l o w T o H a v e F u n F a m e F o r t a n « by J Z e l . Robert jBrousseau First Printing 25th Thousand I960 DIVINE W O R D PUBLICATIONS Techny, Illinois .Csteta® 1 N I H I L O B S T A T J o h n K e m p e r , S . V . D . I M P R I M A T U R ^L, A l b e r t C a r d i n a l M e y e r ^ A r c h b i s h o p of C h i c a g o J a n u a r y 29, 160 D@3Cfdü!ed FUN It's pretty hard to stay out in a blister- ing sun all day without getting a sun- burn. It's pretty hard to stay out in a blinding rainstorm without getting wet. It's pretty hard to eat onions constantly without smelling like an onion. But it's even harder to live in this old world of ours without some of its filth and evil rubbing off on us. That sounds almost unfair to this old planet of ours. A f t e r all, it's been pretty good to us in so many ways. It produces food for us. We get our homes f r o m her great forests. We get our clothing either directly from her plant life or indirectly from the animals she nourishes. Even, so many of the medicines t h a t restore h e a l t h t o us come f r o m h e r g r e a t mineral resources. Really, when you think about it, the world seems like the kindest friend we have. Especially does this seem true when we all see the peace- ful beauty of n a t u r e ; t h e golden sunsets, the majestic mountains, the rolling val- leys, and the mighty oceans. How is it that in one breath we can gasp at her beauty and in the next solemnly proclaim, that she is one of the greatest sources of evil? Well, when we say t h a t the world is evil, we are not blaming the trees and flowers and waterfalls and sun and sky. These aren't evil. They are God's own creation. They are good. We are only saying t h a t the spirit of the world is 3 something t h a t leads us to evil. That's not the world's fault. It's not God's, either. Man is the culprit. Since t h e fall of Adam, everywhere man has gone he has left a trail of tears and sin and de- struction behind him. He's kinda like the germ-bearing fly, t h a t leaves a path of filth every place it walks. Man has criss- crossed this planet of ours so many times there is hardly a place left uncontami- nated. Don't ever t r y to prove t h a t the spirit of the world is not evil. Don't t r y to prove t h a t the spirit of the world won't affect you. If you believe this, you are not a dream-boat, you are a sleep-walker. The evil of this world is all around you. It's kinda like walking in a fog. The fog's above you, it's in f r o n t of you, it's be- hind you, it's beside you, it's even within you as you pull it into your lungs with every breath. Remember, if you are not on your guard, the spirit of t h e world will snow you under; you will then be- come a part of its very wickedness. One of the principle ways the spirit of the world worms its way into our life is through recreation. We act like one groundhog following another. We just naturally follow other people. We see them do things and suddenly we find ourselves doing them. We read what they read; we go where they go; we end up doing the things they do. This usually happens in our recreation. W h y ? They seem to be having f u n and we want to have fun, too. So we begin to take up their forms of f u n and fancy. Sometimes this f u n and fancy are fatal. Let's take this thing recreation and pull it apart, unroll it, unravel it, disman- tle it, pick it to pieces and see what it is and the attitudes we need t o have about it. Take a good look a t t h e word REC- R E A T E : now chop off the prefix "re." What do you have? The word create. What does create mean? You know this. I t means to build up or make f r o m noth- ing. Now add "re" to create and see what you get. It means to rebuild or remake or a better word yet is restore. So now we can better understand the very pur- pose of recreation. It is supposed to re- store to us all the mental energy and physical relaxation we have lost. You might say it gives us a new start. It helps us to go back to the same old tasks with new vim, vigor and vitality, yeah man, real zip. The first mistake we make in regard to recreation is that we so often go to extremes. I t becomes a case of either too much or too little. It's hard to stay right down the middle. It's something like tight rope walking. Too much swing or sway is the downfall; swing too f a r one way or sway too f a r the other way and you're all set f o r a one point landing, on your nose. In recreation we have to t r y to stay on the tight rope of just the right amount all of the time. I suppose t h a t there are a few people t h a t don't do enough recreating, but I 5 don't think we can accuse the modern teenager of this extreme. Usually older people are guilty of this. Of course, if it should happen to anyone, young or old, it's still a mistake. You remember the old saying, "All work and no play will make little Mortimer a very dull boy." Most people, however, are on the other side of the fence recreating themselves to death. This seems to be the case not only f o r most teenagers, but f o r Amer- icans