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Keying and markup guidelines are available at the Text Creation Partnership web site . eng Love -- Religious aspects -- Early works to 1800. 2004-12 TCP Assigned for keying and markup 2004-12 Apex CoVantage Keyed and coded from ProQuest page images 2005-01 Judith Siefring Sampled and proofread 2005-01 Judith Siefring Text and markup reviewed and edited 2005-04 pfs Batch review (QC) and XML conversion A TREATISE OF LOVE . Written by IOHN ROGERS , Minister of Gods Word in Dedham in Essex . God is Loue , and he that dwelleth in Loue dwelleth in God , and God in him , 1 Iohn 4. 16. This is the message that yee heard from the beginning , that ye loue one another , 1 Iohn 3. 11. And this Commandement haue we of him , that he that loueth God , should loue his Brother also , 1 Iohn 4 21. LONDON , Printed by H. Lownes and R. Young , for N. Newbery , at the signe of the Starre in Popes head Alley . 1629. TO MY LOVING Neighbours of Dedham . LOuing and good Neighbours , the doctrine of Faith being gone forth into the World , I thought it not amisse that the Daughter should attend vpon her Mother : and therefore to put forth a Treatise of Loue , to follow after Faith , as they were both handled in your hearing not very many yeares since . Now I desire that these things may liue and speake vnto you , when I shall be taken from you : In which two if you shall profit , you cannot but doe well , God shal be much honoured , and I shall haue my great desire . Now this of Loue , I dedicate vnto you , that as you haue learned in some measure to loue one another . so that you doe it still , and encrease more and more . I found you , by the care & diligence of my worthy Predecessor , in a peaceable state . Thus , through Gods mercy , haue you continued without rents or diuisions , sidings or part taking , in peace and vnitie these three and twenty yeares of my abode with you : wherein both the head and bodie of the Congregation looking one way , much ill hath bin hindred , and much good done and mainetained . And I hope so to leaue you : yea , my hearts desire is , that you may liue in peace , and godly loue when I am gone , that as you haue done , so you may draw altogether as one man. So shall nothing be too hard for you , nor no force of wickednesse bee able to preuaile against you ; As a bound Fagot cannot be broken , though the band loosed and sticks shattred asunder , becomes weake . As few or no suits of Law haue bin found amongst you , but differences either betweene your selues agreed , or by indifferent Neighbours compounded ; so doe still in the name of God. And as I haue euer found you forward in good sort to any deed of Charity , wherin you haue bin moued , besides the good prouision made for your own poor : so I beseech you to continue , that you may shew forth the fruit of the Ministry of the Word so long , so long continued among you ; and other townes seeing your well-doing and good order , may be prouoked by your example ▪ and so God may haue much honour by you , and hee take pleasure to dwell among you , and be the God of your Posteritie after you , from one generation to another . Which I beseech him to grant for his mercies and his Christ his sake . And you that be young now ( which God be thanked giue good hope ) if God let you liue to stand vp in your Predecessours roomes , see that you labour to quit your selues as well as they haue done ; and better will be required , as hauing more light euery day , & their example to make vse of . In which hope I take my leaue , and commend you all heartily to the grace of God , remaining till death Yours in what seruice of Loue I can , IOHN ROGERS . A TREATISE OF LOVE . CHAP. I. HAuing finished the Doctrine of Faith , let me adde a few things concerning Loue , which were deliuered from the same Text , 1 Iohn 3. 23. in my ordinary course one after another . This is the commandement of God , that wee beleeue in the Name of his Sonne Iesus Christ , and loue one another . Which , seeing the holy Ghost hath ioyned together , as two necessary & inseparable companions ; and that the duety of Loue is of so necessary vse in the course of our liues , I thought good to adde some things hereof to the former Treatise . The holy Ghost hauing had occasion in Verse 22. of that Chapter , to speak of the keepers of Gods commandements , who are the parties whose prayers God will heare ; now in this Verse , lest any should doubt and aske the question , But what be those commandements ? he therefore names them , and orings them all to these two heads ; Faith in Iesus Christ , and Loue to our brethren : and these he exhorts vnto , to beleeue in Christ Iesus , and to loue one another . Now , in that the Apostle hath reduced to two heads all the commandements of God and our dueties , he hath mercifully prouided for our weaknesse , and preuented those carnall excuses whereby most men cloake their ignorance and carelesse neglect of heauenly things : Oh , they be so dull to conceiue , and the Scriptures so darke , and they haue such ill memories , and the Scripture so large , as they can make no worke of them ; which is Adam-like , to turne the fault from themselues vpon God. As if they should say , If God had giuen vs shorter and plainer Scripture , and better wits and memories , wee would haue done great matters . But this is but the wickednesse and falshood of their hearts : for they can finde wit and memory enough for the world , their profits , pleasures , or lusts , and what they haue a minde to ; and why should they not serue them for better things , if they would bend themselues thereto ? And God hath mercifully left vs so much of his Word , as is necessary to saluation , cleare and plaine to euery humble & teachable heart , that seekes helpe of God by prayer , and is willing to be ruled thereby . Yea , hee hath gathered the whole into short summes ; As the whole Law and will of God , so large and scattered in the Scriptures , is referred to ten words , Deut. 10. 4. which are the ten commandements , deliuered by God , Exod. 20. and these ten referred to two , Matth. 22. 40. and these two to one , Galat. 5. 14. So our whole direction concerning Prayer , is in that short plat-forme called the Lords-prayer . So hath the Church of God since , out of the Apostles writings , gathered all the things we are to beleeue vnto eternall life , into twelue Articles . So hath God prouided in this lightsome , ( and in that respect ) blessed age of ours , abundance of good Books of the points and principles of our Religion , some more large , some more briefe ; Catechismes for euery bodies turne , that euen the dullest , and of worst memory , may come to the knowledge of God , themselues , and their dueties , and the things of saluation , if they bee not shamefully carelesse . So that the ignorance of the people of this Land ( which yet is fearfully grosse , and more than any thinke for , but they that try it ) is affected and wilfull ; and therefore their condemnation will be ( as more fearfull than of other Nations , so ) most iust and inexcusable . It 's lamentable to see how the precious time is spent with many , in sinfull courses and exercises ; with most , in eager pursuit of the world , the profits , honours , and pleasures thereof , as if they were the necessary things , and end of our being here ; when the meanes of the knowledge of God , and the things that concerne our owne happinesse lye wofully neglected . Hath God after the long night of superstition , ignorance , and idolatry , that our Fore-fathers lay vnder , caused the day to arise , & the sun of Righteousnesse to shine so long vpon vs , and shall wee yet loue darknesse and not light , be ignorant , and grope at noone day ? Hath God set vs vp with those precious meanes of grace and life , and giuen vs our full scope in them , when he hath denied them to Nations twenty times as great as our selues , and shall we make sleight of them ? Oh how many vnder the tyrannie of Antichrist , that would skip at the crummes that fall from our tables , would aduenture their liues for the scraps and leauings of such things as we cast vnder our feet ? They would and cannot ; we may and will not : may we not iustly feare , lest God ere long snatch his Word from vs , and bestow it vpon them , that will make better vse of it ? The Lord awaken the people of this Land , to know the day of their Visitation , and to vnderstand the things that belong to their peace , before the decree come forth , and it be too late . Get knowledge and vnderstanding , search the Scriptures , make vse of such good helpes as the time affords plentifully . Take our time : Say not , I am dull , I haue a bad memory . God hath taken away these pretences : therefore they will not goe for payment at that day . Next , obserue , that Faith and Loue are ioyned together as two inseparable companions : wheresoeuer one is , there is the other also , and misse one misse both . He that hath Faith , must needs haue Loue ; for Faith worketh by Loue , Gal. 5. Faith assuring vs of Gods loue , to vs , makes vs loue God againe , and our neighbour for his sake , at his commandement , and for his Image that is in him . And wheresoeuer true Loue is , there certainly Faith hath gone before ; these can be no more seuered than sunne and light , good tree and fruit . As for that , 1 Cor. 13. If I had all Faith , and haue no Loue , I am a sounding brasse , and tinkling cymball : it 's to be vnderstood of the greatest measure of the Faith of miracles , which indeed might be seuered from that of Loue , as in Iudas ; not meant of iustifying Faith , of which before in the Treatise of Faith. This may bee comfortable to many humble soules , that vnfainedly loue God ( as appeares by good signes ) that loue his Word , Ordinances , and their Neighbours ; but Saints especially , and yet doubt whether they haue any Faith or no : they may as well doubt whether the sunne be risen , when they see the beames therof shine in at their window . It 's impossible to haue Loue , till we haue Faith wrought in vs , which is the mother-grace ; as impossible , as to haue good fruit without a tree for it to grow vpon . 2. This on the contrary , witnesseth fearfully against the people of England , and the most part euery where , that there is no Faith among them , seeing Loue is so scarce and hard to bee found . The manifold idle and malicious wilfull suites in Law , the many contentions , brawlings , raylings , and fallings out for trifles , doe shew there is but a little loue . So much oppression , cruelty , extortion , bribery , symonie , such racking and rending , euery man for himselfe , not caring who sinke , so hee swimme ; so much deceit in bargainings and dealings , in buyings and sellings , as one knowes scarce whom to beleeue , euery one spreads a net for his neighbour , to catch him if he can : such couetous pinching , neglect of giuing where cause is , of free lending , by reason of vsurious lending , and innumerable such courses as these , doe cry out with a loud voice , that Loue is but rare . Such neglect of duety to others soules , so few regarding to admonish , reproue , exhort , comfort , when , and where there is neede , few able , fewer willing : Besides , so little loue to the Saints and true seruants of God. All these beare witnesse strongly , that Loue is wanting ; and therefore , certainly , that there is no Faith : which where it is , cannot but shew it selfe by true Loue in the fruits thereof . Let men therefore , whosoeuer they be , keepe silence concerning Faith , except they can proue it by their Loue ; which while they liue in the quite contraries thereto , they can neuer doe . Next , whereas Faith and Loue being ioyned together , yet Faith is set in the first place , note , that though in regard of time , they be wrought together in the soule , yet in order of nature , Faith goes first , vniting vs to Christ , from whom are deriued into vs , Loue , and all other graces . First , this confutes that Popish assertion , That Loue informeth Faith , or giues a being vnto it ; which cannot be , since Faith is before it . It declares and makes Faith manifest where it is , and proues the soundnesse and truth of it , but giues no forme or being thereto . 2 ▪ This sheweth , that where Faith is not , there it 's impossible Loue should be ; therefore an vnbeleeuing man or woman , neither doth , nor can loue God or their Neighbour : which is a fearfull thing to be spoken , and yet most true : Therefore , Lord , how should it awaken such ( which are the greatest part ) to labour earnestly after this grace of Faith ! get this and get all ; and so on the contrary . 3 Lastly , let none of those that are about the worke of Faith , hold off , and say , If I could loue God as I would , and my Neighbour as I should , then I could beleeue : Nay , rather know , that you must first beleeue , and then you shall be able to loue God and your Neighbour . Obiect . But here some may obiect , that whereas the Apostle hath brought all our dueties to these two , Faith in Christ , and Loue to our Neighbour ; that this is defectiue , for as much as the Loue of God , which is the chiefe of all , is left out . Answ. We are to know , that it 's not left out , but necessarily included in the loue of our neighbour , from whence that doth proceed : for as hee that loues God , cannot but loue his neighbour , so no man can loue his neighbour truely , in whom the loue of God is not wrought , for whose Image , and at whose commandement he loueth him , 1 ▪ Ioh. 5. 2. CHAP. 2. Of the Loue of God. OF which loue of God , seeing both it 's the principall , and that wherby we may know whether the loue of our neighbour be in vs , yea or no , which is the point wee mainly intend in this Treatise ; I will therefore speake a little of the same . The loue of God is a most precious and honourable esteeming and affecting of him , with a chiefe delight in him aboue all things . God is worthy to be loued vnmeasurably , because he is infinitely and vnmeasurably holy , pure , perfect , and good in himselfe . Also because he hath been vnmeasurably good to vs , especially in giuing his Son to the death for vs. Iohn 3. 16. So God loued , i. e. so vnmeasurably and vnutterably , &c. 1 Iohn 4. 9 , 10. & Ephes. 3. To know the loue of Christ , which passeth knowledge : But that wee cannot ; therefore wee must loue him , as Deut. 6. 5. with all our heart , soule and might . But this we cannot neyther , since the fall of Adam ; therfore we must loue him with an vpright heart , and this God will accept in Christ. Wee must loue him simply and absolutely for himselfe , and all other things for him , in , and vnder him . We must not loue him as we loue other things , but aboue all other things in the world . Mat. 10. 37. Hee that loueth father or mother more , &c. Nay , Luke 14. 26. Hee that hates not father , &c. that is , when they would withdraw vs from God and his Obedience : therefore Deut. 13. 6. are we bidden , if any , neuer so neare and deare , should entise vs to Idolatry , wee should reueale him , that he may be put to death . If wee loue him not aboue all things , he is not our God. And this we ought to doe , first , because he is goodnesse it selfe , which is most worthy of all loue , and wheresoeuer we see any part of this Image , it ought to draw our hearts vnto it . Secondly , he hath created vs after his owne Image , redeemed vs by his deare Sonne , preserued vs alwayes , and multiplyed vpon vs , and daily reneweth innumerable mercies both for soule and body ; and doe not these ( besides what hee hath promised vs hereafter ) challenge all our best affections ? Thus haue the worthy seruants of God done in their seuerall generations . The holy Martyrs , who haue forsaken all for his loue , and counted meanly of their liues for his Names sake : yea , chose rather to endure the vttermost torturings , that cruell persecutors could inflict vpon them , rather than doe any thing to his dishonour . This condemneth all such as are so farre from this loue of God , as they are no better than haters of God : Oh , there be none so vile . Yes , wee are all such by nature , till God worke a change , Rom. 1. 30. and 8. 7. The carnall minde is enmity against God ; for it 's not subiect to the will of God , nor indeed can be . Saint Paul , Rom. 5. Colos. 1. saith , we were enemies to God. 2 Chro. 19. 2. Wouldst thou loue them that hate God : 1. Ahab a wicked Idolater , and such as he ? so also in the end of the Second Commandement , see if God call not Idolaters , and such as pretend great loue to him , and are at great cost and paines with him , haters of him . Such be all Atheists , Heretickes , &c. Papists be Idolaters , and great haters of God , persecuting also his Truth & Saints with fire and sword . Among our selues be many abominable blasphemers , contemners of God and all goodnesse : The better any person , thing , speech , action , or duety is , the more they hate it ; and the worse any thing , or any company is , the better it pleaseth them . These be Sathans eldest sonnes , marching in the Fore-ranke of the Deuils Band , to whom ( without rare Repentance ) belongs nothing but a fearfull expectation of vengeance , and violent fire to deuoure such aduersaries , Heb. 10. 27. It condemneth all such as loue not God , which indeed are to be ranked with the former haters of God , saue that they doe it not in so high a degree . But most will say , they loue God , or else it were pity of their liues , and they defie him , that shall say , they loue not God : What , am I a dogge ? Thus , if great words would carry it , euery body would bee louers of God : but it's deedes must proue it , not words . And the Holy Ghost hath left vs certaine and infallible markes , to know the loue of God by , by which if you will be tryed , let vs briefly heare some of them , and iudge your selues accordingly . They that loue God , hate euill , Psalme 97. 10. They will keepe Gods commandements , Ioh. 14. 21. 1 Iohn 5. 3. They that loue God , would that all others did so , and draw as many to God as they can ; as Philip did Nathanael , Iohn 1. 41. Matthew the Publicans , Mat. 9. to our Sauiour Christ. Isay 2. 1. and reioyce to see any come home to God by Repentance , as the Angels of Heauen doe . They will grieue , when they see him wronged or dishonored ; as Moses , when he threw downe the Tables ; and Phinees , when he ran thorough Zimri and Cozbi . Lots righteous soule was vexed at the vncleane conuersation of the Sodomites . They that loue God , will loue his Word , being holy and pure as himselfe , and containing his good will. They loue his faithfull Ministers : he that receiueth you , receiueth me , Luke 10. They will loue Gods Children and his Image , wheresoeuer they see it , 1 Iohn 5. 1. Psalme 16. 3. They will take paines in his seruice , as Iacob did night and day in Labans , for the loue hee bare to Rachel : and be at cost , as Dauid towards the building of the Temple ; and Mary , with her boxe of precious ointment poured on our Sauiour Christ. Yea , and speedily hee will goe about what God cals him to ; as Abraham that rose early to offer Isaac , and Hamor , who made speed to get the Shechemites to yeeld to the demands of Dinahs brethren , because he so dearly loued her . They that loue God , are willing and glad to meet him , or heare from him in the Ordinances of his Word , Prayer , Sacraments , as the wife desireth , and is glad to heare from her absent husband , and to send or receiue tokens to him and from him . They that loue God greatly , are content to suffer for his Names sake ; as Paul , that said , I am not ready to be bound , but to dye at Ierusalem for the Name of Christ. And that worthy Martyr , that said , Shall I dye but once for my Sauiour ? I could find in my heart to dye a hundred times for him . Also they long for his last comming , for their full Redemption , and that they might bee euer with the Lord , as 1 Thes. 4. 17. As the Church , Reu. 22. Come , Lord Iesu , come quickly . Or else they long to be with him , in the meane time , as Paul , I desire to be dissolued , and to be with Christ , which is best of all . Now , if these be the true and certaine markes of the Loue of God , and where these be wanting , or much more , where the contraries to these bee found , there is no loue of God ; then must we necessarily conclude against the most part of people in all places , that there is little loue of God abiding in them , as will appear , if we look ouer the particulars : which might strike terror into their hearts , if it were well considered . For those whose hearts by these markes can beare witnesse on their sides , let them labour to encrease more and more in this loue of God , and see what priuiledges God hath promised and bequeathed vnto them . Psal. 91. the three last Verses , Because hee hath loued mee , therefore will I deleuer him , &c. He shall call vpon me , and I will heare him , I will bee with him in trouble , I will be with him , and glorifie him : With long life will I satisfie him , and shew him my saluation . And Iohn 14. 21. Hee that loueth mee , shall be loued of my Father , and I will loue him , and shew mine own self vnto him . vers . 23. Yea , these are they , to whom God hath promised his heauenly Kingdome . Iames 1. 12. to them that loue him . Thirdly , it condemnes those , that loue any thing more than they loue God ; as father , mother , wife , childe , profit , pleasure , friend , yea , or life it selfe : which is no other than Idolatry , and to make that our God , which wee loue aboue God , and spirituall Adultery , as St. Iames cals it , Iames 4. 4. as a man that loues a harlot more than his owne wife : yet what is more common than this ? yea , the trade of it with the common sort , who for the sake of the things aboue named , care not what dueties they omit , or what sinnes they commit against God : who yet ought to be loued aboue all , and all things to be loued , in , and for him , and vnder him , and as may stand with our loue to him , and not otherwise . Yea , the seruants of God , because their loue is not perfect , suffer many things to come in betweene God and vs , and steale our heart and affection in part from him , and that obedience that wee owe vnto him : which we ought to bewaile deeply , and labour euery day more and more , that his loue may bee greater in vs , than to any thing ; nay , all things else that are in the world besides . And so much of the Loue of God briefly , hauing taken it but by the way . CHAP. 3. Of Loue to our Neighbour : and first , what it is . NOw I come to handle the duety of Loue to our Neighbour , as that which necessarily floweth from the Loue of God. And of this , first , What it is : secondly , of the Notes it 's knowne by : thirdly , of the Properties of true Loue : and fourthly , of the persons that we ought to loue . 1 Loue is a sanctified affection of the heart , whereby whosoeuer is indued withall , endeuoureth to doe all the good he can to all ; but especially , to them that be nearest vnto him . 1. It s an affection seated ( as we say ) in the heart , as all the other of hate , hope , feare , ioy , griefe , &c. as the vnderstanding is in the head . These are in themselues good , and not euill , being giuen to Adam in his creation , in whom they were all pure , well ordered , and in good tune , louing the good , and hating the contrarie , and so in the rest . But euer since the Fall , they are vtterly corrupted : the will and affections haue not onely lost all their purity , but the will is become most rebellious , and all the affections disordered , and turned the contrary way : As this of Loue , is turned to the loue of euill , to malice , reuenge , and selfe-loue . 2. I say its a sanctified affection : for ere a man can loue , he must be regenerate , & sanctiffed throughout ; as in his vnderstanding and will , so in his affections : which is , when a man is vnited to Christ by Faith , he is sanctified by the Spirit ; that is , the old and cursed disposition that is in vs by nature , is put away , and a new and contrary frame and disposition of soule , wherein wee were at first created , is brought into vs , the vnderstanding enlightned , the will made plyant and frameable to the will of God , and so the affections purged and restored to their former integrity in some measure ; as to hate the euill , so to loue the good , to loue God and our brethren for Gods cause . So that no vnregenerate or vnsanctified man , can loue eyther God , himselfe , or any body else . True Loue proceeds from a pure heart , good conscience , & faith vnfained , 1 Tim. 1. 5. from a soule purified by the spirit , 1 Pet. 1. 22. And Gal. 5. it s reckoned among the fruits of the spirit . And 2 Pet. 1. 