {/ '^'m /.,% y. (/a (/. 1.0 I.I ■■ ili3_2 ,1 -10 IIIM 1.8 1.25 1.4 1.6 ■< 6" — ► V] <^/ A? e. "m ^M 'm I ci- & *?# . , o o 7 /A Photographic Sciences Corporation Ts '^iW< MAIN STREET WEBSTEK.N Y 14S80 (716) 872-4503 V -b SJ \\ ^9) V A» o^ % 9. 17 ^ ^J> Wrf> 280 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD fpnii they are small. In any other part of the broaf>t their presence should be immediately reported. The mother must instantly check the least at- tempt at pressure in rubbing the breast. It is not a matter of comfort, but of expediency, Roiijrli handling may set up the inflammation it is desind to avert. If the breast becomes painful the doctor should be sent for. It is misplaced fortitude to bear this pain in silence. Should it swell and look red a single thickness of cotton wet in tepid water should be kept ov^er it until the doctor comes. If the breasts feel heavy or seem in need of support, a bandage should be put on shaped like tlio letter Y. Tlie tail piece goes across the back and is cut about twice as long as is necessary for that pur- pose and about three inches wide. Another strip of the same width is folded and pinned to one end to form the fork of the Y. One end of this goes above the breasts the other below them, the tail piece i-^ brought round behind the back and the points firmly pinned to it. The free end lies across the nipples and can be turned back when the child nurses, other- wise the bandage need not be disturbed then. A little absorbent cotton may be put between the breasts and about them if needed to make them more comfortable. 1% K X CARE OF THE BREASTS 281 They are sensitive to cold and should have a light covering thrown over thcni when the baby nurses. After each nursing the nipples should be carefully washed with a soft cloth and a little tepid water in which a pinch of borax has been dissolved. Should any other preparation be used on them, it should be washed off before the baby nurses and renewed when it has finished. When the nipples are sensitive they can be painted with white of eles from crer when they re the child is lursc, the doctor | belladonna, in jl aster to be ap- | k. Inputting I middle for the I : '■ for a few days the milk with to if it can be avoided, as this stimulates the secretion. It some- times has to be resorted to. CLEANLINESS The great importance of cleanliness in the lying- in room has already been insisted upon. It cannot be too earnestly reiterated. The newly-made mother is peculiarly liable to infection. Siie herself and everything about her must be kept scrupulously clean. The napkin should be changed at first as often as is necessary. Later, when the discharge lessens, not less frequently than three times a day. As soon as it is removed it should be rolled in paper and burned. If the under sheet becomes stained or soiled, it must be immediately replaced by a fresh one. It is best to lay a folded sheet across the bed with the India-rubber cloth beneath it, or between its folds. This is easily drawn out and changed without the disturbance that taking oiF the under sheet must cause the patient. If stitches have been taken, the parts are most easily washed by very gentle syringing with the fountain syringe. It must only be held high enough to permit the water to trickle over them into the bed pan placed beneath the patient to receive it. mmt 284 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD In ordinary cases wiping the parts with a soft cloth wrung out of tepid water is all that is neces- sary when the napkin is changed, or water has been })assed. Tliese precautions are very simple, air easily taken and their neglect may be followed \>\- serious consequences. The method of giving a sponge bath has been de- tailed in the chapter on baths. A piece of cotton twisted around a wooden tooth pick may be utilized for cleansing the teeth while it is difficult to use the tooth brush. THE HAIR If the hair has not been braided before the con- finement and the mother haj)})ens to be unable to have it brushed or combed for a few days, it will be in a sad snarl. ?iluch patience is requisite to get it smooth again, and hair has been cut off that need not have been sacrificed had enough pains been expended upon it to get it straight. Hair forty inches long that had been untouched bv comb or brush for three weeks, has been disen- tangled, but it is a task that equals one of the labors of Hercules. In a bad case only a few locks can be done at a time and when a portion is set free it must be braided to keep it in place. If possible the comb- THE EYI':S — MEDICINE 285 ing sl.oukl be begun at the ends. Sometimes it is so matted that the ends cannot be found. The tanojles mav be moistened witli alcohol which helps to loosen them. Tiie hairs can he drawn out of a knot by picking uj) each one sep- arately with a needle. It is an apparently hopeless, endless task, and to j)revent it the braiding should not be neglected in the beginning. By turning tiie head from side to side it is easy to dress each braid in turn. The most satisfactory way to fasten them is to double up the ends and twist a few loose hairs tightly about them. This seldom slips off. During