in general. The whole country seems to be working f a r harder at play- ing than at working. They will travel many hard miles in cars. They will t r a m p up mountains, through swamps and over desolate arid wastes. They'll work f a r into t h e night at the expense of losing sleep, injuring their eyesight or mashing their thumb with a hammer to build a boat or h o t r o d . T h e y ' l l p o u r u n t o l d amounts of money into some contraption or useless rig, even to the point of doing without something they really need. For what? For recreation, man, for recrea- tion. Don't you know a man needs time off? Don't you know a man needs to relax ? If you have been worshipping the god of recreation, then it's high time you take account of the situation. Man is not supposed to recreate to such a point t h a t he becomes an out and out loafer. The very purpose of recreation becomes de- feated. Remember we said t h a t the pur- pose of recreation was to restore your mental energy and physical relaxation so 6 t h a t you could go back to your tasks with more effectiveness. If you don't do any- thing but loaf, this purpose is defeated. You are only loafing so t h a t you can build up enough strength to loaf more and better. The only way t h a t type will die is rest themselves to death. Ask a | teenager like t h a t to do some work or help around the house. "Now really, mother, you don't know what you are saying. Me work? How ghastly. How unfair, and to think my own flesh and blood would ask me to cut the lawn. Don't you know I am t h e thinking type," (thinking of ways to get out of work, t h a t is). And so goes the line of ole blubber Bill. The only thing he will ever be good f o r is to render out and sell to J a soap company. Not only can a person make a mistake about the amount of recreation but they can easily make a mistake using the j wrong kind of recreation. The wrong kind can be either the kind t h a t damages your morals or the kind that dulls your brain completely. The wrong kind of movies and litera- ture and television shows can do a real job on your morals. That's the very rea- son there is such a thing as the Legion of Decency. It wasn't set up to let you know j u s t what t h e juiciest movies are so you would make sure not to miss them. It was set up to guide your recreation, to steer you away f r o m the movies that would attack your morals. Don't t r y to be the big shot t h a t says they never 7 bother me. Whether you notice it or not, t h i s ole spirit of the world is bound to rub off on you. Pretty soon you will be thinking like all those soggy-headed, sex- riddled stoops that are sometimes called stars. Remember this and pack it away in the ole brain box. If you attend a movie t h a t you know is objectionable for teen- agers, you are committing a sin by put- ting yourself deliberately in the occasion of sin. The same goes f o r television. If you know, or really suspect that a program will be suggestive, you are obligated not to watch it. The Pope has shown con- cern about television and the fact t h a t it is uncensored. He even suggests t h a t an organization something like the Le- gion of Decency be set up f o r television. All of this is to say nothing of the fact t h a t television is so often a mind-dead- ener. Some teenagers have watched tele- vision so much that not only has their imagination been destroyed, but their eyes have the stars of a zombie. One more note on brain deadeners, the comic book. I suppose if you are vitally interested in how little Ophelia Jones, of Smash Comic books escaped from the jaws of a lion without swallowing her bubble gum, t h a t ' s okay. But it's another thing when a so called future-builder-of- America spends hours upon hours pour- ing over such trite. If you must keep up with Ophelia, then do it moderately. You know, my dear teenager, recre- ation is kinda like a mirror. It pretty 8 well reflects the kind of person you are and the kind of adult you will be. If your recreation is sensible, you are probably sensible. If you have a useful hobby, and don't overdo it, you are probably natur- ally mechanical or inventive, and you probably won't be the lonesome type. If you follow the world of sports, and don't overdo it, you are probably the outdoor and active type. But brother, if your rec- reation tends toward the lustful side, you'll drown in immorality. If you don't do anything but recreate, you are lazy. Let your recreation be your examination of conscience. Don't be fooled by those that think t h a t all life is just eating, drinking and being merry. They have been snagged by the spirit of the world. Sure it's hard work to walk through the mud of this world and not get some on you, but make sure you don't sink in it. FAME Surely t h e good Lord must have a sense of humor. A f t e r all He made Gi- raffes, didn't He? But what must be f a r more amusing to Him than giraffes is mankind. True man is made to the image and likeness of God but sometimes you would think t h a t he was God Himself the way he