7. its reckoned among other graces , Faith , Temperance , Patience , Godlinesse , &c. so that one is no more in vs naturally , than the rest . There be many things that the blinde world call Loue , which are not this grace that we speake of , nor come in any such account with God. That betweene the fornicator and his harlot , is no loue but lust ; as in Amnon , which turned as soone into hatred . Between drunkards and theeues , is no loue , but conspiracy : for Loue reioyceth not in iniquity , but in the truth : that is , in that that is good . Nor that naturall loue of parents to their children . This is in bruit creatures : the Cowe loues , nourisheth , and defendeth her Calfe ; the Goose and Gander tend and brood their young . Nor that ciuill loue that is between ordinary people in the world , that stands only in eating and drinking , prating and playing together , which they count such loue and good fellowship , as who so speakes against , and cals for better spending of the time , is cryed out vpon , as an enemy to all loue , and not to be suffered . But our Sauiour Christ , nor the Gospell , comes not to bring such friendship , but rather debate . Such as that , was among the Heathen , and is only carnall , whereas true loue respecteth the soule , and that most of all ; which is no whit seene , nor thought of among carnall men . Vnregenerate men cannot loue their neighbours ; for while they be kinde to their bodies , and haue no care of their soules , is this worthy to be called Loue ? It s as ones friend or child should haue a hurt in the braine , and another in the heele , and he should carefully looke to the heele , and let the braine putrifie . Carnall Parents , that pamper their childrens bodies , and prank them vp braue , and lay for great portions for them , and suffer their soules to welter in sinne , and dye and perish for want of instruction , admonition , prayer , and holy example , is this to bee called Loue ? what do they more than Turkish Parents ? The wicked Magistrate , that is very friendly to all the Countrey , and keepes a good house all the yeare , and yet suffers sinne to reigne , and houses of disorder to abound in his circuit , the Sabbaths to be prophaned , and , like Gallio , cares for none of those things , call you this Loue ? The negligent Minister , that sets on the great Pot , and keeps good Hospitality among his neighbours , and yet suffers their soules to famish for want of breaking to them the Bread of life . The carnall neighbour , that to the body of his neighbour is very kinde , but suffers sinne to rest vpon his soule , and rather nourisheth him therein , than rebuketh him thereof ; this in the language of the holy Ghost , is hatred and no loue , Leuit. 19. 17. And what hold is there of vnsanctified mens loue one to another ? They may be very inward , and great friends now , and on the sodaine , vpon a small occasion , fall out , and become deadly enemies . They oft goe arme in arme to the Ale-house or Tauern , embracing each other , and stabbe one another ere they come forth . See a liuely picture of this , Iudges 9. in that sworne friendship that was betweene Abimelech , and the House of Shechem , who yet came shortly to hate each other so , as they neuer lin , till they had wrought ▪ each others , destruction . And no maruell ; for euen the Heathen could say , That true friendship was grounded onely vpon vertue . Neither can vnregenerate men ( much lesse ) loue the children of God : For there is a naturall enmity between the seed of the Woman , and the seed of the Serpent , which all are , till they be regenerate ; nor can any man loue grace in another , till hee be sanctified , and gracious himselfe . They may bee conuinced in conscience , that they bee the good seruants of God , and better than themselues , as Saul was of Dauid , Herod of Iohn Baptist , Pilate of our Sauiour Christ , pronouncing him Iust. They may bee restrained from hurting them , as Laban and Esau from hurting Iacob , one in his hote pursuit of him , the other in his meeting him with foure hundred men . If a mans wayes please God , hee will make his enemies at peace with him , Prouerbs 16. As Daniel was preserued safe among the Lyons , and the three Children tooke no hurt in the fire . Nay , they may doe them good , as Cyrus did the Iewes , restoring them to their land and liberty , and furnishing them with all necessaries to the building the City and Temple of Ierusalem . Ahashuerosh also and Artashashte to Ezra and Nehemiah , and by them to the people of God. But they doe it , as Caiaphas , that vttered that prophesie , not of himselfe , but as he was high Priest that yeare . So these are vsed of God to such purposes : As the Rauens that brought Elias bread and pottage in the morning , and againe at euen . But loue them they cannot , at least , not for their godlinesse sake . They may doe a man outwardly some good , & t is not amiss to take it , yet it s not good to bee too much beholding to them . And what hold is there of their good will ? If they cry Hosanna now , they may cry Crucifie him by and by . If as Acts 14. 18 ▪ 19. they so highly esteeme vs , as to be ready to deifie vs , yet by and by , vpon a lying report , they will be ready to stone vs. As Herod reuerenced Iohn Baptist , and yet at the perswasion of Herodias , cut off his head . Dauid saith , it was his familiar , that ate bread with him , and tooke counsell with him , that yet lift vp his heele against him , Psal. ● . 1. 9. They are gone , and hide their heads . If the multitude go the other way , or the times begin to turne any thing dangerous ▪ when they haue most neede of them they are gone . Nay , no bond of benefits bestowed , no nor of nature it selfe , is strong enough to binde such a man sure to the childe of God. Our Sauiour Christ made Iudas his Disciple , an Apostle , of his owne Family , Table , and Messe , made him his Purse-bearer , and yet how ▪ villanously did he betray him into the hands of his vtterest enemies ? Iehoiada preserued the life ▪ of Ioash ▪ when all his brethren were slaine , h●lp him to the Kingdome , and was a ▪ guide to him as long as he liued with him ; yet how vngratefully and wrongfully did he cause his good sonne Zechariah , a Prophet , to be put to death ? And for the bonds of nature neuer so neare , our Sauiour Christ foretold that which experience hath proued often true , Matth. 10. 21. That the brother shall betray the brother , father the sonne , and children shall rise up against their parents , to get them put to death . There is no hold of any vnregenerate man , but ▪ he may proue a persecutor ; therefore what 〈◊〉 to bee giuen to his loue ? Vse . This shewes the miserable state of vnregenerate men , that they can neither loue God , themselues , nor any body else , while they are in this case : what should such a man doe in the world ? One would thinke it should make him weary of himselfe . If he would consider , and beleeue it , so it would . Oh beg of God , by his blessed Word and holy Spirit , to worke a mighty worke of change in your hearts , and to sanctifie you throughout , that from hence you may be able to loue God , your owne selues , and others in a right manner ; till which time , you cannot so much as loue your owne wife and children , as you ought to doe . 2. It teacheth also Gods people , not to trust too much to such men and their loue : liue peaceably with them , vse them kindly , accept kindnesse from them , but open not our selues too farre to them , leane not too much on them , lest they proue like Egypt , a broken reed , that will run into our hand , and they proue like a sliding foot and a broken tooth . For if they bee pent , they will burst : They are like a Iade , that will draw while its going , but is not sure . If the time alter , there is no hold , but hee may betray thee : As Pilate , who knew our Sauiour Christ to bee innocent , and that all was wrongfully and of malice that was done against him , and hee sought many wayes to ridde his hands of him , and to saue his life , yet when they vrged him , that hee was not Caesars friend , if he let him goe , then he passed sentence of death against him . Obiect . But some will say , I am not of your minde , I will trust my honest neighbour before these runners to Sermons , none will sooner deceiue one than they . I know one that came from a Sermon , and went and hired his neighbours house ouer his head . Answ. I deny not but as euer there haue been , so now be some , that make a shew of godlinesse , and deny the power of it : and then the world is no wiser , than to iudge and say so of all professors ; which is a most fowle wrong , and a false thing . For there are to be found , that dare not deale vnfaithfully , but say as Ioseph , How should I doe this wickednesse , and sin against God ? they haue the Spirit of God within them , and the feare of God in their hearts to bridle them , which the carnall person hath not , nor any thing that one may warrant will tye and hold him . And this euen the men of the world know : for they will put the matters of greatest trust into their hands . I haue knowne a very carnall Master , that hauing diuers ruffianly seruants that he delighted in , and a couple of sober Christian men ; and to these hee committed his keyes , and matters wherein greatest faithfulnesse was required , which ▪ yet he heartily affected not , but they were fit to serue his turne . So in matters of Arbitrement , they will put their case to such as be of best report for godlinesse in the Country , perswading themselues , that they will deale vprightly and with a good conscience . And the truth is , he is not worthy the name of a Christian , and its pity of his life , that will not doe better than any carnall man in the world . It followeth in the description of loue , whereby whosoeuer is endued therewith : for it s not to bee found in euery bush , but its rare ; and he that hath it , hath receiued it from the Father of lights , and its a gift of Gods Spirit . Look for it therefore from aboue . Endeuoureth to doe , &c. So that howsoeuer loue is in the heart , yet it lyes not still , nor sits idle , but is working ▪ like the good huswife , Prou. 3. 1. both by words and deeds , to soule and body : therefore that loue ▪ that is all within in the heart , and none in the hand and life , is a dead loue , a carkasse , like the dead Faith that St. Iames speakes of , that is without workes , and like bad mens loue to God , which is without obedience to his commandements . Endeuoureth to doe , &c. Puts forth it selfe , and doth what it can , though not what it would , creeps where it cannot goe ▪ wisheth it could , grieues that it cannot , giues two mites , a cup of water , &c. And indeed , what we do here is rather endeuour , than any ▪ great matter that wre attaine to , especially at the first . And a true endeauour with increase , God accepts , Hos. 6. 3. 1 Cor. 28. 7. It commands all the powers and abilities of the soule , to further the good of the Beloued , to whom it wisheth all good : therfore the eye sees , the tongue speakes , the foot walkes for the good and benefit of the party beloued : Why Loue will haue it so . The memory is a faithful remembrancer , the minde plods and counsels , the affections pursue all purposes and occasions for his helpe , all other things neglected , Why Loue will haue it so . Nay , patience is enioyned to beare all the wrong that such one doth , compassion must pity all the wants that such one hath , humility and modesty giue way to any thing that he requireth . Why Loue will haue it so . Loue is like the great wheele of the clock , all are turnd about when that stirres : it sets on worke all the other graces in the soule to their seuerall works . [ To doe good . ] So that loue doth no hurt , its contrary to its nature ; whatsoeuer hurt is done to soules , bodies , goods , names , Loue may wash her hands of it , as none of her doing ; but whatsoeuer good is done , that is of her . [ To doe good . ] Loue contents not it selfe to doe no euill , but labours to doe good : the harmlesse , yet vnfruitfull fig-tree was accursed . Such onely as haue done good , will stand on the right hand at the last day . [ To all . ] For though brotherly kindnesse bee to the Saints , yet Loue , 2 Pet. 1. 7. reacheth to all , neare and farre off , strangers , enemies , within , and without the Pale of the Church , Turkes and Pagans , we must pray for them , & do them any good if they come in our way , as the Samaritan did to the Iew fallen among theeues , Luke 10. [ But especially to them that be nearest . ] So God giues leaue , nay cōmandement , that loue begin at our selues and ours , & so proceed . First , seeke our owne saluation , then others ; our owne bodily preseruation from danger , then others . First , begin with our owne family , 1 Tim. 5. 8. then to our kinred , 1 Tim. 5. 4. then to our owne Towne , then to strangers , as farre as we can , and God requires no more . If any therefore , hauing good gifts , resort to other folkes houses to repeate Sermons , and neuer doe any such duety among their owne company ( which I haue heard of some ) these are iustly to be suspected of pride and hypocrisie . They also , that in outward things preferre strangers before their owne kinred , and kinsmen before children , doe not well . To bestow vpon Copes-mates that please them , or spend on lewd companions , or be surety for them or any other , to the hinderance or vndoing of wife and family , is not Loue , but folly and cruelty . [ Nearest also in the spirituall bond . ] For wee must especially loue the houshold of Faith , Gal. 6. 10. Quest. Whether should wee loue our naturall or spirituall kinred best ? Answ. No doubt , the Saints before our naturall kinred , that be but carnall , as our Sauiour Christ did , Who is my brother ? He that doth the will of God , he is my brother , sister , and mother : yet wee must helpe our kinred , whom Gods Word bindeth vs to prouide for , as children and parents in their necessity , though not godly , before the Saints , if both be in equall neede together , because these be most specially committed to our care . As a rich bad man , and a godly poore man be at our house together , I must loue the godly best , and he must haue the highest roome in my heart , but yet I may and must set the vngodly rich man highest at my table , because God is the author of degrees among men , and so the author of order , not of confusion . So is it in the other case of my naturall and spirituall kinred . This is the vertue so oft commanded , and so highly commended in the holy Scriptures ; commanded , Rom. 12. 10. & 13. 8. commended , Col. 3. 14. called the bond of perfectnesse . It binds vp all the dueties that wee owe to our neighbour , which are many ; holds them together , as the band doth the Fagot-stickes . It makes euery duety easie ; as where this is not , euery duety is irkesome , nothing comes well off hand . It ties societies together and families . It s the strength of Kingdomes , Cities , Corporations , and Villages : Oh how it keepes out euill , and sets vp good ; by it small things haue proued great , and for want of it , great things haue come to nothing . In a Towne , when chiefe men hold together , what euill can stand against them ? what good may they not effect ? As on the contrary , when some would pull downe houses of mis-rule , and others , to crosse them , and out of spleen to them , shall striue to vphold them : when some would bring in the Ministery of the Word , and others oppose it , how must not the Deuill needes haue his throne in such a place ? In a Family , when husband and wife both draw the right way , Gods worship goes vp in that house , children and seruants be well gouerned , the outward state prospers . But when they be diuided and disagree , prayers be interrupted , no good can get forward : when one would goe to the Sermon , the other is against it ; one would gouerne the children , the other cockers them , nothing can doe well : for the band is broken that should hold all together , and make all strong . Euen seruants that agree not , nay , horses if they draw not together , the worke cannot get forward . 2 It s the fulfilling of the Law , Rom. 13. 8. Gal. 5. 13 , 14. 3 It s a very comely thing in the eyes of God and men , onely hatefull to the Deuill , to whose Kingdome this is a great enemy . It s very precious , and of most fragrant smell : Also is very fruitfull in all good wheresoeuer it is , as appeares , Psal. 133. the whole Psalme . 4 Loue is the beneficiall vertue ; other vertues benefit our selues , but this doth good to others . Faith drawes all from Christ to vs. Loue layes out all it hath for others good : as the Sunne that shines forth his light to others , hauing it for that end , and not for it selfe . Faith is like the bung of the barrell , that takes in the beere or wine ; Loue is like the tap , that lets it forth , to the benefit of them that neede . If a man bee neuer so full of knowledge and other good gifts , and haue not this tap , others may starue for all that ; and hee himselfe is but a sounding brasse , and a tinkling cymball . Wee are not borne for our selues , nor our Talents giuen vs to hide : but the perfection of all our gifts , spirituall and temporall , is the well imployment of them for the good of others . The vsefull man , is the happy man , that keepes the best house , and most drinke of his cup , especially in spirituall things . 5 This is the vertue that makes vs most like to God ; for he is loue , and continually exercised in doing good to all , euen to the ends of the world : yea , to his enemies , though specially to his children , to soules , to bodies , and euery way , and hee is not weary to doe good , euen to such vnworthy ones as we are . So that when wee be full of loue ; giuing here , lending there , forgiuing this wrong , and passing by that iniury , requiting good for ill hath beene done to vs , when wee be instructing , counselling , admonishing , comforting , praying for any that need , wee are like vnto God in our measure , and like to our Lord Iesus Christ , who went about doing good , Acts 10. 38. So must we walke in loue , Ephes. 5. 2. Loue must be our continuall walke , and wee must neuer be out of it : for then wee are out of our way . All our wayes and workes towards our brethren , must be in loue , and sauour of loue . All our life must breathe loue : as when wee come in heauen , it shall be the common ayre wee shall breathe and draw in . So that what is loue , but the life and soule of the world , and that , without which all things else are nothing ? 1 Cor. 13. Oh that I could so paint out the face of this louely Vertue , and set it before you , that euery soule that sees it , may fall into a deepe loue and liking therewithall ▪ But alas , how lamentable a thing is it , that so excellent and necessary a vertue , should bee so scarce and rare to bee found among men as it is , and that in these dayes of the Gospell , and when the God of peace and loue dwels amongst vs , whose people we professe our selues to be ! Alas , it s as it were banisht out of the earth , and departed from the sons of men , and found but at a few hands , and there but scantly . But pride and contention , oppression , deceit , malice and reuenge , and all contraries to loue , haue taken possession of all places , of most hearts : yea , euen among true Christians what cold affection , what hollownesse , strangenesse , hard surmises , readinesse to fall out for trifles ? little power to forgiue & to passe by wrongs , to ouercome euill with good , which yet God doth to vs euery day . It s easie to heare , reade , and pray ; let 's shew the fruit of them in loue . Oh let vs euery one suffer our selues to be prouoked , yea , and ouercome in this , that we labour to bee possest of this grace of Loue , in whom it hath not hitherto taken place : and they , in whom it s begun , that they would encrease in it more , as 1 ▪ Thes ▪ 4. 10. Hereby it shall appeare , that wee regard Gods commandement , wee shall doe much good , and strengthen the places where wee liue ▪ We shall know we are not of the Deuill , but of God , 1 Iohn 3. 10. and shall be like vnto him ; & what should we desire so much , as to represent our Maker , and to haue his Image shining forth in vs ? And the more loue God hath shewed to vs , the more let vs shew to others ; the more he hath giuen vs of temporall or spirituall gifts , giue the more to our brethren , Freely ye haue receiued , freely giue . The more God hath forgiuen vs , the more let vs forgiue others , the more patient and slowe to wrath he hath beene with vs , the more patience see wee shew towards our brethren . And here with let vs stay our selues , when wee finde readinesse to be prouoked , or to renenge ; and thinke it a most vnreasonable thing , that God forgiuing vs a thousand talents , wee should catch and hold our neighbour by the throate for an hundred pence . If this grace of Loue be in vs and abound , wee shall honour God much , and our holy profession , get a good report , and much loue in the Church of God , and further our owne account against that day , and prouide for the encrease of our glory in the Kingdome of Heauen . CHAP. 4. Of the Notes , whereby loue to our Neighbour may be knowne . NOw to this end , that none may deceiue themselues , but may try whether they haue in them this grace of Loue or no , or in what measure , I will set down some of the chiefe acts , effects , or fruits of it , as notes whereby it may well be knowne , as a tree by the fruits . 1. Loue is not left-handed , but interprets , and takes things at the best . As it commends what is plainly good , so it interprets fauourably what is doubtfull , vntill it know the contrary ; speeches , or actions of men , towards our selues or others , if they may be well taken , it will not take them ill . As the mother , when the childe cries , saith a pin pricks it , it hath the fret , or breeds teeth , she is loth to say , it s nothing but frowardnesse , and so to chide or fight . When Iosephs brethren , out of malice , had fold him into Egypt , and afterward were affraid he would remember it , what construction makes hee of it ? God sent me hither aforehand to prouide for you . As our Sauiour Christ did , when his Disciples were so sleepy in the garden : though he mildly rebukes them for it , yet hee fauourably helpes it , saying , The spirit is willing , but the flesh is weake . Yea , if a thing be plainly euil yet Loue will make it no worse than it is . It will not say , it was done deliberately , and of set purpose , when it was done rashly ; maliciously , when it was done weakly onely , and in temptation . For one may doe iniury to a bad action , and its better to thinke and speak a little better of it , than worse than it is . Alwaies prouided , this be vnderstood , not of palpable , notorious fowle euils , nor of continued courses in sinning ; for what good or charitable construction can bee made of these ? When such therefore bee plainly reproued , and told their danger , and they cry out , Oh you may not iudge : Why , what can Charity it selfe iudge , but that you are of the Deuill , and in the state of damnation for the present , and without sound Repentance for euer ? It s therefore no property of Loue , but a fowle fault , and a signe of a corrupt conscience to extenuate and blanch fowle sins in bad persons . 2. It will depart from his own right , rather than breake peace ; as our Sauiour Christ , Matthew 17. 27. Abraham to Lot ▪ Gen. 13. 9. If thou wilt take the left hand , I will take , &c. As it will giue way in conference to one that is stiffe , though one know hee hath the truth , so it be in small matters : After offences , it will soone yeeld and seeke reconciliation , though it were meet the other should seeke to him . It stands not vpon termes : it will lay downe the bucklers , goe on the lower ground , yeeld the way or the wall to those , that it were meet should yeeld it to him . For why ? it more prizeth and esteemeth Loue , than small matters . 3 It doth no hurt , it s against the nature of it so to doe , neither in life , chastity of our neighbour , goods , or good name . See this in the two chiefe patterns of Loue : in God towards his , and parents towards their children , who doe nor can do them no hurt , at least , parents , in their conceit . 4 It seekes not her owne things , but others as well , as is commanded , 1 Cor. 10. 24. 5 It prouoketh nor exasperateth not , but striues rather to please , as far as it may with good conscience : As we see in a louing mother toward her childe , so also in whomsoeuer it is truely found . 6 It s not easily prouoked , 1 Cor. 13. 