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pete-walker-com-7548 2 19 Shrinking shrink VBG pete-walker-com-7548 2 20 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 2 21 Outer Outer NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 22 Critic Critic NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 23 Abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 24 Depression depression NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 25 Emotional Emotional NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 26 Neglect Neglect NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 27 Grieving Grieving NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 28 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 2 29 Complex Complex NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 30 PTSD ptsd NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 31 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 2 32 FourF FourF NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 33 's 's POS pete-walker-com-7548 2 34 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 2 35 A A NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 36 Trauma Trauma NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 37 Typology Typology NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 38 13 13 CD pete-walker-com-7548 2 39 Steps Steps NNPS pete-walker-com-7548 2 40 Flashbacks Flashbacks NNPS pete-walker-com-7548 2 41 Management Management NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 42 Bibliotherapy Bibliotherapy NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 43 FAQs faq VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 2 44 About about IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 45 Complex complex JJ pete-walker-com-7548 2 46 PTSD ptsd NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 47 ARTICLES articles NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 48 FOR for IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 49 THERAPISTS therapists NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 50 Using use VBG pete-walker-com-7548 2 51 Vulnerable Vulnerable NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 52 Self Self NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 53 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 2 54 Disclosure Disclosure NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 55 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 2 56 Treat treat VB pete-walker-com-7548 2 57 Arrested arrest VBN pete-walker-com-7548 2 58 Relational Relational NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 59 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 2 60 Development Development NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 61 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 62 CPTSD CPTSD NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 63 Therapist Therapist NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 64 Heal Heal NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 65 Thyself Thyself NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 66 Relational Relational NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 67 Healing Healing NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 68 BOOK BOOK NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 69 EXCERPTS EXCERPTS NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 70 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 2 71   _SP pete-walker-com-7548 2 72 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 2 73 Tao Tao NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 74 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 75 Fully fully RB pete-walker-com-7548 2 76 Feeling feel VBG pete-walker-com-7548 2 77 Recovering recover VBG pete-walker-com-7548 2 78 Emotional emotional JJ pete-walker-com-7548 2 79 Nature Nature NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 80 Recovery Recovery NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 81 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 2 82 Self Self NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 83 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 2 84 Pity Pity NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 85 Forgiveness forgiveness NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 86 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 2 87 Begin begin VB pete-walker-com-7548 2 88 With with IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 89 Self Self NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 90 Intentions Intentions NNPS pete-walker-com-7548 2 91 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 92 Recovery Recovery NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 93 Human Human NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 94 Bill Bill NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 95 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 96 Rights Rights NNPS pete-walker-com-7548 2 97 Lovingly Lovingly NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 98 Resolving resolve VBG pete-walker-com-7548 2 99 Conflict conflict NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 100 Homesteading homestead VBG pete-walker-com-7548 2 101 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 102 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 2 103 Calm Calm NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 104 Eye Eye NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 105 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 106 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 2 107 Storm storm NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 108 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 2 109 Navigating navigate VBG pete-walker-com-7548 2 110 CPTSD CPTSD NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 111 My -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 2 112 Top top NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 113 10 10 CD pete-walker-com-7548 2 114 Practices practice NNS pete-walker-com-7548 2 115 BUY buy VBP pete-walker-com-7548 2 116 PETE PETE NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 117 'S 's POS pete-walker-com-7548 2 118 BOOKS books NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 119 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 2 120 Buy buy VB pete-walker-com-7548 2 121 Now now RB pete-walker-com-7548 2 122 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 2 123 [ [ -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 2 124 Paperback Paperback NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 125 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 2 126 e e NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 127 - - NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 128 book book NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 129 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 2 130 audio audio NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 131 book book NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 132 ] ] -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 2 133 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 2 134 Tao Tao NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 135 Of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 136 Fully fully RB pete-walker-com-7548 2 137 Feeling feel VBG pete-walker-com-7548 2 138 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 2 139 Harvesting harvesting NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 140 Forgiveness forgiveness NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 141 Out out IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 142 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 143 Blame Blame NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 144 Buy Buy NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 145 Now now RB pete-walker-com-7548 2 146 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 2 147 [ [ -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 2 148 Paperback Paperback NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 149 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 2 150 e e NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 151 - - NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 152 book book NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 153 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 2 154 audio audio NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 155 book book NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 156 ] ] -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 2 157 Complex complex JJ pete-walker-com-7548 2 158 PTSD ptsd NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 159 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 2 160 From from IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 161 Surviving survive VBG pete-walker-com-7548 2 162 To to IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 163 Thriving Thriving NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 164 Buy Buy NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 165 Now now RB pete-walker-com-7548 2 166 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 2 167 [ [ -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 2 168 Paperback Paperback NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 169 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 2 170 e e NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 171 - - NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 172 book book NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 173 ] ] -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 2 174 Homesteading homestead VBG pete-walker-com-7548 2 175 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 176 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 2 177 Calm Calm NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 178 Eye Eye NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 179 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 2 180 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 2 181 Storm Storm NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 182 Finding Finding NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 183 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 2 184 Therapist Therapist NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 185 Co co NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 186 - - NN pete-walker-com-7548 2 187 Counseling Counseling NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 188 Email Email NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 189 Pete Pete NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 190 Pete Pete NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 191 Walker Walker NNP pete-walker-com-7548 2 192 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 2 193 M.A. M.A. NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 1 925 925 CD pete-walker-com-7548 3 2 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 3 3 283 283 CD pete-walker-com-7548 3 4 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 3 5 4575 4575 CD pete-walker-com-7548 3 6 2920 2920 CD pete-walker-com-7548 3 7 Domingo Domingo NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 8 Ave Ave NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 9 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 3 10 Suite Suite NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 11 204 204 CD pete-walker-com-7548 3 12 A a DT pete-walker-com-7548 3 13 Berkeley Berkeley NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 14 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 3 15 CA CA NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 16 94705 94705 CD pete-walker-com-7548 3 17 - - SYM pete-walker-com-7548 3 18 2400 2400 CD pete-walker-com-7548 3 19 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 3 20 4Fs 4fs CD pete-walker-com-7548 3 21 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 3 22 A a DT pete-walker-com-7548 3 23 Trauma Trauma NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 24 Typology Typology NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 25 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 3 26 Complex complex JJ pete-walker-com-7548 3 27 PTSD ptsd NN pete-walker-com-7548 3 28 By by IN pete-walker-com-7548 3 29 Pete Pete NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 30 Walker Walker NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 31 This this DT pete-walker-com-7548 3 32 paper paper NN pete-walker-com-7548 3 33 describes describe VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 3 34 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 3 35 trauma trauma NN pete-walker-com-7548 3 36 typology typology NN pete-walker-com-7548 3 37 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 3 38 differentially differentially RB pete-walker-com-7548 3 39 diagnosing diagnose VBG pete-walker-com-7548 3 40 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 3 41 treating treat VBG pete-walker-com-7548 3 42 Complex Complex NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 43 Post Post NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 44 Traumatic Traumatic NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 45 Stress stress NN pete-walker-com-7548 3 46 Disorder Disorder NNP pete-walker-com-7548 3 47 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 4 1 This this DT pete-walker-com-7548 4 2 model model NN pete-walker-com-7548 4 3 elaborates elaborate VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 4 4 four four CD pete-walker-com-7548 4 5 basic basic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 4 6 defensive defensive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 4 7 structures structure NNS pete-walker-com-7548 4 8 that that WDT pete-walker-com-7548 4 9 develop develop VBP pete-walker-com-7548 4 10 out out IN pete-walker-com-7548 4 11 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 4 12 our -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 4 13 instinctive instinctive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 4 14 Fight Fight NNP pete-walker-com-7548 4 15 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 4 16 Flight Flight NNP pete-walker-com-7548 4 17 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 4 18 Freeze Freeze NNP pete-walker-com-7548 4 19 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 4 20 Fawn Fawn NNP pete-walker-com-7548 4 21 responses response NNS pete-walker-com-7548 4 22 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 4 23 severe severe JJ pete-walker-com-7548 4 24 abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 4 25 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 4 26 trauma trauma NNP pete-walker-com-7548 4 27 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 4 28 heretofore heretofore RB pete-walker-com-7548 4 29 referred refer VBD pete-walker-com-7548 4 30 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 4 31 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 4 32 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 4 33 4Fs 4fs CD pete-walker-com-7548 4 34 ) ) -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 4 35 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 5 1 Variances variance NNS pete-walker-com-7548 5 2 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 5 3 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 5 4 childhood childhood NN pete-walker-com-7548 5 5 abuse abuse NN pete-walker-com-7548 5 6 / / SYM pete-walker-com-7548 5 7 neglect neglect NNP pete-walker-com-7548 5 8 pattern pattern NN pete-walker-com-7548 5 9 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 5 10 birth birth NN pete-walker-com-7548 5 11 order order NN pete-walker-com-7548 5 12 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 5 13 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 5 14 genetic genetic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 5 15 predispositions predisposition NNS pete-walker-com-7548 5 16 result result VBP pete-walker-com-7548 5 17 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 5 18 individuals individual NNS pete-walker-com-7548 5 19 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 5 20 choosing choose VBG pete-walker-com-7548 5 21 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 5 22 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 5 23 specializing specialize VBG pete-walker-com-7548 5 24 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 5 25 narcissistic narcissistic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 5 26 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 5 27 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 5 28 ) ) -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 5 29 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 5 30 obsessive obsessive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 5 31 / / SYM pete-walker-com-7548 5 32 compulsive compulsive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 5 33 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 5 34 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 5 35 ) ) -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 5 36 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 5 37 dissociative dissociative JJ pete-walker-com-7548 5 38 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 5 39 freeze freeze NN pete-walker-com-7548 5 40 ) ) -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 5 41 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 5 42 codependent codependent NN pete-walker-com-7548 5 43 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 5 44 fawn fawn NN pete-walker-com-7548 5 45 ) ) -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 5 46 defenses defense NNS pete-walker-com-7548 5 47 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 6 1 Many many JJ pete-walker-com-7548 6 2 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 6 3 my -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 6 4 clients client NNS pete-walker-com-7548 6 5 have have VBP pete-walker-com-7548 6 6 reported report VBN pete-walker-com-7548 6 7 that that DT pete-walker-com-7548 6 8 psychoeducation psychoeducation NN pete-walker-com-7548 6 9 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 6 10 this this DT pete-walker-com-7548 6 11 model model NN pete-walker-com-7548 6 12 has have VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 6 13 been be VBN pete-walker-com-7548 6 14 motivational motivational JJ pete-walker-com-7548 6 15 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 6 16 deshaming deshame VBG pete-walker-com-7548 6 17 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 6 18 pragmatically pragmatically RB pete-walker-com-7548 6 19 helpful helpful JJ pete-walker-com-7548 6 20 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 6 21 guiding guide VBG pete-walker-com-7548 6 22 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 6 23 recovery recovery NN pete-walker-com-7548 6 24 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 7 1 Individuals individual NNS pete-walker-com-7548 7 2 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 7 3 experience experience VBP pete-walker-com-7548 7 4 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 7 5 good good JJ pete-walker-com-7548 7 6 enough enough JJ pete-walker-com-7548 7 7 parenting parenting NN pete-walker-com-7548 7 8 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 7 9 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 7 10 childhood childhood NN pete-walker-com-7548 7 11 arrive arrive VBP pete-walker-com-7548 7 12 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 7 13 adulthood adulthood NN pete-walker-com-7548 7 14 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 7 15 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 7 16 healthy healthy JJ pete-walker-com-7548 7 17 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 7 18 flexible flexible JJ pete-walker-com-7548 7 19 response response NN pete-walker-com-7548 7 20 repertoire repertoire VB pete-walker-com-7548 7 21 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 7 22 danger danger NN pete-walker-com-7548 7 23 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 8 1 In in IN pete-walker-com-7548 8 2 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 8 3 face face NN pete-walker-com-7548 8 4 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 8 5 real real JJ pete-walker-com-7548 8 6 danger danger NN pete-walker-com-7548 8 7 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 8 8 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 8 9 have have VBP pete-walker-com-7548 8 10 appropriate appropriate JJ pete-walker-com-7548 8 11 access access NN pete-walker-com-7548 8 12 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 8 13 all all DT pete-walker-com-7548 8 14 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 8 15 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 8 16 4F 4F NNP pete-walker-com-7548 8 17 choices choice NNS pete-walker-com-7548 8 18 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 9 1 Easy easy JJ pete-walker-com-7548 9 2 access access NN pete-walker-com-7548 9 3 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 9 4 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 9 5 fight fight JJ pete-walker-com-7548 9 6 response response NN pete-walker-com-7548 9 7 insures insure VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 9 8 good good JJ pete-walker-com-7548 9 9 boundaries boundary NNS pete-walker-com-7548 9 10 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 