Singles event - Wikipedia Singles event From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Jump to navigation Jump to search A singles event is an activity or program made available specifically to the romantically unattached, often with the underlying or explicit purpose of fostering dating or relationships among attendees. A singles event with a cocktail party-type atmosphere is also sometimes referred to as a mixer.[1][2][3] Relationships (Outline) Types Genetic or adoptive Kinship Family Parent father mother Grandparent Sibling Cousin By marriage Spouse Husband Wife Open marriage Polygamy Polyandry Polygyny Group marriage Mixed-orientation Partner(s) Significant other Boyfriend Girlfriend Cohabitation Same-sex Life partner Friendship (romantic / cross-sex / zone) Sexual Casual Monogamy Non-monogamy Mutual monogamy Polyamory Polyfidelity Cicisbeo Concubinage Courtesan Mistress Activities Bonding Courtship Dating Engagement Bachelor's Day Mating Meet market Romance Singles event Wedding Endings Breakup Separation Annulment Divorce Widowhood Emotions and feelings Affinity Attachment Intimacy Jealousy Limerence Love Platonic unconditional Passion Sexuality Practices Bride price dower dowry service Hypergamy Infidelity Sexual activity Transgression Repression Abuse Child Dating Domestic Elderly Narcissistic parent Power and control v t e Contents 1 Logistics 2 Praise 3 Criticisms 3.1 General 3.2 Meet/meat market 3.3 Naming and 'Young Professionals' events 4 References Logistics[edit] Singles events are frequently run by organizations focused on building stability in their areas, such as religious organizations[4] and community groups.[5] Some local businesses, sports teams, and cultural establishments also hold singles events.[6][7] The themes of singles events can cover a broad spectrum.[8] These can include, for example, ski trips, Academy Award viewing parties, dinners, holiday parties, art gallery visits, and Valentine's Day mixers.[8] Some of the most strongly attended such events are the Christmas Eve parties targeted at young Jewish singles in major cities in North America, particularly the Matzo Ball and its large city competitors.[9] Singles events have been an area of particular growth in singles-related commerce.[10] Praise[edit] Singles events have been praised as "ideal settings for meeting people" because attendees are ostensibly present to meet someone and are open to the idea of becoming romantically attached.[4] Criticisms[edit] General[edit] The attendees of singles events have been criticized as "needy folks without a lot to offer".[11] Dating via religious-sponsored singles events has been criticized for fostering invasion of daters' privacy and undue expectations.[12] Sex ratios of singles events have been criticized, with many either having too many women or too many men depending on location or targeted race, age, and income groups. As a result, many events often have a policy to even out sex ratios before the event starts.[12] Meet/meat market[edit] Main article: Meet market Singles events, including those organized by religious organizations, have been criticized for frequently being meet/meat markets[13][14]—places where attendees are rapidly sizing up members of the opposite sex with objectifying criteria, such as attractiveness, wealth, and fashion sense, before taking the time to get to know attendees on a deeper level.[15] By the 1970s, singles events had developed a reputation as a "ritual of lies and mistrust", replete with men in search of casual sex, cold and unfriendly women, and frequent misunderstandings.[16][17] The nature of meet markets has changed dramatically since the 1980s, becoming more inviting, and the term itself has largely become value neutral or positive.[18] Naming and 'Young Professionals' events[edit] Main article: Young professional The stigma that developed in the 1970s around singles events led some organizations to switch to the euphemism "young professionals events".[17][19][20] (However other organizations specifically for young professionals insist that they are not "singles groups".