5. but forbeares , forgiues , puts vp , &c. which is well seene in God , and a naturall mother with her vnquiet childe . It will couer naturall infirmities , such things as be little weaknesses in our brethren , yet not done of set purpose , nor growing into extremities , but onely naturall defects . As some bee a little too quicke , some a little too slow , some see a fault , and bee a little too ready to speake , others somewhat too slow to speake , or reproue a fault . Some be a little too fine , some a little too homely and plaine ; if they were not all so much on either hand , it were better . Some be somewhat too earnest in their businesse , if it were not altogether so much , it were better ; yet not much amisse , and it s their nature , who bee yet very gracious : Some bee a little too negligent , some be a little too merry , some a little too solemne : these and such like Loue will couer , or else nothing . Loue will not standvpon them , rebuke or reproach them , or deale hardly with them for these , but wisely beare with them , and in loue cure them , if it can . As for example : a wife , a godly woman , good houswife , louing & duetifull in good measure , but somewhat curst , and quicke of speech , or not so cleanly as were to be desired ; a good husband in loue will beare with these , and bee thankfull for the maine that hee findes in her . So a woman hath a husband , good in all the substantiall points of the husbands duety , but hee is somewhat too glum , not so affable and ch●arly as might be , or whose nature will not suffer him to vse such complement● to his wife , as some can doe with facility ; Loue will reach her to beare with this . A seruant is very trusty , religious , and carefull to please , onely somewhat slow ; the Master or Mistresse must not rebuke him too oft , too openly , too sharpely for it , as a thing they can hardly remedie : no perfection to bee expected in any . If you can cure it by a louing and priuate admonishion sometimes , doe . So a Neighbour conferres with his Neighbour , and hee is a little too quicke and harsh : but loue will not see it , but considers it as a naturall infirmitie ; therefore will not exasperate him , or bee put out of patience by him , answering him tartly againe , but passeth it by , and goeth on in kind and friendly manner . Loue will also couer and put vp wrongs done vnto it , not seeing small ones , passing by somewhat greater ; as considering he himselfe is a man , and so subject to offend his Neighbour , and so may stand in need of his pardon . As also that hee offends God daily , and would bee glad to obtaine pardon ; therefore he must pardon his Neighbour , or else can haue small hope or boldnesse to come before him for mercie ; and this often , yea vnto seuentie times seuen times . If they bee greater matters , yet Loue will easily accept of indifferent conditions of agreement . If they be so great as they so endanger our name and estate as they are not to be passed by , then its lawfull to flee to the Magistrate , and take the benefit of Law ; yet so , as Loue will teach the party to lay away malice , and to forgiue the reuenge . And in going to Law , these two Caueats must be obserued : First , that it bee not for trifles . These should rather bee forgiuen , 1 Cor. 6. 7. Why rather suffer yee not wrong ? Secondly , that it bee the last Remedie , when all other waies of more peaceable agreement haue beene tryed . It must bee as the cutting off a member , when it cannot be healed otherwise . Hitherto belongs also that Loue will teach vs to hide and couer folkes faults from the world , except wee haue a cause and calling to speake thereof , but rather of their vertues . 7. Lastly , Loue is bountifull , beneficiall , and helpefull , not keeping what it hath to it selfe , but ready to distribute and communicate to the good of others , whether spirituall or temporall gifts . Spirituall ; for loue begins at the soule , and doth good to that first , of children , seruants , neighbours . It wil communicate any gift it hath to them that need it , taking to heart their spirituall wants , instructing the ignorant , counselling the doubtfull , comforting the afflicted , admonishing them that be out of the way , exhorting thē that begin to faint or stagger in the way , & praying for all . So for outward things , it will cause men to giue to the poorest that are to be holpe by Almes , as they be able : and lend freely to them that bee a degree aboue the poorest , which hauing a Trade , and skill and will to follow it , yet want stock to employ themselues and their company . These a man is as much bound in conscience to lend vnto , according to their abilitie and honestie to pay again , as to giue a peece of bread or a penny to a poore miserable Creature , Mat. 5. 42. Deut. 15. 8. By this shore , many a reeling house hath been kept from falling flat to the ground . By this helpe , many haue liued handsomely , and brought vp their families , that else must haue come to vttermost misery . To the wealthy that haue no neede of vs , yet to be neighbourly and friendly , in lending or exchanging Courtesies with them ! To inuite them somtimes to vs , & to goe to them beeing inuited : And in their sickenesse or heauinesse to visit them ▪ and comfort them in the best maner we can . Vse . Now seeing Loue is such a thing , and that these bee the fruits of it , If we looke abroad among men , wee shall be forced to say there is but little loue in the world : for , where bee these Properties spoken of , to be found ? as may appeare in going ouer them . 1. Who takes not things in the worst part , hardly construing mens words and actions ; doubtfull ones , it may be not bad , taking them to bee euill ; those that bee bad , making them worse ? Thus the Iewes mis-interpreted our Sauiour Christ , Iohn 2. Destroy this Temple , &c. which afterward cost him his life . 1. Chro. 19. 3. How was Dauids good and louing Action towards Hanun wickedly mis-construed ? which cost the liues of many thousands . Old Eli offended in this , 1 Sam. 1. 14. iudging Hannah drunke , because she prayed , and her voice not heard . What more common than to say , Men doe that they doe to be seene , and to winne credit , when yet they doe it syncerely , and to please God ? Or , hauing inuited one to our house , and he comes not , to think or say he doth it out of some splene , or want of good will. Many a time in a yeare are we forced to recant , and with shame say , I thought it had been worse meant than now I see it was . This is the cause of innumerable contentions and breaches among men . 2. For departing from mens right , who doth it , but stand out stiffely to the vtmost ? This is an vsuall speech , It is my right , and I will haue it . I aske no more but my right , and that I will not lose . This is thought but reasonable , and he is thought an honest man that will haue but his right . But it s an ill speech and resolution , whether it be in conference : If a man know hee hath the truth , though it be but in small matters , yet he will hold it out , though the other bee neuer so peremptory , till they fall flat out , whereas in small truths its better to giue in ; Or in dealings , couenants , bargaines , bonds , men will haue their right : and yet herein extreame right may bee extreame wrong . Alwaies prouided , that wee giue not away other folkes right , especially Gods. Moses would not yeed a hoofe , Exod. 10. 9 , yet most men , stiffe in their owne , will yeeld enough of Gods right , can cut large thongs out of that . They will not let their seruants play one houre on the sixe dayes , yet can let them play on the seuenth what they will. So are sins against the first Table made small account of , in comparison of the breaches of the second . 3 Whereas Loue hurts no way , whence comes all the hurt and mischiefe that is done among men ; stabbing , killing , fighting , quarrelling , ●rayling , reuiling , scolding , &c. all the defilings of mens wiues , children , and seruants ? So for bribery , theeuery , cousenage , false weights , false wares , &c ▪ slandering , defaming , backbiting , mocking , and such like : All these abound euery where . I am sure Loue doth none of them . Loue was not at the doing of these ▪ And for seeking others good as well as our owne , O Lord , where is this ? But in all mens courses ▪ the greatest part , yea , and among Christians , they seeke themselues too much , and others too little . 4 Also that men will so readily prouoke one another by words and deeds , they care not how . 5 For being prouoked . Lord be mercifull to vs , who can beare any thing ? but taunt for taunt , quip for quip ; hee shall haue as good as he brings . If there bee a little trespass done them , Oh how men stand vpon it , and study reuenge ? Hence the innumerable suits in this land , many thousands in a year for meer trifles , that ten times as much is spent in them as is sued for . A shame for England to bee so contentious , hauing the Gospell of peace amongst vs. Oh , mens stomachs be vp straight , all their bloud is in their face , or else looke as pale as ashes , or secretly practising to reuenge . Hand on the dagger straight ; on the top of the house by and by , and flie in one anothers faces for trifles : so farre off are we from forgiuing till seuenty times , as our Master Christ hath commanded . So short spirited , as wee can beare nothing ; and that which is worse , if we haue taken vp a displeasure once , it s not easily laide downe , but Sunne after Sunne ▪ Moone after Moone , yea some , yeare after yeare can carry it about with them : quickly prouoked , but hardly pacified , especially truely . It may be , some will not bee seene to liue in open onmity , yet haue hearts vnsound , and full of secret grudgings , that cause open breakings out vpon euery occasion . Men can beare nothing , but are straight carried after reuenge . 6 And for speaking of our neighbours vertues , and hiding their faults , without iust cause , and calling to the contrary , where is that to be found ? Nay , the contrary is most wofully common ; little of mens vertues spoken , except a word or two , to make way for a But , and to speak of their faults : and these we delight to be much in , as the Crow that seeks out the carrion , & the Hogge that delights to lye in the mire , rather than vpon the green grasse : like the Flie , that if there bee but one gall'd platt on the horses backe , delights rather to sit on that , than on all the whole body besides . 7 And for the last , where is communicating of spirituall good things ? Parents bring vp their children braue , but how few catechize , instruct , admonish them , pray with them , and for them ? So for seruants , their gouernors giue them meate , drinke , and wages , and hold them to worke on the sixe dayes , but little care how they spend the Sabbath , or for instructing and examining them , calling them to reading and praier : and what loue call you this , but such as you shew to your beasts ? So for neighbours , what Christian conference is there , what admonishing them that be out of the way , but rather let them run on , and talke of them behinde their backes , and that oft times with reioycing , which is fearfull ? What consolation is giuen to the heauie ? who layes their case to heart ? how few are able to speake a word in season , and to comfort fitly ? but vtter vaine and frothy speeches to them , fitter to doe hurt than good . And for such as be troubled in conscience for their sinnes , alas how few haue any skill of such things ? nay , many will rather deride , and make a scoffe at them , saying , they haue runne to Sermons so long , till they will goe out of their wits . Who prouokes one another to that that is good ? but euery man saith , Who made mee my brothers keeper ? Nay , men are so farre from these , as they seeke all they can to driue others from God and goodnesse , by their cursed counsell and wicked example , and by all the discouragements they can deuise , of threats , mockes , and taunts . And is not this fearfull ? where is true Loue in the meane time ? that is a great way off . And for outward things , how backward are most in giuing to the poore any more than needes must ? what contentions at making of rates , though God hath freed vs from the chargeablenesse of the Legall seruice , and hath freed vs from that intolerable burthen of the Rogues , that swarmed like Locusts all ouer the Land ; whose burthen lay on vs very heauie ; as they that bee of yeares can remember , which yet yeelded small comfort , the greatest part of them being a cursed generation of idle and sinnefull Varlets : which seeing God hath maruellously and mercifully rid vs of , what encouragement should it be to vs , to relieue our owne true poore ? And for lending , where is this in vse ? but rather , as if God had neuer giuen precept of it , or as it were a Statute repealed ; and that is out of date , so is this duety of lending . That cursed and cruell trade of Vsury , hath eaten vp , and banisht out of the Country this Christian duety of free-lending . Some rich men are so grim and so austere , as a poore man dares not speake to them for such a thing . And indeede , how few be there , that haue any thing to lend at any time ? Some lend out all so neare to Vsury , as they haue not to lend , but borrow rather : Or if a poore man doe any worke for them , they cannot pay them of a good while , they be so bare . For as soone as any money comes in , it must out againe straight , as if it would burne a hole in the Cupbord , or would be halfe an vndoing to them , if it lay there but a weeke or two . Others are euer purchasing , and so keep themselues bare , and in debt , and then they whine at euery charge , and wrangle at rates , and are neuer fit or ready to lend , or to any good vse . Such bring a curse vpon themselues , making themselues borrowers , when they might bee lenders , Deut. 28. 44. Others be so miserable , as though they haue it , yet they will not lend . So for the last duety of neighbourly dealing , inuiting , visiting , these are decayed ; so that we may beleeue in all these respects , these be the times foretold , Matth. 24. 12. wherein Loue should waxe cold . Yet indeede there is a great deale of counterfeit loue , of fauning , crouching , and congeying , of pot-companionship , and ioyning together in euill . A great deale of selfe-loue also , making others faults great , and our owne small , or none ; nay , sometimes making them vertues : extenuating and making light of the vertues of others , highly esteeming our owne ; seeking our selues in all our dealings and courses , with little regard of our neighbours : which selfe-loue the Apostle , 2 Tim. 3. 2. foretels shall be in the last times , and sets it in the fore-front , as the cause of many other euils that follow . Now let euery man examine himselfe in particular touching these things , and so make vse to his owne soule for comfort , or the contrary . But who shall not finde himself failing in euery one of them ? whereby we haue much cause to be humbled ; and the courses of the common sort are wholly contrary to all these properties of true Loue , whereby they may conclude fearfully against themselues . CHAP. 5. Causes of the want of Loue to our Neighbour . NOw to this end , that euery man may the better see how to mend that that is amiss , let vs a little look into the causes of this want of Loue , and what are the hinderances of the fruits thereof . The maine and generall cause is an euill heart , pestered with selfe-loue , and many lusts that be contraries to Loue. 1 More particularly . Want or weaknesse of Faith is one great cause . When our Sauiour Christ told his Apostles , they must for giue till seuenty times seuen times , what said they ? Luke 17. 4 , 5. Increase our Faith. Assurance of Gods loue to vs , in pardoning our many sins , and giuing his Son Iesus Christ , and assurance of eternall Life , makes vs loue againe , and both to giue and forgiue ; which are two principall dueries , and fruits of Loue. Pride , and the following Vices are hinderers of the exercise of Loue. 2 Pride , whereby men thinke highly of themselues , and meanly of others ; thinke they may speake or doe any thing , but others may doe nothing to them . Onely by pride doe men make contentien , Prou. 13. 10. Humblenesse causeth loue , Ephes. 4. 2. Pride makes men think themselues so wise and good , as euery body should say as they say , doe as they doe , and after a sort doe homage to them ; if they doe not , then the peace is broken straight . Pride will not endure a reproofe : therefore being told of a fault , they fall out deeply ; as Ioash with Zechariah , Ahab and Iezabel with Eliah , Herod with Iohn . 3 Couetousnesse is another : this makes men contend for trifles , the least dammage done him is thought so great ( looking on it in a false glasse ) as its sufficient to breake Loue , and cause a suite . It causeth men to oppresse , to vse false weights & sleights , &c. It hinders both mercy to the poore , and all other neighbourly offices of inuiting , and the like . 4 Enuie hinders Loue exceedingly . When one enuies at the prosperity of another in whatsoeuer kinde , of temporall or spirituall good things ; As Labans sons did at Iacob , which changed their countenances towards him , and made him weary of his place . Cain , that enuied that Abels sacrifice was better accepted than his , and Esau that Iacob was blessed , Ismael , that Isaac was the son of the Promise : what breach of Loue , and wofull fruits followed of all these ? 5 Frowardnesse & shortnesse of spirit breakes Loue very oft : for angry words stirre vp strife , Prou. 15. 1. 6 These dayes of peace are an occasion , through mens corruption , that men grow hollow and strange , and to set light by one another . Troubles cause men to make much of each other , and cling together : as the sheep , that out of danger , and in a faire day , scatter themselues ouer a field , in a storme , or when they see a dog come , run all together . These and such like , be wofull causes of the want of Loue , which also bring forth as lamentable effects euery where , both in Church and Common-wealth . What wofull breaches , hideous contentions , what hard measure and wrongs are offered , what enmities and oppositions , to the hazzard of the Church , danger of the Common-wealth , and ouerthrow of the prosperity of many Parishes ? What ruine brings this want of Loue vpon many Families ? And among particular persons , what breakings out both in word and deed , to the dishonour of God & Religion , & the vndoing each other many times , both in soule and state ? to the disgrace of the Gospell , and ill example of the beholders , and hurt to their own soules , by keeping them from , and disabling them for the right performance of holy dueties , which cause cold prayers , and those not heard ; and hereby eyther kept from the Sacrament , as many times it is ( Oh fearfull thing to bee spoken ) or else slubber it ouer , and come with festered hearts , and so lose the benefit : nay , by such vnworthy comming , they prouoke the wrath of God , and eate their condemnation as much as in them lyeth ; but oft times they eate and drink their iudgement , a sore sicknesse , and may be , their owne death , or the death of wife , or some childe that is deare to them , to teach them and others by their example the price of such boldnesse . Now seeing these things bee so , the Lord giue vs euery one hearts , where we finde our selues faulty , to humble our selues , and craue mercy , and to labour to be reformed in this point . Therefore , first , let 's labour to plucke vp these noisome weedes out of our hearts , that this precious plant of Loue may grow therein . 1 Striue against Infidelity , and labour to get Faith , and the encreases thereof , if by Gods grace we haue it already . 2 In humblenesse of minde , labour to esteeme others better than our selues . 3 Labour for a moderate affection toward these outward and base things in comparison , setting more by Loue , and the sweet fruits of it , than by them all ; and therfore much more , than by small trifles . 4 Auoide enuie . Is our eye euill , because our Masters eye is good ? wee haue more than wee might looke for . 5 Striue against techinesse and shortnesse of spirit . Think what a base lust , and sinfull distemper it is , how it exalteth folly , and how ill it becomes vs , and what an enemy it is to true Loue. And labour wee , that this loue to our brethren may shew forth it selfe in all good fruits , in iudging the best , departing from our right , not prouoking , nor being easily prouoked , but forbearing and forgiuing offences and wrongs , and communicating of what God hath imparted to vs of any kinde . and that for these Reasons ; weigh them well . 1 First , God requireth it of vs , who is Loue , 1 Iohn 4. 8. and if we performe it , we doe not so much serue our neighbour , as please God , who takes it to himselfe ; and in neglecting this , wee neglect not our neighbour onely , but God , who takes himselfe wronged in this behalfe . 2 Our neighbour is our owne flesh , and euery one hath some part of the Image of God in him , or vpon him . 3 The Word aboundantly cals for it , the Sacrament of the Lords Supper puts vs strongly in minde of it . 4 No better argument , that we are in the light , loue God , and are Christs Disciples , be translated from death to life , be endued with that excellent grace of true Faith , than this , that we truely loue one another , Iohn 13. 34 , 35. 1 Iohn , 3. 14. As a King is not knowne by his apparrell , great company with him , &c. which may be some meaner man , but by his Crowne ; so is not a Christian knowne by his hearing Sermons , or good words , but by his Loue. 5 The beauty of a Christian is Loue : he is the best Christian , that loues most , whose lips feede most , whose branches spread widest . 6 And for forgiuing wrongs , what should wee doe else ? God forgiues vs many & great debts , and ill dealings with him , and shall wee be ready to reuenge euery petty trespasse ? See Matth. 18. 34. what became of him that did so . God bids vs aske forgiuenesse on no other condition , than that we forgiue our neighbour , Marke 11. 25 , 26. And no better signe , that a man is forgiuen of God , than to forgiue our neighbour ; and no man can be assured of that , but he will forgiue . Let vs therefore of the sea of compassion that God hath shed out vpon vs , let fall some drops of it vpon our neighbour . Also wee may stand in need of our neighbours forgiuenesse : for who liues , and is not subiect to offend his neighbour one way or other ? No cause therefore wee should seeke reuenge , which euery Turke , yea , euery beast can doe ; but passe by offences , which is the glory of a man , Prou. 19. 11. Keep out anger therefore in such cases if wee can , or if wee be not so strong , yet let it not rest in vs , sowring in our hearts : Let not the sunne goe downe vpon it . The world counts this base , but indeed it s truely honourable . It s the honour of God , Micah 7. 18. and so it makes vs like him . Let vs therefore labour to doe thus ; and not a little or some few times , but get a long skirted Loue , which will couer a multitude of offences , as St. Peter saith , 1 Pet. 4. 8. or , as Prou. 10. 12. All trespasses . 7 And for distributing things temporall or spirituall as wee haue , great reasons there bee . God giues to all , both good and bad : he hath giuen vs what wee haue ; ( for what hast thou , that thou hast not receiued ? ) and giuen vs them to be good stewards , and dispensers thereof , to the good of others , 1. Pet. 4. 10. And the more wee giue , the more we haue , and not the lesse ; it encreaseth in the giuing , as the loaues in our Sauiour ▪ Christs hands , especially in spirituall things ; yea , in temporall : therefore giuing is compared to sowing , which in good ground is vsually with encrease . Therefore a worthy Minister vpon occasion asking his wife , whether there were any mony in the house , she answered , that she knew but of one three pence ; Well , saith he , wee must goe sowe : that is , giue something to the poore , knowing that to bee the way of bringing in , Prou. 11. 24 , 25. Deut. 15. 10. The best thrift is to be mercifull , and the way to beggery in a a mans selfe , or his posterity , is to be pinching . And to conclude all , Loue in the exercise of it , will bring much peace to our consciences , and comfort vs not a little on our death-bed , that we haue not liued to our selues , but to be vsefull to many , especially to soules . It procureth vs loue in the places wee liue in , and in the Church of God a good report . No man is well beloued , though he haue good things in him , if he be not louing . Oh , say they , he is a good honest man , I thinke , but he is a harsh censurer , contentious , so hasty that no man can tell how to speake to him , hee is a strait man , liues all to himselfe , few the better for him by counsell , admonition , encouragement , and the like : and so for outward things , very close-handed and neare . But if a man be full of loue , it will procure him loue againe , he shall be well spoken of while hee liues , and mourned for when hee dyes , which is a good mercy of God , and the temporall reward of righteousnesse and loue . Pro. 10. 7. The memoriall of the Iust shall bee blessed . Thus they wept for Dorcas , and shewed the coates shee had made , Acts 9. 39. But a proud , churlish , close man , shall liue without being desired , and dye without being mourned for . These would haue loue , good will , and credit in the Countrey and Towne they liue in , but they will not seeke by this way to procure it , will not be at the cost , bee not vsefull , liberall , &c. let them neuer looke for it : Let them winne it , if they will weare it . Others care not , so they may scrape all to themselues , what the world say of them ; let the good name goe which way it will. But these are base minded persons , and they carry little better than a curse about them , while they liue . CHAP. 6. Properties of true Loue. NOw yet for our further direction in this point of Loue , I will set downe some such Properties , as the Scripture requireth in it ; as that it must be mutuall , common , sincere without feigning , feruent , pure , constant ; all gathered out of 1 Pet. 1. 