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The 
 Homely Virtues 
 
 By 
 Ian Maclaren 
 
 ("■.ev.John Witscn) 
 
 Author of " Beiide the Bonnie Brier Buih,' 
 
 "The Mind of the Muter," 
 
 etc., etc. 
 
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 Toronto : 
 
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INTRODUCTORY 
 
 ORDirAKY PEOPLE 
 
 
 I. 
 
 SxRAKiHTNESS 
 
 
 II. 
 
 Thoroughness 
 
 
 III. 
 
 Kindness 
 
 
 IV. 
 
 Thrift 
 
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 V. 
 
 Gratitude 
 
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 VI. 
 
 Reverence 
 
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 VII. 
 
 Moral Courage 
 
 
 VIII. 
 
 Courtesy 
 
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ORDINARY PEOPLE 
 
Ordinary People 
 
 It sometimes occurs to one that as 
 there are so many philanthropic so- 
 cieties in our day and another would 
 make no great difference, it might 
 be useful, as well as kindly, to estab- 
 lish a society for the protection of 
 ordinary people. Its subjects would 
 be all persons above the age of 
 twenty-one who had never written 
 a book, nor a magazine article, nor a 
 pamphlet, nor a letter to the "Times " ; 
 who had never stood for Parliament, 
 nor addressed a political meeting, nor 
 taken the chair at a charitable gather- 
 ing, nor moved a vote of thanks to a 
 speaker ; who do not hold any view 
 entirely their own on the doctrine 
 of the Christian Church, or the origin 
 of the Bible, or the relation of the 
 sexes, or the division of property ; 
 
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 who are not distinguished players at 
 anything, nor brilliant conversation- 
 alists, nor wickedly sarcastic, nor un- 
 printed poets— persons, in fact, who 
 do their daily duty, and pay their 
 debts, and act a neighbour's part, and 
 speak about the weather, and go to 
 Church ; persons who are not orig- 
 inal nor brilliant nor erratic, who are 
 neither inventors nor reformers nor 
 cranks, nor anything else except law- 
 abiding, tax-paying, housekeeping, 
 kind-hearted citizens-commonplace 
 people. They endure great wrongs 
 in our day, and no one is trying to 
 redress them, although the world is 
 going crazy with sentiment. No great 
 man of letters has commonplace 
 people within his horizon (although 
 Scott and Dickens had a tender 
 
Ordinary People 
 
 regard for them). The modern writ- 
 er elaborates for the elect who can 
 admire his precious style ; thoughtful 
 preachers talk over the heads of plain 
 folk, and address themselves to what 
 are called the thoughtful, who are 
 understood to be always wrestling 
 with high-class problems or giving 
 themselves to amazing missions. Art, 
 if the painter wishes to save his repu- 
 tation with superior critics, abandons 
 scenes of homely life and simple 
 human motives and labours on pictures 
 which have to be explained like prize 
 puzzles and might as well be painted 
 for the Martians as for the average 
 man of this world. The ordinary 
 person is ignored and browbeaten 
 and made to understand that his 
 conversation is a stupidity, that he 
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 himself is a weariness, and that unless 
 you can sparkle, however feebly, 
 you have no reason for existence. 
 The ordinary person feels his position, 
 and, although it may seem amazing 
 in a creature of lower organisation, is 
 quite as sensitive as the bright people 
 who have the wonderful ideas and 
 say the striking things. It is pathetic 
 to hear him explain, if he be up in 
 years, that "we old fogies are out of 
 it now," and that the young people 
 know everything; and if he is still 
 young, that he is " not a clever chap," 
 but that there is " no use my trying to 
 take a hand in conversation." Yet 
 the old man may have done a good 
 day's work in the world, and the 
 young fellow may hav a level head 
 and both may be of far more value 
 
Ordinary People 
 
 than people whose tongues ne.er 
 cease and who have a windmill in 
 their heads. So I want to make a 
 plea for ordinary folk who are good 
 and for ordinary ways of goodness. 
 
 It is a consolation for an ordinary 
 person to remember that he belongs 
 to the vast majority of his race and 
 that if he be outdistanced in talk, he 
 will succeed in the vote. Out of a 
 hundred thousand inhabitants in a 
 city only a handful would be recog- 
 nised upon a public platform, <ind 
 out of that handful some were not 
 known yesterday and will be for- 
 gotten to-morrow. The great man 
 of one town may never have been 
 heard of in the next town ; his fame 
 does not extend two stations along 
 the line. A few men have a national 
 
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 reputation, but it is always a question 
 of argument whether such and such 
 ; name win survive its genera::' 
 
 score of names to the immortal roll 
 of the ages. When the generations 
 pass across the stage of time, we on ; 
 
 dent.fyafacehereandthere-aMoset 
 an Alexander, a Paul, a Luth.r J 
 
 Cromwell.a Napoleon, a Washingtn 
 
 aNewto„,aDar>m,aFaradayiand 
 
 eotHers,per,,p3 great in their day 
 
 redu rf^''"'^'"^'-^^'^'-now 
 
 Tntrr^'^'^^^^'^^^^^'-'^^^^e 
 
 Perhaps an ordinary person m 
 
 find comfort in th> fact that, after alf 
 ameless people have done some of 
 
 Who made the first flint knife? Who 
 
Ordinary People 
 
 first cultivated the land ? Who first 
 constructed a boat ? Who first lit a 
 fire? Who invented the alphabet? 
 Who first struck on the idea of nu- 
 merals ? Who first established gov- 
 ernment ? Who carried out the first 
 barfer? Who built the first house? 
 No one knows, but those were the 
 great inventors and pioneers of the 
 race, and beside their achievements 
 many great discoveries which have 
 v/on men fame and rank are not 
 worthy to be compared. What is 
 the inventor of a reaping machine to 
 the man who first sowed seed ? Or 
 the inventor of the steam engine to 
 the man who first put out to sea in his 
 own boat? Besides, when you come 
 to extraordinary men, who write their 
 names on the pages of history and 
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 before whom we all justly bow. how 
 do we know there was not an ordinary 
 person behind them who has to divide 
 the credit? Bunyan gave us the 
 Pi.gnm« Progress," but we do not 
 know the names of the good old 
 
 women whom he heard talking about 
 rehg,on as they sat in the sun. and 
 
 whose words gave a new direction to 
 h'shfe. Lord Shaftesbury will long 
 be held m honour in England for 
 thesocal reformation that he wrought 
 but place, if you please. Lord Shaftes- 
 bury s nurse, who taught the lonely 
 ?; '^; P""^'P'" °f godliness, 
 ihe hall nngs with applause when 
 a distmguished scholar obtains his 
 degree, but what of the country 
 schoolmaster who first inspired him 
 with the passion for learning? The 
 
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 multitude talk of i distinguished ca- 
 reer ; they do not think of the man's 
 father, who toiled and saved and 
 sacrificed himself that the lad might 
 have his opportunity. What of the 
 great man's motiier, whose name is 
 nothnz/ autint* marketplace? 
 
 A very c try womai , yet she was 
 the motF 'this distiirjuished man. 
 She nurs. im, she trai led Mm, she 
 comfi'rte?"! aim, sh« inspired him; it 
 is possib'e that "-his ordinary woman, 
 as you judge hi ,^ . e Kim his brains. 
 He stands upo lei shoulder, and is 
 seen of all mm, while she is unseen. 
 Ever' famous ' s raised upon the 
 lives )f othiTs t a ^'enetian palace 
 rests upon fl- ' s beneath the water. 
 What, also, ur ay ask, could the 
 extraorainary ptupie do without the 
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 ordinary? It is the enthusiasm of a 
 nation which places a statesman in 
 power and enables him to carry out 
 beneficent laws. It is the patience 
 and courage of the common soldiers 
 which givf 'he victory to the general. 
 It is the skill and intelligence of 
 artisans that secures the success for 
 the capitalist. It is the audience, 
 eager and responsive, which inspires 
 the poet. The prosperity of a country 
 depends on the millions of people 
 who are doing their tale of work every 
 day, bringing up their children in 
 respectability and religion, and dis- 
 charging humble household duties and 
 resisting every-day temptations ; the 
 •rena of national life depends upon 
 what a multitude of people are think- 
 mg and feeling and wishing and striv- 
 
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Ordinary People 
 
 ing; and the goodness of the common- 
 wealth is made up of the character o*" 
 an innumerable number of undistin- 
 guished folk. We may not be phil- 
 osophers, nor travellers, nor statesmen, 
 nor conquerors, yet we ordinaries have 
 our own sphere. We are the soldiers 
 in the army which won the battle ; we 
 are the multitude to whom the thinkers 
 spoke; we are the voters by whom 
 the statesmen legislate; we are the 
 force of which historians write. There 
 are thousands of volumes containing 
 the record of births in the archives 
 of the registrar -general, and the 
 keeper is accustomed to shew a cele- 
 brated entry here and there. But all 
 the pages of all the volumes are filled 
 with names, and each name represents 
 a person who has been born into the 
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 world, and, in many a case, has lived 
 to old age and has done his piece of 
 work. Without this nameless and 
 innumerable multitude there had been 
 no work and no race. 
 
 Can anyone be sure who is doing 
 the most valuable and lasting work, 
 how the accounts are to be struck at 
 the close of the day ? Does it follow 
 of necessity that a woman who makes 
 clever speeches on the platform is 
 rendering greater service to her gen- 
 eration than the house mother, who 
 has guided her household well, and 
 secured the peace and comfort of home 
 to her husband and children ? Can 
 the minister who preaches to thou- 
 sands in the great city be certain that 
 he deserves more of the Church than 
 his country colleague who is quietly 
 
Ordinary People 
 
 building up the character of young 
 men who shall by and by make the 
 strength of the city ? Is a brilliant 
 writer a greater gain to the common- 
 wealth than a silent merchant who has 
 extended its commerce to the ends of 
 the earth and filled a thousand homes 
 with plenty ? It is impossible to say; 
 it is not necessary to make compari- 
 son ; it is sufficient to remember that 
 fame may not always mean value, and 
 that the soundest work in the world 
 may be done by obscure people. 
 
 When all has been said, it remains 
 that the one thing we are called upon 
 to do, and the one thing for which 
 weshall bejudged,isourduty. There 
 is some particular work which lies to 
 everyone's hand which he can do 
 better than any other person. What 
 
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 we ought to be concerned about, is 
 not whether it be on a large scale or 
 a small — about which we can never 
 be quite certain — nor whether it is 
 going to bring us fame or leave us in 
 obscurity — an issue which is in the 
 hands of God — but that we do it, and 
 that we do it with all our might. 
 Having done that, there is no cause 
 to fret ourselves or ask questions 
 which cannot be answered. We may 
 rest with a quiet conscience and a 
 contented heart, for we have filled 
 our place and done what we could. 
 Thr. battle of life extends over a vast 
 area, and it is vain for us to enquire 
 about the other wings of the army ; 
 it is enough we have received our 
 orders, and that we have held the few 
 feet of ground committed to our 
 
Ordinary Peoj/le 
 
 charge. There let us fight and there 
 let us die, and so fighting and so 
 dying in the place of duty we cannot 
 be condemned, we must be justified. 
 Brilliant qualities may never be ours, 
 but the homely virtues are within our 
 reach, and character is built up not 
 out of great intellectual gifts and 
 splendid public achievements, but out 
 of honesty, industry, thrift, kindness, 
 courtesy, and gratitude, resting upon 
 faith in God and love towards man. 
 And the inheritance of the soul which 
 ranks highest and lasts forever 
 character. 
 
 IS 
 
STRAIGHTNESS 
 
Straightness 
 
 It seems a far cry from the fifteenth 
 Psalm to a modern exchange, and the 
 circumstances of the East long before 
 Christ, and of the West in our day, 
 are very different. Yet it is a sug- 
 gestive fact that the moral judgment 
 of the Jewish psalmist and a Western 
 merchant agrees to the letter upon the 
 description of a man of honour. No 
 doubt the psalmist, with his genius 
 for religion, states the case for decision 
 after a more impressive fashion — 
 " Lord, who shall abide in Thy Taber- 
 nacle ? Who shall dwell in Thy Holy 
 Hill ? " and the merchant would rather 
 ask, in our secul"' form of speech, 
 " Is he the right kind ? " It is natural 
 for the Jew to enquire who is fit for 
 fellowship with God, and natural for 
 the Anglo-Saxon to ask who is fit for 
 
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 fellowship with men. But it comes 
 to the same thing in the end, for if a 
 man's morality gives him entrance to 
 God's Tabernacle, he will be welcome 
 in any respectable human society ; but 
 if a man be cast out on moral grounds 
 from such society, he may not hope 
 to dwell in God's Holy Hill. The 
 Old Testament writer would call his 
 ideal man righteous, which is one of 
 the lordly words of human speech, 
 and we, in our anxiety to keep clear 
 of cant, would prefer to sum him up 
 as straight; but let us understand that 
 this familiar term, handed about among 
 old and young, religious and non- 
 religious, is simply the homely equiv- 
 alent of righteous. An idea, like a 
 soldier, has its parade uniform and its 
 working dress, and straight is the un- 
 
Straightncss 
 
 dress of righteous. Righteousness in 
 the Old Testament is not a theological, 
 but an ethical word, and has to do 
 not with a person's creed, but with 
 a person's character. The righteous 
 man of the Psalms is the righteous 
 man the world over, in every ex- 
 change, every club, every society, every 
 workshop. And in calling righteous- 
 ness by the name of straightness, we 
 have acclimatised this noble quality 
 in the speech of modern life. 
 