9 11 healthy healthy JJ pete-walker-com-7548 9 12 assertiveness assertiveness NN pete-walker-com-7548 9 13 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 9 14 aggressive aggressive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 9 15 self self NN pete-walker-com-7548 9 16 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 9 17 protectiveness protectiveness NN pete-walker-com-7548 9 18 if if IN pete-walker-com-7548 9 19 necessary necessary JJ pete-walker-com-7548 9 20 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 10 1 Untraumatized untraumatized JJ pete-walker-com-7548 10 2 individuals individual NNS pete-walker-com-7548 10 3 also also RB pete-walker-com-7548 10 4 easily easily RB pete-walker-com-7548 10 5 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 10 6 appropriately appropriately RB pete-walker-com-7548 10 7 access access VB pete-walker-com-7548 10 8 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 10 9 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 10 10 instinct instinct NN pete-walker-com-7548 10 11 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 10 12 disengage disengage NN pete-walker-com-7548 10 13 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 10 14 retreat retreat NN pete-walker-com-7548 10 15 when when WRB pete-walker-com-7548 10 16 confrontation confrontation NN pete-walker-com-7548 10 17 would would MD pete-walker-com-7548 10 18 exacerbate exacerbate VB pete-walker-com-7548 10 19 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 10 20 danger danger NN pete-walker-com-7548 10 21 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 11 1 They -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 11 2 also also RB pete-walker-com-7548 11 3 freeze freeze VBP pete-walker-com-7548 11 4 appropriately appropriately RB pete-walker-com-7548 11 5 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 11 6 give give VB pete-walker-com-7548 11 7 up up RP pete-walker-com-7548 11 8 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 11 9 quit quit VB pete-walker-com-7548 11 10 struggling struggle VBG pete-walker-com-7548 11 11 when when WRB pete-walker-com-7548 11 12 further further JJ pete-walker-com-7548 11 13 activity activity NN pete-walker-com-7548 11 14 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 11 15 resistance resistance NN pete-walker-com-7548 11 16 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 11 17 futile futile JJ pete-walker-com-7548 11 18 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 11 19 counterproductive counterproductive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 11 20 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 12 1 And and CC pete-walker-com-7548 12 2 finally finally RB pete-walker-com-7548 12 3 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 12 4 also also RB pete-walker-com-7548 12 5 fawn fawn VBP pete-walker-com-7548 12 6 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 12 7 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 12 8 liquid liquid NN pete-walker-com-7548 12 9 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 12 10 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 12 11 play play NN pete-walker-com-7548 12 12 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 12 13 space space NN pete-walker-com-7548 12 14 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 12 15 manner manner NN pete-walker-com-7548 12 16 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 12 17 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 12 18 able able JJ pete-walker-com-7548 12 19 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 12 20 listen listen VB pete-walker-com-7548 12 21 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 12 22 help help VB pete-walker-com-7548 12 23 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 12 24 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 12 25 compromise compromise VB pete-walker-com-7548 12 26 as as RB pete-walker-com-7548 12 27 readily readily RB pete-walker-com-7548 12 28 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 12 29 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 12 30 assert assert VBP pete-walker-com-7548 12 31 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 12 32 express express VBP pete-walker-com-7548 12 33 themselves -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 12 34 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 12 35 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 12 36 needs need NNS pete-walker-com-7548 12 37 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 12 38 rights right NNS pete-walker-com-7548 12 39 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 12 40 points point NNS pete-walker-com-7548 12 41 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 12 42 view view NN pete-walker-com-7548 12 43 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 13 1 Those those DT pete-walker-com-7548 13 2 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 13 3 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 13 4 repetitively repetitively RB pete-walker-com-7548 13 5 traumatized traumatize VBN pete-walker-com-7548 13 6 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 13 7 childhood childhood NN pete-walker-com-7548 13 8 however however RB pete-walker-com-7548 13 9 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 13 10 often often RB pete-walker-com-7548 13 11 learn learn VBP pete-walker-com-7548 13 12 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 13 13 survive survive VB pete-walker-com-7548 13 14 by by IN pete-walker-com-7548 13 15 over over RB pete-walker-com-7548 13 16 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 13 17 relying rely VBG pete-walker-com-7548 13 18 on on IN pete-walker-com-7548 13 19 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 13 20 use use NN pete-walker-com-7548 13 21 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 13 22 one one CD pete-walker-com-7548 13 23 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 13 24 two two CD pete-walker-com-7548 13 25 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 13 26 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 13 27 4F 4F NNP pete-walker-com-7548 13 28 Reponses Reponses NNPS pete-walker-com-7548 13 29 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 14 1 Fixation fixation NN pete-walker-com-7548 14 2 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 14 3 any any DT pete-walker-com-7548 14 4 one one CD pete-walker-com-7548 14 5 4F 4f NN pete-walker-com-7548 14 6 response response NN pete-walker-com-7548 14 7 not not RB pete-walker-com-7548 14 8 only only RB pete-walker-com-7548 14 9 delimits delimit VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 14 10 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 14 11 ability ability NN pete-walker-com-7548 14 12 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 14 13 access access VB pete-walker-com-7548 14 14 all all PDT pete-walker-com-7548 14 15 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 14 16 others other NNS pete-walker-com-7548 14 17 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 14 18 but but CC pete-walker-com-7548 14 19 also also RB pete-walker-com-7548 14 20 severely severely RB pete-walker-com-7548 14 21 impairs impair VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 14 22 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 14 23 individual individual NN pete-walker-com-7548 14 24 's 's POS pete-walker-com-7548 14 25 ability ability NN pete-walker-com-7548 14 26 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 14 27 relax relax VB pete-walker-com-7548 14 28 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 14 29 an an DT pete-walker-com-7548 14 30 undefended undefended JJ pete-walker-com-7548 14 31 state state NN pete-walker-com-7548 14 32 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 14 33 circumscribing circumscribe VBG pete-walker-com-7548 14 34 him -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 14 35 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 14 36 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 14 37 very very RB pete-walker-com-7548 14 38 narrow narrow JJ pete-walker-com-7548 14 39 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 14 40 impoverished impoverished JJ pete-walker-com-7548 14 41 experience experience NN pete-walker-com-7548 14 42 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 14 43 life life NN pete-walker-com-7548 14 44 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 15 1 Over over IN pete-walker-com-7548 15 2 time time NN pete-walker-com-7548 15 3 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 15 4 habitual habitual JJ pete-walker-com-7548 15 5 4F 4f JJ pete-walker-com-7548 15 6 defense defense NN pete-walker-com-7548 15 7 also also RB pete-walker-com-7548 15 8 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 15 9 serves serve VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 15 10 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 15 11 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 15 12 distract distract VB pete-walker-com-7548 15 13 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 15 14 individual individual NN pete-walker-com-7548 15 15 from from IN pete-walker-com-7548 15 16 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 15 17 accumulating accumulate VBG pete-walker-com-7548 15 18 unbearable unbearable JJ pete-walker-com-7548 15 19 feelings feeling NNS pete-walker-com-7548 15 20 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 15 21 her -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 15 22 current current JJ pete-walker-com-7548 15 23 alienation alienation NN pete-walker-com-7548 15 24 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 15 25 unresolved unresolved JJ pete-walker-com-7548 15 26 past past NN pete-walker-com-7548 15 27 trauma trauma NN pete-walker-com-7548 15 28 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 16 1 Complex complex JJ pete-walker-com-7548 16 2 PTSD PTSD NNP pete-walker-com-7548 16 3 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 16 4 an an DT pete-walker-com-7548 16 5 Attachment Attachment NNP pete-walker-com-7548 16 6 Disorder Disorder NNP pete-walker-com-7548 16 7 Polarization Polarization NNP pete-walker-com-7548 16 8 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 16 9 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 16 10 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 16 11 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 16 12 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 16 13 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 16 14 freeze freeze NN pete-walker-com-7548 16 15 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 16 16 fawn fawn JJ pete-walker-com-7548 16 17 response response NN pete-walker-com-7548 16 18 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 16 19 not not RB pete-walker-com-7548 16 20 only only RB pete-walker-com-7548 16 21 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 16 22 developing develop VBG pete-walker-com-7548 16 23 child child NN pete-walker-com-7548 16 24 's 's POS pete-walker-com-7548 16 25 unconscious unconscious JJ pete-walker-com-7548 16 26 attempt attempt NN pete-walker-com-7548 16 27 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 16 28 obviate obviate VB pete-walker-com-7548 16 29 danger danger NN pete-walker-com-7548 16 30 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 16 31 but but CC pete-walker-com-7548 16 32 also also RB pete-walker-com-7548 16 33 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 16 34 strategy strategy NN pete-walker-com-7548 16 35 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 16 36 purchase purchase VB pete-walker-com-7548 16 37 some some DT pete-walker-com-7548 16 38 illusion illusion NN pete-walker-com-7548 16 39 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 16 40 modicum modicum NN pete-walker-com-7548 16 41 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 16 42 attachment attachment NN pete-walker-com-7548 16 43 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 17 1 All all DT pete-walker-com-7548 17 2 4F 4f NN pete-walker-com-7548 17 3 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 17 4 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 17 5 commonly commonly RB pete-walker-com-7548 17 6 ambivalent ambivalent JJ pete-walker-com-7548 17 7 about about IN pete-walker-com-7548 17 8 real real JJ pete-walker-com-7548 17 9 intimacy intimacy NN pete-walker-com-7548 17 10 because because IN pete-walker-com-7548 17 11 deep deep JJ pete-walker-com-7548 17 12 relating relating NN pete-walker-com-7548 17 13 so so RB pete-walker-com-7548 17 14 easily easily RB pete-walker-com-7548 17 15 triggers trigger VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 17 16 them -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 17 17 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 17 18 painful painful JJ pete-walker-com-7548 17 19 emotional emotional JJ pete-walker-com-7548 17 20 flashbacks flashback NNS pete-walker-com-7548 17 21 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 17 22 see see VB pete-walker-com-7548 17 23 my -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 17 24 article article NN pete-walker-com-7548 17 25 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 17 26 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 17 27 East East NNP pete-walker-com-7548 17 28 Bay Bay NNP pete-walker-com-7548 17 29 Therapist Therapist NNP pete-walker-com-7548 17 30 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 17 31 Sept Sept NNP pete-walker-com-7548 17 32 / / SYM pete-walker-com-7548 17 33 Oct Oct NNP pete-walker-com-7548 17 34 05 05 CD pete-walker-com-7548 17 35 ) ) -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 17 36 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 17 37 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 17 38 Flashback Flashback NNP pete-walker-com-7548 17 39 Management Management NNP pete-walker-com-7548 17 40 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 17 41 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 17 42 Treatment Treatment NNP pete-walker-com-7548 17 43 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 17 44 Complex complex JJ pete-walker-com-7548 17 45 PTSD PTSD NNP pete-walker-com-7548 17 46 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 17 47 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 18 1 Emotional emotional JJ pete-walker-com-7548 18 2 Flashbacks flashback NNS pete-walker-com-7548 18 3 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 18 4 instant instant JJ pete-walker-com-7548 18 5 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 18 6 sometimes sometimes RB pete-walker-com-7548 18 7 prolonged prolong VBD pete-walker-com-7548 18 8 regressions regression NNS pete-walker-com-7548 18 9 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 18 10 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 18 11 intense intense JJ pete-walker-com-7548 18 12 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 18 13 overwhelming overwhelming JJ pete-walker-com-7548 18 14 feeling feeling NN pete-walker-com-7548 18 15 states state NNS pete-walker-com-7548 18 16 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 18 17 childhood childhood NN pete-walker-com-7548 18 18 abuse abuse NN pete-walker-com-7548 18 19 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 18 20 neglect neglect NN pete-walker-com-7548 18 21 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 18 22 fear fear NN pete-walker-com-7548 18 23 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 18 24 shame shame NN pete-walker-com-7548 18 25 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 18 26 alienation alienation NN pete-walker-com-7548 18 27 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 18 28 rage rage NN pete-walker-com-7548 18 29 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 18 30 grief grief NN pete-walker-com-7548 18 31 and/or and/or CC pete-walker-com-7548 18 32 depression depression NN pete-walker-com-7548 18 33 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 19 1 Habituated habituated JJ pete-walker-com-7548 19 2 4F 4f NN pete-walker-com-7548 19 3 defenses defense NNS pete-walker-com-7548 19 4 offer offer VBP pete-walker-com-7548 19 5 protection protection NN pete-walker-com-7548 19 6 against against IN pete-walker-com-7548 19 7 further further JJ pete-walker-com-7548 19 8 re re NN pete-walker-com-7548 19 9 - - JJ pete-walker-com-7548 19 10 abandonment abandonment JJ pete-walker-com-7548 19 11 hurts hurt NNS pete-walker-com-7548 19 12 by by IN pete-walker-com-7548 19 13 precluding preclude VBG pete-walker-com-7548 19 14 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 19 15 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 19 16 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 19 17 vulnerable vulnerable JJ pete-walker-com-7548 19 18 relating relating NN pete-walker-com-7548 19 19 that that WDT pete-walker-com-7548 19 20 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 19 21 prone prone JJ pete-walker-com-7548 19 22 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 19 23 re re VB pete-walker-com-7548 19 24 - - VB pete-walker-com-7548 19 25 invoke invoke JJ pete-walker-com-7548 19 26 childhood childhood NN pete-walker-com-7548 19 27 feelings feeling NNS pete-walker-com-7548 19 28 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 19 29 being be VBG pete-walker-com-7548 19 30 attacked attack VBN pete-walker-com-7548 19 31 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 19 32 unseen unseen JJ pete-walker-com-7548 19 33 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 19 34 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 19 35 unappreciated unappreciated JJ pete-walker-com-7548 19 36 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 20 1 Fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 2 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 20 3 avoid avoid VBP pete-walker-com-7548 20 4 real real JJ pete-walker-com-7548 20 5 intimacy intimacy NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 6 by by IN pete-walker-com-7548 20 7 unconsciously unconsciously RB pete-walker-com-7548 20 8 alienating alienate VBG pete-walker-com-7548 20 9 others other NNS pete-walker-com-7548 20 10 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 20 11 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 20 12 angry angry JJ pete-walker-com-7548 20 13 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 20 14 controlling control VBG pete-walker-com-7548 20 15 demands demand NNS pete-walker-com-7548 20 16 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 20 17 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 20 18 unmet unmet NNP pete-walker-com-7548 20 19 childhood childhood NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 20 need need NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 21 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 20 22 unconditional unconditional JJ pete-walker-com-7548 20 23 love love NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 24 ; ; : pete-walker-com-7548 20 25 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 26 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 20 27 stay stay VBP pete-walker-com-7548 20 28 perpetually perpetually RB pete-walker-com-7548 20 29 busy busy JJ pete-walker-com-7548 20 30 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 20 31 industrious industrious JJ pete-walker-com-7548 20 32 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 20 33 avoid avoid VB pete-walker-com-7548 20 34 potentially potentially RB pete-walker-com-7548 20 35 triggering trigger VBG pete-walker-com-7548 20 36 interactions interaction NNS pete-walker-com-7548 20 37 ; ; : pete-walker-com-7548 20 38 freeze freeze VB pete-walker-com-7548 20 39 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 20 40 hide hide VBP pete-walker-com-7548 20 41 away away RB pete-walker-com-7548 20 42 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 20 43 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 20 44 rooms room NNS pete-walker-com-7548 20 45 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 20 46 reveries reverie NNS pete-walker-com-7548 20 47 ; ; : pete-walker-com-7548 20 48 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 20 49 fawn fawn JJ pete-walker-com-7548 20 50 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 20 51 avoid avoid VBP pete-walker-com-7548 20 52 emotional emotional JJ pete-walker-com-7548 20 53 investment investment NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 54 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 20 55 potential potential JJ pete-walker-com-7548 20 56 disappointment disappointment NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 57 by by IN pete-walker-com-7548 20 58 barely barely RB pete-walker-com-7548 20 59 showing show VBG pete-walker-com-7548 20 60 themselves -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 20 61 - - : pete-walker-com-7548 20 62 by by IN pete-walker-com-7548 20 63 hiding hide VBG pete-walker-com-7548 20 64 behind behind IN pete-walker-com-7548 20 65 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 20 66 helpful helpful JJ pete-walker-com-7548 20 67 personas persona NNS pete-walker-com-7548 20 68 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 20 69 over over RB pete-walker-com-7548 20 70 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 20 71 listening listening NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 72 