22. First , it must be mutuall , it must come from one to another mutually , and be at euery hand : as God commands others to loue vs , so vs to loue others . so that none is free from this duty . Many will looke for a great deale of Loue from others , that care not how little they shew themselues ; would be visited , but care not to visit others : would haue their owne vertues commended , will not do so by others ; haue their infirmities couered , but will not doe so : would not be prouoked , yet will prouoke : would not that others should be quickly angry with them , yet they will with others . Alas , this is great weaknesse : for its a more blessed thing to giue , than to receiue , Acts 20. 35. And wee should rather striue to goe before , and set others in our debt by loue , and be on the forehand . A good minde rather remembers the debt that is going from him , than that which is comming to him . This oft comes of pride in some men , to looke for much of others , and performe little themselues . The husband oft lookes his wife should walke at an inch with him , though hee will breake ells out of square . So sometimes it fals out ▪ with the wife towards her husband , looke for much , and performe little . This is no equity : we must doe , as wee would bee done to . It s more dangerous for vs to neglect our duty to others , than that they neglect to vs ; for this is but a small want , but the other makes vs liable to Gods iudgement . Let vs therefore striue who shall doe most duety each to other ; husband to wife , neighbour to neighbour : and not the contrary . 2. It must be common : One another . It s in the plurall number , and shewes a communitie ; that we must not love one , or two , or a few , but all , and especially all that feare God. Love communicates it selfe , and is not engrossed to a few . Many can be content to love one , or two , or a few as they list , but they set light by the rest , yea oppose and iustle with some , and liue vnkindly with them . This is no true love , neither ought it so to be . Yea , wee must loue the meanest that feare God , and not neglect them . The meanest member of the body is regarded by the greatest . Though they bee of low degree in the world , yet seeing they be members of that glorious body of Iesus Christ , wee must not haue the faith of him in respect of persons , Iames 2. 1. Seeing God hath vouchsafed to giue his Sonne for them to redeeme them , his Spirit to sanctifie them , and hath prepared a place in heauen for them , we must not despise them . Nay , these wee ought the rather to encourage , and to hearten on in well-doing , seeing so few of that sort haue any good in them , and they haue many discouragements . They will beare their pouerty the better . It s a great cheering to them , when they see themselues regarded . And nothing is more comely , than to see wealthy ones to be affable , and to speak kindly , and to the hearts of the poore that be godly ; as Boaz did to Ruth . For , beeing fellow-brethren and fellow-members as deare to God as they , should a little wealth lift vp the minde ? The Lord is the Maker of them both , Prou. 22. 2. Iames 2 ▪ 5. Hath not God chosen the poore of this world , that they should be rich in Faith , and heires of the Kingdome ? &c. 3 It must be without seigning , Rom. 12. 9. 1 Iohn 3. 18. Not in word , or in tongue , but in deede , and in truth . God hates dissembling in euery thing : whether in loue pretended to himselfe , when is no such thing , or towards our neighbour , in any of our dealings with him . God loues simplicity and plaine dealing ; as in Iacob and Nathaneel . If Loue , which is the maine vertue , be counterfeit , what shall become of all the dueties that proceed from thence ? Gods loue to vs was not feigned and in shew , but sincere and reall , when he gaue vs his beloued Sonne to the death for our sins . Here two sorts of persons are iustly to bee taxed : 1. Such as pretend to loue , when yet they hate . 2. Such as make shew to loue , and do not . For the first , Psal. 28. 3. Psal. 12. 2. & 55. 21. & 62. 4. Pro. 26. 24. reade these places . Thus did Ioab to Amasa , 2 Sam. 20. Iudas to our Sauiour Christ , Saul to Dauid , 1 Sam. 18. 17. 25. giuing him his Daughter to bee a snare to him , requiring no ioynture , but an hundred fore-skins of the Philistims , hoping thereby hee might fall into their hands . which persons carry a marke of Reprobation about them . Psalme 28. 3. Workers of iniquitie , to whom belongs some notable iudgement of God. They be like the Diuell , who pretended loue to Eue , when hee sought her ruine , and of all her posteritie . So to our Sauiour Christ , Mat. 4. All these will I giue thee &c. As these bee more dangerous to those they hate , than if they did openly shew it ( for then they could better beware of them : One Enemie within the Wals is worse than ten without ) so are they worse for themselues : For , any vice masked and cloked vnder a shew of vertue , is double iniquitie . And as our Sauiour Christ said to the Scribes and Pharisees , Mat. 23. 14. Ye shall receiue greater damnation ; so shall these . Yet how common is this ? many will speake faire as may bee to their Neighbour , when yet they intend mischiefe against them , or as soon as their back is turned , mocke or iest at them , speake euill , or raise vp some slander against them , or doe them what hurt they can . If we know any haue dealt so with vs , let vs take heed that we neuer do so by them or any other , but loathe it , as hatefull and diuellish . For the second sort : There be that pretend they loue , but alas ! try , and you shall finde no such thing . A deale of Court-holy ▪ water , congeyes , and crouchings , an handfull of true hearty loue , is worth ten armefuls of their congeyes downe to the ancles : they will salute Good morrow , and Good night , when yet they mind , nor heartily wish no good . These are clouds without raine , plashes that deceiue when most need is ; vessels with false bottomes , that haue a little water on the top , but empty below : Snch as will earnestly inuite , when they know one cannot or will not stay , proffer kindnesse , when they thinke it will not bee needed ; but if it happen to be accepted , and made vse of at any time , then they eyther haue some shifts to auoide it , or else doe it with much vnwillingnesse , and grumbling behinde the parties backe . So those that pretend they loue the poore , yet come to them in their behalfe , and nothing shall you get , but what they are forced vnto , and hardly that . So many good Ministers and Christians haue found small kindnesse in their need , at the hands of such , as yet in their prosperity haue profest good will , and made great shewes of loue to them ; they might haue done full ill for all these : what loue call you this ? It s like Faith without workes , which God will condemne . So to speake well of such and such men , to pity them , and say they are worthy men , and pity they should want , yet neuer doe any thing for them . If God should feed them thus , they would soon complaine . 4 The fourth thing required in Loue , is , that it must be pure . It must come from a pure heart ▪ as St. Peter speakes , and be agreeable to the rule of the pure Word of God. Pure Loue is seene in diuers things : First , it loues for some vertuous and good actions : therefore the loue of the Adulterer and his Mate , of Drunkards and Theeues , that be sworne brothers , is no loue . To loue a man , because he can dice well , or sweare deeply , drink others vnder boord , or mocke and deride wittily , or raile bitterly against the seruants of God ; this is cursed loue : for true Loue reioyceth not in iniquity ; as we haue heard . A worse note cannot be , than when one sees one fight cunningly or desperately against God , to loue him the better . These be no better than Rebels , and Conspirators against the Maiesty of God. 2 Pure Loue is that , which is grounded on Grace and Religion , and on no transitory thing ; or in those that haue no grace , we loue them for conscience of Gods commandement , and because of that part of the Image of God that is in them : which condemnes the carnall loue of the most , which loue onely for worldly respects ; for strength , beauty , or any inward gift of the minde not sanctified : as wit , skill in Arts , musicke , play . These are worthy loue , but to loue onely for these , is not true and pure Loue ; for thus loued the Heathen : worldly mens loue is for such respects , and no other . Yea , euen Gods seruants faile this way sometimes , as old Isaac , that loued Esau for his skill in hunting , Dauid loued Absolon for his beauty ; and so doth many a man his wife , which doe ill to build loue on so false grounds : for when these faile , oft the loue goes after . 3 Pure Loue is in respect of the party himselfe , whom wee loue , and for no respect to our selues , or any commodity of ours . And such was Gods loue , in giuing his Sonne to vs miserable sinners ; which condemnes the world , who onely loue for selfe-respects : As hee is my Vncle , Friend , loues mee , or hath done this or that for mee , or may doe mee a pleasure ; therefore I will make much of him , or for feare he may doe me a shrewd turne : This , if it bee shaken out of the clouts , will be found but selfe-loue ; wee haue a respect and aime onely to , and at our selues , Mat. 5. 46. Many a man shewes kindnesse , or doth good to some onely , to purchase credit . The husband loues his wife , because she pleaseth him well , is faire , a good housewife , and for nothing else : this is selfe-loue . All the Papists charitable deeds were all selfe-loue ; for they were done with opinion of merit , and so they loued themselues rather than the parties they gaue vnto . So is all the loue of worldlings ; examine it , and you shall most-what finde it to bee selfe-loue ; they haue some reach at themselues . 4 Pure Loue is , when wee so loue a man , as we loue his soule ; and therefore will suffer no euill to rest vpon him , but hate the sin in him whom hee loues most dearly , and will counsell him to all good , and from all euill . Therfore so to loue our neighbour , as not to tell him of his fault for angring or disquieting of him ( if he be such as wee may speake to ) is hatred rather than loue , as God saith , Leuiticus 19. 17. So Parents , that loue their children so well , as they will not nurture , rebuke , correct them ; they hate them ▪ they slay them in following their wayes : Hee that spares the rod , hates his childe , Prou. 13. 24. It s as one should bee so tender ouer a childe , as not to suffer the winde to blow vpon it ; and therefore hold the hand before the mouth of it , but hold so hard , as hee strangles the childe : As the Ape that hugs her young so hard , as she kils it . Againe , friends perswade a man to doe this or that for preferment , that he cannot doe with good conscience : Oh they loue him , they would faine see him preferred . Wofull loue to the bodie , to destroy the soule . A neighbour hath a childe , or cattell strangely handled ; one comes in of loue , and perswades him to send to such a cunning man , or good Witch ( the worst instrument of the Deuill of all ) for helpe . Is hee a friend , that will doe that that shall vantage one a penny , and ere the yeare come about , hinder him a hundred pound ? So when a good Christian is ready to suffer for a good conference , and a friend comes and sayes , Oh I pray cast not away yourselfe , I wish you well ; be not too nice , doe as others doe . Cruell loue is this , to perswade them to saue their bodies , by doing that , whereby they should cast away soule and body for euer : As Peter aduiseth our Sauiour Christ not to goe vp to Ierusalem to suffer , but to fauour himselfe , Matth. 16. 22. which was to disswade him from doing his Fathers will , and from that , wherby Peter himselfe and all mankinde should bee saued , and without which they had all beene lost for euer : what loue therefore was this ? you may see by the thankes our Sauiour Christ gaue him , who bade him get him behinde him Sathan ; for hee sauoured not of the things of God , but of the world . 5 Next , our Loue must be feruent . We must loue earnestly , and hotly as wee can ; and secondly , constantly : for in these two things stands feruency . First , for the earnestnesse of our Loue ; as wee must stretch it to as many persons , and in as many dueties as wee can , to soule , to body , in giuing , forgiuing , &c. as wee haue heard before ; so in these we must not be sparing , but in giuing , liberall ; for he that sowes sparingly , shall reape sparingly , 2 Cor. 9. 6. So in forgiuing plenteous , to seuenty times , &c. For thus is God to vs , in giuing for soule , body , goods , name , to our selues and ours , day & night , neuer weary in doing vs good , neuer vpbraiding . In forgiuing , how mercifull , in passing by our manifold offences , and that daily ? And the rather , because a little loue is soon quencht ; therefore wee must so loue , as though wee meete with many temptations from the parties themselues , or from others , that yet wee suffer it not to be extinguished . And wee must loue feruently ; not doing these dueties when we can well , and haue nothing to let vs , but forget our pleasure , profit , ease , &c. to doe our neighbour good . Loue seeks not her owne things . It is laborsous , 1 Cor. 13. as in the Samariran , who set vp the wounded man vpon his horse , and went on foote himselfe , and left all the money in his purse for his charges , and promised to send more . And as hee that rose out of his warme bed , to lend his neighbour loaues . As they that gaue out of their maine stocke , or sold their lands to relieue the necessities of the Church , Acts 2. 44. Aboue and beyond all comparison ten thousand times , was the feruency of the loue of God the Father , when hee parted with his owne and onely Sonne out of his bosome , for our Redemption , and of our Lord Iesus Christ , who forsooke the glory of Heauen , and laide downe his life here vpon earth , to saue vs miserable siuners , and his vtter enemies . Oh how doth this condemne the cold , yea , frozen loue of the world ? And where there is a sparke , yet it is so weake , as the least drop of water will quench it . We will not speake a word in defence of neuer so good a man or cause , if it will hinder our selues neuer so little , or procure vs but a frowne . How worthily on the contrary did Ionathan , who spake for Dauid to Saul his father , to the danger of his owne life , 1 Sam. 20. 33. So Ester endangered her life to speake for the Church ; I will goe to the King , If I perish , I perish , Hest. 4. 16. 6 Lastly , our Loue must bee constant ; not easily broken off , but continuing to the end , Heb. 13. 1. Ephes. 4. 3. Thus is Gods loue to his , Iohn 13. 1. which wee must imitate . The Deuill will seeke to breake it off , and our selues ( being men ) are fraile , and many occasions will be ready to be offered ; therfore wee had need with all diligence , to striue to hold and maintaine it aliue in our hearts . How doth this rebuke the inconstancy of many men , that are wonne ( as we say ) with an apple , and lost with a nut ; that will vpon euery sleight occasion breake friendship ? If God should so deale with vs , what should become of vs ? But his loue is constant to his , notwithstanding their daily prouocations . Yea , hee loues them in aduersity , and their low estate ; yea , best then , and is nearest them with his comforts . So it ought to bee with vs ; for then our neighbour hath most need of vs , and then our loue will shew it selfe to bee most free , and not mercenary . But how contrary is this euery where ? While they be in prosperity , they haue many friends , which in their affliction goe aloofe off ; as Dauid oft complaineth , and Iob , to whose very wife his breath was strange in the day of his affliction . Ruth did quite contrary , & very commendably , who vowed to her mother-in-law Naomi , that nothing but death should separate between them . CHAP. 7. Whom we must loue . NOw followeth , to speake of the persons whom wee ought to loue : and they are all men vpon the face of the earth , good and bad , without or within the Pale of the Church ; our loue must stretch it selfe to any of them : they are our neighbour , whom wee are bidden to loue as our selues ; as wee may see in the Parable of the Samaritan : these we ought to doe good to , if they need , and wee be able ; and for these we must pray . Yea , wee ought to pray for euery particular person , that wee know or can see , because wee know not ( whatsoeuer hee bee now ) but he may belong to God. Wee must therefore loue all ; our enemies , and all men whatsoeuer they be , but especially the Saints and People of God. And of these I will speake seuerally , and in order . And first of the loue of our enemies . That wee must loue our enemies , is required inclusiuely in these words of 1. Ioh. 3. 23. that ye loue one another ; and in those words , that be the summe of the two Tables , Thou shalt loue thy neighbour as thy selfe : as may appeare by comparing Exod. 23. 4 , 5. with Deut. 22. 1 , 2. He that is called in one place thine enemy , is called in the other thy brother or neighbour . More plainely its required , Pro. 25. 21. Matth. 5. 44. But ere we proceed to the proofe of this point , let vs see who are the enemies wee must loue , by shewing the kindes of enemies that there be , and withall cleere some Scriptures that seeme to countenance hatred of our enemies . Enemies bee publicke or priuate , Gods enemies or ours . Publike , be such as oppose & hate the Religion and truth of God , and persecute it in the professors thereof , or are enemies to anie good courses and godly proceedings , and so to vs for the same . These againe bee eyther curable or incurable : for the curable , such as Saul was , who afterward became a Paul ; we must hate their sinnes , pray against their deuices , but loue their persons . The incurable we must hate their sinnes directly , and their persons indirectly . Thus we hate the person of the Divell ; though he be Gods creature , yet because hee hath sinned against the holy Ghost , and is Gods desperate , finall and incurable aduersarie , therefore wee are bound to hate him : So might , nay ought we to doe , if we knew anie man or men to be such : as S. Paul did , who 2. Tim. 4. prayed against Alexander , that God would reward him according &c. and the Primitiue Church against Iulian the Apostate . Of these Dauid meant , Psal. 139. 22. Doe not I hate them , O Lord , that hate thee ? yea I hate &c. and Psal. 109. & 69 22. to the 29. and in many Psalmes hee prayes for the finall and vtter destruction of his enemies , which is a signe of vtter hatred . But this was not because they were his enemies , but Gods as well ; and not that only , but desperate and irrecouerable ones , which he saw by the spirit of God , being extraordinarily and infallibly ▪ informed : thereof : whose prayers were but prophecies of the finall destruction of these men , as Psal. 63. 9. & 54. 5. But for vs , because wee haue not the like measure or gift of the spirit , wee haue no such warrant to hate or pray directly against anie mans person . Of these also are meant such places , where wee are bidden to reioyce at wicked mens destruction , Psal. 52. also Psal. 58. 10. We also , though we know not mens finall estate , yet if wee see anie notorious enemies of the Church , and Gospell , and good men , taken away , may giue God thankes , and in some sense reioyce , namely , that God hath shewed himselfe carefull of his Church , and hath prouided for his glory , the comfort of his people and passage of goodnesse , and for the terrour of other bad ones ; but not to reioice as it s their destruction : but as wee should pray for them while they liue , so pitie them being cut off , that they haue brought miserie vpon themselues . Obiect . But an obiection or two may be made . Our Sauiour Christ tells vs , wee must hate father and mother , wife and childe &c. for his Names sake . Answ. True , when they stand in opposition against Christ , and would pull vs from him , we must then say , Get thee behinde mee Sathan , and tread vpon them if they stand in our way to hinder vs from following Christ. We must hate their counsell , but yet loue their persons , and pray God to open their eyes and turne their hearts . Obiect . 2. God bade the Israelites kill the Cananites , man , woman and childe , and spare none . Answ. If God bade them hate them , they had a warrant so to doe ; for wee must loue our enemies in God and for God , and not against God , and wee must obey his commandement . But God bade them not hate them , but kill them , and so they might doe , and yet wish well to them , and pity them . The same may be said of all iust warres : wee may hate the bad cause of our enemies , ouerthrow their enterprizes , and slay their persons , and yet pity them , and pray for their saluation . As the Magistrate also , that puts a malefactor to death for his offence , and to terrifie others by his example , yet hates him not , but desires that his bodily punishment may be an occasion to bring him to Repentance , to the sauing of his soule ; and therefore giues him godly counsell , grants him respit and time , sends Preachers to him to labour with him . So in the other . And thus much of Gods enemies . Besides these , we may haue priuate enemies , that be vpon occasion fallen out with vs , that hate and hurt vs , and haue done vs wrong , and seeke our mischiefe . These our enemies wee must loue : and of these principally , as also of Gods curable enemies , is our speech to be vnderstood in all that followes . We must loue our enemies : that is , we must carry a tender affection towards them , as desiring their good , wishing saluation to their soules , and outward prosperity , so farre as may stand with Gods glory , and their good , reioycing at their welfare , and grieuing at the contrary : and this wee must shew forth by all signes and fruits of good vsage euery way . which are referred , Mat. 5. 44. to these three heads : first , Blesse them : that is , speake kindly to them and of them : secondly , Doe good : that is , be readie to helpe and relieue them : and lastly , Pray for them that hate and persecute you ; euen pray to God to pardon them , and to turne their hearts . And thus are we to doe to those , that be neuer so deadly set against vs ; yea , and neuer so wrongfully . And marke , that in this last cited place , wee are first bidden to oue them : the beginning must be in the affection of the heart , that so the other dueties required may be performed , and that in a right manner , without which , the one or the other , or both will faile : and then that wee must not say wee loue them onely , but shew it by the fruits . Rom. 12. 20. If thine enemy hunger , feed him , &c. ouercome euill with goodnesse . Prou. 24. 17. we are forbidden to reioyce at our enemies fall , eyther into sinne or punishment . Thus Dauid put on sackcloth , fasted , and prayed , when his enemies were in affliction . Elisha bade the King set bread & water before his enemies , and them that came to take the Prophet , 2 Kings 6. So did our Sauiour Christ to his Precept ( Matth. 5. ) ioyne his Patterne , not onely not reuenging , as St. Peter saith , being reuiled , he reuiled not againe , being persecuted , he threatned not : but on the contrary , prayed for them that put him to death ; Father , forgiue them , they know not what they doe . Thus he spake kindly to Iudas , when he betrayed him with a kisse , and called him Friend , Matth. 26. 50. Thus Steuen prayed for his persecutors , euen in the act of their stoning of him ; Lord , lay not this sinne to their charge , Acts 7. at the end . Now listen to some Reasons , to moue vs to this difficult duety , and the Lord make them powerfull to perswade vs thereto . First , They be our owne flesh , Isa. 58. 7. therefore wee are not to hurt them , nor turne away our face from them to do them good . Secondly , they haue some part , at least of Gods Image in them , in their soule , being an immortall spirit , in the Maiesty of their face aboue all creatures , in their authority they beare , or age , or gifts , or the like . Thirdly , our Sauiour Christ commands it : But I say vnto you , Mat. 5. 44. The Scribes and Pharisees had taught , they should loue their friends , and hate their enemies : But our Sauiour Christ , the Law-maker , and so the truest Interpreter thereof , the Doctor of his Church , hee of whom the Father bade from heauen heare him , Matth. 17. 