convalescence ribbons can be tied over them. THE EYES For a few davs the mother's eyes should be shielded from a brioht lioht. The room can be partially darkened dui'ing the day and the gas, or lamp, siiadcd at night. Even if she feels well she should not read until after the third day. Kest of mind and body is all important. MEDICINE No mecicine should be taken without the doctor's {)ermission. If the bowels haye been thoroughly moved before the birth of tiie bai)yj it is uo mutter 286 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD if there is not another motion for the first two days. For constipation later in the convalescence resource may be had to the methods of relief recommended for trial during the pregnancy. Unless in very obstinate cases the difficulty usually disappears as soon as solid food can be taken. While the patient is still in bed, rubbing the ab- domen with warm oil and gentle pressure and ma- nipulation of the bowels, beginning low down on the right side, passing up, across, and down the left side, thus following the course of the large intestine is sometimes effectual. The rubber hot water bag is tlie great resource for cramp and pains. POINTS TO BE MENTIONED Sleeplessness should be mentioned to the doctor as lie may be able to prescribe sometliing which will relieve it. If the discharge has a disagreeable odor it should be at once mentioned to the doctor. There is al- ways a peculiar odor, not unlike that of the men- strual flow. This is not offensive aiid need excite no suspicion, but any departure from it should be noted. On first sitting up in bed the lochia may become m. ! !' MILK LEO 287 first two 2e resource 3aimeiKk(l s in verv appeal ■s as iig the ab- B and nui- own on the he left side, intestine is jat resource le doctor as which will )r it should 'here is al- if the men- need excite should be lay become a deei)er red. Tins is of little importance unless there is a profuse flow, when the patient should lie clown again and remain cpiiet until it ceases. As the young mother is so liable to infection, it has been wisely said that for the first few weeks her letters sliould be opened by some near relative, that there may be no doubt it is safe for her to have them. Many of the eruptive diseases, as scarlet fever, can be conveye the technical name of the appliance nsed in hos- pitals to snstain the bedclotlu's when their weight cannot be borne by the invalid. The snfferer from milk lejz," shonld lie as still as possible, not attempting to sit up in bed. The milk has nothing whatever to do with the swelling. CONVALESCENCE When the convalescence proceeds withont any of the drawbacks that have been mentioned, there shonld be few disagreeable feelings. As the strength re- turns it is a time of repose and refreshment ; with a good baby there should be nothing to mar its j)eace- fnlness. While the nurse stays, all care should be made over to her. Older mothers may tell the young mother of the rapidity with which they recovered from their con- finements, what they did at the end of three weeks and how active they were long before the close of the month. She might follow their exampb and apparently be none the worse for it. She nn'ght try to emulate their briskness and suifer for it all her life. It is not worth while to run the risk. i^ I CON VA I. ESSENCE. 28i) However well she feels, and between relief of body and exhiluratioii of mind she often feels very well indeed, it is only a reasonahle precaution to stay qnietly in bed nntil the ninth, or tenth day. She may then move qnietly to the easy chair, or coiieh, walk about her room a little after the first two weeks are over, but still sit with her feet up when it is possible. The fifth week is quite time cnouti^h for her to leave her room to be«rin to take up her ordinary duties again. W she wishes to go downstairs after the third week the progress should be made slowly and care- fully. In summer a drive in an easy carriage will do no harm. She should sit on a soft cushion and have another at her back. Walking should be indulged in very moderately. It is six weeks before involution is accomplished, that is, before the uterus assumes what will be its normal condition. During: the earlier weeks stand- iiiij: and walking tend to bring too much weight oa the ligaments supporting it and so displace it. This is an accident which causes much discom- fort later on when perfect health should have re- turned. How many mothers say " I have never Icit quite right since my first child was born. '^ Per- haps a little extra precaution at that time might have prevented all they have suffered since then. 19 2f»0 ri:i:i'AiiATioN for mothkkiiood CONFIDENCE IN THE DOCTOR A woman .should not jHTinit any i'crling of fal^c nuxlestv to induce her to conceal from her phvsiciaii v I » any unusual sensation, or circumstance, durin;^ thi> iK'riod of convalescence. If she fears that anvthiiitr is wrong now is the time to speak of it and have it remedied if possible. She owes it to her family as well as to herself that no preventable disability should be allowed to continue. Women will cheerfully submit to severe surgical operations and undergo painful and disagreeable