acts. Man is f a r less in com- parison to God than a drop of water is to all t h e oceans in t h e world. And to think that sometimes these puny little pitiful people stand up and brazenly chal- lenge God Himself. I think God must shake His head, so to speak, and smile 9 at those little idiots. He must just shake His head when He sees any of us blowing our own bagpipes about how wonderful we are or about all t h e things we have accomplished or how our t r u e greatness is still undiscovered. He must be inclined sometimes to j u s t brush all of us f r o m the face of the earth like we would brush away a fly. Christ must have felt something like this toward the apostles. They played the big-shot game like all of us have played it. I'm thinking of one time in particular when the apostles had a heated debate about which one was t h e greatest. Sounds like a bunch of teenagers trying to prove t h a t they are best ball player or dancer or the best looking. Let me quote this little episode right straight f r o m St. Mark's gospel. It runs like this. "And they came to Capharnaum. When He was at home, He asked them, "What were you arguing about on the way?" But they kept silence, for they had dis- cussed which one of them was the great- est." Now j u s t use your imagination a little bit and try to picture this argument t h a t Christ referred to. There they were, plowing along a dusty road toward Cap- harnaum. Christ was probably walking a little ahead meditating or praying to His heavenly Father. The apostles being tired and lazy, too, had dropped back. One of them had dropped a little remark about one of his rare abilities or about how really great he was. They were off 10 to t h e races. Everyone was in the thick of the discussion. Never in your life have you heard such eloquent arguments. Never did you suspect such greatness. Never did you dream of such genius. But now you know; they're telling you. The discussion gets louder. The arguments get more and more heated. All of them are talking at once. Lucky they finally got to Capharnaum; they might have come to blows. Through it all, Christ had just kept right on walking serenely along. He could hear them in the background. He said nothing. They thought that He was unaware of the subject of their conver- sation. They forgot t h a t He knew their very thoughts. They hadn't escaped, f o r He popped the question at them. "What were you arguing about on t h e way?" They stood there silently and embar- rassed like a kid caught in the cookie jar. Christ didn't rack them. He was gentle but He used the opportunity to teach a lesson. Here's the way the scrip- ture continues. "And sitting down he called the Twelve and said to them, 'If any man wishes to be first, he shall be last of all, and servant of a l l . ' " The lesson hit home. No man is sup- posed to set himself above anyone else. No man is supposed to pride himself in his God-given gifts. To be great, we must be little. To be first we must be willing to be last. Least of all should we brag about all t h a t we think we are. If God wants us to be anything before men, He 11 will get us there but we must never seek such rank or pride ourselves in attaining it. We may have smiled a little at the apostles and their ambitious ways, but the lesson wasn't just for them, it was for all mankind and that means teen- kind, too. How many teenagers have acted the same way when they got in big popularity scrambles t h a t go on in school or club or neighborhood? How many times have you bragged ? How many times have you back-slapped to get a vote ? No, none of us should laugh at the apostles unless we want to laugh at our- selves. We've all acted the same way sometime or other. And it's a terrible thing when you see this desire f o r pop- ularity get clear out of hand in a teen- ager. It can ruin their life and their morals. Just look around you sometime, pick out a Jezebel or Joe t h a t ' s scrambling for popularity and watch what a fool they are making out of themselves. Oh, they would be the last one to admit that they are a f t e r any special notice. But it doesn't take a fortune teller to read be- tween the lines. Their very words and actions give them away. They are sooooo friendly, in fact, gushy. They are sooooo concerned with your problems. They are sooooo helpful to your least desire. What they never seem to realize is t h a t all of this is sooooo noticeable. They are like the jokers on a king's court t h a t will 12 dance to any tune, especially t h e tune you happen to be playing. Yes, I know that we are all supposed to be helpful and concerned and friendly to everyone, but not for our own sake but for their sake. When we are doing it for our own advantage, it is a whole lot different thing than doing it for someone else's advantage. It's the dif- ference between vice and virtue, even if it is all similar on the outside. It's vice to do something for someone when you are doing it just to become more pop- ular ; it's virtue to do something for someone when you are doing it