5. who is also our Lord and King ; bids vs loue our enemies . So that if hee may be heard , who is onely to be heard , and if his authority and commandement may beare sway with vs , that only ought to command our consciences ; then must wee doe so . So that though Scribes and Pharisees say , Loue friends , and hate enemies ; though the Deuill say so , flesh and bloud say so , and doe so , yet there is another to be heard against all these ; But I say vnto you , &c. Let vs therefore listen to his voice . Fourthly , so shall wee be the children of God , and be like him , who makes his sunne to shine , and raine to fall on the iust and vniust : and besides many outward mercies , giues them the Gospell , to call them to repentance ; And euen loued vs when we were his vtter enemies , and when as hee might haue glorified himselfe in our condemnation ; yet he so loued vs , as he gaue his own deare Sonne to redeeme vs ; and hath effectually called diuers of vs to the Faith of his Son Iesus Christ , and the hope of eternall life . Oh Loue vnspeakeable , to bee shewed to enemies ! Now what should we desire , and is our happinesse , but to be like him ? Now when wee can loue our enemies indeed , it will be a certaine euidence wee are the children of God : a signe we loue God dearly , when wee can doe this difficult thing for his sake : And a signe of much grace to mortifie the rebellion of our nature , that lusteth to the quite contrary . And wee can haue no mark we are the Lords , except wee can doe this in some measure , and striue after it more and more . Fifthly , Gods people must doe singular things , such as the world cannot attaine to . Now euery Publican , ciuill person , hypocrite , can loue his friends , and hate his enemies , but we must doe more : God hath shewed vs singular mercy ; therefore we must yeeld him singular obedience , and shew forth the power of his grace that is in vs. We must not be singular in conceits , opinions , and courses of our owne deuising ; but wee must be singular , in obeying such commandements of God , as the world will not be brought vnto : and to reproach vs for such singularity , shewes them to bee of this world that doe it . Sixthly , this hath reward from God , so hath not louing them onely that loue vs , which is selfe-loue ; wee shall haue their loue still its like , and there is the reward we are like to haue : but in louing our enemies , we shall haue a reward , Prou. 25. 22. not of merit , but of promise for our encouragement . Seuenthly , we are commanded , Matth. 5. 48. ( whence all these reasons are collected ) that wee should be perfect , as our heauenly Father is perfect . This is a degree of grace , and profiting in Christs Schoole , to be able to loue our enemies ; which wee must striue vnto , in this and the like dueties ; not contenting our selues to heare , reade , come to the Sacrament , which not onely weaklings in grace , but hypocrites can doe , and doe continually , nor yet holding our selues satisfied with some small measure of Loue , or other graces , as Faith , Patience , &c. but to striue forward to some good degrees of them , and of the fruits of the same in our course , as occasion serues : of which this louing and doing good to our enemies , are principall ones . Eighthly , hereby we shall , it may be , conuert and ouercome our enemies to loue the truth ; As the patience of the Martyrs , was a meane of the conuersion of some , who suffered soone after them . Or at least , it will bee a conuincing them , and leauing them without excuse ; as Saul , by Dauids innocency , who twice might haue killed him , and did not , was conuinced , and cryed out , Thou art more righteous than I , 1 Sam. 24. 19. Ninthly , we shall prouide herein well for our owne comfort , both in life and in death ; when in all aduersities and wrongs by wicked men , our enemies , our hearts can testifie with vs , that we seeke no reuenge , that we can pray for our persecutors . For this argueth much loue to be in vs , and that it is feruent , as God commands . As that is a great fire , that warmes not onely them that be neare , but giues heate to them that be far off : So is this Loue. This then , first confuteth the Doctrine of the Scribes and Pharisees , of which wee haue heard : which is Doctrine and Diuinity for our turne , and well suiting to our nature ; but it s too pleasing to nature to bee good : nay , it s to be abhorred . 2 The Papists also , who , little better , teach , that in two cases onely we are bound to helpe our enemies , in the case of extremity , or of scandall . For other things , to loue them , or pray for them , or doe them good in other cases , it s but a counsell our Sauiour Christ giues , and no commandement . If men can do it , it s well ; but if they cannot , it s not required . But this is false ; our Sauiour Christ speaks in the Imperatiue and commanding Mood , and vrgeth it hard , with diuers reasons : therefore it s not left to our discretion , but flatly required , as in other Scriptures . 3 It rebuketh the contrary nature that is in vs , and the practice of the world , which quite against this Precept of louing , praying for , and doing good to our enemies , doe hate them , reioyce at their fall , enuie at any good that comes to them , speake all ill to them , and of them , interrupt all ill against them , requite one euill with another , taunt with taunt , suit with suit , blow with blow , and seeke to do them all euill . Yea , and men thinke they should bee borne with , and not blamed for this : Why , say they , he is mine enemy , and that wrongfully , I neuer did him hurt , yet he hath raised lies and slanders of me , or thus and thus abused mee : What then ? what mastery else were it for you to loue him ? Oh but this cannot be heard of ; whereby it appeares , that most men are carnall , and of the Deuill . They say , they owe them no loue ; Well , yet you owe God all loue , you cannot deny , and hee hath turned ouer some of the loue you owe to him , to be payed to your enemy , and he will take it as payed to him ; and this is but iust in common dealing among men . Nay , it s a fault too much among many Christians , that shew great weaknesse this way . If they be wronged , Oh how they swell , and how farre they will goe in reuenge , both by words and deeds , and how long they dare lye herein ? whereby they be wray they be more flesh than spirit , as Paul said to the Corinthians . While these things are thus , are ye not carnall , and walke as men ? 1 Cor. 3. 3. My Brethren , these things ought not so to be . This is not the perswasion of Gods Spirit . Indeede , the spirit that is in vs lusteth after enuie ; but the Scripture teacheth better things : The wisedome that is from aboue , is , first , pure , then peaceable , full of mercy , and good fruits . Therefore this reuenging course , which is counted wisedome , if it be any , its earthly : that is , of the men of this world ; sensuall , of our owne corrupt lust and desire , and Diuellish , he is the author and teacher of it . Oh that wee could be brought to see our sinne euery of vs in this point , and be humbled , that there is such a nature in vs , so contrary to the will of God , and for our practice , that hath been so bad , and lets euery one of vs bewaile heartily , and repent of that that is past : and for time to come , le ts labour for greater grace , that when any such occasions be offered vs hereafter , we may shew better fruits . And though we talke with our enemy , or debate the matter , keep passion away , and doe it patiently ; yea , or if wee reproue him , if he be worthy , or take the benefit of Law or Magistrate , yet let it be without reuenge . Wee are not bound hereby to loue their sinnes , nor their needlesse society , nor to furnish them with kindnesse , that might make them fitter to doe hurt , nor to relinquish our right , or our good cause ; but that we be free from hatred and reuenge , yea , and further , to ouercome their euill with goodnesse , as God doth , and commandeth . And first , that we beware of reuenge , which is a wicked thing , and that for these Reasons : First , Vengeance is the Lords , and he will repay . It s his office and priuiledge : to reuenge therefore , is to take the Royalty out of his hand ; as one should put the Lord chiefe Iustice out of his seat , and iudge his cause himselfe . Hee must reuenge to whom it belongs , as Psal. 94. 1 , 2. therefore the Egyptian said to Moses , when hee would haue parted him and the Israelite , Exod. 2. 14. Who made thee a Iudge ouer vs ? Noting , that men must not auenge without authority : therefore our Sauiour Christ bade Peter put vp his sword , when he cut off Malchas eare : with a reason , Because who so auengeth without a calling , shall perish by the sword . Wee must therefore commit our case to God , as our Sauiour Christ did ; for he can also doe it most wisely , and most righteously , 1 Pet. 2. 23. wee will doe it foolishly and partially , as wee see in daily experience . Leaue it to him , he will not faile to do it , and well too . 2 When we reuenge our own wrongs , we leaue the Lord nothing to do , except it be to turne his wrath from our enemy , on whom wee haue beene reuenged already , to our selues , for our sin of reuenging , as Pro. 24. 17 , 18. 3 When we reuenge , we doe we know not what : we consider not who smote vs. It s the Lord , as Iob said , The Lord hath giuen , and the Lord hath taken , when the Caldeans had robbed him . No euill in the City : that is , of punishment , but the Lord hath done it , Amos 3. 6. which made Dauid so quietly beare Shimei his rayling , because the Lord set him on worke so to doe for his humbling . Our enemy is but as Ashur , the Lords rod , to beat vs with ; therefore to reuenge , is to wring the rod out of Gods hand , and breake it , or cast it into the fire , which is but an vngracious childes part . When God bids vs loue our enemies , he bids vs but kisse the rod , to pull down our stomachs ▪ which many wise mothers will make their yoong ones do betimes . So also it s the Deuill in thine enemy , that doth thee wrong in goods , life , or name , who hereby seekes to driue thee to reuenge , or some other sinne ; as he did to moue Iob to curse God , by all the troubles hee brought vpon him ; therefore resist the Deuill , and not the man : for the Deuill aimes not at thy goods , or name , to hurt thee in them , but to draw thee to sinne , to the hurt of thy soule . If thou canst therefore , resist Sathan herein , and auoide the sinne he seekes hereby to bring thee to commit , thou shalt play a wise mans part , and so in stead of reuenging thy selfe on thy enemy , be reuenged vpon Sathan , thy chiefest enemy . 4 When we reuenge , we do our selues ten times more hurt , than wee doe our enemy : wee hurt him a little , it may be , in his body , goods , or good name , and wound ourselues deeply in our own soules ; hit him in the skin , and pierce the kall of our owne hearts : As the Bee , that to sting another , loseth shortly her owne life . It s the foolishest thing in the world to reuenge ; but a wise part , to commit it to God , best for vs , and worst for our enemy . Oh it s no dealing with a man that commits his cause to God , no standing before him : for though God would part from his owne , yet he will not giue away his seruants right . It were better for an enemy , that the party that hee hates , should deuise all waies of reuenge in the world , by himselfe , and by his friends against him , than that hee should put it vp quietly , and leaue it to God. And let vs not stay our selues here , in auoiding reuenge , but goe forward to loue our enemies , and labour to doe good against euill , as we are commanded , Rom. 12. vlt. Obiect . I cannot doe it : for he hath deserued all ill of me ; and can I then doe him good ? Answ. And haue not you done so against Almighty God , and yet he doth you good daily ? Obiect . It s a base part for mee , being wronged , disgraced , and abused , not to challenge him , and be auenged of him , if I can , else I shall be counted a cowardly foole , much more if I should doe him good . Answ. This is but carnall Diuinity , which counts it great courage to turne againe and reuenge , which Heathens & Turks can doe , and euery Bull and Bore can doe , and that its basenesse to put vp wrongs . But it s quite contrary : for its true valour to ouercome our selues , and conquer our vnruly lusts and sinfull passions , and to obey the commandement of God , Prou. 16. 32. hee is more mighty that can rule himselfe , than hee that conquers many others : And that is true basenesse , for a man to be so led by his passions , as he can be are nothing , no , though God command , and the contrary turne to his owne destruction . Obiect . When you haue said all you can , it is impossible . Answ. No , it s not impossible , though a hard thing it is , I grant : and therefore by the way , for such as professe they can beare all indignities done them , and can do them that do them , all good , as if there were no such matter , and finde no difficulty in it , ( and yet but ordinary persons neither ) for my part , I doe not beleeue them , and I doubt , they doe but deceiue themselues . If it were not hard to be done , it were not so worthy of a Christian. It s therefore a yoke , but easie ; a burthen , but light to the spirituall man , that is well assured of the loue of God to him , and of the forgiuenesse of many sinnes . But to the carnall man , I grant , it s wholly impossible . Le ts labour therefore for this Faith and Assurance of forgiuenesse , whereby we may be enabled to doe this difficult worke . Now to draw to an end of this point of Loue to our enemies , let vs , I beseech you , be perswaded seriously to weigh the reasons that haue beene vsed to moue to this duety , and let vs suffer our selues to be ouercome of them . It s the most noble and heroicall duety , and truely worthy of a Christian man : hereby we shall proue our selues to bee the children of God , and doe like to him ; which ought to be our greatest ambition . Hereby wee shall shew our selues to haue profited well in the Schoole of Christ , and that wee haue not learned to do that euery body can doe , but to doe some singular thing ; for so may God expect of vs , after all this cost of his Word bestowed vpon vs , and that we are growne past children and weaklings , on towards perfection , euen to doe difficult dueties , and such as are most contrary to our rebellious nature . The Lord perswade our hearts to conceiue well of , to beleeue , and obey this point . Me thinkes , whiles I am speaking . of these reasons , the heart somewhat yeelds to this duety , and there seemes as if one should haue some power to doe it : and I am perswaded , that there bee diuers , that at the hearing and reading of these things , if they were tryed now they be hote , could be able to doe something this way . But let them sinke downe so deep into our hearts , as they may abide with vs , that if hereafter occasion shall be offered , we may be able to shew forth the force and fruit thereof . We must look to meet with wrongs and enemies ; therefore le ts learne to take out this lesson before-hand . Oh that wee could but learne this one point at this time ! how happily should we haue spent our time ? Hereby wee shall honour our profession , conuert or conuince our aduersaries , and prouide much comfort to our owne soules : As that worthy Master Greenham , a man subiect to manie slanderous reports , that yet would say , these two things comforted him : First , that he found his heart not ill , but well affected to his brethren : Secondly , that when he was alone , he could humble himselfe to God , and pray him to forgiue him , that raised them vp . Le ts labour hereunto : what else doe we hearing so many Sermons continually , if wee meane not to shew forth the power thereof ? CHAP. 8. Of Loue to all men . NExt vnto our Enemies , whom must we loue more ? We must loue all other men . Not onely our kindred , friends , acquaintance , our neighbours of the same towne , countrey , or nation , but euen all that dwell vpon the face of the earth , high , low , rich , poore , men , women , yongue , old , bond , free , without or within the Church , that eyther are or euer may be the people of God. True , our loue must begin at those that be neerest vs , and must be most to those within the Church , especially to the houshold of Faith ; but it must stretch it selfe farre , and wide , and ouer all , and wee must doe all dueties of Loue to them , as occasion shall be offered and we be able . For whosoeuer hath or shall haue need of our helpe , he is our neighbour , whom wee are bound to loue , because God hath commanded it , and hee is our owne flesh . Our prayers , as a maine dutie of loue , must reach at one time or other to all , and doe them what other good we can . Wee must pray for the poore Pagans , that God would send his light and truth amongst them , that they in time may bee brought into the bosome of the Church , and the sheepfold of Christ Iesus . For the Lords ancient people the Iewes , that he would be pleased to make those dry bones to liue , and to take the vaile of vnbeleefe from off their hearts , that they may at last come to embrace and beleeue in the Lord Iesus Christ , to their eternall saluation . And that God would in mercie bring in the fulnesse of the Gentiles , and to that end that he would hasten the ruine of Anchrists Kingdome , that those nations that haue long lyen vnder the bondage of that man of sinne , and in the darkenesse of superstition and Idolatry , may be set at libertie , and haue the light of the glorious Gospell to shine among them , to teach them to know and worship the true God aright , and to beleeue in Iesus Christ , which is life eternall . And for those within the Church , wee ought to pray to God to continue his mercie towards them , and to giue them grace to walke worthy thereof . And for those that be falne into their enemies hands , and bee in great distresse euerie way , wee ought to send vp continuall feruent prayers and strong cryes , out of the bowels of compassion towards their miseries , vnto Almightie God the father and protector of his Church , that though hee hath punished them for their sinnes as pleased him , yet that hee would in iudgement remember mercie , and humble their hearts vnder his heauie hand , pardon their sinnes , and restore their former liberties to them againe . Yea and as their bodily necessities shall be truely made knowne to vs , wee should be readie to reach out our hand to the reliefe thereof . Ob. If anie will say , They bee strangers to me , what haue I doe with them ? Ans. Let such a one know , that yet Gods Image , nor his expresse commandement ought not to be strange vnto vs , but ought to prouoke vs to this duety . Yea they that bee neuer so ignorant , prophane , vngodly , whether rich or poore , we must wish well vnto them , and seeke their good : for as wee must not hate the vices for the persons sake , so neyther the person for the vices sake . Our loue towards them , may bee a meane to winne them to God. Vse . But alas , how few be there that thinke any such thing required of them ? and therefore no maruell though no conscience be made of the performance thereof : for euen in those things that they know to be the will of God and their dueties , yet few will be brought to the obedience of them . Who so pities the miserable state of those that know not God , nor haue any meanes of saluation , but be out of the pale of the Church ; as to pray earnestly to God , that hee would in mercie visit them in his due time ? Alas , multitudes pray not for their owne selues and families , their neighbours and nation ; and therefore no maruell they looke not so farre . But , mee thinkes , that fearfull Prayer the Church maketh against such , Psalme 79. 6. should strike feare into them , to moue them to seeke to auoide the dint and danger of it . How sew lay to heart the long and sore afflictions , nay , the wofull desolations of our brethren in the Palatinate , Bohemia , and places adioyning ; and therefore powre out compassionate repenting and feruent prayers to God for them ? We heare of their vnspeakeable miseries , but are not affected with them , either to profit by their harmes vnto sound repentance our selues , or to put to our helping hand , by our instant prayers to seeke their deliuerance . Wee talke much of them , and would faine see an end of their troubles , and a returne of things , but few be those that doe pray for them , and that so seldome , and so coldly , as we can haue as little comfort , as they haue hitherto found benefit : for what fruit can be expected from prayers , not ioyned with true repentance ? for God heares no sinners ; and let him that cals vpon the Name of the Lord ( and looks to be heard ) depart from iniquitie . I doubt not but some there are , that doe compassionately and feelingly wrestle with God for them , from time to time , yea , do afflict their soules to obtain mercie for them , whose prayers are assuredly not shut out , or forgorten before God , but shall in due time haue blessed effect ; but these , I doubt , are but a very few . And for other dueties of Loue , no maruell , if ( as occasion serues ) they bee coldly performed to those that be further off , when wee are found so faulty towards those wee daily conuerse with . What extreme failing in the dueties of forgiuing wrongs , and doing good to soules and bodies of those we haue to doe with ? Of which wee haue spoken already vpon one or two seuerall occasions ; therefore I now speake no more thereof : onely I pray God to giue vs this true Loue , that may reach out it selfe to all men , as occasion is , or shall be offered . CHAP. 9. Of Loue to the Saints . NOw I come to the loue we owe to the Saints and true people of God ; and these are to be loued in the greatest degree of all other men , and to be had in high price and account , Gal. 6. 10. Psalme 15. 4. Thus did Dauid , Psalme 16. 3. All his delight was in the Saints . Psal. 119. 63. He was their companion . Psal. 101. He would haue such to attend vpon him , and such only as neare as he could . So Cornelius , Acts 10. 7. had a souldier that feared God , that was at his hand . Reasons of this are : First , the Image of God is most clearly seen in them : we are to reuerence and loue the least part of it , wheresoeuer we see it , euen in wicked men ; how much more then , the brightnesse of it , which stands in the graces of the Spirit , wisedome , holinesse , and righteousnesse , wherein they most liuely resemble their Maker ? And the more of this we see , the more we ought to loue , in children , friends , neighbours , or whomsoeuer . This is to be esteemed far aboue wit , beauty , strength , wealth , actiuity , or any gift of Nature or Art ; these be toyes to grace : Fauour is deceitfull , and beauty vanity , but one that feares God , he or she , shall be praised . Therefore herein Rebecca was wiser than Isaac , who loued Iacob for his grace , more than Esau for his skill in hunting . Secondly , God loues them best ; therefore so should we . As whom the King fauours , all doe honour . These be his secret ones , precious in his account , as the apple of his eye ; he hath rebuked Kings for their sakes . When he drowned all the world , hee preserued his little number : As Lot in Sodoms destruction . Yea , if there had but ten righteous persons been found in fiue Cities , they had all beene saued from the burning . These bee marked in Ierusalem from the common destruction , Ezek. 9. These he sealed , Reuel . 7. to be preserued from the plagues bodily and spirituall , that should come vpon the world . He makes more account of one righteous one , than of a thousand other , Isa. 43. 3 , 4. As he did , when to make way for his people , the Iewes , into Canaan , he gaue seuen mighty Nations to the sword . Thirdly , they be more excellent than any other , Prou. 12. 26. The righteous is more excellent than his neighbour : meaning , that is not righteous , but wicked . More excellent in this life , at his death , and in the day of iudgement . These are written in the Booke of Life , be washt white in the bloud of the Lambe , clothed with his Righteousnesse , aricher robe than euer Salomon wore on his backe : adorned with the precious Iewels of Gods sanctifying graces , attended by the Angels , borne from aboue , the children of God , members of Christ , temples of the Holy Ghost , heires of all things here , & shall at death , and after the day of Iudgement , be inheritors of the Kingdome of Heauen , prepared for them before the beginning of the world . And for the wicked , we may say , as Psal. 1. 4. It is not so with them . And therefore good reason these should be best beloued . 4 Lastly , they be most vsefull , and can do vs most good , by their counsell , example , prayers , when we be present with them , yea , absent from them : Hee that walkes with the wise , shall bee the wiser ; much good may we learne , and comfort may we get , by conuersing with them , that bee truely godly . For their sake the world continues ; if the number of the Elect were fulfilled , the wicked should no longer rout here , but come to iudgement , and be sent to their owne place . For their sake , and at their prayers , many plagues are kept from the Land ; as at Moses prayers they were from the Israelites : Many iudgements entred , haue been remoued , as Plague and Pestilence , and vnseasonable times ; yea , finall desolation preuented : and had it not beene for a few , we might haue looked to haue been as Sodome , and as Gomorrha . All fare the better for the Righteous sake ; as all that were in the ship ▪ with Paul , had their liues giuen them , and were preserued from drowning for his sake , Acts 27. Vse . 