treatment when they know it is necessary for their restoration to health. Yet many of them liesitate to tell their physician some symptom which if he knew it might enable liim to take measures to })revent the necessity of resorting to such drastic remedies. Perfect confidence between doctor and patient can only result in good to the latter, and no physician should be employed to wh*^^i this cannot be given. The mother should make a point of seeing the doctor alone for a few minutes during each visit, even if she has to request the nurse to leave the room that she may do so. Then should anything occur to make his private counsel necessary she will feel no embarrassment and find no difficulty in secur- ing it. M CHAPTER XIX AFTER CARE OF THE CHILD CARE OF THE CORD This is now simply drcssv'd with a dry dressing in- stead of the ointments which nsod to bo used for it. The natural tendency of the cord is to dry up and wither away and it is wise to try to assist nature instead of running counter to her indications. The stump of the cord is sprinkled with powdered borax. A hole is cut in the middle of a piece of linen about four inches square, the cord drawn through the hole and the linen folded over it. This is secured in place with the binder. When the child is washed great care should be taken to avoid wetting this dressing. If it can be kept dry the cord w^ill shrivel up and drop ofif in less than a week. If instead of shrinking and dessicating it should remain soft and begin to smell unpleasantly the (291) 292 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD doctor should be informed. He will probably have it washed witli weak carbolized water and the drv dressing changed more frequently. After it has dropped off' a folded piece of linen can be ke2)t over the navel for a few clays. If it pouts or protrudes a little, as it sometimes does, a wooden button mould, or large smooth button with- out a shank, can be wrapped in linen, the roundiiii part placed next the navel to press it gently inwards, and secured with the binder. RrPTURE If there is a marked protrusion it should be re- ported to the doctor, as in this case a portion of tlie intestine has probably come through the opening in the muscular wall of the abdomen, under the skin. This should be replaced and held in position by w proper belt, worn for some months, until the weak point closes. This accident also may happen low down in the groin and in otiier parts of the abdomen. The in- testine is felt as a soft, movable bunch under the skin. It is not immediately dangerous, but may become so if it is not replaced. The child should be placed in a warm bath to relax the parts. Very gentlf pressure may be made on the protuberance to try t(» WARMTH 293 reduce it. If it does not yield readily the doctor .should be sent for. A proper truss must be put on to prevent the recurrence. WARMTH There is nothing more potent in keeping a young baby good and comfortable, which in this case are svnonomous terms, than warmth. This does not mean that it shall be kept in a hot room and de- prived of fresh air, but that it shall be warmly and closely wrapped when it is laid down. A new-})orn child has been accustomed to lie with its limbs close against the body and sustained by an elastic pressure. It misses this support and rests more quietly when its place is supplied. The Ger- mantown wool blanket should be wound round it, a crib blanket over that and the pillow pressed close to the body, A hot water bag filled with warm — not hot — water and covered with flannel can bo pnt near it. It should be shielded from draughts. If it is necessary to carry it i'rom one room to another its head sliould be covered. In lavino; it down the blanket should be drawn awav from the face. Air that has been re-breathed is not at all better for babies than for grown persons. ■a tmm. 294 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD POSITION A new-born child is laid on its right side to facil- itate the closing of a little valve in the heart. After the first few days it is well to turn it ovci- every two hours. It is not well for it always to lie in the same position. If this is gently done it will not waken it. It is best to place it on the rij^ht side immediately after a meal, otherwise the liver, which in a young baby is disproportionately large and heavy, presses on the stomach and interferes with digestion. Some authorities advocate laying the child on its chest with the head turned to one side. It is said that the lungs have freer play in this position and that children accustomed to it prefer it to any other. i i: NURSING After the child has been bathed as directed ii> Chapter VI, dressed and warmly wrapped up, it should be laid to sleep and left undisturbed as long as it will consent to remain so. At any time from four to six hours after its birth it may be put to the breast, if the mother is ready for it. The colostrum has a laxative effect and helps to expel the waste matter with which the bowel is filled. NURSING 295 It is sometimes difficult to induce a baby to begin to nurse. If the finger is dipped in warm water and put in its mouth it may grasp it and begin to suck if it is