out of love or charity. The acts may look alike but the motives are miles apart. One is dominated by self-love and t h e other is dominated by other-love. It's the differ- ence between the politician and the saint. You have to be a darn good actor to fool very many people very much for very long. The ole politician in you will squeeze out. But just let us suppose t h a t you are a great actor, so great that you can fool everyone. We would have to congratulate you on being such a fine actor but that doesn't keep you from being a hypocrite. Why are you a nypo- crite? Simply because you are thinking one way and acting another. Yeah, you might think old hypo Joe is a living doll when actually he is a lousy, low, living liar. When you get right down to it, no matter how you look at it, Joe and Jeza- bel aren't hurting themselves. As we j u s t 13 said, they may be living liars and t h a t hurts them but they may be in for even greater hurts. Take this viewpoint. They want popularity so bad it becomes a kind of god for them. They will do anything to get it, just anything. T h a t means any- thing often turns into everything. What does everything mean? It means going with the wrong people. I t means going to wrong places. It means doing the wrong things. Sure nuff, they may get popularity but brother they pay through the nose to get it. The price they pay is so often their morals and that means they've paid t h e full price; the price of their souls. Yes siree, this popularity is a wonderful thing, haw, haw, haw. One last item on the agenda is t h i s : what do these people do when they grow old and how do they die? That's not too tough to answer if you consider the situ- ation. The whole foundation on which they have built their castle of popularity begins to crumble. They "ain't" pretty anymore. Their muscles have turned to lard. When they smile, no more pearls, just spaces, wide open spaces. Their eyes aren't like shimmering stars anymore; they are more like burnt out light bulbs and they don't glow anymore. You see they built the whole world on themselves. Since there is nothing about them t h a t attracts people, their world comes tum- bling down. Suddenly, they find them- selves alone and so often that's the way they die. It all amounts to a simple story of failure. 14 You can get around all this mess of the popularity-pigs by just trying to care about others. Love them f o r their sake and do things f o r their sake, or don't do them at all. To live a full life doesn't mean to live it for yourself. It means to live it for others, then if God sees fit to make you known, well t h a t ' s His busi- ness. You'll be happy and you will make others happy. And, you will never grow old, not really, you will just grow mel- low like a fine old wine. FORTUNE J u s t how much is twenty five dollars? Well, it's not enough to buy an Easter outfit. It's not enough to buy a new suit. It's not enough on which to take a trip, even a short one. A good many people make t h a t much in one day. It's enough to buy your senior ring and possibly have a little to spare. It's enough to pay one week's rent on the house or in some places maybe two weeks rent. A family of f o u r might eat off of it for a week if they are careful how they buy. Come to think of it, it isn't very much and it's f a r from a fortune. It just won't buy very much. But there was a time when t h a t much money did buy the most precious thing in the whole world. It bought Christ. Yes, as crazy as it seems, Judas sold the life of Christ f o r thirty pieces of silver, which is worth about twenty five dollars or possibly a little more, now. Now that's some trade, huh, trading 15 God Himself for a few lousy bucks. That makes the God of the world worth less than your senior ring. That makes Him worth no more than your week's house rent. That makes Him worth no more than a week's food f o r your belly. Maybe twenty five little ole stinkeroos won't buy much now, but they bought more than heaven can hold. Makes you want to shake your head, doesn't it? Man, I can understand some things a little but I can't dig this one at all. Why? Yes, why, why, why would a guy like Judas go so f a r off the deep end? How could he do it? Well, we might try to excuse him by saying t h a t he was crazy. But Sacred Scripture doesn't even give us one hint t h a t he was teetering on his totter. We might try to excuse him by saying t h a t he never realized what he was doing. But there again, Sacred Scripture doesn't say that. Remember Christ was no rank stranger to Judas. Judas had walked and talked and associated with Christ for three years. He was there when Christ had given sight to the blind, hearing to the deaf and speech to the mute. He was there when Christ had cleansed the leper, gave strength to the lame and forgave sins. He was there when Christ walked on the water, multiplied the loaves and the fishes, and brought calm to a raging sea. Yep, and he was there when Christ took bread, j u s t plain unleavened bread in His hands and changed it