id sid tid token lemma pos reflection_00681-2021_09 1 1 integration integration NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 1 2 two two NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 1 3 - - PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 1 4 neligan neligan NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 1 5 1 1 NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 1 6 mr mr PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 1 7 . . PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 1 8 espeseth espeseth PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 1 9 moreau moreau ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 1 10 first first ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 1 11 year year NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 1 12 experience experience NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 1 13 3 3 NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 1 14 december december PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 1 15 2021 2021 NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 2 1 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 2 2 role role NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 2 3 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 2 4 self self NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 2 5 - - PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 2 6 reflection reflection NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 2 7 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 2 8 forming form VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 2 9 healthier healthy ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 2 10 habits habit NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 2 11 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 2 12 goals goal NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 2 13 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 2 14 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 2 15 expectations expectation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 2 16 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 2 17 navigating navigate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 2 18 internal internal ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 2 19 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 2 20 external external ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 2 21 dissonance dissonance NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 2 22 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 2 23 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 2 24 have have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 2 25 learned learn VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 2 26 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 2 27 take take VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 2 28 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 2 29 step step NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 2 30 back back ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 2 31 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 2 32 use use VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 2 33 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 2 34 own own ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 2 35 experiences experience NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 2 36 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 2 37 core core ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 2 38 beliefs belief NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 2 39 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 2 40 shape shape VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 2 41 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 2 42 decisions decision NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 2 43 rather rather ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 2 44 than than ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 2 45 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 2 46 influence influence NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 2 47 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 2 48 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 2 49 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 3 1 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 3 2 coming come VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 3 3 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 3 4 college college NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 3 5 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 3 6 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 3 7 have have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 3 8 encountered encounter VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 3 9 many many ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 3 10 different different ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 3 11 instances instance NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 3 12 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 3 13 external external ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 3 14 dissonance dissonance NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 3 15 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 4 1 meeting meet VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 4 2 people people NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 4 3 from from ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 4 4 drastically drastically ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 4 5 different different ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 4 6 backgrounds background NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 4 7 from from ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 4 8 mine mine PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 4 9 sometimes sometimes ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 4 10 caused cause VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 4 11 me i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 4 12 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 4 13 question question VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 4 14 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 4 15 own own ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 4 16 background background NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 4 17 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 4 18 whether whether SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 4 19 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 4 20 things thing NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 4 21 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 4 22 had have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 4 23 learned learn VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 4 24 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 4 25 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 4 26 beliefs belief NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 4 27 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 4 28 had have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 4 29 formed form VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 4 30 were be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 4 31 really really ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 4 32 true true ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 4 33 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 5 1 for for ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 5 2 example example NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 5 3 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 5 4 when when SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 5 5 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 5 6 heard hear VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 5 7 students student NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 5 8 bad bad ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 5 9 - - PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 5 10 mouthing mouthing NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 5 11 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 5 12 intended intended ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 5 13 major major NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 5 14 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 5 15 that that PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 5 16 caused cause VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 5 17 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 5 18 lot lot NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 5 19 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 5 20 self self NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 5 21 - - PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 5 22 doubt doubt NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 5 23 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 6 1 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 6 2 subsequently subsequently ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 6 3 reevaluated reevaluate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 6 4 why why SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 6 5 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 6 6 had have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 6 7 chosen choose VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 6 8 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 6 9 major major ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 6 10 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 6 11 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 6 12 first first ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 6 13 place place NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 6 14 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 6 15 how how SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 6 16 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 6 17 planned plan VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 6 18 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 6 19 use use VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 6 20 it it PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 6 21 after after ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 6 22 college college NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 6 23 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 7 1 ultimately ultimately ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 7 2 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 7 3 after after ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 7 4 further far ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 7 5 researching research VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 7 6 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 7 7 course course NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 7 8 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 7 9 study study NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 7 10 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 7 11 disregarding disregard VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 7 12 out out ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 7 13 what what PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 7 14 other other ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 7 15 students student NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 7 16 had have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 7 17 said say VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 7 18 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 7 19 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 7 20 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 7 21 able able ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 7 22 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 7 23 embrace embrace VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 7 24 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 7 25 major major NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 7 26 despite despite SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 7 27 this this DET reflection_00681-2021_09 7 28 external external ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 7 29 dissonance dissonance NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 7 30 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 8 1 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 8 2 college college NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 8 3 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 8 4 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 8 5 have have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 8 6 also also ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 8 7 come come VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 8 8 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 8 9 form form VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 8 10 many many ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 8 11 expectations expectation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 8 12 that that PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 8 13 were be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 8 14 unrealistic unrealistic ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 8 15 due due ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 8 16 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 8 17 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 8 18 behavior behavior NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 8 19 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 8 20 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 8 21 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 9 1 for for ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 9 2 example example NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 9 3 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 9 4 following follow VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 9 5 social social ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 9 6 media medium NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 9 7 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 9 8 being be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 9 9 able able ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 9 10 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 9 11 look look VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 9 12 out out ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 9 13 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 9 14 window window NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 9 15 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 9 16 see see VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 9 17 other other ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 9 18 students student NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 9 19 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 9 20 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 9 21 felt feel VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 9 22 like like SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 9 23 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 9 24 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 9 25 constantly constantly ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 9 26 seeing see VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 9 27 what what PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 9 28 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 9 29 were be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 9 30 doing do VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 9 31 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 10 1 this this PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 10 2 became become VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 10 3 overwhelming overwhelming ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 10 4 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 10 5 as as SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 10 6 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 10 7 felt feel VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 10 8 like like SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 10 9 everyone everyone PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 10 10 else else ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 10 11 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 10 12 doing do VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 10 13 so so ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 10 14 much much ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 10 15 more more ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 10 16 than than ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 10 17 me i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 10 18 — — PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 10 19 getting get VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 10 20 more more ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 10 21 things thing NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 10 22 done do VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 10 23 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 10 24 achieving achieve VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 10 25 more more ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 10 26 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 10 27 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 10 28 even even ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 10 29 having have VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 10 30 more more ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 10 31 fun fun NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 10 32 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 11 1 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 11 2 formed form VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 11 3 an an DET reflection_00681-2021_09 11 4 unrealistic unrealistic ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 11 5 expectation expectation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 11 6 for for ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 11 7 how how SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 11 8 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 11 9 should should AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 11 10 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 11 11 spending spend VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 11 12 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 11 13 time time NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 11 14 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 11 15 how how SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 11 16 much much ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 11 17 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 11 18 should should AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 11 19 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 11 20 accomplishing accomplish VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 11 21 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 11 22 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 11 23 day day NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 11 24 because because SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 11 25 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 11 26 formed form VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 11 27 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 11 28 false false ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 11 29 perception perception NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 11 30 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 11 31 what what PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 11 32 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 11 33 were be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 11 34 doing do VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 11 35 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 12 1 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 12 2 reality reality NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 12 3 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 12 4 it it PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 12 5 is be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 12 6 likely likely ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 12 7 true true ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 12 8 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 12 9 every every DET reflection_00681-2021_09 12 10 other other ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 12 11 student student NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 12 12 feels feel VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 12 13 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 12 14 they they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 12 15 could could AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 12 16 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 12 17 better well ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 12 18 maximizing maximize VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 12 19 their their PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 12 20 time time NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 12 21 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 13 1 by by ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 13 2 talking talk VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 13 3 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 13 4 friends friend NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 13 5 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 13 6 classmates classmate NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 13 7 about about ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 13 8 their their PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 13 9 routines routine NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 13 10 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 13 11 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 13 12 things thing NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 13 13 they they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 13 14 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 13 15 doing do VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 13 16 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 13 17 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 13 18 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 13 19 able able ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 13 20 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 13 21 gain gain VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 13 22 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 13 23 better well ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 13 24 neligan neligan NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 13 25 2 2 NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 13 26 sense sense NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 13 27 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 13 28 how how SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 13 29 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 13 30 should should AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 13 31 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 13 32 scheduling schedule VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 13 33 myself myself PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 13 34 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 13 35 abandon abandon VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 13 36 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 13 37 unrealistic unrealistic ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 13 38 expectations expectation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 13 39 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 14 1 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 14 2 experience experience NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 14 3 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 14 4 dealing deal VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 14 5 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 14 6 external external ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 14 7 dissonance dissonance NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 14 8 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 14 9 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 14 10 subsequent subsequent ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 14 11 internal internal ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 14 12 dissonance dissonance NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 14 13 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 14 14 relates relate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 14 15 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 14 16 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 14 17 reading reading NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 14 18 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 14 19 discussion discussion NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 14 20 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 14 21 reevaluating reevaluate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 14 22 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 14 23 expectations expectation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 14 24 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 15 1 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 15 2 her her PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 15 3 article article NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 15 4 about about ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 15 5 letting let VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 15 6 go go VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 15 7 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 15 8 expectations expectation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 15 9 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 15 10 julia julia PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 15 11 hogan hogan PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 15 12 discusses discuss VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 15 13 things thing NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 15 14 her her PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 15 15 clients client NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 15 16 have have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 15 17 said say VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 15 18 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 15 19 her she PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 15 20 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 16 1 she she PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 16 2 recounts recount VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 16 3 “ " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 16 4 none none NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 5 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 16 6 them they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 16 7 tell tell VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 16 8 me i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 16 9 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 16 10 they they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 16 11 believe believe VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 16 12 they they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 16 13 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 16 14 living live VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 16 15 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 16 16 fulfilling fulfil VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 16 17 life life NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 18 when when SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 16 19 they they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 16 20 let let VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 16 21 their their PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 16 22 self self NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 23 - - PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 16 24 worth worth NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 25 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 16 26 defined define VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 16 27 by by ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 16 28 these these DET reflection_00681-2021_09 16 29 external external ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 16 30 expectation expectation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 31 ... ... PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 16 32 i’m i’m PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 33 going go VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 16 34 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 16 35 let let VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 16 36 you you PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 16 37 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 16 38 on on ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 16 39 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 16 40 little little ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 16 41 secret secret NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 42 : : PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 16 43 these these DET reflection_00681-2021_09 16 44 expectations expectation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 45 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 16 46 arbitrary arbitrary ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 16 47 ” " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 16 48 ( ( PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 16 49 “ " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 16 50 why why SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 16 51 letting let VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 16 52 go go VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 16 53 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 16 54 expectations expectation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 55 is be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 16 56 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 16 57 freeing freeing ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 16 58 habit habit NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 59 ” " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 16 60 by by ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 16 61 julia julia PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 62 hogan hogan PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 63 moreau moreau ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 16 64 fye fye PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 65 week week NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 16 66 9 9 NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 16 67 ) ) PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 16 68 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 17 1 hogan hogan PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 17 2 illuminates illuminate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 17 3 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 17 4 almost almost ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 17 5 everyone everyone PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 17 6 feels feel VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 17 7 unfulfilled unfulfilled ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 17 8 because because SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 17 9 they they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 17 10 do do AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 17 11 not not PART reflection_00681-2021_09 17 12 think think VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 17 13 they they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 17 14 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 17 15 living live VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 17 16 up up ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 17 17 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 17 18 society society NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 17 19 ’s ’s PART reflection_00681-2021_09 17 20 expectations expectation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 17 21 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 18 1 she she PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 18 2 dismisses dismiss VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 18 3 these these DET reflection_00681-2021_09 18 4 expectations expectation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 18 5 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 18 6 pointing point VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 