gently moved between the lips. The mouth can then be transferred to the nipple. Several at- tempts may have to be made before the baby will take hold properly. During the first two days it need only be put to the breast once in four hours, and this interval may be lengthened if baby and mother sleep. As has been already said, the mother's milk does not come until the third day. If the infant is an unusually vigorous child it may be hungry and clamor loudly for food in the interval. A few tea- spoonfuls of plain warm water may be tried first. If this does not satisfy it, dilute a mixture of half milk and half cream, one teaspoonful of each, with four teaspoonfuls of boiled water, add a pinch of sugar of milk, and feed it with that. The warm water is be^t if the baby will accept it. It fills the empty stomach and soothes instead of irritating it with food to digest at a time when Na- ture intends that nothing more substantial than the colostrum shall be offered to it. If the baby cries it may be from some other cause than hunger, and pains should be taken to ascertain that it is comfortable and has no just cause for com- ■iMiiHiipiai Ij 296 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD plaint, before deciding that it requires food^ which may only add to the difficulty instead of removini; it. In nursing, the child should he held easily on the arm and care should be taken that the nose is not pressed against the breast, or it cannot breathe, the mouth being otherwise occupied. If the breast is unusually full, a finger sliould be placed above and below the nipple and the areola gently pressed bade. This helps to check the flow of the milk when it comes too quickly. The baby should have one breast at each nursing, taking them alten ately. If the mother cannot remember which was taken last she should wear a ring, or bracelet, that can be changed from one side to the other as needed. WASHING THE MOUTH After nursing the baby's mouth should be washed with a little swab, made of a piece of cambrir handkerchief doubled, dipped into tepid water which has been boiled. This should be done in the gentlest manner. Rough handling may rub off the tender skin and if this is broken the mouth may become sore. When the washing is neglected the particles of milk lodging there may decompose and give rise to a disorder called thrush, which in aggravated cases INTERVAL OF FEEDING 297 is fatal to little babies. It is a kind of fungoid growth appearing in the form of tiny white spots and may extend through the whole intestinal canal. Cleanliness prevents it. The baby should have a teaspoonful of boiled water several times during the day. Milk does not satisfy thirst. In giving a baby anything from a spoon it should be remembered that the spoon must be witlidrawn from the mouth, releasing the tongue, before the child can swallow. INTERVAL OF FEEDING Not much regularity can be observed during the first three days in the time of putting the baby to the breast. After that it should be nursed every two hours during the day for the first three months and not more than once, or twice at the most, during the night. Babies, like their elders, are creatures of habit. It is quite possible to teach them not to require food at night, which to them as to others should be a time of rest. Unless the mother is obliged to nurse the child for hor own relief, it is best for it not to be fed between eleven p. m. and six A. M. Some babies will sleep even longer than this. Nothing is more pernicious for mother or child, than to permit the baby to He by its mother and wmmmm 298 PKEPAUATION FOR MOTHEUHOOD Durse whenever it stirs. It exhausts the mother's vitality and ruins the baby's digestion. Milk requires about an hour to digest in a baby's stomach. Nursing it at intervals of two hours dur- ing the day gives time for the completion of tlio process and the necessary rest to the organ before it begins work again. A baby usually nurses about ten or fifteen minutes. When it is satisfied it drops asleep and so stops of its own accord. If it is hungry it will take hold of the nipple gladly when it is presented to it. If very sleepy and manifestly unwilling to take nourishment, it should not be pressed. It will cry for it when it is hungry again. In this case the next hour of nursing should be counted from the time it does condescend to take food. FEEDING If the mother cannot nurse the child, its life de- pends upon a food being found which it can digest. During the first two days, as has been said, very little food is required. AVarm water, or the cream, milk and water, alone should be given. After that cow's milk, properly prepared, is the best substitute for mother's milk. There arc children who seem to be unable to assimilate it and for these other food must be found. Its use should till' FEEDING 209 be persevered in for several days, and it should be weakened and strengthened by varying the propor- tion of water before it is abandoned for any prepared artificial food. When the baby persistently vomits, or cries with colic, or seems dissatisfied after its meal, the food sliould be changed. There are several important points of difference between cow's milk