into His own 16 flesh and blood. And it was t h e man Judas that received the first sacrilegious Communion. Oh, indeed, h e knew Christ all right. So many times He had seen Christ's powerful, clear and kind eyes flash against the sunlight. So many times he had heard t h a t beautiful and eternal voice pour out over the crowds. So many times he had seen the elegant lines of this tall, lean Christ silhouetted against the evening sky as He knelt in prayer to His Father. With all this in his mind Judas still did what he did. There's just one conclusion t h a t we can come t o : Judas did what he did for money, nothing more. It wasn't f o r a fortune, just thirty pieces of silver, twenty-five bucks. The worm of the world had dug so deep into Judas t h a t it had chewed up his very insides. He was only a shell of a man. He had no ideals or sense of love or loyalty left. He had just one god and it wasn't Christ, it was money. It makes you feel a little sick inside, doesn't it, kids? I t sounds like a bad, impossible dream. You feel like saying, "Let's talk about something else." But do you know what? That very worm called money t h a t chewed Judas up may be chewing on you now. Maybe he hasn't gotten down to your toes yet, but he may have set up housekeeping in your heart. Think about it! Have you ever felt t h a t worm wiggle in the world of your wishes and fond hopes? No age and no people in history have 17 ever had so much of the world's goods. Poverty is rare and hunger is exceptional in this country. You are the richest teen- agers that ever lived. You wear better clothes, eat better food, live in better homes and have more money to spend than any teenager in history. I know you hate to hear these stuffy old adults say, "Well, in my day we never had it so easy." But listen, gang, f o r one time a t least, I must agree with them. They just plain didn't have as much as you have. You don't have to go very many years back to prove it. The old clunker clicking off these lines is j u s t t h i r t y years old and he remembers them only too well. Some of you were already born when these conditions existed. Most adults remember well the 5c hamburger, and it had all the trimmings, too. You could buy a good pair of all leather shoes f o r j u s t $1.99. You could get into the neighborhood movie for 10c and 15c for adults. You could get a haircut f o r 15c. You could buy a brand new Ford or Chevy in 1941 f o r $800 and things were beginning to get prosperous, then. And here are a few more prices: eggs, 12c a dozen; bread, 10c a loaf; milk, 7c a quart. Now please don't shed any tears for me, but this old guy delivered groceries on a bicycle every day for $1.50 a week, that's right, a week. Besides, he was only twelve years old. Oh, you don't believe things were like this, huh ? Go home and ask Mom or Dad. They know it's correct. 18 Some of your f a t h e r s worked for just a dollar a day in the depression and sup- ported a family on it, too. I suppose that's the very reason so many parents of today give their little offspring so much. They didn't have any- thing .when they were kids and they want their kids to have the things they couldn't afford. Of course, all of this can have a re- verse effect on youth. It can easily cause him to have a mixed up notion about money. This can produce two effects: the kids that think that money means happiness and the more you have the happier you a r e ; and the kids t h a t think money grows on trees and you don't need to work for it. Well, if money makes you happy, then why aren't all t h e rich people in the world happy? It didn't make Judas hap- py, why should it make anyone happy? That doesn't mean all rich people aren't happy, but they are not happy because of their money, but in spite of it. Even if a rich man tried to prove t h a t it did make him happy, he would still have to admit that it is a great risk to his soul. J u s t remember that Christ said it was as hard for a rich man to get to heaven as for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle. Now you know that's going to be a tough squeeze f o r the camel and it's going to be a rough squeeze f o r ole gold- pants, the rich man. Of course, we can't live without money, we need it, but we shouldn't live f o r it. 19 No, and as I said before, money doesn't grow on trees or any place else for that matter. Don't think of your poor old Pop and Mom as a cash register, push a button and out flies the cash box. Maybe it's easy come and easy go f o r you, but they may have their blood in those bucks. If you don't appreciate money now and be careful with it, you may never learn. I'm not telling you to be a thick-skinned tight-wad, never be that, but don't be so generous with other peo- ple's money, especially your parents. A couple of times already, I have beat my drums about the teenager's attitude toward work. J u s t let me play t h a t tune once more and this will be the last time. The reason I want to mention it h e r e is because of the close association between money and work, or