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By Herbert Palmer , B. D. late Master of Queens Col. Camb. London , Printed for Henry Million at the Bible near White-Fryers in Fleetstreet , 1670. I Conceive this Letter , with the Appendix following it , to be very well worthy the Printing . Ch. Herle . TO THE READER . Christian Reader THis ensuing Meditation upon making Religion ones business , having first affected my own heart , and afterward some friends to whom it hath been communicated , I have been so far made to believe , that by Gods blessing it may be some advancement to the business of Religion , now in this season when Religion hath Retainers enough , but not Servants enough ; that at last my thoughts told me , The very expressions herein would upbraid me as not true to them , if I had denyed , or longer delayed their publication . I have no doubt but sundry passages in them will meet with some Scoffs and some Cavils , as being over-nice , and precise , and I shall meet with some Reproches , as not answering my own strict rules . But in hopes there will yet be found those that will both be glad to see such a piece of a Patern for their Hearts and Lives , and also strive to make it their own in affection and practice ; I have resolved to adventure the one and the other : and do trust also that by Gods grace , it will somwhat help to make me the more watchfull over my own self and my behaviour , that I may not only not shame my self and my so publick professions , but also may set a real Copy in some proportion suitable to this verbal one , for thy double benefit . Herein if thou wilt help me still with thy prayers ( as I am confident thou wilt , if thou reap any benefit by it ) I again tell thee , thou mayst be the better for it thy self , while I am thereby through Gods mercy to us both , helped to do thee yet some further spiritual Sevice , which while I live I must now alway profess my self ambititious of , as being ever , Thine and the Churches Servant in Christ altogether Herbert Palmer . Octob. 13. 1644. A Brief Account of the Life of Mr. Herbert Palmer . THE Reverend Author of this ensuing Treatise , was ( whilst living ) prized by good men for his Piety , and loved by all wise men ( that knew him ) for his Learning : And now he is dead , let not the Reader in this short Epitome of his life , expect any more than a brief Narrative or Account of his most eminent , peculiar , publick , passages and transactions in the world . He was the Son of Sir Thomas Palmer of Wingham near Canterbury in East-Kent , where he was born about March 1601. he was prudently and piously educated , and in his Infancy made great proficiency in the serious study of Religion and Learning , so that when he was 4 or 5 years of age , he would oft cry to go his Mother , To hear somewhat of God. From a Child he was acquainted with the Scripture , and earnestly desired to be A Minister of Jesus Christ . He had excellent natural parts , both intellectual and moral ; his excellency and exactness in the French Tongue , ( which he could speak almost as soon as English ) and the great knowledge he had , as well of the persons places and affairs of the French Nation , as in the propriety of the pronunciation of the Language , made many strangers ( to his Nativity ) believe he was a French-man born ; and after his call to the Ministry , he Preached to the French Church at Canterbury on two several solemn days to the great edification and approbation of the hearers . His Industry also in learning the Latine Tongue , was manifested by his great proficiency therein whilst young . His dutifulness and obedience towards his Parents , as well when grown to years of maturity , as whilst young , spake his great reverence and esteem of them ; and as he was a great Example of Filial obedience in his Conversation , so he was a great Asserter of Parental authority in his Doctrine . At the age of about 14 years , ( to wit ) in the year of our Lord 1615. he was admittod as Fellow-Commoner in St. Johns Colledge in Cambridge . And according to his standing , and desert , took the degree of Master of Arts in the year 1622. And in the following year was constituted Fellow of Queens Colledge in the same Vniversity ; and whilst he so continued , he took on him the great care of many Pupils , who ( by his prudent and painful instruction and care over them ) made great proficiency in Learning whilst they continued with him . And in the year 1624. he was called , and ordained to the work of the Ministry , by a Licence from the then Arch-Bishop of Canterbury . In the year 1626. he was called to the publick exercise of his Ministry at Alphage Church in Canterbury , where by his laborious Industry , sound Doctrine , and exemplary conversation , he proved himself to be a burning and shining light . In the year 1632. he removed to Ashwell in Hartfordshire by the presentment of Laud Arch-Bishop of Canterbury . The plainness of his Preaching did manifest his great desire to be understood by his Auditors for their Edification . His pains in Catechising the ignorant , his charity in providing Bibles for the poor , and his humility in admitting persons of all ranks and degrees to discourse with him for their Souls edification , got him love , respect , and honour , from all acquainted with him , and was a great means of reformation amongst the people to whom he was a Pastor , obliging them to several excellent resolutions against drunkenness , swearing , or other open debaucheries . He made and printed an excellent Catechism entituled , An endeavour of making the Principles of Christian Religion plain and easie . His Domestick or Family Government was as pious , as his Ecclesiastick or Church care was painful ; he would not permit any of his houshold for ( frivolous excuses ) to be absent from family duties , neither would he entertain any in his family , that either were not truly Godly and Religious , or willing to be instructed in the wayes of God. He read the Scriptures , and prayed , twice every day in his family , Catechised twice every week ; and after every meal he caused to be read , as at his own , so at his servants Table , a portion of Gods word ; requiring also on the Friday and Saturday , an account , from those under his Tuition , of what they remembred of the Sermon I reached the Sabbath day before . He would not suffer any of his servants to sit up late ( about their weeks work ) upon Saturday at nights ; neither on the Sabbath would he eat of any dish , if he understood it kept any of his servants from the publick ordinance , by providing of it . And as he was painfull in his Ecclesiastick , and exemplar in the Domestick Government , so also was he pious in his more private retired closet duties , being a great admirer of , and having great knowledge in , the Scriptures , which he took great delight in when young , and highly honoured whilst he lived . He kept a perfect Diery of all ( or most of ) the passages of his Life . He often set whole days apart , to humble himself , ( in private ) by Fasting and Prayer . He took the degree of Batchelor of Arts , in the year 1630. and in 1632. he was taken in by the the Vniversity , as a Vniversity Preacher . In the year 1643. he was called to be one of the Assembly of Divines , and some time after , elected as Pastor in Dukes-Place , from whence he removed to New-Church in Westminster , ( where he was the first Minister that preached there ) in both , which places , he was highly and greatly esteemed of , and by all his Auditors ( that were professors of piety . ) During also his Ministry at New-Church , he was a Lecturer at the Abbey Church in Westminster , and so painfull was he ( in the service of God , ) that he never declined any Ministerial exercise that he was requested to perform , whether in publick or in private . He was of a loving , friendly disposition , courteous , and affable in his carriage towards men of the lowest rank or degree . April 1644. he was constituted Master of Queens-Colledge , by the Earl of Manchester , where he caused the exercise of Sermons , to be continued in the Colledge Chappel weekly , all the year ; where also he endeavoured to promote Learning , by his constant exhortation of the Scholars to sedulity in their studies ; purchasing also ( by his own moneys ) many Authors , which he gave to the Library , and maintained at his own charge , divers poor and necessitous Scholars . He was a man of a publick spirit , laying out himself , for God : greatly self-denying , and very Zealous for and in the things of God. His freedome , and faithfulness , in reference to the publick affairs , may appear by the Sermons he preach'd before the Parliament at Westminster ; Divers of which are now in Print . His Temperance and Sobriety were great , as well in his Apparel , as in his Dyet . The good works he did , ( while living ) commands us to praise his liberal charity , and charitable liberality . The time of his sickness was not long , his distemper having little to feed on ; he ( whilst in health ) spending himself so much in the service and work of God. His humility , his patience in sickness , his faith upon God , and submission to Gods will , did most eminently discover themselves while sick . His deportment therein being holy and heavenly , and his discourse full of such expressions , that discovered where his heart was . One exhorting him , to cast the burden of his sickness upon God , he made this reply , I should do very unworthily , if when I have Preached to others , that they should cast their burden upon God , I should not do so my self . Anno Christi 1647 , in the 46 year of his age , he returned his Soul into the hands of God ; And for his body , it lyes buried in the New-Church at Westminster ; and thus he lived , and so he dyed , and now he 's dead , his works do live , Vivitur post funera virtus . ANd thus ( kind Reader ) you have a brief Epitome , of the Life of that Reverend , Learned , Laborious , Pious , and Painfull Divine , who is the Author of this small , ( yet sweet and precious ) Treatise ; from the perusal of which , I 'le not detain thee , by long or tedious digressions , of my own , begging only , acceptance of what may be well , and pardon for what is ill done , from all ; but carping Momuses , ( whose favour not expecting , ) I plainly declare , I no more value , or care , for their censures , than I prize or esteem the flatteries of fond , and foolish Parasites . HE that desires to see a larger Account of the Life of this Reverend Divine , let them peruse it as Written by the Learned Mr. Clark in his Book of Lives . Of making Religion ones Business . MY true Friend , It hath been an usual saying with me , ( would God I could ever have the feeling of it in my self , ) That the Character of a godly man , is to make Religion his business . I will now a little descant upon it , so as to set down what I should and would do in this kind . I shall set a copy , at least to teach my self , and provide a remembrancer to quicken my frequent dulness . 