and that of the human mother, which renders it necessary to especially prepare the former before it can be given to an infant. Cow's milk is slightly acid and becomes more and more so the longer it is kept after being milked. Mother's milk is alkaline. For this reason cow's milk is treated with lime water to neutralize the acidity. The milk of the cow contains abonttwiceasmuch solid matter as a woman's milk. This is chiefly caseine, the hard substance of which cheese is made when it is separated from the rest of the milk by being curdled. For an infant's food this proportion must be lessened by diluting the milk with water. Mother's milk is richer in fat and contains more sugar than cow's milk. These must be supplied by adding cream and sugar of milk. Cream is tiny globules of fat surrounded by a thin film of caseine. When it is shaken in a churn ^m i ' 300 PREPARATION FOR xMOTIIERIIOOD this covering is ruptured, the fatty particles coalesce and form butter. When milk is curdled, the watery part remainint^r is called whey. Sugar of milk is obtained byevap- orating the whey and recrystallizing the powder thus obtained. Tt does not ferment as easily as sugar obtained from the beet, or the sugar cane, and so is better for babies. It is a dry white powder which can be obtained from any druggist. It is inexpen- sive and keeps indefinitely. The requirements of a mixture which shall ap- proximate as nearly as possible to the mother's milk is met in the following recipe prepared by Dr. Meigs, called CREAM FOOD Cream 2 tablesj)oonfuls. Milk 1 tablespoon fu\. Lime water 2 tablespoonfuls. Milk sugar water 3 tablespoonfuls. The milk sugar water is made by dissolving half an ounce of sugar of milk in half a pint of boilin water. This sours if kept more than twenty-four hours. LIME AVATER It is a common saying that whatever is paid for lime water is too much, the cost of making it is so small. l^ STERILIZING MILK .^■''' 301 If the material for it cannot be obtained, it must be bought at tlie druggist's ready prepared. To make it, take one ounce of lime, put it in a bottle with one quart of cold water that has been previously boiled. When the effervescence subsides slake the bottle. After the lime has sunk to the bottom pour off the clear fluid and add again the same quantity of water, shaking a second time. Let it stand fbr twelve hours and pour off the water carefully for use, leaving the sediment behind. Keep the bottle containing it corked. The lime must be in a lum}/, no^ air-slaked. It cannot be made too strong, as water only has the power to absorb a certain quantity of lime, about a quarter of a grain to the tablespoonful. STERILIZING MILK It IS always safest to sterilize the food. By this means any noxious germs it may contain are ren- dered incapable of doing harm to the baby, if not actually destroyed. The milk should be allowed to stand for about three hours after it is received and the upper third only used for the food, as it then contains more cream. To sterilize it, a number of small bottles should be provided currcspoxKling to the number of times the mmmf n. 302 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD baby is fed during the twenty-four hours, about nine. The quantity of food requisite for one feeding is put in each bottle. Invert a perforated tin pie plate in the bottom of a large saucepan and stand the bottles on it. Put in enough cold water to come above the milk in the bottles and set the saucepan on the fire. When the water boils draw it to a cooler part of the stove aud let it stand, covered, for an hour. The bottles should be stopped with a tuft of cotton batting, which is said to be particularly efficacious in strain- ing out germs. When tlie bottles are taken from the water they should bo put in the ice chest, or a cool })lace. When one is needed, the cotton batting is removed, the rubber top put on and the baby takes its meal without the milk having beci exposed to the danger of contamination from any source. PEPTONIZING MILK If the child's digestion is very delicate it may be necessary to peptonize the milk before it is given. By this means the food is partially digested before it enters the stomach. No doubt the lives of manv babies have been saved by adopting this process of pre-digesting the food, VOMITING 303 Extract of pancreatin, tablets of paiicrcatin and soda, or peptogenic milk powder can be used. The latter is especially prepared for ])eptonizlng infant's food. Directions accompany the different prepara- tions. VOMITING If a baby vomits after being fed, grows jude and listless and evidently is not thriving, the food should be peptonized. Vomiting used to be considered a sign of health and there is this to be said in its favor. Babies are very often overfed, a larger quantity being given them than the stomach can contain. They reject food from simple inability to retain it. In this case less must be given at each feeding. When the vomiting is incessant and the baby does not gain in weight, it is apparent that not enough food is being assimilated to meet its require- ments and a change must be made, or the life of the child will be sacrificed. An accidental attack of vomiting means nothing more than some temporary disturbance. When it is habitual, the cause should be sought for, found and removed. It is too serious a condition to be neglected. Note, — For children over one month old there are several foods which may be tried. The subject of food for children is treated at length in " The Care of Children," froH* ,hich some of these directions are taken. 