at least there should be such an association. You should hold tight to the fact t h a t work is the or- dinary way people get money. Some get it other ways and some are in the pokie for the way they tried to get it. You might be left a fortune by someone, but those are the things t h a t hit newspapers and they wouldn't hit if they weren't ex- ceptional. Work is the usual way of get- ting your wages, and ninety-five percent of mankind must figure on traveling that way. The result of having too much money in your teen years could explode this whole idea. When money comes as easy as it does f o r many teenagers, they can get the idea t h a t it is always going to 20 be t h a t way. You may have a racket now, but you won't always have a racket. If you think you will, you will be like so many people today t h a t think life is like an easy buck. They think they will hit it rich some day. They keep looking f o r t h e oil well in their backyards, they never get over t h e idea that they haven't hit it because their luck is bad. Their luck is bad because they never did anything to improve it. They flit from job to job. They never settle down. They dream "great dreams" but when they wake up, they find dreams aren't bucks. Bucks mean work and work they won't do. Most people get things in life by just plugging away, not j u s t f o r a day or week or month, but for life. That's the way you will get it, so figure on working f o r it. Well, there you have it, money and work. One you want and seldom g e t ; the other you never want and always get. That's life and we can't change it. I t is as old as Adam and Eve. It happened the day the Lord tossed them out of para- dise. One of t h e punishments was t h a t they would have to work by the sweat of their brows. And they did. So will we. But you know, I suppose it's a good thing a f t e r all, because it helps us to have a proper view about money and without the proper view, we might cash all our chips in a t the window marked "HELL." 21 Ot/te* l^eaeUn'd £o* TEENAGER'S FAVORITE MOTHER TEENAGER'S FAVORITE F A T H E R By Sister Theresita, S.S.J. The views expressed by youth in these booklets hardly indicated delin- quency, but r a t h e r t h a t t h e y have high ideals. By pointing out the qualities they look f o r in their parents, they prove t h a t 'good example is the best teacher.' These ideals point t h e way to good Christian living, and if put into practice would bring about good family relation- ships. No. 179 & 182 respectively 10c Also by Sister Theresita: TEENAGER'S FAVORITE TEACHER No one will deny t h a t honest criticism leads to progress. These views expressed by youth will no doubt be an aid to many a teacher and we are sure the teachers will be g r a t e f u l f o r it. No. 295 15c THE H A P P I E S T FELLOW ALIVE Pleasure won't make you happy, but loving God and keeping His command- ments will. This booklet shows you why. It proves t h a t committing sin makes you unhappy; and t h a t t h e boy who loves God with all his h e a r t will get the most out of living. He'll be t h e happiest fellow alive! No. 141 10c 22 THE CALL OF THE MISSIONS The answers to many questions about missionaries and mission work are han- dled in this little booklet. The story of modern means to preach Christ's reli- gion and to save immortal souls. No. 158 10c SEX IS SACRED With h o r r i f y i n g perversions daily capturing the headlines of the paper, we f o r g e t t h a t all t h e same, sex was created bv God and f o r all t h a t — SACRED. No. 154 10c TEEN-AGE DATING A booklet written especially f o r teen- agers with tips about dating, entertain- ment. Told in a teen-ager's language in a practical, straight-forward manner. No. 153 10c THIS THING CALLED LOVE Practical advice on t h e numerous problems of love, courtship, and life to- gether. No. 298 15c LOVE IS EVERYTHING Some interesting items included in this booklet a r e : • The philosophy of love • Your lifes work is to love • Sex—Love—and t h e difference • Can I be sure t h a t I ' m in love • Instruction before m a r r i a g e No. 299 15c 23 THE W I F E DESIRED No book on marriage has ever been so highly praised by the reviewers. Over 200,000 copies have already been sold. No. 500 Paperbound 65c No. 500B Cloth Deluxe $2.75 No. 500C Hardbound $1.00 MAN FOR HER The Man f o r Her completes the per- fect pair. I t already has achieved the wide popularity accorded its companion, The Wife Desired. No. 511 Paperbound 85c No. 512 Clothbound $3.00 24 Other Readin's For Teens . . • 179 - Teenager's Favorite Mother 10c • 182 - Teenager's Favorite Father 10c • 295 - Teenager's Favorite Teacher 15c • 115 - Purity and Power 10c • 113 - M o d e s t y 10c • 141 - Happiest Fellow Alive 10c • 158 - Call of the Missions 10c • 154 - Sex Is Sacred 10c • 112 - Speaking of Purity 10c • 153 - Teenage Dating 10c • 299 - Love Is Everything 15c • 298 - This Thing Called Love 15c • 500 - The W i f e Desired 65c • 511 - The M a n for H e r 85c O r d e r From Divine Word Publications TecAny, Illinois