1. I desire to have my Affections all moulded by Religion and towards it ; my thoughts , and words , and deeds , to be all exercises of Religion , and my very cessation from works commanded by Religion , and limited and circumstantiated by Religion , my eating , drinking , sleeping , journeying , visiting , entertaining of friends , to be all directed by Religion : And that above all , I may be serious and busie in the acts of Religion about the Word , Prayer , Praises , Singing , Sacraments ; not only that the duties in each kind be performed , but religiously performed , with life and vigour , with Faith , Humility and Charity . 2. To these ends , I desire my heart may be possessed with these two fundamental principles : 1. That Religion is the end of my Creation , and of all the benefits , not only spiritual , but temporal , which God bestows upon me . 2. That Religion is my felicity , even for the present , though derived from that eternall felicity , which is now laid up for me , and to be hereafter possessed by me in Heaven : So glorious is that felicity ; that from the first moment of our interest in it , it casts a lightsome , gladsome brightness upon the soul , even many years sometimes before the enjoyment of the fulness of it : like to the Sunne shedding forth his fore-running beams to enlighten all our part of the world , many minutes before his full light offers it self to our eye . 3. When I speak thus of Religion to be Felicity , I mean it of God and Christ , the object of Religion : without whom , Religion is but an empty Name , a pernicious errour . But as Religion is to know God and him whom he hath sent , Jesus Christ , it is eternal life , begun now here below : but never to end in any time or place . 4. I wish these thoughts may meet me first in the morning , as worldly-minded mens businesses do them : that I may count all things but interruptions till my mind be settled in its course for that day , and that my mind be so setled and habituated in these purposes , that it may be readily in order ordinarily and only need time for solemn performance of religious duties , and for extraordinary projects . 5. Specially I wish as I am bound by millions of eternal obligations , That I may love the Lord my God , Christ Jesus my Redeemer , with all my heart , with all my soul , with all my mind with all my strength , to the utmost extent of all these phrases ; and that to make my mind more apprehensive of them , I may not prophane any of them by using to say in slight matters , ( I love such a thing with all my heart , or , I will do such a thing with all my heart ) It may seem a nicety to check such a phrase : But I read this morning , Pro. 7.2 . Keep my Commandments , and live , and my Law as the apple of thine eye . ( Which sentence by Gods blessing hath occasioned this whole Meditation whatever it is . ) The Apple of the Eye is the tenderest , thing in the World of Naturall things , the Law of God no less ( infinitely more ) in Spirittuals . As I therefore like not the word ( infinite ) but when we speak of God : so those forenamed phrases seem to be Gods peculiar : and that one main cause , why common men so readily say , They love God with all their heart , ( I mean , why they so easily deceive themselves in so saying ) is , because they have adulterated the phrase [ with all my heart ] and prostituted to every base trifle . Say , if it be not so . And then as Saint James blames for not saying . [ If the Lord will , &c. ] though every one will grant such words necessary , and pretended to suppose them : so is it not blame-worthy to say in petty matters , what should make a sacred sound in our ears , and to our spirits ? 6. I wish I could loose my self in a holy trance of meditation , every time I think of God and Christ , as the Author , Fountain , Life , Substance of all my happiness ; ( All-sufficient , ( alone sufficient ) only-sufficient for my soul , and all comfort and good . Nothing wanting in God and Christ to Eternity . No need of any creature : No accession by any creature : no one creature , not all of them comparable to him , or any thing without him . Time , lost happiness lost , while converse with any creature , further than according to his Ordinance : as his instruments and servants . 7. I wish , I could forget all respcts to my self , carnal , natural , while I have any service to perform to God , as I have every moment [ though I cannot ever think so ] that I might shew I love God with strength ; My God with all my strength , and never be weary : of his immediate services especially : or if naturally , yet not spiritually ▪ Lusts are vigorous , when the body languishes , being spent . Oh why is not grace more strong . 8. I wish my heart may never recoil upon me , with saying , Thou mightest now or such a time have done thy God , thy Saviour more service than thou didst ; even when thou didst somewhat , thy body and spirits would have held out longer time , and endured a geater stress of zeal . And much less , Thou didst wholly lose such an opportunity of doing or receiving good , ( though scarce can any one do good , who receives not some present payment , at least in soul , the enlargement of Grace and holy affections ) and least of all , Thou didst wholly employ thy strength to sin , or thou hast weakned thy strength by intemperance , or any other foolish or sinfull practice . 9. I wish that every day among my first thoughts , one may be , What special business have I within doors ? within my soul , What sin to mortifie ? Whether lately raging , and even but last day or night prevailing over me ? Or which I have had ( at least some late ) victories over , that I may allot time to pursue it , and by no means forget it in my paryer , and arm my self against the encounter , if there be any possibility of my being assaulted that day . And what grace to strengthen ? wherein I have been exceeding feeble of late ? or even begun to obtain some vigour ? which it may easily be lost , and will be , if not with all care and means , and prayers fomented and cherished ; that so I may prepare for it . These are a Christians main businesses within himself alwayes . Withall , I wish to die dayly . I mean not , that I dayly wish for death ; but that I may foresee it more than possible , and may prepare for it , resolvedly , contentedly : that I may look at it , as at a means of happiness , and take such order as it may not cut me off from any main necessary imployment : But each hour and minute to dispatch the substantials of my business , and referre circumstances and event to the All-wise , Powerfull , and gracious Providence of the great Ruler , and King of the whole world , and of every creature . 11. I wish to improve every relation I stand in towards any of mankind , to the advancement of Religion : that Glory may redound to Christ , by my being a child to one , a brother to another , a neighbour to a third , a kinsman , a freind , an acquaintance to any one ; That as well for the credit of Religion ( which commands to give to all their due honour , and to love them as my self ) as for the Propagation of Religion , I may be ambitious to approve my self the best Child , or Subj●ct , or Friend , &c. in the world : I and careful also , to insinuate my self as much as may be , into the favour of every one I converse withall in the world , of Superiours by submission and diligence : of Equals , by courtesie and fredom : of Inferiours , by affibility mixt with gravity , and gentleness , with necessary strictness . And that I may not fail to entitle God to whatever ground I gain upon the affections of any , that is , to engage them thereby the more forwardly in his service , in their own persons , and towards all others , and that I my self also may reap some spiritual benefit by them , that so I may bless God for them , and they him for me , and others for them and me together . 12. Particularly , I wish , that toward Inferiours , I may never put lesse , but rather more weight upon Gods Comandements than mine own , and upon religious than civil observances : and that because the best are not Angels , I may bear with more patience , failings in meer worldly , than spiritual matters . 13. I wish never to be one of those that feed themselves without fear ; but that , whether I eat or drink , I may do all to the glory of my God , that is Seasonably , Sparingly , and with Choice ; for Health and Strength : Not Gluttony , Drunkenness , or Riotous Curiosity . That I may daily remember [ my business not to be , to live to eat , but eat to live , that I may follow my business , that is , Christianity : ] that I may not forget how slippery a place the throat is , and how easily that glides down , which after works disease : that because the craving of the sensual appetite , seeming but reasonable , being but for ones self , is of the betraying of Reason it self , besides the quelling of Grace : both Grace and Reason may combine together in the practise of this difficultest piece of self-denyal : And that I may ever consider , not only what a shame , what an unthankfulnesse it is in the least degree to disable my self for the service of Him , who allowes me liberally so much as can be fit for me , how-much soever that be , but also what pity to wast good Creatures to so vile a purpose , as to weaken my body , or overcharge my spirits , with what was meant to strengthen and quicken them . That from the observation of the untowardnesse of my mind ; when it is in the best temper , I may tremble at the thoughts of the least intemperance , which if it fetter not my body , so as it cannot do its duty , will at least hamper my wits , and many times take away from me the will to go about it aright . That therefore I may count all inordination , or immoderation in meat or drink , Poison at least to my Soul , and in a degree also to my body , as is confest by all , some meats and drinks to be in themselves , to some , and others , if taken to such a quantity . 14. I wish to be watchfull over my self always , that I may be thus sober ; and sober that I may be watchful ; and watchful that I may withstand enemies and have time and spirits to do all the works my heavenly Master sets me about . 15. I wish to redeem all time I can from sleep , and so to order my sleep , as I may redeem most time . To redeem all time I can from sports , and so to order my imployments , as that the varieties of them may commonly be recreation enough without using any sports at all for my minds sake : And that if my body seem necessarily to require any , I may remember [ that Nature is content with a little , and Grace never asks more . ] That if courtesie . require me to bear friends company in their sports , I may not only refuse such as are unlawful in themselves , but in others , consider whether they are not for the present unseasonable , or vitiated with some other ill Circumstances ; being specially shie of those that are apt to lead astray , either by affording provocations to impatience , or threatning to swallow up too much time , of which friends not seldom robbing us , do it no way more than by exacting of us to hold out with them in their sports ; which they by an evil though significant name , usualy call Pastimes . 