18 7 out out ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 18 8 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 18 9 they they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 18 10 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 18 11 completely completely ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 18 12 random random ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 18 13 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 18 14 formed form VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 18 15 from from ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 18 16 how how SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 18 17 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 18 18 perceive perceive VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 18 19 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 18 20 rather rather ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 18 21 than than ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 18 22 how how SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 18 23 things thing NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 18 24 really really ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 18 25 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 18 26 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 19 1 hogan hogan PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 19 2 ’s ’s PART reflection_00681-2021_09 19 3 insights insight NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 19 4 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 19 5 important important ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 19 6 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 19 7 remember remember VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 19 8 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 19 9 actively actively ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 19 10 choosing choose VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 19 11 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 19 12 dismiss dismiss VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 19 13 expectations expectation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 19 14 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 19 15 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 19 16 form form VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 19 17 from from ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 19 18 comparing compare VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 19 19 ourselves ourselves PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 19 20 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 19 21 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 19 22 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 20 1 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 20 2 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 20 3 future future NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 20 4 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 20 5 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 20 6 will will AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 20 7 take take VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 20 8 hogan hogan PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 20 9 ’s ’s PART reflection_00681-2021_09 20 10 advice advice NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 20 11 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 20 12 try try VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 20 13 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 20 14 separate separate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 20 15 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 20 16 expectations expectation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 20 17 from from ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 20 18 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 20 19 actions action NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 20 20 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 20 21 achievements achievement NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 20 22 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 20 23 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 20 24 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 21 1 rather rather ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 21 2 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 21 3 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 21 4 will will AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 21 5 self self NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 21 6 - - PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 21 7 reflect reflect VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 21 8 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 21 9 decide decide VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 21 10 what what PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 21 11 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 21 12 find find VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 21 13 most most ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 21 14 valuable valuable ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 21 15 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 21 16 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 21 17 prioritize prioritize VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 21 18 that that PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 21 19 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 22 1 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 22 2 will will AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 22 3 also also ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 22 4 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 22 5 more more ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 22 6 forgiving forgiving ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 22 7 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 22 8 myself myself PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 22 9 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 22 10 remember remember VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 22 11 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 22 12 not not PART reflection_00681-2021_09 22 13 everyone everyone PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 22 14 is be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 22 15 achieving achieve VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 22 16 as as ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 22 17 much much ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 22 18 as as SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 22 19 it it PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 22 20 might might AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 22 21 seem seem VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 22 22 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 23 1 trying try VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 23 2 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 23 3 fix fix VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 23 4 problems problem NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 23 5 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 23 6 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 23 7 community community NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 23 8 can can AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 23 9 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 23 10 difficult difficult ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 23 11 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 23 12 divisive divisive ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 23 13 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 23 14 causing cause VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 23 15 people people NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 23 16 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 23 17 become become VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 23 18 uncivil uncivil ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 23 19 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 23 20 each each DET reflection_00681-2021_09 23 21 other other ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 23 22 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 24 1 however however ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 24 2 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 24 3 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 24 4 have have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 24 5 found find VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 24 6 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 24 7 when when SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 24 8 it it PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 24 9 comes come VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 24 10 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 24 11 solving solve VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 24 12 problems problem NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 24 13 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 24 14 it it PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 24 15 is be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 24 16 more more ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 24 17 efficient efficient ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 24 18 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 24 19 work work VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 24 20 together together ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 24 21 rather rather ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 24 22 than than ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 24 23 falling fall VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 24 24 victim victim NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 24 25 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 24 26 polarization polarization VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 24 27 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 25 1 when when SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 25 2 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 25 3 first first ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 25 4 moved move VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 25 5 into into ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 25 6 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 25 7 dorm dorm NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 25 8 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 25 9 august august PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 25 10 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 25 11 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 25 12 three three NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 25 13 roommates roommate NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 25 14 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 25 15 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 25 16 all all PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 25 17 got get VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 25 18 along along ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 25 19 very very ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 25 20 well well ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 25 21 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 26 1 however however ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 26 2 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 26 3 over over ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 26 4 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 26 5 next next ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 26 6 few few ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 26 7 weeks week NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 26 8 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 26 9 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 26 10 began begin VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 26 11 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 26 12 argue argue VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 26 13 about about ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 26 14 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 26 15 fate fate NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 26 16 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 26 17 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 26 18 common common ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 26 19 room room NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 26 20 which which PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 26 21 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 26 22 share share VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 26 23 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 27 1 since since SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 27 2 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 27 3 space space NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 27 4 is be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 27 5 extremely extremely ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 27 6 limited limited ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 27 7 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 27 8 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 27 9 were be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 27 10 all all ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 27 11 very very ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 27 12 emotionally emotionally ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 27 13 invested invest VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 27 14 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 27 15 what what PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 27 16 would would AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 27 17 become become VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 27 18 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 27 19 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 27 20 common common ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 27 21 room room NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 27 22 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 28 1 everyone everyone PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 28 2 disagreed disagree VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 28 3 on on ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 28 4 how how SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 28 5 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 28 6 room room NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 28 7 should should AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 28 8 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 28 9 arranged arrange VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 28 10 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 28 11 who who PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 28 12 should should AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 28 13 pay pay VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 28 14 for for ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 28 15 what what PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 28 16 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 28 17 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 28 18 what what PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 28 19 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 28 20 rules rule NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 28 21 for for ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 28 22 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 28 23 room room NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 28 24 would would AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 28 25 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 28 26 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 29 1 although although SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 29 2 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 29 3 were be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 29 4 very very ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 29 5 frustrated frustrated ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 29 6 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 29 7 each each