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 20 73 over over IN pete-walker-com-7548 20 74 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 20 75 eliciting elicit VBG pete-walker-com-7548 20 76 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 20 77 overdoing overdo VBG pete-walker-com-7548 20 78 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 20 79 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 20 80 other other JJ pete-walker-com-7548 20 81 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 20 82 by by IN pete-walker-com-7548 20 83 giving give VBG pete-walker-com-7548 20 84 service service NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 85 but but CC pete-walker-com-7548 20 86 never never RB pete-walker-com-7548 20 87 risking risk VBG pete-walker-com-7548 20 88 real real JJ pete-walker-com-7548 20 89 self self NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 90 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 20 91 exposure exposure NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 92 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 20 93 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 20 94 possibility possibility NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 95 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 20 96 deeper deep JJR pete-walker-com-7548 20 97 level level NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 98 rejection rejection NN pete-walker-com-7548 20 99 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 21 1 Here here RB pete-walker-com-7548 21 2 then then RB pete-walker-com-7548 21 3 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 21 4 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 21 5 further further JJ pete-walker-com-7548 21 6 descriptions description NNS pete-walker-com-7548 21 7 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 21 8 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 21 9 4F 4F NNP pete-walker-com-7548 21 10 defenses defense VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 21 11 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 21 12 specific specific JJ pete-walker-com-7548 21 13 recommendations recommendation NNS pete-walker-com-7548 21 14 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 21 15 treatment treatment NN pete-walker-com-7548 21 16 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 22 1 All all DT pete-walker-com-7548 22 2 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 22 3 additionally additionally RB pete-walker-com-7548 22 4 need need VBP pete-walker-com-7548 22 5 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 22 6 benefit benefit VBP pete-walker-com-7548 22 7 greatly greatly RB pete-walker-com-7548 22 8 from from IN pete-walker-com-7548 22 9 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 22 10 multidimensional multidimensional JJ pete-walker-com-7548 22 11 treatment treatment NN pete-walker-com-7548 22 12 approach approach NN pete-walker-com-7548 22 13 described describe VBN pete-walker-com-7548 22 14 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 22 15 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 22 16 article article NN pete-walker-com-7548 22 17 above above RB pete-walker-com-7548 22 18 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 22 19 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 22 20 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 22 21 my -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 22 22 East East NNP pete-walker-com-7548 22 23 Bay Bay NNP pete-walker-com-7548 22 24 Therapist Therapist NNP pete-walker-com-7548 22 25 article article NN pete-walker-com-7548 22 26 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 22 27 Sept Sept NNP pete-walker-com-7548 22 28 / / SYM pete-walker-com-7548 22 29 Oct06 Oct06 NNP pete-walker-com-7548 22 30 ) ) -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 22 31 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 22 32 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 22 33 Shrinking shrink VBG pete-walker-com-7548 22 34 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 22 35 Inner Inner NNP pete-walker-com-7548 22 36 Critic Critic NNP pete-walker-com-7548 22 37 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 22 38 Complex complex JJ pete-walker-com-7548 22 39 PTSD PTSD NNP pete-walker-com-7548 22 40 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 22 41 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 22 42 which which WDT pete-walker-com-7548 22 43 describes describe VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 22 44 thirteen thirteen CD pete-walker-com-7548 22 45 toxic toxic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 22 46 superegoic superegoic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 22 47 processes process NNS pete-walker-com-7548 22 48 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 22 49 perfectionism perfectionism NN pete-walker-com-7548 22 50 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 22 51 endangerment endangerment NN pete-walker-com-7548 22 52 that that WDT pete-walker-com-7548 22 53 dominate dominate VBP pete-walker-com-7548 22 54 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 22 55 psyches psyche NNS pete-walker-com-7548 22 56 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 22 57 all all DT pete-walker-com-7548 22 58 4F 4f NN pete-walker-com-7548 22 59 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 22 60 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 22 61 varying vary VBG pete-walker-com-7548 22 62 ways way NNS pete-walker-com-7548 22 63 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 23 1 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 23 2 Fight Fight NNP pete-walker-com-7548 23 3 Type Type NNP pete-walker-com-7548 23 4 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 23 5 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 23 6 Narcissistic Narcissistic NNP pete-walker-com-7548 23 7 Defense Defense NNP pete-walker-com-7548 23 8 Fight Fight NNP pete-walker-com-7548 23 9 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 23 10 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 23 11 unconsciously unconsciously RB pete-walker-com-7548 23 12 driven drive VBN pete-walker-com-7548 23 13 by by IN pete-walker-com-7548 23 14 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 23 15 belief belief NN pete-walker-com-7548 23 16 that that IN pete-walker-com-7548 23 17 power power NN pete-walker-com-7548 23 18 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 23 19 control control NN pete-walker-com-7548 23 20 can can MD pete-walker-com-7548 23 21 create create VB pete-walker-com-7548 23 22 safety safety NN pete-walker-com-7548 23 23 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 23 24 assuage assuage NN pete-walker-com-7548 23 25 abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 23 26 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 23 27 secure secure JJ pete-walker-com-7548 23 28 love love NN pete-walker-com-7548 23 29 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 24 1 Children child NNS pete-walker-com-7548 24 2 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 24 3 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 24 4 spoiled spoil VBN pete-walker-com-7548 24 5 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 24 6 given give VBN pete-walker-com-7548 24 7 insufficient insufficient JJ pete-walker-com-7548 24 8 limits limit NNS pete-walker-com-7548 24 9 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 24 10 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 24 11 uniquely uniquely RB pete-walker-com-7548 24 12 painful painful JJ pete-walker-com-7548 24 13 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 24 14 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 24 15 abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 24 16 ) ) -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 24 17 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 24 18 children child NNS pete-walker-com-7548 24 19 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 24 20 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 24 21 allowed allow VBN pete-walker-com-7548 24 22 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 24 23 imitate imitate VB pete-walker-com-7548 24 24 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 24 25 bullying bullying NN pete-walker-com-7548 24 26 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 24 27 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 24 28 narcissistic narcissistic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 24 29 parent parent NN pete-walker-com-7548 24 30 may may MD pete-walker-com-7548 24 31 develop develop VB pete-walker-com-7548 24 32 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 24 33 fixated fixated JJ pete-walker-com-7548 24 34 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 24 35 response response NN pete-walker-com-7548 24 36 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 24 37 being be VBG pete-walker-com-7548 24 38 triggered trigger VBN pete-walker-com-7548 24 39 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 25 1 These these DT pete-walker-com-7548 25 2 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 25 3 learn learn VBP pete-walker-com-7548 25 4 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 25 5 respond respond VB pete-walker-com-7548 25 6 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 25 7 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 25 8 feelings feeling NNS pete-walker-com-7548 25 9 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 25 10 abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 25 11 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 25 12 anger anger NN pete-walker-com-7548 25 13 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 25 14 subsequently subsequently RB pete-walker-com-7548 25 15 use use VBP pete-walker-com-7548 25 16 contempt contempt NN pete-walker-com-7548 25 17 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 25 18 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 25 19 toxic toxic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 25 20 amalgam amalgam NN pete-walker-com-7548 25 21 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 25 22 narcissistic narcissistic NNP pete-walker-com-7548 25 23 rage rage NN pete-walker-com-7548 25 24 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 25 25 disgust disgust NN pete-walker-com-7548 25 26 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 25 27 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 25 28 intimidate intimidate VB pete-walker-com-7548 25 29 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 25 30 shame shame VB pete-walker-com-7548 25 31 others other NNS pete-walker-com-7548 25 32 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 25 33 mirroring mirror VBG pete-walker-com-7548 25 34 them -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 25 35 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 25 36 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 25 37 acting act VBG pete-walker-com-7548 25 38 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 25 39 extensions extension NNS pete-walker-com-7548 25 40 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 25 41 themselves -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 25 42 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 26 1 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 26 2 entitled entitled JJ pete-walker-com-7548 26 3 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 26 4 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 26 5 commonly commonly RB pete-walker-com-7548 26 6 uses use VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 26 7 others other NNS pete-walker-com-7548 26 8 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 26 9 an an DT pete-walker-com-7548 26 10 audience audience NN pete-walker-com-7548 26 11 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 26 12 his -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 26 13 incessant incessant NN pete-walker-com-7548 26 14 monologizing monologizing NN pete-walker-com-7548 26 15 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 26 16 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 26 17 may may MD pete-walker-com-7548 26 18 treat treat VB pete-walker-com-7548 26 19 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 26 20 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 26 21 captured capture VBN pete-walker-com-7548 26 22 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 26 23 freeze freeze NN pete-walker-com-7548 26 24 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 26 25 fawn fawn JJ pete-walker-com-7548 26 26 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 26 27 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 26 28 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 26 29 slave slave NN pete-walker-com-7548 26 30 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 26 31 prisoner prisoner NN pete-walker-com-7548 26 32 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 26 33 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 26 34 dominance dominance NN pete-walker-com-7548 26 35 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 26 36 submission submission NN pete-walker-com-7548 26 37 relationship relationship NN pete-walker-com-7548 26 38 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 27 1 Especially especially RB pete-walker-com-7548 27 2 devolved devolve VBN pete-walker-com-7548 27 3 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 27 4 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 27 5 may may MD pete-walker-com-7548 27 6 become become VB pete-walker-com-7548 27 7 sociopathic sociopathic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 27 8 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 27 9 ranging range VBG pete-walker-com-7548 27 10 along along IN pete-walker-com-7548 27 11 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 27 12 continuum continuum NN pete-walker-com-7548 27 13 that that WDT pete-walker-com-7548 27 14 stretches stretch VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 27 15 between between IN pete-walker-com-7548 27 16 corrupt corrupt JJ pete-walker-com-7548 27 17 politician politician NN pete-walker-com-7548 27 18 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 27 19 vicious vicious JJ pete-walker-com-7548 27 20 criminal criminal NN pete-walker-com-7548 27 21 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 28 1 TX TX NNP pete-walker-com-7548 28 2 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 28 3 Treatable treatable JJ pete-walker-com-7548 28 4 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 28 5 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 28 6 benefit benefit VBP pete-walker-com-7548 28 7 from from IN pete-walker-com-7548 28 8 being be VBG pete-walker-com-7548 28 9 psychoeducated psychoeducate VBN pete-walker-com-7548 28 10 about about IN pete-walker-com-7548 28 11 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 28 12 prodigious prodigious JJ pete-walker-com-7548 28 13 price price NN pete-walker-com-7548 28 14 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 28 15 pay pay VBP pete-walker-com-7548 28 16 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 28 17 controlling control VBG pete-walker-com-7548 28 18 others other NNS pete-walker-com-7548 28 19 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 28 20 intimidation intimidation NN pete-walker-com-7548 28 21 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 29 1 Less less RBR pete-walker-com-7548 29 2 injured injured JJ pete-walker-com-7548 29 3 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 29 4 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 29 5 able able JJ pete-walker-com-7548 29 6 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 29 7 see see VB pete-walker-com-7548 29 8 how how WRB pete-walker-com-7548 29 9 potential potential JJ pete-walker-com-7548 29 10 intimates intimate NNS pete-walker-com-7548 29 11 become become VBN pete-walker-com-7548 29 12 so so RB pete-walker-com-7548 29 13 afraid afraid JJ pete-walker-com-7548 29 14 and/or and/or CC pete-walker-com-7548 29 15 resentful resentful JJ pete-walker-com-7548 29 16 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 29 17 them -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 29 18 that that IN pete-walker-com-7548 29 19 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 29 20 can can MD pete-walker-com-7548 29 21 not not RB pete-walker-com-7548 29 22 manifest manifest VB pete-walker-com-7548 29 23 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 29 24 warmth warmth NN pete-walker-com-7548 29 25 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 29 26 real real JJ pete-walker-com-7548 29 27 liking like VBG pete-walker-com-7548 29 28 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 29 29 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 29 30 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 29 31 so so RB pete-walker-com-7548 29 32 desperately desperately RB pete-walker-com-7548 29 33 desires desire NNS pete-walker-com-7548 29 34 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 30 1 I -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 30 2 have have VBP pete-walker-com-7548 30 3 helped help VBN pete-walker-com-7548 30 4 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 30 5 number number NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 6 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 30 7 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 8 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 30 9 understand understand VBP pete-walker-com-7548 30 10 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 30 11 following follow VBG pete-walker-com-7548 30 12 downward downward JJ pete-walker-com-7548 30 13 spiral spiral NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 14 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 30 15 power power NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 16 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 30 17 alienation alienation NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 18 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 30 19 excessive excessive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 30 20 use use NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 21 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 30 22 power power NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 23 triggers trigger VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 30 24 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 30 25 fearful fearful JJ pete-walker-com-7548 30 26 emotional emotional JJ pete-walker-com-7548 30 27 withdrawal withdrawal NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 28 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 30 29 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 30 30 other other JJ pete-walker-com-7548 30 31 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 30 32 which which WDT pete-walker-com-7548 30 33 makes make VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 30 34 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 30 35 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 36 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 37 feel feel VBP pete-walker-com-7548 30 38 even even RB pete-walker-com-7548 30 39 more more RBR pete-walker-com-7548 30 40 abandoned abandon VBN pete-walker-com-7548 30 41 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 30 42 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 30 43 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 30 44 turn turn NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 45 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 30 46 more more RBR pete-walker-com-7548 30 47 outraged outraged JJ pete-walker-com-7548 30 48 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 30 49 contemptuous contemptuous JJ pete-walker-com-7548 30 50 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 30 51 which which WDT pete-walker-com-7548 30 52 then then RB pete-walker-com-7548 30 53 further further RB pete-walker-com-7548 30 54 distances distance VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 30 55 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 30 56 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 30 57 intimate intimate JJ pete-walker-com-7548 30 58 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 30 59 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 30 60 which which WDT pete-walker-com-7548 30 61 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 30 62 turn turn NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 63 increases increase VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 30 64 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 30 65 rage rage NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 66 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 30 67 disgust disgust NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 68 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 30 69 which which WDT pete-walker-com-7548 30 70 creates create VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 30 71 increasing increase VBG pete-walker-com-7548 30 72 distance distance NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 73 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 30 74 withholding withholding NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 75 