 There are two types of men, and 
 by their comparison we can remind 
 ourselves what is meant by straight. 
 There is the man who may be clever 
 and interesting and good-natured, and 
 even, in a sense, pious, 'liot on whom 
 you may not depend. If you ask 
 him an inconvenient question, he will 
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 prevaricate i„ his answer, and you 
 
 -.11 find that his words have a double 
 "jeaning so that whil you wait for 
 
 h.ni at the front and, as you suppose. 
 onydoorofthehouse.hehassneLd 
 out at the back door Ifyou n,ake 
 » bargam w,th him, it will be your 
 wsdom to have his proposal i„ black 
 and wh,te without delay, since the 
 
 chances are if the market goes against 
 h'm he w,ll assure you, with many a 
 profession of regret, that you mis- 
 understood his figure. When goods 
 are delivered by this man, it is abso- 
 lute y necessary to verify every quality 
 by he sample, since, through some 
 
 carelessness on the part of his people, 
 an inferior value is apt to be sent. 
 
 ^ ^' '''^' ^°^ ''«i«ance in some 
 emergency, you may take it for granted 
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Straightness 
 
 that his affairs are much worse than 
 he has told you ; and if he succeeds 
 in borrowing money, he will have a 
 hundred excuses for not repaying it. 
 Should his firm be compelled to stop 
 payment, very strong remarks indeed 
 will be made upon the condition of 
 his books; and if he becomes bank- 
 rupt, the chances are he will be re- 
 fused a discharge. When he plunges 
 into a controversy, he will misquote 
 his opponent's words, or wrench them 
 out of their context; and when he 
 played games at school, hi- came as 
 near cheating as he could. He is 
 
 tricky,shifty,smooth-tongued,double- 
 faced, not straight. 
 
 Over against hin cliere is the 
 man who may be plain in manner, 
 and blunt of speech, and slow in 
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 understanding, and who, perhaps, 
 
 may make no profession of religion, 
 
 but who can be depended upon 
 
 at all times, in every word he 
 
 speaks and in everything he does. 
 
 His smile may not be so faking 
 
 nor his style so plausible, but he 
 
 looks you in the face and his 
 
 words have the accent of sincerity. 
 
 He means what he says and he says 
 
 what he means, and if vou mmfP h;™ 
 
 yoj will never be 
 
 He 
 
 in the lurch, 
 may be long in coming to a de- 
 cision and he may he hard in a bar- 
 gain. When the bargain is made, 
 whether by word of mouth or a nod 
 of the head, just as much 
 
 as by 
 
 letter which has been copied, he will 
 stand by it, though he lose his last 
 penny. He will not whine about his 
 
Straightuess 
 
 losses, for they are the fortune of war, 
 nor will he brag about his honesty, 
 for he expects that to be tak^n for 
 granted. If you have to meet him in 
 debate, he may press you hard and 
 be very keen in his views, but he will 
 always deal fairly with you, looking 
 for the sense ofwhat you said, an'' . ' 
 taking any advantage of the w ' 
 If he has a quarrel with you, he -v > 
 have it out with you face to face, anc 
 would scorn to slander you behind 
 your back. He also may be unable 
 some day to pay his debts, and that 
 will be the bitterest trial of his life ; 
 well, he will work night and day to 
 regain his prosperity, and then he will 
 pay his creditors, every one, with 
 interest. Never was he known to 
 make capital out of any doubtful 
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 point in a game, for, though he was 
 eager to win, he was still more deter- 
 mined to win like a sportsman. And 
 this is what we mean by a straight 
 man. 
 
 There are many things for which 
 one may fairly criticise the world, and 
 by that I mean the people who do not 
 profess to be religious; but let us 
 freely acknowledge that they have at 
 least one good quality, and that is an 
 honest appreciation of straightness. 
 The man who cheats at a game, who 
 goes back upon a bargiin, who shirks 
 the post of danger, who filches away 
 another doctor's patient, who ex- 
 poses a woman's frailty, who brings 
 up the catastrophe in a man's private 
 hfe, is despised and cast out by the 
 world. The pariah of the world is a 
 
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Straightness 
 
 sneak, and for him there is no more 
 mercy than for a rat. Upon the 
 other hand, while one firmly believes 
 that the Church of Christ sets upon 
 the whole an example of unparalleled 
 virtue, yet one is haunted with the 
 feeh. : that the Church has not always 
 laid enough stress upon righteous- 
 ness, in the Old Testament sense of 
 the word, and that she has given the 
 idea the cold shoulder. She has 
 enforced the commandments which 
 touch on piety and on purity; she 
 has not given so clear a sound upon 
 the commandment of truthfulness. 
 If ai . man denied the creed or if any 
 man was a gross evil-liver, the Church, 
 except in her worst times, would deal 
 strictly with him ; but if he were 
 simply dishonest and disingenuous, 
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 mean and tricky, she has been apt to 
 let him alone, so that he came to feel 
 that she did not care, and his own 
 conscience was lowered. Perhaps one 
 might go furth sr, and say that crooked- 
 ness has been a rehgious sin and has 
 almost had the sanction of the Church 
 although it has ever received themani- 
 festjudgmentsofGod. Abraham was 
 the father of the faithful and a noble 
 type of religion, but Abraham lied to 
 Pharaoh with just that kind of lie 
 which finds its shelter beneath the 
 shadow of religion. He played upon 
 words, saying that Sarah was his 
 s.ster, which, in a sense, she was, but 
 allowing Pharaoh to understand that 
 she was not his wife, which of course 
 she was. It was not a downright 
 falsehood, but a guarded and calcu- 
 
Straightness 
 
 kted departure from the truth, a 
 policy in which the religious con- 
 science has shown itself an adept. 
 There is a kind of man who will not 
 drink nor swear, who believes in the 
 deity of Christ and the eternal punish- 
 ment of the wicked, but who has no 
 more idea of personal honour than a 
 fox, and who will do things at which 
 a high-class man of the world would 
 be aghast. We are inclined some- 
 times to think that if a man be 
 religious, he must be straightfor- 
 ward, and if he be straightforward, 
 he must be religious. But we have 
 leaped too hastily to a conclusion, 
 for there are people with a genuine 
 sense of religion who are as crooked 
 as a corkscrew, and there are people 
 who would never dream of calling 
 
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 themselves religious, but yet they 
 are as straight as a die. As, for 
 ■nstance, Jacob in the one class, and 
 11 the other suc^ , man as the 
 Duke of Wellington among English- 
 men, and Abraham Lincoln among 
 Americans. 
 
 Nothing has brought such scandal 
 on religion in public life as the dis- 
 honesty of a certain kind of religious 
 people who will call themselves by 
 the name of Christ, and take part in 
 religious tneetings, and set themselves 
 up as censors of morals, but who 
 betray the trust of poor investors, 
 and bring banks to ruin, and start 
 bogus companies, and make discredit- 
 able bankruptcies, and obtain pos- 
 session of the means of relatives and 
 trustful people, and who tirn out 
 
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Straightness 
 
 bad work, so that every decent man 
 condemns them, and, when they are 
 not cunning enough, the law fortu- 
 nately lands them in prison. With 
 their mixture of Phariseeism and 
 duplicity, with their cant and their 
 lying, such people are a reproach and 
 a byword, and are ever being flung in 
 our faces. While they are praying and 
 preaching, young men are declaring 
 everywhere that it is because of them 
 they are not Christians. If the Old 
 Testament gospel of morality had 
 been more stringently preached, the 
 Church would not have been cursed 
 with the presence of men who have 
 dared to speak for her, but whom 
 neither God in His Holy Hill, nor 
 the world in her market-places, can 
 tolerate, because they do not walk 
 uprightly nor work righteousness. 
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Homely Virtues 
 
 Nor has the Church as an historic 
 body established 30 high a claim as 
 one would like for straightforward- 
 ness. Why is it that priests have 
 earned so bad a name and been so 
 keenly hated by the people? Why 
 has one order been expelled from 
 nearly every country i„ Europe, and 
 has often brought cruel persecutions 
 upon Us fellow Christians? It were 
 a slander to say that all priests are 
 bad, smce many have been men of 
 smgular devotion and of vast sacri- 
 fices; but it is a fact that, as a class 
 pnests have been less than straight.' 
 I hey have used words in a double 
 sense; they have practised the doc- 
 tnne of reserve; they have invented 
 astounding excuses for falsehood- 
 they have brought casuistry to the' 
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Straightiiess 
 
 height of a science. One of their 
 chief characteristics has been that rat- 
 like cunning which Browning illus- 
 trates in the priest of the " Ring and 
 the Book." Whether called priests 
 or not, all ecclesiastics are tempted to 
 be crafty and diplomatic. They 
 make up catching motions ; they de- 
 vise subtle schemes of policy ; they 
 are afraid of exciting prejudices ; 
 they are fond of ambiguous words. 
 Certainly no one has ever said that 
 they were simple and guileless. There 
 are fair grounds for saying that while 
 the Church has taken the intellectual 
 failing of heresy and made it into a sin, 
 she has condoned the moral failing of 
 trickery and almost raised it to a 
 virtue. 
 
 Has it ever happened to us to have 
 
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 Homely Virtues 
 
 a dispute, say, about a statement we 
 have made, or about a matter of 
 business, or about family affairs, or 
 even about a game with a man of the 
 world, and he told us plainly that we 
 had acted dishonourably ? Not ille- 
 gally—which is a different matter, 
 and has to be tried by a different 
 standard— but dishonourably, as be- 
 tween man and man, when tried by 
 the working code of straightness. 
 If he was wrong, it was a bitter 
 moment that he should have thought 
 so badly of us ; but if he was right, 
 was it not ghastly ? What did we do' 
 m that moment when the light was 
 suddenly turned on in the cellar of 
 our souls, and we saw the loathsome 
 creatures of darkness making for their 
 holes? Did we acknowledge our sin to 
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Straightness 
 
 man and God, or did we try to justify 
 ourselves, and afterwards — which 
 is the cheapest thing that we could 
 do — pretend that we were martyrs for 
 religion's sake ? When Pharaoh told 
 Abraham to his face that he was a 
 liar, it was one of the lamentable 
 paradoxes in the history of religion, 
 for in that hour Pharaoh stood higher 
 than Abraham before the conscience 
 of men and in the sight of God. 
 
 If anyone be conscious that he has 
 a taint of crookedness in his blood, 
 and that he is inclined to play tricks; 
 if he has already been exposed and 
 put to shame because he did not speak 
 the truth, and his hands were not 
 clean, lei him face the situation and 
 bestir himself There is nothing but 
 contempt and humiliation in store for 
 
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 1 
 
 the dishonourable man at the hands of 
 the world, nothing but self-reproach 
 and self-loathing within his own soul. 
 His own wife, try as she may, will 
 not be able to respect him, and his 
 children, as one thing after another 
 becomes plain to them, will be 
 ashamed of him. And whatever he 
 believes and however he prays, there 
 can be no welcome for him with God, 
 who is the fountain of truth and 
 righteousness. The thoughts of men 
 are often foolish and their judgments 
 vain ; but, after all, i .y honour 
 straightness. The ways of God are 
 ofter> dark and past finding out, but 
 of one thing we may be sure, the 
 blessing of God rests upon righteous- 
 ness, both in this world and in that 
 which is to come. 
 
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II 
 
 THOROUGHNESS 
 
Thoroughness 
 
 When one's position is assured he can 
 go where he pleases, and as thorough- 
 ness 'vill appear in many humble 
 places before this article is ended, it 
 may be well to remind ourselves at 
 the beginning that it holds high rank 
 in the religious life. Our Master was 
 inspired by this principle when He 
 would allow no disciple to turn Him 
 from the Cross, and ceased not in His 
 high endeavour till He had finished 
 the work which His P'ather gave 
 Him to do. He was severe upon 
 impulsive profession without stability 
 of action, and He gave His highest 
 praise not to brilliant ability, but to 
 faithful service. His commandment 
 unto His followers was to be faithful 
 unto death, and His promise a crown 
 of life. St. Paul exhorts his converts 
 
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Homely Virtues 
 
 to work out their salvation with fear 
 and trembHng, and declares that all 
 the energy of his life was gathered to 
 a point, " this one thing I do." One 
 of the chief conditions of victory in 
 the Kingdom of God is thoroughness. 
 The same law runs in ordinary 
 life, and he only need expect to attain 
 success and win the honour of his 
 fellow men who is thorough. The 
 reason why men fail is, in five cases 
 out of six, not through want of in- 
 fluence or brains, or opportunity, or 
 good guidance, but because they are 
 slack; and the reason why certain men 
 with few advantages succeed, is that 
 they are diligent, concentrated, per- 
 severing and conscientious — because, 
 in fact, they are thorough. One sees 
 every day the story of the hare and 
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 the tortoise repeated, when the bright 
 man is outdistanced by an unpromis- 
 ing competitor, because he is self- 
 confident and erratic. An irregular 
 swiftness has no chance in the end of 
 the day against the pace which may 
 be slow, but is unresting. As the 
 conditions of labour in every depart- 
 ment of human life become more 
 exacting, there will be no use for the 
 shiftless and incapable men. His 
 preserves, where he can mismanage 
 and not be punished, are growing 
 fewer every year ; neither a merchant, 
 nor a college tutor, nor the Church, 
 nor the public service will tolerate 
 him soon ; the day is close at hand 
 when even the English army will 
 have none of him, and the last resort 
 of brave incapables will be closed. 
 
