key: cord-0047795-fzb80tq4 authors: Elnaqa, Farah title: You are not alone date: 2020-07-17 journal: BDJ Team DOI: 10.1038/s41407-020-0373-2 sha: 918ef8e69eb4168caddf9786ed573970f0c7ddc5 doc_id: 47795 cord_uid: fzb80tq4 nan Your feelings, whatever they may be, are valid. At some point during this time, many of us have dealt with fear, anxiety or grief. These are all normal. Try to acknowledge these emotions, in order to be able to take steps towards processing and tackling them in a healthy way. Many people worry about discussing their feelings due to the stigma surrounding mental health. But often the way we feel is also shared by others. Talking about your feelings can be one of the most effective ways to preserve a positive state of wellbeing. It can help you feel heard and supported. In fact, speaking about feelings can encourage others to open up too. Be aware of the symptoms and ask for help We can all find ourselves feeling overwhelmed sometimes: we are all human. Some early signs that you might be finding things difficult include low mood, tiredness and irritability. 3 If you find yourself starting to feel this way, make sure to tell someone, you are not alone. You can turn to a friend, colleague or a professional. It can be easy to feel pressured to rush back into regular routines. Although some people prefer to do this, it's important to recognise what works for you and to allow yourself to move at your own pace. Whether it's five minutes to have a cup of tea or 30 minutes for lunch, make sure you have time during the day to disconnect for a short while. Resist the idea of checking emails or writing referral letters. Take time to be present. Have a chat with colleagues, listen to a podcast or read a book: whatever helps you take your mind off work for a moment and unwind. This has been a difficult time for everyone and it is important to practise self-compassion. It may be helpful to keep a daily gratitude journal. Allow yourself to feel proud of your daily successes -no matter how small they may seem. In times of uncertainty, we work better together. Keep in touch with colleagues, friends and family to help everybody feel connected. Even if it's just taking 30 seconds to send a short text message or to pop your head round the door to ask how someone is doing. It can make a world of a difference towards helping someone feel supported. Do things you enjoy out of work A healthy work-life balance is essential in reducing stress levels. Find the things that you love doing and make time for them! Doing these things regularly can help boost your mood significantly. As important as work is, it is also important to focus on the things in life that make us happy. Majority of dental professionals believe that their stress and anxiety levels have increased Work with colleagues in a way that serves the interests of patients Available at: https:// www.bupa.co.uk/health-information/ workplace-mental-health/understandingmental-health-problems/signs-poormental-health