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 30 76 warmth warmth NNP pete-walker-com-7548 30 77 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 30 78 ad ad NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 79 infinitem infinitem NN pete-walker-com-7548 30 80 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 31 1 Fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 31 2 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 31 3 need need VBP pete-walker-com-7548 31 4 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 31 5 learn learn VB pete-walker-com-7548 31 6 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 31 7 notice notice VB pete-walker-com-7548 31 8 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 31 9 renounce renounce VB pete-walker-com-7548 31 10 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 31 11 habit habit NN pete-walker-com-7548 31 12 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 31 13 instantly instantly RB pete-walker-com-7548 31 14 morphing morph VBG pete-walker-com-7548 31 15 abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 31 16 feelings feeling NNS pete-walker-com-7548 31 17 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 31 18 rage rage NN pete-walker-com-7548 31 19 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 31 20 disgust disgust NN pete-walker-com-7548 31 21 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 32 1 As as IN pete-walker-com-7548 32 2 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 32 3 become become VBP pete-walker-com-7548 32 4 more more RBR pete-walker-com-7548 32 5 conscious conscious JJ pete-walker-com-7548 32 6 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 32 7 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 32 8 abandonment abandonment JJ pete-walker-com-7548 32 9 feelings feeling NNS pete-walker-com-7548 32 10 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 32 11 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 32 12 can can MD pete-walker-com-7548 32 13 focus focus VB pete-walker-com-7548 32 14 on on IN pete-walker-com-7548 32 15 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 32 16 feel feel VB pete-walker-com-7548 32 17 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 32 18 abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 32 19 fear fear NN pete-walker-com-7548 32 20 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 32 21 shame shame NN pete-walker-com-7548 32 22 without without IN pete-walker-com-7548 32 23 transmuting transmute VBG pete-walker-com-7548 32 24 it -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 32 25 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 32 26 rage rage NN pete-walker-com-7548 32 27 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 32 28 disgust disgust NN pete-walker-com-7548 32 29 - - : pete-walker-com-7548 32 30 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 32 31 without without IN pete-walker-com-7548 32 32 letting let VBG pete-walker-com-7548 32 33 grandiose grandiose JJ pete-walker-com-7548 32 34 overcompensations overcompensation NNS pete-walker-com-7548 32 35 turn turn VBP pete-walker-com-7548 32 36 it -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 32 37 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 32 38 demandingness demandingness NN pete-walker-com-7548 32 39 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 33 1 Unlike unlike IN pete-walker-com-7548 33 2 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 33 3 other other JJ pete-walker-com-7548 33 4 4Fs 4fs CD pete-walker-com-7548 33 5 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 33 6 fight fight VB pete-walker-com-7548 33 7 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 33 8 assess assess VBP pete-walker-com-7548 33 9 themselves -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 33 10 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 33 11 perfect perfect JJ pete-walker-com-7548 33 12 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 33 13 project project VB pete-walker-com-7548 33 14 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 33 15 inner inner JJ pete-walker-com-7548 33 16 critic critic NN pete-walker-com-7548 33 17 's 's POS pete-walker-com-7548 33 18 perfectionistic perfectionistic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 33 19 processes process NNS pete-walker-com-7548 33 20 onto onto IN pete-walker-com-7548 33 21 others other NNS pete-walker-com-7548 33 22 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 33 23 guaranteeing guarantee VBG pete-walker-com-7548 33 24 themselves -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 33 25 an an DT pete-walker-com-7548 33 26 endless endless JJ pete-walker-com-7548 33 27 supply supply NN pete-walker-com-7548 33 28 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 33 29 justifications justification NNS pete-walker-com-7548 33 30 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 33 31 rage rage VB pete-walker-com-7548 33 32 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 34 1 Fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 34 2 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 34 3 need need VBP pete-walker-com-7548 34 4 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 34 5 see see VB pete-walker-com-7548 34 6 how how WRB pete-walker-com-7548 34 7 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 34 8 condescending condescending NN pete-walker-com-7548 34 9 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 34 10 moral moral JJ pete-walker-com-7548 34 11 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 34 12 high high JJ pete-walker-com-7548 34 13 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 34 14 ground ground NN pete-walker-com-7548 34 15 position position NN pete-walker-com-7548 34 16 alienates alienate VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 34 17 others other NNS pete-walker-com-7548 34 18 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 34 19 perpetuates perpetuate VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 34 20 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 34 21 present present JJ pete-walker-com-7548 34 22 time time NN pete-walker-com-7548 34 23 abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 34 24 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 35 1 Learning learn VBG pete-walker-com-7548 35 2 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 35 3 take take VB pete-walker-com-7548 35 4 self self NN pete-walker-com-7548 35 5 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 35 6 initiated initiate VBN pete-walker-com-7548 35 7 timeouts timeout NNS pete-walker-com-7548 35 8 at at IN pete-walker-com-7548 35 9 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 35 10 first first JJ pete-walker-com-7548 35 11 sign sign NN pete-walker-com-7548 35 12 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 35 13 triggering trigger VBG pete-walker-com-7548 35 14 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 35 15 an an DT pete-walker-com-7548 35 16 invaluable invaluable JJ pete-walker-com-7548 35 17 tool tool NN pete-walker-com-7548 35 18 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 35 19 them -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 35 20 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 35 21 acquire acquire VB pete-walker-com-7548 35 22 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 36 1 Timeouts timeout NNS pete-walker-com-7548 36 2 can can MD pete-walker-com-7548 36 3 be be VB pete-walker-com-7548 36 4 used use VBN pete-walker-com-7548 36 5 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 36 6 accurately accurately RB pete-walker-com-7548 36 7 redirect redirect VB pete-walker-com-7548 36 8 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 36 9 lion lion NN pete-walker-com-7548 36 10 's 's POS pete-walker-com-7548 36 11 share share NN pete-walker-com-7548 36 12 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 36 13 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 36 14 hurt hurt JJ pete-walker-com-7548 36 15 feelings feeling NNS pete-walker-com-7548 36 16 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 36 17 grieving grieving NN pete-walker-com-7548 36 18 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 36 19 working work VBG pete-walker-com-7548 36 20 through through IN pete-walker-com-7548 36 21 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 36 22 original original JJ pete-walker-com-7548 36 23 abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 36 24 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 36 25 rather rather RB pete-walker-com-7548 36 26 than than IN pete-walker-com-7548 36 27 displacing displace VBG pete-walker-com-7548 36 28 it -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 36 29 destructively destructively RB pete-walker-com-7548 36 30 onto onto IN pete-walker-com-7548 36 31 current current JJ pete-walker-com-7548 36 32 intimates intimate NNS pete-walker-com-7548 36 33 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 37 1 Furthermore furthermore RB pete-walker-com-7548 37 2 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 37 3 like like IN pete-walker-com-7548 37 4 all all DT pete-walker-com-7548 37 5 4F 4F NNP pete-walker-com-7548 37 6 fixations fixation NNS pete-walker-com-7548 37 7 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 37 8 fight fight VB pete-walker-com-7548 37 9 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 37 10 need need VBP pete-walker-com-7548 37 11 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 37 12 become become VB pete-walker-com-7548 37 13 more more RBR pete-walker-com-7548 37 14 flexible flexible JJ pete-walker-com-7548 37 15 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 37 16 adaptable adaptable JJ pete-walker-com-7548 37 17 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 37 18 using use VBG pete-walker-com-7548 37 19 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 37 20 other other JJ pete-walker-com-7548 37 21 4F 4f NN pete-walker-com-7548 37 22 responses response NNS pete-walker-com-7548 37 23 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 37 24 perceived perceive VBN pete-walker-com-7548 37 25 danger danger NN pete-walker-com-7548 37 26 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 37 27 especially especially RB pete-walker-com-7548 37 28 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 37 29 polar polar JJ pete-walker-com-7548 37 30 opposite opposite JJ pete-walker-com-7548 37 31 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 37 32 complementary complementary JJ pete-walker-com-7548 37 33 fawn fawn NN pete-walker-com-7548 37 34 response response NN pete-walker-com-7548 37 35 described describe VBN pete-walker-com-7548 37 36 below below RB pete-walker-com-7548 37 37 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 38 1 They -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 38 2 can can MD pete-walker-com-7548 38 3 learn learn VB pete-walker-com-7548 38 4 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 38 5 empathy empathy JJ pete-walker-com-7548 38 6 response response NN pete-walker-com-7548 38 7 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 38 8 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 38 9 fawn fawn JJ pete-walker-com-7548 38 10 position position NN pete-walker-com-7548 38 11 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 38 12 imagining imagine VBG pete-walker-com-7548 38 13 how how WRB pete-walker-com-7548 38 14 it -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 38 15 feels feel VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 38 16 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 38 17 be be VB pete-walker-com-7548 38 18 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 38 19 other other JJ pete-walker-com-7548 38 20 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 38 21 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 38 22 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 38 23 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 38 24 beginning beginning NN pete-walker-com-7548 38 25 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 38 26 fake fake JJ pete-walker-com-7548 38 27 it -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 38 28 until until IN pete-walker-com-7548 38 29 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 38 30 make make VBP pete-walker-com-7548 38 31 it -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 38 32 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 38 33 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 39 1 Without without IN pete-walker-com-7548 39 2 real real JJ pete-walker-com-7548 39 3 consideration consideration NN pete-walker-com-7548 39 4 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 39 5 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 39 6 other other JJ pete-walker-com-7548 39 7 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 39 8 without without IN pete-walker-com-7548 39 9 reciprocity reciprocity NN pete-walker-com-7548 39 10 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 39 11 dialogicality dialogicality NN pete-walker-com-7548 39 12 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 39 13 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 39 14 real real JJ pete-walker-com-7548 39 15 intimacy intimacy NN pete-walker-com-7548 39 16 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 39 17 crave crave VBP pete-walker-com-7548 39 18 will will MD pete-walker-com-7548 39 19 remain remain VB pete-walker-com-7548 39 20 unavailable unavailable JJ pete-walker-com-7548 39 21 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 39 22 them -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 39 23 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 40 1 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 40 2 Flight Flight NNP pete-walker-com-7548 40 3 Type Type NNP pete-walker-com-7548 40 4 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 40 5 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 40 6 Obsessive Obsessive NNP pete-walker-com-7548 40 7 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 40 8 Compulsive Compulsive NNP pete-walker-com-7548 40 9 Defense Defense NNP pete-walker-com-7548 40 10 Flight Flight NNP pete-walker-com-7548 40 11 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 40 12 appear appear VBP pete-walker-com-7548 40 13 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 40 14 if if IN pete-walker-com-7548 40 15 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 40 16 starter starter JJ pete-walker-com-7548 40 17 button button NN pete-walker-com-7548 40 18 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 40 19 stuck stick VBN pete-walker-com-7548 40 20 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 40 21 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 40 22 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 40 23 on on IN pete-walker-com-7548 40 24 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 40 25 position position NN pete-walker-com-7548 40 26 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 41 1 They -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 41 2 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 41 3 obsessively obsessively RB pete-walker-com-7548 41 4 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 41 5 compulsively compulsively RB pete-walker-com-7548 41 6 driven drive VBN pete-walker-com-7548 41 7 by by IN pete-walker-com-7548 41 8 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 41 9 unconscious unconscious JJ pete-walker-com-7548 41 10 belief belief NN pete-walker-com-7548 41 11 that that IN pete-walker-com-7548 41 12 perfection perfection NN pete-walker-com-7548 41 13 will will MD pete-walker-com-7548 41 14 make make VB pete-walker-com-7548 41 15 them -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 41 16 safe safe JJ pete-walker-com-7548 41 17 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 41 18 loveable loveable JJ pete-walker-com-7548 41 19 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 42 1 As as IN pete-walker-com-7548 42 2 children child NNS pete-walker-com-7548 42 3 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 42 4 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 42 5 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 42 6 respond respond VBP pete-walker-com-7548 42 7 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 42 8 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 42 9 family family NN pete-walker-com-7548 42 10 trauma trauma NN pete-walker-com-7548 42 11 somewhere somewhere RB pete-walker-com-7548 42 12 along along IN pete-walker-com-7548 42 13 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 42 14 hyperactive hyperactive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 42 15 continuum continuum NN pete-walker-com-7548 42 16 that that WDT pete-walker-com-7548 42 17 stretches stretch VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 42 18 between between IN pete-walker-com-7548 42 19 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 42 20 extremes extreme NNS pete-walker-com-7548 42 21 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 42 22 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 42 23 driven drive VBN pete-walker-com-7548 42 24 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 42 25 A A NNP pete-walker-com-7548 42 26 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 42 27 student student NN pete-walker-com-7548 42 28 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 42 29 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 42 30 ADHD ADHD NNP pete-walker-com-7548 42 31 dropout dropout NN pete-walker-com-7548 42 32 running run VBG pete-walker-com-7548 42 33 amok amok NN pete-walker-com-7548 42 34 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 43 1 They -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 43 2 relentlessly relentlessly RB pete-walker-com-7548 43 3 flee flee VBP pete-walker-com-7548 43 4 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 43 5 inner inner JJ pete-walker-com-7548 43 6 pain pain NN pete-walker-com-7548 43 7 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 43 8 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 43 9 abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 43 10 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 43 11 lack lack NN pete-walker-com-7548 43 12 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 43 13 attachment attachment NN pete-walker-com-7548 43 14 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 43 15 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 43 16 symbolic symbolic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 43 17 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 43 18 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 43 19 constant constant JJ pete-walker-com-7548 43 20 busyness busyness NN pete-walker-com-7548 43 21 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 44 1 When when WRB pete-walker-com-7548 44 2 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 44 3 obsessive obsessive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 44 4 / / SYM pete-walker-com-7548 44 5 compulsive compulsive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 44 6 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 44 7 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 44 8 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 44 9 not not RB pete-walker-com-7548 44 10 doing do VBG pete-walker-com-7548 44 11 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 44 12 she -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 44 13 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 44 14 worrying worry VBG pete-walker-com-7548 44 15 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 44 16 planning plan VBG pete-walker-com-7548 44 17 about about IN pete-walker-com-7548 44 18 doing do VBG pete-walker-com-7548 44 19 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 45 1 Flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 45 2 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 45 3 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 45 4 prone prone JJ pete-walker-com-7548 45 5 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 45 6 becoming become VBG pete-walker-com-7548 45 7 addicted addicted JJ pete-walker-com-7548 45 8 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 45 9 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 45 10 own own JJ pete-walker-com-7548 45 11 adrenalization adrenalization NN pete-walker-com-7548 45 12 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 45 13 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 45 14 many many JJ pete-walker-com-7548 45 15 recklessly recklessly RB pete-walker-com-7548 45 16 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 45 17 regularly regularly RB pete-walker-com-7548 45 18 pursue pursue VB pete-walker-com-7548 45 19 risky risky JJ pete-walker-com-7548 45 20 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 45 21 dangerous dangerous JJ pete-walker-com-7548 45 22 activities activity NNS pete-walker-com-7548 45 23 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 45 24 keep keep VB pete-walker-com-7548 45 25 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 45 26 adrenalin adrenalin NN pete-walker-com-7548 45 27 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 45 28 high high JJ pete-walker-com-7548 45 29 going going NN pete-walker-com-7548 45 30 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 46 1 These these DT pete-walker-com-7548 46 2 