DET reflection_00681-2021_09 29 8 https://grottonetwork.com/navigate-life/health-and-wellness/letting-go-of-expectations/?utm_source=fall_2021&utm_medium=class&utm_id=moreau https://grottonetwork.com/navigate-life/health-and-wellness/letting-go-of-expectations/?utm_source=fall_2021&utm_medium=class&utm_id=moreau NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 29 9 neligan neligan PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 29 10 3 3 NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 29 11 other other ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 29 12 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 29 13 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 29 14 lack lack NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 29 15 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 29 16 progress progress NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 29 17 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 29 18 rather rather ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 29 19 than than ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 29 20 allowing allow VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 29 21 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 29 22 situation situation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 29 23 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 29 24 escalate escalate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 29 25 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 29 26 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 29 27 met meet VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 29 28 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 29 29 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 29 30 ra ra PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 29 31 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 29 32 discuss discuss VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 29 33 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 29 34 issue issue NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 29 35 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 30 1 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 30 2 were be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 30 3 ultimately ultimately ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 30 4 able able ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 30 5 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 30 6 truly truly ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 30 7 listen listen VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 30 8 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 30 9 each each DET reflection_00681-2021_09 30 10 other other ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 30 11 ’s ’s PART reflection_00681-2021_09 30 12 wishes wish NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 30 13 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 30 14 create create VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 30 15 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 30 16 compromise compromise NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 30 17 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 31 1 however however ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 31 2 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 31 3 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 31 4 were be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 31 5 only only ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 31 6 able able ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 31 7 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 31 8 do do VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 31 9 this this PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 31 10 because because SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 31 11 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 31 12 approached approach VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 31 13 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 31 14 conflict conflict NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 31 15 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 31 16 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 31 17 respectful respectful ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 31 18 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 31 19 civil civil ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 31 20 manner manner NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 31 21 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 32 1 if if SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 32 2 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 32 3 had have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 32 4 allowed allow VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 32 5 ourselves ourselves PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 32 6 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 32 7 truly truly ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 32 8 become become VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 32 9 angry angry ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 32 10 at at ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 32 11 each each DET reflection_00681-2021_09 32 12 other other ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 32 13 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 32 14 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 32 15 likely likely ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 32 16 would would AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 32 17 not not PART reflection_00681-2021_09 32 18 have have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 32 19 resolved resolve VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 32 20 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 32 21 conflict conflict NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 32 22 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 32 23 created create VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 32 24 even even ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 32 25 more more ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 32 26 problems problem NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 32 27 down down ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 32 28 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 32 29 line line NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 32 30 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 33 1 this this DET reflection_00681-2021_09 33 2 experience experience NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 33 3 closely closely ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 33 4 relates relate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 33 5 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 33 6 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 33 7 discussion discussion NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 33 8 about about ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 33 9 how how SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 33 10 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 33 11 should should AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 33 12 approach approach VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 33 13 issues issue NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 33 14 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 33 15 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 33 16 lives life NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 33 17 or or CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 33 18 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 33 19 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 33 20 community community NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 33 21 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 33 22 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 33 23 constructive constructive ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 33 24 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 33 25 civil civil ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 33 26 way way NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 33 27 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 34 1 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 34 2 his his PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 34 3 commencement commencement NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 34 4 speech speech NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 34 5 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 34 6 fr fr PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 34 7 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 35 1 john john PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 2 jenkins jenkins PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 3 explained explain VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 35 4 “ " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 35 5 if if SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 35 6 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 35 7 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 35 8 determined determined ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 35 9 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 35 10 keep keep VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 35 11 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 35 12 convictions conviction NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 13 free free ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 35 14 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 35 15 malice malice NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 16 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 35 17 then then ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 35 18 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 35 19 propose propose VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 35 20 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 35 21 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 35 22 strive strive VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 35 23 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 35 24 meet meet VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 35 25 one one NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 35 26 simple simple ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 35 27 test test NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 28 for for ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 35 29 public public ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 35 30 discourse discourse NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 31 : : PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 35 32 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 35 33 attempts attempt NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 34 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 35 35 express express VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 35 36 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 35 37 convictions conviction NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 38 should should AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 35 39 take take VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 35 40 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 35 41 form form NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 42 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 35 43 an an DET reflection_00681-2021_09 35 44 effort effort NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 45 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 35 46 persuade persuade VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 35 47 … … PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 35 48 [but [but X reflection_00681-2021_09 35 49 ] ] X reflection_00681-2021_09 35 50 people people NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 51 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 35 52 not not PART reflection_00681-2021_09 35 53 persuaded persuade VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 35 54 by by ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 35 55 those those PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 35 56 who who PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 35 57 attack attack VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 35 58 their their PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 35 59 character character NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 60 ” " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 35 61 ( ( PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 35 62 wesley wesley PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 63 theological theological PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 64 seminary seminary ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 35 65 commencement commencement NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 66 ” " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 35 67 by by ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 35 68 fr fr PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 35 69 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 36 1 john john PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 36 2 jenkins jenkins PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 36 3 moreau moreau ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 36 4 fye fye PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 36 5 week week NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 36 6 10 10 NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 36 7 ) ) PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 36 8 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 37 1 fr fr PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 37 2 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 37 3 jenkins jenkins PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 37 4 ’ ' PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 37 5 advice advice NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 37 6 is be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 37 7 particularly particularly ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 37 8 insightful insightful ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 37 9 because because SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 37 10 people people NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 37 11 will will AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 37 12 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 37 13 more more ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 37 14 likely likely ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 37 15 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 37 16 listen listen VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 37 17 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 37 18 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 37 19 convictions conviction NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 37 20 if if SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 37 21 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 37 22 try try VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 37 23 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 37 24 persuade persuade VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 37 25 them they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 37 26 rather rather ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 37 27 than than ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 37 28 attack attack VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 37 29 them they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 37 30 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 38 1 even even ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 38 2 if if SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 38 3 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 38 4 beliefs belief NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 38 5 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 38 6 well well ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 38 7 - - PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 38 8 supported support VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 38 9 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 38 10 people people NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 38 11 will will AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 38 12 not not PART reflection_00681-2021_09 38 13 approach approach VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 38 14 