16. I wish to redeem all time from vain thoughts , and unprofitable musings , upon my bed night or morning , in my walking or riding upon the way , in my attendances where neither my Eye nor my Tongue can be profitably set on work : and to take those Advantages greedily to advance the businesses of God and my soul . My thoughts are her eldest and noblest off-spring , and so too worthy to be cast away upon base objects . 17. I wish to redeem all time from idle words and frivolous discourses ; to avoid what I can the hearing of such pratlings ; to shun all light , and frothy , and amorous Books . My Tongue is my Glory , and my best Instrument to advance the Glory of God and Religion towards others ; It were pity to prophane it with such words , as to be upon my contrary score at the day of accounts : and so much I have to learn of God and of Religion ; as without slighting them , I can find no leisure to give heed to trifles , besides the danger of poison to be conveyed in these . If I were confined to the society of Pagans , I might from thence expect some profitable Discourse , though altogether of the world ; and even towards them I were bound to offer at least sometimes mention of God : How much more among such as call themselves Christians ! Specially , who profess Christianity to be their business as well as mine . 18. I desire to redeem all time I can from curiosity in dressing my body , as that which besides the vanity and unprofitableness endangers the leaving off ( the best clothing ) Humility , and so doubly sets my business back . 19. I wish to redeem what time I can , even from worldly business , whatever they are ; so as at least I may never want room to exercise my self unto Godliness ; to perform my dayly solemn services to God , both personal and domestick , and for extraordinary Projects to the honour of God. 20. I desire to take no journey , or make no visit , which falls not into the road of Religion . Courtesie [ which to allow , and in a sort , even command , is Religious Honour ] will carry me a little way , sometimes : But specially , Purposes , accompanied with Hopes , of making all my correspondences pay tribute to Relegion , whilest in the mean time , I am carefull to lose no opportunity of trafficking for Religions gain , and resolutely to stay no longer time any where than while I may do my self or others , more good there , than in another place . 21. I wish specially to make all my medlings in worldly businesses serviceable to Religion : Whilest I imploy whatever Talent I have received , and do receive , to strengthen , encourage , and secure my Self , Family , Friends , Neighbours , and all Fellow-Christians , in the wayes of Godliness , and to exercise and demonstrate Faith , Humility , Patience , Contentedness , Liberality , Justice , Heavenly mindedness in the midst of worldly imployments , and thereby to draw even strangers to admire and approve of that Religion , which teaches and effectually perswades so much good . 22. Particularly I wish , that I may never grasp so much of the world as to distract my head with cares , or engage my heart in sins , and that in the rust that cleaves to my fingers in telling of money , though each piece seem clean enough ) I may see the emblem of the defilement , gotten insensibly by the use even of lawful things , that therefore I may constantly afterwards wash my heart by prayers and meditations . 23. I wish to account nothing a cross to me , but what crosses Religion in some respect , either to my own Soul or others ; to reckon by that Rule , my losses and gains ; my thrivings and goings back , and for this reason , to esteem scandal the worst of evils ; and to give or do , or suffer any thing to prevent or take them away : and next to these the want of Gods Ordinances . 24. I wish to have my heart and conversation alwayes in heaven , as counting my treasure to be laid up there ; and though I must trade with worldly commodities , yet to reckon Grace my chief stock : and that as fore-seeing losses , I may trade much in the Assurance-Office , and study daily the Art of Christian Alchymy , which can extract advantage out of losses , gold out of every thing , even do●ng it self ; that is Grace not only out of every gracious act of Gods providence within sight or hearing ; but even out of afflictions and very sins . 25. Particularly , I wish to improve the time of sickness , which disables from most worldly businesses , to set forward greatly the businesses of God and my soul : and wholly to bestow that leisure upon them , further than the necessity of my body calls me ▪ partly to attend it : and that because I am then debar'd from publick means of thriving , I may beg of every Visitant , to help me with somewhat ; which yet will not impoverish , but help to enrich them also , by mutual trading in spiritual matters : and to count this covetousness only lawful , Never to think I have enough of Grace , but the less time I have to live , the more greedy to be to heap up of these riches . 26. I desire to count the Sabbath , the Lords day , mine ; made for me for mine advantage , the Market-day for my soul , a spirituall harvest-day , wherein I may all day long make provision , and lay up in store for afterwards , and to bless God continually for it , as without which my soul might be in danger to starve , either through want of publick provisions , or leisure to provide for my self what might be had : and therefore by no means to overslip the opportunity , even for my own sake , besides the Commandment ; and to take to the utmost minute that I can , my spiritual liberty to serve God , and get Grace , not allowing any thing by my good will to interrupt me therein . 27. I desire to account the Sacrament of the Lords Supper a singular Fair , wherein the Bread that came down from Heaven , the water of life , spiritual wine and milk , and whatsoever else is nourishing and comfortable to the soul , is freely offered , and to be had without money , and without price : That therefore I may be sure not to miss , when I may go to it : And yet , because all that come thither make not so happy a bargain , but rather purchase to themselves wrath and judgement , I may be carefull to prepare my self so by Examination , that my soul be not sent away fasting , or which is worse , poisoned , while my body is entertained . 28. I desire to account all other Ordinances of God. ( in their degree and manner likewise ) the means of my Souls enriching , nourishing physick : So that if I should slight or trifle away these blessed opportunities , I could not but die a beggar , die and starve , die a miserable diseased Leper , die and perish eternally . That therefore I may not be so much a fool , as to have these put as prizes into my hand to get wisdom withall , and I to have no heart to them : or that pretending no other errand to the place where they are , nor other business at that time , but to receive them , I should be so wickedly mad as to sleep away the offers of Grace then tendered unto me , nor suffer my mind to be diverted to any other thing , ●or to look that God should hear me where I scarce hear my self in my prayers , or refuse to hear him in his Word . 29. I desire to account those my best friends that most help me in my business of Christianity ; And to esteem a watchfull consideration and faithfull admonitions the most necessary and best expressions of friendship , and best helps to my feeble and frail mind . 30. I desire if ever I marry , to account that one of the greatest businesses even of Religion , that I can undertake any time in my whole life ; which if I speed well in , will incomparably ( beyond that other men or creatures can ) Advance my spiritual projects and advantages ; and contrarily disappoint and overthrow them if I make an ill match : that therefore being truly sensible of my own natural sinfull inclination , which may betray me as soon as any other , into some one ( at least ) of those many untoward courses , which persons of all qualities and conditions usually take on this occasion ; as also Apprehensive of Gods punishing no sin more frequently or sharply in this world ; I may from the first moment of my entertaining any such thoughts , make my most ardent and faithful Prayers keep pace with them , first to implore to be directed in a perfect way , and then to be blessed with a true helper every way meet for me . 31. Particularly , I desire that the phrases of Marrying in the Lord , and not being unequally yoaked , &c. ( not corrupted by the worlds false glosses , but truly interpreted by a serious conscience ) may ever have an absolute negative voice in all Propositions , that is , that I may never marry with any whom I have reason to judge not to be truly religious ; whilest yet I conclude , That Religion alone is not sufficient to make any match . That I may never dare to cross the Rules of nature in too much disparity of age , or in robbing Parents of their right , at least of Approbation and Consent ; nor those of Civility , by aspiring too eminently above my degree , or debasing my self too much below it ; withall counting it a necessary qualification in one whom I may match my self unto , To have no predominant humour which I cannot bear , but to be able to bear any infirmity of mine , and to be ( at least ) some help to my spirit in those things wherein I specially need help . 32. I desire ( for my security in all these Resolutions ) that I may never be in hast , but make a leisurable , and sufficient enquiry by my self and friends , answerable to the necessity which the worlds deceitfulness enforces in a business of such lasting importance ; but specially that I may never be in love ( with the estate or comeliness of person ) which would hinder any full enquiry , and stop my ears to any ( though never so true an ) information , and blind my eyes from a right discerning , Whether there be indeed that which in others I was wont to make the Character of Piety : and even in a visible observation of defects , make me wickedly run to Gods Decree for my excuse , and say , Marriages are made in Heaven , or presumptuously promise my self that I shall make them better , when once married , and headlong run on , notwithstanding all the contrary advice of friends , or even the commands of Parents , and be in danger to have my heart broke with discontent , if the Providence of God shall any way break the Match ; which last consideration forbids also too much engagement of affection upon the most worthy and fit person in the world , while there remains any possibility of dissolving the Treaty . 