[21]) References[edit] ^ Roger Ratcliff, David Conaway, Diana Ohlsson, How to Meet the Right Woman: A Five-Step Strategy That Really Works, Citadel Press, 1998, p.115 [1] ^ Andrew J. Dubrin, The Singles Game, Books for Better Living, 1973, p. 151 [2] ^ Monica Morris, Looking for Love in Later Life: A Woman's Guide to Finding Joy and Romantic Fulfillment, Avery Publishing, 1997, p. 83 [3] ^ a b Thomas McKnight and Robert Phillips, How to win the love you want: effective techniques and tactics for finding and keeping the one you love, 2009, p. 180 ^ Mindi Rudan, Men: the handbook, 1994, p. 57 ^ Alvin H. Reiss, Cash In!: Funding and Promoting the Arts, 1986, p. 54 ^ Teresa Wiltz, On Singles Night, the Spectators Are the Players, Washington Post, December 12, 2004 ^ a b Liz H. Kelly, Smart Man Hunting: The Fast Track Dating Guide for Finding Mr. Right, 2005, p. 126 ^ Jessica Gresko, Dec. 24 Becomes Party Night for Jewish Singles, Associated Press (Washington Post), December 24, 2006 ^ Larry Glanz and Robert H. Phillips, Guy Gets Girl, Girl Gets Guy: Where to Find Romance and What to Say When You Find It, p. 59 (2003) ^ Robert A. Wray, A Man's Field Guide to Dating, 1999, p. 99 ^ a b William July, II, Confessions of an ex-bachelor, p. 113 (2003) ^ A. J. Kiesling, Where Have All the Good Men Gone?, 2008, p. 46 ^ James Heft, Passing on the faith: transforming traditions for the next generation of Jews, Christians, and Muslims, 2006, p. 118 ^ Mary Jo Deegan, American ritual dramas: social rules and cultural meanings, 1989, p. 36 ^ The Singles Dance: A ritual of lies and mistrust, Human Behavior, vol. 7, 1978 ^ a b Bernard Berk, Face-Saving at the Singles Dance, Social Problems, vol. 24, 1976, pp. 500, 532 ^ Caroline Tiger, How to Behave Dating And Sex: A Guide to Modern Manners for the Socially Challenged, 2006, pp. 16, 51 ^ Stephen Fried, The new rabbi: a congregation searches for its leader, 2002, p. 57 ^ Engaging Generation Aleph: A Resource for Young Adults in the Synagogue, Union of American Hebrew Congregations, ed., 1997, p. 81 ^ Engaging Generation Aleph: A Resource for Young Adults in the Synagogue, Union of American Hebrew Congregations, ed., 1997, p. 96 v t e Interpersonal relationships Types of relationships Significant Domestic partnership Boyfriend Girlfriend Cohabitation Monogamy Open marriage Family Marriage Husband Wife Soulmate Siblings Cousin Widowhood Casual Open relationship Gold digging Enjo kōsai Sexual partner One-night stand Friendship Kinship Non-monogamy Polyamory Polyfidelity Polygamy Romantic friendship Same-sex relationship Courtesan Cicisbeo Concubinage Seraglio Plaçage Marriage à la façon du pays Gigolo Mistress Royal Favourite Maîtresse-en-titre Sugar baby/Sugar daddy/Sugar momma Distant Divorce Stranger Marital separation Romantic relationship events Bonding Courtship Dating Mating Romance Breakup Annulment Divorce Separation Meet market Singles event Wedding Feelings and emotions Affinity Attachment Compersion Intimacy Jealousy Limerence Love Passion Platonic love Unconditional love Human practices Bride price Dower Dowry Hypergamy Infidelity Repression Sexual activity Transgression Relationship abuse Child abuse Dating violence Domestic violence Elder abuse Retrieved from "https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Singles_event&oldid=957934751" Categories: Interpersonal relationships Clubs and societies Interpersonal attraction Human sexuality Physical attractiveness Navigation menu Personal tools Not logged in Talk Contributions Create account Log in Namespaces Article Talk Variants Views Read Edit View history More Search Navigation Main page Contents Current events Random article About Wikipedia Contact us Donate Contribute Help Learn to edit Community portal Recent changes Upload file Tools What links here Related changes Upload file Special pages Permanent link Page information Cite this page Wikidata item Print/export Download as PDF Printable version Languages Srpskohrvatski / српскохрватски Edit links This page was last edited on 21 May 2020, at 05:50 (UTC). 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