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 46 3 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 46 4 also also RB pete-walker-com-7548 46 5 as as RB pete-walker-com-7548 46 6 susceptible susceptible JJ pete-walker-com-7548 46 7 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 46 8 stimulating stimulate VBG pete-walker-com-7548 46 9 substance substance NN pete-walker-com-7548 46 10 addictions addiction NNS pete-walker-com-7548 46 11 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 46 12 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 46 13 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 46 14 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 46 15 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 46 16 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 46 17 favorite favorite JJ pete-walker-com-7548 46 18 process process NN pete-walker-com-7548 46 19 addictions addiction NNS pete-walker-com-7548 46 20 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 46 21 workaholism workaholism NN pete-walker-com-7548 46 22 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 46 23 busyholism busyholism NN pete-walker-com-7548 46 24 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 47 1 Severely severely RB pete-walker-com-7548 47 2 traumatized traumatize VBN pete-walker-com-7548 47 3 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 47 4 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 47 5 may may MD pete-walker-com-7548 47 6 devolve devolve VB pete-walker-com-7548 47 7 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 47 8 severe severe JJ pete-walker-com-7548 47 9 anxiety anxiety NN pete-walker-com-7548 47 10 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 47 11 panic panic NN pete-walker-com-7548 47 12 disorders disorder NNS pete-walker-com-7548 47 13 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 48 1 TX TX NNP pete-walker-com-7548 48 2 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 48 3 Many many JJ pete-walker-com-7548 48 4 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 48 5 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 48 6 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 48 7 so so RB pete-walker-com-7548 48 8 busy busy JJ pete-walker-com-7548 48 9 trying try VBG pete-walker-com-7548 48 10 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 48 11 stay stay VB pete-walker-com-7548 48 12 one one CD pete-walker-com-7548 48 13 step step NN pete-walker-com-7548 48 14 ahead ahead RB pete-walker-com-7548 48 15 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 48 16 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 48 17 pain pain NN pete-walker-com-7548 48 18 that that IN pete-walker-com-7548 48 19 introspecting introspect VBG pete-walker-com-7548 48 20 out out RP pete-walker-com-7548 48 21 loud loud RB pete-walker-com-7548 48 22 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 48 23 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 48 24 therapy therapy NN pete-walker-com-7548 48 25 hour hour NN pete-walker-com-7548 48 26 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 48 27 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 48 28 only only JJ pete-walker-com-7548 48 29 time time NN pete-walker-com-7548 48 30 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 48 31 find find VBP pete-walker-com-7548 48 32 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 48 33 take take VB pete-walker-com-7548 48 34 themselves -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 48 35 seriously seriously RB pete-walker-com-7548 48 36 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 49 1 While while IN pete-walker-com-7548 49 2 psychoeducation psychoeducation NN pete-walker-com-7548 49 3 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 49 4 important important JJ pete-walker-com-7548 49 5 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 49 6 essential essential JJ pete-walker-com-7548 49 7 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 49 8 all all PDT pete-walker-com-7548 49 9 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 49 10 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 49 11 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 49 12 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 49 13 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 49 14 particularly particularly RB pete-walker-com-7548 49 15 benefit benefit VBP pete-walker-com-7548 49 16 from from IN pete-walker-com-7548 49 17 it -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 49 18 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 50 1 Nowhere nowhere RB pete-walker-com-7548 50 2 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 50 3 this this DT pete-walker-com-7548 50 4 truer truer NN pete-walker-com-7548 50 5 than than IN pete-walker-com-7548 50 6 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 50 7 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 50 8 work work NN pete-walker-com-7548 50 9 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 50 10 learning learn VBG pete-walker-com-7548 50 11 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 50 12 deconstruct deconstruct VB pete-walker-com-7548 50 13 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 50 14 overidentification overidentification NN pete-walker-com-7548 50 15 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 50 16 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 50 17 perfectionistic perfectionistic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 50 18 demands demand NNS pete-walker-com-7548 50 19 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 50 20 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 50 21 inner inner JJ pete-walker-com-7548 50 22 critic critic NN pete-walker-com-7548 50 23 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 51 1 Gently gently RB pete-walker-com-7548 51 2 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 51 3 repetitively repetitively RB pete-walker-com-7548 51 4 confronting confront VBG pete-walker-com-7548 51 5 denial denial NN pete-walker-com-7548 51 6 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 51 7 minimization minimization NN pete-walker-com-7548 51 8 about about IN pete-walker-com-7548 51 9 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 51 10 costs cost NNS pete-walker-com-7548 51 11 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 51 12 perfectionism perfectionism NN pete-walker-com-7548 51 13 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 51 14 essential essential JJ pete-walker-com-7548 51 15 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 51 16 especially especially RB pete-walker-com-7548 51 17 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 51 18 workaholics workaholic NNS pete-walker-com-7548 51 19 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 51 20 often often RB pete-walker-com-7548 51 21 admit admit VBP pete-walker-com-7548 51 22 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 51 23 addiction addiction NN pete-walker-com-7548 51 24 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 51 25 work work VB pete-walker-com-7548 51 26 but but CC pete-walker-com-7548 51 27 secretly secretly RB pete-walker-com-7548 51 28 hold hold VB pete-walker-com-7548 51 29 onto onto IN pete-walker-com-7548 51 30 it -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 51 31 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 51 32 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 51 33 badge badge NN pete-walker-com-7548 51 34 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 51 35 pride pride NN pete-walker-com-7548 51 36 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 51 37 superiority superiority NN pete-walker-com-7548 51 38 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 52 1 Deeper deep JJR pete-walker-com-7548 52 2 work work VBP pete-walker-com-7548 52 3 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 52 4 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 52 5 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 52 6 - - : pete-walker-com-7548 52 7 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 52 8 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 52 9 all all DT pete-walker-com-7548 52 10 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 52 11 -gradually -gradually RB pete-walker-com-7548 52 12 opens open VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 52 13 them -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 52 14 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 52 15 grieving grieve VBG pete-walker-com-7548 52 16 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 52 17 original original JJ pete-walker-com-7548 52 18 abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 52 19 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 52 20 all all DT pete-walker-com-7548 52 21 its -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 52 22 concomitant concomitant JJ pete-walker-com-7548 52 23 losses loss NNS pete-walker-com-7548 52 24 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 53 1 Egosyntonic egosyntonic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 53 2 crying crying NN pete-walker-com-7548 53 3 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 53 4 an an DT pete-walker-com-7548 53 5 unparalleled unparalleled JJ pete-walker-com-7548 53 6 tool tool NN pete-walker-com-7548 53 7 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 53 8 shrinking shrink VBG pete-walker-com-7548 53 9 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 53 10 obsessive obsessive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 53 11 perseverations perseveration NNS pete-walker-com-7548 53 12 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 53 13 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 53 14 critic critic NN pete-walker-com-7548 53 15 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 53 16 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 53 17 ameliorating ameliorate VBG pete-walker-com-7548 53 18 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 53 19 habit habit NN pete-walker-com-7548 53 20 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 53 21 compulsive compulsive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 53 22 rushing rushing NN pete-walker-com-7548 53 23 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 54 1 As as IN pete-walker-com-7548 54 2 recovery recovery NN pete-walker-com-7548 54 3 progresses progress NNS pete-walker-com-7548 54 4 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 54 5 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 54 6 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 54 7 can can MD pete-walker-com-7548 54 8 acquire acquire VB pete-walker-com-7548 54 9 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 54 10 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 54 11 gearbox gearbox NN pete-walker-com-7548 54 12 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 54 13 that that WDT pete-walker-com-7548 54 14 allows allow VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 54 15 them -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 54 16 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 54 17 engage engage VB pete-walker-com-7548 54 18 life life NN pete-walker-com-7548 54 19 at at IN pete-walker-com-7548 54 20 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 54 21 variety variety NN pete-walker-com-7548 54 22 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 54 23 speeds speed NNS pete-walker-com-7548 54 24 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 54 25 including include VBG pete-walker-com-7548 54 26 neutral neutral JJ pete-walker-com-7548 54 27 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 55 1 Flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 55 2 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 55 3 also also RB pete-walker-com-7548 55 4 benefit benefit VBP pete-walker-com-7548 55 5 from from IN pete-walker-com-7548 55 6 using use VBG pete-walker-com-7548 55 7 mini mini JJ pete-walker-com-7548 55 8 - - JJ pete-walker-com-7548 55 9 minute minute JJ pete-walker-com-7548 55 10 meditations meditation NNS pete-walker-com-7548 55 11 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 55 12 help help VB pete-walker-com-7548 55 13 them -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 55 14 identify identify VB pete-walker-com-7548 55 15 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 55 16 deconstruct deconstruct VB pete-walker-com-7548 55 17 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 55 18 habitual habitual JJ pete-walker-com-7548 55 19 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 55 20 running running NN pete-walker-com-7548 55 21 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 55 22 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 56 1 I -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 56 2 teach teach VBP pete-walker-com-7548 56 3 such such JJ pete-walker-com-7548 56 4 clients client NNS pete-walker-com-7548 56 5 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 56 6 sit sit VB pete-walker-com-7548 56 7 comfortably comfortably RB pete-walker-com-7548 56 8 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 56 9 systemically systemically RB pete-walker-com-7548 56 10 relax relax VBP pete-walker-com-7548 56 11 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 56 12 breathe breathe DT pete-walker-com-7548 56 13 deeply deeply RB pete-walker-com-7548 56 14 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 56 15 diaphragmatically diaphragmatically RB pete-walker-com-7548 56 16 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 56 17 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 56 18 ask ask VB pete-walker-com-7548 56 19 themselves -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 56 20 questions question NNS pete-walker-com-7548 56 21 such such JJ pete-walker-com-7548 56 22 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 56 23 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 56 24 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 56 25 What what WP pete-walker-com-7548 56 26 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 56 27 my -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 56 28 most most RBS pete-walker-com-7548 56 29 important important JJ pete-walker-com-7548 56 30 priority priority NN pete-walker-com-7548 56 31 right right RB pete-walker-com-7548 56 32 now now RB pete-walker-com-7548 56 33 ? ? . pete-walker-com-7548 57 1 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 57 2 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 57 3 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 57 4 when when WRB pete-walker-com-7548 57 5 more more JJR pete-walker-com-7548 57 6 time time NN pete-walker-com-7548 57 7 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 57 8 available available JJ pete-walker-com-7548 57 9 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 57 10 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 57 11 What what WP pete-walker-com-7548 57 12 hurt hurt VBD pete-walker-com-7548 57 13 am be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 57 14 I -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 57 15 running run VBG pete-walker-com-7548 57 16 from from IN pete-walker-com-7548 57 17 right right RB pete-walker-com-7548 57 18 now now RB pete-walker-com-7548 57 19 ? ? . pete-walker-com-7548 58 1 Can Can MD pete-walker-com-7548 58 2 I -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 58 3 open open VB pete-walker-com-7548 58 4 my -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 58 5 heart heart NN pete-walker-com-7548 58 6 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 58 7 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 58 8 idea idea NN pete-walker-com-7548 58 9 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 58 10 image image NN pete-walker-com-7548 58 11 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 58 12 soothing soothe VBG pete-walker-com-7548 58 13 myself -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 58 14 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 58 15 my -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 58 16 pain pain NN pete-walker-com-7548 58 17 ? ? . pete-walker-com-7548 58 18 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 59 1 Finally finally RB pete-walker-com-7548 59 2 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 59 3 there there EX pete-walker-com-7548 59 4 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 59 5 numerous numerous JJ pete-walker-com-7548 59 6 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 59 7 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 59 8 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 59 9 exhibit exhibit VBP pete-walker-com-7548 59 10 symptoms symptom NNS pete-walker-com-7548 59 11 that that WDT pete-walker-com-7548 59 12 may may MD pete-walker-com-7548 59 13 be be VB pete-walker-com-7548 59 14 misperceived misperceive VBN pete-walker-com-7548 59 15 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 59 16 cyclothymic cyclothymic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 59 17 bipolar bipolar JJ pete-walker-com-7548 59 18 disorder disorder NN pete-walker-com-7548 59 19 ; ; : pete-walker-com-7548 59 20 I -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 59 21 address address VBP pete-walker-com-7548 59 22 this this DT pete-walker-com-7548 59 23 issue issue NN pete-walker-com-7548 59 24 at at IN pete-walker-com-7548 59 25 length length NN pete-walker-com-7548 59 26 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 59 27 my -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 59 28 article article NN pete-walker-com-7548 59 29 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 59 30 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 59 31 Managing manage VBG pete-walker-com-7548 59 32 Abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 59 33 Depression depression NN pete-walker-com-7548 59 34 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 59 35 Complex complex JJ pete-walker-com-7548 59 36 PTSD PTSD NNP pete-walker-com-7548 59 37 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 59 38 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 60 1 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 60 2 Freeze Freeze NNP pete-walker-com-7548 60 3 Type Type NNP pete-walker-com-7548 60 4 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 60 5 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 60 6 Dissociative Dissociative NNP pete-walker-com-7548 60 7 Defense Defense NNP pete-walker-com-7548 60 8 Many many JJ pete-walker-com-7548 60 9 freeze freeze NN pete-walker-com-7548 60 10 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 60 11 unconsciously unconsciously RB pete-walker-com-7548 60 12 believe believe VBP pete-walker-com-7548 60 13 that that IN pete-walker-com-7548 60 14 people people NNS pete-walker-com-7548 60 15 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 60 16 danger danger NN pete-walker-com-7548 60 17 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 60 18 synonymous synonymous JJ pete-walker-com-7548 60 19 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 60 20 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 60 21 that that IN pete-walker-com-7548 60 22 safety safety NN pete-walker-com-7548 60 23 lies lie VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 60 24 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 60 25 solitude solitude NNP pete-walker-com-7548 60 26 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 61 1 Outside outside NN pete-walker-com-7548 61 2 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 61 3 fantasy fantasy NN pete-walker-com-7548 61 4 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 61 5 many many JJ pete-walker-com-7548 61 6 give give VBP pete-walker-com-7548 61 7 up up RP pete-walker-com-7548 61 8 entirely entirely RB pete-walker-com-7548 61 9 on on IN pete-walker-com-7548 61 10 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 61 11 possibility possibility NN pete-walker-com-7548 61 12 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 61 13 love love NN pete-walker-com-7548 61 14 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 62 1 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 62 2 freeze freeze JJ pete-walker-com-7548 62 3 response response NN pete-walker-com-7548 62 4 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 62 5 also also RB pete-walker-com-7548 62 6 known know VBN pete-walker-com-7548 62 7 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 62 8 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 62 9 camouflage camouflage NN pete-walker-com-7548 62 10 response response NN pete-walker-com-7548 62 11 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 62 12 often often RB pete-walker-com-7548 62 13 triggers trigger VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 62 14 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 62 15 individual individual NN pete-walker-com-7548 62 16 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 62 17 hiding hiding NN pete-walker-com-7548 62 18 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 62 19 isolating isolate VBG pete-walker-com-7548 62 20 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 62 21 eschewing eschew VBG pete-walker-com-7548 62 22 human human JJ pete-walker-com-7548 62 23 contact contact NN pete-walker-com-7548 62 24 as as RB pete-walker-com-7548 62 25 much much RB pete-walker-com-7548 62 26 