33. I desire to enforce the undervaluing of wealth or beauty , upon my spirit ; from the scarecity of these who have all the other more necessary Qualifications : and that remembring among all the Ends of Marriage mentioned in Scripture , none of them to be to make one rich ; I may never consent to set my Liberty , my Comfort , my Self , for . so long a term as during life , to make never so great a purchase of worldly Estate : As also , though I must never match my self to any , till I can love their person ; I may yet count it a sin to refuse one otherwise every way fit for me , upon the meer exception , that I cannot love , when there is no remarkable deformity to breed a loathing ; and to reckon it a duty to pray earnestly to God to rectifie such untowardness of my mind , as makes me , without just cause , reject a gracious offer of his Providence towards me : and that to prevent the mischief of an unexpected continuall jarre all our lives long , I may be willing to be inquired into my self , as well as to enquire after others , and may not dissemblingly disguise for a fit , that which will afterwards come certainly to be known ; expecting , That that love cannot be firm , whose foundation is laid upon a lie ; But that I may , by my self or friends ' fully and freely , before engagement be past , Express what I expect , both for Piety , and all other matters , of habitation , manner of living , order of Family , and the like : and what may be expected from me in each respect ; not fearing that this faithfulness to my self and them should make a breach ; but resolving that if this would break the Match , being unconcluded , there would be no less danger that it would break the peace afterward , when the unfaithfulness should be discovered : and that that breaking of the Match were so much to be preferred before this breach of Peace , by how much a cross is to be preferred before a sin , and I cannot be a Christian if I believe not that God can provide better for me , and will , if I yield up my will , and all my affections wholly to him . 34. I desire to let no day pass without ( once at least ) solemn casting up my account , how my soul hath sped that day , and my business gone forward or backward ; and to allot special times for a more full reckoning of many dayes , and summing up my whole stock of Grace : so shall I be sure never to become a Bankrupt , but compound for my debts in time , before I be sued , or pursued to extremity . Lastly , I desire to account my Sureties Satisfaction my best Riches : and to treasure up charily in my heart my Acquittances sealed with his bloud : and to fetch from his store all needfull Grace from time to time : His All sufficiency alone on all occasions must furnish me with Wisdome , Righteousness , Sanctification , Redemption , he is and must be All in all to me . To him , with the Father , and the Holy Ghost be all Glory , and Love , and Faith , and Obedience rendred for ever . Amen . An Appendix applyed to the Calling of a Minister . 1. I Desire specially to improve my Calling of a Minister to the advancement of Religion both in my own and others hearts . Whatever Calling I had , I were bound so to direct it : but this was erected to that purpose immediately , and no other [ to found men in Religion , and build them up in it . ] As therefore I must first account , that of me is required a greater forwardness in Religion , and higher degree of heavenly mindedness , and being to the glory of Christ , then of ordinary Christians ; because while their calling oft distracts and disturbs them from thinking of God and Christ , mine leads me directly to it ; and those notions which they through ignorance or disuse are strangers to , I am happily necessitated to make familiar to me : so though I may yet have imperfection , I pretend Religion in vain , if I allow my self in carelesseness or unprofitableness in that Profession of mine , the very exercise whereof is among the mainest Businesses of Religion , and which therefore in the Pr●parations for it , and exercise of it , challenges all my strength of affections and spirits . If God should have given me my choice of all the imployment the world knows , I could not wish any other , to do at once most good to my soul ; and express what good I get , to do others souls good also , and most shew my love to Christ and Christians , in thankfulness for all that good I have and look for , both to my soul and body . 2. I desire therefore to esteem it among the highest favours , among the greatest honours , so to be set on work , specially with success : and to make it appear that I do so esteem it , by putting forth all my abilities , that there may be no want in me , if success follow not towards others . All the time my Saviour lived his first life upon earth , after his Baptism ( till he was to prepare himself for the Sacrifice of his Death ) he undertook no other Calling than this , and after his Resurrection again practised it , so long as he conversed with men here below . O let my heart therefore be so possest with his Spirit ; that though my body must needs have its natural supplies in due season , yet I may ever ( as he did ) count it my meat and drink to fulfill and finish this work ; and my recreation to go about , doing good . And therefore though his Sabbath , the Lords day , be according to nature the day of my greatest toil ; yet because that day I most advance the business of his Kingdom , and my own soul together , I may with more affections than others can , call the Sabbath a delight , and triumph in it , not onely as a day of Liberty , but of conquest and victory . 3. I desire to extend the labours of my Function beyond the expectation of those to whom they are to be directed . I mean , not ever ( yet sometimes ) specially for length , but frequency , to be instant in season , and out of season [ volentibus , nolentibus . ] And to rejoyce therefore , and only therefore , in the multitude of hearers , because among many there is more hope of doing some good , whilest yet I never suffer my self to be discouraged by their paucity , since Gods grace is not tied to expect the help of a croud , and one soul gained or confirmed , is worth an age of pains . 4. I desire in all the publick exercises of my Ministry , to suit my matter , method , phrase , repetition , and all other circumstances , so as I may be best understood and remembred , and may best convince and perswade every mans conscience , and not to own one tittle or syllable that might hinder this in any : remembring herein my business to be , not to break for my own credit : but to deliver the messages of him who is no respecter of persons , but esteems the meanest soul worth shedding his bloud for , as well as the greatest . 5. I desire therefore no more to neglect the instruction of the poorest child , or the visiting of the most contemptible creature within my charge , than of the richest and noblest , rather those of the eminenter sort may better spare me ; because they may for themselves and theirs have more means and comforts than others can . 6. Specially , I desire not to omit the advantage of any ones being sick : Because , 1. then they may have more leisure to ponder on any good counsel , than the world at other times will give them leave . 2. Then also perhaps they may be straight going out of the world , and I may never again have any more opportunity of offering , them good ; and then too ( probably ) they may be more sensible of the reality of those things which concern another world , when they see nothing in this world will do them good , or keep them here : And when I come to any , never to omit the mention of death , which will neither stay our leisure , nor be hastened by talking of it : And herein to regard the good of a soul , rather than the pleasing of any ones fancy . 7. I desire in all things men should rather be pleased with what I must do , then for me to do any thing meerly to please men , unless in things otherwise indifferent every way , and in them indeed to be willing to please all men in all things ; taking counsel , in things of that sort , of mens infirmities ; but in substantials only of Gods Word ; except that even in such mens weakness or waywardness may sometimes so vary the case , as that one while they may necessitate a present enforcement of a Doctrine , and another time the forbearance for that season . And because the forbearance of this is oft times a great business of importance , I may bend all the strength of my prayers and wits about it ; and where I can , call also for the help of other men , more experienced in the Divine Mystery of gaining and feeding souls , being ready also to lend my best help to others as well , as being all fellow-workmen in the same spiritual husbandry and building , though our lots lie in several quarters . 8. I desire ever to have a special care of laying the foundation aright , first by constant catechizing of all , from very children to the eldest that will admit it ; misdoubting still the ignorance of the common sort , when I come to visit them . And however they only call for comfort , yet to be most large in urging those things , which they appear to be most defective in , as in the knowledge of sin , and the nature of repentance , and even of faith it self . 9. I desire by all just means possible , to prevent all quarrels between me and any other , and so all prejudices , as that which would much hinder my work : And to be willing to redeem their good opinion with any thing which is my own , and that I can well spare . 10. I desire to reserve my heat , my anger , to encounter sin ; and yet so to temper it with the meekness of wisdome , as it may appear I mean no hurt , but altogether good to the sinner , and not to be wearied either out of my zeal or meekness , either with the stupidity or fierceness of any . 11. I desire to acquaint my self so with the tempers and spirits of every one , as I may speak most directly to their consciences , without any decyphering of their persons ; yet not to forbear the publick reproof of any sin , because the impudence of any person hath made their guilt notorious . 12. I desire to account the commandment of not suffering sin to lie upon my neighbour , ( who is my brother ) to lie principally upon me : and therefore if publick reproof of all , in the presence of the offender will not affect him ; to reckon a wise and particular reproof in private to be a debt of love I owe him , and to defer the payment of it no longer than till the providence of God ( by some special act of giving or taking away somewhat of worth and esteem ) hath made him fit to receive it . But especially not to let slip the season of sickness or remorse for sinne upon any other ground ; because then he hath both more need of it , and it is like to do him most good . 13. I desire in all places , companies , and entercourses , to remember my Calling . And not only to take heed that my example ( or any one that depends upon me ) pull not down at any time , what my work is to build , or build what I am to pull down ; but also to know my self authorized , whereever I come , to profess my self a Projector , an Architest for my heavenly Master : and therefore not only to be ready to undertake the edification ( satisfaction ) of any soul that calls for my help , but likewise where I shall neither take any other mans work out of his hand ; nor hinder that which is more properly mine own work ; to be forward and offer my self upon the least probability of doing good . 