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 38 15 conversation conversation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 38 16 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 38 17 an an DET reflection_00681-2021_09 38 18 open open ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 38 19 mind mind NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 38 20 if if SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 38 21 they they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 38 22 feel feel VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 38 23 they they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 38 24 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 38 25 being be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 38 26 threatened threaten VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 38 27 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 39 1 rather rather ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 39 2 than than ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 39 3 advocating advocate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 39 4 for for ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 39 5 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 39 6 beliefs belief NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 39 7 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 39 8 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 39 9 forceful forceful ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 39 10 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 39 11 overbearing overbearing ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 39 12 manner manner NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 39 13 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 39 14 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 39 15 should should AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 39 16 try try VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 39 17 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 39 18 pitch pitch VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 39 19 them they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 39 20 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 39 21 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 39 22 way way NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 39 23 that that PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 39 24 is be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 39 25 convincing convincing ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 39 26 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 40 1 this this PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 40 2 will will AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 40 3 result result VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 40 4 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 40 5 more more ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 40 6 productive productive ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 40 7 conversations conversation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 40 8 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 40 9 which which PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 40 10 people people NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 40 11 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 40 12 more more ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 40 13 willing willing ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 40 14 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 40 15 listen listen VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 40 16 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 40 17 open open ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 40 18 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 40 19 changing change VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 40 20 their their PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 40 21 beliefs belief NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 40 22 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 41 1 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 41 2 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 41 3 future future NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 41 4 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 41 5 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 41 6 will will AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 41 7 follow follow VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 41 8 fr fr PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 41 9 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 41 10 jenkins jenkins PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 41 11 ’ ’ PART reflection_00681-2021_09 41 12 advice advice NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 41 13 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 41 14 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 41 15 remember remember VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 41 16 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 41 17 lessons lesson NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 41 18 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 41 19 learned learn VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 41 20 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 41 21 negotiating negotiate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 41 22 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 41 23 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 41 24 roommates roommate NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 41 25 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 41 26 more more ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 41 27 effectively effectively ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 41 28 advocate advocate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 41 29 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 41 30 opinions opinion NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 41 31 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 41 32 encourage encourage VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 41 33 civil civil ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 41 34 discourse discourse NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 41 35 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 42 1 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 42 2 meeting meet VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 42 3 new new ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 42 4 people people NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 42 5 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 42 6 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 42 7 have have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 42 8 learned learn VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 42 9 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 42 10 first first ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 42 11 working work VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 42 12 on on ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 42 13 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 42 14 own own ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 42 15 open open ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 42 16 - - PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 42 17 mindedness mindedness NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 42 18 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 42 19 acceptance acceptance NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 42 20 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 42 21 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 42 22 is be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 42 23 critical critical ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 42 24 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 42 25 forming form VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 42 26 meaningful meaningful ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 42 27 relationships relationship NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 42 28 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 43 1 notre notre PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 43 2 dame dame PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 43 3 ’s ’s PART reflection_00681-2021_09 43 4 academic academic ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 43 5 rigor rigor NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 43 6 definitely definitely ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 43 7 cultivates cultivate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 43 8 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 43 9 competitive competitive ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 43 10 atmosphere atmosphere NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 43 11 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 44 1 because because SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 44 2 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 44 3 this this PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 44 4 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 44 5 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 44 6 some some PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 44 7 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 44 8 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 44 9 classes class NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 44 10 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 44 11 i i PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 44 12 https://president.nd.edu/homilies-writings-addresses/wesley-theological-seminary-commencement/ https://president.nd.edu/homilies-writings-addresses/wesley-theological-seminary-commencement/ PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 44 13 neligan neligan PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 44 14 4 4 NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 44 15 viewed view VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 44 16 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 44 17 peers peer NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 44 18 more more ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 44 19 so so ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 44 20 as as ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 44 21 competition competition NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 44 22 rather rather ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 44 23 than than ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 44 24 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 44 25 potential potential ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 44 26 friend friend NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 44 27 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 45 1 for for ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 45 2 example example NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 45 3 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 45 4 because because SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 45 5 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 45 6 calculus calculus NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 45 7 class class NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 45 8 is be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 45 9 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 45 10 huge huge ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 45 11 lecture lecture NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 45 12 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 45 13 heavily heavily ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 45 14 curved curved ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 45 15 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 45 16 it it PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 45 17 felt feel VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 45 18 easy easy ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 45 19 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 45 20 isolate isolate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 45 21 myself myself PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 45 22 from from ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 45 23 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 45 24 other other ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 45 25 students student NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 45 26 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 46 1 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 46 2 felt feel VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 46 3 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 46 4 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 46 5 had have VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 46 6 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 46 7 study study VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 46 8 alone alone ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 46 9 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 46 10 truly truly ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 46 11 focus focus VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 46 12 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 46 13 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 46 14 not not PART reflection_00681-2021_09 46 15 making make VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 46 16 an an DET reflection_00681-2021_09 46 17 effort effort NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 46 18 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 46 19 connect connect VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 46 20 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 46 21 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 46 22 peers peer NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 46 23 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 47 1 however however ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 47 2 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 47 3 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 47 4 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 47 5 calculus calculus NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 47 6 tutorial tutorial NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 47 7 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 47 8 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 47 9 were be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 47 10 divided divide VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 47 11 into into ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 47 12 small small ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 47 13 groups group NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 47 14 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 47 15 work work VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 47 16 on on ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 47 17 problem problem NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 47 18 sets set NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 47 19 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 48 1 as as SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 48 2 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 48 3 weeks week NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 48 4 went go VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 48 5 by by ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 48 6 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 48 7 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 48 8 grew grow VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 48 9 closer close ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 48 10 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 48 11 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 48 12 group group NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 48 13 members member NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 48 14 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 49 1 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 49 2 began begin VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 49 3 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 49 4 discuss discuss VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 49 5 subjects subject NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 49 6 other other ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 49 7 than than ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 49 8 math math NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 49 9 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 49 10 even even ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 49 11 made make VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 49 12 plans plan NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 49 13 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 49 14 get get VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 49 15 lunch lunch NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 49 16 together together ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 49 17 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 50 1 although although SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 50 2 this this DET reflection_00681-2021_09 50 3 connection connection NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 50 4 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 50 5 unexpected unexpected ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 50 6 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 50 7 it it PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 50 8 proved prove VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 50 9 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 50 10 me i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 50 11 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 50 12 even even ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 50 13 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 50 14 situations situation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 50 15 where where SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 50 16 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 50 17 want want VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 50 18 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 50 19 isolate isolate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 50 20 ourselves ourselves PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 50 21 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 50 22 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 50 23 can can AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 50 24 almost almost ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 50 25 always always ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 50 26 better well ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 50 27 from from ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 50 28 connecting connect VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 50 29 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 50 30 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 50 31 learning learn VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 50 32 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 50 33 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 50 34 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 51 1 subsequent subsequent ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 51 2 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 51 3 this this DET reflection_00681-2021_09 51 4 experience experience NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 51 5 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 51 6 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 51 7 calculus calculus NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 51 8 class class NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 51 9 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 51 10 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 51 11 now now ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 51 12 view view VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 51 13 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 51 14 peers peer NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 51 15 as as ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 51 16 teammates teammate NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 51 17 rather rather ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 51 18 than than ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 51 19 competition competition NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 51 20 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 51 21 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 51 22 will will AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 51 23 strive strive VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 51 24 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 51 25 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 51 26 more more ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 51 27 open open ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 51 28 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 51 29 connecting connect VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 51 30 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 51 31 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 51 32 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 51 33 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 51 34 future future NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 51 35 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 52 1 this this DET reflection_00681-2021_09 52 2 experience experience NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 52 3 relates relate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 52 4 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 52 5 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 52 6 discussion discussion NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 52 7 on on ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 52 8 how how SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 52 9 effectively effectively ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 52 10 building build VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 52 11 communities community NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 52 12 starts start VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 52 13 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 52 14 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 52 15 individual individual NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 52 16 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 53 1 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 53 2 his his PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 53 3 article article NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 53 4 about about ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 53 5 approaching approach VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 53 6 community community NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 53 7 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 53 8 parker parker PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 53 9 j. j. PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 53 10 palmer palmer PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 53 11 explains explain VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 53 12 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 53 13 “ " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 53 14 community community NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 53 15 begins begin VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 53 16 not not PART reflection_00681-2021_09 53 17 externally externally ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 53 18 but but CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 53 19 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 53 20 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 53 21 recesses recess NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 53 22 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 53 23 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 53 24 human human ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 53 25 heart heart NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 53 26 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 54 1 long long ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 54 2 before before SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 54 3 community community NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 4 can can AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 54 5 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 54 6 manifest manifest ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 54 7 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 54 8 outward outward ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 54 9 relationships relationship NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 10 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 54 11 it it PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 54 12 must must AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 54 13 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 54 14 present present ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 54 15 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 54 16 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 54 17 individual individual NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 18 as as ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 54 19 ‘ ' PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 54 20 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 54 21 capacity capacity NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 22 for for ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 54 23 connectedness’—a connectedness’—a ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 54 24 capacity capacity NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 25 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 54 26 resist resist VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 54 27 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 54 28 forces force NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 29 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 54 30 disconnection disconnection NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 31 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 54 32 which which PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 54 33 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 54 34 culture culture NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 35 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 54 36 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 54 37 psyches psyche NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 38 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 54 39 riddled riddle VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 54 40 ” " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 54 41 ( ( PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 54 42 “ " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 54 43 thirteen thirteen NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 54 44 ways way NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 45 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 54 46 looking look VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 54 47 at at ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 54 48 community community NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 49 ” " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 54 50 by by ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 54 51 parker parker PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 52 j. j. PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 53 palmer palmer PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 54 moreau moreau PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 55 fye fye PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 56 week week NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 54 57 11 11 NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 54 58 ) ) PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 54 59 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 55 1 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 55 2 agree agree VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 55 3 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 55 4 palmer palmer PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 55 5 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 55 6 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 55 7 can can AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 55 8 not not PART reflection_00681-2021_09 55 9 form form VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 55 10 relationships relationship NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 55 11 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 55 12 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 55 13 greater great ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 55 14 community community NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 55 15 unless unless SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 55 16 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 55 17 are be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 55 18 willing willing ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 55 19 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 55 20 do do VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 55 21 so so ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 55 22 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 56 1 forces force NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 56 2 like like ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 56 3 competitiveness competitiveness NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 56 4 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 56 5 jealousy jealousy NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 56 6 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 56 7 greed greed NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 56 8 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 56 9 etc etc X reflection_00681-2021_09 56 10 . . X reflection_00681-2021_09 56 11 easily easily ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 56 12 obstruct obstruct VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 56 13 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 56 14 efforts effort NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 56 15 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 56 16 connect connect VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 56 17 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 56 18 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 56 19 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 57 1 if if SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 57 2 people people NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 57 3 were be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 57 4 always always ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 57 5 close close ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 57 6 - - PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 57 7 minded minded ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 57 8 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 57 9 alienating alienate VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 57 10 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 57 11 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 57 12 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 57 13 no no DET reflection_00681-2021_09 57 14 meaningful meaningful ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 57 15 communities community NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 57 16 would would AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 57 17 ever ever ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 57 18 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 57 19 formed form VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 57 20 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 58 1 thus thus ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 58 2 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 58 3 it it PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 58 4 is be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 58 5 important important ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 58 6 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 58 7 work work VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 58 8 on on ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 58 9 one one PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 58 10 ’s ’s PART reflection_00681-2021_09 58 11 own own ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 58 12 “ " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 58 13 capacity capacity NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 