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Homely Virtues 
 
 Society is beginning to demand tiiat 
 whatever a man professes to do he 
 must be able to do, or else Society 
 will wash her hands of an unprofitable 
 servant. If the slack man does not 
 mend his ways, he will have to go to 
 the workhouse. 
 
 People conceal their inherent slack- 
 ness from themselves by all kinds of 
 ingenious excuses. When they are 
 caught tripping in their own depart- 
 ment of knowledge it is because their 
 minds are so taken up with principles 
 that they cannot keep hold of every 
 minute detail, or they blame their 
 treacherous memory — as if their 
 minds were simply crammed with 
 goods, but this tricky servant brought 
 the wrong article. When they miss an 
 engagement or have not finished 
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Thoroughness 
 
 their work in time, it is due to the 
 multitude of their affairs. As if we 
 did not know that the busiest man 
 is usually the most exact and the 
 idlest man has his time most crowded. 
 M'hen things come to the worst, 
 they fall back on absent-mindedness, 
 which they secretly consider to be 
 associated with genius, and which 
 ought to place them beyond criticism. 
 No doubt there are people who seem 
 to have been born without the faculty 
 of memory, just as there are people 
 who are born blind, and there are 
 other people in whose mind there is 
 a loose wheel, just as there is a cer,.ain 
 proportion of our fellow men in 
 lunatic asylums ; but, as a rule, those 
 excuses, when they are boiled down, 
 simply come to persistent and cul- 
 pable slackness. 
 
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Homely Virtues 
 
 Thoroughness can prove itself in 
 various ways, and not least by honest 
 thinking. It is not good to be a 
 bigot, and to give no credit for 
 intelligence to our opponents, either 
 in politics or in religion ; but there is 
 something worse than bigotry, and 
 that is instability — to have no opinion 
 except what is pumped into you by 
 your neighbour, or to have one opin- 
 ion to-day and another to-morrow, 
 or never to rise above opinion, and to 
 reach conviction. This type of man 
 is neither Liberal nor Conservative, 
 neither Republican nor Democrat ; 
 in England he is said to have a cross- 
 bench-mind, and in America he is 
 called a mugwump, and in neither 
 country does he receive any great 
 measure of intellectual respect. His 
 
Thoroughness 
 
 indecision may be due to a certain 
 quality of mind which never can come 
 to a conclusion, and never can take a 
 side strongly, but the chances are 
 that want of conviction means intel- 
 lectual indolence. Surely it is our 
 duty to think out the great subjects 
 of lift; to our furthest limits, to form 
 our creed by the best light God has 
 given us, and having won our creed, 
 to live and defend it. Let us believe 
 something with all our might, and 
 while the best thing is to believe in 
 Christ and to be a thoroughgoing 
 Christian, the next best thing is to 
 believe, as St. Paul once did, another 
 creed, and to be true to it, for the 
 day will come when God will give to 
 the honest thinker more light, and he 
 will be all the braver soldier of Christ 
 
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Homely Virtues 
 
 because he had been a brave enemy. 
 We would respect ourselves more 
 and be stronger men if we could only 
 take our stand somewhere, and, 
 where we stood, be prepared to die. 
 Thoroughness should also brace 
 our habits in daily life. No doubt 
 there is an accuracy which is niggling 
 and a regard for order which is 
 slavish ; there is also an inaccuracy 
 and a disorder which disfigure life 
 from morning till evening; and to 
 escape being a Pharisee in this macter 
 one need not be a publican. Some 
 people seem to have made a rule of 
 unpunctuality ; they are late in rising, 
 late for meals, late for trains, late for 
 engagements, late even for pleasure ; 
 they are exact and accurate in one 
 thing only — in being so many minutes 
 
Thoroughness 
 
 behind time. They are dull of hear- 
 ing in the morning, their watches are 
 ever going slow ; beyond all other 
 people they are detained by unex- 
 pected visitors or sudden duty. No 
 one may depend upon them; they 
 are a trial unto their friends and the 
 scorn of their enemies ; and the cause 
 of their shame is slackness. There 
 is the woman who is always badly 
 dressed, without neatness and without 
 taste ; and when you see a woman with 
 unmended gloves and a torn dress, you 
 may be sure that she is an incapable 
 housekeeper and a helpless wife, for 
 if a woman has not spirit enough to 
 keep her dress in repair she is bound 
 to be slack in every duty of life. 
 There is the man who writes so badly 
 that he is convinced himself that he 
 
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Homely Virtues 
 
 has a literary gift, in which case the 
 profession of letters has the easiest 
 condition of entrance and the largest 
 number of members among all the 
 departments of human activity. 
 Illegible writing is a slovenly habit 
 for which no excuse can be offered 
 except want of education, and its 
 punishment falls on innocent people, 
 on postmen, on clerks, on busy pro- 
 fessional men, and on friends who 
 cannot understand the news that 
 has been sent The school, large 
 or small, which does not teach its 
 boys to write should be marked 
 inefficient, and the people who will 
 not do their best to write legibly 
 should be classed with the illiterate. 
 Thoroughness should be vindicated 
 in the work to which we have been 
 
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Thoroughness 
 
 called and by which we have to be 
 judged. If we play a game, let us 
 strive to play it well, and not be a 
 " footy " ; if we undertake a piece of 
 work, let us finish it to the last jot 
 and tittle. If we profess a subject of 
 knowledge, let us have it at our 
 finger ends. If wc take up a scheme, 
 let us see it through; and if we 
 choose a side, let us play the man. 
 There is honour for the man who can 
 be trusted to the end and whose 
 work does not need to be done over 
 again, who can always be found in his 
 own place, and will always do what is 
 expected of him. There is continual 
 dishonour for the person who is slip- 
 shod and unreliable, and fickle and 
 lazy, for he is like the reed which 
 pierces the hand that leans upon 
 
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 it. Nowhere is thoroughness more 
 needed than in religious work, 
 nowhere is slackness more prevalent. 
 There are Christians who serve Christ 
 as diligentlv and faithfully as they do 
 their earthly work, and they shall not 
 miss their reward ; but many of Christ's 
 servants would not be tolerated for a 
 week by any other master. The 
 poorest joint-stock company in the 
 land is better served by its directors 
 than many congregations are by their 
 office-bearers. There are no teachers 
 anywhere so ignorant and so casual 
 as certain Sunday-school teachers; 
 there is no clerk in a dry goods store 
 dare treat his duty as lightly as 
 some of the voluntary officers of the 
 Christian Church. They will absent 
 themselves without leave and without 
 
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 Thoroughness 
 
 excuse; they will never enquire how 
 their work is being done or whether 
 it is done it all ; they will not take the 
 trouble to prepare themselves to do 
 it, and they are not concerned when 
 it fails in their hands. They will 
 place their pleasure and their fancies, 
 and their social engagements, and 
 their imaginary ailments before their 
 Christian duty. And it would be 
 difficult to say how little must be the 
 burden, how short must be the time, 
 that they would be willing to count 
 an obligation upon them and would 
 be prepared to face. One is some- 
 times inclined to propose a general 
 resignation of the Christian staff, and 
 then an invitation to all who were 
 prepared to do Christ's work as well 
 as the work of the worid is done. 
 
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Homely Virtues 
 
 and it might be that three hundred 
 thoroughgoing men like the Band of 
 Gideon would do -vu-. for Christ 
 than ten times the number of irre- 
 sponsible casuals. 
 
 And thoroughness takes its highest 
 form in character, where slackness is 
 a germ of destruction. One of the 
 most disappointing and dangerous 
 people in society is the man or 
 woman who is agreeable, and plau- 
 sible, and sparkling, and amusing, but 
 insincere, changeable, and unprin- 
 cipled and facile. There is no dis- 
 loyalty, no baseness, such a person 
 may not be capable of, not so much 
 because he is immoral, but because 
 he is slack. You must not count 
 him a friend, since he may cast you 
 off to-morrow ; you must not assume 
 he will stand temptation, since his 
 
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Thoroughness 
 
 character is weak at the foundation. 
 Character is the ground of trust and 
 the guarantee for good living, and 
 that character only is sound which 
 rests upon a good conscience and a 
 tlean heart and a strong will. 
 
 What one fears is that a slovenly 
 habit of work may in the end mean a 
 slovenly soul, for character is estab- 
 lished by action. As we carry our- 
 selves in an innumerable series of acts 
 from morning till night, doing our 
 work slackly with detached mind 
 and nerveless hands, or doing it 
 thoroughly with a scrupulous con- 
 science and full purpose of heart, we 
 are either building our house upon 
 the sand, and the first flood will 
 sweep it away, or upon the rock, 
 against which the fiercest flood will 
 beat in vain. 
 
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Ill 
 
 KINDNESS 
 
Kindness 
 
 It seems as if there were a fashion 
 in virtues as in dress, and that private 
 kindness were more at home in the 
 past than in the present. The gener- 
 ation which is bidding us good-bve, 
 and whom in our superior moments 
 we criticise, 'vas not ashamed of 
 generous emot:jns. Our fathers met 
 their fellow creatures upon a basis of 
 unaffected cordiality; they took an 
 affectionate interest in the affairs of 
 their friends ; they were still capable 
 of shaking hands. Their faces gave 
 proof of the warmth within ; they did 
 not pose nor use falsetto adjectives ; 
 they were sincere, straightforward, 
 warm-hearted Oar generation is apt 
 to receive its frends upon a r-tage, 
 with the gesture and expression fixed 
 by the rule of fashion ; it is shocked 
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 by any outbreak of human feeling, 
 and will smile feebly when wished a 
 Happy New Year, as if apologising 
 for a lapse into barbarism. It con- 
 ceals affection and suppresses feeling, 
 although practising little tricks and 
 artificial moods for dramatic effect. 
 Amid this cant of up-to-date lan- 
 guage, this smart attitudinising, this 
 " perfect devotion " to a hundred 
 different people, this calculated rap- 
 ture over an incident which is 
 forgotten next minute, this studied 
 enthusiasm for a cause taken 
 up by some great lady, this weari- 
 some hypocrisy of manr rs, one 
 longs for the unconventio al sim- 
 plicity and the reality of other days. 
 We grow weary as we hear the note 
 of conversation taken from a pitch 
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Kindness 
 
 fork, as we see fkces arranged for an 
 occasion, and then disarranged again 
 to be ready for the next scene. We 
 welcome as a relief the veriest 
 Philistine with a heart in his bosom 
 and no fear of man before his eyes, 
 who grasps our hand like a man and 
 drives us before him in the joy of 
 meeting. 
 
 The depreciation of kindness in 
 private life, which is one of the 
 features of our day, is very largely 
 due to the fashion of intellectualism, 
 but yet human nature below the 
 surface of crazes and phrases remains 
 the same, and his fellows still judge 
 a man by his heart rather than by his 
 head. When the jury is selected, not 
 from a coterie, but from the market- 
 place, the person who is kind will 
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 ever be preferred to the person who 
 is clever, and " thoughtful," to use a 
 cant word of our day, is still less 
 than warm-hearted. Walter Scott 
 and Dickens will ever have a larger 
 hold upon the people than Hardy 
 and Meredith, not because their art 
 is finer, but because their spirit is 
 kindlier. An affectionate child is 
 more welcome than those monsters of 
 modern precosity who furnish their 
 foolish parents with sayings for 
 quotation, and who have worn out 
 all healthy sensations at the age of 
 ten. The girl who is honest, unaf- 
 fected, considerate, good natured, 
 still receives the prize of respect and 
 of love. No young man is better 
 liked than he who has a genuii 
 interest in the aged and little children, 
 
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Kindness 
 
 in poor lads and in weak people. 
 People mention with pathetic delight 
 that although such and such a man 
 be so able, yet none is more mindful, 
 and here it is interesting to note how 
 the mind is brought under subjection 
 to the heart, for when we say mind- 
 ful we do not mean intellectual, but 
 helpful. Women who create around 
 them a quiet and genial atmosphere 
 will never want for grateful subjects. 
 Hot temper is condoned by the world 
 if there be in the man a heart of love 
 yet greater than the passing flash of 
 rage. People will put up with hasty 
 words and discourteous actions for the 
 true heart which is behind them, and 
 will remember the shining of the sun 
 long after they have forgotten the 
 thunderstorm. Many a sinner against 
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 God and man has been forgiven both 
 in heaven and earth because he loved 
 much. No cleverness and no success 
 can redeem heartlessness. People who 
 are not constant and sympathetic, who 
 are showy and affected, may imagine 
 that they are admired — they are really 
 detested. The chief crown of life is 
 the love of your fellow men, and that 
 is ever given to those who have a 
 heart. 
 