1. This then serues to reproue the folly of carnall people , that so dote vpon wealth and honour , and things of this world , as if they that had them were the happy men ; Oh they bee made , they cannot do amisse . And these , in their language , are vsually called the best men in the Towne , and these they crouch to and ad mire , when grace and the feare of God in any is little regarded ; esteeming the seruants of God without wealth ( how gracious soeuer ) but poore snakes . But , Oh folly and madnesse to worship the Golden Calfe ! so highly to esteem men for red and white earth , gifts of Gods left hand , giuen euen to his enemies , things transitory & soone fading away , and that cannot keep their owners from the damnation of hell ; and not to esteeme of the precious graces of Gods Spirit , giuen from aboue onely to his Elect , and which doe abide vnto euerlasting life . Elisha , that worthy Prophet of the Lord , was of another minde , who , but for the goodnesse that was in King Iehoshaphat , would not haue once looked towards Iehoram , that wicked King of Israel , 2 Kin. 3. 14. which folly , of preferring wealth aboue grace , the Apostle St. Iames rebuketh , Cap. 2. 1 , 2. &c. Secondly , this rebuketh such , as make account of all alike , especially , if they be any thing ciuill ; one as welcome to them as another , as much commended in life and at death : like as well of the ciuill , as of them that be truely religious , shew as much countenance , yeeld as much helpe to one as to the other . If they haue any thing to giue , they put no difference betweene the poore , good , or bad . These are iustly to be suspected , and to be thought to be neyther Fish nor Flesh ; for where true grace is , their eyes be annointed , that they can see a difference between men , and grace will draw to grace , and as discerne it , so embrace it : for though we challenge no such gift , as some that say , If they talke but halfe ▪ an houre with a man , they will know whether he be the childe of God or not ; yet , I say , God giues grace to discerne grace where it is , from bare ciuillity , at least by conuersing with them , and to preferre one infinitely before the other . Many will commend a meere ciuill man , in whom its easie to discerne , that there is not one dramme of piety or true grace , to be as honest a man as need to be , and thinke and speake as well of him , as of a true good Christian ; but this is a very dangerous signe , that there is no more but ciuill honesty in themselues . Thirdly , this reproueth a more fearfull sinne yet , and yet the common practice of some , that in stead of louing the godly best of all persons , they can worst away with them . They could loue such a kinsman , tenant , seruant , &c. but that hee is ( as they call them ) a Puritan , and they cannot abide these precise fellowes . Nay , they haue loued such and such a one , till it pleased God to conuert him , and euer since they could neuer abide him : As the chiefe Priests dealt by Saul , after he was conuerted , and became a Paul. Why ? hee was the same man that he was , onely he was better now : So it s with the other that I spake of ; which is a plaine argument , that they hate them for their goodnesse , as Dauid complaines , Psalme 38. 20. * Though they pretend they hate them for this or that fault , yet ▪ that is not so ; for they loue those that liue in greater faults , and themselues liue in farre greater , than they can possibly charge them withall : The truth is , it s because they are better than themselues , and dare not be companions with them in euill , 1 Pet. 4. 4. therefore the openly prophane hate them : They hate them , because they flye a higher pitch , than they are willing to put themselues to the paines to attaine to , and so they count they discredit them , who , but for these precise ones , should be counted the best , and as good , as one would desire . Besides , these tell them , that their fruitlesse profession of Religion will not serue to bring them to Heauen ; and therefore vrge them to look further , which they are not willing to doe ; and this makes them wish , they were all out of the way : for they onely trouble the world , they should be quiet but for them . And thus our Sauiour Christ and the Gospell bring variance , not into the same Towne where before all went hand in hand to sinne , but into the same Family ; because some will receiue the Gospell and the power of it , some others will not : therefore they are now at oddes , that were all one before in euill . This sinne hath most fearfully ouer-spread this Nation , so that its more safe from the hatred and ill tongues of most , to bee any thing , rather than to be zealous and godly . A fearfull thing . Euery man loues a couragious souldier , a diligent and resolute seruant for his Master , a man forward in his businesse ; onely forwardnesse and zeale for God and in Religion , that cannot bee endured . These be they that be the troublers , and a burthen to the places where they be , and so to the Land , and bee railed on as the vilest persons , when as yet these are perhaps vpon their knees , pleading with God for the Nation , when multitudes are swilling , and swearing , and prouoking Gods wrath against it ; therefore we haue small cause to be weary of them : the Land , no doubt , fares the better for them euery day . Is this the fruit of aboue threescore yeares peace and plenty of the Gospell ; wherein it had been meet we had all beene such as I meane : that is , zealous and true hearted Christians , that now those few that labour to shew forth the power of true godlinesse , in an vniuersall obedience to the Word they professe , that these should be had in derision , and be a wonder in Israel ? As sure as we liue , if all in this Land serued God , as it is to be feared , some doe , in an idle and meere ceremonious cōming to Church , hearing of Sermons , and receiuing the Sacrament , and yet liue as they list , and keep their lusts still , and the sinnes they haue a minde to ; God would soone ease himselfe of vs , and vomit vp such a lukewarme Nation : for how odious is this to God , to haue people draw neare to him with their lips , when their hearts are diuided from him , and run after their sinnes : to heare his Word , and hate to be reformed , or to mend a little in what they list , and no further than they please ; to call vpon God , and yet depart not from euill ; in receiuing the Lords Supper , to professe Faith in Christ , and obedience to all Gods commandements , and in their liues to shew the clean contrary euery day ? what is this but to prouoke God against vs , and to deceiue our owne soules ? And as for those particular persons that are haters of Gods true seruants , they are no such themselues , and their state is fearful . For they are not led by the spirit that Dauid and Cornelius was , and which I pray God I may euer be . They be no true Members of the Church here , nor shall bee heires of Gods Kingdome hereafter , as Psal. 15. 4. None of Christs Disciples , who are known by louing their Brethren , Iohn 13. 35. nor are translated from death to life , 1 Iohn 3. 14. but remaine vnder death to this houre : Nor haue any loue to God in them , 1 Iohn 5. 1. for if they loued him that begetteth , they would loue those that are begotten of him . But they are of the seed of the Serpent , bearing enmity against the seed of the Woman , against Christ in his members ; of Cains linage , of the broode of Ismael , worse than Balaam ; Numb . 23. that said , How shall I curse , where God hath not cursed ? or detest , where God hath not detested ? are led by Sathan , who is an accuser of the Brethren , Reuel . 12 , 10. who prouide wofully for themselues : for God said to Abraham , and so to all that be of the seed of Abraham by true faith , I will blesse them that blesse thee , and curse them that curse thee . Their ill will is indeed against Christ , and reacheth to him ; as he said from heauen to Saul , Why persecutest thou me ? and , It s hard kicking against the pricks . Looke throughout all the Scriptures , and you shall see , that fearefull iudgements haue ouertaken the haters , and pursuers , or opposers of the true seruants of God. Later Histories of the Church , and our owne daily experience affords abundance of very true , sensible , and fearfull examples in this kinde . And if at the day of iudgement , they that haue done them no good shall be set on the left hand , and heare this dolefull sentence , Goe yee cursed &c. then what shall become of them that haue hated them , and done them hurt ? Let euery one therefore that hath beene guilty in this thing , repent deepely of it , as there is cause , and so shake off this blacke and fearefull Marke , else the time will come , when they shall wish , and would thinke themselues happy , to bee shadowed vnder their wing whom now they hate ; when they shall see them receiued , and themselues refused . Yet here againe let me put in this by the way , that I count not those for Gods true seruants who are such onely in Profession , and not in their Practice . Some zealous Professors there are , which yet are not so diligent in their callings as they ought to be . Some not so carefull to keep out of debt , or not to pay their debts , but hang on euery bush , and breake promises shamefully , to the iust opening the mouthes of their Neighbours . Some bee rash and indiscreete , giuen to censure too deepely . Some spend all their zeale in crying out against Ceremonies , and neglect matters more belonging to edifying themselues and others . Some forsake their owne Ministers when they preach , very vncharitably and indiscreetly . Some separate themselues from the Church , and our Ministrie and Societie altogether . Now if a Minister , or any Christian shall shew his dislike of such courses in generall , or rebuke any particular person for any of them , hee is not to bee ill thought of for so doing , nor to be reputed an hater of Gods seruants . Fourthly , there are diuers sorts of them that be no open enemies to Gods children , that yet will bee found no other , when God shall come to iudgement ; and therefore here to be discouered and reproued . They bee not with them ; therefore they bee against them . They can sit and heare them vniustly euill spoken of , and yet be neuer greeued , nor once open their mouthes in their behalfe . That pry into their liues , and if they can spy a hole in their coate , they reproach them by it , and tell it from one to another , and that with no griefe . Can cast out a scoffe against them : That care not for their company . Delight rather in those that spend the time in telling Newes or Tales , of this or that body : with these they can sit long ; but for other that will hold to any godly speech , they take no pleasure in them : They make matches with such rather than with those ; inuite them , and loue their company to chuse . These be lukewarme Christians , Neuters , neyther the one , nor the other , of both sides , of euery side : but God can see them to bee Enemies , and will set them on his left hand ; when it will not serue them to pleade that they neuer hated them , or opposed them . Let men looke well to this Point : for there bee many that thinke well of themselues , for good Christians , that yet will be found of this number : But as they can haue no sound peace to their Consciences , so shall they neuer haue good name in the Church of God , till it bee otherwise . Fiftly and lastly , let this bee a Consolation to all those whose hearts doe beare witnesse , and their practice bewray that they truly loue the Saints ; they can haue no better signe of the grace of God , or that they bee true Members of the Church here , and shall bee inheriters of glory hereafter ; that they loue God , be Christs Disciples , and be translated from death to life . Alwaies prouided , that you deceiue not your selues in this point , as no doubt diuers doe , To thinke , that because you loue some one or two choyce ones , that you are a louer of Gods people , though you neglect all the rest : which is not so ; for whosoeuer loues any in truth , loues the grace of God in whomsoeuer hee sees it , rich or poore , high or low . Or because you loue some that bee of your Kinne , or for some outward good qualification they haue , or some common gift of learning , eloquence , or because they bee rich , or bee such as haue done you some pleasure , or may doe : for if your loue bee set vpon Gods seruants for such by respects , this is not the true Loue of the Saints : But if you loue them simply for the worke of Gods sanctifying grace that yousee or hear to be in them , though you neuer saw them , nor neuer shall , yet for the grace of God your heart is knit to them , as Ionathans to Dauid : or if you know and liue neare them● though they neuer did you any speciall good turne , or be nothing to you outwardly and in the flesh , nay , though any such haue reproued you of some fault they haue seene in you , yet you loue them for the Image of God that shines in them : yea , though you see , heare , or know some imperfections in them , and things worthy blame , yet seeing signes of synceritie you loue them notwithstanding , are glad when they doe well , and grieue at the contrary : this is good . Examine your selues by these things ; if you bee taken tardy , then deceiue your selues no longer : If your heart witnesse on your side by these tryals , then be comforted , and labour to encrease in this grace , that so your euidence may be strong : And the rather , because this hath kept many from sinking in time of Temptation , when all other euidences haue beene to seeke . Thus much of the loue that all ought to beare to the People of God. CHAP. 10. How true Christians should loue each other . NOw I will adde yet one thing more , and that is , How true Christians should loue and carry themselues towards each other . They ought to loue one another most entirely , and more than they doe , or can loue the common sort . They must loue them as fellow-members of the same mysticall body whereof Christ is the head . Now how do the members of the natural body loue , sticke together , and seeke the good of each other , defend and tender one another , reioyce in each others wel-fare , and grieue at the contrary ? so ought the Members of the spirituall body much more , if it were possible . Wee cannot loue all thus ; for all are not fellow-members in this body of Christ. Secondly , they must loue as brethren : therefore the loue that is to bee betweene them is called Brotherly kindenesse , 2 Pet. 1. 7. Therefore though some scoffing Ismaels deride this name , and say , Oh you bee of the Brethren : yet wee are not to bee ashamed of this name , seeing GOD so speakes . Gods children be brothers and sisters ; they haue the same Father , which is God , the same Mother , the Church , begotten by the same immortall seed , the Word of God , nourisht with the same milke , and meat of the same Word and holy Sacraments , heires of the same Inheritance in Heauen by Christ Iesus . A better Brother-hood than that of nature , as much as the spirit is better than the flesh : Yea , and a more lasting Brother-hood ; that will last when this is vanisht away , which lasteth onely for this fraile life of ours , but the other abideth for euer . Therefore our Sauiour Christ said , Who is my Mother , and who are my Brethren ? Naturall Brethren ought to loue dearely , how much more we that are of a better kindred ? It s very pleasing to God our Father ; and to the Church our Mother , that all their children should liue in loue , as Psal. 133. 1. and a ioy to all the brothers and sisters ; As it is a ioy to any earthly Parents to haue their children loue well together : and the contrary is very grieuous , and they will mourne to each other , There be two Boyes can neuer agree , two Girles that loue not one another ; what will they doe when we are gone ? Now to loue as Brethren , is this ; To haue Brotherly ▪ affections each to other inwardly , and to declare the same outwardly by brotherly actions . For the first , we are bidden , Rom. 12. Be affectioned to lòue one another ; as to weep with them that weepe , to haue compassion of their miseries , as Heb. 13. 9. As the Samaritan had compassion on the man that fell among Theeues . And our Sauiour Christ had compassion on the spirituall miserie of the People , Mat. 9. 36. St. Paul was affected with the miseries of the Iewes , and tooke them deepely to heart , Rom. 9. 1 , 2 , 3. So Nehemiah , hearing of the distresse of the Church of the Iewes at Ierusalem , though hee were well himselfe , yet he so mourned for them as it was seene in his face . The contrary is blamed , Amos 6. No man is sorry for the affliction of Ioseph . So to reioyce with them that reioyce , as Luke 1. 58. yea , though it were ill with ourselues . As Paul in prison , yet reioyced to heare of the welfare of the Churches . These brotherly affections bee so necessary , as all brotherly actions not proceeding from these , are in no account with God ; As a man may giue all his goods to the poore , and haue no loue , and so bee but a tinckling Cimball , 1 Cor. 13. As if a man should giue , that hee might merit thereby , or to purchase credit , or for companies sake , or with vpbraiding ; and from no compassion of the poore mans misery , it would neither please God , nor profit him that doth it . So to admonish one ( which is a speciall duety of Loue ) but if done with twitting & reproaching , as glad they haue some matter against him , it hath lost his grace and reward with God. And herein , the poore may shew as much loue to their fellow-brethren as the rich ; which may comfort them which are ready to be discouraged , and thinke they are vnhappy , and haue nothing to shew any loue in ; Yes , you may be as plentifull in brotherly affections , as any other . Now for brotherly actions , they must bee adioyned to shew the truth of the affections ; they be counterfeit , if not thus approued , as 1 Iohn 3. 17. like those speeches , Iames 2. 15 , 16. Brotherly actions be to the soule and body , as need is . To the bodily necessities of our fellow-brethren in ordinary wants , wee must giue of our superfluity ; in extraordinary calamities , of our maine substance : And to thinke it honour enough , that God makes vs giuers to them , that be as deare to him as our selues , and shall be inheritors of the same glory with vs , though we abound now , and they bee suffered to want . So to the soule in admonition , exhortation , consolation , and prayer , which are the principall and most profitable fruits of our loue one to another . And all these ought to bee performed purely , feruently , and constantly , as wee heard in handling the properties of Loue. But , Beloued , if wee come to looke for these things among Christians , they will all be found very much wanting , both brotherly affections , and brotherly actions , and those that be , oft not pure , but with looking at our selues , not feruent , but faint and few , nor constant , but short and brittle , broken off by affliction , especially , if it continue , when yet there is most need : for a brother is borne for aduersitie . Many Christians will be kinde to another in the beginning of their affliction , and for a little while ; but if it hold long , then most faile him , and their loue is spent as it were . Or otherwise , their loue is broken off by some vnkindnesse , and not readily sodered againe so strong as it was afore . There is much strangenesse between Christians ; they care not one for another almost : they see each other at Church , but not all the weeke after . Peace hath made Christians proud and carelesse ; euery man can subsist by himselfe , and hath no neede of his brother : We may iustly feare , God will send vs troubles , to make vs glad one of another . But there is vse enough one of another euen now , if we had eies to see it , to helpe , encourage , comfort , and confirme each other in our holy profession and Christian course , against the manifold discouragements and temptations we are subiect to meet with ; and to whet on , and set an edge one vpon another , that grow so dull ; to lay our brands together , that wee may catch some heate from one another ; to minde one another of such changes as may come , and so of our last end , to prepare for them in time . Stronger Christians , and of better gifts , looke so houerly on the weake ; so the rich vpon the poore : Fie vpon it , are they not your brethren ? do you not know them , because of their russet or leather coate ? he hath as much grace , may be , more than you , and shall haue ( it may be ) a better place in Heauen than you ; and doe you esteeme so meanly of him ? It s counted pride , when any will not know their poore kinred ; know Iesus Christ and the grace of God in them , and disdaine not their company , though your inferiours ; seeing , as you may comfort and refresh them by your loue , so you may receiue much benefit from them againe . Christians should meet together , not to feasting onely , but sometimes to build vp one another by holy conference . and this will encrease loue greatly : for when wee see the grace of God one in another , and get good one by another , our loue is hereby greatly furthered . Another fault too much among many Christians , is , as want of bowels of tender compassion towards our brethren in distresse , so there is not that forwardnesse and freenesse to relieue their necessities . First , for their bodily wants , there is too much straitnesse oft-times ; whereas if we did consider , that they are not onely our owne flesh ( as the common sort are ) but our fellow-members , fellow-brethren , and such as whom God might haue made vs takers from them , and them giuers to vs , it would enlarge our heart and our hand towards them . Well , what we doe for them , is not to fellow-members and fellow-brethren onely , but to Christ Iesus himselfe ; and it shall be so counted for at the last and great day . It s not so much theirs to whom we giue it , as it s our owne , and furthers our reckoning : As the seed is not the grounds so much , as the owners that sowes it , and for his benefit . It will be all reckoned ours at the great payment day , euen to a cup of cold water : and wee shall see he hath not forgotten any worke of our loue , but hath kept iust bookes and true accounts , and will then say to vs , Come ye blessed of my Father , inherit , &c. For I was oft , in my members , in a poore condition , and ye ministred vnto mee ; now receiue a thousand fold , euen that Kingdome that was prepared for you from the beginning of the world . And for relieuing their spirituall wants , there is oft too much want of compassion and care . How farre may a Christian goe out of his way , ere another , with the spirit of meeknesse , will step in by a wholsome admonition , to stop him in his course ? The heauie not comforted with a word in season , nor the fainting encouraged , but euery man minding his owne matters , as though we were strangers , and God had giuen vs no charge one of another . Nay , there is yet a greater fault to bee found among many Christians , than these two that I haue spoken of , and that is this , That sundry of them can take leaue to fall out , and contend with each other , and that very deeply : sometimes for words , sometimes for small matters of the world ; yea , and some when they be out , cannot finde the way in againe , nor are they ashamed of that they haue done , but can lye and continue in it month after month . Is this the behauiour of fellow-members ? thinke we our Head Christ will endure or beare it , to haue his body thus rent one member from another ? nay , one would thinke , is this possible : What doe you thinke of your selfe , that you are a true member of Christ by Faith ? Well , and what doe you thinke of him , that you are thus rent and diuided from ? I dare not but thinke ( you will say ) but he belongs to God. And doe you thinke then , that the member of Christ should eyther thus deale , or thus be dealt withall , and that by his fellow member ? He that should see one member in a mans naturall body , offering hurt and violence to another , would hee not thinke the man were mad ? What shall wee say then , when Christians can so eagerly pursue each other in words and deedes ( as too oft is seen ) shall wee say they be in their right minde ? but rather , that the spirit of pride , or couetoushesse , or some such humour , hath intoxicated their braines . This will cost them deare , or euer they can make their peace with God and their Conscience ; and they must fall out as deeply with themselues for their folly , & with indignation take a holy reuenge of themselues , that they may feare euer to doe the like againe . Is this the behauiour of brothers and sisters , to flye in one anothers face , to liue at such oddes , as that all the Parish takes notice of it ? If naturall brethren should doe so , all men would cry shame of it . Doth our father like this , thinke you ? our mother , and fellow-brethren round about , that see or heare of it , doe you thinke this goes not to their hearts ? And thinke you , you doe not open the mouthes of Canaanites and Perizzites that are euery where , and heare of it ? Thinke wee good , to giue them such iust matter to speak euill of vs , and of our holy profession for it ? Our father Abraham could say to his inferior Lot , Let there be no strife betweene mee and thee : for we are brethen . A body would thinke that the name Brother , should eyther preuent all strife , or at least quickly breake the necke of it . Though good Christians , may out of brittlenesse of nature , fall out on the sudden , yet , me thinks , grace should enforce them to recall themselues , and yeeld to each other , and come in , though they were of neuer such a proud and stout stomach naturally . Else may they not suspect themselues to be bastards , rather than right bred brothers ? to bee wooden legges , and no liuing members ? at least they haue got the numb palsey , for which they had need to seeke speedy remedy . Let vs , I beseech you , so many of vs as haue been faulty in any of these three things , see how ill they haue becommed vs , be ashamed and humbled for them , and amend , that we may haue sound arguments , that we are true members of Christs body , and liuely and feeling ones . Thinke like brethren , speake as brethren , both to face and behinde their backes , and doe like brethren , so shall we glorifie God our Father , credit and comfort the Church our Mother , and our fellow-brethren , and stop the mouths of Papists , Atheists , prophane ones , meere ciuill ones and worldlings , that would not a little reioyce at our diuisions . Put on brotherly affections , shew them by brotherly actions , let not small matters make vnkindnesse , depart from much for peace and loue , let our differences be speedily compounded by others , if we cannot agree them within our selues ; feare rather to doe the least wrong , than to suffer a greater : so shall we be fit to doe good one to another vpon all occasions ; for goodnesse goes forward where loue is , but contention or vnkindnesse stops the course of all that is good . So shall we also be stronger against our common aduersaries , the World , and Deuill , which doe so hate vs , as a body would thinke it were meet for vs to stick fast and close together , and make much one of another , seeing this wicked world is bent against vs. Let mee conclude this my speech to you Christians , with that blessed exhortation of Saint Paul , 2 Cor. 13 , 11. Finally , my Brethren , fare yee well , be perfect , be of good comfort , be of one minde , liue in peace , and the God of loue and peace shall be with you . CHAP. 11. Of releeuing the poore . I Will adde but one thing more , and so make an end of what I purpose to say of this duty of Loue , in which I haue been longer than I thought of at first : And that is touching one branch , and duety of loue , which is the relieuing the necessities of the poore ; of which , because I haue spoken some thing in one of the Notes of Loue , namely , that its Bountifull , I will be so much the shorter ; handling some things here , that were not there so conuenient to be spoken of . The Scriptures , both of Old and New Testament , are plentifull about this Point , eyther Commandements touching it , and Promises of blessing thereto , or Threatnings against the neglect of it . In the Old Law God commanded to leaue their Grounds vnsowen , and Trees vngathered the seuenth yeare , for the poore , Exod. 23. 