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 62 27 possible possible JJ pete-walker-com-7548 62 28 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 63 1 This this DT pete-walker-com-7548 63 2 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 63 3 can can MD pete-walker-com-7548 63 4 be be VB pete-walker-com-7548 63 5 so so RB pete-walker-com-7548 63 6 frozen frozen JJ pete-walker-com-7548 63 7 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 63 8 retreat retreat NN pete-walker-com-7548 63 9 mode mode NN pete-walker-com-7548 63 10 that that IN pete-walker-com-7548 63 11 it -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 63 12 seems seem VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 63 13 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 63 14 if if IN pete-walker-com-7548 63 15 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 63 16 starter starter JJ pete-walker-com-7548 63 17 button button NN pete-walker-com-7548 63 18 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 63 19 stuck stick VBN pete-walker-com-7548 63 20 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 63 21 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 63 22 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 63 23 off off JJ pete-walker-com-7548 63 24 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 63 25 position position NN pete-walker-com-7548 63 26 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 64 1 It -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 64 2 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 64 3 usually usually RB pete-walker-com-7548 64 4 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 64 5 most most RBS pete-walker-com-7548 64 6 profoundly profoundly RB pete-walker-com-7548 64 7 abandoned abandon VBN pete-walker-com-7548 64 8 child child NN pete-walker-com-7548 64 9 - - : pete-walker-com-7548 64 10 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 64 11 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 64 12 lost lost JJ pete-walker-com-7548 64 13 child child NN pete-walker-com-7548 64 14 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 64 15 - - , pete-walker-com-7548 64 16 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 64 17 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 64 18 forced force VBN pete-walker-com-7548 64 19 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 64 20 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 64 21 choose choose VB pete-walker-com-7548 64 22 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 64 23 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 64 24 habituate habituate VB pete-walker-com-7548 64 25 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 64 26 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 64 27 freeze freeze NN pete-walker-com-7548 64 28 response response NN pete-walker-com-7548 64 29 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 64 30 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 64 31 most most RBS pete-walker-com-7548 64 32 primitive primitive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 64 33 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 64 34 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 64 35 4Fs 4fs CD pete-walker-com-7548 64 36 ) ) -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 64 37 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 65 1 Unable unable JJ pete-walker-com-7548 65 2 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 65 3 successfully successfully RB pete-walker-com-7548 65 4 employ employ VB pete-walker-com-7548 65 5 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 65 6 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 65 7 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 65 8 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 65 9 fawn fawn NN pete-walker-com-7548 65 10 responses response NNS pete-walker-com-7548 65 11 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 65 12 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 65 13 freeze freeze NN pete-walker-com-7548 65 14 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 65 15 's 's POS pete-walker-com-7548 65 16 defenses defense NNS pete-walker-com-7548 65 17 develop develop VBP pete-walker-com-7548 65 18 around around IN pete-walker-com-7548 65 19 classical classical JJ pete-walker-com-7548 65 20 dissociation dissociation NN pete-walker-com-7548 65 21 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 65 22 which which WDT pete-walker-com-7548 65 23 allows allow VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 65 24 him -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 65 25 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 65 26 disconnect disconnect VB pete-walker-com-7548 65 27 from from IN pete-walker-com-7548 65 28 experiencing experience VBG pete-walker-com-7548 65 29 his -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 65 30 abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 65 31 pain pain NN pete-walker-com-7548 65 32 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 65 33 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 65 34 protects protect VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 65 35 him -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 65 36 from from IN pete-walker-com-7548 65 37 risky risky JJ pete-walker-com-7548 65 38 social social JJ pete-walker-com-7548 65 39 interactions interaction NNS pete-walker-com-7548 65 40 - - : pete-walker-com-7548 65 41 any any DT pete-walker-com-7548 65 42 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 65 43 which which WDT pete-walker-com-7548 65 44 might may MD pete-walker-com-7548 65 45 trigger trigger VB pete-walker-com-7548 65 46 feelings feeling NNS pete-walker-com-7548 65 47 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 65 48 being be VBG pete-walker-com-7548 65 49 reabandoned reabandone VBN pete-walker-com-7548 65 50 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 66 1 Freeze freeze VB pete-walker-com-7548 66 2 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 66 3 often often RB pete-walker-com-7548 66 4 present present VBP pete-walker-com-7548 66 5 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 66 6 ADD add NN pete-walker-com-7548 66 7 ; ; : pete-walker-com-7548 66 8 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 66 9 seek seek VBP pete-walker-com-7548 66 10 refuge refuge NN pete-walker-com-7548 66 11 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 66 12 comfort comfort NN pete-walker-com-7548 66 13 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 66 14 prolonged prolonged JJ pete-walker-com-7548 66 15 bouts bout NNS pete-walker-com-7548 66 16 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 66 17 sleep sleep NN pete-walker-com-7548 66 18 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 66 19 daydreaming daydream VBG pete-walker-com-7548 66 20 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 66 21 wishing wishing NN pete-walker-com-7548 66 22 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 66 23 right right JJ pete-walker-com-7548 66 24 brain brain NN pete-walker-com-7548 66 25 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 66 26 dominant dominant JJ pete-walker-com-7548 66 27 activities activity NNS pete-walker-com-7548 66 28 like like IN pete-walker-com-7548 66 29 TV tv NN pete-walker-com-7548 66 30 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 66 31 computer computer NN pete-walker-com-7548 66 32 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 66 33 video video NN pete-walker-com-7548 66 34 games game NNS pete-walker-com-7548 66 35 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 67 1 They -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 67 2 master master VBP pete-walker-com-7548 67 3 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 67 4 art art NN pete-walker-com-7548 67 5 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 67 6 changing change VBG pete-walker-com-7548 67 7 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 67 8 internal internal JJ pete-walker-com-7548 67 9 channel channel NN pete-walker-com-7548 67 10 whenever whenever WRB pete-walker-com-7548 67 11 inner inner JJ pete-walker-com-7548 67 12 experience experience NN pete-walker-com-7548 67 13 becomes become VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 67 14 uncomfortable uncomfortable JJ pete-walker-com-7548 67 15 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 68 1 When when WRB pete-walker-com-7548 68 2 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 68 3 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 68 4 especially especially RB pete-walker-com-7548 68 5 traumatized traumatize VBN pete-walker-com-7548 68 6 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 68 7 triggered trigger VBN pete-walker-com-7548 68 8 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 68 9 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 68 10 may may MD pete-walker-com-7548 68 11 exhibit exhibit VB pete-walker-com-7548 68 12 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 68 13 schizoid schizoid JJ pete-walker-com-7548 68 14 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 68 15 like like JJ pete-walker-com-7548 68 16 detachment detachment NN pete-walker-com-7548 68 17 from from IN pete-walker-com-7548 68 18 ordinary ordinary JJ pete-walker-com-7548 68 19 reality reality NN pete-walker-com-7548 68 20 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 69 1 TX TX NNP pete-walker-com-7548 69 2 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 69 3 There there EX pete-walker-com-7548 69 4 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 69 5 at at RB pete-walker-com-7548 69 6 least least RBS pete-walker-com-7548 69 7 three three CD pete-walker-com-7548 69 8 reasons reason NNS pete-walker-com-7548 69 9 why why WRB pete-walker-com-7548 69 10 freeze freeze NN pete-walker-com-7548 69 11 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 69 12 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 69 13 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 69 14 most most RBS pete-walker-com-7548 69 15 difficult difficult JJ pete-walker-com-7548 69 16 4F 4f NN pete-walker-com-7548 69 17 defense defense NN pete-walker-com-7548 69 18 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 69 19 treat treat VB pete-walker-com-7548 69 20 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 70 1 First first RB pete-walker-com-7548 70 2 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 70 3 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 70 4 positive positive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 70 5 relational relational JJ pete-walker-com-7548 70 6 experiences experience NNS pete-walker-com-7548 70 7 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 70 8 few few JJ pete-walker-com-7548 70 9 if if IN pete-walker-com-7548 70 10 any any DT pete-walker-com-7548 70 11 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 70 12 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 70 13 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 70 14 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 70 15 therefore therefore RB pete-walker-com-7548 70 16 extremely extremely RB pete-walker-com-7548 70 17 reluctant reluctant JJ pete-walker-com-7548 70 18 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 70 19 enter enter VB pete-walker-com-7548 70 20 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 70 21 relationship relationship NN pete-walker-com-7548 70 22 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 70 23 therapy therapy NN pete-walker-com-7548 70 24 ; ; : pete-walker-com-7548 70 25 moreover moreover RB pete-walker-com-7548 70 26 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 70 27 those those DT pete-walker-com-7548 70 28 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 70 29 manage manage VBP pete-walker-com-7548 70 30 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 70 31 overcome overcome VB pete-walker-com-7548 70 32 this this DT pete-walker-com-7548 70 33 reluctance reluctance NN pete-walker-com-7548 70 34 often often RB pete-walker-com-7548 70 35 spook spook VBD pete-walker-com-7548 70 36 easily easily RB pete-walker-com-7548 70 37 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 70 38 quickly quickly RB pete-walker-com-7548 70 39 terminate terminate VB pete-walker-com-7548 70 40 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 71 1 Second second JJ pete-walker-com-7548 71 2 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 71 3 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 71 4 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 71 5 harder hard JJR pete-walker-com-7548 71 6 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 71 7 psychoeducate psychoeducate VB pete-walker-com-7548 71 8 about about IN pete-walker-com-7548 71 9 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 71 10 trauma trauma NN pete-walker-com-7548 71 11 basis basis NN pete-walker-com-7548 71 12 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 71 13 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 71 14 complaints complaint NNS pete-walker-com-7548 71 15 because because IN pete-walker-com-7548 71 16 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 71 17 like like IN pete-walker-com-7548 71 18 many many JJ pete-walker-com-7548 71 19 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 71 20 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 71 21 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 71 22 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 71 23 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 71 24 unconscious unconscious JJ pete-walker-com-7548 71 25 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 71 26 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 71 27 fear fear NN pete-walker-com-7548 71 28 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 71 29 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 71 30 torturous torturous JJ pete-walker-com-7548 71 31 inner inner JJ pete-walker-com-7548 71 32 critic critic NN pete-walker-com-7548 71 33 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 72 1 Also also RB pete-walker-com-7548 72 2 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 72 3 like like IN pete-walker-com-7548 72 4 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 72 5 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 72 6 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 72 7 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 72 8 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 72 9 freeze freeze NN pete-walker-com-7548 72 10 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 72 11 tends tend VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 72 12 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 72 13 project project VB pete-walker-com-7548 72 14 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 72 15 perfectionistic perfectionistic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 72 16 demands demand NNS pete-walker-com-7548 72 17 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 72 18 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 72 19 critic critic NN pete-walker-com-7548 72 20 onto onto IN pete-walker-com-7548 72 21 others other NNS pete-walker-com-7548 72 22 rather rather RB pete-walker-com-7548 72 23 than than IN pete-walker-com-7548 72 24 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 72 25 self self NN pete-walker-com-7548 72 26 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 72 27 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 72 28 uses use VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 72 29 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 72 30 imperfections imperfection NNS pete-walker-com-7548 72 31 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 72 32 others other NNS pete-walker-com-7548 72 33 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 72 34 justification justification NN pete-walker-com-7548 72 35 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 72 36 isolation isolation NN pete-walker-com-7548 72 37 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 73 1 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 73 2 critic critic NN pete-walker-com-7548 73 3 's 's POS pete-walker-com-7548 73 4 processes process NNS pete-walker-com-7548 73 5 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 73 6 perfectionism perfectionism NN pete-walker-com-7548 73 7 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 73 8 endangerment endangerment NN pete-walker-com-7548 73 9 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 73 10 extremely extremely RB pete-walker-com-7548 73 11 unconscious unconscious JJ pete-walker-com-7548 73 12 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 73 13 freeze freeze JJ pete-walker-com-7548 73 14 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 73 15 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 73 16 must must MD pete-walker-com-7548 73 17 be be VB pete-walker-com-7548 73 18 made make VBN pete-walker-com-7548 73 19 conscious conscious JJ pete-walker-com-7548 73 20 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 73 21 deconstructed deconstruct VBN pete-walker-com-7548 73 22 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 73 23 described describe VBN pete-walker-com-7548 73 24 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 73 25 detail detail NN pete-walker-com-7548 73 26 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 73 27 my -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 73 28 aforementioned aforementioned JJ pete-walker-com-7548 73 29 article article NN pete-walker-com-7548 73 30 on on IN pete-walker-com-7548 73 31 shrinking shrink VBG pete-walker-com-7548 73 32 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 73 33 inner inner JJ pete-walker-com-7548 73 34 critic critic NN pete-walker-com-7548 73 35 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 74 1 Third third JJ pete-walker-com-7548 74 2 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 74 3 even even RB pete-walker-com-7548 74 4 more more JJR pete-walker-com-7548 74 5 than than IN pete-walker-com-7548 74 6 workaholic workaholic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 74 7 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 74 8 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 74 9 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 74 10 freeze freeze NN pete-walker-com-7548 74 11 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 74 12 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 74 13 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 74 14 denial denial NN pete-walker-com-7548 74 15 about about IN pete-walker-com-7548 74 16 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 74 17 life life NN pete-walker-com-7548 74 18 narrowing narrow VBG pete-walker-com-7548 74 19 consequences consequence NNS pete-walker-com-7548 74 20 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 74 21 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 74 22 singular singular JJ pete-walker-com-7548 74 23 adaptation adaptation NN pete-walker-com-7548 74 24 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 75 1 Because because IN pete-walker-com-7548 75 2 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 75 3 freeze freeze NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 4 response response NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 5 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 75 6 on on IN pete-walker-com-7548 75 7 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 75 8 continuum continuum NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 9 that that WDT pete-walker-com-7548 75 10 ends end VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 75 11 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 75 12 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 75 13 collapse collapse NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 14 response response NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 15 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 75 16 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 75 17 extreme extreme JJ pete-walker-com-7548 75 18 abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 19 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 75 20 consciousness consciousness NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 21 seen see VBN pete-walker-com-7548 75 22 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 75 23 prey prey NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 24 animals animal NNS pete-walker-com-7548 75 25 about about IN pete-walker-com-7548 75 26 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 75 27 be be VB pete-walker-com-7548 75 28 killed kill VBN pete-walker-com-7548 75 29 ) ) -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 75 30 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 75 31 many many JJ pete-walker-com-7548 75 32 appear appear VBP pete-walker-com-7548 75 33 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 75 34 be be VB pete-walker-com-7548 75 35 able able JJ pete-walker-com-7548 75 36 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 75 37 self self NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 38 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 75 39 medicate medicate NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 40 by by IN pete-walker-com-7548 75 41 releasing release VBG pete-walker-com-7548 75 42 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 