14. I desire to renew my Commission from my great Lord and Master , every time I go about any of his work ; by supplicating his grace to go forth and along with me to the end : and to look with contentedness and patience of faith for my reward from him alone : even the more , rather than the less , when being not guilty in my self of any willing fault to disappoint it , I see not the work prosper in my hands : because he proportions our reward according to our work , which is endeavour ; not success , which is his work : and we have wrought most hard , toiled most many times , when we have least success , the want of it greatly encreasing our toil ; besides that for the most part it is not meerly negative , but positive , through the opposition of those we would do good to , but cannot ; and this to endure is persecution , to which is promised a great recompence of reward ; but all only from his alone grace , who first works in us mightily , to make us do and suffer all things for him ; and then rewards us mercifully and bountifully , through Jesus Christ . To whom therefore be all service , and thanksgiving , and glory for ever . Amen . FINIS . MEMORIALS OF Godliness & Christianity . PART . II. CONTAINING 1. The Character of a Christian in Paradoxes and seeming Contradictions . 2. A Proof or Character of visible Godliness . 3. Some general Considerations to excite to watchfulness , and to shake off spiritual drousiness . 4. Remedies against Carefulness . 5. The Soul of Fasting . The Tenth Edition Corrected . By Herbert Palmer , B. D. late Master of Queens Col. Camb. LONDON , Printed for Henry Million at the Bible near White-Fryers in Fleetstreet , 1670. TO THE CHRISTIAN READER . Christian Reader , HEre is offered thee a second Part of Memorials of Godliness and Christianity : Small indeed for bulk , but the more suitable for that to the title , and the less burthensome to thee withall I must needs say , I meant thee somewhat more : but whilest ( in the midst of many Imployments ) I was getting it ready , a strange hand was like to have robbed me of the greatest part of this , by putting to the Press ( unknown to me ) an imperfect Copy of the Paradoxes . This made me hasten to tender a true one , and to content my self for the present with the Addition of the other lesser Pieces , which here accompany them . In which , if thou findest any spiritual savour , I shall be willing to own my self thy Debtour for the remainder of my Thoughts of this kind , as God upon thy Prayers , ( which I must continually beg ) shall vouchsafe to afford Leisure and Assistance : Only intreating thee to remember , That as I count my self the more engaged by every of these publick Expressions , to a more exact walking in all the wayes of Godliness and Christianity ; so wilt not thou be able to answer it to God , if thou content thy self with commending any , or all of that which thou readest , and thy Heart and thy Life be not the better . Not Notions , but Affections and Actions , are matters of true Honour and solid Comfort . So I leave thee to the Lord , in whom I am ever , Thine and the Churches Servant together Herbert Palmer . July 25. 1645. The Character of a Christian in Paradoxes and seeming Contradictions . 1. A Christian is one who believes things which his reason connot comprehend . 2. Who hopes for that which neither he , nor any man alive ever saw . 3. Who labours for that he knows he can never attain . 4. Yet in the issue , his Belief appears not to have been false . Hope makes him not ashamed . Labour is not in vain . 5. He believes Three to be One , and One to be Three ; A Father not to be elder than his Son , and the Son to be equal with his Father , and one proceeding from both to be fully equal to both . 6. He believes in one Nature three Persons , and in one Person two Natures . 7. He believes a Virgin to have been a Mother , and her Son to be her Maker . 8. He believes him to be born in time , who was from everlasting , and him to be shut up in a narrow room , whom Heaven and Earth could never contain . 9. He believes him to have been a weak child carried in arms , who is the Almighty , and him to have died , who only hath life and immortality in himself . 10. He believes the God af all Grace , to have been angry with one who never offended him : and the God that hates all sinne , to be reconciled to himself , though sinning con-continually , and never making , or being able to make him satisfaction . 11. He believes the most just God to have punished a most innocent person , and to have justified himself , though a most ungodly sinner . 12. He believes himself freely pardoned , and yet that a sufficient Satisfaction is paid for him . 13. He believes himself to be precious in Gods sight , yet he loaths himself in his own sight . 14. He dares not justifie himself , even in those things wherein he knows no fault in himself ; yet he believes God accepts even those services , wherein himself is able to find many faults . 15. He praiseth God for his Justice , and fears him for his mercies . 16. He is so ashamed , as he dares not open his mouth before God ; yet comes with boldness to God , and asks any thing he needs . 17. He is so humble as to acknowledge himself to deserve nothing but evil ; yet so confident , as to believe God means him all good . 18. He is one that fears always , and yet is bold as a Lion. 19. He is often sorrowful , yet alwayes rejoycing : often complaining , yet alwayes giving of thanks . 20. He is most lowly minded , yet the greatest aspirer ; most contented , yet ever craving . 21. He bears a lofty spirit in a mean condition ; and when he is aloft , thinks meanly of himself . 22. He is rich in poverty , and poor in the midst of riches . 23. He believes all the world to be his , yet dares take nothing without special leave . 24. He covenants with God for nothing , yet looks for the greatest reward . 25. He loses his life and gains by it , and even whiles he loses it , he saves it . 26. He lives not to himself , yet of all others is most wise for himself . 27. He denies himself often , yet no man that most pleases himself , loves himself so well . 28. He is the most reproached , and most honoured . 29. He hath the most afflictions and the most comforts . 30. The more injury his enemies do to him , the more advantage he gets by them . 31. The more he himself forsakes of worldly things , the more he enjoys of them . 32. He is most temperate of all men , yet fares most deliciously . 33. He lends and gives most freely , yet is the greater Usurer . 34. He is meek towards all men , yet inexorable by men . 35. He is the best child , brother , husband , friend , yet hates father , and mother , and wife , and brethren , &c. 36. He loves all men as himself , yet hates some men with perfect hatred . 37. He desires to have more grace than any hath in the world , yet he is truly sorry when he sees any man have less than himself . 38. He knows no man after the flesh , yet gives to all men their due respects . 39. He knows , if he please men , he is not the servant of Christ , yet for Christs sake he pleases all men in all things . 40. He is a peace-maker , yet continually fighting , & an irreconcilable enemy . 41. He believes him to be worse than an Infidel that provides not for his family , yet he himself lives and dies without care . 42. He is severe to his children , because he loves them ; and being favourable to his enemies , revenges himself upon them . 43. He accounts all his inferiors his fellows , yet stands strictly upon his authority . 44. He believes the Angels to be more excellent creatures than himself , and yet counts them his servants . 45. He believes he receives many good turns by their means , yet he never prays their assistance , nor craves their prayers , nor offers them thanks , which yet he doth not disdain to do to the meanest Christian . 46. He believes himself a King , how mean soever he be , and how great soever he be , that he is not too good ▪ to be servant to the poorest Saint . 47. He is often in prison , yet alwayes at liberty , and a free-man though a servant . 48. He receives not honour from men , yet highly prizes a good name . 49. He believes God hath bidden evey man that doth him any good to do so ; yet he of any man is the most thankfull to them that do ought for him . 50. He would lay down his life to save the soul of his enemy ; yet will not venture upon one sinne to save his life that hath saved his . 51. He swears to his own hinderance and changes not ; yet knows , that his mouth cannot tie him to sinne . 52. He believes Christ to have no need of any thing he doth , yet makes account he relieves Christ in all his deeds of charity . 53. He knows he can do nothing of himself , yet labours to work out his own salvation . 54. He confesses he can do nothing ; yet as truly professes he can do all things . 55. He knows that flesh and bloud shall not inherit the kingdom of God : yet believes he shall go to heaven body and soul . 56. He trembles at Gods Word , yet counts it sweeter to him than the honey and the honey comb , and dearer than thousands of gold and silver . 57. He believes that God will never damn him ; and yet he fears him for being able to cast him into hell . 58. He knows he shall not be saved by his works , and yet doth all the good works he can , and believes he shall not be saved without them . 59. He knows Gods providence orders all things ; yet is he so diligent in his business , as if he were to cut out his own fortune . 60. He believes beforehand God hath purposed what shall be , and that nothing can make him alter his purpose : yet prays and endeavours as if he would force God to satisfie him however . 61. He prays and labours for what he believes God means to give him , and the more assured he is , the more earnest . 62. He prays for that he knoweth he shall not obtain , and yet gives not over . 63. He prays and labours for that , which he knows he may be no less happy without . 64. He prays with all his heart not to be led into temptation , yet rejoyces when he is fallen into it . 65. He believes his prayers to be heard , even when they are denied , and gives thanks for that which he prayed against . 66. He hath within him the flesh and the spirit ; yet is not a double-minded man. 67. He is often led away captive by the law of sin , yet it never gets the dominion over him . 68. He cannot sinne , yet he can do nothing without sin . 69. He can do nothing against his will ; yet he doth what he would not . 70. He wavers and doubts , and yet obtains ; he is often tossed and shaken , and yet like Mount Zion . 71. He is a Serpent and a Dove , a Lamb and a Lion , a Reed and a Cedar . 72. He is sometimes so troubled , that he thinks nothing is true in Religion ; and yet if he did think so , he could not be at all troubled . 73. He thinks sometimes God hath no mercy for him , and yet resolves to die in the pursuit of it . 74. He believes like Abraham , in hope and against hope , & though he can never answer Gods Logick , yet with the woman of Canaan , he hopes to prevail with the rhetorick of importunity . 75. He wrestles with God and prevailes ; and though yielding himself unworthy the least blessing he enjoyes already : yet Jacob-like , will not let God go without a new blessing . 