58 14 for for ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 58 15 connectedness connectedness NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 58 16 ” " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 58 17 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 58 18 make make VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 58 19 an an DET reflection_00681-2021_09 58 20 effort effort NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 58 21 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 58 22 reach reach VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 58 23 out out ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 58 24 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 58 25 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 58 26 form form VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 58 27 bonds bond NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 58 28 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 58 29 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 58 30 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 59 1 keeping keep VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 59 2 palmer palmer PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 59 3 ’s ’s PART reflection_00681-2021_09 59 4 advice advice NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 59 5 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 59 6 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 59 7 own own ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 59 8 experience experience NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 59 9 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 59 10 mind mind NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 59 11 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 59 12 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 59 13 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 59 14 future future NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 59 15 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 59 16 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 59 17 will will AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 59 18 remind remind VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 59 19 myself myself PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 59 20 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 59 21 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 59 22 obligation obligation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 59 23 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 59 24 remain remain VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 59 25 open open ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 59 26 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 59 27 connection connection NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 59 28 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 59 29 also also ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 59 30 make make VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 59 31 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 59 32 concerted concerted ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 59 33 effort effort NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 59 34 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 59 35 form form VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 59 36 relationships relationship NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 59 37 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 59 38 others other NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 59 39 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 60 1 http://couragerenewal.org/parker/writings/13-ways-of-looking-at-community/ http://couragerenewal.org/parker/writings/13-ways-of-looking-at-community/ X reflection_00681-2021_09 61 1 neligan neligan NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 61 2 5 5 NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 61 3 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 61 4 witnessing witness VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 61 5 happy happy ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 61 6 endings ending NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 61 7 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 61 8 overwhelmingly overwhelmingly ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 61 9 bad bad ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 61 10 situations situation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 61 11 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 61 12 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 61 13 have have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 61 14 learned learn VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 61 15 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 61 16 commit commit VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 61 17 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 61 18 hope hope VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 61 19 even even ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 61 20 when when SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 61 21 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 61 22 am be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 61 23 prone prone ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 61 24 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 61 25 pessimism pessimism VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 61 26 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 62 1 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 62 2 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 62 3 first first ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 62 4 semester semester NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 62 5 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 62 6 college college NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 62 7 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 62 8 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 62 9 have have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 62 10 encountered encounter VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 62 11 many many ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 62 12 situations situation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 62 13 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 62 14 which which PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 62 15 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 62 16 felt feel VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 62 17 powerless powerless ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 62 18 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 62 19 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 62 20 nothing nothing PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 62 21 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 62 22 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 62 23 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 62 24 control control NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 62 25 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 63 1 during during ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 63 2 these these DET reflection_00681-2021_09 63 3 times time NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 63 4 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 63 5 having have VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 63 6 no no DET reflection_00681-2021_09 63 7 hope hope NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 63 8 seemed seem VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 63 9 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 63 10 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 63 11 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 63 12 default default NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 63 13 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 64 1 it it PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 64 2 seemed seem VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 64 3 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 64 4 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 64 5 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 64 6 merely merely ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 64 7 faking fake VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 64 8 any any DET reflection_00681-2021_09 64 9 feelings feeling NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 64 10 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 64 11 hope hope NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 64 12 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 65 1 however however ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 65 2 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 65 3 one one NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 65 4 particular particular ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 65 5 experience experience NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 65 6 changed change VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 65 7 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 65 8 perspective perspective NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 65 9 on on ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 65 10 hope hope NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 65 11 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 65 12 has have AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 65 13 caused cause VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 65 14 me i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 65 15 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 65 16 more more ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 65 17 genuinely genuinely ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 65 18 embrace embrace VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 65 19 it it PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 65 20 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 66 1 when when SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 66 2 one one NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 66 3 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 66 4 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 66 5 friends friend NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 66 6 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 66 7 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 66 8 an an DET reflection_00681-2021_09 66 9 accident accident NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 66 10 on on ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 66 11 campus campus NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 66 12 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 66 13 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 66 14 did do VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 66 15 everything everything PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 66 16 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 66 17 could could AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 66 18 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 66 19 try try VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 66 20 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 66 21 help help VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 66 22 her she PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 66 23 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 67 1 ultimately ultimately ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 67 2 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 67 3 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 67 4 paramedics paramedic NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 67 5 arrived arrive VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 67 6 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 67 7 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 67 8 they they PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 67 9 told tell VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 67 10 us we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 67 11 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 67 12 only only ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 67 13 one one NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 67 14 person person NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 67 15 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 67 16 allowed allow VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 67 17 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 67 18 go go VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 67 19 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 67 20 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 67 21 friend friend NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 67 22 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 68 1 one one NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 68 2 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 68 3 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 68 4 other other ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 68 5 friends friend NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 68 6 went go VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 68 7 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 68 8 her she PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 68 9 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 68 10 so so CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 68 11 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 68 12 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 68 13 left leave VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 68 14 wondering wonder VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 68 15 what what PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 68 16 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 68 17 going go VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 68 18 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 68 19 happen happen VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 68 20 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 68 21 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 68 22 friend friend NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 68 23 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 68 24 if if SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 68 25 she she PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 68 26 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 68 27 going go VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 68 28 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 68 29 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 68 30 alright alright ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 68 31 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 69 1 since since SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 69 2 things thing NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 69 3 were be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 69 4 completely completely ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 69 5 out out ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 69 6 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 69 7 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 69 8 hands hand NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 69 9 at at ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 69 10 that that DET reflection_00681-2021_09 69 11 point point NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 69 12 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 69 13 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 69 14 felt feel VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 69 15 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 69 16 there there PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 69 17 was be VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 69 18 nothing nothing PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 69 19 for for SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 69 20 me i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 69 21 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 69 22 do do VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 69 23 other other ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 69 24 than than ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 69 25 hope hope NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 69 26 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 70 1 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 