 If any one should think that the 
 value of kindness is exaggerated let 
 him remember its moral quality. Why 
 is it that some people are unkind? 
 Usually because they are hard or 
 cynical, or thoughtless or worldly. 
 In short, because however ready may 
 be their flow of sentiment or graceful 
 their manners, they are at the core 
 
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Kind 
 
 ness 
 
 thoroughly selfish. They do not 
 help their neighbours, because they 
 are always engaged furthering their 
 own personal interests ; they do not 
 feel for their neighbours, because their 
 own joys and sorrows absorb their 
 whole stock of emotion ; they do not 
 think about their neighbours, because 
 their one imperious subject is them- 
 selves. They are the slaves of a 
 masterful egotism, which thinks and 
 feels and acts in terms of self; to 
 which the world is but the stage 
 scenery for a single character and 
 other men only a chorus. What 
 does it mean that a person is kind ? 
 That he remembers other people, 
 that he is not bound up with his own 
 affairs, that he is capable of making 
 sacrifices, that he is willing to serve 
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 his fellow men. It means that his 
 heart is not of stone, hut of flesh, that 
 his spirit is not of the world, but of 
 Christ. Religion may be tested by 
 many virtues, but it may be safely 
 said that its surest proof is kindness. 
 One may be pure and honest and 
 industrious, but if he is not kind he 
 is so far less a Christiin. One, on 
 the other hand, may have many 
 faults, but if there be in him a pitiful 
 and friendly heart, he is so far a 
 Christian. He who shows not mercy, 
 it is fair to argue, has never tasted 
 the mercy of God, and he who 
 never thinks of his brother has never 
 realised how God has thought of him. 
 While he that loves proves that he 
 has been loved, for love is of God, 
 and he who helps p oves that he has 
 
Kindness 
 
 been helped by Jesus Christ. When 
 we rate kindness as a form of facile 
 good humour, we are depreciating this 
 virtue; it is nothing else than the 
 love of God in common life. 
 
 "For mercy, pity, peace, und love, 
 Is God our Father deur ; 
 And mercy, pity, peace and love, 
 Is man His child and cure , . . 
 
 And alt must love the human form, 
 In heathen, Turk, or Jew. 
 
 Where mercy, love and pity dwell, 
 There God is dwelling, too." 
 
 Another reason why we ought to 
 make much of kindness is that unkind- 
 ness contributes so largely to human 
 misery, and kindness to happiness. 
 There are the major and the minor 
 trials of life, and the major trials, 
 thank God ! do not come often, 
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 although their shadow may remain 
 for years. We are apt to think that 
 they are beyond human consolation, 
 and yet the mourner will tell you 
 that in the day of sore distress he 
 was greatly comforted by a letter, by 
 a word fitly spoken, by a call at the 
 rig; it time, by a little attention. The 
 hci'rf is lonely in the straits of life 
 and is thankful for company; it is 
 wounded and bruised and wiii^mes 
 the wine and oil. '("he y..>od 
 Samaritan is the proof . r G<x!, a.: i 
 the children of afflicticm ' .uj: fl.i*^ 
 they have not been fors brn. i iv , 
 IS no balm for sorrow, no re( Mvor.-.? 
 ment for faith outside the Bible iike 
 your neighbour's kindness. Much of 
 the sorrow of life, however, springs 
 from the accumulation, day by day 
 
Kindness 
 
 and year by year, of little trials — 
 a morning letter written in less than 
 courteous terms, a wrangle at the 
 breakfast table over some arrange- 
 ment of the day, the rudeness of an 
 acquaintance on the way to the city, 
 an unfriendly act on the part of 
 another firm, a cruel criticism need- 
 lessly reported by some meddler, a 
 feline amenity at afternoon tea, the 
 disobedience of one of your children, 
 a social slight by one of your circle, a 
 controversy too hotly conducted. 
 The trials within this class are innu- 
 merable, and consider not one of 
 them is inevitable, not one of them 
 but might have been spared if we or 
 our brother man had had a grain of 
 kindliness. Our social insolences, our 
 irritating manners, our censorious 
 
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 judgment, our venomous letters, our 
 pin-pricks in conversation, are all 
 forms of deliberate unkindness and 
 are all evidences of an ill-conditioned 
 nature. 
 
 Is not the burden of life, with its 
 labours and anxieties, temptations 
 and bereavements, heavy enough 
 without our voluntary additions? 
 Why should our neighbour's temper 
 be embittered, and his heart wounded, 
 and his peace broken, and the limited 
 joy of his life be reduced by our 
 thoughtless deeds and by our foolish 
 words, when we might have done so 
 much to add to his joy and to help 
 him along his way ? Ought we not 
 to make a covenant with ourselves 
 and ask God to seal it with His 
 blessing, that whether or not we be 
 
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Kind 
 
 ness 
 
 able to give large sums of money or 
 to render great services, whether or 
 not we be able cr brilliant, that at 
 least we will be kind from the time 
 we rise to the time we lie down— in 
 our homes, in our offices, through our 
 
 pleasure and through our work to 
 
 the people of our blood and to the 
 people of our acquaintance r Let us 
 resolve that if we are out of sorts or 
 if we have been disappointed in our 
 work, we will not take it out of our 
 neighbours, our wife and children, 
 our servants, or our clerks ; that we 
 will not debate and wrangle in speech 
 about politics and religion and a 
 hundred other things of less impor- 
 tance, till every one is on edge ; that 
 if we know that a person has some 
 fad, we will give it a wide berth and 
 
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Homely Virtues 
 
 save our brother from himself; that 
 if there be some innocent subject on 
 which he loves to talk, that we will 
 be his attentive hearers. That if 
 anyone has had a success, that we will 
 make muda of it; that if anyone 
 has had a reverse, we will let him know 
 that we also suffer ; that we will never 
 pass a friend without a signal of good 
 will; that if we hear evil gossip we 
 will immediately bury it, and that if 
 we hear a good report about anyone, 
 we will blaze it abroad; that wc will 
 carry ourselves patiently with tire- 
 some, irritating, sour, and uncharitable 
 people. And to this end that we will 
 curb our vanity, pride, and self- 
 importance and evil temper. 
 
 Might we not also go a little 
 further and resolve that every day we 
 
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Kindness 
 
 will do at least one act of kindness to 
 some neighbour. Let us write a 
 letter in such terms that the post will 
 bring pleasure next day to some 
 house ; make a call just to let a friend 
 know that he has been in our heart; 
 give a young man starting in business 
 some bit of work to encourage him 
 in his first year; send a gift on some 
 one's birthday, or on his marriage 
 day, or on Christmas day, or on any 
 day we can invent; exert ourselves 
 to get a widow's son into a situation 
 T a lad into a school. Ifwehavea 
 carriage, let invalids have the use of 
 it; if we have a box in the concert 
 hall, let us remember that Providence 
 has given some people the love of 
 music without silver and gold ; let us 
 make children glad with things which 
 
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 fm^im 
 
Homely Virtues 
 
 they long for and cannot obtain. 
 And a thousand other things which 
 we could do within a year if we had 
 eyes to see and a heart to feel, and 
 had the will to take some trouble. 
 If every one did an act of daily kind- 
 ness to his neigbour, and refused to 
 do any unkindness, half the sorrow 
 of this world would be lifted and 
 disappear. 
 
 What we mean to do let us do 
 quickly, for life is short, and, as has 
 been said, we shall not come this way 
 again. The sun will soon be setting 
 for every one of us and we will be 
 coming to the Master to give an 
 account of the day's work and to 
 receive His judgment. And we are 
 going to be judged by nothing more 
 or less than by -(ur kindness or our 
 
Kindness 
 
 unkindness. They who were kind 
 shall go to the right hand-He said 
 't who Himself is Judge-and they 
 who are unkind shall go the left hand, 
 for inasmuch as we have done it unto' 
 the least of His brethren, we have 
 dealt kindlv with the Lord Himself. 
 
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 THRIFT 
 
Thrift 
 
 Thb Miracle of the Loaves and 
 Fishes is an illustration at once of 
 magnificent generosity and of careful 
 economy, and reminds us of the 
 difference between abundance and 
 waste. The guests whom the Master 
 entertained were in number about 
 five thousand, they had of the loaves 
 and fishes simple, wholesome fare, 
 as much as they wou' 1. When they 
 were satisfied the fragments of broken 
 bread and unused fish were gathered 
 up by the apostles and placed in 
 baskets, and this was done according 
 to the command of Christ that 
 nothing should be lost. As Nature, 
 with all her boundless resources and 
 lavish display of beauty, yet skil- 
 fully and anxiously uses up every 
 scrap of her material and refuses to 
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 recognise such a thing as refuse, so 
 Jesus with the power of creation at 
 His disposal will not allow that the 
 remains of a feast he flung away, but 
 insists that what has noi been needed 
 by His guests shall be kept for some 
 poorer people. It is a convincing and 
 authoritative application of the law 
 of thrift. 
 
 Thoughtless people are apt to 
 make a contrast between generosity 
 and thrift, as if they are not more 
 likely to be the complement of one 
 another, and the reason of their 
 mistake is a misunderstanding of 
 both ideas. Generosity such people 
 confound with extravagance, and 
 thrift they spell meanness, and so 
 they conclude that if a man spends 
 his money in every foolish whim and 
 
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 injurious gift, he is as large-hearted 
 as he is open-handed. While if his 
 neighbour makes conscience of every 
 shilling which he lays out either on 
 himself or on other people, and 
 studies how he can best utilise the 
 means of which God has made him 
 trustee, that he is both close-fisted 
 and lean hearted. According to this 
 view of it, extravagance even in its 
 more vulgar and ostentatious form is 
 a vice so splendid that it is equal to 
 a virtue, and thrift, even when it is 
 guided by the highest principles, is 
 so petty and sordid a virtue that it is 
 next door to a vice. 
 
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 certain kinship to virtue, and no 
 
 virtue which is not in danger of being 
 
 sold into the slavery of vice, one 
 
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 recognises that extravagance is with 
 some men a proof of kindness, and 
 that in some forms it is not without 
 its attraction. When one bestows 
 his benefits upon so large a scale that 
 he gives far more than can be used, 
 he may not always be blamed, for 
 our Lord Himself did not limit 
 Himself by the appetite of His 
 guests, but made an overflowing 
 provision with enough and to spare. 
 There is a thrift which is so cold 
 and accurate that it seems to weigh 
 every morsel in the scales of a chemist, 
 and to be concerned about grains and 
 scruples, and one is not drawn to the 
 host who has studied his guests' 
 appetites so carefully that when the 
 feast is ended the last loaf and fish 
 are also gone. Waste is the shadow 
 
Thrift 
 
 upon generosity, miserliness on thrift, 
 and It IS a grave question whether 
 the wastrel or the miser is a greater 
 curse to the community, but cer- 
 tainly the miser is the more unlovely 
 character. 
 
 Thrift is like some misunderstood 
 character in history, and has to be 
 redeemed from opprobrium ; and Car- 
 lyle, who removed the dust of many 
 years from the portrait of Cromwell, 
 and placed him where he ought to 
 be, among the chief rulers of England, 
 has also done his best to redeem the 
 idea of thrift. He points out with 
 much force that upon this despised 
 and commonplace virtue, which supe- 
 rior people are apt to assign to hard- 
 working peasants and little trades- 
 men, has been built up great and 
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 strong empires. " For my own part, 
 I perceive well there was never yet 
 any great empire founded, Roman, 
 English, down to Prussian or Dutch, 
 nor in fact any great mass of work 
 got achieved under the sun, hut it 
 was founded even upon this humble- 
 looking quality of thrift, and became 
 achievable in virtue of the same." It 
 was largely to rigid economy, which 
 sometimes no doubt touched the ex- 
 treme of avarice, that Frederick the 
 Great partly owed his power. It 
 was to the saving habits of the French 
 country folk, which no doubt are 
 sometimes sordid and grinding, that 
 their nation owed its recovery from 
 the great disaster of 1871. And it 
 is their simple life and careful use of 
 means which has secured to the work- 
 
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 ing people of Holland and Switzer- 
 land their modest and contented 
 prosperity. A great empire may be 
 able to endure the strain of lux- 
 ury for a while, either through the 
 accumulated resources of the past or 
 the immense riches of its land, which 
 explains why Britain and the United 
 States can be so wasteful as they are 
 and yet be so strong, but it still 
 remains true <-hat thrift is the con- 
 dition of continued prosper- for 
 the State, and waste the destruction 
 of a nation. 
 
 The laws which guide the affairs 
 of a nation create also the character 
 of an individual, and I doubt whether 
 the superstructure of any character 
 be sound which does not rest upon 
 thrift as one of its foundation stones; 
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 for thrift is not to be thought of as 
 the mere accumulation and invest- 
 ment of money, it is the e-idence of 
 certain qualities which .ire more 
 precious than silver and gold. When 
 you know that a family are thrifty, 
 then they may or may not be clever, 
 agreeable, good-natured, popular, but 
 you do know that they must be 
 industrious, honest, persevering, sim- 
 ple living. Thrift, if you go into the 
 matter, proves foresight in the regu- 
 lation of life, a steady principle of 
 action, a constant self-denial in little 
 things, and a certain willingness to 
 endure hardships. It would be a 
 rare thing indeed to find a thrifty 
 person lazy, shiftless, unreliable, 
 irresolute. You may take for granted 
 that he will be clear of head and 
 
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 strong of will, independent of human 
 opinion, and true to his own con- 
 science. He cannot be soft who 
 lives in this atmosphere ; he cannot 
 be weak who has passed through this 
 temptation ; he cannot be a fool who 
 has so often had to say no. 
 