304 PREPARATION FOR MOTHKRIIOOD AMOUNT OF FOOD The stomach of a grown person will contain ahoiit five pints. That of a new born child is said to he able to hold less than six teaspoonfiils of Ihiid. P)abics are usually fed a much larger quantity than this at one time. We know how uncomfortable we ourselves feci after too large a meal. It may be that much of the crying of very young children is caused by being overfed. The capacity of the stomach increases rapidly in the first two months of an infant's life, after that time it grows more slowly. The amount of food given should keep pace with this demand. Babies vary in appetite and power of assimilation just as adults do. The amount that would abun- dantly satisf}'' a small, delicate child, with a feeble digestion, might be quite inadequate for a strong, Healthy one, who could easily dispose of the nourish- ment given it. The intervals of feeding should be the same as in nursing. TEMPERATURE OF FOOD Giving food too hot is a sure way to disturb the digestion of young babies. The mother's milk, which is the model to be approached as nearly as THK NURSINC} BOTTLE 305 same as m possible, is only warm. The food should never be hotter than 111)° Fahrenheit. It is best to warm the milk by standing the bottle in hot water fur a lew minutes. Tiie eontents should be shaken on taking out the bottle to equalize the heat. THE NURSING BOTTLE Roul '. bottles are the best, as presenting fewer angles for the lodgement of partieles of milk. Rubber tops without tubes should be used. It is almost impossible to keep a tube elean. It is so very small it eannot be properly cleansed. Letting water run through it will not remove every trace of the mil'c. What remains decomposes and poisons the food drawn through it. In choosing a top, select one with as small a hole as can be found in the end. The milk comes too fast and with too little labor on the part of the child when the opening is large. It is a good plan to place a small piece of sponge in the top. It must be removed ai^d washed after each feeding and a fresh one supplied every day. The top should be turned inside out and scrubbed with a stiff brush kept for the purpose. Every two or three days it should be boiled for ten minutes. Boiling does not injure the rubber. 20 tmm 306 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD The bottle inu.st be rinsed in tepid water after using, then scalded and turned up to dry. A pinch of baking soda may be added to the first water occasionally. Thorough washing, which never permits any milk to remain to become sour, is the best safeguard. Should the bottle look cloudy, a little strong am- monia water may be used in washing it, followed by repeated rinsing and scalding. Perfect cleanliness is part of the price that must be paid for the baby's health. MOVEMENTS The nurse should see that the child passes water during the first twenty-four hours. If it lies with its legs drawn up and cries, it may be sufferino: from the inability to relieve itself A flannel wrung out of hot water may be laid os'^er the bladder and renewed several times. The heat and moisture may relax the parts and bring about the desired result. If not the doctor should be told of the difficulty. Thite first movement of the bowels is the discharge of the meconium, a black mass looking like tar. When this has come away the next passage should be soft and light yellow in color. A young baby '^i MOVEMENTS 307 ought to have two, or three, of these motions dur- ing the twenty-four liours. Wiiite specks of curd through them show that the milk is not properly digested. The movements may have a greenish tinge, but this is of no importance unless they also become slimy, when the doctor should be consulted. The normal odor is not especially disagreeable. If it becomes offensive the food is unsuitable, or is not being properly digested. When the bowels do not move regularly, very gentle pressing and rubbing of the abdomen is usually sufficient to induce them to do so, particu- larly with a young baby. A little warm oil may be used as a lubricant if desired. The rubbing should be kept up for about ten minutes. If this produces no result a suppository may be tried. As mechanical stimulation of the intestine is all that is needed, a piece of stiff white paper about four inches lo'.jg is rolled in a small tight cone. The point is oiled and inserted in the rectum for about an inch and a movement follows in a few minutes. A fragment of white soap can be shaped into a supposi- tory and is rejected with the fiecal matter when it comes away. As soon as possible the baby should be taught regular habits by being held out at certain times 308 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD every day. After six weeks old, it should seldom soil a napkin if it is quite