75 43 internal internal JJ pete-walker-com-7548 75 44 opioids opioid NNS pete-walker-com-7548 75 45 that that IN pete-walker-com-7548 75 46 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 75 47 animal animal NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 48 brain brain NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 49 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 75 50 programmed program VBN pete-walker-com-7548 75 51 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 75 52 release release VB pete-walker-com-7548 75 53 when when WRB pete-walker-com-7548 75 54 danger danger NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 55 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 75 56 so so RB pete-walker-com-7548 75 57 great great JJ pete-walker-com-7548 75 58 that that IN pete-walker-com-7548 75 59 death death NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 60 seems seem VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 75 61 immanent immanent NN pete-walker-com-7548 75 62 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 76 1 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 76 2 opioid opioid JJ pete-walker-com-7548 76 3 production production NN pete-walker-com-7548 76 4 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 76 5 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 76 6 collapse collapse NN pete-walker-com-7548 76 7 or or CC 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many JJ pete-walker-com-7548 77 2 self self NN pete-walker-com-7548 77 3 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 77 4 medicating medicate VBG pete-walker-com-7548 77 5 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 77 6 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 77 7 often often RB pete-walker-com-7548 77 8 drawn draw VBN pete-walker-com-7548 77 9 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 77 10 marijuana marijuana NNP pete-walker-com-7548 77 11 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 77 12 narcotics narcotic NNS pete-walker-com-7548 77 13 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 77 14 while while IN pete-walker-com-7548 77 15 others other NNS pete-walker-com-7548 77 16 may may MD pete-walker-com-7548 77 17 gravitate gravitate VB pete-walker-com-7548 77 18 toward toward IN pete-walker-com-7548 77 19 ever ever RB pete-walker-com-7548 77 20 escalating escalate VBG pete-walker-com-7548 77 21 regimes regime NNS pete-walker-com-7548 77 22 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 77 23 anti anti JJ pete-walker-com-7548 77 24 - - NNS pete-walker-com-7548 77 25 depressants depressant NNS pete-walker-com-7548 77 26 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 77 27 anxiolytics anxiolytic NNS pete-walker-com-7548 77 28 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 78 1 Moreover moreover RB pete-walker-com-7548 78 2 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 78 3 when when WRB pete-walker-com-7548 78 4 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 78 5 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 78 6 especially especially RB pete-walker-com-7548 78 7 unremediated unremediate VBN pete-walker-com-7548 78 8 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 78 9 unattached unattache VBD pete-walker-com-7548 78 10 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 78 11 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 78 12 can can MD pete-walker-com-7548 78 13 devolve devolve VB pete-walker-com-7548 78 14 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 78 15 increasing increase VBG pete-walker-com-7548 78 16 depression depression NN pete-walker-com-7548 78 17 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 78 18 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 78 19 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 78 20 worst bad JJS pete-walker-com-7548 78 21 case case NN pete-walker-com-7548 78 22 scenarios scenario NNS pete-walker-com-7548 78 23 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 78 24 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 78 25 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 78 26 kind kind NN pete-walker-com-7548 78 27 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 78 28 mental mental JJ pete-walker-com-7548 78 29 illness illness NN pete-walker-com-7548 78 30 described describe VBN pete-walker-com-7548 78 31 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 78 32 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 78 33 book book NN pete-walker-com-7548 78 34 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 78 35 I -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 78 36 Never never RB pete-walker-com-7548 78 37 Promised promise VBD pete-walker-com-7548 78 38 You -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 78 39 A A NNP pete-walker-com-7548 78 40 Rose Rose NNP pete-walker-com-7548 78 41 Garden Garden NNP pete-walker-com-7548 78 42 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 79 1 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 79 2 Fawn Fawn NNP pete-walker-com-7548 79 3 Type Type NNP pete-walker-com-7548 79 4 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 79 5 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 79 6 Codependent Codependent NNP pete-walker-com-7548 79 7 Defense Defense NNP pete-walker-com-7548 79 8 Fawn Fawn NNP pete-walker-com-7548 79 9 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 79 10 seek seek VBP pete-walker-com-7548 79 11 safety safety NN pete-walker-com-7548 79 12 by by IN pete-walker-com-7548 79 13 merging merge VBG pete-walker-com-7548 79 14 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 79 15 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 79 16 wishes wish NNS pete-walker-com-7548 79 17 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 79 18 needs need VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 79 19 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 79 20 demands demand NNS pete-walker-com-7548 79 21 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 79 22 others other NNS pete-walker-com-7548 79 23 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 80 1 They -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 80 2 act act VBP pete-walker-com-7548 80 3 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 80 4 if if IN pete-walker-com-7548 80 5 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 80 6 unconsciously unconsciously RB pete-walker-com-7548 80 7 believe believe VBP pete-walker-com-7548 80 8 that that IN pete-walker-com-7548 80 9 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 80 10 price price NN pete-walker-com-7548 80 11 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 80 12 admission admission NN pete-walker-com-7548 80 13 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 80 14 any any DT pete-walker-com-7548 80 15 relationship relationship NN pete-walker-com-7548 80 16 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 80 17 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 80 18 forfeiture forfeiture NN pete-walker-com-7548 80 19 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 80 20 all all DT pete-walker-com-7548 80 21 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 80 22 needs need NNS pete-walker-com-7548 80 23 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 80 24 rights right NNS pete-walker-com-7548 80 25 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 80 26 preferences preference NNS pete-walker-com-7548 80 27 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 80 28 boundaries boundary NNS pete-walker-com-7548 80 29 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 81 1 They -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 81 2 often often RB pete-walker-com-7548 81 3 begin begin VBP pete-walker-com-7548 81 4 life life NN pete-walker-com-7548 81 5 like like IN pete-walker-com-7548 81 6 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 81 7 precocious precocious JJ pete-walker-com-7548 81 8 children child NNS pete-walker-com-7548 81 9 described describe VBN pete-walker-com-7548 81 10 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 81 11 Alice Alice NNP pete-walker-com-7548 81 12 Miler Miler NNP pete-walker-com-7548 81 13 's 's POS pete-walker-com-7548 81 14 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 81 15 Drama Drama NNP pete-walker-com-7548 81 16 Of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 81 17 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 81 18 Gifted Gifted NNP pete-walker-com-7548 81 19 Child Child NNP pete-walker-com-7548 81 20 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 81 21 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 81 22 learn learn VBP pete-walker-com-7548 81 23 that that IN pete-walker-com-7548 81 24 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 81 25 modicum modicum NN pete-walker-com-7548 81 26 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 81 27 safety safety NN pete-walker-com-7548 81 28 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 81 29 attachment attachment NN pete-walker-com-7548 81 30 can can MD pete-walker-com-7548 81 31 be be VB pete-walker-com-7548 81 32 gained gain VBN pete-walker-com-7548 81 33 by by IN pete-walker-com-7548 81 34 becoming become VBG pete-walker-com-7548 81 35 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 81 36 helpful helpful JJ pete-walker-com-7548 81 37 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 81 38 compliant compliant JJ pete-walker-com-7548 81 39 servants servant NNS pete-walker-com-7548 81 40 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 81 41 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 81 42 parents parent NNS pete-walker-com-7548 81 43 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 82 1 They -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 82 2 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 82 3 usually usually RB pete-walker-com-7548 82 4 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 82 5 children child NNS pete-walker-com-7548 82 6 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 82 7 at at RB pete-walker-com-7548 82 8 least least RBS pete-walker-com-7548 82 9 one one CD pete-walker-com-7548 82 10 narcissistic narcissistic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 82 11 parent parent NN pete-walker-com-7548 82 12 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 82 13 uses use VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 82 14 contempt contempt NN pete-walker-com-7548 82 15 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 82 16 press press VB pete-walker-com-7548 82 17 them -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 82 18 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 82 19 service service NN pete-walker-com-7548 82 20 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 82 21 scaring scare VBG pete-walker-com-7548 82 22 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 82 23 shaming shame VBG pete-walker-com-7548 82 24 them -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 82 25 out out IN pete-walker-com-7548 82 26 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 82 27 developing develop VBG pete-walker-com-7548 82 28 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 82 29 healthy healthy JJ pete-walker-com-7548 82 30 sense sense NN pete-walker-com-7548 82 31 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 82 32 self self NN pete-walker-com-7548 82 33 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 82 34 an an DT pete-walker-com-7548 82 35 egoic egoic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 82 36 locus locus NN pete-walker-com-7548 82 37 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 82 38 self self NN pete-walker-com-7548 82 39 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 82 40 protection protection NN pete-walker-com-7548 82 41 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 82 42 self self NN pete-walker-com-7548 82 43 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 82 44 care care NN pete-walker-com-7548 82 45 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 82 46 self self NN pete-walker-com-7548 82 47 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 82 48 compassion compassion NN pete-walker-com-7548 82 49 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 83 1 This this DT pete-walker-com-7548 83 2 dynamic dynamic NN pete-walker-com-7548 83 3 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 83 4 explored explore VBN pete-walker-com-7548 83 5 at at IN 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www.pete-walker.com www.pete-walker.com NNP pete-walker-com-7548 83 31 ) ) -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 83 32 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 84 1 TX TX NNP pete-walker-com-7548 84 2 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 85 1 Fawn fawn NN pete-walker-com-7548 85 2 types type NNS pete-walker-com-7548 85 3 typically typically RB pete-walker-com-7548 85 4 respond respond VBP pete-walker-com-7548 85 5 well well RB pete-walker-com-7548 85 6 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 85 7 being be VBG pete-walker-com-7548 85 8 psychoeducated psychoeducate VBN pete-walker-com-7548 85 9 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 85 10 this this DT pete-walker-com-7548 85 11 model model NN pete-walker-com-7548 85 12 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 86 1 This this DT pete-walker-com-7548 86 2 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 86 3 especially especially RB pete-walker-com-7548 86 4 true true JJ pete-walker-com-7548 86 5 when when WRB pete-walker-com-7548 86 6 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 86 7 therapist therapist NN pete-walker-com-7548 86 8 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88 4 numerous numerous JJ pete-walker-com-7548 88 5 inveterate inveterate JJ pete-walker-com-7548 88 6 codependents codependent NNS pete-walker-com-7548 88 7 finally finally RB pete-walker-com-7548 88 8 progress progress VBP pete-walker-com-7548 88 9 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 88 10 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 88 11 assertiveness assertiveness NN pete-walker-com-7548 88 12 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 88 13 boundary boundary NN pete-walker-com-7548 88 14 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 88 15 making make VBG pete-walker-com-7548 88 16 work work NN pete-walker-com-7548 88 17 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 88 18 when when WRB pete-walker-com-7548 88 19 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 88 20 finally finally RB pete-walker-com-7548 88 21 got get VBD pete-walker-com-7548 88 22 that that IN pete-walker-com-7548 88 23 even even RB pete-walker-com-7548 88 24 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 88 25 thought thought NN pete-walker-com-7548 88 26 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 88 27 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NNS pete-walker-com-7548 94 8 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 94 9 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 94 10 fawn fawn JJ pete-walker-com-7548 94 11 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 12 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 94 13 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 94 14 fawn fawn NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 15 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 94 16 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 17 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 94 18 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 94 19 smothering smothering NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 20 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 94 21 mother mother NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 22 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 23 ) ) -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 94 24 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 94 25 coercively coercively RB pete-walker-com-7548 94 26 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 94 27 manipulatively manipulatively RB pete-walker-com-7548 94 28 takes take VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 94 29 care care NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 30 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 94 31 others other NNS pete-walker-com-7548 94 32 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 94 33 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 94 34 smother smother RB pete-walker-com-7548 94 35 loves love VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 94 36 them -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 94 37 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 94 38 conforming conform VBG pete-walker-com-7548 94 39 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 94 40 her -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 94 41 view view NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 42 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 94 43 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 94 44 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 94 45 should should MD pete-walker-com-7548 94 46 be be VB pete-walker-com-7548 94 47 ; ; : pete-walker-com-7548 94 48 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 94 49 fawn fawn JJ pete-walker-com-7548 94 50 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 94 51 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 52 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 53 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 94 54 workaholically workaholically RB pete-walker-com-7548 94 55 makes make VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 94 56 herself -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 94 57 useful useful JJ pete-walker-com-7548 94 58 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 94 59 others other NNS pete-walker-com-7548 94 60 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 94 61 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 94 62 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 94 63 model model NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 64 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 94 65 secretary secretary NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 66 ) ) -RRB- pete-walker-com-7548 94 67 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 94 68 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 94 69 vein vein NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 70 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 94 71 her -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 94 72 favorite favorite JJ pete-walker-com-7548 94 73 role role NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 74 model model NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 75 Mother Mother NNP pete-walker-com-7548 94 76 Theresa Theresa NNP pete-walker-com-7548 94 77 ; ; : pete-walker-com-7548 94 78 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 94 79 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 94 80 fawn fawn JJ pete-walker-com-7548 94 81 - - HYPH 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the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 94 106 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 94 107 classic classic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 94 108 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 94 109 domestic domestic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 94 110 violence violence NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 111 victim).Space victim).space NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 112 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 94 113 this this DT pete-walker-com-7548 94 114 article article NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 115 only only RB pete-walker-com-7548 94 116 allows allow VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 94 117 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 94 118 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 94 119 description description NN pete-walker-com-7548 94 120 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 94 121 two two CD pete-walker-com-7548 94 122 other other JJ pete-walker-com-7548 94 123 common common JJ pete-walker-com-7548 94 124 hybrids hybrid NNS pete-walker-com-7548 94 125 : : : pete-walker-com-7548 94 126 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 94 127 Fight Fight NNP pete-walker-com-7548 94 128 / / SYM pete-walker-com-7548 94 129 Fawn Fawn NNP pete-walker-com-7548 94 130 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 94 131 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 94 132 Flight Flight NNP pete-walker-com-7548 94 133 / / SYM pete-walker-com-7548 94 134 Freeze Freeze NNP pete-walker-com-7548 94 135 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 95 1 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 95 2 Fight Fight NNP pete-walker-com-7548 95 3 / / SYM pete-walker-com-7548 95 4 Fawn Fawn NNP pete-walker-com-7548 95 5 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 95 6 perhaps perhaps RB pete-walker-com-7548 95 7 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 95 8 most most RBS pete-walker-com-7548 95 9 relational relational JJ pete-walker-com-7548 95 10 hybrid hybrid NN pete-walker-com-7548 95 11 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 95 