 Justice is seldom done to the 
 thrifty, and a great deal more than 
 justice is done to the thriftless. A 
 curious glamour seems to surround 
 the man who takes no thought about 
 to-morrow in another sense than 
 Jesus intended, who flings his money 
 right and left in every form of social 
 extravagance, who is hail fellow well 
 met with every man upon a basis of 
 meat and drink, and sport and pleas- 
 ure, who does not deny himself any- 
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 appetite or his tastes, or which will 
 tend to notoriety and display. Peo- 
 ple call him by various flattering 
 names which all come to this — that 
 he is the type of good nature ; beside 
 him the careful and saving man is 
 counted to be niggardly, shabby, 
 mean, and self-regarding; and with 
 the majority of people he would be 
 discredited. But the soundness of 
 a man's heart is not to be finally 
 judged by the foolish tips with which 
 he demoralises servants and reduces 
 them to flunkies, nor by his willing- 
 ness to stand the cost of champagne 
 and cigars, nor by his taste for 
 expensive articles which he does not 
 need, nor by the lavish scale on 
 which he lives. Do you find in 
 your experience that this man is as 
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 ready to give to the great causes 
 of religion, and philanthropy, and 
 education, and charity, as he is to spend 
 his money upon feasts and shows, on 
 purple and fine linen ? Have you 
 never discovered in this man of over- 
 flowing geniality and reputed warmth 
 of heart a remarkable reluctance to 
 part with his substance for worthy 
 and unselfish ends, and an amazing 
 wealth of mean excuses when he is 
 asked ? Are you not haunted with 
 a suspicion that at any moment this 
 large-hearted man may embrace your 
 purse in his affection, and this fine, 
 open-handed fellow may open his 
 hand not to give, but to borrow ? 
 And did you ever know this capital 
 fellow to pay anything which you 
 ever lent him ? When he dies, is it 
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 not found, in nine cases out of ten, 
 that he has made no proper provision 
 for his wife and children, but has 
 wasted on himself and his boon com- 
 panions, or at best on his selfish 
 habits of life, the money which ought 
 to have secured for them a home and 
 comfort ? When the hat goes round 
 for his family, are you not tempted 
 then to revise your judgment and 
 to realise the hoUowness of his char- 
 acter ? Open-handed ? Yes, to him- 
 self and the people that are like him. 
 Not niggardly ? No, except to those 
 who have depended on ''im. Give 
 the thrifty man his due; if he be 
 not popular with the glutton and the 
 wine bibber, he has some good points. 
 It is he, I suspect, who gives the 
 largest subscription on Hospital 
 
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I'hrift 
 
 Sunday, not your light-hearted spend- 
 thrift, and it is his kind which main- 
 tains the great institutions of charity. 
 You need not be afraid that he will 
 sponge on you for mo-ey— he is not 
 so mean as that, or that his widow 
 will have to go out begging— he is 
 not so shabby as that. If he prac- 
 tises self-denials which you may 
 despise— taking :: car instead of a 
 hansom, traveling third-class instead 
 o. first, going to a quiet hotel instead 
 of to a fashionable one, dnnking water 
 instead of wine, it is he himself at the 
 worst, and not you, who is going to 
 suffer. It is not this man who will 
 impoverish society, nor tax his 
 neighbours for <;he upkeep of 'limself 
 and his family. If he lives simply 
 he lives surely, also honestly and 
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 beneficently, and that no thriftless 
 person ever does, or ever will do, 
 while the world lasts. 
 
 It is not young men and women 
 brought up in the practice of thrft, 
 and accustomed to simple and whole- 
 some ways of life, who are afraid to 
 marry because they cannot have a 
 large house, and surround themselves 
 with expensive furniture, and indulge 
 in a hundred luxuries, and begin 
 upon the levol where their father 
 and mother have ended. Marriage 
 in what is called society is decreasing 
 because young men and women are 
 afraid, not of poverty, but of sim- 
 plicity, and desire not comfort, but 
 luxury, because they have not learned 
 to save, and because they are not 
 prepared to save ; and therefore many 
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 young women are growing shallow, 
 and affected, and cynical, and fast, and 
 many young men calculating, selHsh, 
 soft and vicious. Thriftlessne^ . there- 
 fore has its Nemesis, thouj,^h it seems 
 the most venial of sins, in wasted 
 hearts, which is worse than wasted 
 money; in worldly lives, which is 
 worse than want of prudence. 
 
 Thrifty people consider together 
 their ways and means, and keep their 
 expenditure well within their income. 
 It is not they who run into debt and 
 have large accounts with tradesmen ; 
 who are continually receiving dunning 
 letters, and have to humble them- 
 selves with false, cringing excuses; 
 who keep poor shopkeepers out of 
 their money and bring them often to 
 bankruptcy; who if they pay any- 
 
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 thing will sooner pay their wine mer- 
 chant than their doctor, and who if 
 they had a little money at hand would 
 rather make up a party for a horse 
 race or a theatre than give it to the 
 best cause that ever asked for help. 
 Luxurious people often carry a high 
 head, looking down on tradesfolk 
 and on their quieter neighbours ; but 
 at any rate it was the tradespeople 
 who threatened them, not they the 
 tradespeople, and if their neighbours 
 be quiet, at least they pay their debts ; 
 and I had rather be the greengrocer 
 in my little shop who was cheated 
 than "^e fashionable woman in her 
 carriage who cheated him. 
 
 Will people never understand that 
 whether we live simply or extrav- 
 agantly, whether we pay our debts at 
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 once or after several years, whether 
 we use the means God has given us 
 for selfish or noble ends, is really a 
 moral question? The thriftless 
 nation, the thriftless family, the 
 thriftless person has broken one of 
 the laws, both of nature and of Christ 
 and will suffer punishment in deca- 
 dence of character, in loss of self- 
 respect, and in callousness of honour 
 While the frugal and careful man is 
 blessed to-day with peace of mind 
 and a good conscience, and the 
 respect of those neighbours who 
 know the difference between sham 
 and reality, between truth and false- 
 hood. 
 
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GRATITUDE 
 
Gratitude 
 
 It is pleasant to come upon a cluster 
 of Alpine flowers blooming amid a 
 waste of snow, and it is with the 
 same feeling one reads what the town 
 of Jabesh-Gilead did for Saul in the 
 iron age of Jewish history. It is one 
 of the Idylls of the Old Testament. 
 The connection between this place in 
 the rough country beyond Jordan 
 and the King of Israel was established 
 long before Saul began his ill-fated 
 career, and is a romantic story. The 
 Tribe of Benjamin had so offended 
 the rough conscience of Israel by 
 sheltering shameless criminals that it 
 was almost exterminated, and the 
 survivors were forbidden to marry 
 into other tribes. This mciint that 
 there would soon be a tribe less in 
 Israel, and the heart of the nation 
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 was touched. Some expedient must 
 be found to supply Benjamin with 
 wives, and since Jabesh-Gilead hid 
 not joined in the war, and was 
 supposed to be friendly to the 
 offending tribe, the men of Israel 
 seized four hundred young women 
 of the place and handed them over 
 to Benjamin. The women carried 
 off in this fashion linked together 
 Benjamin and Jabesh-Gilead, and a 
 tradition of friendship v^as created, 
 something like that which existed, 
 through marriage also, between the 
 Scots and the French. 
 
 Pass about three centuries, and 
 Jabesh-Gilead is in sore trouble. The 
 ancient enemy of their nation had 
 attacked this outlying, lonely place, 
 and offered its inhabitants the alter- 
 
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 native of hopeless resistance or a 
 shameful humiliation. In straits, 
 they bethought themselves of their 
 hereditary kinsmen of Benjamin, and 
 sent a swift embassy to Saul, who 
 was already known as "a mighty 
 man of valour." He came to meet 
 them like another Cincinnatus from 
 the plough, and on the hearing of 
 their story the Spirit of God descended 
 upon Saul. He killed his oxen, 
 which he would never need again, 
 and sent the fragments as a fiery cross 
 through Israel. The heart of the 
 nation was stirred, and in a few days 
 Saul was at the head of the army of 
 Israel. He bade Jabesh-Gilead be 
 of good courage, for help was at hand, 
 and the people waited for him as the 
 little garrison of Lucknow for their 
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 deliverers. Saul came and smote the 
 Ammonites with such calculated skill, 
 that there were not two of them left 
 together. It was Saul's maiden 
 victory and a splendid feat of arms, 
 and oo the old tie, rudely formed 
 long ago, was re-knit by this friendly 
 succour in time of need. 
 
 Pass some forty years now, and 
 Saul's day of trouble has come, and 
 the gallant king lies dead on the field 
 of Gilboa. The Philistines were not 
 generous foes, and Saul had been the 
 hammer of their race. When they 
 found his body, they cut ofF his head, 
 whom living they had been afraid to 
 meet, and hung it in the Temple of 
 Dagan ; they fastened his body to 
 the walls of Bcthshan, and placed his 
 armour in the house of the Goddess 
 
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 of the Grove. Alas for Saul ! The 
 armies of Israel were scattered, and 
 David was in hiding. Who is to 
 rpmember the fallen king and rescue 
 his remains from insult? There is 
 one place where his memory is green 
 and where mothers tell their children 
 what Saul did for their fathers in the 
 brave days of old. As soon as the 
 sad news of Gilboa reached distant 
 Jal jsh, her valiant men resolved to 
 do by Saul dead as he had done for 
 them living. They made a swift 
 night march to Bethshan, and 
 brought away the bodies of Saul and 
 his three sons. They buried their 
 ashes in a public place at Jabesh, and 
 they made great lamentation over 
 the king. Saul was laid to rest 
 among the people he had saved, and 
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 he had the best of all monuments — 
 the people's gratitude. 
 
 It is the custom nowadays to 
 criticise the defective morality of the 
 Old Testament, and nothing is easier 
 than to make comparisons to our 
 advantage between the ways of the 
 generations past and our own. How 
 fierce and revengeful, how callous 
 and brutal were the heroes of Hebrew 
 history in the ighting period ! And 
 so the modern, with his dainty senti- 
 ment and effusive philanthropy, is 
 inclined to treat those hard-fisted 
 fighters as savages ; but he forgets the 
 age they lived in and the work they 
 had to do. Without doubt painting 
 is a more delicate art than hewing, 
 but until the stone be quarried and 
 cut there will be no walls to paint, 
 
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 and the men of the former days 
 blasted the stone with sweat and 
 danger and laid the strong founda- 
 tion of the Kingdom of Righteous- 
 ness. It is easy for us at a later 
 stage to decorate the rough-hewn 
 walls which Ironsides built sword in 
 hand, and to add the tenderer graces 
 of Christianity to their more austere 
 virtues. Are we certain that while 
 we have gained we have not also lost, 
 and that while we despise the past 
 for its rudeness we have not allowed 
 some of its strength to stay i" There 
 are virtues which belong to a golden 
 and are 
 
 age 
 
 hardly possil 
 
 age of iron, and such are mercy and 
 charity. Let us put those achieve- 
 ments of advanced civilisation to our 
 credit, but let us remember that the 
 
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 history of morals is not one of 
 unbroken progress. The simpler 
 times had their own virtues, which 
 ' ve not always been carried forward, 
 and do not always take kindly to our 
 climate. There are extinct animals 
 and there are extinct arts. If we do 
 not give heed in our softer days, 
 there may come to be extinct virtues; 
 and one that is in danger of starvation 
 amid the complacence and toleration 
 of modern life is gratitude. 
 
 It was this way in the old days, to 
 which we may transport ourselves at 
 a time for change of air. If ati^ one 
 ha«.'. done you or yours a bad turn 
 with malicious intentions, then you 
 did not pretend to forget his injurious 
 deed, but rather made it a matter of 
 conscience to remember it. You 
 
Gratitude 
 
 followed your enemy with unwearied 
 hatred, and when the opportunity 
 came you paid him back with interest 
 for what he had done unto you. If, 
 on the other hand, anyone helped 
 you or yours in a strait of life, then 
 were you bound to him with hooks 
 of steel. You gave him the loyalty 
 of your heart, and were ready at any 
 Hiie to stand by his side, and if God 
 1 His mercy afforded you the chance, 
 ou rewarded this man an hundred- 
 fuid for the kindness which he had 
 shown unto you or to your father. 
 The history of Israel abounds with 
 instances of traditional hatred, such 
 as the vendetta against the Amale- 
 kites, whom the Jews slew without 
 mercy, because the Amalekites had 
 fallen on their fathers as they went 
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 up from Egypt to the land of Canaan; 
 such as the friendship to the Kenites, 
 who must be spared because they 
 guided the children of Israel on their 
 march through the wilderness. What 
 as done on the larger scale of 
 national ii.'e has also been seen in 
 many a transmitted feud and many a 
 bequeathed debt of private life. Some 
 may be living who can recall the day 
 when people hated their enemies and 
 loved their friends after the good old 
 fashion, and perhaps they are inclined 
 to thank God that a better state of 
 feeling now obtains, and that we do 
 not live in a state of perpetual feud. 
 Certainly we ought to be thankful 
 for every decrease in malice, bitter- 
 ness, and revenge, and for the spread 
 of a kindly and forgiving temper. 
 