10 , 11. Leu. 25. 3. And the years that they sowed and gathered in , they were bidden to leaue gleanings , Deut. 24. 19. to the end . How oft in the Prophets doth the Lord call for Mercie ? yea , tryes the truth of their Religion , and performance of holy Duties by this , as St. Iames doth , chap. I. and the last verse , giuing such charge of the poore in generall , particularly , of the widow , stranger and fatherlesse . It is commanded , Esay 58. 7. a very excellent place , plaine and plentifull ; and in most of the Prophets its called for , as a thing that the Iewes much failed in , and were couetous and cruell . Heb. 13 , To doe good , and to distribute , forget not , &c. Ephes. 4. 28. Mat. 5. 45. Hee commands it , whose we are , and all we haue at his appointment . I will adde a few Reasons to moue to this Duety : 1 To let passe to speake of the example of God , who fils the whole world with his goodnesse , and feedes both man and beast ; who hath also beene bountifull to euery of vs that are vnworthy ( as Iacob said ) of the least of his mercies ; Let the examples of Gods seruants , who herein obeyed and imitated the Lord in all ages ; let them moue vs. Elisha tooke order for the poore widow , for the paiment of her debts , and for her owne maintenance , 2 Kings 4. Iob was notable in this duty , as appeares Chap. 31. from verse 16. to 21. Our Sauiour Christ of that little that hee receiued for his maintenance , yet gaue something to the poore : therefore ( Iudas carrying the bagge ) when our Sauiour Christ bade him , that he did doe quickly , the Disciples thought he had meant he should giue somewhat to the poore . Zacheus , beeing conuerted , gaue halfe his goods &c. Luke 19. So Acts 2. & 4. the rich sold , and relieued the poore . Dorcas a good Woman this way , Acts 9. towards the end . Cornelius also a notable example , Acts 10. 1. There was also a contribution made by the Christians for the poore Brethren in Iudea , because of a famine was among them , Acts 11. 29. Onesiphorus is commended , and Gaius for an host to the poor Saints of God. 2 It s a sacrifice very acceptable to God , Heb. 13. 16. Phil. 4. 18. as Cornelius his Almes came vp into remembrance before God , Acts 10. 4. Yea , so pleasing , as when his seruice and that cannot stand together , he preferres mercie before sacrifice , Hos. 6. 6. And so pleasing , as no duty of Religion , ordinary or extraordinary , is welcome to God , if this duty be wanting , as Esay 1. & 58. from verse 5. to 13. What stronger motiue can there bee than this , seeing its our happinesse that wee can doe any thing that GOD will bee well pleased with ? 3 We are but Stewards in respect of God ( though owners among men ) who hath so deliuered these things out of his hand to vs , as yet hee hath reserued a Royaltie in them , and the appointing how they shall bee disposed , and will call vs to account of our stewardship , who hath appointed the poore a part : therefore without this , we can bring in no good bils of account . Wee must not be like the Gyants den , that haue all the footings comming to vs , and none from vs. As that rich churle that comming ouer among his Tenants at the halfe yeare , a poore body askt him a penny , No hee told them , hee came to receiue money , and not to giue : the contrary had beene better sense and reason a great deale . Else how can we shew our selues thankfull to God , that hath made vs able to giue , that might haue made vs receiuers , the tayle as well as the head , it being in his hand to make poore or rich , and there being nothing in vs to moue him to giue vs the better part ? It s a great honour to bee the Almners of the King of Heauen and Earth , and that to those that bee not our owne flesh onely , but may bee , such as belong to the Kingdome of God , as well as our selues . If wee should see an Oxe or Asse in misery , ready to famish , or lying vnder the burden , wee ought to pitie and helpe them : how much more our Christian Brother ? It s honour enough that wee may bee giuers and lenders , though wee keepe not all to our selues . It s good manners for them that sit at the vpper end of the Table , when they haue cut well , to set downe some to them that sit below , that all may goe away satisfied , and praise the Master of the Feast . 4 By our liberalitie and mercifull dealing wee shall bring much glory to God : for we shall cause many thanks to bee giuen him from the poore , 2 Cor. 8. and make them more to depend vpon God , and to speake good of his dispensing of things ; that though hee hath appointed some to bee poore , yet hath also commanded the rich to haue respect vnto them . 5 Wee shall doe them a great deale of good whom we relieue : First to their bodies , feeding their hungry bellies , clothing their naked loynes , refreshing their bowels : Or by lending we set them to their worke , whereby they may get to liue of . Next to their soules , keeping them from murmuring , impatience , theft , discontent : if they haue no goodnesse in them it s the way to breake their hearts , and to bring them to good , or else to conuince them at least : if they haue any good , wee shall comfort their hearts , strengthen their faith , and make them serue God much the more cheerfully . But especially we shall doe our selues a great deale of good : First , wee shall procure many prayers ▪ of the children of God for vs. which is no small benefit , 2 Tim. 7. and the three last verses , the third Epistle of St. Iohn the first and second verses : St. Paul prayeth earnestly in the one place for Onesiphorus , and St. Iohn in the other for Gaius his host ; and such prayers be not in vaine . Besides , wee bring vpon our selues a great many blessings , God hauing made such promises of blessing to this Duty rightly performed . Wee prouide well for our outward estate : for he that soweth liberally , shall reape liberally , and with encrease . God hath giuen his Word for requitall , Pro. 19 17. So that we haue God in our Cupboard for it ( as wee may say with holy reuerence ) he is the Poores Suretie , whose word is better than any mans bond : Heauen and Earth must be empty ere hee will faile to pay . He that findes seede to the sower will supply to such , 2 Cor. 8. His righteousnesse shall endure for ouer , Psal. 112. God will not put him out of his Farme that payes his Rent so well , but blesse his stocke and store , his crop and increase , Deut. 15. 10. Eccles. 7. 1. Yea , hee will blesse them , not in their goods onely , but in their names , they shall haue loue and a good report , which is better than a good ointment , and than much siluer and gold , Prou. 22. 1. How fresh and sweete is Maries name still , for her ointment poured out ; and Gaius , whose name is vsed , when wee speake of a bountifull man to the people of God ; he is a Gaius we say ? Yea , God will blesse such in their soules , Prou. 11. 17. Isa. 58. from verse 8. on forward . Matth. 5. the mercifull shall obtaine mercy . As on the contrary , God will not heare the prayer of the vnmercifull man , Isa. 1. 15. Prou. 21. 13. Hee that stops his eare at the cry of the poore , &c. Nay , God will not blesse the mercifull man in this world onely , but at the resurrection of the Iust , Luke 14. when they shall heare this comfortable and most sweet word , Come ye blessed , &c. because he counts it as done to himselfe ; and will we not giue to God that giues all , nor to Iesus Christ , that spared not his life for vs ? If we say , Yes to God or Christ , wee will giue any thing , else God forbid ; God takes it done to himselfe , that is done to any of his . Whereas the Lord will plague both here and hereafter the vnmercifull man : here , as Nabal , whom he strucke that he dyed ; and the Foole , Luke 12. that had all for himselfe , neuer mentions any body else , was strucke with sodaine death ; and hereafter , as the rich glutton , Luke 16. for no couetous or vnmercifull man shall euer come in the Kingdome of heauen : but there shall bee iudgement without mercy , to them that shew no mercy : they that will not giue crumbs of bread on earth , shall be denyed drops of water in hell . Nay , God wil not only blesse the liberall and mercifull man himselfe , but his posterity after him , Psalme 37. 26. The sonne of a Tennant , that paid his rent duely , shall not be put out his of Farme . Whereas God will curse the posterity of vnmercifull men , and plucke from them the poores portion , which their wicked fathers vnconscionably hoarded vp among their owne ; God will let the extortioner catch him , or giue him vp to a riotous wastefull course , that shall consume all : one way or other God will draw it out of his belly ; and he oft dyes in misery , whose father had no mercy . Therefore , howsoeuer they haue a Prouerbe , Happy is that son , whose father goes to the Deuill , yet it s most wicked and false : for euen for outward happinesse they misse of it , except it be some odde one , that by Repentance breakes off , and heales his fathers sinne by mercifulnesse to the poore . So that euery way a mercifull man prouides well for himselfe , furthers his reckoning , and brings a great heape of blessings vpon himselfe and his . But an vnmercifull cruell man is well called a miserable man ; for of all men , a couetous man is most miserable , in goods , name , soule and posterity , here and hereafter . Vse 1. This rebuketh a number of cruell , and vnmercifull , and hard hearted men , of whom there are euery where some seen . True , the Gospell ( God bee thanked ) hath preuailed with many , and they shew forth some good fruits of their Faith and Loue : But a number be vsurers , oppressors , grinders , rakers , all for themselues , and so couetous , as they will part from nothing by their good will : if any thing come from them , it s so hardly , as one should wring water out of a stone , or pull away a peece of their flesh ; as Nabal , that sent away Dauids seruants empty , and with a churlish answer . Some others so prodigall and riotous , and giuen to their pleasures , and to all excesse , as they waste their state so fast , as they disable themselues to doe that good they might ; it s not to bee had : Luxury keeps them so bare , which if they had grace to measure their matters with iudgement , might liue a great deale better themselues , and doe much good where need is . Or if some be so rich , as they hold their state , yet they lay it on so vpon themselues and theirs , as no cost is spared vpon braue apparrell , new fashions , costly and curious dyet , hawks , hounds , dice , cards , gaming 's , that yet when it comes to a matter of giuing , are as pinching , as they that haue not the tithe of their estate , can beteeme nothing , to the poore or good vses , very franke in idle expences to serue their owne lust , very sparing to those that haue need ; like the Glutton , Luke 16. who spared nothing from himselfe , nor nothing for poore Lazarus . And those , Amos 6. that fed to the full of the fattest , and drunke of the sweetest , till they were fitter to stretch themselues , and tumble vpon their costly beds , than to do any good , yet they had not so much as a thought of the poore that were in want . And as the Foole , Luke 12. that made account hee had much , and all for himselfe ; Soule , eate , drinke , and take thine ease , thou hast goods laid vp for ( thee ) for many yeares . Notwithstanding the commandement of God , which they cannot be ignorant of , and the Law of Nature , which would be holpen , if they were poore , Gods and good mens example , and the many promises of blessing made to this duety , yet are no whit moued by all these , but fast glued to the world , and can heare nothing that should pull any thing from them . This was one of Sodoms sinnes , Contempt of the poore . Let these sorts of men know , they are not so ill for others , as they be for themselues : As they shew well , there is no loue of God or men in them , as 1 Iohn 3. Who so hath this worlds good , and sees his brother haue neede , and shuts vp his compassion against him , how dwelleth the loue of God in him ? So they will pull some iudgement of God vpon their owne heads , as their Predecessors , whom I haue named , haue done . And this is one reason , no doubt , that mens goods shift masters so oft ; besides the ill account they will make of their stewardship , when they shall be called thereto , for which they must make their reckoning , to heare no better sentence than , O euill and vnfaithfull seruant , take him , bind him hand and foote , and cast him into vtter darknesse . Let these better bethinke themselues in time , and breake off their sinnes by repentance , and their vnrighteousnesse by mercy to the poore , that there may be a healing of their error , and a preuenting the iudgements of God : Oh that my counsell from God may be acceptable to them . 2 But for those , that out of conscience of Gods commandement , and faith in Gods promises made to this duety , out of a zeale to bring glory to God , doe good to others , and to further their owne reckoning ; make conscience to bee doing good with a mercifull heart , carry a liberall hand , as God giues ability in themselues , and occasion from others : let them take it to themselues , as a good marke of the truth of their Religion , and know they can no way prouide better for their comfort , or the continuance of Gods blessing vpon them and their estate , than by continuance in this duety . 3 And thirdly , let this prouoke all sorts of men , to take knowledge of this duety of mercifulnesse to the poore , as one part of Gods will ; and well weighing the reasons vsed to prouoke thereto , set themselues to make conscience of the performance thereof : which that they may do indeed , they must be perswaded to remoue out of the may certaine vices , that be deadly enemies thereto , and labour for the contrary vertues . 1. The first is Vnbeliefe , which , as it breeds many other vices , so that of Vnmercifulnesse ; for that casts so many doubts and feares of what they may want themselues , and that it will hinder them in their estate , to giue here and there , as they withdraw : therefore labour for Faith to beleeue , that as God will performe all his promises , so those made to this duety ; and therefore that its the high way to thriuing . and this will set vs to it , and that with chearfulnesse . 2. Pride , which is seen in excesse of costly attire for our selues and ours , ayming at high pitches and great portions for our children , and such and such estates must be obtained ; this must needs hinder liberality : therefore the Apostle , 1 Tim. 2. 9 , 10. forbids women to be deckt with costly apparrell , but commands to aray themselues with good workes : Noting , they cannot doe both ; for the backe is a theefe : the meaning is , when its superfluous , and beyond their ability , all duties discharged : Oh what an infinite deale of good might be done , if but the superfluities of folkes apparrell were taken away , which might very well be spared ! 3 The like may be said of intemperance excesse of cheere , variety & costliness of dishes at mens tables : God allowes to men according to their degrees , to some vsually , to others at festiuall times & daies of greater reioycing ; yet to none excesse : or so as they thereby be disabled for such good workes as their place cals for at their hands . The excesse of this Land in these two forenamed things , would abundantly not only relieue the wants of our poore at home , but would make a blessed supply of the most wofull and crying necessities of our distressed brethren abroad . And is it meet that some should be hungry , and others drunken ? as the Apostle saith , 1 Cor. 11. 21. Were it not much meeter , that they had our superfluities ( which doe vs but hurt ) to supply their necessities , and so both should be better ? The Lord giue vs at last to make conscience of this Duety ; it s more than high time so to doe . 4 Idlenesse and vnthriftinesse , which vsually goe together , are great lets of liberalitie . For , if one goe euer to the heape , and by labour adde nothing thereto , in time it will consume , and so hee shall haue nothing for himselfe nor the poore : therefore the Apostle , Ephes. 4. 28. commands to worke with the hands , that so there may bee wherewith to giue to them that want . But vsually idlenesse is ioyned with spending , gaming , drinking , and such vnthrifty courses , and this hastens beggery the faster , and so preuents liberalitie in a high degree . The prouident and thrifty are fittest to doe good : as the good Hous-wife in the last of the Prouerbs . 5 Couetousnesse is especially to be cast out , as the direct opposite to mercifulnesse to the poore , as contrary as fire and water : which is an vnsatiable desire of getting more , setting mens hearts on the world so eagerly , as it were heauen or happinesse , and making it their God , so as they cannot endure to part from it ; not knowing that they are base and transitory things , and that the perfection of them is in their well employment . Le ts therefore be intreated to remoue these lets out of the way , that this duety may bee carefully performed . But yet let vs not content our selues to doe this Dutie of Mercifulnesse to the poore , but labour like Christians to doe it in a right manner : for that is all in all , that makes or marres . For wee may giue much , and yet not please God , nor profit our selues . Therefore diuers Rules to this purpose must be obserued : 1. We must giue or lend righteously , that is , of our owne lawfully come by ; not what we haue gotten by oppression or wrong , which is to rob one , to giue to another . We must not keepe the poore as the Lion or Foxe keepe their Whelpes or Cubs , with that we haue got by rapine , but with our owne : therefore giuing is called Righteousnesse , Psal. 112 , not only to shew that its a duety that must be done , but it must be done in Righteousnesse . Therefore Micah 6. these two are ioyned together , to doe iustly , to loue mercie . Zacheus first restored what he had got wrongfully , and then giues of his own iust gotten goods to the poore . Contrary to this , is the practise of some vsurious , couetous , or sacrilegious persons , who when they haue got much by Church robbery , and selling Church liuings , or by oppressing and vndoing many families ; to still the gnawing of their Consciences , giue somewhat to the poore at last . But its abomination to God , and their sinnes cry lowder for iudgement , than their liberalitie for any blessing . Quest. But here it may be demanded , whether seruants may giue of their Masters goods ? Answ. No doubt , without Masters or Dames consent in one kinde or other , they may not , it shall bee theft to them , rather than any thing pleasing to God. Quest. May children giue of their Parents goods ? Ans. No : not except they haue some consent . Quest. May such as are behind hand , and owe more than they be worth , or able to pay ; may these giue ? Answ. No : by no meanes . They boast of false liberalitie . 2 Wee must giue freely , without expecting a recompence . Not therefore with opinion of merit to earne heauen , as Papists mercenarily doe : Or to helpe themselues out of Purgatory ; that is base : Nor doe it Pharisaically , with ostentation , and desire to be seene . Wee may looke vpon the Promises made by God to this Duty , to encourage vs the more ; yet to doe it freely , because it s commanded vs of God. Not expecting any thing from man. What is freer than gift , as we say ? So when we lend to our poore Neighbour , it must be free , not looking hee should earne it out , as it were , or doe as much for vs some other way ; fye vpon it . Nay , we ought not so to looke for our own againe , as that be the chiefe thing wee ayme at , but to doe him a pleasure . 3 Cheerfully , as a free-will offering . God loues a cheerefull giuer : as Zacheus stood forth and gaue &c. The Macedonians 2 Cor. 8. counted and called it a grace and fauour , that they might haue their hand in so good , acceptable & gainfull a worke . Men sow cheerefully in good ground . Therefore it s not to be done by force of Law , as some : Nor yet by such importunitie of Neighbours , faine to vse so many Arguments , and such a deale of doo to perswade and get them to it . Not grudgingly or of necessity . 4 Seasonably ; not tomorrow , if they now need , and we haue it , Pro 3. 28. wee know not what may fall out by then , what temptation they may meet with . Also wee may bee dead , or they : Hee giues twice , that giues quickly . Also helpe them ere it bee too late : shore them vp when they begin to reele , so they may stand a good while ; not let them alone till they fall flat downe . A little in time may doe more good , than much more after . We must not tarry till they haue sold their cupbord , bed , their best coate ; fye vpon it . If one be lent to in time , he may be vpheld , that else must soone come to receiue Almes . So to giue to the poor in their sicknesse , before they be too farspent . 5 Wisely : not lashing it on too fast , but measuring it out as it may continue . Psal. 112. Measure our affaires by iudgement . Few erre on this hand ; yet some haue been so lauish in house-keeping , entertainment and giuing , as they haue ouer gone themselues . This is to pull out the tap : We must draw as need is . A good house-keeper will not set the barrell on the greene , for euery one to drinke that will , and more than neede ; so hee should soone make an end , and haue no comfort when hee hath done . Also wee must giue wisely , as we may doe most good with that we giue . Therefore we must take care , that they haue it that haue most neede : Not the lusty to haue it , and the old , lame , blinde , impotent , and yongue children to want . It s a great disorder in some great mens keeping open house at Christmas , that the rude , idle and prophane round about , they come thither to meate , but the very poore indeed , which cannot trauell in the dirt , and cold , and crowd , they sit at home and want . No doubt , if it pleased them to send to their Neighbour-Townes in money what they thinke good to bestow , to bee distributed by the Officers and chiefe of the Towne that know how to giue it indifferently , and where most need is , it would bee much greater reliefe to the poore , and so a more charitable worke , and saue themselues a very great deale of trouble , and preuent a great deale of sinne committed by that rude company , in their vnseasonable returnings home , besides their rudenesse there . 