12 most most RBS pete-walker-com-7548 95 13 susceptible susceptible JJ pete-walker-com-7548 95 14 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 95 15 love love NN pete-walker-com-7548 95 16 addiction addiction NN pete-walker-com-7548 95 17 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 95 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because IN pete-walker-com-7548 96 9 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 96 10 individual individual NN pete-walker-com-7548 96 11 's 's POS pete-walker-com-7548 96 12 flashbacks flashback NNS pete-walker-com-7548 96 13 trigger trigger VBP pete-walker-com-7548 96 14 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 96 15 panicky panicky JJ pete-walker-com-7548 96 16 sense sense NN pete-walker-com-7548 96 17 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 96 18 abandonment abandonment NN pete-walker-com-7548 96 19 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 96 20 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 96 21 desperation desperation NN pete-walker-com-7548 96 22 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 96 23 love love NN pete-walker-com-7548 96 24 that that WDT pete-walker-com-7548 96 25 causes cause VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 96 26 her -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 96 27 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 96 28 dramatically dramatically RB pete-walker-com-7548 96 29 split split VB pete-walker-com-7548 96 30 back back RB pete-walker-com-7548 96 31 and and CC 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pete-walker-com-7548 97 10 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 97 11 that that IN pete-walker-com-7548 97 12 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 97 13 narcissistic narcissistic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 97 14 defense defense NN pete-walker-com-7548 97 15 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 97 16 typically typically RB pete-walker-com-7548 97 17 more more JJR pete-walker-com-7548 97 18 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 97 19 ascendancy ascendancy NN pete-walker-com-7548 97 20 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 98 1 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 98 2 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 98 3 / / SYM pete-walker-com-7548 98 4 fawn fawn NN pete-walker-com-7548 98 5 hybrid hybrid NN pete-walker-com-7548 98 6 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 98 7 also also RB pete-walker-com-7548 98 8 distinct distinct JJ pete-walker-com-7548 98 9 from from IN pete-walker-com-7548 98 10 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 98 11 more more RBR pete-walker-com-7548 98 12 common common JJ pete-walker-com-7548 98 13 condition condition NN pete-walker-com-7548 98 14 where where WRB pete-walker-com-7548 98 15 an an DT pete-walker-com-7548 98 16 individual individual JJ pete-walker-com-7548 98 17 acts act VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 98 18 like like IN pete-walker-com-7548 98 19 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 98 20 fight fight NN pete-walker-com-7548 98 21 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 98 22 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 98 23 one one CD pete-walker-com-7548 98 24 relationship relationship NN pete-walker-com-7548 98 25 while while IN pete-walker-com-7548 98 26 fawning fawn VBG pete-walker-com-7548 98 27 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 98 28 another another DT pete-walker-com-7548 98 29 ( ( -LRB- pete-walker-com-7548 98 30 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 98 31 archetypal archetypal JJ pete-walker-com-7548 98 32 henpecked henpecked JJ pete-walker-com-7548 98 33 husband husband NN pete-walker-com-7548 98 34 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 98 35 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 98 36 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 98 37 tyrant tyrant NN 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pete-walker-com-7548 101 23 narrows narrow VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 101 24 his -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 101 25 existence existence NN pete-walker-com-7548 101 26 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 102 1 The the DT pete-walker-com-7548 102 2 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 102 3 / / SYM pete-walker-com-7548 102 4 freeze freeze VB pete-walker-com-7548 102 5 cul cul NNP pete-walker-com-7548 102 6 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 102 7 de de NN pete-walker-com-7548 102 8 - - NN pete-walker-com-7548 102 9 sac sac NN pete-walker-com-7548 102 10 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 102 11 more more RBR pete-walker-com-7548 102 12 common common JJ pete-walker-com-7548 102 13 among among IN pete-walker-com-7548 102 14 men man NNS pete-walker-com-7548 102 15 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 102 16 especially especially RB pete-walker-com-7548 102 17 those those DT pete-walker-com-7548 102 18 traumatized traumatize VBN pete-walker-com-7548 102 19 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 102 20 being be VBG pete-walker-com-7548 102 21 vulnerable vulnerable JJ pete-walker-com-7548 102 22 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 102 23 childhood childhood NN pete-walker-com-7548 102 24 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 102 25 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 102 26 those those DT pete-walker-com-7548 102 27 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 102 28 subsequently subsequently RB pete-walker-com-7548 102 29 learned learn VBD pete-walker-com-7548 102 30 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 102 31 seek seek VB pete-walker-com-7548 102 32 safety safety NN pete-walker-com-7548 102 33 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 102 34 isolation isolation NN pete-walker-com-7548 102 35 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 102 36 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 102 37 intimacy intimacy NN pete-walker-com-7548 102 38 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 102 39 lite lite NN pete-walker-com-7548 102 40 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 102 41 relationships relationship NNS pete-walker-com-7548 102 42 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 103 1 Many many JJ pete-walker-com-7548 103 2 non non JJ pete-walker-com-7548 103 3 - - JJ pete-walker-com-7548 103 4 alpha alpha JJ pete-walker-com-7548 103 5 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 103 6 males male NNS pete-walker-com-7548 103 7 gravitate gravitate VBP pete-walker-com-7548 103 8 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 103 9 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 103 10 combination combination NN pete-walker-com-7548 103 11 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 103 12 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 103 13 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 103 14 freeze freeze VB pete-walker-com-7548 103 15 defensiveness defensiveness NN pete-walker-com-7548 103 16 stereotypical stereotypical JJ pete-walker-com-7548 103 17 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 103 18 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 103 19 information information NN pete-walker-com-7548 103 20 technology technology NNP pete-walker-com-7548 103 21 nerd nerd NN pete-walker-com-7548 103 22 - - , pete-walker-com-7548 103 23 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 103 24 computer computer NN pete-walker-com-7548 103 25 addict addict NN pete-walker-com-7548 103 26 who who WP pete-walker-com-7548 103 27 workaholically workaholically RB pete-walker-com-7548 103 28 focuses focus VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 103 29 for for IN pete-walker-com-7548 103 30 long long JJ pete-walker-com-7548 103 31 periods period NNS pete-walker-com-7548 103 32 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 103 33 time time NN pete-walker-com-7548 103 34 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 103 35 then then RB pete-walker-com-7548 103 36 drifts drift VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 103 37 off off RP pete-walker-com-7548 103 38 dissociatively dissociatively RB pete-walker-com-7548 103 39 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 103 40 computer computer NN pete-walker-com-7548 103 41 games game NNS pete-walker-com-7548 103 42 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 104 1 Many many JJ pete-walker-com-7548 104 2 sex sex NN pete-walker-com-7548 104 3 addicts addict NNS pete-walker-com-7548 104 4 also also RB pete-walker-com-7548 104 5 combine combine VBP pete-walker-com-7548 104 6 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 104 7 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 104 8 freeze freeze VB pete-walker-com-7548 104 9 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 104 10 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 104 11 compulsive compulsive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 104 12 pursuit pursuit NN pete-walker-com-7548 104 13 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 104 14 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 104 15 sexual sexual JJ pete-walker-com-7548 104 16 pseudo pseudo NN pete-walker-com-7548 104 17 - - NN pete-walker-com-7548 104 18 intimacy intimacy NN pete-walker-com-7548 104 19 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 105 1 When when WRB pete-walker-com-7548 105 2 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 105 3 flight flight NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 4 mode mode NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 5 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 105 6 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 105 7 obsessively obsessively RB pete-walker-com-7548 105 8 scheme scheme VBP pete-walker-com-7548 105 9 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 105 10 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 105 11 get get VB pete-walker-com-7548 105 12 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 105 13 sex sex NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 14 and/or and/or CC pete-walker-com-7548 105 15 compulsively compulsively RB pete-walker-com-7548 105 16 pursue pursue VB pete-walker-com-7548 105 17 and/or and/or CC pete-walker-com-7548 105 18 engage engage VB pete-walker-com-7548 105 19 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 105 20 it -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 105 21 ; ; : pete-walker-com-7548 105 22 when when WRB pete-walker-com-7548 105 23 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 105 24 freeze freeze NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 25 mode mode NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 26 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 105 27 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 105 28 drift drift VBP pete-walker-com-7548 105 29 off off RP pete-walker-com-7548 105 30 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 105 31 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 105 32 right right JJ pete-walker-com-7548 105 33 brain brain NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 34 sexual sexual JJ pete-walker-com-7548 105 35 fantasy fantasy NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 36 world world NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 37 that that WDT pete-walker-com-7548 105 38 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 105 39 often often RB pete-walker-com-7548 105 40 fueled fuel VBN pete-walker-com-7548 105 41 by by IN pete-walker-com-7548 105 42 an an DT pete-walker-com-7548 105 43 addictive addictive JJ pete-walker-com-7548 105 44 use use NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 45 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 105 46 pornography pornography NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 47 ; ; : pete-walker-com-7548 105 48 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 105 49 even even RB pete-walker-com-7548 105 50 during during IN pete-walker-com-7548 105 51 real real JJ pete-walker-com-7548 105 52 time time NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 53 sexual sexual JJ pete-walker-com-7548 105 54 interaction interaction NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 55 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 105 56 they -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 105 57 often often RB pete-walker-com-7548 105 58 engage engage VBP pete-walker-com-7548 105 59 more more RBR pete-walker-com-7548 105 60 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 105 61 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 105 62 idealized idealized JJ pete-walker-com-7548 105 63 fantasy fantasy NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 64 partners partner NNS pete-walker-com-7548 105 65 than than IN pete-walker-com-7548 105 66 with with IN pete-walker-com-7548 105 67 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 105 68 actual actual JJ pete-walker-com-7548 105 69 partner partner NN pete-walker-com-7548 105 70 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 106 1 Self self NN pete-walker-com-7548 106 2 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 106 3 Assessment assessment NN pete-walker-com-7548 106 4 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 107 1 Readers reader NNS pete-walker-com-7548 107 2 may may MD pete-walker-com-7548 107 3 find find VB pete-walker-com-7548 107 4 it -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 107 5 informative informative JJ pete-walker-com-7548 107 6 to to IN pete-walker-com-7548 107 7 self self NN pete-walker-com-7548 107 8 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 107 9 assess assess VB pete-walker-com-7548 107 10 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 107 11 own own JJ pete-walker-com-7548 107 12 hierarchical hierarchical JJ pete-walker-com-7548 107 13 use use NN pete-walker-com-7548 107 14 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 107 15 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 107 16 4F 4F NNP pete-walker-com-7548 107 17 responses response NNS pete-walker-com-7548 107 18 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 108 1 They -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 108 2 can can MD pete-walker-com-7548 108 3 try try VB pete-walker-com-7548 108 4 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 108 5 determine determine VB pete-walker-com-7548 108 6 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 108 7 dominant dominant JJ pete-walker-com-7548 108 8 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 108 9 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 108 10 hybrid hybrid NN pete-walker-com-7548 108 11 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 108 12 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 108 13 think think VB pete-walker-com-7548 108 14 about about IN pete-walker-com-7548 108 15 what what WDT pete-walker-com-7548 108 16 percentage percentage NN pete-walker-com-7548 108 17 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 108 18 their -PRON- PRP$ pete-walker-com-7548 108 19 time time NN pete-walker-com-7548 108 20 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 108 21 spent spend VBN pete-walker-com-7548 108 22 in in IN pete-walker-com-7548 108 23 each each DT pete-walker-com-7548 108 24 type type NN pete-walker-com-7548 108 25 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 108 26 4F 4F NNP pete-walker-com-7548 108 27 activity activity NN pete-walker-com-7548 108 28 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 109 1 Finally finally RB pete-walker-com-7548 109 2 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 109 3 all all DT pete-walker-com-7548 109 4 4Fs 4f NNS pete-walker-com-7548 109 5 progressively progressively RB pete-walker-com-7548 109 6 recover recover VB pete-walker-com-7548 109 7 from from IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 8 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 109 9 multidimensional multidimensional JJ pete-walker-com-7548 109 10 wounding wounding NN pete-walker-com-7548 109 11 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 12 complex complex JJ pete-walker-com-7548 109 13 ptsd ptsd NNP pete-walker-com-7548 109 14 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 15 mindfulness mindfulness NN pete-walker-com-7548 109 16 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 17 learned learn VBN pete-walker-com-7548 109 18 trauma trauma NN pete-walker-com-7548 109 19 dynamics dynamic NNS pete-walker-com-7548 109 20 increases increase NNS pete-walker-com-7548 109 21 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 109 22 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 23 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 109 24 critic critic NN pete-walker-com-7548 109 25 shrinks shrink NNS pete-walker-com-7548 109 26 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 109 27 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 28 dissociation dissociation NN pete-walker-com-7548 109 29 decreases decrease VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 109 30 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 109 31 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 32 childhood childhood NN pete-walker-com-7548 109 33 losses loss NNS pete-walker-com-7548 109 34 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 109 35 effectively effectively RB pete-walker-com-7548 109 36 grieved grieve VBN pete-walker-com-7548 109 37 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 109 38 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 39 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 109 40 healthy healthy JJ pete-walker-com-7548 109 41 ego ego JJ pete-walker-com-7548 109 42 matures mature NNS pete-walker-com-7548 109 43 into into IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 44 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 109 45 user user NN pete-walker-com-7548 109 46 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 109 47 friendly friendly JJ pete-walker-com-7548 109 48 manager manager NN pete-walker-com-7548 109 49 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 50 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 109 51 psyche psyche NN pete-walker-com-7548 109 52 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 109 53 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 54 the the DT pete-walker-com-7548 109 55 life life NN pete-walker-com-7548 109 56 narrative narrative NN pete-walker-com-7548 109 57 becomes become VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 109 58 more more RBR pete-walker-com-7548 109 59 egosyntonic egosyntonic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 109 60 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 109 61 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 62 emotional emotional JJ pete-walker-com-7548 109 63 vulnerability vulnerability NN pete-walker-com-7548 109 64 creates create VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 109 65 authentic authentic JJ pete-walker-com-7548 109 66 experiences experience NNS pete-walker-com-7548 109 67 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 68 intimacy intimacy NN pete-walker-com-7548 109 69 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 109 70 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 109 71 as as IN pete-walker-com-7548 109 72 " " `` pete-walker-com-7548 109 73 good good JJ pete-walker-com-7548 109 74 enough enough RB pete-walker-com-7548 109 75 " " '' pete-walker-com-7548 109 76 safe safe JJ pete-walker-com-7548 109 77 attachments attachment NNS pete-walker-com-7548 109 78 are be VBP pete-walker-com-7548 109 79 attained attain VBN pete-walker-com-7548 109 80 . . . pete-walker-com-7548 110 1 Furthermore furthermore RB pete-walker-com-7548 110 2 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 110 3 it -PRON- PRP pete-walker-com-7548 110 4 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 110 5 also also RB pete-walker-com-7548 110 6 important important JJ pete-walker-com-7548 110 7 to to TO pete-walker-com-7548 110 8 emphasize emphasize VB pete-walker-com-7548 110 9 that that DT pete-walker-com-7548 110 10 recovery recovery NN pete-walker-com-7548 110 11 is be VBZ pete-walker-com-7548 110 12 not not RB pete-walker-com-7548 110 13 an an DT pete-walker-com-7548 110 14 all all RB pete-walker-com-7548 110 15 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 110 16 or or CC pete-walker-com-7548 110 17 - - HYPH pete-walker-com-7548 110 18 none none NN pete-walker-com-7548 110 19 phenomenon phenomenon NN pete-walker-com-7548 110 20 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 110 21 but but CC pete-walker-com-7548 110 22 rather rather RB pete-walker-com-7548 110 23 a a DT pete-walker-com-7548 110 24 gradual gradual JJ pete-walker-com-7548 110 25 one one CD pete-walker-com-7548 110 26 marked mark VBN pete-walker-com-7548 110 27 by by IN pete-walker-com-7548 110 28 decreasing decrease VBG pete-walker-com-7548 110 29 frequency frequency NN pete-walker-com-7548 110 30 , , , pete-walker-com-7548 110 31 intensity intensity NN pete-walker-com-7548 110 32 and and CC pete-walker-com-7548 110 33 duration duration NN pete-walker-com-7548 110 34 of of IN pete-walker-com-7548 110 35 flashbacks flashback NNS pete-walker-com-7548 110 36 . . .