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Gratitude 
 
 We must not, however, plume our- 
 selves too much upon our charity, 
 nor use that fine word forgiveness 
 too loosely. If a woman is willing 
 to pocket any past affront to gain an 
 ignoble entrance into a higher social 
 circle, and will accept an invitation 
 from those who once insulted her, or 
 if a merchant will do business greedily 
 for the sake of a hundred pounds 
 with a firm which did their best to 
 ruin him in some crisis of trade, do 
 not let us ascribe this poor spirit to 
 the influence of Christ's Cross, nor 
 count this meanness any improve- 
 ment on the Judges who washed out 
 their wrongs in blood and did not 
 sell their forgiveness for a dinner or 
 a purse of gold. It is cant to say 
 that the average man of the world is 
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 more merciful than our uncompro- 
 mising forefatliers ; he is more 
 cautious, more politic, more worldly, 
 more cowardly. Besides, we can 
 never get rid of a vice without the 
 risk of weakening its corresponding 
 virtue. Granted, if you please, that 
 we are less vindictive; will anyone 
 say that we are as grateful? Do parents 
 inculcate the quality of gratitude 
 upon their children as one of the 
 leading obligations of life? Are 
 masters and servants bound together 
 to-day by this ancient tie? Does 
 our popular literature exalt this duty 
 as did the Hebrew writers ? Has 
 not the worst cynicism of modern 
 times been distilled into that proverb 
 which is so often heard, " Gratitude 
 is a lively sense of favours to come " ? 
 
Gratitude 
 
 Can anyone deny that the sense of 
 debt to those who have rendered 
 service either to our people or our- 
 selves nas weakened ? Has it not 
 come to this, that in the past men 
 hated their enci.iies and loved their 
 friends, but now we forgive our 
 enemies and forget our friends ? 
 
 There are three persons short of 
 the Highest who have established 
 upon each one of us an unanswerable 
 claim of gratitude, and one too often 
 forgotten is the public servant of the 
 State. If anyone surrenders his 
 favourite tastes and sacrifices his time 
 and devotes his talents to do for uf 
 either in the Parliament of the city or 
 of the realm, what must be done yet 
 what w cannot do for ourselves, are 
 not we that man's debtor? Is it 
 
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 right to sit upon this man like a jury 
 upon a criminal, to oppose the best 
 thing he wishes to do, because he 
 does not belong to cur party, though 
 we be all of the same State, to 
 embitter his life with insinuations, 
 denunciations, and gibes, and to forget 
 in some hour of popular disfavour his 
 long, patient, faithful services ? It is 
 natural that people should have their 
 political leaning ; it is base that they 
 should not vie in gratitude to every 
 man, patrician or plebeian, who has 
 done well by the Commonwealth, and 
 who seeks no other reward than the 
 approval of his conscience and the 
 approbation of his fellow-citizens. 
 
 The second person can easily be 
 found in any society, and perhaps 
 most easily in a commercial city. 
 
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Gr^ititude 
 
 You began life— let me put the case 
 —poor and lonely, with no help save 
 God's and the friend whom He gave 
 you. This man took you by the 
 hand, and aided you with advice, 
 inf-^ductions, business, and private 
 kindness. It is an old story now, 
 and the wheel of fortune has revolved, 
 so that you who were poor are rich, 
 and the one who was rich died poor. 
 God has given to you the opportunity 
 of showing the stuff of which your 
 heart is made, and of tasting the 
 sweetest pleasure within human reach 
 —doing good to them who have done 
 good to us. What care have you 
 had of your benefactor's widow, what 
 service have you rendered to his son? 
 Have you been to them what their 
 father was to you.? Shame on the 
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 ingrate who could forget the friends 
 of early days, or deny his debt of 
 obligation ! Shame on the womaii 
 who casts off her old neighbours 
 because she has got among richer 
 people and stands a few inches higher 
 in the social scale. There are none 
 so true as the friends of our adversity, 
 none so fickle as the friends of our 
 prosperity. 
 
 And tiie third person to whom 
 you owe more than you can ever pay 
 or ever imagine, is your mother. 
 She endured more for you, served 
 you more patiently, loved you more 
 fondly, thought of you more con- 
 stantly, and hoped for you more 
 bravely, than any other person you 
 have known on earth, or ever will 
 know save your wife (or your hus- 
 
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 band), if indeed they can always be 
 excepted. If your mother be spared 
 to you, then are you bound to make 
 her a first charge on your Hfe as you 
 desire a peaceful conscience and as 
 you shall answer before the Judgment 
 Seat of God. She must be encom- 
 passed with every observance of 
 comfort, and honour, and gentleness, 
 and love. With sacrifices also, if so 
 be it will please her, of tastes, and 
 occupation, and time, and even 
 friendships, and after you have done 
 all that you can think of and any one 
 can suggest, you will still remain a 
 hopeless bankrupt, for the love 
 wherewith she loved you. If she 
 has passed from this life, and is now 
 with God, then keep the command- 
 ments which she laid upon you in 
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 your youth, though now you be a 
 grey-headed man, and follow in her 
 steps, even as she followed Christ. 
 Honour all women and serve them 
 in purity and chivalry for her sake, 
 and may your tongue cleave to the 
 roof of your mouth and your right 
 hand lose its cunning, may your name 
 be blotted from he Lamb's Book of 
 Life, and your portion be taken from 
 among the inheritance of the saints, 
 if while she is living you sin against 
 your mother, or if she be dead you 
 forget her love. 
 
VI 
 
 REVERENCE 
 
Reverence 
 
 
 Mr. BurKLE, in that brilliant frag- 
 ment ofliterature, " The History of 
 Civilisation," has, no doubt, fallen 
 into the vice of generalisation, and is 
 too apt to dazzle his readers by 
 plausible conclusions, but he has 
 sense upon his side in pointing out 
 the influence of climate on the 
 character of nations. It would be 
 too much to say that to know a 
 people's physical environment is to 
 infer their religious creed, for you 
 would be hampered by an embarrass- 
 ing wealth of exceptions, and yet the 
 complexion of creeds has not been 
 unaffected by scenery. Within the 
 Catholic Church the worship of the 
 Madonna has risen to its height in 
 Europe with the degrees of the 
 thermometer, being most reserved 
 
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 amid the northern Germans, most 
 exuberant among the southern 
 Italians. In no circumstance is it 
 likely that the inhabitants of the 
 steaming valley of the Nile could 
 have as sttrn a faith as the lonely 
 inhabitants of the veldt. Nor could 
 one expect the same outlook upon 
 religion fioni a Scots Highlander, 
 living at the foot of hills along which 
 the mists are moving, and on the 
 edge of a melancholy ocean, as from 
 an Italian, whose house is set in an 
 orange grove, where a blue, tideless 
 sea breaks on the beach with gentle 
 murmur. It is almost inevitable that 
 the inhabitants of a soft climate 
 should be touched with the spirit of 
 joyful confidence and those of colder 
 skies should develop a certain aus- 
 terity of faith. 
 
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 One may avail himself of Mr. 
 Buckle's idea, and suggest that the 
 religious climate changes with the 
 generations, and has more bracing 
 and more relaxing /.ones. It goes 
 without saying that while faith in its 
 essence mi'st ever be the same, the 
 particular standpoint of our fathers 
 is not that of their children. They 
 dwelt upon the depravity of human 
 nature, the horror of sin, the holiness 
 of God, the helplessness of the soul, 
 the sovereignty of the Divine Mercy, 
 and the unsearchable purpose of the 
 Divine Will, themes full of awe and 
 majesty. Therefore did they humble 
 themselves before God and cast their 
 souls upon His pity. They sought 
 anxiously for a ground of pardon, 
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 and searched themselves for signs of 
 the Divine calling. They dared not 
 boast of His favour, but they walked 
 humbly before Him and hoped for 
 His salvations. Theirs was an inward, 
 intense, and lowly religion. We are 
 inclined to dwell on the possibilities 
 of human nature, the wide hope of 
 the Incarnation, the revelation of the 
 Divine Fatherhood, the compass of 
 God's love, the full assurance of 
 faith, the joy of the present life, and 
 the glory of the life to come. Our 
 religion is, therefore, more out- 
 spoken, unfettered, high - spirited. 
 About the saint of the former day 
 it was written, " he feared God "; 
 but of our good man you read in his 
 biography that he was a " bright " 
 or a " happy " Christian. 
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 It is futile to recall days v nirh are 
 gone, or to reproduce theii ir.oods, 
 for the time spirit bloweth wnere ic 
 listeth, and, rightly used, it is the 
 spirit of God. We have cause to be 
 thankful, because we have learned 
 not to despair of our race, to think 
 of our fellow men as brethren, and 
 to remember that a man has more to 
 do in this world than save his own 
 soul. Our religion is less morbid, 
 gloomy, introspective, and selfish; 
 but there are times when, looking 
 out through the palms upon this 
 expanse of blue, one wearies for the 
 strong salt air of the Atlantic and the 
 grandeur of the hills when the sun 
 shines through the mist. One is 
 haunted with the conviction that if in 
 our day we have gained joy and 
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 charity, we have lost in devoutness 
 and humility, and that we have 
 almost bidden good-bye to rev- 
 erence. 
 
 Religious problems were once dis- 
 cussed with impressive seriousness 
 by men who were standing in the 
 holy place and speaking in the pres- 
 ence of the Most High. We prefer 
 to discuss them in fiction, which 
 seems to have no restraint and 
 sometimes no decency, in the pages 
 of enterprising serials, in clever 
 dinner-talk over the walnuts and the 
 wine. Once men prayed to God, as 
 Abraham did for Sodom, with chas- 
 tened voice, and humbled themselves 
 before Him, like Isaiah in the holy 
 place, and waited for Him as those 
 that watch for the morning. Then 
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 the name of God was seldom used, 
 and the soul was a sanctuary, into 
 which none but its Maker had a 
 right to enter, and religion might not 
 be lightly handled in common talk. 
 Religious people of to-day, i„ pro- 
 portion to their fervour, allow them- 
 selves to shout the name of the 
 Almighty without any term of adora- 
 tion, to paddle among the sacred 
 affairs of the soul with rude, intrusive 
 hands, to introduce the son of God 
 into the squalid situations , ,mon 
 
 life, and to make allusions o, ghastly 
 familiarity to the Third Person of 
 the Holy Trinity. It seems as if 
 the curtain were being torn down 
 from the holiest of all, and the place 
 where the glory of God rests in human 
 hfe, turned into a common street. 
 
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 Can we wonder if religion has lost 
 the saving sense of reverence ? that 
 its influence upon the people is 
 failing? that the public worsliip of 
 God is decreasing in every land, and 
 that even if a crowd gather to hear a 
 sermon, they will not come to pray ? 
 that the day of rest which God has 
 given unto men, when once a week 
 at least men may have quietness 
 wherein to examine their souls and 
 bring them into touch with thi ' ngs 
 which are unseen, is being crowded 
 with business and pleasure ? that 
 the head of the household no longer 
 builds his altar unto God, and gathers 
 his family round it as they journey 
 through this world to that which is 
 to come ? that the spirit o':' prayer, 
 by which the human soul is bound 
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 by golden chains unto the feet of 
 God, is dying out from amongst us ? 
 that with every year a lower view 
 is taken of the mystery of marriage, 
 and fewer people seek the blessing 
 of God upon that sacred act, which 
 they are coming to regard as nothing 
 but a civil contract? and, which is 
 not the least calamity, that the bonds 
 of filial piety are being loosed before 
 our eyes, so that parents are ceasing 
 to use their authority as the vice- 
 gerents of God, and children do not 
 pretend to render that becoming 
 obedience which is one of the beauties 
 of youth? 
 
 What strikes one trying to gauge 
 
 the spirit of the day is an appalling 
 
 want of gravity. Not only young 
 
 or silly people, but almost every 
 
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 person is infected with a spirit of 
 intellectual frivolity. Books have 
 had to give the second place to 
 magazines, and serials themselves are 
 beirg swamped by the most trifling 
 papers. The drama has abandoned 
 the nobler themes, both of instructive 
 comedy and wholesome tragedy, and 
 can find no other subject than the 
 degradation of pure love and the 
 ridicule of the marriage state. No 
 subject, either social or political, is 
 thought out with care and conscience 
 till its principles be discovered, but 
 is rather turned into a popular catch- 
 word or a mercenary appeal. And 
 the mind of the people, untrained by 
 thinking, and unwilling to listen to 
 anything except clever, cheap, sophis- 
 tical talk, is carried away now in one 
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 direction, now in another, and 
 expends itself in gusty moods of 
 unreasoning rage or ignoble enthu- 
 siasm. 
 
 Without reverence for the Eternal 
 verities, many calamities must befall 
 a people. And certainly without 
 this fear no man can do lasting work. 
 Mr. Stopford Brooke, in his admir- 
 able monograph on Tennyson — itself 
 one of the most beautiful pieces of 
 literary work of recent years — insists 
 that one of the conditions of Tenny- 
 son's eminence was his reverence. 
 He was impressed by the greatness 
 of his Art, and could not do anything 
 slightly or unworthily. The masters 
 of physical science, as distinguished 
 from its second-rate compilers, have 
 been animated with the same austere 
 
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 spirit — taking the shoes from off 
 their feet before their burning bush, 
 the mysterious and irresistible powers 
 of Nature. He who is pert and 
 forward, puffed up with slight attain- 
 ments and unawed by the vastness 
 of knowledge, will never come to 
 any perfection nor be admitted into 
 the secret place of wisdom. It is the 
 student who stands before the house 
 of knowledge, modest, patient, single- 
 minded, conscious only of his own 
 poverty and the unspeakable riches 
 within, to whom Wisdom will open 
 her gates, and on whom she will 
 bestow her hidden treasures. 
 
 " Make knowledge circle with the wind, 
 But let her herald reverence fly 
 Before her to whatever sky 
 Bears seed of men and growth of 
 minds." 
 