well, and the training should be begun early. I, I I I L. .ill* THE FONTANELLES These are the soft spaces on the top of the baby's head which will in time become solid bone, like the rest of the skull. The word means a fountain and the name was probably given because the pulsations of the brain, which can be distinguished beneath the skin, suggest the rising of the water from a foun- tain. The front one is much the largest and remains open and soft until the child is one or two years old. Four bones meet here leaving a four-sided opening where thev come tooether. None of the bones of the skull are firmly united at the time of birth. The sutures, or joinings, are soft, so that they may yield a little to pressure and accommodate themselves to the narrow passage through which the head must pass. Some mothers, fearing to injure the brain beneath, do not keep the skin over the fontanelles clean. An oily rubstance is constantly exuding through the pores of the skin. This should be removed by care- ful washing with soap and water every morning. If it is allowed to remain, specks of dust lodge in it CARE OF THE EVES 309 and a very ugly brown scurf is formed, which dis- figures the sweetest baby. When the first brown flakes are perceived they should be rubbed with vaseline and gently scraped off with the finger nail. If they have been allowed to accumulate throuii:h neglect thev should be soft- ened by an application of vaseline over night and very gently scraped off with a fine comb the next morning. The skin will be reddened, but that is not a serious matter, and more care must be taken to keep it free from foreign deposits in the future. CARE OF THE EYES Although babies, unlike some of the lower ani- mals, as kittens and puppies, are not blind at birth, their power of vision seems to be imperfectly de- veloped. An object may be passed close in front of their eyes without causing them to wink. It is said that the color is not finally decided until they are about three weeks old. The new-born child is subject to an inflammation of the eyelids and sometimes of tlie conjunctiva, or white of the eye, which isdangcu'ous and if neglected may produce disastrous results. In France, nurses are obliged by law to report to a doctor any affection of the ey3s of a young infant. Should they fail to do so they are punished by fine 310 PREPAUATION FOR MOTHERHOOD or imprisonment, as the child may become blind in consequence of their neglect. The first duty of the nurse after the child is born is to wipe its eyes with a soft damp cloth. The eyes should be carefully examined at the time of the morning bath and if reddened should be bathed by squeezing tepid water over theni, letting it drip on a folded towel j)laced under the head. This can be repeated several times a day until the doctor's neit visit. Should there be a discharge the doctor will proba- bly order a wash of boracic acid. This can best be applied with a medicine dropper. The lids are care- fully separated with the fingers, the point of the dropper inserted at the outer angle of the eye, point- ing towards the nose, and the rubber bulb of the dropper very slowly pressed. If the eye is not kept clean and free from the dis- charge, it may cause the cornea, or glassy covering of the front of the eye, to ulcerate, and should the ulcer be a bad one blindness may follow. Surely this fear will make the nurse faithful to her duty. The discharge is very infectious and, unless care is taken, the disease may be comnmnicated to the eyes of the mother and the nurse. Pieces of linen that have cleansed the eyes must be burned and nothing used about the baby's face HEARING — RED GUM 311 be permitted to be used by any one else. Towels are a frequent cause of infection. If the doctor is not paving regular visits lie should be immediately informed of the appearance of the discharge. Keeping the eyes free from the dangerous matter by faithful washing will probably save the child's sight. Otherwise it is in great peril. HEARING A young baby's hearing is not very acute, and is said not to be developed to the normal capacity until it is about three months old. It does not mind noise, though a loud jar of any kind will disturb and perhaps awaken it. As it grows older it is not wise to keep the house especially quiet while it sleeps. It is better to ac- custom it to the ordinary sounds of daily life and it will learn to sleep through tliem. When there are unavoidable noises which cannot be controlled, as those made in the neighborhood, putting a plug of cotton wool in each ear helps to deaden them. RED GUM Sometimes the surface of tiie skin is dotted with tiny red pimples, giving the complexion a decidedly 312 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD rosy cast. This eruj^jtion is called rod gum and proceeds from some irritation of the delicate skin. Careful powderiuj^ with French chalk morninj^ and evening is all that is necessary. It disappears after a short time. Most of the first skin peels of!