6 Wee must giue to the good especially , Gal 6. True , we must giue to all ; I meane , to such as follow their calling : but for those that can worke , and will not , let them starue . Giue euen the bad in their want , if they be diligent to doe what they can ; yet giue them with instructions , admonitions to keepe their Church , haue a care of their soules , and to bring vp their children to worke , not to pilfering , idlenesse , or begging , rebuking them for these or any such faults ; as they that be most poore are very gracelesse , and godlesse almost . So may wee doe good both wayes But to the houshold of Faith , giue them with more chearfulnesse , and good encouragement of them in their good course , and behold Iesus Christ in them : when all bee alike to vs , it s no good signe , but when these be worst regarded , there can be no worser signe . 7 Orderly . To our owne kinred first ▪ 1 Tim. 5. and so on to our owne Towne , and so further , as God giues occasion and abilitie . 8 According to euery mans ability . To whom much is giuen , of them is much required . The Master called his seruant that had fiue Talents to account for fiue . 1 Tim. 6. 17. Rich men are charged to be rich in good workes : hee that hath but little , little is of him expected ; if it be but a cup of cold water , a widowes mite , where is no more , it shall be as well accepted , as great things of the rich . For God requires not of a man according to that he hath not , but according to that hee hath : and that he will require . It s therefore a great fault in most Parishes , that the meaner sort beare the chiefest burthen , and not the richest : but a man , not a quarter sometime , not halfe a quarter of their substance , shall bee halfe as much in charge as they . Fie vpon such inequality : amongst men of good conscience , it ought not so to be . Though it were but a foolish thing for one of vs to say , If I were such a rich man , I would doe thus and thus much good more than such a man doth ; because we were neuer in that state : and therefore know not the temptations belonging to that state : yet this wee may truely say , that such and such a rich man hath meanes in his hand to doe very much good : Oh what elbow roome he hath ? he might reach out his hand two wayes , ten waies , and bee neuer the worse . Towards the Ministry of the Word , to helpe a poore body out of great trouble , &c. What is it for a richman to giue here twenty shillings , there forty shillings , fiue pound to this good vse or that ? And when some charge is to be borne by a company of meane men , to exempt them , and beare it all himselfe ; what good by lending poore young beginners , and such as want stocke ? But alas , how farre off is it from the most such ? Some doe no good : others nothing answerable to their ability . They lose their honour that God hath put vpon them . Truely let them looke to it : for they haue great accounts to make : And if their receipts bee found great , and their layings out small , God will cast such bills in their faces , and themselues into hell . 9 We must giue according to euery ones need : for their neede should be the whetstone to our liberality : As in deere times , or in time of sicknesse and distresse , to reach out our hand more than ordinarily ; not to giue hand ouer head , as much to those that haue lesse need , as to those that haue more . The wicked will be most clamorous , and if we goe by that , oft times the better minded poore , which be more bashfull & slow to speak for themselues , shall haue wrong ; therefore we ought to informe our selues , as well as wee can , of euery ones wants , especially , in our owne Parish , and to carry our hand accordingly : we must not be bountifull to our wealthier neighbours , and pinching to the poore . If we cannot do both , let our feasting the wealthier alone , and do good to the poore ; for that will be the truer & more certain testimony of our loue , because they cannot requite vs againe . But you shall haue some , that will spare no cost , to make a feast to them that haue no need , ( which , with the other too , hath his place ) that yet are very miserable to the poore , and will the same day of such feast , shake vp a poore body like a dish-clout , that comes but for some of the scraps . Let not these boast of their Loue. And then to shew our selues most kind & helpfull , when their need is greatest : for a brother or neighbour is borne for aduersity , and that is the triall of loue . God is neuer so neare his seruants with his comforts , as in their greatest afflictions : And therefore , while a man is in prosperity and good case , to salute him , vse him kindly , be glad of his company ; and when the world frowns on him , and God casts him behinde , then not to know him , to shake him off , goe on the other side of the way , or if we must needs take notice of them , then to speake sleightly to them , houerly , and be strange and far off , this is no true loue : and yet this is that that manie a one finds in the world , as Pro. 14. 20. & 19. 4. 7. These bee like winter-plashes , that be very broad when there is no need of them ; but in summer are dry , when they should do most good . Thus many a worthy Minister , while they haue enioyed their health and Ministry , haue had countenance of all sorts , both Gentlemen and Yeomen , that after , by some occasion , hauing had the case altered with them , haue gone vp and downe moping , and no body , especially of the wealthier sort , take notice of them , but shun them , as if they had the Plague about them . So the wiues of many painfull Ministers , while their husbands liued , were made account of , and inuited , that when God hath taken their husbands from them ( when they had most need of comfort ) haue found cold friendship , not of strangers onely , but euen of those that professed greater loue to the parties deceased . This is but carnall , or at least but cold loue , that is then farthest off when there is most need of it ; whereas true Loue reioyceth to bee shewing it selfe , where is most good to be done . 10 We must giue with compassion , and out of a pitifull heart and feeling of others miseries ; as we are bidden , Col. 3. 23. to put on tender mercies , and bowels of compassion , &c. and 1 Pet. 3. 8. Be pitifull , &c. and Isa. 58. 10. Poure out our soule to the hungry : that is , haue compassion of their miseries . Thus did the Lord to vs , when we had plunged our selues into irrecouerable misery , he took pity on vs , and gaue vs his blessed Son , &c. So had hee compassion on the gronings of Israel vnder Pharaohs bondage . So in the book of Iudges diuers times , Iudg. 10. 16. so also , Neh. 9. 17. This will proue vs to be liuing members , not dead stockes . A little giuen with compassion , is more acceptable to God , than neuer so much without , 1 Cor. 13. yea , compassion alone is much accepted with God and men , where there is nothing else to be had . Which condemnes the great Almes-deeds of Papists , that proceed from no compassion towards the poor , but out of loue to themselues , to saue their owne skins . That giue to be seen of men , that giue by constraint of authority , or for shame , and to auoide reproach , or to satisfie the requests of friends : Or those that giue with twits and taunts , and proud insultings , checkes and vpbraidings , especially towards those that bee any thing well minded : all these haue their reward they are like to haue , except their worke had come from a better root : Whereas many a poore body cōming to their poore sick neighbour , with pitiful moanings , out of a grieued heart , & water in their eyes , beat vp their pillow , watch with them all night , or tend them a day or two ( which can very hardly spare the time from their owne bellies ) or of their little giue them a little , this is a very rich gift , and pleasing to God , and shall not goe vnrewarded . Let not the poore therefore be discouraged , and say , I liue like an vnprofitable person , & can do no body any good ; but consider what our Sauiour Christ said of the Widows two mites cast into the treasury , and be of good comfort . Now seeing compassion is so necessary , & giues such commendation to our liberality , it shall be good for vs to vse the best means we can , to stirre it vp , or procure it in vs. 1 It shall be therefore good , to take a true report from such , as can relate the miseries of any that we are to giue vnto , and so well weigh and marke it , as it may moue vs. Thus did Nehemia , Cap. 1. so weigh the misery of Gods people that was told him , as hee was very deeply affected therewith . 2 To put our selues into their person , & think ( as it might haue bin our case , as well as theirs , so ) what we would be glad to finde from others , if it were . Consider , they be not bruit beasts , but euen our owne flesh ; and therefore to pity them . 3 So by our owne afflictions that God sends vs at any time , to be moued to pity others ; and from the comforts that we finde in them , from God or Men , be prouoked to the like compassion towards others , 2. Cor. 1. 4. 4 Especially , it s of very great force to this purpose , to goe and see the miseries of our poore brethren , their ruinous & cold houses , poore fire to make amends with , empty cupbords , thin clothing , and so neare the wind , cold lodging , slender couering ; and to see what exceeding paines some take early and late , to see others in how great paine and affliction they lye , and how little to comfort them , &c. 5. If our heart be not made of an Adamant , this will moue vs , & a great deale more than all that we can heare . The sight of the eie moues much , either to good or euill ; which the Deuill wel knew , when he tempted Eue to look vpon the Apple , and when hee set Bathsheba naked and bathing before Dauids eye , which did more hurt than if he had heard of such a thing : So is it powerfull to moue to good . Therefore Saint Iames bids vs , visit the fatherlesse and widowes in their aduersity , &c. Our Sauiour Christ seeing the people scattered , &c. Mat. 9. had compassion on them : So the Samarit an saw the wounded man , and had compassion of him . It were therefore a comely thing sometimes for wealthy women to looke into the poores houses , and see a sight that might moue them , and that they might report of to their husbands . Their coat would sit neuer the worse on their backes , if they did so : neyther need they thinke scorne , seeing the glorious Angels attend about them , if they bee good , and God himselfe is with them . This also is comely for Ministers and their Wiues . Especially it is requisite for them to doe so , that are in office , and haue taken for the time the speciall charge of the poore . ●o shall they answer their name of Ouerseers , which few doe , but goe by heare-say , which is oft vncertaine , or that which is worse , by the words of the poore themselues ; the worst most-what beeing most bold and importunate , when others ▪ that haue more neede , and are better to bee regarded , cannot so well speak for themselues . These Rules beeing carefully obserued in our Relieuing the poore , it will not only be profitable to them , but it shall bee well-pleasing to God , and bring much comfort and blessing to our owne selues here and hereafter : Without which , howsoeuer others may haue benefit , yet our selues shall certainely lose our labour . But now I draw to an end of this duty of mercy to the poore , Doe you thinke that the carnall and vnbeleeuing heart of man will willingly yeeld hereto , without any further questioning or opposing against it ? Oh no : for though those that are of God will heare Gods Word , and his Commandement , and Reasons that he vseth to moue to the obedience thereof , will ouercome and preuaile with them , yet to the vnregenerate , nothing can be so spoken , but they haue many carnall reasonings and obiections to make against the same . Some whereof I wil here make known , and briefly answer them , and so winde vp with a word or two of the duties of the poore . Obiect . 1. My goods are mine owne , I le doe with them what I list , and nobody shall make mee giue , but where and when I see good my selfe . Answ. Though thy goods bee thine owne among men , yet God hath but committed them to thee of trust , and reserued a right in them , commanding thee to dispose of part of them to the poor , to whom hee hath giuen none , and will accordingly call thee to account for the same : therefore thou art not such an absolute owner of them as thou imaginest , but an accountant and steward . Obiect . 3. If I giue to euery one that will aske , and say they haue neede , I may giue away all , and make my selfe a beggar . Answ. That 's not required of thee , but to giue with discretion . As for the yongue man that was bidden by our Sauiour Christ to sell ▪ all , and giue to the poore , and follow Christ ; it was a commandement of tryall peculiar to him , not binding all : and yet we see it not plainely required of him , that he should giue away all . Againe , they feare a false feare : for when some of them hinder themselues much by running into vsury , of a couetous minde to purchase withall , some others by riotous expences in apparrell , by suretiship , or other blinde courses that they take ; then euery little thing that they giue to the poore , or any good vse ; oh this will begger them . No , no , looke well about thee , and thou shalt finde it s not thy liberalitie beggers thee , but somwhat else ; leaue that , and thou mayst doe well to thy selfe , and much good to others . Obiect . 3. Though I haue enough now , yet I cannot tell what I may want hereafter ; I le bee sure to prouide for my selfe , and if I leaue any thing when I dye , I will giue them somewhat then : As one that lying vpon his death bed , put a peece of Gold in his mouth , and kept it there , and being askt his reason , hee answered , Some wiser than some , I meane to keep this till I am dead . Answ. A right obiection of a couetous distrustfull man , that will trust God no further than he sees him ; no , though he hath promised to reward liberalitie with plentie . What a wretched minde is this , to thinke that God will faile men euer the more that obey him ? And whereas they thinke to make sure of enough for themselues , it s not all , nor ten times so much that could keepe them from beggery and misery , if God should set himselfe against them . And to giue when they dye , its little thankes ; for they cannot carry it with them . Obiect . 4. All is little enough for my selfe and my children : for I meane to leaue my eldest sonne a good estate , and I haue diuers daughters that I purpose to match well ; and therfore must get them good portions , as it s expected in these daies , and then they must haue education accordingly . Answ. But who bids you flye such high pitches , and set downe such portions , and in the meane time neglect Gods commandement , and your duty to the poor ? This is the high way to pull downe your children . Do as you may , all duties discharged , and there an end : for if you hoard vp the poores part in your childrens great portions , God will draw it out of your , or your childrens bellies . Obiect . 5. They bee neuer the better for all that is giuen them , they draw all through their throat . Answ. If some bee not , yet some be thrifty , and it s well seene and well bestowed of them : If any abuse your liberalitie , you may cut them the shorter , but let not others fare the worse for them . Ob. 6. They be ill tongued , one may giue them neuer so much , & they will not giue one a good word . Answ. It may be we spoyle our gift in the manner of bestowing it , and so it loseth its grace and credit . 2. Though some bee vnthankefull and ill tongued , yet all are not so : they that be , yet giue them , and ouercome them . Ob. 7. They be so bad and so wicked , as its pity to giue them . Answ. We giue it not to their badnesse , but to their pouertie : and may be our goodness to them with good counsell , may make them better . But some blame not their badnesse for hatred of their sin , but as an excuse to saue their purses : but that is not a sufficient plea. Ob. 8. They be so theeuish one can keepe nothing for them almost , abroade especially : They break my hedges , carry away my barres , pluck vp my stiles ; I le giue them nothing , not I. Answ. This is most what rich mens faults : for if they would take order that euery family should doe what worke they are able ( according to the Law of God , and the good Statutes of the Land ) and then what they cannot reach to by their labour , to supply to them for necessaries , euery one beeing held to worke , most part of this would bee preuented . And then if any were taken in such offence , and were well punisht , either by the whip , or else their collection that week kept backe , you should heare few such complaints . But if they bee not as well looked to , to follow their worke , as to giue them a little collection , a great many will begge or steale , rather than get it by working . Ob. 9. Some of them that make a great shew of Religion , yet if they get money into their fingers that one hath lent them , one cannot tel how to get it again , for all their great precisenesse , and running to sermons . Ans. True ; some such offences there be , more is the pity : but this must not wholly take our minde from the duty of lending , nor let all fare the worse for the fault of some few : Or if wee should doe well for any that we thought wel of for soundnesse , and after they proued but Hypocrites ; yet if our minds were vpright in that wee did , we shall not lose our reward Ob. 10. There be such a number of charges euery way , to the King , and for Souldiers , to the Ministers , to the repairing the Church , to Bread and Wine for the Communion , and Briefes , and one Collection or other , that I can neuer a Sunday be quiet : and now you come for the poore ; I think you will haue all ; I see no reason to be at all these charges . Answ. For those that be to the King , it s our bounden duty , and they be abundantly recompensed in the peace and quietnesse that we enioy vnder his Gouernment . And for the Church , small cause to grudge at that , seeing it is a trifle towards his seruice that giues all . And that we giue for the good of our soules , is the best bestowed mony that can be , if the fault bee not in our selues . For any thing we do in compassion to them that be in want , God hath giuen his word himselfe to see that requited . So that if it be well considered , there is no such cause of this grumbling at any one , or all of these charges . Ob. 11. If you will not be quiet , but follow mee thus with Giue , giue , and Pay , pay , I will make a shortcut of it , I le break vp house and goe liue in a great Town , and eat and drink , and be merry with my friends , and put out my mony to vsurie . Answ. If you do , you shall carry many curses with you , and a guilty conscience , and the hand of God will follow you , and it may be you may haue as smal ioy of it , as your Predecessor in the twelfth of Luke , when he had thought to haue nestled himselfe in his wealth for many yeares , and liued at ease , he was suddenly arrested , with O foole , this night they shall fetch away thy soule , and then whose shall these things be ? There is no flying from the duties that God requires : therefore listen and learn , obey and be blessed . CHAP. 12. Of the Poores duties . NOw for the Poores duties , a word or two . I speake to you from the Lord , how you should behaue your selues in this your condition ( and it s very needfull ) know them , and God giue you a heart to do them . You must labour to be contented with your estate , & giue glory to God , and know it to be the state that he seeth fittest for you , if you were borne to it ; or hee hath brought you into it , especially , if you haue by any wicked courses brought it vpon your selues , you can haue the lesse comfort in it . But if you can be so wise as make it vnto you a spur to true repentance , you shall be happy . Keep your Church diligently , though your clothing be meane : Keep holy the Sabbath day , and know nothing is lost by that : Pray daily , and labour to liue in the feare of God , that though you be poore to the world-ward , yet you may be as St. Iames saith , Cap. 2. Rich in Faith , and heires of the Kingdome , which hee hath promised to them that loue him . Follow your calling diligently , that as much as may be you may eate your own bread , & that God may moue mens hearts to supply willingly that that is wanting . Be not ouer clamorous : Keep a good tongue , though men deale not very well with you . Carry your selues dutifully and humbly towards the rich , and all your superiours ; not saucy , surly , ill-tongued : patient and meeke , when you receiue a reproofe , and not swell or giue ill words . Be thankfull for any kindnesse you receiue ; First and chiefly to God , who giues the ability , the commandement and the heart to doe you good ; and vpon former experience , depend vpon him in after needes : and resolue , that whatsoeuer want you suffer , you will vse no vnlawfull meanes to help your selues , but rather make knowne your burthens , and God will make a way . Secondly , be thankfull to those , whom he hath made his instruments to doe you good , so God giues good leaue ; and see it practised by godly Hezekiah , 2 Chron. 31. 8. In token of your thankfulnesse , pray to God for them , that God would blesse their basket and store , themselues and theirs , especially , that hee would giue them much ioy and comfort to their soules , and to haue long life and happy dayes . For you that are borrowers , borrow no more than you haue possibility of paying againe . Appoint such a day , as in all likelihood you may repay it : worke night and day to keep touch , borrow it of another to pay , rather than breake day ; for if you keep your day , you keepe your friend . Or if you be much disappointed that you cannot , then come before the day , tell your case , and craue fauour , and a new day , and shew your selues as carefull to pay , as euer you were to borrow ; so shall you haue a good conscience , and prouide well for your selues : for if you deale honestly , you shall not neede to feare but you shall finde friends . Many there be , that care not what they borrow , & neuer care for paying ; they cared to borrow it , they say , let the Owner care to come by it againe : they doe not meane to take two cares . which beare the marke of wicked men , Psal. 37. 21. for the godly make great conscience of it , as the son of the Prophets , that was so sorry for the losse of the axe ; Alas , Master , it was but borrowed , 2 Kin. 6. 5. And the Prophet Elisha wrought a miracle to this purpose , encreasing the oyle in the Widowes cruse , and bade her sell it , and , first pay her debts , and then liue of the rest : For we must owe nothing to any , but to loue one another ; that is , not wilfully , or through carelesnesse , but what we can , & meane to pay . They will appoint , it may be , a neer day , though they know no means to compasse it , onely to obtaine their purpose : But when they haue it , they care to keep no day , nor yet come at the Creditour , nor in his sight , as neare as they can . These play the fooles as well as the wicked men , and vndoe themselues vtterly , which otherwise might haue beene vpheld , and liued comfortably of their credit , though they had no ability of their owne . But when they haue no ability nor credit neither , they must needes hasten apace to misery , and thank themselues . Let all , that haue any wit or conscience , take heed of this : But especially , let all those , that make greater profession of Religion than others , beware of this , that they giue no iust occasion to carnall men , to speak ill of them , and their holy profession for their sakes ; nor to the godly to be griened by their vnfaithfulnesse . FINIS . Notes, typically marginal, from the original text Notes for div A10921-e270 Vse . Vse . Notes for div A10921-e860 Vse . 1. 2. Notes for div A10921-e1660 Wishing well is the pulse of loue , and heates wheresoeuer loue is aliue . Notes for div A10921-e3550 Effects . Reasons . Notes for div A10921-e4270 1. Notes for div A10921-e5160 Loue of our enemies . Vse 1. Esay 10. Notes for div A10921-e6730 1. Pro. 13. 20 * My meaning is onely to reproue those , who , vpon sincere and deuout Chrians , such as make most conscience of their wayes , and are truely zealous in Gods seruice ; fasten the odious name of Puritan , and cannot abide them . Notes for div A10921-e8050 Reas. Rules f●● right relieuing . 2. Cor. 8. 12. Pro. 17. 17.