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 Reverence is also one of the sure 
 foundations of character, for without 
 It one may indeed have many glitter- 
 ing and superficial traits of cleverness 
 and ingenuity, of bright emotion and 
 restless energy, but he cannot have 
 illumination of conscience, dignity of 
 soul, sincerity of mind, and the 
 highest purity of life. Nor is it 
 likely that one can obtain the gracious 
 qualities of sympathy, charity, and 
 sacrifice. It is only as the soul is 
 bowed before the things which are 
 lovely that it will carry itself both 
 bravely and tenderly. Do we realise 
 how poorly we sometimes show besides 
 the type of former days ? " Benev- 
 olence," says one well able to speak, 
 " uprightness, enterprise, intellectual 
 honesty, a love of freedom and a 
 
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 hatred of superstition are growing 
 around us; but we look in vain for 
 that most beautiful character of the 
 past, so distrustful of self, so trustful 
 of others, so simple, so modest, so 
 devout, which even when, Ixion-like, 
 it bestowed its affections on a cloud, 
 made its very illusions the source of 
 some of the purest virtues of our 
 nature." 
 
 And revc'-e :, lies at the root of 
 right living, for one of the first prin- 
 ciples of conduct is obedience. If 
 we do not learn when young the 
 habit of respect, to honour our father 
 and our mother, to obey those set 
 over us without questioning or 
 grudging, to give precedence to age, 
 both in our speaking and our doing, 
 to admit the sacred claim of suffering 
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 and affliction, and to bow ourselves 
 before the highest rank on earth, the 
 splendour of moral goodness, then 
 for us no perfection of soul will ever 
 be possible. For us there is likely 
 in the future many a squalid defeat, 
 and perhaps some irrevocable moral 
 catastrophe. The irreverence of 
 youth grows into the profanity and 
 rebellion of later years, and is the 
 parent of anarchy, both in the family 
 and in the State. " It is," says 
 Ruskin, " his restraint which is hon- 
 ourable to r not his liberty. . . . 
 From the mmistering of the Ar- 
 changel to the labour of the insect, 
 from the poising of the planets to the 
 gravitation of a grain of dust, the 
 power and glory of all creatures, and 
 all matter, consist in their obedience, 
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 not in their freedom. The sun has 
 no liberty — a dead leaf has much. 
 The dust of which you are formed 
 has no liberty. Its liberty will come 
 — with its corruption." 
 
 And, therefore, I say boldly, though 
 it seems a strange thing to say in 
 England, that as the first power of a 
 nation consists in knowing how to 
 guide the Plough, its second power 
 consists in knowing how to wear the 
 Fetter. 
 
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VII 
 MORAL COURAGE 
 
Moral Courage 
 
 Moral courage is obeying one's 
 conscience, and doing what one be- 
 lieves to be right in face of a hostile 
 majority ; ind moral cowardice is 
 stifling one's conscience, and doing 
 what is less than right to win other 
 people's favour. It is a calamity 
 both in Church and State that this 
 high-spirited virtue is not more 
 common, and that opportunism is so 
 general. Men are wanted every- 
 where with the courage of their con- 
 victions, who will not trim their sails 
 to every popular gale, nor change 
 their creed at anyone's bidding, but 
 will follow conscience through fire 
 and water. Such stalwarts of prin- 
 ciple like St. Paul telling the Corin- 
 thians that their judgment was a very 
 small thing to him ; like Athanasius, 
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 standing alone against the world ; like 
 Luther declaring " I can do no other 
 wise ;" like John Knox steeling him- 
 self before the tears of a Queen, are 
 rare in human society. What haunts 
 one in political speeches is the idea 
 that the speaker is not declaring the 
 best thing he knows, but is tickling 
 the ears of the groundlings. What 
 pains one in many a sermon is the 
 suspicion that the preacher must 
 know more than he savs, and that he 
 has tuned his voice to the prejudices 
 of his people. What weakens the 
 power of the press — that fine instru- 
 ment for popular education — is the 
 certainty that its leader-writers are 
 perfectly aware of the ability and 
 honesty of the other side, but argue 
 
 as if they were fools or knaves in 
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 order to please their party, and the 
 moral power of society is reduced by 
 the large number of people who hold 
 their consciences in subjection to 
 social expediency. Your neighbour 
 may have convictions which he has 
 purchased with the blood of his 
 heart, and for which, on due occasion, 
 he would be ready to suffer, but you 
 cannot be sure of the fact if it 
 happens that his opinions are always 
 those of the majority. As far as you 
 can see he maintains an attitude of 
 guarded neutrality, till it appears on 
 what side the majority lies, and then 
 their opinion turns out to be what 
 he has always held ; but if that 
 majority should dwindle into a 
 minority, your neighbour has a mind 
 open to education. How many of 
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 one's acquaintances have grit enough 
 to form a conviction on a matter of 
 right, and to defend righteousness 
 when unrighteousness is popular ? 
 One in six is as many as could be 
 expected, but it is not necessary to 
 impute wilful dishonesty to the other 
 five, or to suggest that they have 
 outraged their conscience. They 
 ! ave simply trained their conscience 
 to calculate by numbers, and to 
 identify righteousness with the 
 majority vote. They would not have 
 hated Christ in the year thirty-three, 
 but they would never have crossed 
 the rabble which yelped for His cruci- 
 fixion. They are not bad people, 
 they may be good-natured and well- 
 meaning people — they are simply 
 without backbone — moral cowards ! 
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 Suppose, to make a study in moral 
 cowardice, your friend has agreed 
 with you in the morning to follow a 
 certain line of action, because it is 
 right, and there is not much differ- 
 ence among intelligent men about 
 righteousness. An hour afterwards 
 he meets A, who has a biting tongue, 
 and ridicules your action. B, who is 
 a very rich man, says a little later 
 that he at least will have nothing- to 
 do with it. Later still C declares 
 that it will be very unpopular, and 
 hour by hour various letters of the 
 alphabet attack, disown, and condemn 
 what you intended to do. None of 
 the letters represent much conscience, 
 and none of the arguments touch the 
 moral question, but they have the 
 cumulative effect of suggesting to 
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 your friend that if he does this thing 
 he will be made uncomfortable. His 
 resolution crumbles away before this 
 flood, and in the evening the fashion 
 of his countenance has altered. On 
 thinking over the matter, he now sees 
 some difficulty, and feels that it would 
 be well to wait a little. You remind 
 him that this is not a matter of 
 expediency, but of justice. " Quite 
 so," he says, " no doubt, but—" and 
 he hesitates. You know then that 
 he has been sending up kites all day 
 to see how the wind is blowing, and 
 that he has no mind to go in its 
 teeth. It is a collapse of conscience, 
 and your friend does not propose to 
 cast in his lot with a minority of one. 
 He shambles off inwardly ashamed, 
 but he will not face that combination 
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 of letters. Germans in the middle 
 ages were terrified by a mysterious 
 institution called the Vehm-Gerichte, 
 which veiled itself in mystery, and 
 administered a rude justice to wrong- 
 doers. People's imagination was 
 appalled at the thought of a body 
 which surrounded them on every 
 side, and took notice of their smallest 
 action. The Vehm-Gerichte of our 
 time is opinion, which by its potent 
 and intangible influence holds most 
 people in bondage. In the Church 
 it is called orthodoxy (or it may be 
 heterodoxy) ; in politics, party ; in 
 society, fashion; in trade, custom. 
 Its authority lies in combination and 
 impersonality. Our fellow men, 
 taken one by one, are not very 
 impressive personages, neither much 
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 wiser nor much better than ourselves, 
 but let them slip on the mask and 
 mount the judgment seat, with this 
 sanction, " ^-eople say," and the 
 average person makes an abject sur- 
 render. 
 
 Moral courage has four degrees, 
 and the first is not to be afraid of 
 your opponents. This is really no 
 great attainment, for he does not 
 deserve the name of man who can be 
 browbeaten by scolding or threaten- 
 ing. Insolence of this sort is not 
 unwelcome, for it stiffens resolution 
 and rouses pride, and delivers one 
 from the snare of compromise, and 
 sets one with his back to the wall. 
 If one is to be tried, let him pray for 
 an unscrupulous and venomous antag- 
 onist. It is a higher degree of 
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 courage not to fear your friends. 
 Hundreds who arc as strong as a 
 rock to resist those who hate them 
 are as weak as water in the hands of 
 those who love them. Oh, the sor- 
 row of it that we should be tempted 
 to do something less than what is 
 right by those whom we trust, and 
 hindered from doing the highest 
 thing we know by those who love us 
 most. Many a woman shrinks from 
 duty for fear of her husband— the 
 amazement on his face ; many a hus- 
 band falls beneath himself for fear of 
 his wife — the amazement on her 
 face. So they who have stolen our 
 hearts sometimes also steal our cour- 
 age. He is braver still who does 
 not fear the Cross of Christ; who 
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 wit*' Christ about truth or duty; 
 who puts no personal inclinations, 
 no family ties, no class custom*, no 
 business profit above Christ, who 
 will follow anywhere when Christ 
 leads, and do anything that Christ 
 commands. But the highest courage 
 of all is not to be afraid about one's 
 self. Is there any more admirable 
 instance of manliness than St. Augus- 
 tine's searching out the mistakes in 
 his writings, and recanting them 
 before he died, for there is nothing 
 we are more concerned about than 
 our reputation, nothing v/e are more 
 unwilling to do than to confess that 
 we were wrong. When anyone is 
 brave enough to unsay the worse for 
 the better, then surely he is a true 
 man, and will stand fast for right- 
 eousness. 
 
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 Certain people have special need 
 of moral courage, and one is a young 
 man in the city. His safest plan is 
 to bid good-bye to compromise, and 
 not to burden himself with an excess 
 of courtesy in the hour of tempta- 
 tion. A tempter is most quickly 
 daunted when he is most roughly 
 handled. Have nothing to do under 
 any excuse with drinking men, is 
 sound advice ; allow no fool to blas- 
 pheme religion in your hearing; 
 come down upon the beast who tells 
 an evil story ; cast your shield over 
 the weak comrade who is ready to 
 fall. There are times when a hot 
 temper and a sharp tongue are good 
 servants to the Kingdom of God, 
 and when war to the death is the 
 wisest policy. The second person 
 
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 is a woman in society, for women are 
 apt sometimes to be sad cowards. 
 They are afraid to dress as their ' .-st 
 friends would like to see them, 
 because it would be i m fashionable ; 
 afraid to give simple dinners, because 
 their neighbours are extravagant; 
 afraid .0 allow their daughters to 
 wor!; for themselves, because it might 
 iuwer their station ; afraid to give a 
 children's party without wine, because 
 they might be thought stingy ; afraid 
 to have their poor relations in the 
 house, because of the servants ; 
 afraid to be economical, because of 
 the same critics. They are in bon- 
 dage to all kinds of people, from 
 their rich neighbour to their house- 
 maid. One wonders that some 
 woman does not pluck up courage 
 
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 and say, " I don't care what people 
 may think, 1 am going t(. .^o what 1 
 judge to be right." If she only 
 dared, that woman would find a 
 dozen in her circle to follow in her 
 steps, and her courage would rein- 
 force the moral capital of a district. 
 And a third person is the member of 
 a poor Communion, who needs cour- 
 age that he may not deny his faith. 
 If any Christian discovers that his 
 soul will be better cared for in 
 another than the church of his 
 nativity, then let him emigrate at 
 once, for religion is more than 
 churches. But for a man to desert 
 the church in which he was bred for 
 no other reason than that another is 
 more fashionable, is being ashamed 
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 risen in life, and comes very near to 
 the sin of Judas Iscariot. It reveals 
 a character of soul unfit for Christ's 
 kingdom, and this mean spirit, if it 
 spread, would poison religion in its 
 life-blood. Such treachery inflicts a 
 double injury, embittering the church 
 the coward leaves with a sense of 
 wrong, and infecting the church he 
 joins with a suspicion of worldliness. 
 Every man ought to make conscience 
 of his faith, and he who is true to his 
 church, although the sun be not 
 shining upon her, even unto the loss 
 of position and goods, has given the 
 surest pledge that he will be faithful 
 to his Lord and be a good citizen of 
 the Commonwealth. 
 