76. He sometimes thinks himself to have no grace at all ; and yet how poor and afflicted soever he be besides , he would not change conditions with the most prosperous upon earth that is a manifest worldling . 77. He thinks sometimes the Ordinances of God do him no good at all , and yet he would rather part with his life than be deprived of them . 78. He was born dead , and yet so , as it had been murther to have taken his life away . 79. When life was first put into him , is commonly unknown ; and with some , not untill they had learned to speak , and were even grown up to the stature of a man ; and with others , not till they were ready to drop into their graves for age . 80. After he begins to live is ever dying ; and though he have an eternal life begun in him , yet he makes account he hath a death to pass through . 81. He counts self-murder a most hainous sin , yet he is continually busied in crucifying his flesh , and putting to death his earthly members . 82. He believes that his soul and body shall be as full of glory as theirs that have more , and not more full than theirs that have less . 83. He lives invisibly to those that see him , and those that know him best , do but guesse at him ; yet they somitimes see further into him , and judge more truly of him than himself doth . 84. The world did sometimes count him a Saint , when God counted him an hypocrite ; and after , when the world branded him for an hypocrite , God owned him for a Saint . 85. In fine , his death makes not an end of him : his soul , which was created for his body , and is not to be perfected without his body , is more happy when it is separated from it , then it was all the while it was united to it : and his body , though torn in pieces , burnt to ashes , ground to pouder , turned into rottenness , shall be no loser : His Advocate , his Surety , shall be his Judge ; his mortal part shall become immortal ; and what was sown in corruption , shall be raised in incorruption and glory ; and his spiritual part , though it had a beginning , shall have no end ; and himself a finite creature , shall be possessed of an infinite happiness . Amen . A Character of visible Godliness . A Godly man is one , who being not ignorant of the wayes and Doctrine of God , lives not only without scandal , but approves and practises the general Duties of Christianity , and those that are special to his condition . More particularly : A godly man is one that loves the word in the power of it , and at least despises it not in the plainness of it ; that comes to the World not to censure and cavil , but to be taught and ruled ; that professes not to allow himself in any known sin , but resolves and practises self-denyal , so far as it is made plain to him , that Christ denies his desires . He is one that loves those that seem religious and conscionable , untill they prove scandalous and be manifestly discovered for Hypocrites , and then esteems never the worse of the Profession it self , and of those others whom he knows no harm by . He is unwilling to believe all of such , and though he see them faulty , doth not streight condemn them to be altogether void of sincerity . Mean time he is so far from rejoycing at their miscarriages , that even particular scandals are amongst his greatest griefs . But especially he is afraid to give any ill example himself , as knowing himself made and redeemed to no other end , than that he should live to Gods glory : Therefore also he professes and resolves to do what good he can in his place ; and particularly to have his family know . and fear God , and believe in Christ . He is one that accounts sin worse than shame , or loss , or any other misery ; and resolves to suffer rather than offend . He esteems Godliness the greatest gain , and contentment a necessary piece of godliness , and that honour , pleasure , wealth , to be sufficient to contentment , which casts upon him , while he first seeks his Kingdom and Righteousness . And lastly , who hath so much wisdome , as to take more thought how to redeem time , than to pass it away , having somewhat setledly to do besides following his pleasures , which he uses as his recreation , and makes not his business . Generall Considerations to excite to Watchfulness , and to shake of spiritual drousiness . 1. THe glorious and dreadfull Majesty of God , with whom at all times we have to do , who is a consuming fire , and therefore his service and obedience to him is not to be slighted , but to be performed with watchfulness , reverence and godly fear . 2. Our sins in number exceeding the hairs of our heads ; in weight the measure of the sand ; The vileness of sin generally , and the unreasonable odiousness of ones own sins , in many respects worse than any others we know . 3. The fearful curses and punishments due to sin ( to our sins ) on earth , and torments inconceivable and eternal in hell . 4. The abominableness of sin , demonstrated specially in that nothing could expiate it , but the bloud and death of Christ , not only man , but God. 5. The infinite love of God and Christ to sinful mankind in those sufferings of Christ for sin . 6. The certainty of damnation still , to those that carelesly despise or willfully abuse the grace of Christ to carnall security , or willing customary sin . 7. The manifest expressions of Scripture , that multitudes , even of those that live within the visible Church , shall yet go to Hell. 8. The Devils unwearied malice , violence , cunning ; going up and down like a roaring Lion , seeking whom he may devour , unto whom they that watch not , must needs become a prey . 9. The prodigious and desperate corruption that is in every ones heart ready to betray us , even to the basest lust and most horrid wickedness . 10. The fearfull frights of Conscience , that God may awaken us withall out of our drowsie dreams . 11. The sharp and stinging scourges even in worldly respects , wherewith God may rouse us out of our carnal security : and must and will , with one or other , if other means will not prevail . 12. The wretched unthankfulness of despising his Commandments , or lazily performing any service to him , whose mercies have been and are so abundant and free toward us , as we have found them ; and yet hope for infinitely more hereafter . 13. The Watchfulness and diligence of worldly men , and their heat for the Devil , and their own lusts . 14. The danger that may be to us , not onely from worldly men , alluring or opposing ; but even from those who are godly , and may yet prove tempters and snares to us , and so we never walk but in the middest of snares and temptations . 15. The certain shortness and uncertain continuance of our lives , subject to a thousand casualties , and nothing to be done for God , or our selves after death . 16. The nobleness and excellency of our immortal souls , born to higher imployment and honour , than a bruitish service of the body , or Paganish pursuing of this present world . 17. The certainty of the hope whereunto they are called , who seek the Kingdome of God above all other things . 18. The infinite glory of Heaven , and eternal happiness , there kept in store for them that fight a good fight and finish their course , and keep the faith , and love and watch for the appearance of Christ . 19. The exceeding greatness of the mighty power of God , working for and in them that believe , and live by faith . 20. The exceeding great and precious promises of all kinds , even for comfort in this life to them that love God , and walk uprightly , and forsake any thing for Christ , That all things shall work together for good to them , and no good thing shall be withholden from them ; and for any thing they have forsaken , they shall receive in this world , even in the midst of persecutions , an hundred-fold more , an eternal life in the world to come . 21. The experience of that sweet peace of conscience , and blessed contentation , and spiritual rejoycing , even in the midst of Tribulations and Persecutions , that is to be seen in many of the servants of God ; and which all profess to be certainly attainable , by those that watch and pray , and are sober , and exercise their Faith and Grace . A Remedy against Carefulness . Phil. 4.6 . Be careful for nothing . 1. CArefulness forbidden is taking over-much thought , disquieting the mind , rending the heart in pieces with doubts and fears . for worldly things good , to be missed , lost . ill , to befall , continue . 2. The causes are Doting too much upon the thing or comfort in danger , Distrust of Men. Means . Gods blessing . 3. The Effects are divers , and not the same in all : But it appears , — 1. When it provokes to use indirect means . 2. When the means which are used , though commonly sufficient , are not counted sufficient . 3. When the thoughts are chiefly upon it first and last , contrary to the express charge , Mat. 6.33 . 4. When it breeds interruption in holy duties , Neglected . Untowardly done . 5. When it hinders from enjoying natural comforts . 6. When it makes unfit for ones calling . 7. When it hinders freedome of spirit , and makes unfit for civil society . 4. Hence the Reasons against it are many , shewing the sinfullness of it , and directing to Remedies against it . 1. It is an idolatrous sin ; if we doted not too much on such a creature or comfort , we could not be overcareful about it , See Ps . 73.25 . compared with the former part . The Remedy is , to apply Gods All sufficiency , who can certainly make us happy without that creature or comfort . 2. It is a Paganish sin , an Infidels sin , if we did believe Gods Providence , Attributes and Promises , we could not be so out of quiet , Mat. 6. The Remedy is , to lay to heart these Doctrines , as becomes a Christian . 3. It is an unthankful sin , we deserved Hell and scape that , and are promised Heaven instead of it , are we not bound to referre other things to God ? The remedy is , to ponder well our sins , and Gods great mercy in Christ . 4. It is a fruitless sin , no man gets any thing by vexing himself , Gods will shall stand . The Remedy is , to weigh how great a piece of wisdom it is to make a virtue of necessity . 5. It is a multiplying sin , it endangers to make one do any thing , to secure themselves from what they fear . The Remedy is , to consider the least sin worse than any evil , to a Christians heart . 6. It is a pernicious sin , it provokes God often to cross us in the very thing , even for our over-carefulness about it , disappointing hopes , or bringing fears , according to our perplexed apprehensions , besides worse mischief , if one obtain their desire . The Remedy is , to consider the promises made to meekness , and the comforts of a good Conscience . 7. It is a prophane sin , hindring religious duties . The Remedy is , to remember Gods service , the end of our life , and nothing should hinder us in it . 8. It is an inhumane sin , it hurts 1. The Soul , in the forenamed neglect of duties to God. 2. The Body , by hindring the enjoying of comforts . The Remedy is , to love our selves wisely , and our whole selves rather than our fancy in any thing , or than any one particular thing for our selves , how seeming unnecessary soever . 