* during the earlier weeks of a baby's life. Sometimes the process is so gradual it is not noticed, at others the skin comes off in larger flakes. Occasionally a little fluid collects under a patch of skin, looking almost like a blister. No treatment is required, except care in washing and drying the part. JAUNDICE As the redness fades the skin may assume a yellow appearance, looking almost like jaundice. There is one difference, the whites of the eyes remain clear and white ; in jaundice they always have a yellow tinge at least. If the diirestion is disordered and the urine stains the napkin a deep yellow, the doctor should be con- sulted. The liver then is probably at fault. Other- wise no treatment is required, the skin assuming its normal color after a few days. THRUSH This disease has been mentioned in speaking of COLIC 313 the necessity of cleanliness in all the paraphernalia used for the baby's food. If thrush appears, neglect in this matter should be at once suspected. It may, however, be brought on by disturbance of the stom- ach or some part of the digestive tract, caused by im|)roper food. The mouth may be washed with a saturated solu- tion of boracic acid which can be obtained from the druggist. If it is desired to make it at home, buy the boracic acid crystals and dissolve them in boiled water. The solution is saturated when the water will not take up any more, and some crystals remain undissolved at the bottom of the bottle. COLIC The pain of colic arises from the distension of the stomach and intestine by an accimiulatiou of gas or wind, as it is popularly called, arising from the fermentation of the food. In a young baby a teaspoon ful or two of warm lime water will sometimes give relief Laying the child on Its stomach on a hot water bag is also efficacious. Gently rubbing the abdomen, as di- rected for the relief of constipation, helps to expel the gas. In severe casts a few drops of essence of pepper- 314 PREPARATION FOR MOTHERHOOD mint in warm, unsweetened water, or a hot bath, may cut short the nttack. Warmth is the u^st aid against the enemy. The feet shoukl be wrap[>ed in lianiiel and put on a hot water bag. Wheu the pain conies on at a certain hour every day, the baby should be wrapped in a blanivct with a hot water bag before the attack is due. With young children, colic is usually attributed to overfeeding or indigestion, yet sometimes the ut- most attention to the diet will not avert it. S INCREASE IN WEIGHT An average baby is said to weigh about seven pounds at birth if a boy, and six and a half if a girl. A child may, however, weigh as little as four, or as much as fourteen pounds. During the first three days there is a loss in weight. After that there should be a steady gain of rather more than a quarter of a pound a week until the infant is five months old, when the gain is slightly less rapid. In weighing the baby it should be remembered to weigh the clothes in which it is dressed afterwards, and deduct their weight from the amount registered. The length of the average child is nineteen and a half inches if a boy, and half an inch less if a girl. It is said to grow faster in length during the first MOTHER- LOVE 315 week of its life than ..t any suhscquont time and should gain an inch in height during the first month. If a baby does not make steady progress in growth both in length and weight it is not thriving propei-ly. The food should l)e clianged and all the eonditir>ns under which it is living carefully reviewed, to find where the fault lies. At three months old the average baby should weigh not less than eleven ])ounds and measun? twenty-two inches. If the child was very small, or very large, when it was born, the gain should be in this proportion. When the flesh is soft, instead of being firm and mottled, the face pale and the baby fretful, there is something wrong which must be set right if the child is to live and thrive. MOTHER -LOVE The constant watchfulness of mother-love is needed to enable the baby to surmount the perils that threaten its frail life durinor the earlv months of its existence. Nature means it to live and the mother must do her })art to carry out the beneficent design. Proper food and clothing, sufficient sleep, and cleanliness are the requisites which it must have to 316 prp:paration for motherhood grow and develop properly. Under the head of cleanliness are included clean air to breathe, and the regular removal of the waste matter generated in the body bv a daily movement of the bowels. A baby thrives best in an atmosphere of love. It needs loving and cherishing for its best develop- nr.Mit, almost as much as it does material care. It is not very loufj before it learns to look for it and in its own measure to return the affection that is lavished upon it. A child that is looked upon as a burden and an incumbrance is defrauded of its just due. The mother who does not give to her baby the love and devotion that ought to be inseparable from her re- lation (o it, loses the sweetest reward of motherhood. She wilfully takes the pains and penalties of ma- ternity and robs herself of the recompense that to the true mother makes them weigh as dust in the balance. lie head of ithe, and tin; generated in >wels. Te of lovo, 3st develop- l1 care. It for it and ion that is len and an due. The le love and oni her re- lotherhood. :ies of ma- ise that to lust in the