 The vindication of moral courage 
 is in the judgment of God, and when 
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 anyone stands alone for conscience 
 sake, we do not well to be angry 
 with him, and we must not be found 
 fighting against him. If his con- 
 science be overscrupulous, then let 
 us see that we deal gently with him 
 and give him more light— rendering 
 thanks to God that the man has so 
 much conscience, and remembering 
 that no community can have too 
 much among its members. If the 
 man's conscience be sound, then as 
 we would not war against God Him- 
 self, let us be careful not to injure 
 this witness. He may be a reformer 
 before the Reformation, running like 
 John the Baptist to make the way 
 for Christ ; he may be a trustee, 
 holding a moral heritage for our 
 children; he may be a sentry, 
 
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 keeping watch where the enemy will 
 creep in the darkness. It matters 
 nothing that power and numbers, as 
 well as the voice of the mob, are 
 against this man. Their verdict is 
 neither infallible nor final ; St. Paul 
 has the better of Felix now, and 
 Luther of the Diet of Worms. 
 What do they think of this solitary 
 man yonder whence they can look 
 down and see this world 
 
 " Spin like a fretful midge." 
 What if the principalities and powers 
 of God, if the great cloud of wit- 
 nesses, and the multitude no man 
 can number, are with this lonely 
 confessor. He dared to say " right," 
 and his poor voice is drowned for 
 the moment by the clamour of the 
 world ; but let no one think it has 
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 been silenced, or is ever going to be 
 silenced. His word proceeds upon 
 its journey through the illimitable 
 reaches of space ; it gathers force as 
 it goe> where the brawling of foolish 
 men has long died away ; it is echoed 
 from one world after another as it 
 passes, and at last reverberates from 
 the Throne of the Most High, like 
 the sound of many waters. This is 
 the Magna Charta of moral freedom ; 
 here is a ground where the weakest 
 may stand alone. We are not the 
 subjects of some petty province, we 
 are the citizens of a greater Rome. 
 If Jewish courts denied St. Paul his 
 rights, or Roman judges forgot jus- 
 tice, then he had his own' proud 
 resort : " I appeal unto C^sar," and 
 once those words had passed his lips 
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 none dare do him hurt. It was to 
 Caesar he had appealed and to Cssar 
 he must go. So from the petty cus- 
 toms and passing opinions of this 
 world the righteous man makes his 
 appeal to the Judge of all, and if 
 God shall justify him, it is a small 
 matter although the whole world has 
 condemned him. 
 
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VIII 
 COURTESY 
 
Courtesy 
 
 When Matthew Arnold was preach- 
 ing culture to the Philistine multi- 
 tude with all the zeal of a missionary 
 and some of his inevitable narrowness, 
 he used to complain that people' 
 imagmed culture to be simply some 
 slight smattering of Greek and Latin. 
 And when one pleads for courtesy, 
 one IS afraid that people may suppose 
 that he IS simply meaning manners. 
 Mere manners are a code of etiquette 
 which varies in different countries 
 and with different ages, so that what 
 's rude m France may be usual in 
 t-ngland, and what we consider fool- 
 ishness in the West may be the custom 
 of the East. They constitute a body 
 of rules which condescend upon the 
 most trivial affairs-how it becomes 
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 carry ourselves, to speak to persons 
 of another rank, and to perform 
 public functions. With this sum of 
 minute and varying regulations the 
 teacher of religion has nothing to do, 
 because it has no ethical value, and 
 may be safely left to those remark- 
 able books in which an immortal 
 being is instructed how rightly to 
 address a letter to a baronet, or how 
 he ought to use a finger glass at 
 dinner. All the same, it is foolish 
 to flout the customs of society, for 
 they are intended upon the whole to 
 make life more agreeable, and to 
 compel a rude person to observe 
 decency of demeanour ; but a vast 
 distinction must be drawn between 
 manners, which have to do with form, 
 and that which lies behind manners 
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 and is infinitely more serious — cour- 
 tesy. One has known many people 
 whose manners, through the disad- 
 vantage of early days, or through a 
 certain desultoriness of nature, were 
 open to frequent criticism, and yet 
 he has loved them for their goodness. 
 One has also known people who 
 acquitted themselves perfectly in 
 every situation of social life, but who 
 were treacherous, cruel, selfish, and 
 evil-living. Certainly manners in 
 the common sense do not make the 
 man, for Charles II. had an almost 
 irresistible charm of personal address, 
 and George IV. was called the first 
 gentleman in Europe, while I fancy 
 there have been many prophets and 
 apostles who would have come to 
 grief amid the ways of a court. Are 
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 we not in danger of being biassed in 
 our judgment of our neighbour by 
 his outward carriage, and have we 
 not done great injustice, both by 
 allowing ourselves to be attracted by 
 really bad men, who are witty and 
 graceful, and to be repelled by really 
 good men, because they happen to 
 have neither tact nor humour ? It is 
 by the soul and not by any trick of 
 speech that we ought to estimate our 
 fellow man, and he who fears God 
 and loves his brother demands hon- 
 our at our hands. 
 
 We may, however, be gravely con- 
 cerned that manners in our day seem 
 to be decaying, because there is 
 reason to suspect that the cause is 
 moral quite as much as social. We 
 allow ourselves to treat our parents 
 
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 as our equals, to talk in public on 
 unpleasant subjects, to argue with 
 women beyond the point of due 
 deference, to introduce politics and 
 religion in general conversation, to 
 bawl and shout, and generally to be 
 loud in what we say and do. This 
 is understood to show the liberty of 
 modern life, when old-fashioned 
 scruples and pedantic dignity have 
 disappeared, and everybody has been 
 emancipated — children from respect 
 to their parents, youth from venera- 
 tion towards old age, men from 
 chivalry towards women, and a man 
 from the very respect of himself 
 Life is supposed to be brighter and 
 more piquant, but yet with all the 
 excellences which are assigned to the 
 new man, and the new woman, and 
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 the new child (who is often the most 
 offensive of the three), one may be 
 pardoned a backward look of wistful 
 regret to the gentleman of the olden 
 time. Perhaps he was a trifle formal 
 and tedious, but how admirable in 
 his urbanity of speech, his service of 
 women, his subordination to superiors, 
 his graciousness to inferiors, and his 
 unobtrusive reserve about the sancti- 
 ties of life ; and one remembers the 
 lady of the olden times, so soft of 
 voice, so winsome with her gracious 
 ways, so persuasive of purity by her 
 very face, so inspiring unto every 
 noble deed by her very presence, who 
 did not lift up her voice nor cause it 
 to be heard in the street. 
 
 It is not wise as a rule to make 
 comparisons between classes, but I 
 
Courtesy 
 
 am inclined to think that if it comes 
 to the spirit of courtesy, which Ins 
 behind all manners, that respectable 
 working people, say our artisans and 
 their wives, will make a betfcr show 
 than their masters and their wives 
 They will be less concerned about 
 their own dignity — which is always a 
 sign of vulgarity; they will have 
 more regard to the claims of other 
 people; they will be more anxious 
 not to hurt another's feelings, and 
 they will be quicker to render ser- 
 vices in the little exigencies of life ; 
 and all this is the fruit of courtesy. 
 Were any woman (and I count this 
 a perfect test) traveling with a younfj 
 child and some articles of luggage, it 
 would be better for her as a rule to 
 take a place in a third-class, rather 
 
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 than in a first-class carriage. The 
 chances are that among richer people 
 — unless they gathered from some- 
 thing she said or from her name 
 upon a dressing-case that she was a 
 person of distinction, in which case 
 they would take any trouble in exact 
 proportion to their own meanness — 
 that they would eye her with dis- 
 pleasure, convey to her that the child 
 was a nuisance, ignore the sfi .^,^le 
 with her luggage, and make her glad 
 to leave the compartment. Were 
 she to travel with an artisan and his 
 wife, they would bid her welcome, 
 and make her feel at home, and 
 anticipate her wants and encompass 
 her with observances, because she 
 was a lonely woman with a child. 
 And the service of a woman and a 
 
Courtesy 
 
 child is more ihan manners — is the 
 climax of courtesy. 
 
 Courtesy is really doing unto 
 others as you would be done unto, 
 and the heart of it lies in a careful 
 consideration for the feelings of other 
 people. It comes from putting one's 
 self in his neighbour's place, and 
 trying to enter into his mind, and it 
 demands a certain suppression of 
 one's self, and a certain delicate 
 sympathy with one's neighbour. So 
 far as our abounding egotism reigns, 
 we are bound to be discourteous, 
 because we shall be so blindly im- 
 mersed in our own affairs that we 
 cannot even see the things of others. 
 So far as we break the bonds of self 
 and project ourselves into the life of 
 our brother man, we are bound to be 
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 courteous, because we shall now be 
 interested in what is dear to him. 
 This man also has a family and a 
 business ; this man also has had sick- 
 nesses and trials. Imagine! We 
 must not therefore talk without 
 ceasing about our children, our 
 interests, our afflictions, our life. 
 This man also has a church, and a 
 creed, and opinions of his own, and 
 a history. Remarkable ! We must 
 not, therefore, assume that our kind 
 of religion, and our traditional views, 
 and our favourite notions, and our 
 particular set make the whole round 
 world. This man beside us also has 
 a hard fight with an unfavouring 
 world, with strong temptations, with 
 doubts and fears, with wounds of the 
 past which have skinned over, but 
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 which smart when they arc touched. 
 It is a fact. And when this occurs 
 to us we are moved to deal kindly 
 with him, to bid him be of good 
 cheer, to let him understand that we 
 are also fighting a battle, we axe bound 
 not to irritate him, nor press hardly 
 upon him, nor help his lower self 
 We must feel as a brother towards the 
 man beside us, and say to him the 
 things that we should like to have 
 said to us, and tr-rat him as we should 
 desire to be treated when our hands 
 arc hailing down and our hearts are 
 heavy. And this is the very essence 
 of courtesy. 
 
 Just because the machinery of life 
 is so apt to be heated, one keenly 
 appreciates those who are ever deftly 
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 patience and their tact, their sweet- 
 ness and their sympathy. And one 
 resents keenly that class of people 
 who are honest and well meaning, but 
 who are persistently discourteous 
 and are not ashamed — I mean the 
 man who is credited with what is 
 called a bluff, blunt manner, and who 
 credits himself with a special quality 
 of downrightness and straightfor- 
 wardness. He considers it far better 
 to say what he thinks, and boasts 
 that he never minces his words, and 
 people make all kinds of excuses tor 
 him, and rather talk as if he were a 
 very fine fellow, beside whom civil- 
 spoken persons are little better than 
 hypocrites. As a matter of fact, no 
 one can calculate the pain this out- 
 spoken gentleman causes in a single 
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 day, both in his family and outside. 
 Nor have I ever been able to under- 
 stand why he is praised, or even 
 tolerated, and why he is not sharply 
 dealt with as an offender against the 
 social peace. He is said to deal 
 faithfjlly with any person whom he 
 disapproves— it would be right to say 
 he deals insolently ; and what is 
 called faithfulness is, generally, unpar- 
 donable impudence. " His bark," 
 it is said, " is worse than his bite," 
 and one hopes it may be, but I do 
 not see what consolation it is for me, 
 when this ill-mannered person barks 
 at my heels, that he has not also 
 bitten me. I object to his barking, 
 and if he persists I am justified in 
 using a stick. No man has any 
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 intrude upon his neighbour's privacy, 
 or to wound his neighbour's feelings, 
 and when he does so in his role of 
 the plain-spoken man, then he ought 
 to be made to understand the differ- 
 ence between reality and rudeness, 
 and taught to keep a civil tongue in 
 his head. No doubt there are occa- 
 sions when courtesy is no longer an 
 obligation, but practically they may 
 be limited to a few experiences for- 
 tunately very rare in life. If any 
 man should so forget himself as to 
 speak disrespectfully of one's mother 
 or one's wife, or if anyone should set 
 himself deliberately to insult one's 
 religion, or if one should seek to 
 lead a person from the paths of vir- 
 tue, then it is not the time to pick 
 one's speech, or to safeguard this 
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 ruffian's sensibility. "Get thee 
 behind me, Satan," was what the 
 Perfect Man said to His own friend 
 when that friend was suggesting that 
 He should avoid the Cross, and we 
 can say nothing stronger than that to 
 a deliberate offender. There are 
 times when the steel hand should be 
 used without the velvet glove, when 
 the strongest words of speech are 
 called for, and in the end are the 
 kindest. 
 
 Controversy, on the other hand, 
 ought rather to be an opportunity 
 for the most careful and generous 
 courtesy. If anyone differ from us 
 in politics or religion, or in the affairs 
 of business or our family, we are 
 bound to believe that he loves truth 
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 righteousness as fully, as we do, »ml 
 that if in rhis matter he has not sevn 
 so clearly, yet that he is as religious, 
 as intellij :"nt, as high-princi}>ied, and 
 as kind-hearted as we consider our- 
 selves to be, or as, i» our highest 
 moments, we really ire. It is unpar- 
 donable to impute to an opponent 
 mercenary moti\'es of action, dis- 
 loyalty to the common cause of 
 goodness, indifference to the highest 
 ends, and personal unworthiness of 
 character. This is bad manners, and 
 proves an inherent pettiness and 
 squalor of soul — the moral narrow- 
 ness of a man who cannot imagine 
 goodness dissociated from his opin- 
 ions, or carried out by other than his 
 methods. Controversy is a severe 
 trial of temper and character, but we 
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 ought to be thankful that if it 
 has sometimes turned friends into 
 enemies, it has also as often turned 
 strangers into friends. There have 
 been famous debates in history, 
 wherein opponents have sent their 
 articles, one to the other, before 
 publication, that any unfair argument 
 might be noted and omitted, and in 
 his own limited experience the writer 
 can bear testimony that this hon- 
 ourable custom is still observed. 
 
 Surely there is no one who does 
 not desire to live after the rule of 
 courtesy, and there is no way of 
 attaining this fine spirit except by 
 keeping high company. Just as we 
 live in the atmosphere of nobility, 
 where people are generous, and 
 chivalrous, and charitable, and rev- 
 
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 erent, shall we learn the habit of 
 faultless manners, and acquire the 
 mind which inspires every word and 
 deed with grace. And the highest 
 fellowship is open unto every man, 
 and he that walks therein catches its 
 spirit. For the very perfect knight 
 of human history, who carried Him- 
 self without reproach from the cradle 
 to the grave, was our Lord and 
 Master Christ, and the rudest who 
 follow Him will take on the character 
 of His gentleness. 
 
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