9. It is an unsociable sin , and inhumane in respect of others , it makes unfit for all converse , and so neglectful of friends , and even be discomforts to them . The remedy is , to consider our selves not born for our selves only : others afford us comfort , and we owe the like to them . 10. It is an unnecessary sin ; we have vexation enough for each day , we need not vex our selves with thought for to morrow . The remedy is , to consider that we may die , before that we misdoubt comes : and then ( as we say ) the thought is taken . 11. It is a self condemned sinne : There are none but trust men in something or other , as great as that they are now over-carefull about , or must do God with a greater matter , the eternal estate of their souls . The remedy is , to reason the like in one thing we do in another , and not disparage God while we trust men . 12. It is a sin against experience , 1. Of the bruit and even senseless creatures , God feeds the fowls , and clothes the grass . 2. Our own , is not the life more than meat ? and the body than rayment ? specially the soul than either . The Remedy is , to consider God our Father , who will not be kind or to a kite than to a child , or prefer a flower before a son , nor withhold the less ( being good : and who is so mad as to say , I would have what God sees not good ? ) having given the greater , Rom. 8.32 . The Lord of Earth and Heaven , of Grace and Glory , teach us ever to love him with Faith and thankfulness , that we may enjoy all good from him through Jesus Christ , Amen . The Soul of Fasting . Nehem. 6.5 , &c. 1. AN awfull Regard and Reverence of the Glorious Majesty of the Great God ; with whom we have to do , by a through Apprehension of his infinite and incomprehensible perfection , in all his Attributes , and of his absolute Soveraignty , as Creator , Preserver , and Ruler of us and all things in the world , v. 6. 2. Thankfulness for all the goodness of God vouchsafed to us , by a large apprehension of all his manifold Favour , Generall to His Church , to our Nation , Particular to Us and our Friends , Temporal , Spiritual ; illustrated marvelously by our deservings , not only of no good , but of extream ill , ver . 7 , &c. 3. Sorrow for our sins , and our Nations and fore-fathers sins , by a deep apprehension of the cursed Nature of sin in general , and vileness of such sins in particular : aggravated by all circumstances that may be ▪ Specially by Gods Mercies and Chastisements , vers . 16. &c. 4. Sence of our misery , Felt and Feared , all proceeding from GODS hand , from his displeasure , provoked by our sins , and impossible to be avoided , but by his Favour , which is not to be presumed upon , if we continue in our sins , ver . 32 , &c. 5. Faith is the Covenant , Truth , Goodness , and power of God , for all times and purposes , ver 32. 6 A Covenant renewed with GOD of all observance and Fidelity , specially to amend what we have acknowledged amiss in our selves , and professed sorrow for , and fear of , before God or men , or both , ver . 39. and Chap. 10. throughout . Directions about these . 1. IN the Word read or preached , those things are to be most carefully observed , which may quicken and confirm any of these . 2. All these are to be presented in prayer , summarily in every solemn supplication such a day , private or publick : but the enlargements may be varied , and one while more of one , and another while of another . 3. Before-hand it would be greatly helpful to have written by us : 1. Amplifications upon Gods Attributes . 2. Catalogues of choicer mercies . 3. Catalogues of sins . 4. Aggravations of sins . 4. The day is to be begun with those thoughts specially which relate to our selves , though taking in others also . 5. And it is not to be ended without some secret , yet solemn review of the souls behaviour , from first to last : and an earnest labouring to fasten all the good thoughts it hath had upon it , and to re-inforce the suit to God , to settle them upon it firmly and lastingly . The God of all Wisdom and Grace , teach us to practise and improve these Remembrances to his Glory and our Eternal Good by Jesus Christ. FINIS . MEMORIALS OF Godliness & Christianity . PART . III. A DAILY DIRECTION , OR BRIEF RULES for daily Conversation . AS Also a Particular Direction for the LORDS-DAY . Written by Herbert Palmer a little before his Death . LONDON , Printed for Henry Million at the Bible near White-Fryers in Fleetstreet , 1670. TO THE Christian READER . Christian Reader , HEre is another parcel of thoughts for thee , [ Some brief Rules for thy daily conversation ] Thou wilt perhaps say [ They are strict , at least some of them . ] Rules should be so : Mens lives will be loose enough for all that But [ some of them ( it may be thou thinkest ) are not of necessity ] Think again sadly and conscientiously , between God and thine own self : and thou maist possibly be of another mind . Looking God in the face , makes some things appear to be sins , and some things to be duties , after a confident out-facing men , that it was otherwise . But suppose they are not all of necessity : yet think once more , whether there is not some wisdom in them , and an Advantage , if a man can bring himsef to such a temper ? And if they be but so much ( as some of them are offered thee , under no further notion ) wilt thou deliberate , whether thou wilt strive to be so wise , or not ? and whether thou wilt endeavour to have thy mind in the perfectest temper or not ? I will pray for thee , through Gods grace , that thou mayst profit by this , and all other Helps , who am still Thine and the Churches Servant in Christ altogather Herbert Palmer . A Daily Direction . AWake with God , and lift up thy heart to him , in thanksgiving , and petition . 2. Lose no time unnecessarily , but rise as soon as thou canst . 3. However keep thy bed , thy heart , undefiled with wicked thoughts . 4. Let not worldly matters take up thy mind , or words , unnecessarily at the first of the day . 5. Squander not away precious time , in being too long in dressing thy body . 6. Defert not thy solemn prayers , upon any unwillingness , or slight pretence . 7. If thou foreseest any inevitable disturbance ( as particularly abroad in some places ) pray rather than fail , in thy bed , before thou risest . 8. When thou findest any unwillingness or indisposedness to pray , consider , I. The Necessity of Prayer . 1. Gods Commandement . 2. Good is not else to be expected , either 1. Not the thing desired . 2. Not the blessing . 3. Leave is to be asked to use Benefits . 4. Help special wanted ; against 1. Temptations dangerous to fight alone . 2. Snares , dangerous to travel alone . 5. Duties to be performed ; we of our selves not having 1. Any heart to them . 2. Any skill for them . 3. Any strength in them . II. The Priviledges of prayer . 1. Esteemed , in freinds and great men . 2. Purchased by Christs bloud . 3. No man can hinder it . 4. No unfitness of time or place . 5. To power out our whole heart , for self and friends . 6. Not necessitated , to method , manner , proportion . 7. But speak as to a Father , or Friend . 8. Of all life , heavenly imployment , noblest exercise of soul . 9. Special curse , not to be heard . III. Promises of all kindes . 1. General and particular . 2. For good , and against evil . 3. For our selves and others . IV. Experiences , in Scripture , Story , Memory , of 1. Prayers answered . 2. Comfort by praying . 3. Grace answerable to praying . 9. Awaken , as much as thou canst possibly , thy spirit , that thou maist pray , with all 1. Reverence and apprehsion of the glorious Majesty , Persons , Attributes of the Godhead . 2. Faith and holy confidence in Christ thy Mediator , and in the promises general or particular . 3. Fervency , from a deep sence of wants , weaknesses , importance of thy suites . 4. Humility , by reason of sin ; corruption , impotency . 5. Thankfusness , for mercies and promises , abundant , all-sufficient . 6. Charity , for others welfare ; the Church , the Magistrate , the , Minister ; thy freinds , those that have begged thy prayers or have thy promise to pray for them ; and for the afflicted . 7. Care to put away the throng of worldly thoughts before thou beginnest , lest they distract thy mind . 8. Watchfulness , how thou praiest , or hast praied , never resting in the outward work done , without thou feel some inward affection and fruit of thy prayers . 10. If it be possible , let the next thing be to read somewhat of Gods Word . 11. Ever begin , and end it , with lifting up thy heart to God for his blessing , upon thy 1. Understanding , that thou maist see his truth and will. 2. Memory , that thou maist retain , what thou understandest . 3. Affections , that thou maist 1. Receive the Truth , in the love of it . 2. Be careful to practice it , without delay . 12. Be not in hast , but read to learn , that thou maiest be the wiser , holier , happier , for that particular Word , and reading of it , therefore think of it a while with all seriousness . 13. Usually read from the beginning of a book to the end . 14. Strive not to read much at once : yet in stories ( unless called away necessarily ) break not off , till seen some issue of it . 15. Choose to read those Books and Chapters most frequently , that are most easie to be understood , and most readily applyed to practice ; As the Psalms and Epistles , specially the latter part of them . 16. Special difficulties , as soon as thou hast time enquire of , from books , friends Ministers especially . 17. If indispenssible interruption put thee from the usual time of prayer or reading , take the next free time , with all diligence and watchfulness . 18. However do not dine , till thou hast prayed solemnly alone , longer or shorter : and read at least some portion of Scripture every day . 19. Unless on unavoidable necessity , be not absent from family-Prayers . 20. Quicken thy self to like zeal and faithfulness , as if thou wert alone , and call thy self to some account , for the Word then read . 21. Having attended upon God , address thy self to the business of the day . 22. Allot for extraordinry business , the fittest time , and then be diligent to dispatch it . 23. Having a special calling or outward imploiment , do somewhat at it every day ( if possible ) or take a strict account of thy selfe , why not . 24. Think thou dost not well , if the bulk of thy time be not taken up in thy special calling , from one end of the year to another . 25. Thy calling , consisting of divers imployments , look that one encroch not upon the other . And prefer the most important for the time present , and for the principal end . 26. Be watchful of thy diet , that thou neither eat nor drink out of season , things hurtful , excessively , that so thou prejudice not thy self , by what was given thee for good ; and so be 1. Hindered in Gods services , or thy own businesses . 2. Hurt , in thy mind , through temptations ; in thy body , by diseases , paines present or future . 