70 2 continued continue VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 70 3 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 70 4 hope hope VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 70 5 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 70 6 pray pray VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 70 7 for for ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 70 8 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 70 9 best good ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 70 10 until until SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 70 11 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 70 12 heard hear VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 70 13 back back ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 70 14 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 70 15 she she PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 70 16 was be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 70 17 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 70 18 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 70 19 stable stable ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 70 20 condition condition NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 70 21 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 71 1 this this DET reflection_00681-2021_09 71 2 experience experience NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 71 3 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 71 4 while while SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 71 5 scary scary ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 71 6 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 71 7 caused cause VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 71 8 me i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 71 9 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 71 10 cling cling VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 71 11 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 71 12 hope hope NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 71 13 when when SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 71 14 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 71 15 had have VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 71 16 nothing nothing PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 71 17 else else ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 71 18 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 72 1 our our PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 72 2 discussion discussion NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 72 3 about about ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 72 4 having have VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 72 5 hope hope NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 72 6 because because SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 72 7 god god PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 72 8 can can AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 72 9 always always ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 72 10 bring bring VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 72 11 about about ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 72 12 good good ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 72 13 from from ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 72 14 bad bad ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 72 15 situations situation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 72 16 reminded remind VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 72 17 me i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 72 18 of of ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 72 19 this this DET reflection_00681-2021_09 72 20 experience experience NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 72 21 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 72 22 particular particular ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 72 23 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 73 1 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 73 2 his his PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 73 3 introduction introduction NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 4 to to ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 73 5 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 73 6 holy holy PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 7 cross cross PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 8 education education PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 9 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 73 10 fr fr PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 11 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 73 12 james james PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 13 b. b. PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 14 king king PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 15 urged urge VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 73 16 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 73 17 “ " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 73 18 there there PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 73 19 is be VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 73 20 no no DET reflection_00681-2021_09 73 21 failure failure NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 22 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 73 23 lord lord PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 24 ’s ’s PART reflection_00681-2021_09 73 25 love love NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 26 can can AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 73 27 not not PART reflection_00681-2021_09 73 28 reverse reverse VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 73 29 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 73 30 no no DET reflection_00681-2021_09 73 31 humiliation humiliation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 32 he he PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 73 33 can can AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 73 34 not not PART reflection_00681-2021_09 73 35 exchange exchange VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 73 36 for for ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 73 37 blessing blessing NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 38 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 73 39 no no DET reflection_00681-2021_09 73 40 anger anger NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 41 he he PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 73 42 can can AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 73 43 not not PART reflection_00681-2021_09 73 44 dissolve dissolve VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 73 45 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 73 46 no no DET reflection_00681-2021_09 73 47 routine routine NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 73 48 he he PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 73 49 can can AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 73 50 not not PART reflection_00681-2021_09 73 51 transfigure transfigure VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 73 52 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 74 1 all all PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 74 2 is be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 74 3 swallowed swallow VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 74 4 up up ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 74 5 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 74 6 victory victory NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 74 7 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 75 1 it it PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 75 2 remains remain VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 75 3 only only ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 75 4 for for SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 75 5 us we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 75 6 to to PART reflection_00681-2021_09 75 7 find find VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 75 8 how how SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 75 9 even even ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 75 10 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 75 11 cross cross NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 75 12 can can AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 75 13 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 75 14 borne bear VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 75 15 as as ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 75 16 a a DET reflection_00681-2021_09 75 17 gift gift NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 75 18 ” " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 75 19 ( ( PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 75 20 “ " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 75 21 hope hope PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 75 22 holy holy PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 75 23 cross cross PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 75 24 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 75 25 christian christian ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 75 26 education education NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 75 27 ” " PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 75 28 by by ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 75 29 fr fr PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 75 30 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 76 1 james james PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 76 2 b. b. PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 76 3 king king PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 76 4 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 76 5 c.s.c c.s.c ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 76 6 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 77 1 moreau moreau ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 77 2 fye fye PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 77 3 week week NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 77 4 12 12 NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 77 5 ) ) PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 77 6 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 78 1 fr fr PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 78 2 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 79 1 king king PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 79 2 explains explain VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 79 3 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 79 4 because because SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 79 5 god god PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 79 6 can can AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 79 7 right right VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 79 8 any any DET reflection_00681-2021_09 79 9 wrong wrong NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 79 10 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 79 11 bring bring VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 79 12 about about ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 79 13 gifts gift NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 79 14 at at ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 79 15 any any DET reflection_00681-2021_09 79 16 moment moment NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 79 17 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 79 18 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 79 19 should should AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 79 20 always always ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 79 21 live live VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 79 22 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 79 23 hope hope NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 79 24 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 80 1 rather rather ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 80 2 than than ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 80 3 focusing focus VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 80 4 on on ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 80 5 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 80 6 failures failure NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 80 7 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 80 8 humiliation humiliation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 80 9 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 80 10 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 80 11 anger anger NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 80 12 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 80 13 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 80 14 should should AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 80 15 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 80 16 optimistic optimistic ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 80 17 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 80 18 god god PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 80 19 will will AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 80 20 reward reward VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 80 21 us we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 80 22 with with ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 80 23 gifts gift NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 80 24 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 80 25 that that SCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 80 26 ultimately ultimately ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 80 27 we we PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 80 28 will will AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 80 29 experience experience VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 80 30 victory victory NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 80 31 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 81 1 considering consider VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 81 2 fr fr PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 81 3 . . PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 82 1 king king PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 82 2 ’s ’s PART reflection_00681-2021_09 82 3 advice advice NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 82 4 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 82 5 my my PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 82 6 newfound newfound ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 82 7 https://campusministry.nd.edu/assets/105621/ https://campusministry.nd.edu/assets/105621/ ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 82 8 neligan neligan PROPN reflection_00681-2021_09 82 9 6 6 NUM reflection_00681-2021_09 82 10 hopefulness hopefulness NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 82 11 , , PUNCT reflection_00681-2021_09 82 12 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 82 13 will will AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 82 14 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 82 15 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 82 16 future future NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 82 17 be be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 82 18 more more ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 82 19 optimistic optimistic ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 82 20 about about ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 82 21 whatever whatever DET reflection_00681-2021_09 82 22 situation situation NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 82 23 i i PRON reflection_00681-2021_09 82 24 am be AUX reflection_00681-2021_09 82 25 in in ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 82 26 and and CCONJ reflection_00681-2021_09 82 27 focus focus VERB reflection_00681-2021_09 82 28 on on ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 82 29 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 82 30 potential potential ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 82 31 good good ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 82 32 outcomes outcome NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 82 33 rather rather ADV reflection_00681-2021_09 82 34 than than ADP reflection_00681-2021_09 82 35 the the DET reflection_00681-2021_09 82 36 bad bad ADJ reflection_00681-2021_09 82 37 ones one NOUN reflection_00681-2021_09 82 38 . . 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