27. Let not thy mind be earnestly bent , presently before , at , or too soon after meales . 28. Yet take heed of the breaches of time , and interruption of thy business , by meals , &c. that they put thee not too far out of the way . But have a care to return again to thy imployments , as soon as is convenient . And particularly , if it may be , within an hour or less . 29. Once a day read over , and recollect in thy mind , these rules . 30. Whoever thou art look to thy thoughts , that they be , 1. Free from 1. Wicked Atheism , and denials of Fundamental Truths . 2. Pride , Arrogance , Self-Applause , though praised . 3. Lasciviousness , Covetousness , malice , envie , matters of provocation . 4. Impatience , grudging , discontent . 5. Lightness and ●●ity , froth and emptiness . 2. Filled with apprehensions , of God , Christ , Eternity , thy Calling , the Church ; and thy own last account . 31. When thou comest into company , make account thou treadest among snares , which the Devil hath set to take thee . Look to thy self first , and then to thy company . 1. That thou be not the worse for them , but better for them . 2. That others be the better specially not the worse any way , by thy speech , silence , actions , forbearance . 32. Bridle thy tongue so with consideration , before thou speakest , that thou afterward wish not any thing unsaid , in reference to what may befal , temporally or spiritually 33. Take heed of 1. All ungodly words . 1. Athestical . 2. Slighting or scorning Religion , Devotion . 3. Taking Gods name in vain in the least . 4. Swearing falsly , unnecessarily . 5. Mentioning God without Reverence . 6. Making jests of Scripture-phrases . 7. Using them sportingly . 8. Repeating others oaths . 2. All slanderous words . 1. Untruths . 2. Truths spoken maliciously , sportingly , unnecessarily , concerning others faults or imperfections . 3. Bitter provoking jests . 4. Railing speeches , though provoked . 3. All scurrilous and lascivious talk , one of the worst signs of a rotten filthy heart . 4. All kind of lies , notwithstanding any pretence . 5. All idle and vain words , not profiting thy self or hearers . 6. All peremptory affirming news , unless infallibly assured of it . 7. All words of heat and anger , peremptory and provoking , in disputing , though perswaded , and even assured thou art in the right , unless in matters fundamental for saith or practice : yet even then , let thy passion not be unbridled ; as serving to gain the hearers . 8. In thy promises to men ( and much more in vows to God ) be not over-hasty till thou hast throughly weighed the possibility , and convenience , lest thou be either 1. Insnared in keeping of it . 2. Incur the blame of rash or false , in breaking it . 9. In any disputable Question be moderate in asserting or denying , lest an unexpected Argument put thee to shame , by forcing thee to alter thy sentence , or contradiction without reason . 10. Boast not thy self ( neither speak much ) unnecessarily of any thing already done by thee , or of any ability , specially spiritual , or any future action , or undertaking . 11. Yet deny not the grace of God in thee , or toward thee for others , or by resolutions of faithfulness to God or men . 34. Take a time ( the first free season when thy mind is in any fitness ) to pray alwayes solemnly be tween dinner and supper , and let nothing hinder thee in it being at home , and neglect it not through unwillingness . 35. Whereever thou art , inure thy self to short , frequent and fervent ejaculations to God , both of requests and thanksgivings , which will be a blessed preservative to thy soul , and gain more blessing than thou canst imagine . 36. Particularly neglect not this upon any sentible failing of thine , even in a sinful thought , or any unexpected accident or news of importance . 37. Give not any one ( specially a stranger ) power to undo thee , if he will be false . 38. Have not many friends , nor count them so , till thou hast good trial of their faithfulness to God ( being truly religious ) and of their wisdom . 39. To no friend impart another friends secret , without leave . 40. And whenever thou tellest a secret , tell it as a secret , lest they take it otherwise , and so reveal it . 41. Have now & then , that saying in thy mind ( amici sunt fures temporis ) Friends are thieves of time . 42. Yet count the Communion of Saints , redeeming of time . 43. Remember that some time must be dedicated to preparation , to make way , 1. For favour in others minds . 2. For introducing a discourse advantagiously ; and that sometimes it will seem lost , through disappointment of hope ; which yet is to be counted wisely and necessarily imployed , and the benefit perhaps will appear afterward . 44. Do nothing to another , which thou wouldest not have done to thee or thine . 45. Do that to another , thou wouldest have done to thy self or thine . 46. Be sure to take head of giving any scandal by thy behaviour , better thy hand or thy eye were cut off , &c. 47. Rejoyce with them that rejoyce ( after the Apostles rule ) and weep with them that weep . 48. If they require thy company , in any of their recreations , be sure they be , 1. lawful , 2. reasonable , 3. moderate , 4. of good report , therefore forbear games of lottery , gaming for gain , lest thou or thy company , be 1. impatient , through loss , at least inwardly , 2. want what is so lavisht , 3. break into quarrels or oaths . Remember Recreation is no mans occupation . 49. Let thy company ( if thou canst ) be ever such as may either teach thee somewhat , or learn something of thee . 50. Be sure thou admit not any wicked or profane man to be thy familiar . 51. Let not thy presence imbolden any in their sin . 52. Allot some time for Meditation , and that of some divine thing . 33. Particularly , each day , think of thy last , whether thou art ready for it , which will not tarry for thee when it comes . 54. When thou hearest any worthy saying , trust not to thy brittle memory with it , but write it down , so hast thou a double record of it 55. Willingly let no day pass without writing some good note , of the Scripture , some Meditation &c. distinguishing the day . 56. Avoid study after Supper , unless on urgent occasions , and dedicate that time to refresh thy self with the comfortable society of thy friends and acquaintance . 57. Remember to break up company in time , lest sitting up late make thee either sleep in the concluding duties , or lose time the next morning . 58. Be●wen Supper and going to bed , read again somewhat of the Word , after the former prescripts , as near as thou canst . 59. Sleep not till thou hast examined thy self in all this , and in all thy actions , the day past to fit thee for prayer , petitioning for pardon and grace , &c. presenting thanks , as in the morning . 60. Count that day lost , wherein thou hast not done and received some good , specially spiritual . 61. Lay thy self down and sleep , as in Gods arms , commending thy soul to him ; and compose thy self to rest , with the thought of some promise or heavenly thing . 62. Do every thing in the Name of Jesus Christ , looking for strength and assistance in and through him , and presenting to him , with the Father , and the holy Ghost , all honor and glory , obedience , love , trust , and reverence , for ever , Amen . Particular Directions for the LORDS DAY . 1. REmember it before it comes for thy self and family , that none of the sacred time be lost , through worldly business occasioned by putting it off carelesly , wilfully , or sleepiness , by too much tiring out the spirits overnight , overwatching or overworking . 2. Count it a day of spiritual liberty , wherein thou and thine , may without interruption converse with God , and benefit your souls . 3. Unless upon true necessity , make it not shorter than other days by late rising , or early going to bed . 4. Rather , as much as thy body and spirit will give leave enlarge it , as a delightful opportunity of Good , by rising earlier , and sitting up as long as thou canst . 5. Count the publick Assemblies , the solemnest service of the day , and let no pretence ( ordinarily ) hinder thee , or thine , from being present , from the first ( continuing to the last ) both moring and afternoon . 6. Let all private and Family-duties , tend to fit thee for , or to improve the pubilck . 7. Neglect not to take a through account of thy self , of every main parcel of the Word , publickly read ; namely of the several parts , one by one , the several Psalms and Chapters , and learn somewhat from every one of them . 8. The better to do this , discourse with those that are willing to hear and answer , or such as may not refuse ( as thy Inferiours ) concerning each of these ; this will help to remember , and quicken spiritual attention , of profitable things to be learned , above that which one would imagine . We lose much benefit of the Word , because we do not bend our minds to it . 9. As the mainest Rule of wisdom , in the ordering of time this day , to the best advantage , bethink thy self over-night , or in the morning early ( or both ) what the present frame and temper of thy mind is , and what thou wantest , that thou maiest study for a remedy to supply , and watch what God will speak to thee in his Word , or by his Minister about it , that day . 10. Pray that thou maiest be attentive to what specially concerns thee , and particularly the matters so thought upon ; and that without mistake , and specially without repugnance of spirit . 11. Admit not , as much as lies in thee , any unnecessary worldly discourse , no not at meals : rather than look most to it , as being the time of greatest danger ordinarily . 12. Much less begin any worldly discourse , whether among other Christians , or other persons . 13. Rather than squander away those precious hours , or even minutes upon the world or vanity , if thou canst with any convenience , retire thy selfe , and sit alone in thy chamber . 14. By thy good will , admit not of any worldly thoughts being alone , or silent in company . 15. But pray , read , meditate , go in to good company ( if any be near ) sleep were better , if any need of it , than when God and thy conscience cal for thy thoughts ( which are the preciousest thing thou hast ) to bestow them upon the world or vanity 16. Neglect not thy usual personal devotions , but rather enlarge them . 17. Take special care to improve to the uttermost , the Word preached that day , by prayer , discourse , meditation . 18. Take heed of the least excess in thy diet , that thy soul lose not of her nourishment , by that means . 19. Yet afflict not thy body ordinarily by fasting or overspare diet , least that also interrupt thee somewhat , besides that it suites not so properly with a day of rejoycing , as this is . 20. Before thou go to rest , fail not to consider what this day thou hast gained or lost , that thou maist give thanks to pray . The God of all wisdom and peace teach us to know his will , and practice what we know more and more to his glory , and our everlasting comfort , through Jesus Christ . Amen . FINIS .